Probably suppressing and projecting the self deprecating fear that it was a day that YOU should or would regret. And ironically bringing the fear to fruition in the ways it was suppressed.
Great message. A narcissist who breaks stuff in the house is hard to deal with, but it's even harder to deal with their rage and all the colorful language that comes along. I can forgive the things what happened but i will never forgive the words that cut like a knife and were far below the belt. A tongue can do tremendous damage and is a razorsharp weapon. Nice video, thx
My ex narc, rage out and put holes in the walls and broke out windows!! I couldn't believe it, it was so horrible!! The things they do, leave such hard scars on you...mentally, physically, and emotionally!! To where you can never forget, but you can forgive!!
I hope you know, they were all lies and it was only transference. It was how they felt about themselves; not you. It’s the truth. Let it go. It’s not your load to carry.
too true i will never forget going to the bathroom and having my landlady tell me how fat my belly is, or the time she set a set of scales in front of me while watching the tv and told me to get on it and told me we were all going on a diet cos her son wanted to lose weight, i was the smallest in the house but yet she treated me as though i was the biggest. i still live with this and lots of other stuff she told me. :(
So true. I got called a bitch, I was annoying, I was called stupid. I was accused of ALWAYS LYING. When I wasn't. I was telling the TRUTH. I was gaslighted alot. I was told that I should feel bad of what I've done. And in reality I didn't do anything wrong! It makes me laugh my head off how I was told ALL these negative things like these! Because I don't have to worry about these negative things anymore! I went from TRAIL OF TEARS TO LAUGHING! But, I'm always careful! I don't EVER have to put up with narsissist ever again!!!!
Not sure if this coubts as a narcissist but reading these comments its similar to partners who accuse you of cheating when in reality they are the ones cheating and they usually want you to be the bad person first so if they get caught then they can use it as an excuse as to why.
What hurts is when you try to bring it back up to them and they say why are you trying to make me feel bad
Wow! Of all the narc videos I've watched, this is the one that hit home. Please continue bringing awareness. Be Blessed! ❤
Same🙋🏼♀️ I've been "researching" NPD for a while now and this is good
"I regret the day I married you" is the most hurtful comment I cannot shake after 5 years.
Probably suppressing and projecting the self deprecating fear that it was a day that YOU should or would regret. And ironically bringing the fear to fruition in the ways it was suppressed.
I can relate!! For me it was it was never a relationship or marriage, and we've been together 23 years!! They are so evil!!
They voice the exact words that should come from the mouth of the empath..
With frightening accuracy
I was "boring". Come to think of it, he was boring as f.
I have been called many things over my lifetime, but it never stopped me from living my life.
Spot on. They're so mentally ill, its sick and sad.
Great message. A narcissist who breaks stuff in the house is hard to deal with, but it's even harder to deal with their rage and all the colorful language that comes along. I can forgive the things what happened but i will never forgive the words that cut like a knife and were far below the belt. A tongue can do tremendous damage and is a razorsharp weapon. Nice video, thx
My ex narc, rage out and put holes in the walls and broke out windows!! I couldn't believe it, it was so horrible!! The things they do, leave such hard scars on you...mentally, physically, and emotionally!! To where you can never forget, but you can forgive!!
& they call you nasty names . They are just Nasty Cold & Sadistic
They wish….(rolls eyes)
PS - I agree about thinking of the damaging words years later. Some of his words will probably never leave me.
I hope you know, they were all lies and it was only transference. It was how they felt about themselves; not you. It’s the truth. Let it go. It’s not your load to carry.
Yes. He said he'd kill me. That was the day I left
It sure felt it was all me; not good enough or worthy. Add being an alcoholic to the mix isnt a good mix.
too true
i will never forget going to the bathroom and having my landlady tell me how fat my belly is, or the time she set a set of scales in front of me while watching the tv and told me to get on it and told me we were all going on a diet cos her son wanted to lose weight, i was the smallest in the house but yet she treated me as though i was the biggest. i still live with this and lots of other stuff she told me. :(
Interesting. Thank you, because someone close to me that I love very much does this to me. My whole life I have tried to figure out why
Thank you I needed to hear this today 😢
It's not great another thing they don't have to take responsibility for
So true. I got called a bitch, I was annoying, I was called stupid. I was accused of ALWAYS LYING. When I wasn't. I was telling the TRUTH. I was gaslighted alot. I was told that I should feel bad of what I've done. And in reality I didn't do anything wrong! It makes me laugh my head off how I was told ALL these negative things like these! Because I don't have to worry about these negative things anymore! I went from TRAIL OF TEARS TO LAUGHING! But, I'm always careful! I don't EVER have to put up with narsissist ever again!!!!
You are SOOOOOO right!👍👌✌️
That's interesting. I was told it was all about me!
Sad. Terrible projection of disturbing self loathing.
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Not sure if this coubts as a narcissist but reading these comments its similar to partners who accuse you of cheating when in reality they are the ones cheating and they usually want you to be the bad person first so if they get caught then they can use it as an excuse as to why.
My problem is I am dealing with one that claims to have bipolar.. how can You tell the difference?
It doesn’t really matter. What matters is how someone treats you. No one has the right to keep hurting you. It doesn’t matter why. You matter too.
That’s the god’s honest truth.