"The first thing you should have done was send me a picture". You said that with such a lovely grin on your face that I find myself agreeing with you whole heartedly. /|\
This dude is GOOD. He tells it like it is. And he focuses on feelings and relationships and communication. All sexual topics should be discussed this way. I'm now a new and grateful subscriber. BTW, topping or bottoming are not "masculine" or "feminine" activities. Let's get past the stereotypes and lies propagated by the haters and bigots ok?
I always heard and came to believe through experience is that if it hurts you're doing it wrong. Marc gave some good advice to which I would add "slow and easy wins over fast and furious".
Good advice... being told it hurts, turns me off and I just lose the mood. I have to catch myself and I do ask, what position they prefer and accommodate!
Brett, if you really like this guy, here are some things you can try that worked for me. Length or width or both? Length used to give me oroblems, but I experimented with lube and finally got it. Anatomy lesson: At about 6" the rectum turns to the left. It straightens out when forced and returns to it's a normal position after. There is a tendon up there that wraps around the rectum and he has to get past that gently at first. When he does, you may feel a little pain and a pop. I use a lube launcher to put lube 5" or 6" into my rectum. When the end of the object reaches that spot, I push it in a little, pull back a bit, push it in a little further, pull back a bit, and so on until it's all the way in. For a long time I could never get more than 6" in. It was really frustrating. Now I can go a lot further, but I still find that at times 6" is still the limit. Any further is extremely painful. I'd skip desensitizing lubes because pain is a sign that something is wrong. With anal sex, since the rectum isn't made for sex and can be turn, you need to listen to that pain. I read a lot of submissions in forums before I got to this point. Be clean, use lots of lube, warm up with lots of foreplay including rimming, definitely talk to your boyfriend because his cock is the problem, positions are important, experiment by yourself with a toy about his size, and if you really care for him, you'll work it out. You can always have a proctologist take a look and see if your intestines are normal. A gay friendly doc may be able to help you as well. If it's width, get a set of graduated anal dilators. Gee, and I'm not even a porn star! Best of luck. One last bit. Your rectum follows the curve of your sacrum and low back so it curves toward your back then comes toward your belly button. Try having him (with lots of lube in your rectum) enter you driving toward your back. When you reach the ouch point, have him shift position so he's driving toward your belly button, pull back a bit, then forward a bit. And go slow! A little further, back a bit, a little further in. When he's all the way in you, don't let him withdraw more than couple inches and then pump you staying close to full insertion. Keep his head above the tendon for quite a while until you're comfortable enough to let him pull out further and drive back. Stay with that scenario everytime you have sex until you have stretched that tendon a bit and you can relax enough to let him go crazy (this could take a few weeks or more). At that point I think you'll have great sex. Remember, it wasn't easy the first time you got anything up there! Muscles, regardless of where they are will eventually tire to the point that he could drive a Cadillac up your butt.
Time and patience. It will work. The problem with most guys is they don't have the patience to work at it. Yes you do need to talk to your man. Yes you made a mistake not mentioning it to him in the beginning. Now he can help you with YOUR problem.
There's no such thing as being 'too hung'. LOL. And yes, use toys. Walk around with a butt plug in all day before you go home! Marc you are awesome ;) Love your videos here....keep going.
I'm hung and all my previous boyfriends have loved it, my current boyfriend wants to have sex but I struggle to come with him because he limits the moves we can do, I'm convinced we are not sexually compatible but I really really love him
i hope that came across positively. I really like your channel, your a good looking guy and seem to care about your followers. I don't think you had this information and wanted to share this with you. For my 20's and 30's I saw sex as a hobby and was facinated by the intense bonds one of my best friends who was a Dom had with other men. He was one of the nicest people in the world and there is a huge differene between doms who degrate the person submitting to them and dom's who become a care-taker and form an intense bond with thier sub, i freely admit I had to lean what this was all about by being a sub for another dom with the understataning that I didn't like bottoming and I didn't like beiing out of control. The exprience was one of the most loving and intense experience I had ever had and I now had the tools to become a dom. Even when I came into a realtionship as a sub I naturally drifted over time to the dom in that relationship. its just who I am personally and who I wanted to be. However there is no shame in being a good sub, you just have to find the very few good doms out there that care aboue their subs and understan that ultimately the sub has all the control and has to willingly give all control over to a dom. The dom can then train their body and mind to just react. My first experience i only subed occasionally to my Dom but instead I was a sub to him and Dom to others when we went out together. That was oe of the most incredible sexual relationships of my life. i also studied anotomy, mental training and conditioning to create automatic involentary responses. Repetitive action trains your body to do do whatever you want it to do. So everyone has a choice and if devoted can become a totally confident lover and someone who is proud of who they are and enlightened above the labels. So i hope you can see past the labels. i never used the Master/slave. i hated the slave term and we used military rank instead. So men under me were called Alphas which were my right hand and expected to be tops other than to myself and we had a few boys who followed our commands or face punishment or a lack of attention. It became a mix of love and a game to me but i fell totally in love with my Alpha who after 3 years admitted he was actually married to another man and withheld this from me. This broke my heart and trust. The whole military type power structure is highly enjoyable and is much easier b/c everyone knows theie role and feels loved and part of something. Trust is key here and after being devastated by my Alpha partner I dedicated my life to a very vanilla man. Slowly over the years he has understood the benefits of having a partner who knows so mcuh about sex. We still have years of things to cover but my view of sex changed. i became monogomous which i previously never thought was of any use. What i discovered is if you dedicate yourself to one person sex shifts from physcial to emotional. So humans always require emotional connection. So our sexual attraction is based on emotional connection. When we get close i get a boner. Again its all about mental training. So anyone can decide what they want in their life. I had my fun and was ready for a lifetime partner. I had so much sex it had become meaningless and kiinf of old so now sex is all tied to our emotional connection. This kicks in with guys as they approach thier 40's and can see that thier relationship is worth more than a couple hours of fun. The emotional tie is where eventually you should be.. However for the 20s and 30's have fun, learn about how your body reacts, how others body reacts and how repetitive conditioning can establish INTENSE PHYSCIAL AND EMOTIONAL BODNS WHICH WILL BLOW YOUR MIND. The big hurdle, getting over the labels, the fear, the buulshit. All relationshiops are based on dom/sub wheather you know it or not. One person is the leader and theother follows. So there is an element of Dom/sub in all male relationshiops. When you learn to harness that power you crack open an entrely new realm of sex.. mind blowing sex. I encouage you to reasearch this. Yes there is a dark side to all th this and there are more selfish bad doms than caring and loving doms who are always there for their sub establishing trust and love and dominance. Its intoxicating and even the mild coulple can take pieces of this stuff and integrate it into their relationship to keep havng sex. i've been with my partner 10 years have gone by, we don't even play with others and we have sex daily. Sure we have dry spells where we are not totally in sync and its all dependane on our connection. But we crave emotional supprt which when tied to sex ensures you will always have sexual desire for your partner for a lifetime. i always llookedd as monogomy as restricted but when a sex thrapist explained the benefits of it they far outweighted the physical in the moment experinces. Again most men.. experiment and have fun, be safe and experiment befoer you find that one. you will feel a calling to settle down and when you find the person you will know it. layout your hearbreaks and your goals for the next 5 years and how you want to retire and your morals. What you find is right and wrong. if those mesh and you get weack in the knees heis the one. you just know it. This requires vigorous honesty and a willingless to be the peson you want him to be. i finally had hd enough sport sex ad got off all the sites and just dated. I looked at who the person was, what their friends said aout him, and what he did when no one was looking. I found a good man who I trust with my life. That is better than anything I could ever need and I even get to have some of the same fun which is new to him. .So that is my story and knowlege. You have the platform to spread this knowlege. Anything is possible. Physically that is. What can't change is if a guy is used to lying or cheating. They will always be that way so as soon as you figure this out even through his past move on b/c his past is your future. Just talk and they will tell you everything that will happen to you in the first month. LISTEN AND DON'T THINK WITH YOUR COCK if your ready to settle down. Until then practice and become an expert. These skills are essential for a good sex life. it takes effort and training and learning. Most guys never think about it. Avoid those guyes. They are usually horriblee in bed.
The thing that gets me is how the commenter starts off with. The guy is really really hot! Not the guy is really smart or he's really sweet or he's very romantic just that he's hot! It seems like That is the only thing that matters to this generation of gay men! How hot they are? Do they work out etc. What about how educated they are or how smart they are? Or are they funny are they romantic? Where are your priorities? When you're looking for a man somebody that you want to be with It has to go a lot further than skin deep!
I'm 14 inches and about 8 thick. Like to go at least 6 hours and my BF cries often. I have the idea he doesnt like our sex. Do I ask him what is wrong or give him more of my time?
a person that is too big or very well endowed and is a top a bottom should try Lanacane Lanacane gnomes muscles and tissue and some water base lubricant offers lidocaine
***** it's not me with the small penis, mine is BIG. It's my boyfriend, his is not as big and straight as I would like but I love him so much so I can't leave him.
If you really do love him, then learn to be less shallow and realize there's more meaningful things in life than the size of an appendage. Hopefully you won't cheat on him.
Not really, had a barmaid I knew who said"if it's too big, just hug it and cry". But I am not looking to have a relationship with a cock. If the man is right, then I'm happy on an intellectual level. I dated a guy, he became my best friend for 15 years. At any point in that time , I would gladly have him as my partner. I graduated in 75, there was no internet, mobile phones looked like bricks, no social media. So meeting a guy was not easy. You had to hang out the bar all the time, or cruise the woods in a city park. I found the Advocate, and at least had some image of what was out there. I lived in the county where the guy prosecuted Larry Flynn That put out Hustler. I still have a box of the Firsthand, Manscape, guys ect, which were 5"x8" books that had some illustration, and stories. I had my Ennes, I don't watch Brokeback because it depresses me. I would love a partner, but where do you find one. Not in Bars, or on Grindr. I go to the gym, but am not a body builder, I stay in shape. But in a small town, that is doubtful. Maybe one day, I'll bump into him at Lowes!
+Antonio Sini I have found 7.5 to be the highest I go where I can manage... usually bigger then that and I want to scream bloody murder lol. I tend to shy away from larger then 7.5... only because not much has to be done in order to take it. but no... 7.5 isn't necessarily hung in the eyes of most size queens. lol (I am definitely not a size queen... they may look awesome in the bigger sizes... but they sure don't feel so good... and maybe my hole just wasn't meant to have that big lol)
+Scott Wascher I guess my main problem is that, apart from being 7,5 inches it's quite thick but I won't give up till I get it all in :D thanks for your comment
+Antonio Sini why do you think you are having problems with enjoyment and getting the full 7.5 in? have you bottomed before with anyone at or below that size? something tells me either he isnt waiting long enough to do the deed.. or your or he isnt preparing ahead of time (like oral.. finger usage and maybe even the use of toys that are a bit smaller then he is first in order to begin the full opening process as well as keeping it still tighter enough to wrap around his penis)... another thing I may help out with... what positions have you tried to allow the depper penetration or penetration at all? i found most positions arent good for bigger penis initial insert... but tell me what you have tried up until now... (it also sounds like you may also be the cause of some of the discomfort in initial insertion)..
My partner for 8 years had a huge one and xtra hard, It was not the best bottoming experience for me. We had an open relationship, and I did not have a problem with other guys that were even bigger than him. The problem was not the size, but our personalities. There was a chemistry problem. A minor one. we talked about it, I did less bottoming and more topping. that helped. And he adapted to do it sometimes more to my likening, even if it meant a bit less pleasure for him. And I sometimes took it more the way he liked it, even if it was less pleasurable for me. Talking about it, we found a compromise.
My husband & I had families before we came out in 1995 after we both attempted suicide. So, we are both tops even though we tried it. However, we are both nurses and massage therapists; hence we can do marvelous things with our hands and mouths. Also, frottage is another great way if you and your partner can't candle anal. Hope this helps. Mark in Akron
"The first thing you should have done was send me a picture". You said that with such a lovely grin on your face that I find myself agreeing with you whole heartedly. /|\
"I'm going to stop plugging here." LOL! I see what you did there.
I could jsut 'borrow' his boyfriend from time to time; problem solved lol!
This dude is GOOD. He tells it like it is. And he focuses on feelings and relationships and communication. All sexual topics should be discussed this way. I'm now a new and grateful subscriber. BTW, topping or bottoming are not "masculine" or "feminine" activities. Let's get past the stereotypes and lies propagated by the haters and bigots ok?
I always heard and came to believe through experience is that if it hurts you're doing it wrong. Marc gave some good advice to which I would add "slow and easy wins over fast and furious".
I hope my son can be as confortable and honest in his relations.
bottoming not my cup of tea...but in some ocasions poppers saved my life
We all have our problems, but sometimes I really, really wish that I had someone else's problem instead of my own! :-) Good advice given, Marc!
I'm saying.
what problems are you having?
+Axel Rodriguez what problems are you having?
Good advice... being told it hurts, turns me off and I just lose the mood. I have to catch myself and I do ask, what position they prefer and accommodate!
I really like you Marc in this video, so much smiles from you :)
StefanDimitrovBG. hi
R u related to Grigor or are u Grigor?
Is there a good man out there for me
I've got a 'high quality' problem if you wanna take a look ;)
would love to
Would love to
Send to me 😬
i'm so convinced i will die if i bottom lol
if all else fails send him my way
Brett, if you really like this guy, here are some things you can try that worked for me. Length or width or both? Length used to give me oroblems, but I experimented with lube and finally got it. Anatomy lesson: At about 6" the rectum turns to the left. It straightens out when forced and returns to it's a normal position after. There is a tendon up there that wraps around the rectum and he has to get past that gently at first. When he does, you may feel a little pain and a pop. I use a lube launcher to put lube 5" or 6" into my rectum. When the end of the object reaches that spot, I push it in a little, pull back a bit, push it in a little further, pull back a bit, and so on until it's all the way in. For a long time I could never get more than 6" in. It was really frustrating. Now I can go a lot further, but I still find that at times 6" is still the limit. Any further is extremely painful. I'd skip desensitizing lubes because pain is a sign that something is wrong. With anal sex, since the rectum isn't made for sex and can be turn, you need to listen to that pain.
I read a lot of submissions in forums before I got to this point. Be clean, use lots of lube, warm up with lots of foreplay including rimming, definitely talk to your boyfriend because his cock is the problem, positions are important, experiment by yourself with a toy about his size, and if you really care for him, you'll work it out. You can always have a proctologist take a look and see if your intestines are normal. A gay friendly doc may be able to help you as well.
If it's width, get a set of graduated anal dilators. Gee, and I'm not even a porn star! Best of luck.
One last bit. Your rectum follows the curve of your sacrum and low back so it curves toward your back then comes toward your belly button. Try having him (with lots of lube in your rectum) enter you driving toward your back. When you reach the ouch point, have him shift position so he's driving toward your belly button, pull back a bit, then forward a bit. And go slow! A little further, back a bit, a little further in. When he's all the way in you, don't let him withdraw more than couple inches and then pump you staying close to full insertion. Keep his head above the tendon for quite a while until you're comfortable enough to let him pull out further and drive back. Stay with that scenario everytime you have sex until you have stretched that tendon a bit and you can relax enough to let him go crazy (this could take a few weeks or more). At that point I think you'll have great sex. Remember, it wasn't easy the first time you got anything up there! Muscles, regardless of where they are will eventually tire to the point that he could drive a Cadillac up your butt.
My ex surprised me with the revelation that I was boarderline too big for him, Years after we broke up. We were Married for 9 years!!!
hi marc , I love your accent were are you from & raised. love from England, Great Britain, the u.k. x
I've had this exact problem with +MarcDylan. He used to complain that I was too big, but I just shoved it in anyway.
Now that was an interesting topic :-/
I love your t-shirt by the way :-)
Why you look so happy in this vdo? You must have the grest day that day :)
hehehehe I could see your mouth watering when you mentioned about the photo! hehehe
Excellant practical advice.
hey Marc would you make a Asmr video your voice is so relaxing
Time and patience. It will work. The problem with most guys is they don't have the patience to work at it. Yes you do need to talk to your man. Yes you made a mistake not mentioning it to him in the beginning. Now he can help you with YOUR problem.
Very cute smile, Marc
My first boyfriend was hung, or more thick (girth)...it was tough taking him, but patience is key and open communication.
There's no such thing as being 'too hung'. LOL. And yes, use toys. Walk around with a butt plug in all day before you go home!
Marc you are awesome ;) Love your videos here....keep going.
pain or pleasure? Hard to tell the difference sometimes.
I'm hung and all my previous boyfriends have loved it, my current boyfriend wants to have sex but I struggle to come with him because he limits the moves we can do, I'm convinced we are not sexually compatible but I really really love him
i hope that came across positively. I really like your channel, your a good looking guy and seem to care about your followers. I don't think you had this information and wanted to share this with you. For my 20's and 30's I saw sex as a hobby and was facinated by the intense bonds one of my best friends who was a Dom had with other men. He was one of the nicest people in the world and there is a huge differene between doms who degrate the person submitting to them and dom's who become a care-taker and form an intense bond with thier sub, i freely admit I had to lean what this was all about by being a sub for another dom with the understataning that I didn't like bottoming and I didn't like beiing out of control. The exprience was one of the most loving and intense experience I had ever had and I now had the tools to become a dom. Even when I came into a realtionship as a sub I naturally drifted over time to the dom in that relationship. its just who I am personally and who I wanted to be. However there is no shame in being a good sub, you just have to find the very few good doms out there that care aboue their subs and understan that ultimately the sub has all the control and has to willingly give all control over to a dom. The dom can then train their body and mind to just react. My first experience i only subed occasionally to my Dom but instead I was a sub to him and Dom to others when we went out together. That was oe of the most incredible sexual relationships of my life. i also studied anotomy, mental training and conditioning to create automatic involentary responses. Repetitive action trains your body to do do whatever you want it to do. So everyone has a choice and if devoted can become a totally confident lover and someone who is proud of who they are and enlightened above the labels. So i hope you can see past the labels. i never used the Master/slave. i hated the slave term and we used military rank instead. So men under me were called Alphas which were my right hand and expected to be tops other than to myself and we had a few boys who followed our commands or face punishment or a lack of attention. It became a mix of love and a game to me but i fell totally in love with my Alpha who after 3 years admitted he was actually married to another man and withheld this from me. This broke my heart and trust. The whole military type power structure is highly enjoyable and is much easier b/c everyone knows theie role and feels loved and part of something. Trust is key here and after being devastated by my Alpha partner I dedicated my life to a very vanilla man. Slowly over the years he has understood the benefits of having a partner who knows so mcuh about sex. We still have years of things to cover but my view of sex changed. i became monogomous which i previously never thought was of any use.
What i discovered is if you dedicate yourself to one person sex shifts from physcial to emotional. So humans always require emotional connection. So our sexual attraction is based on emotional connection. When we get close i get a boner. Again its all about mental training. So anyone can decide what they want in their life. I had my fun and was ready for a lifetime partner. I had so much sex it had become meaningless and kiinf of old so now sex is all tied to our emotional connection. This kicks in with guys as they approach thier 40's and can see that thier relationship is worth more than a couple hours of fun. The emotional tie is where eventually you should be.. However for the 20s and 30's have fun, learn about how your body reacts, how others body reacts and how repetitive conditioning can establish INTENSE PHYSCIAL AND EMOTIONAL BODNS WHICH WILL BLOW YOUR MIND. The big hurdle, getting over the labels, the fear, the buulshit. All relationshiops are based on dom/sub wheather you know it or not. One person is the leader and theother follows. So there is an element of Dom/sub in all male relationshiops. When you learn to harness that power you crack open an entrely new realm of sex.. mind blowing sex.
I encouage you to reasearch this. Yes there is a dark side to all th this and there are more selfish bad doms than caring and loving doms who are always there for their sub establishing trust and love and dominance. Its intoxicating and even the mild coulple can take pieces of this stuff and integrate it into their relationship to keep havng sex. i've been with my partner 10 years have gone by, we don't even play with others and we have sex daily. Sure we have dry spells where we are not totally in sync and its all dependane on our connection. But we crave emotional supprt which when tied to sex ensures you will always have sexual desire for your partner for a lifetime.
i always llookedd as monogomy as restricted but when a sex thrapist explained the benefits of it they far outweighted the physical in the moment experinces. Again most men.. experiment and have fun, be safe and experiment befoer you find that one. you will feel a calling to settle down and when you find the person you will know it. layout your hearbreaks and your goals for the next 5 years and how you want to retire and your morals. What you find is right and wrong. if those mesh and you get weack in the knees heis the one. you just know it. This requires vigorous honesty and a willingless to be the peson you want him to be. i finally had hd enough sport sex ad got off all the sites and just dated. I looked at who the person was, what their friends said aout him, and what he did when no one was looking. I found a good man who I trust with my life. That is better than anything I could ever need and I even get to have some of the same fun which is new to him. .So that is my story and knowlege. You have the platform to spread this knowlege. Anything is possible. Physically that is. What can't change is if a guy is used to lying or cheating. They will always be that way so as soon as you figure this out even through his past move on b/c his past is your future. Just talk and they will tell you everything that will happen to you in the first month. LISTEN AND DON'T THINK WITH YOUR COCK if your ready to settle down.
Until then practice and become an expert. These skills are essential for a good sex life. it takes effort and training and learning. Most guys never think about it. Avoid those guyes. They are usually horriblee in bed.
"sometimes, when it comes to sex, people just don't fit together.."
Well said, Marc~ LMAO!!
chillbrutha82 sad but true 😢
The thing that gets me is how the commenter starts off with. The guy is really really hot! Not the guy is really smart or he's really sweet or he's very romantic just that he's hot! It seems like That is the only thing that matters to this generation of gay men! How hot they are? Do they work out etc. What about how educated they are or how smart they are? Or are they funny are they romantic? Where are your priorities? When you're looking for a man somebody that you want to be with It has to go a lot further than skin deep!
I wish I had that problem
Marc Dylan
You Are Consistently
On the MARC
HEY MARC. I WANNA SEND U A PIC OF MINE HEHE..WHERETO DO I SEND IT?
Brett try valium !!! It worked for me
2 percent lidiocain jelly. Need a script for it. Used for painful rectal procedures and catheterization when using large gauge Foley catheterization .
Advice from Chuck Holmes, owner of Falcon Video: "It'll Stretch A Mile Before It Tears An Inch".
Vaseline and water based lube does the trick
I'm 14 inches and about 8 thick. Like to go at least 6 hours and my BF cries often. I have the idea he doesnt like our sex. Do I ask him what is wrong or give him more of my time?
How's 10inchs. Would that be to much?
You're Canadian?
I've seen cases where men have been torn anally and had to have a temporary colostomy so the rectal area could heal.......
hey m8.. so how big is he? 😊
a person that is too big or very well endowed and is a top a bottom should try Lanacane Lanacane gnomes muscles and tissue and some water base lubricant offers lidocaine
my problem is the opposite.
***** it's not me with the small penis, mine is BIG. It's my boyfriend, his is not as big and straight as I would like but I love him so much so I can't leave him.
If you really do love him, then learn to be less shallow and realize there's more meaningful things in life than the size of an appendage. Hopefully you won't cheat on him.
If the shoes don’t fit don’t wear them
Oh no, a massive penile projectile. Send him to me.
Marc, you are just a hottie 😘😘😘
Just wondering what your views are on poppers don't you think there a little dangerous at times
I ended up one nite with a guy, and I'm not lying, he was 13" or more. I got up and got dressed, cause that was not going in me!! lol
Not really, had a barmaid I knew who said"if it's too big, just hug it and cry". But I am not looking to have a relationship with a cock. If the man is right, then I'm happy on an intellectual level. I dated a guy, he became my best friend for 15 years. At any point in that time , I would gladly have him as my partner. I graduated in 75, there was no internet, mobile phones looked like bricks, no social media. So meeting a guy was not easy. You had to hang out the bar all the time, or cruise the woods in a city park. I found the Advocate, and at least had some image of what was out there. I lived in the county where the guy prosecuted Larry Flynn That put out Hustler. I still have a box of the Firsthand, Manscape, guys ect, which were 5"x8" books that had some illustration, and stories. I had my Ennes, I don't watch Brokeback because it depresses me. I would love a partner, but where do you find one. Not in Bars, or on Grindr. I go to the gym, but am not a body builder, I stay in shape. But in a small town, that is doubtful. Maybe one day, I'll bump into him at Lowes!
I'm having the same problem with my boyfriend, he's 7,5 inches, is that too hung?
+Antonio Sini I have found 7.5 to be the highest I go where I can manage... usually bigger then that and I want to scream bloody murder lol. I tend to shy away from larger then 7.5... only because not much has to be done in order to take it. but no... 7.5 isn't necessarily hung in the eyes of most size queens. lol (I am definitely not a size queen... they may look awesome in the bigger sizes... but they sure don't feel so good... and maybe my hole just wasn't meant to have that big lol)
+Scott Wascher I guess my main problem is that, apart from being 7,5 inches it's quite thick but I won't give up till I get it all in :D thanks for your comment
+Antonio Sini why do you think you are having problems with enjoyment and getting the full 7.5 in? have you bottomed before with anyone at or below that size? something tells me either he isnt waiting long enough to do the deed.. or your or he isnt preparing ahead of time (like oral.. finger usage and maybe even the use of toys that are a bit smaller then he is first in order to begin the full opening process as well as keeping it still tighter enough to wrap around his penis)... another thing I may help out with... what positions have you tried to allow the depper penetration or penetration at all? i found most positions arent good for bigger penis initial insert... but tell me what you have tried up until now... (it also sounds like you may also be the cause of some of the discomfort in initial insertion)..
My boyfriend 8.5 but it gets really thick at the end. I wish it's thicker around the head not the end.
if you practice with a silicone toy DONT use a silicone lube, you'll fuck it up
My partner for 8 years had a huge one and xtra hard, It was not the best bottoming experience for me. We had an open relationship, and I did not have a problem with other guys that were even bigger than him. The problem was not the size, but our personalities. There was a chemistry problem. A minor one. we talked about it, I did less bottoming and more topping. that helped. And he adapted to do it sometimes more to my likening, even if it meant a bit less pleasure for him. And I sometimes took it more the way he liked it, even if it was less pleasurable for me. Talking about it, we found a compromise.
You should not stop plugging your products. How do you expect to make money, son? ;-)
My husband & I had families before we came out in 1995 after we both attempted suicide. So, we are both tops even though we tried it. However, we are both nurses and massage therapists; hence we can do marvelous things with our hands and mouths. Also, frottage is another great way if you and your partner can't candle anal. Hope this helps. Mark in Akron
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