I am struggling with the community work.
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- Опубліковано 14 жов 2024
- I am struggling with the community work.
I often struggle with communication with others, but I have an obligation in my community where I have to maintain specific relationships. This is the schizophrenic challenge.
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I was recommended your Miso Soup cooking video and I am really happy UA-cam did. You're doing great and I relate quite a lot to what you're saying. Keep up the good work :) (I've also subscribed)
You are doing just fine. I have trama to the brain. I can’t communicate well. People have to learn everyone is different but that’s ok.
Yes. That's true! You are insightful！
Thank you for the video, it feels good to relate to someone 😊
Thank you for watching！！
It takes time to build trust and relationships. Its just trying all the time. Being open and friendly helps. Do your best! Cheers
Thank you!! I agree with it!
Hi, Yutaka!:) When you say that people in the street react to you emotionally distantly, is because you do not make a formal emotional connection with them, first. Try, instead...to..Meet the person and establish an emotional connection, and then start to make a psychological connection, later
When meeting someone:
First, establish an emotional connection
Second ...and then might follow a psychological one...With ideas, or whatever words you humans use these days......
Yutaka, also, when meeting someone, you must always meet them neutrually, with a Blank Slate. emotionally, I am talking about, and then if they give you a notice that they are genuinely not nice people then to Hell they go, right?
Yes. You are right!! Thank you for your comment!!
As someone who was not diagnosed with any condition of the like, I often have issue communicating as well. For me, it's social anxiety and misreading or missing cues.
Also, in which position do you sleep? Back, side or stomach? Do you sleep on a futon or a bed? It may be that you have to adjust your posture slightly.
I sleep with a futon. Probably, it affects my sleep. Thank you for watching!
Sometimes it may be better to not speak to people.
A good way to show appreciation or kindness is to give things; objects. Offering bottles of water or food to people is generally well received.
Really enjoyed your use of the word "ostensibly". My father used precise words as well. For example, despite his difficulty in speaking, he might say "Son, God is very humorous!"
He would also love reading books.
Hopefully there are no women at the community meetings. Peace is found among men.
Your father was an intelligent and wise man. You have learned a lot from him! My community consists of mainly women but all they are friendly unless I am not assertive.
@@yutakawithschizophrenia do you agree with his last remark? He obviously detests women.
@@NahNah-xg5wv Men cause war, women don't
@NahNah-xg5wv. I have written a nice song for you. Here it goes: Nah nah ban-na-na-nah, Nah Nah ban-na=na-nah. I don't eat ban-na-nahs because I am a ban-na-na-nah!!! Accompanied by French accordion music. This song is for everyone in Yutaka san's channel to lighten the mood. Lets have more fun and dance the night a way to the lovely ban-na-na-nah song! 🤣🤣🤣
@@Gilbertineable Your response is immature, and pathetically predictable. Your psychosis is clearly not in control.
Maybe they're not irritated but just intimidated. You're very charismatic and manly. If I met you, I'd be very intimidated!
@@Thebraids Thank you!!!
You have a lot of cupboards in your home - are they all filled up with books? I love cupboards and I wish I had more.
@@Gilbertineable There are a few cupboards. They are Oshiire, a kind of closet!!
I liked your video a lot because i could relate it to it very well. And your English grammar and pronunciation were really good. You are learning more and more words that many UK people would not understand. I find it hard talking to people in a social situation because I'm worried that they might ask me difficult questions like 'do you have a job?' or 'why can't you work' etc. I'm very nervous meeting people for the first time and saying the wrong things. I sometimes make conversation with people in shops but often they look at me as if I am mad. I also have been know to cry in public because of anxiety but I found most people to be friendly and to offer me help. I have been told by family members only that I can be overbearing. This was a very good video and I enjoyed it. How often do you have to do community work? I would like something like that where I live.
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You are intelligent. You experienced a lot of things. You deserve respect. My community work is very small and not often.
Yutaka i want ask you how i can overcome depression, ive been stuck in my room for 8 months now
Are you Swiss? I ask because of the helvetica in your name. May be Yutaka hasn't seen your post yet. Try and get a simple routine going and make it a habit. Change the routine a bit every day. Force yourself to do something like sorting a cupboard out. It is a matter of force or just waiting for it to go - but it will. I had a depression that lasted about a year. Like you, I was mainly stuck in my bedroom looking at my blue wardrobe. The only things that kept me going were tea, coffee, chocolate, alcohol and cigarettes. If I didn't have these things I think I would have ended it. I'm not suggesting you take up drinking or smoking. I wasn't drinking vast amounts. There must be one thing you still enjoy? What about something you enjoyed before you became ill? Can you wean yourself back into enjoying that? Keep communicating with people. Tell people that you are suffering with depression. They will say 'it passes' and it does. If you have responded well to medication in the past then you should see a doctor. If you have agitated depression ask them a benzo to go with an antidepressant. Mirtazapine is good one - it's not an SSRI. It worked extremely quickly but unfortunately for me it caused unbearable restless legs after about a month so I had to come off it.
@@Gilbertineable thanks for the kind comment
@@helveticaneptune537 In my case, doing simple tasks could help improve my condition. The remedy is always simple for all those who suffer this challenge. First, do simple tasks such as reading books, writing journals, or doing your hobbies whatever you want to do. Second, don't deny your conditions or thoughts, even if those are negative. Third, it is very important, keep access to medical professionals. However, recovery from our challenges takes time. We can get better only through a gradual process. You need to keep your pace and not compare yourself to others. Thank you for watching!
@@helveticaneptune537 Thank you. Pleased to offer some advice. Depression is awful and unfortunately so common.