Thank you Brad, I just want to say you helping people, just watching your UA-cam videos others won't help if you don't buy books on how to text the right way. Thank you, you are a good man. 💜
You're welcome! Yes, I do post content regularly to help people. I'm glad you appreciate it! If your situation is unique or still confused on what to do or would like a personalized help from me, that is when I suggest they either get my guide or coaching. :-) Hey, you never know who else can use some help, so if it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t already, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it!
Your a pro!!!! She called me 16 times yesterday and texted me 4times. The crazy thing is, I'm starting to get over her bull shit. She had so much control and power of me that I forgot that I am better off single.
True. On the lighter side, you can use those positive memories to win back an ex. Time is your ally, but also make sure you play your cards right. Here's the link: www.breakupbrad.com
Thank u Brad. My bf brokeup with me 2months ago. I stopped talking to him . Went on no contact and after a month and half I texted him. He replied and . Texted me continuously for 4days and finally came looked for me and we made up and back together. Thank u. It works
Wonderful! I'm glad my it's all worked out for you. Now as what I always like to say, please keep in mind that getting an ex back does not mean the work stops there. You have to do more work to ensure your relationship stays healthy. Review my guide and/or watch these videos to help you further: ua-cam.com/video/jjrOpxa-wfI/v-deo.html and ua-cam.com/video/v9mVzh2NVAc/v-deo.html All the best! :-)
Better luck next time, then...and don't make the same mistakes! :-) On the flip side, however, you could just be overreacting, so if you'd really want to gauge your chances of getting back together (it may not be all doom and gloom after all) I suggest you take the free quiz on my website and answer as honestly as possible, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
I hear you, man. Stay strong! What happened, though? Look at the roles that you've BOTH played that led to the breakup and if the issues have a chance to get resolved, and how to go about it. In most cases, the problems that led to the breakup can be resolved, but in some cases, it isn't. So take time to evaluate, okay? Good luck!
Now that's what I love to hear! Congrats, man! Now keep in mind that getting an ex back does not mean the work stops there. You have to do more work to ensure your relationship stays healthy. Review my guide and/or watch these video to help you further: ua-cam.com/video/jjrOpxa-wfI/v-deo.html and ua-cam.com/video/v9mVzh2NVAc/v-deo.html All the best! :-)
Brad Browning me and my ex have been on and off and we got in a huge argument for 4 days and eventually got back together for 2 days and then I ended it cause I felt like she didn’t really care if we were together and then I told her I want things to workout but now she told me that’s it’s officially over. what should I do?
Watch this, first: ua-cam.com/video/T_W_ilf9x6w/v-deo.html At this point ...and I really hate to say this, but you may not have much choice. So yes, cut off contact for around a month. Okay? Besides, what do you plan to do if you don't cut off contact? Text your ex every now and then? That would only make you appear desperate and that's never attractive and keep in mind, your goal is to rebuild attraction, right? That's how NOT doing "no contact" is wrong, because the alternative is much much worse and is only guaranteed to push an ex away with all that neediness.
Dazzle Gamer how’s it going? Did you do the 30 day no contact? As a lady that has done the breaking up, I know that I was annoyed by the guys going into panic mode and not giving me any space. Too many texts, pictures, & then it turned into him trying to guilt me, he was all over the place. But when he finally gave up- 6 months later and cut off the contact, I started to think about him again and started to think of the positive points of the relationship. Before the no contact when he was so needy I would only think about the negative things.
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Brad Browning so me and my ex gf are 13 we broke up on June 1 I sent her a sorry message and she said she was hurt and she said she wants to be friends but now we talk everyday all day no joke I'll text her from 11:00 am to 1:00am and her sis texted me saying she does want me back to but I don't know when is a good time to ask her for a second chance and she texts me first now but can u give me advice to make her want me more by a text or tell me how to get her back with a txt -thx
Black stop texting her so much add some fucking mystery man if I’ve learned anything from my breakup it’s that woman need space otherwise they won’t take you seriously
Go by the golden rules here as much as possible: ua-cam.com/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/v-deo.html It may or may not be too late, but it’s definitely time to move forward from whatever mistakes you've made and not repeat those! Don’t be so hard on yourself, though, since this is a fairly common issue and most people are guilty of this at some point. If you'd really want to gauge your chances of getting back together (it may not be all doom and gloom after all) I suggest you take the free quiz on my website and answer as honestly as possible, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
You've begged for 30 days? Then depending on the damage done, it may or may not be too late…but don't make the same mistakes! On the flip side, however, you could just be overreacting, so don’t be so hard on yourself. Most people are guilty of this at some point. So if you'd really want to gauge your chances of getting back together (it may not be all doom and gloom after all) I suggest you take the free quiz on my website and answer as honestly as possible, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
Good to know! Anyway if you haven’t already, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it! :-)
Great! Now since you've only recently reconnected, then don't expect your ex to warm up easily. Getting an ex back is a process. Look out for the signs that your ex has moved on, though: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik But evaluate things, too. Are you sure you're not trying to rush it? Setting a deadline is a good way to fail when it comes to exes, so I highly discourage it. What steps have you taken to get your ex back? It's time to re-assess those and see what's working versus what's not working. Sometimes, getting an ex back is like trying to fit a square into a circle, but oftentimes, chances are you're letting emotion dictate you and therefore end up making the wrong choices. Have you checked out my guide yet? It’s ultimately up to you to act (or not act, depending on which phase you’re in) on getting your ex back, but it helps if you read it to know that you’re on the right track. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com
It’s time to move forward from those mistakes and not repeat those! Don’t be so hard on yourself, though, since this is a fairly common issue and most people are guilty of this at some point. If you'd really want to gauge your chances of getting back together (it may not be all doom and gloom after all) I suggest you take the free quiz on my website and answer as honestly as possible, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
Thanks, Brad! I took the quiz and it's fading fast because we haven't spoken in 2.5 months. Your video was super helpful because I realize it was a toxic relationship on both ends and I'm choosing to heal and move on. Much love to you and all your hard work. 💕
What of your x parents have big hold on the relationship and there keeping her from talking to me even though she's adult. And she can make her own we dated for 3 years and now it's been year half and I can't get nothing back other than I am dating someone now and happy of u text again I'll put pp o on you I know it's not her it's her parents . So how do i deal with this so I don't get Into trouble ?
you can't force women to love you. tell her your feelings. If she gives you a BS answer, tell her to let you know if she changes her mind and then move on and never look back.
Stop being friends with this ex. You see, being friends with an ex, especially right after a breakup, is a bad idea, and even more so if you want this ex back. Watch these two videos so you’ll know why being friends won’t lead you anywhere you wanna be with your ex and how to get out of this trap, respectively (follow the principles), at ua-cam.com/video/yd6pvNVeHjI/v-deo.html and ua-cam.com/video/sS4V4IOcOgs/v-deo.html
we ended our 2 years relationship 2 months ago. After our breakup she came back to me twice asking for a chance. That time I preferred being single so I didnt accept her. But then I realized that I can't live without her. Yesterday I texted her asking for a chance. But she told me that its too late and she have moved on. She doesn't have any feelings for me anymore. This is my first serious relationship. And I'm sure I can't love anyone else as I loved her. Any advises sir? Cause ssly I can't live without her.
You've got work to do, man. Especially if you've initiated the breakup 2 months ago. Let her feel how much you love her and show her, especially since she's already begged for you before. I'm sorry, I could be way off... but there’s lots of missing pieces here, sign up for my coaching program instead so I can look into your situation more clearly and figure out what's going on, then guide you on a regular basis at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
It hurts to read these comments. No feeling is worse when you realize you can't live without someone. It may seem true at the time but time can heal all wounds I hope. Who knows, maybe you only get one chance at true love. I'm a guy and fall in love with women so I'm heartbroken.
@@brettbenson1435 same here ... too late to realise ...it has been 22 years later I'm still regreting...sad. We will live only once and yet we destroyed the main reason to live. But hold your head up high be busy and try to enjoy amd appreciate life. - friendly hug from Spain
Welcome to the real world. It sounds like you got what you deserved. If you take your partner for granted, they'll eventually recognize they can do better and move on. Your ex very clearly stated this is what happened. Move on. There a billions of fish in the sea...don't be hungry up on one!
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Hi Brad. First i want to thank you for your help and ever since I won my ex back with the no contact and unintendedly making her jealous, I have felt so light and happy, it felt like my heart got whole again. So seriously, thank you for your content here on UA-cam that helped me feel better and i really support your help for other people that felt as heartbroken as me, so I'm saying that you should keep up the good work because you're doing a fantastic job
You're welcome! Thank you for the testimony. I'm glad you're now back in each other's arms! Anyway if you haven’t already, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it! :-)
Wow! I just realized this video has almost 2 million views! Congrats Brad! I did buy your Exfactor online offer. I just don’t think it fits my situation. I waited and prayed for about 2 years. However, I am in contact with her now by text every day. So, there’s hope. I’ve broken every rule but I feel I am back in the game. Need a boost!
You said exactly what I needed to hear. This is so therapeutic. It’s better hearing it from you than my friends. You hit the nail on every point. New subbie. Tysm for making me feel normal.
No problemo!:-) You never know who else can benefit, so if it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t already, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it!
Thank you this is very eye opening. I’m way to pushy and need to be have more patience. It’s hard. I feel like I’ve already done everything you said not to do😔
That's always a possibility. However, your ex is likely rebounding, especially if yours had been a long-term or serious relationship. Watch these first: ua-cam.com/video/TBtb34gy6zw/v-deo.html and ua-cam.com/video/lG2shYI1h9k/v-deo.html But don’t rely on that fact alone. Learn to play your cards right as well. Good luck!
thank you bro. my ex texted me this morning but im still in the NO-CONTACT period so....im just gonna leave it there for a day or so. things are going great, thanks again
You're welcome. Don't forget to check out my other videos if you're not getting my guide so you'll know what to do next after the "no contact" period, to contacting your ex down to re-attracting, and what to do in between those phases and how to transition to actually getting your ex back. Here's a quick overview: ua-cam.com/video/7JtmVbDkblw/v-deo.html Best of luck!
We broke up a week ago but I sent one last , message to see if she would get back with me, and she pretty much said no , and how she needs time to be free again etc, so I said okay no worries , text me if you need me ever. And left it at that. What now? She’s been unhappy for the past 2 months of our relationship, so I can tell she’s kind of getting over it quicker than me, plus this is my first love and gf. Thanks again!
I just sent him the text you said. Hope that he will reply to it. Pray for me y’all 😩🙏🏻🙏🏻 Edit: Day 1- no text back. 💔😭 Day 2- he responded, time to do my 30 days no contact period
Weeb Kawi he literally asked me to FaceTime him last Wednesday and i said yea just call me when you’re home and now he hasn’t texted me for 6 days like ????
Good! As a precaution, don't expect for things to get back to normal right away. There's bound to be an adjustment period so try to chill, okay? Sorry but I would need more info to help you deduct what's happening. You can work with me one-on-one so I get to learn more about the situation and therefore be more equipped to help you out, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
You can do it. Make sure there's at least 30 days without contact with your ex unless she reaches out to you about something truly important. Here's a quick overview: ua-cam.com/video/xgR03RcU8mw/v-deo.html Lots of folks seem to be oblivious about it, so here goes: the 30-day "no contact" rule, once COMPLETED, is just the first phase for most people (unless your ex sincerely wanted you back and it's shown in their actions). This would also help guide you on what to do after the "no contact" rule: ua-cam.com/video/BAhMrmw3Sms/v-deo.html Anyway there are two more phases to go through if you want an ex back, and the third is to rekindle/rebuild the attraction with an ex. Learn the basics here: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html Best of luck!
Sorry to hear. I think I've just answered your concern on the previous/the same video with you asking similar issues in that comment, so please refer to that. :-)
It’s time to move forward from those mistakes and not repeat those! Don’t be so hard on yourself, though, since this is a fairly common issue and most people are guilty of this at some point. If you'd really want to gauge your chances of getting back together (it may not be all doom and gloom after all) I suggest you take the free quiz on my website and answer as honestly as possible, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
Dude you are a legend, these have been things I’ve thought my self and for you to back what I’ve thought up gives me such hope. Btw she’s right where I want her. Heh heh
You're welcome! Hey, you never know who else can benefit, so if it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t already, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it! 🙂
Brad, there's no doubt that the points you make in this video are excellent teaching points and if a person is going to contact their ex, this would be the best way to do it but it comes with some great risk also. The likelihood that I either get ignored or a short unemotional response. My ex's get no contact from me period. If they want to know who's coming to town for a concert, they'll have to find out on their own, but that's just me :)
A lot of my clients who had gotten their exes back had an unemotional response from their exes at first, especially in first contact after a period of no communication. But like you said, that's just you, and I'm not here to tell you what you should do, but just suggestions on what works and what doesn't, based on my experience as a relationship coach. All the best!
I'm still in love with the girl that JUST left me, and I love her enough, that I've meditated on our chain of events A LOT without any distractions, and have read tons of shit about relationship pros and cons! Keeping contact short, simple, avoiding negativity, WORKS! She takes initiative to contact me! She's already a person of good character, so this may not be saying much, but she's asked me to meet up twice, and we've only had positive dialogue. I'm very reserved, and don't like to steal the spotlight, so she does most of the talking. But she's not disgusted by my presence. Even out you two have no future together with some compromise, be a good Samaritan and conduct yourself in a positive, uplifting, approachable manner! Unless they tried to stab you or something, then, fuck 'em!
How about this: I get texts from my Ex usually every few months with some kind of obvious sentimental notion (from straight-up: "I miss you, I love you," to reminsces about past romantic events we had). However, any reply to those texts goes totally ignored. I've tried returning the sentiment, leaving long gaps, asking what the meaning of the message is, to totally ignoring her, and all have yielded nothing. Where am I supposed to go with this? It seems like there are still feelings (on both ends), but I can't seem to get anywhere. Any ideas?
Brad you're advise is so right I commented previously but now I've found someone who's better and I'm not sad I'm finally happy I'm glad I watched your videos to help me now I can smile and be me again:)
You've given med so much motivation. Thank you very much! Keep going, because you're really helping people. I'm starting with the ''no contact'' now, and hopefully, my Ex will try to contact me, and me not replying, will probably make her emotional and desperate like i was. Thanks! :)
Stay strong! This may help: ua-cam.com/video/5G1IRS-lCvc/v-deo.html And you're welcome! If you haven’t already, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it! :-)
Hi, your videos are great and it really helps me to be positive to myself. I got onto a breakup days ago its a long distance relationship. if its not much to ask, how will I apply this in my situation? and would giving them the "no contact period" might result into her forgetting me or moved on? I really need advice and only your video relates to what im going through right now. :'(
Sorry to hear that. Not to state the obvious, but the distance is often the main culprit. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: ua-cam.com/video/GQY4N04uvtA/v-deo.html and/or ua-cam.com/video/5nfWRJRrnAs/v-deo.html
It's a bad idea to be friends. The boundaries won't be clear and you're technically both free to date other people. Wouldn't it be pure torture if your ex dates someone else in front of you because you're only "friends" now, don't you think? So it’s not a good idea, especially if you want this ex back. Watch these two videos so you’ll know why being friends won’t lead you anywhere you wanna be with your ex and how to get out of this trap, respectively (follow the principles), at ua-cam.com/video/yd6pvNVeHjI/v-deo.html and ua-cam.com/video/sS4V4IOcOgs/v-deo.html but read my Ex Factor Guide since that’s much more detailed and so you'll know how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total), including what to say, do or not do, along with free bonus materials for texting. Good luck!
Dont you think if you were freinds before you got together being friends again is a good way to remind your ex why you got together? This is my situation right now.
When a breakup happens, most of the time this means he has lost attraction for you, hence, it's a bad move to be friends with him. You need to cut off contact for at least 30 days first. Silence is key and here's why: ua-cam.com/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/v-deo.html If you continue being friends right away, the boundaries won't be clear and you're technically both free to date other people. Wouldn't it be pure torture if your ex dates a rebound in front of you because you're only "friends" now, don't you think? So it’s not a good idea, especially if you want this ex back. Watch this video so you’ll know why being friends won’t lead you anywhere you wanna be with your ex and how to get out of this trap, at ua-cam.com/video/pv_cjzhVKAY/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/yd6pvNVeHjI/v-deo.html but read my Ex Factor Guide since that’s much more detailed and so you'll know how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total), including what to say, do or not do, along with free bonus materials for texting. Good luck!
im currently trying out nc and am on my 3rd day. wish me luck Edit: okay, on 5th she wrote me a huge text and basically said she's breaking up with me now for real :)
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From my 14 years of experience, this tends to happen only when there was never any solid attraction/love from her to you, or if the relationship was short-lived. i.e: one night stands that suddenly turned into a relationship then break up, or if it was just a fling.
I don’t think it works on girls... when I broke up with my now ex husband, I did so because I felt like he wasn’t at all passionate about me or protective of me.. I felt a bit neglected... also he was too focused on how much money we could earn and save. When I walked away I wanted him to fight for me and tell me things would be different and that we can relax a little, stop being so damn serious all the time... we were only 25 and 24 at the time. He texted me a year after we separated asking if I’d give him another chance or should he file. I responded that I was happy with how my life was going, I hadn’t dated or even slept with anyone else at that point. What I wanted him to say was that I could still have all that and him. He took it the wrong way and filed our divorce. Like why didn’t he love me enough to fight for me? It’s all I wanted. Maybe I’m a hopeless romantic but the grand gesture would’ve won me back
we broke up yesterday and i told her she well never find someone like me and that all this breakup was her fauly but i did not mean to say that is that over for me ?
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Hey Brad, when she's texting things like "how are you", "what are you doing" should I ignore that? I don't want to build a plan to contact her in 30 days. I just want to get over the break up I guess
After 5 weeks of no contact,and after my ex saying there was no chance I got my ex to agree to go out with me. I simply sent a text reminding my ex of what a great time we had watching the nutcracker ballet last year. She replied that she was also thinking the same thing and felt sad. I asked her if she wanted to go to opening nite...I would buy the tickets. She said yes!! She would love to go. 5 weeks ago I would have never believed there was ANY chance. It's a start. The show isn't for 3 weeks.. I was wondering if I could ask her to meet for coffee or dinner now or wait 3 weeks?
+Nico Diamond Glad to know the reminder text has worked out for you! :-) I suggest to take it one step at a time and not bombard her with invitations though. Doing so make may her feel pressured and that can't be good. Focus on making the upcoming event (that she already said yes to) a good time for you both instead and don't rush things, all right? Coming across as too interested is also a bad move. Read my Ex Factor Guide so you'll know how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total), including what to say, do or not do, etc. since good timing is essential at www.breakupbrad.com
It may or may not be too late, but it’s definitely time to move forward from those mistakes and not repeat those! Don’t be so hard on yourself, though, since this is a fairly common issue and most people are guilty of this at some point. If you'd really want to gauge your chances of getting back together (it may not be all doom and gloom after all) I suggest you take the free quiz on my website and answer as honestly as possible, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
I broke up with my ex 3 days ago and I really regret it. I want him back in my life again but I'm just afraid that he will ignore me if I text him. Should I text him or not?
Hey Brad, I have a quick question. I already sent my ex girlfriend a few text messages after finishing the no contact phase and she replied positively. But since I dont want to bother her texting her too frequently I just wanted to ask you how much delay should there be between my text messanges? And should I wait a while and see if she might text me?
Don't text too frequently. Give it time in between but do keep focus on the second phase which is re-establishing contact with an ex. Get busy with other stuff and text her every now and again but definitely not too often! Read my Ex Factor Guide since that’s much more detailed and so you'll know how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total), including what to say, do or not do, along with bonus materials for texting. Good timing is essential! Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com/mbuy Good luck!
Wow i just realaized what game my ex is playing all the time 😂😂 and yeah i know all that we always breakup and come back but now its diffrent and i didnt wanna play this game too but i shold tnks fam
I was in No contact for 30 days with my boy friend who is living another country. . After my first visiting,when i get back to my country,he said to me “I didnt have special feeling in bed (although it wasnt sex) your touch wasnt good .We should keep on talking to know you more cause 8 months relationship is short” I said “so you want a b***h besides yours is small but it is not a big deal for me” He got upset and never accepted my apology.He said we can be friend ,never Skype,time will tell what will happen”after that he replied me shortly that made me to choose No contact rule. My question is :If he doesnt want to Skype (to see me)after the duration of sending message that now im doing ,how can i make him back? How can i erase my word from his mind?
I wanted to tell him :"It was a test to check some items in you " So you think i shouldnt tell him ? Now we just exchange texts like clean friends .if he accepts to talk on skype ,can i tell above?
Hey brad, Do these methods work on an ex who I have been broken up for about a year? She say's she wants to only be friends but we started talking again because we matched on a dating site lol. We planned a quick meet up for coffee and was wondering what I should do? Anyways keep up the great work! I really appreciate your videos!
Watch this first to help set your expectations: ua-cam.com/video/OzVymYnQFTk/v-deo.html and look out for the signs that your ex has moved on: ua-cam.com/video/TnZzeEIPEik/v-deo.html If you see only one or zero signs, then this vid is for you: ua-cam.com/video/9LC1ewgBkIQ/v-deo.html If the conditions are right, then make sure you tick off the checklist here as well: y2u.be/BAhMrmw3Sms It's important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html and the golden rules here: ua-cam.com/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/v-deo.html
Hi brad My girlfriend moved on n to another city and she ignored me ,never text me or call me I stop texting her since a week in order to not show her that i m needy and desperate What should i do brad please help m
Hey man! I think I've just answered your concern on the previous/the same video with you asking similar issues in those comments, so please refer to those.
Congratulations Brad on your success, I remember seeing you on blogs years ago and doing e-blasts, even though this video and others are from 2015 in itself, you still seem to be doing really well, good luck for the future mate.
Hi Brad, we finished on the 31st July. That night and the following Saturday, I texted her. Nothing untoward, but more that I was down and hoped we could get back together. I've not texted since, so hopefully no contact will work. She said with some time and space she may feel differently, but who knows? At least I've not been told it won't ever happen. I'm just trying to be positive now and refrain from texting. Thanks for your advice
Good. Here's how you can tell it's starting to work: ua-cam.com/video/4gqo4RjqUpo/v-deo.html Anyway here's a quick overview to help guide you: ua-cam.com/video/xgR03RcU8mw/v-deo.html Lots of folks seem to be oblivious about it, so here goes: the 30-day "no contact" rule, once COMPLETED, is just the first phase for most people (unless your ex sincerely wanted you back and it's shown in their actions). This would also help guide you on what to do after the "no contact" rule: ua-cam.com/video/BAhMrmw3Sms/v-deo.html Anyway there are two more phases to go through if you want an ex back, and the third is to rekindle/rebuild the attraction with an ex. Learn the basics here: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html
This is one of the cases where the “no contact” rule is actually an exception...but DON'T initiate random contact in any way and don’t make any unnecessary chitchats, okay?I've discussed it in these videos, as well as how to handle it: ua-cam.com/video/zKhNHhEmYMg/v-deo.html and ua-cam.com/video/ydeES3WU1Uc/v-deo.html but whatever the case may be, act responsibly yet try not to take things too seriously now since you may be in a period of growth and lots of changes,including preferences in attitude, personality, etc. Focus on your studies instead, all right? Take care!
Brad my ex just got her new ex bf(after she broke with me two days later she got a bf but they broke up in just a few days so now they're back together) back and now I see her do so much stuff with him that she didn't do with me is this the end for me and her
You're welcome! Hey, you never know who else can benefit, so if it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t already, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it! :-)
Hi Brad, I broke up with my girlfriend about over a month ago, i originally within the first week sent her a card to say sorry and hope that it might not make her feel so down. She answered and she said ‘I just need time to myself’ etc..... I want to get back with her and what’s really weird is that your smile text actually might work, she really loves Harry Potter, but I don’t know if she’s completely over me and has no intentions to get back with me, what do you reckon I should do
She's not completely over you if the breakup was recent, but she will be if you keep making the same mistakes. Apologizing, when there's really nothing to apologize for is really weak, considering how she dumped you in the first place and is indeed wanting to end things with you. Remember, you wouldn't want her to be nice to you, you want her to be into you. The clue on what you should do is already in her answer to you, give her space. Watch this: ua-cam.com/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/v-deo.html
This is literally the situation im currently going through its been about a month since weve split and i know shes talking to someone else. Not to mention weve been on and off for the past 3 years -_- help
Your best bet is to cut off contact completely for around a month in order to clear your heads. Your ex would likely to come back if you've got your sh*t together than if you were begging/pleading. Well, there are a few rare who take their exes back if you beg/plead but it hardly ever lasts since these people are taking their exes back out of pity. So my point is, don't let your ex take you back out of pity, all right? The best way to avoid that is to work on yourself and get your life together by having fun, hobbies, etc. and to STOP chasing your ex. I've made numerous videos about the "no contact" rule and why it's important. Check those out. Also watch the stories here and try not to be a statistic:ua-cam.com/video/1U_IOm8ofFo/v-deo.html
Better luck next time, then...and don't make the same mistakes! :-) On the flip side, however, you could just be overreacting, so if you'd really want to gauge your chances of getting back together (it may not be all doom and gloom after all) I suggest you take the free quiz on my website and answer as honestly as possible, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
Hey Brad, quick question. I feel like the tips in your videos apply more towards women who got broken up with by their boyfriends. I was the one to break up with my boyfriend, but now I'm realizing that I may have broken up with him for the wrong reasons and that the problems in our relationship weren't necessarily his fault. How would I go about reconnecting with him, since he is probably feeling a bit insulted after I harshly dumped him over the phone?
Yes, you're right. It's for those who've been dumped. However, I also wrote an article that would relate to your situation. It's free, so read it here: bit.ly/1Gn8gMF
Like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you since you know your relationship and your ex better than anyone else on here. And alas, not every ex is worth all the trouble. It's up to you to decide who is worth fighting for at one of the toughest of battles you face in your relationship. Best of luck!
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Thank you Brad, I just want to say you helping people, just watching your UA-cam videos others won't help if you don't buy books on how to text the right way. Thank you, you are a good man. 💜
You're welcome! Yes, I do post content regularly to help people. I'm glad you appreciate it! If your situation is unique or still confused on what to do or would like a personalized help from me, that is when I suggest they either get my guide or coaching. :-) Hey, you never know who else can use some help, so if it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t already, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it!
@@BradBrowning how can i reach you.. im in a LDR with my fiancee.. he just stop communicating for more than 2 wks now.
How long do you wait bro
What if you have kids together and have to have contact? And divorce is in process
Thank you Brsd for this information.
breaking up sucks 😔
Yes, it does.
yeah :(
pmstreetskater yup
pmstreetskater yep
Tell me about it
Your a pro!!!! She called me 16 times yesterday and texted me 4times. The crazy thing is, I'm starting to get over her bull shit. She had so much control and power of me that I forgot that I am better off single.
Matt Brady hey man.. do u think the no contact rule is still working even if my ex have a new boyfriend....
thanks bro, but i cant accept what their doing together, its so hurt.. and i cant stop thinking about her, evryday, its so hard
how long did you use no contact?
you go brother
It's not the Breakup that's diffucult. It's the Memories that Follow.
True. On the lighter side, you can use those positive memories to win back an ex. Time is your ally, but also make sure you play your cards right. Here's the link: www.breakupbrad.com
Thank u Brad. My bf brokeup with me 2months ago. I stopped talking to him . Went on no contact and after a month and half I texted him. He replied and . Texted me continuously for 4days and finally came looked for me and we made up and back together. Thank u. It works
Wonderful! I'm glad my it's all worked out for you. Now as what I always like to say, please keep in mind that getting an ex back does not mean the work stops there. You have to do more work to ensure your relationship stays healthy. Review my guide and/or watch these videos to help you further: ua-cam.com/video/jjrOpxa-wfI/v-deo.html and ua-cam.com/video/v9mVzh2NVAc/v-deo.html All the best! :-)
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Hope this will work on me too :((
@@ivlongung7268 so did it work?:(
@@ayaibrahim7605 nooo it didnt but i alr found s1 new XD
A woman is unstoppable when she realize she deserve a better man.
True that! Men have the same realizations, too.
She's just as unstoppable when she realize her man deserves a better girl.
@@ethanjupiter9827 🤣🤣🤣
That's true
@@BradBrowning It's one thing to realize you deserve better but it's another to find someone better
Sleep easy everyone
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lol that moment when you realize you've done all 3 bad messages 😂
Better luck next time, then...and don't make the same mistakes! :-) On the flip side, however, you could just be overreacting, so if you'd really want to gauge your chances of getting back together (it may not be all doom and gloom after all) I suggest you take the free quiz on my website and answer as honestly as possible, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
+Brad Browning hai m nt forgetng my ex from last 8 mnths ago what i do i mis hm every day
Brad Browning help me
Patrick Bautista right😂
same ...I hav done all 3 mistakes
I’m guilty of all 3 bad texting habits ☹️ time to apply discipline and self awareness!
It all eventually boils down to self discipline and perseverance. Hope all is well!
Man 12 yrs down the drain.. this shit hurt tooooo much i need my baby thats my everything man
I hear you, man. Stay strong! What happened, though? Look at the roles that you've BOTH played that led to the breakup and if the issues have a chance to get resolved, and how to go about it. In most cases, the problems that led to the breakup can be resolved, but in some cases, it isn't. So take time to evaluate, okay? Good luck!
NovaKane wish you the best brother
You cheated I guess
NovaKane Ik how u feel I feel the same way
Mine dumped me after ten years and we just have a baby Who is just turn 1.
It actually worked! Thanks my dude, me and my girlfriend are having a great relationship now!
Now that's what I love to hear! Congrats, man! Now keep in mind that getting an ex back does not mean the work stops there. You have to do more work to ensure your relationship stays healthy. Review my guide and/or watch these video to help you further: ua-cam.com/video/jjrOpxa-wfI/v-deo.html and ua-cam.com/video/v9mVzh2NVAc/v-deo.html All the best! :-)
Brad Browning me and my ex have been on and off and we got in a huge argument for 4 days and eventually got back together for 2 days and then I ended it cause I felt like she didn’t really care if we were together and then I told her I want things to workout but now she told me that’s it’s officially over. what should I do?
Probably should have done this before I went her house and almost got arrested for trying to fight her new boyfriend lmao
Uh... yeah, I agree with you. LOL!
Haha dang bro sorry
HaikesXO awesome dude you missed out on the flu fighter concert w her. Duh
Lol
ur comment made me laugh lmfaooo
My ex is back after 2years of no contact.
It's not been an easy journey. But thanks to Brad
Anything worth having is never easy.
I think thas amazing. Are things a lot better this time round. after the big break from each other. 😊
I want to try the NO CONTACT strategy, but i feel the more time alone i give her, the more she will move on...
can someone explain why im wrong?
Watch this, first: ua-cam.com/video/T_W_ilf9x6w/v-deo.html At this point ...and I really hate to say this, but you may not have much choice. So yes, cut off contact for around a month. Okay? Besides, what do you plan to do if you don't cut off contact? Text your ex every now and then? That would only make you appear desperate and that's never attractive and keep in mind, your goal is to rebuild attraction, right? That's how NOT doing "no contact" is wrong, because the alternative is much much worse and is only guaranteed to push an ex away with all that neediness.
That’s exactly how I feel....
how did it go? i feel the same way :(
Dazzle Gamer how’s it going? Did you do the 30 day no contact? As a lady that has done the breaking up, I know that I was annoyed by the guys going into panic mode and not giving me any space. Too many texts, pictures, & then it turned into him trying to guilt me, he was all over the place. But when he finally gave up- 6 months later and cut off the contact, I started to think about him again and started to think of the positive points of the relationship. Before the no contact when he was so needy I would only think about the negative things.
I am thinking about this too.
we broke up a month ago ,he is my classmate .....i can't move on ....miss talking to him😢
so why'd you break up?
+Bachelor Frog because he felt that i was cheating on him
were you?
I feel you
+Bachelor Frog No ...a girl from our friend circle told him that omg she is cheating on u ,she's not loyal,etc...
dude you're smart as fuck honestly
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Brad Browning Oml I'm happy You replied, I will for sure, Thank youuu !! ❤
Brad Browning so me and my ex gf are 13 we broke up on June 1 I sent her a sorry message and she said she was hurt and she said she wants to be friends but now we talk everyday all day no joke I'll text her from 11:00 am to 1:00am and her sis texted me saying she does want me back to but I don't know when is a good time to ask her for a second chance and she texts me first now but can u give me advice to make her want me more by a text or tell me how to get her back with a txt -thx
Black stop texting her so much add some fucking mystery man if I’ve learned anything from my breakup it’s that woman need space otherwise they won’t take you seriously
We broke up a few weeks ago, i miss him so much and i made all of those mistakes :( ugh we dated for 4 years
Go by the golden rules here as much as possible: ua-cam.com/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/v-deo.html It may or may not be too late, but it’s definitely time to move forward from whatever mistakes you've made and not repeat those! Don’t be so hard on yourself, though, since this is a fairly common issue and most people are guilty of this at some point. If you'd really want to gauge your chances of getting back together (it may not be all doom and gloom after all) I suggest you take the free quiz on my website and answer as honestly as possible, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
i probably should have come here before i texted her and fucked things up for 30 days 😂
Aaron O Callaghan what you actually texted her
You've begged for 30 days? Then depending on the damage done, it may or may not be too late…but don't make the same mistakes! On the flip side, however, you could just be overreacting, so don’t be so hard on yourself. Most people are guilty of this at some point. So if you'd really want to gauge your chances of getting back together (it may not be all doom and gloom after all) I suggest you take the free quiz on my website and answer as honestly as possible, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
Brad Browning no i texted her and did the no contact for 30 days but she got with someone else lol
Aleesa Naaz she got with someone during the 30 day no contact thing
Aaron O Callaghan move on bro!!
you really helped me out a lot , I may not have my girl that I love back yet but I won't give up until I get her
Good to know! Anyway if you haven’t already, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it! :-)
+Brad Browning I bought your ex factor guide and it really helped a lot
i wanna buy too,i want recommend,how long take it to work
Awww did you get her back?
+Margarita lol XD
why am i watching this.. i dont even have a real ex..
That "Autoplay" does have its purpose.
im pretty sure i clicked on my own...
Frk.Badeby and
Rudy Romo ?
Well, it's good to still learn in case that day comes you have an ex, then you'll be ahead of where others are at right now. :)
I haven't texted him in like 2 months
And we just started texting again
Great! Now since you've only recently reconnected, then don't expect your ex to warm up easily. Getting an ex back is a process. Look out for the signs that your ex has moved on, though: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik But evaluate things, too. Are you sure you're not trying to rush it? Setting a deadline is a good way to fail when it comes to exes, so I highly discourage it. What steps have you taken to get your ex back? It's time to re-assess those and see what's working versus what's not working. Sometimes, getting an ex back is like trying to fit a square into a circle, but oftentimes, chances are you're letting emotion dictate you and therefore end up making the wrong choices. Have you checked out my guide yet? It’s ultimately up to you to act (or not act, depending on which phase you’re in) on getting your ex back, but it helps if you read it to know that you’re on the right track. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com
Bangtan Sonyeondan BTS how??
Army spotted 💜
How did you start the conversation?
Wow it's wonderful
Iam back with my first Love 😍😍😍 follow it now... its never too late ...be as simple as possible
Thanks Brad 👍
How did you go about it
Ha...I made all 3 mistakes. 😂🤦🏽😭
It’s time to move forward from those mistakes and not repeat those! Don’t be so hard on yourself, though, since this is a fairly common issue and most people are guilty of this at some point. If you'd really want to gauge your chances of getting back together (it may not be all doom and gloom after all) I suggest you take the free quiz on my website and answer as honestly as possible, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
Thanks, Brad! I took the quiz and it's fading fast because we haven't spoken in 2.5 months. Your video was super helpful because I realize it was a toxic relationship on both ends and I'm choosing to heal and move on. Much love to you and all your hard work. 💕
Brad Browning could I get some advice?
What of your x parents have big hold on the relationship and there keeping her from talking to me even though she's adult. And she can make her own we dated for 3 years and now it's been year half and I can't get nothing back other than I am dating someone now and happy of u text again I'll put pp o on you I know it's not her it's her parents . So how do i deal with this so I don't get Into trouble ?
isabelle yep
me and my ex are just friends now but I can't live without her
you can't force women to love you. tell her your feelings. If she gives you a BS answer, tell her to let you know if she changes her mind and then move on and never look back.
+palindrome06 I meen thanks for the devise
Stop being friends with this ex. You see, being friends with an ex, especially right after a breakup, is a bad idea, and even more so if you want this ex back. Watch these two videos so you’ll know why being friends won’t lead you anywhere you wanna be with your ex and how to get out of this trap, respectively (follow the principles), at ua-cam.com/video/yd6pvNVeHjI/v-deo.html and ua-cam.com/video/sS4V4IOcOgs/v-deo.html
Same bud
I'm in the same boat
I hear all positive comments on this. Will definitely be giving it a go.
we ended our 2 years relationship 2 months ago. After our breakup she came back to me twice asking for a chance. That time I preferred being single so I didnt accept her. But then I realized that I can't live without her. Yesterday I texted her asking for a chance. But she told me that its too late and she have moved on. She doesn't have any feelings for me anymore. This is my first serious relationship. And I'm sure I can't love anyone else as I loved her. Any advises sir? Cause ssly I can't live without her.
You've got work to do, man. Especially if you've initiated the breakup 2 months ago. Let her feel how much you love her and show her, especially since she's already begged for you before. I'm sorry, I could be way off... but there’s lots of missing pieces here, sign up for my coaching program instead so I can look into your situation more clearly and figure out what's going on, then guide you on a regular basis at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
It hurts to read these comments. No feeling is worse when you realize you can't live without someone. It may seem true at the time but time can heal all wounds I hope. Who knows, maybe you only get one chance at true love. I'm a guy and fall in love with women so I'm heartbroken.
@@brettbenson1435 same here ... too late to realise ...it has been 22 years later I'm still regreting...sad. We will live only once and yet we destroyed the main reason to live. But hold your head up high be busy and try to enjoy amd appreciate life. - friendly hug from Spain
Are you with her now?
Welcome to the real world. It sounds like you got what you deserved. If you take your partner for granted, they'll eventually recognize they can do better and move on. Your ex very clearly stated this is what happened. Move on. There a billions of fish in the sea...don't be hungry up on one!
I've Researched other gurus
AND THIS IS THE REAL DEAL.
THANKS BRAD!
Gee thanks for the support! If it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t done so yet, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it, too! :-)
Dealbreaker
Hi Brad. First i want to thank you for your help and ever since I won my ex back with the no contact and unintendedly making her jealous, I have felt so light and happy, it felt like my heart got whole again. So seriously, thank you for your content here on UA-cam that helped me feel better and i really support your help for other people that felt as heartbroken as me, so I'm saying that you should keep up the good work because you're doing a fantastic job
You're welcome! Thank you for the testimony. I'm glad you're now back in each other's arms! Anyway if you haven’t already, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it! :-)
Wow! I just realized this video has almost 2 million views! Congrats Brad! I did buy your Exfactor online offer. I just don’t think it fits my situation. I waited and prayed for about 2 years. However, I am in contact with her now by text every day. So, there’s hope. I’ve broken every rule but I feel I am back in the game. Need a boost!
I have to make sure that my husband doesn't find out about you...
IT WORKS. Just one text, she's back
But wat msgs can be done in long distance break up
@@ushaaggarwal6218 I'm also a victim of LDR😞😞
@@sumanthchowdary9699 me too guys...
Me too
Same here ldr
You said exactly what I needed to hear. This is so therapeutic. It’s better hearing it from you than my friends. You hit the nail on every point. New subbie. Tysm for making me feel normal.
No problemo!:-) You never know who else can benefit, so if it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t already, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it!
@@BradBrowningmy ex doesn't replying meh" just only seen my text which i sending him from my sister's phone what can i do now!?
brad browning is literally a hero
6:39 nah man, i just said alright and we stayed friends so she just sent memes to me while i was crying and sending memes back
dude its totally me, all we do is text 1 or 2 memes a day and its already been just a week lmfao
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Thank you this is very eye opening. I’m way to pushy and need to be have more patience. It’s hard. I feel like I’ve already done everything you said not to do😔
Girl your beautiful, you shouldn't need yo be pushy :-)
What if you ex find someone else with out you contacting them that's all I'm worried about
That's always a possibility. However, your ex is likely rebounding, especially if yours had been a long-term or serious relationship. Watch these first: ua-cam.com/video/TBtb34gy6zw/v-deo.html and ua-cam.com/video/lG2shYI1h9k/v-deo.html But don’t rely on that fact alone. Learn to play your cards right as well. Good luck!
Brad Browning do you have a email so I can ask you sum thing in personal I have to talk sumyhing serious
Aaliyah Holiday
i wish you had her
Aaliyah Holiday You know there is other fishes in the sea...
67 texts? Love can really kill. Someone..
Yep, if you aren't careful! :-)
This guy is intelligent
Thank you!
lol
short but true
I think...
I'm not sure yet..
I really hope this works cuz am really really ineed
thank you bro. my ex texted me this morning but im still in the NO-CONTACT period so....im just gonna leave it there for a day or so. things are going great, thanks again
You're welcome. Don't forget to check out my other videos if you're not getting my guide so you'll know what to do next after the "no contact" period, to contacting your ex down to re-attracting, and what to do in between those phases and how to transition to actually getting your ex back. Here's a quick overview: ua-cam.com/video/7JtmVbDkblw/v-deo.html Best of luck!
God dammit of corse I fucking sent all those texts
Don't worry, I'm sure most people actually did. After a heartbreaking breakup and acting completely fine without knowing these facts is rare
Mrdontmess1996 same
mt2oo8 i did them all too he has a new gf now what shoul i do
We broke up a week ago but I sent one last , message to see if she would get back with me, and she pretty much said no , and how she needs time to be free again etc, so I said okay no worries , text me if you need me ever. And left it at that. What now? She’s been unhappy for the past 2 months of our relationship, so I can tell she’s kind of getting over it quicker than me, plus this is my first love and gf. Thanks again!
Kaushal Raniga bro, you sound exactly like me, that was my relationship too.
Yo this is exactly me bro. Im crying because I can relate so well. Its only been a day
PhillyFinesse give it a few (4) months you’ll get better with time. I’m still in love with her but I’m getting better.
@@DaneAraux Omg you replied. You don't know how that little reply made my day. Thank you.
Don't worry I can recommend you to a man who helped me to get my ex back don't worry2349027407448
My ex boyfriend said if he wants a relationship he knows where I am I just feel like a plan B
I just sent him the text you said. Hope that he will reply to it.
Pray for me y’all 😩🙏🏻🙏🏻
Edit:
Day 1- no text back. 💔😭
Day 2- he responded, time to do my 30 days no contact period
Weeb Kawi he literally asked me to FaceTime him last Wednesday and i said yea just call me when you’re home and now he hasn’t texted me for 6 days like ????
Just to be clear, these texting tips should be sent AFTER the 30-day "no contact" phase, never prior.
subscribed. 6 years down the drain. -.- your a good man
After 30 days of no contact, he surrendered. He's the first one to text me hahahaha! Now, I think we're getting back together soon.
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Good! As a precaution, don't expect for things to get back to normal right away. There's bound to be an adjustment period so try to chill, okay? Sorry but I would need more info to help you deduct what's happening. You can work with me one-on-one so I get to learn more about the situation and therefore be more equipped to help you out, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
Here i go, day 1 of no contact rule. Wish me luck guys!
You can do it. Make sure there's at least 30 days without contact with your ex unless she reaches out to you about something truly important. Here's a quick overview: ua-cam.com/video/xgR03RcU8mw/v-deo.html Lots of folks seem to be oblivious about it, so here goes: the 30-day "no contact" rule, once COMPLETED, is just the first phase for most people (unless your ex sincerely wanted you back and it's shown in their actions). This would also help guide you on what to do after the "no contact" rule: ua-cam.com/video/BAhMrmw3Sms/v-deo.html Anyway there are two more phases to go through if you want an ex back, and the third is to rekindle/rebuild the attraction with an ex. Learn the basics here: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html Best of luck!
I did one day and she called i rejected the 2 calls try to move on
Bro you give me strength 😭❤️🙏🏾
That's exactly what I texted him days after we broke up, hate texts, spam texts and overemotional texts :'(
Sorry to hear. I think I've just answered your concern on the previous/the same video with you asking similar issues in that comment, so please refer to that. :-)
Brad Browning can you tell her your feelings without making it over emotional?
Guilty of bad text 2 & 3!!!!!!! I regret it sooooo badddddd.
It’s time to move forward from those mistakes and not repeat those! Don’t be so hard on yourself, though, since this is a fairly common issue and most people are guilty of this at some point. If you'd really want to gauge your chances of getting back together (it may not be all doom and gloom after all) I suggest you take the free quiz on my website and answer as honestly as possible, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
Dude you are a legend, these have been things I’ve thought my self and for you to back what I’ve thought up gives me such hope. Btw she’s right where I want her. Heh heh
Btw your psychology is superb
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Thanks Brad, u saved my relationship by helping me thru ur videos
You're welcome! Hey, you never know who else can benefit, so if it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t already, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it! 🙂
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Brad, there's no doubt that the points you make in this video are excellent teaching points and if a person is going to contact their ex, this would be the best way to do it but it comes with some great risk also. The likelihood that I either get ignored or a short unemotional response. My ex's get no contact from me period. If they want to know who's coming to town for a concert, they'll have to find out on their own, but that's just me :)
A lot of my clients who had gotten their exes back had an unemotional response from their exes at first, especially in first contact after a period of no communication. But like you said, that's just you, and I'm not here to tell you what you should do, but just suggestions on what works and what doesn't, based on my experience as a relationship coach. All the best!
Brad Browning
Thank you Brad.
My ex is gone swept away major relief looking forward for green pastures in life.
Good to hear. Stay strong!
I'm still in love with the girl that JUST left me, and I love her enough, that I've meditated on our chain of events A LOT without any distractions, and have read tons of shit about relationship pros and cons! Keeping contact short, simple, avoiding negativity, WORKS! She takes initiative to contact me! She's already a person of good character, so this may not be saying much, but she's asked me to meet up twice, and we've only had positive dialogue. I'm very reserved, and don't like to steal the spotlight, so she does most of the talking. But she's not disgusted by my presence. Even out you two have no future together with some compromise, be a good Samaritan and conduct yourself in a positive, uplifting, approachable manner! Unless they tried to stab you or something, then, fuck 'em!
Thanks for sharing!
How about this: I get texts from my Ex usually every few months with some kind of obvious sentimental notion (from straight-up: "I miss you, I love you," to reminsces about past romantic events we had).
However, any reply to those texts goes totally ignored. I've tried returning the sentiment, leaving long gaps, asking what the meaning of the message is, to totally ignoring her, and all have yielded nothing.
Where am I supposed to go with this? It seems like there are still feelings (on both ends), but I can't seem to get anywhere.
Any ideas?
Here's how to go about it: ua-cam.com/video/RSKJi8VK2g8/v-deo.html
You block her and move on....done
Brad you're advise is so right I commented previously but now I've found someone who's better and I'm not sad I'm finally happy I'm glad I watched your videos to help me now I can smile and be me again:)
Good to hear! :-)
You've given med so much motivation. Thank you very much! Keep going, because you're really helping people. I'm starting with the ''no contact'' now, and hopefully, my Ex will try to contact me, and me not replying, will probably make her emotional and desperate like i was. Thanks! :)
Stay strong! This may help: ua-cam.com/video/5G1IRS-lCvc/v-deo.html And you're welcome! If you haven’t already, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it! :-)
Hi, your videos are great and it really helps me to be positive to myself. I got onto a breakup days ago its a long distance relationship. if its not much to ask, how will I apply this in my situation? and would giving them the "no contact period" might result into her forgetting me or moved on? I really need advice and only your video relates to what im going through right now. :'(
Sorry to hear that. Not to state the obvious, but the distance is often the main culprit. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: ua-cam.com/video/GQY4N04uvtA/v-deo.html and/or ua-cam.com/video/5nfWRJRrnAs/v-deo.html
I just want the best for him.
That's my biggest prayer for Mr ex. The best
Great!
Acid whimpering
You're like a relationship jedi. I will try this. Thank you
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Any update ??
After the 30 day no contact. Can I say "Hey! how have you been?"
I just watched this now, have been broken up for 3 weeks now. I am starting with the NC today,, who is with me
so me and my ex decided to be friends. but I want to have something again. and I'm praying this helps
It's a bad idea to be friends. The boundaries won't be clear and you're technically both free to date other people. Wouldn't it be pure torture if your ex dates someone else in front of you because you're only "friends" now, don't you think? So it’s not a good idea, especially if you want this ex back. Watch these two videos so you’ll know why being friends won’t lead you anywhere you wanna be with your ex and how to get out of this trap, respectively (follow the principles), at ua-cam.com/video/yd6pvNVeHjI/v-deo.html and ua-cam.com/video/sS4V4IOcOgs/v-deo.html but read my Ex Factor Guide since that’s much more detailed and so you'll know how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total), including what to say, do or not do, along with free bonus materials for texting. Good luck!
Dont you think if you were freinds before you got together being friends again is a good way to remind your ex why you got together? This is my situation right now.
After watching this video and thinking logically I come to conclusion that I don't want her. It's better to move on.
Like I always say, it's all up to you! :-)
@@BradBrowning I did all the bad texts
I don't know how to apologize and stepping up with the no contact 😖😞
My ex decided he wasn't ready for a relationship and we gareed to just be friends and now I want him back...I miss him
When a breakup happens, most of the time this means he has lost attraction for you, hence, it's a bad move to be friends with him. You need to cut off contact for at least 30 days first. Silence is key and here's why: ua-cam.com/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/v-deo.html If you continue being friends right away, the boundaries won't be clear and you're technically both free to date other people. Wouldn't it be pure torture if your ex dates a rebound in front of you because you're only "friends" now, don't you think? So it’s not a good idea, especially if you want this ex back. Watch this video so you’ll know why being friends won’t lead you anywhere you wanna be with your ex and how to get out of this trap, at ua-cam.com/video/pv_cjzhVKAY/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/yd6pvNVeHjI/v-deo.html but read my Ex Factor Guide since that’s much more detailed and so you'll know how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total), including what to say, do or not do, along with free bonus materials for texting. Good luck!
I feel that
I can relate to you all I just got dumped yesterday and I feel like a part of me has left my soul.
Stay strong!
I bet you got over this - update us :) hope you are doing well
im currently trying out nc and am on my 3rd day. wish me luck
Edit: okay, on 5th she wrote me a huge text and basically said she's breaking up with me now for real
:)
I love your videos! I just discovered you and I am watching your videos in a playlist, I can't stop! Thank you Brad !
You're welcome and thank you for the support, man! If you haven’t already, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it! :-)
no contact made my ex move on, shes with another dude.
From my 14 years of experience, this tends to happen only when there was never any solid attraction/love from her to you, or if the relationship was short-lived. i.e: one night stands that suddenly turned into a relationship then break up, or if it was just a fling.
Brad Browning fuck so how dyu get her back if that was the case
I don’t think it works on girls... when I broke up with my now ex husband, I did so because I felt like he wasn’t at all passionate about me or protective of me.. I felt a bit neglected... also he was too focused on how much money we could earn and save. When I walked away I wanted him to fight for me and tell me things would be different and that we can relax a little, stop being so damn serious all the time... we were only 25 and 24 at the time. He texted me a year after we separated asking if I’d give him another chance or should he file. I responded that I was happy with how my life was going, I hadn’t dated or even slept with anyone else at that point. What I wanted him to say was that I could still have all that and him. He took it the wrong way and filed our divorce. Like why didn’t he love me enough to fight for me? It’s all I wanted. Maybe I’m a hopeless romantic but the grand gesture would’ve won me back
Same 4 me
Brutally Honest Lis Lis or maybe you could have directly told your spouse what you desired.
we broke up yesterday and i told her she well never find someone like me and that all this breakup was her fauly but i did not mean to say that is that over for me ?
An apology may be in order. These may help: ua-cam.com/video/qnE192fUKxIA/v-deo.htmlND ua-cam.com/video/f0F8q2IIgtE/v-deo.html
Doesn’t the fact of you actually watching these videos make you desperate and needy enough??
sure, desperate and needy to learn about social dynamics, and to find out the best way out of unnecessary drama with females that we like id say !
Well you’re here too... so... does it??
German Lover yes
Thats too true lol
we are all here to gain someone important back, and to make ourselves imrpove
no you're seeking help and advice what's so desperate and needy about it?
Sorry I `ve been emotional the last few days. Other thing have been stresses me on top of this breakout and I lashed out. Wish you luck
how do i talk with you
Thank you Brad. You're amazing! 😊 I feel so much better after watching your videos. Can't wait to get your book.
You're very much welcome! If it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t already, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it! :-)
Hey Brad, when she's texting things like "how are you", "what are you doing" should I ignore that? I don't want to build a plan to contact her in 30 days. I just want to get over the break up I guess
After 5 weeks of no contact,and after my ex saying there was no chance I got my ex to agree to go out with me. I simply sent a text reminding my ex of what a great time we had watching the nutcracker ballet last year. She replied that she was also thinking the same thing and felt sad. I asked her if she wanted to go to opening nite...I would buy the tickets. She said yes!! She would love to go. 5 weeks ago I would have never believed there was ANY chance. It's a start. The show isn't for 3 weeks.. I was wondering if I could ask her to meet for coffee or dinner now or wait 3 weeks?
+Nico Diamond good to hear bro!
+Nico Diamond Glad to know the reminder text has worked out for you! :-) I suggest to take it one step at a time and not bombard her with invitations though. Doing so make may her feel pressured and that can't be good. Focus on making the upcoming event (that she already said yes to) a good time for you both instead and don't rush things, all right? Coming across as too interested is also a bad move. Read my Ex Factor Guide so you'll know how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total), including what to say, do or not do, etc. since good timing is essential at www.breakupbrad.com
The good reminder text worked for me lol he started asking questions like how’d the dinner go and who was the person 😌
Good to hear!
what if you already glowed there phone up before you watch the video
It may or may not be too late, but it’s definitely time to move forward from those mistakes and not repeat those! Don’t be so hard on yourself, though, since this is a fairly common issue and most people are guilty of this at some point. If you'd really want to gauge your chances of getting back together (it may not be all doom and gloom after all) I suggest you take the free quiz on my website and answer as honestly as possible, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
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I broke up with my ex 3 days ago and I really regret it. I want him back in my life again but I'm just afraid that he will ignore me if I text him. Should I text him or not?
Hey Brad, I have a quick question. I already sent my ex girlfriend a few text messages after finishing the no contact phase and she replied positively. But since I dont want to bother her texting her too frequently I just wanted to ask you how much delay should there be between my text messanges? And should I wait a while and see if she might text me?
Don't text too frequently. Give it time in between but do keep focus on the second phase which is re-establishing contact with an ex. Get busy with other stuff and text her every now and again but definitely not too often! Read my Ex Factor Guide since that’s much more detailed and so you'll know how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total), including what to say, do or not do, along with bonus materials for texting. Good timing is essential! Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com/mbuy Good luck!
Wow i just realaized what game my ex is playing all the time 😂😂 and yeah i know all that we always breakup and come back but now its diffrent and i didnt wanna play this game too but i shold tnks fam
Always be one step ahead of your ex. :-)
I was in No contact for 30 days with my boy friend who is living another country. .
After my first visiting,when i get back to my country,he said to me “I didnt
have special feeling in bed (although it wasnt sex) your touch wasnt
good .We should keep on talking to know you more cause 8 months
relationship is short”
I said “so you want a b***h besides yours is small but it is not a big deal for me”
He got upset and never accepted my apology.He said we can be friend ,never
Skype,time will tell what will happen”after that he replied me shortly
that made me to choose No contact rule.
My question is :If he doesnt want to Skype (to see me)after the duration of sending message that now im doing ,how can i make him back? How can i erase my word from his mind?
Chica Irani He talks about that in his guide. It mostly focuses on staying positive and not engaging in negative situations.
I wanted to tell him :"It was a test to check some items in you "
So you think i shouldnt tell him ? Now we just exchange texts like clean friends .if he accepts to talk on skype ,can i tell above?
So what should i do? i said to him it was a test
Wow
And you split up with her now?
Hey brad,
Do these methods work on an ex who I have been broken up for about a year? She say's she wants to only be friends but we started talking again because we matched on a dating site lol. We planned a quick meet up for coffee and was wondering what I should do? Anyways keep up the great work! I really appreciate your videos!
Watch this first to help set your expectations: ua-cam.com/video/OzVymYnQFTk/v-deo.html and look out for the signs that your ex has moved on: ua-cam.com/video/TnZzeEIPEik/v-deo.html If you see only one or zero signs, then this vid is for you: ua-cam.com/video/9LC1ewgBkIQ/v-deo.html If the conditions are right, then make sure you tick off the checklist here as well: y2u.be/BAhMrmw3Sms It's important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html and the golden rules here: ua-cam.com/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/v-deo.html
I had hate text. Huhuhu
I realize he can read those when he wakes up. We are LDR.
Roxy Lipz I can recommend you to the person that help me to get my ex back
Hi brad
My girlfriend moved on n to another city and she ignored me ,never text me or call me
I stop texting her since a week in order to not show her that i m needy and desperate
What should i do brad please help m
Hey man! I think I've just answered your concern on the previous/the same video with you asking similar issues in those comments, so please refer to those.
I was panicking at 4:07 bc I really thought he was just about to say “nope.” And that was it 😅
lol thanks for watching!
Wow I finally got my ex back and now I am happy
Hope he comes crawling back!
Check out my guide to help you out. Good luck!
Experts support! It works! Thanks for a great piece of advice!
You're welcome! And thanks for the awesome feedback!
Congratulations Brad on your success, I remember seeing you on blogs years ago and doing e-blasts, even though this video and others are from 2015 in itself, you still seem to be doing really well, good luck for the future mate.
Thank you for your kind words, man! :-)
Hi Brad, we finished on the 31st July. That night and the following Saturday, I texted her. Nothing untoward, but more that I was down and hoped we could get back together. I've not texted since, so hopefully no contact will work.
She said with some time and space she may feel differently, but who knows? At least I've not been told it won't ever happen. I'm just trying to be positive now and refrain from texting.
Thanks for your advice
Good. Here's how you can tell it's starting to work: ua-cam.com/video/4gqo4RjqUpo/v-deo.html Anyway here's a quick overview to help guide you: ua-cam.com/video/xgR03RcU8mw/v-deo.html Lots of folks seem to be oblivious about it, so here goes: the 30-day "no contact" rule, once COMPLETED, is just the first phase for most people (unless your ex sincerely wanted you back and it's shown in their actions). This would also help guide you on what to do after the "no contact" rule: ua-cam.com/video/BAhMrmw3Sms/v-deo.html Anyway there are two more phases to go through if you want an ex back, and the third is to rekindle/rebuild the attraction with an ex. Learn the basics here: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html
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Brad what if you see your ex everyday in school and you have her for one of your classes
And what if ur ex sits beside u in school and is ur partner in literally everything?
wow lol my ex sits right behind me
CG Games whats even worse is that she was once my bestfriend
And a few minutes ago she told me that she still wants to be my bestfriend
This is one of the cases where the “no contact” rule is actually an exception...but DON'T initiate random contact in any way and don’t make any unnecessary chitchats, okay?I've discussed it in these videos, as well as how to handle it: ua-cam.com/video/zKhNHhEmYMg/v-deo.html and ua-cam.com/video/ydeES3WU1Uc/v-deo.html but whatever the case may be, act responsibly yet try not to take things too seriously now since you may be in a period of growth and lots of changes,including preferences in attitude, personality, etc. Focus on your studies instead, all right? Take care!
Brad my ex just got her new ex bf(after she broke with me two days later she got a bf but they broke up in just a few days so now they're back together) back and now I see her do so much stuff with him that she didn't do with me is this the end for me and her
Thank you. So much for doing this ❤ you saved my relationship ❤ but I have a question should I told her I've been watching your videos? Or ......
That's up to you.
Brad Browning have got another question what happens she killed herself?
Tnx for this! I feel relieved. I sent her an apology letter, I felt ease and light. Tnx for the advice!
You're welcome! Hey, you never know who else can benefit, so if it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t already, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it! :-)
Hi Brad, I broke up with my girlfriend about over a month ago, i originally within the first week sent her a card to say sorry and hope that it might not make her feel so down. She answered and she said ‘I just need time to myself’ etc..... I want to get back with her and what’s really weird is that your smile text actually might work, she really loves Harry Potter, but I don’t know if she’s completely over me and has no intentions to get back with me, what do you reckon I should do
She's not completely over you if the breakup was recent, but she will be if you keep making the same mistakes. Apologizing, when there's really nothing to apologize for is really weak, considering how she dumped you in the first place and is indeed wanting to end things with you. Remember, you wouldn't want her to be nice to you, you want her to be into you. The clue on what you should do is already in her answer to you, give her space. Watch this: ua-cam.com/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/v-deo.html
what if they misinterpret the situation of the no contact rule, and then move on and find someone else?
rima yousuf i was thinking the same
i guess then they were never yours to begin with if they can move on in 30 days so simply u know?
rima yousuf ..yeah 😭
This is literally the situation im currently going through its been about a month since weve split and i know shes talking to someone else. Not to mention weve been on and off for the past 3 years -_- help
Your best bet is to cut off contact completely for around a month in order to clear your heads. Your ex would likely to come back if you've got your sh*t together than if you were begging/pleading. Well, there are a few rare who take their exes back if you beg/plead but it hardly ever lasts since these people are taking their exes back out of pity. So my point is, don't let your ex take you back out of pity, all right? The best way to avoid that is to work on yourself and get your life together by having fun, hobbies, etc. and to STOP chasing your ex. I've made numerous videos about the "no contact" rule and why it's important. Check those out. Also watch the stories here and try not to be a statistic:ua-cam.com/video/1U_IOm8ofFo/v-deo.html
omg why didnt i see this before
Better luck next time, then...and don't make the same mistakes! :-) On the flip side, however, you could just be overreacting, so if you'd really want to gauge your chances of getting back together (it may not be all doom and gloom after all) I suggest you take the free quiz on my website and answer as honestly as possible, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
my girlfriend left
Hey Brad, quick question. I feel like the tips in your videos apply more towards women who got broken up with by their boyfriends. I was the one to break up with my boyfriend, but now I'm realizing that I may have broken up with him for the wrong reasons and that the problems in our relationship weren't necessarily his fault. How would I go about reconnecting with him, since he is probably feeling a bit insulted after I harshly dumped him over the phone?
Yes, you're right. It's for those who've been dumped. However, I also wrote an article that would relate to your situation. It's free, so read it here: bit.ly/1Gn8gMF
Perfect reason to stay single permanently
Like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you since you know your relationship and your ex better than anyone else on here. And alas, not every ex is worth all the trouble. It's up to you to decide who is worth fighting for at one of the toughest of battles you face in your relationship. Best of luck!
hahaha this guy is so wise..lol
hes tricks and words are so true
Thanks for the support. If it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t already, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it! :-)
okay , do you have a specific phone number or call line that I can use to reach you for any advise or counselling
How do I text "My heart is broken" sarcastically?
And then send it to your ex? Bad move, man, bad move. Don't do it.
BOOOMMM!!! Hear that? That my fucking heart bitch!
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Cavemankind 😂😂😂😂. I'm dying