this couple makes me think of that Esther Perel quote ""Most people are going to have two or three marriages. Some of us will have them with the same person." they literally describe having multiple marraiges with the same person
I’ve watched ALL their videos, and that look of… “I’m happy to be sitting across from you in this moment and every moment after” in their eyes. THAT hasn’t changed in the 9 years that I’ve experienced them.
Loved them before, still do. They speak with such profound intention. I learn something new (or have something new to think about) each time I watch one of their appearances. Grateful {The And} continues to bring this relationship to us.
I’ve come back to this channel year after year hoping they’d return. At once point I stopped checking… then the algorithm brought them back. They’re by far my favorite people to watch on this channel. The authenticity, the intention, it’s truly a gem to get insight on such a love. They remind me of my own relationship in many ways.
"We get uncomfortable with asking for reflection from the other person about how we're being." Feedback in relationships is so important! We take it so seriously with our work relationships, but are always scared of it in our personal relationships. Well said, Ben!
Such a gift to have watched them share their journey. The love and depth of emotion you can see in their eyes when they look at each other is so moving.
All time fav couple on The And, they make you think of relationships in a much more deeper level. Their level of emotional intelligence is something else
It is so endearing to see that their love is so much similar yet different/evolved over time...and not just their love for each other but also how they see themselves and their own life's journey.
oh heavens - the way their eyes speak to each others', the way they LOOK at each other! I will sell my soul to get someone to look at me like that, and me at them :'))))
I love their transparency… it’s so wholesome and real! This type of ❤love seems so unreal yet GOD allowed this moment to restore my confidence in humanity and love at the same time! 💕
I haven't watched "the and" for a very long time. A few days ago, out of the blue, I wanted to see if you guys were still appearing here with a new conversation, as your conversations are always so deep and beautifully put, and I was disappointed to not have found a new video of the two of you. That's why watching you now is a sweet surprise :) I feel like there is so much to learn from you as a couple about changing together, about being open and candid with one another, about being loving and respectful, and I wish you guys to keep changing together in a very wholsome way and a great appreciation of one another ❤️
Omg… FIRST… KEISHA AND ANDREW… Now, I’m watching Ben and Sidra… wow! Life is lifing and I’m here for it! I’ve been here since this channel started and literally these two helped me with my vocabulary. I love them so much!
Never expected I would see them again! This makes my heart whole. I love them as a couple. I can't believe I saw their first video 7 years ago. I was immature, bratty, insecure and was wishing for a love like theirs. Now I'm married, grounded in my self and still bratty sometimes but my how I've changed, but they've stayed the same, in the best possible way.
My absolute favorite couple! They gave me the motivation to purchase the couples version and I’m so glad that my husband and I will have a time capsule of all the videos we’ll make together especially since we are newly married.
Omg I couldn't believe it when I see this. A new episode of this love match! I cannot wait to see what they have to say. I could listen to them forever
There is so much love in there eyes for each other it's incredible and has remained consistent throughout out the times I've watched them. Love them so much
The Skin Deep as a time capsule is such an apt description... It's also been a conduit and place for discovery - comfortable and uncomfortable as Ben has put it. It's a great place to listen and reflect.
I just watched the full playlist of this couple and wow, just wow - THIS is true love ♥ Just getting to watch their love through the screen is so deeply palpable and SUCH a gift -- and I can't believe their baby is already TEN omg like I was around that age when I watched the first video of them 🥺❤
I've been waiting for these two to come back, I love the raw honesty of their relationship it is truly beautiful to watch. My absolute favorite couple.
I have wondered the same thing because I also learned my resilience with trauma. I also have the same intense fears with sexual abuse (I have a son and sa is very common with boys too), but don't want to scare him but want him to understand a lot. You two are doing incredible.
I could listen to them forever! I absolutely love their talks and learn so much about what a relationship should be like: full of respect, admiration and humility (no need to say love because all of these things ARE true love). Also it is so interesting to me to look they visually getting older but the love stays the same...
Such a truly beautiful couple. Have watched their episodes since the beginning and just seeing their smiles makes me tear up out of love for their connection 💗
Omg I just came from the Sidra & Nayia Video and even though I so understandable that the comment section is closed and I want to totally support that decision, I also want to say that I feel soooo honored!!! I feel so incredibly honored that I am allowed to witness this family grow 🙏 words can't even describe how honored I feel 😔
It’s odd they literally loook like each other with different hair. It’s almost like a person loved themselves so much they started dating their reflection. Or this is what schizophrenia looks like. Idk they seem to similar almost like oil and oil go together and will blend in to one but then you loose the personality of the other in the process. Oil and water gives each their own identity yet can be next to each other’s identity but can’t change either
this couple makes me think of that Esther Perel quote ""Most people are going to have two or three marriages. Some of us will have them with the same person." they literally describe having multiple marraiges with the same person
Amazing comment, thank you! 💖
First Keisha and Andrew, now Sidra and Ben...my heart is FULL
We're so glad to hear it ❤️
I concur!
YES! Two of the most amazing couples!!!
My exact thoughts!
❤❤❤❤❤
I've followed their journey over the years and what always sticks with me is: When they look at each other, their eyes smile 🙂
The smize indeed! 💖
100% it is truly beautiful
When I see these two, I see EXACTLY what I am looking for in a relationship.
YES
same here! I'd message you if you were a man ahah
same. Since they've been on THE AND the first time...
Same I’ve loved them for years. Goals.
Same here. Don’t think I’ll ever find it, though.
The way he looks at her...OMG. I love whenever they show up. The emotional attachment I have to this couple is unhealthy lol.
STILL!
I’ve watched ALL their videos, and that look of… “I’m happy to be sitting across from you in this moment and every moment after” in their eyes. THAT hasn’t changed in the 9 years that I’ve experienced them.
Indeed! Thank you so much ❤️
"With u in my life i feel like there's no failure." That's beautiful
Yes it'S so wonderful. It brought tears to my eyes...
Loved them before, still do. They speak with such profound intention. I learn something new (or have something new to think about) each time I watch one of their appearances. Grateful {The And} continues to bring this relationship to us.
So glad to hear you're learning through our content! Thank you for commenting and being part of this❤️
EVERY single Sidra & Ben video I cry my eyes out. Such an amazing couple.
Same
This couple lives rent-free in our heads
I’ve come back to this channel year after year hoping they’d return. At once point I stopped checking… then the algorithm brought them back. They’re by far my favorite people to watch on this channel. The authenticity, the intention, it’s truly a gem to get insight on such a love. They remind me of my own relationship in many ways.
The And... you really did one for the OG subscribers and for that we thank you 💛 A piece of gold to my day with this video, for sure
Sidra and Ben get more beautiful inside and out with every video. I just love them. Their children are SO lucky have them as parents ❤
"This will end some day, but it's pretty incredible right now." These words are moving and they touch me deeply.
Awe! Look at them. Can't wait for the update on how they are doing with the kids
Awe I love the way he phrased this "I am excited to see the next way that we see each other", that's truly beautiful! 💖
"We get uncomfortable with asking for reflection from the other person about how we're being."
Feedback in relationships is so important! We take it so seriously with our work relationships, but are always scared of it in our personal relationships. Well said, Ben!
Married 19 years!? They look 19! Such a gorgeous couple. #goals
Oh wow i have missed them like I know them!
Me too ❤❤
Such a gift to have watched them share their journey. The love and depth of emotion you can see in their eyes when they look at each other is so moving.
Thank you for coming along on this ride ❤️
One of my favorite couples of this series! Excited for an update from them. Such a beautiful pair.💛
All time fav couple on The And, they make you think of relationships in a much more deeper level. Their level of emotional intelligence is something else
These two radiate health, presence and connection.
Seeing them talk about death is everything. We should all be talking more about it. 💚
Totally agree! ❤️
Great idea! 💡
Sidra & Ben ❤ How beautiful and moving to see people genuinely care for one another and appreciate each other❤
Wow I can't believe they're back!!! They brought me to the AND and they've always been my relationship inspiration all those years...
I'm so glad Sidra spoke about the statistics and possibility of sexual abuse. Thank you, Sidra! I know too many women who have gone through that.
It is so endearing to see that their love is so much similar yet different/evolved over time...and not just their love for each other but also how they see themselves and their own life's journey.
Why is no one talking about their perfect posture? 😭
Do they have a relationship podcast yet because they should
Agreed !!!!
nah let them have their love, we the fans might ruin it ngl.
@@Bak2BasiKsI agree with you. Continue to maintain some form of privacy
As soon as I saw this I immediately clicked because I felt like a family reunion just happened! Ben + Sidra life lessons 🥰
oh heavens - the way their eyes speak to each others', the way they LOOK at each other! I will sell my soul to get someone to look at me like that, and me at them :'))))
I hope to age as beautifully as them! 🥰
I love their transparency… it’s so wholesome and real! This type of ❤love seems so unreal yet GOD allowed this moment to restore my confidence in humanity and love at the same time! 💕
I feel so incredibly blessed to be married to my husband for so many of the reasons they shared. “I feel like with you, there is no failure.” 10000%
This is beautiful, thanks for sharing! ❤️
Their level of maturity and commitment is so inspiring ❤ Love seeing this couple here again
OMG I can’t believe I’m two weeks late to Sidra & Ben! LOVE them.
me too. I used to come here to check whether they have new videos.
Thank you for inviting Sidra and Ben back a massive shoutout to them for accepting to come back and sharing a their story with us again! 💙💙💙💙
Thank YOU for watching! 💖
I aspire to be like them and find the pure genuine love they have given us a glimpse of in these past 10 years.❤
What an incredible couple. Gorgeous, loving, emotionally mature and so totally in love ❤ what an inspiration to so many.
I was touched to tears by these two beauties
I haven't watched "the and" for a very long time. A few days ago, out of the blue, I wanted to see if you guys were still appearing here with a new conversation, as your conversations are always so deep and beautifully put, and I was disappointed to not have found a new video of the two of you.
That's why watching you now is a sweet surprise :)
I feel like there is so much to learn from you as a couple about changing together, about being open and candid with one another, about being loving and respectful, and I wish you guys to keep changing together in a very wholsome way and a great appreciation of one another ❤️
they both age like fine wine wow
Omg… FIRST… KEISHA AND ANDREW… Now, I’m watching Ben and Sidra… wow! Life is lifing and I’m here for it!
I’ve been here since this channel started and literally these two helped me with my vocabulary. I love them so much!
This means a lot to us, thank you so much, so glad you're part of the OG community💖
She looks YOUNGER wtf ???? I can´t.
Never expected I would see them again! This makes my heart whole. I love them as a couple. I can't believe I saw their first video 7 years ago. I was immature, bratty, insecure and was wishing for a love like theirs. Now I'm married, grounded in my self and still bratty sometimes but my how I've changed, but they've stayed the same, in the best possible way.
Oh wow thank you for still being here! We love and appreciate you very much ❤️ beautiful comment :')
Wow thank you so much for sharing that! ❤ Your comment made me smile and it gives me lots of hope ☺️
she is aging backwards omg
My absolute favorite couple! They gave me the motivation to purchase the couples version and I’m so glad that my husband and I will have a time capsule of all the videos we’ll make together especially since we are newly married.
Oh wow this sounds amazing! We would totally love to see those videos! email us at regina@theskindeep.com so we can have a chat❤️
I've been following this channel just to get an update on them one day...❤
Without you, I wouldn’t be the best version of myself
Love you Sidra & Ben ❤️
Please bring the kids for future videos
Thank you Skin deep for bringing this gorgeous couple back 🎉
Oh yeah! Sidra & Naiya is coming soon!
Omg I couldn't believe it when I see this. A new episode of this love match! I cannot wait to see what they have to say. I could listen to them forever
They’ve been my fav since the beginning. So glad to see them back on here! ♥️
Thanks for staying! Love you OG ;)
Profoundly beautiful couple
They still look good. I gained weight since I first met them, they are unfazed.
I love them so much! They are so reflected und rooted... it's just fun watching them
They just look better and better! Missed these guys
There is so much love in there eyes for each other it's incredible and has remained consistent throughout out the times I've watched them. Love them so much
handsome man + beautiful woman = wholesome couple. i love you guys thank you :)
Ahhhhh!!! I literally squealed when I saw this, so happy to see they’re back!
Love this couple, and Keisha & Andrew! Happy they're still together and still so in love! 💙
Sweetest couple - last answer gave me goosebumps. Can feel the love even behind this screen. Bless you and your family
Protect Sidra and Ben forever!
The way Ben takes a deep breath before every answer he provides is truly the most impressive thing I've ever seen
The 2 couples that i really admire and love : Keisha & Andrew and Sidra & Ben!!!!!!!
growing TOGETHER is the only way...
the way they both talk and think is so beautiful. so refreshing in a world full of unhealed minds and love.
I'd love to know their signs
same!!
The Skin Deep as a time capsule is such an apt description... It's also been a conduit and place for discovery - comfortable and uncomfortable as Ben has put it. It's a great place to listen and reflect.
Wow thank you sooo much for that beautiful comment, love ya! 💖
Such a wonderful surprise seeing them again! Such an inspiring model for how a true relationship looks like.
Please bring maryv and chella back
"Sidra (she/her) and Ben (he/him)" in the description.... thanks for letting us know hahah
I just watched the full playlist of this couple and wow, just wow - THIS is true love ♥ Just getting to watch their love through the screen is so deeply palpable and SUCH a gift -- and I can't believe their baby is already TEN omg like I was around that age when I watched the first video of them 🥺❤
Wow thanks for watching the full playlist ❤️ and omg you've been here for a long time, thank youuu! ❤️
@@TheSkinDeep - thank YOU for highlighting their love! ❤
I've been waiting for these two to come back, I love the raw honesty of their relationship it is truly beautiful to watch. My absolute favorite couple.
That unshakeable truth question...what a GREAT question. Love that. Love these two, always!
Thank you! We put a lot of thought and effort into the questions! 💖 Appreciate it!
Is she an influencer? Because she is so beautiful that she could live only on her looks. But then she talks...and she is intelligent, kind and funny.
Ben is such an amazing man.
What a lovely couple. I love how connected they are.
I have wondered the same thing because I also learned my resilience with trauma. I also have the same intense fears with sexual abuse (I have a son and sa is very common with boys too), but don't want to scare him but want him to understand a lot. You two are doing incredible.
What a beautiful emotionally and mature evolved couple! This is what a healthy attachment looks like and I hope to have one day❤
Stfu I have been following this couple since the first video came out!!!!!
Wow that's certainly a long time! Thank you for being here ❤️
Sidra and Ben are my favorite! I cry everytime I watch them and man..they make me think! Thank you a million ❤
One word >>>>> Wholesome
I could listen to them forever! I absolutely love their talks and learn so much about what a relationship should be like: full of respect, admiration and humility (no need to say love because all of these things ARE true love). Also it is so interesting to me to look they visually getting older but the love stays the same...
Such a truly beautiful couple. Have watched their episodes since the beginning and just seeing their smiles makes me tear up out of love for their connection 💗
Their collective sigh at 16:06. ❤
Please pin the Sidra & Ben playlist!
I would love to be a child in this family. I think that they are wonderful parents.
❤ True
I was so excited to see this, I love them!!
“We know where this is all going” - GUTTED me.
Love this couple! From the Philippines with love! So inspiring!
Lots of love all the way to the Philippines! 💖
What! You both get hotter as you age!
I’m crying. So happy to see a new video from them.
her pupils are quite dilated, shows she is very much in love
Why is Ben always complimenting Sidra and not the other way around? Is there nothing nice to say about Ben after 19years?
Yay. These two are my fave. Have loved watching you both through your journey on The Skin Deep.
Oh thank you so much! We really appreciate this ❤️ love ya!
This is a beautiful man and they look good together
These two are aging so beautifully ❤
Omg I just came from the Sidra & Nayia Video and even though I so understandable that the comment section is closed and I want to totally support that decision, I also want to say that I feel soooo honored!!! I feel so incredibly honored that I am allowed to witness this family grow 🙏 words can't even describe how honored I feel 😔
We're honored to have you here, thank you so much! We love you ❤️
@@TheSkinDeep I love you too
It’s odd they literally loook like each other with different hair. It’s almost like a person loved themselves so much they started dating their reflection. Or this is what schizophrenia looks like. Idk they seem to similar almost like oil and oil go together and will blend in to one but then you loose the personality of the other in the process. Oil and water gives each their own identity yet can be next to each other’s identity but can’t change either