American women have reached this absolutely MAGICAL space where they simultaneously ARE the most entitled and BELIEVE they're the most oppressed. It's just a fuckin mind BLOWING phenomenon.
"America leads the world in rates of single mothers." What? How could that be? After all, it's not like we encourage, celebrate, and even incentivize single mothers to leave their husbands every chance we get, or something, or give them custody nearly always in divorce.
@@kylemate3183 Valuing your biological instinct to procreate, and ignoring your biological instinct to protect your baby by ditching the father to look after it yourself. HOW EMPOWERING.
Well, I'm from Eastern Europe and I'm married to an Australian man. He says I am a dream wife... I am slowly learning that what I consider to be common sense he finds absolutely magical. Wanting to create a stress free environment at home that he looks forward to come back to, taking care of the house because I'm working less hours, sharing responsibilities because we both want to not because I say so, being intimate as often as we can, being supportive and encouraging, respecting each other's opinions and choices, being open about everything and improving together. I want an equal partner in life. I'm not looking to be his mommy or his boss, I don't think I know everything or am always right- I turn to my man for advice and guidance if I need it. A man is not something a woman needs to control, overpower or compete with. But many western women try to do just that. There is no peace or happiness in that.
@@maxwellspeedwell2585 I wonder what happens if we can move American women to places like Eastern Europe or Latin America. Or move south east Asian women to west Africa.
Like in First 🌟 Star Wars movie, when he tells Luke, 'Don't get cocky kid!' THIS ALL Can change in a instant. Many Good Alpha Men, been humbled by the 'V'!
I'm not here for the purpose of your entertainment. It's a good message to get though. They quickly filter themselves out. I quit online dating altogether. It's easier to talk to people you see. Theirs always not-english people coming into London. (Where I live)
EnemyWithinYourHeart exactly. When you tell them all you’ve accomplished and obtained thru labor and ask her the same thing, all she could reply with is “the fish 🐟 taco 🌮 between my legs which I’ve served to more than at least 5 dozen already.” The only impressing at that point is to tell her to go find some other fool to date her worthless parasitic ass
Got that right. My dad had all us kids doing the housework, which he knew how to do as well. But running his own business didn't leave him time to do the mundane chores. I never once saw hired help in the house when something was broken or needed maintenance. Dad did all that stuff. Mom was a lousy cook like her mother, and though cheery mostly, would complain periodically about her laundry load and all the stairs she had to climb (3 story). Never really "worked" a day in her life like her mother did, getting up at 4AM to milk the cows, then make breakfast for the family (she was #18 of 22), then dishes, and scrubboard laundry. When there was time, she went to school. Mom passed birthing her 9th at 43 in '62, burnt out from the "travails" of handling so many kids, despite all the modern conveniences her mother never had until late middle age. Her dad was so right when he lamented children in the 20th century didn't know how to work--and that included his 2 daus.
Prior to that most americans had a more rural experience to some degree. Work and life was hard so you couldn't segregate tasks according to gender, so a woman or 12 year old girl ln a tractor and mucking stalls was normal. Then television became common introducing rural families to non rural lives in the city or villages. This began the mass exodus of going to cities to find easier work and a girl have a family with. You were working in a factory and couldn't maintain the house in your daily duties, so that was left to women. New social structures formed further solidifying these new norms, and this was only in the first 10 years after the war. The rural farm culture and life was pretty much dead at that point, and modernisation created the gender social divides we had until the 70s, but the attitudes still remain with so many women having no concept of equality, just thinking that a man not complaining means he has it easier than her, so she wants what he has. Then when she gets it doesn't understand why she still isn't happy, so she demands what the next man has. Of coarse this isn't all women, just the ones that buy too much into this manufactured western culture that exists mkstly in halmark cards and social media flexing.
This is my second trip to Africa, its not just SE Asia. A girl paid a taxi to drive her an hour and a half to see me. She came with food for me. Almost brought a tear to my damn eyes. Like... you will never see women put in that much effort in the states.
I remember talking to a veteran, in 1978. He told me Oriental women are great in their own countries, but they get to the US, and feminism poisons them. Note that year. 1978.
That was back in 1978. These days they are just as materialistic if not more so than Western women. Thinking that you'll find the perfect Asian girl and you'll live happily ever after is just setting yourself up for disappointment and failure imo.
Has it ever occurred to you gentlemen that all those foreign women were just acting a certain way before marriage, only to act differently after marriage?!? At least American women are more straightforward what you see is what you get
@@lettuce1305 Materialism is a separate issue from Feminism. All women are materialist, esp in a Capitalist environment. That's just Hypergamy... not a lot you can do about it. You can still have feminine women that was raised to be a decent human being in a Capitalist and Materialist environment. You can't have that in a feminist environment.
Agree, my mates who have married SE Asian women have the best success living in Thailand, Philippines etc. The worst ones are the mates who have brought them back to Australia and they get infected (westernised).
dwoodard78 100% which explains why American broads are fucked up bruh its like a whole different jungle here the whole “freedom” shit fucks them up mentally they think riding the CC is is a constitutional right & they have to practice it
Only because in THEIR country they automatically presume that any foreigners are high value males, this is especially true in eastern europe and most of Asia. However if you are a fat balding guy that women dont notice in your home country, chances are very small that women in other countries will be all over you. Unless you display wealth openly but even then its a 50/50 chance.
My wife is Russian she is absolutely amazing. I’m mid 40s, she’s mid 30’s. Looks amazing. Cooks amazing and keeps the household up. When she’s working we do everything 50/50. I show her a lot of these type of videos and articles and she also thinks western women are “bitches”. She could care less about if I’m over 6ft or not or if I have 6 pack abs. And she’s a solid 8. I’m a lucky man.
What about Ukrainian women? my best friends are russian/Ukrainian/both and a few of them said that the education system is ass and most people there act like gopniks.
Definition of Heaven: An English House; A Chinese Cook; An American Salary; A Japanese Wife. Definition of Hell: A Japanese house; An English Cook; A Chinese Salary; An American Wife.
@@Tac_3D We are talking of a situation that existed 50 years ago. It's true that modern Japanese houses are clean and comfortable but that wasn't the case in the post-war years for a long time. Famously described as "rabbit hutches".
i am quite happy with my Chinese salary. I would also prefer to Chinese wife over a Japanese wife. i would rather have a Russian cook and a Roman house.
A word of warning: Keep in mind that when you marry a foreign women (especially Asian or Latin American) you marry into her entire family -- and you are expected to contribute to the welfare of the family back home. And don't think that you will just take a "no way" attitude with her on that subject either. If you don't contribute to the family back home she will never respect you, and will most likely leave and return home. Family is everything in most foreign cultures and you are not going to win if you if you make her choose. Most foreign women are more feminine and caring; however, they come with an entirely new set of rules that can be just as annoying.
I'll take my chances. Besides a new family can also be a good thing. Everything has pros and cons you just gotta be willing to make the decision and also just stop and think
We gotta have kids otherwise our people and humanity go extinct. Mgtow's end point is extinction although I recognize the legitimate critiques of women.
I am a single father, that has custody of my son. Relationships are just too much stress. I'm focused on making my son's life great and enjoying the end of my life alone. Monk Style
My son was widowed and is doing the same. I really would love flr him to meet a special woman who could love him and also,his son as her own. I keep telling him there are women out there who waited too late to have a child and some may make good mothers and wives, but no luck,so far. I have had a terrific relationship for 40,yrs and hate the idea of my son missing what might be a wonderful life.... he is a great father but he has no one but his son and it breaks my heart. His son will become an adult when my son is 65....pretty late to find someone then, it breaks my heart bec. my son is an emotional person and I feel he needs the love of a good woman...nothing I can do for him though...its so frustrating for me to me so happy when he is not.
@@gratefulila9980 Statistically proven...Singlefathers raise much MUCH better kids than Singlemothers , specially incarceration rates for male children and singlemotherhood rate for female children.
@@latinaalma1947 As a widower myself with a son I can tell you single mothers as a rule will not date single fathers and I have 2 of the 3 sixes. Single mothers want a man's resources for their child, not his. My son is now grown and since I have no wife today I bought a 2021 Shelby GT 500. Now that they will see a high end sports car they will try to talk to me but I shut that crap down instantly. I don't buy used cars and I don't date used women. Should have got on the train when I was younger and needed help with my son, I have played mom and dad for so many years I no longer need or want a woman.
As a German I can tell you that you guys over there are pretty screwed with the narcissistic, entitled women over there. Had my fair share of American women. But I can also tell you that European women are adapting as well and becoming more and more Americanised. Even the cute Russian/ Ukrainian chicks are catching on. Still not as bad as American, but getting there.
Half thai guy born and raised in Thailand. Hope I can help with my insight. Hook ups are fine but I avoid Thai women when it comes to relationships. The extent of the cheating culture here is difficult for people to grasp until they've seen it first hand. And this is especially true if they are attractive. Also the love of drama is unreal, it's basically sought after. Cheating is a very very entrenched phenomenon. Like in many other countries there are women who will see you as a walking wallet especially if you are white. And if you are a foreigner getting divorced from a Thai person in Thailand you better believe you're not getting anything. I literally cannot count the number of times I've heard the story of a older white guy who came to Thailand, divorced, tired of the women where he came from, settled down with a Thai woman, at her suggestion bought a house and started a business (under the wife's name) only to get cheated on, dumped and have nothing left. I've seen so many men marry thots they would never touch back home, just because she looks exotic to him, has an accent and banged him easily. I've seen men get treated in ways they wouldn't accept from a western woman. In many instances the foreigners that come here are hooking up with the dregs of the dating market that even Thai men don't want. All this cause shes "exotic". The veil of exoticism blinds many and is often removed until it's too late. Now to add some nuance. There are some great women here that are wife material. Beautiful, hard working, feminine, kind, the whole thing. Thailand is an aging society (PH is not) where more and more women are focusing on their careers. And there are many Thai women who are dying to meet a good foreign man because they got cheated on so many times by Thai men and just want to settle down and have a family. Now that seems great, but does that dynamic sound familiar to anyone? Thats right even in Thailand you need to take the wall, the c*ck carousel, social media narcissism, chad and tylone into consideration. What did you think this was? To find a good woman you need to be patient, don't just jump on the first one (again im talking about relationships. if you just want to get laid have at it). You look in the right places because they are not common (rural areas have more traditional minded women, city women aren't that different from western women). To look in the right places you need to learn about the culture and people so you can see what you're getting into and which ones are red flags AND EVEN THEN you still must be centered and in your masculine during your relationship to get optimal results. They are not submissive. They know how to play the game very well. If you aren't careful you WILL get played.
True man. I just have fun with thai women because I'm very desirable for them. I wouldn't go for relationships. But yeah anyhow they are feminine attractive at least, unlike the west
@s H Don't men turn into ghosts after they marry and have kids because working like your life depends on it is some overglorified bullshit? Also. Schools on saturday. Why would anyone make their offspring suffer like that?
I guess I’m in the minority - I packed up my shit and walked out on my ex wife after she started withholding sex because I would not become vegan ... yes I am serious
At 75, I've notice almost ALL of my friends have wives who are EXTREMELY BITTER! They openly insult their husbands...degrade them...yell at them...in front of other people. I'm guessing that toward the end of both their lives...women get bitter when they think: "Is THAT all there is?"
@@atafmaalaoui4761 That's a really profound way of looking at this situation. However, the problem I see is that when one is 85 years old, there's no family around. And MGTOW warriors don't have adequate answers to that predicament.
@@mrredacted We have already answered to that. Millions of very old people around the world are living ALONE : theirs childrens who are now adults don't go see them. I know people who said to me that they have seeing their parents ONCE in the year for multiples reasons... They are also MANY peoples who don't talk anymore to their old fathers or mothers because of troubles in family. Ask anyone in your entourage and told them when was the last time they have been to see their old parents. And how many times in the year, you will be surprised... So even if you have childrens, its not a guarantee for the future : you can be alone in your dying bed when they become adults because of multiples reasons : they are living far from you, they have a dispute with you, they tell you they don't have time because of work or anything else, etc etc THEY ARE NO GUARANTEE IN LIFE, sadly or not.
There’s just something wrong about the West, politically and culturally with this Feminism stuff. I talk about it with my friends (all female, all Filipino) and we’re all becoming hesitant about the Western culture we used to idolize. Recently, I feel like there’s been a slowly growing interest in appreciating our own Asian culture and honestly I’m glad to be away from the sorts of thing Western Pop culture glorifies.
I spent ten years in Asia. Most, but not all, of the women I met were incredible. Attractive, hardworking, sweet and loving. They are not subservient at all, but remarkably tough and strong. They value their femininity, understand that men are different and are very loyal. Met my wife ten years ago. I never believed in 'soul mates', but she is perfect for me. I wouldn't touch an American woman.
I married a Chinese woman and I don't regret it. 13 years together and 8 years married. She always cook for me. We share everything and helped me out when I was at my lowest. she took care of my dying father and loved him like her own. She's probably the most selfless woman i've ever met.
I knew a guy that was in the Army and married a Korean woman. They moved back to the States, and after about 5 years, the cute, submissive housewife became "Americanized". As the years went by, it only got worse, and his life became bizarre. You already know the rest of the story. I lost contact, but I always felt bad for the guy. He went to bed with his dream girl and woke-up with an absolute nightmare. If you marry a foreign girl, it's probably best not to bring them back to the States.
@Gorden Gecko Why are you apologizing? Everyone has their own experiences. I knew a couple that got together before 18 and they were still married in their 60's. I just know from my own experience a love like that is exceedingly rare. From my own experience, it's gotten rarer with time. Most women my age (30) and about 10 years younger and older have become so shallow, materialistic and superficial it's no longer about love but about what can SHE get from the relationship. And I give my all when I'm in a relationship. I do all the things that I've heard that make relationships work - I sacrifice, try to give them what they want, keep them happy, make sure not to push too hard on things they don't want to do, etc. I haven't ever had a relationship last for longer than a few months.
My girl stuck by me when I had literally nothing. Never really could express just how much it meant to me. Guys, this commenter is right. It goes both ways. If you wouldn't marry each other regardless of what you have or where you're at in life, then you clearly shouldn't be getting married
I used to run an inmate road crew. One inmate was a rather refined Indian guy. I told him I was single and thinking about dating out of my race. He hung his head and said "Indian woman good woman until she learn to dial 911"
I was married to a Brazilian girl, who unfortunately passed away 9 years ago, and I swear they go to school and learn how to take care of and keep their man. I haven't been able to date anyone since, I've been spoiled.
@lolroflkartoffel123 That's because they think you will bring them to western country. I grew up in military and saw how those marriages play out. Once they get to US, they find out you're a loser and learn about spousal support. It's a wrap. One chick abandoned her kid and husband after she got that green card. They will try to get pregnant so you take them back to your country. It doesn't always work. So there are plenty mixed kids in these countries.
@Pos dem I agree! Filipina women are different because the Philippines is different. Take them to America, and they catch the feminism virus. Also, when their American female friends tell her she can get half in a divorce, she'll figure she's hit the lottery, and she can go back to the Philippines a wealthy woman. Human nature, ever since Adam and Eve bit into the forbidden fruit. 😢
@s H In the big cities there's a red light district, like most big cities in the world. In rural small towns, they have a reputation to protect, of course a guy would be an absolute fool to marry the first pretty girl he sees. A more ordinary looking girl has to be able to offer something more than her looks to offer. Go to a smaller rural town, a skank won't be able to hide her past for long, take your time, see what her mother is like, chances are, that's what you'll get. If she has an honest skill, that's a good sign, she doesn't NEED to sell her body. Use your common sense, not your hormones, to make a decision.
Once you go asian, you never do caucasian... Living in HK 10 years and I'm not going back... Just remember though, even if the car is of a different model, it's still a car
@@seymourelykeley Agreed...havent tried Cambodia, Thai yes, Philippines hell yes, chinese girls need to learn shaving... the rest of SEA is clean as a whistle
Joker: the Eastern European women who were high maintenance were 9s and 10s, the American women who were high maintenance were offering a little less Let me translate the second half of this... The American women were between a 1 and a 3 and didn't offer shit to the relationship
NEVER, EVER bring a foreign woman to the US. It may seem like a tempting option, but it is very risky. Foreign women can easily claim domestic violence and under the Violence Against Women Act their protection will criminalize you and grant them special status and protection and it is very likely that the man who thought was going to have a good situation will end tragically. Living in their country also comes with some challenges, like language, and culture differences, but you need to know what your rights are before you decide to stay and secure a good attorney that is fluent in your language. Institutionalized misandry is a global reality.
So why would you go else where to take away other's women, when you and all other western white knights enabled feministic ideal for decades in your own home? Fix what you broke, rather than running away from your problem. And let Asian men marry their own women.
Chinese Canadian here, I am software engineer I got married at age 35, I could not find any women here in Canada or North America that is trust worthy so I went back to China found myself an traditional Chinese wife. I am 45 now with 5 kids happy family :)
100%, no question. Have the kid, thats the hook. After that, you are their property. They own you. The only way I can see out of this is to live with someone(not marry) in a state that doesn’t recognize common-law marriage. You own the house, she’s not on the Deed, you own everything. Short of a water-tight pre-nup(do those even exist?) I don’t think there’s another way.
@@austntexan when you bring them to the states it has to be on 90 day finace visa you either marry or she has to leave 91 day. Also you have to sign a paper saying if she leaves you goes on welfare you will pay for it all. Never bring em here.
This hits close to home. I married a Hungarian smoke show. What you said about competition on the US market is 100 percent true. At first it was okay, but she was constantly hit on by every simp and alpha alike. Then when it got to her head, she started reminding me of it, then girls night out, then he's just a friend, then three months after getting citizenship, she cheats. So I kicked her out of my house. Her father was pissed, at her. Him and I were good friends and he was really supportive of me through it all (happened to him too). I know it's always mens fault, but it kinda is: we are raised to be betas (unattractive), generally no respect for another man's marriage (see Donovan Sharp bragging about committing adultery with girls on "girls night out"). We can't control women, but we can "take care" of the jodi's among our ranks. ... by the way, to my Ex's credit, she didn't ask for a dime, and even offered to pay for the divorce. I paid my self because for me it was a matter of principle. Foreign women are a gamble, but more worth it than Americans, just be careful.
Most SE Asian women will expect you to "take care" of their families too - siblings, parents, grandparents and often extended family will all be hopeful of some good fortune coming their way from your bank account. This is not ALWAYS the case of course, and there are exceptions. But it is definitely something to be wary of. Many of these women's families actually WANT them to marry a Western guy as a source of income for them. Just be aware.
Yeah, they treat children as investments. If they can't marry into wealth, then the kids are expected to be maids or care takers for when the parents get old. They're a lot more sneaky as well. They might appear doting and by your side, but after a while, they take control in covert ways and begin resentment perhaps for the way they were brought up. They have envy because you came from a more fortunate background. I think Better Bachelor was lucky to not get trapped, I reckon they were buttering him up. If something sounds to good to be true.......
I know many guys that have married Philippine women, every one of the them has bought property in the Philippines but it's in her name because foreign nationals aren't allow to own land. I couldn't do that.
If you married one, basically you're marrying the entire family. I'm from Malaysia and i can tell you this. If you have nothing, they will treat you like a shit, and if you have money but stingy as hell like me, they will give you the respect but at your back, they will talk shits about you all the time...they hate you so much. Haha So basically, you have to listen to her, her mom, her aunties, sisters, grandma...and most importantly, your money, they want part of it.
@@victortesla4198 sounds like he's totally lost frame..sending thousands of $$ a month to a place like Indonesia is just ludicrous when their cost of living is way lower...just shows how he's being fleeced.
I've been living in Northern Thailand for over 10 years now. If you date them here it's all good (just don't live with them) but don't ever bring them to the West. Even when you date them here don't think they will be that different from their sisters in the West. Hypergamy is alive and well here too. Edit: They do care well for you, they will cook and clean (actually they'll usually insist on doing all the housework) and even do ridiculous things like put toothpaste on your toothbrush.
@@jkm7983 I do speak Thai by now (not great but enough to get by) but if you want to have deep conversations you'll mostly be out of luck. I dated one Thai girl who spoke amazing English but most of them speak only basic English. For casual dating it's not a problem but it was actually the biggest problem for me when I was still looking for something more serious (I'm over that now). In a long-term relationship communication is crucial and that will usually be a problem in Thailand. Philippines are better for that, most people speak English pretty well there.
You hit on all points. I've been going to Northeast Thailand off and on for over 17 years. There is one woman I tend to see when I am in Buriram. She and I click as friends(ok F buddies) while all of her friends look at me like a piece of meat and she knows it!. As for the toothpaste on the toothbrush, they've been doing that since the Vietnam War. I guess back then, Isaan was really really poor.
Nikki there are shallow people everywhere, however, we should also keep in mind that people from the former Eastern block are cold to strangers. You have to get to know them for them to open up, even a little bit
Live in Asia for 5 months and when I came back to USA I noticed how fat all the women are in USA - back in East asia for 1.5 year - gonna stay for a longtime
...I remember in the 80s when Hard Bodies applied to women, gyms sprouted up everywhere, girls we're genuinely athletic & not fat hoggamuffins rooting around with an unearned sense of entitlement, like pig on a truffle hunt!
You're right from personal experience, but unlike with western women, It's less so the money itself in terms of getting possessions than the stability money provides. If you can afford to keep a good apartment and take them out for dinner every few weeks, they're generally happy to give you what you want and most don't want to leave their own country so it works good if you're well sought after enough in the employment market: can learn some languages in your spare time and sick of the west.
Eddie Murphy was right back in 87' in his Raw skit. You can bring a woman from the furthest part of the world to live with you, but if you let her socialize with your local women - she soon will become just like them.
My family on my mothers side is Asian, and let me tell ya, the arguing and bickering from the women can be FIERCE but they are loyal and have values. Waaaaay better than Americans.
Zain Khan yeah I agree. I should also say that my family is highly religious and the traditionalism that comes with that prevents them from being adulterous and from being like lots of modern women. Im not from a perfect family but all things considered mine is pretty darn good. I don’t even want to imagine having a modern American karen as a mom or aunt or sister
My sister is Thai and we adopted her (along with my brother) at a fairly young age. She was a really sweet, thoughtful, and happy person growing up. Then she slowly started changing as she got older, and, before you know it, she looks just like every other stereotypical American woman and lots a lot of those qualities that she had. She's not nearly as happy a person, she's much more selfish, and so forth. Lots of her mannerisms and tastes have become much more in line with what American women are like and want and it's really sad for me to watch. I still love her, but it was just really sad for me to watch. She was a really special kid growing up and I feel like something really great was lost and was replaced with something awful in its place that she got from those around her.
Clearly, the problem is our US/Western Culture, then. The constant message of consumerism, individuality, getting more, working more, and basically always getting more and to never be happy, never accept your situation as good enough. The NYC based Sex in the City BS has done a great job of convincing women that they should view men as dildos or as a purse to elevated them. Magazines tell them to diet all the time, but the Standard American Diet is about the worst on the planet. Basically, look at what cultural trends are being spread among young women, and avoid them, turn away, and do the opposite. Constantly trying to buy happiness through consumerism? Clearly not a success strategy. Veganism or vegetarianism? Stay away. Social Media? Stay away. Dieting, but not doing strength training? Yeah....
Met my Thai wife 9 years ago.... I'm very happy with her... in all those years happier than I was in the 23 years of marriage with my last wife (which was Brazilian). Whenever I go cycling with a Dutch friend of mine, we have coffee in the same restaurant near the beach (both of us live about 200 km south from Bangkok) and we meet different kind of people. There are sometimes western women who also come with their cycling group.... what a difference to the Thai women... so dry and lifeless. Another place where we have a stop is a massage shop. Though we don't take the massage, they serve coffee and icecream as well. But most important are the ladies working there. They are always very nice to us. They know we have partners, I said from the beginning and still they are nice to us. Joking and talking sometimes just nonsense. It is fun and it is worth living here. My friend is 74 and I'm 63... it happens so often that young pretty women smile at us or just say friendly hello... it makes one feel so good. Women in the western world with the looks these women have, would not even see us. At our age we belong in the grave and are far from interesting. Here if we wanted to, we could always find another woman. But it is like you said: commitment. Though I can, I won't cheat on my wife. Throwing away what I have just for another woman. No thanks.
I've been married twice.. Both Filipinas. My first wife left me after 1 year and 8 months of marriage.. After she got her 10 year Green Card. It just wasn't working out, so there was little resistance from me. I hit the ground running and started chatting with another Filipina, who nearly a year later I would end up marrying and bringing to the US. We have been married for almost 8 years now and are very happy. I was treated so well in The Philippines that even after marrying and later divorcing a loony toon, I tried my luck again. After dating in The Philippines, I could never date here in the US again. There are wonderful American women out there. I'm still friends with several. So I can't stereotype. There is good and bad in both the US and The Philippines. But by and large Filipinas are amazing. I never met one that I didn't like. There are dangers of course, but if done correctly relationships with Filipinas can be a great decision if a relationship is what you're after.
Avoid the bars and lounges, and definitely the street. Your churches are your best bet for the marriage minded, but her parents and the church's clergy are likely to have certain standards. There are mostly Catholic but also Protestant churches there.
Let me shed a little light on the subject. I lived in South Korea for a year, saint Petersburg Russia for 2 years and have visited Thailand 6 times in the last 18 months. The answer is yes and no. Thailand is absolutely heaven on earth for a single man. 1000 baht ( 30 dollars ) and you can take home just about any freelancer you want. If you are even mildly attractive and charming you may find it difficult to get them to leave afterwards. Most of them are looking for one thing, financial security. You don't have to be emotionally available or sensitive or whatever bullshit women here say they want. They just want food in their tummy and a roof overhead. The reason they go home with tourists is so they dont starve and to send a little money home to their families. In thai culture the children take care of the aging parents and it is Very important. Overall thai, Cambodian, vietnamese and laotian women are about 5 times more awesome than western women. Although they do have their moments... IF you allow it! If you are weak and easily taken advantage of, your luck in Asia will be no better. However if you are just a Nice Guy ( that's me ) you may actually do much much better. Prostitution is very normal in Thailand, you can travel to the remote areas and find a traditional girl, but trust me on this... many working girls are simply looking for a nice man and making a few dollars to survive doing it. I know quite a few foreigners that have moved to Thailand and live on their social security and provide nothing for their live in thai gf aside from sharing a place to live and a few dollars worth of groceries. In exchange they get cooking cleaning and companionship. Some guys just get holiday girlfriends, it's much cheaper than renting girls nightly and you get someone to cuddle and take swimming for 30 a day or far less. In my experience an Asian woman is superior to Western women no matter what capacity you deal with them. They have nothing but are generally happy and can be quite fun to be around. I wouldn't suggest bringing one to the west, but 100% believe you will be happier than with a Western woman. A holiday girlfriend is the best of both worlds and if you really like her you can message her and visit again at little risk. Ordering women alacarte is fun, but to me it gets kinda old. I'd rather have a pretty girl to take swimming or to share a 3 dollar meal with. Some might be out to get every penny, but if you are careful you will find one who uses the opportunity to audition for a full time spot. A good girl will save you more than her cost by getting you the thai prices and help you avoid scams. In closing they are so much better, but always remember your mgtow training and never be afraid to show them the door. A new girl is literally 50 feet away.
@Diggy d Yes sir! I may rave about how awesome Asian women are... but you can NOT let your guard down. Every country except Canada has a way to RIP off American tourists, and women even at their best are like handling poisonous snakes. The good news is this: if you're reading these comments you are already in the right place and you most likely can see a womans bullshit coming better than the average guy.
@krispy kreme I wouldn't waste the money to step foot in Russia. Beautiful women to be sure, but not particularly friendly or happy people. There are surrounding eastern European countries that are much better. The Ukraine has beautiful nordic looking women.
@@Godclash bruh every young filipino in manila secretly hate themselves for being filipino whilst hating and deifying the USA, central luzon filthy westernized shithole and should be avoided by everyone, I recommend the Visayas and Mindanao since they're clean, and just better.
SUCCI BOI I talked to a girl from Visayas and she was a lot different than Manila girls. But she still wanted to move abroad on her own, and she was open to getting married to a foreigner man.
Scissorfuk Bax my wife is from Bataan. A small village called San Pablo. She washes her clothes using her hands and hangs them outside to dry even tho she has a washing machine and a dryer . She’s old fashioned af. They exist. Smaller villages are the way to go.
Married to a beautiful Filipina 20 years younger then myself that is everything you describe. Retired at 55 and moved over here permanantly. No regrets it was a smart decision.
i was dating girls back in Russia. But once i moved to us, i have a hard time with girls. I basically gave up 2 years ago and now just focusing on my career,saving and investing. People constantly ask me why i don't have a girlfriend, my answer is i don't need one.
Two points I want to make here I do contract work in the USA and spend my off time in the Philippines back and forth now for 6 years..I will tell you. 1. Dating is a very dangerous and dirty game...if you date a filipina and she doesn't tell you she is married her husband can press charges rather you know about it or not..and trust me they will when they see their wife is with a rich foreigner..the Philippines I think is the only country in the world where adultry is a jail time offence unless you pay out ofcourse. 2. Dont think for one second that you are going to line up 5 filipinas and pump n dump them coz they are onto that game now, it's not like I hear it was 10 years ago before the smartphones corrupted them...learn the laws here...if they feel like they been used they can report you to immigration or the NBI and make your time here a living hell unless you bribe your way out. Plz do extensive research before you come here...it can save your life!
I HAVE BEEN IN THE PHILIPPINES FOR OVER 30 YEARS AND NEVER HAD THE PROBLEMS YOU ARE HAVING, AND YES I PUMP AND DUMP ALL THE TIME! WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU DOING WRONG ? BECAUSE YOU ARE DEFINITELY DOING SOMETHING WRONG !
Even UK and Australia has high number of single mothers. I’m born and raised in India married to an Australian. Hubby is good provider, respectful, caring and hardworking. also a wonderful dad to our adorable children. I love and respect him, he’s the head of the family.. Both couple should put an equal amount of effort in the relationship.
Never think it's not for the $. Even if a man doesn't act like he has money, throw money around, talk about money, or even have money. She's always going to think he has some somewhere, or can/ will get some. It's always $ with Asian women. Always .
@@Gabriel902884 That boils down to $ too, as he has to pay her way to wherever he's from, support her when she gets there, pay all expenses, visa requirements etc, until she finds someone else.$$$$
Of course Asian women think foreigners have got more money; they just traveled from the other side of the world to their Asian country! Poor people don't get to travel to the other side of the world for business/ holidays!
@Hunsa Picton Also nothing wrong with realizing Asian women get fat after having kids just like western women. Maybe she'll stay slim for the rest of her life if she doesn't have kids. MAYBE. No guarantee on that. What you see now is more than likely NOT what you'll get later.
lol. washing dishes is so *easy,* especially if you wash up right afterwards. it's crazy to think that women have been reduced to complaining about that. maybe the reason women are so unhappy in modern society is because they forgot how to appreciate what they do have.
when your too busy showing off your relationship on instagram then you are not happy otherwise you'd just enjoy the moments with the person you love. In asia girls aren't living on their phones
I moved to Southeast Asia 10 years ago. I've been married for 8 years. Everything is good. My advice is don't do it if she wants your assistance getting citizenship in your country. The good ones will be apprehensive of moving. The ones to avoid can't stop talking about your home country.
This is truth, the good ones don't want to move. My girl said shes willing to move here for short term but wants us to move permanently to her country. Thats my plan so it works for me
Ngl, dats exactly wat you guys should look for. I'm asian by the, so as a man to man advice. Go for asian women that would rather have you live here rather than an adian woman that ask of you far too much and getting all serious about that green card and ur country. Always keep that in mind, most here in asia are poor, and it's to be expected a lot will take a chance to have a better life there in the west, but again. Thise are the ones you guys should take note of. Stay vigilant. There are still a lot of asian women here for you guys to acore a good life with, just be mindful. -from an asian bro
I’m sad. I’m glad to hear that there’s something out there that would actually make me happy, but being stuck in a sexless marriage really sucks! I’m doing my best to get enough to move on on my own and deal with being a bachelor, but I’ve been married for 30 years now. Invested all my time and my money....and now I’m ready for a change! She’s cut me off for over a year now, and I’ve had it! I know I’m reaping what I’ve sowed, but I’ve been so glad and empowered by what you teach, that it’s given me a foot to stand on. It’s the best advice I’ve been given and I’m 54
If she cut you off.. she broke the contract.. marriage has written and implied obligations and responsibilities.. once you break one element of a contract the whole thing is null and void, she cant break one part and expect other to remain in effect. She broke it, its null and void, legally you might be married that's a administrative legacy issue, the lived reality is you are not married. (Mind has to catch up with the body essentially) if you want out or suspect she is planning to achieve that in her own time my advice is better to bring it on your terms at the time of your choosing, do the prep work then spring it on her.. by prep work I mean get all your money assets in order and preferable offshore, be prepared to grab all the loot run off to south east asian out of the reach of the man bashing feminist courts and live your life.
good luck mate ! i done the same but 2 kids and im 35 , one day i just realised all the stuff my dad tried to tell me was right i walked around with my eyes tight shut to the truth if you dont really THINK before you do shit all you will acheive is a fuck ton of regrets and misery to keep you company when it really is too late , theres the way you would like the world and the people in it to be and the way it really is thats the hard undeniable truth ! we are all fucked anyway the recession after this pandemic will grind us all to dust nothing is more appealing to me than a cabin in the mountains away from NORMAL people just me and my kids , aint never gonna happen but still.... we all watching this from the same boat good luck boys ! no doubt we would all have a good laugh throwing a few beers down .
I lived in Russia (as an American) for a long time (10+ years)... had a few relationships while over there, both short-term and long-term... now I've returned to the U.S. and I just can't for the life of me get very interested in American women.
It is true Filipina women are amazing for the most part. I've spent over 11 years working there in Manila and Cebu and I'd never thought I'd live to see the day, (unless I became rich), that I would date some young women there in the Philippines that would cook, clean, even my bathroom, so when I came home, my condo was clean. My clothes washed, gave me sex whenever I was in the mood, which is why I'm currently engaged to a Filipina woman and getting married soon. Thumbs up for anyone single bachelor looking for a wife or just a gal who is submissive and humble. Philippines all the way.
women everywhere are the same. but for SE ASIA women a normal white american men is like a black NBA super star for USA white women. u know the thing , ight? money buys everything.
Both of my brothers found wives overseas while in the military and both are still married more than twenty years later with ZERO indications of that ending anytime soon. They both had two kids each and are almost empty nesters now. Both wives kept their houses and children immaculate while my brothers were active military and didn't bitch about it one single bit. Now that both are retired and have civilian jobs they love helping out. One loves to cook and tinker with things and the other is a neat freak so the home is very harmonious. One wife is full Korean and the other is half Scottish/half Thai. On the other hand, DO NOT MARRY A FILIPINO WOMAN AND BRING HER TO THE STATES!!!! Three people I knew, two while I was in the Marine Corps and one co-worker, did just that and with in 3-5yrs were involved in terribly nasty divorces. Once they get here the bullshit starts. The first thing they do is hook up with the rest of the Filipino community and are immediately clued into every law and strategy about how to fleece you. The second thing they do is get knocked up as fast as possible and at that point you are truly fucked. Its the same with Eastern European women. DON"T DO IT!!! Love 'em up all you want over there but DO NOT BRING A FILIPINO OR RUSSIAN HOME. Me?? I met and dated my ex-wife in college. Typical American born and raised white wife. While in the military we still dated and I helped her pay for college. I was injured and medicaled out but found a GREAT paying civilian job with super amounts of potential. We got married. Within two years of her finishing college she was monkey branching away and filed for divorce. Luckily, we never had kids and it was only two years married so it was a simple divorce. She got the new car (which I payed off to get her the fuck out as quickly as possible and I kept the house). I marched down with her with her to court house to sign the papers and told her to fuck off. That was thirty years ago and I NEVER got married again. I decided MGTOW before MGTOW was cool.
The common theme with foreign women is relative poverty, and poverty equals insecurity and all women... ALL...are driven biologically to seek more security. But I live in Canada and know a guy that has the 'business model' for angling the woman thing. He has a small cash flow business that is seasonal. He shuts it down in December, gets on a plane and goes to Cuba or Domincan Republic for an extended tropical holiday. He'll find one he likes, and offers her a holiday in Canada, staying with him. Gets her a six month tourist visa, takes her home as a wife for six months and then puts her back on a plane back to Cuba. He has a four month holiday without the bitchs around. Then does it all over again, going to a different place every winter. He's been doing this for decades.
I’m a human ATM, for my whole family...my sons and wife. With my sons, they are well on my way to getting them on their own. One is a CPA, and the other an Engineer. I attribute their success to my stay at home wife from the Philippines. She works her butt off at home and puts God first in her life. I am most blessed. The only thing that is a challenge for me is sharing things that I would like to change in our relationship as she is a perfectionist who takes it to personally. But I have a lifetime to work on it. I hope my sons find someone like her. I don’t mind at all being the ATM as it is part of my role to provide and protect.
it is one thing to be a player for a couple of years, but for decades?! that's a strong commitment to not committing! even Joker mentions in this video, deep down men crave genuine commitment... and it makes sense. we are human after all not robots with genitals.
I've been dating over 20 years. Finally found an amazing, independent woman who was born in China. After one year, she is still amazing. Much different and better than American born chicks.
Im a older black American and I'm always treated like a rock star when I go to the Philippines. I also got married to a beautiful Filipino girl the best relationship in my lifetime. And im gonna retire there next year , as a matter of fact we already have built a home there. It is Heaven on earth compared to dealing with American women. If you go there and experience it yo you will never want to leave. Awesome women there that are almost always positive respectful affectionate very sexy and make you feel loved and appreciated
@@abdirahman292 yes its in her name i already have property in the US in my name. There are ways to get property in your name in the Philippines check out the Property Club on UA-cam he explains how to do it in detail. As far as my house with my wife its a gift to her im not worried that she would kick me out or anything like that. If she did i would buy a condo and condos in the Philippines can be purchased in your name
Hi, Roger, I'm an older black American, too, with a slightly different situation: I'm looking for a woman who isn't Christian. Buddhist and/or traditional Asian religion preferred. Heard any good things about other countries?
@@toddjacksonpoetry Hey Todd you're not gonna believe it but the women in Ukraine love black men and they are very beautiful. They are a bit conservative so its not a hook up place but you can have a great relationship with a beautiful woman there. Costa Rica is another country that the women are attracted to black men. Australia is another country that you will find beautiful women that will treat you with love and respect. If you were a younger man you could even meet a beautiful Korean girl but i don't think they're interested in older guys like us. As far as religion goes my wife likes to go to church on Sunday, she's catholic and one hour a week that makes her happy is a small comprise you might want to consider. My first wife was jehovah witness and after that I didn't want to hear about religion either, but I'm Happy to take my new wife to church once a week its fine because she doesn't ask for much. The love and respect I enjoy with this woman is incredible. We've been together for 5 years and its still awesome !!!
10:00 minutes of the video: Isn't it ironic that western women are known around the world as the worst wife material but western men are thought to be the best husbands.
Because they think western men are flushed with money. Money is also relative. Thousand dollars is lot of money in asia. See how they treat a poor western man.
As a 20 year Navy man who did more than a few West Pac tours, lived in Hawaii which had a large population of Filipina women who were, at least one time, married to sailors, I would caution against the outright belief that foreign women are better. Maybe you are "dating" them in their own country, you will get the royal treatment. I'm not saying they are bad. I'm saying that I've seen too many cases, especially with Filipino women, of them getting a taste of the American lifestyle, and all the attention that comes from Chad when they got their green card being hitched to a guy considerably less attractive, they are like children at Christmas. The divorce rate among sailors who married SE Asian girls was very high, and there were several places in Hawaii that were well known as WestPac widow hangouts for these girls. That all being said, it depends on who you marry. Not ever SE Asian girl is the same, it largely depends on their social circumstances. Now, Japanese women are night and day different from the Philippines. They are far more westernized, and they are particularly loyal. Don't mistake them for submissive though. If you are loyal to them, they'll be loyal to you. A girl over 25 in Japan who is not married usually believes herself headed for spinsterhood. Japanese women tend to want to have families and children. Again, there is no one size fits all for any ethnicity. I'm just stating what I've seen over the years, and from knowing many men, including close friends who were married to both. My friends with Japanese wives are still together. Every one of my friends who married a Filipino are divorced, and in many of those cases, the woman was stepping out.
I agree with you on Japanese wifes. I was married to one for 23 years. ( she passed away. ) I only date Japanese women who are born and raised in Japan. And I can say from experience that they make great wife's. Be good to them and they will treat you like a king. Old family values.
I think you're oblivious if you think Japanese womem are still what they were decades ago. Japan's Women are increasingly being westernized, this shows in the amount of women having high ranking positions and how much women actually cheat there. You're in a world of disappointment like I experienced if you think a lot of Japanese womem still hold these traditional values. A lot of them will definitely prioritize their career over you.
@@WasntYourFaultYouHaveToLetMeGo Perhaps Japanese women have grown through that worrisome stage of westernization and retained their femininity and values.
I am retired military. I have dated 24 nationalities in my 20 years in the military and as I grew up in an military family. There are many ladies around the world that are fantastic for marriage. Treat them like ladies and care for them and they'll keep their man HAPPY. FAR better then the average American female. I say female, because they don't act like ladies, especially after you marry them. However, be careful with chinese ladies. They can be bossy after married. lol
@@gistfilm Dude, Latinas are nice. They are much like the Asian women. They take care of their man. They can put up with a lot of stuff. But lately they are acting more like the White American women. If you want a Latina you have to go to the villages. That's where you will find the golden ones.
@@gistfilm Of all the Asians I've dated the Korean girls were the most bossy (but I'll admit they're damn cute). Chinese vary because they are the largest Asian race. My personal favs are Japanese (my wife is Japanese), Vietnamese, and Filipina; in that order.
This is terrible advice. I say this as someone who has a family with a foreign woman and is now in a relationship where if I left her, she could take my family to a foreign country and there's very little I can do. And not someone who's banging Asian prostitutes on the side. We almost broke up a year back and she threw this in my face. Never marry out side of your own nationality.
I'm happily married to a Filipina and have no complaints. She's intelligent, hardworking, feminine and happy to fill the traditional roles of a woman. I will say that there are risks no matter what path you take. Take your time thinking through your decision and never go into a marriage with rose colored glasses. Leave that romantic love in the trash where it belongs and see marriage for what it is.
I think our “throw away” society , has infected the dating/marriage scene here. If your toaster quits, you don’t try to fix it; you throw it out and get a new one. If the marriage isn’t satisfying, toss him out and go for the bigger, better deal. Been married twice and can’t say I came out on top. Neither of my wives made a lot out of the deal, but the courts and lawyers surely did well. In both cases, my wife fooled around on me...and both got custody with me paying child support.
As the saying goes, "The Girls Seem Better On The Otherside Of The World". That is until you bring them back here. Then they change to a regular American girl with an attitude. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@JohnnyYeTaecanUktena Naw. I like it here in the U.S.A. Living in her country under a Communist or Dictatorship government ain't worth it just to be with her.
The solution is simple: Find a place where the laws regarding relationships are sane and move there. Then find the girl and STAY THERE. As soon as you bring them home to any western democracy they get all kinds of powers over you. Stay there and you have a fair chance.
it is mostly in the USA Where this is the case. In the EU its not like the woman gets over 50% of the Man's income. it all depends on what Marriage clauses you have.
@@darknessblades The wedding vows are legally null and void from the start. Not only do they have no force, but society will tell her she owes it to herself to break them. Pauline Hansen, MP in Australia, says that three men in Australia commit suicide every day because of the family law system driving them to suicide. The problem is not "mostly in the USA", it is all western democracies where feminists rule.
@@flingmonkey5494 then instead of a marriage you should do something like: a "cohabitation contract" This is technically similar to Marriage, but without the Harsh loopholes Feminist can abuse
@@darknessblades that don`t matter in the U.S if you live with a women for over 2yrs, the state in america will take you like a married couple. thats why i say move while you can, that country and its law`s are so fucked up
On dating sites I not infrequently see: "I'm a strong, independent, successful woman." Bzzzzt. Those are fine traits, but let me discover them. And yes, you WILL be independent the rest of your life if that's the best bait you can offer.
I've been traveling to SE for the past 12 or so years. I love dating them. I'm average looking, but its easy to score beautiful 18 to 25 year old ladies there. But you have to remember, they see you as a meal-ticket for not only themselves, but their whole family. You are their parents retirement plan. I will never get married, these lovely ladies are no exception. But in the relationships i have had and still maintain there, they treat me better than any of my American gf's ever did.
Well she caters to you because she needs you , you want her femininity she wants her masculinity so don’t be surprised when you have to provide for her
@@lujainot5495 Of course, i don't mind providing for her at all. She is a traditional woman and provides me with what i want. Much better situation than with Western women who demand "equality," but also want the man to provide while they give him virtually nothing.
That retirement plan sounds nice! I'm only 33, but I think retiring outside the USA would be amazing. Looks like I gotta step up to make this a reality! Thanks for the inspiration Joker!
That always goes back to the standard line of a women has a right to change her mind at any time. And she will at that moment when it benefits her most regardless of how you feel or how it affects you.
Yeah i got that line too from my ex gf. Mind you she cheated on her ex husband. So i stated to her that she is not a loyal/trustworthy person if the cheated in the past. Her reaction was that she was immature then, but has since grown up. I needed to give her the benefit of a doubt. Guess what happened... she cheated on me and hadn't the balls to confess. I tell you this, like i told her: people dont change. They just get better at hiding their true selfs. Past behavior is a good indicator of future behavior. She couldnt fathom that i valued actions more over pretty words. Women use words to portray a fake persona of themselves while being something other than that. Women are loyal... to themselves/their own interests. All relationships come to an end eventually due to many factors. Cheating is one of them. Its only a matter of time. Never take women serious unless they say something that is threatening to your wellbeing or they let their guard down and let their mask slip, revealing their true identity. Her cheating wasnt a surprise to me. I saw it coming from a mile away. Guess relationships arent my thing. Women demand too much time and can be a drain by all the games needed to be played in order to keep her interest. To me peace of mind is way more valuable than a woman's company.
You have something there. My wife came over to Canada at the age of 3 but had to translate everything for her parents. There's a respect that comes from being in that position with your parents.
I am a Filipino male. I am supposed to marry a beautiful 4 feet 10 inch Filipina but she later changed her mind. She told me to wait until the age of 30. Later she suddenly went to Japan and married an old bald Japanese guy. ONE month after they met.
She’s not worth it. Delete contact to her and don’t let her back to you again. Focus on finding high value filipina women. But first build your empire so can you built, titira ka nalang ng titira haha
A lot of Filipino men want to marry. It is just that we have to compete with foreign men. Married Filipino men are trusted and respected. Unmarried Filipino men are not trusted and are seen as a scourge to society. Unless you join the Catholic religious order. (I personally do not want to join a religious order because I can't marry). Filipino girls are in demand internationally. A 30 year old Filipina is petite enough to qualify as a teenage like spouse for a Foreign male. Also, MOST foreign girls (especially Europeans) for Filipino's are trash. The Filipina girl that I was supposed to marry was actually VERY KIND to the old Japanese man that he married. I am still friends with the girl on Facebook. She appears to be doing her best to become a good compassionate housewife.
@@melcarlo7023 I am actually middle class. I can afford Children if I can. It's just that there are so many girls in the Philippines who want to marry a foreign guy. High value Filipina women most likely know that they are too valuable. Marriage market in the Philippines is actually very competitive. So competitive to the point that there are so many Gays (bakla) in the Philippines. Because these men want to become women.
I remember in the Philippines how they all pretended to not care about money lol. They were all about money. And yes they are nicer, yes they may check the phone less, yes they may cook, but that's only because they're smarter. With that said, yes you are higher value over there. Some of them will be happy for a non rich foreigner to stay and be poor with her.
Seriously, I’m an ABC. That’s American Born Chinese to you uninitiated. Be VERY careful of marrying girls from China without first doing your homework. I’m also a lawyer, so I’m not just saying this for yucks.
I’m American, but I’ve spent more than a year in China, and I speak Mandarin. I’ve known a lot of Chinese girls. Some Chinese women are very good choices, while some are very bad choices. There’s a lot of variation. A good one will have parents who don’t mind if their daughter moves away to live with her husband, and they won’t make any demands of their son-in-law. She also will be able to understand the huge cultural differences between East and West. And, she will be rather honest, generous, and fair in the marriage. She won’t have “one foot in the marriage, and one foot out”. She will have both feet in. She will be searching for a man she is genuinely compatible with. If that’s you, and if you find each other, then you will be happy together. The worst type of Chinese woman will have demanding parents, who will either move in and live with you or live nearby and frequently visit with no notice. And, she will have a terrible misconception of what Western men are like. She thinks a Western husband will be just like her fantasy of a rich but obedient Chinese man. She will demand that her husband gives her all of his money or spends it on her, just like a weak Chinese man would (sadly, most Chinese men are this way). Moreover, she won’t be honest, and she will have many secrets. Many Chinese men actually do tolerate wives who are the bad type of women that I described. Strangely, in Chinese culture, there’s little importance placed on what we consider a “good” marriage. Most of the marriages are heavily unbalanced in the wife’s favor (the one drawback being that she will never feel any sexual passion for her husband). The men don’t know how to handle their women any better, so they just accept this fate. Western culture, however, is quite different. So, for a Western man to find himself in this type of marriage, it really is a living hell.
ABC here. Yeah, it’s cheaper to marry for green card vs. buying a fake marriage for the green card. Last I heard the going rate was $25k if both parties are already in the US.
Firstly, you are asian and though you regarded yourself as westerner, most Chinese people don't think so and will only feel weird that you don't into Chinese culture. Don't expect you will be treated like white people in China. Secondly, As China is getting richer and women statue have keep improving, the green card is less valued as before, because Chinese have more choice in marriage and as you see people's mind have changed. Marriage is not as important as before, many people enjoy being single. If you want to find a wife in China, you should give up the mind that you are superior because you're not. If you want to find a submissive wife, you can try to find one in rural or less developed area in China but you should expect ill-mannerd and close-minded. If you still can't, you can find one in SEA, which will be much easier as I have heard, many Chinese man who can't find wives went to SEA to find wives.
I was married to a Filipina. When she came to this country (i got her a visa), she immediately sought out other expats as friends. It didnt take long for her to put them first. Lots of arguments over that. All her friends spent more time with each other than with their spouses. None wore wedding rings publicly. All of them were more commited to their social groups and their blood family. Always hitting husbands up for more money to send home. During the last year and a half, her temper got worse, she got meanier and more disrectful, and refused marriage counseling claiming cultural opposition. She criticized me, belittled me, told me I was "weak", and withdrew more. I wont do it again. American women are more communicative and willing to get intervention when problems arise.
Sorry to hear that. Your story is just more evidence that "bad women" exist in every culture. Men should not rely upon a woman's citizenship when determining whether or not she will make a good wife. Women often take after their mothers, so that would be a more reliable indicator.
No disrespect, but is there a chance that your wife worked in places like Angeles City before, that the age gap was very high or that she was a single mother from a broken family already? I myself married a Filipina (province girl) and she's the best wife, friend and mother I could have imagined. The age gap is only 4 years and since the beginning of our relationship we have always tried to spend our free time together and to find new hobbies we enjoy both like cooking, gardening, hiking, marterial arts, ball games, (no pun intended) ... and so on. I once had a colleague who married a Thai girl, though. He met her in Pattaya where she worked as a hooker because her boyfriend abandoned her after she got pregnant and because she's very beautiful she wasn't interested in an exhausting job. During his time in Thailand he described her as caring, a lot of fun to be around and a great girlfriend. But once she arrived in his home and became pregnant she got worse and worse everyday. Eventually she left him and the baby and returned to Pattaya because she didn't like the boring life in a Western village. Now she's partying everyday while selling her body to pay for it once again. My colleague on the other hand was overwhelmed with having to work, take care of his home and of an infant baby so that he he had to give the baby to adoption because he lost his job in the end.
@@JackoBanon1 not at all. She was not from that part of the country. No kids, no broken family. But she was the main provider for awhile and perhaps her lack of social time and all her responsibilities made her feel like she was missing out and she needed to make up for lost leisure/recreation time?.
Your wrong about the south east females like older men. Just say this to a flippino girl "would you date a 60 year old male flippino?" The answer is always no. It's very uncommon for a 21 year old girl with a 60 year old flippino. It has to do everything about money, but it's more like they can provide for their family getting a foreigner
Guys in Japan,cheating is something "normal" for the women there as long as the husband doesn't find out!!! So your japanese gf will cheat on you in the long run but does the ultimate best to hide it from you...Women in all places of earth are the same.What changes is their cultural roots and their behavior towards you as a Male,which behavior comes from the way they raised and their culture... So in Japan you are supposed to be the ultimate provider and she is supposed to quit everything and raise your kids for you,but she will cheat on you if she can hide it...Cuz they think cheating is something to vent off air and pressure from the marriage.... See the bs ?!
@@coiledsteel8344 cheating is "okay" if kept secret it goes both ways as well. If you leave your partner and break up your family that's a big big no no in japan. See it as this. In the west if you don't "cheat" but end a relationship and split up your family and destroy your ex's life to run away with some random other person as long as you didn't "cheat" that's not that bad. It's the other way around, sure sleep around don't make it obvious but do not fuck your family over. I don't know which I prefer. But it's five or take.
My ex Japanese girlfriend said if you’re not married it’s not cheating. She’s married with 2 kids now. We still talk on Facebook. She put on so much weight. Lol
My wife is asian. I wasnt necessarily looking for an asian. But she is awesome. Been very happily married for 7 years. Together for 9. We've built quite the life together. She isnt superficial. We just save money and invest. We are both very blessed and fortunate to have one another.
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To each his own, but I know I'm never marrying anyone.
I retired by 55 and moved to the Philippines. Dated around and had a blast before finding the right gal and got married to a beautiful filipina 31 years younger than myself. We had our first child and it's awesome, glad I waited to get married and have kids. Your right about living here, its cheap. I built my home here on a beach front property at the cost of $40K USD. Don't waste your time looking for foreign women in the United states as I did. they become to familiar with our culture and are not much different than your typical American woman. Now that I'm here a lot of my friends are jumping on board with me and coming to Philippines. if you come to the philippines you will feel like a rockstar. Woman will constantly be looking at you and ask you if they can take a picture with you. It's so refreshing being in a country where the women act like women.
I totally agree. There is a reason why the birth rate is so low in Canada and much of it is the fault of the feminist women. In Canada they forgot how to be women. Many have become men with tits.
Speaking as a Canadian, Matt is not wrong: Canadian women see growing up as a tomboy as a badge of praise; furthermore there are some, whom I have had the unfortunate gall of knowing that reject the habit of their sex, and proud of it. I speak of my generation, and as Lawrence has said, they have both forgotten how to be women, and prefer masculine clothing and mannerism to the point that they are indeed men with tits; and yet these same women get wet over Alphas, despite the fact that they are not even remotely feminine: not in habit, nor in conversation.
MadV. Since you didn’t feel the need to write ‘Trust me’ and you stated ‘some’, your comments have merit. I agree that Matt is not wrong based presumably on his experiences, but he is not necessarily right either. In general, generalizations are incorrect. I haven’t met all American or Canadian women but if I had to guess, on average, one group is no worse than the other.
I was working for dating agencies in SEA and before the outbreak as a dating coach in Japan. The problem with most guys is that they jump on the first cute Girl that gives them some attention.. Also there is a very big difference between SE Asia and East Asia. STOP DATING WOMAN WHO OBVIOUSLY JUST LIKE YOU COS YOU ARE WHITE. Traditional Asian woman are bringing values you won't find anymore in modern Western woman, but stop going for girls you meet in bars, clubs or on tinder and don't start wasting money on her... Dating culture in Asia isn't the same as in the west, Gold diggers, vampires are everywhere and if you don't have the skill to find a good woman in your home country, don't even try it in Asia or you will regret it. Asians will give you things a western woman can't give you, but they also have their own flaws... You have to adapt to a completely different mentality and culture and many people can't do this, so be careful and use your brain
@Greg Pettis unique features like red or blonde hair, being taller on average, different mentality. In most Asian countries, having pale/white skin is considered a beauty standard while dark skin is considered as dirty or a sign of poverty. Many Asians also have this wrong mindset that all white people are rich and educated, due to Hollywood movies some also tend to believe that most white guys look like Brat pitt and are romantic.
short1st The main piece of advice is definitely to learn about the culture and to learn a bit of the language beforehand, most woman in Japan are concerned about the language barrier and the cultural differences when it comes to dating foreigners. Not sure if you are searching for a hook up or a serious relationship, but overall I can give you some other advises as well. BE AGGRESSIVE, it’s totally fine to tell a woman right away that you like her or that you are attracted to her, don’t play around and be confident, Japanese men are way to shy and passive... That’s where you should stand out! It’s actually ok to talk to random woman on the street, coffee shops or while shopping, but you should avoid woman who are waiting somewhere in line or who look busy. Also don’t be to touchy, the Japanese are not used to much physical attention, especially not in public. Some Japanese also complain about how bad western men smell, I don’t why but many men use way to much deodorant or cologne, maybe just use a bit of perfume. Over there people are also very fashionable, so you shouldn’t run around like a typical American or Australian tourist if you know what I mean xD. Be careful with online dating, tinder etc. it’s not very popular in Japan and those woman who use it are often gaijin hunters or woman who want to get free “English lessons” If you search for a destination, People in Tourist areas, bigger cities and areas with a foreign military presence are more used to foreigners and are way more open minded towards dating them. A bit more than you were asking for but I hope this was helpful for you mate :)
I worked for a medical imaging company as a service engineer (not actually engineering in the denotative sense) and had a co-worker who had married a g Lady from Thailand. She was awesome over there, but once she got to the states she completely changed. Long story short - she was a monster.
I live in Japan, and see the wreckage of mistaken cultural clues. Both sides can initially "catch" what seems like a great person, but very often over time it does not end well. You see the faults in your own culture, and miss the red flags in people from other cultures. ANYBODY can be super-nice for 30 days, and marrying for the image you have of a stereotype is not a good idea. "American women are great, because they're ok with having a job after getting married" is what I've heard from Japanese men, and YOU KNOW there's a lot of signals that guy is missing. Particularly the "subservient" Japanese woman is a joke - they can be much more controlling (after the first child is born) than many American women.
American women have reached this absolutely MAGICAL space where they simultaneously ARE the most entitled and BELIEVE they're the most oppressed. It's just a fuckin mind BLOWING phenomenon.
"America leads the world in rates of single mothers."
What? How could that be? After all, it's not like we encourage, celebrate, and even incentivize single mothers to leave their husbands every chance we get, or something, or give them custody nearly always in divorce.
Pregnancies outside of wedlock, but I'm sure you were being sarcastic
@@kylemate3183 Valuing your biological instinct to procreate, and ignoring your biological instinct to protect your baby by ditching the father to look after it yourself. HOW EMPOWERING.
@@griffin955 they don't need no man!
"If you want more of something, subsidize it."
Canada is worst though
Well, I'm from Eastern Europe and I'm married to an Australian man. He says I am a dream wife... I am slowly learning that what I consider to be common sense he finds absolutely magical. Wanting to create a stress free environment at home that he looks forward to come back to, taking care of the house because I'm working less hours, sharing responsibilities because we both want to not because I say so, being intimate as often as we can, being supportive and encouraging, respecting each other's opinions and choices, being open about everything and improving together. I want an equal partner in life. I'm not looking to be his mommy or his boss, I don't think I know everything or am always right- I turn to my man for advice and guidance if I need it. A man is not something a woman needs to control, overpower or compete with. But many western women try to do just that. There is no peace or happiness in that.
What you just said she be put on billboards across America! Wise woman!!
@@maxwellspeedwell2585 I wonder what happens if we can move American women to places like Eastern Europe or Latin America. Or move south east Asian women to west Africa.
@@1mol831 they won't survive
You are a unicorn! This is literally the smartest post I have ever seen. Your husband is a fortunate man.
@@1mol831 Civil wars?
No worries. 6'1 191lbs 36 debt free own a ranch no child support. Celebrating my tenth year single and debt free 🥳🍻🤚
Anymore ranches left...im about ready to leave the fast lane in about 2 years
Congrats bro. Congrats. You're a king. Don't ever let any woman take your crown
Like in First 🌟 Star Wars movie, when he tells Luke, 'Don't get cocky kid!'
THIS ALL Can change in a instant.
Many Good Alpha Men, been humbled by the 'V'!
I am 36 as well married 5 kids with an African woman. I work in finance.. I bless the day I met my wife from Madagascar
Cookie?
I once heard someone say "Asian women embrace femininity. Western women shame it." I completely agree.
I used to like western women but after hearing so many horror stories about them I'll stick with our asian women.
@@dowhateverfree At that time straight men will wish they were born gay.
Asian women embrace femininity, Western woman hate it!.
@@AraAra-zc2eb Not me, I'll be fine single if I can't find a woman.
This comment section is so weird omfg how did I end up here
I often get the message of something like "you need to impress me."
I don't think theirs a way to make me dislike a woman quicker.
Yeah. I used to get " I need a man who can make me laugh ".
Endless hoops. $h!+ +e$+$ every 15 min.
I'm not here for the purpose of your entertainment.
It's a good message to get though. They quickly filter themselves out.
I quit online dating altogether. It's easier to talk to people you see. Theirs always not-english people coming into London. (Where I live)
EnemyWithinYourHeart exactly. When you tell them all you’ve accomplished and obtained thru labor and ask her the same thing, all she could reply with is “the fish 🐟 taco 🌮 between my legs which I’ve served to more than at least 5 dozen already.” The only impressing at that point is to tell her to go find some other fool to date her worthless parasitic ass
Then if you actually show off and do something impressive, instead of admiring you, they will start to envy you, the Narcissism....
Men didn't leave all housework for women in the 50s. Men did almost all of the outdoor work from snow work to maintaining a car.
Got that right. My dad had all us kids doing the housework, which he knew how to do as well. But running his own business didn't leave him time to do the mundane chores. I never once saw hired help in the house when something was broken or needed maintenance. Dad did all that stuff. Mom was a lousy cook like her mother, and though cheery mostly, would complain periodically about her laundry load and all the stairs she had to climb (3 story). Never really "worked" a day in her life like her mother did, getting up at 4AM to milk the cows, then make breakfast for the family (she was #18 of 22), then dishes, and scrubboard laundry. When there was time, she went to school. Mom passed birthing her 9th at 43 in '62, burnt out from the "travails" of handling so many kids, despite all the modern conveniences her mother never had until late middle age. Her dad was so right when he lamented children in the 20th century didn't know how to work--and that included his 2 daus.
Prior to that most americans had a more rural experience to some degree. Work and life was hard so you couldn't segregate tasks according to gender, so a woman or 12 year old girl ln a tractor and mucking stalls was normal. Then television became common introducing rural families to non rural lives in the city or villages. This began the mass exodus of going to cities to find easier work and a girl have a family with. You were working in a factory and couldn't maintain the house in your daily duties, so that was left to women. New social structures formed further solidifying these new norms, and this was only in the first 10 years after the war. The rural farm culture and life was pretty much dead at that point, and modernisation created the gender social divides we had until the 70s, but the attitudes still remain with so many women having no concept of equality, just thinking that a man not complaining means he has it easier than her, so she wants what he has. Then when she gets it doesn't understand why she still isn't happy, so she demands what the next man has.
Of coarse this isn't all women, just the ones that buy too much into this manufactured western culture that exists mkstly in halmark cards and social media flexing.
@crgzero A Zzzzzzz seemly 0 poop
@crgzero exactly
@@nunyabisnass1141 on point totally
This is my second trip to Africa, its not just SE Asia. A girl paid a taxi to drive her an hour and a half to see me. She came with food for me. Almost brought a tear to my damn eyes. Like... you will never see women put in that much effort in the states.
I remember talking to a veteran, in 1978. He told me Oriental women are great in their own countries, but they get to the US, and feminism poisons them. Note that year. 1978.
Yea met a Russian girl like that. Living in the west definitely poisoned her.
That was back in 1978. These days they are just as materialistic if not more so than Western women. Thinking that you'll find the perfect Asian girl and you'll live happily ever after is just setting yourself up for disappointment and failure imo.
The motto of the story is don't bring them back to the US!
Has it ever occurred to you gentlemen that all those foreign women were just acting a certain way before marriage, only to act differently after marriage?!? At least American women are more straightforward what you see is what you get
@@lettuce1305 Materialism is a separate issue from Feminism.
All women are materialist, esp in a Capitalist environment.
That's just Hypergamy... not a lot you can do about it.
You can still have feminine women that was raised to be a decent human being in a Capitalist and Materialist environment.
You can't have that in a feminist environment.
They are great in their country BUT don't bring them back.
Agree, my mates who have married SE Asian women have the best success living in Thailand, Philippines etc. The worst ones are the mates who have brought them back to Australia and they get infected (westernised).
@@audeamus1180 Once they get a taste of that western power it's a wrap.
dwoodard78 100% which explains why American broads are fucked up bruh its like a whole different jungle here the whole “freedom” shit fucks them up mentally they think riding the CC is is a constitutional right & they have to practice it
Only because in THEIR country they automatically presume that any foreigners are high value males, this is especially true in eastern europe and most of Asia. However if you are a fat balding guy that women dont notice in your home country, chances are very small that women in other countries will be all over you. Unless you display wealth openly but even then its a 50/50 chance.
The BS is reaL right because they know you have unlimited options
My wife is Russian she is absolutely amazing. I’m mid 40s, she’s mid 30’s. Looks amazing. Cooks amazing and keeps the household up. When she’s working we do everything 50/50. I show her a lot of these type of videos and articles and she also thinks western women are “bitches”. She could care less about if I’m over 6ft or not or if I have 6 pack abs. And she’s a solid 8. I’m a lucky man.
What about Ukrainian women? my best friends are russian/Ukrainian/both and a few of them said that the education system is ass and most people there act like gopniks.
Yup Russian women do seem to take care of themselves, I have an Asian wife 16yrs now, still happy together. And she weighs 47Kg, looks great.
How did you find Russian woman?
Bro u are hyper lucky ^^ tread here well
she looks amazing now... wait till she's in her mid 40s +... Ive never seen a "hot" old russian lady... have you?
Definition of Heaven:
An English House;
A Chinese Cook;
An American Salary;
A Japanese Wife.
Definition of Hell:
A Japanese house;
An English Cook;
A Chinese Salary;
An American Wife.
A Chinese man actually told me something like this when he met me and my Japanese wife!
@@Tac_3D We are talking of a situation that existed 50 years ago. It's true that modern Japanese houses are clean and comfortable but that wasn't the case in the post-war years for a long time. Famously described as "rabbit hutches".
WTF man?
Funny.
Sad.
True....!
i am quite happy with my Chinese salary. I would also prefer to Chinese wife over a Japanese wife. i would rather have a Russian cook and a Roman house.
in this day and age i wouldnt want an American woman living with me. might slap me with an FRA then im screwed for life
A word of warning: Keep in mind that when you marry a foreign women (especially Asian or Latin American) you marry into her entire family -- and you are expected to contribute to the welfare of the family back home. And don't think that you will just take a "no way" attitude with her on that subject either. If you don't contribute to the family back home she will never respect you, and will most likely leave and return home. Family is everything in most foreign cultures and you are not going to win if you if you make her choose.
Most foreign women are more feminine and caring; however, they come with an entirely new set of rules that can be just as annoying.
Solution: Don't marry her.
I'll take my chances. Besides a new family can also be a good thing. Everything has pros and cons you just gotta be willing to make the decision and also just stop and think
DON T MARRY !! ARE U MAD ?!?
That's the olden ways, new generations don't do that any more
David basically if you marry any of these foreign girls is a whole family meal package deal
Women will be women... Take the red pill, and tread dating with caution
Vermillion Knight Very well said.
Just take the black pill , it's over.
We gotta have kids otherwise our people and humanity go extinct. Mgtow's end point is extinction although I recognize the legitimate critiques of women.
@@spencer5028 humanity will never go extinct for as long as there is a supply of food and water.
@@ronaldmcdonald9322 why the blackpill.
I am a single father, that has custody of my son. Relationships are just too much stress. I'm focused on making my son's life great and enjoying the end of my life alone. Monk Style
My son was widowed and is doing the same. I really would love flr him to meet a special woman who could love him and also,his son as her own. I keep telling him there are women out there who waited too late to have a child and some may make good mothers and wives, but no luck,so far.
I have had a terrific relationship for 40,yrs and hate the idea of my son missing what might be a wonderful life.... he is a great father but he has no one but his son and it breaks my heart. His son will become an adult when my son is 65....pretty late to find someone then, it breaks my heart bec. my son is an emotional person and I feel he needs the love of a good woman...nothing I can do for him though...its so frustrating for me to me so happy when he is not.
*God of War intensifies*
I'm also a single father with custody. I salute you good sir
@@gratefulila9980
Statistically proven...Singlefathers raise much MUCH better kids than Singlemothers , specially incarceration rates for male children and singlemotherhood rate for female children.
@@latinaalma1947 As a widower myself with a son I can tell you single mothers as a rule will not date single fathers and I have 2 of the 3 sixes.
Single mothers want a man's resources for their child, not his.
My son is now grown and since I have no wife today I bought a 2021 Shelby GT 500.
Now that they will see a high end sports car they will try to talk to me but I shut that crap down instantly.
I don't buy used cars and I don't date used women.
Should have got on the train when I was younger and needed help with my son, I have played mom and dad for so many years I no longer need or want a woman.
As a German I can tell you that you guys over there are pretty screwed with the narcissistic, entitled women over there. Had my fair share of American women. But I can also tell you that European women are adapting as well and becoming more and more Americanised. Even the cute Russian/ Ukrainian chicks are catching on. Still not as bad as American, but getting there.
I was very impressed with Germany and that it has not succumbed to the bad aspects of modernisation.
There are some here, but most of them are still pretty classy and feminine
@@harryflashman4542 Oh you sweet summer child.
@@ponglenis9273 I read your name wrong 😂
@@dawagensapa6885 thats my goal xD
Half thai guy born and raised in Thailand. Hope I can help with my insight.
Hook ups are fine but I avoid Thai women when it comes to relationships. The extent of the cheating culture here is difficult for people to grasp until they've seen it first hand. And this is especially true if they are attractive. Also the love of drama is unreal, it's basically sought after. Cheating is a very very entrenched phenomenon. Like in many other countries there are women who will see you as a walking wallet especially if you are white. And if you are a foreigner getting divorced from a Thai person in Thailand you better believe you're not getting anything. I literally cannot count the number of times I've heard the story of a older white guy who came to Thailand, divorced, tired of the women where he came from, settled down with a Thai woman, at her suggestion bought a house and started a business (under the wife's name) only to get cheated on, dumped and have nothing left. I've seen so many men marry thots they would never touch back home, just because she looks exotic to him, has an accent and banged him easily. I've seen men get treated in ways they wouldn't accept from a western woman. In many instances the foreigners that come here are hooking up with the dregs of the dating market that even Thai men don't want. All this cause shes "exotic". The veil of exoticism blinds many and is often removed until it's too late.
Now to add some nuance. There are some great women here that are wife material. Beautiful, hard working, feminine, kind, the whole thing. Thailand is an aging society (PH is not) where more and more women are focusing on their careers. And there are many Thai women who are dying to meet a good foreign man because they got cheated on so many times by Thai men and just want to settle down and have a family. Now that seems great, but does that dynamic sound familiar to anyone? Thats right even in Thailand you need to take the wall, the c*ck carousel, social media narcissism, chad and tylone into consideration. What did you think this was?
To find a good woman you need to be patient, don't just jump on the first one (again im talking about relationships. if you just want to get laid have at it). You look in the right places because they are not common (rural areas have more traditional minded women, city women aren't that different from western women). To look in the right places you need to learn about the culture and people so you can see what you're getting into and which ones are red flags AND EVEN THEN you still must be centered and in your masculine during your relationship to get optimal results. They are not submissive. They know how to play the game very well. If you aren't careful you WILL get played.
True man. I just have fun with thai women because I'm very desirable for them. I wouldn't go for relationships. But yeah anyhow they are feminine attractive at least, unlike the west
Spot on analysis dude.
Sooo. No blood no ring
@s H Don't men turn into ghosts after they marry and have kids because working like your life depends on it is some overglorified bullshit?
Also. Schools on saturday. Why would anyone make their offspring suffer like that?
AWALT bro. Anyway can you please tell us about divorce laws in Thailand?
Had a friend who did this. He lost his house and farm 125 acres in the divorce she was only in the states for 7 years.
Don'T bring her here, this is a crazy move.
Where was the woman from?
In this day a man without a prenup is an embecile.
Don't bring them back to the US, that was his first and most lethal mistake.
@@harrisfrankou2368 prenup doesn't do 💩
"...over 70% of divorces are initiated by the wife."
No crap. All my friends that are divorced had the woman initiate. Not exaggerating. ALL OF THEM.
Kenneth See That is actually a lowball
I’ve seen that the number is closer to 90 than 70
I guess I’m in the minority - I packed up my shit and walked out on my ex wife after she started withholding sex because I would not become vegan ... yes I am serious
At 75, I've notice almost ALL of my friends have wives who are EXTREMELY BITTER! They openly insult their husbands...degrade them...yell at them...in front of other people. I'm guessing that toward the end of both their lives...women get bitter when they think: "Is THAT all there is?"
For the woman divorce is 'cashing out.' It's a net win. Opposite for the men. Bend over and open your wallet brother. Been there... Never again.
@@brandonjpj1 I hope she feels dumb.
I married a Chinese girl that was studying here in the US. she's loyal, hardworking, intelligent, and i love her so much. Best desicion of my life.
Same experience here.
I'm looking to go to China to find a fellow comrade to marry haha👌😁
Same here
@@JimmyMorrison101 Simp
@@joostdekoning4938 Another Simp
Dont let her be friends with a feminist.
And how you can do that unless you are 24/24 behind her ?!?
Avoid relationshit, Go Monk Mode.
AWALT !!
@@atafmaalaoui4761 That's a really profound way of looking at this situation. However, the problem I see is that when one is 85 years old, there's no family around. And MGTOW warriors don't have adequate answers to that predicament.
@@mrredacted We have already answered to that.
Millions of very old people around the world are living ALONE : theirs childrens who are now adults don't go see them. I know people who said to me that they have seeing their parents ONCE in the year for multiples reasons...
They are also MANY peoples who don't talk anymore to their old fathers or mothers because of troubles in family.
Ask anyone in your entourage and told them when was the last time they have been to see their old parents. And how many times in the year, you will be surprised...
So even if you have childrens, its not a guarantee for the future : you can be alone in your dying bed when they become adults because of multiples reasons : they are living far from you, they have a dispute with you, they tell you they don't have time because of work or anything else, etc etc
THEY ARE NO GUARANTEE IN LIFE, sadly or not.
There’s just something wrong about the West, politically and culturally with this Feminism stuff.
I talk about it with my friends (all female, all Filipino) and we’re all becoming hesitant about the Western culture we used to idolize. Recently, I feel like there’s been a slowly growing interest in appreciating our own Asian culture and honestly I’m glad to be away from the sorts of thing Western Pop culture glorifies.
MilkPlus please learn to appreciate your own culture, western culture has some benefits to it, but it will eat you up and spit you out
I spent ten years in Asia. Most, but not all, of the women I met were incredible. Attractive, hardworking, sweet and loving. They are not subservient at all, but remarkably tough and strong. They value their femininity, understand that men are different and are very loyal.
Met my wife ten years ago. I never believed in 'soul mates', but she is perfect for me. I wouldn't touch an American woman.
I married a Chinese woman and I don't regret it. 13 years together and 8 years married. She always cook for me. We share everything and helped me out when I was at my lowest. she took care of my dying father and loved him like her own. She's probably the most selfless woman i've ever met.
As the HAPPY husband of a Brazilian beauty for the last 18 years, I can only shake my head and sympathize with the American guys I grew up with.
Brazil is on my place to go is it that good of a place to find a quality woman compared to usa
ahhhh brazilian women,a rare and exotic species!!!
I knew a guy that was in the Army and married a Korean woman. They moved back to the States, and after about 5 years, the cute, submissive housewife became "Americanized". As the years went by, it only got worse, and his life became bizarre. You already know the rest of the story. I lost contact, but I always felt bad for the guy. He went to bed with his dream girl and woke-up with an absolute nightmare. If you marry a foreign girl, it's probably best not to bring them back to the States.
This is the first time I have seen BB being blue-pilled delusional.
That's what the coach said
Wtf? Must be something in the water in the states that make women so narcissistic
@@mak7eye They do chemicals in us water. But I think it's the society
CEO Top Dog true
Only marry someone who would truly love you when you are/have nothing. Or else dont.
This is my understanding on it.
Yes! This! otherwise you're fucking with fire. One bill missed, a little bit too much fat and she's out the door.
@Gorden Gecko Experience. If the woman perceives you as weak, regardless of the truth, she will leave.
@Gorden Gecko Why are you apologizing? Everyone has their own experiences. I knew a couple that got together before 18 and they were still married in their 60's. I just know from my own experience a love like that is exceedingly rare. From my own experience, it's gotten rarer with time. Most women my age (30) and about 10 years younger and older have become so shallow, materialistic and superficial it's no longer about love but about what can SHE get from the relationship. And I give my all when I'm in a relationship. I do all the things that I've heard that make relationships work - I sacrifice, try to give them what they want, keep them happy, make sure not to push too hard on things they don't want to do, etc. I haven't ever had a relationship last for longer than a few months.
My girl stuck by me when I had literally nothing. Never really could express just how much it meant to me. Guys, this commenter is right. It goes both ways. If you wouldn't marry each other regardless of what you have or where you're at in life, then you clearly shouldn't be getting married
@@lostcowboy2002 Excellent! It does happen, but what you've experienced is just so fucking rare it's hopeless for most of us.
I used to run an inmate road crew. One inmate was a rather refined Indian guy. I told him I was single and thinking about dating out of my race. He hung his head and said "Indian woman good woman until she learn to dial 911"
Hahaha
I was married to a Brazilian girl, who unfortunately passed away 9 years ago, and I swear they go to school and learn how to take care of and keep their man. I haven't been able to date anyone since, I've been spoiled.
I am terribly sorry for your loss my friend, my condolences 🙏🏻
Sorry for your loss. Perhaps it's time to travel. Bless you. Good luck. Be smart and discerning.
Only worth it if you're going to:
1) avoid taking her to any Feminist-enthralled country
&
2) keep that American-level income flowing
Exactly!
@lolroflkartoffel123
That's because they think you will bring them to western country. I grew up in military and saw how those marriages play out. Once they get to US, they find out you're a loser and learn about spousal support. It's a wrap.
One chick abandoned her kid and husband after she got that green card. They will try to get pregnant so you take them back to your country. It doesn't always work. So there are plenty mixed kids in these countries.
@Michal Blaszczak No hymen, no diamond.
@Pos dem I agree! Filipina women are different because the Philippines is different. Take them to America, and they catch the feminism virus. Also, when their American female friends tell her she can get half in a divorce, she'll figure she's hit the lottery, and she can go back to the Philippines a wealthy woman. Human nature, ever since Adam and Eve bit into the forbidden fruit. 😢
@s H In the big cities there's a red light district, like most big cities in the world. In rural small towns, they have a reputation to protect, of course a guy would be an absolute fool to marry the first pretty girl he sees. A more ordinary looking girl has to be able to offer something more than her looks to offer. Go to a smaller rural town, a skank won't be able to hide her past for long, take your time, see what her mother is like, chances are, that's what you'll get. If she has an honest skill, that's a good sign, she doesn't NEED to sell her body. Use your common sense, not your hormones, to make a decision.
Once you go asian, you never do caucasian... Living in HK 10 years and I'm not going back... Just remember though, even if the car is of a different model, it's still a car
Janik ...still in HK?
@@peppermintcatsass3141 He just said he's not going back.
Janik ooh Thai Cambodia Indonesia for fun yes but Chinese, no thanks
@@seymourelykeley Agreed...havent tried Cambodia, Thai yes, Philippines hell yes, chinese girls need to learn shaving... the rest of SEA is clean as a whistle
@@peppermintcatsass3141 yup and happy to be
Joker: the Eastern European women who were high maintenance were 9s and 10s, the American women who were high maintenance were offering a little less
Let me translate the second half of this...
The American women were between a 1 and a 3 and didn't offer shit to the relationship
HOMERUN!!!!
NEVER, EVER bring a foreign woman to the US. It may seem like a tempting option, but it is very risky. Foreign women can easily claim domestic violence and under the Violence Against Women Act their protection will criminalize you and grant them special status and protection and it is very likely that the man who thought was going to have a good situation will end tragically. Living in their country also comes with some challenges, like language, and culture differences, but you need to know what your rights are before you decide to stay and secure a good attorney that is fluent in your language. Institutionalized misandry is a global reality.
I live in SE Asia, and yes, dating is much more enjoyable. Women are feminine, not feminist. Not going back home if I can help it.
Lol dating and marriage are 2 different concepts brother...
@@kennethchia Yep. Not planning on marrying.
I'd go if I could afford it.
So why would you go else where to take away other's women, when you and all other western white knights enabled feministic ideal for decades in your own home? Fix what you broke, rather than running away from your problem. And let Asian men marry their own women.
That’s a good name
I approve
Chinese Canadian here, I am software engineer I got married at age 35, I could not find any women here in Canada or North America that is trust worthy so I went back to China found myself an traditional Chinese wife. I am 45 now with 5 kids happy family :)
Most women in developed countries, western and asian are not even dating materials.
@J Kidd Montreal
Thought Chinese could only have 1 kid
Thank you for not mixing.
5 kids, way to go
You should never bring her to the West..if you do, it's just a matter of time before girls' night out and muh strong and independant
You got it never ever bring them to the west.
100%, no question. Have the kid, thats the hook. After that, you are their property. They own you. The only way I can see out of this is to live with someone(not marry) in a state that doesn’t recognize common-law marriage. You own the house, she’s not on the Deed, you own everything. Short of a water-tight pre-nup(do those even exist?) I don’t think there’s another way.
@@austntexan when you bring them to the states it has to be on 90 day finace visa you either marry or she has to leave 91 day. Also you have to sign a paper saying if she leaves you goes on welfare you will pay for it all. Never bring em here.
And tainted right after Tyrone feeds her his sausage.
That’s not true, if your strong man, she won’t be doing that! Only weak dudes say this crap!
Never ever marry. No matter where she is from, she will never be happy no matter how hard you try. If she isn’t happy you will never be as well.
If she's unhappy, make her smoke pot!
That's your opinion.
There are a lot of good relationships to prove you wrong but as the guy above me stated already you're entitled to your opinion.
This hits close to home. I married a Hungarian smoke show. What you said about competition on the US market is 100 percent true. At first it was okay, but she was constantly hit on by every simp and alpha alike. Then when it got to her head, she started reminding me of it, then girls night out, then he's just a friend, then three months after getting citizenship, she cheats. So I kicked her out of my house. Her father was pissed, at her. Him and I were good friends and he was really supportive of me through it all (happened to him too). I know it's always mens fault, but it kinda is: we are raised to be betas (unattractive), generally no respect for another man's marriage (see Donovan Sharp bragging about committing adultery with girls on "girls night out"). We can't control women, but we can "take care" of the jodi's among our ranks. ... by the way, to my Ex's credit, she didn't ask for a dime, and even offered to pay for the divorce. I paid my self because for me it was a matter of principle. Foreign women are a gamble, but more worth it than Americans, just be careful.
Most SE Asian women will expect you to "take care" of their families too - siblings, parents, grandparents and often extended family will all be hopeful of some good fortune coming their way from your bank account. This is not ALWAYS the case of course, and there are exceptions. But it is definitely something to be wary of. Many of these women's families actually WANT them to marry a Western guy as a source of income for them. Just be aware.
Yeah, they treat children as investments. If they can't marry into wealth, then the kids are expected to be maids or care takers for when the parents get old. They're a lot more sneaky as well. They might appear doting and by your side, but after a while, they take control in covert ways and begin resentment perhaps for the way they were brought up. They have envy because you came from a more fortunate background.
I think Better Bachelor was lucky to not get trapped, I reckon they were buttering him up. If something sounds to good to be true.......
I know many guys that have married Philippine women, every one of the them has bought property in the Philippines but it's in her name because foreign nationals aren't allow to own land. I couldn't do that.
If you married one, basically you're marrying the entire family.
I'm from Malaysia and i can tell you this.
If you have nothing, they will treat you like a shit, and if you have money but stingy as hell like me, they will give you the respect but at your back, they will talk shits about you all the time...they hate you so much. Haha
So basically, you have to listen to her, her mom, her aunties, sisters, grandma...and most importantly, your money, they want part of it.
Victor Tesla during these Coronavirus lockdowns id help her dissapear if that were me
@@victortesla4198 sounds like he's totally lost frame..sending thousands of $$ a month to a place like Indonesia is just ludicrous when their cost of living is way lower...just shows how he's being fleeced.
I've been living in Northern Thailand for over 10 years now. If you date them here it's all good (just don't live with them) but don't ever bring them to the West. Even when you date them here don't think they will be that different from their sisters in the West. Hypergamy is alive and well here too.
Edit: They do care well for you, they will cook and clean (actually they'll usually insist on doing all the housework) and even do ridiculous things like put toothpaste on your toothbrush.
Did you need to learn the language or are you doing fine with English?
@@jkm7983 I do speak Thai by now (not great but enough to get by) but if you want to have deep conversations you'll mostly be out of luck. I dated one Thai girl who spoke amazing English but most of them speak only basic English. For casual dating it's not a problem but it was actually the biggest problem for me when I was still looking for something more serious (I'm over that now). In a long-term relationship communication is crucial and that will usually be a problem in Thailand. Philippines are better for that, most people speak English pretty well there.
You hit on all points. I've been going to Northeast Thailand off and on for over 17 years. There is one woman I tend to see when I am in Buriram. She and I click as friends(ok F buddies) while all of her friends look at me like a piece of meat and she knows it!. As for the toothpaste on the toothbrush, they've been doing that since the Vietnam War. I guess back then, Isaan was really really poor.
This is the absolute no no, never bring a foreign bride back to the US or West to live...
that's kind of creepy to put toothpaste on your toothbrush. kkk
I married a woman from a Country that still has “old fashioned “values. Best decision I ever made.
What country dude
Loser simp
@@victorvaldez760 wait until you become adult and feel it
Those are the good ones....I'm glad ur able to find her
@@BurningUp99 Kasachstan. With Borrat values :-)
In Poland it is the same with Polish women. Nothing new.
Please explain what you mean
@@AvioftheSand which part you didnt understood?
@@pbies Please elaborate how polish women spoil ukrainian women, schematics etc.
@@rakada30 talking, forcing, teaching, by examples...
@Till This Day It doesn't really make sense to enforce our ideals upon the unknown. Humans are still humans
Lol. Don’t kid yourself, it’s the money and status dude. An d those women in the Ukraine are not reserved, that's called a "mask" my friend.
I have found that southern European women are much happier and loving then their northern counterparts, who are more cold and calculated on average.
Not always
Nikki there are shallow people everywhere, however, we should also keep in mind that people from the former Eastern block are cold to strangers. You have to get to know them for them to open up, even a little bit
Live in Asia for 5 months and when I came back to USA I noticed how fat all the women are in USA - back in East asia for 1.5 year - gonna stay for a longtime
Same feelings when I got back to Australia.
And by fat you mean have their own asteroid belt.
xyzct a lot of these bitches have their own planets
...I remember in the 80s when Hard Bodies applied to women, gyms sprouted up everywhere, girls we're genuinely athletic & not fat hoggamuffins rooting around with an unearned sense of entitlement, like pig on a truffle hunt!
@@xyzct "No lady, that's not a trick, that's an orbit".
My two cents :
Most Japanese women really are into money (more than western ones !). Dating one costs a ton of cash.
You're right from personal experience, but unlike with western women, It's less so the money itself in terms of getting possessions than the stability money provides. If you can afford to keep a good apartment and take them out for dinner every few weeks, they're generally happy to give you what you want and most don't want to leave their own country so it works good if you're well sought after enough in the employment market: can learn some languages in your spare time and sick of the west.
same as Indonesian
@@narcissus853 WRONG!
Go to Tech Lead Channel, and see his experience with Japanese.
I disagree. Western women are far more materialistic and expensive both in time and $
@florida Guy usually the most enjoyable and cheap women are pros
Eddie Murphy was right back in 87' in his Raw skit.
You can bring a woman from the furthest part of the world to live with you, but if you let her socialize with your local women - she soon will become just like them.
My family on my mothers side is Asian, and let me tell ya, the arguing and bickering from the women can be FIERCE but they are loyal and have values. Waaaaay better than Americans.
Kinda like the lesser of two evils thing
Ryan Lockett philippines
Yeah same here, I'm also half Filipino.
My girl Filipina non American best thing ever
Zain Khan yeah I agree. I should also say that my family is highly religious and the traditionalism that comes with that prevents them from being adulterous and from being like lots of modern women. Im not from a perfect family but all things considered mine is pretty darn good. I don’t even want to imagine having a modern American karen as a mom or aunt or sister
My sister is Thai and we adopted her (along with my brother) at a fairly young age. She was a really sweet, thoughtful, and happy person growing up. Then she slowly started changing as she got older, and, before you know it, she looks just like every other stereotypical American woman and lots a lot of those qualities that she had. She's not nearly as happy a person, she's much more selfish, and so forth. Lots of her mannerisms and tastes have become much more in line with what American women are like and want and it's really sad for me to watch. I still love her, but it was just really sad for me to watch. She was a really special kid growing up and I feel like something really great was lost and was replaced with something awful in its place that she got from those around her.
Clearly, the problem is our US/Western Culture, then. The constant message of consumerism, individuality, getting more, working more, and basically always getting more and to never be happy, never accept your situation as good enough. The NYC based Sex in the City BS has done a great job of convincing women that they should view men as dildos or as a purse to elevated them. Magazines tell them to diet all the time, but the Standard American Diet is about the worst on the planet. Basically, look at what cultural trends are being spread among young women, and avoid them, turn away, and do the opposite. Constantly trying to buy happiness through consumerism? Clearly not a success strategy. Veganism or vegetarianism? Stay away. Social Media? Stay away. Dieting, but not doing strength training? Yeah....
Culture is the issue
It looks like she caught the feminism virus.
She caught the cancer of feminism. RIP
Same I understand how you feel. But that’s just it girls need feelings a different point of view.
Met my Thai wife 9 years ago.... I'm very happy with her... in all those years happier than I was in the 23 years of marriage with my last wife (which was Brazilian). Whenever I go cycling with a Dutch friend of mine, we have coffee in the same restaurant near the beach (both of us live about 200 km south from Bangkok) and we meet different kind of people. There are sometimes western women who also come with their cycling group.... what a difference to the Thai women... so dry and lifeless. Another place where we have a stop is a massage shop. Though we don't take the massage, they serve coffee and icecream as well. But most important are the ladies working there. They are always very nice to us. They know we have partners, I said from the beginning and still they are nice to us. Joking and talking sometimes just nonsense. It is fun and it is worth living here. My friend is 74 and I'm 63... it happens so often that young pretty women smile at us or just say friendly hello... it makes one feel so good. Women in the western world with the looks these women have, would not even see us. At our age we belong in the grave and are far from interesting. Here if we wanted to, we could always find another woman. But it is like you said: commitment. Though I can, I won't cheat on my wife. Throwing away what I have just for another woman. No thanks.
I've been married twice.. Both Filipinas. My first wife left me after 1 year and 8 months of marriage.. After she got her 10 year Green Card. It just wasn't working out, so there was little resistance from me. I hit the ground running and started chatting with another Filipina, who nearly a year later I would end up marrying and bringing to the US. We have been married for almost 8 years now and are very happy.
I was treated so well in The Philippines that even after marrying and later divorcing a loony toon, I tried my luck again. After dating in The Philippines, I could never date here in the US again. There are wonderful American women out there. I'm still friends with several. So I can't stereotype. There is good and bad in both the US and The Philippines. But by and large Filipinas are amazing. I never met one that I didn't like.
There are dangers of course, but if done correctly relationships with Filipinas can be a great decision if a relationship is what you're after.
Did the first one take any of your wealth with her?
@@ItachiUchiha-ny6di Nope, she just wanted her stuff and her "freedom". All it cost me was about $215.00 for the divorce. Money well spent.
Avoid the bars and lounges, and definitely the street. Your churches are your best bet for the marriage minded, but her parents and the church's clergy are likely to have certain standards. There are mostly Catholic but also Protestant churches there.
Let me shed a little light on the subject. I lived in South Korea for a year, saint Petersburg Russia for 2 years and have visited Thailand 6 times in the last 18 months. The answer is yes and no. Thailand is absolutely heaven on earth for a single man. 1000 baht ( 30 dollars ) and you can take home just about any freelancer you want. If you are even mildly attractive and charming you may find it difficult to get them to leave afterwards. Most of them are looking for one thing, financial security. You don't have to be emotionally available or sensitive or whatever bullshit women here say they want. They just want food in their tummy and a roof overhead. The reason they go home with tourists is so they dont starve and to send a little money home to their families. In thai culture the children take care of the aging parents and it is Very important.
Overall thai, Cambodian, vietnamese and laotian women are about 5 times more awesome than western women. Although they do have their moments... IF you allow it! If you are weak and easily taken advantage of, your luck in Asia will be no better. However if you are just a Nice Guy ( that's me ) you may actually do much much better. Prostitution is very normal in Thailand, you can travel to the remote areas and find a traditional girl, but trust me on this... many working girls are simply looking for a nice man and making a few dollars to survive doing it.
I know quite a few foreigners that have moved to Thailand and live on their social security and provide nothing for their live in thai gf aside from sharing a place to live and a few dollars worth of groceries. In exchange they get cooking cleaning and companionship. Some guys just get holiday girlfriends, it's much cheaper than renting girls nightly and you get someone to cuddle and take swimming for 30 a day or far less.
In my experience an Asian woman is superior to Western women no matter what capacity you deal with them. They have nothing but are generally happy and can be quite fun to be around. I wouldn't suggest bringing one to the west, but 100% believe you will be happier than with a Western woman. A holiday girlfriend is the best of both worlds and if you really like her you can message her and visit again at little risk. Ordering women alacarte is fun, but to me it gets kinda old. I'd rather have a pretty girl to take swimming or to share a 3 dollar meal with. Some might be out to get every penny, but if you are careful you will find one who uses the opportunity to audition for a full time spot. A good girl will save you more than her cost by getting you the thai prices and help you avoid scams. In closing they are so much better, but always remember your mgtow training and never be afraid to show them the door. A new girl is literally 50 feet away.
Wow
Interesting. Thanks for sharing it
I'll be heading to Vietnam in a few years, so thanks for the info
@Diggy d Yes sir! I may rave about how awesome Asian women are... but you can NOT let your guard down. Every country except Canada has a way to RIP off American tourists, and women even at their best are like handling poisonous snakes. The good news is this: if you're reading these comments you are already in the right place and you most likely can see a womans bullshit coming better than the average guy.
@krispy kreme I wouldn't waste the money to step foot in Russia. Beautiful women to be sure, but not particularly friendly or happy people. There are surrounding eastern European countries that are much better. The Ukraine has beautiful nordic looking women.
I went to the philippines and married a filipina. Best decision of my life
Which city did you meet her in? A lot of the big cities like Manila have very westernized women
I want to marry Korean if possible but is working overseas time with them
@@Godclash bruh every young filipino in manila secretly hate themselves for being filipino whilst hating and deifying the USA, central luzon filthy westernized shithole and should be avoided by everyone, I recommend the Visayas and Mindanao since they're clean, and just better.
SUCCI BOI I talked to a girl from Visayas and she was a lot different than Manila girls. But she still wanted to move abroad on her own, and she was open to getting married to a foreigner man.
Scissorfuk Bax my wife is from Bataan. A small village called San Pablo. She washes her clothes using her hands and hangs them outside to dry even tho she has a washing machine and a dryer . She’s old fashioned af. They exist. Smaller villages are the way to go.
My Ukrainian wife and I will be celebrating our 20th anniversary this year. The first couple of years were tough, the rest have been bliss.
NEVER bring her here except for a sightseeing tour and to stay in a fancy hotel!
Married to a beautiful Filipina 20 years younger then myself that is everything you describe. Retired at 55 and moved over here permanantly. No regrets it was a smart decision.
J W - Congratulations! I am hearing that you end up trying to "match" the many things that a Filipina will do for you by trying to make her happy.
She's blowing the delivery guy.
@@jinko17 Nothings perfect.
Enjoy it while it lasts.
Nothing to proud mate
i was dating girls back in Russia. But once i moved to us, i have a hard time with girls.
I basically gave up 2 years ago and now just focusing on my career,saving and investing.
People constantly ask me why i don't have a girlfriend, my answer is i don't need one.
Two points I want to make here I do contract work in the USA and spend my off time in the Philippines back and forth now for 6 years..I will tell you.
1. Dating is a very dangerous and dirty game...if you date a filipina and she doesn't tell you she is married her husband can press charges rather you know about it or not..and trust me they will when they see their wife is with a rich foreigner..the Philippines I think is the only country in the world where adultry is a jail time offence unless you pay out ofcourse.
2. Dont think for one second that you are going to line up 5 filipinas and pump n dump them coz they are onto that game now, it's not like I hear it was 10 years ago before the smartphones corrupted them...learn the laws here...if they feel like they been used they can report you to immigration or the NBI and make your time here a living hell unless you bribe your way out.
Plz do extensive research before you come here...it can save your life!
Very sound advise!
As a Filipino I agree here since they are not only extremely masculine at times but would always fight back
Go to Bangkok and use VIP escort agencies - they cost more but you get the GF experience for a night, or a week.
As a Filipino, I agree that those kinds of Filipina women exist. BUT It doesn't only happen to foreigners. It also happens to local men.
I HAVE BEEN IN THE PHILIPPINES FOR OVER 30 YEARS AND NEVER HAD THE PROBLEMS YOU ARE HAVING, AND YES I PUMP AND DUMP ALL THE TIME! WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU DOING WRONG ? BECAUSE YOU ARE DEFINITELY DOING SOMETHING WRONG !
Even UK and Australia has high number of single mothers. I’m born and raised in India married to an Australian. Hubby is good provider, respectful, caring and hardworking. also a wonderful dad to our adorable children. I love and respect him, he’s the head of the family.. Both couple should put an equal amount of effort in the relationship.
Karma Sutra??
Your husband is a lucky man and I’m sure that he counts his blessings daily!
russia 90 of 100 - devorced
Be aware of the quiet ones, they hold more baggage than you may realized.
Never think it's not for the $. Even if a man doesn't act like he has money, throw money around, talk about money, or even have money. She's always going to think he has some somewhere, or can/ will get some. It's always $ with Asian women. Always .
Lol every woman is like that
might not be money but "hmm he could take me there and i can find a better man" I've seen this
@@Gabriel902884 That boils down to $ too, as he has to pay her way to wherever he's from, support her when she gets there, pay all expenses, visa requirements etc, until she finds someone else.$$$$
Of course Asian women think foreigners have got more money; they just traveled from the other side of the world to their Asian country! Poor people don't get to travel to the other side of the world for business/ holidays!
@Hunsa Picton Also nothing wrong with realizing Asian women get fat after having kids just like western women. Maybe she'll stay slim for the rest of her life if she doesn't have kids. MAYBE. No guarantee on that. What you see now is more than likely NOT what you'll get later.
lol. washing dishes is so *easy,* especially if you wash up right afterwards. it's crazy to think that women have been reduced to complaining about that. maybe the reason women are so unhappy in modern society is because they forgot how to appreciate what they do have.
when your too busy showing off your relationship on instagram then you are not happy otherwise you'd just enjoy the moments with the person you love. In asia girls aren't living on their phones
BINGO!
I moved to Southeast Asia 10 years ago. I've been married for 8 years. Everything is good.
My advice is don't do it if she wants your assistance getting citizenship in your country. The good ones will be apprehensive of moving. The ones to avoid can't stop talking about your home country.
Any more advice?
Ill keep that in mind, thank you solder
This is truth, the good ones don't want to move. My girl said shes willing to move here for short term but wants us to move permanently to her country. Thats my plan so it works for me
Ngl, dats exactly wat you guys should look for. I'm asian by the, so as a man to man advice. Go for asian women that would rather have you live here rather than an adian woman that ask of you far too much and getting all serious about that green card and ur country.
Always keep that in mind, most here in asia are poor, and it's to be expected a lot will take a chance to have a better life there in the west, but again. Thise are the ones you guys should take note of. Stay vigilant.
There are still a lot of asian women here for you guys to acore a good life with, just be mindful.
-from an asian bro
I’m sad. I’m glad to hear that there’s something out there that would actually make me happy, but being stuck in a sexless marriage really sucks! I’m doing my best to get enough to move on on my own and deal with being a bachelor, but I’ve been married for 30 years now. Invested all my time and my money....and now I’m ready for a change! She’s cut me off for over a year now, and I’ve had it! I know I’m reaping what I’ve sowed, but I’ve been so glad and empowered by what you teach, that it’s given me a foot to stand on. It’s the best advice I’ve been given and I’m 54
You got this
If she cut you off.. she broke the contract.. marriage has written and implied obligations and responsibilities.. once you break one element of a contract the whole thing is null and void, she cant break one part and expect other to remain in effect. She broke it, its null and void, legally you might be married that's a administrative legacy issue, the lived reality is you are not married. (Mind has to catch up with the body essentially) if you want out or suspect she is planning to achieve that in her own time my advice is better to bring it on your terms at the time of your choosing, do the prep work then spring it on her.. by prep work I mean get all your money assets in order and preferable offshore, be prepared to grab all the loot run off to south east asian out of the reach of the man bashing feminist courts and live your life.
good luck mate ! i done the same but 2 kids and im 35 , one day i just realised all the stuff my dad tried to tell me was right i walked around with my eyes tight shut to the truth if you dont really THINK before you do shit all you will acheive is a fuck ton of regrets and misery to keep you company when it really is too late , theres the way you would like the world and the people in it to be and the way it really is thats the hard undeniable truth ! we are all fucked anyway the recession after this pandemic will grind us all to dust nothing is more appealing to me than a cabin in the mountains away from NORMAL people just me and my kids , aint never gonna happen but still.... we all watching this from the same boat good luck boys ! no doubt we would all have a good laugh throwing a few beers down .
Get yourself fired from your job, lose all your assets "gambling", end your marriage and walk away.
I lived in Russia (as an American) for a long time (10+ years)... had a few relationships while over there, both short-term and long-term... now I've returned to the U.S. and I just can't for the life of me get very interested in American women.
Women in russia expects men to be men and women to be women.
...only way American Women could peak my interest would be if I were conducting a study of Communicable Diseases in Female Humonkulis..
How was it over there bro? I dig the way Russian women look
Peppermint Catsass - _pique_
pegpenguin ...plier
Yes they will treat you well in there country but you never NEVER bring them back to your own.
@s H exactly, no marriage, no cohabitation, no kids, no friendships, no interactions, just walk away.
It is true Filipina women are amazing for the most part. I've spent over 11 years working there in Manila and Cebu and I'd never thought I'd live to see the day, (unless I became rich), that I would date some young women there in the Philippines that would cook, clean, even my bathroom, so when I came home, my condo was clean. My clothes washed, gave me sex whenever I was in the mood, which is why I'm currently engaged to a Filipina woman and getting married soon. Thumbs up for anyone single bachelor looking for a wife or just a gal who is submissive and humble. Philippines all the way.
women everywhere are the same. but for SE ASIA women a normal white american men is like a black NBA super star for USA white women.
u know the thing , ight?
money buys everything.
Both of my brothers found wives overseas while in the military and both are still married more than twenty years later with ZERO indications of that ending anytime soon. They both had two kids each and are almost empty nesters now. Both wives kept their houses and children immaculate while my brothers were active military and didn't bitch about it one single bit. Now that both are retired and have civilian jobs they love helping out. One loves to cook and tinker with things and the other is a neat freak so the home is very harmonious. One wife is full Korean and the other is half Scottish/half Thai.
On the other hand, DO NOT MARRY A FILIPINO WOMAN AND BRING HER TO THE STATES!!!! Three people I knew, two while I was in the Marine Corps and one co-worker, did just that and with in 3-5yrs were involved in terribly nasty divorces. Once they get here the bullshit starts. The first thing they do is hook up with the rest of the Filipino community and are immediately clued into every law and strategy about how to fleece you. The second thing they do is get knocked up as fast as possible and at that point you are truly fucked. Its the same with Eastern European women. DON"T DO IT!!! Love 'em up all you want over there but DO NOT BRING A FILIPINO OR RUSSIAN HOME.
Me?? I met and dated my ex-wife in college. Typical American born and raised white wife. While in the military we still dated and I helped her pay for college. I was injured and medicaled out but found a GREAT paying civilian job with super amounts of potential. We got married. Within two years of her finishing college she was monkey branching away and filed for divorce. Luckily, we never had kids and it was only two years married so it was a simple divorce. She got the new car (which I payed off to get her the fuck out as quickly as possible and I kept the house). I marched down with her with her to court house to sign the papers and told her to fuck off. That was thirty years ago and I NEVER got married again. I decided MGTOW before MGTOW was cool.
Teach us sensei.
Thank u for ur service sir
Yes, thank you for your service
Is it good to work in the US and come back to Korea for ex?
If they got in it with a prostitute, then definitely. He should've looked more women instead of marrying the first hooker he saw.
The common theme with foreign women is relative poverty, and poverty equals insecurity and all women... ALL...are driven biologically to seek more security. But I live in Canada and know a guy that has the 'business model' for angling the woman thing. He has a small cash flow business that is seasonal. He shuts it down in December, gets on a plane and goes to Cuba or Domincan Republic for an extended tropical holiday. He'll find one he likes, and offers her a holiday in Canada, staying with him. Gets her a six month tourist visa, takes her home as a wife for six months and then puts her back on a plane back to Cuba. He has a four month holiday without the bitchs around. Then does it all over again, going to a different place every winter. He's been doing this for decades.
wow I fiend this stile of life ,pointless.
How has he lucked out not knocking one up?
I’m a human ATM, for my whole family...my sons and wife. With my sons, they are well on my way to getting them on their own. One is a CPA, and the other an Engineer. I attribute their success to my stay at home wife from the Philippines. She works her butt off at home and puts God first in her life. I am most blessed. The only thing that is a challenge for me is sharing things that I would like to change in our relationship as she is a perfectionist who takes it to personally. But I have a lifetime to work on it. I hope my sons find someone like her. I don’t mind at all being the ATM as it is part of my role to provide and protect.
@@mafp22w Glad you found a woman worth being an ATM to. thats a fucking rarity
it is one thing to be a player for a couple of years, but for decades?! that's a strong commitment to not committing! even Joker mentions in this video, deep down men crave genuine commitment... and it makes sense. we are human after all not robots with genitals.
I've been dating over 20 years. Finally found an amazing, independent woman who was born in China. After one year, she is still amazing. Much different and better than American born chicks.
Im a older black American and I'm always treated like a rock star when I go to the Philippines. I also got married to a beautiful Filipino girl the best relationship in my lifetime. And im gonna retire there next year , as a matter of fact we already have built a home there. It is
Heaven on earth compared to dealing with American women. If you go there and experience it yo you will never want to leave. Awesome women there that are almost always positive respectful affectionate very sexy and make you feel loved and appreciated
Thanks for the post. I'm black too... so it's nice to know where things are good.
I heard you can't own property as foreigner. Is it on her name?
@@abdirahman292 yes its in her name i already have property in the US in my name. There are ways to get property in your name in the Philippines check out the Property Club on UA-cam he explains how to do it in detail. As far as my house with my wife its a gift to her im not worried that she would kick me out or anything like that. If she did i would buy a condo and condos in the Philippines can be purchased in your name
Hi, Roger, I'm an older black American, too, with a slightly different situation: I'm looking for a woman who isn't Christian. Buddhist and/or traditional Asian religion preferred. Heard any good things about other countries?
@@toddjacksonpoetry Hey Todd you're not gonna believe it but the women in Ukraine love black men and they are very beautiful. They are a bit conservative so its not a hook up place but you can have a great relationship with a beautiful woman there. Costa Rica is another country that the women are attracted to black men. Australia is another country that you will find beautiful women that will treat you with love and respect. If you were a younger man you could even meet a beautiful Korean girl but i don't think they're interested in older guys like us. As far as religion goes my wife likes to go to church on Sunday, she's catholic and one hour a week that makes her happy is a small comprise you might want to consider. My first wife was jehovah witness and after that I didn't want to hear about religion either, but I'm
Happy to take my new wife to church once a week its fine because she doesn't ask for much. The love and respect I enjoy with this woman is incredible.
We've been together for 5 years and its still awesome !!!
10:00 minutes of the video: Isn't it ironic that western women are known around the world as the worst wife material but western men are thought to be the best husbands.
Because they think western men are flushed with money. Money is also relative. Thousand dollars is lot of money in asia. See how they treat a poor western man.
Men are logical, men see into the future and have honor. Things women do not have.
Many western, feminist women are ending up alone, because they have inflated egos and care about no one but themselves.
As a 20 year Navy man who did more than a few West Pac tours, lived in Hawaii which had a large population of Filipina women who were, at least one time, married to sailors, I would caution against the outright belief that foreign women are better. Maybe you are "dating" them in their own country, you will get the royal treatment. I'm not saying they are bad. I'm saying that I've seen too many cases, especially with Filipino women, of them getting a taste of the American lifestyle, and all the attention that comes from Chad when they got their green card being hitched to a guy considerably less attractive, they are like children at Christmas. The divorce rate among sailors who married SE Asian girls was very high, and there were several places in Hawaii that were well known as WestPac widow hangouts for these girls. That all being said, it depends on who you marry. Not ever SE Asian girl is the same, it largely depends on their social circumstances. Now, Japanese women are night and day different from the Philippines. They are far more westernized, and they are particularly loyal. Don't mistake them for submissive though. If you are loyal to them, they'll be loyal to you. A girl over 25 in Japan who is not married usually believes herself headed for spinsterhood. Japanese women tend to want to have families and children. Again, there is no one size fits all for any ethnicity. I'm just stating what I've seen over the years, and from knowing many men, including close friends who were married to both. My friends with Japanese wives are still together. Every one of my friends who married a Filipino are divorced, and in many of those cases, the woman was stepping out.
To be fair, Sailors have the highest divorce rate of the military. Nobody wants to be with someone that is constantly away for weeks and months on end
I agree with you on Japanese wifes. I was married to one for 23 years. ( she passed away. ) I only date Japanese women who are born and raised in Japan. And I can say from experience that they make great wife's. Be good to them and they will treat you like a king. Old family values.
I think you're oblivious if you think Japanese womem are still what they were decades ago.
Japan's Women are increasingly being westernized, this shows in the amount of women having high ranking positions and how much women actually cheat there.
You're in a world of disappointment like I experienced if you think a lot of Japanese womem still hold these traditional values. A lot of them will definitely prioritize their career over you.
@@WasntYourFaultYouHaveToLetMeGo Perhaps Japanese women have grown through that worrisome stage of westernization and retained their femininity and values.
@@KirtCarson No, they didn't.
I am retired military. I have dated 24 nationalities in my 20 years in the military
and as I grew up in an military family. There are many ladies around the world
that are fantastic for marriage. Treat them like ladies and care for them and
they'll keep their man HAPPY. FAR better then the average American female.
I say female, because they don't act like ladies, especially after you marry them.
However, be careful with chinese ladies. They can be bossy after married. lol
Interesting. Are Koreans and Chinese similarly bossy? Is it an Asian phenomenon? How do Eastern Europeans and Latinas compare?
@@gistfilm Dude, Latinas are nice. They are much like the Asian women. They take care of their man. They can put up with a lot of stuff. But lately they are acting more like the White American women. If you want a Latina you have to go to the villages. That's where you will find the golden ones.
@@gistfilm Of all the Asians I've dated the Korean girls were the most bossy (but I'll admit they're damn cute). Chinese vary because they are the largest Asian race. My personal favs are Japanese (my wife is Japanese), Vietnamese, and Filipina; in that order.
All that time(not to mention MONEY) was WASTED, how do you feel, Colonel??!!??
@Great White Referring to his time WASTED dating women, Gomer Pyle.
This is terrible advice. I say this as someone who has a family with a foreign woman and is now in a relationship where if I left her, she could take my family to a foreign country and there's very little I can do. And not someone who's banging Asian prostitutes on the side.
We almost broke up a year back and she threw this in my face. Never marry out side of your own nationality.
I'm happily married to a Filipina and have no complaints. She's intelligent, hardworking, feminine and happy to fill the traditional roles of a woman. I will say that there are risks no matter what path you take. Take your time thinking through your decision and never go into a marriage with rose colored glasses. Leave that romantic love in the trash where it belongs and see marriage for what it is.
@EveryChevyChase typo lol
I hope your dumbass protected your assets regardless.
@@BadAssBlackOverlord I'm always protected
Omg, I once heard that one Filipino girl flew from Asia to USA just to clean her boyfriends house before he arrives xD
At the end of the day, keep it as a business transaction. When the lease is up then you trade.
This should be it's own episode from all the coaches.
@John Kevin we have to pass this knowledge to our fellow men and youngsters, I always make a point to spread this knowledge and I see it catching on.
I think our “throw away” society , has infected the dating/marriage scene here. If your toaster quits, you don’t try to fix it; you throw it out and get a new one. If the marriage isn’t satisfying, toss him out and go for the bigger, better deal. Been married twice and can’t say I came out on top. Neither of my wives made a lot out of the deal, but the courts and lawyers surely did well. In both cases, my wife fooled around on me...and both got custody with me paying child support.
Exact same w me bro,feel free to DM me brotha,were not alone,your not alone
As the saying goes, "The Girls Seem Better On The Otherside Of The World". That is until you bring them back here. Then they change to a regular American girl with an attitude. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
thats when you stay on the other side of the world so they won't change
@@JohnnyYeTaecanUktena
Naw. I like it here in the U.S.A. Living in her country under a Communist or Dictatorship government ain't worth it just to be with her.
Maybe those women just acted a certain way to hook a husband, and after the knot was tied, they went back to their own nature
The solution is simple: Find a place where the laws regarding relationships are sane and move there. Then find the girl and STAY THERE. As soon as you bring them home to any western democracy they get all kinds of powers over you. Stay there and you have a fair chance.
it is mostly in the USA Where this is the case.
In the EU its not like the woman gets over 50% of the Man's income.
it all depends on what Marriage clauses you have.
@@darknessblades The wedding vows are legally null and void from the start. Not only do they have no force, but society will tell her she owes it to herself to break them.
Pauline Hansen, MP in Australia, says that three men in Australia commit suicide every day because of the family law system driving them to suicide. The problem is not "mostly in the USA", it is all western democracies where feminists rule.
@@flingmonkey5494 then instead of a marriage you should do something like:
a "cohabitation contract"
This is technically similar to Marriage, but without the Harsh loopholes Feminist can abuse
Not true, this only apply to America. theres nothing like that in most country`s of EU...U.S is fucked up man move while you still have the chance lol
@@darknessblades that don`t matter in the U.S if you live with a women for over 2yrs, the state in america will take you like a married couple. thats why i say move while you can, that country and its law`s are so fucked up
On dating sites I not infrequently see: "I'm a strong, independent, successful woman." Bzzzzt. Those are fine traits, but let me discover them. And yes, you WILL be independent the rest of your life if that's the best bait you can offer.
This is the opposite profile from what makes for a functional relationship that lasts in 2020.
I've been traveling to SE for the past 12 or so years. I love dating them. I'm average looking, but its easy to score beautiful 18 to 25 year old ladies there. But you have to remember, they see you as a meal-ticket for not only themselves, but their whole family. You are their parents retirement plan. I will never get married, these lovely ladies are no exception. But in the relationships i have had and still maintain there, they treat me better than any of my American gf's ever did.
Yes sir, my experience also
@Great White You don't know what your talking about, dude. I don't go to the bars. Never have, never will. Not my scene.
Well she caters to you because she needs you , you want her femininity she wants her masculinity so don’t be surprised when you have to provide for her
@@lujainot5495 Of course, i don't mind providing for her at all. She is a traditional woman and provides me with what i want. Much better situation than with Western women who demand "equality," but also want the man to provide while they give him virtually nothing.
That retirement plan sounds nice! I'm only 33, but I think retiring outside the USA would be amazing. Looks like I gotta step up to make this a reality!
Thanks for the inspiration Joker!
yep their hypergamy for the western atm gets them real cooperative lol
I always get the”I’m fiercely loyal” line from woman. Yah, your “loyal” till you’re not. STANDARD
You can tell a woman is lying very easily - you can see the lips move.
That always goes back to the standard line of a women has a right to change her mind at any time. And she will at that moment when it benefits her most regardless of how you feel or how it affects you.
jonathan bacon they’re loyal to fulfilling their own needs and wants
Yeah i got that line too from my ex gf. Mind you she cheated on her ex husband. So i stated to her that she is not a loyal/trustworthy person if the cheated in the past. Her reaction was that she was immature then, but has since grown up. I needed to give her the benefit of a doubt.
Guess what happened... she cheated on me and hadn't the balls to confess.
I tell you this, like i told her: people dont change. They just get better at hiding their true selfs. Past behavior is a good indicator of future behavior. She couldnt fathom that i valued actions more over pretty words. Women use words to portray a fake persona of themselves while being something other than that. Women are loyal... to themselves/their own interests. All relationships come to an end eventually due to many factors. Cheating is one of them. Its only a matter of time. Never take women serious unless they say something that is threatening to your wellbeing or they let their guard down and let their mask slip, revealing their true identity.
Her cheating wasnt a surprise to me. I saw it coming from a mile away. Guess relationships arent my thing. Women demand too much time and can be a drain by all the games needed to be played in order to keep her interest. To me peace of mind is way more valuable than a woman's company.
You have something there. My wife came over to Canada at the age of 3 but had to translate everything for her parents. There's a respect that comes from being in that position with your parents.
I am a Filipino male.
I am supposed to marry a beautiful 4 feet 10 inch Filipina but she later changed her mind.
She told me to wait until the age of 30.
Later she suddenly went to Japan and married an old bald Japanese guy.
ONE month after they met.
She’s not worth it. Delete contact to her and don’t let her back to you again. Focus on finding high value filipina women. But first build your empire so can you built, titira ka nalang ng titira haha
A lot of Filipino men want to marry.
It is just that we have to compete with foreign men.
Married Filipino men are trusted and respected.
Unmarried Filipino men are not trusted and are seen as a scourge to society.
Unless you join the Catholic religious order. (I personally do not want to join a religious order because I can't marry).
Filipino girls are in demand internationally.
A 30 year old Filipina is petite enough to qualify as a teenage like spouse for a Foreign male.
Also, MOST foreign girls (especially Europeans) for Filipino's are trash.
The Filipina girl that I was supposed to marry was actually VERY KIND to the old Japanese man that he married.
I am still friends with the girl on Facebook.
She appears to be doing her best to become a good compassionate housewife.
@@melcarlo7023 I am actually middle class. I can afford Children if I can.
It's just that there are so many girls in the Philippines who want to marry a foreign guy.
High value Filipina women most likely know that they are too valuable.
Marriage market in the Philippines is actually very competitive.
So competitive to the point that there are so many Gays (bakla) in the Philippines.
Because these men want to become women.
You have been freed from a big problem. Good!
isshoni123 * Punta ka dito sa America minsan para mag hanap ng Filipina na mapang-asawa. 😅 Sa California, marami doon.
I remember in the Philippines how they all pretended to not care about money lol. They were all about money.
And yes they are nicer, yes they may check the phone less, yes they may cook, but that's only because they're smarter. With that said, yes you are higher value over there. Some of them will be happy for a non rich foreigner to stay and be poor with her.
Seriously, I’m an ABC. That’s American Born Chinese to you uninitiated. Be VERY careful of marrying girls from China without first doing your homework. I’m also a lawyer, so I’m not just saying this for yucks.
Can you offer more insight? I'm very curious.
I’m American, but I’ve spent more than a year in China, and I speak Mandarin. I’ve known a lot of Chinese girls. Some Chinese women are very good choices, while some are very bad choices. There’s a lot of variation.
A good one will have parents who don’t mind if their daughter moves away to live with her husband, and they won’t make any demands of their son-in-law. She also will be able to understand the huge cultural differences between East and West. And, she will be rather honest, generous, and fair in the marriage. She won’t have “one foot in the marriage, and one foot out”. She will have both feet in. She will be searching for a man she is genuinely compatible with. If that’s you, and if you find each other, then you will be happy together.
The worst type of Chinese woman will have demanding parents, who will either move in and live with you or live nearby and frequently visit with no notice. And, she will have a terrible misconception of what Western men are like. She thinks a Western husband will be just like her fantasy of a rich but obedient Chinese man. She will demand that her husband gives her all of his money or spends it on her, just like a weak Chinese man would (sadly, most Chinese men are this way). Moreover, she won’t be honest, and she will have many secrets.
Many Chinese men actually do tolerate wives who are the bad type of women that I described. Strangely, in Chinese culture, there’s little importance placed on what we consider a “good” marriage. Most of the marriages are heavily unbalanced in the wife’s favor (the one drawback being that she will never feel any sexual passion for her husband). The men don’t know how to handle their women any better, so they just accept this fate. Western culture, however, is quite different. So, for a Western man to find himself in this type of marriage, it really is a living hell.
@@30803080308030803081 Thanks for this insight.
ABC here. Yeah, it’s cheaper to marry for green card vs. buying a fake marriage for the green card. Last I heard the going rate was $25k if both parties are already in the US.
Firstly, you are asian and though you regarded yourself as westerner, most Chinese people don't think so and will only feel weird that you don't into Chinese culture. Don't expect you will be treated like white people in China. Secondly, As China is getting richer and women statue have keep improving, the green card is less valued as before, because Chinese have more choice in marriage and as you see people's mind have changed. Marriage is not as important as before, many people enjoy being single. If you want to find a wife in China, you should give up the mind that you are superior because you're not. If you want to find a submissive wife, you can try to find one in rural or less developed area in China but you should expect ill-mannerd and close-minded. If you still can't, you can find one in SEA, which will be much easier as I have heard, many Chinese man who can't find wives went to SEA to find wives.
I was married to a Filipina. When she came to this country (i got her a visa), she immediately sought out other expats as friends. It didnt take long for her to put them first. Lots of arguments over that. All her friends spent more time with each other than with their spouses. None wore wedding rings publicly. All of them were more commited to their social groups and their blood family. Always hitting husbands up for more money to send home.
During the last year and a half, her temper got worse, she got meanier and more disrectful, and refused marriage counseling claiming cultural opposition. She criticized me, belittled me, told me I was "weak", and withdrew more.
I wont do it again. American women are more communicative and willing to get intervention when problems arise.
Sorry to hear that. Your story is just more evidence that "bad women" exist in every culture. Men should not rely upon a woman's citizenship when determining whether or not she will make a good wife. Women often take after their mothers, so that would be a more reliable indicator.
So what ended up happening in the divorce? Is she still able to live in the US? I heard you have to stay married for 3-5 years to get citizenship.
@@ScotchTapeMafia shes already a citizen. We were married about 9 years
No disrespect, but is there a chance that your wife worked in places like Angeles City before, that the age gap was very high or that she was a single mother from a broken family already?
I myself married a Filipina (province girl) and she's the best wife, friend and mother I could have imagined. The age gap is only 4 years and since the beginning of our relationship we have always tried to spend our free time together and to find new hobbies we enjoy both like cooking, gardening, hiking, marterial arts, ball games, (no pun intended) ... and so on.
I once had a colleague who married a Thai girl, though. He met her in Pattaya where she worked as a hooker because her boyfriend abandoned her after she got pregnant and because she's very beautiful she wasn't interested in an exhausting job. During his time in Thailand he described her as caring, a lot of fun to be around and a great girlfriend. But once she arrived in his home and became pregnant she got worse and worse everyday. Eventually she left him and the baby and returned to Pattaya because she didn't like the boring life in a Western village. Now she's partying everyday while selling her body to pay for it once again.
My colleague on the other hand was overwhelmed with having to work, take care of his home and of an infant baby so that he he had to give the baby to adoption because he lost his job in the end.
@@JackoBanon1 not at all. She was not from that part of the country. No kids, no broken family. But she was the main provider for awhile and perhaps her lack of social time and all her responsibilities made her feel like she was missing out and she needed to make up for lost leisure/recreation time?.
Your wrong about the south east females like older men. Just say this to a flippino girl "would you date a 60 year old male flippino?" The answer is always no. It's very uncommon for a 21 year old girl with a 60 year old flippino. It has to do everything about money, but it's more like they can provide for their family getting a foreigner
I hear there are great prices on “singles cruises” in SE Asia at the moment
My Name you’re a funny man
Guys in Japan,cheating is something "normal" for the women there as long as the husband doesn't find out!!! So your japanese gf will cheat on you in the long run but does the ultimate best to hide it from you...Women in all places of earth are the same.What changes is their cultural roots and their behavior towards you as a Male,which behavior comes from the way they raised and their culture... So in Japan you are supposed to be the ultimate provider and she is supposed to quit everything and raise your kids for you,but she will cheat on you if she can hide it...Cuz they think cheating is something to vent off air and pressure from the marriage.... See the bs ?!
Porn Hub stories of CHEATING Japanese Wives are Correct then? 🤔
@@coiledsteel8344 cheating is "okay" if kept secret it goes both ways as well.
If you leave your partner and break up your family that's a big big no no in japan.
See it as this. In the west if you don't "cheat" but end a relationship and split up your family and destroy your ex's life to run away with some random other person as long as you didn't "cheat" that's not that bad.
It's the other way around, sure sleep around don't make it obvious but do not fuck your family over.
I don't know which I prefer. But it's five or take.
My ex Japanese girlfriend said if you’re not married it’s not cheating. She’s married with 2 kids now. We still talk on Facebook. She put on so much weight. Lol
There’s cheating everywhere but it is hardly a more prominent feature of Japanese society.
My wife is asian. I wasnt necessarily looking for an asian. But she is awesome. Been very happily married for 7 years. Together for 9. We've built quite the life together. She isnt superficial. We just save money and invest. We are both very blessed and fortunate to have one another.
To each his own, but I know I'm never marrying anyone.
I retired by 55 and moved to the Philippines. Dated around and had a blast before finding the right gal and got married to a beautiful filipina 31 years younger than myself. We had our first child and it's awesome, glad I waited to get married and have kids. Your right about living here, its cheap. I built my home here on a beach front property at the cost of $40K USD.
Don't waste your time looking for foreign women in the United states as I did. they become to familiar with our culture and are not much different than your typical American woman. Now that I'm here a lot of my friends are jumping on board with me and coming to Philippines.
if you come to the philippines you will feel like a rockstar. Woman will constantly be looking at you and ask you if they can take a picture with you. It's so refreshing being in a country where the women act like women.
Yeah, they are untouched by feminism, that's the difference. I've heard the same thing about Eastern Europe.
I am 61, my Filipina wife is an RN, 32. She gets upset if I try to help with housework, likes me to open her car door for her. Life is good
@@drsethsr You are so lucky sir
wait until you meet Canadian women. They are 100x more feminists than american women. I lived in both countries. Trust me.
I totally agree. There is a reason why the birth rate is so low in Canada and much of it is the fault of the feminist women. In Canada they forgot how to be women. Many have become men with tits.
Facts
Life Lesson #7: When you write/say ‘Trust me.’ to try to bolster your credibility, you immediately negate your comments. Trust me!!
Speaking as a Canadian, Matt is not wrong: Canadian women see growing up as a tomboy as a badge of praise; furthermore there are some, whom I have had the unfortunate gall of knowing that reject the habit of their sex, and proud of it.
I speak of my generation, and as Lawrence has said, they have both forgotten how to be women, and prefer masculine clothing and mannerism to the point that they are indeed men with tits; and yet these same women get wet over Alphas, despite the fact that they are not even remotely feminine: not in habit, nor in conversation.
MadV. Since you didn’t feel the need to write ‘Trust me’ and you stated ‘some’, your comments have merit. I agree that Matt is not wrong based presumably on his experiences, but he is not necessarily right either. In general, generalizations are incorrect. I haven’t met all American or Canadian women but if I had to guess, on average, one group is no worse than the other.
It doesn't matter where she's from because a good relationship could happen anywhere in the world.
Or a bad one. See other comments for validation.
I knew a few guys who had mail order brides and I always thought they were just desperate. Turns out they were smart.
I was working for dating agencies in SEA and before the outbreak as a dating coach in Japan.
The problem with most guys is that they jump on the first cute Girl that gives them some attention..
Also there is a very big difference between SE Asia and East Asia.
STOP DATING WOMAN WHO OBVIOUSLY JUST LIKE YOU COS YOU ARE WHITE.
Traditional Asian woman are bringing values you won't find anymore in modern Western woman, but stop going for girls you meet in bars, clubs or on tinder and don't start wasting money on her...
Dating culture in Asia isn't the same as in the west,
Gold diggers, vampires are everywhere and if you don't have the skill to find a good woman in your home country, don't even try it in Asia or you will regret it.
Asians will give you things a western woman can't give you, but they also have their own flaws...
You have to adapt to a completely different mentality and culture and many people can't do this, so be careful and use your brain
What are the differences between Southeast and Northeast Asian women?
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@Greg Pettis unique features like red or blonde hair, being taller on average, different mentality.
In most Asian countries, having pale/white skin is considered a beauty standard while dark skin is considered as dirty or a sign of poverty.
Many Asians also have this wrong mindset that all white people are rich and educated, due to Hollywood movies some also tend to believe that most white guys look like Brat pitt and are romantic.
@@M.J.-Diaz what would be your main piece of advice for japan ?
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The main piece of advice is definitely to learn about the culture and to learn a bit of the language beforehand, most woman in Japan are concerned about the language barrier and the cultural differences when it comes to dating foreigners.
Not sure if you are searching for a hook up or a serious relationship, but overall I can give you some other advises as well.
BE AGGRESSIVE, it’s totally fine to tell a woman right away that you like her or that you are attracted to her, don’t play around and be confident,
Japanese men are way to shy and passive...
That’s where you should stand out!
It’s actually ok to talk to random woman on the street, coffee shops or while shopping, but you should avoid woman who are waiting somewhere in line or who look busy.
Also don’t be to touchy, the Japanese are not used to much physical attention, especially not in public.
Some Japanese also complain about how bad western men smell, I don’t why but many men use way to much deodorant or cologne, maybe just use a bit of perfume.
Over there people are also very fashionable, so you shouldn’t run around like a typical American or Australian tourist if you know what I mean xD.
Be careful with online dating, tinder etc. it’s not very popular in Japan and those woman who use it are often gaijin hunters or woman who want to get free “English lessons”
If you search for a destination,
People in Tourist areas, bigger cities and areas with a foreign military presence are more used to foreigners and are way more open minded towards dating them.
A bit more than you were asking for but I hope this was helpful for you mate :)
I worked for a medical imaging company as a service engineer (not actually engineering in the denotative sense) and had a co-worker who had married a g
Lady from Thailand. She was awesome over there, but once she got to the states she completely changed. Long story short - she was a monster.
I've heard similar stories from other guys. Yeeesh
I live in Japan, and see the wreckage of mistaken cultural clues. Both sides can initially "catch" what seems like a great person, but very often over time it does not end well. You see the faults in your own culture, and miss the red flags in people from other cultures. ANYBODY can be super-nice for 30 days, and marrying for the image you have of a stereotype is not a good idea.
"American women are great, because they're ok with having a job after getting married" is what I've heard from Japanese men, and YOU KNOW there's a lot of signals that guy is missing. Particularly the "subservient" Japanese woman is a joke - they can be much more controlling (after the first child is born) than many American women.