My Struggle With Being Gay and Coming Out
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- Опубліковано 9 лип 2013
- Hey Y'all Hope you guys enjoy my latest video blog. I discuss my troubles I had with accepting my sexuality. Also, a few tips on staying smooth. Lol talk about variety!
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Thank you for reminding me to not totalise somebody from their career. You're humble, honest and eloquent and all rolled in one hell of a hot package. Thanks Marc.
this guy is just amazing. He'sso straight forward and not at all pushy with his advise/ It's very genuine in that he wants to help people who may be Gay or are to everyone world wide, THANK YOU so MUCH Marc Dylan love you and your kindness. xxx Francis Sydney AUSTRALIA
I have watched several of these postings and I commend these brave young people putting themselves out there with all of this ridicule and derision.
The hardest thing I ever did was to come out.
The best thing I ever did was to come out.
I am still not where I want to be but life is so much better.
These are your sons and daughters, your friends and colleges, your mothers and your fathers, and your grandparents who could not be the people that they were.
We are not trying to threaten society, we just want to be acknowledged as part of society. We are here.
This is the best video on your channel. So true and vulnerable. So many people think they know you for what you do. They are mostly wrong. Thank U for being your amazing self!
it's absolutely true, a man like you would intimidate me, I can be shy too but people like you always pleasantly surprise me. You're awesome. :)
You probably would of made a great teacher. From listening to you on your blog, I find you to be such an amazing human being. You come across has genuine and caring. The world needs more people like you. All the best!
Greeting from MS. Are you from here?? Thank you for sharing your stories. You are helping alot of other comes to terms with their true self. We need this kind of positivity here in our community these days. Yes everyone may say you are beautiful but that's not everything if a person doesn't have a heart. You my friend have a heart of gold. Hope you visit our great state again soon. Until then Happy Holidays!!
it's so nice to see a thumbnail indicating your "HAPPENING" online and then "tuning" you in and seeing and hearing you speak and its really beautiful.... thanks for being you . -mike
Your personality and story is kinda similar from mines. I'm in my early twenty's and struggling with accepting that I'm gay and other people finding out. It has stunted my social life, I'm very underdeveloped as a person. Im introverted as well and I never get to close to people because I'm afraid of people finding out I'm gay. I see myself proceeding at the same course you took. Thanks for the insight.
it's been 7 years
any improvements?
Hello Marc I admire you. You are a good role model to the gay community. You have a good positive outlook. And you have a very nice upper body with nice muscles keep up the good work.
Same to you
First I want to say you moved me to tears. Even though my family knows about me and I have been in my relationship for 15 years things are tough for me. I am married to him but I still don't really bring up the gay aspect. Thanks for saying what you did. It does make a difference.
marc…you are so awesome!!
thank you for posting this !!
Thanks for this Marc. I'm 24 and I'm always paranoid about people finding out. I've learned that coming out and acceptance are different things. I came out at 19 and still do not feel completely "free." I feel like I'm not completely myself with the testosterone filled straight guys because I'm afraid of them finding out through my mannerisms, or my voice. I'm on the verge of coming out. I can't take hiding who I am anymore.
A beautiful soul in a beautiful exterior.
Love your honesty and your genuine concern for other people. I suppose that is why you share your experiences and isights with such candour and refreshing, artless directness.
Truly wonderful!
When I was in elementary school I was attracted to girls and had girlfriends. I had my first crush on a guy in ninth grade but was very naive and had no idea what that meant. In high school I was attracted to both. As I got older I was more or less attracted to men only. I got married at the age of 28, not having come to terms with my sexuality. I had read in Ann Landers that if I were also attracted to women I could probably decrease my homosexual urges. So I figured I wasn't really gay and got married. I had three children before I finally came out to myself. For the past 20 years I have considered myself as exclusively gay, but I have not come out to anybody I know. I don't think I could upend my family like that. I live my gay life vicariously through reading, looking at the internet at sites like this, watching t.v., and enjoying seeing handsome guys all over. It can be frustrating but that is the price I have to be for being so out of tune with who I was.
Thanks for sharing such a personal story! I feel bad that you have to punish yourself like that though. You seem like a really charming individual! :)
You don't have to punish yourself for anything. People have different coming out timings, yours happened to be like this. And nobody, not even people close to you, even your wife or your children, have the right to decide how you live your life, at any point of it.
hey Marc, i love your work but love you heaps more for these vids. I was in the closet for a long time and i think vids like these are helping a lot of people understand themselves and find peace and strength from testimony like yours. love to u
You're such a handsome and wonderful person Marc Dylan. I like the way you're being so honest and open about any subjects you talk about and any questions people gives you in your vids. I can really see in the comments that it's helping many. It was hard for me too at first, to come out (though i came out young) and it's still very hard to ''show'' myself in public with another man.. Though every day i tell myself ''don't hide, don't care, be happy'' and it's helping me a bit everytime to stop caring about what others think and i get to love myself a bit more everyday too. Your video does helped me too, and i thank you for that! :) Take care, don't stop yet making vids 'cause it's really interresting.
Wish i could have more friends like you, heheh :)
Oh, almost forgot! Just subscribed ^.^ hehehh
Love this talk you are giving. It is me, everything you are describing about yourself.
Hey thanks for sharing your story I have a feeling it might help a lot of people who may still be in the closet.
By the way, you deserve all the page views money etc that comes your way, you are a great humble and thankful person, don't ever loose the southern hospitality!
Hey , thank u very much , i really appreciate that
Thanks Marc for your honesty about your experience of coming to terms with being gay. I enjoyed listening to you. It is often not easy to cone out, as I remember hiding my sexuality years ago in Glasgow, Scotland - not the most tolerant place! Good to hear how you dealt with it. Good luck to you :)
your story of struggling with being gay sounds just like mine. I was and am still quite shy; seems like I have a lot to come over with anyway. Inspiring story! Thanks!
You seem like such a lovely, intelligent and thoughtful guy (as well as hot). Love your honesty and hearing your views on things - lots of wisdom xx
Thanks for sharing your story. It inspire my a lot and also the other people. It really hard for me because my country is against LGBT and I does not have anyone to talk about it. Glad to hear your story. thanks
Stunning and Humbled. Perfection at its best.
Your videos are really insightful, thanks for doing what you do.
I totally can relate to 02:55. That has never went away or became any easier.
I relate to this so much. Thank you for sharing your story
I you inspire me Marc everything you say brings me hope for my future
I suscribed cause you actually talked about something intersting! Blessings from Perú.
Your awesome dude! Well done!
Thank you for doing this. You are gong a great job. Thank you. The struggles we went through finding out we are gay thank you.
Im still hiding. I feel guilty and dirty. I don’t wanna feel sad, embarrassed, or ashamed of myself
You have always been my favorite ❤
I love you blog, keep going I am proud of you wish the best for you, you are something else, nice to tell you,all this things, love Beto
That fact that you're able to talk about this is beautiful. You're also a handsome (sexy) guy that seems to have a great heart. Congratulations sir. And if ever in Miami, let me know. Drinks on me... ;)
OMG Marc your story is my story in school and all my life !
Hi MD3X! You are so straight forward and I like it so much! I like you!
First time iv seen your vid. Enjoyed it fella so iv subscribed ....
Hey Marc, i just subscribed, just happened upon your vlog. You are one humble man and very handsome. And you will help alot of gay men. Thank you
I am with you I went same feeling when I told my mom then I was like a free bird
That’s the most interesting coming out video I have seen 🙏 thanks
I believe that religion play a big role in accepting yourself. I was brought up within the Buddhist religion and my religion doesn't condemned homosexuality, so being gay was never an issue for me. I'm sure if I was brought up in the Christian/Catholic religion, my life would turn out totally different.
coming from you, and your experiences.. very well said.. thanks a lot! love it.. take cre.. :-)
Very well-spoken, intelligent...thanks for sharing.
Thank you for the video, Marc... it's appreciated. Hopefully your celebrity will enable some to understand it's okay to be themselves. B
I love you Marc, take care xoxo
Great video Marc! :)
Hey Maarc, good to see you man.
Thanks for replying back Marc your videos are always informative and I look forward to watching...Allen
Love your story and video :-)
Marc Dylan , you're a role model for us. You're awesome and beautiful.❤💋💪🏾
This is a serious vid and pathetic how people are commenting on the blokes looks rather than the content of his video
We need more Gay men like you. You should do more videos of speaking.
I think you are very very nice, Besides your beatiful body, I think you have an inner beauty that I can call simplicity. Thank you for your words. You deserve to be happy !!!!
buddy you have the best body congrats,you are really well adjusted!
I really admire your courage
Great content Dylan
Thank you very much
Damn, you seem like such a cool guy never mind how attractive you are as that come secondary to you great personality. Just wish there was more room to tell you about my coming out horror story growing up in a very rural mile square town in FLA that's over 100 miles away from any major city. I told my mother at 14 that I felt different than the other boys. Should have kept my big mouth shut as it turned into a small town witch hunt. Church, town, family and total fear with no play to escape too.
Nice video! Cheerz mate from NZ
Hello Mark how do you cope up with the people who hate gays? If someone ask your gender preference would you tell them straightly that you're a gay?
you seem to have a very sweet soul.
Nooooo, don't shave your chests, guys!!! Let us Hairy-Loving guys enjoy it on you! lol
Hairy is great for some, but NOT all. Different strokes for different folks.
@@agentmulder1019 Yet there are already plenty of naturally smooth guys. It seems strange to add to those numbers by shaving when there's no need to.
@@tonybennett4159 It actually depends on your preference sir.
Hi Marc, i have questions? do you drink muscle milk & if so does it help?
I miss you - i hope you are doing well!
Very sensible, honest guy. Confidently gay. As you should be.
Marc, what will you react if both your Mum and Dad come out as well？
9 Years too late. What an intelligent lovely guy. So surprised he had such hangups meaning that he did already have a boyfriend, must have been ‘out’ for himself, guess he had moved to a bigger place already, must have known other ‘out’ gays and all this in the new millennium, still something he could not get over and costed him a 4 year going relationship. 😮 What a waste. Now he’s on grinder so i find that a bit sad and lonely but perhaps he does not see it that way. One indeed can say: He has come out. I think i saw in a later video frm 4 years ago he again is in a relation. Good. I love 💕 love ❤️. 😊
Thank you.
Wow. ....what a gorgeous man inside and out! Uh, can you do this blog without the shirt ;) lol
Amazing.... your a goodlooking guy..
HI Marc
Your blogs are a big help to me
Growing up being gay
and always being in the closet
I like watching gay porn specially cops, prison seens
I find myself checking out guys asses
thank you for your help
keep up the great work
I really needed your help
to try to live a closeted life is not fun and places a lot of stress upon you. If not, you will be alone at 70 and mom and dad are gone! You have to live for yourself! Coming out is not ever easy for any of us. In the past, it was so much more difficult. You can also have a horrible experience and be kicked out of the home as a couple of my friends did! Support from mom and dad is important if you are under 18.
A strong guy
How many boy friends have you had for long time relationship? I hope you find someone for life.
Thankyou.
hay man you a great guy, live life to the best you can and i bet you be a great boyfriend wish i had met you when i was yonger take care man good luck
Hey Marc I have questions??
show the products on the screen plz! ;(
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i was sexually molested several times with an older bro when i was at the age of 4 to 6, forced to do sexual favors, did this have anything to do with me being attracted to guys today?
+Barak Hammond of course NOT
+Barak Hammond exactly. your experience was not able to be processed. so youre gay now
+Barak Hammond exactly. your experience was not able to be processed. so youre gay now
i beg your pardon , being attracted to males does not make me gay, im attracted to females as well, so your comment is incorrect
+Barak Hammond there is a heavy nonsense in this quote, think about it: if a person was molested in the past this cannot make him gay because how could he wish to repeat such bad an experience again and again? if a guy is attracted to women is straight, if he is attracted to men is gay, if he is attracted both genders is bisexual, it is quite easy and trying to find a relation with bad experience of the past it is like saying "being attracted my same gender is wrong so if it is something terrible must be occurred in my past"
Your on manhunt? Guess it's time to sign up!! i love u Marc!!
Very well spoken +Marc Dylan
+MARQUEZ MORROW hi
+MARQUEZ MORROW hi
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You're all just big muscle queens
Yeah love you dude! But please leave the drama to the guys who have their own shitllll that.being just be you😟😱😲😳🙌🙌🙋🙌🙋
You area beautiful men and good education.need clean the best.im older I like your person good bless
he is so cute
Hi marc. I am a big fan of yours! I like your talking to fans on u tube. I am willing to be your friend. How could your fans get in touch with u?
Hi Steve. marcdylan.com/contact-me/
Sorry i ment *a question
Hey Marc!
Hello My idol Marc. How are you doing?
Is it all right to tell your lover that you really enjoy patting and kissing him on his elbows? Especially when he has his sleeves rolled up past his elbows?
great job with coming out video. awesome build too. you do any sports? varsity football wrestling soccer track here. how u like my build? u ready for halloweeen and haunted houses and Halloween parades and parties?? I kicked the butts of the anti gay bullies in high school. now I am premed univ of iowa . I love the gay student group here and I do male stripper work which is a lot of fun and pays well and is excuse to be in speedo in clubs showing my build.
Hola mi rey hermoso te seguimos la comunda latina puedes hablar en español o castellano si
You know there are health reasons why you have natural hair, it is cooling purposes.
hey dude your sweet,
Cute
In someway gay men that act super straight really hate there self and take a lot time and hard work even like there self.Do you love or like your self now.
morire de amor
Nice bod mate.