Yeah, they have nerve to try to sneak in some form of domination on you, only to get pissy that you're not gonna subscribe to their delusional paradigm. Thank GOD they're in my rearview mirror now!
Best advice ever! exactly Tyler, this gives them a pass, i agree with you 💯. It is being used to make the transgressors feel comfortable about not taking accountability. I'm so glad you speaking on this. You have always kept it real without sugarcoating.
You are right. I can easily forgive people who have apologized for their behavior and act like it. I have come across a Karen who does not want to take responsibility for her behavior and is already 50+. I'm going to address her behavior about what she did and why certain people approach her disrespectfully. I also say that she should take a better look at herself in the mirror of her sickening and arrogant behavior towards others instead of playing the holy helper or the innocent.
@@chocoMyCoco "i JUST don't understand!!" is their favorite PHONEY humbled, PRETEND shocked reaction to an audience (behind your back being the cowards they are) when you will NOT go along with being a doormat of theirs like they're trying to trick you into being. Trust your gut and leave those behind who your gut is screaming at you to dismiss. (Easier said than done! I'm almost 50 and I still have to fight against that gut because I don't want to listen to it on occasion here and there)
Even if I choose to forgive you or not there is a thing called Karma that will sooner or later pay you a visit Thank You for speaking your truth no matter what some people say
There's nothing worse feeling than apologizing for something that my instinct knew I should not have only to not even get an apology back for their sins. Now they're in my rearview mirror and I'm never dealing with them again. (So it's been corrected by me... They started it, I'll finish it!)
A little correction which I want to make mention that it's in luke 17:3 where the requirement to rebuke until one repents then you forgive. Not Luke 3rd chapter ,like I said in the video.
I think it's great that you say this because too many people like to use that "forgive and forget" nonsense. The churches have been upsurped by people trying to rewrite history or interpretations of God's word. I'm going to go read that chapter. I thank you! (I'm a born-again Christian going 3 years at that... I don't need a church, I just need the Bible)
Tyler. Just want to say thank you sir for for content. Alot of times, I already know what your going say on your videos before clicking. You are the TRUTH, and for alot of your viewers, the STONG TRUTH. keep doing what you are doing because your message needs to be heard. Thanks again. I myself will forgive once. After that, it's like a reverse 2pac album title, "ALL EYES ON YOU". peace and love.
Listening to this again! I’m so grateful for you and your determination to set the doctrine of forgiveness correct especially pertaining to REBUKING people❤Thank you again
When I forgive I do it so I can move on, But I also "turn the other cheek" By that I just do not associate with the person who has mistreated me. Vengeance is mine says the Lord. I don't seek revenge I just do not bother with that person ever again. I just ignore them and move on in my life with a happy and positive attitude.
Hi Tyler, Ah'm now over sixty and this rattles my emotions as you often have before. Yez sir, the partial truths and outright lies have made me weak. It's been like 'STAY weak..Or ELSE! Some people attain power and many material assets in most unscrupulous, slanderous and decietful ways! And YES, that becomes their normal like a boot on ones neck at any given moment. WORDS, they say whatever they want and an honest back- response gets twwisted and publicized. Yet, ah believe that often many others KNOW the weaseling. ThanK yoU, man. Stay blessed brthr***
In my culture we're expected to respect our elders, to the point that we can't even call older people by their names. We call them brother, sister, uncle, and so on. This is done whether they're 50 years older or 1 year older. Well within this sort of ageist dogma I was taught to always forgive and apologize. Is it any surprise then that my older siblings (and even ex-boss) constantly hurt and disrespected me, never apologizing for it? Of course not. This is what happens when you apologize and forgive your abusers. You encourage them to keep hurting, you and others. Forgiveness means letting go of hate, moving on. It does NOT mean excusing and humbling yourself to those callously willing to treat you as less than human, and unworthy of decency.
Forgive them hold them accountable & want nothing to do with them intill they make things right through actions I love my Bible God Jesus but not the religion of Christianity they misinterpret scriptures everytime to manipulate keep people being a slave to the pastor!
Christianity makes people docile. We've all seen it 2 or 3 times in the last several years. A family member gets brutally murdered and the surviving family members go to court to face the muderer and states "I forgive you and your family and I will pray for you and your family." What!? Never mind the killers didn't even ask for forgiveness. If that's not weak, foolish and docile I don't know what is.
Yup you are right. A lot of people are falling for the foolishness and lies of the deception of the doctrine of forgiveness. All because of the doctrine of forgiveness, most people forgive people who has done them wrong and the trangressor does not even make nothing right, make amends, apologize, which forgiveness in this case makes most people weak who does this way, and it's BS. Forgiveness the right and biblical way is when the trangressor takes accountability for thier wrongdoing and goes to apologize, make amends with, make things right to the person they did wrong and also ask for forgiveness.
I love your videos they are always positive and I can relate two lots of things you say your videos are nothing but positive and I love that about you that's awesome
1. Don’t let people behavior disturb your peace 2. Don’t give weight to others opinion of you 3. Don’t react and Pause to consider how your perception and reaction shape the situation 4. Focus on what we can control, decisions and actions 5. Distance yourself from two faced people relationships 6. Set boundaries in conversation and sharing information judiciously 7. Be authentic 8. Don’t criticize but self improve 9. Be careful about people who sympathize with their woes 10. Distance yourself from unproductive conversations
What a standard Christian believes is literally laughable. They listen to man's words and not the words in the Bible. Most Christians can't get past the first page in the Bible with their faith, let alone a deep spiritual understanding about forgiveness. Again, Tyler, you're hitting it out of the park. Blessings my friend
To chide , to reprimand, to scold,to scorn them. I need to do a video about part. When the transgressor does the wrongdoing, we are not to forgive,but to rebuke until the transgressor repents then one forgives. Good question.
I will never forgive someone who hasn't apologized. Why should I give someone who's been mean to me a free kindness, and then hang around for them to do it again? I don't understand what people doing blind optimistic forgiveness are getting out of it. If you are one of these people, can you explain to me? 14:20 That makes sense, as we ourselves must apologize for our sins to the Lord to be forgiven by him. The newest Christianity of accepting all into heaven, is different than the old-fashioned Christianity that was determined to warn all of us that we're going to hell.
Nah you have it wrong. You forgive and move on from the person. You guys mistake is that you forgive and still keep them in your life. Forgive and reconciliation are two different things.
Where am I wrong? Where are you getting you guys make the mistake you forgive and keep them in your life? Yes forgive and reconciliation are two different things. People think or make the insertion that reconcilation is letting someone back into your life, which its not what you think it means. In the etmology, reconciliation means that it is a renewal of friendship after disagreement of an adversary or one estranged (originally from God and sinners). It's on the sinner part to do. Renewal is act of Renewal to make something new. All of that is on the sinner part to reconcile not the person who was done wrong. No the sinner or trangressor asks for forgiveness and to to reconcile that situation. Do know what reconcilation is? In the etmology of that word, reconcile means in reference is to restore to union and friendships estrangement or variance ( to God or Christ), restore. Notice restore at the end!!! It's required by the Trangressors to reconcile ( restore ) what he or she has wrecked and damaged in the life of the wrongdoer by which you look at Union in the etmology meaning join one to another and an agreement. When the trangressor makes amends, repents, which asking for forgiveness the person who was done wrong agrees to it, and the trangressor agreed to be forgiveness, this is joined one to another. There is an exchange of two joining two different agreements why do think the meaning says one to another here.What you're thinking by union: It's not talking about being someone back into your life, and union is not taking about that . That's where you messed it up by what Christian world is telling about that word is: they are lying to you so wake up!!!!!! Besides ,how can you move on a person and memories of what person did to you🤔? If you still remember, you have not moved on! If you are talking about distancing yourself: this can be better term at what you're saying. Stop listening what the Christian world is telling about forgiveness and reconciliation
I normally agree with you but not here. You must do both, rebuke to let them know you aren’t ok with what happened but forgive so that you can be done with it. Unforgiveness has people rotting decades after an offense.
That's fine to disagree. Unforgiveness with rebuke clears your conscience. Unforgiveness is replaced with forgiving the Christian way has made people go mad and rotting for decades not unforgiveness. It's been taught wrong to us. Forgiveness the biblical way is when the transgressor comes and make it right with you realizing that he or she done wrong, then one forgives,If that person breaks this regulation the tragression is on him or her and will make you go mad. Not the Christian way.
@@TylerJTI Exactly if they come to you and ask for forgiveness you should forgive, in these days they don’t even come to ask for forgiveness of their wrongdoings, they feel ENTITLED to your Forgiveness AUTOMATICALLY 😂therefore your hurting inside because we’re TAUGHT to forgive and trust them again NO NO NO NO! There’s a Big difference in Forgiveness, TRUST, and reconciliation. For your conscience you can forgive so you don’t have a hardened heart (stony heart) when they come to eventually ask for forgiveness(but don’t hold your breathe 😂) Now here comes the issue of TRUST! ok so whether they come and ask for forgiveness or Do not ask for forgiveness doesn’t mean I TRUST you AGAIN INTO MY LIFE AND HEART, NO I don’t have to TRUST you to hurt me again, hit me again, cheat on me again, trick me again and so on and so on, So Forgiveness is not so much the issue it’s a TRUST issue, I can decide to forgive you in my heart 199 times a day whether you ask or not but I don’t have to allow and TRUST you back into my life again PERIOD, This is where RECONCILIATION is now the ISSUE, we can agree to resolve the issue’s or NOT, if so RECONCILIATION takes place now , which is the AGREEMENT of TWO PEOPLE IN AN AGREEMENT TO ABIDE BY THE SO CALLED VOWS, contract, or oral agreement, BASICALLY MUTUALITY! PEOPLE think they can play and manipulate us 😂with their false doctrines, Nope Nope Nope Nope!! And you are 200 percent right about Rebuking them, nipping it in the bud IMMEDIATELY! God told me a while back, I Never told you to be Nice( saving face) I told you to be HONEST, and rebuking is HONESTY whether you like it or not people need to told and called out on their BS right then and there regardless of their feelings being HURT! because they know exactly what they are doing when they say what they slick mouth said or deceiving acts when they do it to you so THEY BETTER GET READY TO BE CALLED OUT AND REBUKED ASAP so next time they think about inflicting painful words or deeds to the next person they will think TWICE AND HARD because they will possibly get Rebuked, embarrassed, exposed and shamed again, and you know toxic and narcissistic folks hate Being Exposed!! Shame the devil! Hope you understand my comment, thanks Tyler!
No holding in hatred and being hateful has ppl rotting. There’s ppl I won’t forgive bc they don’t deserve it, but I don’t hate them, just what they did.
If you dont practice forgiveness why should God forgive you your trespasses. No matter what people do. Be happy that you have the lord and the lord have you. To in Trust him is to have faith in faith you believe and by grace you are saved by faith
A brainwashed Christian at the finest. I don't practice forgiveness the religion of Christianity way, which is for the weak. I practice it the right and biblical way: No repentance equals no forgiveness, which is what the Bible teaches until they repent, make amends, make it right, then forgiveness is on the table . it seems that my videos are getting your attention by triggering you because false doctrine of forgivens.Since you love commenting my videos because you're triggered, you're mad because your sorry religion of Christianity doctrine of forgiveness is being challenged and you can't stand it. Since you like to hide your face TROLL.
Brother.. Matthew 6. God said if we don’t forgive others, our He will not forgive us. Stay in the Spirit “For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you: but if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.” Matthew 6:14-15 KJV
@@TylerJTI “For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you: but if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.” Matthew 6:14-15 KJV Do you agree with the Words of Christ or not? For a Person to say forgiveness is of the Weak, they are not in the fruits of the Spirit of God, so what are we left with? Ephesians 4:32 Be careful family you are Isaiah 8:20 family, are you are new to the faith?
@@Christian.Israel yes, I agree those where the words of Christ. Now, let me ask you what was actually going on there when Christ spoke of this? Since you like to use the so-called proof texts No, if you listened to video which it sounds like you probably didn't I said forgiveness the Christian way is for the weak because it's not the biblical way. So doing it the Christan way can't be the fruits of the spirit man. Doing it the biblical way is the fruit of the spirit; it causes the transgressor to be held accountable by the wrongdoer, which the transgressor hates it. The Christan way does not.
@@TylerJTI Brother. Peace to you. I am a Fruit of the Spirit advocate and I bear the fruit of LONG SUFFERING. What you are speaking does not line up with the LONG SUFFERING fruit. Now that I have "given place unto wrath" brother, I am focusing on the fruit of GENTLENESS, none the less, Forgiving our Brothers is something you are ordered by the Creator to do, else God will not forgive you, by the measure you judge, you will be judged. I am not your OP family, I was an israelite in a uh... cult.. for quite some time. And i have recently came out with the Israel of God's teaching, but I must let you know. We must FORGIVE, we are commanded!! Its not a choice and no man or woman gets a say, CHRIST commanded it. I agree that we must hold people accountable as well. However, don't let the wicked cause you to get out of the FRUITS of the Spirit. The Bible says a GOOD tree CANNOT bear BAD fruit. Forgiveness I would say is a GOOD FRUIT Unforgiveness I think we could agree is a BAD fruit. I am not your enemy dear brother, just seeking to edify. Also don't lump all the faith together. A Christian is one who suffers to the Glory of God according to 1 Peter, Christianity and Christian are two different things. I will be creating content on this Tip soon. Grace and Peace to the Chosen of the Firstborn Son of Mary before Mary knew lord Joseph in the Name of our Lord Jesus Christ.
@@Christian.Israel you ignored my question of what was going on what Jesus said in Matthew 6 12:14? I asked you this. You want to say that what I am talking about is not in line with longsuffering text is lined up with forgiveness and overall it's not. The reason I agreed with you because you said longsuffering was in that statement but you did put forgiveness in there . Longsuffering is part a of the fruit of the Holy spirit mentioned in Galatians5:22-23. Nowhere it mentioned, forgiveness is the fruit of the spirit. That's insertion that you made up Longsuffering and forgiveness are two different they are not the same thing!!!!!!!!!! Since you went that route, I am going to school you about longsuffering since you don't know. When you look into the strong condorance in that Greek. The Greek word for longsuffering is makrothumia (3115) , from the same as 3116, longanimity i.e. ( obj) forbearance or (sub) fortitude: - longsuffering, patience. The etmology of word the longsuffering bearing wrongs without reliating: from the 1530's. From long( adv)+ suffering( noun). Old English in this sense. From 1520' s patience of offense. The question to you is that who's wrongs to bear was it by which it says in the etmology? It doesn't say when someone has done you wrong? They are two different things!!!!!!!!!!!! They are not the same thing. Now you sit and say that we are commanded to forgive, which didn't state . Let me correct and school you once again. There are 3 commands and regulations that we are commanded to forgive.we are commanded to forgive unless the trangressor ( brethren)repents mentioned in Luke 17:3. I said that in the video. The other one in mark 11:24-26 but it pertaining to the transgressor not the person who was done wrong. In Colossians 3:13 , which have been misquoted and christian people deceiving folks what quarrel is and that word is not what you think it is the person have to forgive the one who has quarrel against any not the person who has quarrel , bearing one another, being with the group of forgiving one another. There is no scripture that mentioned that we have to forgive a person that had done you wrong, which is the WEAK WAY!!!!!!!. All of those so proof texts like Mathew 6: 14- 16, Ephesians 4:32, Colossians 3:13, mark 11: 24 -26, Luke 6:37-38 . it's not indicated in none of those scriptures at all. That's an false insertion that is put in the doctrine of forgiveness by the religion of Christianity. When a person transgress against you: you are command to rebuke, not forgive one of the scriptures is luke 17:3. I will say Only when the transgressor repents, make amends, or make it right by you commanded to forgive. There are way more that I have not presented to you that you cant accept nor handle because you have been brainwashed by the doctrine of forgiveness in the religion of Christianity. Since you agreed that one should hold the trangressor accountable by what you said about longsuffering the religion of Christianity way: you contradicted yourself. Coming out of the Israelites cult, that's you not me. No, I am not a Christian nor in the that religion. Besides you know me not.
Tyler, I've been following you for some time now. I enjoy your content and support you. However, I disagree. I believe forgiveness is imminent to our healing. Release those people who have hurt you. I was like you many years ago and suffered a lot at the hands of family. You should really break-off those soul-draining relationships in your life as it sucks your life-force. It only prolongs your healing to continue dealing with them. You mentioned them being narcissists and I know how that is. It does not get better. You will have to completely and totally disassociate and disconnect from them in every which way you can. Forgiveness also doesn't mean forget. A lot of people I have forgiven are still not psychologically safe for me to be around. It also doesn't mean to stay connected or forget about what is done. Just try not to let those things haunt you and bound you mentally. Forgiveness also doesn't mean they won't eventually answer for what they've done regardless of what they think or believe. I will say it is harmful to force forgiveness though, it is a process. I am only saying all of this as I see some of my old self in you. I wish you the best.
You have a right to disagree. you need to relook at forgiveness of how it's been told. One can distance themselves from those who have hurt them , but you don't have to forgive, but rebuke . Rebuke clears the conscience. Just like you said to break off, disassociate, and to disconnect which one part of having a peace of mind , but the problem,is hat one does not do rebuking the transgressor to clear thier conscience totally. Due to not rebuking and not forgiving, but forgiving the Christian way will disturb and eat up at your conscience. I don't have to release nobody the way you present it until they come make it right. That's when I forgive so that thier transgression is released. Forgiveness is not imminent to healing,which I strongly disagree. It's two different things! Forgiveness is not a bridge to healing like how we have been told. It's an exchange When the transgressor comes and make things right, make amends, apologizes, repents can be the bridge to healing, but most situations it's not. Sometimes, That person will have heal inwardly by their conscience, which is not forgiveness. Forgiveness is for the transgressor so that the sin or transgression released by the wrongdoer. It has nothing to do with you( the one who has been done wrong.) Like how we have been been told by the people who follow the doctrine of forgiveness in the religion of Christianity, which is a lie. The only way that forgiveness is for you, is that you the transgressor comes to realization of wrong doing and the pain has caused by taking accountability to go make things right, apologize , or make amends to person whom the transgressor did wrong. When the person forgives the it is for the transgressor sake (you) so that thier transgression is released. You need to go re- examine what you have been told by people who are following the doctrine of forgiveness in the religion of Christianity.
@@TylerJTI I have went through different sources both of Christianity and not. Forgiveness is for the victim, not the offender. Forgiveness is to release you from the mental prison they put you in with the offense. It is to heal. It does not mean you will not be vindicated, or vengeance will not come. It also doesn't mean the offender is safe. Forgiveness also can be given to people who are not only not sorry but, arrogant, obnoxious and with impunity. You can forgive people who are not sorry, you do not wait as some will offend you as long as you are in their proximity. Some are not only not sorry but, feel they have a right to torment and abuse you. Forgiveness is for YOU. This isn't all about Christianity either. Forgiveness does not have to come right away it is a journey. You do not have to forgive yet if you are not ready. It takes stages and a journey that can also go back and forth. You will know and decide. You don't want these people having power over you long after you have disconnected from them. It is an intentional process and I have struggled with it before. I have forgiven people and not told them, or sought them out. What you're asking for isn't realistic. A lot of people don't take accountability for the harm they do because they don't see anything wrong with it ( narcissists) most of the time. They do not care to make things right. You are projecting your own morale on some people who have none. Their are soulless people roaming you just have to release and allow them to succumb to their own destruction. My own experience after is the hovering not to derail the topic but people will watch, hover, smear and try to find their way back after you've truly cut them off. I am just clarifying my point. Don't let them steal anything else from you. Take Care.
@@yungladii1 no it's not!!!!!!forgiveness is not for you nor the victim? How can someone be for you if you wasn't the person who did the transgression? That doesn't add up at all based on what you present. You are talking about your experience okay. You made a choice to forgive the trangressor based what you heard what has been told you and it has nothing to do with you: it was for the release the transgression for the trangressor sake . Healing is you. However you healed which was by self repairement conscience and emotional wise, or by someone story, or the transgressor made it right by you, or any other way: I don't know I don't your story and how you healed. Overall the healing was for you not forgiveness. Once again, we don't have forgive to that person who did us wrong .why do you think the previous statement " forgive that person"? it's that person, it has nothing to do with you because what's been told to you. Like I said before,Healing is for you , the body can sometimes slowing heal emotionally and conscience wise depending on how much damage was done to that person, but doesn't mean you will forget what was done to you. That had nothing to do with forgiveness, nor forgiveness and healing are the same when using critical thinking. This is common sense!!!!!!!!!!!! Also possible healing can take place, when the transgressor comes make amends, make things right , apologizing to you by asking for your forgiveness. Have you heard when the trangressor coming to make amends ,the apology, or to make things right to the person who done wrong breaks down and cries? The reason why the apology, making amends, or making it right is repairing the emotions and conscience of that person who was done wrong, which is healing ! This is common sense!!! Why do you think the transgressor came to ask forgiveness from the who was done wrong in the first place? The forgiveness was for transgressor nor the victim or one who was wronged in order to be released of their transgression or more!! If someone came and told you thier story of what they went through and it was indent ical to the same thing what you went through: this is also caused the emotionally healed. Why because the story was slowly or quickly healing thier emotions and conscience. Once more Healing is for you, not forgiveness. Doesn't mean a person healed, it does not mean a person forgave? You can still not forgive a person and still heal. This is way over your mind. Like you said, you suffered like me. Let me state that don't know your side what you went through and you don't know my side even if did have one or not . I have not told you anything just like I don't know your side. That's assumption you made based on something by you watching my video rather than asking me questions yourself. That's not right at all. You can say it's discernment but it's not. True discernment ask questions and not quickly come to assumptions.
😮 YOU SIR ARE THE AUTHOR of CONFUSION! DO NOT BE DECEIVED!! You don't have to seek out a person to forgive them. You forgive them in your heart. LET GO OF THE PAIN!!! TRUST GOD to handle any consequences to their actions. HEAL and MOVE ON! It's NOT your job to fix nobody. Now I understand why YOU don't understand. FORGIVENESS doesn't mean go back and be abused some more. FORGIVENESS is so YOU don't harbour ill feelings that would keep GOD FROM FORGIVING YOU ON JUDGEMENT DAY! Don't hold grudges and miss your Blessings in the Kingdom because you're listening to this guy. REBUKE FALSE DOCTRINE, FALSE PROPHETS AND FAKE TEACHERS. Read your own BIBLE and find the TRUTH!! 🎉 I told him last week the Bible states the word FORGIVE over a hundred times in scripture. He STILL CHOSE TO MAKE THIS VIDEO TO MISLEAD YOU! 😮😢❤
What you fail to understand because you choose to be decieved That I debunked your argument. Yes you said it was mentioned 52 times, but you didn't mention the other times where God did not forgive which I stated the facts and the scripture and you had no comebacks but you still choose to be decieved and lied on because you have not studied this topic because I stated the facts.
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Forgiveness is a spiritual concept, it is metaphysical. not "religious" here is an example to be the solution to something you must first forgive the problem. You must die to the old, for if you hold onto the old state you can never become the new. Another thing i have to say from other videos is Actions do not always speak louder than words, here is an example. there are people who are extremely obese or alcoholic and every day they wake up in considerable pain on all levels wishing that their life was different and truly wanting it to be, but they cannot stop eating or put the drink down. Sometimes the solution and physical action is simply out of the persons current abilities. People can take wrong action but wholeheartedly desire to be different. At all times people are always doing their best to be their best but that does not mean that they are not sinning or making error and hurting their fellow man. For instance a narcissist is simply trying to protect themselves by giving themselves what they think is needed for survival, it is just the manner they go about it; living in complete fear and scarcity mindset to the point that they actually hurt others and the world and even their selves, for if they changed their perception and started giving to the world and allowing god to give back to them they would prosper but most narcissist are wounded and in such a low vibration that they are completely lost. As a healthy individual it is not your job to take their abuse either or even be their friend, it is for you to forgive the "apperences" and see the light of god working through and for them and allowing god to exhault them one day to a perfected healthy being
I love listening to him, he be going in...
Yes! Just discovered this man and I love his energy. He's sincere , straightforward, passionate and funny! He be speaking facts
A lot of people have stabbed me in the back and I forgave them way too many times, this video gave me some very needed clarity
thank you.More videos to come on this subject
You deserve better pay attention to red flag in people
My form of forgiveness is to cut the person off. A lot of people try to gaslight me making me feel like I am wrong for feeling the way that I do.
It’s best too so your spirit will not be tainted. Blessings 💗
Yeah, they have nerve to try to sneak in some form of domination on you, only to get pissy that you're not gonna subscribe to their delusional paradigm. Thank GOD they're in my rearview mirror now!
Best advice ever! exactly Tyler, this gives them a pass, i agree with you 💯. It is being used to make the transgressors feel comfortable about not taking accountability. I'm so glad you speaking on this. You have always kept it real without sugarcoating.
You are right. I can easily forgive people who have apologized for their behavior and act like it. I have come across a Karen who does not want to take responsibility for her behavior and is already 50+. I'm going to address her behavior about what she did and why certain people approach her disrespectfully. I also say that she should take a better look at herself in the mirror of her sickening and arrogant behavior towards others instead of playing the holy helper or the innocent.
@@chocoMyCoco "i JUST don't understand!!" is their favorite PHONEY humbled, PRETEND shocked reaction to an audience (behind your back being the cowards they are) when you will NOT go along with being a doormat of theirs like they're trying to trick you into being. Trust your gut and leave those behind who your gut is screaming at you to dismiss. (Easier said than done! I'm almost 50 and I still have to fight against that gut because I don't want to listen to it on occasion here and there)
@@chocoMyCocowe all have to answer to god no matter what
Even if I choose to forgive you or not there is a thing called Karma that will sooner or later pay you a visit Thank You for speaking your truth no matter what some people say
When someone show you who they are believe them.
Fo Sho fo sho 👍
Yep this is why I stay to my family all the time because of this I love being a loner
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Yes and better believe that's them the first time . don' allow them to show you more than once .
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Rebuke will disturb their comfort in sin as well and cause accountability.
Sounds like we’re not doing our job properly of rebuking these evil people
Forgiveness just gives room more to the transgressor to keep on treating you any old way etc💯
Exactly
True.
I hate Christianity because of that forgiving all the time and not standing up for yourself.
We have been taught to forgive bull shit behavior, now it's our job to retrain our beliefs.. And let go of bull shit not forgive it #PeaceAndPowerFam
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People always want to hide behind religion on the time unfortunately
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I apologized for the situation 3 times because many years have passed, and SOMEONE needed to!.. But you're right, nothing changed...
There's nothing worse feeling than apologizing for something that my instinct knew I should not have only to not even get an apology back for their sins. Now they're in my rearview mirror and I'm never dealing with them again. (So it's been corrected by me... They started it, I'll finish it!)
forgiveness for yourself let the most high do their part
This is a Masterpiece ❤
Thank you
@Tyler JTI when you rebuke an evil person the most high makes where you will always see their karma, a weak point
I appreciate these videos. Tyler is like a friend getting you in order when you’re second guessing yourself.
I done forgave everybody and moved on ….. but trust and believe that there isn’t a day that goes by that I don’t recollect
Be cordial to others with respect
A little correction which I want to make mention that it's in luke 17:3 where the requirement to rebuke until one repents then you forgive. Not Luke 3rd chapter ,like I said in the video.
I think it's great that you say this because too many people like to use that "forgive and forget" nonsense. The churches have been upsurped by people trying to rewrite history or interpretations of God's word. I'm going to go read that chapter. I thank you! (I'm a born-again Christian going 3 years at that... I don't need a church, I just need the Bible)
I can't believe I just now seeing this but oh yea brother Rebuke is definitely powerful and forgiveness definitely requires strength
Tyler. Just want to say thank you sir for for content. Alot of times, I already know what your going say on your videos before clicking. You are the TRUTH, and for alot of your viewers, the STONG TRUTH. keep doing what you are doing because your message needs to be heard. Thanks again. I myself will forgive once. After that, it's like a reverse 2pac album title, "ALL EYES ON YOU". peace and love.
I always forgive those whom are jealous of me for no reason move in silence work behind the sense
I don't follow the doctorine of forgiveness I get even..it makes me feel better.. thanks for sharing this you talk sense..
Listening to this again! I’m so grateful for you and your determination to set the doctrine of forgiveness correct especially pertaining to REBUKING people❤Thank you again
Yes ma'am, I am exposing the doctrine of forgiveness for the fraud for what it is because it's not the biblical forgiveness at all.
This is so true. I need to rebuke these ppl.
Rebuke clears the conscience
@Tyler JTI thank you, Mr. Tyler. I appreciate you and your knowledge. ❤️
You should also never take disrespect from someone because once they disrespect you they'll always do it as long as you allow it.
Yup! And God is not with the disrespect period
this why i stay to myself nowdays single for life with an good heart
Facts.💯
I believe forgiving is strong but getting revenge is much better.
I learned that from my own family members and stop kids;nothing changed
Powerful❤️❤️❤️❤️.
This is one of your top videos IMO
When I forgive I do it so I can move on, But I also "turn the other cheek"
By that I just do not associate with the person who has mistreated me.
Vengeance is mine says the Lord.
I don't seek revenge I just do not bother with that person ever again.
I just ignore them and move on in my life with a happy and positive attitude.
Exactly no reconciliation lest they make the concerted and necessary efforts and steps.
Bad associations useful habits just like it’s stated in the Bible
PREACH...Mr.Tyler!😊❤
Hi Tyler, Ah'm now over sixty and this rattles my emotions as you often have before.
Yez sir, the partial truths and outright lies have made me weak. It's been like 'STAY weak..Or ELSE!
Some people attain power and many material assets in most unscrupulous, slanderous and decietful ways!
And YES, that becomes their normal like a boot on ones neck at any given moment.
WORDS, they say whatever they want and an honest back- response gets twwisted and publicized.
Yet, ah believe that often many others KNOW the weaseling.
ThanK yoU, man. Stay blessed brthr***
I hear you
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I believe in forgiving but also revenge. I don't believe in being passive.
Absolutely true. Thank you for your videos.
This a awesome lesson 👏 👍 🙏 bro teach
Thank you. I have archives on the forgiveness deception.
Sgt. Major Payne..
In my culture we're expected to respect our elders, to the point that we can't even call older people by their names. We call them brother, sister, uncle, and so on. This is done whether they're 50 years older or 1 year older. Well within this sort of ageist dogma I was taught to always forgive and apologize. Is it any surprise then that my older siblings (and even ex-boss) constantly hurt and disrespected me, never apologizing for it? Of course not.
This is what happens when you apologize and forgive your abusers. You encourage them to keep hurting, you and others. Forgiveness means letting go of hate, moving on. It does NOT mean excusing and humbling yourself to those callously willing to treat you as less than human, and unworthy of decency.
Very well said!
Best advice ever
Thank you
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Truth be told thank you
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Forgive them hold them accountable & want nothing to do with them intill they make things right through actions I love my Bible God Jesus but not the religion of Christianity they misinterpret scriptures everytime to manipulate keep people being a slave to the pastor!
Yeah same thing
Exactly hold them accountable
I totally agree
Thank U!!
Facts
I forgive people and I keep it push. I don't bring them, back in my life!!
Christianity makes people docile. We've all seen it 2 or 3 times in the last several years. A family member gets brutally murdered and the surviving family members go to court to face the muderer and states "I forgive you and your family and I will pray for you and your family." What!? Never mind the killers didn't even ask for forgiveness. If that's not weak, foolish and docile I don't know what is.
Yup you are right. A lot of people are falling for the foolishness and lies of the deception of the doctrine of forgiveness. All because of the doctrine of forgiveness, most people forgive people who has done them wrong and the trangressor does not even make nothing right, make amends, apologize, which forgiveness in this case makes most people weak who does this way, and it's BS. Forgiveness the right and biblical way is when the trangressor takes accountability for thier wrongdoing and goes to apologize, make amends with, make things right to the person they did wrong and also ask for forgiveness.
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ABSOLUTELY 💯TRUTH.
learning new things with you. thanks!
GODTALK nothing but the truth peace GOD!!!
I'm pretty sure forgiveness is an act that is done after the other party apologises and shows shame why should I just forgive for no reason?...
Good Advice
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I love your videos they are always positive and I can relate two lots of things you say your videos are nothing but positive and I love that about you that's awesome
Well said brother
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I hope ny man and Igy to meet you 💯 such a real blessing and enlightenment.
Forgiving 7,777 times is for the weaks. 3 strikes and you're out for me !!
That's right .The Christian don't even understand what Jesus spoke. Like me no apology or make it right, there will be no forgiveness
Same here energy doesn’t lie at all
Let’s get it
1. Don’t let people behavior disturb your peace
2. Don’t give weight to others opinion of you
3. Don’t react and Pause to consider how your perception and reaction shape the situation
4. Focus on what we can control, decisions and actions
5. Distance yourself from two faced people relationships
6. Set boundaries in conversation and sharing information judiciously
7. Be authentic
8. Don’t criticize but self improve
9. Be careful about people who sympathize with their woes
10. Distance yourself from unproductive conversations
that why i stay to myself nowdays
Tbats right bro no mater what BRING IT OUT.
What a standard Christian believes is literally laughable. They listen to man's words and not the words in the Bible. Most Christians can't get past the first page in the Bible with their faith, let alone a deep spiritual understanding about forgiveness. Again, Tyler, you're hitting it out of the park. Blessings my friend
They are so called
Ya. They think stupid is gonna forgive me, I'll have to abuse again.
That must of been a sign, it might of been something you said that had a bad omen effect
Hey Tyler
I'm not a Christian nor do I follow the Bible or religion. So, I wanted to ask, what do you mean by " rebuke" them ?
To chide , to reprimand, to scold,to scorn them. I need to do a video about part. When the transgressor does the wrongdoing, we are not to forgive,but to rebuke until the transgressor repents then one forgives. Good question.
@@TylerJTI ok, thank you so much, Tyler !
I've heard that word many times over but never really knew the meaning behind it.
I will never forgive someone who hasn't apologized. Why should I give someone who's been mean to me a free kindness, and then hang around for them to do it again? I don't understand what people doing blind optimistic forgiveness are getting out of it. If you are one of these people, can you explain to me?
14:20 That makes sense, as we ourselves must apologize for our sins to the Lord to be forgiven by him. The newest Christianity of accepting all into heaven, is different than the old-fashioned Christianity that was determined to warn all of us that we're going to hell.
I got no diploma or degrees. What’s wrong? Cmon! Lol!!!!!!! Come awnnnn 🤣
This is real..
atleast I can back my BS up. You? Come onnnn! XD
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I think all of the people who mistreated me are going to hell anyway. I do not forgive them, I just let them suffer.
Tyler
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I LOVE YOU! I hope you are monetized
Thanks I am
@@TylerJTI Good because you deserve to get paid $$$ - you help so many people
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Matthew 6:27 who of you, by worrying, can add a single hour to his life?
SO THAT YOU JUDGE SO WILL YOU BE JUDGED, DONT FORGIVE AND YOU WONT BE FORGIVEN. JESUS IS THE ONLY WAY.
Stop it!!!!! Stop the foolness of taking Matthew 6:14-16 way out of context.
Nah you have it wrong. You forgive and move on from the person. You guys mistake is that you forgive and still keep them in your life. Forgive and reconciliation are two different things.
Where am I wrong? Where are you getting you guys make the mistake you forgive and keep them in your life? Yes forgive and reconciliation are two different things. People think or make the insertion that reconcilation is letting someone back into your life, which its not what you think it means. In the etmology, reconciliation means that it is a renewal of friendship after disagreement of an adversary or one estranged (originally from God and sinners). It's on the sinner part to do. Renewal is act of Renewal to make something new. All of that is on the sinner part to reconcile not the person who was done wrong. No the sinner or trangressor asks for forgiveness and to to reconcile that situation. Do know what reconcilation is? In the etmology of that word, reconcile means in reference is to restore to union and friendships estrangement or variance ( to God or Christ), restore. Notice restore at the end!!! It's required by the Trangressors to reconcile ( restore ) what he or she has wrecked and damaged in the life of the wrongdoer by which you look at Union in the etmology meaning join one to another and an agreement.
When the trangressor makes amends, repents, which asking for forgiveness the person who was done wrong agrees to it, and the trangressor agreed to be forgiveness, this is joined one to another. There is an exchange of two joining two different agreements why do think the meaning says one to another here.What you're thinking by union: It's not talking about being someone back into your life, and union is not taking about that . That's where you messed it up by what Christian world is telling about that word is: they are lying to you so wake up!!!!!!
Besides ,how can you move on a person and memories of what person did to you🤔? If you still remember, you have not moved on! If you are talking about distancing yourself: this can be better term at what you're saying.
Stop listening what the Christian world is telling about forgiveness and reconciliation
Jesus said forgive or he can't forgive you
In Matthew 6:12-16. Where you state the one taken way out of context.
I normally agree with you but not here. You must do both, rebuke to let them know you aren’t ok with what happened but forgive so that you can be done with it.
Unforgiveness has people rotting decades after an offense.
That's fine to disagree. Unforgiveness with rebuke clears your conscience. Unforgiveness is replaced with forgiving the Christian way has made people go mad and rotting for decades not unforgiveness. It's been taught wrong to us. Forgiveness the biblical way is when the transgressor comes and make it right with you realizing that he or she done wrong, then one forgives,If that person breaks this regulation the tragression is on him or her and will make you go mad. Not the Christian way.
@@TylerJTI Exactly if they come to you and ask for forgiveness you should forgive, in these days they don’t even come to ask for forgiveness of their wrongdoings, they feel ENTITLED to your Forgiveness AUTOMATICALLY 😂therefore your hurting inside because we’re TAUGHT to forgive and trust them again NO NO NO NO! There’s a Big difference in Forgiveness, TRUST, and reconciliation. For your conscience you can forgive so you don’t have a hardened heart (stony heart) when they come to eventually ask for forgiveness(but don’t hold your breathe 😂)
Now here comes the issue of TRUST! ok so whether they come and ask for forgiveness or Do not ask for forgiveness doesn’t mean I TRUST you AGAIN INTO MY LIFE AND HEART, NO I don’t have to TRUST you to hurt me again, hit me again, cheat on me again, trick me again and so on and so on, So Forgiveness is not so much the issue it’s a TRUST issue, I can decide to forgive you in my heart 199 times a day whether you ask or not but I don’t have to allow and TRUST you back into my life again PERIOD, This is where RECONCILIATION is now the ISSUE, we can agree to resolve the issue’s or NOT, if so RECONCILIATION takes place now , which is the AGREEMENT of TWO PEOPLE IN AN AGREEMENT TO ABIDE BY THE SO CALLED VOWS, contract, or oral agreement, BASICALLY MUTUALITY! PEOPLE think they can play and manipulate us 😂with their false doctrines, Nope Nope Nope Nope!! And you are 200 percent right about Rebuking them, nipping it in the bud IMMEDIATELY! God told me a while back, I Never told you to be Nice( saving face) I told you to be HONEST, and rebuking is HONESTY whether you like it or not people need to told and called out on their BS right then and there regardless of their feelings being HURT! because they know exactly what they are doing when they say what they slick mouth said or deceiving acts when they do it to you so THEY BETTER GET READY TO BE CALLED OUT AND REBUKED ASAP so next time they think about inflicting painful words or deeds to the next person they will think TWICE AND HARD because they will possibly get Rebuked, embarrassed, exposed and shamed again, and you know toxic and narcissistic folks hate Being Exposed!! Shame the devil! Hope you understand my comment, thanks Tyler!
No holding in hatred and being hateful has ppl rotting. There’s ppl I won’t forgive bc they don’t deserve it, but I don’t hate them, just what they did.
@@crethehardway and while you’re busy not forgiving them, they haven’t given a second thought about you.
Forgiveness is more about you than them.
If you dont practice forgiveness why should God forgive you your trespasses.
No matter what people do. Be happy that you have the lord and the lord have you. To in Trust him is to have faith in faith you believe and by grace you are saved by faith
A brainwashed Christian at the finest. I don't practice forgiveness the religion of Christianity way, which is for the weak. I practice it the right and biblical way: No repentance equals no forgiveness, which is what the Bible teaches until they repent, make amends, make it right, then forgiveness is on the table
. it seems that my videos are getting your attention by triggering you because false doctrine of forgivens.Since you love commenting my videos because you're triggered, you're mad because your sorry religion of Christianity doctrine of forgiveness is being challenged and you can't stand it. Since you like to hide your face TROLL.
Brother.. Matthew 6. God said if we don’t forgive others, our He will not forgive us. Stay in the Spirit
“For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you: but if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.”
Matthew 6:14-15 KJV
Go back and re read it. It's not what the Christian world saying that it is and what you think it is.
@@TylerJTI “For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you: but if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.”
Matthew 6:14-15 KJV
Do you agree with the Words of Christ or not?
For a Person to say forgiveness is of the Weak, they are not in the fruits of the Spirit of God, so what are we left with?
Ephesians 4:32
Be careful family you are Isaiah 8:20 family, are you are new to the faith?
@@Christian.Israel yes, I agree those where the words of Christ. Now, let me ask you what was actually going on there when Christ spoke of this? Since you like to use the so-called proof texts
No, if you listened to video which it sounds like you probably didn't I said forgiveness the Christian way is for the weak because it's not the biblical way. So doing it the Christan way can't be the fruits of the spirit man. Doing it the biblical way is the fruit of the spirit; it causes the transgressor to be held accountable by the wrongdoer, which the transgressor hates it. The Christan way does not.
@@TylerJTI Brother. Peace to you. I am a Fruit of the Spirit advocate and I bear the fruit of LONG SUFFERING. What you are speaking does not line up with the LONG SUFFERING fruit. Now that I have "given place unto wrath" brother, I am focusing on the fruit of GENTLENESS, none the less, Forgiving our Brothers is something you are ordered by the Creator to do, else God will not forgive you, by the measure you judge, you will be judged. I am not your OP family, I was an israelite in a uh... cult.. for quite some time. And i have recently came out with the Israel of God's teaching, but I must let you know. We must FORGIVE, we are commanded!! Its not a choice and no man or woman gets a say, CHRIST commanded it. I agree that we must hold people accountable as well. However, don't let the wicked cause you to get out of the FRUITS of the Spirit. The Bible says a GOOD tree CANNOT bear BAD fruit.
Forgiveness I would say is a GOOD FRUIT
Unforgiveness I think we could agree is a BAD fruit. I am not your enemy dear brother, just seeking to edify. Also don't lump all the faith together. A Christian is one who suffers to the Glory of God according to 1 Peter, Christianity and Christian are two different things. I will be creating content on this Tip soon.
Grace and Peace to the Chosen of the Firstborn Son of Mary before Mary knew lord Joseph in the Name of our Lord Jesus Christ.
@@Christian.Israel you ignored my question of what was going on what Jesus said in Matthew 6 12:14? I asked you this. You want to say that what I am talking about is not in line with longsuffering text is lined up with forgiveness and overall it's not. The reason I agreed with you because you said longsuffering was in that statement but you did put forgiveness in there . Longsuffering is part a of the fruit of the Holy spirit mentioned in Galatians5:22-23. Nowhere it mentioned, forgiveness is the fruit of the spirit. That's insertion that you made up Longsuffering and forgiveness are two different they are not the same thing!!!!!!!!!!
Since you went that route, I am going to school you about longsuffering since you don't know.
When you look into the strong condorance in that Greek. The Greek word for longsuffering is makrothumia (3115) , from the same as 3116, longanimity i.e. ( obj) forbearance or (sub) fortitude: - longsuffering, patience.
The etmology of word the longsuffering bearing wrongs without reliating: from the 1530's. From long( adv)+ suffering( noun). Old English in this sense. From 1520' s patience of offense.
The question to you is that who's wrongs to bear was it by which it says in the etmology? It doesn't say when someone has done you wrong? They are two different things!!!!!!!!!!!! They are not the same thing.
Now you sit and say that we are commanded to forgive, which didn't state . Let me correct and school you once again. There are 3 commands and regulations that we are commanded to forgive.we are commanded to forgive unless the trangressor ( brethren)repents mentioned in Luke 17:3. I said that in the video. The other one in mark 11:24-26 but it pertaining to the transgressor not the person who was done wrong. In Colossians 3:13 , which have been misquoted and christian people deceiving folks what quarrel is and that word is not what you think it is the person have to forgive the one who has quarrel against any not the person who has quarrel , bearing one another, being with the group of forgiving one another.
There is no scripture that mentioned that we have to forgive a person that had done you wrong, which is the WEAK WAY!!!!!!!. All of those so proof texts like Mathew 6: 14- 16, Ephesians 4:32, Colossians 3:13, mark 11: 24 -26, Luke 6:37-38 . it's not indicated in none of those scriptures at all. That's an false insertion that is put in the doctrine of forgiveness by the religion of Christianity.
When a person transgress against you: you are command to rebuke, not forgive one of the scriptures is luke 17:3.
I will say Only when the transgressor repents, make amends, or make it right by you commanded to forgive.
There are way more that I have not presented to you that you cant accept nor handle because you have been brainwashed by the doctrine of forgiveness in the religion of Christianity.
Since you agreed that one should hold the trangressor accountable by what you said about longsuffering the religion of Christianity way: you contradicted yourself.
Coming out of the Israelites cult, that's you not me. No, I am not a Christian nor in the that religion. Besides you know me not.
Tyler...For and give when used as a compound word does not mean what we were told....try it...
Yup you're right
Tyler, I've been following you for some time now. I enjoy your content and support you. However, I disagree. I believe forgiveness is imminent to our healing. Release those people who have hurt you. I was like you many years ago and suffered a lot at the hands of family. You should really break-off those soul-draining relationships in your life as it sucks your life-force. It only prolongs your healing to continue dealing with them. You mentioned them being narcissists and I know how that is. It does not get better. You will have to completely and totally disassociate and disconnect from them in every which way you can. Forgiveness also doesn't mean forget. A lot of people I have forgiven are still not psychologically safe for me to be around. It also doesn't mean to stay connected or forget about what is done. Just try not to let those things haunt you and bound you mentally. Forgiveness also doesn't mean they won't eventually answer for what they've done regardless of what they think or believe. I will say it is harmful to force forgiveness though, it is a process. I am only saying all of this as I see some of my old self in you. I wish you the best.
You have a right to disagree. you need to relook at forgiveness of how it's been told. One can distance themselves from those who have hurt them , but you don't have to forgive, but rebuke . Rebuke clears the conscience. Just like you said to break off, disassociate, and to disconnect which one part of having a peace of mind , but the problem,is hat one does not do rebuking the transgressor to clear thier conscience totally. Due to not rebuking and not forgiving, but forgiving the Christian way will disturb and eat up at your conscience. I don't have to release nobody the way you present it until they come make it right. That's when I forgive so that thier transgression is released.
Forgiveness is not imminent to healing,which I strongly disagree. It's two different things!
Forgiveness is not a bridge to healing like how we have been told. It's an exchange When the transgressor comes and make things right, make amends, apologizes, repents can be the bridge to healing, but most situations it's not. Sometimes, That person will have heal inwardly by their conscience, which is not forgiveness.
Forgiveness is for the transgressor so that the sin or transgression released by the wrongdoer. It has nothing to do with you( the one who has been done wrong.) Like how we have been been told by the people who follow the doctrine of forgiveness in the religion of Christianity, which is a lie.
The only way that forgiveness is for you, is that you the transgressor comes to realization of wrong doing and the pain has caused by taking accountability to go make things right, apologize , or make amends to person whom the transgressor did wrong. When the person forgives the it is for the transgressor sake (you) so that thier transgression is released.
You need to go re- examine what you have been told by people who are following the doctrine of forgiveness in the religion of Christianity.
@@TylerJTI I have went through different sources both of Christianity and not. Forgiveness is for the victim, not the offender. Forgiveness is to release you from the mental prison they put you in with the offense. It is to heal. It does not mean you will not be vindicated, or vengeance will not come. It also doesn't mean the offender is safe.
Forgiveness also can be given to people who are not only not sorry but, arrogant, obnoxious and with impunity. You can forgive people who are not sorry, you do not wait as some will offend you as long as you are in their proximity. Some are not only not sorry but, feel they have a right to torment and abuse you. Forgiveness is for YOU. This isn't all about Christianity either.
Forgiveness does not have to come right away it is a journey. You do not have to forgive yet if you are not ready. It takes stages and a journey that can also go back and forth. You will know and decide. You don't want these people having power over you long after you have disconnected from them. It is an intentional process and I have struggled with it before.
I have forgiven people and not told them, or sought them out. What you're asking for isn't realistic. A lot of people don't take accountability for the harm they do because they don't see anything wrong with it ( narcissists) most of the time. They do not care to make things right. You are projecting your own morale on some people who have none. Their are soulless people roaming you just have to release and allow them to succumb to their own destruction. My own experience after is the hovering not to derail the topic but people will watch, hover, smear and try to find their way back after you've truly cut them off. I am just clarifying my point. Don't let them steal anything else from you. Take Care.
@@yungladii1 AMEN! 🙏🙏🙏
@@yungladii1 no it's not!!!!!!forgiveness is not for you nor the victim? How can someone be for you if you wasn't the person who did the transgression? That doesn't add up at all based on what you present.
You are talking about your experience okay. You made a choice to forgive the trangressor based what you heard what has been told you and it has nothing to do with you: it was for the release the transgression for the trangressor sake . Healing is you. However you healed which was by self repairement conscience and emotional wise, or by someone story, or the transgressor made it right by you, or any other way: I don't know I don't your story and how you healed. Overall the healing was for you not forgiveness.
Once again, we don't have forgive to that person who did us wrong .why do you think the previous statement " forgive that person"? it's that person, it has nothing to do with you because what's been told to you.
Like I said before,Healing is for you , the body can sometimes slowing heal emotionally and conscience wise depending on how much damage was done to that person, but doesn't mean you will forget what was done to you. That had nothing to do with forgiveness, nor forgiveness and healing are the same when using critical thinking. This is common sense!!!!!!!!!!!! Also possible healing can take place, when the transgressor comes make amends, make things right , apologizing to you by asking for your forgiveness. Have you heard when the trangressor coming to make amends ,the apology, or to make things right to the person who done wrong breaks down and cries? The reason why the apology, making amends, or making it right is repairing the emotions and conscience of that person who was done wrong, which is healing ! This is common sense!!!
Why do you think the transgressor came to ask forgiveness from the who was done wrong in the first place? The forgiveness was for transgressor nor the victim or one who was wronged in order to be released of their transgression or more!!
If someone came and told you thier story of what they went through and it was indent ical to the same thing what you went through: this is also caused the emotionally healed. Why because the story was slowly or quickly healing thier emotions and conscience. Once more Healing is for you, not forgiveness.
Doesn't mean a person healed, it does not mean a person forgave? You can still not forgive a person and still heal. This is way over your mind.
Like you said, you suffered like me. Let me state that don't know your side what you went through and you don't know my side even if did have one or not . I have not told you anything just like I don't know your side. That's assumption you made based on something by you watching my video rather than asking me questions yourself. That's not right at all. You can say it's discernment but it's not. True discernment ask questions and not quickly come to assumptions.
😮 YOU SIR ARE THE AUTHOR of CONFUSION!
DO NOT BE DECEIVED!! You don't have to seek out a person to forgive them. You forgive them in your heart. LET GO OF THE PAIN!!! TRUST GOD to handle any consequences to their actions. HEAL and MOVE ON! It's NOT your job to fix nobody. Now I understand why YOU don't understand. FORGIVENESS doesn't mean go back and be abused some more. FORGIVENESS is so YOU don't harbour ill feelings that would keep GOD FROM FORGIVING YOU ON JUDGEMENT DAY! Don't hold grudges and miss your Blessings in the Kingdom because you're listening to this guy. REBUKE FALSE DOCTRINE, FALSE PROPHETS AND FAKE TEACHERS. Read your own BIBLE and find the TRUTH!!
🎉 I told him last week the Bible states the word FORGIVE over a hundred times in scripture. He STILL CHOSE TO MAKE THIS VIDEO TO MISLEAD YOU! 😮😢❤
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What you fail to understand because you choose to be decieved That I debunked your argument. Yes you said it was mentioned 52 times, but you didn't mention the other times where God did not forgive which I stated the facts and the scripture and you had no comebacks but you still choose to be decieved and lied on because you have not studied this topic because I stated the facts.
Said Johni, you are truly a spiritual simpleton. A typical fake Christian
Post more brother I look forward to your videos… you should do one on parents hating their kids
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Forgiveness is a spiritual concept, it is metaphysical. not "religious" here is an example to be the solution to something you must first forgive the problem. You must die to the old, for if you hold onto the old state you can never become the new. Another thing i have to say from other videos is Actions do not always speak louder than words, here is an example. there are people who are extremely obese or alcoholic and every day they wake up in considerable pain on all levels wishing that their life was different and truly wanting it to be, but they cannot stop eating or put the drink down. Sometimes the solution and physical action is simply out of the persons current abilities. People can take wrong action but wholeheartedly desire to be different. At all times people are always doing their best to be their best but that does not mean that they are not sinning or making error and hurting their fellow man. For instance a narcissist is simply trying to protect themselves by giving themselves what they think is needed for survival, it is just the manner they go about it; living in complete fear and scarcity mindset to the point that they actually hurt others and the world and even their selves, for if they changed their perception and started giving to the world and allowing god to give back to them they would prosper but most narcissist are wounded and in such a low vibration that they are completely lost. As a healthy individual it is not your job to take their abuse either or even be their friend, it is for you to forgive the "apperences" and see the light of god working through and for them and allowing god to exhault them one day to a perfected healthy being