“Challenge yourself to find the good and beautiful thing inside of everyone. It’s there. It’s your job to find it. Not their job to show you.” - Mark Manson
I come back to this book every year. Read it when I first started learning how to date- and now I'm reading it as I'm going to propose to my girlfriend after 4 years of being together.
Summaries are good, but y'all should definitely read the book if you have a chance. I think what's most empowering about it is how Mark reminds us that it's okay to be us and to be attracted to women. Too many dudes suppress it, and will certainly regret it near the end of their lives.
True. Old men will say go for it son. But when you find the one… go it for. Because when your old. You won’t remember all the girls you had. You either remember the one you married or the one that got away. The end.
This book is so good, it makes me realize of too many wrong things that I was thinking about women, I now I understand why I was attracting women with bad personality.
It actually worked for me. I used to be afraid to look directly into people's eyes, but practicing on strangers was a very great way to learn. Only problem, sometimes it sparks great emotions. They either think that you are challenging them or they want to be your friend.
@@Randomusername382 The whole idea is to make a connection with a stranger through eye contact and a smile. You are not staring them down in a staring contest or challenging to a duel. It's more like, "hey, there, stranger, I'm happy to see you." You wanna spark positive and happy emotions between you and the stranger. Naturally, both of you are going to lock and keep eye contact until one of you break. If you keep practicing this, eventually you'll gain confidence and charm that will cause the other person to break eye contact, not because of you creeping them out, but because they are overwhelmed by your positivity. And then you will spark curiosity. They may even approach you and ask for your name. Well, that's all I know.
@@DwyaneWadeCounty only do it with girls its kinda bad to do it with guys i did it almost got stabbed and beaten up with girls it always works and aspakrs attraction true but with guys its always challenge
Also Remember: "The Percentage Of Woman Liking You Back Is Depending On How Many Rejection That You Have With Woman" Cause The Only Thing That Make A Loser Is That A Loser Didnt Failed Enough To Be A Winner.
I really recommend this book. It's pretty much the only book you will need (as the book even says haha). It's true. Authenticity is a big part in attracting women and enjoying this experience. Only other book you might need is No more mr nice guy, but that's only if you are really a push over with everyone. Even Mark Manson recommends it. Anyway trust me, don't stop at this summary, but really at least download an audio book. And no this is not endorsed.
@239 er It is also a nice book. It is definitely a nice addition to this one. No more mr nice guy I recommend reading/listening, only if you really need it The way of the superior man is nice to read after as well. But this book is really the fundamental.
shit book - Mark saw the pickup industry was tapped, so he did a copy/paste of stoicism philosophy and repackaged it with an "edgy" title for millenials who think uploading pics of them holding said book makes them "cool".
This book doesn't provide objective scientific evidence to refute the multiple studies that show physical appearance is the most, if not the sole, relevant factor. You have to be stupid, in order to believe money generates true sexual attraction.
@@AnandJ can you please elaborate more about this book ...i have its audio book by a very good naratter but i dont know if its worth my time .... Do it helps in my self improvement mission ??
@@sanpoudel997 Just like any self-improvement book, you have to do the work to see the results. I would suggest trying for yourself what you learn from this book in real life and seeing what works and what doesn't.
Mark Manson changed neediness to true confidence in the 2nd revision of Models. He changed it back to neediness in the 3rd revision and addressed why in the foreword.
Man you've improved your video style big time since the last time I've been here. I like the added sounds on transitions and the constant movement. Great job and awesome summary!
I love your videos man! Mark manson is truly amazing I have his website as my homepage and read one of his articles almost everyday! I’m loving these books summaries please keep on making more :)
usa pokerpro just trying to make money, why not? He consistently gets hundreds of thousands of views per video, even if he only gets 1% of the audience that's roughly 2000 to 5000 people and he might charge let's say $10 which makes him $20,000-$50,000. Not many channels consistently get hundreds of thousands of views. Got to give credit where it's due..
Honestly I'm not sure if a good self immage is really everything... here's why: if she let's say sees deficits in non verbal communication... she proably won't be able to trust a man's self immage either. That is the reason most guys DEMAND to see that they are capable enough before allowing themselves to truely not give a damn about other's opinions; it's because we otherwise risk social isolation if we empower ourselves with no apparent reason.
My main problem is that I'm on drugs and it's starting to show. I have convinced myself to never expect anything from anyone due to shitty past relationships. Why do I feel like I'm stuck in a neverending now, no regrets of the past, no anxiety or ambition for the future, and I'm not sure how I got here. Did I give too little fucks, or too many? Sometimes I think I am broke. For instance, there are times when I'll go almost an entire day without hearing any inner-dialogue or "thinking" to myself, it's like I'm flying on autopilot; I can stay like that until I actively make myself start thinking about something, or listening to a song, or whatever. It's peaceful, but I think I'm broken.
I hope you enjoyed the summary guys. Super excited about all the brand new content we will be releasing this year! To get Jon's program to help you attract your dream girl in 2019, go here: www.alphaevo.com If you have any feedback on how we can improve our videos, please let me know. Best, Brandon
P.S. This was a loooooong one. To read the 2 sections that were ommitted from this video to keep it under 10 minutes, you can visit the new blog to read the rest: percentbetter.com/models-mark-manson-summary
In most of the videos, there's a mention of "dominance". How do you dominate and make her listen to you when she, as a modern woman, is trying to dominate you?
reply my comment im a man from srilanka we most people in srilanka not that good in english will you give ur permission so that i can tranaslate your content to my mother language..so audiance in my country also can benifit..reply me pls
I’m in Bogota Colombia, I believe your channel is awesome, if you need any information or advice of how to move around in my country I can help you. Good job bro
This is good stuff, but that attractiveness of 31 and 21 is absolute bullshit. The young bulls out there don't want to be told that mid 40's guys own the game.
Nah, this makes me dislike it a lot less. Nothing fits in the view I was given as a child about relationships. I could argue that I hate everything about it.
I had a good thing going and I just what the heck I’ll read another book on dating, (I had read one already) and since I’ve read the book I’m to scared to even look in a woman’s eyes and I’m pretty sure I disgust them. Wtf happened
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“Challenge yourself to find the good and beautiful thing inside of everyone. It’s there. It’s your job to find it. Not their job to show you.” - Mark Manson
It's a little bit their job to show you, but being able to find it yourself is one way to become an exceptionally good person.
Easy to fall into the trap of rationalizing bullshit, word to the wise
I come back to this book every year. Read it when I first started learning how to date- and now I'm reading it as I'm going to propose to my girlfriend after 4 years of being together.
how did it go?
Marriage? Oh no.
Bro did you read another books? I am in the same place you were in the past
@@hopefulnurse9006 there are plenty of books to understand women and be a better man
Listen to the black phillip show if you havent
Patrice oneal is a genius
*Being defeated is often a temporary condition. Giving up is what makes it permanent...*
nah u still can come back
Becoming a stalker 101
Summaries are good, but y'all should definitely read the book if you have a chance. I think what's most empowering about it is how Mark reminds us that it's okay to be us and to be attracted to women. Too many dudes suppress it, and will certainly regret it near the end of their lives.
True. Old men will say go for it son. But when you find the one… go it for. Because when your old. You won’t remember all the girls you had. You either remember the one you married or the one that got away. The end.
This book is so good, it makes me realize of too many wrong things that I was thinking about women, I now I understand why I was attracting women with bad personality.
*Men do not attract that which they want, but that which they are! :)*
I don't attract anybody I must be non-existent
Because you say shit like that
@@anmolpatel793 Yep you are beacause thats what you think of yourself. How can anybody think better of you, if even you think you are non existent ?
What a "coincidence" that almost every single PUA that's trying to sell something was initially a "virgin who didn't know how to talk to women" ;)
Yea this guy has started just selling scams at this point.
@@ThePlatinumsquirrel almost every single one is just a copy of a copy of a copy of Ross Jeffries.
@@JustGabe who is Ross Jeffries?
more like owen cook.
@@vorstellung5428 he started pua only to be dominated by mystery later then comes Neil Strauss and then so on and so forth
"Maintain eye contact until they brake it" Nice tip-!
MotiveVideoBook *break
It actually worked for me. I used to be afraid to look directly into people's eyes, but practicing on strangers was a very great way to learn. Only problem, sometimes it sparks great emotions. They either think that you are challenging them or they want to be your friend.
Bruce Wayne how do you maintain eye contact without staring at them
@@Randomusername382 The whole idea is to make a connection with a stranger through eye contact and a smile. You are not staring them down in a staring contest or challenging to a duel. It's more like, "hey, there, stranger, I'm happy to see you." You wanna spark positive and happy emotions between you and the stranger. Naturally, both of you are going to lock and keep eye contact until one of you break. If you keep practicing this, eventually you'll gain confidence and charm that will cause the other person to break eye contact, not because of you creeping them out, but because they are overwhelmed by your positivity. And then you will spark curiosity. They may even approach you and ask for your name. Well, that's all I know.
@@DwyaneWadeCounty only do it with girls its kinda bad to do it with guys i did it almost got stabbed and beaten up with girls it always works and aspakrs attraction true but with guys its always challenge
This book transformed my game exponentially. If every guy applied the principles used in this book the world would crumble
Also Remember:
"The Percentage Of Woman Liking You Back Is Depending On How Many Rejection That You Have With Woman"
Cause The Only Thing That Make A Loser Is That A Loser Didnt Failed Enough To Be A Winner.
Read the damn book. This video isn't a good enough justification for what this books dictates.
No thanks Jeffrey
Lol
Thanks you so much bro. I read the whole book
Bro i dont have much money to buy it
@@zaynster3592 Read the ebook. I read it in epub.
I really recommend this book. It's pretty much the only book you will need (as the book even says haha). It's true. Authenticity is a big part in attracting women and enjoying this experience.
Only other book you might need is No more mr nice guy, but that's only if you are really a push over with everyone. Even Mark Manson recommends it.
Anyway trust me, don't stop at this summary, but really at least download an audio book. And no this is not endorsed.
@239 er It is also a nice book. It is definitely a nice addition to this one. No more mr nice guy I recommend reading/listening, only if you really need it
The way of the superior man is nice to read after as well. But this book is really the fundamental.
What do you think of The Alabaster Girl?
Mark Manson is the man ! I'm currently reading the art of not giving a F*ck
shit book - Mark saw the pickup industry was tapped, so he did a copy/paste of stoicism philosophy and repackaged it with an "edgy" title for millenials who think uploading pics of them holding said book makes them "cool".
@@carvedouttastone why bitter?
nothing to do with bitter, dickhead.
*cough* bitter
@@carvedouttastone the pickup industry is shit..that's why Mark held the reality in the book. Ur just a moron trying to sound smart
one of the strongest books I've ever read
I went from red pill bullshit to finding this book! I can't wait to buy this :)
red pill isn't bullshit, you probably went too deep down the rabbithole.
would you like to exchange 10 ebooks for $5
This is a great book not just about relationships but about life. Thanks for the summary refresher
:)
This book doesn't provide objective scientific evidence to refute the multiple studies that show physical appearance is the most, if not the sole, relevant factor.
You have to be stupid, in order to believe money generates true sexual attraction.
OMG I just finished listening to the audiobook this today! So many eye-opening insights.
Which Audiobook?
@@vorstellung5428 this exact one. Models by Mark Manson
Same here definitely a habit changer
@@AnandJ can you please elaborate more about this book ...i have its audio book by a very good naratter but i dont know if its worth my time ....
Do it helps in my self improvement mission ??
@@sanpoudel997 Just like any self-improvement book, you have to do the work to see the results. I would suggest trying for yourself what you learn from this book in real life and seeing what works and what doesn't.
I've read this book.... i dunno what to say to be honest. I feel "Attraction King" by Matt Birdy is a faar better book.
Been looking around for a book related to this
Is it truly better in your opinion?
I read Models. Fav book.
Amazing video Brandon. I read this a while ago and had forgotten all the concepts. I will need to re read the same again.
You didn't even bother talking about the main thing 😂 , insecurities & neediness
Mark Manson changed neediness to true confidence in the 2nd revision of Models. He changed it back to neediness in the 3rd revision and addressed why in the foreword.
Man you've improved your video style big time since the last time I've been here. I like the added sounds on transitions and the constant movement. Great job and awesome summary!
I hope this is a good book that helps you focus on yourself and not just girls.
I love your videos man! Mark manson is truly amazing I have his website as my homepage and read one of his articles almost everyday! I’m loving these books summaries please keep on making more :)
GOAT book, two words: life changing. I have a summary on a evernote file
Plz share friend.
Let’s see it
I thought it was Crime and Punishment
Would love to see man!
you should do more book reviews like this , we love it❤
6:15 It's because you're of European stock, not because you're from outside the country.
Do "The Brain that Changes itself" by Norman Doige!
Doidge* ;)
@@samdoidge1054 My Bad.
What's the book about?
One of the best videos you have, great work.
Damn, I searched this book yesterday and there was nothing. I did the same thing today and here we go. You never know !
I guess I read your mind :P
@@OnePercentBetter Possible, we are living in a high-tech world after all xD
this book changed my life
I lost it at about 00:25 when it started mentioning getting your "the girl of your dreams". Unicorns don't exist.
You into unicorns? 🦄🍑
Why do we have to go to your blog to hear something that should be in the video?
dude is trying to make some money ldo, cant blame him
usa pokerpro just trying to make money, why not? He consistently gets hundreds of thousands of views per video, even if he only gets 1% of the audience that's roughly 2000 to 5000 people and he might charge let's say $10 which makes him $20,000-$50,000.
Not many channels consistently get hundreds of thousands of views. Got to give credit where it's due..
to be honest its just practice and trial an error until your confidence grows and keeps growing to a point where you dont give a fuck
Great to see a book summary again👍🙂
I would say this is the only right video on dealing with girls all other pickup artist and stuff is simply a sign of a lower man
5:04 that art in the background thooo
thanks man for the lessons
Interest ends at 8:16
Best book ever
I took a course by Jon a while back and can attest the dude knows his shit
Ha-ha! I was looking for explaining videos about books and I find this. No, I do not want this to mess up the algorithm for me.
Everything is written for you since you were inside your moms womb. No worries about a thing
I’m watching this in Colombia. Nice reference to 12 rules for life’s 1st chapter.
Very well explained. Thanks for sharing it :) Great work.
Honestly I'm not sure if a good self immage is really everything... here's why: if she let's say sees deficits in non verbal communication... she proably won't be able to trust a man's self immage either. That is the reason most guys DEMAND to see that they are capable enough before allowing themselves to truely not give a damn about other's opinions; it's because we otherwise risk social isolation if we empower ourselves with no apparent reason.
Thanks
Bro,that chest voice worked bro😍
My main problem is that I'm on drugs and it's starting to show. I have convinced myself to never expect anything from anyone due to shitty past relationships. Why do I feel like I'm stuck in a neverending now, no regrets of the past, no anxiety or ambition for the future, and I'm not sure how I got here. Did I give too little fucks, or too many? Sometimes I think I am broke. For instance, there are times when I'll go almost an entire day without hearing any inner-dialogue or "thinking" to myself, it's like I'm flying on autopilot; I can stay like that until I actively make myself start thinking about something, or listening to a song, or whatever. It's peaceful, but I think I'm broken.
Find yourself & your purpose in life. THAT'S IT.
Is the software used in this video still videoscribe?
This kind of reminds me of rsd's modern products as of 2019.
love markmanson cant wait for his new book,thanks for this
You mean for 2020 yea okay 👌🏼 thanks
You can increase your attraction by going to another country. Bingo! Worked for me like a charm
Ur videos are on point bruh....
I hope you enjoyed the summary guys. Super excited about all the brand new content we will be releasing this year!
To get Jon's program to help you attract your dream girl in 2019, go here: www.alphaevo.com
If you have any feedback on how we can improve our videos, please let me know.
Best,
Brandon
P.S. This was a loooooong one. To read the 2 sections that were ommitted from this video to keep it under 10 minutes, you can visit the new blog to read the rest: percentbetter.com/models-mark-manson-summary
Great book, love some models!
In most of the videos, there's a mention of "dominance". How do you dominate and make her listen to you when she, as a modern woman, is trying to dominate you?
Don’t let her break you.
Challenge yourself to find in everyone the good and beautiful thing. This is there. It's up to you to find it. Their job isn't to show you.
At 6:43 ... How the hell you know my pickup line that I always use
Excellent tips
Why the mystery method was vanish in your account i like the summary
7:08 Jordan Peterson likes the video.
Nothing like the book
What software do you use to create these animations for youtube?
MOARR BOOK SUMMARIESSSS
Sweet graphics!
Classic jam
Oh no! The other two books look way more promising.
It’s 2020 should I get this book
reply my comment im a man from srilanka we most people in srilanka not that good in english will you give ur permission so that i can tranaslate your content to my mother language..so audiance in my country also can benifit..reply me pls
Man if its not a secret , wich software you are using for your videos .Regards
Hi I’m planning to start UA-cam channel which software are you using to make videos please let me know
Damn i agree with manson and me have same mentality toward women
Great video :)
What would be your top 5 books on seduction ? ( apart from the ones you've made book summaries of )
Nothing else really. All you need is 1-3 books on the subject.
Is this the same advice to get your wife back ?
Enjoyed the video
I wish I could have watched this video the year it was uploaded. But any way It's better late than never
perfect no need to read
Exotic is a strength? Try being asian-american in America with all the negative stereotypes...
Why can't I get access to the blog.. I tried and Nothing appeared
When you try to go to the channel he showed on his site here it says it’s unavailable
0:45 tony ferguson??
do Alan Roger Currie books
I’m in Bogota Colombia, I believe your channel is awesome, if you need any information or advice of how to move around in my country I can help you. Good job bro
This is good stuff, but that attractiveness of 31 and 21 is absolute bullshit. The young bulls out there don't want to be told that mid 40's guys own the game.
Search UA-cam for DENNIS System for an update of part of this model.
I think he forgot to mentioned that he was from a rich family, and he smoked weed with the rich people.
Who the author
might be the most realistic dating guide but its still BS , resaults tell it all you just dated women below your league and thats not a success
I cant find Mystery method summary video
I would encourage you not to casually use words like “pussy” or “slut”. It’s incredibly off putting and devalues the content.
Girls must know we peak around 31 because that’s when the girl I was supposed to marry left. 31st birthday.
Lmao that's dumb , how old was she
is this a scam, since the offer still stands but it says it is limited time
Fuckin amazing book summary🔥
Women create drama...Ask yourself why you want that? Better to create a life that inspires you.
I feel like you have to train your chest vocal
Nah, this makes me dislike it a lot less. Nothing fits in the view I was given as a child about relationships. I could argue that I hate everything about it.
I had a good thing going and I just what the heck I’ll read another book on dating, (I had read one already) and since I’ve read the book I’m to scared to even look in a woman’s eyes and I’m pretty sure I disgust them. Wtf happened
NICE VIDEO 👌🏻👌🏻🔥🔥
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Pray 🙏🏽 Father YAHuah, “What’s the MOST HELPFUL & SIMPLEST WAY that WORKS?”™ in YAHusha’s name, amein. HalleluYAH!
2:40 really jumped out