Hey Marc, you know, even though you are incredibly attractive physically, you also seem to be thoughtful, kind, intelligent and gentle. So many guys with your kind of perfect body dont have great personalities because they rely entirely on their bodies. You are one in a million. Thanks for being a great guy. 😊
I can't seem to control myself when I see hot guys. The real problem is that I don't know if a guy is gay or straight and it drives me nuts. I recently broke up with my boyfriend (he cheated on me) and I've decided to avoid men as much as possible so I don't become tempted. I've always had horrible luck finding or dating men (I'm Asian and we're often seen as 'unfavorable' in the gay community) but the only things that keep my life afloat are my degrees, my family, my career, my living condition, and my self-confidence. So now when I'm at the gym, I just simply put on virtual-reality goggles and I'm all set.
Dont chat guys up at the gym. Put your head down and do your work out and let him do the same. Dont waste guys time who are working out. The advice on grindr is spot on. Do your business on there. When you are at the gym just stfu.
Dude. I am a psychologist for many years. You do well buddy with your advice. Pls stop negating yourself. Dude you are smart and look good. That's enough. Most people do not have that.
I never hit on hot guys at the gym, or any hot guys for that matter. I know there's almost zero chance they'll be into me. I'm not saying I'm ugly, but for gay men, "like attracts like." Unless you're very into fitness or are just as attractive as the hot guys, then you'll have almost zero chance getting anywhere with them. It's no coincidence that a lot of gay male couples look alike, almost like dopplegangers. It's just the truth of the world.
I would encourage you to start hitting on some hot guys. You can do this as an experiment. I can't promise you that you'll be successful, but the results might surprise you.
Marc, the shred of self doubt you have and the fact that you're a homebody and introverted, makes you that much more sexy. I love that you're not overly cocky and so humble and seem like a sweetheart. All qualities I find attractive. Also, that's great advice too! XO
Dear Marc, I also go to a gym where there are a lot of very good looking men. I keep a low profile so to speak and stay focused on my work out. I have talked to the "hot guys" before since you either spot them during a lift or ask if they are using a particular machine. My reasons for talking to them is just to be friendly, not hitting on them. Whether they are bi or gay matters little to me and actually you can never know unless they tell you, which we know does not happen. I am gay, admit it asked, don't flaunt it, and really prefer people know me as a nice guy who happens to be gay. Most straight men that are assured and confident don't really care since our sexuality is not that important. If a man is looking for another man in a gym, then you run a risk of the guy you approach directly being offended. The reason is they feel threatened or insulted since the "gay" is so taboo. I have met many nice hot men in my gym and they eventually figure me out, but they also know I am genuine and my sexuality is not the reason I am talking to them. My advice to anyone that works out and sees "hot men" just be social but try to learn all that you can about that one guy, without the "gay" question being in the forefront. That way if they say "my girlfriend or wife" or they comment on hot ladies that are there. no harm no foul, at best you may find a good work out partner too. That happened to me, my former work out buddy was straight and he knew I was gay, we both looked at each other and laughed. He moved for his job, but we still keep in touch. From the cheap seats..............tim
Marc you're so nice and educated. I love you and your videos. Been a fan since years now. Love your advises. Hope to meet you one day. Take care buddy.
Love the fact you are not cocky and a complete homebody. I am very similar, can get comfortable and just relax don't feel the need to go out getting wasted.
He was with a "super hot" guy but it was still only just a hookup, and he was amazed to be with you because of "who you are", next weekend you're not thought about and there's someone else - being gay in 2022 in a shell.. When I stopped having anything to do with anyone I enjoy myself out much better :)
Just became a big fan. I'm not gay. You are beautiful in and out. Your advice is down-to-earth and easy to understand. Keep up the good work. God Bless.
I have to say Marc how impressed I am with what you had to say on the subject and with you. Your ease, eloquence and charm captured my attention. Your gracious humility and wisdom carried me to the end. So you have a new subscriber in me. I'm looking forward to watching more of your channel, On the question at hand: yep we have all been down the same road at the gym and it can be distracting to ones workout. Your advice is spot on! Cheers!
marc is that a tricky reason to put yourself out there in hopes of finding someone you (notice). I think it's good to reason with yourself that what you notice is what you notice in yourself(knowing what you like about yourself) or to find something that you notice within yourself to better your chances to be with somebody compatible than what your eyes attract to. "I find someone eventually or they will vice versa but bare with me I take valuable time to pick my minds decision."
Excellent advice as always Marc. People thing the super hot guys are full of themselves and some of them are, but I bet a lot more have the same insecurities every that everyone else does. As I got older I realized that the one you want to stay with is the guy who makes you laugh, and picks you up when you're down.
Hey Marc i just now watched you vid and loved the advice. I am freaking struggling with trying to find someone to date cuz i dont like to go out to club any more due to safety. I do go to the gym three times a week so i will start looking an grindr again to see if i see anyone from my gym. Thanks ❤️
Hey Man I'm The Same I actually Don't Have Friends And Prefer it that way I don't drink or smoke live with my mom and the only time ever go out is to hang out at the library and you know what I Enjoy It.
for as sound as your advice was, I have to say, the most entertaining part of the video was hearing about that encounter you had. I wish you'd do more videos telling us any other stories you'd like to share. I'm sure they'd be pretty interesting. btw, did you and the hot guy kept in touch or become friends or something? he'd be crazy to just let you go like that :) oh, and no matter how good he looked, he was the lucky one. trust me.
im a 24 years old guy from Canada. I had a very similar experience that just happened to me this week. I saw an attractive guy who i do not know if he is gay ( he is tall and has a pair of beautiful eyes) at my gym and i did the same thing: i asked him to check my (push ups)form and he did and he also offered me a trick on push ups. I was completing my workout, i time myself to keep rest time short and so on, so i just drank my protein shake and left. Hopefully I do see and get to talk to him again. Besides going to the gym, I also spend most of my time at home cooking healthy meals hopefully to reach my goal of building muscles and get big like you. On my little spare time i watch some videos online and do some at-home core exercise. I used to go out with friends to club, now i no longer do, plus I dont drink nor do i smoke because obviously they damage health. just a question： What if on grindr the guy doesnt resond to me after saying hello and sending a face picture? i do use it but i'd like to try to stop using Grindr because it brought me some unpleasant experiences
"Who's that weirdo over there?" That's hilarious! Marc, you are too damn cute! Seriously, though, you are smart, cute and sexy, and I thoroughly enjoy hearing your insights into so any of these questions. However, make no mistake -if some guy is staring at you anywhere it's because you're smokin' HOT!
Fellow gays help me out. There’s a guy who works at my gym that is super hot who I didnt really pay mind to because I didn’t think he was interested in me at all. Pretty much thought he was just a good looking straight guy. One day I didn’t have my keys so I had to log in at the front. A girl was helping me and he went out of his way to help me instead of her. I ended up having to get a new key a couple weeks later and he knew my full name without me telling him which threw me off because we’ve had very little interaction. Another day he let me know I left my lights on, which means he somehow knew what car I drove. We say hi to each other, but I’m nervous to try to take it beyond that because I don’t know if he’s gay, and if he is I don’t understand why he’s interested in me. I’m good looking but this guy is perfect.
For crying out loud. The solution is simply, in a nice way let the person you're interested in know that you're interested. IF he doesn't return the interest, DON'T LET IT BOTHER YOU!!! There are lots of other fish in the sea. And happily from time to time, I've had a guy who'd turned me down,, later contact me -- asking whether I was still interested.
Wow everyone forgets the best thing they have going for them. You are into them. That automatically makes you more appealing. We all want to be appreciated or desired and certainly loved. If someone makes it clear you lime them you are already standing out from the rest of the world. Look at it this way doesn' t mutual chemistry make everything about that person more desireable? Marc has good advice but know you have a big advantage starting out.
Can you please remind me specifically how it is that we send you inquiries so that you may talk about them here on your UA-cam channel? Thanks sweetie. 💙
The joke is to find a channel, which requires the time, the space and most importantly, the topic; A channel that shall be reciprocal. If there's a positive, healthy channel you both can share, it can be used to, at least, clarify your doubts about the other, and even to keep it up for other possibilities on the future, but careful, not to get your hopes too high.
I'm almost positive that Marc is NOT seeing the whole picture here when he speaks about talking to "HOT" guys. He is a "HOT GUY" who is giving advice to other gay men about approaching guys at the gym who look just like he does or better. I'm not putting Marc down but this video is really geared towards other hot gay men just like himself who may not have to courage to talk to other guys. Not your average Joe or just everyday people. But In my opinion when it comes to wanting to talk to a hot guy at the gym "not straight but gay", and hot meaning in shape hot body pretty boy, your almost kind of at a loss if your not a super hottie as well. Especially if the guy is a male stripper or works in the adult industry in some way shape or form, you can FORGET IT!! That group always acts like they're to good to speak to anyone that's not apart of there click / crew. But most gay men at gym's that are the REAL HOT JOCKS, tend to be very clickish when it comes to who they hang out with and will open up to at the gym. Like hot straight guys they won't even make eye contact and they only want to talk and be around to other guys that look just like them. Sadly in what is called "The Gay Community" this is a learned behavior by other gay men which is a whole other subject but helps with my point. The really hot pretty boy, in shape guys are very close minded when it comes to whom they'll open up to at the gym, bars and clubs. Even if you just say a friendly hello or ask for the time you'll get the Bitch face look from them if you're not in there league. Most people end up missing out on having a great friendship or relationship from being this way. And believe me I know what I'm talking about, because I travel around the United States for work and have been to MANY gyms a lot in the the gay area's and it's the same ol story every time for many people.
This is 100% truth, hot guys will almost always hang around other hot guys and accepting this reality has totally helped me lose any body expectations I have for men and find beauty and many shapes and sizes. Not just the muscular jock. I rather have fun with a charming chubby guy than with a stuck up muscle guy that's probably not that into me anyway. Also, I don't know if people have experienced this, but I do get more action when I am traveling abroad rather than at home. The locals where I live are sooooo stuck their asses and focused on hooking up that they'd rather ignore you than be friendly to people in their "community." Also, the total refusal to even have a conversation with anyone who isn't your sexual opposite (bottom for tops and tops for bottoms) is a bit silly as well.
There's a young guy at my gym who sometimes says hello but I can never be sure if he's flirting because he's cross-eyed so if he looks at me, it's rather weird than hot....
As a gay person...IMO someone might date someone whose not as goodlooking usually if they are submissive and want to be the "trophy" in the couple, so....the fact that someone who's really hot when you are not isn't always a sign he won't be into you.
Marc, I have that problem as well. Guys look at me at the gym. They go on to grab their joint. If I make the first move they tell me their st8. They go on on to tell the gym. Others come up to me and I have no interest. Who makes the first move? The bigger guy? Thanks in advance. Ryan
i talked to my crush once and we talk occasionally in the gym a few times but one time our conversation went on for like 3-5min and i manage to slip in the question “do you have instagram or snapchat?” And he turned me down saying he doesn’t do social media which one can be true or two he didn’t want to add me 😭he super hot, by the way i rank him a 9/10 and im like a 7/10 im not hot or anything but good looking and im a verse position, but my body isn’t very muscular like his…
Then how to start the conversation if I Have no clue if he is gay or straight lol .. I’m also an introvert, I don’t and I don’t even smile == do u have any link to teach me how to do a proper smile ? 🤣
Marc, darling, do you really, really, really, really, Really think there's a living creature out there that wouldn't feel flattered, aroused, content or joyous for the fact you have things for them? I love your innocence x D You're quite a catch, that I know so far.
thanks a lot for your advise, always right. one question, what's your traps routine? I see how big are yours and I am trying to get it big but... thanks a lot in advance.
You were impressed that a hot guy was into you??? LOL!!! I'm not a bit surprised that he was impressed by you as well, Marc. Seriously, you are the cutest, most sincere man. :-) :-)
lol i dont really go to a gym anymore but i do miss those flirtations at the gym. but at the same time this was before grindr existed so i never knew if they were gay. maybe i should go back to the gym... I wonder if you are an Aquarius?
I like to watch your youtube videos because your advices are good but also because it's nice to see that there's a beautiful heart beating behind the porn
marc if you have that problem there is no hope for the rest of us
Ambrosio call me when you have a good day and I think
Hey Marc, you know, even though you are incredibly attractive physically, you also seem to be thoughtful, kind, intelligent and gentle. So many guys with your kind of perfect body dont have great personalities because they rely entirely on their bodies. You are one in a million. Thanks for being a great guy. 😊
Thanks Stephen.
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His voice is so soothing and calm
I can't seem to control myself when I see hot guys. The real problem is that I don't know if a guy is gay or straight and it drives me nuts. I recently broke up with my boyfriend (he cheated on me) and I've decided to avoid men as much as possible so I don't become tempted. I've always had horrible luck finding or dating men (I'm Asian and we're often seen as 'unfavorable' in the gay community) but the only things that keep my life afloat are my degrees, my family, my career, my living condition, and my self-confidence.
So now when I'm at the gym, I just simply put on virtual-reality goggles and I'm all set.
"unfavorable' in the gay community" Doc? Thats in your head, and you keep reinforcing that belief. STOP, not true.
Dont chat guys up at the gym. Put your head down and do your work out and let him do the same. Dont waste guys time who are working out. The advice on grindr is spot on. Do your business on there. When you are at the gym just stfu.
Dude. I am a psychologist for many years. You do well buddy with your advice. Pls stop negating yourself. Dude you are smart and look good. That's enough. Most people do not have that.
I never hit on hot guys at the gym, or any hot guys for that matter. I know there's almost zero chance they'll be into me. I'm not saying I'm ugly, but for gay men, "like attracts like." Unless you're very into fitness or are just as attractive as the hot guys, then you'll have almost zero chance getting anywhere with them. It's no coincidence that a lot of gay male couples look alike, almost like dopplegangers. It's just the truth of the world.
You're overgeneralizing; this assumption that you're making might not always be true.
+schwul1956 that's why I said ALMOST zero chance. But it's a generalization that's true.
I would encourage you to start hitting on some hot guys.
You can do this as an experiment.
I can't promise you that you'll be successful, but the results might surprise you.
+schwul1956 he is right though
So true
I just love how honest he is and so humble never understood the hate he received before keep the videos coming
Marc, the shred of self doubt you have and the fact that you're a homebody and introverted, makes you that much more sexy. I love that you're not overly cocky and so humble and seem like a sweetheart. All qualities I find attractive. Also, that's great advice too! XO
I couldnt have said it better
He's man of dream for every gay man 😁
Dear Marc, I also go to a gym where there are a lot of very good looking men. I keep a low profile so to speak and stay focused on my work out. I have talked to the "hot guys" before since you either spot them during a lift or ask if they are using a particular machine. My reasons for talking to them is just to be friendly, not hitting on them. Whether they are bi or gay matters little to me and actually you can never know unless they tell you, which we know does not happen. I am gay, admit it asked, don't flaunt it, and really prefer people know me as a nice guy who happens to be gay. Most straight men that are assured and confident don't really care since our sexuality is not that important. If a man is looking for another man in a gym, then you run a risk of the guy you approach directly being offended. The reason is they feel threatened or insulted since the "gay" is so taboo. I have met many nice hot men in my gym and they eventually figure me out, but they also know I am genuine and my sexuality is not the reason I am talking to them. My advice to anyone that works out and sees "hot men" just be social but try to learn all that you can about that one guy, without the "gay" question being in the forefront. That way if they say "my girlfriend or wife" or they comment on hot ladies that are there. no harm no foul, at best you may find a good work out partner too. That happened to me, my former work out buddy was straight and he knew I was gay, we both looked at each other and laughed. He moved for his job, but we still keep in touch. From the cheap seats..............tim
I love your honest story and not even covering up some details. I sub!
Thanks, Marc. Keep up the good work.
This is one of my favorite videos to date. Thanks Marc!
What honest and real response
And my god Marc
Your voice is soo smooth and calming
I'd be putty in your hands
Marc you're so nice and educated. I love you and your videos. Been a fan since years now. Love your advises. Hope to meet you one day. Take care buddy.
Hey Martin, thank you very much.
Marc, you are such a beautiful person. Making videos while giving some advice to guys who need it is so nice from you. Thank you! ❤
I can't believe I'm Fucking Marc Dylan
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💀🙌🏼
Love the fact you are not cocky and a complete homebody. I am very similar, can get comfortable and just relax don't feel the need to go out getting wasted.
You can't have any issues with it Marc...You are so so so so adorable!!!!
He was with a "super hot" guy but it was still only just a hookup, and he was amazed to be with you because of "who you are", next weekend you're not thought about and there's someone else - being gay in 2022 in a shell.. When I stopped having anything to do with anyone I enjoy myself out much better :)
I'm too ugly to try these tips. Lol
Oh My Goodness
Same lol
vykusiEclectic cmon dude you're hot
Just became a big fan. I'm not gay. You are beautiful in and out. Your advice is down-to-earth and easy to understand. Keep up the good work. God Bless.
I have to say Marc how impressed I am with what you had to say on the subject and with you. Your ease, eloquence and charm captured my attention. Your gracious humility and wisdom carried me to the end. So you have a new subscriber in me. I'm looking forward to watching more of your channel, On the question at hand: yep we have all been down the same road at the gym and it can be distracting to ones workout. Your advice is spot on! Cheers!
Wink, if he smiles back your in.
This can be a very dangerous move! I wouldn’t do it, initially…
marc is that a tricky reason to put yourself out there in hopes of finding someone you (notice). I think it's good to reason with yourself that what you notice is what you notice in yourself(knowing what you like about yourself) or to find something that you notice within yourself to better your chances to be with somebody compatible than what your eyes attract to. "I find someone eventually or they will vice versa but bare with me I take valuable time to pick my minds decision."
Actually, what you mean is "hey send me a picture so i know youre not ugly".
Excellent advice as always Marc. People thing the super hot guys are full of themselves and some of them are, but I bet a lot more have the same insecurities every that everyone else does. As I got older I realized that the one you want to stay with is the guy who makes you laugh, and picks you up when you're down.
Hello
Marc just ran across your video I enjoyed the entire video enjoy the advice and the way you keep it real with your viewers so I subscribed
Great story!
I like watching your videos and great down to earth personality on here is very nice. Great advice keep up the good work.
You look amazing and thank you for your tips.
Hey Marc i just now watched you vid and loved the advice. I am freaking struggling with trying to find someone to date cuz i dont like to go out to club any more due to safety. I do go to the gym three times a week so i will start looking an grindr again to see if i see anyone from my gym. Thanks ❤️
You're absolutely amazing 😇
What a sweet boy you are Marc. Thank you.
I could watch you speak for months, love *all* of your videos, besos from Venezuela :)
Hey Jesus, thank you very much. Besos de San Francisco!
Lol, I saw you at my gym yesterday. I did not want to interrupt your workout. But it was great seeing you in person even from afar
Thanks for the advice Marc ☺️ i like all your vids! Keep up the good work!
Thanks for watching Josh!
You are a very skilled communicator
Thank you 🙏🏼
"You never know" 😉🔥
Hey Man I'm The Same I actually Don't Have Friends And Prefer it that way I don't drink or smoke live with my mom and the only time ever go out is to hang out at the library and you know what I Enjoy It.
Marc luv ya. Well..ur not conceited thats for sure. Ur gorgeous urself..but ur not that way. This answer just cracked me up. Ur the Best!! Xoxo
HAPPY NEW YEAR !!!!!!!
for as sound as your advice was, I have to say, the most entertaining part of the video was hearing about that encounter you had.
I wish you'd do more videos telling us any other stories you'd like to share. I'm sure they'd be pretty interesting.
btw, did you and the hot guy kept in touch or become friends or something? he'd be crazy to just let you go like that :)
oh, and no matter how good he looked, he was the lucky one. trust me.
Gorgeous AND wise!
To me, you're 10s across the board bro😍😍😍🔥🔥💯💯💯
Great advice :) Nice video too :) Keep up the good work buddy!
Thanks Chris
attraction is important but they dont have to be perfect but clearly to you they have to be
Use humor… it always works!
im a 24 years old guy from Canada. I had a very similar experience that just happened to me this week. I saw an attractive guy who i do not know if he is gay ( he is tall and has a pair of beautiful eyes) at my gym and i did the same thing: i asked him to check my (push ups)form and he did and he also offered me a trick on push ups. I was completing my workout, i time myself to keep rest time short and so on, so i just drank my protein shake and left. Hopefully I do see and get to talk to him again.
Besides going to the gym, I also spend most of my time at home cooking healthy meals hopefully to reach my goal of building muscles and get big like you. On my little spare time i watch some videos online and do some at-home core exercise. I used to go out with friends to club, now i no longer do, plus I dont drink nor do i smoke because obviously they damage health.
just a question： What if on grindr the guy doesnt resond to me after saying hello and sending a face picture? i do use it but i'd like to try to stop using Grindr because it brought me some unpleasant experiences
Love u Mark
Marc! :) Hope you have been well. I'm always nervous to talk to anyone good looking, lol
Don't be man, All I can say is, see where it goes, try it and see what happens, and be confident about yourself
"Who's that weirdo over there?" That's hilarious! Marc, you are too damn cute! Seriously, though, you are smart, cute and sexy, and I thoroughly enjoy hearing your insights into so any of these questions.
However, make no mistake -if some guy is staring at you anywhere it's because you're smokin' HOT!
Fellow gays help me out. There’s a guy who works at my gym that is super hot who I didnt really pay mind to because I didn’t think he was interested in me at all. Pretty much thought he was just a good looking straight guy. One day I didn’t have my keys so I had to log in at the front. A girl was helping me and he went out of his way to help me instead of her. I ended up having to get a new key a couple weeks later and he knew my full name without me telling him which threw me off because we’ve had very little interaction. Another day he let me know I left my lights on, which means he somehow knew what car I drove. We say hi to each other, but I’m nervous to try to take it beyond that because I don’t know if he’s gay, and if he is I don’t understand why he’s interested in me. I’m good looking but this guy is perfect.
For crying out loud. The solution is simply, in a nice way let the person you're interested in know that you're interested. IF he doesn't return the interest, DON'T LET IT BOTHER YOU!!! There are lots of other fish in the sea. And happily from time to time, I've had a guy who'd turned me down,, later contact me -- asking whether I was still interested.
Wow everyone forgets the best thing they have going for them. You are into them. That automatically makes you more appealing. We all want to be appreciated or desired and certainly loved. If someone makes it clear you lime them you are already standing out from the rest of the world. Look at it this way doesn' t mutual chemistry make everything about that person more desireable? Marc has good advice but know you have a big advantage starting out.
I avoid eye contact with all the hot guys lol how will they ever know I’m into them
Me too
I know my crush likes me but I can’t make eye contact.
I know this apprehension all to well
Love you!!
Keeping watching him and will not let him know...
Can you please remind me specifically how it is that we send you inquiries so that you may talk about them here on your UA-cam channel? Thanks sweetie. 💙
I always get rejected....so I've given up
Marc! Thanks for the advice! But I really to know what happen with you guys next? Do you and the super hot dude still keep in touch?
So this is advice on how to talk to you if we see you at the gym 😁 good to know
The joke is to find a channel, which requires the time, the space and most importantly, the topic; A channel that shall be reciprocal.
If there's a positive, healthy channel you both can share, it can be used to, at least, clarify your doubts about the other, and even to keep it up for other possibilities on the future, but careful, not to get your hopes too high.
I could never.
i have had this problem recently, i try to freeze around him my mouth freezes too
I love this video marc! you seem shocked and amazed I would be too you are amazing if you get this message have a great week
I'm almost positive that Marc is NOT seeing the whole picture here when he speaks about talking to "HOT" guys. He is a "HOT GUY" who is giving advice to other gay men about approaching guys at the gym who look just like he does or better. I'm not putting Marc down but this video is really geared towards other hot gay men just like himself who may not have to courage to talk to other guys. Not your average Joe or just everyday people. But In my opinion when it comes to wanting to talk to a hot guy at the gym "not straight but gay", and hot meaning in shape hot body pretty boy, your almost kind of at a loss if your not a super hottie as well. Especially if the guy is a male stripper or works in the adult industry in some way shape or form, you can FORGET IT!! That group always acts like they're to good to speak to anyone that's not apart of there click / crew. But most gay men at gym's that are the REAL HOT JOCKS, tend to be very clickish when it comes to who they hang out with and will open up to at the gym. Like hot straight guys they won't even make eye contact and they only want to talk and be around to other guys that look just like them. Sadly in what is called "The Gay Community" this is a learned behavior by other gay men which is a whole other subject but helps with my point. The really hot pretty boy, in shape guys are very close minded when it comes to whom they'll open up to at the gym, bars and clubs. Even if you just say a friendly hello or ask for the time you'll get the Bitch face look from them if you're not in there league. Most people end up missing out on having a great friendship or relationship from being this way. And believe me I know what I'm talking about, because I travel around the United States for work and have been to MANY gyms a lot in the the gay area's and it's the same ol story every time for many people.
This is 100% truth, hot guys will almost always hang around other hot guys and accepting this reality has totally helped me lose any body expectations I have for men and find beauty and many shapes and sizes. Not just the muscular jock. I rather have fun with a charming chubby guy than with a stuck up muscle guy that's probably not that into me anyway.
Also, I don't know if people have experienced this, but I do get more action when I am traveling abroad rather than at home. The locals where I live are sooooo stuck their asses and focused on hooking up that they'd rather ignore you than be friendly to people in their "community."
Also, the total refusal to even have a conversation with anyone who isn't your sexual opposite (bottom for tops and tops for bottoms) is a bit silly as well.
You re charismatic like Lucifer the series
I look at him several times...
He watched me too..
He finally smile too me and did nothing xB
Gosh ive been so rude
You're that hot guy at the gym.
There's a young guy at my gym who sometimes says hello but I can never be sure if he's flirting because he's cross-eyed so if he looks at me, it's rather weird than hot....
As a gay person...IMO someone might date someone whose not as goodlooking usually if they are submissive and want to be the "trophy" in the couple, so....the fact that someone who's really hot when you are not isn't always a sign he won't be into you.
Marc, I have that problem as well. Guys look at me at the gym. They go on to grab their joint. If I make the first move they tell me their st8. They go on on to tell the gym. Others come up to me and I have no interest. Who makes the first move? The bigger guy? Thanks in advance. Ryan
into the unknown
i talked to my crush once and we talk occasionally in the gym a few times but one time our conversation went on for like 3-5min and i manage to slip in the question “do you have instagram or snapchat?” And he turned me down saying he doesn’t do social media which one can be true or two he didn’t want to add me 😭he super hot, by the way i rank him a 9/10 and im like a 7/10 im not hot or anything but good looking and im a verse position, but my body isn’t very muscular like his…
Then how to start the conversation if I Have no clue if he is gay or straight lol .. I’m also an introvert, I don’t and I don’t even smile == do u have any link to teach me how to do a proper smile ? 🤣
whats your website !! does anyone his site
Marc, darling, do you really, really, really, really, Really think there's a living creature out there that wouldn't feel flattered, aroused, content or joyous for the fact you have things for them?
I love your innocence x D You're quite a catch, that I know so far.
Are you from Michigan
thanks a lot for your advise, always right. one question, what's your traps routine? I see how big are yours and I am trying to get it big but... thanks a lot in advance.
i rarely do traps anymore but I recommend a variety of shrugs, barbell, dumbbell, and machine shrugs. Upright rows are also beneficial.
Hey Marc. Where r u from
You were impressed that a hot guy was into you??? LOL!!! I'm not a bit surprised that he was impressed by you as well, Marc. Seriously, you are the cutest, most sincere man. :-) :-)
#Marc You are really soo cute😘, I❤️U🙈 from Calcutta, and I'm your new subscriber 😊
How about if there is a lot of closet guys at the gym and you don't want to blow your or his cover...
ogm!! you are so appeling!
lol i dont really go to a gym anymore but i do miss those flirtations at the gym. but at the same time this was before grindr existed so i never knew if they were gay. maybe i should go back to the gym... I wonder if you are an Aquarius?
bragging like this is not cool
When a guy looks at me flirtatiously at me, I want him to spot me and kiss me in the locker room.
but what happened in the end with that perfect guy? didn't you meet anymore?
homebody? Is there a space to share?
Has there ever been a guy that wasn’t interested in you Marc Dylan?
hey marc te amoo :)
Just wondering how many guys at the gym are scared to talk to you 😮
This is the 4th video ive seen of yours and u hooked up in 3 of them- thats introverted?
Did you meet up with him again?
I really like to give 100% sir...@*
cant relate lol
I like to watch your youtube videos because your advices are good but also because it's nice to see that there's a beautiful heart beating behind the porn
How often are you asked for a spot? Thx for the videos, insight. B