I used to only swipe past those profiles if they were over 5'3"/110 because hey, I can be shallow too. Mind you, I haven't bothered seriously with dating apps/sites in years.
SooStoo Twice-I had women say to me “If I would have known you’d turn out like this; I’d never have dumped you.” They tried to get back with me and told them to piss off
I'm not even letting women I know from when I was in high school know I'm divorcing. I don't want to deal with a slew of single moms hitting me up in rapid succession.
Shaming language may work on simps and little boys but not on men. VVomen who use it are too dense to know it doesn't work but logic isn't their forte. It is however a huge red flag to the men they are trying to attract.
I'm 22 years old, decently attractive imo, fairly fit with a six pack, about 160lbs, and decently successful for my age. Matched with a girl on tinder, drove out about 2 hours to meet her, drove another 30 minutes to treat her to dinner and had an ok conversation, mostly about her. Got to the restaurant and she said "you know, you're pretty short and I don't really date short guys (I'm about 5'10"), but I'll think about settling". I looked at her, and immediately got in my car and left her there without saying another word. Might've been slightly rash but boy, saying I felt good about that is such an understatement. Edit: I'm still appalled that 5'10" is "short", like im taller than over half the people I know and even that's not enough smh. Edit edit: I'm no longer on tinder. Needless to say lol
It's hilarious be cause they have the audacity to be that snobby, and literally insulting without repercussions. Good job on your part, teach that delusionally privileged 'princess pony' a very hard reality lesson of human kindness. If she wants to spend her life being a stuck-up b!@#$ then she can deal with the consequences as well. The more responsibility and accountability we throw on these little girls, the better chance the weight of it all will crash down upon them. Maybe THEN they can finally evolve into an actual woman.... until then they're just 'pretty princess ponies' living in a harem dreamworld where everything is owed to them like a child.
I'm a 5' 5" Asian guy. I'm treated as inferior by tall men, too! Then, when I out-ski them they feel that shouldn't be so. That's implicit discrimination.
They want someone who won't fool around with evidence they are not someone who won't fool around. There is a lot to be said for the "True Love Waits" movement. The problem with the movement is there are very few eligible to participate so they are hard to find and the pool is very small. As hard as it is, it worked well for me.
My father nearly lost custody to his first wife and she's bat shit crazy living in a mental institution with hiv/aids. My father had to buy her a car and a bunch of other shit before he could get custody of my two half brothers
no they dont, they respect business, nobody wants tax dollars from men and women wise enough to not get married to have to be paid from their taxes to wellfare for some single mother mooch. its about money, not man or women, its about women who own business's and dont want more fucking taxes stolen from them over some idiots fuck fest gone wrong. just my two cents.
prenup or get married but with ceremony only no contracts. promise yourself in front of friends family and god. if u need a dam contract and let the government involved then its your fault.
@@davidjd123 why? why on fuck earth would u waste the time and money over a fake cereomony. nobody ask friends if u can date, nobody ask friends if u can have kids, nobody has freiends that pry into ones business untill one is married, marriage both real and fake has no value to any normal man.
society in general always sides with the female. The man is always seen as the jerk. Hell, the woman can cheat and society, especially women, will find a way it's the guy's fault lol.
@@No_Enemies_Kale Okay looking again to make sure I had it right, it seems like they broke up recently after dating for 2-3 years. It seems like he's risen above the desire to just date women. I find it hard to believe he had trouble getting anyone, but he probably won't easily find his counterpart outright.
I love the episode of fraiser when he finds out his high school bully is a plumber, he tried to rub his success in the guys face only to find out he drives a more expensive Mercedes then fraiser has.
Here's what women in their 30's need to know: Every morning when they wake up, millions of girls have turned 18 while they were sleeping. And every one of those girls is now their competition. And that's going to happen all over again tomorrow morning, and every other morning, for the rest of their lives. So yeah, good luck with that.
It's perfectly fine bro, I'm 24 and I've been dumped by my 22 yo girlfriend after a 4 year relationship, it would've been better to never know her because it's extremely painful, you made the right choice
Same here! I am 27 now dated a girl for 5 years after getting out of the friend zone. Bought a house and after i started my business at 23 things fell apart. Haven't been on a date since we broke up. I too would advise only casual dating in your 20s.
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Open up a Roth IRA and put every damn dime on TSLA stock for 30 years you will retire wealthy. And avoid women in the West. And exercise regularly.
I do have sympathy because we've systematically rooted out any cultural system or tradition that would help them make those choices well. I don't have sympathy because they are all responsible for their choices just the same.
@@Sensorium19 agreed. When you are young you should be listening to older, wiser people so that you can make good decisions. Instead, young women are listening to old bitter feminists.
True. Men can decide what they wanna do before and after 30. So even if ur 30-35. u still have time to decide what u wanna do. Men attractiveness dont take off till 40-45, some study says 50 when ur career peaks out and ur making the most money ur job can provide u
Yeah. She spends her 20s "finding herself" First she finds herself under Chad. Then she finds herself under Jamahl. Then she finds herself riding Tyrone. Then she finds herself bent over by Brock...
My best friends sister that I've known since she was a kid sent me the picture of one of her friends who is now 42 and is ready to settle down. I thanked her for the consideration and went on with my MGTOW life without any further thought or following up. When I was in my teens, 20's and early thirties I wouldn't have had a look in with this woman when she was younger - believe me I tried. Now I'm supposed to put my life (the best time of my life) on the line for someone that didn't give me the best years of her life? fk that.
You are right... but it's a happier life if you make a good choice of a younger woman when you hit your peak than to grow old chasing young ones until you die alone.
@UCk14HWi-LgkutphYFlO043w I understand your views... In the past Samuel Johnson said "Marriage has many pains but celebacy has few pleasures" Now people can have their cake and eat it... until a certain age.
Also fun fact about Henry cavill: he once spoke out about how dating these days is so stressful bc what once was wooing or chasing a woman is now likely to get you slapped with an accusation of rape or harassment, then a bunch of high horse feminists chewed him out for saying that, now Henry is just like " I'm happy to just go to the gym and come home and spend an obscene amount of time playing my video games" Modern women have become so entitled that a handsome, rich, famous man would rather avoid dating and be left to his own devices.
@@dreamimage173 While growing up, I was lied to. I was led to believe that women are nearly perfect. They didn't have bad behavior. If something bad happened, it was the fault of her husband/boyfriend/boss/father/son/or some other male. This was drummed in to me. It took a lot of bad experiences to realize the truth.
@@dreamimage173 So many guys like me had overbearing mothers and we were scared of woman. We were taught to serve women no matter what. A lot of guys including myself have been in that mindset our whole lives.
Something similar happened to me with a woman coming back. She dumped me when I was in my early 20's when I was always broke and now I'm much better off and she came back saying how we should get together cause we're great together. She has two kids from two different guys and I just straight up told her why would I ever date her, I'm much better off than she is and now I'm the catch not her. Cruel? Maybe, but the truth often is. If I wasn't good enough for her back then she's not good enough for me now.
@Keepadagroov Oh no I told her that in person to her face. We ran into each other in the wild and here just talking and catching up. After that she got really quiet and left not soon after.
To be honest, what man would want to raise another Man's kids? I mean my step dad did It and hes happy, but he ended up giving me a Little sister. Some of these women won't give the new guy a kid of his own.
@@ironmaster8925 Honestly I have no idea why anyone would want to raise someone elses kids. My parents are split so I have a step-dad and my biological dad got re-married so he raised step kids too. I think for some people it's just ok? One of my biggest things was to not date any single mothers but in my area finding a girl that didn't have at least one kid straight out of high school is damn near impossible.
She didn't put in the ground work with you while it was rough, she has no right to expect you to reassociate with her now that there are few to no benefits for you and everything for her to gain. I admire your reverse use of Briffault's Law good sir.
The funniest thing I ever heard (I think on a tv show or something) someone was making a crack on fifty shades of grey. They said it was only sexy because he was a millionaire, if he lived in a trailer park, it’d be an episode of criminal minds.
Women act like women were the only ones trapped in marriages. We have years of guys puttering in garages, hanging out in bars all night to stay away from the Nag.
nature ? Seems like Mankind is divided in men and princesses nowadays, thanks for sharing the news ! I was hoping to meet a Woman but seems like i have to be judged by a spoiled Disney character instead x) I'm so glad i've met enough actual woman to see that ur comment is full of shit, keep ur fantasy for u Disney girl
I've seen a couple like that. Early to mid 40's, wearing those tight leather pants so the flab doesn't bounce around BUT, that muffin top made me change direction quickly.
I´m almost 40 and I find it so strange that women in their early 20s flirt with me constantly while those nearer my age and slightly above, behave like im supposed to be on my knees bowing and scraping for their attention. It makes no sense.
Ive been married for almost 23 years. Im a southern man and its just in me to flirt not trying to get anything but just being nice. Ive noticed much the same if I complement a woman my age or down to their 30s they act like Im not good enough to give them a complement but a lot of times when I complement a woman in her 20s all of a sudden they are flirting back. I find it funny as hell because Im a ugly broke bastard and dont care about money I just care about treating people right and the women that you would think from experience would see that and at least smile back dont see it but young women see it and at least smile more then not.
@n cw dont be full of yourself. Woman in thier 20s are wired to look for the best men that can take care of themselves and thier future kids. He has money and success to raise them. 20 year old men and woman doesn't happen. 30-50 yr old men date and marry 18 to 26 year olds. It's been this way for generations. So stop.
Ive been binging these videos and I felt the need to say this- But I couldn't figure out how to communicate it. This is perfect. This has given me a great perspective of how my 30s are working out. I'm actually way ahead 😂
Give it 5 more years, one day you will go to the mall all by yourself and out of the blue women will be looking at you possibly asking you out... its fucking weird man but enjoy that.
@cbr9292you bro you have a very cynical way of thinking about people, not all are stupid and cheating skanks, some will find a reason to love you, even if you are not successful or rich
It's not going to magically appear just because you hit your 30s. You have to invest in yourself too. Work out. Eat healthy. Improve your career. Improve your social skills. Gain confidence. Then, when you're happy being alone, you'll suddenly drown in pussy.
@@ryderwilson7955 If you want to love someone, then love them. However, there is no need to involve the government in a romantic relationship, which is what marriage allows to state to do. If you are best friends with someone, then you can be best friends with them without involving a contract between you, them, and the state. The same applies to romantic relationships as well. I do not want the state involved in my personal life.
This is also what I have observed in 85% of women who are my age or younger. They hyperage and mutate into nasty creatures. All they had to do was keep a wholesome mind and diet. Must be too hard for some
“I turned you down in college but now that i have two kids im very interested!” My response: “Dont raise the crops another farmer planted.” I actually straight up asked a girl i knew who asked me out (but rejected me years before), “how do i know that you aren’t suddenly interested because you got kids and no father for them?” She said, “you dont.” I said “no thanks then”.
You know, as a 28 year old guy still attaining my astronautics engineering degree, this gives me some much needed hope for my future dating prospects :)
@@BetterBachelor it is fair because they have OVERWHELMING power during their prime(18-25). They have to put in hardly *any* effort to be an attractive 18 yr old as long as their genetics haven't completely screwed them. Even though men's SMV increases and peaks in mid 30s, a man STILL has to exert effort to get to that peak... a man that is undesirable before his peak can still end undesirable by 35 if THEY DO NOT WORK ON THEMSELVES...
So true. No women after the prime age believes she is not the same, the cognitive dissonance behavior takes over. Too painful to accept reality. They likes how they were treated by men and can never give it up. Have you ever seen woman 50s and 60s or even older dressed and made up like they are 18? Guess why? Tons of them where I live. How many men do you see doing it, that are not car salesmen? Diminishing assets, is what they are, after about 28, in my opinion.
As a 5' 6 driven successful male, I have been treated by women in a way that would shame ss officials in ww2 poland. Now they want to settle with me. Thans but No thanks
Yes we do. Because: Math. There simply aren't enough men to meet women's ridiculous standards. Millionaires often won't marry and most women can't get them. And because men can be content living alone. Women cannot. Many, many more women will lose the Game than win it, especially with MGTOW growing almost exponentially. If they think the 'dating pool' is bad now.. just wait.
Disney got nothing to do with it man. A parent sbould have a much larger effect on their child than the movies they watch. Whip your child if necessarry so they understand respect, but do not look for reasons to whip them so that they feel bad on the inside. Find ways to reach out to them. Do the right thing in front of them and then explain why without making it a big deal. Talk to them about doing the right thing themselves. Children are very teachable. Teach them the right things.
@@jimibones178 yeah, proof of that is the fact feminists love to say they don't want to be a disney princess, so these characters are probably decent role models for kids.
I disagree,princess(well she become then)Belle teachs me to look people not to see,to be be supportive,to face problems and to fix by myself what's wrong in my life,at last she is the only princess that READ,Jesus Christ! Sometimes,if you are alone,life gives you shit and the only thing you can give back is exactly what you receive,unfortunatly
As a single dad of 2 girls, that alone on top of my profession I get all these crazy looks. One woman said you spend too much time with your kids, I stood up told her well you suck as a person, I walked away she apologized, so I started to run while flipping her the bird. Took my kids to Lego Land the next day had the best time ever.
actually this is a centrist channel. he is trying to be as gentle as possible and offend as few people as possible. the other channels say it like it is, this one uses a milder tone. but it's all the same.
Agreed. He’s not a women hater. He’s just fed up. Too many mgtow are “go make a sandwich” dickwads that discredit the movement. Thanks, Joker, for having some integrity.
That's because joker is a true mgtow which is not someone who tries to get back at woman but just walks away from them. The others are just guys seeking revenge under the guise of mgtow and they don't understand the true meaning. Joker only makes these videos to warn men what they could be getting themselves into so they can go thier own way too.
@Jorge Sepulveda I'd rather watch joker than all of those other mgtow channels so it doesn't bother me that he is talking about the same things they are I'm not watching them any way. I've been a fan of joker channel when he had just started his channel and only had 300 subcribers even the content he had back then piqued my interest more than those other guys.
They want the fairy tale ending but forgot all the rest of the plot, take the beauty and the beast could resume men in their 20. The prince at first is like the beast and with time turn into the prince but they just want to skip to the end.
and remember the older disney fairytale's made sense. she was young, not a party favor, waiting for her prince, and had some sorta virtues outside of being maidens.
@@Niveous23 but she was always pretty....which most of the women are not blessed with....even while young.....so why lumpnwomen behavior as same across the board? It's usually byhe cute ones that spell trouble cuz they know beauty is rare.....whereas the ordinary looking ones have everything the hard way and are so sensible.....but the average guy will always run after the pretty one and then complain about them being bitchy ...well beauty has a price 🙄
when I was younger I was in very good physical shape, and was the "bad boy" in the eyes of women. None of them really were interested in anything more with me than to have fun. And for that time in my life I was ok with that and had my fun too. Once I hit the early 30's I grew tired of the drama and chose to remain single for awhile and discovered I like doing whatever I want whenever I want. I enjoy friends, hobbies and free time. I own a home, have money in the bank, no debt and am happier than I have ever been. I am now 55 turning 56 and see no reason whatsoever to add any complications to my life.
I'm 68, feel the same, lost all interest in women at 50, nice net worth, no drama in my life from a spouse, no kids, and beat colon cancer at 56, feel lucky to be alive
There's 2 parts to this video: The video itself, and the comments. The comments are just as important to me. Everybody's different but when you look at the comments, there's so much being said we agree on I didn't even consider before could be a statistical truth. Astounding.
When I was in my 20s, I got no play. As I approach my 40s, it's like women can smell my experience and confidence, which were the two things that I was lacking in my 20s because I didn't know myself at that time. Once I stop caring about chasing, the roles began to reverse. It's crazy.
Bullshit, you are stupid as fuck.... It's not stop caring like a jerk, you were needy all the time no wonder why you chased women like crazy.... Women smell your experience and "confidence" which is stupid to brag not because of age or how much you have done. it's just because when you were in your 20s... you didn't take action at all, you never started to do your own thing to the right right according to your terms... you never accepted any results and you never really genuinely improve yourself up... you kept the same for too long... Come on! it's not that miracle, you just didn't have a clue of basically anything of how things works...
@@CarlosRuiz-gg5wn Wow. Harsh words buddy. Needy? No. Still figuring out the world? Yes. If there is no proper understanding of how women work as well as not having an understanding of who I was as a man and my priorities in the wrong place, of course I wasn't successful. These days I know what to expect and do not have a care in the world about chasing women because I'm on my purpose. Women will be here if you are rich or you are poor.
I recently suffered a mental breakdown due to PTSD (i'm a retired cop). My loving wife whom I had been with for 13 years kicked me out of the house, refused to let me back in then split up with me. I was in a really dark place for a while but this channel, the videos and the comments have really helped me see things from a different perspective. Thanks, guys, stay strong.
Prayed for you brother. First, thank you for holding the line in your time. Women that will stand by us in our dark hours no longer exist. They were in a previous generation. Feminism got the rest. If I could say anything it would be God loves you. Establish a relationship with Jesus if you have not. He is all we need. I’d be in the ground without Him. Anyway, bless you and be well.
I'm a cop too. Not from US but from a South American country, it's a stressful job specially if You love what You do(You gotta fight against the odds, the system, etc) to bring some Peace to the community. And all that stuff adds up with time, accumulates. I hope you're doing better now. Never give up on yourself brother. You are your most important investment.
I married a woman who wanted to be a mom and homemaker. At first I was surprised. I definitely envisioned that my wife and I would be going to work in the morning and getting wrapped up in the rat-race with kids. But, I was happy to let her do what she wanted. I worked, she stayed at home and took care of our kids and home. We are better organized and we spend more time and really know our kids better than any of our friends know their kids. We always get compliments on how well behaved and thoughtful our kids are. They are all involved in sports and competitive dance and are all on the honor roll at school. They have lots of friends and are very social. My wife does typical things like vacuuming and laundry while I do typical "male" jobs around the house on the weekends and such. If a kid gets sick, it's not a panic...one parent is home. Some friends have extra income to take more exotic trips than us, but we understood that sacrifice and really, it is no sacrifice at all. So, my advice is to get back to the traditional family unit. It is very rewarding, less stressful. I mean, families grew into that in the past because it worked but now society has gotten away from it. Just my observation. I don't know why more people don't do this.
A little something known as battle of the sexes. Women decided to compete with men in things that men have traditionally excelled in. Ironically they've gotten worse in areas where they were most proficient. A bird in the hand....
@John R I had the same experience.....initially. She dropped her career after our first was born and couldn't wait for kid #2. After the third kid, she lost her mind and wanted to find herself.....like she missed out on something. I begged her to stay since we had a newborn, a toddler, and a kindergartner. She stayed but became distant, no cooking, cleaning, she slept in a separate room and sex dried up.... The kid's weren't as well cared for. I had to carry my job, cooking, cleaning, and caring for the kids. My wife had actually become one of the kids and started acting like she was. She refused counseling, and wouldn't even talk about our relationship. Finally, after 12 years of this BS I told her that we needed to talk about legally separating. Two weeks after just mentioning separating, she flew to another state to spend Christmas with an "old friend" But I was wise and hired a private investigator, I have photos of her and her old boyfriend from college in a full report. In my state, because I have this report, she get's ZERO alimony, and I get the kids because she is unfit as a mother. She can piss-off as far as I'm concerned, she used me for decades and I won't feel bad when she's living under a bridge. I hope your fate is much better
@@ericmayne2229 don't worry. My cousin dealt with a 20 something year old marriage and his wife was a huge bitch. She had mental disorders but never seemed to try to get better. He got divorced and even the kids wanted to stay with him. He's a successful engineer and quite a talker himself (not great looking but charismatic enough) so I wasn't surprised when I saw him at the mall with his new, younger and more charming gf. I never saw him so happy in years. You'll be fine my guy.
Well you picked someone who knew what a real Marriage(trade offs) would be and wanted it still Tho it is a bit bland, most women want to prove themselves today but why? Everyone knows that they’re capable, maybe if they do more they can have more to choose from? Or get “better guys,” Looks don’t matter that much for long term Cause it fades Goods looks-> asshole face Assholes. __________________________ Ugly-average-> decent guy face Decent guy --------////// their face becomes them traditionally men would put women down because they were jealous, and wanted their job, cook and clean, and care for your own, in your home, most can be done in a few hours, and then that’s it. You’re not stuck somewhere with assholes, that you still had to commute to. So 8 hrs are actually more about 10-12 hrs depending how long your commute is
@@StephenWestSyd Best if you can figure out how to retire in her country. Also keep your finances to yourself. Pay the bills and give her an allowance.
They are not much better except on weight gain. The tricks are just not as obvious at first due to cultural reasons. (divorced from phillipina and chinese).
Just DO NOT bring that Foreign Woman back to the good 'ol US of A...She won't be any good after she gets her Green Card and Citizenship...I'm here full time in SE Asia and I can tell you that's a Fact Jack :-)...While they are here at least you have control to keep them in pocket or whatever and not have any family court system stacked against you (not yet anyway)...It's not all roses so don't fool yourself into believing that 100%...They are still female through and through and that's dangerous...
36, 6'2", not that bad looking, calculus teacher with a math degree. Can not find anyone that does not already have kids. That is a hard no for me. So screw it. I'll build up my spot and make me happy.
ahh,i had a few females ask about what i did for a livling, then they walk away when i told them i was on disability, lmao but not telling how much i make, they did not wait for that.
Words of encouragement to my brothers. “Nothing is more threatening and simultaneous attractive to a woman than a man who’s aware of his own value to women” -Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi
Ever since I quit dating, I’ve been happier. Have a race car, a bass boat, guns and motorcycles. I gave up on dating and started focusing on doing the things I’ve always wanted to do since I was a child. I went back and got the things I’ve dreamed of, went on trips around the world and can do things without asking for permission. I play golf 3 times a week and bowl in several leagues. Don’t settle. Do you. You would be surprised at how much time, energy and money you waste chasing women. Refocus that energy on doing you and you would be amazed at the experiences and things you can amass being focused on you.
I given up on that recently...I feel happier inside... focusing on myself now..these women nowadays ain't good...only for themselves and what they can get out of us
@@sportstalkwithzo3707 "No Ma'am", is the way to go. I loved this guy. He still makes me laugh. My mother hated him. He was married, but was fully aware of his situation.
I've actually had this happen to me. Was out at a pub with friends and was having a great time. Was talking with a woman who was my age (late 30's) at the time. Having just met we were doing the small talk thing and she actually asked me "Where are all the good men these days" I actually got annoyed and said to her "Don't you know, all the good women got them" I'm no prize but I'm still a good man. Get over yourself. At our age you should be over playing the games you played 10 years ago. Its not for me to show me I'm a good man upon your request. Talk to each other and get to know each other. Quit the stupid games and go with your instincts and most importantly put your stupid checklists away. Don't insult me to my face and
Yep, unfortunately that is the goal of women nowadays. You can thank feminism. They want to be independent while at the same time they expect men to support them. So they get with a rich man, then divorce him to make money off of alimony and child support. That way she can be independent and empowered.
this is very true. thats why they follow celebrities so much, they fantasize about fame and popularity so much and they start as kids, i saw it in my young sister, i am 8yrs older than her, she fantasised about being celebrated at about 10yrs
You can be rich without selling your soul. The greatest transfer of wealth is coming when the dollar collapses. Once one studies and understands money. One can position themselves to gain great wealth in the future collapse. Buy crypto, silver, and gold. Silver is going to skyrocket!
Then it’s too late, no woman looks good after 30. so then you have to go on younger women, as an old creep. Basicly. you can’t win, if you’re a man these days just blow your brains out, done and out.
Napoleon once said....Give me a woman's mind and I will have her..! The art of conversation has gone these days...Facebook and online communication does not work...real life is what works...the youth of today are more used to posting a conversation on social media than striking up a conversation....be different and unconventional and you will win them all..
This is one of the best videos in the channel. If any women is genuinelly concerned about her future, this would be an amazing way for her to open her eyes. I'm MGTOW but I do love woman. Too bad "the juice is not worth the queeze (or something like that)". So... make it worth it, ladies.
They won't make it worth it - cats, vibrators and boxes of wine are far easier as an option than humility, introspection and a thorough examination of your values.
In this Dating Site, a number of not bad looking women in their late 40s or so, state their requirements in a man: Must be Financialy Stable MUST own a home, and a few other things. To make it worse one in particular rubbishes other men she has dated on this site. (3 only)
i no longer consider the average women good people or people i could team up with, they're very combative and therefore will be treated as an enemy of society until they change their behavior. have the mindset and focus on what makes and gives you a healthy lifestyle.
My ex has a Masters, I have a GED. I payed for her masters. She's unemployed and I make mid 6 figures. Jokes on her! Never judge a person by the letters at the end of their name! Now back to the gym to become a 8 again at 49.
Erich CIA - exactly, I’m a computer scientist, no degree, yet I’ve worked on projects from bell labs to darpa - seems sometimes being autodidactic is superior to being trained by college, I’m also CEO of my own tech firm, no letters after my name
Im 32. Havent been on a date in years. Been approached several times last year. Im starting to feel bad for the ladies. You can smell the desperation. My coworker is 19, female, attends college, and is hilarious. She is so hard up for just a date, let alone a one night stand. I love it. Keeps me entertained during the down times at work. Shes a hard feminist and just doesnt get it.
@Jarred Chess Zero Just because she is 19 dont mean shit if shes ugly and 250lbs then maybe who knows what's she looks like. If a 19 year old chick cant get laid in the day and age there is something wrong.
Either she's not very attractive or she has self-esteem issues. She doesn't need to waste her time with a 32 year old man unless he's providing for her. She could literally have anyone at that age.
I literally had a woman say this that i hung out with last weekend - She is about to turn 30, very career driven, and she said just randomly, we werent even talking about any of this, just watching TV - She said "I gave up all the best years of my life, for that silly career, i should have gotten myself a man when i was younger" i was LOLOLOLOL on the inside - unprovoked, poor girl, i think the best thing is when they come to that conclusion themselves, how crushing it must be
It’s because when you’re under 25 you’re stupid and then includes guys too. The problem with women is the best looking years are the biggest disadvantage based on mindset.
she fell victim to feminism, that is toxic programming if you want to be a wife or mother, at least she has seen the light, she can still marry and have a family, it's not too late
The correct statement is this. "Behind every successful man there is physical proof of success. Namely a strong bank account, good credit, and disposable income."
I got married very young I was 18 and so was she. We both had pretty basic jobs at the time and were going to school. Fast forward 25 years and we are both very successful, have two children are still happily married. It was not easy but I am grateful that I am not going through all the crap many of you are. Growing up my parents divorced and much of the crazy stuff you guys talk about I lived as a child. Good luck to you all. What a shit show. Now I am concerned for my kids.
@@karl28560 I was thinking about this today. When I got married smartphones and social media did not exist. This came years later when my wife and I finally started having kids. Once we started using social media it was for sharing family photos and so forth. None of my wife's few ex-high school boyfriends are better looking or more successful then I am and pretty much vica versa. I have no old girlfriends that I would care about hooking up with. Now that we are in our mid-40s I would like to think I am out of the danger zone. She is a good looking woman so I can't let me guard down, that's for sure. She posted her pic on words with friends and omg the friggin perverts came out of the woodwork. I made her change the pic for a big fat lady. Problem solved, I hope.
I've lost girls to random guys in clubs. I've lost girls to taller and more attractive dudes with money. I've been shamed by women I'm dating who compare me (unfavorably) to their ex's in terms of finances and doing traditional "man" shit. Now I'm 30, and I've been seeing all of that change. It's bizarre, and exciting. But after watching this video I feel extremely sorry for women in their 30s. For real, it must totally suck to live with the that your SMV is slowly plummeting. What I had to endure for a mere 10 years, they might have to endure for the rest of their lives. It's scary to think about. I have a lot of empathy for these women, even if they are the types that probably would've rejected me in the past. We all fuck up, we all fuck people over, play with people's hearts, use people for sex. It's just part of human nature. But it's like a woman fucking up by fucking around in her 20s haunts her for the rest of her life, whereas for men, they're more likely to come out of it stronger than ever. It's crazy to think about. Just throwing that out there, I agree with everything Joker says and I've seen it playing out in my life and in the lives of women I either know or have dated who are in their 30s. Anyway, as Eminem says "just tryna show you the reason why we're so fucked."
Excellent comment that shows not only your understanding of the role and cards you were dealt, but also your compassion for others with different hands.
Relationships are overrated. Focus on yourself instead. Build your health, build your mind, acquire education, build your wealth. You will be way better off in the end. #Mgtow
Dating in middle age is like shopping at the grocery store after midnight. There is still some product left on the shelf, but the boxes have all been opened, the eggs are past date, the buns are all stale and the melons are all bruised. And you ask yourself why you even went out.
I'm 43, and i only date younger....10 and even 20 years younger. Before I only dated twice and was in only one relationship that lasted less than a year. I'm a good looking guy but I was super broke in my 20's. I'm making a lot of money now, take great care of myself, gym, eat right and dating and sex has been a breeze in the past 6 years. So to all you younger guys in your 20's now having a hard time in life in general, don't be discouraged. Built your self up and be ready when you reach your peak which is your late 30's and all your 40's
@Harrey potter If you take care of yourself, just basic health and working out a bit to stay in shape can do a ton for you. Of course, anyone who doesn't do anything healthy for their body and mind will be showing the sign of old age sooner rather than later. This goes for both men and women.
I'm 44 and about the same build but I have absolutely no desire to date any women who are in their 20s. Just the fact of thinking that I was 24 when they were born is enough for me.
@@jasonzentz3963 yeah I prefer for the woman to be at least 26 or 27 and more of a mature soul. I like a late 20s physique and 30/40s something soul and mind
Guys on these channels always use plumbers as the bad example of what to be for attracting women. Lol come on I'm a union plumber and have my own business in Columbus ohio and clear 100k every year the last 7 yrs 125k last year single with no kids. Start using drywall or gas station worker lol. Just think its funny. Subscribed and liked great video I love your tone and pace and how you explain things its very relaxing. Thank you for making your content
People in trades make great money its just very very flexible and accessible. By that I mean all trades have a 15K-20K a year apprenticeships up to 140K+ depending on how many hours u work and much u wanna educate yourself. Nothing against bachelor, but I assume he dont know this.
All true, but women also love the silly "Title" and "Status" that comes with whatever profession so they can show off to their girlfriends and family, regardless of income. It's obviously stupid, but true.
Some can be assets. If you find one, you're a lucky man. But the problem is that finding one who is an asset is pretty difficult and even if you do find one who seems like they will be, you have no guarantee that they won't turn on you a decade down the road after you've become fully financially liable through the birth of children.
Yeah, I just turned 30 am 6'3", 190 lbs, apparently not bad looking and am now on my way to get a bachelor's degree in cybersecurity. The instant I put that on dating sites woman in the 28-35 year range have been lighting me up. However, not a single one is one I'd be willing to settle down with. Already have kids, want to be "taken care of", or are just not at all attractive (either physically or personality wise).
"Behind every great man, there is a woman.. latched on to him like a parasite, draining him of every last drop of blood, happiness, and hope." - Bunlo Fluffleheim
Same here, married her before her friends corrupted her... One broke guy + One broke girl = an educationed, successful couple with all the bells & whistles it comes with.
I have a great deal of sorrow for young guys in this age who want to be married. Relationships and marriages are such a sh1tshow right now that “happily never after” is the norm not the exception
They had their fun for the past few decades. The internet was their peak but also their descension. It gave them social media and dating websites but it also gave Men a voice. Don’t cry now as the playing field begins to even out. Game on ladies. 🙂
My wife calls me a “trophy husband.” She pursued me. I use to be the short/loser/creepy/weird/“like a brother”/nice guy. Now I get looks all the time. So I have done everything to look like a 10. My wife says I’m doing it to attract attention from females. I told her “No, I do it because when other girls look at you, I want them to be super jealous of you.” You know what made me fall in love with my wife? She called me Honey and asked how my day at work was. Something no one ever asked or cared. That was it. That’s what I was looking for. We have a great dynamic. I love making my wife feel like she got everything she wanted. Also it’s fun to me, Lol. I love watching all of them look at me and smile. I love looking away.
Remember trying to speak to the hot girls a high school. They blank you. Joined the army came back late 20s in the bar the same woman try to speak to me in their 30s, nah im staying talking to the hot 23 year old lol. See ya 😂😂
In my circle of good guy friends, 1 recently committed suicide when his wife wanted a divorce, and at least 4 others are divorced. At least one of those divorced guys got absolutely financially destroyed in the divorce. My mother, sister, and brother all divorced. I've dated a LOT of divorced women, and in my outer circle of acquaintances, a large number are divorced. I have counseled scores of male Soldiers who got served with divorce paperwork. The odds and consequences of divorce are simply too great to bother with the risk, given practically no real rewards.
Smart women (and men) know that when you find a good partner, you jump on it and don't let go. That's why finding a "good man" (or woman) after 30 is hard. The good ones are already taken.
All the good ones are taken by the other good people. I don't think people in there 30's know that. All that's left is nothing, both for men and women.
@Grant Dolphine ...generally...what do you think a dowry is? tracks of land, farm animals. promised soldiers. ect. very seldom in the ancient world was a marriage about two people being in love or really having even met each other before their wedding day. it was more about selling off dependents and forging alliances.
Exactly both of my sisters unfortunately. I moved away from the family about a decade ago but I'm trying to fimd the way to warn their husband's of the incoming shit show
When me and my wife got our first kid, she was the only one with an income. She had a job, i was out of a job. There are girls out there that are reasonable and will care about you for who you are and not about your wallet, fame etc. But they are rare i guess.
@2cent Warrior i would not say that i am any more emotionally aware then anyone else. I just stated early on in the relationship if that she wants to get something across with me, just say it straight forward what it is, and i promise i wont get mad, just dont play any stupid games. So we are really straight forward with eachother, just say how it is and thats it. i dont play any guessing games and im not gonna go looking for ques or certain emotions or something like that. Very rarely do i ask the question "How do you feel" about something, shes just gonna have to tell me if she thinks its necessary
@@amanwithoutlimits its not about jackpot dude, she lacks in some areas u know but i can live with that, i lack in some areas she can live with it. Its not like a dream girl type of scenario with the best looks and best personality, its an average woman, maybe you guys call it a FIVE in here. And thats perfect for me.
Had an ex try to come back into my life telling me how she misses me and blah blah blah. Telling me we should "hang out" if I'm back in town. She dumped me when I was 29. She is now 39 and now past the wall.
It sucks tbh. I'm red pilled, but I do still sometimes have these "glimmers of hope" that a woman will accept me for the hard working man that I am, but videos like this help me wake back up, stay grounded, and continue my pursuit of excellence. Also women never get with a guy lower than herself, so true. It was hilarious when I finished my two year vocational degree how many women from my past all "re-notice" me all of a sudden 😂. Its all too true. Going to continue pursuing excellence and obtaining my own independence and happiness instead of chasing these impossible to please chicks around.
I married my husband when he was 25, totally broke, driving an old van with the siding peeling off, working part-time customer service. He dressed poorly and didn’t get regular haircuts. He was kind of nerdy. I was a babe. I dated a lot. I loved him. He was kind and sweet and treated me with such caring. I liked his cute voice and nice eyes and the way he brought over his space heater for me when the heating broke in my apartment. I married him young, poor, kind of awkward. I adored him. He’s now my husband of 11 years. I’ve been by his side as he built his career, put in years of 60 hour work weeks. I’ve given birth to 3 of his kids and we’re expecting a 4th. I’m home with our kids. Now he makes $250k a year and we have a nice house and can go on a yearly vacation. He’s alpha. But it’s not his height, his money, his body. It’s still his kind eyes, his cute voice, the caring father that he is, the way he makes me laugh at his dad jokes. Sure I appreciate and admire his ability to provide for us, but I truly wasn’t thinking about that then. I just liked him so much. I hope you can find the same! I’m sorry it’s so hard! I’ve got 3 boys and I’m concerned.
In my Blue Pilled days I went into online dating after the end of a lengthy long term relationship ended. I wouldn't wish my experience of online dating with these women on my worst enemy. The entitlement, the flakiness, the narcissism, the dinner whoring, the selfishness, on, and on and on. Doesn't matter whether they are black, white, green orange, educated, uneducated, unemployed no hopers, all the same bullshit. In fact I'd say the more "educated" they are the worse they are as human beings.
Right on. That's why on my POF profile. I have just here for friends with benefits. It upsets a few. Dating websites now are a joke. Narcissism is a big problem.
I will tell you what my ex said to me that made me leave. "If I ever make more than you I will leave you." I haven't dated another girl in over 7 years.
I haven't dated in 8 years. I guess I have a high standard, since I'm mostly attracted to someone's mind/personality, I just haven't met a chick I like.
"Where are the good men?" - Ask Grandmas, Mothers, Sisters and daughters of the world with whom they breed and how they rised them...
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Men are treated like a packet of Lays. You are opened at birth, feasted on your whole life and then crumpled up discarded when you are empty. Do you want to be treated like that?
This is so true. I am in my early thirties, 6'4'', built very well, good looks/face, have good income, no debt, and I routinely have early 20's college girls hitting me up and 28-30 year old girls my age also hitting me up. I notice how entitled the older ones are. They are genuinely shocked and taken back when I reject them/show no interest in them. Like it is almost as if they think they are entitled to a guy like me who is way out of their league. Most likely because they were used to that when they were younger and prettier but many of them have no idea that things change fast for them once they hit 27-30. Really fast....
I'm 36 and this mirrors my exact experience. I'm 5'11" and built decently but not perfect. My 20's weren't great, college was a bit better. Once I crossed about 32 though it was like the magnetic poles switched. It was open season on me with women from ages about 22-42. The younger ones have a blast with me because I can (within reason) take us anywhere and I finally know what I'm doing in the sack. Hell, most of my male competition at their age can't bring themselves to leave the house, let alone hit on them. So they keep coming back. The older ones are fun because, again, most dudes have no game even at this age. And since the US is declining, men who are managing to keep their heads above water at all are decent catches. But goddamn, mention not being interested in marriage or that you date younger women in front of the 30+ women and they FLIP OUT. God, they flip out all day on social media. The desperation, the baggage, the oversharing, the attention-seeking,-bragging about mental illness and laziness and all the passive aggressive digs at their exes- they're just BORING. When you're a guy in your 30's and taking care of yourself, you're a huge prize and they know that you know it. After she freaks out on you, even the bitchiest 37 year old female will drop her guard and ask you for dating advice. And don't even get me started on the former hot girls from high school that get gross and DM you after they get divorced. Wew! It's absolutely mind-blowing.
@Pickel Sandwich luckily i'm not american. in australia, it varies. mostly the anglos don't age well. luckily, my wife's part italian. (mostly anglo) i'm italian, french & hungarian predominantly. but i'm assuming the american girls you're talking about are also anglos, so that fucks them up. look at the british, they normally age badly too.
Imitating the DBZ Goku Meme- Men be like " This is a man in his 30's with a stable career, THIS IS An ASCENDED MAN that has no debts and a paid off car, and this...... THIS IS A MAN WHO OWNS PROPERTY!, HAS INVESTMENTS, a 401K his grey in his hair shines valiently and sparks radiate from this man. as women are like " ITS NOT POSSIBLE~ HE WAS SUCH A DORK IN SCHOOL"
“I’m not like other girls.” You know how many times we’ve heard that?
This many times:
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Jon Baker these bitches different in the same way lol
LOL! I see what you did there. Come on guys, he needs more likes to bring the number closer to reality!
I got a “I don’t usually do this but...” . Same shit different day , all women are the same lmao
It might be true that she's not like the other girls but, SHE CAN.
I can't upvote more than once...
I'm 6'1" and when I see a "no short guys" in a profile, i still swipe left bc why would I want to know someone as shallow as you?
Well done mate, you have the right idea! In fact, my 6'1" friend puts himself as 5'10" on dating sites for that very reason.
I’m 6 6 And that is my opening line, works like a charm.
I used to only swipe past those profiles if they were over 5'3"/110 because hey, I can be shallow too. Mind you, I haven't bothered seriously with dating apps/sites in years.
Same.
Dudeh, you should eff them first, before you throw them away. No need to put too much effort on it thought
Women didn't want me in their prime..... so why would I want them in their decline??
Nice! 👍
SooStoo Twice-I had women say to me “If I would have known you’d turn out like this; I’d never have dumped you.”
They tried to get back with me and told them to piss off
@@ThorMaximus nah she probably would've even held you back bro
At the magic SMV overlap age of 30 men start wondering why the sudden attention and women start wondering why locking someone down is so challenging.
I'm not even letting women I know from when I was in high school know I'm divorcing. I don't want to deal with a slew of single moms hitting me up in rapid succession.
"Be a man and learn to commit!" I am committed. Committed in keeping my money & house and not having to deal with a nag. LOL
@PiK Because he's awesome. LOL
He si so committed!! Jajaa I look up to this guy
@PiK Seethe harder
Shaming language may work on simps and little boys but not on men.
VVomen who use it are too dense to know it doesn't work but logic isn't their forte.
It is however a huge red flag to the men they are trying to attract.
spot on! haha =D
I'm 22 years old, decently attractive imo, fairly fit with a six pack, about 160lbs, and decently successful for my age. Matched with a girl on tinder, drove out about 2 hours to meet her, drove another 30 minutes to treat her to dinner and had an ok conversation, mostly about her. Got to the restaurant and she said "you know, you're pretty short and I don't really date short guys (I'm about 5'10"), but I'll think about settling". I looked at her, and immediately got in my car and left her there without saying another word. Might've been slightly rash but boy, saying I felt good about that is such an understatement.
Edit: I'm still appalled that 5'10" is "short", like im taller than over half the people I know and even that's not enough smh.
Edit edit: I'm no longer on tinder. Needless to say lol
It's hilarious be cause they have the audacity to be that snobby, and literally insulting without repercussions. Good job on your part, teach that delusionally privileged 'princess pony' a very hard reality lesson of human kindness. If she wants to spend her life being a stuck-up b!@#$ then she can deal with the consequences as well. The more responsibility and accountability we throw on these little girls, the better chance the weight of it all will crash down upon them. Maybe THEN they can finally evolve into an actual woman.... until then they're just 'pretty princess ponies' living in a harem dreamworld where everything is owed to them like a child.
Lol wtf 5'10 is not short, I'm 5'10 and way taller than all the women I have ever seen.
Damn...at 6'1", I've never had that problem...that would piss me off tho.
I'm a 5' 5" Asian guy. I'm treated as inferior by tall men, too! Then, when I out-ski them they feel that shouldn't be so. That's implicit discrimination.
@@rchn1315 Same, Asian guy here at 5'-5" here in Los Angeles.. I don't even count. lol!
Women:"I been playing around for the last 10 years, now I have 5 kids and ready to settle down"
Me:"GTFOOH"
Somebody's been on Tinder.
Yeah those you actively must try to avoid unless you also have 5 kids of your own. Then it becomes a Brady Bunch family what not.
They want someone who won't fool around with evidence they are not someone who won't fool around. There is a lot to be said for the "True Love Waits" movement. The problem with the movement is there are very few eligible to participate so they are hard to find and the pool is very small. As hard as it is, it worked well for me.
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Yea, and make that 5 kids by 5 different guys and none of them work.
Marriage is too much a liability. The divorce courts hate men.
My father nearly lost custody to his first wife and she's bat shit crazy living in a mental institution with hiv/aids. My father had to buy her a car and a bunch of other shit before he could get custody of my two half brothers
no they dont, they respect business, nobody wants tax dollars from men and women wise enough to not get married to have to be paid from their taxes to wellfare for some single mother mooch.
its about money, not man or women, its about women who own business's and dont want more fucking taxes stolen from them over some idiots fuck fest gone wrong.
just my two cents.
prenup or get married but with ceremony only no contracts. promise yourself in front of friends family and god. if u need a dam contract and let the government involved then its your fault.
@@davidjd123 why? why on fuck earth would u waste the time and money over a fake cereomony.
nobody ask friends if u can date, nobody ask friends if u can have kids, nobody has freiends that pry into ones business untill one is married, marriage both real and fake has no value to any normal man.
society in general always sides with the female. The man is always seen as the jerk. Hell, the woman can cheat and society, especially women, will find a way it's the guy's fault lol.
Henry Cavill literally having all the cards in his hand would rather build gamer PC's and play WoW than go through the trouble. Think about that.
Are there interviews showing this?
@@No_Enemies_Kale from my basic research he seems to have a girlfriend that he doesn't publicly talk about too often.
shotglassanhero That’s a sign of a healthy mind
@@No_Enemies_Kale Okay looking again to make sure I had it right, it seems like they broke up recently after dating for 2-3 years. It seems like he's risen above the desire to just date women. I find it hard to believe he had trouble getting anyone, but he probably won't easily find his counterpart outright.
He actually was dating a 20something and the "feminists" shamed him for dating a young woman xD no one is safe .. not even the 10%ers
Men age like Sean Connery, women also age like Sean Connery.
Julio P 😂🤣😂🤣hahaha the joke is just too funny
I'm stealing that joke!! :)
@@SPASTICSTONER not mine originally but it never gets old rofl
@@JulioRad954
Good one
The funny part is, many plumbers make as much money as doctors. It’s simply viewed as distasteful work
@ALJ Studios truck drivers are the same way. Believe me I know LOL. Soon as you tell a chick you're a truck driver. Game over
I love the episode of fraiser when he finds out his high school bully is a plumber, he tried to rub his success in the guys face only to find out he drives a more expensive Mercedes then fraiser has.
@@jackmartin3603 My buddy's dad is a truck driver hes bought 3 cars and paid them off over 3 years. Dude is banking.
Exactly but who cares? Long as you're making money
@@TheNitroG1 I remember that episode. Wasn't it actually Frasier's younger brother that was jealous? 👍🏾
Here's what women in their 30's need to know: Every morning when they wake up, millions of girls have turned 18 while they were sleeping. And every one of those girls is now their competition. And that's going to happen all over again tomorrow morning, and every other morning, for the rest of their lives. So yeah, good luck with that.
Indeed.
artawhirler lmao wow that’s so harsh
Another (de)generation of carousel riders... so good luck with them.
@FIFA 07 nawl, men that aren't monks. Are just men going their OWN way.. see what i did their
@Joe Cooper Exactly
I'm a 25-year-old guy and I've never been on a date. Doesn't bother me much. I'm busy trying to figure out how to earn a living.
It's perfectly fine bro, I'm 24 and I've been dumped by my 22 yo girlfriend after a 4 year relationship, it would've been better to never know her because it's extremely painful, you made the right choice
I'm 24 and I've been on lots... You're not missing too much! :)
I had a few dates but didn't have a serious relationship until I turned 30 so nothing wrong with late starts or bypassing it alltogether.
Same here! I am 27 now dated a girl for 5 years after getting out of the friend zone. Bought a house and after i started my business at 23 things fell apart. Haven't been on a date since we broke up. I too would advise only casual dating in your 20s.
Open up a Roth IRA and put every damn dime on TSLA stock for 30 years you will retire wealthy. And avoid women in the West. And exercise regularly.
Women have to make all their life choices before 30. Men get to make their life choices after 30.
This is the one bit of sympathy I do have for women. People are generally bad at making decisions when they are young.
I do have sympathy because we've systematically rooted out any cultural system or tradition that would help them make those choices well. I don't have sympathy because they are all responsible for their choices just the same.
@@Sensorium19 agreed. When you are young you should be listening to older, wiser people so that you can make good decisions. Instead, young women are listening to old bitter feminists.
True. Men can decide what they wanna do before and after 30. So even if ur 30-35. u still have time to decide what u wanna do. Men attractiveness dont take off till 40-45, some study says 50 when ur career peaks out and ur making the most money ur job can provide u
@Don’t call me exactly
Yeah. She spends her 20s "finding herself"
First she finds herself under Chad. Then she finds herself under Jamahl. Then she finds herself riding Tyrone. Then she finds herself bent over by Brock...
That's a good one LMAO
HAHAHAHAHAH :D
Lmao
To be fair, most men will do the same.
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Dudes get manipulated into selling themselves short, settling down when their value is nowhere near the potential peak.
Time is a gentleman's ally.
My best friends sister that I've known since she was a kid sent me the picture of one of her friends who is now 42 and is ready to settle down. I thanked her for the consideration and went on with my MGTOW life without any further thought or following up. When I was in my teens, 20's and early thirties I wouldn't have had a look in with this woman when she was younger - believe me I tried. Now I'm supposed to put my life (the best time of my life) on the line for someone that didn't give me the best years of her life? fk that.
and a womans enemy
@@muhdiversity7409 ,👍🏼👍🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 applause to you 🏆🥇 Edit; had something similar happen.
You are right... but it's a happier life if you make a good choice of a younger woman when you hit your peak than to grow old chasing young ones until you die alone.
@UCk14HWi-LgkutphYFlO043w I understand your views... In the past Samuel Johnson said "Marriage has many pains but celebacy has few pleasures" Now people can have their cake and eat it... until a certain age.
Title reads “Men in No rush to settle down “
Should read “ Men have no incentive to settle down “
Also fun fact about Henry cavill: he once spoke out about how dating these days is so stressful bc what once was wooing or chasing a woman is now likely to get you slapped with an accusation of rape or harassment, then a bunch of high horse feminists chewed him out for saying that, now Henry is just like " I'm happy to just go to the gym and come home and spend an obscene amount of time playing my video games"
Modern women have become so entitled that a handsome, rich, famous man would rather avoid dating and be left to his own devices.
yikes
WOW needs Henry Cavill more than Women do
He's basically my spirit animal haha
And this is coming from a highly successful and arguably better than decent looking man.
MGTOWd the f*** of those haters...
Im finding more and more that women dont take responsibility for any bad behavior.
You're a man. Therefore, it's your fault they don't take responsibility.
Not to be rude, but I learned females don't take responsibility for bad behavior back when I was 7 years old.
@@dreamimage173 While growing up, I was lied to. I was led to believe that women are nearly perfect. They didn't have bad behavior. If something bad happened, it was the fault of her husband/boyfriend/boss/father/son/or some other male. This was drummed in to me. It took a lot of bad experiences to realize the truth.
@@dreamimage173 lol None taken. I didnt figure it out till recently. Im just glad I know.
@@dreamimage173 So many guys like me had overbearing mothers and we were scared of woman. We were taught to serve women no matter what. A lot of guys including myself have been in that mindset our whole lives.
Something similar happened to me with a woman coming back. She dumped me when I was in my early 20's when I was always broke and now I'm much better off and she came back saying how we should get together cause we're great together. She has two kids from two different guys and I just straight up told her why would I ever date her, I'm much better off than she is and now I'm the catch not her. Cruel? Maybe, but the truth often is. If I wasn't good enough for her back then she's not good enough for me now.
Glad you told her that.
@Keepadagroov Oh no I told her that in person to her face. We ran into each other in the wild and here just talking and catching up. After that she got really quiet and left not soon after.
To be honest, what man would want to raise another Man's kids? I mean my step dad did It and hes happy, but he ended up giving me a Little sister. Some of these women won't give the new guy a kid of his own.
@@ironmaster8925 Honestly I have no idea why anyone would want to raise someone elses kids. My parents are split so I have a step-dad and my biological dad got re-married so he raised step kids too. I think for some people it's just ok? One of my biggest things was to not date any single mothers but in my area finding a girl that didn't have at least one kid straight out of high school is damn near impossible.
She didn't put in the ground work with you while it was rough, she has no right to expect you to reassociate with her now that there are few to no benefits for you and everything for her to gain.
I admire your reverse use of Briffault's Law good sir.
The difference between creepy and smooth is how attracted they are to you.
So true
The funniest thing I ever heard (I think on a tv show or something) someone was making a crack on fifty shades of grey. They said it was only sexy because he was a millionaire, if he lived in a trailer park, it’d be an episode of criminal minds.
Women only apply rules for good guys. Bad boys are welcome to break them.
"Be a man and learn to commit!"
No. Strong men don't let women dictate what it means to be a real man.
Women act like women were the only ones trapped in marriages. We have years of guys puttering in garages, hanging out in bars all night to stay away from the Nag.
@@sandraday6955 LOL 😂
Them: *surprised pickachu face*
Nice comment
nature ? Seems like Mankind is divided in men and princesses nowadays, thanks for sharing the news ! I was hoping to meet a Woman but seems like i have to be judged by a spoiled Disney character instead x) I'm so glad i've met enough actual woman to see that ur comment is full of shit, keep ur fantasy for u Disney girl
Coach Greg Adams calls these women 49ers. They are actually a 4 but think, and act like, they are a 9.
hah
The group Trooper actually has a song called "3 dressed up as a 9"
lol yup.
I thought he meant "gold diggers", 49ers were gold prospectors in SF.
I've seen a couple like that. Early to mid 40's, wearing those tight leather pants so the flab doesn't bounce around BUT, that muffin top made me change direction quickly.
I´m almost 40 and I find it so strange that women in their early 20s flirt with me constantly while those nearer my age and slightly above, behave like im supposed to be on my knees bowing and scraping for their attention. It makes no sense.
lol
Yess! Exactly!
@n cw Your bitterness is showing.
Ive been married for almost 23 years. Im a southern man and its just in me to flirt not trying to get anything but just being nice. Ive noticed much the same if I complement a woman my age or down to their 30s they act like Im not good enough to give them a complement but a lot of times when I complement a woman in her 20s all of a sudden they are flirting back. I find it funny as hell because Im a ugly broke bastard and dont care about money I just care about treating people right and the women that you would think from experience would see that and at least smile back dont see it but young women see it and at least smile more then not.
@n cw dont be full of yourself. Woman in thier 20s are wired to look for the best men that can take care of themselves and thier future kids. He has money and success to raise them. 20 year old men and woman doesn't happen. 30-50 yr old men date and marry 18 to 26 year olds. It's been this way for generations. So stop.
Man, you really make me feel good about being in my 30's.
Ive been binging these videos and I felt the need to say this- But I couldn't figure out how to communicate it. This is perfect. This has given me a great perspective of how my 30s are working out. I'm actually way ahead 😂
@@WaldoBagelTopper we are in our Golden age, working and investing in ourserlves are the best options now meanwhile women hit the wall
Same here! Good luck out there homie!
Right. But its true as when I hit my early 30s things changed so dramatically
He makes me feel good about my 40’s and because I keep myself in shape, what he says is true. All the women are still available to me😁
As a 25 year old male who gets very little attention from women, gotta say, this is glorious.
Give it 5 more years, one day you will go to the mall all by yourself and out of the blue women will be looking at you possibly asking you out... its fucking weird man but enjoy that.
@cbr9292you so just don't marry without being 100% sure in your partner wth?
@cbr9292you bro you have a very cynical way of thinking about people, not all are stupid and cheating skanks, some will find a reason to love you, even if you are not successful or rich
It's not going to magically appear just because you hit your 30s. You have to invest in yourself too. Work out. Eat healthy. Improve your career. Improve your social skills. Gain confidence.
Then, when you're happy being alone, you'll suddenly drown in pussy.
@@ryderwilson7955 If you want to love someone, then love them. However, there is no need to involve the government in a romantic relationship, which is what marriage allows to state to do.
If you are best friends with someone, then you can be best friends with them without involving a contract between you, them, and the state. The same applies to romantic relationships as well.
I do not want the state involved in my personal life.
I’m 38, most women I meet that are my age look 10 years older than me.
Upon looking at photos considering our HS reunion; my old classmate remarked how one girl “looked like my Aunt”
bmwash1 this one cheerleader who was perfectly pretty is now a proud drunken ever less pretty ... slob
Pink Floyd wrote a song about that...The wall.
Stop lying about your age, Jesus! We know you are 2038!
This is also what I have observed in 85% of women who are my age or younger. They hyperage and mutate into nasty creatures. All they had to do was keep a wholesome mind and diet. Must be too hard for some
“I turned you down in college but now that i have two kids im very interested!” My response: “Dont raise the crops another farmer planted.”
I actually straight up asked a girl i knew who asked me out (but rejected me years before), “how do i know that you aren’t suddenly interested because you got kids and no father for them?” She said, “you dont.” I said “no thanks then”.
oof. lmao she didnt even bother trying to lie 🤣😭🤣😭😭 she really thought she had you pegged for a sucker huh?
Haha nice. I would've loved to see her reaction 😂
This is the actual plot of Forrest Gump. Why a lot of men these days hate that movie.
Sad part is theres eventually going to be a guy that falls for her shenanigans.
i dont want to play someone else's save file.
You know, as a 28 year old guy still attaining my astronautics engineering degree, this gives me some much needed hope for my future dating prospects :)
Don't settle down unless she's a gorgeous green babe.
get that cash my g
What do you mean 'it's not fair' that women lose smv as they age?
It's COMPLETELY fair😂
Not fair to them lol, plenty fair to we men.
@@BetterBachelor it is fair because they have OVERWHELMING power during their prime(18-25). They have to put in hardly *any* effort to be an attractive 18 yr old as long as their genetics haven't completely screwed them.
Even though men's SMV increases and peaks in mid 30s, a man STILL has to exert effort to get to that peak... a man that is undesirable before his peak can still end undesirable by 35 if THEY DO NOT WORK ON THEMSELVES...
@@BetterBachelor is this a red pill channel or a cuck channel?
So true. No women after the prime age believes she is not the same, the cognitive dissonance behavior takes over. Too painful to accept reality. They likes how they were treated by men and can never give it up. Have you ever seen woman 50s and 60s or even older dressed and made up like they are 18? Guess why? Tons of them where I live. How many men do you see doing it, that are not car salesmen? Diminishing assets, is what they are, after about 28, in my opinion.
Better Bachelor - not a question of fairness imho, it’s human biology, the differences thereof. Not a social construct. Facts.
As a 5' 6 driven successful male, I have been treated by women in a way that would shame ss officials in ww2 poland. Now they want to settle with me. Thans but No thanks
Settle? Hell no pump and dump sure!
I’m glad to hear that you are having the last laugh.
Ha!! Brother.. Do I know the feeling. Great analogy!
women would rather be with a multi millionaire who is at least 5'11.. So they still don't care if you die... You don't have the last laugh
Yes we do. Because: Math. There simply aren't enough men to meet women's ridiculous standards. Millionaires often won't marry and most women can't get them.
And because men can be content living alone. Women cannot.
Many, many more women will lose the Game than win it, especially with MGTOW growing almost exponentially. If they think the 'dating pool' is bad now.. just wait.
Make sure your daughters don't watch Disney movies. You're seeing the effects of it now.
Or Lifetime and Hallmark.....
Make her read those fairy tales instead they're way better and it won't brainwash her. Haha
Disney got nothing to do with it man. A parent sbould have a much larger effect on their child than the movies they watch. Whip your child if necessarry so they understand respect, but do not look for reasons to whip them so that they feel bad on the inside. Find ways to reach out to them. Do the right thing in front of them and then explain why without making it a big deal. Talk to them about doing the right thing themselves. Children are very teachable. Teach them the right things.
@@jimibones178 yeah, proof of that is the fact feminists love to say they don't want to be a disney princess, so these characters are probably decent role models for kids.
I disagree,princess(well she become then)Belle teachs me to look people not to see,to be be supportive,to face problems and to fix by myself what's wrong in my life,at last she is the only princess that READ,Jesus Christ! Sometimes,if you are alone,life gives you shit and the only thing you can give back is exactly what you receive,unfortunatly
As a single dad of 2 girls, that alone on top of my profession I get all these crazy looks. One woman said you spend too much time with your kids, I stood up told her well you suck as a person, I walked away she apologized, so I started to run while flipping her the bird. Took my kids to Lego Land the next day had the best time ever.
Based
You spend too much time with your kids. What the f*** was that?
You are a great father
wow, such a toxic person to say that, glad you told her off
This is the most professional MGTOW channel in my opinion
Yeah no hate or grudge just making good points.
actually this is a centrist channel.
he is trying to be as gentle as possible and offend as few people as possible.
the other channels say it like it is, this one uses a milder tone.
but it's all the same.
Agreed. He’s not a women hater. He’s just fed up. Too many mgtow are “go make a sandwich” dickwads that discredit the movement. Thanks, Joker, for having some integrity.
That's because joker is a true mgtow which is not someone who tries to get back at woman but just walks away from them. The others are just guys seeking revenge under the guise of mgtow and they don't understand the true meaning. Joker only makes these videos to warn men what they could be getting themselves into so they can go thier own way too.
@Jorge Sepulveda I'd rather watch joker than all of those other mgtow channels so it doesn't bother me that he is talking about the same things they are I'm not watching them any way. I've been a fan of joker channel when he had just started his channel and only had 300 subcribers even the content he had back then piqued my interest more than those other guys.
"So many women are missing their fairytale ending" "fairytale" being the main point women/Disney princesses ignore.
Hahah lol
They want the fairy tale ending but forgot all the rest of the plot, take the beauty and the beast could resume men in their 20. The prince at first is like the beast and with time turn into the prince but they just want to skip to the end.
attention is female currency.
and remember the older disney fairytale's made sense. she was young, not a party favor, waiting for her prince, and had some sorta virtues outside of being maidens.
@@Niveous23 but she was always pretty....which most of the women are not blessed with....even while young.....so why lumpnwomen behavior as same across the board? It's usually byhe cute ones that spell trouble cuz they know beauty is rare.....whereas the ordinary looking ones have everything the hard way and are so sensible.....but the average guy will always run after the pretty one and then complain about them being bitchy ...well beauty has a price 🙄
Men age like a fine wine.
Women age like a bowl of cornflakes.
*with spoiled milk
the less milk on the cornflakes the longer they're the right consistency, if you catch my drift.
Stupid generalization. Lots of men, especially blue collar types, age much faster than a female pieces of lard.
@Blind Squid Who needs cornflakes when you got Fruitloops or Quaker Oats?
HAHAHA... you made my day!
when I was younger I was in very good physical shape, and was the "bad boy" in the eyes of women. None of them really were interested in anything more with me than to have fun. And for that time in my life I was ok with that and had my fun too. Once I hit the early 30's I grew tired of the drama and chose to remain single for awhile and discovered I like doing whatever I want whenever I want. I enjoy friends, hobbies and free time. I own a home, have money in the bank, no debt and am happier than I have ever been. I am now 55 turning 56 and see no reason whatsoever to add any complications to my life.
I'm 68, feel the same, lost all interest in women at 50, nice net worth, no drama in my life from a spouse, no kids, and beat colon cancer at 56, feel lucky to be alive
There's 2 parts to this video: The video itself, and the comments. The comments are just as important to me. Everybody's different but when you look at the comments, there's so much being said we agree on I didn't even consider before could be a statistical truth. Astounding.
I always have a good read of the comments. Some great comeback stories and others helping people who are down.
Sometimes it takes someone ti explain something in just the right way theyre always a good read
When I was in my 20s, I got no play. As I approach my 40s, it's like women can smell my experience and confidence, which were the two things that I was lacking in my 20s because I didn't know myself at that time. Once I stop caring about chasing, the roles began to reverse. It's crazy.
Bullshit, you are stupid as fuck.... It's not stop caring like a jerk, you were needy all the time no wonder why you chased women like crazy.... Women smell your experience and "confidence" which is stupid to brag not because of age or how much you have done. it's just because when you were in your 20s... you didn't take action at all, you never started to do your own thing to the right right according to your terms... you never accepted any results and you never really genuinely improve yourself up... you kept the same for too long... Come on! it's not that miracle, you just didn't have a clue of basically anything of how things works...
@@CarlosRuiz-gg5wn the people that call stupid other people are usually the ones that are stupid
Yup. I'm going thru this right now. I just really don't care. And they are flinging signals at me... Bruh..
@@CarlosRuiz-gg5wn Wow. Harsh words buddy. Needy? No. Still figuring out the world? Yes. If there is no proper understanding of how women work as well as not having an understanding of who I was as a man and my priorities in the wrong place, of course I wasn't successful. These days I know what to expect and do not have a care in the world about chasing women because I'm on my purpose. Women will be here if you are rich or you are poor.
That sounds awesome! -Ahhh- good to be a man.
"Where did all of the good men go?" Two places, the graveyard and back in your 20's where you left them.
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I recently suffered a mental breakdown due to PTSD (i'm a retired cop). My loving wife whom I had been with for 13 years kicked me out of the house, refused to let me back in then split up with me. I was in a really dark place for a while but this channel, the videos and the comments have really helped me see things from a different perspective. Thanks, guys, stay strong.
Prayed for you brother. First, thank you for holding the line in your time. Women that will stand by us in our dark hours no longer exist. They were in a previous generation. Feminism got the rest. If I could say anything it would be God loves you. Establish a relationship with Jesus if you have not. He is all we need. I’d be in the ground without Him. Anyway, bless you and be well.
@@scep8551 I really appreciate that, thank's bro
I'm a cop too. Not from US but from a South American country, it's a stressful job specially if You love what You do(You gotta fight against the odds, the system, etc) to bring some Peace to the community.
And all that stuff adds up with time, accumulates. I hope you're doing better now. Never give up on yourself brother. You are your most important investment.
@@luisroldan9601 Thank you, brother
I had my 1st mental breakdown last year scared me pretty bad I'm not violent but like a rubber band reaction I feel ya hope your doing better .
I married a woman who wanted to be a mom and homemaker. At first I was surprised. I definitely envisioned that my wife and I would be going to work in the morning and getting wrapped up in the rat-race with kids. But, I was happy to let her do what she wanted. I worked, she stayed at home and took care of our kids and home. We are better organized and we spend more time and really know our kids better than any of our friends know their kids. We always get compliments on how well behaved and thoughtful our kids are. They are all involved in sports and competitive dance and are all on the honor roll at school. They have lots of friends and are very social. My wife does typical things like vacuuming and laundry while I do typical "male" jobs around the house on the weekends and such. If a kid gets sick, it's not a panic...one parent is home. Some friends have extra income to take more exotic trips than us, but we understood that sacrifice and really, it is no sacrifice at all. So, my advice is to get back to the traditional family unit. It is very rewarding, less stressful. I mean, families grew into that in the past because it worked but now society has gotten away from it. Just my observation. I don't know why more people don't do this.
A little something known as battle of the sexes. Women decided to compete with men in things that men have traditionally excelled in. Ironically they've gotten worse in areas where they were most proficient. A bird in the hand....
@John R I had the same experience.....initially. She dropped her career after our first was born and couldn't wait for kid #2. After the third kid, she lost her mind and wanted to find herself.....like she missed out on something. I begged her to stay since we had a newborn, a toddler, and a kindergartner. She stayed but became distant, no cooking, cleaning, she slept in a separate room and sex dried up.... The kid's weren't as well cared for. I had to carry my job, cooking, cleaning, and caring for the kids. My wife had actually become one of the kids and started acting like she was. She refused counseling, and wouldn't even talk about our relationship. Finally, after 12 years of this BS I told her that we needed to talk about legally separating. Two weeks after just mentioning separating, she flew to another state to spend Christmas with an "old friend" But I was wise and hired a private investigator, I have photos of her and her old boyfriend from college in a full report. In my state, because I have this report, she get's ZERO alimony, and I get the kids because she is unfit as a mother.
She can piss-off as far as I'm concerned, she used me for decades and I won't feel bad when she's living under a bridge.
I hope your fate is much better
You are either lucky or blind as a bat. There might be a boyfriend under your bed.
@@ericmayne2229 don't worry. My cousin dealt with a 20 something year old marriage and his wife was a huge bitch. She had mental disorders but never seemed to try to get better. He got divorced and even the kids wanted to stay with him. He's a successful engineer and quite a talker himself (not great looking but charismatic enough) so I wasn't surprised when I saw him at the mall with his new, younger and more charming gf. I never saw him so happy in years. You'll be fine my guy.
Well you picked someone who knew what a real
Marriage(trade offs) would be and wanted it still
Tho it is a bit bland, most women want to prove themselves today but why?
Everyone knows that they’re capable, maybe if they do more they can have more to choose from? Or get “better guys,”
Looks don’t matter that much for long term
Cause it fades
Goods looks-> asshole face
Assholes.
__________________________
Ugly-average-> decent guy face
Decent guy
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their face becomes them
traditionally men would put women down because they were jealous, and wanted their job, cook and clean, and care for your own, in your home, most can be done in a few hours, and then that’s it.
You’re not stuck somewhere with assholes, that you still had to commute to. So 8 hrs are actually more about 10-12 hrs depending how long your commute is
The more I've dated in my 30s the more I understand why so many guys leave the country and get foreign women.
I intend doing this..
But what if a foreign woman comes to your country? This happened to me
@@StephenWestSyd Best if you can figure out how to retire in her country. Also keep your finances to yourself. Pay the bills and give her an allowance.
They are not much better except on weight gain. The tricks are just not as obvious at first due to cultural reasons. (divorced from phillipina and chinese).
Just DO NOT bring that Foreign Woman back to the good 'ol US of A...She won't be any good after she gets her Green Card and Citizenship...I'm here full time in SE Asia and I can tell you that's a Fact Jack :-)...While they are here at least you have control to keep them in pocket or whatever and not have any family court system stacked against you (not yet anyway)...It's not all roses so don't fool yourself into believing that 100%...They are still female through and through and that's dangerous...
36, 6'2", not that bad looking, calculus teacher with a math degree. Can not find anyone that does not already have kids. That is a hard no for me. So screw it. I'll build up my spot and make me happy.
Just date bro. Get easy uncomplicated sex and stop overthinking it
@@Citylifesteve Yes! I'm available for sex! Since I have nothing more to offer. But I think that's useful enough, right?
Single moms are a social catastrophe in this country. Disgusting
Girls don't ask a man about his salarie and compare his height, unless you want to be judged about your weight.
ahh,i had a few females ask about what i did for a livling, then they walk away when i told them i was on disability, lmao but not telling how much i make, they did not wait for that.
Some men love fat curvy women.
@@kitty1256x Only the unhealthy ones.
@@kitty1256x yup they do. but i am not one of them ok
@@kitty1256x not me, sorry no fatties with this dude.
Words of encouragement to my brothers.
“Nothing is more threatening and simultaneous attractive to a woman than a man who’s aware of his own value to women”
-Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi
Ever since I quit dating, I’ve been happier. Have a race car, a bass boat, guns and motorcycles. I gave up on dating and started focusing on doing the things I’ve always wanted to do since I was a child. I went back and got the things I’ve dreamed of, went on trips around the world and can do things without asking for permission. I play golf 3 times a week and bowl in several leagues. Don’t settle. Do you. You would be surprised at how much time, energy and money you waste chasing women. Refocus that energy on doing you and you would be amazed at the experiences and things you can amass being focused on you.
Agreed, I stopped dating about 2 years ago and life couldn't be more simple. I do what I want, when I want, and just generally feel happy with life.
so true, bless u
So true.. bought my first motorcycle this year. House soon to be paid off and no other debt. Life is looking brighter post divorce
I given up on that recently...I feel happier inside... focusing on myself now..these women nowadays ain't good...only for themselves and what they can get out of us
Amen, brother. Thats a great life
The Little Rascals were ahead of their time and great visionaries when they opened up the He-man Women Haters Club!!
Spanky's the man!!!
I would like to add Mr.Polk High 4 tds in 1 game Al Bundy
@@sportstalkwithzo3707
Oh yeah!!!
@@sportstalkwithzo3707 "No Ma'am", is the way to go. I loved this guy. He still makes me laugh. My mother hated him. He was married, but was fully aware of his situation.
@@chubbydexter8707 its crazy how Al was on 3rd eye shit in the late 80s
I've actually had this happen to me. Was out at a pub with friends and was having a great time. Was talking with a woman who was my age (late 30's) at the time. Having just met we were doing the small talk thing and she actually asked me "Where are all the good men these days" I actually got annoyed and said to her "Don't you know, all the good women got them"
I'm no prize but I'm still a good man. Get over yourself. At our age you should be over playing the games you played 10 years ago. Its not for me to show me I'm a good man upon your request. Talk to each other and get to know each other. Quit the stupid games and go with your instincts and most importantly put your stupid checklists away.
Don't insult me to my face and
Start shopping the 20 somethings. They love stable, experienced men who aren't all cucked up and sissified.
She is actually full of crap, if not, a narcissist, talking like that
"A wise warrior avoids the battle."
Well said. You've got yourself another subscriber.
Especially battles you cant win. With society, institutions, and laws overwhelmingly supporting the tantrums of f-ists its a slaughter, not a battle
"men, stop shying away from commitment so we can get on this path to alimony!"
Yep, unfortunately that is the goal of women nowadays. You can thank feminism. They want to be independent while at the same time they expect men to support them. So they get with a rich man, then divorce him to make money off of alimony and child support. That way she can be independent and empowered.
Just imagine if everyone you met thought they were going to be rich and famous. That’s women. Pure delusion.
Wealth and Fame comes at a steep cost of selling your soul, sad thing is most women don't have a soul to sell lol.
this is very true. thats why they follow celebrities so much, they fantasize about fame and popularity so much and they start as kids, i saw it in my young sister, i am 8yrs older than her, she fantasised about being celebrated at about 10yrs
women on average are not good people in today's society. ain't that a bitch?
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You can be rich without selling your soul. The greatest transfer of wealth is coming when the dollar collapses. Once one studies and understands money. One can position themselves to gain great wealth in the future collapse. Buy crypto, silver, and gold. Silver is going to skyrocket!
I´m in my early 20s and it´s already pretty tough. I really hope it get´s better when I´m reaching my 30s :/
It gets worse before it gets better, but time will season you.
Then it’s too late, no woman looks good after 30. so then you have to go on younger women, as an old creep. Basicly. you can’t win, if you’re a man these days just blow your brains out, done and out.
Napoleon once said....Give me a woman's mind and I will have her..! The art of conversation has gone these days...Facebook and online communication does not work...real life is what works...the youth of today are more used to posting a conversation on social media than striking up a conversation....be different and unconventional and you will win them all..
Focus on your value
They want a guy who makes money, but it has to be the right kind of money.
Turning 30 soon... lets the best years of my life begin! 😈 (I’m a dude)
It's def better if you have added lots of strength and muscle mass in your 20's =]]
Godspeed
A healthy bank account & passport will be all you need my friend. Traveled to Costa Rica when I turned 25 (39, now) haven't been in an LTR since.
Jay Jay me too. I look at mirror and I am looking better and better. Women my age are no match.
I'm 33 you will have more fun then you ever did in previous years. Work, build, travel, and put these women to bed.
Invisibility is a gift.
Agreed
Who said that? 😃
That's a positive spin...
I used to think it was a curse, but I've since learned it makes me uniquely positioned to be a puppet-master
Invisibility is a curse. Knowing that no one is interested in you is a very lonely existence. Especially if you want to start a family or wanted kids.
They want "Trophy husbands" but trophy men wants the contestants of the beauty pageant not its judges
Lol Burn! Indeed when you have the pick of the mates, you can afford to be selective.
Marriage or dating isnt even a factor in my life, im just going to build myself up and watch the world burn
Same here bud! Someone's gotta do it right?!
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Amen brother
feeling like this more and more
"Either lead or follow, but get the hell out of the way"
This is one of the best videos in the channel. If any women is genuinelly concerned about her future, this would be an amazing way for her to open her eyes.
I'm MGTOW but I do love woman. Too bad "the juice is not worth the queeze (or something like that)". So... make it worth it, ladies.
They won't make it worth it - cats, vibrators and boxes of wine are far easier as an option than humility, introspection and a thorough examination of your values.
In this Dating Site, a number of not bad looking women in their late 40s or so, state their requirements in a man: Must be Financialy Stable MUST own a home, and a few other things. To make it worse one in particular rubbishes other men she has dated on this site. (3 only)
here here!
i no longer consider the average women good people or people i could team up with, they're very combative and therefore will be treated as an enemy of society until they change their behavior. have the mindset and focus on what makes and gives you a healthy lifestyle.
Just need to build a time machine. Go back to 1940 and stay there.
My ex has a Masters, I have a GED. I payed for her masters. She's unemployed and I make mid 6 figures. Jokes on her! Never judge a person by the letters at the end of their name! Now back to the gym to become a 8 again at 49.
Masters in what? Nothing useful I suppose
Erich CIA - exactly, I’m a computer scientist, no degree, yet I’ve worked on projects from bell labs to darpa - seems sometimes being autodidactic is superior to being trained by college, I’m also CEO of my own tech firm, no letters after my name
I hit the gym, lost 60 pounds, and... I’m happy. 45, 6 foot tall, 165 and I got my six pack back.
Im 32. Havent been on a date in years. Been approached several times last year. Im starting to feel bad for the ladies. You can smell the desperation. My coworker is 19, female, attends college, and is hilarious. She is so hard up for just a date, let alone a one night stand. I love it. Keeps me entertained during the down times at work. Shes a hard feminist and just doesnt get it.
All the 30 year old women want to lock you down so that they can 1) start a family and 2) have you work so that she can semi retire.
19yo has magic powers that can’t be resisted?
@Jarred Chess Zero
Just because she is 19 dont mean shit if shes ugly and 250lbs then maybe who knows what's she looks like. If a 19 year old chick cant get laid in the day and age there is something wrong.
Either she's not very attractive or she has self-esteem issues. She doesn't need to waste her time with a 32 year old man unless he's providing for her. She could literally have anyone at that age.
Brittany :
Sentence 1. True for most
Sentence 2. Any age are required providers.
Sentence 3: 19 is not a magic number - so false.
I literally had a woman say this that i hung out with last weekend - She is about to turn 30, very career driven, and she said just randomly, we werent even talking about any of this, just watching TV - She said "I gave up all the best years of my life, for that silly career, i should have gotten myself a man when i was younger" i was LOLOLOLOL on the inside - unprovoked, poor girl, i think the best thing is when they come to that conclusion themselves, how crushing it must be
More fool them, they should've used their brains years ago.
They made their beds and now they must lay in it.
It’s because when you’re under 25 you’re stupid and then includes guys too. The problem with women is the best looking years are the biggest disadvantage based on mindset.
And if she had a man she'd be saying she gave him the best years of her life. Girls are never happy, and will always look for someone else to blame.
she fell victim to feminism, that is toxic programming if you want to be a wife or mother, at least she has seen the light, she can still marry and have a family, it's not too late
"Behind every successful man theres a woman" - A false statement women love to proclaim just like the old "happy wife happy life" BS
The correct statement is this.
"Behind every successful man there is physical proof of success. Namely a strong bank account, good credit, and disposable income."
always preferred 'happy spouse, happy house'
"Behind every successful man there is a woman with nothing to wear"
Or - behind every unsuccessful man there is a bad woman.
@Manny K Yes!
I got married very young I was 18 and so was she. We both had pretty basic jobs at the time and were going to school. Fast forward 25 years and we are both very successful, have two children are still happily married. It was not easy but I am grateful that I am not going through all the crap many of you are. Growing up my parents divorced and much of the crazy stuff you guys talk about I lived as a child. Good luck to you all. What a shit show. Now I am concerned for my kids.
Wow this is so rare these days. But I am glad for you to experience this. Don't be worried for your kids though, teach them.
You must live in an Amish community! Good show!
@@karl28560 I was thinking about this today. When I got married smartphones and social media did not exist. This came years later when my wife and I finally started having kids. Once we started using social media it was for sharing family photos and so forth. None of my wife's few ex-high school boyfriends are better looking or more successful then I am and pretty much vica versa. I have no old girlfriends that I would care about hooking up with. Now that we are in our mid-40s I would like to think I am out of the danger zone. She is a good looking woman so I can't let me guard down, that's for sure. She posted her pic on words with friends and omg the friggin perverts came out of the woodwork. I made her change the pic for a big fat lady. Problem solved, I hope.
There are plenty of happily married guys out there and super marriages. When it works, it's awesome and far better than being alone.
@@yaimavol If the majority of marriage were successful it would be a different environment in our country imo.
Statistically, women make for a bad investment in terms of everything.
... except for Financial Advisors.
@@NameCallingIsWeak Thanks man, for the chuckle :)
Rook Correct.
Might want to talk to your mum
Statistically being married improves one's happiness.
I've lost girls to random guys in clubs. I've lost girls to taller and more attractive dudes with money. I've been shamed by women I'm dating who compare me (unfavorably) to their ex's in terms of finances and doing traditional "man" shit. Now I'm 30, and I've been seeing all of that change. It's bizarre, and exciting. But after watching this video I feel extremely sorry for women in their 30s. For real, it must totally suck to live with the that your SMV is slowly plummeting. What I had to endure for a mere 10 years, they might have to endure for the rest of their lives. It's scary to think about. I have a lot of empathy for these women, even if they are the types that probably would've rejected me in the past. We all fuck up, we all fuck people over, play with people's hearts, use people for sex. It's just part of human nature. But it's like a woman fucking up by fucking around in her 20s haunts her for the rest of her life, whereas for men, they're more likely to come out of it stronger than ever. It's crazy to think about. Just throwing that out there, I agree with everything Joker says and I've seen it playing out in my life and in the lives of women I either know or have dated who are in their 30s. Anyway, as Eminem says "just tryna show you the reason why we're so fucked."
Excellent comment that shows not only your understanding of the role and cards you were dealt, but also your compassion for others with different hands.
Relationships are overrated. Focus on yourself instead. Build your health, build your mind, acquire education, build your wealth. You will be way better off in the end. #Mgtow
Ok sure I'll do that.
My crippling loneliness: Bonjour
Dating in middle age is like shopping at the grocery store after midnight. There is still some product left on the shelf, but the boxes have all been opened, the eggs are past date, the buns are all stale and the melons are all bruised. And you ask yourself why you even went out.
Most of them have kids and grandkids and that's all they talk about. I'm 63 and happy being with my to cats and my bank account.
So so true
Its like sticking your hand down a wet dark hole in the forest... who knows what you’ll grab
Truth Indeed
I'm 43, and i only date younger....10 and even 20 years younger.
Before I only dated twice and was in only one relationship that lasted less than a year. I'm a good looking guy but I was super broke in my 20's.
I'm making a lot of money now, take great care of myself, gym, eat right and dating and sex has been a breeze in the past 6 years.
So to all you younger guys in your 20's now having a hard time in life in general, don't be discouraged. Built your self up and be ready when you reach your peak which is your late 30's and all your 40's
@Harrey potter well, it depends. It may just be the 40y/o folks you personally know that look like that at such an age
@Harrey potter If you take care of yourself, just basic health and working out a bit to stay in shape can do a ton for you. Of course, anyone who doesn't do anything healthy for their body and mind will be showing the sign of old age sooner rather than later. This goes for both men and women.
Great advice! 💯👍
So really it's because you have money and are freakishly lucky enough to have good genes....
Gav's Garage you’re just lazy ..
I'm 6'4" - 200lbs, very athletic. I'm 37 and have only dated woman in their 20's for the last 5 years, this is wild how accurate it is.
I am 5 9 and 30 yo. Still OK :))
I'm 44 and about the same build but I have absolutely no desire to date any women who are in their 20s. Just the fact of thinking that I was 24 when they were born is enough for me.
@@jasonzentz3963 I have to agree with you here, I never let it get too serious as most of these girls I date have yet to hit the "woman" maturity.
@Redbulladdict08 Chad.
@@jasonzentz3963 yeah I prefer for the woman to be at least 26 or 27 and more of a mature soul. I like a late 20s physique and 30/40s something soul and mind
Guys on these channels always use plumbers as the bad example of what to be for attracting women. Lol come on I'm a union plumber and have my own business in Columbus ohio and clear 100k every year the last 7 yrs 125k last year single with no kids. Start using drywall or gas station worker lol. Just think its funny. Subscribed and liked great video I love your tone and pace and how you explain things its very relaxing. Thank you for making your content
People in trades make great money its just very very flexible and accessible. By that I mean all trades have a 15K-20K a year apprenticeships up to 140K+ depending on how many hours u work and much u wanna educate yourself. Nothing against bachelor, but I assume he dont know this.
All true, but women also love the silly "Title" and "Status" that comes with whatever profession so they can show off to their girlfriends and family, regardless of income. It's obviously stupid, but true.
Hey! Drywall guys are cool! :( how about don't hate on any jobs men traditionally take!
I know a 20 year old young man who owns his own plumbing company and pulls just over 6 figures. He's MGTOW in all but name
Sounds like me, except I'm an electrician.
Joker, thanks for your videos. I find you and Coach Greg Adams the most balanced contributors. Please keep it up 👍
@Don Draper
CGA is a beast.....his knowledge is on another level!!
AMS is good too, Alpha Male Strategist
Women think that they're assets but we know they're liabilities.
total loss !
Perfectly put.
@saganist well said
Some can be assets. If you find one, you're a lucky man. But the problem is that finding one who is an asset is pretty difficult and even if you do find one who seems like they will be, you have no guarantee that they won't turn on you a decade down the road after you've become fully financially liable through the birth of children.
The outlook on the Marriage life in 2020 and up; the *WAP* ain't worth the squeeze.
Yeah, I just turned 30 am 6'3", 190 lbs, apparently not bad looking and am now on my way to get a bachelor's degree in cybersecurity. The instant I put that on dating sites woman in the 28-35 year range have been lighting me up. However, not a single one is one I'd be willing to settle down with. Already have kids, want to be "taken care of", or are just not at all attractive (either physically or personality wise).
The worst is when pregnant women are on these sites.
@N L that's sick. A pregnant woman should not be on a dating site... Why would you want a complete stranger around a newborn
I'm 5"8, 27, going back to school to get my bachelors in computer science, let's hangout and taunt the desperate bitches lel.
"Behind every great man, there is a woman.. latched on to him like a parasite, draining him of every last drop of blood, happiness, and hope." - Bunlo Fluffleheim
Lol!
Look what happened to Elon Musk. Eventually he realized his value and dated well above his looksmatch.
Its funny women will never "settle" down so they will either stay alone, turn gay or go full cat lady mode
Glad I'm in my 50's and have been married to the same girl all along. Finding a decent girl was tough even back then.
congrats you are now 4 out of 4 million guys that made it
Same here, married her before her friends corrupted her... One broke guy + One broke girl = an educationed, successful couple with all the bells & whistles it comes with.
I have a great deal of sorrow for young guys in this age who want to be married. Relationships and marriages are such a sh1tshow right now that “happily never after” is the norm not the exception
Its simple, men look for good enough, women look for perfection. That's why men are all gone by the time women are in their thirties.
They don't really look @ Younger Men.
They had their fun for the past few decades. The internet was their peak but also their descension. It gave them social media and dating websites but it also gave Men a voice.
Don’t cry now as the playing field begins to even out. Game on ladies. 🙂
Stay smart fellas, we now understand the game...
Be rich, the game stays on even after coffin shuts
My wife calls me a “trophy husband.” She pursued me. I use to be the short/loser/creepy/weird/“like a brother”/nice guy. Now I get looks all the time.
So I have done everything to look like a 10.
My wife says I’m doing it to attract attention from females. I told her “No, I do it because when other girls look at you, I want them to be super jealous of you.”
You know what made me fall in love with my wife? She called me Honey and asked how my day at work was. Something no one ever asked or cared. That was it. That’s what I was looking for. We have a great dynamic.
I love making my wife feel like she got everything she wanted. Also it’s fun to me, Lol.
I love watching all of them look at me and smile.
I love looking away.
So how did you do that? Just get more money? Work out? And?..
And then you woke up.
Simple math here. If women will not date "down" or marry "down" (unfortunate term) they will end up alone period.
It’s also a good option.
Remember trying to speak to the hot girls a high school. They blank you. Joined the army came back late 20s in the bar the same woman try to speak to me in their 30s, nah im staying talking to the hot 23 year old lol. See ya 😂😂
Lol way to go,why bother with anyone over 25
Date their daughters
I have never liked so many comments under the video. This content is great
In my circle of good guy friends, 1 recently committed suicide when his wife wanted a divorce, and at least 4 others are divorced. At least one of those divorced guys got absolutely financially destroyed in the divorce. My mother, sister, and brother all divorced. I've dated a LOT of divorced women, and in my outer circle of acquaintances, a large number are divorced. I have counseled scores of male Soldiers who got served with divorce paperwork. The odds and consequences of divorce are simply too great to bother with the risk, given practically no real rewards.
Smart women (and men) know that when you find a good partner, you jump on it and don't let go. That's why finding a "good man" (or woman) after 30 is hard. The good ones are already taken.
All the good ones are taken by the other good people. I don't think people in there 30's know that. All that's left is nothing, both for men and women.
There's a reason why fathers would choose the husband for his daughter
@Evurgreen Al was one of the first red pillers, but if you dont watch closely all you see in the show is how uselles and patetic he is.
@Evurgreen i see you know your mwc, i like that!
If they don't work out? Simple, Uncle Phil his ass out the front door.
Well, usually that was because the father of her husband has a nice track of land...
@Grant Dolphine ...generally...what do you think a dowry is? tracks of land, farm animals. promised soldiers. ect. very seldom in the ancient world was a marriage about two people being in love or really having even met each other before their wedding day. it was more about selling off dependents and forging alliances.
You forgot to mention that all those educated women are also in huge debt looking for a man to pay off that debt.
Exactly both of my sisters unfortunately. I moved away from the family about a decade ago but I'm trying to fimd the way to warn their husband's of the incoming shit show
When me and my wife got our first kid, she was the only one with an income. She had a job, i was out of a job. There are girls out there that are reasonable and will care about you for who you are and not about your wallet, fame etc. But they are rare i guess.
@2cent Warrior i would not say that i am any more emotionally aware then anyone else. I just stated early on in the relationship if that she wants to get something across with me, just say it straight forward what it is, and i promise i wont get mad, just dont play any stupid games. So we are really straight forward with eachother, just say how it is and thats it. i dont play any guessing games and im not gonna go looking for ques or certain emotions or something like that. Very rarely do i ask the question "How do you feel" about something, shes just gonna have to tell me if she thinks its necessary
congrats you are now 6 out of 6 million guys that made it
@@amanwithoutlimits its not about jackpot dude, she lacks in some areas u know but i can live with that, i lack in some areas she can live with it. Its not like a dream girl type of scenario with the best looks and best personality, its an average woman, maybe you guys call it a FIVE in here. And thats perfect for me.
rare ok maybe, but rare to what, well ok dinosaur rare gotcha, lmao
Had an ex try to come back into my life telling me how she misses me and blah blah blah. Telling me we should "hang out" if I'm back in town. She dumped me when I was 29. She is now 39 and now past the wall.
With 2-3 kids now from 1-2 baby daddies, I presume?
She's hit the wall and looking for a pet wallet/ATM.
It sucks tbh. I'm red pilled, but I do still sometimes have these "glimmers of hope" that a woman will accept me for the hard working man that I am, but videos like this help me wake back up, stay grounded, and continue my pursuit of excellence.
Also women never get with a guy lower than herself, so true. It was hilarious when I finished my two year vocational degree how many women from my past all "re-notice" me all of a sudden 😂. Its all too true. Going to continue pursuing excellence and obtaining my own independence and happiness instead of chasing these impossible to please chicks around.
I married my husband when he was 25, totally broke, driving an old van with the siding peeling off, working part-time customer service. He dressed poorly and didn’t get regular haircuts. He was kind of nerdy. I was a babe. I dated a lot. I loved him. He was kind and sweet and treated me with such caring. I liked his cute voice and nice eyes and the way he brought over his space heater for me when the heating broke in my apartment.
I married him young, poor, kind of awkward. I adored him.
He’s now my husband of 11 years. I’ve been by his side as he built his career, put in years of 60 hour work weeks. I’ve given birth to 3 of his kids and we’re expecting a 4th. I’m home with our kids.
Now he makes $250k a year and we have a nice house and can go on a yearly vacation. He’s alpha. But it’s not his height, his money, his body. It’s still his kind eyes, his cute voice, the caring father that he is, the way he makes me laugh at his dad jokes.
Sure I appreciate and admire his ability to provide for us, but I truly wasn’t thinking about that then. I just liked him so much.
I hope you can find the same! I’m sorry it’s so hard! I’ve got 3 boys and I’m concerned.
Good on you. My ex also noticed when we had been married long enough to be vetted into being entitled to 1/2 my pension. The rest is history…
In my Blue Pilled days I went into online dating after the end of a lengthy long term relationship ended. I wouldn't wish my experience of online dating with these women on my worst enemy. The entitlement, the flakiness, the narcissism, the dinner whoring, the selfishness, on, and on and on. Doesn't matter whether they are black, white, green orange, educated, uneducated, unemployed no hopers, all the same bullshit. In fact I'd say the more "educated" they are the worse they are as human beings.
"Education" and *true universal knowledge* are 2 completely different things!
Dinner whoring...that's a new term that I think can stick around
Right on. That's why on my POF profile. I have just here for friends with benefits. It upsets a few. Dating websites now are a joke. Narcissism is a big problem.
Find a Hobby, life your life to the fullest men.
@@StephenWestSyd 🤛🤛
I will tell you what my ex said to me that made me leave. "If I ever make more than you I will leave you."
I haven't dated another girl in over 7 years.
Aww ☹ thats actually really sad
I'd left the woman as soon as that came out of her mouth
😆😂
That's cold blooded bro sorry to hear that. In the end she did you a favor
I haven't dated in 8 years. I guess I have a high standard, since I'm mostly attracted to someone's mind/personality, I just haven't met a chick I like.
"Where are the good men?"
- Ask Grandmas, Mothers, Sisters and daughters of the world with whom they breed and how they rised them...
Men are treated like a packet of Lays. You are opened at birth, feasted on your whole life and then crumpled up discarded when you are empty.
Do you want to be treated like that?
This is so true. I am in my early thirties, 6'4'', built very well, good looks/face, have good income, no debt, and I routinely have early 20's college girls hitting me up and 28-30 year old girls my age also hitting me up. I notice how entitled the older ones are. They are genuinely shocked and taken back when I reject them/show no interest in them. Like it is almost as if they think they are entitled to a guy like me who is way out of their league. Most likely because they were used to that when they were younger and prettier but many of them have no idea that things change fast for them once they hit 27-30. Really fast....
This brings me joy.
I'm 36 and this mirrors my exact experience. I'm 5'11" and built decently but not perfect. My 20's weren't great, college was a bit better. Once I crossed about 32 though it was like the magnetic poles switched. It was open season on me with women from ages about 22-42. The younger ones have a blast with me because I can (within reason) take us anywhere and I finally know what I'm doing in the sack. Hell, most of my male competition at their age can't bring themselves to leave the house, let alone hit on them. So they keep coming back. The older ones are fun because, again, most dudes have no game even at this age. And since the US is declining, men who are managing to keep their heads above water at all are decent catches. But goddamn, mention not being interested in marriage or that you date younger women in front of the 30+ women and they FLIP OUT. God, they flip out all day on social media. The desperation, the baggage, the oversharing, the attention-seeking,-bragging about mental illness and laziness and all the passive aggressive digs at their exes- they're just BORING. When you're a guy in your 30's and taking care of yourself, you're a huge prize and they know that you know it. After she freaks out on you, even the bitchiest 37 year old female will drop her guard and ask you for dating advice. And don't even get me started on the former hot girls from high school that get gross and DM you after they get divorced. Wew! It's absolutely mind-blowing.
@Pickel Sandwich this is why i married a woman who aged well. we're both 43 & look less than 30.
@Pickel Sandwich luckily i'm not american. in australia, it varies. mostly the anglos don't age well. luckily, my wife's part italian. (mostly anglo) i'm italian, french & hungarian predominantly. but i'm assuming the american girls you're talking about are also anglos, so that fucks them up. look at the british, they normally age badly too.
@Pickel Sandwich i forgot to ask. what's your wife's ethnicity?
its not "settle down WITH you"
they are "settling FOR you"
because they've hit the wall and have poor options.
dont be her last resort.
Ever noticed they call it settling down instead of settling up or leveling up?
Do not become livestock - work-horse, cash-cow, piggy-bank or sheep-for-shearing - so that you can "be with" ANYBODY.
I only say one thing:
How can yall talk about women, when DOOM ETERNAL releases in March?
Kisses & hugs
FUCK YEAHHHHH
.....so does animal crossing....
Boo yah!
@@mattisixx1699 double yeah!
Nigel Sheldon this is that one comment in the commentsection that’s completely off topic but is also the most pleasing to read
RIP AND TEAR !
Imitating the DBZ Goku Meme- Men be like " This is a man in his 30's with a stable career, THIS IS An ASCENDED MAN that has no debts and a paid off car, and this...... THIS IS A MAN WHO OWNS PROPERTY!, HAS INVESTMENTS, a 401K his grey in his hair shines valiently and sparks radiate from this man. as women are like " ITS NOT POSSIBLE~ HE WAS SUCH A DORK IN SCHOOL"
Lmao
Wait so man naturally achieve ultra instinct when they reach a certain age?!!!!
It makes me think of that old adage; “men age like wine while women age like milk.”