I used to get so anxious when I wasn’t getting replies, thinking I messed up or overthought something. Now, I see it differently. I’m not going to let her silence affect me. I’m going to focus on my goals and work on becoming the best version of myself. Thanks for the reminder
Idk this girl I was texting, we texted a decent amount for like a week or two and one day I texted her and she didn’t answer the whole day then I had posted on a app and she reacted to my post but still never texted back and it’s been 3 days, she still reacts to my posts, but also we don’t text in messages it’s on sum app💀 girls are wierd man idk prob just take my L
There's a book called FlirtoSphere Seduction, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
Lithosphere seduction is a term related to the subduction of oceanic lithosphere, which is the movement of the solid, outer part of the Earth into a subduction zone. Thanks for the suggestion.
It’s not an option, I walk away. Ignoring me clearly shows that she is not interested in me, which just makes me no longer interested in her. And she only gets one chance with me, so it is over permanently.
Great video, it really helped me understand a few things. Also, the book Celestial Soulmate by Lentlish has been a huge help. not sure if you’ve heard of it, but It covers stuff like how to talk to girls, flirt, and much more about the mindset. It even has a cold approaching guide. with your video and this book, i feel ready to meet new girls now.
totally agree, man! the book really helped me too. it changed the way i see things and gave me the push to step out of my comfort zone. glad to see it worked for you as well!
Not gonna lie, the book really helps... I’ve been on a similar journey, waking up early, working out daily, and focusing on building better habits like training and cold approaching.
I've looked it up in google, but I don't find it. Any of you guys can help me? Update: Managed to find it. Just search in google with quotes "Angelic Soulmate Lentlish", it's a website. The author is Nathan Everett. It costs 13 bucks. I'm gonna give it a read and see if it's worth it.
If you keep chasing, keep touching, keep texting when she is giving nothing back she will double down on her game until eventually she gives absolutely nothing back.
Men always know this but sometimes we ignore and want to keep our relationship based on our experiences & foundation. It’s so sad how women eventually lose what’s best for them.
I agree. There was a woman whom I talked to daily for 4.5 months straight. Thought she was even my soulmate. But then she slowly started to back away and I then began to overthink. Broke my heart even. This was a first ever experience for me. I haven’t talked to her in at least 3 weeks now and yet I end up dreaming about her almost nightly. Definitely hurts
@@esschuele6336it’s gonna be alright dude. Just remember, you’re a chill guy 😎 the right one will come around in time to the point where the other one doesn’t even feel like they existed.
I'n crying! Dealing with narcissistic ex girlfriend for a while! Been working on myself for so long now, still I fell for her again and lost my power and control! But now I am taking my power and energy back! Thankyou to Stoicism for making men great!
Hang on in there mate, it isn’t easy……when we go silent, we are also afraid that they will forget us totally……..mind you that worst case scenario could be better than constantly loosing our dignity….
You arent gonna teach her a lesson or anything else. Just leave. Move, block # you owe no explanation. Put YOUR life first!! Took me 50 yrs til I realized that
Terrible and awful. We live in a capitalist hell scape where men are expected to give the most and receive the least. We’re expected to work ourselves into the ground “grinding”, pay for everything. Initiate. Plan. Provide. And we are allowed to ask for absolutely nothing in return. And get used up skanky hypergamous hoes who were rejected by the Chad they really wanted after he gave them the pump and dump. Honestly fuck this planet.
Ignore him, there's no eBook that goes by that title. Perhaps he's working on the eBook and trying to give it an early publicity before it is released.
I was in a brief relationship with a much younger girl who showed little affection and ignored my needs. I finally had the courage to end it before I wasted anymore energy.
This is what I'm going through right now. She's started ignoring my calls and messages the way we used to talk and chat has all changed and it's killing me I'm sure and hope the video will give me the strength and courage to be able to control myself and reclaim my peace of mind. Thanks for this video
She's built a rotation now ,, if you lost her respect the only answer is walk away or do nothing else for them no transactions Allah (s.w.t.) JEHOVAH God is the PRIZE
@@esschuele6336 with time you will over come it. Be strong and stay focused on your health. I know it's not easy to sail through the storms but you've gotta hold the bull by the horns
I needed to hear this! It’s crazy how much power we give away when we chase someone’s attention. I’ve been caught up in texting games, but now I see that the real strength lies in doing nothing and staying focused on my own journey. Stoicism for the win! 👑
A highly valuable video that goes straight to the heart of modern relationships. What I realized is that it's not about following what others think; it's about mastering oneself, understanding our own nature, and from there, attraction naturally follows. This isn't just about dating-it's about becoming the best version of yourself. Thank you for this insightful and practical content!
Thank you sir. I've just got ignored by her. I literally meant to freak out and lose my confidence, dignity to ask her why. Thanks to your video,I'm able not do this stupid move and remain calm. Now I'm getting my power back and becoming stronger than ever
I get ignored everyday . So this helps alot plus Bruce Lee's philosophy really helps when he talks about I do not fear people they do not bother me 😂😂❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Didn't see this on time, was chasing her , asking for a talk over the matter, but I decided to let her go as she she's she don't need me , that she fell outta love , cos I never did no wrong, I regret ever chasing her , but when am done , am done, I justified my conscience through my efforts
@@behopeful1736 find something to do, we often miss those who don't care about us when we are not doing anything or not committed to what we are doing. You are important, put yourself first. ❤
My ex-girlfriend pushed back and played every game to drive me crazy. I wasn't phased at all. Then she moved to another bedroom. I went on as usual. I got her the moving boxes when she asked me to get it. She was sending me messages that she was moving out. She eventually moved out. We still dated a few times after. But when i found out, she was seeing another man, i ghosted her. Yeah, it hurt. My kids, my work and the gym occupied me too much to waste my time on grieving. My point is you need to maintain your composure no matter what and need to have the determination to walk away. And it ain't easy
I couldn't maintain my calm and composure after 1 month point of a light breakup but still seeing each other(A breakup that was not a breakup)....And...That was start of my downfall... She directly or indirectly, intentionally or unintentionally(most likely) provoked me in many ways but I was calm till exact one month...Then I lose control one day...and she got the one opportunity that I never gave her...opportunity to hate me and move on...she needed that...i gave her...I didn't want that...But it was becoming tough for me to be treated very badly.....But things got worse for me after that for me and me only...And it kept on getting worse.....On the other hand, she moved on and started seeing other boys....
Thank you for sharing your experience! It sounds like you handled a tough situation with a lot of composure and strength. Staying focused on your kids, work, and the gym was a great way to move forward. How do you think staying busy helped you maintain your determination to walk away? I’d love to hear more thoughts from others-what has helped you keep your composure in challenging relationships? Hope you have a great day!
I think the majority of girls will jump off if you do this. Especially nowadays we so many other opportunities using social media. They just don't care. I see the video as a way of you to master yourself. Her leaving when you look for your best instead of falling for immature games, is actually good for you. No matter how it might hurts. The right one will stay.
Everyone has a heart and good heart person love you and understand you and will stand with u in every situation ....who has stone heart they will play with anybody ...no matter how you are hurted with his or her behaviour ....loving person always care you and trust you and live with you fully transparent .... so Don't do lol things with anyone ...always be humble ..and love who is loving you more
My thing is this. If she's not replying and ignoring u.. y give her that satisfaction of dumping her. Silence is the best revenge... best of luck, my guy. Dating these days is no picnic.
Been there before, I ignored her while she was trying to cheat me then after one year she wanted pretend to be a good person than before I mean rebuild our relationship but I coudn't do that. It's a big mistake to go back in relationship with an Ex. So dangerous ⚠️⚡
I think the hard part for me was the realization that you was never the one for her. She ignored you time to time till she needs something from you or when she in a bad spot. She never wanted you, she only needed you for her own benefit. I had to accept it and it emotionally and mentally messed with me because I really liked her but reality shown otherwise. Best to accept it, learn from it, and ignore and walk away. Look out for yourself in ways you looked out for her. Be selfish and pay 0 mind. She gonna realize or may not realize what she potentially lost. It her lost. Your gain 💪
OMG! I went through the same situation! We were going so good together during our weekends together, but the moment she introduced me to her 17 year old daughter that wanted to be recognized as a boy, all hell broke loose and from that moment I always felt like I was walking on eggshells plus the fact that the kid was diagnosed artistic, I just didn’t know what to do, but I would always include him in everything we did together so that he wouldn’t feel alone or that I was taking his mom away , to make a long story short, the kid never adjusted with situations of moving in my house, and my X total me that her kid was her priority and not our relationship. So I just had to let it all go….
Instead of chasing after someone who’s not giving me attention, I’m going to use that time to work on myself. This video reinforced that the best way to gain control in any relationship is to control your own emotions first. Looking forward to embracing the stoic approach! 👑
Great insights! Loved the part at 06:44 where you talk about shifting the focus back to self-improvement and using her silence as an opportunity to level up. Such a powerful perspective that turns a frustrating situation into personal growth. 👏👏
Fantastic video! The part at 3:20 really resonated with me, where the speaker explains that we can't control how others behave, but we always have control over how we react. It's a powerful reminder of the stoic principle that we must focus on our emotional response instead of letting external situations dictate our mood or self-worth. This advice is spot on - staying calm and composed in the face of rejection or being ignored is truly empowering. The whole video is packed with wisdom, especially for anyone wanting to embrace stoicism in everyday life!
How coincidently this video came to my life when Women who was flirting with me now ghosted. Me.. i am already going to gym to give frustrarton..this video suprised me..
I had this happen I even changed routine, so there was no chance of seeing her around. It can be upsetting. One time after a girl ghosted me I found a six week old abandoned kitten. After feeding him, and a 24 hour period we became best friends 😊
Believe me women always talk that they need love and emotional connection in the relationship but when they have them,they try on any cost to walk away.They feel like trapped and want to escape..IT IS CRAZY...
I used to be that guy that buys flowers and give random gifts, over talk about nothing call and text all day. And always wonder why nothing ever got reciprocated.
Am so happy to see this video, the person I love has been ignoring me over a week.... and am so fragile......100 pushups really helped me.... thanks for this idea ❤
I found this girl on social media. I send message every story she posts. Until she reply my message. I ask that I want to get to know more about her. She said yes. And then she ignore every message I sent. Until I found this video. Very helpful. PS: Sory for my english.
"Exactly! Stoicism emphasizes self-control and inner peace over reactive emotions like revenge. If you find this perspective intriguing, feel free to explore my channel for more content on Stoicism, relationships, and personal growth. I think you’ll enjoy it!" 😊
Thanks for the advice but it's hard to ignore a girl that you truly love because she is the only one that makes you happy all the time and when a heart wants her you can't change that u will find yourself going to her and apologise for no reason because you want to be with her
I think a crucial part of being unfazed by a woman’s silence is that being able to maintain a certain stoicism will, to a certain extent, weed out the women who aren’t worth thinking about. A particular woman eventually coming back to you after being stoic towards her isn’t uncommon. But the more likely scenario is that you just cut her out completely to make room for women who will respond to your personality traits positively.
This is the reason why all conflicts happens in relationship. Women are always understanding, if she ignore you just go and ask her open minded why she ignore you. She will tell you the reason surely if you were genuine to her
Gina I am going to step back and focus on what I have control over, I want you to be happy and proud and not pulled down by my behavior,fly like the wind Gina,
When someone close becomes distant, it’s often due to personal challenges rather than mistrust. Instead of ignoring them, we should offer support and understanding. True maturity lies in being there during hard times, showing empathy, and creating a path for honest communication. We can’t ignore someone in that situation. I know some girls who might deserve that, but sometimes we need to understand a good partner. You can’t just ignore her and let her go. We are often more mature than females, so as the man, you should figure out and solve the prblm
everything you said in this video I am going through it IRL IRT Il give it a shot wow ty fr these opinions in the middle of a 3mile run feeling way better might fallow up on the outcome lets see what happens
I dont know what I would have done without this genius allmods help in my divorce case. Your dedication, enthusiasm, and expertise were like a lifesaver. Youre my hero!
We live in different countries with my wife. We have 2 kids. She did the same thing to me now and I was like one week gone be crazy of her behavior.But now I lerne too much from this video thanks
Honestly, I'm just too busy with my own personal life mission/purpose. Either she's paying attention or she isn't. Either way, that's a reflection on her. The focus stays the same for me no matter what. Simple as that.
@@behopeful1736 I have found a place in life where I am growing into new places within rhis masculine soul autonomously all the time. By now splindid inner growth is like breathing to me. Everything starts within then goes outward from there. And mental/emotional games does nothing but get in the way. No thank you. As I said before, either she's the one or she isn't. Why distract myself with any other perspective? What good does that do?
This video came to me as blessings truly helpful and can be great teacher if a man is truly good in he's self-esteem ❤ I loved it may be this came through my universe and I truly trust in my universe 💕 thanks for the person who doing this job as a good child of God thanks to my universe 🙏 thank you so much 🙏 .
New Sub here. First video that popped up. This is amazing so far. Ive learnt so much from this vid and its literally basic actions that we dont even think of but definitely powerful information. Thanks Stoic❤
If a girl ignores me for any reason, I’m gone. I’m turning around and going the opposite way. I won’t tolerate a potential girlfriend ignoring me. So if she does, I’m gonna just leave her and move on.
I used to get so anxious when I wasn’t getting replies, thinking I messed up or overthought something. Now, I see it differently. I’m not going to let her silence affect me. I’m going to focus on my goals and work on becoming the best version of myself. Thanks for the reminder
Ditto copy
Dont let her play these games, tell her at the start, any games and thats it. Boundries.
Did this works?
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"If she wants to ignore you, fine. You have your own life to live" . Words is wisdom
Move on let her chased you ❤
Life is precious
Just let her go, know your worth, and keep improving yourself both physically and mentally.
So true💪🔥
That’s not always the answer, there’s more sometimes then just moving on
Spiritually as well.
@@maxn1744False. Your life belongs to you & ultimately, others are only as important as YOU want them to be.
Preach
The king doesn’t become the king by chasing the queen. The king becomes a king when he gets the crown.
Awesome😅😅
Awesome line
And when he has the pretenders to the throne beheaded.
Truee
Cringe
Walking away can be tough, but staying in a toxic situation can be tougher
"It is not death that a man should fear, but he should fear never beginning to live." - Marcus Aurelius
Nice quote🔥
Idk this girl I was texting, we texted a decent amount for like a week or two and one day I texted her and she didn’t answer the whole day then I had posted on a app and she reacted to my post but still never texted back and it’s been 3 days, she still reacts to my posts, but also we don’t text in messages it’s on sum app💀 girls are wierd man idk prob just take my L
@@Jalenprsents😅yes they are
The best thing to do when a woman ignores you is to remain calm and, like you said: "act like she doesn't exist". Great arguments, as always!💪
There's a book called FlirtoSphere Seduction, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
Searched for it online, and no results come up. Are you sure of the name ?
There is no book with this name
Lithosphere seduction is a term related to the subduction of oceanic lithosphere, which is the movement of the solid, outer part of the Earth into a subduction zone. Thanks for the suggestion.
@@lifeisbeautiful3364😂
this is a bot comment, you see the exact same copy paste on other comment section with different users
It’s not an option, I walk away. Ignoring me clearly shows that she is not interested in me, which just makes me no longer interested in her. And she only gets one chance with me, so it is over permanently.
Sounds good
Saphi ❤
Game over😊
Great video, it really helped me understand a few things.
Also, the book Celestial Soulmate by Lentlish has been a huge help. not sure if you’ve heard of it, but It covers stuff like how to talk to girls, flirt, and much more about the mindset.
It even has a cold approaching guide. with your video and this book, i feel ready to meet new girls now.
totally agree, man! the book really helped me too. it changed the way i see things and gave me the push to step out of my comfort zone. glad to see it worked for you as well!
@@mensurkeramika4732 glad to hear that man, congrats! Keep pushing!
Not gonna lie, the book really helps...
I’ve been on a similar journey, waking up early, working out daily, and focusing on building better habits like training and cold approaching.
I've looked it up in google, but I don't find it. Any of you guys can help me?
Update: Managed to find it. Just search in google with quotes "Angelic Soulmate Lentlish", it's a website. The author is Nathan Everett. It costs 13 bucks. I'm gonna give it a read and see if it's worth it.
This is so inspirational man. Thank you so much for sharing🔥
If you keep chasing, keep touching, keep texting when she is giving nothing back she will double down on her game until eventually she gives absolutely nothing back.
You just giving too much then she deserve due to this you r facing this
@@Yogeshhatwate70 NObody deserves to get cheated on. Many do or overdo purely out of love nothing else.
Ignoring her is the best no attention for her is not needed again focus on your goals rather
Men always know this but sometimes we ignore and want to keep our relationship based on our experiences & foundation. It’s so sad how women eventually lose what’s best for them.
They have an instinct for destroying themselves. I have watched it for decades. They can’t stand success.
So pity about women. What they really require they lose all the time
I agree. There was a woman whom I talked to daily for 4.5 months straight. Thought she was even my soulmate. But then she slowly started to back away and I then began to overthink. Broke my heart even. This was a first ever experience for me. I haven’t talked to her in at least 3 weeks now and yet I end up dreaming about her almost nightly. Definitely hurts
@@esschuele6336it’s gonna be alright dude. Just remember, you’re a chill guy 😎 the right one will come around in time to the point where the other one doesn’t even feel like they existed.
I'n crying! Dealing with narcissistic ex girlfriend for a while! Been working on myself for so long now, still I fell for her again and lost my power and control! But now I am taking my power and energy back! Thankyou to Stoicism for making men great!
Go and sleep with her enjoy her every part of her body 👅. Use like a tissue paper.
Hang on in there mate, it isn’t easy……when we go silent, we are also afraid that they will forget us totally……..mind you that worst case scenario could be better than constantly loosing our dignity….
One of my personal rules is that we're EXes for a purpose. If dongs don't go eat, their vomit...male or female...I never rehatch a dead relationship.
I am dealing with her ignorance and after watching this video I got different plans❤
They be playing dem lil kid games
You arent gonna teach her a lesson or anything else.
Just leave. Move, block # you owe no explanation.
Put YOUR life first!! Took me 50 yrs til I realized that
@@gordocarbo got it thanks 🙏
Know your worth, be careful who you open your heart to it’s a beautiful/crazy world we live in
Terrible and awful. We live in a capitalist hell scape where men are expected to give the most and receive the least. We’re expected to work ourselves into the ground “grinding”, pay for everything. Initiate. Plan. Provide. And we are allowed to ask for absolutely nothing in return. And get used up skanky hypergamous hoes who were rejected by the Chad they really wanted after he gave them the pump and dump. Honestly fuck this planet.
Facts
Finding the 'Flirtosphere Seduction' ebook should be your top priority, even if it's the last thing you do in life
Where can I get it
I searched online for it and it didn’t pop up. Where did you find it ?
Ignore him, there's no eBook that goes by that title. Perhaps he's working on the eBook and trying to give it an early publicity before it is released.
@@lawrenceisong7324i also didn’t see any such title..
"Love is not about possession; it is about appreciation."
...your peace is not negotiable! Walk away when necessary and you'll never regret it!
This has taught me how to react to her, not letting her silence affect me. Thank you so much for reminding me
I was in a brief relationship with a much younger girl who showed little affection and ignored my needs. I finally had the courage to end it before I wasted anymore energy.
"You should be respectable enough to walk away from the situations which don't serve you" 💥
Your approach is really powerful, you chose to focus on personal growth instead of negative reactions.
Thanks KhacKy, I really appreciate the kind message
I'll never forget this video for the rest of my life,am sorry I couldn't find any word for thanking!
Find a replacement...there are many out there ❤
This is what I'm going through right now. She's started ignoring my calls and messages the way we used to talk and chat has all changed and it's killing me
I'm sure and hope the video will give me the strength and courage to be able to control myself and reclaim my peace of mind.
Thanks for this video
She's built a rotation now ,, if you lost her respect the only answer is walk away or do nothing else for them no transactions Allah (s.w.t.) JEHOVAH God is the PRIZE
@StariYTube1 Thanks for your advice.
I’m In the same situation as you
@@esschuele6336 with time you will over come it.
Be strong and stay focused on your health.
I know it's not easy to sail through the storms but you've gotta hold the bull by the horns
@@muhammadwumbei2638 thank you. It’s definitely not easy
I am good & I am worthy
💪🔥
I needed to hear this! It’s crazy how much power we give away when we chase someone’s attention. I’ve been caught up in texting games, but now I see that the real strength lies in doing nothing and staying focused on my own journey. Stoicism for the win! 👑
A highly valuable video that goes straight to the heart of modern relationships. What I realized is that it's not about following what others think; it's about mastering oneself, understanding our own nature, and from there, attraction naturally follows. This isn't just about dating-it's about becoming the best version of yourself. Thank you for this insightful and practical content!
Thank you sir. I've just got ignored by her. I literally meant to freak out and lose my confidence, dignity to ask her why. Thanks to your video,I'm able not do this stupid move and remain calm. Now I'm getting my power back and becoming stronger than ever
Behind every successful ghosted man, is a woman. Thank you for the level up!
No problem!
We must never spend time to destroy someone's ego. Ego is detroyed by the person himself who has it.
I get ignored everyday . So this helps alot plus Bruce Lee's philosophy really helps when he talks about I do not fear people they do not bother me 😂😂❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
You're not alone ❤😂I love ❤️ myself . My advice is to care for yourself , life's a short, enjoy 😉 😊 😀 it
@Lionsasadbek Bruce Lee's philosophy helps me a lot when he talks about I do not fear people they do not bother me
Didn't see this on time, was chasing her , asking for a talk over the matter, but I decided to let her go as she she's she don't need me , that she fell outta love , cos I never did no wrong, I regret ever chasing her , but when am done , am done, I justified my conscience through my efforts
I don't know about you guys but I have done everything that mentioned in this video and wow, it works!😊👍😎
Can you tell more
@@behopeful1736 find something to do, we often miss those who don't care about us when we are not doing anything or not committed to what we are doing.
You are important, put yourself first. ❤
@@waipancholwaingor I did not understand
My ex-girlfriend pushed back and played every game to drive me crazy. I wasn't phased at all. Then she moved to another bedroom. I went on as usual. I got her the moving boxes when she asked me to get it. She was sending me messages that she was moving out. She eventually moved out. We still dated a few times after. But when i found out, she was seeing another man, i ghosted her. Yeah, it hurt. My kids, my work and the gym occupied me too much to waste my time on grieving. My point is you need to maintain your composure no matter what and need to have the determination to walk away. And it ain't easy
It ain't easy
I couldn't maintain my calm and composure after 1 month point of a light breakup but still seeing each other(A breakup that was not a breakup)....And...That was start of my downfall... She directly or indirectly, intentionally or unintentionally(most likely) provoked me in many ways but I was calm till exact one month...Then I lose control one day...and she got the one opportunity that I never gave her...opportunity to hate me and move on...she needed that...i gave her...I didn't want that...But it was becoming tough for me to be treated very badly.....But things got worse for me after that for me and me only...And it kept on getting worse.....On the other hand, she moved on and started seeing other boys....
Thank you for sharing your experience! It sounds like you handled a tough situation with a lot of composure and strength. Staying focused on your kids, work, and the gym was a great way to move forward. How do you think staying busy helped you maintain your determination to walk away? I’d love to hear more thoughts from others-what has helped you keep your composure in challenging relationships? Hope you have a great day!
I think the majority of girls will jump off if you do this. Especially nowadays we so many other opportunities using social media. They just don't care. I see the video as a way of you to master yourself. Her leaving when you look for your best instead of falling for immature games, is actually good for you. No matter how it might hurts. The right one will stay.
WOw, I should have read your post. I've been doing totally the opposite! What you did requires so total self-control.
When a girl I like ignores me,
I immediately ignore her back
Shes not interested in you
Everyone has a heart and good heart person love you and understand you and will stand with u in every situation ....who has stone heart they will play with anybody ...no matter how you are hurted with his or her behaviour ....loving person always care you and trust you and live with you fully transparent .... so Don't do lol things with anyone ...always be humble ..and love who is loving you more
I learned this 30 years ago. Pull away and watch them panic. But don’t reach out to them. They made their bed and let them sleep in it. Forever…
You're brave
Dump her. Don't even bother with ignoring. You didn't need her before, and you won't need her in the future.
My thing is this. If she's not replying and ignoring u.. y give her that satisfaction of dumping her. Silence is the best revenge... best of luck, my guy. Dating these days is no picnic.
Been there before, I ignored her while she was trying to cheat me then after one year she wanted pretend to be a good person than before I mean rebuild our relationship but I coudn't do that. It's a big mistake to go back in relationship with an Ex. So dangerous ⚠️⚡
This is the most helpful video I've seen in a long time and it appeared at just the right time. Thanks
You're welcome!
Same thing I'm going through
It doesn't matter If she's talking to someone else , she will come around when she gets dumped
But you don't want to treat like an last option my frend
@@Yogeshhatwate70exactly, being the backup isn’t a win
And I'm gonna use and dump her after she comes back , I won't be the last option lol
@@djvirux bro, I did that once and karma hit me hard. Becareful with that
Thanks for this video,now I'm facing this problem,but now I've seen this so I'm able to control
Always happy to help
I think the hard part for me was the realization that you was never the one for her. She ignored you time to time till she needs something from you or when she in a bad spot. She never wanted you, she only needed you for her own benefit. I had to accept it and it emotionally and mentally messed with me because I really liked her but reality shown otherwise. Best to accept it, learn from it, and ignore and walk away. Look out for yourself in ways you looked out for her. Be selfish and pay 0 mind. She gonna realize or may not realize what she potentially lost. It her lost. Your gain 💪
OMG! I went through the same situation! We were going so good together during our weekends together, but the moment she introduced me to her 17 year old daughter that wanted to be recognized as a boy, all hell broke loose and from that moment I always felt like I was walking on eggshells plus the fact that the kid was diagnosed artistic, I just didn’t know what to do, but I would always include him in everything we did together so that he wouldn’t feel alone or that I was taking his mom away , to make a long story short, the kid never adjusted with situations of moving in my house, and my X total me that her kid was her priority and not our relationship. So I just had to let it all go….
Same pinch
Instead of chasing after someone who’s not giving me attention, I’m going to use that time to work on myself. This video reinforced that the best way to gain control in any relationship is to control your own emotions first. Looking forward to embracing the stoic approach! 👑
Great insights! Loved the part at 06:44 where you talk about shifting the focus back to self-improvement and using her silence as an opportunity to level up. Such a powerful perspective that turns a frustrating situation into personal growth. 👏👏
Fantastic video! The part at 3:20 really resonated with me, where the speaker explains that we can't control how others behave, but we always have control over how we react. It's a powerful reminder of the stoic principle that we must focus on our emotional response instead of letting external situations dictate our mood or self-worth. This advice is spot on - staying calm and composed in the face of rejection or being ignored is truly empowering. The whole video is packed with wisdom, especially for anyone wanting to embrace stoicism in everyday life!
They ignore you because they don't want to talk to you, very simple
😂😂 Right...
Very true
Not always. You know nothing.
Not always, there may be some genuine cause
Correct.. Now what needs to be done is do A Why Why Analysis or Root Cause Analysis..
How coincidently this video came to my life when Women who was flirting with me now ghosted. Me.. i am already going to gym to give frustrarton..this video suprised me..
Any updates?
These AI ALWAYS READ OUR MIND BRO
Mannn...damn fuckin AI@@aselabandara5029
I had this happen I even changed routine, so there was no chance of seeing her around. It can be upsetting. One time after a girl ghosted me I found a six week old abandoned kitten. After feeding him, and a 24 hour period we became best friends 😊
you are totally right and i needed this video 4 years ago
When I ignored her constantly, she eventually begged for a chance to reconnect with me
Same story here too mate 😅💪
Same here as always @@Mj_Itales.96
I want this
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I don't know whether I'm the only one who felt strong emotions while the video is playing😢😢kindly tell me guyz😢😢
Believe me women always talk that they need love and emotional connection in the relationship but when they have them,they try on any cost to walk away.They feel like trapped and want to escape..IT IS CRAZY...
Thanks my friend, I will save your video and always watch it when I have a mental breakdown over her.
I used to be that guy that buys flowers and give random gifts, over talk about nothing call and text all day. And always wonder why nothing ever got reciprocated.
I feel you man
What's your conclusion, King? Share your wisdom.
I'm thinking of how to take control in a relationship and this video popped up...❤ Thanks for the guidance
You're so welcome!
Am so happy to see this video, the person I love has been ignoring me over a week.... and am so fragile......100 pushups really helped me.... thanks for this idea ❤
You're welcome
You've just made a bomb explotion in my mind. Yes, I'm strong, I'm worthy and I'll try to maintain my composure. 💪
I found this girl on social media. I send message every story she posts. Until she reply my message. I ask that I want to get to know more about her. She said yes. And then she ignore every message I sent. Until I found this video. Very helpful.
PS: Sory for my english.
Amazing!
Wow Man What All point you said is really valuable and i have experienced same
absolutely true, but lessons arent learned without experiencing it.. sad but true!
Really needed this one🤝🏻✨
best video of my life . i give this channale 10 star
works even for friends who suck your time !!
Stoicism teaches us to focus on self-control and inner peace, not revenge. Interesting perspective, though!
"Exactly! Stoicism emphasizes self-control and inner peace over reactive emotions like revenge. If you find this perspective intriguing, feel free to explore my channel for more content on Stoicism, relationships, and personal growth. I think you’ll enjoy it!"
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youve earned a sub , great vid
Awesome, thank you!
Ngl, this is the best video I have ever seen .❤
The advice did help my life
A game does not end when the pawn takes your queen, there is still a king
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I’m so much in love with this teaching ❤
Thanks for the advice but it's hard to ignore a girl that you truly love because she is the only one that makes you happy all the time and when a heart wants her you can't change that u will find yourself going to her and apologise for no reason because you want to be with her
I think a crucial part of being unfazed by a woman’s silence is that being able to maintain a certain stoicism will, to a certain extent, weed out the women who aren’t worth thinking about. A particular woman eventually coming back to you after being stoic towards her isn’t uncommon. But the more likely scenario is that you just cut her out completely to make room for women who will respond to your personality traits positively.
This is the reason why all conflicts happens in relationship. Women are always understanding, if she ignore you just go and ask her open minded why she ignore you. She will tell you the reason surely if you were genuine to her
Stupidity...I asked her she said-" I still have emotions for her ex" .
@@kv999o41 Then that must be true. Nobody will forget their first lover
Thats true when she is the one who got dumped @@ArisePeter
😂 same here @@kv999o41
Thanx for understanding us Sir🙏🙏
This helped me alot ❤
I think this account deserves a follow !
Thanks for the support
Gina I am going to step back and focus on what I have control over, I want you to be happy and proud and not pulled down by my behavior,fly like the wind Gina,
When someone close becomes distant, it’s often due to personal challenges rather than mistrust. Instead of ignoring them, we should offer support and understanding. True maturity lies in being there during hard times, showing empathy, and creating a path for honest communication. We can’t ignore someone in that situation. I know some girls who might deserve that, but sometimes we need to understand a good partner. You can’t just ignore her and let her go. We are often more mature than females, so as the man, you should figure out and solve the prblm
Nah. She’s just found someone else to spend her energy on. She’ll be back when Chad rejects her
Hahaha true.@@jordanharrison8769
I am sure you'll learn the hard way 😂😂. Keep playing and allow little demons manipulate your emotions. Mr. Caring man. 😂😂
It is true about in this generation. They never understand about the feelings of others.
Nor do they care. Yet watch them shriek when THEY get their feelings hurt.
everything you said in this video I am going through it IRL IRT Il give it a shot wow ty fr these opinions in the middle of a 3mile run feeling way better might fallow up on the outcome lets see what happens
I dont know what I would have done without this genius allmods help in my divorce case. Your dedication, enthusiasm, and expertise were like a lifesaver. Youre my hero!
Perfectly spoken, well expressed!
Thank you
Thanks brother for the Great Motivation ❤
You're welcome man
this is the video which i needed
We live in different countries with my wife. We have 2 kids. She did the same thing to me now and I was like one week gone be crazy of her behavior.But now I lerne too much from this video thanks
You're very welcome
Honestly, I'm just too busy with my own personal life mission/purpose.
Either she's paying attention or she isn't. Either way, that's a reflection on her.
The focus stays the same for me no matter what.
Simple as that.
Update?
@@behopeful1736 I have found a place in life where I am growing into new places within rhis masculine soul autonomously all the time. By now splindid inner growth is like breathing to me.
Everything starts within then goes outward from there.
And mental/emotional games does nothing but get in the way.
No thank you.
As I said before, either she's the one or she isn't. Why distract myself with any other perspective? What good does that do?
Thanks for changing my eye of view.
Any time!
If a woman doesn't like you now she'll never love you later if a woman doesn't want you there's nothing you can do to make her
I love this. Thank you❤ 🤗
You're welcome
Bless up. This was amazing advice
Thanks🙏
I love these videos and I’m in a relationship going through it ‼️😞💯🙏🏽
Thank you so much for your support! I'm really glad to hear that you find the videos helpful during your relationship journey.
Stay calm and composed
Thanks ❤ this video helps to me lot for all the problems I'm going through with my partner right now ❤
This video came to me as blessings truly helpful and can be great teacher if a man is truly good in he's self-esteem ❤ I loved it may be this came through my universe and I truly trust in my universe 💕 thanks for the person who doing this job as a good child of God thanks to my universe 🙏 thank you so much 🙏 .
You are very welcome 🙏
Being into a relationship keeps you busy in unnecessary drama and kept you away from your dream. It's better keep her away from you
He sure right because I made the same mistakes I’m taking the advice us men is just as valuable as women think they are 💪💪
New Sub here. First video that popped up. This is amazing so far. Ive learnt so much from this vid and its literally basic actions that we dont even think of but definitely powerful information. Thanks Stoic❤
Welcome aboard! Thanks for the support.
Be the man in control, always! The most touching moment 17:50
This video is so strong. You earned a sub for that.😊
If a girl ignores me for any reason, I’m gone. I’m turning around and going the opposite way. I won’t tolerate a potential girlfriend ignoring me. So if she does, I’m gonna just leave her and move on.