*Many people ignore these early warning signs because they’re too focused on the initial chemistry, but that’s exactly how people end up in unfulfilling relationships.*
This all happened to me. Feels bad. All these signs I should’ve noticed. One thing I hate about people, mostly girls looking for all these signs”red flags” in a relationship is exactly that they are keeping score against you, instead of reaching out and communicating to make the relationship truly strong they sit back and judge instead. Because they think they’re the prize that has to be won to such an extreme they don’t actually care about the man as a real person with struggles, just as something they wanted control of in their life until they lose interest and deem that man not good enough, because they didn’t actually care about the person. I just wish women didn’t have such a selfish mindset. They never even consider the man might be having a lot of mental struggles ( I was suffering from major depression and not once did she ask if I was okay, even though she obviously didn’t like how my behavior was because she kept holding those red flags inside and never once mentioned them ) and the man might need just a little bit of help, instead they choose to judge and leave cause they’re not excited with you anymore. They never truly cared in the first place. That’s the true colors coming out but I just wish women were more understanding when men are clearly trying but struggling. A supportive woman seems impossible to find in my life.
Real talk, thank you for existing. My sanity, or rather what's left of it, thanks you! 💔😢😥 I feel guilty even commenting about this as much as I know I shouldn't. This is how I know I am broken
😢Wish I had seen this earlier. Trying to move on from ma gal who ghosted me out of the blue. So heart breaking 😢. Wat hurts, I can't stop thinking of her and wat I did wrong.
@online.hustlers Bruv your enough be purpose driven. You made her your mission thus why it's hurting so bad . Just so you know it's your loved bruv and you gat this .
Your well thought out,insightful teachings always sharpen us when it comes to tackle challenging relationships issues. Iron sharpens iron. Likewise a friend sharpens his friend's countenance. I personally appreciate you round the clock ma'am Jess.
4:51 She cooks, cleans and takes care of me and emotianally has been there lately with i reslly appreciate but in most arguements I feel lonely, she gets defensive and shuts down, gives me silent treatment but keeps being with me. Is she afraid of being alone or what? I dont get the same verbal cares such as «its okay i am here for you we will solve this.» in that arguement moment but we still end up good coz i make her feel certain way, if i dont no solution from her side. And because of that i see my selfesteem go down and I am not as confident as i was at start. If i dont care i am afraid i will be a not emotionally available and turns me into a heartless jerk but when i show care i end up like this even tho i told her what is okay and not with her behaviours. What do i do man i dont like how she treats me in arguements even tho i put the tone.
I was once here bro and waited till the end,the end isn't good.Start looking out for another woman who treats U right,I am glad I found one now who does the right things, everything mutual.
@@savropbr4951 if i do or not do what? I am happy with my self generally but when this happens it is just not something cool to deal with. I just dont care as much about drama anymore.
Thanks Jessica, I have been married for almost a year and I feel disconnected and alone. It feels like those days when I am still single. I want a break. We have no kids yet. My question is what's the best way to ask for a break?
My relationship with my ex girlfriend was just power struggle she want to take control thinking she should be treated like a queen and I should be chasing her anytime we have misunderstanding i just kick out that evil beast out my life B's
Hi Jessica,I am Girivardhanreddy after July 2024 she told I am busy in the October she msg her marriage got fixed please move on and don't think about me do your. Due to her family situations she accept the proposal. What to do in this situation. There is no possibility of her come back. Can I move on completely
Know this and know peace: *you will always come second in her life* And the father of that kid still have a spot in her heart - no matter who bad she has painted him or professing she can’t be with him again
I have proof but only by what I saw. She will never admit to cheating on me. Do I then walk away on what I saw ?. She doesn’t know that I saw her tidying up the bed in a panic and I saw him in the main shower room as he popped his head out a window jyst to see where I was
Folks, what does it really signals when your girlfriend talks worriedly about an Ex guy on an early Sunday morning ? Have my insecurity, but she feels it's right ! mm
*Many people ignore these early warning signs because they’re too focused on the initial chemistry, but that’s exactly how people end up in unfulfilling relationships.*
Facts 101%. Life is too short to wait on anyone to act right,,, let it go and get your priorities right fellas
Fellas always learn to control your feelings for someone especially for woman no matter how you love them or beautiful they are
It feels like Jessica was talking to me personally; bless Jessica.
Actions speak louder than words...
This all happened to me. Feels bad. All these signs I should’ve noticed.
One thing I hate about people, mostly girls looking for all these signs”red flags” in a relationship is exactly that they are keeping score against you, instead of reaching out and communicating to make the relationship truly strong they sit back and judge instead. Because they think they’re the prize that has to be won to such an extreme they don’t actually care about the man as a real person with struggles, just as something they wanted control of in their life until they lose interest and deem that man not good enough, because they didn’t actually care about the person.
I just wish women didn’t have such a selfish mindset. They never even consider the man might be having a lot of mental struggles ( I was suffering from major depression and not once did she ask if I was okay, even though she obviously didn’t like how my behavior was because she kept holding those red flags inside and never once mentioned them ) and the man might need just a little bit of help, instead they choose to judge and leave cause they’re not excited with you anymore.
They never truly cared in the first place. That’s the true colors coming out but I just wish women were more understanding when men are clearly trying but struggling.
A supportive woman seems impossible to find in my life.
You found out what I just realized: WOMEN (DON'T) CARE ABOUT MEN'S STRUGGLES!!!
@@RedGaming44 you are a champion brother, keep on living
Real talk, thank you for existing. My sanity, or rather what's left of it, thanks you! 💔😢😥 I feel guilty even commenting about this as much as I know I shouldn't. This is how I know I am broken
Reciprocating is key 🗝️🔐
Great delivery. All points valid. 🥂
All facts here, I wish came across these earlier
Superb checklist signs 💫 Thank you Jessica 💐
Great insights into a healthy relationship....
Thank you
God bless you for your illuminating contents. Can relate to almost all of them. 🤝
Some of the things you mentioned happened to me in my previous relationship. But I am getting better now
Thanks for sharing Jessica🎉
These goes both ways. It's great to know that these tips are there to help us in our various relationships
Pay attention to girls that genuinely like you ..not the ones you like !
Let me watch out the relationship I'm going to fall in
Thanks Jessica for the work
❤ The best therapist ever
Exactly what I'm facing she's always saying I'm busy with work comes to see once in 2month I'm ending things probably soon
I just couldn't count how many times I replayed each point
Brilliant tips here which should resonate with us
Thank you Jess!
😢Wish I had seen this earlier. Trying to move on from ma gal who ghosted me out of the blue. So heart breaking 😢. Wat hurts, I can't stop thinking of her and wat I did wrong.
DUDE IF SHE GHOSTED YOU SHE ISN'T WORTH THE EFFORT. Plenty of fish in the sea brother
@jamesstalin5871 yo ryt bro. The only issue am having is thoughts of her yet I wanna chill her. Any way out
@online.hustlers Bruv your enough be purpose driven. You made her your mission thus why it's hurting so bad . Just so you know it's your loved bruv and you gat this .
Expertise is studied Jessica is exceptional 🎉❤😊 08:24
Jessica thank you for your insight. It's on point 💯 %. It makes so much sense what your saying. Thank you again.
For Number 7 - my partner shows a lot 🤩
Jessica Os fans lets gather here💥
Respect Sister.
She knows what's she's talking about
Profound!
Thank you ma'am!
You're so welcome!
Your well thought out,insightful teachings always sharpen us when it comes to tackle challenging relationships issues.
Iron sharpens iron. Likewise a friend sharpens his friend's countenance.
I personally appreciate you round the clock ma'am Jess.
Thank you Jessi
Learnt the hard way
Well said
Did you watch on 3x speed 😂
@HillaryNamanya i watched it immediately. UA-cam dropped notifications. I don't miss her upload.
@@Timelessdesire92 it was showing posted 2 minutes ago when you posted your comment so I left me wondering how fast you watch videos 😀🤣
U don't enjoy coming back home.😭that the hardest to go through.
Sure
Its well oo is not easy
Guys, never ignore the red flags I beg you. Saves you a lifetime of pain and wasted time.
❤maaaan. Tough pill to swallow.
4:51 She cooks, cleans and takes care of me and emotianally has been there lately with i reslly appreciate but in most arguements I feel lonely, she gets defensive and shuts down, gives me silent treatment but keeps being with me. Is she afraid of being alone or what? I dont get the same verbal cares such as «its okay i am here for you we will solve this.» in that arguement moment but we still end up good coz i make her feel certain way, if i dont no solution from her side. And because of that i see my selfesteem go down and I am not as confident as i was at start. If i dont care i am afraid i will be a not emotionally available and turns me into a heartless jerk but when i show care i end up like this even tho i told her what is okay and not with her behaviours. What do i do man i dont like how she treats me in arguements even tho i put the tone.
I was once here bro and waited till the end,the end isn't good.Start looking out for another woman who treats U right,I am glad I found one now who does the right things, everything mutual.
You will endup with zero selflove and selfrespect,i am just warning you.
@@victorayodele2577happy for you man
@@savropbr4951 if i do or not do what? I am happy with my self generally but when this happens it is just not something cool to deal with. I just dont care as much about drama anymore.
@@victorayodele2577I am happy for you man, thanks for your comment.
My Coach ✅✅
Madam Jess 💋💋More Love 💙💙
That's why i'm 35
Still single
And still a virgin
@@lL-js2hg lol!
@@lL-js2hg you make or female
Maybe Male
Gotta get you some love man if you know what I mean
Thanks Jessica, I have been married for almost a year and I feel disconnected and alone. It feels like those days when I am still single. I want a break. We have no kids yet. My question is what's the best way to ask for a break?
Thank you my sister
My relationship with my ex girlfriend was just power struggle she want to take control thinking she should be treated like a queen and I should be chasing her anytime we have misunderstanding i just kick out that evil beast out my life B's
All facts
Facts 💫
Thanks for this
Very deep 😊
Am kinda stuck with a lady that seems keen on persuing something am uncormfortable with
Thank you
Thank you 😊
No problem
Jessica.. How do you have such an amazing skin??? 😊 I love it! Haha sorry random
Hi Jessica,I am Girivardhanreddy after July 2024 she told I am busy in the October she msg her marriage got fixed please move on and don't think about me do your. Due to her family situations she accept the proposal. What to do in this situation. There is no possibility of her come back. Can I move on completely
Can you do a video on betrayal
What must one consider when dating a baby mama
Know this and know peace: *you will always come second in her life*
And the father of that kid still have a spot in her heart - no matter who bad she has painted him or professing she can’t be with him again
Good morning ma'am
Please ma'am incase you are in need of a thumbnails, I can do it for you. Thanks and I will hoping to hear from you soon
Is it good to link your woman clip ?
I'm just tired of being that guy to fill in the blanks till the other guys call . Sigh
Sounds like the male I’m dealing with with 🙄
Thank you Dear Jessie on 💔crucial heartbreak avoidance tips,you are total expert💯x
I’m confused, do you have to have all 7 seven signs or is it if any of the signs show up ?
LoL yes any sign that are said.
@@sibusisoprince7804 got dammit
Ain't no room for relationships in 2024
People just playing games
Hmnnnn
Looks interesting
Let me consume
I agree
❤🫶
How do I get the truth out of my cheating partner
Usually you can’t. If you know they are cheating or you see overwhelming signs and have some proof, it may be time to walk away.
I have proof but only by what I saw. She will never admit to cheating on me. Do I then walk away on what I saw ?. She doesn’t know that I saw her tidying up the bed in a panic and I saw him in the main shower room as he popped his head out a window jyst to see where I was
I believe I’m getting the back lash of what her husband did to her
Hi Jessica, what about someone u just met and trying to know her better. And we are in a distance
@@njumesnowl1328 still same thing, if she is keeping you in distance. Know that she is not invested
She should be ready to meet you and know you better
@@oluwatomiwalawrence1152 thank you sir. Is a distance of oversea.
I hv plan of meeting her if I visit home
Folks, what does it really signals when your girlfriend talks worriedly about an Ex guy on an early Sunday morning ? Have my insecurity, but she feels it's right ! mm
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I like the back ground photo it reminds me of that day 🎸🕧🎤 check good and see sons of judah😂
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