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Thanks for helping out our LGBTQ community. You're a great example of a gay man and all the kind gay men I know. I think empathy is our specialty for obvious reasons.
Marc you have uch a soothing voice and great advice. I was also blackmailed by an escort. He stalked me and demanded more and more money. I had to go to the FBI.
Marc, my Marc, my love, mon cheri, great video! I wish this was weekly, but I can thank Twitter, too, for letting me know you're alright. Please, be alright forever, and don't get along uneasy, dangerous people like that poor guy.
Watched about 8 minutes of your video and I can tell you that the first 3 seconds I would have screamed - DON'T PAY HIM!!! I continued listening and notice the man said the money was negligible. And you're right, it would be better spent on you for the SAGE advice you gave him. I, agree with you, the FOOTAGE probably DOESN'T EXIST and if he DOES publish it; he's going to be OFF THE ESCORT ROLLS IN A NANOSECOND!!! Glad I found your video. It was very informative!
Someone literally JUST tried to blackmail me like this!! I had sent him a clip of me (nothing hard core) which he threatened (pretending that it was his girlfriend who had found it and was going to do the things he told me) would be taken to the newspaper’s etc unless I gave him some money. First, I put the clip he was talking about into one of my videos (I’m a singer) and then told him that he could take it and show the fukkin pope for all I cared!! Then I told him that I had screenshotted the whole conversation and the blackmail threats and would prosecute him if he even THOUGHT about trying to use my copy written material!! Then I blocked him on everything. I would rather eat dog shit than become someone’s bitch!! And like you said, if you give in to the fear and pay them it opens up a Pandora’s box and they would never stop!! You just can’t give anyone your power like that!! Scum
NEVER GIVE IN TO A BLACKMAILER !!!! I'VE BEEN BLACKMAILED 3X'S IT'S NO FUN & THEY THINK THAT THEY GOT U 🤔🤨 " IF YOU'RE AFRAID TO TELL THE TRUTH YOU DON'T DESERVE FREEDOM " - MALCOLM X I DON'T WALK BACKWARDS !!!!!
If anyone is in this situation, always document or record for proofs, and police should be contacted - even if the other person is only threading you. The police department takes this seriously and they will help you navigate the situation to catch the guy/girl. You don’t have to go through this on your own.
encouraging to find such reasoned advice...for future reference it is illegal to take unauthorized pictures/videos. Most states have very serious fines/sentencing. thanks again.
Often escort s work for a company or individual which take part of the pay. If they contact the service and let them know this is going on he , the escort, may suffer some consequences at the very least the company will drop him off their roster.
Hey Marc - Good advice on a tough topic. I'm lucky enough that if I ever had an escort threaten to Blackmail me, I'd just laugh at him and tell him I'm going to the police. I don't care if someone would release a sex tape or pic, I'm not in any danger from such info being released. The threat of going to the Police would put the Escort in a serious sweat, he'd be jumping at every knock on his door, every unknown call coming in and looking over his shoulder every time he went out wondering if he was about to get busted. Call his Bluff.
I want someone to show me how it feels like. This will be my first time ever with the same sex. I'm down for Anything Anyone want my phone number 720-551-0114 I want to how hard/ feels like BLK male or white male with a package I'm 50yr male first time. Age doesn't matter.
Escort service, is the word I was looking for. Also, there is no signed contract so no notice is required. That's the drawback of being in that business.
Blackmailing is illegal. See a lawyer. It’s one thing to say you are going to expose someone (legal), it becomes illegal when you threaten to expose someone unless they get something of value in return.
Omg my not so smart friend met up with an escort and right when she showed up and handed her the $300 for an hour of her time, she "forgot" her phone in her car and told him she had to run and grab it before they have their hour, her boyfriend/pimp was waiting in the car and they sped off. Cant call the cops because you are also breaking the law....advice? Don't buy escorts!!!
For time after dinner? They must not eat like I do otherwise having sex after eating would be disastrous. I had a friend who was being blackmailed. A group of us told him we would beat the fuck out of him if he didn't stop. It was over after that.
It's even less denigrating to negotiate with actual terrorists than with some sleazebag that's making of that delicate, interesting business even shadier and more criminal. Sure, first and most important, contact the authorities.
Someone who can afford a weekly escort will be sophisticated enough to know the arrangement. This client was not in it for 'love', they just wanted a good time, maybe a little fantasy, and then have the escort go away...although perhaps in this case the client should have paid for a better one.
I agree but most people get this wrong. People, for the most part aren’t paying for sex, love and affection. They’re paying not to have the stress / reality of a relationship. Escorts know they have to be fun, light, engaging etc. Partners come with family/work drama, life issues etc. Men pay for the ‘good’ bits and to erase the ‘bad’ bits
Wow, yeah that’s not a good situation to be in. Come guys don’t blackmail anyone treat people the way you would like to be treated. What goes around comes around, it’s a crime to blackmail people aside from that could you really live with yourself knowing what your doing is wrong? Wake up! The more good you are with people and the good energy you put out into the universe will come back to you remember that before making any stupid decisions!🧐
I would ask to see the proof under the guise of paying him for the copy. I would do this verbally as in writing would be grounds for a contract. I would hidden video his showing of the proof along with getting him to reveal more while being recorded.
If he was hired as a regular, he should get two weeks pay. Not one penny after that or turn him over to the police for filming you without your consent and for extortion.
If there was a video it was filmed at a private location and illegal if posted. Now if the video was filmed in a public area. It is not illegal. If he did post and you took him to court he would lose. Plus having to pay damage caused by posting you to the public. Courts would love to take this guy down. It would destroy him for good. You have nothing to worry about and maybe big bucks ahead. Plus him having a felony by extortion
$2000 for a months worth of appointments....LOL. The escort must be unattractive. I once got offered an open line on a credit card to charge how ever much I wanted....LOL.
I got involved in a longterm arrangement with someone. I ignored A LOT of obvious warning signs. This person started out making snarky and critical comments and this later escalated to shouting at me over simple mistakes-- basically degrading me. I learned later this is a part of the game. When I tried to stop the arrangement, this person became extremely belligerent and started making threats. The last time he visited he spent the whole time trying to extort money from me. I had become infatuated initially. And, when you're infatuated you make gymnastic leaps in logic to find the good in that person. The reality was that this person bulks up to attract men and then finds a mark. My advice is that -- unless you are VERY certain of the person --- do not engage in anything longterm. If the person has some notoriety, THEN BELIEVE IT AND STAY FAR FAR AWAY. I'm not saying there aren't those who do the work and do it functionally, but there are many who are VERY broken men.
He may have some sort of footage from some type of security camera or something but the escort would absolutely be screwing himself over worse than causing John any harm, don’t pay him. Not to mention, who would he send the footage to in all reality
Record a new conversation with him regarding his blackmail, calling it as such in the discussion. Focus on bargaining over the value. Inviting him to yr house was not smart. He knows the house plan, the valuablez you've got & may plan a robbery when you're out!
Hello Marc Dylan, A give a very sound advice,and based on your demeanor you’re smart and understanding person.you should have your own show in this kind of format,specially in the gay community,wishing you more power and great things to come.
Always go through a reputable escort agency to hire an escort and not an individual ad out of the back of a gay rag (magazine) is the best way to prevent yourself from getting into a situation like this. I don’t think it’s unreasonable to give an escort some notice before ending the business relationship that had gone one for a year. They may have bout a car or even a house based on this income so be kind n give a couple weeks. Discuss with them that it has become unfulfilling to you and you think it’s time to move on. Just my two cents
I'm not gay but if I was a escort. Also not a escort but if I was I wouldn't blackmail people it's your job to escort people. Doesnt sound like a good escort. People are greedy as fooook
Also: recording and distributing private sex footage without consent of the footage is called “Revenge Porn” (without even a demand for money). It’s a felony
Step 1 tell the extortionist you're not scared by mere words tell him to show you the alleged video. If he refuses, it does not exist. If he continues the threats then retaliate with there is no video but if there were...
I agree about not paying this guy. HOWEVER, there are right ways of ending things and ways to fuck things up. You fucked up by ending the relationship abruptly without a TRANSITION. I think transitions are important. They are helpful to everyone participating in the transition. Everyone is a person, the escort and the client. EVERYONE deserves respectful treatment, and the way you treated him at the end was disrespectful. At this point things are different, and you are dealing with someone blackmailing you. I still think think it would be worth a conversation to Understand the experience from both sides. It is an opportunity for growth for both. At the end, the solution for both if you at least talk about it. Can you imagine what great make up sex you two would have???
Marc, you gave very good advice, and you did it with compassion. Never, ever pay a blackmailer, because it will never stop.
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Never do anything you’re ashamed of... Wear your actions with pride!
So well spoken and answered. Thanks for doing what you do.
I love your calm and mature advice on everything Marc.
You are clearly a very intelligent man.
Thanks for helping out our LGBTQ community. You're a great example of a gay man and all the kind gay men I know. I think empathy is our specialty for obvious reasons.
You are 100% correct. It would never end with just that initial amount.
You do have a genuine talent for the advice which you provide. I am also impressed with how erudite and well spoken you are :-)
Thank you!
I love Marc. Such a kind, nice and awesome man! A sweet guy
Marc you have uch a soothing voice and great advice. I was also blackmailed by an escort. He stalked me and demanded more and more money. I had to go to the FBI.
Marc, my Marc, my love, mon cheri, great video!
I wish this was weekly, but I can thank Twitter, too, for letting me know you're alright. Please, be alright forever, and don't get along uneasy, dangerous people like that poor guy.
Great advice Marc 👍
Thank you for having the courage to post this and help others who may find themselves dealing with an extortionist too.
No money. If you give him any you are giving him power over you.
Great advice, Marc. Happy New Year, sir! 🍾🥂
Thank you. Im nervous as hell needed to hear this?
Excellent advice.
It's called "Extortion" and it is a felony! Also, I find it hard to believe that this Escort only had one client he was seeing/servicing.
He should call the police, that is extortion and he can be prosecuted.
Watched about 8 minutes of your video and I can tell you that the first 3 seconds I would have screamed - DON'T PAY HIM!!! I continued listening and notice the man said the money was negligible. And you're right, it would be better spent on you for the SAGE advice you gave him. I, agree with you, the FOOTAGE probably DOESN'T EXIST and if he DOES publish it; he's going to be OFF THE ESCORT ROLLS IN A NANOSECOND!!! Glad I found your video. It was very informative!
Instead, pay a drug dealer to instruct his strong-arm men to beat the $hit out of the blackmailer.
Now, see here, I missed this because my Notification Bell got turned off some how. Another good one. Thanks.
This great advice Mark. If you pay one you will continue to pay. See Charlie Sheen.
Someone literally JUST tried to blackmail me like this!! I had sent him a clip of me (nothing hard core) which he threatened (pretending that it was his girlfriend who had found it and was going to do the things he told me) would be taken to the newspaper’s etc unless I gave him some money. First, I put the clip he was talking about into one of my videos (I’m a singer) and then told him that he could take it and show the fukkin pope for all I cared!! Then I told him that I had screenshotted the whole conversation and the blackmail threats and would prosecute him if he even THOUGHT about trying to use my copy written material!! Then I blocked him on everything. I would rather eat dog shit than become someone’s bitch!! And like you said, if you give in to the fear and pay them it opens up a Pandora’s box and they would never stop!! You just can’t give anyone your power like that!! Scum
Great advice!
Good advice as always, Marc :-) :-)
The time after is “dessert.”
A quiet, objective and useful comment.
Not sure how this ended up in my listing, but really good advice.
NEVER GIVE IN TO A BLACKMAILER !!!!
I'VE BEEN BLACKMAILED 3X'S IT'S NO FUN & THEY THINK THAT THEY GOT U 🤔🤨
" IF YOU'RE AFRAID TO TELL THE TRUTH YOU DON'T DESERVE FREEDOM " - MALCOLM X
I DON'T WALK BACKWARDS !!!!!
Thank you..
Love you Mark 🔥🔥🔥❤️❤️❤️🥂
If anyone is in this situation, always document or record for proofs, and police should be contacted - even if the other person is only threading you. The police department takes this seriously and they will help you navigate the situation to catch the guy/girl. You don’t have to go through this on your own.
I do love your tips
encouraging to find such reasoned advice...for future reference it is illegal to take unauthorized pictures/videos. Most states have very serious fines/sentencing. thanks again.
Yes, I addressed that in multiple ways through the video.
very calm and beautiful speaker. Pugialistic.
So attractive and intelligent.
You are a great guy!
Yes do pay him !
Often escort s work for a company or individual which take part of the pay. If they contact the service and let them know this is going on he , the escort, may suffer some consequences at the very least the company will drop him off their roster.
John should tell him that he recorded several of their conversations & blackmails!
John, surely you saw some signs before degenerating to this level!
Never go through an Escort Service. Go independent. Never ever pay a blackmailer.
I like your videos. Great job!
Hey Marc - Good advice on a tough topic. I'm lucky enough that if I ever had an escort threaten to Blackmail me, I'd just laugh at him and tell him I'm going to the police. I don't care if someone would release a sex tape or pic, I'm not in any danger from such info being released. The threat of going to the Police would put the Escort in a serious sweat, he'd be jumping at every knock on his door, every unknown call coming in and looking over his shoulder every time he went out wondering if he was about to get busted. Call his Bluff.
I want someone to show me how it feels like. This will be my first time ever with the same sex. I'm down for Anything Anyone want my phone number 720-551-0114 I want to how hard/ feels like BLK male or white male with a package I'm 50yr male first time. Age doesn't matter.
Escort service, is the word I was looking for. Also, there is no signed contract so no notice is required. That's the drawback of being in that business.
Set him up and prosecute him.
Word of the day: pugilistic :p
Blackmailing is illegal. See a lawyer. It’s one thing to say you are going to expose someone (legal), it becomes illegal when you threaten to expose someone unless they get something of value in return.
And the 2000 bucks would pay for lawyer.
thanks for all the support Marc
Thank you for watching!
Omg my not so smart friend met up with an escort and right when she showed up and handed her the $300 for an hour of her time, she "forgot" her phone in her car and told him she had to run and grab it before they have their hour, her boyfriend/pimp was waiting in the car and they sped off. Cant call the cops because you are also breaking the law....advice? Don't buy escorts!!!
For time after dinner? They must not eat like I do otherwise having sex after eating would be disastrous. I had a friend who was being blackmailed. A group of us told him we would beat the fuck out of him if he didn't stop. It was over after that.
Could let the cops know.
I would hire you as my lawyer, but there is a chance that I would not be able to resist your charms ( another harassment case in the making).)))
It's even less denigrating to negotiate with actual terrorists than with some sleazebag that's making of that delicate, interesting business even shadier and more criminal.
Sure, first and most important, contact the authorities.
Id report the escort. Blackmail is against the law and those who this should be exposed.
Why do people find love and affection through an escort? I want affection from a guy that loves me for who I am. Am worth more as a person.
Someone who can afford a weekly escort will be sophisticated enough to know the arrangement. This client was not in it for 'love', they just wanted a good time, maybe a little fantasy, and then have the escort go away...although perhaps in this case the client should have paid for a better one.
I agree but most people get this wrong. People, for the most part aren’t paying for sex, love and affection. They’re paying not to have the stress / reality of a relationship. Escorts know they have to be fun, light, engaging etc. Partners come with family/work drama, life issues etc. Men pay for the ‘good’ bits and to erase the ‘bad’ bits
@@LeroneClarkeOliverYT totally correct
It is a great arrangement if you just want a good time, not to hear about their family, their day or their goals which come with a relationship.
Ironically the advertisement before this video was: Dick's Sporting Goods!!
Ha ha!!
Spill the T!
Wow, yeah that’s not a good situation to be in. Come guys don’t blackmail anyone treat people the way you would like to be treated. What goes around comes around, it’s a crime to blackmail people aside from that could you really live with yourself knowing what your doing is wrong? Wake up! The more good you are with people and the good energy you put out into the universe will come back to you remember that before making any stupid decisions!🧐
I would ask to see the proof under the guise of paying him for the copy. I would do this verbally as in writing would be grounds for a contract. I would hidden video his showing of the proof along with getting him to reveal more while being recorded.
HAPPY NEW YEAR 2021
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Good advice Marc. Do you read your comments?
If he was hired as a regular, he should get two weeks pay. Not one penny after that or turn him over to the police for filming you without your consent and for extortion.
Even as a regular nothing is ever regular when it comes to that job .
Another route: Say 'No Way, Jose" but say here is 1 week's fee
but Goodbye!
Man i got one 1 hour ago with a picture of me from Facebook and dead body's I block them but shit that was scared af
You could also mention that your brother works for the Corleone family and do a Faye Dunnaway Joan Crawford Pepsi BOD rant...
I just stubbled on this. Excellent advice Marc. I'd like to know if you ever heard back from the guy and what happened in the end.
If there was a video it was filmed at a private location and illegal if posted. Now if the video was filmed in a public area. It is not illegal. If he did post and you took him to court he would lose. Plus having to pay damage caused by posting you to the public. Courts would love to take this guy down. It would destroy him for good. You have nothing to worry about and maybe big bucks ahead. Plus him having a felony by extortion
Marc, what are you doing these days? Are you still making videos? Do you live on the west coast? Thanks.
I’ve been a fan for a while I had no idea you had UA-cam
Thanks for watching 😀
@@MarcDylan your very welcome and I’m sorry you had an awful experience I’ve had similar experiences it’s not a great feeling! X
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$2000 for a months worth of appointments....LOL. The escort must be unattractive. I once got offered an open line on a credit card to charge how ever much I wanted....LOL.
I’m a new subscriber! Yay
❤ handsome....
Did the escort have any claim whatsoever on the John? I am sure they did not sign a contract.
I was taken advantage by escorts. Because of this I have financial problems and I no longer go out and I am celibate
Wow. That's quite a predicament. Maybe talk to a lawyer or get counseling.
What's the worst thing that can happen?
I got involved in a longterm arrangement with someone. I ignored A LOT of obvious warning signs. This person started out making snarky and critical comments and this later escalated to shouting at me over simple mistakes-- basically degrading me. I learned later this is a part of the game. When I tried to stop the arrangement, this person became extremely belligerent and started making threats. The last time he visited he spent the whole time trying to extort money from me. I had become infatuated initially. And, when you're infatuated you make gymnastic leaps in logic to find the good in that person. The reality was that this person bulks up to attract men and then finds a mark. My advice is that -- unless you are VERY certain of the person --- do not engage in anything longterm. If the person has some notoriety, THEN BELIEVE IT AND STAY FAR FAR AWAY. I'm not saying there aren't those who do the work and do it functionally, but there are many who are VERY broken men.
It’s been too long :)
I miss your content
He may have some sort of footage from some type of security camera or something but the escort would absolutely be screwing himself over worse than causing John any harm, don’t pay him. Not to mention, who would he send the footage to in all reality
you people are delusional nobody cares about shit when they feel disrespected i expose guys all the time and guess what I still get dick
If he released the video, who would care? Unless the victim is famous, it's a no brainer. And you're right, the escort would only keep coming back.
Record a new conversation with him regarding his blackmail, calling it as such in the discussion. Focus on bargaining over the value.
Inviting him to yr house was not smart. He knows the house plan, the valuablez you've got & may plan a robbery when you're out!
Two words. Jarec Wentworth. Suggest to your escort he google him. Then see if he wants to follow through with this threat.
Southwest Johnny Damn, I was wondering why he wasn't in scenes anymore. Thought he was hot ;).
Hello Marc Dylan,
A give a very sound advice,and based on your demeanor you’re smart and understanding person.you should have your own show in this kind of format,specially in the gay community,wishing you more power and great things to come.
Marc , you are HOT as well as SMART !
Always go through a reputable escort agency to hire an escort and not an individual ad out of the back of a gay rag (magazine) is the best way to prevent yourself from getting into a situation like this. I don’t think it’s unreasonable to give an escort some notice before ending the business relationship that had gone one for a year. They may have bout a car or even a house based on this income so be kind n give a couple weeks. Discuss with them that it has become unfulfilling to you and you think it’s time to move on. Just my two cents
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I'm not gay but if I was a escort. Also not a escort but if I was I wouldn't blackmail people it's your job to escort people. Doesnt sound like a good escort. People are greedy as fooook
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escort REALLY? Pay me I keep you company.
I also lost money in deposit scam
Also: recording and distributing private sex footage without consent of the footage is called “Revenge Porn” (without even a demand for money). It’s a felony
Cute
Business is business, ask for the video first, then pay.
What would that do? You can make copies of videos..
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Wow your good looking sorry had to say that. Anyway love and peace to everyone at this moment in time. ✌🤝🙏🇬🇧🏳️🌈🙏🤝✌
Step 1 tell the extortionist you're not scared by mere words tell him to show you the alleged video. If he refuses, it does not exist. If he continues the threats then retaliate with there is no video but if there were...
I agree about not paying this guy. HOWEVER, there are right ways of ending things and ways to fuck things up. You fucked up by ending the relationship abruptly without a TRANSITION. I think transitions are important. They are helpful to everyone participating in the transition. Everyone is a person, the escort and the client. EVERYONE deserves respectful treatment, and the way you treated him at the end was disrespectful. At this point things are different, and you are dealing with someone blackmailing you. I still think think it would be worth a conversation to
Understand the experience from both sides. It is an opportunity for growth for both. At the end, the solution for both if you at least talk about it. Can you imagine what great make up sex you two would have???
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