They don’t try or force it well or for long so you won’t need to worry about it. Men you messed up by complaining, and being weak , and not taking complete responsibility for everything.
I found myself in this situation, 3 years into the relationship, my girlfriend has a lot of these signs, however when I spoke about them she started working on it, I was emotionally checking out, and than she starts doing the things I wanted her to do, not sure if she's working on herself or breadcrumbing me, she is thoughtful I give her that. when we dated she never displayed any detachment that I could notice, after 2 years of dating we got engaged and the hugging, the interest the communication started to decline quickly, if I bought it up it became a issue, after I started detaching she started " working on herself " she gives short answers as you describe so I can't get a read, and avoids lon conversations
Mrs Jessica OS throughout last year till now its been painful for me to say that love is just a word , it's a shame that it won't be restored to its era it once was. I guess men would have to accept marriage is a word as well as looking at the view of the most inspirational celebrities that we're stabbed in the heart (non physical): Tyrese Gibson , Will Smith and the man who created love itself and still today a legend Steve Harvey. The view frankly shows itself on the wall, it's worth it to date nor to marry because the same answers apply breakup and divorce by saying that each of those aspects gets third partied or the woman may not be satisfied it goes both ways Your videos are inspiring on God please keep going and never listen to the unnecessary negativity from the women who are against you on God
So what if he has associates he never claims these women but has a family with you and just found out that one of friends associates is married to him is that a perfect reason to not have interest in him
If it's a friend that you communicate with from way back every now and again keep it. If it's a girl your interested in and communication is dead, dump it.
Kinda make sense. Need an advice, I av a fiancee that we live togther, she got like 4 sim cards. One of it i dnt av cos she barely use it bt recently i av seen her chats and got to see tht she texted this guy the number( barely used) and its the same guy we been avin issues with in the past yet she tells me she had already cut him off. And when you tell her about it, she gets mad and sees tht your over lookin over her life. She says she loves me and she has never cheated on me since we meet bt why s she still flirting wth this guy untill she s givin him the other number so tht they can communicate when not around her. Cause whenever she is at home she doesn't pickup calls frm other dudes unless its family. Plus there is a co-worker that want to sleep with her fo fun yet she told him she s not interested in him. Yesterday the co-worker called and she picked up talkin about work related then later when we arent togther the guy called her like 3times and they talked bt when she came home tht evening the guy kept callin her like 5times and the girl didnt want t pick up yet when i ask her she says he s disturbing her and she has nothing to say t him...the work issues were done at work already. So Am confused, need help😢
Hey Jessy pls help me out: I got a girl tht I love so much and b4 I started courting her, I never knew staying she was staying with a guy bc she told me she lived with her sis. The guy & her aren't married, they jst moved in together, I knew the truth wen I used to visit her at her home and I'd find men stuff, till she reached a point n told me the truth, I forgave her for the lying to me for 4 mnth, n we jst moved on with the rltship regardless of me knowing the truth. Later she found a new job and she's bn flirting with her workmate a lot n I knew tht wen I took her phone to share sth then I saw the texts, bt she keeps on saying he's jst a fren, wat should I do...bc later I came n found out tht she still flirts with guys she's gone one night stands with😢
Personally some of the six signs i literally went through...she always keeps telling me that she's not ready for the physical intimacy and she keeps looking at her phone whenever we meet or when we go to a movie...she doesn't reply to my msg or talk with me properly....and this is happening after our engagement ceremony... she's my fiance n im totally broken don't know what to do😢💔
I been there. She don’t love you genuinely my G. Just. a matter of time ‘fore she breaks up with you. Be the man, walk away and find someone that appreciates you and gets excited to see you. Girls are cutthroat.
I married someone that did not love me. After 9 years she found an excuse and lies to run back to her parent's house who supported her decision, especially the mother. I divorced her after she refused to return since we have no kids. The signs were: initially she pretended to be loving, kind and a decent person. Later she became rude, disrespectful, arrogant and always tried to belittle me. She started keeping secrets from me while always checking my phone. Always over react or always bringing up the past. Started avoiding intimacy. Always making comparisons with others and addicted to social media. Cared more about pleasing her mother and sisters than her husband. Became dishonest and showed no empathy even when I had a minor accident or was sick. Was hardly happy when I achieved something, or would pretend to be happy. Finally, the person became envious of my achievements and tried to tarnish my image. People say she is a narcissist but I realised that there was no love. Love cannot be faked. Hope people can learn from my experience.
Makes alot of sense. A lady answers texts after 3 days but is very aggressively communicative when she asks for money & that's $1,000 for her expenses which I found very odd after just one week of dating
I was living with my ex and she basically took care of me and when we broke up she told me we could be roomates. The kicker, she hid me from her entire personal life, had to leave the house when her parents came in town or be quiet when she would speak to her brother. She full on told me she was embarrassed of me but continues to deal with me on and off becuse of the obvious... she doesnt genuinely love me. She love bombed me and i felt like she was when we first met. She let me stay with her for about a year and in all of that, we stopped being intimate mainly because she saw that i told a female friend that i was bored with our s*x life and i felt she was being unfaithful. She dropped hints about a few exes but refused to talk about them, then she threw it in my face 1 day that she never had to help a man she dated and all of her exes were better partners. Although weve had moments of sheer toxicity... like all the crazy things ive said and done in retaliation. I thought i was tripping at first but im realizing, im not. So i was being hidden from her real life to the point where she was irritated that her coworkers heard me in the bg during a wrap up session on zoom and i just thought it was weird because why do you feel so self-consciousness about our relationship when you made me feel so comfortable being in your home, your body, your love and support but its embarrassing to be known to be with me? But can invest thousands of dollars into my life and has done countless things to help me. She claimed it was because she felt used but if you think that, then why not cut me off? She told me she didnt have the heart to put me on the street but still acted as if she had feelings for me. Not to mention the countless men who would text her that she hasnt spoken to in "Years" then the constantly wanting to see my phone, wanting to control the narrative of what i was upset about when i vented to friends and family and then come to find out she talks so much shit abiut me in private or atleast when she thinks i cant see or hear. One time she flipped out because her dad was in town unexpected and forced me out of the door 2hrs before i had to go to work and was upset that i shook her fathers hand and told him i love his daughter. She was actually mad i did that. While living in her house, unprotected s*x, the "I love you", going out all the time together abd wanting to be booed up but in private it was a different story. She would get mad if i walked ahead of her in a store as if im not with her, its a taste of her own medicine.... she did not like that. She claims shes like this with everyone but has exes that hit her up til this day. Feels forced. Feels like my time and affection was bought abd when she was tired of me she threw me away and now im homeless. Great time. Smh.
The feelings mutual because I wanted to end it in 2014 but she refused, I don't care how she feels now because I feel the same way I just act better 😂 I'm almost there I'm going to be myself and honest this year
I doubt none of the guys here havent seen these signs before, we have seen some before and are very aware of the consequences but we think our story will change but it will end up being what we anticipated. If u dont go through it and get the lessons, u cant base on Jessica's experiences to work outright
Thank you for all this, I big big topic theses channels never speak of. Is the menopause in the female. My ex dumped me and gave me as the biggest reason. I have to say it can really change things in a relationship. Oh and being a Dismissive Avoidant.
From a brother to a sister….Thank you Jessica for the clarity I’ve been wanting for the longest time. “Can’t fake connection” hit home for me. Appreciate you!
also iam one person who is careless with my phone but my girlfriend can never leave her phone near me she never let me touch her phone, am sure she is cheating she can't admit unless I have evidence to back it up she knows my weakness which is hard for me to break up with her.
hi jessy I love your work you really help alot,at the moment am going through the same exact thing in my relationship cheated on me like 5 time I had asked her she told me that she was dating the other guy behind my back because he has more money than me and that he has a bigger dick,in my life I have dated like 11 ladies am now 30yrs no one among them has ever told me that what can I do
Bro I’d advise you move on. She’s for the street and trying to make you feel less of yourself. She’s been telling she’s not into you anymore for a long time, you don’t just wanna accept it. There are alot of ladies out there bro. Meeet other ladies and have fun.
You have really made me understand women. This has also helped me to stop wasting my resources. ❤
They don’t try or force it well or for long so you won’t need to worry about it. Men you messed up by complaining, and being weak , and not taking complete responsibility for everything.
😂😂😂😂😂it's the "Half hearted Congratulations" for me😂😂😂😂😂😂
Hello can we become friends of long distance relationship
Iam single
If a girl doesn't like you even you handshake hurts
I totally agree.
Wow that's tough
Why do I feel she's using my life as a case study? 😅 😅 😅
Haha you're so funny 😂
I know right
👌🏾👌🏾
Same question I ask myself 🤣
Hi Jessica, these are factual deepest truth.
Continue to enlighten us with truth.
I found myself in this situation, 3 years into the relationship, my girlfriend has a lot of these signs, however when I spoke about them she started working on it, I was emotionally checking out, and than she starts doing the things I wanted her to do, not sure if she's working on herself or breadcrumbing me, she is thoughtful I give her that. when we dated she never displayed any detachment that I could notice, after 2 years of dating we got engaged and the hugging, the interest the communication started to decline quickly, if I bought it up it became a issue, after I started detaching she started " working on herself " she gives short answers as you describe so I can't get a read, and avoids lon conversations
If you’re here, you are already in trouble 😂😂
😢
Mad teng
😂😂😂
Don't take it as trouble, take it as an opportunity to move on.
@@fitstar7541 there’s two face to any coin, and no face is right or wrong . 😄
Her voice alone sounds like it has a net worth of 260.5 Billion
I watch this video not for doubts but pure curiosity
Thanks my ebony angel,you've got everything covered, fascinating video as usual💯👍
Great content thank you
All these signs are also in a man whose not in love with you💯
Exactly exactly very true 👌🏾👌🏾
Great insight and just plain TRUTH!!!!!!!!!!😂💪🏾✌🏾
This is all true, but very bitter.
This is Thought provoking
Thank you. This was really helpful. You cleared so many doubts
Like when you send a text or a clip she might like and she doesn’t reply. Says she doesn’t know how to respond. Should be easy if you are invested
Great video truly helpful. Especially that part about something that's been bothering for awhile.
Sad that her feelings for you can, and probably will, change over time. She will seek validation from another opportunistic source.
When she tells you the honey moon faze of the relationship is over
Jessica Os, where have you been all my life.? 🙌 thank you. SUBSCRIBED
Thanks for subbing!
Thanks Jess ❤️
You are very dead on. I just need to know my worth take that big step and let go
Me: reading more comments to get more perspective.
Girls of nowadays are so confusing 😂😂
Mrs Jessica OS throughout last year till now its been painful for me to say that love is just a word , it's a shame that it won't be restored to its era it once was. I guess men would have to accept marriage is a word as well as looking at the view of the most inspirational celebrities that we're stabbed in the heart (non physical): Tyrese Gibson , Will Smith and the man who created love itself and still today a legend Steve Harvey. The view frankly shows itself on the wall, it's worth it to date nor to marry because the same answers apply breakup and divorce by saying that each of those aspects gets third partied or the woman may not be satisfied it goes both ways
Your videos are inspiring on God please keep going and never listen to the unnecessary negativity from the women who are against you on God
Jessica Thank You For All Of Your Brilliant Work in These Videos . I have learned alot especially with this one . Merry Christmas.
Wow, this has alot to digest in
90% of these make me get emotional and cry hard 😢
Experience tell thanks for the info have a merry Christmas I love u and your programs💤🌈⭐🖤🌻🤰
😂😂😂 this is definitely gonna make guys reconsider going into relationship
Learning so much from you !!!!
thanks Jessica
Merry Christmas baby Jess 🎉🎉🎉
Thank you 🙏🏾
Me looking for that comment that highlights all those signs already and haven't seen any😢😢
So what if he has associates he never claims these women but has a family with you and just found out that one of friends associates is married to him is that a perfect reason to not have interest in him
............and then she told me that she didn't like me anymore and we should end this.
It make sense now
Is this what's dating is like in Ghana?
Are you giving advice about being confident while wearing contacts or are those real? Simply asking?
Is it apt to delete and block a girl's number if there's nothing going on again between you two?
If it will bring you peace, then there's nothing wrong
If it's a friend that you communicate with from way back every now and again keep it. If it's a girl your interested in and communication is dead, dump it.
Lol
Jess in your opinion where does a person who wants to get knowledge about voice over business go, I'm in Ghana
Kinda make sense. Need an advice, I av a fiancee that we live togther, she got like 4 sim cards. One of it i dnt av cos she barely use it bt recently i av seen her chats and got to see tht she texted this guy the number( barely used) and its the same guy we been avin issues with in the past yet she tells me she had already cut him off. And when you tell her about it, she gets mad and sees tht your over lookin over her life. She says she loves me and she has never cheated on me since we meet bt why s she still flirting wth this guy untill she s givin him the other number so tht they can communicate when not around her. Cause whenever she is at home she doesn't pickup calls frm other dudes unless its family. Plus there is a co-worker that want to sleep with her fo fun yet she told him she s not interested in him. Yesterday the co-worker called and she picked up talkin about work related then later when we arent togther the guy called her like 3times and they talked bt when she came home tht evening the guy kept callin her like 5times and the girl didnt want t pick up yet when i ask her she says he s disturbing her and she has nothing to say t him...the work issues were done at work already. So Am confused, need help😢
What kind help again ? You know very well... this thing won't go anywhere but you still dey der.
Hey Jessy pls help me out:
I got a girl tht I love so much and b4 I started courting her, I never knew staying she was staying with a guy bc she told me she lived with her sis. The guy & her aren't married, they jst moved in together, I knew the truth wen I used to visit her at her home and I'd find men stuff, till she reached a point n told me the truth, I forgave her for the lying to me for 4 mnth, n we jst moved on with the rltship regardless of me knowing the truth. Later she found a new job and she's bn flirting with her workmate a lot n I knew tht wen I took her phone to share sth then I saw the texts, bt she keeps on saying he's jst a fren, wat should I do...bc later I came n found out tht she still flirts with guys she's gone one night stands with😢
Ah chaley...
Does this advice go vice versa
Yes I love you very much,can I borrow 100 bucks 😅
👌🫶
It wouldn’t really matter if I’m in it just for the bearded meat.
If you’re broke and cheap, there’s no real reason for her to force herself to be with you. Learn the game fellas! 🫡
Yeah, the best relationships are the ones not forced👌🏼
Cheers for sharing!
Thank you so much Jessica. These lessons are really helpful.
Glad you like them!
There is never a boring moment listening to you, you are amazing 🇯🇲 .
Thank you
Your skin looks flawless ❤
Personally some of the six signs i literally went through...she always keeps telling me that she's not ready for the physical intimacy and she keeps looking at her phone whenever we meet or when we go to a movie...she doesn't reply to my msg or talk with me properly....and this is happening after our engagement ceremony... she's my fiance n im totally broken don't know what to do😢💔
I been there. She don’t love you genuinely my G. Just. a matter of time ‘fore she breaks up with you.
Be the man, walk away and find someone that appreciates you and gets excited to see you. Girls are cutthroat.
I married someone that did not love me. After 9 years she found an excuse and lies to run back to her parent's house who supported her decision, especially the mother. I divorced her after she refused to return since we have no kids. The signs were: initially she pretended to be loving, kind and a decent person. Later she became rude, disrespectful, arrogant and always tried to belittle me. She started keeping secrets from me while always checking my phone. Always over react or always bringing up the past. Started avoiding intimacy. Always making comparisons with others and addicted to social media. Cared more about pleasing her mother and sisters than her husband. Became dishonest and showed no empathy even when I had a minor accident or was sick. Was hardly happy when I achieved something, or would pretend to be happy. Finally, the person became envious of my achievements and tried to tarnish my image. People say she is a narcissist but I realised that there was no love. Love cannot be faked. Hope people can learn from my experience.
Makes alot of sense. A lady answers texts after 3 days but is very aggressively communicative when she asks for money & that's $1,000 for her expenses which I found very odd after just one week of dating
Hmmmm she is a gold digger lol🤔🤣🤣🤣🤣
Red flag
Run as fast as your legs can carry you bro 😂
My brother u have endured a lot. Sorry
And you gave her? Bro Run!
Hi I have some questions for how can I get in contact with you?
Will Smith should have watched this before tiding the knots with Jada Pinket. 😊
Hey Jessica THANK YOU for the wisdom your sharing
Jessica you keep killing it back to back. Blessings and good luck on you for this free information you share. Keep it up!
I was living with my ex and she basically took care of me and when we broke up she told me we could be roomates. The kicker, she hid me from her entire personal life, had to leave the house when her parents came in town or be quiet when she would speak to her brother. She full on told me she was embarrassed of me but continues to deal with me on and off becuse of the obvious... she doesnt genuinely love me. She love bombed me and i felt like she was when we first met. She let me stay with her for about a year and in all of that, we stopped being intimate mainly because she saw that i told a female friend that i was bored with our s*x life and i felt she was being unfaithful. She dropped hints about a few exes but refused to talk about them, then she threw it in my face 1 day that she never had to help a man she dated and all of her exes were better partners. Although weve had moments of sheer toxicity... like all the crazy things ive said and done in retaliation. I thought i was tripping at first but im realizing, im not. So i was being hidden from her real life to the point where she was irritated that her coworkers heard me in the bg during a wrap up session on zoom and i just thought it was weird because why do you feel so self-consciousness about our relationship when you made me feel so comfortable being in your home, your body, your love and support but its embarrassing to be known to be with me? But can invest thousands of dollars into my life and has done countless things to help me. She claimed it was because she felt used but if you think that, then why not cut me off? She told me she didnt have the heart to put me on the street but still acted as if she had feelings for me. Not to mention the countless men who would text her that she hasnt spoken to in "Years" then the constantly wanting to see my phone, wanting to control the narrative of what i was upset about when i vented to friends and family and then come to find out she talks so much shit abiut me in private or atleast when she thinks i cant see or hear. One time she flipped out because her dad was in town unexpected and forced me out of the door 2hrs before i had to go to work and was upset that i shook her fathers hand and told him i love his daughter. She was actually mad i did that. While living in her house, unprotected s*x, the "I love you", going out all the time together abd wanting to be booed up but in private it was a different story. She would get mad if i walked ahead of her in a store as if im not with her, its a taste of her own medicine.... she did not like that. She claims shes like this with everyone but has exes that hit her up til this day. Feels forced. Feels like my time and affection was bought abd when she was tired of me she threw me away and now im homeless. Great time. Smh.
Very true oooo some girl I was with she is now attached to another guy because he is the highest bidder
Thank you Jessica for another amazing content ❤❤
if she is a Narcissist she don't love you period
This signs are from my now ex gf thanks Jess wish i saw this earlier
The feelings mutual because I wanted to end it in 2014 but she refused, I don't care how she feels now because I feel the same way I just act better 😂 I'm almost there I'm going to be myself and honest this year
Nothing else than truth!
...........I have to say a big "No" to that lady stressing my life
Always amazed me how logical Jessica is with her breakdown of her thought process with these specific topics
I doubt none of the guys here havent seen these signs before, we have seen some before and are very aware of the consequences but we think our story will change but it will end up being what we anticipated. If u dont go through it and get the lessons, u cant base on Jessica's experiences to work outright
Thank you for all this, I big big topic theses channels never speak of. Is the menopause in the female. My ex dumped me and gave me as the biggest reason. I have to say it can really change things in a relationship. Oh and being a Dismissive Avoidant.
...........I have to say a big "No" to that lady stressing my life
It sounds like you are describing a narc
❤, so true. Most of signs can be the same if man is forcing himself to love a woman
Thank you so much for this light 🙏🙏🙏
You ma'am, always keep it real. Thank you
Great wisdom
Needed to hear this video for what I've been going through. Very insightful and to the point. Thanks Jessica!!!
Same with me....
Thanks for enlightenment ❤🇰🇪
Thank you so much Jessica,
I love you 💕, you're very UA-camr,
I wish you could have produced this before. Mine ended messy
I can't tag friends?😭😭😂💁🏾♂️
Short girl doesn"t like you Short issue can anger her, that's correct my sister...
Jessica can i have a chat with you😭😭💁🏾♂️
But how dou get out of such a relationship 😢
Ps,Happy Christmas Jessica 🧑🎄x
Thanks for the video,
# ur fun from Uganda
From a brother to a sister….Thank you Jessica for the clarity I’ve been wanting for the longest time. “Can’t fake connection” hit home for me. Appreciate you!
You're most welcome
It's true to mi man.
also iam one person who is careless with my phone but my girlfriend can never leave her phone near me she never let me touch her phone, am sure she is cheating she can't admit unless I have evidence to back it up she knows my weakness which is hard for me to break up with her.
You find it hard to break up with a cheating gf ? Some of you though.
hi jessy I love your work you really help alot,at the moment am going through the same exact thing in my relationship cheated on me like 5 time I had asked her she told me that she was dating the other guy behind my back because he has more money than me and that he has a bigger dick,in my life I have dated like 11 ladies am now 30yrs no one among them has ever told me that what can I do
Bro I’d advise you move on. She’s for the street and trying to make you feel less of yourself. She’s been telling she’s not into you anymore for a long time, you don’t just wanna accept it. There are alot of ladies out there bro. Meeet other ladies and have fun.
Very inspiring
Thanks Jessie you've always been helpful this is real
I am really touched by this 😢
Love channel❤❤❤❤
This definitely goes both ways
Exactly exactly
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Jessica can we get mo resolution on your videos like 4k or 1080p
"A dog eat dog world"
🔥🔥🔥🔥
I get that a lot from ladies, especially with replying hours later or days later. Sometimes I am not replied at all.
What can I do about this?!
Lol. My Ex 😂
7 years relationship went down.