Don't kill them with kindness, but kill them with silence

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  • Опубліковано 4 вер 2023
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  • @kblissfullyme9090
    @kblissfullyme9090 10 місяців тому +164

    Yeah killing them with kindness only enables their behavior. Silence speaks volumes and is better for your own peace of mind.

    • @dontbelongherefromanotherp9807
      @dontbelongherefromanotherp9807 10 місяців тому +21

      Exactly, silence is wonderful when dealing toxic people

    • @Mike_Cosentino
      @Mike_Cosentino 10 місяців тому +6

      @@dontbelongherefromanotherp9807 ain’t that the truth..

    • @babydii3487
      @babydii3487 10 днів тому

      Amen my friend 🙌🏽

    • @_YohAsakura_
      @_YohAsakura_ 4 дні тому +1

      Sometimes silence doesn’t work cause these obsessive lame haters relentlessly follow you for trouble. You can’t be silent in those situations. Then they think cause strength in numbers mean something, I’m saying this, you need a large crew with you in order to do something? Cool. I can do bad all on my own. That’s a difference. That’s one man army type of ish. They need a large crew and not even everyone one of them is good. Someone is carrying them.

  • @embracinglogic1744
    @embracinglogic1744 10 місяців тому +80

    Most people abuse kindness. Silence is the ultimate killer!

  • @andersdottir1111
    @andersdottir1111 10 місяців тому +107

    There’s no point confronting people on their bad behaviour- they’ll deny it then accuse you of the same.
    Silence and absence is the only way to deal with these people.

  • @ameerahrashada4515
    @ameerahrashada4515 10 місяців тому +69

    I don't kill them with kindness any more I kill them with my silence A deep silence Thank You for this right on time video

  • @lucyloo7457
    @lucyloo7457 10 місяців тому +59

    Well said Tyler. Avoid toxic people, they are disturbing your peace! Thank you for this! You done preached!

  • @rickde2709
    @rickde2709 10 місяців тому +29

    Silence says a lot

  • @jaymitaylor9937
    @jaymitaylor9937 10 місяців тому +37

    What’s really crazy to me is when you address a person for what they have done or said that hurt you and instead of them just apologizing and admitting they were wrong instead they flip it on you and make you feel like your the problem and leave the conversation completely by either not responding to your message or blowing your message off by hearting it. Some how in their sick and twisted mind they really believe that they are right in the situation and that you are wrong for having a reaction to their disgusting behavior towards you .

    • @TylerJTI
      @TylerJTI  10 місяців тому +5

      Exactly

    • @Mintaka.
      @Mintaka. 10 місяців тому +5

      DEFINITELY. And I feel that more and more people start behaving like this, stronger and meaner by the day - even if they didn't years ago.
      And also with small things, they always feel offended, even when it was nothing.
      There must be something in the air, water, I don't know what.😢

    • @msliberated3899
      @msliberated3899 9 місяців тому +2

      @@Mintaka.You are correct it is something in the Air, their Father who is the Prince of the Air! Satan

    • @Mintaka.
      @Mintaka. 9 місяців тому

      @@msliberated3899 I wouldn't say that that's their god.

  • @philipmikolsmusic
    @philipmikolsmusic 10 місяців тому +32

    Tyler is on a rampage lately. Just the way we like it!

    • @lovemadenow
      @lovemadenow 10 місяців тому +5

      💯🔥🔥

    • @purposedpatience6597
      @purposedpatience6597 10 місяців тому +7

      😂💯💯💯

    • @dpfrance
      @dpfrance 10 місяців тому +2

      He does it very well, doesn’t he!!!! 😁

    • @philipmikolsmusic
      @philipmikolsmusic 10 місяців тому +1

      @@dpfrance He nails it every time.

    • @salvationchristrevelation.8166
      @salvationchristrevelation.8166 6 місяців тому +2

      Pherhaps his relatives should have treated him with kindness!WHY relatives resort to Verbal abuse,and emotional abuse!Theres NO LOVE these days with in many families!

  • @jamesbreeden9016
    @jamesbreeden9016 10 місяців тому +36

    You're speaking lots of truth, Tyler. When someone oversteps their boundaries and starts their nonsense. I just leave them in silence. I don't waste my time with childish people. Great video as always my friend. Blessings

  • @HassanaKareemaNeferRa
    @HassanaKareemaNeferRa 10 місяців тому +23

    I'm shutting them down with my silence

  • @HeavyChevyGuy
    @HeavyChevyGuy 10 місяців тому +24

    Man, I don't know who TF you are, but I watch the videos. Lots of truths here

  • @shauntaylor-lovelightfamily
    @shauntaylor-lovelightfamily 10 місяців тому +16

    You cut them off, completely and utterly
    Give them an inch , and they’ll take a mile
    People take advantage of nice people

  • @Movieclips_101
    @Movieclips_101 10 місяців тому +19

    Facts Silence is golden and it shows you are a wise person and they get even madder when you can see through them 💯💯

  • @nancymc
    @nancymc 10 місяців тому +7

    you are so right tyler. silence takes care of the problem.

  • @jenniferwilson5918
    @jenniferwilson5918 10 місяців тому +47

    You must go no contact if you want to heal. I fell victim to forgiving OVER and OVER again, only to be used and abused OVER and OVER again. NO CONTACT over 1 year now!!!

    • @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115
      @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 10 місяців тому +4

      I had to moved from my old area because of this time change my number that is an blessing in the sky god ain’t playing with no one ☝️

    • @Mike_Cosentino
      @Mike_Cosentino 10 місяців тому +3

      Same here

    • @Mike_Cosentino
      @Mike_Cosentino 10 місяців тому +3

      @@-.Whiteness-.Witch-.going on 8 years of no contact and no regrets whatsoever

    • @jenniferwilson5918
      @jenniferwilson5918 10 місяців тому

      @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115
      Right!! I changed my cell #, e-mail and shut down my Facebook account.

    • @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115
      @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 10 місяців тому +3

      @@Mike_Cosentino yep you will be okay mike

  • @marlo2919
    @marlo2919 10 місяців тому +14

    Well said, Amen to the Silence. For example, i always remember everyonys birthdays and nobody in my so-called family never think to remember mine. I didn't bother with any happy birthday well wishes this year and I feel bad but then again i dont because they dont care about me. I know i tried and im done. I love listening to Tyler and his wisdom. Thank you ❤❤❤ 7:03

  • @user-sh3jv8uh9y
    @user-sh3jv8uh9y 10 місяців тому +10

    Silence is the key 🔑 for some family members in strangers cause some people true colors are disturbing. 4:34

  • @Happyfeelinpeace
    @Happyfeelinpeace 10 місяців тому +21

    It's wonderful for me and that's all that matters!
    We appreciate you Tyler!

    • @Mike_Cosentino
      @Mike_Cosentino 10 місяців тому

      Most underrated UA-camr out here rn. I’ve been watching his videos for at least two years now and view every upload. He is very on-point and “based” in his thinking and in his analyses.

  • @Mannyroc
    @Mannyroc 10 місяців тому +17

    Ecclesiastes 3:1-6
    1 To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven:
    2 A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up that which is planted;
    3 A time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up;
    4 A time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance;
    5 A time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing;
    6 A time to get, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to cast away;

  • @hangingwiththegrlz4891
    @hangingwiththegrlz4891 10 місяців тому +13

    Thank you for posting the TRUTH! You are Correct! I am so tired of people gaslighting me saying kill them with kindness that is Malarkey! I agree completely agree, give them what Jesus gave to the narcissist he dealt with, that is SILENCE. Jesus ignored them. Ignore these Herods in your life, they deserve SILENCE! Keep the honesty coming, love it!

  • @yolandabartee7363
    @yolandabartee7363 10 місяців тому +11

    Hi "Tyler"❤❤appreciate the content 😊

  • @buffyshellmouthcollection
    @buffyshellmouthcollection 9 місяців тому +2

    Being Silent is the best course of action to toxic folks. They’re not even worth it.

  • @giftedhands4207
    @giftedhands4207 10 місяців тому +16

    When they don't ask about your side of the story... there just letting you know that they never really liked you from day one and was side eyeing you the whole time.#Fakes

  • @pasadenaroze4776
    @pasadenaroze4776 2 місяці тому +1

    Ive been following Tyler for over 5 years for a reason. He keep 1 thou wow on that azz. Especially about family. Love it!! 😁👏🏾🙌🏾💪🏾

  • @thelook4me
    @thelook4me 10 місяців тому +6

    Great Message! I have no problem being silence with my haters. So hate on.

  • @juicebokz7743
    @juicebokz7743 10 місяців тому +15

    Thank you Tyler, this was right on time for me!

  • @MsDebbieReid
    @MsDebbieReid 10 місяців тому +7

    Preach Tyler. I need this right now!!! Peace, Love and Blessings from the UK 🙂

  • @CHARGERSALLDAY
    @CHARGERSALLDAY 10 місяців тому +11

    YOU ARE HELPING ME ALOT HOMIE!!! THANKS AND KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK 💯

  • @KROWNCHAKRA
    @KROWNCHAKRA 10 місяців тому +7

    Gotta Kill em wit Success
    and bury em with a smile
    haters hate to see you happy
    gotta make it worth their while..barz

    • @msliberated3899
      @msliberated3899 9 місяців тому

      Nope they don’t need to even see your success, they’re a waste of life and true contentment

  • @kenswireart88
    @kenswireart88 10 місяців тому +10

    Nothing seems to be working against these demons these days. Kindness definitely doesn't work but drains your energy and makes you feel less than the person you keep being kind to, since you ignore the b.s and keep the conversation going just so you two can be friends. Silence is cool but you'd be Imploding on the Inside because what the person's doing is provoking. Seems like one would have to find a way to 😊respond without speaking. With body language. Communicate back with a bigger badder silent punch.

  • @latanyapalmer7252
    @latanyapalmer7252 10 місяців тому +3

    Absolutely, They do not deserve my energy or kindness…. Thank You, you speak truth and wisdom.

  • @djkingmagneto1792
    @djkingmagneto1792 10 місяців тому +6

    One Of The Biggest Lies In Life Is When Those Many People's Delude Themselves Believing They Killing With Kindness , Thats A Big False , Cause Thats Only Allowing Them To Steal Your Joy And Continue Abuse And Deprive Yourself. Now Silence Is A Great Defensive Weapon Of Defense , And Silence Is Golden.
    ⚖️⬅️👑🐉🌟7️⃣ 🕊️🤍🌞

  • @missbohochic751
    @missbohochic751 10 місяців тому +5

    Yes silence treatment !

  • @Advancingbeing
    @Advancingbeing 10 місяців тому +5

    When you kill then with silence, they gon do the most to get a reaction out of you 😂😂 or your attention .

    • @msliberated3899
      @msliberated3899 9 місяців тому

      Then it’s time to Rebuke them publicly in a captivated audience

  • @dianejohnson6049
    @dianejohnson6049 10 місяців тому +2

    Tyler you better preach… You telling the Truth I kill my toxic family members and my ex with silence. They don’t deserve my voice or my presence. I’ve been following you for years and save a lot of your videos you make me laugh while you tell the truth. God Bless you and keep doing what you do I’m here for it! 🙌🏾❤️🔥

  • @BK-ny3wb
    @BK-ny3wb 10 місяців тому +2

    👆🎙️🎙️🎙️ Thank you for sharing

  • @rainbowvibesxo
    @rainbowvibesxo 10 місяців тому +5

    True silence is better!

  • @VioletFlame-Ivy
    @VioletFlame-Ivy 10 місяців тому +3

    Thank you so much Tyler, for helping us remember our worth.

  • @winblessed1357
    @winblessed1357 10 місяців тому +2

    Thank you 💯💯🗣tried the kindness and the benefit of the doubt route ended up being insulted. Nope! Silence has been the best move i ever made and i am at peace 🙌🏽🙏🏼

  • @miraclesforus
    @miraclesforus 2 місяці тому +1

    Outstanding lesson

  • @PHILLIPSTEFFON-rv6eo
    @PHILLIPSTEFFON-rv6eo 4 місяці тому +1

    NOTHING BUT THE DAMN TRUTH🎯

  • @Mike_Cosentino
    @Mike_Cosentino 10 місяців тому +8

    Ain’t it the damn truth!

  • @miamiflorida2043
    @miamiflorida2043 10 місяців тому +3

    You go homie a smile ain't what you think it is...

  • @Yicahti
    @Yicahti 10 місяців тому +7

    I’m sorry I don’t believe in the, “You should talk about it”…… real maturity is walking out of their lives and being silent.
    Talking has rarely ever worked but almost always turned into a huge back and fourth argument exposing the true evil nature hidden in people you’d never expect

    • @TylerJTI
      @TylerJTI  10 місяців тому +5

      Exactly, I don't believe in "talk it over . Real maturity is walking out but a lot of people can't see that and it's not miscommunication. Some people already decided they aren't going to listen to you because if they did, they would listen and ask questions if it was something they didn't understand

    • @Yicahti
      @Yicahti 10 місяців тому +2

      @@TylerJTI Facts!! A peace of mind is worth way more than trying to mend with folks 💪🏽

  • @jp2059
    @jp2059 3 місяці тому

    Love your videos, they have lifted my spirits and have shown me how to deal with people who take you for granted

  • @angel-no5sy
    @angel-no5sy 10 місяців тому +2

    Amen beautiful brother❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @lovelyr9773
    @lovelyr9773 10 місяців тому +4

    I work with toxic people and silence works when you no your job no questions needed, I don't say a word to bone of the toxics except good Morning and good night including Fridays I dint even say have a good weekend

  • @kezmenflowers8691
    @kezmenflowers8691 8 місяців тому +1

    Damn unk. You really preaching man. Speaking straight facts.

  • @cecilb.brooks2739
    @cecilb.brooks2739 10 місяців тому

    Amen ❤🕊🕊🕊🕊❤
    Thank Tyler, for another amazing and awesome message. 🙏🏼
    Blessings to you. 🙏🏼

  • @jimmyjames3136
    @jimmyjames3136 10 місяців тому +6

    Love from Scotland my brother. stay safe and stay braw!

  • @billyraz2
    @billyraz2 10 місяців тому +2

    The universe spoke through you 🗣️, how did this cross me 🤔. Thank you 🙏🏾 king may the most high continue to bless you ❤️
    -
    #billyrazor #brazlovelife

  • @RubyJay_
    @RubyJay_ 9 місяців тому +2

    Silence works like a charm

  • @candacewebb120
    @candacewebb120 10 місяців тому +7

    ♥️

  • @kafelenoww
    @kafelenoww 10 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for your words good sir 🙏🏽💯

  • @LatoriaLolaThompson
    @LatoriaLolaThompson 7 місяців тому

    You are always on point!!! 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

  • @magicalpodium
    @magicalpodium 10 місяців тому +5

    I am an extreme extrovert. Something happened in a business deal some two years ago. This deal involved people. I trusted through and through.
    After some switched off, I later entered my shell and stayed away from those concerned. I cannot tell you the amount of peace of mind, focus and less drama that I have now. They think I am depressed or devastated. Not knowing that I am killing them with silence.

  • @LoveMusic-dv4sl
    @LoveMusic-dv4sl 10 місяців тому +1

    Awesome video and the truth! 👍🙌

  • @lilblizzy
    @lilblizzy 10 місяців тому +2

    Tyler is on 🔥🚒🚒🚒🔥🔥

  • @user-gc5ww4pq5b
    @user-gc5ww4pq5b 16 днів тому

    Silence is the ultimate killer 🤞🏾

  • @hypokritkillah
    @hypokritkillah 10 місяців тому +1

    Great job well delivered.

  • @smustipher
    @smustipher 10 місяців тому +2

    I don’t care to kill them. I just want them to leave me TF alone.

  • @jaysenjohnivanturner1972
    @jaysenjohnivanturner1972 10 місяців тому +1

    Tyler I would like to run something by you. God has blessed you with great wisdom.

  • @nikkiwalker2017
    @nikkiwalker2017 10 місяців тому +2

    Say that Tyler 🔥🔥🔥

  • @cohariebenjaminbrown7900
    @cohariebenjaminbrown7900 10 місяців тому

    right on my g thank you

  • @wynettamoore1687
    @wynettamoore1687 10 місяців тому +2

    Yep silence is golden, i have a fam member that is toxic ,treats me differently from my own sis ,its all good cuz when i save up money and she gonna see me do things out of ordinary, and imma be like yea im getting myself tgether to move

  • @Ian-ym1rn
    @Ian-ym1rn 4 місяці тому +1

    Confuse them with your silence

  • @NarcissistEscsperYT
    @NarcissistEscsperYT 9 місяців тому +2

    You got that correct 💫

  • @leonone7377
    @leonone7377 10 місяців тому +1

    Well said..there is a time for everything under the sun.

  • @rubio9478
    @rubio9478 10 місяців тому +2

    Did this with my ex last week. We work at the same place. She had done me wrong by cheating on me & going off with another guy behind my back the whole time. Hadn't talked to her in two years. She started acting "nice." But that's all it is, is another act. I shut down everything by saying absolutely nothing back to her and not making any eye contact whatsoever. I'm sure her fragile ego was hurt beyond belief at that. But again, people like her that exist in this world deserve it!

  • @constancenunn
    @constancenunn 10 місяців тому +3

    Thank you Tyler. I sent you a video request. I'm staying silent. staying low-key because I have stalkers in my building.

    • @TylerJTI
      @TylerJTI  10 місяців тому

      I got your video request thank you

  • @victorianjohn
    @victorianjohn 10 місяців тому +1

    👑SHALAWAM King🙏🏿#deafening silence 💯

  • @vijairampersaud5555
    @vijairampersaud5555 10 місяців тому

    You speak the truth 👍🏼💪🏽

  • @hardeepmann3464
    @hardeepmann3464 10 місяців тому +3

    🙏🙏

  • @soblessed6347
    @soblessed6347 2 місяці тому

    This man is speaking FACTS

  • @scorpioqueen7728
    @scorpioqueen7728 10 місяців тому +10

    💅🏽✨✨
    That Ending was Everything 😎😂@6:59
    🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

  • @trevorgamble4101
    @trevorgamble4101 10 місяців тому +1

    Keep doing your thing king

  • @MrBillybathgate5
    @MrBillybathgate5 10 місяців тому +4

    Tyler!

  • @purposedpatience6597
    @purposedpatience6597 10 місяців тому +2

    😂💯💯💯💯 I love it!!

  • @khanjanki8207
    @khanjanki8207 7 місяців тому

    Amen yes l do agree more Posting please

  • @QueenAlexis556
    @QueenAlexis556 4 місяці тому

    My major problem is coworkers instead of family members. My family knows not to cross me to a degree but these coworkers assume that I'm an absolute pushover. I try to stay to myself at jobs but being quiet seems to attract the sharks.

  • @Ian-ym1rn
    @Ian-ym1rn 4 місяці тому

    HOW RIGHT YOU ARE

  • @jaybandz561
    @jaybandz561 10 місяців тому

    PREACH IT 💯

  • @yesyoga
    @yesyoga 9 місяців тому

    TRUTH! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼😵‍💫💖

  • @leeleslie5518
    @leeleslie5518 2 місяці тому

    Silence is powerful

  • @LuckiestStarByFar
    @LuckiestStarByFar 8 місяців тому

    I love this title!

  • @ceecee4705
    @ceecee4705 7 місяців тому

    Exactly, no dam good, i had a family member that got some mess started with me over a pocket book she loaned me for a cruise. I didn't return it back to her fast enough after the vacation. She went and talked shit about me to other family members instead of coming to me. I returned it, and have been silent every since. She sent me a message of so called apology... Im still silent

  • @pearpo
    @pearpo 10 місяців тому +2

    I don’t want to kill anyone.

  • @hadiza1
    @hadiza1 10 місяців тому

    Amen! 🤍

  • @thepamperedgoddess3279
    @thepamperedgoddess3279 9 місяців тому +1

    ⁠​⁠continue your silence. Be okay with being hostile. If hostile means protecting you then hostile it is! You are a divine being worthy of safety. Do not allow others to be hostile to the God in you. Get so busy with your life. FILL every waking moment with things that make you feel good, the things you like, affirmations, whole living food. Start loving yourself so hard all day long, that you don’t have a spare second to give. Plan your schedule that much. When they poke continue to ignore. In fact that should not even be able to contact anyway. Choose to be in control of your story for once and close the door. Not just to see how they react but actually decide that it is over without the chance of reconciliation. Block and change your number. If you leave the door open you are leaving your mind and heart open to invite the ame characters and energetic entities who have not changed. You need to fully change yourself through love and then you will automatically start attracting new people who are at your level. Who will do anything to support you, encourage you, see you smile and will make it KNOWN that you want your soul next to theirs in this life.

  • @marthadivine8426
    @marthadivine8426 10 місяців тому +1

    Yes, I am not dealing with them at all.

  • @MoosachkeLandIsWealthy1229
    @MoosachkeLandIsWealthy1229 6 місяців тому

    Agreed

  • @ediamonds366
    @ediamonds366 10 місяців тому

    The truth and nothing but.

  • @bruce7021
    @bruce7021 10 місяців тому +1

    My Brother you are so right 👍( now "not only you"and I'm sure that other people are going to read this "I'm asking you to Google ( Dr.RAY Higens from the African village.) Pay close attention to what he is teaching" and hold on to your seat "because it's DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP.✊

  • @Chance754
    @Chance754 9 місяців тому +2

    I never understood that saying kill them with kindness. I find that fake and contradicting. I just keep it short and cordial. I act accordingly!

  • @ciarracrawford8232
    @ciarracrawford8232 9 місяців тому +1

    Amen. 🤣😂

  • @user-nk6rj3ty1x
    @user-nk6rj3ty1x 5 місяців тому +1

    They don't deserve my attention at all!!

  • @TechReviewTom
    @TechReviewTom 10 місяців тому +1

    What about miscommunication occurrences? What constitutes this silence?

    • @TylerJTI
      @TylerJTI  10 місяців тому +3

      Have you not heard nor thought that some people were doesn't want to get understanding when they had the chance to listen but blowed thier chances when someone was trying to explain to it ? That's where silence constitutes itself.

  • @wondrlush
    @wondrlush 10 місяців тому +1

    Hi Tyler I have to admit I just seen something in my own mom a contrite spirit trifling sprit don’t want to see you truly happy try pretend mean no ill will but has bad intentions you are right they will say I have not done anything to you but they no deep down inside they have but want admit it and don’t want to see you truely happy and blessed I see pure resentment, jealousy, in my own mother it is what it is but I know to stay away much as possible red flag was why whenever I talk speak my truth you always have to try to dismiss it to put it down I’m noticing her behavior and attitude now I am silence she is puzzle because don’t know how to counteract because She know now I see you for who you are but I see I have to stay low key silent don’t share my blessing goals dreams with her I seen the revelation her true intentions now I get you she and others not worthy of your time at all because they don’t appreciate you and is too jealous of you period bottom line thank you Tyler I’m moving on don’t have to put up with other people trifling bad spirit you were right Tyler thank you again I am going stay away and be Happy!

  • @Queenmemoirsangelique
    @Queenmemoirsangelique 10 місяців тому +1

    Kill them with kindness,silence my absence.❤❤❤❤❤
    Angelique peace joy 🤩 my grandma prepared me with wisdom some people unhappy miserable .
    Stealth Mode only 2021- present 🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @coolbian513
    @coolbian513 10 місяців тому +2

    what about just insulting them constantly?

    • @TylerJTI
      @TylerJTI  10 місяців тому +1

      Does it work for you?