THE WAY OF THE SUPERIOR MAN - 51 Lessons to Master the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire
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The Way of the Superior Man:
51 Lessons
by David Deida
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CHAPTERS
00:00 Intro
00:02 Part 1 - A Man's Way
00:05 Lesson 1
00:41 Lesson 2
01:03 Lesson 3
01:13 Lesson 4
01:52 Lesson 5
02:13 Lesson 6
02:40 Lesson 7
03:02 Lesson 8
03:30 Lesson 9
03:44 Lesson 10
04:04 Lesson 11
04:27 Lesson 12
04:56 Lesson 13
05:29 Lesson 14
05:55 Lesson 15
06:35 Part 2 - Dealing with Women
06:38 Lesson 16
07:18 Lesson 17
07:32 Lesson 18
08:22 Lesson 19
08:55 Lesson 20
09:20 Lesson 21
09:42 Lesson 22
10:25 Part 3 - Working with Polarity and Energy
10:29 Lesson 23
10:46 Lesson 24
11:40 Lesson 25
11:54 Lesson 26
12:28 Lesson 27
12:57 Lesson 28
13:38 Part 4 - What Women Really Want
13:41 Lesson 29
14:05 Lesson 30
14:42 Lesson 31
15:22 Lesson 32
15:59 Lesson 33
16:00 Lesson 33
16:31 Lesson 34
16:56 Lesson 35
17:21 Lesson 36
17:49 Lesson 37
18:18 Lesson 38
18:54 Part 6 - Feminine Attractiveness
18:57 Lesson 39
19:29 Lesson 40
19:52 Lesson 41
20:38 Lesson 42
21:26 Lesson 43
22:12 Part 7 - Body Practices
22:15 Lesson 44
23:08 Lesson 45
23:37 Lesson 46
24:00 depletive
24:10 Part 8 - Men and Women's Yoga of Intimacy
24:14 Lesson 47
24:51 Lesson 48
25:24 Lesson 49
26:14 Lesson 50
26:40 Lesson 51
26:50 Outro
Thanks for listening.
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#daviddeida
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Always trust your eyes and not your ears, when you do this you’ll hear things in a different light
When it comes to women it should say. Men know your vision, path and purpose then a woman gets on your program, helps you and caters to you or to help you with the mission or you let her go. She respects you and in turn you love her. End of story
I notice you are trying to fit all of his wisdom into a little red pill. It’s a misshapen attempt. Don’t bend the rules until you learn them better. This is just my perspective. I wish you all the best. Cheers.
@@anthonyhughes8026 I see where you’re are coming from however I am a natural man that has been dealing with females since I was young. Hundreds of women so I know women from real experience. What I say isn’t redpill. What I said definitely is the foundation for any nuances or details to happen.
@@weldscholars8253 Heard. Well, your way sounds a little bit severe for me but in the right hands a tool (like matter-of-factness etc.) has tremendous power. Thanks for talking.
Thanks so much David!
26 is a huge one to me I learned after a relationship I ruined that sexual discipline is very important as a man.
How did u learn that Or come to that conclusion, with help or solo?
@@giovanniortega1893 solo I learned to genuinely enjoy being around women without expecting sex. After ruining several great relationships cheating. I took a break from sex while touring met my wife I refuse to cheat EVER. We have a wonderful relationship
I lived as if my father was dead since i was 10 in 1980, due to this death. And learned most of what was said here on my own. Although it's a never ending journey.
Thank you for making this wonderful summary of this great book.
You’d have to be insane to want a relationship after learning all this.
This explains the endless issues people have, and always would have. Not getting married and having kids was the best decision I ever made. Now I go into my 40’s knowing I’ll walk alone from here. And it will be a more peaceful, productive walk I’m sure.
You are correct
It’ll be a lonely path but if it’s the right one for you, tread it.
It’s true that not everyone actually enjoys the feminine, inasmuch as desiring to penetrate her sexually.
I’m glad you made your peace with this. 😊
I’d say it’ll be very lonely. But to each their own
Try it first, then decide.
Great video, thanks! 👏👏👏👏
Korean guy here with experiences with white women, Japanese women, no Chinese women unfortunately, and histpanic women and his statement about Japanese women being cooler and Korean women being hotter is so accurate.
Valuable thoughts, tks for sharing.
The basic principle is that people end up in pain, not because the world is not rich enough to allow them to satisfy their needs, but because their representation of the world is impoverished.
'Whether you think you can, or you think you can't--you're right.' - Henry Ford
“There is no reality except the one contained within us. That is why so many people live such an unreal life. They take the images outside of them for reality and never allow the world within to assert itself.” Steppenwolf by Hermann Hesse
Powerful ☄️
Brief and clear thxs
Very educative
This was amazing to watch 😂
Live With an Open Heart Even If It Hurts. I like that one.
This is life changing 🧘 thank you🤩
Lesson 20 was my mistake as I told many ex girlfriends to fix their own emotional problems as I could not understand their emotions and this was not due to not trying to. Women just think in a completely different way to men and its very hard to comprehend. I found when a woman starts to really love you she becomes more difficult because she becomes more sensitive and vulnerable and sorry to say but much more irritating! I think unfortunately, this is when relationships breakdown and men leave! Women think that men are dogs because of this but its just a terrible misunderstanding of the display of love! In the beginning of a relationship everything is so lighthearted and free and this is when the man really starts to fall in love. When the woman starts to fall in love she feels more insecure and suddenly needs to know where you are where you been , give you attitude coz you called her 1 hour later then you said you would, get offended over ridiculous things ect! This is when i check out!
IT'S A SHIT TEST! From showing discontent "without you taking the literal context" from the content of words spoken to you all the way to the other end of spectrum of "testing your rock solid masculine unwavering composure". You made it sound like number 20 was your only issue indirectly, but it seems to me possibly some of the other numbers don't relate to your own traits personally. A superior man would respond, not react to a irrationally driven behavior from her in a calm but firm manner, showing her that its not to be tolerate by you, or the relationship itself. SHE'LL respect you for that, even if at the moment she doesn't feel that way. If its the "discontent with no content" expressing "get your shit together" then just make sure you get your shit together, as long as it MAKES SENSE TO, and not just manipulation tactic. 😂 😍😎
Absolute nonsense. A woman has to learn emotional control just as much as men do. If men did the same thing it would be viewed as pathology. Don't let that nonsense slide. They have to grow up too. This book allows women to get away with literally anything - the first emotive response they have is viewed as axiomatically correct, whereas men's responses are viewed as needing to be overcome. Deida is a pussy worshipper ultimately. Unsurprising as he's an American.
Facts brother
its important to set clear boundaries or you'll suffer the consequences. if you're the type of guy who's going to constantly check in, allow her to obnoxiously give you attitude for any reason then that's what you deserve. if you set boundaries the second she shows the behavior and let her know there's zero tolerance for that sh*t you won't be dealing with it - one way or another (she adapts or you leave).
I laugh when they trip I just smooth talk em a little bit
Love it 🎉🎉🎉
If this is all true it really hits me hard... it unfortunately explains why my Ex broke up with me...Although I thought she did many things wrong... looking through the lens of what is written by Deida... There was not much she did wrong...
Though I must say that when I listen to this it feels as if a man has to be very perfect... almost too perfect...
Very insightful
#34 is such a big one in my opinion women love the feeling of being passionately and gently guided
Can you elaborate a bit
@@londontripz4824 A stoic is a gentleman/chivalrous and passionately loves his purpose in life though the love of his woman, as an asset complimenting his life, loving life whole heartly through her opposite feminized balance. Stoics have strong emotions as do other men, but has the emotional intelligence for control, and are gentle in guiding that's where the word gentleman is derived from. A stoic looks cold but is not. Due to today's generational comfort men show their more emotions due to their weaknesses (epigenictically certain genes expressed) and the fake smiling is, appeasement! (chimps showing teeth) 🤔 😍😎
@@davidrogers1246 these are just examples, but did you ever lead in dancing or 'rough it up' a little bit during sex, basically throwing your woman into the position you want? Women appreciate this. Not a rule but a guideline but generally on an unconscious level this generates good feelings on both sides.
I can assure you that is complete nonsense.
this book is an essential read
Lesson 29! Biggest lesson
As man all you want is peace, but, with the complexity of women(to say it in a respectful manner) it's kinda hard not to say impossible. That's why the happiest days of my life were when I was single 😂
We are simple creature but been with a woman can be never racking. I love my peace. My wife and I no longer together. I really feel great and looking forward to life.
I think this book is about transcending and overcoming that. The superior man learns how to metabolize that feminine complexity
This is about is good as Robert Green's Works. Nice!
What books of his are good please?
Roberts Greene 48 Laws of Power is good; it's his most famous work. It's case studies high profile people from history about the dynamics of relationships and consequences. Also, Dale Carnegie's book on "How to Win Friends and Influence people" is a classic if you like psychology and how to get people to like you.
@@chacotaco3607 The Laws of Human Nature by Robert Greene, most are on Utube.
Legend ! This was my very first book I read back to front. My absolute favourite book ever. Timeless master piece. And by keeping its niche, makes it just the merrier. Well done for video. Brilliant ❤
a Man Can do what he wants as a work...
following his passion is like not killing himself in a regular job.
You can become Rich but yeah always be in Masculine energy.
Wished I could have seen this or better yet read the book when I was 20 years old.
Currently 20
@@billymills4238lucky you
@@billymills4238bro lol. Don’t be this type of dude. You didn’t need to let him know your 20, just be greatful your young and get wisdom.
For real, wish I read this back in 2004
Lost on a few of these,will get BETTER😅
My son is 15 and starts reading this book. I hope he doesn’t live like I’m dead. If the purpose is to learn to be independent, I think it’s better to live like mother is dead not dad.
I think the "live as if your father were dead" is more of a metaphor for understanding that your father is a human, not a God or a monster. As children, we tend to either idolize or demonize our parents depending on how we feel about them in a given moment. Later on (sometimes after they've passed away), we realize that our parents did the best they could. We take the good things they gave us and leave the bad.
😂😂 love it
@@Alex-mf3jj Or maybe if you "live as if your father were dead" you start taking full responsibilities, there is nobody out there to take care of you and save your ass when you fuck things up, and we all know that everything start with taking responsibility and start doing.
#3 oh yes it is. He needs to live for himself, no one else.
@@Alex-mf3jj it is just another way to say, "be your own man." Although I think boys need to cut the apron strings ASAP.
im only doing this now so ONE DAY i can do what i really want to do
it wont be different it never ends the creative challenges is to tussle and play make love with the present moment while giving your unique gift to the world
This is funny as hell 😂😢😅
25:50 "The Divine way, or the highway"
The robot voice sounds like Wes Studi tbh. These narrations have come a long way.
Part pls 😭
interesting!
14:00 is the realest ish
19:23❤26:00 ❤26:07 and lesson fifty 26:19💪🏾🎊☝🏽💯men & Women shld practice Restoring and Dissolving
One day will happen, but the day never comes up
Well if I was a man and listened to this, I’d think it’s too much work to be with a woman… but when you are matched with the right partner… the relationship is effortless and joyful
Any man deterred by hard work shouldn’t claim to be a man
It's only "too much" if you believe it is
As a man, I wouldn't say this is too much work. I respond to these teachings particularly having reaped the consequences of not knowing them. It benefits both sexes.
Being matched with the right partner is being matched with someone who meets your needs whether you realise it or not, that's why it feels effortless. Also, many relationships feel effortless, ... until they don't, particularly early on.
Many men who grew up fatherless naturally end up with an imbalanced maculine/feminine energy tilted towards the feminine, particularly if they grew up with their mother and the consequence of this causes issues in relationships when women subconsciously reject the traits, which feminised men don't even realise they've displayed, never mind realising they even had those traits or / where they came from.
This book helps explain what goes wrong / went wrong.
Also, as men we like a challenge and we appreciate being told what the challenge is.
So for fatherless men, who have no masciline male role model to naturally take after, this book explains the missing pieces.
Damn!! Lesson #33 is on point!! ☠️😂 16:00
9:03 🙏🏼✨🙏🏾 9:06
There was a waterfall near us, such a lovely thin streak of water, like a thread but white and moving. It fell from a great height, but it looked quite low, and it was half a mile away, though it did not seem fifty paces. I loved to listen to it at night, but it was then that I became so restless. Sometimes I went and climbed the mountain and stood there in the midst of the tall pines, all alone in the terrible silence, with our little village in the distance, and the sky so blue, and the sun so bright, and an old ruined castle on the mountain-side, far away. I used to watch the line where earth and sky met, and longed to go and seek there the key of all mysteries, thinking that I might find there a new life, perhaps some great city where life should be grander and richer--and then it struck me that life may be grand enough even in a prison.
I've been covering this book chapter by chapter on my channel. It's arguably the best book to align your life to.
He is right. I fuck up i really fuck up.... feeling very sick as fuck. I push the one i really love away she was testing every way she can. I really love her damn that pain going stick with me the rest of my life.
Lesson 33. That's it.
Right on! 🎉
You need to read this book before even getting into a relationship
Hohhoho. My woman will understand 😂
18:00 that is the truth! I used to box and kickbox. When I was younger man night of one of my fights. Seen a friend from high-school Holly, cute little brunette with freckles. She never paid much attention to me but we had a few classes together. We chat few minutes but I gotta go get prepped for fight. It was good night for me and I get the W. I don't even have my gloves off and Holly is grabbing at me "Take me home, right now!" LOL. My coach a wise man "it's your night champ"
lesson 19 :)
3:35 that caught me off guard
Haha
👀🤣
so does it say how to start? lik what should be the first step?
in the book, the 51 lessons are presented sequentially and divided into 8 parts
but we believe that each lesson is standalone, and anyone can select which one is relevant to his/her situation
Andrew Tate read this book and gave us the same blueprint under a new name, the top g
That man is garbage, a man should never go to Eastern Europe to do sex trafficking, that guy is not a man
You must know your purpose but also be willing to change everything and find your purpose. I’m hearing some contradictions here
هل الكتاب كامل؟
The book is this not Its 51 points get the book.
Anyone fully understand # 21? Please advise
Reflect on lesson 18
is this this hole book?
Just a quick summary
Great pieces......however so concentrated on women traits and how to handle them.
Find your purpose or your wasting air - Nipsey Hussle
Yep. Thats womem, and I love it.
4:52😂😂😂😂:..IM AT THAT POINT WHERE I DONT KNOW WHAT TGE HELL IS GOING ON😂😂
She wants you to be fearless of death to protect the love you have for her, but she dont want you to steer away from your purpose for her…. Never allow your desire to be suppressed, but dont let her think you care about losing her…. She will test you to see if you slip away from your purpose, but she dumb and doesnt understand why a man should stay in his purpose…. Super contradicting bro.
It is not contradicting if you could think about it more. In my opinion
It reflects the wavy ness of female nature the point to be taken here is focus on the purpose keep being the man she was attracted to the first time you met up don't let her control you, show love but do so in the framework of Work first Bitches second
Yeah this is a middle schooler's idea of relationships.
This book have in Tamil language
17:23
22:14 🤌🏾🔥
I believe there's context missing.
Lesson 50: Men won't settle for other Men's bullshit, but women will agree with each other and strengthen their viewpoints.
This right here is the difference between Republicans and Democrats. Republicans won't get behind someone they disagree with, Democrats will band together and vote for anyone on their ticket regardless of their feelings for the person.
It's literally the exact opposite...
Scorpio male 😀 Finley some good 👍 shit! Wow took forever too find some good advice or quotes!🦂💥♏️👍💫♏️💥💥🦂
Who is this supposed to 'insinuate'. Is this the right word ;)
Is it fine for women who listen to or read this book and take the lesson to build themselves as a man??
we think so, though we believed that the book was written for men, some of the lessons seem applicable to women too
He also wrote a book for women I think.
What you wrote does not make any sense, thtats the first sign...
Yes, I have realized from personal experience and my acute self-awareness that I will often want more than one woman and she will want often want more than one man/ Conventional society unwisely glorifies monogamy and it is a tragic mistake/ Monogamy is egotism and that horrendous attitude will banefully impact on truthfulness, mutual trust, sincerity and unconditional true love/
Monogamy isn't "egotism". Stop trying to justify your hedonistic polyamorous desires.
"It's not her fault that she's bitchy and complaining " haha
Too much in there about women. Follow your purpose and keep in frame. She must fit with you all the rest will follow.
Seriously. A confident man that can comfortably wear pink, especially in the company of other men, is alpha as fuck.
You probably think a confident man can wear painted nails and make up and act like an EMOtional Soft Punk. Who asks queer then abuses women boy just stop that’s a CON MAN, a Down Low Man, A Bottom… Expressing his inner pink across the booty sweats
This sounds like a bunch of New Age woo woo wa wa
Better Late than never
For Someone who's been there done that who needs women. To much work. Plus the best company is your own. Or with your dog.
Where the f*ck has this book been all my life??!!!
❤
I need to know more about that orgasm technique...for science. 😁
This is more about women than men
wish I didnt had to learn some lessons the hard way...
Believe it or not the hard is best lesson in life, once you reach that success you have that story to tell to reach people that has that same struggle keep pushing
Pretty impossible for any man to go by all these 51 let alone even 25 principles. No wonder why Todays society is difficult for men.
Why?
Nothing is impossible. Start with a few or break them down into chunks and remember them
How is this impossible? Most of this is based on the foundation of self respect….
"women are not liars" 🤔🙄😂
Then right after he said something about them being liars.
Yeah, that is a ridiculous statement to make obviously. I think the intention was aimed at a deeper truth, which is that the feminine never lies as a collective.
Women lie because they can get away with it, and they can get away with it only because of the week men around them.
😂😂😂
Y’all don’t get that part
The author described a child in lesson 16 and called it feminine nature...
To implement all 51 of these lessons as a man of over 50 years old I feel you need to be at least 3 different people. No thanks it's easier to be alone and live your one true self.
You need to embrace the masculine. Which you're clearly not.
I “feel” “it’s easier” you sound like a women. No offense. But family and mastering relationships is worth it as a man. (Although not easy)
You do you. I will ALWAYS aspire to be a better man in any and every way
@@road_to_riches2000 respect to you sir, and all the best blessings to your life
Interesting, I'm 42 and am enjoying being single because it's a peaceful existence. I do what I want when I want. I guess this isn't all that uncommon.
Lol the Superior Man thing with a white fist ✊ makes me feel a little weary. Did you mean to do that.
Ejaculation turns women off??? that sounds weird
i mean long waited ejaculation
not Premature.
✊🏿👑✨🪶🪶🪶🪶🪶🪶🪶
I don’t care there is no shortage of masculinity in the world
Ok. A lot of this very hit or miss. With a lot of miss
This is hilarious
The lessons were right except the ones about women. Those lessons were some of the biggest simp mentalities I've ever heard.
Lol all the stuff about women. I'll just be single at this point.
The way of the Superior Simp 😂
He lost me when he started saying different races of women were hotter and cooler 😅
facts....especially if the author is a white western male with no first hand experience and understanding of different cultures of the world
@@almightyVIStill knows more than you ever will liberal.
#16 women are not liars........ummmm......he must've never been through this🤔. They're ruled by emotions so they react only to that moment which makes them liars 👈
Yikes...
Was this written by a Woman???
Seems so. Hyping them.
6:11 or how about you just rent/hire her services and send her on her way. No need to keep a depreciating commodity.
Or how about you develop enough charisma to attract a woman for FREE instead of having to open your wallet?
@leonrobinson8180 oh boy are you re tarded or what mon? First you have no pic or videos of who you are and what you stand for. Second no videos of these so called girls that you bagged for "free". So why should I cast pearls onto swine? Sure you may get it "free" by paying for dates or a couple of drinls and pretending to care about what she has to say in order to get laid. But just because you didn't pay money directly, doesn't mean you didn't pay. Time money and attention all have monetary value thus you pay regardless. You think drake and a bunch of other rich and famous don't pay? Lol they rap about it in their songs! "You got to fly them in first class" etc etc. Even when they do get it for "free" at a concert from some groupie , they paid in that they had to become super famous to get the status to get it for "free". But here is the thing. Those fee-males that give you a taste for "free " are hoping you are like most men and that you get addicted to her poo c. And why do you think that girl who took drakes condom out the garbage was trying to do? Get paid by getting pregnant and trapping drake into paying her lifestyle. So provide proof of these so called girls you have gotten for "free" and keep giving it for free or shut your dum azz bloodclot up!
Men should flirt with all women?
in the part of Men should always Polarize with women.
Really??