Wow, that's the truest statement I've read in weeks. Absolutely true. Being an average guy is a fucking crime. Being an average girl is totally ok, let's put you up on the pedestal.
@@demonwaterdemonwater4993 And this time around buy more cats and dogs and enjoy the rest of your miserable life as you grow older. Guys you'll value by that time will certainly be all married either to younger or same age women. You 🍼😊
@Meddlecat You should always aim to be better but not for somebody else. I could have made a lot of better decisions myself but no one should have to be "perfect" to get married. So what is the solution? (Please don't bash me too hard) Sex robots. Sex robots that can have babies!
Exactly. To grab power the Marxists have to increase welfare roles. It should come as no surprise that single parent welfare was a permanent fixture all across Europe at the same time it was being introduced to America via Civil Rights legislation and the generational welfare it would bring along with it.
karlkarly Karlsen how? You say it’s a bad argument without any supporting evidence. Any idiot can claim that without evidence. The system _has_ worked. That smartphone you have? Came out of the western world built upon a foundation of monogamous marriage and family values. Same with the life-saving medicine you can partake in. These kinds of discoveries, and millions more, came out if the western world. Let me guess, I hurt your feelings, so it must be false, right? Facts don’t care about your feelings. Grow up.
@@Nicholas_Terry well you didn't hurt my feelings xD. I thought it's logical that it's a bad argument, that if something lasted for a period of time it has to be true. My bad. For exemple, we thought for a long time that lightning was something magical, but it's still wrong. It also worked for the time. It's just a bad argument. Chill out. It almost seems like i hurt your feelings.
@Lola Montez I agree, people generally date on their "level". Everyone has options, saying otherwise is absurd. And guys shouldn't be mad when they date a "low vaule" woman and get low value results. But to say that there isnt a higher expectation of men in dating is absurd. I can give you plenty of examples of high value men dating women that work in level Entry jobs and upgraded their life. But not the other way around, or at least in small numbers. Men are expected to be more and give more than women from the start, that is a fact. Does it make it right, idk, but it is reality. But it's the very same reason why men have problems trying to date on their level, because women can always get "more" if they wanted to because the qualifications to please a man is a way shorter and easier list, And most women are qualified already. Which is why most men are left single due to their being a better option. But a man usually isnt qualified until he gets his life on track financially and physically. Which is also another reason why a lot of women my age date older guys because they are further ahead in life and can qualify more and give more. Which I can't be mad at, but once you seen this you realise there isnt such thing as unconditional love for men or women. But it's way worse for men because the "better option" isnt always readily available while most women have guys lined up.
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@Lola Montez - "bitter entitlement" ... pot calling kettle black?!!!
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@Lola Montez - hummmm ... women had no trouble dissing 165 million men for the last 50 years ... I'm not seeing the problem you're having with men simply recognizing the *truth* about women.
Feminism pushed young women to join the workforce and put family on the backburner. Now countless people are working & lonely, and families are fractured, broken, or nonexistent... All as planned.
@John Jourdan MGTOW is the realization that the ideal relationship is more or less a fantasy. It's a philosophy to keep temptation of the lie at Bay. Men reproduce with women IN SPITE of women's nasty evolution.
This chick who I tried to get with back when we were 22 kept curving me so I left her alone and now that we're both 30 she's trying to crawl back. I told her I'm happily single
I learned that the older I got (I'm in my mid-sixties now), the happier I was being single and free. The ironic thing is that I have the women I interacted with to thank for it.
30 and single, broke up with my ex a couple of years ago. I work in a field where the pay is low, i always was strapped on cash, after we broke up i realised how much money i wasted, for the first time in my life i have 10k on my name. I did not switch careers and live comfortable and stress free. Never again will i cohabitate with a women. Edit: Yes women waste a shit ton of money
skippy weeko I’m a woman, cohabitating is a money drainer. I also have more money saved than ever before. Men and couples who “play house” are a waste of time. I like to keep them for when I need them. I’m the happiest ever.
Who cares about women's dating problems. They have entirely brought their problems on themselves. I'm tired of every article being written about poor poor women.
Those articles are billboards for all those strong, independent shrieking violets in a desperate, pathetic attempt to sucker in one of those inferior men who they need like a fish needs a bicycle (until they need one like a fish needs water) to come and save them from bearing the responsibility of their lifetimes of shitty decisions. Mad Max: "That's bait. Those articles are trying to bait the protector/provider response harder than the Democrat monsters running Washington into the ground were trying to bait Trump into talking military action against the communist tumor that metastasized in Seattle.
I agree with you 100%, they wanted liberation from the "oppressive" patriarchy and they achieved their liberation, so they should be happy by not having a man and a family. Didn't they say that marriage and family was slavery for women and that they were "oppressed" by the Judeo-Christian values? They are simply confused and that tells you that feminism, liberalism and leftism are mental disorders.
@Chris Allbritton Just tell the world that you are OPPRESSED and ask the liberals and feminists for support to see if they are going to support you. They say that they are SOCIAL JUSTICE WARRIORS. We have been living in a MATRIARCHY for a long time, but feminists still claim that they are OPPRESSED. How could they be oppressed if they have the state on their side 100% here in the U.S. They can accuse men of anything without any proof and men will be jailed because the new norm is that women don't lie and that police officers, judges and juries must believe women. Questioning, interrogating, and demanding proof from women is an attack on women and they call that misogyny.
@@ottomanpapyrus9365 nah, it's like the op said. if you can't stand being alone, that means you're such a bad person that even your self can't tolerate your presence.
I am a male. I am exactly 40. I am still single. To be 100% honest, I feel great and I really DON'T need anyone beside me. No hate intended to females, AT ALL. I just came to know myself better and I enjoy my routines a lot. I know a lot of guys need sex and companionship to feel complete and fulfilled… I respect that. But that is not me.
Similar situation here. I'm extremely lucky as I have asperger's. Only reason I ever thought of dating is because it's something most everyone else does. Can't be more thankful that somehow I didn't find a way to be married earlier.
It just filling a hole with a temporary sulution if you aske me, build your kingdom and enjoy life instead of searching for fullfillment in others *Talking about the sex thing to feel complete*
@Hidden 2o that is a sad truth. too old to start a family in the physical sense, yet 20 somethings these days are financially unprepared. it's a double edged sword.
@Hidden 2o 30 is pretty risky, not as bad as 35+, granted. 40's definitely too old. i know grandparents younger than that. i'm 43 now & know i'm too old for kids, unlike most of my generation. i always think of health risks for the children, along with how old i'd be when they grow up. i was almost a dad at 21, but the ex miscarried. (thank fuck!) i probably would've been a grandfather by now had that kid survived. (so glad i dodged that bullet!) i honestly think about 24-27 for the 1st kid & the last before 35. i thought my wife's cousin & her husband had their first 2 at perfect ages. 27 for the 1st, 30 for the 2nd. (unfortunately they had a 3rd at 36, which a. i find a little too old & b. due to our overpopulation problem, they had one too many.
@Lola Montez The difference between what "incels" think they deserve, and what feminazis think they deserve, is this: What men think they deserve *actually exists and is within reason.* Or at least used to be. Untill feminism came around. And ruined it all. So yeah. You don't have a clue what you're talking about.
@Lola Montez Lola Montez idk where you get your information from but that isn't true for 95% of men, voluntary celibate or involuntary celibate. What you describe is the perfect woman, yes. But what you fail to understand is that, unlike women, *most men are willing to settle for far less.* And i say most because the only men that women you describe go for are the 5-10% of men who have the so called "6 6s." 6 figure income 6 pack 6 foot + 6 exes 600 horsepower car 6" willy. For men, looks are one thing. Good character is another. And take this from a man who has none of those things, Good character and personality come *long* before good looks. As for feminism, It was about women having all the same rights and freedoms as men. The same pay for the work, etc. All that has been accomplished *decades ago.* What modern feminism is about, is the complete and total breakdown of the family structure, the complete destruction of masculinity, and then the western world as a whole. Three youtubers that cover this, that i highly reccomend are "Better Bachelor" "Voltaire" and "Donovan Sharpe." They talk about what men actually appreciate and value most in a woman, Why the pandemic rise of single.mother households are ruining this country, why younger guys (teens) are being misguided off that, where they go wrong, and how they can right those wrongs. If you want to know the whole and real truth about men, i suggest starting with them. Because whoever you get your information from doesn't have a clue in hell what they're talking about.
Well a 22 year old girl is still very young compared to a 32 - I was not serious until I was 24 either so not sure why should girls get serious for marriage at such a young age .
@@MsMarwalous Agreed. Honestly, if a girl wants to get married at 32, I don't see anything wrong with that as long as they have reasonable expectations. Many women spend their 20s building up their career and finances, and then get together with someone of a similar social standing. Fair play in my book. For those that fool around in their 20s, have kids from multiple marriages, and then expect to settle down with someone who has worked hard, then it is a matter of them making poor life decisions and bearing with the consequences.
@@chestfish7192 I’m 27 and single - I’m in my late 20s so I’m not being entitled whatsoever. These videos are rather depressing I still look young and I agree that society is messed up in that way that men have more time , but I do believe to some extent even a young girl might end up with the wrong person compared to someone older so really the stats can hold false in certain situations.
Yeah they probably go through five guys that were perfect to be with and ended up cheating on him by the time she's 30 she's she's got 10 guys that are she can call it over at any time for a booty call I mean this whole marriage thing is just it's it's done and over with it's an old tradition and any guy in 2020 from here on out he thinks it's a good idea to get married I don't know I don't know where they missed the the email saying this is a dumb fucking idea
This is well said. With extreme amount of choice the less likely she is to make one... Social media has given women the validation from men from all over the world which makes them feel like they are just too good for most men. And around the world turns.
@Faster Blaster Master exactly and you are not getting her best Years. you are getting her leftover years... Let Woman Work Full Time and be Alone and be Tax Slaves
@@chestfish7192 stop dreaming catfish, I was around back then laptops never lasted more than a few years they were broken or hardware or software became obsolete. Don't even tell me you are using a laptop from the 80s or even the 90s they were all disposable and are long gone. We are talking about relationships, not computers you jerkweed.
Marriage is supposed to benefit both parties. There's no benefit to marrying a female in her 30's, can't cook, refuses to clean, who's been ran through by 100 men, works a full time job that stresses her out and takes up all of her time and is 25k-100k in debt. That situation only benefits the woman. Besides, marriage is ultimately meant to benefit the children. The average female in her thirties is simply not motherhood material period.
@@sokoyaadedolapo5321 It's mainly females racking up the debt. It's also because school is way overpriced and most Americans don't understand the money system and the fact we live in a debt based economy. They don't mandate a thorough teaching of economics in school because that would teach Americans how to avoid getting in so much debt and would ultimately hurt the international bankers who rule America and the world.
@@sokoyaadedolapo5321 The system here is designed so that you can't get a decent white collar job without a degree. And starting with Reagan the federal gov't started pulling funding from colleges to tamp down education levels in the population. The colleges stayed but are ran as corporations and hence you have runaway tuition costs and a huge focus on sports, etc. Most colleges are longer an elite institution worth your money.
Today the average single female in her 30s has one or more babydaddies who were "Mr. Fun" in her 20s back when she was ignoring Mr. Nice and Stable. Now she is desperate to nail down Mr. Nice and Stable to help her pay for the kids she irresponsibly chose to make with Mr. Fun, and pay her bills. No thanks. Enjoy your independence, ladies!
Sometimes I think I'm a failure at 27, having accomplished nothing. Then I see women of my generation and I don't feel bad anymore. Because I'm working, learning, building myself up, and growing. Meanwhile, women practice hypergamy and are provided with a false hope they can maintain the behavior in their 30s, too lazy to build any skills. They get a massive dopamine through their social media and men, and think it will last for decades.
I'm turning 27 in 2 months so I feel this with you. Just focus on building the best version of yourself. Learn new skills, set goals for the next 5 years of your life, lift weights, read books, meditate. The best years of our lives are just ahead of us!
This is exactly how I am at 30. With my current habits and health, my life is only one third over. I have another 60 years to build the life I want. I didn't accomplish what I wanted, when I wanted because of my own youthful failures. I've learned from them and becoming better every day. Meanwhile, women I've known for years are declining more and more as they wait for Captain Save-A-Hoe to come rescue them. They keep themselves busy, but they're just wage slaves to their dead end jobs.
Bruh fuck feeling accomplished. That's for older people. At least you're on the right path to that kind of success. We still got guys out here gangbanging at 30, taking all the C's out of words. You'll be alright bro. Much love and stay blessed
I've spoken to young women in their mid 20's about getting married, having a family. They almost all say, "I've got plenty of time for that". It's until they reach 40, and the realisation of never having the opportunity to fulfil their dream. All they have is a job, that job isn't going to love you, nor will it take care of you. John Wayne said it best. "Life is hard, but it's harder if you're stupid".
I was one of those girls and the reason I wanted to get a degree and work first is: 1) Because I wanted to be able to provide for myself in case there is no one to provide for me. 2) I don't want a man to think I'm a gold digger trying to get with him for his money. 3) In case I find a good man who is a perfect match for me but who is not able to provide for a family with his salary alone.
I've had similar conversations...the word often used was "fun". One of the most beautiful women I ever met at the age of 25, that's all she used to say. I couldn't put my finger on it, back then, but I always thought it was either so stupid, or irresponsible. It's as if, they don't realize they might live into their 40s, 50s, 60s, etc
@@StageInTheSkyCreations That's true, I've seen it happen. However, I believe that those women are all probably emotionally healthy and securely attached. If you're not then you will never be able to lock down a good men. I don't want to go too much into the psychology of it but it's not fair to judge people who are single at 40 when you don't know what their childhood was like. It's scary to know that if I'm still single by the time I'm 40 people will think I'm stupid for not knowing what I wanted sooner, when in reality all I've ever wanted was to be in a committed relationship. I just didn't know how to make that happen when I was in my early twenties and I hope it's not too late for me now at 32.
@@lihoamlo9213 Usually for women after 30 they'll have less attraction nor value, true men dont care about their partner's money nor achievements in life .... it's like this if ur independent and such then they'll leave you alone like legit alone
Interesting that Hungary, having instituted family-friendly policies a few years ago had, for 2019, the highest rate of marriage for 40 years, the lowest divorce rate for 60 years and the highest birth rate for 20 years. Basically, they've made wifehood and motherhood worth women's while and they marginalise feminist propaganda. So things can be changed if governments wish to. We have to assume, therefore, that most of them don't.
you are 100% correct, someone or some group is paying to brainwash younger women ,while in college to hate men, especially white men and we are seeing the fruits of their labor(money).the us could take steps that are too obvious to mention, but the powers that be are really hyped about the usa being a 3rd world low i.q hellhole.
People don't realise they are cattle, governments and the corporations the people in them suck up to, are shepherds. Yes ... its not just there that highlights such as that. Things don't have to work the ways they are.
Javier Fito a woman must be relatively attractive and have an okay personality (at least on the surface) to get a man. A man needs the perfect face, perfect body, high income, somehow be around whenever she wants but not too much or she gets annoyed, must be entertaining despite her having the personality of skim milk, and always be subservient to her every whim while somehow appearing confident and strong. Then she’ll resent him for being too perfect and making her feel insecure, so she cheats and blames him.
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@CherrySand - LOL, there is grammar in every word you typed, it's just ignorant grammar.
@@billmuller1469 For most women, there is no such difference. When they use the word 'lonely', then most of the time they actually mean 'there is no one around who is keeping me entertained' or 'the guys I find hot don't want to fuck me', while at the same time they are usually well connected within a huge social network. When a man uses this phrase, then he might not have spoken with anyone outside work for months.
Hmmm . . . Is not the long term success rate for two virgins marrying not 99%+ ? Why on earth would one take the chance of diluting to prospect of long term success?
One of the most important phenomena that nooner ever talks about is the deliberate shame and disregard and lack of respect American society has embraced for the last 50 years related to men who have chosen blue collar or non college careers. Even if a plumber or mechanic easily makes 6 figures, these new narcissistic women would look down on them even if the woman received a BS degree in Sociology making $26 k per year. Please do a show on this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Eodyn haha yup there a lot women mad at me cause I don’t want to settle down and other women that don’t want me, want me too settle down and be miserable fucked them
You can still get the former (pre-feminist) in 3rd world countries. Best if you plan to retire in their country though rather than bring them to the USA.
Same, except with my si-fi dreams. Too late to land on the moon, too early to land on mars. Too late to watch the jurassic park on opening day (born in the late 90s here), too early to work a dream job as a dino handler.
I (a man) had kids when I was 22. My kids are now grown up, and I’m single. People kept telling me ‘I had to find somebody’. I am occasionally a bit lonely (but not much), but I don’t have to walk on eggshells, wonder when the next argument will happen, live in constant anxiety, deny myself small pleasures like seeing friends, I can go out and drink as much as I want, I don’t need to check everything I say for some negative hidden meaning, I can cook food I want, I don’t have to agree with nasty judgemental comments made about other women, I can talk or go out with as many women as I want, etc etc In our society being single is taboo, but I think it’s underrated for men. Most of my male friends spend a lot of time moaning about their wives/partners.
Sounds just like my life, and we are in a great place! If you add up the pros and cons of being single, the pros quickly outweigh the occasional feeling of lonliness
@@mlb6d9 When you are alone, being alone can be "loneliness" or "solitude". Loneliness is a negative feeling that will hopefully pass. OTOH, solitude is a positive feeling that can be relaxation from the world's stress and clamor.
67 here, live in my own home in Noosa, Australia 🇦🇺, and go out to dinner occasionally but haven't dated this millenium. I'm happy with my life and unlike many of my mates I don't find a list on the table every morning. Oh, and you left out the biggie ... 'LEAVE THE TOILET SEAT UP' 😂 (I have a mate who's been ordered to sit down when he takes a piss in case he splashes up the side of the bowl 😱)
The fact that so many women feel like they have to "settle" when looking for a man doesn't mean there's a male "shortage"; it just means that women, today, have an extremely inflated sense of self-worth, part of which is due to the fact that they obtained a bunch of things like a degree, etc. that men don't care about and these women actually think they're more desirable and that they deserve more because of it.
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@Babushka Novaya LOL... "As time passes, she begins to mature." .... LOL
@Star Fox I heard the expression "will f*ck anything with a pulse", but I never met such people. Till now.) But it can also be seen in a positive way. Having low or none standards makes your pool of potential partners almost endless.
I feel that I’m in the category - but the reality is there are a lot of guys who do value a girl with an education. Not every guy wants a pretty uneducated girl. They’re aiming for the pretty educated ones.
I think part of the problem is the false promotion of self-esteem, flipping what Nathaniel Branden was promoting on it's head. Instead promoting healthy self-esteem, it has promoted a lack of self awareness, insecurity and narcissism.
Many of us who grew up as "poindexters" or as the "nice guys" don't care anymore as we completely lost intrest due to being institutionalized from being single all throughout our teens and 20s as litterally no one would even bother to give us a chance, I myself was a poindexter and certainly don't care anymore, It's not my fault that I am on the Autism Spectrum and as a result I had to learn all of my social skills which mostly came through hard experience, but ofcourse no one gave me any second looks because I was "the weird guy", and they were more interested in "having fun".
I totally feel you. I've been in a couple of relationships, but I consider myself socially inept (though not clinically diagnosed as being on the ASD) for the most part. I've been able to compensate for it cognitively through experience and mimicking socially acceptable behaviours, but it takes effort that is simply not worth it when it comes to relationships. It is, however, worth it when it comes to work and business dealings.
@@tobeornottobe9689 Depends on the extent too. I know some people who are clinically diagnosed with Aspergers, and while I can tell that they aren't necessarily social butterflies, I don't consider them on the realm of "weird". Some are highly intelligent, articulate, and successful.
@John Jourdan i would say that the incel phenomenon happens because of how much attention and how easy is for woman to get quality man when young, even if only for a night so they dont look at men under a certain level making a lot more incel then we used to have
A man's prime is his mid 30s. A woman's prime is her mid 20s. Men have more flexibility and time to think about having a family, and when a man is ready to start a family, he's going to pursue and marry a woman in her prime, mid 20s. He's not going to settle down with a woman that is his age.
One of my maddest dating experiences: I met a 42 year old woman. She told me she desperately wanted to have a family and children. Clearly time was running out for the latter. We ran the relationship at breakneck speed to see if it was a possibility. All was going well for about two months then she started, inexplicably from my point of view, to mess me about. She then rang me to break off the relationship saying, "I don't feel as passionately about you as I do my ex and I don't just want to use you to obtain a family." She had the opportunity to have all the things she told me she desperately wanted, but it wasn't enough to compete with the feelings towards the absent ex. Totally mad.
@Joetoy90 Couldn't agree more, although a lot of 22 year old women have got extremely weird ideas about men at the moment, and a lot are absolutely addicted to their phones, so it's still a treasure hunt and the dating still eats into your time. Fortunately I have a nicer girlfriend now who is 34 and - so far - seems a good match, and there's not the pressure of the biological clock. Lesson learned.
@@everygamegoing 34 is already old buddy. the time frame for kids is almost used up. Normally, these type of women try to rush family and kids. Maybe she doesnt want them that why shes chill about it?
My husband left school at age 15 to work full-time on his family farm (4th generation farmer). He struggles with reading, but knows how to budget and run a farm (sheep/grain) exceptionally well. I'm so proud of him. Being less educated than me, hasn't been an issue. I help him with his reading and spelling, and he helps me keep within our budget :-D
There is little incentive for a self made man to start a family with a modern woman, one who has a masculine demeanor, faded fertility and used up p-sleeve.
Being in this modern society the more I understand a lot of our ancestor’s traditional roles made sense and were established for a good reason. Look at the instability nowadays. We use to settle down early so we could move on to other important things and goals in life instead of obsessed with chasing sex all the time.
@Nicholas that is rare gem of wisdom right there! It is quite disheartening that is hook up culture transcends from generation z all the way to the filthy baby boomers who are single-handedly responsible for the breakdown of society.
@Alana Jackson - LOL ... the ubiquitous "incel" retort when they know they have met defeat!! Don't forget to call him a misogynist and a racist too ...LOL
SAD thing is, in the coming decades those old cat ladies will still need to be taken care of by big daddy government, and now with a cripplingly low birth-rate, who do you think will be paying for all that female social welfare? It wont be the cats =/
That show is merely a symptom of a general shift in values going back much further. If people had still thought differently, the show would not have been a success.
How come? If you have watched the show you would have noticed that all three main characters wanted to get married and have kids and two of them did by the end of the show.
I remember a woman I knew many years ago angrily calling me selfish for not wanting to get married to someone one day. I had no romantic connection to her at all. In her mind it was the case that any man’s sole purpose in life was just to provide for some woman and her offspring. To her, only women have a choice and the rest of us should accept our fate.
90% of the women I date wasted their whole 20s getting useless dopamine shots on social media, made hundreds of guys waste their time chasing them for then ghosting them, toying with them just to feel hot, and have not used their time to build anything valuable. no profitable career, no pleasant personality, no intellectual knowledge to share, not even cooking skills. and now at 30 they all want to date up with a professional who has made sacrifices and worked like crazy for a decade, and is better than them in any possible way, even in cooking. and the most absurd part is they will still behave as if they're the prize rather than being grateful for the chance of him even talking to them. this is the pinnacle of laziness and zero self-awareness. you can only pump'n'dump them, there's no possibility of a future.
A man almost never asks for commitment from a woman, but a woman will often try & shame men into commitment. 'Why is the relationship stalling, why won't you commit to me' Translation: I've not benefitted enough financially from our relationship, please marry me so that then I don't need to put anymore effort in & I take the house if it goes wrong.
Most women had a chance for love at least once in their 20s but they almost always throw that chance away for their imagination of someone else 'better' in the future. Being unrealistic and heartless causes women to hit the wall single, and I'm glad about that. I only wish they didn't reproduce their genes first.
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ALL women are ALWAYS looking for a Bigger, Better Deal (BBD). If you grew up with a father in the home you would know that.
@@maynotbe we women dont want 50 years old man when we are 20 ...we go for 30 years old men and some go for the same age . (I'm 31 my man is 39 )why would I go with an old fat ugly 50-YEAR-OLD MAN!? with average salaries when I can have a man that is 10 -20 years younger with the same salary and that still makes other turn heads WTF!? 50 is pushing it in your dream body your not Hugh Hefner
@@funnygaming2672 pff, I bet you wont be saying that if you met leonardo dicaprio. Even super models date him, as long as the man takes care of himself and his appearances. Many women will still date up, they probably dont care about how old he is, as long he can provide something that they crave. I think you may be the minority in this. I would agree if you had said a man in his mid 60s because that's a bit too old, but 50s are fine and many women in their 20s are more than willing to date those men.
Women don't understand that, your best years are your younger years. Once women hit 25 and above, the looks starting to fade and the only way to get a man at that point is with personality.
@Troublesome A yeah, that's why i don't get with a woman based on her looks, looks will always fade over time so her personality and the way she caries herself should be the main reason a guy should get with a woman.
dmapp zoom and that’s why their personality never improves beyond the years when her looks are with her because she never had to at a younger age. When people get older habits never change. That’s when the feminist ideology hits them. “I’m too good for a man I don’t need them”. “I’ve got minimum standards that are 3 pages long - meet them”. Who the fuck wants to submit to an entitled brat?
@@88Rickster88 i agree brother, this is why in the end i choose not to bother with them. because i know all they will bring is drama and chaos in my life.
Hold on to that second thought there bud, and remember it! It will most likely save you some serious heartache Better yet...if your first thought is... “boy, she’s hot”... Your second thought should be, “I wonder how she’ll look in divorce court”
This is absolutely the truth. Boys, be so careful with a beautiful girl. And it’s not even that she is going to destroy you. It’s that they have a belief that they are better than everyone else. And they feel that The world owes them so much. You will most likely waste time and lots of money and your emotions on beautiful girls. I say choose a woman who is a 6 or below.
It's okay ladies. Most men don't start finding "love" til their 30's. No they didn't wait in their 20's. They were left out of the game. Enjoy feeling like a man 😘 duce's 👋
Just to say this I've been single since birth. And I'll be 28 this year. I've never had a woman in my life and I don't feel bad about it. As a man I have more options and willpower to work on myself.
Me: divorced the first wife, buried the second. The first one put up a fuss about the shovel. Seriously; you need an unconditional commitment from her. No matter what happens she stays with you.
Too many women treating men like it's the damn stock market. They keep thinking they can do better then next thing you know she's still single and lonely with 3 dogs.
Oh yes cause you don't treat them as stock market when you come up with shit like "the wall" meaning you basically value them based on looks,sex they can give you/baby making capacities/cleaning and cooking capacities. And once they "hit the wall" they are no longer good stock market.Totally. So unfair for women to do exactly as you do.
I never wanted to wait. Since I was 16, I've been chasing after girls with zero success. I'm 28 now, alone and lonely, working in a foreign country. I never wanted to play games, to ''hit and run'', to take advantage of girls. Every girl I ever wanted, I did with the intension of being with her until the end. I always go for the shy ones, the ones almost nobody looks at. Zero success. I'm honestly afraid of relationships, I can't trust women anymore. I'm afraid that if by some miracle, a girl liked me, I'd feel obligated to be with her because who knows if another one will ever come along. I haven't touched a woman in 4 years. It's pathetic, I know, but what's your choice when you have zero options?
You sound like me.. I always wanted to play it straight but they are forcing my hand. women are slowly noticing me now but I just got dumped again so don't mind me. She dropped me out of nowhere after just 2 months. I was the archetypal nice guy and now I feel I'm just jaded forever.
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You're trying too hard, you're looking desperate. Women do NOT like that!!!
@ It's not so easy.. you can't just pretend. You have to actually make those changes and live your own life and be active so that it comes natural. So that when there is someone you can be with them but you don't drop everything for them.
There’s a saying; “If u chase after women, you’ll always run out of $. If u chase after $, you’ll never run out of women.” Look to improve mentally and career FIRST bro!
education is training future slaves. to slave for their system endlessly. they have turned human beings into trees, with a thousand branches, each branche has a thousand leaves. each leave represents a clone of you. talk about redpilled.
It's really sad if you are like me and not into hookups and stuff, it's so hard to find like a decent woman out there, if you are a introvert you most likely have to use dating apps and if you are not a tyron or 10/10 material you are pretty done. Also most people don't know how to handle a relationship and the stuff that comes with this
My mother raised me to be what she thought was the ''perfect'' man... Imagine how I felt trying to survive In this mess. Now I'm 28 years old, had 4 relationships which had been just HORRIBLE. I'm done with them except If It's a hook up and even then I'm really careful about who I choose to lay down with. Now life's about myself, building my future and doing what I like. In this day and age, they're just not worth It.
@@nobodyinterestingyou Welcome to the club (although my relationships where pretty good, just didn't work out for various reasons)! Now I'm always thinking "what does she bring to the table besides sex (which isn't really that valuable)?" If the answer is "nothing" or "only negative stuff", she gets the door. Sadly though, most women don't have much to bring to the table because society makes them think that breathing air while having a vagina is a gift to the world.
Unfortunately I have to agree with you guys. I had some nice relationships but looking back...I'm glad I didn't stay with any one of them. And the amount of women that simply don't care about their male counterpart - because I heard it straight from their mouths- is unbelievable. Sad times.
@@valkeitos it wont happen. Even very good looking guys are not approached by the caliber of women they think is acceptable and mind you guys have lower standards and will date down.
Many women bought the hype that they can "have it all." The reality is this: family or fun/career. As a woman, if you want a family then finding and marrying a guy in your 20's is the only way to go because that's when you're at your physical and child bearing peak. No guy want's to meet a woman in her 30's, wait 3-5 years to make sure it's going to stick, then have kids because the woman will be well past child bearing prime. Yeah, modern medicine and techniques make it possible to get pregnant later in life, ladies, but it's costly and not 100%. If you're a woman looking to party and succeed in career, then so be it, but not many guys want to settle down with such types.
I’m just one year away from being 30. I just celebrated my 29th birthday in March. The problem for me is that finishing college has been my biggest priority especially since I’m going to be graduating at the end of this semester but unfortunately in the time I’ve been at college there isn’t much to choose from when it comes to dating since most of the girls on campus are a bunch of left-wing feminist brainwashed lunatics. Whenever I have happen to find one who seems sane (or at least saner) it isn’t until sometime later I find out what a head case they secretly are and sooner or later it all falls apart and we go our separate ways. That’s one of the problems with living in California this state’s political and academic policies breed mental illness.
I'll be 26 later this year, and will hopefully graduate by this December, and I have to agree, it seems to be better to be a bachelor given the outlook on things these days.
I graduated 2 years ago. Some people think that you have to graduate at 21. Wish you all the best. Dont stress over finding someone. The pressure isnt on us, its on the ladies. If you want kids, you can always have them later. Take care of yourself first before you can take care of someone else. Have fun my man.
"Being single in 30s is global now" My understanding = somebody regretted taking advice from some naive lady and asks other desperates to join the hit-the-wall squad.
It's because they want to make up for lost time. They want to jump into the timeline the would have had if they didn't party and boink everything they wanted in their 20's.
They don't even want a relationship with me they just want to marry me & I gladly reject them all. Last time making out with a 3 & 6, the 3 accused me of forcing myself, she was drunk & woke up imagining things. Both on the phone the next morning.
'The cheapest woman is the one you pay for.' ... Remember, 'if it flys, floats or fcuks, rent it.' My point ... compared to the cost of paying alimony, child support or starting again to buy a home (for one) ... renting a hooker once a week or fortnight is a bargain
I mean, when you finish graduate school at like 26, then it takes you a few years to buy a house, then you gotta' focus on your career to pay off that house, when does society expect career women to settle down? In their 30s right? Just like men. We have basically extended childhood from 22-26 by pushing more education and making undergraduate degrees useless. If you don't have a solid trade or a graduate degree you're pretty much worthless. Since no women are going to trade school as they don't like blue collar work their only option is higher education. Except successful men in their 30s don't want successful women in their 30s. They reach down into the 20s and late teens. 40 something guys do the same thing. So no one is left for the 30 something women except the guys in their 50s and up. The problem is, if a guy has made it to 50 and still isn't married that means they don't want to be married.
When you have that house go to a college bar ask a girl if shed like to come back to your house and she says you mean like apartment? And you say no i own a home, your in
Well said. I'd only add that it's not a binary choice between trades or higher education. It's a trinary choice. Trades, higher education, or ... Get this... Actually make a priority of finding a good man and offering him your youth and fertility to build a family. and hint, option 3 is a win for everyone.
@@Doors067 the problem with that is that youll have to date college girls, i didnt even like them when i was in college, bunch of arrogant airheads with standards that reach into intergalactic space.
The sad truth about online dating is this is the leftovers, the rejects, and the losers. The outgoing active people not glued to their phone have found someone. I met my wife while square dancing regularly. You get to know people, and many of them know someone, so the candidates are much better filtered, in good shape, active, outgoing, etc. This is not the drunk crowd with beer goggles looking for tonight's hookup.
I did online dating in 2009-2011 (with a dating website) and then again in 2018-2019 with the apps, Tinder and Bumble. Both in the same city. I noticed a massive difference.
Your situation is extremely rare. Most of my adult life was pre-internet and finding a mate sucked. The young adult's group at my church in 1980 had 2 women and around a hundred men. College was better, but it was still 80% men (and over 90% in the hard sciences). Getting a date was next to impossible back then unless you were a muscle-bound chad or a drug dealer. When the internet came out, I discovered foreign girls online and started traveling overseas. It changed my life. Truth is that the internet makes it super easy to meet girls all over the world. You just have to study hard, get a good job, save money and be willing to travel. I am retired in Africa now (but would recommend Asia for most men).
Great comment. I’ve noticed this too! I call it ‘herd Immunity’. Good people generally connect with good people and filter out the bad, this is how you create healthy relationships. My folks did it this way.
tried to sign up for dancing classes recently. the instructor told me unfortunately he couldnt take me because there were no women in my age bracket (20s) signing up. theyre too busy drinking and screwing dudes they pick up in nightclubs.
There was a time in the past when households everywhere could get by with a single cars, and we didn’t have so many expenses. Now that women have joined the workforce however, the narrative has changed and a single income is not enough anymore. When I was a kid in the 90’s, my parents did great on a single income, but we were not materialistic. I still hold onto this minimalism idea, but the women I have dated are very spoiled and I lose interest quickly because I am not going to work myself to death for them.
Does anyone remember that episode of the Simpson where Homer is trying to convince Barts classmate to agree to a date with Bart. She's on the fence about the idea. And he then goes come on... your not much of catch, your short,dumb, you dress like a kid, grab what you can get before it's too late and you end up alone.and then the teacher Edna passes by and says he's right you know. Homer is wiser than we know!!
When I look into my future 1yr, 5yrs, 10, 30yrs I genuinely don’t see any women in it. It used to not be this way. No you couldn’t even pay me to date. It’s a very freeing feeling
I'm the same age as Joker, and most of the women I get hitting on me on dating sites are late thirties to early forties. They are almost all childless and list "Want children" in their profiles, even tho' my profile explicitly says I don't want any more. I'm too old to be changing nappies again. I dismiss them with prejudice. But it illustrates that there was about a 10 year lag for the Feminist propaganda from the early '70 that girls could do anything and be everything to really start taking effect in the '80s. Now 40 years later, the women that bought into that social programming are suddenly hitting "The Wall" and realising they made a terrible mistake. All I can say is buy stocks in cat food futures.
MM ... like with most things a man wants, or doesn't want (like kids), a woman thinks that when she wants something your preference doesn't count. The old 'She wanted a cat, I didn't want a cat, so we compromised and got a cat' I'm a few years older than you, but I can tell gou that the best thing to be over 40 is male ... treasure it.
I have just evicted a bitter, twisted, angry, arrogant 38yo Japanese women who swallowed the feminist cool-aid. She is a nutter! I suspect she has NPD and BPD. She told me she was trying to contact an old BF from high school on Facebook, this is a sign of regrets. She is one of the rudest people I have meet in 51 years. Cheers from Melbourne Australia.
I once had a 35 yr old boss ( heir to 10 million) got himself a 19 yr old bride. She had everything she could want... litterly got caught with a pizza delivery boy...halarious!!!
Alone time and loneliness aren't the same thing. Mainly extreme extroverts will feel lonely. Any chatty Cathy/social butterfly will feel the brunt of it.
i feel lonely sometimes, then i have a nice wank and go out for some drinks at night. a few hours of social interaction with regular boring people fixes it for at least a week.
@@Tusuperbis Two of you cows got rings out of me during my Blue Pill Haze. Your both blew it. The cash and prizes ya'll won, is long gone now. And l'm restored, Red Pill educated and going onward and upward. Without any of you.
I have my own regrets as a man of 31. Despite the bad apples I’ve encountered, I can say there has been potential in the bunch. I can’t help but feel that my cynicism is going to prevent me from getting into some of the same situations I would in my younger years. I want to be realistic and cautious but I don’t want to attract women as embittered as me.
How do you try and convince yourself that being massively unappealing as a result of your own poor decisions is actually anyone's fault but your own? Call it a new social trend.
I never dated in my 20s. I wasn't good enough. I was busy working and going to school. I have a good tradesman job now, building a pension and have benefits for a family, that which I'll never have. I took a path of life that did not line up with what I wanted. I sacrificed my future for a glimmer of hope. I was let down.
@Ultimate Warrior I watched one of your videos and loved it😊 I think that there are still a lot of great women and men out there, personally I’m not sure whether I’ll find someone who matches my personality but in the end it doesn’t matter. I know that my happiness has to come from within anyway, so I don’t stress my self out about finding a man. This video suggests that I probably should (I’m in my early twenties) but I think that there’s nothing worse than feeling desperate. That’s when we choose the wrong partners, get into bad situations (and for women: often with the wrong kind of dudes...), so I prefer focusing on myself and the things that bring me joy. If I end up alone (and happy) that’s better than ending up in a bad relationship and feeling miserable.
The author forgot one very important detail when writing this. Relationships are between two people and they only look at one side. These women with education trophies complain there's no men. Neither the author nor these women ever ask one simple question. Why would the man I want pick me insread of someone else?
Traditionally- parents- who knew a lot more than even their kids in their 20's- would talk to other parents, and find an appropriate partner, and then have societal guidance so they stayed together. Because having two parents, in a supportive community, raise children, is the only thing that has worked, historically.
I have never had more messages and DMs from girls in the last.4 weeks than I did pre Covid-19. All these girls were either not interested or were flings. Now they're all sat at home alone with no every day male validation and attention, they're creeping out the woodwork and I find it hilarious 😂😂
Man I'm 43. All the single chicks I knew when I was 30 are still single. They put no time into serious relationships in their 20s. So they have no idea how an actual relationship works. They were single in their 30s. They are still single in their 40s. Difference between a man and a woman right... If a man's still single in his 30s-40s, he's considered lucky. If a woman's single through her 30-40s may as well be a funeral. The tears, oh my God the tears. I've excommunicated 90% of the female friends I had 30-40ish years of age because they are single and miserable.
Unfortunately, I don't think things are going to change anytime soon. Most women and top tier men are the ones who make the rules and they are not going to change them to give us an advantage.
Read Gloria Steinem, she clearly said her goal was to destroy the family with feminism. Women were told from the beginning the result of this would be they would die old and alone.
@@rakashaagain I don't know. The observation is that prices are increasing. Maybe teachers are asking higher wages, I don't know. The usual logic doesn't seem to apply.
@@Simboiss government insured loan so the school increase the price. I am not going to get into it but the basic is, when government guarantee that 18yo kid will get unlimited money, school can raise to infinite.
While I think this cuts both ways - both men and women need to bring something to the table and be clear on what roles they are going to undertake within a relationship and what their expectations are. It's as bad for men to hold a 'i am the prize' superior mentality (while of low status in the socioeconomic hierarchy) as it is for women to hold the 'my career is my status and I will have my Disney husband/don't need no man' mentality. Partnerships are about aligned goals which normally come with some degree of compromise or sacrifice...as we've become more individualistic and more obsessed with image (throw demoralisation of men and women's hypergamy as the sprinkles on top of each turd cupcake) and what other outcome would you expect.
Not just Western women anymore, Eastern Europe is also full of these 40+ women who keep screaming ''where are all the good men'' ''men my age can't keep up with me i am still young and beautiful but alone'' LOL
They're not lonely, they just have to endure involuntary solitude. Women are great believers of insanity; they keep doing the same things and expect to get different results.
"Don't worry, you are not alone." As if not being the only one makes anything about a problem less worrisome. You can argue it's actually the opposite. But hey, now you can claim it's not a problem with you, even though it may very well be something wrong with each and every individual "affected".
"The more people you date, the harder i i to find the right one" Agree with you there. I see so many people looking for the "perfect" fit, mostly women though a few men too. The best advice I ever got was to look for a 80% fit and know the 20% will grow in faster than it will take to find a 100% fit. I met him at 23, I was his first date and he was my 4th and first and only relationship.
Society told us to not settle until you had a job and had 'lived a bit'. I'm a 67 yo male and when i look back the women i wish settled with were all 16-25 - as was I , but society said no. Now I'm so happy with my own company that I'm buggered if I'm putting the toilet seat down for anybody.
University is a huge delay on life. By the time you are "as broke as when you got out of high school", you're 30 years old. Guess women wanted some of that same feeling, that 12 years disappeared in exchange for being 12 years older.
Society will tolerate a mediocre woman, but never a mediocre man.
Did Margret Thatcher say that???
Society let's women get away with a lot of crap
Marcus INfinity we have an orange dick head for president. Talk about mediocre.........geeze.
Dalton Reutlinger if he don’t kill us all first.
Wow, that's the truest statement I've read in weeks. Absolutely true. Being an average guy is a fucking crime. Being an average girl is totally ok, let's put you up on the pedestal.
If you got to your 30's alone, there is no reason to change that, you already proved you can live well alone.
@@demonwaterdemonwater4993 And this time around buy more cats and dogs and enjoy the rest of your miserable life as you grow older. Guys you'll value by that time will certainly be all married either to younger or same age women. You 🍼😊
true, bud!
@Meddlecat You should always aim to be better but not for somebody else. I could have made a lot of better decisions myself but no one should have to be "perfect" to get married. So what is the solution? (Please don't bash me too hard) Sex robots. Sex robots that can have babies!
@@Justreactions1897 did you mistake demonwater for a woman?
@@demonwaterdemonwater4993 so than go for a gf! You don’t have to explain yourself/need confirmation from anyone-do whatever you want!
It’s almost like the system that lasted for 1000s of years worked or something...
Exactly. To grab power the Marxists have to increase welfare roles. It should come as no surprise that single parent welfare was a permanent fixture all across Europe at the same time it was being introduced to America via Civil Rights legislation and the generational welfare it would bring along with it.
That is a bad argument.
karlkarly Karlsen how? You say it’s a bad argument without any supporting evidence. Any idiot can claim that without evidence.
The system _has_ worked. That smartphone you have? Came out of the western world built upon a foundation of monogamous marriage and family values.
Same with the life-saving medicine you can partake in.
These kinds of discoveries, and millions more, came out if the western world.
Let me guess, I hurt your feelings, so it must be false, right?
Facts don’t care about your feelings. Grow up.
karlkarly Karlsen so uhm...you’ve perfectly set the stage to elaborate, please do so
@@Nicholas_Terry well you didn't hurt my feelings xD. I thought it's logical that it's a bad argument, that if something lasted for a period of time it has to be true. My bad. For exemple, we thought for a long time that lightning was something magical, but it's still wrong. It also worked for the time. It's just a bad argument. Chill out. It almost seems like i hurt your feelings.
You didn’t want me when I was 20, so now I don’t want you when you’re 30
And much more so at age 40 or 50
Lola Montez I know women still don’t want me at 30, but they want access to my fat bank account
@Lola Montez I agree, people generally date on their "level". Everyone has options, saying otherwise is absurd. And guys shouldn't be mad when they date a "low vaule" woman and get low value results. But to say that there isnt a higher expectation of men in dating is absurd.
I can give you plenty of examples of high value men dating women that work in level Entry jobs and upgraded their life. But not the other way around, or at least in small numbers. Men are expected to be more and give more than women from the start, that is a fact. Does it make it right, idk, but it is reality. But it's the very same reason why men have problems trying to date on their level, because women can always get "more" if they wanted to because the qualifications to please a man is a way shorter and easier list, And most women are qualified already. Which is why most men are left single due to their being a better option.
But a man usually isnt qualified until he gets his life on track financially and physically. Which is also another reason why a lot of women my age date older guys because they are further ahead in life and can qualify more and give more. Which I can't be mad at, but once you seen this you realise there isnt such thing as unconditional love for men or women. But it's way worse for men because the "better option" isnt always readily available while most women have guys lined up.
@Lola Montez - "bitter entitlement" ... pot calling kettle black?!!!
@Lola Montez - hummmm ... women had no trouble dissing 165 million men for the last 50 years ... I'm not seeing the problem you're having with men simply recognizing the *truth* about women.
Feminism pushed young women to join the workforce and put family on the backburner. Now countless people are working & lonely, and families are fractured, broken, or nonexistent... All as planned.
And government went along just to get more taxes from these stupid hose
NWO
@AFGThugonomics9
It's why Hawaiian Punch is kosher. "There's 7 kinds of juice in Hawaiian Punch..."
@John Jourdan
MGTOW is the realization that the ideal relationship is more or less a fantasy. It's a philosophy to keep temptation of the lie at Bay. Men reproduce with women IN SPITE of women's nasty evolution.
www.breitbart.com/europe/2020/04/16/destruction-of-the-british-family-marriage-rate-falls-to-lowest-in-recorded-history/
This chick who I tried to get with back when we were 22 kept curving me so I left her alone and now that we're both 30 she's trying to crawl back. I told her I'm happily single
I had that happen but I dated her for 11 months, made her drive me around buy me things then told her I wasn't going to marry her or have kids. Loool
@@rally_chronicles sounds like the definition of getting “closure” lol
@@rally_chronicles good one she deserved it
I learned that the older I got (I'm in my mid-sixties now), the happier I was being single and free. The ironic thing is that I have the women I interacted with to thank for it.
Just ask her if she has a 22 yr old younger sister she can introduce you to…
'women don't date down'
Women barely even date across.
Sometimes they do date down; when they do, the man pays for it, dearly.
Hypergamy man. What do you expect?
@@ancientgear7192 EGGSACTLY!!
Women don't even date up if the guy is not far up enough... still she will believe she's the prize.
They sorta just date everyone and everything while they wait for the next branch.
30 and single, broke up with my ex a couple of years ago. I work in a field where the pay is low, i always was strapped on cash, after we broke up i realised how much money i wasted, for the first time in my life i have 10k on my name. I did not switch careers and live comfortable and stress free. Never again will i cohabitate with a women.
Edit: Yes women waste a shit ton of money
Sounds like you got the best years with her and now she's hit the wall you don't have to put up with her anymore. Congrats.
skippy weeko I’m a woman, cohabitating is a money drainer. I also have more money saved than ever before. Men and couples who “play house” are a waste of time. I like to keep them for when I need them. I’m the happiest ever.
Skippy weeko nice, bro. Keep building.
My pockets the jingle whenever im single
@ilumix led if its got tits or wheels its gonna be trouble
Who cares about women's dating problems. They have entirely brought their problems on themselves. I'm tired of every article being written about poor poor women.
Those articles are billboards for all those strong, independent shrieking violets in a desperate, pathetic attempt to sucker in one of those inferior men who they need like a fish needs a bicycle (until they need one like a fish needs water) to come and save them from bearing the responsibility of their lifetimes of shitty decisions.
Mad Max: "That's bait.
Those articles are trying to bait the protector/provider response harder than the Democrat monsters running Washington into the ground were trying to bait Trump into talking military action against the communist tumor that metastasized in Seattle.
yep, they should try being nice to men ,maybe they would have some company. BEEEEAATCH.
C A - Welcome to the 2000's . . . . .
I agree with you 100%, they wanted liberation from the "oppressive" patriarchy and they achieved their liberation, so they should be happy by not having a man and a family. Didn't they say that marriage and family was slavery for women and that they were "oppressed" by the Judeo-Christian values? They are simply confused and that tells you that feminism, liberalism and leftism are mental disorders.
@Chris Allbritton Just tell the world that you are OPPRESSED and ask the liberals and feminists for support to see if they are going to support you. They say that they are SOCIAL JUSTICE WARRIORS. We have been living in a MATRIARCHY for a long time, but feminists still claim that they are OPPRESSED. How could they be oppressed if they have the state on their side 100% here in the U.S. They can accuse men of anything without any proof and men will be jailed because the new norm is that women don't lie and that police officers, judges and juries must believe women. Questioning, interrogating, and demanding proof from women is an attack on women and they call that misogyny.
“If you’re lonely when you’re alone, you are in bad company.”
-- Sartre
said the man who slept with tens of under age girls brought to him by his female partner.....
@@michaels1416 Sometimes you need to experience the problem to understand it totally. Like this Sartre did?
@@michaels1416 Fucking finally lol
Don't you mean "if you're lonely with someone , you are in bad company." ?
@@ottomanpapyrus9365 nah, it's like the op said. if you can't stand being alone, that means you're such a bad person that even your self can't tolerate your presence.
I am a male.
I am exactly 40.
I am still single.
To be 100% honest, I feel great and I really DON'T need anyone beside me. No hate intended to females, AT ALL. I just came to know myself better and I enjoy my routines a lot. I know a lot of guys need sex and companionship to feel complete and fulfilled… I respect that. But that is not me.
I feel same as a woman
It's conditioning.
Same and I’m only 22 lol
Similar situation here. I'm extremely lucky as I have asperger's. Only reason I ever thought of dating is because it's something most everyone else does. Can't be more thankful that somehow I didn't find a way to be married earlier.
It just filling a hole with a temporary sulution if you aske me, build your kingdom and enjoy life instead of searching for fullfillment in others
*Talking about the sex thing to feel complete*
30 yr oldWomen: “Where have all the good men gone?”
Me: They are back in your 20s where you left them.
They have 30 but now they are searching for those who value are high
What about 14 year olds?
@Hidden 2o that is a sad truth. too old to start a family in the physical sense, yet 20 somethings these days are financially unprepared. it's a double edged sword.
@@1mol831 they're jail bait. pass.
@Hidden 2o 30 is pretty risky, not as bad as 35+, granted. 40's definitely too old. i know grandparents younger than that. i'm 43 now & know i'm too old for kids, unlike most of my generation. i always think of health risks for the children, along with how old i'd be when they grow up. i was almost a dad at 21, but the ex miscarried. (thank fuck!) i probably would've been a grandfather by now had that kid survived. (so glad i dodged that bullet!) i honestly think about 24-27 for the 1st kid & the last before 35. i thought my wife's cousin & her husband had their first 2 at perfect ages. 27 for the 1st, 30 for the 2nd. (unfortunately they had a 3rd at 36, which a. i find a little too old & b. due to our overpopulation problem, they had one too many.
No woman will ever admit that the problem of her unhappiness is feminism
@Lola Montez ❗❗❗❗❗❗❗THIS
@Lola Montez Amazing how women screw up their lives and then blame all their troubles on good men that they always rejected.
i think we might be in that transition period where we're trying to figure out how to live a life as a strong woman.
@Lola Montez The difference between what "incels" think they deserve, and what feminazis think they deserve, is this:
What men think they deserve *actually exists and is within reason.* Or at least used to be. Untill feminism came around. And ruined it all.
So yeah. You don't have a clue what you're talking about.
@Lola Montez Lola Montez idk where you get your information from but that isn't true for 95% of men, voluntary celibate or involuntary celibate.
What you describe is the perfect woman, yes. But what you fail to understand is that, unlike women, *most men are willing to settle for far less.* And i say most because the only men that women you describe go for are the 5-10% of men who have the so called "6 6s."
6 figure income
6 pack
6 foot +
6 exes
600 horsepower car
6" willy.
For men, looks are one thing. Good character is another. And take this from a man who has none of those things, Good character and personality come *long* before good looks.
As for feminism, It was about women having all the same rights and freedoms as men. The same pay for the work, etc.
All that has been accomplished *decades ago.*
What modern feminism is about, is the complete and total breakdown of the family structure, the complete destruction of masculinity, and then the western world as a whole. Three youtubers that cover this, that i highly reccomend are "Better Bachelor" "Voltaire" and "Donovan Sharpe."
They talk about what men actually appreciate and value most in a woman, Why the pandemic rise of single.mother households are ruining this country, why younger guys (teens) are being misguided off that, where they go wrong, and how they can right those wrongs.
If you want to know the whole and real truth about men, i suggest starting with them. Because whoever you get your information from doesn't have a clue in hell what they're talking about.
As marriage goes away, more and more men are getting happier and happier and women are getting more and more miserable. Poetic justice!!
@Vianna Janelle - my mother was a bipolar menace. having a vagina does NOT make you special or above criticism for your evil ways
More and more men are learning that occasional sex with an escort is actually more rewarding than any relationship with a woman.
@ ...and more honest...
Not really some men actually want love and romance why do you think male suicide is high
@@nkn8820 i have to agree. that's why my brother rushed into 2 marriages.
22 year old girl: "idk..not really looking for anything serious"
32 year old girl: "you MUST be ready to settle down!"
Also : “I’m done w games “
Well a 22 year old girl is still very young compared to a 32 - I was not serious until I was 24 either so not sure why should girls get serious for marriage at such a young age .
@@MsMarwalous sweetheart we are talking about late 20s and early 30s. stop acting like an entitled princess you twat
@@MsMarwalous Agreed. Honestly, if a girl wants to get married at 32, I don't see anything wrong with that as long as they have reasonable expectations. Many women spend their 20s building up their career and finances, and then get together with someone of a similar social standing. Fair play in my book.
For those that fool around in their 20s, have kids from multiple marriages, and then expect to settle down with someone who has worked hard, then it is a matter of them making poor life decisions and bearing with the consequences.
@@chestfish7192 I’m 27 and single - I’m in my late 20s so I’m not being entitled whatsoever. These videos are rather depressing I still look young and I agree that society is messed up in that way that men have more time , but I do believe to some extent even a young girl might end up with the wrong person compared to someone older so really the stats can hold false in certain situations.
I don't think a lot want to wait, their hypergamy just wants them to keep trying to find the best without getting locked down.
Yeah they probably go through five guys that were perfect to be with and ended up cheating on him by the time she's 30 she's she's got 10 guys that are she can call it over at any time for a booty call I mean this whole marriage thing is just it's it's done and over with it's an old tradition and any guy in 2020 from here on out he thinks it's a good idea to get married I don't know I don't know where they missed the the email saying this is a dumb fucking idea
This is well said. With extreme amount of choice the less likely she is to make one... Social media has given women the validation from men from all over the world which makes them feel like they are just too good for most men. And around the world turns.
@Faster Blaster Master exactly and you are not getting her best Years. you are getting her leftover years... Let Woman Work Full Time and be Alone and be Tax Slaves
They keep rolling the dice until all their credits have gone. By early thirties its over....
@@GRADE8BOLT you've just described the plot of insecure on HBO
We live in a time where everything is disposable and nothing is fixable. Including our relationships....
We have always lived in that time.
@@tikihutdweller5944 wrong. Back in the days laptops lasted 5-10-15 years. These days they come w a 2 year warranty and crash exactly when that’s due.
@@chestfish7192 stop dreaming catfish, I was around back then laptops never lasted more than a few years they were broken or hardware or software became obsolete. Don't even tell me you are using a laptop from the 80s or even the 90s they were all disposable and are long gone. We are talking about relationships, not computers you jerkweed.
@@chestfish7192 or with electrodomestics microwaves fridges those things lasted forever and were easily fixed
Bill Gates and his evil friends who push ''planned parenthood'' all over the world are to be blamed for many of these types of problems.
Some women think they're going to establish a career when all they really get is a job.
But it was their choice, so let them bear the responsibility for making that choice.
Isn't getting the ideal job in your chosen field not the entire goal of a career?
Career, job, whatever. Everything is better than depending on a man financially.
@Claudia Juarez If there were another way to get money, I bet they wouldn´t.)
@@schnee78 Everybody should be as independent as possible.
Marriage is supposed to benefit both parties. There's no benefit to marrying a female in her 30's, can't cook, refuses to clean, who's been ran through by 100 men, works a full time job that stresses her out and takes up all of her time and is 25k-100k in debt. That situation only benefits the woman.
Besides, marriage is ultimately meant to benefit the children. The average female in her thirties is simply not motherhood material period.
What I don't understand is why do you people from America rack up so much debt in school fees
@@sokoyaadedolapo5321 It's mainly females racking up the debt. It's also because school is way overpriced and most Americans don't understand the money system and the fact we live in a debt based economy.
They don't mandate a thorough teaching of economics in school because that would teach Americans how to avoid getting in so much debt and would ultimately hurt the international bankers who rule America and the world.
absolutely my friend
@@sokoyaadedolapo5321 The system here is designed so that you can't get a decent white collar job without a degree. And starting with Reagan the federal gov't started pulling funding from colleges to tamp down education levels in the population. The colleges stayed but are ran as corporations and hence you have runaway tuition costs and a huge focus on sports, etc. Most colleges are longer an elite institution worth your money.
Today the average single female in her 30s has one or more babydaddies who were "Mr. Fun" in her 20s back when she was ignoring Mr. Nice and Stable.
Now she is desperate to nail down Mr. Nice and Stable to help her pay for the kids she irresponsibly chose to make with Mr. Fun, and pay her bills. No thanks. Enjoy your independence, ladies!
Sometimes I think I'm a failure at 27, having accomplished nothing. Then I see women of my generation and I don't feel bad anymore.
Because I'm working, learning, building myself up, and growing.
Meanwhile, women practice hypergamy and are provided with a false hope they can maintain the behavior in their 30s, too lazy to build any skills. They get a massive dopamine through their social media and men, and think it will last for decades.
I'm turning 27 in 2 months so I feel this with you. Just focus on building the best version of yourself. Learn new skills, set goals for the next 5 years of your life, lift weights, read books, meditate.
The best years of our lives are just ahead of us!
if you are a happy men it doesnt mather what you got or have enjoy life brother
This is exactly how I am at 30. With my current habits and health, my life is only one third over. I have another 60 years to build the life I want. I didn't accomplish what I wanted, when I wanted because of my own youthful failures. I've learned from them and becoming better every day. Meanwhile, women I've known for years are declining more and more as they wait for Captain Save-A-Hoe to come rescue them. They keep themselves busy, but they're just wage slaves to their dead end jobs.
Maintaining balance and gratitude is success ,which it seems you have in spades so good on ya!
Bruh fuck feeling accomplished. That's for older people. At least you're on the right path to that kind of success. We still got guys out here gangbanging at 30, taking all the C's out of words. You'll be alright bro. Much love and stay blessed
I've spoken to young women in their mid 20's about getting married, having a family. They almost all say, "I've got plenty of time for that". It's until they reach 40, and the realisation of never having the opportunity to fulfil their dream. All they have is a job, that job isn't going to love you, nor will it take care of you.
John Wayne said it best. "Life is hard, but it's harder if you're stupid".
I was one of those girls and the reason I wanted to get a degree and work first is:
1) Because I wanted to be able to provide for myself in case there is no one to provide for me.
2) I don't want a man to think I'm a gold digger trying to get with him for his money.
3) In case I find a good man who is a perfect match for me but who is not able to provide for a family with his salary alone.
@@lihoamlo9213 Good points. The thing is, women can still find and lock down a good man while getting that degree.
I've had similar conversations...the word often used was "fun". One of the most beautiful women I ever met at the age of 25, that's all she used to say. I couldn't put my finger on it, back then, but I always thought it was either so stupid, or irresponsible. It's as if, they don't realize they might live into their 40s, 50s, 60s, etc
@@StageInTheSkyCreations That's true, I've seen it happen. However, I believe that those women are all probably emotionally healthy and securely attached. If you're not then you will never be able to lock down a good men. I don't want to go too much into the psychology of it but it's not fair to judge people who are single at 40 when you don't know what their childhood was like. It's scary to know that if I'm still single by the time I'm 40 people will think I'm stupid for not knowing what I wanted sooner, when in reality all I've ever wanted was to be in a committed relationship. I just didn't know how to make that happen when I was in my early twenties and I hope it's not too late for me now at 32.
@@lihoamlo9213 Usually for women after 30 they'll have less attraction nor value, true men dont care about their partner's money nor achievements in life .... it's like this if ur independent and such then they'll leave you alone like legit alone
"I'm soooooo lonely....."
(After she has emotionally/financially ass rammed every man she's ever been involved with)
Textbook irony defined.
never their fault, ask them all the men were bastards or lazy or etc etc etc
Interesting that Hungary, having instituted family-friendly policies a few years ago had, for 2019, the highest rate of marriage for 40 years, the lowest divorce rate for 60 years and the highest birth rate for 20 years. Basically, they've made wifehood and motherhood worth women's while and they marginalise feminist propaganda. So things can be changed if governments wish to. We have to assume, therefore, that most of them don't.
mouseketeery buttt things/new gen girls have changed here bro
you are 100% correct, someone or some group is paying to brainwash younger women ,while in college to hate men, especially white men and we are seeing the fruits of their labor(money).the us could take steps that are too obvious to mention, but the powers that be are really hyped about the usa being a 3rd world low i.q hellhole.
Sounds like a beautiful place to live
They're just paying women to be married and have kids. State-sponsored whoring.
People don't realise they are cattle, governments and the corporations the people in them suck up to, are shepherds. Yes ... its not just there that highlights such as that.
Things don't have to work the ways they are.
Society puts women on a pedestal and we wonder why they look down on the average man?
they even look down on rich guys. EVEN succesful woman
@CherrySand - Other than your completely idiotic adolescent bullshit, I think you might have a point ... if I could figure it out.
@CherrySand this should be on reddit
Javier Fito a woman must be relatively attractive and have an okay personality (at least on the surface) to get a man. A man needs the perfect face, perfect body, high income, somehow be around whenever she wants but not too much or she gets annoyed, must be entertaining despite her having the personality of skim milk, and always be subservient to her every whim while somehow appearing confident and strong. Then she’ll resent him for being too perfect and making her feel insecure, so she cheats and blames him.
@CherrySand - LOL, there is grammar in every word you typed, it's just ignorant grammar.
I'm not really lonely. Everytime I think about all the bad female traits, I am happy to be alone.
That's what you call ""taking the RED pill""
Oh, hey, I thought that this morning.
Big difference between being alone and being lonely.
@@billmuller1469 For most women, there is no such difference. When they use the word 'lonely', then most of the time they actually mean 'there is no one around who is keeping me entertained' or 'the guys I find hot don't want to fuck me', while at the same time they are usually well connected within a huge social network.
When a man uses this phrase, then he might not have spoken with anyone outside work for months.
@@Furzkampfbomber Very, very true !
Multiple sexual partners reduces the chances of a long, successful marriage. High 'body count' leads to failure later in life.
Many simps don't care they just want a woman to be with, no matter what !
@Chris Allbritton - no, a low n-count is never bad.
My ex husband is with his 5th marriage/wife!!!!!!! And heidi klum to!
Hmmm . . . Is not the long term success rate for two virgins marrying not 99%+ ? Why on earth would one take the chance of diluting to prospect of long term success?
Chris Allbritton a low body count is good. Don’t call for the tricks of whores and porn
One of the most important phenomena that nooner ever talks about is the deliberate shame and disregard and lack of respect American society has embraced for the last 50 years related to men who have chosen blue collar or non college careers. Even if a plumber or mechanic easily makes 6 figures, these new narcissistic women would look down on them even if the woman received a BS degree in Sociology making $26 k per year. Please do a show on this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I agree, please do an episode on this. Blue collar and proud
For the most part, only women will regret waiting till 30s.
Eodyn haha yup there a lot women mad at me cause I don’t want to settle down and other women that don’t want me, want me too settle down and be miserable fucked them
@WHY YOU ARE AN IDIOT yeah when they get desperate most guys first girlfriend were either a 5 and 6
John Jourdan “Women are winning the brinksmanship battle”. Last I heard, women have biological clocks.
Born too late to get an obedient pre-feminist house wife, born too early for hot android cuties. We're in the dark ages of romance.
Get a doll. I bought a Torso on amazon. its much better than my hand.
You can still get the former (pre-feminist) in 3rd world countries. Best if you plan to retire in their country though rather than bring them to the USA.
Same, except with my si-fi dreams.
Too late to land on the moon, too early to land on mars.
Too late to watch the jurassic park on opening day (born in the late 90s here), too early to work a dream job as a dino handler.
It's really the dark ages. dating sites have so many feminists it's a waste
Fuck androids, lets make genetically modified humanoid creature that resembles a woman but with better features and no voting rights.
No one's talking about why men are waiting... and keep waiting... It's because they aren't waiting, they're done.
I was just talking to a cute nice nurse. She mentioned her 3 kids. Bye!
There’s so many single moms out there 😂😂
BYE FELICIA!
Nurses are the biggest thots around bro
@@rodejorivers9185 I'll take hair dressers for 100 please!?
@@robertwarner1160 those are usually ones that had classes paid for to get off welfare. With 4 kids
Definition of independent woman who doesn’t need a man: waits too long and ends up single in her 30s with 10 cats
plus 30 lbs
😂😂😂 plus 30 dildos
Well,at least she do a good thing taking care of these cats :D 🤣🤣🤣
John Jourdan Once they hit their 30s, the ball is in the man’s court
Your wrong its 11 cats lmfao 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The more you date,the more you end up single for the rest of your life cause you have experienced/tasted eveeything and there is nothing new about it.
@Artur Markowski true
I (a man) had kids when I was 22. My kids are now grown up, and I’m single.
People kept telling me ‘I had to find somebody’.
I am occasionally a bit lonely (but not much), but I don’t have to walk on eggshells, wonder when the next argument will happen, live in constant anxiety, deny myself small pleasures like seeing friends, I can go out and drink as much as I want, I don’t need to check everything I say for some negative hidden meaning, I can cook food I want, I don’t have to agree with nasty judgemental comments made about other women, I can talk or go out with as many women as I want, etc etc
In our society being single is taboo, but I think it’s underrated for men. Most of my male friends spend a lot of time moaning about their wives/partners.
Sounds just like my life, and we are in a great place! If you add up the pros and cons of being single, the pros quickly outweigh the occasional feeling of lonliness
@@mlb6d9 When you are alone, being alone can be "loneliness" or "solitude".
Loneliness is a negative feeling that will hopefully pass.
OTOH, solitude is a positive feeling that can be relaxation from the world's stress and clamor.
67 here, live in my own home in Noosa, Australia 🇦🇺, and go out to dinner occasionally but haven't dated this millenium. I'm happy with my life and unlike many of my mates I don't find a list on the table every morning.
Oh, and you left out the biggie ... 'LEAVE THE TOILET SEAT UP' 😂 (I have a mate who's been ordered to sit down when he takes a piss in case he splashes up the side of the bowl 😱)
The fact that so many women feel like they have to "settle" when looking for a man doesn't mean there's a male "shortage"; it just means that women, today, have an extremely inflated sense of self-worth, part of which is due to the fact that they obtained a bunch of things like a degree, etc. that men don't care about and these women actually think they're more desirable and that they deserve more because of it.
@Babushka Novaya LOL... "As time passes, she begins to mature." .... LOL
Amen, did that offend anybody? Should I have said "Awomen?"
@Star Fox I heard the expression "will f*ck anything with a pulse", but I never met such people. Till now.) But it can also be seen in a positive way. Having low or none standards makes your pool of potential partners almost endless.
I feel that I’m in the category - but the reality is there are a lot of guys who do value a girl with an education. Not every guy wants a pretty uneducated girl. They’re aiming for the pretty educated ones.
I think part of the problem is the false promotion of self-esteem, flipping what Nathaniel Branden was promoting on it's head. Instead promoting healthy self-esteem, it has promoted a lack of self awareness, insecurity and narcissism.
I am 51 never been married with mo children . I have my dog and my hobbies . House is paid for. Very happy and content
Many of us who grew up as "poindexters" or as the "nice guys" don't care anymore as we completely lost intrest due to being institutionalized from being single all throughout our teens and 20s as litterally no one would even bother to give us a chance, I myself was a poindexter and certainly don't care anymore, It's not my fault that I am on the Autism Spectrum and as a result I had to learn all of my social skills which mostly came through hard experience, but ofcourse no one gave me any second looks because I was "the weird guy", and they were more interested in "having fun".
People on the spectrum are not desirable as life partners. Honestly, these people are weird and broken.
I’m that quite guy in the corner that no one notices. I like it that way.
Hum what is a poindexter?
I totally feel you. I've been in a couple of relationships, but I consider myself socially inept (though not clinically diagnosed as being on the ASD) for the most part. I've been able to compensate for it cognitively through experience and mimicking socially acceptable behaviours, but it takes effort that is simply not worth it when it comes to relationships. It is, however, worth it when it comes to work and business dealings.
@@tobeornottobe9689 Depends on the extent too. I know some people who are clinically diagnosed with Aspergers, and while I can tell that they aren't necessarily social butterflies, I don't consider them on the realm of "weird". Some are highly intelligent, articulate, and successful.
Menin their 30s are not a problem. Women on the other hand are racing into a wall.
😂😂😂😂😂 exactly backwards 200 miles per hour 😂😂😂😂
@John Jourdan i would say that the incel phenomenon happens because of how much attention and how easy is for woman to get quality man when young, even if only for a night so they dont look at men under a certain level making a lot more incel then we used to have
A man's prime is his mid 30s. A woman's prime is her mid 20s. Men have more flexibility and time to think about having a family, and when a man is ready to start a family, he's going to pursue and marry a woman in her prime, mid 20s. He's not going to settle down with a woman that is his age.
They honk the horn when they see the wall, honk and honk again.
But the stupid wall wouldn't move.
@John Jourdan both hit the wall eventually
One of my maddest dating experiences: I met a 42 year old woman. She told me she desperately wanted to have a family and children. Clearly time was running out for the latter. We ran the relationship at breakneck speed to see if it was a possibility. All was going well for about two months then she started, inexplicably from my point of view, to mess me about. She then rang me to break off the relationship saying, "I don't feel as passionately about you as I do my ex and I don't just want to use you to obtain a family." She had the opportunity to have all the things she told me she desperately wanted, but it wasn't enough to compete with the feelings towards the absent ex. Totally mad.
She did you a favor. Looking back one day, you will be glad it came to an end.
@Joetoy90 Couldn't agree more, although a lot of 22 year old women have got extremely weird ideas about men at the moment, and a lot are absolutely addicted to their phones, so it's still a treasure hunt and the dating still eats into your time. Fortunately I have a nicer girlfriend now who is 34 and - so far - seems a good match, and there's not the pressure of the biological clock. Lesson learned.
@@portraitofman2063 Yup, couldn't agree more. The reality was what it was, I had a new girlfriend 11 years younger by the end of the next week. ;-)
@@everygamegoing 34 is already old buddy. the time frame for kids is almost used up. Normally, these type of women try to rush family and kids. Maybe she doesnt want them that why shes chill about it?
You have a superpower
Dodging bullets.
When a woman panics as she hits 30, it reminds me of Sonic's "drowning countdown" theme
@@inar9822 So just the absolute majority?
Okay then.
So then the random simp she meets must be the bubble sound effect?
@@EarFarce4 no. The absolute minority.
Ohh man, that countdown was so intense...I always drowned because of the pressure
Not black women, we look good in our 30s
Society is broken. We just watching how it is going down.
Can it be turned around?
General Steven D. Lee 5683 - Individually, if you can.
My husband left school at age 15 to work full-time on his family farm (4th generation farmer). He struggles with reading, but knows how to budget and run a farm (sheep/grain) exceptionally well. I'm so proud of him. Being less educated than me, hasn't been an issue. I help him with his reading and spelling, and he helps me keep within our budget :-D
Not sure how he didn't learn to read by 15 but I am glad he is doing well. Sounds like school failed him in that regard.
@@glharlor probably big words. And school systems such in rural parts.
I hope you two are still together and doing well.
There is little incentive for a self made man to start a family with a modern woman, one who has a masculine demeanor, faded fertility and used up p-sleeve.
Men are wising up in 2020 and walking away from women.
Most modern women around the world are fine, just not in the Anglosphere.
LOL "p-sleeve", I love Coach Gregg too.
Not just used up, damaged and diseased.
Stop chasing a family and chase a new society.
Being in this modern society the more I understand a lot of our ancestor’s traditional roles made sense and were established for a good reason. Look at the instability nowadays. We use to settle down early so we could move on to other important things and goals in life instead of obsessed with chasing sex all the time.
You just have to get rid of the Reformed School system and the oligarchal families that wanted it (for the many, but not themselves).
@Nicholas that is rare gem of wisdom right there! It is quite disheartening that is hook up culture transcends from generation z all the way to the filthy baby boomers who are single-handedly responsible for the breakdown of society.
Ikr... who would have thought that our ancestors were behaving logically...😂
@@joeyken7791 facts! Yet it's the boomers who have the nerve to say we are causing the problem
It makes sense.
When a attractive women says she’s alone in her early 20’s she’s lying
Alana Jackson your mothers let you down so hard
@Alana Jackson - LOL ... the ubiquitous "incel" retort when they know they have met defeat!! Don't forget to call him a misogynist and a racist too ...LOL
Looks like Alana Jackson bailed LOL
Unless she's a legit 💯 virgin for morality purposes (hard to find but definitely out there).
Let those thots ROT away boys!! Build yourself up and date young girls
Exactly single life is the best like Steve McQueen said " I live for myself and answer to nobody "MGTOW rules 👍👍👍👍👍😂😂😂😂😂
SAD thing is, in the coming decades those old cat ladies will still need to be taken care of by big daddy government, and now with a cripplingly low birth-rate, who do you think will be paying for all that female social welfare? It wont be the cats =/
leftover women are a huge tax burden
We would be stealing girls from our sons
Radical Edward It’s already going on. Get over it
I blame "sex and the city" for promoting that trend.
I blame science
That show is merely a symptom of a general shift in values going back much further. If people had still thought differently, the show would not have been a success.
I blame lack of religious influence.
How come? If you have watched the show you would have noticed that all three main characters wanted to get married and have kids and two of them did by the end of the show.
Those woman weren't hot!
I remember a woman I knew many years ago angrily calling me selfish for not wanting to get married to someone one day. I had no romantic connection to her at all. In her mind it was the case that any man’s sole purpose in life was just to provide for some woman and her offspring. To her, only women have a choice and the rest of us should accept our fate.
90% of the women I date wasted their whole 20s getting useless dopamine shots on social media, made hundreds of guys waste their time chasing them for then ghosting them, toying with them just to feel hot, and have not used their time to build anything valuable. no profitable career, no pleasant personality, no intellectual knowledge to share, not even cooking skills. and now at 30 they all want to date up with a professional who has made sacrifices and worked like crazy for a decade, and is better than them in any possible way, even in cooking. and the most absurd part is they will still behave as if they're the prize rather than being grateful for the chance of him even talking to them. this is the pinnacle of laziness and zero self-awareness. you can only pump'n'dump them, there's no possibility of a future.
A man almost never asks for commitment from a woman, but a woman will often try & shame men into commitment.
'Why is the relationship stalling, why won't you commit to me' Translation: I've not benefitted enough financially from our relationship, please marry me so that then I don't need to put anymore effort in & I take the house if it goes wrong.
Most women had a chance for love at least once in their 20s but they almost always throw that chance away for their imagination of someone else 'better' in the future. Being unrealistic and heartless causes women to hit the wall single, and I'm glad about that. I only wish they didn't reproduce their genes first.
ALL women are ALWAYS looking for a Bigger, Better Deal (BBD). If you grew up with a father in the home you would know that.
Most men also have had a chance for love in their 20s, but they almost always throw that chance away (why marry someone just for marriage sake)...
@@miriyochanan7140 men Should throw it away in their twenties because their prime age is 30 to 50. females prime age is 18 to 30. it is what it is...
@@maynotbe we women dont want 50 years old man when we are 20 ...we go for 30 years old men and some go for the same age . (I'm 31 my man is 39 )why would I go with an old fat ugly 50-YEAR-OLD MAN!? with average salaries when I can have a man that is 10 -20 years younger with the same salary and that still makes other turn heads WTF!? 50 is pushing it in your dream body your not Hugh Hefner
@@funnygaming2672 pff, I bet you wont be saying that if you met leonardo dicaprio. Even super models date him, as long as the man takes care of himself and his appearances. Many women will still date up, they probably dont care about how old he is, as long he can provide something that they crave. I think you may be the minority in this. I would agree if you had said a man in his mid 60s because that's a bit too old, but 50s are fine and many women in their 20s are more than willing to date those men.
Women don't understand that, your best years are your younger years. Once women hit 25 and above, the looks starting to fade and the only way to get a man at that point is with personality.
dmapp zoom or unfkinexpected pregnancy...
Looks start to fade before 25.
@Troublesome A yeah, that's why i don't get with a woman based on her looks, looks will always fade over time so her personality and the way she caries herself should be the main reason a guy should get with a woman.
dmapp zoom and that’s why their personality never improves beyond the years when her looks are with her because she never had to at a younger age. When people get older habits never change.
That’s when the feminist ideology hits them. “I’m too good for a man I don’t need them”. “I’ve got minimum standards that are 3 pages long - meet them”.
Who the fuck wants to submit to an entitled brat?
@@88Rickster88 i agree brother, this is why in the end i choose not to bother with them. because i know all they will bring is drama and chaos in my life.
I'm at the stage in life where I see a beautiful woman and two thoughts enter my brain at the same time, "Boy, she's hot, but she must be trouble."
Same shit here
same here, lol
And expensive.
Hold on to that second thought there bud, and remember it! It will most likely save you some serious heartache
Better yet...if your first thought is... “boy, she’s hot”...
Your second thought should be, “I wonder how she’ll look in divorce court”
This is absolutely the truth. Boys, be so careful with a beautiful girl. And it’s not even that she is going to destroy you. It’s that they have a belief that they are better than everyone else. And they feel that The world owes them so much. You will most likely waste time and lots of money and your emotions on beautiful girls. I say choose a woman who is a 6 or below.
It's okay ladies. Most men don't start finding "love" til their 30's. No they didn't wait in their 20's. They were left out of the game. Enjoy feeling like a man 😘 duce's 👋
wrong channel for you, thank you for stopping by
more like i was kicked before i could even try it
@@lordescanor8232 yup, hehe
Zero SIMPapthy for them...
Just to say this I've been single since birth. And I'll be 28 this year. I've never had a woman in my life and I don't feel bad about it. As a man I have more options and willpower to work on myself.
Same as me I have been single all my life and I am 43 now
Me: divorced the first wife, buried the second. The first one put up a fuss about the shovel.
Seriously; you need an unconditional commitment from her. No matter what happens she stays with you.
xD Sad..I am 31 and never had a lady too
Im currently 22, became a red pill since I was 16. Heading in the same boat as you by choice
36 yr old whoman says "I'm ready to settle down. What's pair bonding?"
Man says "Nevermind" and keeps walking. 👣
@Дилан Ванчовски Not necessarily
@taothewanderer Maybe he just wants some cooch?
LOL ... good one!!
"There are not enough gallons of icecream in the world to replace a good man"
-A good man.
"There are not enough men in the world to replace an icecream"
-An Icecream
"There are not enough number of cats to replace a good man either"
- many good cats
@@javierfito6918 🤣🤣🤣 an Icecream!
Too many women treating men like it's the damn stock market. They keep thinking they can do better then next thing you know she's still single and lonely with 3 dogs.
Or cats
Best comment ever. They will pick the next pump and dump over AAPL
Oh yes cause you don't treat them as stock market when you come up with shit like "the wall" meaning you basically value them based on looks,sex they can give you/baby making capacities/cleaning and cooking capacities. And once they "hit the wall" they are no longer good stock market.Totally. So unfair for women to do exactly as you do.
I never wanted to wait. Since I was 16, I've been chasing after girls with zero success. I'm 28 now, alone and lonely, working in a foreign country. I never wanted to play games, to ''hit and run'', to take advantage of girls. Every girl I ever wanted, I did with the intension of being with her until the end. I always go for the shy ones, the ones almost nobody looks at. Zero success. I'm honestly afraid of relationships, I can't trust women anymore. I'm afraid that if by some miracle, a girl liked me, I'd feel obligated to be with her because who knows if another one will ever come along. I haven't touched a woman in 4 years. It's pathetic, I know, but what's your choice when you have zero options?
You sound like me.. I always wanted to play it straight but they are forcing my hand. women are slowly noticing me now but I just got dumped again so don't mind me. She dropped me out of nowhere after just 2 months.
I was the archetypal nice guy and now I feel I'm just jaded forever.
You're trying too hard, you're looking desperate. Women do NOT like that!!!
@ It's not so easy.. you can't just pretend. You have to actually make those changes and live your own life and be active so that it comes natural. So that when there is someone you can be with them but you don't drop everything for them.
I'm 28 and also haven't touched a woman in two years..It's alright bro, they're not worth it. focus on yourself and everything will be alright.
There’s a saying; “If u chase after women, you’ll always run out of $. If u chase after $, you’ll never run out of women.” Look to improve mentally and career FIRST bro!
Hate to say it but, a piece of paper from a university OR trade school doesn't mean your SMART, it just means you've been TRAINED!
education is training future slaves. to slave for their system endlessly. they have turned human beings into trees, with a thousand branches, each branche has a thousand leaves. each leave represents a clone of you.
talk about redpilled.
Yeah I don’t think these hiring agents get it.
It means you are in debt!!!
@Loneamaruq - LOL ... like YOU'RE actually in a position to hire anyone .....
Not even. Just means you passed classes. Whether you learned anything is debatable.
It's really sad if you are like me and not into hookups and stuff, it's so hard to find like a decent woman out there, if you are a introvert you most likely have to use dating apps and if you are not a tyron or 10/10 material you are pretty done. Also most people don't know how to handle a relationship and the stuff that comes with this
My mother raised me to be what she thought was the ''perfect'' man... Imagine how I felt trying to survive In this mess. Now I'm 28 years old, had 4 relationships which had been just HORRIBLE. I'm done with them except If It's a hook up and even then I'm really careful about who I choose to lay down with. Now life's about myself, building my future and doing what I like. In this day and age, they're just not worth It.
@@nobodyinterestingyou Welcome to the club (although my relationships where pretty good, just didn't work out for various reasons)! Now I'm always thinking "what does she bring to the table besides sex (which isn't really that valuable)?" If the answer is "nothing" or "only negative stuff", she gets the door. Sadly though, most women don't have much to bring to the table because society makes them think that breathing air while having a vagina is a gift to the world.
Unfortunately I have to agree with you guys. I had some nice relationships but looking back...I'm glad I didn't stay with any one of them. And the amount of women that simply don't care about their male counterpart - because I heard it straight from their mouths- is unbelievable. Sad times.
Well I'm an introvert, albeit an outgoing one. If i were to get a date, i might as well mind my own business and let them come to me
@@valkeitos it wont happen. Even very good looking guys are not approached by the caliber of women they think is acceptable and mind you guys have lower standards and will date down.
Unfortunately, too often, "...waiting to gain some life experience first," really means fooling around with a lot of guys before choosing one.
That is fortunately!
Riding the Cock Carousel.
The problem is that you can't call that experience. Experience would be learning to actually date long term than anything else.
Some experiences are better never gained. One being fooling around with lots of people.
You do the same.
Women will holdback and wait until their 30s to land that beta provider while she has being imprinted by that alpha in her 20s.
Irish Redpill Coach
Alpha Interactions a big Yes, Sir!
@Nicholas Fuller with every 1 alpha born there is 10 betas.
Many women bought the hype that they can "have it all." The reality is this: family or fun/career. As a woman, if you want a family then finding and marrying a guy in your 20's is the only way to go because that's when you're at your physical and child bearing peak. No guy want's to meet a woman in her 30's, wait 3-5 years to make sure it's going to stick, then have kids because the woman will be well past child bearing prime. Yeah, modern medicine and techniques make it possible to get pregnant later in life, ladies, but it's costly and not 100%. If you're a woman looking to party and succeed in career, then so be it, but not many guys want to settle down with such types.
And being in a romantic relationship with those types who want to have it all is especially torturous. God help the poor man who *marries* one.
@@elwoodblues9613 - no shit!!!
Absolutely. I thought I wrote that for a second.
Nope. Got married at 40 and hubby iswas 43. Married for 8 years and no regrets. I have a great career as well.
I’m just one year away from being 30. I just celebrated my 29th birthday in March. The problem for me is that finishing college has been my biggest priority especially since I’m going to be graduating at the end of this semester but unfortunately in the time I’ve been at college there isn’t much to choose from when it comes to dating since most of the girls on campus are a bunch of left-wing feminist brainwashed lunatics. Whenever I have happen to find one who seems sane (or at least saner) it isn’t until sometime later I find out what a head case they secretly are and sooner or later it all falls apart and we go our separate ways. That’s one of the problems with living in California this state’s political and academic policies breed mental illness.
I'll be 26 later this year, and will hopefully graduate by this December, and I have to agree, it seems to be better to be a bachelor given the outlook on things these days.
Graduating college in 30? That's inspiration to some.
What took you so long?
Or is that MA and Ph. D?
Victorianne Castle Physical disabilities. I’ll actually be graduating at age 29 this year, a year before I turn 30. I’ll be going into filmmaking.
its everywhere college campus are mental illness breeding center
I graduated 2 years ago. Some people think that you have to graduate at 21. Wish you all the best. Dont stress over finding someone. The pressure isnt on us, its on the ladies. If you want kids, you can always have them later. Take care of yourself first before you can take care of someone else. Have fun my man.
"Being single in 30s is global now"
My understanding = somebody regretted taking advice from some naive lady and asks other desperates to join the hit-the-wall squad.
You mean Opra?
They expect meet someone date marry and kids in 1 year. Unrealistic.
Do you understand grammar?
Agreed, meet a few where after 1 date to them it was a serious relationship.
It's because they want to make up for lost time. They want to jump into the timeline the would have had if they didn't party and boink everything they wanted in their 20's.
They don't even want a relationship with me they just want to marry me & I gladly reject them all.
Last time making out with a 3 & 6, the 3 accused me of forcing myself, she was drunk & woke up imagining things. Both on the phone the next morning.
and they also want to divorce right after, that's the whole plan
The difference being that the average woman can still have their physical needs met with absolutely no effort. The average man....not so much.
It will catch up with them, and work against them.
'The cheapest woman is the one you pay for.' ... Remember, 'if it flys, floats or fcuks, rent it.'
My point ... compared to the cost of paying alimony, child support or starting again to buy a home (for one) ... renting a hooker once a week or fortnight is a bargain
@Claudia Juarez ... and honest.
(and if the truth pisses you off ... suck it up.)
True, but for me..only if it still looks like a delicious peach,not a stale roast beef sandwich!
I mean, when you finish graduate school at like 26, then it takes you a few years to buy a house, then you gotta' focus on your career to pay off that house, when does society expect career women to settle down?
In their 30s right? Just like men.
We have basically extended childhood from 22-26 by pushing more education and making undergraduate degrees useless.
If you don't have a solid trade or a graduate degree you're pretty much worthless. Since no women are going to trade school as they don't like blue collar work their only option is higher education.
Except successful men in their 30s don't want successful women in their 30s. They reach down into the 20s and late teens. 40 something guys do the same thing.
So no one is left for the 30 something women except the guys in their 50s and up. The problem is, if a guy has made it to 50 and still isn't married that means they don't want to be married.
When you have that house go to a college bar ask a girl if shed like to come back to your house and she says you mean like apartment? And you say no i own a home, your in
Well said.
I'd only add that it's not a binary choice between trades or higher education. It's a trinary choice.
Trades, higher education, or ... Get this... Actually make a priority of finding a good man and offering him your youth and fertility to build a family.
and hint, option 3 is a win for everyone.
@@Doors067 ... Is this something you've experienced personally?
@@Doors067 the problem with that is that youll have to date college girls, i didnt even like them when i was in college, bunch of arrogant airheads with standards that reach into intergalactic space.
The sad truth about online dating is this is the leftovers, the rejects, and the losers. The outgoing active people not glued to their phone have found someone.
I met my wife while square dancing regularly. You get to know people, and many of them know someone, so the candidates are much better filtered, in good shape, active, outgoing, etc. This is not the drunk crowd with beer goggles looking for tonight's hookup.
I did online dating in 2009-2011 (with a dating website) and then again in 2018-2019 with the apps, Tinder and Bumble. Both in the same city. I noticed a massive difference.
Your situation is extremely rare. Most of my adult life was pre-internet and finding a mate sucked. The young adult's group at my church in 1980 had 2 women and around a hundred men. College was better, but it was still 80% men (and over 90% in the hard sciences). Getting a date was next to impossible back then unless you were a muscle-bound chad or a drug dealer. When the internet came out, I discovered foreign girls online and started traveling overseas. It changed my life. Truth is that the internet makes it super easy to meet girls all over the world. You just have to study hard, get a good job, save money and be willing to travel. I am retired in Africa now (but would recommend Asia for most men).
That is a truly creepy and false assessment
Great comment. I’ve noticed this too! I call it ‘herd Immunity’. Good people generally connect with good people and filter out the bad, this is how you create healthy relationships. My folks did it this way.
tried to sign up for dancing classes recently. the instructor told me unfortunately he couldnt take me because there were no women in my age bracket (20s) signing up. theyre too busy drinking and screwing dudes they pick up in nightclubs.
The irony, women forced to accept the misery that they themselves created, lol!
Men need to do something about this, lol...
@@Furzkampfbomber its our fault, after all :D
There was a time in the past when households everywhere could get by with a single cars, and we didn’t have so many expenses. Now that women have joined the workforce however, the narrative has changed and a single income is not enough anymore. When I was a kid in the 90’s, my parents did great on a single income, but we were not materialistic. I still hold onto this minimalism idea, but the women I have dated are very spoiled and I lose interest quickly because I am not going to work myself to death for them.
Does anyone remember that episode of the Simpson where Homer is trying to convince Barts classmate to agree to a date with Bart. She's on the fence about the idea. And he then goes come on... your not much of catch, your short,dumb, you dress like a kid, grab what you can get before it's too late and you end up alone.and then the teacher Edna passes by and says he's right you
know. Homer is wiser than we know!!
When I look into my future 1yr, 5yrs, 10, 30yrs I genuinely don’t see any women in it. It used to not be this way. No you couldn’t even pay me to date. It’s a very freeing feeling
I'm the same age as Joker, and most of the women I get hitting on me on dating sites are late thirties to early forties. They are almost all childless and list "Want children" in their profiles, even tho' my profile explicitly says I don't want any more. I'm too old to be changing nappies again. I dismiss them with prejudice.
But it illustrates that there was about a 10 year lag for the Feminist propaganda from the early '70 that girls could do anything and be everything to really start taking effect in the '80s. Now 40 years later, the women that bought into that social programming are suddenly hitting "The Wall" and realising they made a terrible mistake.
All I can say is buy stocks in cat food futures.
MM ... like with most things a man wants, or doesn't want (like kids), a woman thinks that when she wants something your preference doesn't count.
The old 'She wanted a cat, I didn't want a cat, so we compromised and got a cat'
I'm a few years older than you, but I can tell gou that the best thing to be over 40 is male ... treasure it.
😂😂 ill start looking for some good cat food companies to invest in
I have just evicted a bitter, twisted, angry, arrogant 38yo Japanese women who swallowed the feminist cool-aid. She is a nutter! I suspect she has NPD and BPD. She told me she was trying to contact an old BF from high school on Facebook, this is a sign of regrets. She is one of the rudest people I have meet in 51 years.
Cheers from Melbourne Australia.
@@gladiammgtow4092 We should meet up for a few frosties this summer and complain about women.
old salt sea dog.
actually what you finally got was two cats.
I once had a 35 yr old boss ( heir to 10 million) got himself a 19 yr old bride. She had everything she could want... litterly got caught with a pizza delivery boy...halarious!!!
What the hell was the dudes problem? He should be paying 19yo’s, not marrying them.
Alone time and loneliness aren't the same thing. Mainly extreme extroverts will feel lonely. Any chatty Cathy/social butterfly will feel the brunt of it.
i feel lonely sometimes, then i have a nice wank and go out for some drinks at night. a few hours of social interaction with regular boring people fixes it for at least a week.
No worries, Ladies. Let your rationalization hamsters tell you that nobody's good enough. More of my money for me. None of my money for you.
Ken Houston hehehehahahaha!!!
@@Tusuperbis Two of you cows got rings out of me during my Blue Pill Haze. Your both blew it. The cash and prizes ya'll won, is long gone now. And l'm restored, Red Pill educated and going onward and upward. Without any of you.
@@KenHSr way to be man! MGTOW life is great from where I'm standing!
I have my own regrets as a man of 31. Despite the bad apples I’ve encountered, I can say there has been potential in the bunch. I can’t help but feel that my cynicism is going to prevent me from getting into some of the same situations I would in my younger years. I want to be realistic and cautious but I don’t want to attract women as embittered as me.
Sounds like you are introspective and self-aware. These traits will serve you well. Best of luck. There are good woman out there.
Modern feminism. Supposed to set women free. Actually set men free.😂😂
And they still don't get it. LOL!
I keep saying this yet many people still cant see the biggest advantage of feminism 😂
How do you try and convince yourself that being massively unappealing as a result of your own poor decisions is actually anyone's fault but your own?
Call it a new social trend.
I never dated in my 20s. I wasn't good enough. I was busy working and going to school. I have a good tradesman job now, building a pension and have benefits for a family, that which I'll never have. I took a path of life that did not line up with what I wanted. I sacrificed my future for a glimmer of hope. I was let down.
@Claudia Juarez You too.. or are you just a leech?
@Ultimate Warrior I watched one of your videos and loved it😊 I think that there are still a lot of great women and men out there, personally I’m not sure whether I’ll find someone who matches my personality but in the end it doesn’t matter. I know that my happiness has to come from within anyway, so I don’t stress my self out about finding a man. This video suggests that I probably should (I’m in my early twenties) but I think that there’s nothing worse than feeling desperate. That’s when we choose the wrong partners, get into bad situations (and for women: often with the wrong kind of dudes...), so I prefer focusing on myself and the things that bring me joy. If I end up alone (and happy) that’s better than ending up in a bad relationship and feeling miserable.
Young women are being lied to about EVERYTHING. And their ovaries are paying the price.
No eggs, empty egg carton you don't have any eggs
Ideal age for women to have babies - about age 19-25. These are the breaks. Even some who wait only until 35 might find they've waited too late.
Oh no they knew
They just didn't think the rides over
@@richardweiss326 That was a real good Paul Joseph Watson video :)
@@brentallen876 👍
The author forgot one very important detail when writing this. Relationships are between two people and they only look at one side.
These women with education trophies complain there's no men. Neither the author nor these women ever ask one simple question.
Why would the man I want pick me insread of someone else?
Traditionally- parents- who knew a lot more than even their kids in their 20's- would talk to other parents, and find an appropriate partner, and then have societal guidance so they stayed together. Because having two parents, in a supportive community, raise children, is the only thing that has worked, historically.
If things were still like this, our society would be far better off...
I wish it was still that way now
We used to know neighbors more
I have never had more messages and DMs from girls in the last.4 weeks than I did pre Covid-19.
All these girls were either not interested or were flings.
Now they're all sat at home alone with no every day male validation and attention, they're creeping out the woodwork and I find it hilarious 😂😂
Delta Mike they’re still a lot of simps out there giving them attention and validation, this will never ends until men left social media
Social media is fine. It's just the men who give women too much undeserved attention which is the problem.
The minute you turn that tap off, their true colours show. Its fascinating
@@Warbr33d Social media isn't "FINE". But go on and make all the excuses you need to justify your Suckbook and Instaram addiction.
Women are women, don't fool yourself by thinking women of a certain country, religion, background, ethnicity, social class, will be different.
Wreckanize truth
Very true. I'm in Nairobi Kenya and the women here are no better than what joker is describing. The more educated they are, the crazier.
Man I'm 43. All the single chicks I knew when I was 30 are still single. They put no time into serious relationships in their 20s. So they have no idea how an actual relationship works. They were single in their 30s. They are still single in their 40s.
Difference between a man and a woman right... If a man's still single in his 30s-40s, he's considered lucky. If a woman's single through her 30-40s may as well be a funeral. The tears, oh my God the tears. I've excommunicated 90% of the female friends I had 30-40ish years of age because they are single and miserable.
Whatever you do, DON'T let them make their misery into yours, too!
Unfortunately, I don't think things are going to change anytime soon. Most women and top tier men are the ones who make the rules and they are not going to change them to give us an advantage.
Why would you want to bring kids into this screwed up world ?
Please do not procreate.
And I say this not as an insult :P
I have 2 kids and they're amazing.
But you just keep parroting those 1970's liberal talking points from Michael Stivic on All in the Family.
She thinks she's more educated than he is? What does she consider education? College?
That isn't real education.
Pale skin is attractive in certain countries like Japan. There are still some who perfer women with pale skin.
I like it either full Korean white or Nilote black, not much into shades of brown.
During the delay decade, these women grow more and more undesireable. Then they announce: I'm ready now. It's my turn.
Hey, it works in the movies.
Read Gloria Steinem, she clearly said her goal was to destroy the family with feminism.
Women were told from the beginning the result of this would be they would die old and alone.
They voted for school to cost more by all this regulation. So it'S a circle, feminism, school, debt, vote for bigger help, price go up, broke.
Don't forget housing, health care, and day care.
Meanwhile, capitalists think that more demand increase prices.
@@Simboiss it does, it also increase competition who reduce price. What's the point?
@@rakashaagain I don't know. The observation is that prices are increasing. Maybe teachers are asking higher wages, I don't know. The usual logic doesn't seem to apply.
@@Simboiss government insured loan so the school increase the price. I am not going to get into it but the basic is, when government guarantee that 18yo kid will get unlimited money, school can raise to infinite.
While I think this cuts both ways - both men and women need to bring something to the table and be clear on what roles they are going to undertake within a relationship and what their expectations are.
It's as bad for men to hold a 'i am the prize' superior mentality (while of low status in the socioeconomic hierarchy) as it is for women to hold the 'my career is my status and I will have my Disney husband/don't need no man' mentality.
Partnerships are about aligned goals which normally come with some degree of compromise or sacrifice...as we've become more individualistic and more obsessed with image (throw demoralisation of men and women's hypergamy as the sprinkles on top of each turd cupcake) and what other outcome would you expect.
True
Dating/marriage too expensive, you literally have no money before 30
Western women are lonely? 🤣 Whose fault is that? Lol
It's their fault
Not just Western women anymore, Eastern Europe is also full of these 40+ women who keep screaming ''where are all the good men'' ''men my age can't keep up with me i am still young and beautiful but alone'' LOL
They're not lonely, they just have to endure involuntary solitude. Women are great believers of insanity; they keep doing the same things and expect to get different results.
@@rudy1999 third world Eastern Europe, and their women are arrogant too. Awesome lol.
Yours obviously
"Don't worry, you are not alone." As if not being the only one makes anything about a problem less worrisome. You can argue it's actually the opposite. But hey, now you can claim it's not a problem with you, even though it may very well be something wrong with each and every individual "affected".
"The more people you date, the harder i i to find the right one"
Agree with you there. I see so many people looking for the "perfect" fit, mostly women though a few men too. The best advice I ever got was to look for a 80% fit and know the 20% will grow in faster than it will take to find a 100% fit.
I met him at 23, I was his first date and he was my 4th and first and only relationship.
I think the phrase only applies to women. If I met the right woman, I could be happy with her. But women become alpha widows.
80% seems too much. There will also never be a 100% no matter how long you try.
There’s hope
Society told us to not settle until you had a job and had 'lived a bit'.
I'm a 67 yo male and when i look back the women i wish settled with were all 16-25 - as was I , but society said no.
Now I'm so happy with my own company that I'm buggered if I'm putting the toilet seat down for anybody.
wrong channel for you, thank you for stopping by
University is a huge delay on life. By the time you are "as broke as when you got out of high school", you're 30 years old. Guess women wanted some of that same feeling, that 12 years disappeared in exchange for being 12 years older.