The Most SOUL-CRUSHING Thing You Have To Accept About The Narcissist

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  • Опубліковано 3 лис 2024

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  • @NarcSurvivor
    @NarcSurvivor  Місяць тому +4

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  • @KelliC-rn9lj
    @KelliC-rn9lj Місяць тому +5

    I don't depend on man for my blessings! God is my resource for everything

  • @YankeeTomato
    @YankeeTomato Місяць тому +2

    Absolutely 💯 so hard to wrap your head around for someone who's an adult is using you for basic things that they should already have in their lives. Why didn't I see it

  • @ritapeters1330
    @ritapeters1330 Місяць тому +4

    Very helpful video
    thank you Christopher ❤

    • @NarcSurvivor
      @NarcSurvivor  Місяць тому +1

      Glad it was helpful! If you need more support, you can book a call with me here - www.narcsurvivor.co.uk/book-online
      Donations are greatly appreciated, no matter how small - paypal.me/narcsurvivor

  • @lisamartinali4545
    @lisamartinali4545 Місяць тому +3

    Bless her cute 😍

  • @aneishasingletary4553
    @aneishasingletary4553 Місяць тому +1

    Wow Nala it's been so long she's so beautiful, I now have a black cat myself.😊

  • @nadinecooper4449
    @nadinecooper4449 Місяць тому +7

    I still struggle with the fact my own daughter is a narcissist and threw me away, taking me out out my grand childrens lives.

    • @joankuehn4479
      @joankuehn4479 Місяць тому +5

      My son is also narcissistic personality disorder and blames me for everything that happens

    • @joankuehn4479
      @joankuehn4479 Місяць тому +3

      Luckily no children.

    • @Dazz3881
      @Dazz3881 Місяць тому +3

      Me 2, never seen my Twin Grandchildren...

    • @Dazz3881
      @Dazz3881 Місяць тому

      @@joankuehn4479 Me 2

    • @joankuehn4479
      @joankuehn4479 Місяць тому +3

      @darylgreen3881 so sad I'm sorry 😞

  • @ritapeters1330
    @ritapeters1330 Місяць тому +2

    Heartbreaking video yet so true 💯 %

  • @ritapeters1330
    @ritapeters1330 Місяць тому +2

    Yes staying with them is self-harm, they are hyper-sensitive and tunnel minded

  • @ritapeters1330
    @ritapeters1330 Місяць тому +2

    True 💯 3rd time ghosting me for the wrong reason ...playing the victim ..I don't want him any more ..FA with plenty of covert traits ...no purpose to the relationship true 😢 thank you for your wisdom Christopher ❤ all true never gonna get better and in 1 3/4 yrs no real conversation😮 he was kind and nice to me, consistent and said thank you , no shouting or bad words but not validating me in a proper way, yes nearly lost myself .but I am on my way to heal thank you Christopher ❤ for your messages and your wisdom . They they are in the hamsterwheel, gaslight sometimes yes, he knows he cannot afford me yes psychologically emotionally mentally and cannot take care of me 💯

  • @lisamartinali4545
    @lisamartinali4545 Місяць тому +2

    I hv narcissistics at me around me all my life I'm totally done trusting nobody & enjoy my self love all the best to all of you dealing with narcissistic assholes who only think of their gratification

  • @ritapeters1330
    @ritapeters1330 Місяць тому +2

    Yes I KNOW ...I experienced this ALL soul-crashing 😢😢😢😢😢😢 I know 😭

  • @ritapeters1330
    @ritapeters1330 Місяць тому +2

    All is true money attention effort all got worse for me , got only little back ...things got worse for me ..I felt it, I was changing my character . Now I am back to my core, no accountabilty from him, no support, I felt abandoned when things went down,,...had no resources left ..yes . . 9th week of ghosting, all got worse for me I am back in my country now ..he nearly brought me into the ground 😢 not even checking in on me on how I am doing 😭

  • @TiitPriidik-t8n
    @TiitPriidik-t8n 10 днів тому

    I have also watched Rebecca Zung videos. Narcs made us feel worthless and afterwards we have to work extra to build our self esteem and self worth. I was in bed for 8 months after narc and still am because i have not built myself back up yet. I was in a narc relationship for years and i have no support. Your videos have been the greatest help for me. Thank you very much my friend.

  • @vickipacheco9787
    @vickipacheco9787 Місяць тому +1

    I had to come to the Realization that my covert narcissist huband of 25 yrs.is incapable of REAL LOVE. It froze my tears & grief for years. I divorced him when I found out he had a Mistress & probably other women, for many years.!!!
    He died of bone cancer.

  • @TiitPriidik-t8n
    @TiitPriidik-t8n 10 днів тому

    I agree with you my friend completely.

  • @ritapeters1330
    @ritapeters1330 Місяць тому +1

    He made me feel loved, the F/A traits maybe, covert in him withholding from time to time intimacy closeness ... he made me feel happy though being with him but most of the time it was about him 😢 although he was consistent
    🌱 Nala is so cute 🐈▪️

  • @ritapeters1330
    @ritapeters1330 Місяць тому +1

    Nala oh so sweet ❤

  • @ritapeters1330
    @ritapeters1330 Місяць тому +3

    I am no contact

  • @jermanelawrence7400
    @jermanelawrence7400 Місяць тому +3

    Each their own 🕯️ over 🫥, these entities Allow their vessels to be invaded occupied by supernatural entities 🕳️ energy

  • @theresahuk-vallarino6100
    @theresahuk-vallarino6100 Місяць тому +2

    WHY NOT? SLOW KILL MODE. LOVE WILL PUSH US OFF THE EARTH INTO HEAVEN. SPOKEN HERE BY WIDOW, SUICIDE SURVIVOR:: FAMILY LOSS. ONLY LOVE FOR SELF AND SERVICE TO THOSE IN NEED: CHILDREN, JOB, PRAYER FOR HUMANITY TO DO RIGHT. LET' US DO RIGHT FOR OUR GROWTH: EVOLVE TOWARD FREEDOM OUT OF SOMETHING WE ARE NOT HERE TO FIX! GOD MADE US PERFECT IN HIS IMAGE. :)
    THANKS CHRIS FOR NARC SURVIVOR.

  • @Renee-o9f
    @Renee-o9f Місяць тому

    I disagree, to my nothing is for nothing it's all on how you look at it, I've learned a lot about myself through the narssisist relationship, and and the end of it all I can still love still embrace , still trust , the narssisist made me wiser , I'm thankful for that! I did not chance my authentic self only made me wiser