It's been a while now since I subscribed to your channel and I've just never seen a perfect and inspiring advisor like you JessicaOs, and i don't think I'll find another one. You truly have been a life changing mentor and I've learned a lot from you Jessica. Thanks a lot. ❤
Your intuition is 99% right. Don't gamble with your instincts. Be firm with your standards and authenticity, but don't be rude. If you're not comfortable with a particular development, don't entertain it. You may end up being a simp, hence losing your self-respect. Walk away and keep working on your well-being. You will surely meet someone who best suits your values.
*Pay attention to patterns - if her interest fades when you stop giving her what she wants materially or emotionally, it’s a sign she might be more focused on the benefits than the connection.*
Everything that Jessica said it's true, I've been through this for 10 years straight. Just because i wanted to build a family and she wanted a helping ✋ hand. She left me because i lost my job and she started working.😢 It's crazy how many of us guys are still going through this because we scared to be alone or scared that people will laugh at you that you single.. so we hold on so that family, friends and people around can think we are really doing so great but deep down inside your heart and mindset you really falling apart😢 The way i see relationships nowadays it's that people need help not Real Love❤Love is free and it comes natural and the rest it's a lie..😢
Jessica, you just said exactly my ordeal without missing a word. I hoped that I would win someday. You saved me many months ago after watching your video I bumped into. I've cut her off. She doesn't get it now. Now she's trying to send me texts now and then.
Is important for one to listen to Jessica every night before sleeping more when is quiet and learn the realities of life and if possible connect to a speaker/bluetooth. This isn’t just about relationships but in our everyday lives. It feels like she’s talking to me whenever I listen to her and she relieves me from a relationship I thought would last forever when I listened the video about sipping. After implementing the highlights she gave in that video I realized the person I was dating as the person responded exactly as she describes, so I went and watched the video again. Now I have just seen how I was manipulated and used because of love and too much caring through this video. I see a lot of guys going through the same thing over and again. When asked sometimes I direct them to follow Jessica on UA-cam. As many may not understand but it’s hurt to love someone and not being loved in return. Thank you Jessica I bless that day I came across your channel on UA-cam and God may bless you.
Totally agree on all points I've been through the same experience & had to divorce, now cutting losses & starting over can be challenging at times but God is Great so I won't complain, moving on was the best thing I did thank God💯💯💯🕊Can't come between me & my peace of mind now❤️🔥🕊
Thank you so much for Jessica,I was in that kind of a relationship.we dated for four years and suddenly change and start to use me,she only wanted things for herself.and she had another man who impregnated and refused the pregnancy,as I told her before that what goes around comes around.now am happy with someone who appreciates me.
This video brings back a lot of flashbacks 😅 great video ms but don't worry guys, you learn not to be so genuinely interested in a female you find attractive. One foot in and one foot out
I just wanted to thank you so much. This person who I fell in love with was using me for the money. Wow this hurts bad. You helped me identify this. You are amazing. Again thank you so much.
Very insightful from the esteemed relationship advocate, this is quite commendable and recommendable. Although, some men are equally like that. I ❤ this.
For someone I know, sign 6 was the nail in the coffin, when the girl decided to go clubbing with her friends and not being in the wake of my friend's parent. Broke up after that.
Hard to say but this was me just recentlly,put in 100+% many a time,the worst thing is I new what she was doing but I was in denial as I loved this woman very much.Thank goodness it has finally ended and I am no longer interacting with this person.
My woman was the sales manager at our company so she ran all the finances and knew how much each rep made. She stood by me even when I owed our CEO $700 and she knew this as she ran the commission sheets and knew how much each rep made. So basically she was my woman not only when I had nothing, but when I had negative -$700.
This describes a relationship I was in… each contact was almost always about a problem she had or something she wanted me to do for her.. if I declined, she would go cold.. I learnt to leave her alone n she would shamelessly still return when she needed the next help😂
Lol was in this situation this week .where the woman wanted me to give her money to get herself a cellphone she paid only 50rand an i had to give her two hundred an fifty .i didn't reply to her text that day an when i saw her on that day i asked her whose gonna be using that phone.then she said okay no problem etc .next day i got a texted saying this is boring i cant do this anymore 😂 well i was like just because i didn't give you money for the phone ...i played its cool an told her with all due respect you can leave i don't mind ...my people keep in mind ive only known her for 2 n ahalf weeks 😅 i told her no prob u can go .why must i spend on something im not gonna use ..was i wrong or right please tell me.
@demetriusjames9535 yes bro thank you so much for that . I felt disrespected in that case I can't let a person I just met just demend n feel in titled to what I worked so hard for ,n she just comes so easily n jst demend just like that
I have been in this situation before and I regret every single day I was so foolish I wasn’t able to realize she was using me my stupid self thinking I was good enough
Thank you for this video😭 this is exactly how my relationship was!!!! I regret meeting this person, before her I was doing well financially but now I cannot tell what I was working for💔 this year alone I spent more than 21k😭😭 sometimes I feel like I can just kill her and move on with my life,
Not gonna lie everything Jessica said is exactly how I got played and toyed with to the letter. The only thing u can do is forgive yourself for being a fool. Never again though, trust for anybody is gone. Women have no value.
Well said Jessica,i dumped my hot n cold "girlfriend" after one year off and on.Walk away and save your sanity and piece of mind...have some self respect.Enough is enough it was never enough what ever i did
So my ex always blames her depression on why she’s distant and the fact that I don’t have anybody so she doesn’t want to be a burden but i haven’t talked to her in a month, she hasn’t answered my text or calls but when she does contact me she usually does need help as of late. The last few times we talked she didn’t ask for anything she was checking on me but before those last few times I did give her money. Do you all think she’s using me? Or am I trippin? I mean she truly is in a bad place right now I know for an absolutely fact but why doesn’t she respond to me?
Bro to Bro Let her go. Move on and don't let her come near your life. Set that boundary and enjoy yr life......She's definitely using you and knows you'll allow it
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Thanks so much. I really enjoyed your motivational speech
It's been a while now since I subscribed to your channel and I've just never seen a perfect and inspiring advisor like you JessicaOs, and i don't think I'll find another one. You truly have been a life changing mentor and I've learned a lot from you Jessica. Thanks a lot. ❤
Your intuition is 99% right. Don't gamble with your instincts. Be firm with your standards and authenticity, but don't be rude. If you're not comfortable with a particular development, don't entertain it. You may end up being a simp, hence losing your self-respect. Walk away and keep working on your well-being. You will surely meet someone who best suits your values.
@@francisgkmamuzu5048 excellent 👌
Best comment…
I wonder how jessica is always correct and straightforward , greatly appreciate your effort and advice.
@@franktheu3684 women understand women.
It’s not only relationships that emotional manipulation is used. Family, work place, and church can be added to list as well!
*Pay attention to patterns - if her interest fades when you stop giving her what she wants materially or emotionally, it’s a sign she might be more focused on the benefits than the connection.*
Everything that Jessica said it's true, I've been through this for 10 years straight. Just because i wanted to build a family and she wanted a helping ✋ hand. She left me because i lost my job and she started working.😢 It's crazy how many of us guys are still going through this because we scared to be alone or scared that people will laugh at you that you single.. so we hold on so that family, friends and people around can think we are really doing so great but deep down inside your heart and mindset you really falling apart😢 The way i see relationships nowadays it's that people need help not Real Love❤Love is free and it comes natural and the rest it's a lie..😢
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Imagine if you know this 10 years ago
God bless you
@@davidagbeko5234 Love it's a risk that will all willing to take & I took it! I'm really Happy though, free from the next person 😀
@@everjustlinx Thanks brother! I'm very strong and I'm moving forward.. 💪
Chairwoman of relationships .. 🙏🏽🙌🏾. 🐐
The brotherhood must employ u
I wish I had seen this back in March. But that's fine, it's never to late to learn. You just described my ex.
You are already free of her, at least. Lesson learned!
@demetriusjames9535 is it weird that I miss her?
@@Ayrton866 No, u loved her, next time try not to love first o too deep... Understand that they might not be there for you like you think
@@PeterSanyang thanks man.
Jessica.... You are TOTALLY on point with this one!!! Awesome!!! 🤗🤗🤗
Jessica, you just said exactly my ordeal without missing a word. I hoped that I would win someday. You saved me many months ago after watching your video I bumped into. I've cut her off. She doesn't get it now. Now she's trying to send me texts now and then.
How can I like this video more than once?? This is solid advice and truth.
Is important for one to listen to Jessica every night before sleeping more when is quiet and learn the realities of life and if possible connect to a speaker/bluetooth. This isn’t just about relationships but in our everyday lives.
It feels like she’s talking to me whenever I listen to her and she relieves me from a relationship I thought would last forever when I listened the video about sipping. After implementing the highlights she gave in that video I realized the person I was dating as the person responded exactly as she describes, so I went and watched the video again.
Now I have just seen how I was manipulated and used because of love and too much caring through this video.
I see a lot of guys going through the same thing over and again. When asked sometimes I direct them to follow Jessica on UA-cam.
As many may not understand but it’s hurt to love someone and not being loved in return.
Thank you Jessica
I bless that day I came across your channel on UA-cam and God may bless you.
If you despise all this point Jessica just made you will learn the hard way
Boom
I'm here again, Jess. You never miss.
I love the way you put so much passion into teaching this topic.
Looks like I'm right before a counselor for a serious advice 😊
Koddos Jessi ❤
Great insights! It's obvious to see the difference, actually, but we often choose to deny it 👍👍👍
Keep spitting facts
Jessica always spilling the Tea . Exposing women secret 😊.. you are doing a great Job Jessica. I look forward to to you one one session
Thanks for watching!
You have opened my eyes and thank you so much for this information. From 🇿🇦
Thanks to you Jessica you put more light up into my thoughts.
Thank you for the love you have for men, all Men love you more for effort you put in ❤🥀💋
I'm happy to help! 😊
Nice one Jessica 💪🏾💪🏾😃😃🙏🏾🙏🏾😎😎🫡👏🏾😈😈😀🙏🏾✊🏾✊🏾💪🏾🤞🏾☺️☺️😊😊
This woman is a guardian angel... thanks pretty for the motivation everything you saying is happening to guys in relationships 😢❤🏋️
You are so welcome
That is exactly how they behave
I just dumped one recently
Another great video
Thanks Jessica for this🎉
I call these the Salient 7
Amazing thoughts here
Thank you Jess for coming through for the broskis 👏🏾
This video is so accurate ,been there 3 times
God bless you Jessica continue the good works.
Nice advice Jessica God bless you ❤
I’ve never clicked so fast 💨
@@LoyceFitness me to bro and number one hit the spot🤦🏾♂️
@ sip some water my Gee
Thank you for sharing Jess
Always on point 👉. Thanks Jess
Totally agree on all points I've been through the same experience & had to divorce, now cutting losses & starting over can be challenging at times but God is Great so I won't complain, moving on was the best thing I did thank God💯💯💯🕊Can't come between me & my peace of mind now❤️🔥🕊
What said is just a life experience.
She call only when she is in need.
She always play victim.
Thanks so much Jesy
Thank you for educating me .
The worst thing is when she is not there for you when you lose a loved one, especially a parent.
Have you ever thought that the times are changing...
There isn't any room for relationships no more
The points are on point u have mastered it right
You have spoke nicely on that issue
Jess is the best ❤❤😂😂
Thank you so much for Jessica,I was in that kind of a relationship.we dated for four years and suddenly change and start to use me,she only wanted things for herself.and she had another man who impregnated and refused the pregnancy,as I told her before that what goes around comes around.now am happy with someone who appreciates me.
Once your relationship enters here, just forget about it.😂
If you are watching this video, just forget about your relationship 😂
😂😂😂😂 Honestly
This has been me for the last 5 months.....100% accurate. No matter what I do it's like it doesn't matter💔
This video brings back a lot of flashbacks 😅 great video ms but don't worry guys, you learn not to be so genuinely interested in a female you find attractive. One foot in and one foot out
I just wanted to thank you so much. This person who I fell in love with was using me for the money. Wow this hurts bad. You helped me identify this. You are amazing. Again thank you so much.
Thanks. What you said is excally what is happening to me. Thanks for opening my eye's to the truth
Gee ma'am you spoke the truth
Hahaha, and this is the closest have ever been to a blazing siren. Thanks Jessica.
Thank you for speaking to my situation.
U just brought out everything about my Ex. Telling me things her dad will do if he was alive.
"Let this sink in" - That was golden!!!
Truth is said men!
Very insightful from the esteemed relationship advocate, this is quite commendable and recommendable. Although, some men are equally like that. I ❤ this.
I haven’t viewed the video yet but already love it
Thnx so much coach❤
I love u Jessica,,I got my game in control all thanks to you my friend 🙏
For someone I know, sign 6 was the nail in the coffin, when the girl decided to go clubbing with her friends and not being in the wake of my friend's parent. Broke up after that.
Very true, Jessica.
6:40
She’ll make you pay collateral damages for other people’s actions 😂
Hard to say but this was me just recentlly,put in 100+% many a time,the worst thing is I new what she was doing but I was in denial as I loved this woman very much.Thank goodness it has finally ended and I am no longer interacting with this person.
My woman was the sales manager at our company so she ran all the finances and knew how much each rep made. She stood by me even when I owed our CEO $700 and she knew this as she ran the commission sheets and knew how much each rep made. So basically she was my woman not only when I had nothing, but when I had negative -$700.
This describes a relationship I was in… each contact was almost always about a problem she had or something she wanted me to do for her.. if I declined, she would go cold.. I learnt to leave her alone n she would shamelessly still return when she needed the next help😂
Thanks Jessica
Hello Madam Jess 🥰🥰
Thank's for Smart Narration💋💋
This is the best Informative information l have ever herd to date thank you Wished l came acrose it a long time ❤ thank you once again .'
Glad it was helpful!
She is a vampire..guy just make sure you feet are on your shoulder and run and never look back ...
A parasitic vampire
Lol was in this situation this week .where the woman wanted me to give her money to get herself a cellphone she paid only 50rand an i had to give her two hundred an fifty .i didn't reply to her text that day an when i saw her on that day i asked her whose gonna be using that phone.then she said okay no problem etc .next day i got a texted saying this is boring i cant do this anymore 😂 well i was like just because i didn't give you money for the phone ...i played its cool an told her with all due respect you can leave i don't mind ...my people keep in mind ive only known her for 2 n ahalf weeks 😅 i told her no prob u can go .why must i spend on something im not gonna use ..was i wrong or right please tell me.
You were ABSOLUTELY in the right! I am of the mindset that men do not give women money unless the woman is committed to the man.
@demetriusjames9535 yes bro thank you so much for that . I felt disrespected in that case I can't let a person I just met just demend n feel in titled to what I worked so hard for ,n she just comes so easily n jst demend just like that
I have been in this situation before and I regret every single day I was so foolish I wasn’t able to realize she was using me my stupid self thinking I was good enough
Thanks for imparting my love life 😊😊
I have someone she's everything Jessica said here
This hit me hard. I wish I had seen it when it all happened.
Thank you for this video😭 this is exactly how my relationship was!!!! I regret meeting this person, before her I was doing well financially but now I cannot tell what I was working for💔 this year alone I spent more than 21k😭😭 sometimes I feel like I can just kill her and move on with my life,
This is what I am experiencing now
Oh OMG Jessica i wish I knew this earlier😪😭.
We using each orther
Word! 👏🏾
Thank you
God you are an angel sent from heaven... I truly really mean it Ma'am. THANK YOU
Not gonna lie everything Jessica said is exactly how I got played and toyed with to the letter. The only thing u can do is forgive yourself for being a fool. Never again though, trust for anybody is gone. Women have no value.
It's right all the way
This one deserves a monthly salary from brotherhood
Thanks very much
Well said Jessica,i dumped my hot n cold "girlfriend" after one year off and on.Walk away and save your sanity and piece of mind...have some self respect.Enough is enough it was never enough what ever i did
You are doing well my darling 😊
Thank u ma
Thank you too
Shalom my divine sister
what i'm going through right now.thanks
First viwer ❤❤❤
Being too nice is not good for a woman
This ☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾💯💯💯💯💯
Today she come with shopping and claimed that the girls bought for her.
Thank you Jessica God bless you so much I need to hear this this what have been thinking about since morning thank you so much
I’m in the mess right now 😔 and I don’t know what to do
classical Jessica
Perfect 🙏❤️
So my ex always blames her depression on why she’s distant and the fact that I don’t have anybody so she doesn’t want to be a burden but i haven’t talked to her in a month, she hasn’t answered my text or calls but when she does contact me she usually does need help as of late. The last few times we talked she didn’t ask for anything she was checking on me but before those last few times I did give her money. Do you all think she’s using me? Or am I trippin? I mean she truly is in a bad place right now I know for an absolutely fact but why doesn’t she respond to me?
Bro to Bro
Let her go. Move on and don't let her come near your life. Set that boundary and enjoy yr life......She's definitely using you and knows you'll allow it
It is so difficult to loose her
First sign. She is female. Second sign. She is trying to approach you. We are all tired. Go date a robot and leave us alone
AMEN I JUST LEARNED THE HARD WAY!!💔🤕
What I am going through now.😢