Are You Spiritually Bypassing ROCD/Anxiety?

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  • Опубліковано 8 лип 2024
  • Are you triggered by spirituality or religion with ROCD?
    Do you get anxiety about your relationship when you hear phrases like "trust your gut", "intuition", "higher power" or even activities like tarot cards, astrology, or dreams?
    What if you're unknowingly using spirituality to disempower yourself and your relationship?
    In this podcast episode, Kiyomi & Manon (subconscious mind coach, trauma-informed certified with expertise on ROCD & spirituality) sit down to talk about spiritual red flags, how you may be using spirituality in a way that may be hurting you and your relationship, and their new Awakened Class next all on Spirituality and ROCD next Tuesday (2/22/22) Limited spots available, reserve your spot here: cutt.ly/MPc88NZ
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    Disclaimer: All of the information listed in this channel is for informative, motivational, educational purposes only. If you are specifically looking for a licensed and professional therapist then you are welcome to work with our therapist, if not, we will refer you to someone else. Please note that this channel is not meant to diagnose you or treat a mental health disorder but serves only as education and motivation.
    #ROCD, #Relationshipocd, #Relationshipanxiety, #OCD

КОМЕНТАРІ • 38

  • @veewellnessstudios
    @veewellnessstudios 2 роки тому +25

    This conversation is sooo needed. I’ve had to walk away from my own spirituality because of how negatively it become for my ocd journey especially with rocd…. The big one for me was the whole twin flames and soul mates situation. Thank you so much for talking more about this topic.

  • @sydneystinnett1219
    @sydneystinnett1219 2 роки тому +10

    I get triggered by tiktok tarot card readings, or readings I do on myself. I also get triggered by astrology and if there’s a full moon or new moon in x planet, sign, or house that represents letting go or change I get scared. It’s gotten to a point where I fear that I can’t trust my judgment because I feel like everything is a “sign”. Weather it’s rocd or it triggers my health anxiety. So I’ve tried to step away because I’m not sure what else to do

  • @vivianarodriguez7787
    @vivianarodriguez7787 2 роки тому +12

    I identified a while back that astrology was an obsession and compulsion for me so I stepped away from it. I would follow my chart and the planets so religiously to see what I should "prepare" for in general and in my relationship. I would obsess over my partner's and I's chart synastry rereading and googling the same things over and over again for reassurance that I was in the right relationship. If something suggested that we weren't compatible I would spiral so HARD. I almost broke up with my partner once because of a "year ahead video" on youtube. A friend had to talk me off that bridge. I did break up with my partner once (luckily we got back together) because I convinced myself with astrology that our relationship was doomed. After that I realized that something was wrong and thats when I stumbled across your channel and I realized that I had been experiencing rOCD for the past 6 months. Its now been 8 months since my symptoms started and I've come so far. Still room for improvement, but so much better!

    • @bunknee1220
      @bunknee1220 2 роки тому

      Heyyy, astrology and spirituality are a compulsion for me too. Hugs x

  • @VanessaLjungdahl
    @VanessaLjungdahl 2 роки тому +5

    I broke up with almost all of my friends and my boyfriend when I got into spirituality. I loved how good I was feeling with practicing meditation, having a safe guide , working with affirmations and so on. But I had to stop, and I briought back the people and my boyfriend and now I’m too afraid to start with spiritually again. Because of the intrusive thoughts it comes with.
    Thanks for this video ❤️

  • @breplayssims
    @breplayssims 2 роки тому +8

    I’m only halfway through watching this but I want to say THANK YOU SO MUCH. I got the email for the live class yesterday and I have never signed up for something so fast. This has been a major trigger for me and I have struggled so hard with how to navigate these two facets of my life. It just feels good to hear other people talking about it and understanding what I’ve been going through.

  • @inessgl1244
    @inessgl1244 2 роки тому +5

    Thank you so much, this is what I am going through and you are the first who talk about it. I thought that even if I totally recognize myself in rocd, if the word intuition makes me panic about my relationship or if when I am doing tarot I think of separation it s that I was lying to myself and that I have to quit my partner …. And the anxiety kept controlling me !. Thank you …you just really helped me a lot, merci from France

  • @123maeday
    @123maeday 2 роки тому +2

    so so true. on my own wedding day, I saw an old crush and I felt immense sadness. I thought it was God telling me I had made a huge mistake in marrying my spouse. it's haunted me for 16 years. I'm going to take your spiritually class when I can afford it

  • @Pinupprincessa
    @Pinupprincessa Рік тому +3

    Thankyou so much for this!!! I had a really bad panic attack last night because a tarot reader on tik tok live told me that I didn't love my bf and that we should break up. I was so upset all night and all day today but this brought me peace of mind. I'm so excited to sign up for the course!

  • @joanagala2933
    @joanagala2933 2 місяці тому +1

    I feel like this video was made for me. I have a big interest in spirituality, and have had an attraction to it since i can remember. However, i feel like all my "knowledge" is based of social media, 10, 15 second reels. I see all of these people living in a forest, making rituals every day, making spells, having hundreds of crystals, etc etc.
    And also in spirituality i also feel like theres a lot the mindset of "its something to do alone, you have to cut everyone away for you in order for you to be fully awaken"
    This has been my major trigger. I've been experiencing major anxiety for the last 2 weeks, its eating me from the inside. I love my partner to death, i never felt a love like this. Im crying just talking about him. But i have all these thoughts saying "is this my intuition telling me i need to leave?", "do i HAVE to leave my boyfriend in order to trully start my spiritual Journey?", "do i need to move to a secluded house in the forest to be who im ment to be?"
    Its exhausting. I know im in love with my boyfriend, but i feel like if im not doing the whole shabang, the tarot cards, the crystals, the manifesting, then im not doing spirituality right and need to leave to be able to focus on it.
    I have let go of social media because its not real. Spirituality is watering your plants in the morning. Its meditating before bed. Its talking about the world with the person you love.
    This video is saving me. Im fighting, im fighting for this love and my love will win.
    Stay strong everyone 🤍

    • @klarawodehn22
      @klarawodehn22 Місяць тому

      I feel completely the same. Thank you so much for saying that.

  • @camilastaduto2533
    @camilastaduto2533 2 роки тому +2

    you are amazing. ❤️

  • @LesleySASMR
    @LesleySASMR 2 роки тому +3

    During quarantine at the height of the pandemic, I was relying on tarot cards multiple times a day and I was a MESS. Eventually, I gave them away because I was triggered by everything.

  • @oliviacorreia9805
    @oliviacorreia9805 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you so much for this! It’s just what I needed

  • @alessandravalenzuela1068
    @alessandravalenzuela1068 2 роки тому +2

    THIS is such a real thing!!!! Thank you for making this. I feel normal and like my reality is going to shift dramatically.

  • @squishsquash2018
    @squishsquash2018 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for all this information, I have been dealing with mixed feelings about spirituality and this is extremely helpful. I wish I would have seen this earlier to join to the master class.

  • @chloecasteig547
    @chloecasteig547 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much for your channel I am finally healing after 2 awful years of rocd thanks to you 🙏

  • @alessandravalenzuela1068
    @alessandravalenzuela1068 2 роки тому +2

    Can you touch more on when you said that our partners are our mirrors and things they do that bother us are things we can learn from? Thank you

  • @jadavergara6682
    @jadavergara6682 Рік тому +1

    What about seeing angel numbers while dealing with ROCD and getting anxiety when you read what the numbers mean? Like “new love is coming soon” “it’s time to let go of the past and move on” they are big triggers for me that I don’t believe in them anymore even though I used to so heavily.

  • @alaaua4714
    @alaaua4714 2 роки тому +1

    What about tarot, one i pay for one. And i Ask about my love is he the on and he told me he isn't and i meet my true love after 1or 2 years ( this was 2 years ago ) and then my rocd hits me. Do you have story like my ?

  • @RayRayakaRachel
    @RayRayakaRachel 2 роки тому +4

    So are tarot cards or psychics that predict the end of your relationship trustworthy or not? If they are somewhat trustworthy, what do you do with that information? Carry on or just end the relationship as its going to end anyways? How do you deal with triggers like that once you're already in it.

    • @caitlinrose6257
      @caitlinrose6257 2 роки тому +4

      In my personal experience, I've had a psychic tell me someone is my "divine soulmate" and broke up with me 3 days later lol. Another one told me that one would not contact me again and then a week later they reached out. I don't find it trust worthy honestly. I've been going to readers since I was 15 and no one ever has predicted anything right. My life has been much better since I walked away from the addiction/obsession.

  • @banashreedas2860
    @banashreedas2860 2 роки тому +2

    Please

  • @banashreedas2860
    @banashreedas2860 2 роки тому +2

    Help

  • @banashreedas2860
    @banashreedas2860 2 роки тому

    Hey can you make a video on rocd changing it's theme?

  • @banashreedas2860
    @banashreedas2860 2 роки тому +6

    Hi! Can you please help me understand ❤ okay it all started in 13 january i felt like i lost feelings for him. He's so amazing he loves me much I told him about all this he's supporting me in every possible way he said "we're in this together " Earlier I used to have many anxiety attack I lost my appetite I used to cry cry and cry.
    => Now I don't know what I'm feeling my appetite got back I don't feel that much anxious but is it normal to not feel attracted towards my partner earlier everytime we hangout I used to click his pictures but now I get anxious or I don't feel like clicking pictures for him. Is this normal or I fallen out of love please help is this normal like sometimes you don't get any symptoms of ROCD but still don't feel connected. Is this normal ? Please i don't want this feeling to last forever I want to love that man with all my heart I don't want thisssss
    Edit - today we had some sort of fight not fight I was just saying to him that I'm not nice I will hurt you . he's forcing me to talk to my college councilor which I have been delaying so he said "don't talk to me if you don't talk to your councilor " It feels like i didn't care today I not getting any thoughts I 'm not even anxious am I falling out of love i love himmm please anyone is this normal?

    • @rosinaformulaone
      @rosinaformulaone 2 роки тому

      Hi there! ☺️ This sounds a lot like something called a back door spike, Kiyomi has a video on it. Go and watch it and it might help. You should also maybe take his advice on seeing the councillor. I’m here for you!

    • @banashreedas2860
      @banashreedas2860 2 роки тому +1

      @@rosinaformulaone thank you ❤😭

    • @rosinaformulaone
      @rosinaformulaone 2 роки тому

      @@banashreedas2860 you’re welcome any time ❤️❤️❤️

    • @banashreedas2860
      @banashreedas2860 2 роки тому

      @@rosinaformulaone hi dear! Can you help me understand this I'm feeling better and i don't feel like leaving my partner but whenever she sends me his photo i don't feel attracted and today when we met I hugged him I felt nice and serene ❤ but i don't feel joy anymore like whenever he sends me something romantic we're going to be in long distance relationship is it normal to not to miss him.?

    • @banashreedas2860
      @banashreedas2860 2 роки тому

      @@rosinaformulaone you're the only one who helped me can i have a conversation with you please💫i need your help please dear i really need your help

  • @ms.misery7885
    @ms.misery7885 Рік тому

    I just came from a tarot card reading on UA-cam that alined with everything that's going on, and it was going great, until tarot said that if I end up do following the advice given to me, my values may change in the future, I WOULD RATHER KILL MYSELF AND IM THIS CLOSE

  • @banashreedas2860
    @banashreedas2860 2 роки тому

    Hiii How are you doing all good?
    Okay lemme start it all started at 13 january when I feel like i suddenly lost feelings for him I ignored that feeling but after 17 I completely lost my appetite I used to get multiple anxiety attacks like everything seems drowning I was no longer interested in reading books watching movies then after 28 january i was happy because I went cycling with my boyfriend I got back my spark again it was a nice day i got my appetite back I was feeling less anxious. So it all started again now the thoughts what if I'm attracted to someone else what if I don't love him what if I was never in love with him I started to get thoughts and anxiety again I started to feel numbness again then at 5 february when I saw him when I hugged him we were so in love he hugged me and kissed me boom my feelings are back.
    And from the very next day i woke up with anxiety again. From that day i was spending time with him so much
    I'm feeling okayy I suffered with every symptoms of rocd numbness, anxiety, panic attacks etc but now I'm not getting any symptoms I feel kinda i'm okayyI'm feeling everything but not love for him I don't feel like complusion but i 'm forcing myself to be complusiveThis are not thoughts this is reallWe've been together for just 5 months just for 5 monthsI don't even relate to anyoneI'm falling out of love i don't even feel anger jealousy towards him please somebody help

    • @leoj1366
      @leoj1366 2 роки тому

      i had exactly the same fears (not jealous, liking other girls, telling myself if i like women, not having the same passion i had in the first 3 months, telling myself that if i want to be alone that i don t like my girlfriend as much as her) and i was with my girlfriend for 6 months but i was not strong as you and the past 2 weeks, when I had to meet her, I had stomach ache because I was stressed to not give her as much as she gave me and also because of my negative thoughts. I decided it was best for us to separate because i could not tell her all of my thoughts. But this helped me understand that even if you don t feel to say I love you to her, what matters is how you treat her and this was my way to say that i loved her. It makes me angry that i understood this weeks after our break up and also the fact that she will never want me again but I hope one day I will be able to talk to her and explain her what really happened

  • @haywooddunnett4190
    @haywooddunnett4190 2 роки тому

    Amazing video as always!!! You could easily get more people watching with Promo'SM!