Dear single mom.

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  • Опубліковано 15 лип 2024
  • As single moms, we juggle it all. The kids. The finances. The housework. The career. Everything, and struggle to find the balance in it all. Truth be told, I don’t believe there is such a thing as balance but instead you being intentional about what is done each day to cast a vote for the life and woman you want to become. In the midst of it all, we fight against the stigmas and negative stereotypes that cause others to think we should settle but…I beg to differ.
    0:00 Intro
    0:19 There is no balance
    3:21 Don’t go blindly into each day
    7:08 The enemy is your MIND
    17:04 Do you REALLY want that?
    21:45 Single moms are low value women?
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  • @DyanaMariie
    @DyanaMariie  Місяць тому +8

    Grab your headphones and let's chat.🎧

  • @FIRE_DrNinjaTurtle
    @FIRE_DrNinjaTurtle Місяць тому +31

    Financial freedom is an individual journey. I am not a single mom but his video spoke to me. As long as I can pay my bills and ensure that my wife is taken care of if anything happens to me is all I care about. I have simple quiet wealth

    • @DyanaMariie
      @DyanaMariie  Місяць тому +2

      I love this!

    • @lifestyleafta30
      @lifestyleafta30 Місяць тому +4

      I just came to that realization. I have one job that pays the bills and that's good enough for now as I want to be present for my children. Health is more important than wealth. Don't get me wrong. I would live to be financially independent one day but in the process, im going to enjoy the journey.

  • @Latty_J
    @Latty_J Місяць тому +22

    Yes, I realized I stopped living because in my mind I’m suppose to be all these things but not living realistic with being a single mom and one that deserves to enjoy life too. I had so much negative energy thinking I was missing out but I said nope, I’m going to continue paying my bills, save/invest & get my last CC paid off. It may take me a little longer but I must live in between to be mentally healthy for me

    • @DyanaMariie
      @DyanaMariie  Місяць тому

      Amen!!

    • @lifestyleafta30
      @lifestyleafta30 Місяць тому

      Yes, yes, yes. Life is beautiful to overthink. We gotta love, enjoy and appreciate the journey

  • @THETAYAJ
    @THETAYAJ Місяць тому +5

    I appreciate you touching on this so much. It’s unfortunate how society has deemed single mothers “low value”. I refuse to conform to that narrative. Loved this! Thank you.

  • @beyoutifullynatural9451
    @beyoutifullynatural9451 Місяць тому +4

    This helps me SO MUCH! I’m not a single mother, but I struggle so much with balance & self doubt. I’ve looked up to and admired you for years because of how you handle everything and push through even if things are challenging❤ I feel like I’m spiraling when I’m just in my head. Thank you!

  • @FatimaGabbie
    @FatimaGabbie Місяць тому +3

    As a single mom, this video made me smile. ❤

  • @leahmanderson298
    @leahmanderson298 Місяць тому +4

    I love your combination of realism and optimism. 💞

  • @user-li2vl4yd1x
    @user-li2vl4yd1x Місяць тому +6

    Exactly. A healthy body and a healthy mind. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ Do you, girl.

  • @ABLOVE211
    @ABLOVE211 Місяць тому +4

    Love this thank you Sis!

  • @QuitThatDayJob
    @QuitThatDayJob Місяць тому +14

    Single moms are of the highest value! I’ve been watching your videos for years now and , from time to time , I think wow she is doing this all by herself and how it’s not supposed to be that way as you should have help because you didn’t get that way by yourself! Regardless, you are doing an amazing job and I know your kids are super proud of you. 🤎

  • @Sitasbudgetingjourney
    @Sitasbudgetingjourney Місяць тому +4

    Life is all about balance but it’s something that is impossible to achieve all the time. We absolutely have to give ourselves grace and know that we are doing the best we can a be ok with it. Thanks for sharing this awesome video❤😊

    • @DyanaMariie
      @DyanaMariie  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you for watching!❤

  • @alittlerayofsunshinee
    @alittlerayofsunshinee 24 дні тому

    Thanks, Dyana. I feel like this is the big sister conversation that I needed to have today even though I'm watching days after this came out. Thank you so much, again!

  • @MoneyDiaries1
    @MoneyDiaries1 Місяць тому +2

    All these women at war with each other about working mom stay at home mom nonsense. While in my opinion the real MVPs are the single mom's making it happen everyday showing up for their kids. I'm not a single mom but I admire the single moms and all the hard work they put in. Your videos are amazing girl. I love that you speak truth. As a mom I appreciate your tips and feel at my best when I am implementing what you shared. Definitely need to prioritize movement again!
    I tried to do the who UA-cam channel thing cause I seen all these women accomplishing so much. Just because we can do something doesn't mean we should or need too. I realized I'm completely happy with my life in private and love my career as a educator while being a mom and wife. Why pack more on my plate I definitely experienced burn out and anxiety. I tapped out quick lol it was not worth it. 😂 but you my girl have a gift and you will continue to do amazing!
    May God continue to work on your future husband for the day you two meet. Never settle for less because if we do we will never good all the greatness that we truly deserve.

  • @DyanaMariie
    @DyanaMariie  Місяць тому +4

    0:00 Intro
    0:19 There is no balance
    3:21 Don’t go blindly into each day
    7:08 The enemy is your MIND
    17:04 Do you REALLY want that?
    21:45 Single moms are low value women?

  • @sharisesky1060
    @sharisesky1060 Місяць тому +1

    Always on time with your messages!! I love and appreciate you so much!!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @heyhaley__
    @heyhaley__ Місяць тому

    This video came at the perfect time! Thank you! ❤

  • @Mrdonny908
    @Mrdonny908 Місяць тому +2

    Showing luv ❤

  • @monathompson4364
    @monathompson4364 Місяць тому +2

    Hello, Queen!! Glad to see you doing well

  • @Missma-am
    @Missma-am 25 днів тому

    Thank you for this video it really helped me to reset my mindset. I literally just watched that video right before this video and I felt what Shay said in my spirit!

  • @Mikasade3
    @Mikasade3 27 днів тому

    We just love us some you and your words of encouragement. I\

  • @lizzyricario8914
    @lizzyricario8914 Місяць тому

    Thank you for this video ❤

  • @jess-99
    @jess-99 Місяць тому

    Hello Dyana. Here la France. Single mom of 2 ...yes i feel your words... and it´s struggling and the reality is IT IS HARD FOR SOLO PARENTING

  • @rhodalynbansah2754
    @rhodalynbansah2754 Місяць тому

    Great Insights! thank you sis ❤

  • @jennymcclung3620
    @jennymcclung3620 Місяць тому

    I couldn't agree more with this video. Dyana, you always know how to say what I've been thinking. I always remind myself to run my own race. No one ever won a race by concerning themselves with what others were doing.

  • @notanotherjasmine
    @notanotherjasmine Місяць тому

    Luv your videos

  • @sandye6634
    @sandye6634 Місяць тому

    Thank you for this video ❤ sending you and your beautiful family lots of love from South Africa. I am also a single mom and I really feel drained by life because I'm showing up for my son, parents, being a reliable employee while managing my passive income but I just can't seem to prioritize my self care. I'm always pouring into others, but I really need to focus on my mental health and needs. 🙃😌

  • @nataliepyn1
    @nataliepyn1 Місяць тому

    🔥

  • @Christianeeee
    @Christianeeee Місяць тому

    Entering the single mommy world. 3 beautiful babies. Thanks for this it is a lot🫶🏽

  • @ashleygesty7671
    @ashleygesty7671 Місяць тому

    You are speaking a word!

  • @LifeofTiish
    @LifeofTiish Місяць тому +1

    Love ❤ this video

  • @markanthony523
    @markanthony523 15 днів тому

    What apps or methods do you use to organize your time? What is your process in the day ? When do you write your list?

  • @desimichelle
    @desimichelle Місяць тому +1

    ❤❤

  • @bigmikeschevytruck3827
    @bigmikeschevytruck3827 Місяць тому

    Ive been watching your channel for a while now, you have helped my family soo much..im currently working on being a personal trainer, I feel that i have cracked the code of weightloss and health path, I lost 45 Lbs in 2 5 to 3 months..

  • @monathompson4364
    @monathompson4364 Місяць тому +1

    I Love your channel..Will you do more savings videos

    • @DyanaMariie
      @DyanaMariie  Місяць тому +1

      I definitely will once my last card and student loan are gone. Can’t wait to get back!

  • @A2thaLO
    @A2thaLO 24 дні тому +1

    I am not bothered by being considered as a low value woman as a single mom. First and foremost, who I am is not found in man's opinion. I know who God says I am, and my confidence is in him. Single Mom's have got to stop placing their worth in the hands of random people. Your essentially saying that a stranger governs your life just because of their opinion. SMH, that's a miserable way to live for yourself, your children and for the little time we have in this life.

  • @desskay5896
    @desskay5896 26 днів тому

    Hey Dyana, letting go is so big! Bc I’m really big on making sure my finances are always able to afford the life I want for me and my daughter…. Last year I divorced and was at my parents for a year w my daughter and I was able to move out and afford a 2BR. Never have been late on a bill, didn’t have the job that was making the $ I know could put us in a better spot financially, but things fell in place for us. Running MY pace in MY marathon I believe is keeping me grounded! I’ve been following you on insta for years thank you for always being transparent❤