The "Purpose before Relationship" part is the most crucial IMO. We have to find our purpose and work on it, and everything else will come much easier. Because we are not needy, but men who have a journey and keep moving forward.
Yesterday my friend asked me why I am working to hard to be “masculine”. I said that it’s because 1) I happen to be truly full-filled only if I act that part and follow a mission. 2) I am only really attracted to girls who are very feminine in there expression, so I have to consciously provide the complimentary opposite.
1. Insist on practice and growth 2. You will want more than one 3. Ejaculate up the spine 4. Ejaculation should be converted 5. Demonstrate your direction 6. What she wants != what she says 7. Praise her 8. Your woman doesn't get easier 9. Never change your mind 10. Attraction is inevitable 11. Purpose before relationship 12. Complimentary opposite
We live in a broken world. Men are broken and so are women, both are broken in different ways. I've read the way of the superior man and theres some good stuff in there, especially what it has to say about a mans purpose trumping everything, including women. But you can not play along with the tests of women, you have to show them the door because all theyre doing is displaying their broken-ness. You cannot play the game in any way because the game is flawed and is doomed to failure, Just look at the divorce rate. The only way to have a successful relationship with a woman is to never put up with any nonsense at all. Ever. Dont put up with moodiness, bitchiness, bratty behavior, manipulation or controlling antics. Do not, under any circumstances marry a woman who displays any of there traits. You can be perfectly happy without a woman in your life. So when you understand this you can take or leave them, theres nothing any woman has that can make you happy, and in knowing this you can actually have a healthy relationship. If you want, but you can also just head off into the sunset and seek your own adventure.
Exactly right. Men don't need them. In fact it is they that need us to procreate and to take care of their kid if they're a single mom. They bring absolutely nothing to the table but trouble and they expect us to jump through their hoops. Screw that noise.
Everyone gets hurt, heal from your baggage and realize relationships take compromise. If you want to be MGTOW that’s fine but men can have bad dating and relationship experiences as it’s part of life, without those challenges you wouldn’t know what you really are looking for. Some men let relationship struggles break them and they give up. Other men learn from their struggles gain wisdom but they don’t let this defeat them, they become stronger and smarter, a superior man doesn’t give up, if that’s all it takes for you to give up in life then you really don’t deserve the life you want. We all have to fight on, life is a constant battle of the mind and the will if that foundation is weak then it will easily crumble.
@@ms.gordon3802 If what you got from my comment was "just give up and be a mgtow" then you've missed the point entirely. It's not about being bitter and slipping off with your tail between your legs. Its about finding out who you are as a man and finding out what exactly your purpose in life is. A mans purpose is number 1, all things (including his relationships) come from that. And when a man knows what he's here to do then he won't put up with bad behaviour from anyone, both women and other guys. This is the point I'm making, that the reason most guys put up with bitchy bratty behaviour from women is because they dont know who they are or what their lifes purpose is and when you dont know these things about yourself you'll put a woman on a pedestal and try to get meaning and fulfillment from her. It's not about giving up bro, it's about finding out who you really are.
Damn Brennan, you good? but seriously what I have learned is that they will show those tendencies to some capacity probably because they are conditioned that way and while its good to be assertive the leaving part might be difficult to the average guy
Lessons 3 & 4 touch on a practice I think is best covered by the book, The Multi-Orgasmic Man. It is Taoist in nature but I think it also demystifies some of what you said
I came across this book back in the mid 2000's...at the time I was a super blue pilled beta who had no concept about the true nature of women..I sneered at this book and associated 'Manosphere' books, forums and groups dismissing them as 'misogynist'...cut to 2019 and I'm fully 'red pilled' and feeling stupid for not coming to MGTOW et.al back then!
I really like this one, Brandon! Very interesting info and so true from a woman's POV as well. I never knew about the man kegels but always wondered why some men can last so much longer than others. Thanks for sharing!
Deida also wrote "The Enlightened Lover" which goes into detail on the sexual love side of things. That book and "The Jewel In The Lotus" both helped me out tremendously in sexual intercourse.
Point 11: Purpose before relationship/woman. Points 12 & 9-2: Information centering around a woman and how you should adjust yourself around her insanity. This book is for fairies.
Framing the different ways women are evolutionarily programmed to think and act in a relationship as "insanity" is the root of the problem here. Does it make no sense to guys? Absolutely. It genuinely baffles me most of the time and I've been married 10 years. But accepting that my wife inherently thinks differently from me has been a huge help for me in my relationship. Learning how her "insanity" can compliment and strengthen you is actually a huge part of having a successful and happy relationship. It's how you can actually act like a man. None of it "centers" on a woman, it's basically telling you how to succeed and be a man.
*"She wants.. she wants... she... she... she... she"* Oh the irony. If you read or need to read this book, you've already lost the battle. The only thing you should seek in life is to be a better person today than you were yesterday. If a woman isn't helping you be that (assuming that you're sincerely putting forth action towards that), then ditch her in a New York minute. Reading about how not to put a woman first in your life, is already putting women first in your life. You should put your personal integrity first in life. Good luck geezer.
I agree, this smells of beta tendency, its like everything you do is for the approval of a woman, whether by directly submitting to her or acting defiant.
Support and praise, listen to her, compliments, words of affirmation and most importantly, a safe containment so that she can be her soft, feminine self. That's right, the feminine that fires up the masculine! She'll stay by your side if she feels safe, if you assert yourself as opposed to wishy-washy crap. Be confident in expressing your needs in the relationship too, what you need from her. This is what a grown up woman needs from her man
Is there much difference in detail between the 20th anniversary edition and the original? The 20th anniversary edition seems quite short only like 200 pages
Well put together valuable images, great and lengthy advice , and lots of it. I really enjoyed the video, keep up the good content. I know how time consuming lengthy videos like this can be to make, but it will pay off n the end.
This book is just a giant excuse for putting up with women's bad behavior. Passing her tests, deciding what she is really saying, it's all just BS. By making me pass her tests, she's failing mine. I'm not here to cater to her craziness. If she's going to test you, and try to throw you off your purpose, she can go.
Read the book mate, he mentions many times in the book that while a woman does require attention and nurture, doing so at the expense of your own life purpose (which should transcend her) will make your relationship crumble and her desire for you diminish. Women want a man to inspire them and look up to. To be a provider isn't just to give them somewhere to feel safe, you must also be someone they search for motivation and support-- that includes emotional support. Which requires you listening to them and being their rock. Of course she may try some shit tests, and you as your superior self will confront her on these behaviours and shut them down, because you know how toxic those habits are, just as you have managed to shut down your own toxic habits.
Dude honestly these books are written by betas who dont get enough sex and these ideas are supported by betas and all these "red pill men" are just dudes who are jaded and resentful. Red Pillers are just betas.
I started to read this book & stopped at the "WOMEN DON'T LIE" chapter. The utter simpery that that was spewed in the 1st several paragraphs made me never pick that book up again
According to their emotionally turbulent perspective and reality they don't lie hahaha. But according rational males they do. They have a perspective that's only made worse by the modern culture
I am dealing with this single woman right now that claims that she never did crack, that her meth mouth was caused by the "stress" of battling CPS to reclaim her daughter. She also blames her miserable life on her daughter and the father. Not only do women lie, but they also cannot accepted accountability. Also, "gaslighting" is the technical term for when someone claims that they don't lie.
@@DwyaneWadeCounty I agree many women lie, but many women do truly accept and own accountability. The chapter title is not meant to be taken literally, it simply recognizes that women (those who aren't altered mentally by crack, meth and other extremely drugs and behavior) are often speaking from their emotional perception or intuition. To an untrained eye it often looks like they can't speak logically or that they're just being dramatic for kicks. The books clarifies this discrepancy.
@shaun stephenson maybe so but I don't like that politically correct answer in this day and age. Action speaks louder than words. I believe we have created in society a playground for deceptive actions by women to be rewarded.
Glad I watched this summary. I read the book about 2 years ago and it's become apparent to me recently that I abandoned my purpose in order to be what others wanted me to be. Also it's so true that watching what a woman does is a much better indicator of what they want. We all do this sometimes, but women are generally more agreeable than men and will tell pleasant lies to allow for social cohesion that betray their true desires.
I wanted to buy this book but I've changed my mind after this video. Not that the video is bad, quite the opposite - it so well presented the content and the main idea of the book that I realized it's based on the social order, beliefs and the Victorian kind of relationship between sexes rather than authentical masculine energy. Purpose over all is a good advice though.
"Victorian"? It's more like the masculine/feminine as it has been defined since the dawn of man hundreds of thousands of years ago up until the past 20 years or so of post-modernist pseudointellectual progressivism.
yep, I am watching this video after reading the book. The book is really good and taught me a lot of things but definitely wasn't what I was looking for, I should've done my research before lol.
Not having sex before marriage has nothing to do with being sexually attracted to women. Just sayin', dont throw the baby Jesus out with the holy bath water.
Thank you for reaching out. The percentage refers to the amount of couples that have a particular polarity. Forget genders for a minute. Complimentary opposite means that one partner is feminine and the other is masculine. The examples listed aren't all opposite - the neutral couple isn't opposite because they aren't feminine or masculine. Just neutral.
In most of your videos you talk about dominance. How do you dominate and make her listen to you when she, as a modern woman, is trying to dominate you?
Refuse to be dominated. A man's power comes from his willingness to abide by his own morals and boundaries. Even the strongest willed woman cannot dominate a man who has made peace with himself and doesn't waver from his mission.
This video accidentally came up next on a playlist. Love this channel! But this was hilarious!!! Every assumption about women was wrong for me. So funny!!!!
I think that’s why it stated the importance of understanding polarities so less about man and woman but importance of balancing roles. Maybe you are more energetically logical, masculine or possibly neutral in comparison to the chaotic or receptive femininity etc 🙂
7:00 ... So... you changed your mind. Also she is then dictating what you're doing. And manipulating. One thing that is a MUST for successful relationships is that each partner MUST be honest with their desires. They must work on and be free to openly communicate their thoughts. Trying to guess leads to break up. Trust me on this. Assumption is a bad idea. If she feels safe to speak freely, she will tell you what she wants. Now that also doesn't mean you should just do whatever she wants. If you wanted to go to the city, and she doesn't now, then go by yourself or ask a friend to go.
nice video mate. one question: how do we know our energy and our partners energy? I believe my partner is feminime but im not sure for me, i think im neutral masculine.. like i feel i a share both energies but mostly masculine, maybe 60/40 or something. how can i tell?
You can feel it bro. You know that thing. It's that feeling you get after a good session in the gym. Increase the level of testosterone in your system. Stop jerking off and go to the gym. You WILL feel the masculine energies in you It only takes about 20 days to know how awesome semen retention is and why you must protect your seed at all costs
This book uses a very effective bullshit technique: people tend to like and agree with things that are stated agressively. If I were to say "you should get naked and stand on the roof in the rain" you would say 'WTF'. But if i were to say "You should tear off your clothes, and stand defiantly on top of the roof, laughing at the elements" than a good number of you would probably do it. This is why politicians promise to "fight for you" and be "tough on crime". This is also why everyone wants to help you with "tough love" and can't wait to give you the "hard truth" So a lot BS in this book is painfully obvious advice dressed up in macho bullshit. You are saying that I shouldn't be clingy and I shouldn't be a doormat in a relationship? Gee whiz Mr Douche, you changed my life and straightened me out. Your hard truths were a shot of testosterone that transformed me from cowering wimp into a moustached bare knuckle boxer.
I think a lot of guys are missing the point in the comments. Everyone is saying why should I do what women want. It's not that you need to only please them it's teaching you how women work and when you treat them right they (should) treat you right also. If they don't, move on. There's some great advice here but if you are too worried about PC and have false masculine pride this will sound like BS. Also, porn will fuck up your mind up so stop that BS asap.
I was disappointed in this book. I brought a book hoping for the unique perspective on masculinity that my generation so lacks but I got a book that just harped on respecting whamen, for the most part. Don’t get me wrong it drops some serious jewels but it makes the mistake of thinking that we are all in the relationship phase of our lives. Sure I’ve got women to keep me company but they are nowhere near the top of my priorities or even the middle of that list. I’m in a phase of my life where I need things no woman can provide like, piece of mind and financial stability . I need a perspective on how to conduct myself in relation to other men, because our generation today has a tremendous homophobia to the point where kinship amongst men is taboo. I want to know about being a man in relation to myself and the world, not a woman. But like I said it has it’s moments and drops jewels here and there but it leaves something to be desired.
Well men, don’t want to get laid all the time. 10 minutes of sex isn’t worth two weeks or even days to get laid ... sex with different women really isn’t great. But anyone can have their own opinion, guys let’s reclaim the gentleman in us 💪🏽, feminism won’t take over
weak men create bad times....bad times create strong men...strong men create good times....good times create weak men....the security with the world we currently live in has weaken men to this point....we are currently living the shit times...strong men are being born and reborn everyday as a rebellion to this or not.
Good video, but got to say, number 7 "praise her" is wrong. To praise her 3 times a day is insane. Of course you should compliment her but not very often, it makes the compliments hold more weight. Like anything with anyone, the more a person recieves a stimulus they become tolerant to it (like getting bored for example). She will get bored of your compliments and seek them else where. Telling a new beautiful woman she is beautiful gets boring to her because she hears it from many guys. So what you do is "feed them scraps". Don't let them get full but don't starve them, get that perfect balance that makes them coming back for more
6:00 No, not all women say the opposite of what they want,. That's ridiculous. And I have never told my fiance to do something just to see if "he's weak enough to do it" WTF is this section of the book?! That part specifically made me concerned because by that line of logic, that may lead into gaslighting women for either not "knowing" what she wants or not "saying" what she wants even if she is literally saying it to the man and it's just something he doesn't want to hear. That's why this hit me wrong. I'm curious to read this book for funzies, but that made me raise an eyebrow for sure.
The "Purpose before Relationship" part is the most crucial IMO.
We have to find our purpose and work on it, and everything else will come much easier. Because we are not needy, but men who have a journey and keep moving forward.
Yeah m8888
So true, im going to put this to use immediately.
Yesterday my friend asked me why I am working to hard to be “masculine”. I said that it’s because 1) I happen to be truly full-filled only if I act that part and follow a mission. 2) I am only really attracted to girls who are very feminine in there expression, so I have to consciously provide the complimentary opposite.
@@junglegoose4648 What if you don't know who you are?
@@Tommcginnfigure it out, and fast.
1. Insist on practice and growth
2. You will want more than one
3. Ejaculate up the spine
4. Ejaculation should be converted
5. Demonstrate your direction
6. What she wants != what she says
7. Praise her
8. Your woman doesn't get easier
9. Never change your mind
10. Attraction is inevitable
11. Purpose before relationship
12. Complimentary opposite
Haven't read this book in a long time -- very good summary and a great reminder! Purpose over everything.
Glad to serve you Wesley -Brandon
The way of a superior man... You have explained enough on how a man can manage himself, focus on own dreams while maintaining a healthy relationship.
"Between your tally Wacker and chamber of secrets"
I like the info but you had me dying.
We live in a broken world. Men are broken and so are women, both are broken in different ways. I've read the way of the superior man and theres some good stuff in there, especially what it has to say about a mans purpose trumping everything, including women. But you can not play along with the tests of women, you have to show them the door because all theyre doing is displaying their broken-ness. You cannot play the game in any way because the game is flawed and is doomed to failure, Just look at the divorce rate. The only way to have a successful relationship with a woman is to never put up with any nonsense at all. Ever. Dont put up with moodiness, bitchiness, bratty behavior, manipulation or controlling antics. Do not, under any circumstances marry a woman who displays any of there traits. You can be perfectly happy without a woman in your life. So when you understand this you can take or leave them, theres nothing any woman has that can make you happy, and in knowing this you can actually have a healthy relationship. If you want, but you can also just head off into the sunset and seek your own adventure.
Exactly right. Men don't need them. In fact it is they that need us to procreate and to take care of their kid if they're a single mom. They bring absolutely nothing to the table but trouble and they expect us to jump through their hoops. Screw that noise.
Everyone gets hurt, heal from your baggage and realize relationships take compromise. If you want to be MGTOW that’s fine but men can have bad dating and relationship experiences as it’s part of life, without those challenges you wouldn’t know what you really are looking for. Some men let relationship struggles break them and they give up. Other men learn from their struggles gain wisdom but they don’t let this defeat them, they become stronger and smarter, a superior man doesn’t give up, if that’s all it takes for you to give up in life then you really don’t deserve the life you want. We all have to fight on, life is a constant battle of the mind and the will if that foundation is weak then it will easily crumble.
Eoin Brennan ok mgtow
@@ms.gordon3802 If what you got from my comment was "just give up and be a mgtow" then you've missed the point entirely. It's not about being bitter and slipping off with your tail between your legs. Its about finding out who you are as a man and finding out what exactly your purpose in life is. A mans purpose is number 1, all things (including his relationships) come from that. And when a man knows what he's here to do then he won't put up with bad behaviour from anyone, both women and other guys. This is the point I'm making, that the reason most guys put up with bitchy bratty behaviour from women is because they dont know who they are or what their lifes purpose is and when you dont know these things about yourself you'll put a woman on a pedestal and try to get meaning and fulfillment from her. It's not about giving up bro, it's about finding out who you really are.
Damn Brennan, you good? but seriously what I have learned is that they will show those tendencies to some capacity probably because they are conditioned that way and while its good to be assertive the leaving part might be difficult to the average guy
Best book i've ever fuckin read in my life. Every MAN MUST read this. Holy shit.
Wow. I love this video! Fantastic work!
Cheers brotherrr
Lessons 3 & 4 touch on a practice I think is best covered by the book, The Multi-Orgasmic Man. It is Taoist in nature but I think it also demystifies some of what you said
Thank you very much
Great book! David Shade’s stuff is really good too!
I came across this book back in the mid 2000's...at the time I was a super blue pilled beta who had no concept about the true nature of women..I sneered at this book and associated 'Manosphere' books, forums and groups dismissing them as 'misogynist'...cut to 2019 and I'm fully 'red pilled' and feeling stupid for not coming to MGTOW et.al back then!
I really like this one, Brandon! Very interesting info and so true from a woman's POV as well. I never knew about the man kegels but always wondered why some men can last so much longer than others. Thanks for sharing!
I'm glad to serve you Stephanie. I'm even more glad you've watched a video that's seemingly just for men when in reality all can benefit. Much love
Typical sexist response....and no doubt on a mans topic....typical female always trying to control men and chime in (nag) using sex references
Deida also wrote "The Enlightened Lover" which goes into detail on the sexual love side of things. That book and "The Jewel In The Lotus" both helped me out tremendously in sexual intercourse.
The book is from stephen mitchell
@@N1GHTFREAK Sorry, I wrote down the wrong title, the correct title is: The Enlightened Sex Manual: Sexual Skills for the Superior Lover.
Point 11: Purpose before relationship/woman.
Points 12 & 9-2: Information centering around a woman and how you should adjust yourself around her insanity.
This book is for fairies.
Framing the different ways women are evolutionarily programmed to think and act in a relationship as "insanity" is the root of the problem here. Does it make no sense to guys? Absolutely. It genuinely baffles me most of the time and I've been married 10 years. But accepting that my wife inherently thinks differently from me has been a huge help for me in my relationship. Learning how her "insanity" can compliment and strengthen you is actually a huge part of having a successful and happy relationship. It's how you can actually act like a man.
None of it "centers" on a woman, it's basically telling you how to succeed and be a man.
someone's bitter
*"She wants.. she wants... she... she... she... she"*
Oh the irony. If you read or need to read this book, you've already lost the battle. The only thing you should seek in life is to be a better person today than you were yesterday. If a woman isn't helping you be that (assuming that you're sincerely putting forth action towards that), then ditch her in a New York minute.
Reading about how not to put a woman first in your life, is already putting women first in your life. You should put your personal integrity first in life. Good luck geezer.
Did you swallow the red pill?
@@OnePercentBetter well he got some points aswell
👍👌👌🤘🤘🤘 precisely
I agree, this smells of beta tendency, its like everything you do is for the approval of a woman, whether by directly submitting to her or acting defiant.
the voice acting is brilliant
Support and praise, listen to her, compliments, words of affirmation and most importantly, a safe containment so that she can be her soft, feminine self. That's right, the feminine that fires up the masculine!
She'll stay by your side if she feels safe, if you assert yourself as opposed to wishy-washy crap. Be confident in expressing your needs in the relationship too, what you need from her.
This is what a grown up woman needs from her man
Well you have to be careful with praising to much
This is the best summary of the book that I have seen
”Relationship lasted five times longer” congratz on 5 week relationship
I come here for @dankoe recommendations. I'll keep it to re-watch thag later. Thanks for your service man. Peace
Your “woman voice “ is golden! Never change!
this is spot on , wow
Milk woman impression killed me🤣
Essentially one of the greatest literary exploit...Manhood 101🎯 🤝
awesome content Brother, really helps me out
Happy to help yo
Brilliant summary! Just ordered the book
Is there much difference in detail between the 20th anniversary edition and the original? The 20th anniversary edition seems quite short only like 200 pages
You just earned a subscription. Great vid
Well put together valuable images, great and lengthy advice , and lots of it. I really enjoyed the video, keep up the good content. I know how time consuming lengthy videos like this can be to make, but it will pay off n the end.
Pay's way too many dividends - Subscribers Views and AdSense is one thing, developing relationships and serving others is another. Much love. -Brandon
This book is just a giant excuse for putting up with women's bad behavior. Passing her tests, deciding what she is really saying, it's all just BS. By making me pass her tests, she's failing mine. I'm not here to cater to her craziness.
If she's going to test you, and try to throw you off your purpose, she can go.
Mgtow
Wisdom at its height.
Read the book mate, he mentions many times in the book that while a woman does require attention and nurture, doing so at the expense of your own life purpose (which should transcend her) will make your relationship crumble and her desire for you diminish.
Women want a man to inspire them and look up to. To be a provider isn't just to give them somewhere to feel safe, you must also be someone they search for motivation and support-- that includes emotional support. Which requires you listening to them and being their rock. Of course she may try some shit tests, and you as your superior self will confront her on these behaviours and shut them down, because you know how toxic those habits are, just as you have managed to shut down your own toxic habits.
Well said, fuck this book
Dude honestly these books are written by betas who dont get enough sex and these ideas are supported by betas and all these "red pill men" are just dudes who are jaded and resentful. Red Pillers are just betas.
We're the Superior Men.
I started to read this book & stopped at the "WOMEN DON'T LIE" chapter. The utter simpery that that was spewed in the 1st several paragraphs made me never pick that book up again
According to their emotionally turbulent perspective and reality they don't lie hahaha. But according rational males they do. They have a perspective that's only made worse by the modern culture
I am dealing with this single woman right now that claims that she never did crack, that her meth mouth was caused by the "stress" of battling CPS to reclaim her daughter. She also blames her miserable life on her daughter and the father. Not only do women lie, but they also cannot accepted accountability. Also, "gaslighting" is the technical term for when someone claims that they don't lie.
@@DwyaneWadeCounty I agree many women lie, but many women do truly accept and own accountability. The chapter title is not meant to be taken literally, it simply recognizes that women (those who aren't altered mentally by crack, meth and other extremely drugs and behavior) are often speaking from their emotional perception or intuition. To an untrained eye it often looks like they can't speak logically or that they're just being dramatic for kicks. The books clarifies this discrepancy.
You misinterpreted the meaning of that chapter
@shaun stephenson maybe so but I don't like that politically correct answer in this day and age. Action speaks louder than words. I believe we have created in society a playground for deceptive actions by women to be rewarded.
Purpose is King.
Glad I watched this summary. I read the book about 2 years ago and it's become apparent to me recently that I abandoned my purpose in order to be what others wanted me to be.
Also it's so true that watching what a woman does is a much better indicator of what they want. We all do this sometimes, but women are generally more agreeable than men and will tell pleasant lies to allow for social cohesion that betray their true desires.
I wanted to buy this book but I've changed my mind after this video. Not that the video is bad, quite the opposite - it so well presented the content and the main idea of the book that I realized it's based on the social order, beliefs and the Victorian kind of relationship between sexes rather than authentical masculine energy. Purpose over all is a good advice though.
You make a very good point.
"Victorian"? It's more like the masculine/feminine as it has been defined since the dawn of man hundreds of thousands of years ago up until the past 20 years or so of post-modernist pseudointellectual progressivism.
yep, I am watching this video after reading the book. The book is really good and taught me a lot of things but definitely wasn't what I was looking for, I should've done my research before lol.
One of the most fundamental reads for men. Even women should read it just for the ideas on sexual polarity. Just go get the milk, lol
Oh so yes to your middle line.
The Masculine grows buy challenge and the feminine grows buy praise.
let go brandon
Not having sex before marriage has nothing to do with being sexually attracted to women. Just sayin', dont throw the baby Jesus out with the holy bath water.
Don't understand point 12. 10% or 80% is good? What is meant by complimentary opposite? Aren't all the examples listed opposite?
Thank you for reaching out. The percentage refers to the amount of couples that have a particular polarity. Forget genders for a minute. Complimentary opposite means that one partner is feminine and the other is masculine. The examples listed aren't all opposite - the neutral couple isn't opposite because they aren't feminine or masculine. Just neutral.
The way I started laughing 😂😂🤣🤣from your voice on number 8 omg lmaoooooo
This video is going to be viral...Nice points
VIRRRRRALLLL TALK
HAAHAHA
great points
nice explanation ...love u 3000
thanks for your work.
VIDS IS FIRE G THANG
Great Video!
Glad to serve you!
I love the goku art
Praise Her.
how many books, which actually work are written for women?
going great mate
Yeah maaate :)
In most of your videos you talk about dominance. How do you dominate and make her listen to you when she, as a modern woman, is trying to dominate you?
Refuse to be dominated.
A man's power comes from his willingness to abide by his own morals and boundaries. Even the strongest willed woman cannot dominate a man who has made peace with himself and doesn't waver from his mission.
Another aweomse video!!!
Let’s go Brandon!
Nice Vid mate
Cheers Sharp!
These are great
This video accidentally came up next on a playlist. Love this channel! But this was hilarious!!! Every assumption about women was wrong for me. So funny!!!!
It sounds like the saying "what women say and what they actually mean is different" applies to you.
I assume you drink green tea.
@@luvair6765 haha watch what they do... not what they say
I think that’s why it stated the importance of understanding polarities so less about man and woman but importance of balancing roles. Maybe you are more energetically logical, masculine or possibly neutral in comparison to the chaotic or receptive femininity etc 🙂
7:00 ... So... you changed your mind. Also she is then dictating what you're doing. And manipulating. One thing that is a MUST for successful relationships is that each partner MUST be honest with their desires. They must work on and be free to openly communicate their thoughts. Trying to guess leads to break up. Trust me on this. Assumption is a bad idea. If she feels safe to speak freely, she will tell you what she wants. Now that also doesn't mean you should just do whatever she wants. If you wanted to go to the city, and she doesn't now, then go by yourself or ask a friend to go.
Great video. I just subscribed to your channel. May I ask what software do you use to create your videos?
NICE... So true
nice video mate. one question: how do we know our energy and our partners energy? I believe my partner is feminime but im not sure for me, i think im neutral masculine.. like i feel i a share both energies but mostly masculine, maybe 60/40 or something. how can i tell?
Even I'm dealing with this. Couldn't tell ya :P
Stop eating Soy.
You can feel it bro. You know that thing. It's that feeling you get after a good session in the gym. Increase the level of testosterone in your system. Stop jerking off and go to the gym. You WILL feel the masculine energies in you
It only takes about 20 days to know how awesome semen retention is and why you must protect your seed at all costs
Yea that statement about the 17 and 14 year old ain't sitting right with me.
It's better to indulge in HookUp/ No strings attached rather than getting into a relationship just for sex.
This book uses a very effective bullshit technique: people tend to like and agree with things that are stated agressively.
If I were to say "you should get naked and stand on the roof in the rain" you would say 'WTF'. But if i were to say "You should tear off your clothes, and stand defiantly on top of the roof, laughing at the elements" than a good number of you would probably do it.
This is why politicians promise to "fight for you" and be "tough on crime". This is also why everyone wants to help you with "tough love" and can't wait to give you the "hard truth"
So a lot BS in this book is painfully obvious advice dressed up in macho bullshit. You are saying that I shouldn't be clingy and I shouldn't be a doormat in a relationship? Gee whiz Mr Douche, you changed my life and straightened me out. Your hard truths were a shot of testosterone that transformed me from cowering wimp into a moustached bare knuckle boxer.
Sounds like you got the idea for your first three paragraphs from a book, Mirza.
Mirza Borogovac wtf does disserve the universe mean?
Stop.
Mirza Borogovac 🤣🤣 i was feeling the same.
If I’m Masculine is my “Complimentary Opposite” Feminine?
I think a lot of guys are missing the point in the comments. Everyone is saying why should I do what women want. It's not that you need to only please them it's teaching you how women work and when you treat them right they (should) treat you right also. If they don't, move on. There's some great advice here but if you are too worried about PC and have false masculine pride this will sound like BS. Also, porn will fuck up your mind up so stop that BS asap.
17 vs 14? - FBI OPEN UP!!!
Even I find that weird and I'm a 28 year-old dating a girl that's 19.
You're stupid
Women prefer matured men who isnt needy
NONCE
@@darrieng6608 he really did though I stopped and had to play it back to make sure I heard him correctly
No. 8 when you make the woman voice is hilarious 😂 😂 😂 😂
I've been covering this book chapter by chapter on my channel. It's arguably the best book to align your life to.
Guys for the #4 this app is really good. * PFEI * it help me last longer 😁.
teehee
didnt get that , you said we should find tips from Elliot who?
Love you sir
I have not read this book yet, but I feel like some of the principles of this book contradicts Models by Mark Manson. Any insights?
Which principles?
Goddamit…the wife’s voice gets me everytime 😂
Damn bro, this video got me dying
LOVE IT YOU ARE DOPE!!!! #TheGoOdWayOfThinking
awesome stuff man as usual
❤❤❤
I was disappointed in this book. I brought a book hoping for the unique perspective on masculinity that my generation so lacks but I got a book that just harped on respecting whamen, for the most part. Don’t get me wrong it drops some serious jewels but it makes the mistake of thinking that we are all in the relationship phase of our lives. Sure I’ve got women to keep me company but they are nowhere near the top of my priorities or even the middle of that list. I’m in a phase of my life where I need things no woman can provide like, piece of mind and financial stability . I need a perspective on how to conduct myself in relation to other men, because our generation today has a tremendous homophobia to the point where kinship amongst men is taboo. I want to know about being a man in relation to myself and the world, not a woman. But like I said it has it’s moments and drops jewels here and there but it leaves something to be desired.
lol that conversation
He suggested checking out who's videos for breathing?
Stop trying to understand them. The more you try to do so the more they’ll hate you. I just saved you some time.
You just made exactly zero sense
Ray Carden didn’t ask you
Bro don't take life so seriously, not everyone is negative in the comment section
Ray Carden true, but doesn’t change the fact that I didn’t ask you.
@@roughlysktch4542 true, but I made you edit the comment
Well men, don’t want to get laid all the time. 10 minutes of sex isn’t worth two weeks or even days to get laid ... sex with different women really isn’t great. But anyone can have their own opinion, guys let’s reclaim the gentleman in us 💪🏽, feminism won’t take over
Nice....
Vanilla slice...
#2 straightforward 😂
I can hear the hysterical screams of feminists about this video/book from hundreds of miles.
8. Got me dying laughing 😅
1:40 bro what?
17 year old hormone filled me
With a 14 year old girlfriend
weak men create bad times....bad times create strong men...strong men create good times....good times create weak men....the security with the world we currently live in has weaken men to this point....we are currently living the shit times...strong men are being born and reborn everyday as a rebellion to this or not.
Woah woah with did nobody else question why he had a 14 year old girlfriend at age 17
Are you 12 that's not that bad grow up a little bit.
Yeah, that was weird
Not weird at all, you all are a bunch of pussies
yo virgin kiddo stfu noone cares
God your a dumbshit. Theres nothing wrong at all with 17 to 14 age differance.
this is really fucking helpful and crucial for alot of growing young men since it’s lacking...
Where are Elliot House videos
Good video, but got to say, number 7 "praise her" is wrong. To praise her 3 times a day is insane. Of course you should compliment her but not very often, it makes the compliments hold more weight. Like anything with anyone, the more a person recieves a stimulus they become tolerant to it (like getting bored for example). She will get bored of your compliments and seek them else where. Telling a new beautiful woman she is beautiful gets boring to her because she hears it from many guys. So what you do is "feed them scraps". Don't let them get full but don't starve them, get that perfect balance that makes them coming back for more
One question: horde or alliance?
FOR THE HORDE!
ILikeLargeFries hijab and not mini skirt.🙂
Complimentary means for free, or praising. You mean complementary.
My god life is a pain in the ass !!!!
*women
It is a great book .
What I got from it was live your life your way.
This is one of the best misogynist book i have ever heard a summary of.
6:00 No, not all women say the opposite of what they want,. That's ridiculous. And I have never told my fiance to do something just to see if "he's weak enough to do it" WTF is this section of the book?!
That part specifically made me concerned because by that line of logic, that may lead into gaslighting women for either not "knowing" what she wants or not "saying" what she wants even if she is literally saying it to the man and it's just something he doesn't want to hear. That's why this hit me wrong. I'm curious to read this book for funzies, but that made me raise an eyebrow for sure.
Anybody got the divider to Elliot hulse?
we can buy a farm now😂😂