You’re the first specialist I’ve heard cite 2 years with no period should be considered menopause and appreciate that perspective so much. It’s not a one size fits all.
#7 This is me right now....so bloated, sore nipples and swollen breasts.I'm spotting and about to start my period. I've gotten no clots for at least a year now.It's getting better for me. I LOVE your videos.
Thank you for sharing this video ❤ I'm currently feeling alone in my experiences as a 34 & a half year old. It all started 2 years ago for me when I had a heavy flow for 2 weeks straight, I thought I was going to bleed to death. A Nurse told me not to worry, it's just due to my age. A Doctor said the same as my hormone levels were normal. I had an internal scan and was told I have a cyst on one of my ovaries. I'm now on a wait list to see a Gynecologist. I'm currently on day 9 of a heavy period after not having one for the past 2 months. My Mum struggled with her Perimenopause to the point she got a hysterectomy. I'm just hoping that what I'm going through is normal and that I'm going to be okay. I'm trying my best to self soothe and reduce my stress until I see my Gynecologist as I need treatment and answers.
Hope you get to see one soon! It may be a good idea to start a gentle iron tonic such as Floradix for a few weeks, if you're bleeding heavily, to avoid getting anaemia Best Wishes Eileen
Update: I have since seen a Dr and was prescribed Iron Pills, I have also seen a Gynecologist and am on another wait list to have keyhole surgery. In the meantime I am on a health buzz and have lost 20kg and my periods are currently semi-regular meaning I am getting them monthly but not on schedule yet.
@@missunderstood4246thanks for updating. Glad you’re doing better. It’s awful what us women have to go through sometimes. Is the surgery to remove the cyst?
Honestly your channel has been life saver the last couple of weeks have been so awful it felt like my body has given up constantly fight with it I’m so tired is this ever going end my husband thinks I’m just making this up and all in the head and just be lazy it’s frightening thankyou so much for helping us
If I had no period for a year and then they came back again, I would be very depressed about that. Sorry to the large number of women this happens to. I can't imagine.
Bummer😒...a 51yo female here and I have NONE of these symptoms. I only get exhausted approximately 2-3 days before my Very Regular Heavy period which lasts 5-7 days. I...AM...So...Ready...For...The...End 😮💨
Great news you don't have any of these symptoms! Hopefully it will be over soon. You can try cinnamon for the heavy periods. Take 1-3 teaspoons a day on the days you are bleeding (you can mix with water or food)
I just searching information for my come and go heavy clotting period this last year, and found this post is very informative and help. Thank you. At the moment i got a very heavy clotting period after 21 days ago got normal period. I will take cinnamon after this to relieve my condition.
Excellent information, as always. Thank you you are one of the most accurate persons talking about menopause, Much more expert than other medical specialists and "experts" on the subject.
Honestly A.vogel UK are number one.....all what they have explained so far, I have been experiencing them...but doctors keep telling me I am fine nothing is wrong with me......
37 days over from my last cycle. I am getting all the symptoms of a monthly period but no period. Blurry vision and then right after that dizziness. Not the nicest feeling. Thank you so much for all your tips and advise it really helps us understand our body and what to expect better.
I'm am 45 too and this year has been a crazy hormone Rollercoaster. I didn't get a period last month and I currently have cramping and bloating with little to no bleeding. The cramping is more consistent and a little worse than normal!
Very helpful thanks, I have been experiencing many of those “abnormal symptoms” and went to the doctor last week. Glad to know I’m not going crazy and it’s not just me! I got a pile of bloods done and have a scan tomorrow so we will see what happens, but at least the Dr is taking me seriously
My period just came back after 7 months of not having it. This is so strange. I pulled up this video as the first thing! I was hoping it would stay away...
@@AvogelCoUk Hi Eileen...funny thing, I just put my extra pads in a box to give to charity. I guess my period isn't done with me yet! The timing, 😆. Thanks for your help.
I am facing vertigo,sleeplessness,GI issues,bloating etc…you name it I have it. I know that these are perimenopause symptoms but really tired of this. My daily routine gets disturbed due to all this. Please keep giving suggestions on this. Although I exercise,do yoga Zumba,eat healthy but it doesn’t affect me.
Hi Neha You do seem to be experiencing a number of symptoms! Have you checked this with your doctor? Other health issues can often appear around the same time as the menopause and also cause similar symptoms. I would suggest a general blood work to see if anything else is going on. If all is well then acupuncture can often be effective so worth looking into Best Wishes Eileen
Excellent video, thank you. You explained peri better than anyone has. I had prolonged bleeding, along with irregular periods before hand, a couple of years ago and was diagnosed with simple endometrial hyperplasia without atypia. They tried to force me to get a mirena coil before diagnosis but I said no I'd make lifestyle changes, stop taking certain supplements etc. My 2nd biopsy came back the same, I saw a different Dr and he said there was nothing wrong with conservative care as long as I was happy. I had no symptoms btw, the irregular bleeding stopped just before the first biopsy and my period became regular just before the second. I'd started taking dim and put it down to that. Third biopsy came back all clear, the Dr I saw that time was amazing. The last biopsy came back as disordered proliferation of the endometrium. Again before the results the Dr was going on about the mirena. Surprise, the Dr suggested the mirena again. After researching this, it's basically nothing, I said no and my period remained regular until Dec last year. Had a very light and short bleed second week in Jan and I had a bleed last week, 7th of March. The bleeding again was relatively light and stopped for a day but I started bleeding again today. I'm wondering is it because I'd gone so long without a period and when it did come it wasn't heavy and that's why I'm bleeding. Could this be the case? My plan is to monitor it over the next few days to a week and if it hasn't stopped, I'll go to the Dr. I really don't want a mirena because any woman I've spoken to who's had one for gyne reasons, hasn't got on well with it. Fine for contraception though. If you've read this, thank you and I appreciate your advice
Hi Kirsty Periods coming and going like this is really common as you approach the menopause. Hormone levels at this time can fluctuate quite dramatically from day to day and this can cause very strange periods! However, you are wise in monitoring the length of this period, bleeding too long, even if it is light, can cause anaemia which you don't want. Best Wishes Eileen
Thank you soo very very much. You have explained my journey, and from your clarification, I can now explain to my doctor more clearly what is happening with me.God bless you and yours.
I think the carnivore diet has really helped me with this. I have been carnivore for 5 years which in my experience made my PMS vanish. Now at 51 my only symptom is shorter cycle, a bit hit amd miss.
Hi Jen Yes, protein needs often increase dramatically in the peri and menopause so increasing it in some way can be really beneficial! Best Wishes Eileen
Since middle school, I have been told my period problem is my age. Too young, too menstrual, too old. I was diagnosed with endometriosis at 27 via surgery. My endometrium is thick and biopsy was inconclusive, which apparently means I’m old. No one wants to treat endo and I am NOT getting an IUD. Not after a horrible birth, painful waste of a biopsy, bloody stools and kidney pain during menstruation, and pain from the age of 10. I’m done with gynecology. Besides, it’s not abnormal for me to be in pain and bleeding through pads and tampons together. I just invested in disposable undies so I can freaking go to work and I guess that’s the treatment for endo 🤷♀️.
I’m 48 and what’s been happening to me for almost a year now is the following: One regular monthly period Then some spotting about 15 days later after that period The following month no period no spotting, totally missed period Following month starts with light spotting almost as if I was ending a period then a few days later a full on period It’s so bizarre especially for me since I’ve always been regular and on the spot all of my life. Also I use to have horrible cramping and clotting and now that’s gone. No cramps or pain some clots but nothing like before. Have you ever spoken on things like feeling flat or kind of like life just isn’t the same at times? Seeing your children growing and needing you less a loss of interest or even desensitized to things? It’s tough because I feel like many of us with the current state of the world may be feeling these same feelings, old, young, male or female but I’d love to hear your thoughts as well as anyone else that would like to chime in. Thank you for all that you do o really appreciate you and your channel ♥️
I also use to get clots and heavy periods. Now, at 49.5 I never get clots. Everything is easier for me right now. I did have a horrible time with depression and wanting to die, but poof, that is gone now. Also, I'm an empty nester......11 days now. My last moved out and I am THRILLED! It's so much easier without anyone watching me. I love my new freedom.
@@Godisfirst21 thanks for sharing. I’m not close to empty nest yet my boys are 15 and 12 but they def need me a lot less and they want to do their own thing and think I’m annoying sometimes. LOL… I’m learning g to let go and allow them to experience what they need to but it can be tough at times. I had my boys late in life. Have a great day 🙏♥️
@@JanetElevating I had my last daughter at 28 and she needed me a lot. She really didn't enjoy doing much but hanging out with Mama bear. I strongly pushed for her to start working and getting her own place and it's truly been blissful these past 11 days. It's so quiet. It's so clean. For us, it was my daughter who had to learn to let go. Have a spectacular day! I look forward to the day we never get a period....ever again.
Hi J J Falling hormones can affect our emotions very deeply giving rise to feelings of disquiet, despair, feeling lost, not knowing who we are anymore or where we are in the world. It can also affect our ‘feelings’ for other people and we can end up reviewing our relationships in a different light. In general terms our hormone oestrogen keeps us connected to our family and loved ones and as this falls we can feel very insecure about our role in life in regards to others but also for ourselves and this can often cause confusion. The most important thing here is to realise that this is a phase or part of the menopause that you go through but it does end! I have also posted a couple of blogs on these emotional issues so hope they help! www.avogel.co.uk/health/menopause/videos/lost-your-motivation-wheres-it-went-and-how-to-get-it-back/ www.avogel.co.uk/health/menopause/videos/who-am-i-now/ Best Wishes Eileen
I hope you are still replying to comments. I see a ton of information about heavy periods but almost nothing regarding periods that have become lighter, black in color, and combined with bizarre bleeding patterns. Like two weeks a few months then back to one week a few months. Never heavy. Almost not there. Do you have information on this? Is this normal perimenopause symptom? Does it mean thicker uterine lining? Too much progesterone?
Hi This kind of scenario is quite common; for some women periods get lighter and further apart and dark/black blood often indicates that the womb lining has been sitting for quite a while. However, this could be caused by a number of factors so it is wise to get this checked by your doctor just to rule out issues such as fibroids.
A routine scan about 10 years ago found that I had fibroids and they hadn’t been a problem until, I was prescribed HRT. I’ve recently turned 50 and I’ve had severe Rheumatoid Arthritis since age 9 years. I was prescribed HRT by my GP over the first lockdown to see if it helped with some RA symptoms I was experiencing and it made me so poorly. I was bleeding so heavy every month, then every couple of weeks to the point where I began wearing incontinence pads to contain the leakage. After changing GP, I was referred to a gynaecologist who strongly advised that I stop the HRT as the oestrogen part was apparently feeding the fibroids, hence the bleeding. I’ve been HRT free for a year and everything has calmed right down. I have decided that as far as peri menopause goes, I’ll be managing it as naturally as possible, this is where Eileen’s advice has been absolutely vital. I have also found that my RA has improved. Thank you Eileen, I don’t know what I’d do without you. xx
BEing on oestrogens during menopuase is not a good idea for many women, progesterone alone can help better. I have fibroids, one was removed because being clear of any HRT therapy or other medicines or suplements it was causing lot of bleeding, but after being removed and because I was with perimenopause symthoms really ugly (still) it is incredible that no doctor never told me that being on estrogens can worse my condition, and two of them gave me to calm symthoms the oestrogen, progesterone and testosterone in low dosis but it caused me lot of worse symthoms and constant bleeding (less than before fibroids but constant and when period came was a haevy bleeding), so in short: I was the one (with lot of reading and observing) that realized that estrogens were not a good idea for me and only progesterone can help me with some symthoms and that was true. Women with fibroids issues never have to take estrogens during perimenopuase because the problem are dominance of estrogen that is causing the fibroids, maybe when you have years in the menopause can be of help but I believe that even during menopause estrogens can cause bleedings when women have this kind problems. All is test and error but having the correct information and the right doctor giving you advice everything can even easy.
@@tayuniverso23Thank you so much for your insight! I'm in shock that so many doctors don't know what to do and we have to get through so many to find answers ourselves. How do you feel now? What kind of progesteron did you take and for which symptoms was it helpful?
Very useful thank you. I am 53, in perimenopause, spotting around day 14 and 15 every month. Usually for a week to 10 days. Sometimes fresh, sometimes old. I figured it was probably normal but it’s good to know. I’m assuming this is around the time I used to ovulate, it seems to be anyway.
@@AvogelCoUk I did check with my gynecologist, and an endometrial biopsy found “atypical endometrial hyperplasia”, which has a 8 to 40% chance of already having endometrial cancer. I was strongly recommended to have a full hysterectomy. It was very difficult to stand up for myself, but I asked for further investigation first. I didn’t want such a major, invasive surgery if it wasn’t really necessary. My gynecologist agreed to do a hysteroscopy with D&C. 90% of my uterus lining was removed and biopsied. This time the result was no cancer, no atypical cells, not even any pre-cancerous cells. He couldn’t understand what had changed in one month from the first endometrial biopsy in-office, to the second under anesthesia. He said this was a first in his 30 year career, but this is partially because nobody has ever gone against his recommendations before. So I’m sharing this to hopefully let other women know - get a second opinion, listen to your gut, and most of all don’t be afraid to ask for further testing before invasive surgeries. It’s very difficult in the face of the scary prognosis and recommendations, but I really feel like I did the right thing for me. I will need an endometrial biopsy in-office, once every three months for a year or two. They are painful, I can understand why some women might get the hysterectomy instead. But this is the right decision for me. Now everything is back to normal, just the spotting I mentioned originally mid-cycle.
Do you bleed heavy when your cycle comes ? I was spotting but now in been bleeding heavy for 9 days now did your body do this I'm 51 .I have no mother or sisters to ask
I’ve got prolapse and fibroids……I have spotting here and there and my bleeding is very erratic, I had a scan when all this happened last year and all was fine so I’m not sure what else they would do ?
I have a period last two months ago but until now I don’t have it.I’m getting 42 yrs old on September. I’m already getting depression for this why my menstruation is not coming. Like right now I taught I’m gonna have it because I have a light blood but its just gone.
I'm perimenopausal. I can't get my period to stop, right now. Last month, I only had pink at wiping for three days. So, I figured I was making up for it, this month. I know to eat for my hormones, but I can't find an answer to whether if I need more progesterone or estrogen to stop the bleeding. Any advice? I do have tiny fibroids and pcos, and I'm not concerned it's any medical condition, but hormonal imbalance causing it. It just don't know which hormone has to increase to stop the bleeding.
Hi Caroline Unfortunately, it can be difficult to tell which hormone may be triggering periods as high oestrogen can do this but so can falling oestrogen! At this point hormone levels can fluctuate quite dramatically from day to day making it very difficult to see what's actually going on. However, fibroids usually indicate high oestrogen/low progesterone so that could be a factor. If the bleeding doesn't stop, it is wise to see your doctor as they may be able to give you non hormonal medication to ease/stop the bleeding; if it continues there is the possibility of ending up anaemic which isn't good for you. Best Wishes Eileen
Hi, thank you very much for your video! I'm 45 going 46 next month. Having periods twice a month for three months now and several days of spotting in between. Extreme irritation, sadness and moodness and my chest feels like it's going to explode. Doctors here want to prescribe anti-depressants but the possible symptoms are very scary. I'm not depressed, I have depressing moments. Hormones all over the place. Anything I could take? It's pretty much a disabler for me having to function socially and go to work...
Hi Erica Even having a couple of periods close together can quickly cause anaemia which, in turn, can trigger fatigue, low mood/anxiety, poor sleep and even joint aches and pains so it may be a good idea to take a gentle iron tonic, if your doctor hasn't already recommended one. If you are in the UK or Ireland, I would recommend Floradix which you can get at most heath shops and pharmacies. Acupuncture can often be helpful in this kind of scenario so worth looking into. Best Wishes Eileen
9 months with no period, then a normal flow/length one, then 4 months of no period, then a very light patchy one. Sooooo confusing and unpredictable. Horrendous bloating suddenly too. Off to the homoeopath today!
Thank you so much for this very informative video..I am 43, never got pregnant, always had dysmenorrhea but at age 40 I noticed that pain was more tolerable or no pain at all. Started menstruating at age 13. I have been having my period for 4 wks now, during the 1st wk, 2nd and 4th its only spotting but on the second it was very heavy and lots of blood clots, had to change tampon and pads every 2 hrs or so. And now, i am having dull ache on my lower back 24 hrs a day for 3 days now, very irritable as well, had palpitations once last month that was very scary. I am new to all of these, I thought it maybe all due to perimenopause. Now, I am convince that I have to go and see my dr very soon.
Hi Margs, This sounds like perimenopause flooding but definitely good to get checked with te doctor whenever you have excessive bleeding. Cinnamon can help with heavy bleeding, you can take 1 tablespoon 3 times a day while you are bleeding. You can also try Agnus castus as an ongoing remedy to help balance your hormones. I would recommend a gentle iron supplement like Fluorodix too to help restore iron levels after such a heavy bleed. I hope this helps! If you need any more support you can email us at enquiries@avogel.co.uk
Hi! Thank you so much for the information! I'm 35 and going through "Premature Menopause"--there's a history of it in my family--with women finishing completely before 40. I'm just beginning the "skipping" period stage--any advice that applies specifically to women in my situation or is everything still the same as "traditional" menopause? Great video!
Hi Lorie Yes, you can follow the same advice which should, hopefully, help just as well. However, starting the menopause younger means that you need to take extra care with bone and heart health Best Wishes Eileen
Yes all the worse you say it happens to me. I haven't been to the doctor this year because last time I went she told me it was normal and wasn't interested in lessening to me 😢, I'm so tired and upset but I just hope this will pass soon.
I have been experiencing symptoms like a period coming, but now I’m feeling pms low back pain, heavy breasts, and tears…Currently, this cycle is 70 days or so. I really feel like a period is coming in the next few days.
Yes, this can happen in this way for some women, maybe only getting a period every few months for a while before they stop for good. Best Wishes Eileen
I’m fun 47 and I had a light cycle the.n been spotting. Like the light blood at wiping 😂😂😂. With cramps. Unreal I know I’m ok. Just staying calm. Taking my natural Stuff. The heavy stuff I used shepherds purse
I always had regular periods but last one was start of January and seem to have had pmt for 4 months with frequent period pain and bloating but no relief..oh the joys ❤
Magnesium can often be really helpful for period pain, approx 200mg twice a day, but if symptoms continue or get worse, it is really important to check with your doctor. Continual bloating can indicate other issues such as fibroids, cysts/polyps or even a prolapse Best Wishes Eileen
I am 45 years old. My periods have been normal my whole life until about a year ago. they changed to heavy on time but heavy. Then they changed again to light only lasting max 4 days with the fourth day only having small amount of blood when wipping. That lasted a few months followed by light but being a few days to a week late and then a few days early. This month is scarring me because I am on day 7. First 2 days were pretty normal flows then got heavy and yesterday and today it is slowing down but has not stopped. I am also having some cramping and I am getting easily angry. I have also been having some sweating at night even though I have two fans and A/C set at 68 degrees. I do plan to make an appoint with an OBGYN.
Hi This kind of scenario where periods start to tail off then come back heavier or longer is really common as you approach the menopause and usually nothing to worry about. However, it is always wise to double check with your doctor. Hope all goes well for you Best Wishes Eileen
My periods were regular every 27-28 days , then at the age of 28-30 ( I don't remeber the exact time) they changed to every 24 days. Now my average cycle is 25 days ( for more than 5 years) I am 39 now.What concerns me that I am having severe hot flushes for more than a month now. Periods still more or less regular, no change in bleeding pattern or amount, almost no other symptoms of perimenopause.But as I know that hot flushes are symptoms of late perimenopause, I wonder if the change in cycle length was the first sign of perimenopause, that happened too early in my life.
Hi Mona It is possible that you started the perimenopause then but this is quite rare to be so young. Flushes and sweats can be caused by so many other health issues such as overactive thyroid function, ongoing stress, vitamin D or B12 deficiency or even diabetes, so the best thing to do is see your doctor. They can test for these just to rule them out and maybe do a sex hormone test to see if you are perimenopausal Best Wishes Eileen
I had my period again in 2 weeks, I am 48 and going through perimenopause for 8 years now...but never had such a short cycle. I have uterine fibroids and they had been largely silent so far...I am calling my gynae. Very distressed.
Hi If it keeps going like this without stopping for a month, it is wise just to check with your doctor to rule out issues such as fibroids, polyps/cysts or a prolapse! Best Wishes Eileen
Last year I missed three then had three then missed three. So far this year missed January had in February missed march but think it's about to appear in April. I am lucky tend to be light and only last at most three days.
Hi Sarah Unfortunately, for some women getting to the menopause can be quite a drawn out phase! Hopefully, they will stop for good soon! Best Wishes Eileen
Unusual for me but my period is very irregular I was getting longer gaps between periods but I’ve had 2 in February just 20 days apart followed by 13 days apart. Hoping it’s just perimenopause. If it keeps happening so frequently I’ll see the GP.
Hi Jodi This kind of scenario is common on the approach to the menopause but frequent/heavy periods are not good for you and can cause anaemia. It is best to get this checked by your doctor, they may be able to give you something to slow down the bleeding and also check that other issues such as fibroids, polyps/cysts or a prolapse and not a contributory factor Best Wishes Eileen
One just has to get checked if it becomes to worrisome or has more symptoms along with the bleeding. I went for some peace of mind. Stress can do crazy things to your body.
I started having some night uterine cramps around 7 days before my period starts and these cramps wake me up at times. would you be able to recommend any natural remedies to ease these cramps? Thank you for your videos, I find them very informative and interesting!
Hi Kassiato Magnesium can often be helpful for cramps, approx 200mg twice a day. Dehydration can be a factor too so remember to drink plenty of plain water too! You could also add in the herb Agnus castus as this is recommended for PMS symptoms in the perimenopause. Great to hear that you find the vlogs helpful, thank you! Best Wishes Eileen
@@AvogelCoUk Thank you so much for a quick reply! I have only just found your videos and really appreciate that you are doing them! I must say the way you explain different topics is easy to comprehend, full of practical tips and concise knowledge. I really feel like I get my questions answered here. Listening to you is a pleasure, thank you again!
I am 40 years old this month I haven't experienced breast tenderness but I'm on day 3 of my period and I'm still bleeding heavily and having really bad cramps I've been eating a lot and drinking more diet soda the day before my period started I had a whole a#$ meltdown over something so little I have been having issues with anxiety and stress I used to pass large blood clots when I've been on my monthly now I don't pass them on my period I have always gotten really tired during my period I get hot and cold flashes I have had a period for 9 days a couple of times I have a female exam coming up
Hi Jodi It is a good idea to mention these periods to your doctor or nurse. There can be a number of causes such as fibroids or polyps or cysts as well as possibly approaching the perimenopause so a proper diagnosis is needed first to determine the best treatment. Best Wishes Eileen
I have regular periods, except that I am feeling dysmenorrhea most of the time eve without period. Than I will have spotting thick discharge with blood. My pain is minimal, it's like when I am going to have period but I am not. Than I get bloated. I am also gaining weight. I admit I don't exercise and I am stuck in my house. I will start to shift back to healthy meal and stop my junks and my sugar again. I had so much sodas and junks. Oil and so much carbs. I will try to eat healthy and small meals next year and try my best to exercise again.
Wishing you well in your endeavours Imelda, so many women tell us that by just changing a few things such as improving diet and exercising more has made such a big difference to their lives so it's worth doing! Best Wishes Eileen
I'm going to be 43 next month and I had a period super early last month then stopped bleeding for a week then started bleeding again. I'm going to call my gyn to get checked out.
Thank you. I'm 46. I missed January of this year. Had one extremely heavy clotty cycle a couple of months prior. Besides that cycle, the rest of that year were on time, slightly shorter & lighter. In February, heavy heavy 4 day cycle, followed by one day of light flow. About 20 days into the next cycle, I woke up to a full period. That only lasted until the evening. A couple of days later, I was spotting. This morning, huge clots do not have much blood. The clots are an inch wide and 4 inches long. I have IBS, and the Dr thinks I have cyctis as well. Is this normal? I'm going to make a Dr appointment. What tests should I ask for and what questions? I've always had pelvic pain. My obgyn retired. He was great. My last obgyn told me it was mental. I am a rape/ sexual abuse survivor. I went through a time period when I had heavy bleeding a couple of years ago. I got an IUD. It helped, but it made me gain a lot of weight. I no longer have it & stopped gaining weight. I also have a large ovarian cyst 2 years ago. It burst, but my CA125 was slightly elevated. I was on the last day of my cycle for that blood draw. I had 2 ultrasounds at that time, and the cyst did get smaller. It was a very scary experience, and I'm always scared about ovarian cancer now. I live in America, and our healthcare system is for profit, and it shows. Can you help ease my anxiety. Thank you.
Hi V Erratic periods, spotting and clots are quite common as periods change towards the menopause. However, it is wise to get a check up with your doctor as well. Other issues such as fibroids, polyps/cysts or even a prolapse can occur at this time as well (also really common!) so your doctor can make sure that these are not a factor. Hoping all goes well for you! Best Wishes Eileen
So it's also possible to start perimenopause with regular periods and after a couple (or more) years they become irregular? I'm trying to find out when my perimenopause started as I already noticed mental and hair changes about 3/4 years before the irregular periods and other symptoms started. (irregular started 2017/2018)
Yes, this is a really common scenario! That was me; looking back I could see menopause symptoms ( irritability, mood swings, wanting to be alone!) occurring but my periods were completely normal all the time! Best Wishes Eileen
Yes!! Oh wow, you've been through a similar journey! It's funny (not really though) that I couldn't wait for perimenopause to begin because I wanted to be done with pmdd so badly and thought nothing could be worse than that, but in hindsight I realized that I already was in perimenopause and it was because of perimenopause that my pms/pmdd had become really heavy!! Thank god that's fading now. Thank you so much for answering and for your videos. I found your channel yesterday 💗
i spotted for 2 weeks then this week in bleeding heavy. I had sore breast .. Im starting to get worried..and i have no health insurance. im so scared of the cost all this will require
There are lots of free and cheap tips on my page here! For heavy bleeding you can use cinnamon powder - a teaspoon of the powder 3 times a day while you are bleeding. Drinking enough water and getting enough rest and sleep also really helps perimenopause symptoms. Eating 2 tablespoons of ground flaxseeds every day also really helps hormonal symptoms like sore breasts. I hope this helps!
Thanks for this video, am having breathing difficulty but not hypertensive, have gone through series of heart check, nothing wrong, this ashama like symptoms is terrible
Why not try a supplement called Sea Buckthorn Oil capsules, these are supposed to be very helpful for the lungs and don't forget to drink lots of plain water every day as dehydration is a major trigger with this too! Best Wishes Eileen
My periods got closer together, my last two periods extremely painful to the point I couldn’t stand up straight, my period this month is further apart with no pain at all, but carnt find any information about peri menopause period symptoms for no period pain
Hi If you're getting a period without any pain, then that is good news! It just may mean that your hormonal changes at the moment are more balanced so that will result in an easier journey for you Best Wishes Eileen
Hi Chandal This is a difficult question to answer as it is different for every woman. We do know that a small number of women have a late menopause, even up to the age of 59-60 but if you are worried at all then please do speak to your doctor. Best Wishes Eileen
@@chandaibalkaran8870 you are considered safe from pregnancy after two years without periods so it is wise to still use contraceptive until that point.
My mom’s periods stopped in January She face serious cramps in march and just had spotting for 2 days which was veryyy light in color But she said it was period just not the same color Like pale pinkish Is that normal? She was diagnosed with Fibroids in October after vaginal ultrasound with proper uterine Biopsy and blood works
Hi In the perimenopause, periods can come and go like this for quite a while for some women, so this is often nothing to worry about. However, fibroids can also affect periods so it is good that she is getting medical attention Best Wishes Eileen
mine have been jumping 38 days then to a 25 to 26 then now 43 day and instead of a period this month im just spotting very little when wipe im on day 35 no period just this spotting and the worse hot flushes is the spotting instead of a period normal
Hi This is quite a common scenario as you approach the menopause and spotting can often replace a proper period. However, spotting can sometimes indicate the appearance of fibroids (which is common as well) so best to get this checked too. Best Wishes Eileen
Hi I had a uterine polyp removed 3 months ago. At first very light bleeding. Then a few months later some light spotting. All good. 3rd month later 2 days of heavy bleeding soaking through tampons every few hours. Just had an ultrasound yesterday but I am so worried. Why am I bleeding heavy 3 months after uterine surgery for polyp? I am 49. Guess Im confused just because you had a polyp removed but are in perimenopause, do periods still act irregular despite polyp removed in your peri menopause years vs. someone younger who had a polyp removed? What's happening to me?
Hi Jennie There is a method taking your daily temperature to see if you're ovulating but I don't know if this would be accurate in the perimenopause, maybe have a Google for more info. Otherwise you would probably need to speak to your doctor to see about hormone testing Best Wishes Eileen
39 is still a little young to be approaching the menopause but it can happen especially if other close female relatives started around the same age. Stress and anxiety can often trigger menopause-like symptoms such as flushes/sweats and check that your doctor also tested you for vitamin D and B12 deficiency, anaemia and thyroid function as these can cause similar symptoms too Best Wishes Eileen
Thank you for knowledgeble video.I having periods in every 15 days .dr put me on harmonal medicines. Is it safe to take harmonal medicine in long run .pls ans my query.
Hi Sarla Unfortunatley, we can't give safety advice on prescribed medications, sorry, only your doctor, pharmacist or nurse can do this. If you are worried, please do get back in touch with your doctor and ask them to explain about the medication in more detail to put your mind at rest. Best Wishes Eileen
I am 49 years old this month i had a late period, so for three days i was getting spotting which was normal days but it started to come and it very heavy and in the second week there leaking no pain no light head just don't know when it will stop to visit the doctor
Hi Wendy If bleeding is going on for this long, it's important to see your doctor. They may be able to give you something to stop the bleeding and also check that other issues such as fibroids, polyps/cysts or even a prolapse are not contributory factors. Best Wishes Eileen
Hi Mary Prolonged periods are quite common on the approach to the menopause but they are not good for you and could quickly cause anaemia. It is wise to see your doctor; they can also check that other issues such as fibroids, polyps/cysts or a prolapse are not contributing to the bleeding. Best Wishes Eileen
Hi Periods can change a lot in the perimenopause but if you're bleeding for more than 7 days or spotting ongoing then it is important to check with your doctor. They may be able to give you something to sort this and also check that other issues such as fibroids, polyps/cysts or even a prolapse aren't a contributory factor. Best Wishes Eileen
Thank you so much for making your videos. I'm 46 years old I do not want to become pregnant. I had my tubes cut tied and burn when I was 25 years old. A long time ago I had painful periods that lasted 14 days every month so I was put on birth control pills Levonorgestrel and Ethinyl Estradiol. I had periods every 3 months that lasted 7 days. For about 2 years I have a period every 3 months that last 3 days. I use a condom every time I have sex. Is pregnancy a possibility for me ???? Thank you so much
Hi Cheryl This seems to be a standard answer, but if you are worried then please speak to your doctor Can you get pregnant with your tubes tied? Tubal ligation is one of the most effective ways to prevent pregnancy, with rates of pregnancy around 1/1,000 after the first year, and between 2-10/1,000 after five years. Although the possibility of becoming pregnant is low, the chance is still there.
Crap ….. I do get just heavy period for few days but my problem is I’m spotting like u said Injave kaube 2 weeks 10-12 days w not a drop of blood but inbetwen I have signs spot for 1 week or so then I will have a real period and I know it’s a real period because I willl bleee heavy for about 3 days as I’d that’s really my real periods then I’d still spot bleed 🩸 for l some time omfg I’m nervous and if I have fabroods etc I want them out I wanna have a baby I’m 37 I have no husband but one day ❤ yea I’m sad
Hi Please do get this checked by your doctor for a proper diagnosis. There can be so many reasons for this kind of bleeding, so once you know what's causing it, it will be so much easier to treat. Best Wishes Eileen
I miss two months period then it comes back it has been 6 days now and it doesn't seems to be slowing down can I go on birth control to control how long my period last?
Hi Patrina If this period doesn't stop then, yes, it's a good idea to see your doctor. They can advise as to whether going on the Pill would be helpful for you. Best Wishes Eileen
My doctor is no help at all I’m 46 and for about a year now I’ve had periods that smell so bad that I can’t stand next to anyone as it’s so strong even coming out of a shower as soon as the blood comes out it smells like a rotten meat truck I really don’t know what to do antibiotics haven’t helped I’ve tried them numerous times Does anyone have any advice please? I’m 46 and this has been happening for over a year
Wow Ava, that's a long time to put up with this! I would ask to see another doctor for a second opinion; this should really be investigated further. Best Wishes Eileen
Hi... 42 years old ... bleeding since 18 days ... sometime spotting and sometimes normal bleeding ... its not too heavy at any point ... last time it was also spotting and not normal flow ... you think this is perimenopause
Changes in periods is often an indication that you're approaching the menopause but prolonged periods can be caused by other issues such as fibroids so it is important to get a check with your doctor first. Best Wishes Eileen
@@AvogelCoUk Thanks ... but i am taking anti biotic for some other problem and my periods seems to have subsided after like 20 days ... could it be any kind of infection or antibiotic affects periods? also the same happened 1.5 years ago when i took covid booster ... and this is spotting .... sometimes bleeding happens but mostly spotting ...
@@royalzboutique1 Your pharmacist should be able to tell you if the type of antibiotic you're taking has an effect on periods, unfortunatley, we can't give advice on prescribed medications, sorry. We do know that many things can upset the monthly cycle including some medications and shots
That's a lot! It is important to see your doctor if you are bleeding excessively, but you can try some cinnamon to help ease the bleeding. You can take 3 teaspoons of cinnamon throughout mixed with food or water for the days you are bleeding. You can also take our Agnus castus tincture - you take this one every day of your cycle and it is more slow acting over a few months but it is great if you are prone to heavy periods at every cycle. www.avogel.co.uk/herbal-remedies/agnus-castus/ I would also suggest taking a gentle iron supplement like Flourodix to help avoid anaemia. I hope this helps!
I had a heavy period first 4 days then light bleed that lasted 16 days and ive not had a period or bleeding for 30 days, totally confused as to whats going on if im at last stage of peri or something else going my pap smear was fine im 48
Hi Periods changing like this often indicate the perimenopause and you would really need to wait and see if you get any more periods. If not, then that would be the menopause. Best Wishes Eileen
Hello thank you so much for his video ❤ I will be 40 soon and I have endometriosis I’ve been trough lots of stress last month and got my second period bc of the stress otherwise normally my cycle is 5 days long 28 days very regular but I blame that second period on stress as it happened to me before the problem is that the second period doesn’t stop it’s not heavy but bright red and steady it doesn’t go away 😢I’m on day 13 tomorrow will go to see doctor it’s strange bc my breast are very sensitive still I was ignoring it bc i thought it’s bc of the endometriosis Do you think it could be start of menopause? ❤❤❤sending love
You're still a little young to be approaching the menopause although it can happen, especially, if other close female relatives started around the same age. Prolonged bleeding can be caused by a number of issues such as fibroids, polyps/cysts as well as endometriosis so your doctor should be able to make a proper diagnosis for you and offer the best treatment, if any is needed Best Wishes Eileen
Thank you so much for your help ❤I went to emergency here in UK - they did normal examination and no scan bc my blood said I’m not aenamic yet so that probably doesn’t make me emergency case and the doctor said the worst scenario it could be cancer or endometriosis but mostly stress yes that’s how insensitive she was I mean I had amazing cycle all year They gave me Tranexamic acid 3 times per day 2 tablets - when I saw the side effects I decided to not to take them and I booked myself for pelvic scan in private clinic I feel it’s stress I’m trying to calm down but I def feel like the scab should be done Don’t you think ? I hope all women here won’t go tru this we definitely shouldn’t be begging for scan that’s not very fair Thank you again for this video and your reply I really appreciate it ❤❤❤❤
I decided not to take the acid bc my period is not heavy just long and it’s 3000 mg per day which is a lot side effects are blood clots in the eyes and losing Color vision I am just listening my inner voice and I wasn’t feeling that is not right I feel these pills are given to kinda prolong the problem but not sort it out am I right ?
@@Makeuplover-w7w yes, it's very worrying that many women like yourself have to push really hard just to get basic investigative support, but well done for not giving up! Yes, to your other question too, listening to our own body is very important! . Acupuncture can often work well in this kind of scenario so worth looking into. You can find local practitioners here www.acupuncture.org.uk Hope you get this sorted soon Best Wishes Eileen
@@AvogelCoUk thank you for the link i will have a look as Tibetan medicine is what is helping me enormously with my endometriosis it is life changing I also am talking to my body kindly saying that I love my body but I really wish this could stop that I got the message that i have to slow down and do more meditations it is tough end of the year Call me crazy lol but I listen lot of Louise Hay I love her Thank you again for the love Have a nice day x Lana
Hi I’m 46 going to be 47 in May 2023 and have never missed a period during those years and I don’t have any underlying conditions. I don’t smoke or drink. Till Dec 2022, I had my period on 20th after that in Jan 2023 I had the usual ovulation but no period, for the first time I check my hormones and they were normal. I went to the doctor and he said I would get my period in February and that I was in the perimenopausal stage, and I got my period on Feb 25 which was too light didn’t even feel like a period but from Feb 26 till today March 11.I have no symptoms except dizziness due to loss of blood that is bright red had brownish colour twice and back to bright red. I won’t say it’s heavy but when I sit or lying down and then stand I have a clot coming. If I’m standing or walking no clots….when would my periods ends? It’s like forever with no symptoms…I had headaches for 3 days about 4 hours and when I sleep it goes off. But my period is going on quietly with no symptoms except dizziness. Just want to know when would this period stop? I used to be 70kgs and I dropped to 66 and then gained 2 kgs which is 68. I was taking care of my parents and dropped to 66 from Oct to Dec 2022 but still never skipped a period. Jan 2023 is when everything I mentioned started.
Hi Malin Although prolonged periods are quite common, they are not good for you and can quickly cause anaemia. This in turn can cause dizziness, fatigue, low mood/anxiety so it's really important that you go back to your doctor with this. They should be able to give you medication to stop the bleeding or refer you on to a gynaecologist who can check this further for you. You really shouldn't be bleeding for this long so please do see your doctor. Best Wishes Eileen
@@AvogelCoUk thank you for your response. I met the doc and was placed on Dicynone and ponstan forte for 14 days 3 times a day, I see changes slowly and yes my HB is 9mg/dL and I’m on hb3 plus with vitamin as all prescribed by the gynecologist. Hope I improve.
That happened to my daughter and I but it was after we had spent the weekend with our nieces who had just received the vaccine. My daughter and I started our periods the day they arrived 2 weeks early and come to find out my nieces both started their periods immediately following the injections and were way off their cycle. It freaked us out but I’ve heard of that happening to many other women.
You’re the first specialist I’ve heard cite 2 years with no period should be considered menopause and appreciate that perspective so much. It’s not a one size fits all.
I was irregular my entire life until recently. I then became super regular and now it's super irregular. Best wishes to us all🤞🏻
You truly have the best “bedside manner” I’ve ever come across - what a wonderful, calming personality, so informative, kind and warm. Thank you 🙏
You're welcome Fiona, thank you for your lovely comments!
Best Wishes
Eileen
#7 This is me right now....so bloated, sore nipples and swollen breasts.I'm spotting and about to start my period. I've gotten no clots for at least a year now.It's getting better for me. I LOVE your videos.
Thanks Sherri! :)
Thank you for sharing this video ❤
I'm currently feeling alone in my experiences as a 34 & a half year old.
It all started 2 years ago for me when I had a heavy flow for 2 weeks straight, I thought I was going to bleed to death.
A Nurse told me not to worry, it's just due to my age.
A Doctor said the same as my hormone levels were normal.
I had an internal scan and was told I have a cyst on one of my ovaries.
I'm now on a wait list to see a Gynecologist.
I'm currently on day 9 of a heavy period after not having one for the past 2 months.
My Mum struggled with her Perimenopause to the point she got a hysterectomy.
I'm just hoping that what I'm going through is normal and that I'm going to be okay.
I'm trying my best to self soothe and reduce my stress until I see my Gynecologist as I need treatment and answers.
Hope you get to see one soon! It may be a good idea to start a gentle iron tonic such as Floradix for a few weeks, if you're bleeding heavily, to avoid getting anaemia
Best Wishes
Eileen
Hope you're doing well! I'm 35 & am going through early perimenopause too. Best wishes!
Update: I have since seen a Dr and was prescribed Iron Pills, I have also seen a Gynecologist and am on another wait list to have keyhole surgery. In the meantime I am on a health buzz and have lost 20kg and my periods are currently semi-regular meaning I am getting them monthly but not on schedule yet.
@@missunderstood4246thanks for updating. Glad you’re doing better. It’s awful what us women have to go through sometimes. Is the surgery to remove the cyst?
Honestly your channel has been life saver the last couple of weeks have been so awful it felt like my body has given up constantly fight with it I’m so tired is this ever going end my husband thinks I’m just making this up and all in the head and just be lazy it’s frightening thankyou so much for helping us
Happy to be of help Faye, hope things improve quickly for you!
Best Wishes
Eileen
If I had no period for a year and then they came back again, I would be very depressed about that. Sorry to the large number of women this happens to. I can't imagine.
I'm with you on that. 😆
Happened to me
Its happening to me right now. Its depressing
❤ OMG ❤ This happened to me too. 16 months nothing and now every 17 days 😢 and painful 💔
@@larmekaarnold4848 Wow, that is so miserable. Just when you think you made it somewhere...
Are you still getting it now?
thank you doctor this is stuff that every woman should know ❤
You're welcome Tania!
I"m been bleeding for 2weeks so I"m going to my Doctor about this. Thankyou😊
That's great, hope you get the support you need from your doctor. If you need more help from us email us at enquiries@avogel.co.uk any time!
Bummer😒...a 51yo female here and I have NONE of these symptoms. I only get exhausted approximately 2-3 days before my Very Regular Heavy period which lasts 5-7 days. I...AM...So...Ready...For...The...End 😮💨
Great news you don't have any of these symptoms! Hopefully it will be over soon. You can try cinnamon for the heavy periods. Take 1-3 teaspoons a day on the days you are bleeding (you can mix with water or food)
@@AvogelCoUk Thanks. In all my years I've never heard of taking cinnamon for heavy periods. Can't wait to try it. Thanks again!!
I just searching information for my come and go heavy clotting period this last year, and found this post is very informative and help. Thank you. At the moment i got a very heavy clotting period after 21 days ago got normal period. I will take cinnamon after this to relieve my condition.
Excellent information, as always. Thank you you are one of the most accurate persons talking about menopause, Much more expert than other medical specialists and "experts" on the subject.
Thank you Matay, glad to be of help!
Best Wishes Eileen
Honestly A.vogel UK are number one.....all what they have explained so far, I have been experiencing them...but doctors keep telling me I am fine nothing is wrong with me......
This is such a detailed video on perimenopause…. Accurate 👍🏻
Thank you Elaine!
37 days over from my last cycle. I am getting all the symptoms of a monthly period but no period. Blurry vision and then right after that dizziness. Not the nicest feeling. Thank you so much for all your tips and advise it really helps us understand our body and what to expect better.
You're welcome Susara!
Best Wishes
Eileen
I have the same issues! What the heck! I’m 45 😩
I'm am 45 too and this year has been a crazy hormone Rollercoaster. I didn't get a period last month and I currently have cramping and bloating with little to no bleeding. The cramping is more consistent and a little worse than normal!
Thanks for the dizziness and eye changes! Same here! Thought I was alone. Period is 33 days late when I was clockwork 25 days
Very helpful thanks, I have been experiencing many of those “abnormal symptoms” and went to the doctor last week. Glad to know I’m not going crazy and it’s not just me! I got a pile of bloods done and have a scan tomorrow so we will see what happens, but at least the Dr is taking me seriously
Great to hear that Norma, hope your tests all come back fine!
Best Wishes
Eileen
My period just came back after 7 months of not having it. This is so strange. I pulled up this video as the first thing! I was hoping it would stay away...
It is quite a common occurrence but still wise to get it checked by your doctor as well.
Best Wishes
Eileen
@@AvogelCoUk Hi Eileen...funny thing, I just put my extra pads in a box to give to charity. I guess my period isn't done with me yet! The timing, 😆. Thanks for your help.
Same thing happened to me.
@@Nina-fh1bg Nina, It's so frustrating. It was nice while it lasted...
I am facing vertigo,sleeplessness,GI issues,bloating etc…you name it I have it. I know that these are perimenopause symptoms but really tired of this. My daily routine gets disturbed due to all this. Please keep giving suggestions on this. Although I exercise,do yoga Zumba,eat healthy but it doesn’t affect me.
Hi Neha
You do seem to be experiencing a number of symptoms! Have you checked this with your doctor? Other health issues can often appear around the same time as the menopause and also cause similar symptoms. I would suggest a general blood work to see if anything else is going on. If all is well then acupuncture can often be effective so worth looking into
Best Wishes
Eileen
Hi, my blood reports are all normal. But I have anxiety issue from last 10yrs. I am on mild dose of anti depressant.
Excellent video, thank you. You explained peri better than anyone has. I had prolonged bleeding, along with irregular periods before hand, a couple of years ago and was diagnosed with simple endometrial hyperplasia without atypia. They tried to force me to get a mirena coil before diagnosis but I said no I'd make lifestyle changes, stop taking certain supplements etc. My 2nd biopsy came back the same, I saw a different Dr and he said there was nothing wrong with conservative care as long as I was happy. I had no symptoms btw, the irregular bleeding stopped just before the first biopsy and my period became regular just before the second. I'd started taking dim and put it down to that. Third biopsy came back all clear, the Dr I saw that time was amazing. The last biopsy came back as disordered proliferation of the endometrium. Again before the results the Dr was going on about the mirena. Surprise, the Dr suggested the mirena again. After researching this, it's basically nothing, I said no and my period remained regular until Dec last year. Had a very light and short bleed second week in Jan and I had a bleed last week, 7th of March. The bleeding again was relatively light and stopped for a day but I started bleeding again today. I'm wondering is it because I'd gone so long without a period and when it did come it wasn't heavy and that's why I'm bleeding. Could this be the case? My plan is to monitor it over the next few days to a week and if it hasn't stopped, I'll go to the Dr. I really don't want a mirena because any woman I've spoken to who's had one for gyne reasons, hasn't got on well with it. Fine for contraception though. If you've read this, thank you and I appreciate your advice
Hi Kirsty
Periods coming and going like this is really common as you approach the menopause. Hormone levels at this time can fluctuate quite dramatically from day to day and this can cause very strange periods! However, you are wise in monitoring the length of this period, bleeding too long, even if it is light, can cause anaemia which you don't want.
Best Wishes
Eileen
I’m finding your videos so helpful and informative thank you 🙏🏽
You are welcome Miss Georgia!
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Eileen
Thank you soo very very much. You have explained my journey, and from your clarification, I can now explain to my doctor more clearly what is happening with me.God bless you and yours.
You're welcome T'Shura, glad to be of help!
Best Wishes
Eileen
This is the most informative video I've seen on menopause for weeks. Definitely answered my questions. Thanks so much.❤
You're welcome Stacey, good to hear it was helpful for you!
Best Wishes
Eileen
I think the carnivore diet has really helped me with this. I have been carnivore for 5 years which in my experience made my PMS vanish. Now at 51 my only symptom is shorter cycle, a bit hit amd miss.
Hi Jen
Yes, protein needs often increase dramatically in the peri and menopause so increasing it in some way can be really beneficial!
Best Wishes
Eileen
Since middle school, I have been told my period problem is my age. Too young, too menstrual, too old. I was diagnosed with endometriosis at 27 via surgery. My endometrium is thick and biopsy was inconclusive, which apparently means I’m old. No one wants to treat endo and I am NOT getting an IUD. Not after a horrible birth, painful waste of a biopsy, bloody stools and kidney pain during menstruation, and pain from the age of 10. I’m done with gynecology. Besides, it’s not abnormal for me to be in pain and bleeding through pads and tampons together. I just invested in disposable undies so I can freaking go to work and I guess that’s the treatment for endo 🤷♀️.
Thanks for this detailed yet crisp information
Glad it was helpful!
I’m 48 and what’s been happening to me for almost a year now is the following:
One regular monthly period
Then some spotting about 15 days later after that period
The following month no period no spotting, totally missed period
Following month starts with light spotting almost as if I was ending a period then a few days later a full on period
It’s so bizarre especially for me since I’ve always been regular and on the spot all of my life. Also I use to have horrible cramping and clotting and now that’s gone. No cramps or pain some clots but nothing like before.
Have you ever spoken on things like feeling flat or kind of like life just isn’t the same at times? Seeing your children growing and needing you less a loss of interest or even desensitized to things? It’s tough because I feel like many of us with the current state of the world may be feeling these same feelings, old, young, male or female but I’d love to hear your thoughts as well as anyone else that would like to chime in.
Thank you for all that you do o really appreciate you and your channel ♥️
I also use to get clots and heavy periods. Now, at 49.5 I never get clots. Everything is easier for me right now. I did have a horrible time with depression and wanting to die, but poof, that is gone now.
Also, I'm an empty nester......11 days now. My last moved out and I am THRILLED! It's so much easier without anyone watching me. I love my new freedom.
@@Godisfirst21 thanks for sharing. I’m not close to empty nest yet my boys are 15 and 12 but they def need me a lot less and they want to do their own thing and think I’m annoying sometimes. LOL… I’m learning g to let go and allow them to experience what they need to but it can be tough at times. I had my boys late in life. Have a great day 🙏♥️
@@JanetElevating I had my last daughter at 28 and she needed me a lot. She really didn't enjoy doing much but hanging out with Mama bear. I strongly pushed for her to start working and getting her own place and it's truly been blissful these past 11 days. It's so quiet. It's so clean. For us, it was my daughter who had to learn to let go.
Have a spectacular day! I look forward to the day we never get a period....ever again.
Hi J J
Falling hormones can affect our emotions very deeply giving rise to feelings of disquiet, despair, feeling lost, not knowing who we are anymore or where we are in the world. It can also affect our ‘feelings’ for other people and we can end up reviewing our relationships in a different light. In general terms our hormone oestrogen keeps us connected to our family and loved ones and as this falls we can feel very insecure about our role in life in regards to others but also for ourselves and this can often cause confusion. The most important thing here is to realise that this is a phase or part of the menopause that you go through but it does end!
I have also posted a couple of blogs on these emotional issues so hope they help!
www.avogel.co.uk/health/menopause/videos/lost-your-motivation-wheres-it-went-and-how-to-get-it-back/
www.avogel.co.uk/health/menopause/videos/who-am-i-now/
Best Wishes
Eileen
I hope you are still replying to comments. I see a ton of information about heavy periods but almost nothing regarding periods that have become lighter, black in color, and combined with bizarre bleeding patterns. Like two weeks a few months then back to one week a few months. Never heavy. Almost not there. Do you have information on this? Is this normal perimenopause symptom? Does it mean thicker uterine lining? Too much progesterone?
Hi
This kind of scenario is quite common; for some women periods get lighter and further apart and dark/black blood often indicates that the womb lining has been sitting for quite a while. However, this could be caused by a number of factors so it is wise to get this checked by your doctor just to rule out issues such as fibroids.
A routine scan about 10 years ago found that I had fibroids and they hadn’t been a problem until, I was prescribed HRT. I’ve recently turned 50 and I’ve had severe Rheumatoid Arthritis since age 9 years. I was prescribed HRT by my GP over the first lockdown to see if it helped with some RA symptoms I was experiencing and it made me so poorly. I was bleeding so heavy every month, then every couple of weeks to the point where I began wearing incontinence pads to contain the leakage. After changing GP, I was referred to a gynaecologist who strongly advised that I stop the HRT as the oestrogen part was apparently feeding the fibroids, hence the bleeding.
I’ve been HRT free for a year and everything has calmed right down. I have decided that as far as peri menopause goes, I’ll be managing it as naturally as possible, this is where Eileen’s advice has been absolutely vital. I have also found that my RA has improved. Thank you Eileen, I don’t know what I’d do without you. xx
BEing on oestrogens during menopuase is not a good idea for many women, progesterone alone can help better. I have fibroids, one was removed because being clear of any HRT therapy or other medicines or suplements it was causing lot of bleeding, but after being removed and because I was with perimenopause symthoms really ugly (still) it is incredible that no doctor never told me that being on estrogens can worse my condition, and two of them gave me to calm symthoms the oestrogen, progesterone and testosterone in low dosis but it caused me lot of worse symthoms and constant bleeding (less than before fibroids but constant and when period came was a haevy bleeding), so in short: I was the one (with lot of reading and observing) that realized that estrogens were not a good idea for me and only progesterone can help me with some symthoms and that was true. Women with fibroids issues never have to take estrogens during perimenopuase because the problem are dominance of estrogen that is causing the fibroids, maybe when you have years in the menopause can be of help but I believe that even during menopause estrogens can cause bleedings when women have this kind problems. All is test and error but having the correct information and the right doctor giving you advice everything can even easy.
You're so welcome, glad to be of help and great to hear that you're feeling so much better now!
Best Wishes
Eileen
Thank you, Matay,for this helpful information, good to hear that you are coping much better now!
Best Wishes
Eileen
@@tayuniverso23Thank you so much for your insight! I'm in shock that so many doctors don't know what to do and we have to get through so many to find answers ourselves. How do you feel now? What kind of progesteron did you take and for which symptoms was it helpful?
Very useful thank you. I am 53, in perimenopause, spotting around day 14 and 15 every month. Usually for a week to 10 days. Sometimes fresh, sometimes old. I figured it was probably normal but it’s good to know. I’m assuming this is around the time I used to ovulate, it seems to be anyway.
Hi
Spotting is quite common at this time but always wise to double check with your doctor just to rule out issues such as fibroids.
Best Wishes
Eileen
@@AvogelCoUk I did check with my gynecologist, and an endometrial biopsy found “atypical endometrial hyperplasia”, which has a 8 to 40% chance of already having endometrial cancer.
I was strongly recommended to have a full hysterectomy. It was very difficult to stand up for myself, but I asked for further investigation first. I didn’t want such a major, invasive surgery if it wasn’t really necessary.
My gynecologist agreed to do a hysteroscopy with D&C. 90% of my uterus lining was removed and biopsied. This time the result was no cancer, no atypical cells, not even any pre-cancerous cells.
He couldn’t understand what had changed in one month from the first endometrial biopsy in-office, to the second under anesthesia. He said this was a first in his 30 year career, but this is partially because nobody has ever gone against his recommendations before.
So I’m sharing this to hopefully let other women know - get a second opinion, listen to your gut, and most of all don’t be afraid to ask for further testing before invasive surgeries. It’s very difficult in the face of the scary prognosis and recommendations, but I really feel like I did the right thing for me.
I will need an endometrial biopsy in-office, once every three months for a year or two. They are painful, I can understand why some women might get the hysterectomy instead. But this is the right decision for me. Now everything is back to normal, just the spotting I mentioned originally mid-cycle.
Wow, that's amazing, great to hear that you pushed for a 2nd opinion and that it's all positive news for you!
Do you bleed heavy when your cycle comes ? I was spotting but now in been bleeding heavy for 9 days now did your body do this I'm 51 .I have no mother or sisters to ask
I’ve got prolapse and fibroids……I have spotting here and there and my bleeding is very erratic, I had a scan when all this happened last year and all was fine so I’m not sure what else they would do ?
I have a period last two months ago but until now I don’t have it.I’m getting 42 yrs old on September.
I’m already getting depression for this why my menstruation is not coming.
Like right now I taught I’m gonna have it because I have a light blood but its just gone.
This is very helpful, thank you soo much!
Glad it was helpful!
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Eileen
Thank you. I'm definitely calling my doctor now.
You're welcome!
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Eileen
I needed this so much!! 🙏 thank you!! I’m in my peri menopausal stage and feel Out of whack. This was so informative.
Good to hear that this was helpful for you!
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Eileen
Is your hb decrease in perimenpause or not
@@amnakhan2798 it could go either way, some women get high blood pressure whilst others can develop low blood pressure
@@AvogelCoUk no no I am asking about haemoglobin
@@amnakhan2798 sorry, you'd need to ask your doctor about this as it may need a blood test
Thank you, for all informations easy to understand and answering the doubts and worries. Thank you again
You're welcome!
48 and never miss a period. Shortened to 3 or 4 days though
Same now 52 and skipping 2 months then spot fresh for a month so far still going
51 in 2 weeks…just skipped. Waiting for this cycle. So far, it’s about day 52…weird discharge instead so far.
I'm perimenopausal. I can't get my period to stop, right now. Last month, I only had pink at wiping for three days. So, I figured I was making up for it, this month. I know to eat for my hormones, but I can't find an answer to whether if I need more progesterone or estrogen to stop the bleeding. Any advice? I do have tiny fibroids and pcos, and I'm not concerned it's any medical condition, but hormonal imbalance causing it. It just don't know which hormone has to increase to stop the bleeding.
Hi Caroline
Unfortunately, it can be difficult to tell which hormone may be triggering periods as high oestrogen can do this but so can falling oestrogen!
At this point hormone levels can fluctuate quite dramatically from day to day making it very difficult to see what's actually going on. However, fibroids usually indicate high oestrogen/low progesterone so that could be a factor.
If the bleeding doesn't stop, it is wise to see your doctor as they may be able to give you non hormonal medication to ease/stop the bleeding; if it continues there is the possibility of ending up anaemic which isn't good for you.
Best Wishes
Eileen
Great information! Thanks for sharing.
You're welcome!
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Eileen
Peri and fibroids party central over here 🎉 hard to tell whats what at this point - i just ho to the gym 🏋️♂️
Hi, thank you very much for your video!
I'm 45 going 46 next month. Having periods twice a month for three months now and several days of spotting in between. Extreme irritation, sadness and moodness and my chest feels like it's going to explode. Doctors here want to prescribe anti-depressants but the possible symptoms are very scary. I'm not depressed, I have depressing moments. Hormones all over the place. Anything I could take? It's pretty much a disabler for me having to function socially and go to work...
Hi Erica
Even having a couple of periods close together can quickly cause anaemia which, in turn, can trigger fatigue, low mood/anxiety, poor sleep and even joint aches and pains so it may be a good idea to take a gentle iron tonic, if your doctor hasn't already recommended one. If you are in the UK or Ireland, I would recommend Floradix which you can get at most heath shops and pharmacies.
Acupuncture can often be helpful in this kind of scenario so worth looking into.
Best Wishes
Eileen
Hello how are you now?
@@AvogelCoUkhello watching from the Philippines... thank you for this
@@pleaseshare8891 you're welcome!
Spotting is normal during perimenopause?
9 months with no period, then a normal flow/length one, then 4 months of no period, then a very light patchy one. Sooooo confusing and unpredictable. Horrendous bloating suddenly too. Off to the homoeopath today!
Yes, Nicola, this is quite a common, confusing scenario on the approach to the menopause!
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Eileen
Thank you so much for this very informative video..I am 43, never got pregnant, always had dysmenorrhea but at age 40 I noticed that pain was more tolerable or no pain at all. Started menstruating at age 13. I have been having my period for 4 wks now, during the 1st wk, 2nd and 4th its only spotting but on the second it was very heavy and lots of blood clots, had to change tampon and pads every 2 hrs or so. And now, i am having dull ache on my lower back 24 hrs a day for 3 days now, very irritable as well, had palpitations once last month that was very scary. I am new to all of these, I thought it maybe all due to perimenopause. Now, I am convince that I have to go and see my dr very soon.
Hi Margs, This sounds like perimenopause flooding but definitely good to get checked with te doctor whenever you have excessive bleeding. Cinnamon can help with heavy bleeding, you can take 1 tablespoon 3 times a day while you are bleeding. You can also try Agnus castus as an ongoing remedy to help balance your hormones. I would recommend a gentle iron supplement like Fluorodix too to help restore iron levels after such a heavy bleed. I hope this helps! If you need any more support you can email us at enquiries@avogel.co.uk
Very nice explanation.cleared all doubts thankyou
You are welcome, Sivaka
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Eileen
Thank you for this video. It’s been very helpful for me.
Glad to hear it was helpful for you Rebecca!
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Eileen
Thank you, your explanation is satisfying.
you're welcome!
Really helps ❤
Hi! Thank you so much for the information! I'm 35 and going through "Premature Menopause"--there's a history of it in my family--with women finishing completely before 40. I'm just beginning the "skipping" period stage--any advice that applies specifically to women in my situation or is everything still the same as "traditional" menopause?
Great video!
Hi Lorie
Yes, you can follow the same advice which should, hopefully, help just as well. However, starting the menopause younger means that you need to take extra care with bone and heart health
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Eileen
Thank you so much for this!
You're welcome
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Eileen
Yes all the worse you say it happens to me. I haven't been to the doctor this year because last time I went she told me it was normal and wasn't interested in lessening to me 😢, I'm so tired and upset but I just hope this will pass soon.
Sorry to hear that, hope this resolves quickly for you.
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Eileen
Very educational ❤
Glad you found it helpful!
I have been experiencing symptoms like a period coming, but now I’m feeling pms low back pain, heavy breasts, and tears…Currently, this cycle is 70 days or so. I really feel like a period is coming in the next few days.
Yes, this can happen in this way for some women, maybe only getting a period every few months for a while before they stop for good.
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Eileen
@@AvogelCoUk Thank you!
Thank you for the very informative video.
You're welcome!
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Eileen
Very informative
Thank you Melissa!
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Eileen
I’m fun 47 and I had a light cycle the.n been spotting. Like the light blood at wiping 😂😂😂. With cramps. Unreal I know I’m ok. Just staying calm. Taking my natural
Stuff. The heavy stuff I used shepherds purse
Yes, shepherd's Purse can be really helpful for a heavy period
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Eileen
I always had regular periods but last one was start of January and seem to have had pmt for 4 months with frequent period pain and bloating but no relief..oh the joys ❤
Magnesium can often be really helpful for period pain, approx 200mg twice a day, but if symptoms continue or get worse, it is really important to check with your doctor. Continual bloating can indicate other issues such as fibroids, cysts/polyps or even a prolapse
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Eileen
@AvogelCoUk Thank you so much Eileen. ❤️.
Only subscribed yesterday as your videos are really helpful and well explained xx
I am 45 years old. My periods have been normal my whole life until about a year ago. they changed to heavy on time but heavy. Then they changed again to light only lasting max 4 days with the fourth day only having small amount of blood when wipping. That lasted a few months followed by light but being a few days to a week late and then a few days early. This month is scarring me because I am on day 7. First 2 days were pretty normal flows then got heavy and yesterday and today it is slowing down but has not stopped. I am also having some cramping and I am getting easily angry. I have also been having some sweating at night even though I have two fans and A/C set at 68 degrees. I do plan to make an appoint with an OBGYN.
Hi
This kind of scenario where periods start to tail off then come back heavier or longer is really common as you approach the menopause and usually nothing to worry about. However, it is always wise to double check with your doctor. Hope all goes well for you
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Eileen
My periods were regular every 27-28 days , then at the age of 28-30 ( I don't remeber the exact time) they changed to every 24 days. Now my average cycle is 25 days ( for more than 5 years) I am 39 now.What concerns me that I am having severe hot flushes for more than a month now. Periods still more or less regular, no change in bleeding pattern or amount, almost no other symptoms of perimenopause.But as I know that hot flushes are symptoms of late perimenopause, I wonder if the change in cycle length was the first sign of perimenopause, that happened too early in my life.
Hi Mona
It is possible that you started the perimenopause then but this is quite rare to be so young. Flushes and sweats can be caused by so many other health issues such as overactive thyroid function, ongoing stress, vitamin D or B12 deficiency or even diabetes, so the best thing to do is see your doctor. They can test for these just to rule them out and maybe do a sex hormone test to see if you are perimenopausal
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Eileen
😇😇👂👂I love hear 👂 all your stories about what you have say 😇😁
I had my period again in 2 weeks, I am 48 and going through perimenopause for 8 years now...but never had such a short cycle. I have uterine fibroids and they had been largely silent so far...I am calling my gynae. Very distressed.
Although this is quite common as hormones fluctuate, it is wise to check with your doctor. Hope all goes well for you
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Eileen
@@AvogelCoUk Thank you.
ong I also developed fibroids recently! I was wondering if peri had anything to do with it...mine are 2 smaller ones thankfully
Yes, this can happen and may be due to the way your hormones are changing at this time.
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Eileen
Very helpful thank you very much
you're welcome Bilkisu
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Eileen
I’m 38, and for some reason, mine are heavy af, and then it will act like it’s stopped, waits a day, starts again heavy, stops, and starts again.
Hi
If it keeps going like this without stopping for a month, it is wise just to check with your doctor to rule out issues such as fibroids, polyps/cysts or a prolapse!
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Eileen
Last year I missed three then had three then missed three. So far this year missed January had in February missed march but think it's about to appear in April. I am lucky tend to be light and only last at most three days.
Hi Sarah
Unfortunately, for some women getting to the menopause can be quite a drawn out phase! Hopefully, they will stop for good soon!
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Eileen
Yes hen i was younger i would go 7 days and now at 44 it’s gotten shorter
This is very normal!
Last year I went 6 months without a period then when I started again it was extremely heavy and caused such horrible pain I ended up in the ER
That's a horrible experience! Hope all has settled down now for you.
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Eileen
Unusual for me but my period is very irregular I was getting longer gaps between periods but I’ve had 2 in February just 20 days apart followed by 13 days apart. Hoping it’s just perimenopause. If it keeps happening so frequently I’ll see the GP.
Hi Kelly
Frequent periods are quite common in the perimenopause but it is wise to check with your doctor if this continues
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Eileen
I had a period 2 weeks ago and I just started my period again yesterday so my cycle was 16 days and it's heavy
Hi Jodi
This kind of scenario is common on the approach to the menopause but frequent/heavy periods are not good for you and can cause anaemia. It is best to get this checked by your doctor, they may be able to give you something to slow down the bleeding and also check that other issues such as fibroids, polyps/cysts or a prolapse and not a contributory factor
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Eileen
One just has to get checked if it becomes to worrisome or has more symptoms along with the bleeding. I went for some peace of mind. Stress can do crazy things to your body.
I started having some night uterine cramps around 7 days before my period starts and these cramps wake me up at times. would you be able to recommend any natural remedies to ease these cramps? Thank you for your videos, I find them very informative and interesting!
Hi Kassiato
Magnesium can often be helpful for cramps, approx 200mg twice a day. Dehydration can be a factor too so remember to drink plenty of plain water too! You could also add in the herb Agnus castus as this is recommended for PMS symptoms in the perimenopause.
Great to hear that you find the vlogs helpful, thank you!
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Eileen
@@AvogelCoUk Thank you so much for a quick reply! I have only just found your videos and really appreciate that you are doing them! I must say the way you explain different topics is easy to comprehend, full of practical tips and concise knowledge. I really feel like I get my questions answered here. Listening to you is a pleasure, thank you again!
Please remember to see your GP if you're spotting between periods, regardless of possible perimenopause or even menopause and after.
Important advice, thank you!
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Eileen
I am 40 years old this month I haven't experienced breast tenderness but I'm on day 3 of my period and I'm still bleeding heavily and having really bad cramps I've been eating a lot and drinking more diet soda the day before my period started I had a whole a#$ meltdown over something so little I have been having issues with anxiety and stress I used to pass large blood clots when I've been on my monthly now I don't pass them on my period I have always gotten really tired during my period I get hot and cold flashes I have had a period for 9 days a couple of times I have a female exam coming up
Hi Jodi
It is a good idea to mention these periods to your doctor or nurse. There can be a number of causes such as fibroids or polyps or cysts as well as possibly approaching the perimenopause so a proper diagnosis is needed first to determine the best treatment.
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Eileen
I have regular periods, except that I am feeling dysmenorrhea most of the time eve without period. Than I will have spotting thick discharge with blood. My pain is minimal, it's like when I am going to have period but I am not. Than I get bloated. I am also gaining weight. I admit I don't exercise and I am stuck in my house. I will start to shift back to healthy meal and stop my junks and my sugar again. I had so much sodas and junks. Oil and so much carbs. I will try to eat healthy and small meals next year and try my best to exercise again.
Wishing you well in your endeavours Imelda, so many women tell us that by just changing a few things such as improving diet and exercising more has made such a big difference to their lives so it's worth doing!
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Eileen
Same
I'm going to be 43 next month and I had a period super early last month then stopped bleeding for a week then started bleeding again. I'm going to call my gyn to get checked out.
Although this is quite a common situation in the perimenopause, it is wise to get this checked out :)
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Eileen
This my best one
Great to hear!
My breast hurts its swollen.....I woke up at 1 am and felt like I was dying and my anxiety is through the roof 😒
Breast pain is quite common in the perimenopause but it's always wise to get this checked by your doctor first.
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Eileen
Thank you. I'm 46. I missed January of this year. Had one extremely heavy clotty cycle a couple of months prior. Besides that cycle, the rest of that year were on time, slightly shorter & lighter. In February, heavy heavy 4 day cycle, followed by one day of light flow. About 20 days into the next cycle, I woke up to a full period. That only lasted until the evening. A couple of days later, I was spotting. This morning, huge clots do not have much blood. The clots are an inch wide and 4 inches long. I have IBS, and the Dr thinks I have cyctis as well. Is this normal? I'm going to make a Dr appointment. What tests should I ask for and what questions? I've always had pelvic pain. My obgyn retired. He was great. My last obgyn told me it was mental. I am a rape/ sexual abuse survivor. I went through a time period when I had heavy bleeding a couple of years ago. I got an IUD. It helped, but it made me gain a lot of weight. I no longer have it & stopped gaining weight. I also have a large ovarian cyst 2 years ago. It burst, but my CA125 was slightly elevated. I was on the last day of my cycle for that blood draw. I had 2 ultrasounds at that time, and the cyst did get smaller. It was a very scary experience, and I'm always scared about ovarian cancer now. I live in America, and our healthcare system is for profit, and it shows. Can you help ease my anxiety. Thank you.
Hi V
Erratic periods, spotting and clots are quite common as periods change towards the menopause. However, it is wise to get a check up with your doctor as well. Other issues such as fibroids, polyps/cysts or even a prolapse can occur at this time as well (also really common!) so your doctor can make sure that these are not a factor.
Hoping all goes well for you!
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Eileen
So it's also possible to start perimenopause with regular periods and after a couple (or more) years they become irregular? I'm trying to find out when my perimenopause started as I already noticed mental and hair changes about 3/4 years before the irregular periods and other symptoms started. (irregular started 2017/2018)
Yes, this is a really common scenario! That was me; looking back I could see menopause symptoms ( irritability, mood swings, wanting to be alone!) occurring but my periods were completely normal all the time!
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Eileen
Yes!! Oh wow, you've been through a similar journey! It's funny (not really though) that I couldn't wait for perimenopause to begin because I wanted to be done with pmdd so badly and thought nothing could be worse than that, but in hindsight I realized that I already was in perimenopause and it was because of perimenopause that my pms/pmdd had become really heavy!! Thank god that's fading now. Thank you so much for answering and for your videos. I found your channel yesterday 💗
@@snoggingmoise668 glad to be of help and welcome!
i spotted for 2 weeks then this week in bleeding heavy. I had sore breast .. Im starting to get worried..and i have no health insurance. im so scared of the cost all this will require
There are lots of free and cheap tips on my page here! For heavy bleeding you can use cinnamon powder - a teaspoon of the powder 3 times a day while you are bleeding. Drinking enough water and getting enough rest and sleep also really helps perimenopause symptoms. Eating 2 tablespoons of ground flaxseeds every day also really helps hormonal symptoms like sore breasts. I hope this helps!
Thanks for this video, am having breathing difficulty but not hypertensive, have gone through series of heart check, nothing wrong, this ashama like symptoms is terrible
Why not try a supplement called Sea Buckthorn Oil capsules, these are supposed to be very helpful for the lungs and don't forget to drink lots of plain water every day as dehydration is a major trigger with this too!
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Eileen
@@AvogelCoUk where will I get it
@@itsameluigi10 you can get this supplement from most health shops
My periods got closer together, my last two periods extremely painful to the point I couldn’t stand up straight, my period this month is further apart with no pain at all, but carnt find any information about peri menopause period symptoms for no period pain
Hi
If you're getting a period without any pain, then that is good news! It just may mean that your hormonal changes at the moment are more balanced so that will result in an easier journey for you
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Eileen
Hi I am 56 an still getting period wen will it stop
Hi Chandal
This is a difficult question to answer as it is different for every woman. We do know that a small number of women have a late menopause, even up to the age of 59-60 but if you are worried at all then please do speak to your doctor.
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Eileen
@@AvogelCoUk can I still get pregnant
@@chandaibalkaran8870 you are considered safe from pregnancy after two years without periods so it is wise to still use contraceptive until that point.
My mom’s periods stopped in January
She face serious cramps in march and just had spotting for 2 days which was veryyy light in color
But she said it was period just not the same color
Like pale pinkish
Is that normal?
She was diagnosed with Fibroids in October after vaginal ultrasound with proper uterine Biopsy and blood works
Hi
In the perimenopause, periods can come and go like this for quite a while for some women, so this is often nothing to worry about. However, fibroids can also affect periods so it is good that she is getting medical attention
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Eileen
mine have been jumping 38 days then to a 25 to 26 then now 43 day and instead of a period this month im just spotting very little when wipe im on day 35 no period just this spotting and the worse hot flushes is the spotting instead of a period normal
Hi
This is quite a common scenario as you approach the menopause and spotting can often replace a proper period. However, spotting can sometimes indicate the appearance of fibroids (which is common as well) so best to get this checked too.
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Eileen
@@AvogelCoUk thank u and thank u for ur reply I have bloods on Thursday and a smear the following week.
@@AvogelCoUksorry to ask do I count it as a period I’ve never spotted in my life so I’m unsure
Hi I had a uterine polyp removed 3 months ago. At first very light bleeding. Then a few months later some light spotting. All good. 3rd month later 2 days of heavy bleeding soaking through tampons every few hours. Just had an ultrasound yesterday but I am so worried. Why am I bleeding heavy 3 months after uterine surgery for polyp? I am 49. Guess Im confused just because you had a polyp removed but are in perimenopause, do periods still act irregular despite polyp removed in your peri menopause years vs. someone younger who had a polyp removed? What's happening to me?
There could be a number of reasons for the bleed so, hopefully, the ultrasound will find out why and can put your mind at rest
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Eileen
Hello, I want to ask you if you know if I’m still ovulating if I have a period every 3 months or even more? Thank you. I really hope you answer. 😅
Hi Jennie
There is a method taking your daily temperature to see if you're ovulating but I don't know if this would be accurate in the perimenopause, maybe have a Google for more info. Otherwise you would probably need to speak to your doctor to see about hormone testing
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Eileen
Is 39 for perimenopause? I’m experiencing a lot of the symptoms but my blood tests didn’t pick up any Major imbalances
39 is still a little young to be approaching the menopause but it can happen especially if other close female relatives started around the same age. Stress and anxiety can often trigger menopause-like symptoms such as flushes/sweats and check that your doctor also tested you for vitamin D and B12 deficiency, anaemia and thyroid function as these can cause similar symptoms too
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Eileen
Thank you 🙏🏽
You are welcome
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Eileen
Thank you for knowledgeble video.I having periods in every 15 days .dr put me on harmonal medicines. Is it safe to take harmonal medicine in long run .pls ans my query.
Hi Sarla
Unfortunatley, we can't give safety advice on prescribed medications, sorry, only your doctor, pharmacist or nurse can do this. If you are worried, please do get back in touch with your doctor and ask them to explain about the medication in more detail to put your mind at rest.
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Eileen
I am 49 years old this month i had a late period, so for three days i was getting spotting which was normal days but it started to come and it very heavy and in the second week there leaking no pain no light head just don't know when it will stop to visit the doctor
Hi Wendy
If bleeding is going on for this long, it's important to see your doctor. They may be able to give you something to stop the bleeding and also check that other issues such as fibroids, polyps/cysts or even a prolapse are not contributory factors.
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Eileen
Hi thanks for your video I m 47 last period i had 18 days then this month it day 12 now is it normal or should I take contraceptive pills?
Hi Mary
Prolonged periods are quite common on the approach to the menopause but they are not good for you and could quickly cause anaemia. It is wise to see your doctor; they can also check that other issues such as fibroids, polyps/cysts or a prolapse are not contributing to the bleeding.
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Eileen
Is it normal to bleed lighter like spotting during perimenopause for months or even longer with black or brown blood?
Hi
Periods can change a lot in the perimenopause but if you're bleeding for more than 7 days or spotting ongoing then it is important to check with your doctor. They may be able to give you something to sort this and also check that other issues such as fibroids, polyps/cysts or even a prolapse aren't a contributory factor.
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Eileen
Thank you so much for making your videos. I'm 46 years old I do not want to become pregnant. I had my tubes cut tied and burn when I was 25 years old. A long time ago I had painful periods that lasted 14 days every month so I was put on birth control pills Levonorgestrel and Ethinyl Estradiol. I had periods every 3 months that lasted 7 days. For about 2 years I have a period every 3 months that last 3 days. I use a condom every time I have sex. Is pregnancy a possibility for me ???? Thank you so much
Hi Cheryl
This seems to be a standard answer, but if you are worried then please speak to your doctor
Can you get pregnant with your tubes tied? Tubal ligation is one of the most effective ways to prevent pregnancy, with rates of pregnancy around 1/1,000 after the first year, and between 2-10/1,000 after five years. Although the possibility of becoming pregnant is low, the chance is still there.
Ive had no period for six mths.. Then on sunday i started bleeding really heavy.. Terrible pains in my legs aswell im 52..
Although this is quite common Hayley, it is wise just to check with your doctor as well.
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Eileen
@@AvogelCoUk thankyou i made an appointment for tomorrow..
Hey
Just checking in
How did it go?
My mum’s going thru same thing
Crap ….. I do get just heavy period for few days but my problem is I’m spotting like u said Injave kaube 2 weeks 10-12 days w not a drop of blood but inbetwen I have signs spot for 1 week or so then I will have a real period and I know it’s a real period because I willl bleee heavy for about 3 days as I’d that’s really my real periods then I’d still spot bleed 🩸 for l some time omfg I’m nervous and if I have fabroods etc I want them out I wanna have a baby I’m 37 I have no husband but one day ❤ yea I’m sad
Hi
Please do get this checked by your doctor for a proper diagnosis. There can be so many reasons for this kind of bleeding, so once you know what's causing it, it will be so much easier to treat.
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Eileen
Thanx a lot
You're welcome Evenica!
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Eileen
I miss two months period then it comes back it has been 6 days now and it doesn't seems to be slowing down can I go on birth control to control how long my period last?
Hi Patrina
If this period doesn't stop then, yes, it's a good idea to see your doctor. They can advise as to whether going on the Pill would be helpful for you.
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Eileen
My doctor is no help at all I’m 46 and for about a year now I’ve had periods that smell so bad that I can’t stand next to anyone as it’s so strong even coming out of a shower as soon as the blood comes out it smells like a rotten meat truck I really don’t know what to do antibiotics haven’t helped I’ve tried them numerous times Does anyone have any advice please? I’m 46 and this has been happening for over a year
Wow Ava, that's a long time to put up with this! I would ask to see another doctor for a second opinion; this should really be investigated further.
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Eileen
Get a second opinion most definitely!
Hi... 42 years old ... bleeding since 18 days ... sometime spotting and sometimes normal bleeding ... its not too heavy at any point ... last time it was also spotting and not normal flow ... you think this is perimenopause
Changes in periods is often an indication that you're approaching the menopause but prolonged periods can be caused by other issues such as fibroids so it is important to get a check with your doctor first.
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Eileen
@@AvogelCoUk Thanks ... but i am taking anti biotic for some other problem and my periods seems to have subsided after like 20 days ... could it be any kind of infection or antibiotic affects periods? also the same happened 1.5 years ago when i took covid booster ... and this is spotting .... sometimes bleeding happens but mostly spotting ...
@@royalzboutique1 Your pharmacist should be able to tell you if the type of antibiotic you're taking has an effect on periods, unfortunatley, we can't give advice on prescribed medications, sorry. We do know that many things can upset the monthly cycle including some medications and shots
Hi my blooding no stop like two week normal and two week havey it was
That's a lot! It is important to see your doctor if you are bleeding excessively, but you can try some cinnamon to help ease the bleeding. You can take 3 teaspoons of cinnamon throughout mixed with food or water for the days you are bleeding. You can also take our Agnus castus tincture - you take this one every day of your cycle and it is more slow acting over a few months but it is great if you are prone to heavy periods at every cycle. www.avogel.co.uk/herbal-remedies/agnus-castus/ I would also suggest taking a gentle iron supplement like Flourodix to help avoid anaemia. I hope this helps!
I had a heavy period first 4 days then light bleed that lasted 16 days and ive not had a period or bleeding for 30 days, totally confused as to whats going on if im at last stage of peri or something else going my pap smear was fine im 48
Hi
Periods changing like this often indicate the perimenopause and you would really need to wait and see if you get any more periods. If not, then that would be the menopause.
Best Wishes
Eileen
@AvogelCoUk thankyou for your reply, it's so confusing and these type of vlogs help so much
Hello thank you so much for his video ❤
I will be 40 soon and I have endometriosis I’ve been trough lots of stress last month and got my second period bc of the stress otherwise normally my cycle is 5 days long 28 days very regular but I blame that second period on stress as it happened to me before
the problem is that the second period doesn’t stop it’s not heavy but bright red and steady it doesn’t go away 😢I’m on day 13 tomorrow will go to see doctor it’s strange bc my breast are very sensitive still
I was ignoring it bc i thought it’s bc of the endometriosis
Do you think it could be start of menopause?
❤❤❤sending love
You're still a little young to be approaching the menopause although it can happen, especially, if other close female relatives started around the same age. Prolonged bleeding can be caused by a number of issues such as fibroids, polyps/cysts as well as endometriosis so your doctor should be able to make a proper diagnosis for you and offer the best treatment, if any is needed
Best Wishes
Eileen
Thank you so much for your help ❤I went to emergency here in UK - they did normal examination and no scan bc my blood said I’m not aenamic yet so that probably doesn’t make me emergency case and the doctor said the worst scenario it could be cancer or endometriosis but mostly stress yes that’s how insensitive she was I mean I had amazing cycle all year
They gave me Tranexamic acid 3 times per day 2 tablets - when I saw the side effects I decided to not to take them and I booked myself for pelvic scan in private clinic
I feel it’s stress I’m trying to calm down but I def feel like the scab should be done Don’t you think ?
I hope all women here won’t go tru this we definitely shouldn’t be begging for scan that’s not very fair
Thank you again for this video and your reply I really appreciate it ❤❤❤❤
I decided not to take the acid bc my period is not heavy just long and it’s 3000 mg per day which is a lot side effects are blood clots in the eyes and losing Color vision
I am just listening my inner voice and I wasn’t feeling that is not right I feel these pills are given to kinda prolong the problem but not sort it out am I right ?
@@Makeuplover-w7w yes, it's very worrying that many women like yourself have to push really hard just to get basic investigative support, but well done for not giving up!
Yes, to your other question too, listening to our own body is very important! . Acupuncture can often work well in this kind of scenario so worth looking into. You can find local practitioners here www.acupuncture.org.uk Hope you get this sorted soon
Best Wishes
Eileen
@@AvogelCoUk thank you for the link i will have a look as Tibetan medicine is what is helping me enormously with my endometriosis it is life changing I also am talking to my body kindly saying that I love my body but I really wish this could stop that I got the message that i have to slow down and do more meditations it is tough end of the year
Call me crazy lol but I listen lot of Louise Hay I love her
Thank you again for the love
Have a nice day x
Lana
How do I know if it's a hormonal disorder or perimenopasual?
You would need to ask your doctor to so some hormone blood tests
Best Wishes
Eileen
Thank you ❤
Hi I’m 46 going to be 47 in May 2023 and have never missed a period during those years and I don’t have any underlying conditions. I don’t smoke or drink. Till Dec 2022, I had my period on 20th after that in Jan 2023 I had the usual ovulation but no period, for the first time I check my hormones and they were normal. I went to the doctor and he said I would get my period in February and that I was in the perimenopausal stage, and I got my period on Feb 25 which was too light didn’t even feel like a period but from Feb 26 till today March 11.I have no symptoms except dizziness due to loss of blood that is bright red had brownish colour twice and back to bright red. I won’t say it’s heavy but when I sit or lying down and then stand I have a clot coming. If I’m standing or walking no clots….when would my periods ends? It’s like forever with no symptoms…I had headaches for 3 days about 4 hours and when I sleep it goes off. But my period is going on quietly with no symptoms except dizziness. Just want to know when would this period stop? I used to be 70kgs and I dropped to 66 and then gained 2 kgs which is 68. I was taking care of my parents and dropped to 66 from Oct to Dec 2022 but still never skipped a period. Jan 2023 is when everything I mentioned started.
Hi Malin
Although prolonged periods are quite common, they are not good for you and can quickly cause anaemia. This in turn can cause dizziness, fatigue, low mood/anxiety so it's really important that you go back to your doctor with this. They should be able to give you medication to stop the bleeding or refer you on to a gynaecologist who can check this further for you. You really shouldn't be bleeding for this long so please do see your doctor.
Best Wishes
Eileen
@@AvogelCoUk thank you for your response. I met the doc and was placed on Dicynone and ponstan forte for 14 days 3 times a day, I see changes slowly and yes my HB is 9mg/dL and I’m on hb3 plus with vitamin as all prescribed by the gynecologist. Hope I improve.
@@pearlspretty fingers crossed for you :)
@@AvogelCoUk thank you for taking the time out to respond to me. God Bless.
I'm the same age and have this same problem
I am in the perimenopausal stage....i had 3 months of a very light period but after the vaccine it came right back like a teenager.🙄
Hi Marina
We have heard of this happening to quite a few women!
Best Wishes
Eileen
This happened to me as well but after I contracted covid. 😩
@@RosemarieTM ooh nooo
That happened to my daughter and I but it was after we had spent the weekend with our nieces who had just received the vaccine. My daughter and I started our periods the day they arrived 2 weeks early and come to find out my nieces both started their periods immediately following the injections and were way off their cycle. It freaked us out but I’ve heard of that happening to many other women.