What Makes Your Ex Miss You?
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- Опубліковано 8 вер 2024
- What makes an ex miss you and want you back? In this video, I explain a number of things you can do to make your ex miss you like crazy... and get them to come back to you.
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If you’re hoping for a second chance with your ex, this is going to be an absolute must-watch video, because you’ll learn several important lessons... including:
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0:40 - #1) Why you need your ex to miss you in order to have any chance of getting them back;
2:40 - #2) What common mistakes most people make that prevent their ex from missing them;
6:48 - #3) What generally will make your ex start to miss you;
14:49 - #4) What messages you can send to your ex to help them miss you even more; and
18:44 - #5) Some common signs that indicate your ex is missing you.
Remember: if you want any hope of getting a second chance with your ex, then you need to make them miss you! In this video, I explain why this is the case and how exactly you can make your ex miss you in order to get them back...
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I pretty much made all the mistakes in the first 2 weeks after I was dumped after a 10 year string along relationship. I was angry, distraught and embarrassed. Honestly, I wanted to throat punch him. In the beginning I stooped to new lows when I begged him back and texted ridiculous things. Somehow, I stumbled upon Brad, invested in his program and to be quite frank, it was the best thing I have ever done. I became a much better person overall. In the end he did come back and we were able to work through all the misunderstandings and there were a decade of them to amend. We now have the best relationship I have ever had. Making myself the best person I could be during the breakup was the single best thing I could have ever done.
This is awesome to hear and I'm very happy for you two. Glad I've helped out! :-)
How long did it take to reconcile?
We wont even probably get back together, but your videos motivate
me so much. Thank you Brad🙏🏼
Glad to hear. Always prioritize yourself first, yeah? Your own journey to healing should come first, so take care of your emotional and mental well being. The pandemic isn't helping, but try to do different things and don't be afraid to take on new possibilities. You never know what blessings await you on the other side of all the darkness and pain. :-) Take care!
My Ex’s grandma passed away couple of weeks ago and now she’s reached out to me.
In reality or in your dreams?
@@seemapal6646 i think he meant his ex, not the grandma😅
Offer your ex some sympathy but nothing more than that. She has to grieve in her own way first.
Or maybe he's telling that his ex reached out to him couple of weeks after his grama passed away
@@aleksandrabouma2396 🤣
I didn’t beg my former girlfriend after the breakup. She had sent me a happy birthday message after the breakup. Almost a week to the day of the breakup.
I sent her a message about five days later. Told her I wasn’t angry. Just wished it would have went differently.
Then later sent her a few pictures of her and I together. Told her thanks and left it at that.
Thnk u so much Brad. All ths worked out for me after a terrible breakup with my x last year. I kept listening to ur utube and followed ur advice.We got back together n happier that 🙏🏾❤️ever.
That's awesome. Congrats! :-)
I’m going through a breakup now. It sucks. It hurts. I have hope for the future but i don’t see it being possible. I’ve been watching your videos Brad to help alleviate the pain a little, with the idea that maybe, i can still hold on to the 1% chance that i could get him back. That he still misses me or cares.
Sorry to hear you're going through this. Hope is the last to go BUT the space and time apart is needed because it not only helps you heal but also helps you gain a clearer perspective of the entire situation first. Each relationship is a blessing, until it isn't. If it becomes a lesson, make sure you learn it before you get into the next one or rebuild the connection with your ex. Otherwise a pattern would be repeated. Just try to make sure you maximize what you can within this 30-day period such as healing yourself, enjoying your own company, as well as spending time to see where it all went wrong, but only when you start to feel better, so be sure to take time to grieve first and feel the loss and cry all you want but then make an effort to pick yourself up first. Remember, you can't pick someone up (to be back in a relationship with you) if you're also feeling down yourself. Now is the time for self love. So give yourself the time and attention you need to heal first, all right? Make sure you watch my other vids too for more tips on what to do during and after this time if you're not getting my Ex Factor guide. Good luck!
@@BradBrowning thank you Brad.
@@elizabethlau9604update?
The worst possible advice is a “good reminder text”. Never do this. Did it with my DA ex. She completely ignored it even in 3 months of NC…
Sorry it didn't work out for you. It's usually best to reserve the good reminder text when you've established good rapport with your ex and this is one of the texts you're sending to maintain communication.
Thinking of getting back to your Ex it's a waste of time, learn to let go, if you are in this situation and you are looking for videos for guidance, you are full of potential , there lots of good people out there who will give you attention , invest in yourself , time and energy..!
Learn to control your mind and realize that nothing is permanent so a breakup is part of life..!get yourself good books, meditate ,start a business or a hobby.
Wish you happy and health, you will be happy again, life is a wonderful possibility.
I love watching your video. So this 61 years old guy unblocked my number last night after no contact of 4 months. He said “hey, how is it going?. I don’t even want him anymore, I am more happier than ever. I can’t believe I fell hard for old dude from gym. I’m 30 years old and I fell for 61 years old. Im an idiot. I was hurt, crying, begging and pleading for him to come back. Lol I’m such an idiot. Brad… thanks for your video. I’ve moved on and I’ll ghost him for good…. His lost, he weren’t there when I needed him the most.
@@drjames8488 can you stop it! I’m not interested
You're welcome! Like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you since you know your relationship and your ex better than anyone else on here. And alas, not every ex is worth all the trouble. It's up to you to decide who is worth fighting for at one of the toughest of battles you face in your relationship. Best of luck!
I fell for someone 27 years older than me. I know exactly how you feel darling. I had the worst heartaches, felt numb for days.
I started the no contact, and he hasn’t texted me yet. Everyone around me keeps telling me I deserve better. It’s too much.
We shouldn’t be wasting our youth like this. Sending love and prayers. Hope we both heal soon
@@angelapreyae6471 stop it! Bot.
@@johnsonjoy8672 stop it bot!! Damn
No other way, no contact no contact no contact. Let them miss you 😘 one day he will miss me 🤗
Yes, especially if you become the best version of yourself in the process! ;)
Your videos have help me so much.
My breakup 💔 was unexpected for me.Yes me had a few fights like normal couples but not crazy. A week before he asked me to move in together in the winter and I was so excited 😊. A few days later me had a silly fight and he was like I can't do this anymore. 2 days later he comes to my house we had been kinda talking but not really and I knew he was going to say it.He came to my house and he said I can't do this anymore its too much you stress me ,you are jealous you don't let me go out with my friends you get annoyed etc.
I was in complete shock and hurt.
I have never hurt so much in my life we have been together for 3.5 years.
Yes I know I can be a bit jealous but that is my own insecurities 😕 and I know I have to fix that.I could never say to him not to go out with friends he always thought I got annoyed. And sometimes I would push him to do things but it was only because I cared about him.
Now he lost his mum less that a year ago at 56 years old and he did not grieve properly. And he would say to me when he broke up to me .You will be hurt for a while but you will be okay bit I will never be okay again after my mums death.He compared everything to his mum.
I know he is in so much pain and we went through her illness and death together and I don't know why he pushed me away.
I am doing the no contact we broke up on the 20th July and he called me 6 days later then nothing until the 16th September on my birthday and said happy birthday and then I asked him how he is and he was talking about his mum and that he is not ok.
It is coming up to his mums 1year anniversary and I want to go to it but will text him first to see if he won't mind .But it's just so hard as he is grieving so bad .And I know he is hurting about that more than us.💔
And I am giving him his space and have not contacted him bit it is hard in this case as he is also grieving.
I just don't know what to do.😔 .
Fighting is often unavoidable, but when it becomes too much, it’s time to nip the problem in the bud if you still can. So it's either that or you go on a break and discuss the logistics as well as how it should go and how long it should be. What were you two fighting or arguing about? It's best to consider the relationship overall first, so watch this: ua-cam.com/video/XuJFf5Kch5o/v-deo.html Anyways it's best to give it time because all this arguing had taken a toll in your relationship. This may help: ua-cam.com/video/BBEhaY3gLIw/v-deo.html Perhaps you've both argued more than you had a good time with each other? It could also be you're too incompatible or stubborn to meet each other halfway. If the negatives outweigh the positives in the relationship, that's when an imbalance happens and the relationship will keel over wherein one or both people will likely abandon ship, as the case with your ex. It's time to reset things. Start with the 30-day "no contact" rule to get your ex into a psychological neutral. Here's how it can help you: y2u.be/zw0ChuXCEmw
@@BradBrowning we did not really fight much it's was like little fights .I'm the 3.5 years we had been together we only had 2 big fights. He said to I winge alot well I think everyone does so did he.The only difference is he is grieving alot he lost his mum very suddenly and she was young and he did not grieve well in the begging he was ok from what he was showing and then suddenly you can see the pain much more.I helped him as much as I could.Ots so hard to help someone grieving when you don't know the pain they are going through. I think everything was a bit too much for him 😕.
We broke up in July and I did do the the contract he did text a few days after break up and then we did not talk till my birthday when he sent me a message in September and then the other day on his mums anniversary.
I have been doing no contact and yes it is so hard.I miss him so much
I was born and brought up in a Hindu family in India and she is a strict Muslim family. After so many unforgettable moments with limitless discussion about the future of our relationship, now she left me by pointing out the religious problems for herself to come with her parents only after more than one and half year of strong relationship of ours. She is the first and the only love of my life, i love her so much and she will always be in my heart forever.
I am 22,she is 20 in ages.
I am 6'2, she is 5'7 in heights.
And I was thinking that I finally got my soulmate in my life but unluckily she has changed after uncountable numbers of loving memories that we've made and tough times that we've been gone through together.
True love is not for everyone in this cruel world of divided religious cultures and beliefs.😭😭
I wish if we were born in irreligious society.😥
Really sorry to hear you're going through this. It is hard indeed but traditions and beliefs get in the way. Now I don't know a ton about your culture but from what I've gathered, these strict rules of marriage you have and who to marry are unbreakable,right? In this case,I'm sorry but this is beyond a relationship counsellor's reach. We don't make or bend these laws as it's strictly your own. Understand that the choice is ultimately up to your ex on whether to fight for you or not despite the opposition going on. Good luck!
It's been almost one month with limited no contact due to the apartment which we have been arguing about quite a bit now, he has openly expressed how he hasn't missed me at all and that he was relieved it was over, he was already thinking about the breakup for two whole months and I had no idea, so by the time he broke up with me he was already at peace that this was the right decision and he couldn't stand me any longer in his life even though we never fought or anything! He went straight cold the day after and never discussed what bothered him in our relationship, only during our recent argument about the apartment did some information surface.
Sorry to hear that. Was your relationship that bad? What were the issues in your relationship? The absence of fighting doesn't mean everything's all right. However, too much fighting is also disruptive to a relationship. Although I'd like to offer a tip or two, there's simply too many elements to your situation that makes this too complex for me to properly respond here… please consider signing up for coaching if you want to talk at length about your situation: www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
Brad knows how to talk .. thank you for the clarity. Well spoken
I know everyone has unique situations and caveats to the lessons that you teach… and I guess I am no exception. I need to know if the personal coaching is for me. I need to schedule a consultation. Thanks Brad for all the free info and lessons that some are semi-known to a lot of people, but when you’re down in the thick of emotional hell…. Well, cognition and objectiveness is not my strong suit when my “sky is falling.” You present the info and speak in the best of Canadian ways to make sure you’re insistent, knowledgeable, helpful and polite.
You're welcome! And yes, I hear you, the dark night of the soul is very common to those being dumped, who often feel like they've been blindsided, which is why giving each other space is very much needed so you won't do or say stuff you'd regret later on. Be strong, eh? If you think you need my one-on-one help via private coaching, check for availability first and sign up at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching but either way, I strongly suggest you check out my other videos especially if you're not getting my guide so you'll know what to do next after the "no contact" period, to contacting your ex down to re-attracting, and what to do in between those phases and how to transition to actually getting your ex back. Here's a quick overview: ua-cam.com/video/7JtmVbDkblw/v-deo.html Best of luck!
Great videos Brad.. but just the fact I keep watching these videos and others show that I care 100 times more as she never would have done the same if I broke up, instead just go to the next guy.. (even she do MANY of these things you mention, jealous etc) pretty sure many can relate and I challenge you all to ask yourself if they are worth it at all.. how much WORK is this guys? Omg
Everybody copes in different ways and while a relationship takes two people, moving on and looking after yourself is an individual task. With that said, the best thing you can do right now is to cut off contact and focus on yourself. During that silence, you will also see if it's worth it or not. Good luck, whichever route you wanna take during this period! :-)
My seperated wife is truly broken. She wanted a separation about a. Year ago. I did everything wrong, begged, pleaded and so forth. We communicated daily for months. Even when she got a bf shortly after separation. They broke up in April, she then really opened up and would communicate heavily with me. Shortly after she got a new boyfriend and she became super hateful towards me. They broke up in August, I was in no contact. She reached out wanted to take the whole family and do dinner, we hung out a few times with kids involved and she said, I really have changed. Shortly after, she now has a new boyfriend, now she wants a dissolution and is very cold, not hateful, just cold. I'm back in no contact.
Sorry to hear that. While I certainly need more information to know what's going on between you two for sure, I suggest you check out more marriage-saving tips which you may find useful,check out this new channel I've dedicated solely for this purpose. Here's the link: y2u.be/dr2JTi_bCRU
so we both agreed on a clean slate but it seemed like she didn’t want it. she also said she doesn’t know if she wants this anymore but is willing to give me a chance to show that i’m willing to change and the relationship won’t be so unhealthy.
If you do have to make some changes, then do it for yourself and never for anyone else, okay? See, making changes for the sake of someone is considered seeking validation, and that's an unattractive trait in and of itself… so it naturally won't do anything to rebuild the attraction necessary to get your ex back in the long run. On the other hand, if these are changes that you know within yourself that you need to make, then it's important to take time so be sure you aren’t rushing it because permanent, lasting changes don't happen overnight and your ex can actually see through it. Also, pain (that's why your ex dumped you) is a very good teacher and motivator not to mention a huge catalyst, so making these changes within yourself in order for the possibility to come back together stronger and better is what you can expect and you will be able to use this progress if not for your ex, then with someone new. Does that make sense? With that in mind, watch this vid to subtly show these changes to your ex: ua-cam.com/video/bZ1KetALZrc/v-deo.html
Sounds like playing games to me. Let those exes go. 🎉
Good morning Brad. My mind says get a new phone. My heart says I want my old phone back.
This is why you take your time (give it 30 days minimum) to decide what you wanna do/ how you want to proceed. :-)
Thank u brad ,u videos are much useful ,please go on with flow do more videos for how to win over ex after break up .
Hey brad, thanks for the great videos! I had messed up by being a little needy. I then sent her a clean slate text that wished her well. After that text I started no contact. She didn’t respond to that message that wished her well. I heard she’s talking to someone from one of my buddies. I’m one week into no contact.
I know it's tough, but try to be strong, okay? Cry it out if you have to, crying is actually very cleansing and can help you heal. Just love yourself first and respect her decision to break up. I suggest you employ the FULL 30-day "no contact" rule and be mindful of the tips in the following videos to help you out: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM AND make sure you don't make the number one mistake here: y2u.be/1cBpNrDDHnw
So once you've completed the no contact phase, watch my texting tips on how to re-establish contact with your ex. This is only one among the many texting tips posted across my channel. Start with these: ua-cam.com/video/XonMtLFo000/v-deo.html AND y2u.be/RggluigF74E but if you're still lost about what to do despite the tips sprawled on my channel, then you may want to sign up for my one-on-one email coaching at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Best of luck!
Damn that sucks. I know it does hurt brother but let me tell you this, women are very confusing creatures and I’ve learned that the best way to regret the break up and let them come to you is to be distanced from them, use the no contact, and work on yourself. Trust me I’ve had this from experience. I still miss my ex but I don’t know what she is doing and there is nothing I can do about it. It does hurt and burns really bad when they are dating someone else but believe me girls do this just to make you jealous, to act needy, desperate and clingy. Remember you must become the price, don’t chase the price because that’s what she wants. I’ve done this before with all my exes and it worked. Wish you the best
Any update bruh?
I had to break up with my boyfriend because jump into relationship so fast telling me I’m bothering him and say things when he gets upset
Definitely take a step back and take time to get to know each other better. Breaking up is a bit too extreme though if that's what you wanna do?
Basically keep your distance let them process what happened. If they cant see what they lost its for the better if they reach out be kind and caring.
(Basically the opposite of everything you want to do) 😂🙏
lol yeah use the time apart to determine whether you still wanna try to get back together or just leave the past in the past. I mentioned something similar, here: ua-cam.com/video/ECCZm_mqzKg/v-deo.html
She left me for someone else i dont think were getting back together but i can always hope
Sorry, man, but chances are your girl has been at least emotionally cheating on you. Discussed that in depth here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA There's no easy way to say this but the answer is is to move on, especially if your ex doesn't seem to be regretting their actions and asking to get back together. Most of the time, a lot of people would move on, but a few would still fight for the relationship, so this all depends which side you're on and what your views are. But take into consideration about what I’ve mentioned here, too: ua-cam.com/video/m27TLeyUmwg/v-deo.html There is no right or wrong answer here because it is your relationship and it's personal to you. Make sense? Anyway men and women cheat for different reasons, but if you think your ex is worth it and if there's been a genuine connection between you two before the cheating happened, then try to see the roles that you BOTH played that led to all this mess and see once and for all if it can be resolved or not, okay? Really take your time before deciding though and be sure not to make any hasty decisions from an emotional place. Take care!
After 27 years of marriage, divorce and then 5 years of dating, the part I can no longer figure out is why someone would want their ex back in the first place.
It's a case-to-case basis.
Brad she is doing unlock and block daily😂but i make his father my friend trust me❤
I think he went right to someone else the same day we were together last. He said he’s happy 😞
Wait for a better time before interacting with your ex, however, don't wait around doing nothing. Take a leap of faith on a new path as well because you never know where life can take you, which may be better without your ex. Use this time to heal and prioritize yourself. But if it's been more than a year or so, make sure to check the signs if your ex has moved on, here: ua-cam.com/video/ZyJRphwDca4/v-deo.html This should help guide you on what to do for the time being: ua-cam.com/video/hlikXIfMYN8/v-deo.html However, make it a point to be really productive with your time being apart. Follow the tips here to help guide you further: ua-cam.com/video/gUBNd6pDINM/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/WVFZVqFDFV4/v-deo.html&ab_channel=BradBrowning now when the time comes where your ex is free or is constantly contacting you, check out my other videos here in UA-cam to help you with a lot of texting tips as well as when to give up trying. Good luck!
The problem in relationships is that same body will immediately be in another relationship when their is a break up
Yes, but with little to no time in between, it's likely a rebound which tend to fail sooner or later but that shouldn't be your concern. The 30-day "no contact" rule can work for you in the following ways: ua-cam.com/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/v-deo.html Your ex is diverting his/her attention to someone else, which is the easiest thing to do and is really just his/her way of coping. If anything, your ex is suffering, too, even though it may not seem like it. Discussed that here: ua-cam.com/video/7KE6nb4-ndA/v-deo.html So that's what you ought to be doing too. Here, watch this: ua-cam.com/video/gUBNd6pDINM/v-deo.html so try to put your focus elsewhere because your ex is likely rebounding and you're only wasting precious minutes of your life worrying about something that's out of your control. Watch this: ua-cam.com/video/TBtb34gy6zw/v-deo.html Now lastly, keep in mind that your ex is suffering too, even though they try to cover it up. Discussed that here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA
Now am told forgot about me😭😭😭😭
@@user-tx7tn7kn7t I don't want her anymore
What about a 40 year together, 35 years married and then he left you for another woman, so he's already filled your shoes?
Really sorry to hear that. That's a huge chunk of your life. Do you want to discuss it? I'd like to take an in-depth look at what's going on so I can help you out and direct you on the best path to choose. If you agree, then sign up for my Mend the Marriage coaching program at www.marriageguy.com/coaching
As soon as she broke up with me she said "but we can stay friends...if you want of course"
That's a bad idea as that will absolutely lead you nowhere. Don't do it, man. She's lost attraction for you and it's a terrible idea to be friends with her. You ought to cut off contact for at least 30 days first. Silence is key and here's why: ua-cam.com/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/v-deo.html If you continue being friends right away, the boundaries won't be clear and you're technically both free to date other people. Wouldn't it be pure torture if your ex dates a rebound in front of you because you're only "friends" now, don't you think? So it’s not a good idea, especially if you want this ex back. Watch these two videos so you’ll know why being friends won’t lead you anywhere you wanna be with your ex and how to get out of this trap, respectively at ua-cam.com/video/pv_cjzhVKAY/v-deo.html and ua-cam.com/video/sS4V4IOcOgs/v-deo.html but read my Ex Factor Guide since that’s much more detailed and so you'll know how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total), including what to say, do or not do, along with bonus materials for texting. Good luck!
My ex and I were at a family funeral and he told me he loves and misses me. We ended up in bed which was a mistake. Now I heard he's engaged..
Really sorry, but your window of opportunity may have already passed. Discussed that here: ua-cam.com/video/e3l5KWEpIpw/v-deo.html and especially if you see the signs here: y2u.be/k1myDIp0gSc
What strategies can you use if they have a boyfriend?
Wait for a better time before interacting with your ex, however, don't wait around doing nothing. Take a leap of faith on a new path as well because you never know where life can take you, which may be better without your ex. Use this time to heal and prioritize yourself. But if it's been more than a year or so, make sure to check the signs if your ex has moved on, here: ua-cam.com/video/ZyJRphwDca4/v-deo.html This should help guide you on what to do for the time being: ua-cam.com/video/hlikXIfMYN8/v-deo.html However, make it a point to be really productive with your time being apart. Follow the tips here to help guide you further: ua-cam.com/video/gUBNd6pDINM/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/WVFZVqFDFV4/v-deo.html&ab_channel=BradBrowning now when the time comes where your ex is free or is constantly contacting you, check out my other videos here in UA-cam to help you with a lot of texting tips as well as when to give up trying. Good luck!
I do miss my ex and I believe the worst time for me was between 2 to 3 months, that when you realise they may be gone if the communication drops off.
But I do think that I was somewhat limited when with my ex, I felt I couldn't reach my full potential whilst being with her , so there was a ceiling.
Now I'm single again, I feel that the sky is the limit , on that basis its unlikely I would go back if she was to return
Glad you had that realization! Like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you. You know your situation and your ex best. Sometimes a relationship can be salvaged and worth the save but sometimes it isn't, especially if there's cheating or some other type of abuse involved.
How would I do no contact with my ex-girlfriend if we have a daughter together? I have no choice but to see my ex a lot cause of our daughter. So pretty much my question is what is the most affective way for no contact in my situation?
If you're hellbent on trying to work things out, let me just set expectations that it's a tough battle for sure with kid/s involved and/or usually other responsibilities still tied to your ex, but it's best you do limited contact or what I call the dynamic "no contact" rule. Prepare for things to be tough but if you play your cards right and depending on the extent of damage done, it can actually still be salvaged. Try to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be by applying the tips here as much as possible, in addition to my newer vids I've posted: ua-cam.com/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/dDZrnNh8LOg/v-deo.html
@@BradBrowning so we've been broken up for 3 months now and she's already seeing another guy and having sex with him!!!!! But she still always calls me and shows me she still loves me!!! I'm just not sure how to take it!!! Can you please give me good advise on what to do about this??? Thank you and your videos have been helping me out thank you for your time!!!!
I can’t avoid the first two, she can’t make it on her own and she will lose everything we have worked for together
Be careful because being way too codependent on someone and vice versa is a ticking time bomb and really unhealthy. If she broke up with you, respect her decision and let her be her own person. The same thing applies to you too where you focus on your own life and become a better version of yourself. Good luck!
What if Ex is having surgery, should you break no contact to wish them well?
A short thoughtful message will do. Good luck!
I don't want him back!!! I was just wondering how long it'll be before he starts to really regret cheating, because he lost something most other guys wish they could have.
This vid is for you: ua-cam.com/video/Y5jwPaxmJUM/v-deo.html
The night we broke up I had to go back to the house to get something since I had to move everything out and forgot something. We talked because he was there and he was in a bad place. The next day I was weak and texted him and called him. He ended up calling me back and we talked for a little. Sent him a video since I had already broken no contact and I wanted him to see it. Today I’m starting fresh with no contact. He responded to me last night and I didn’t answer. This is so hard. I miss him so much but I’m praying this is helping
Yes, just give each other that much needed space and don't force things. Once you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule and assuming you did it correctly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: ua-cam.com/video/XonMtLFo000/v-deo.html but make sure you tick off the checklist here first: ua-cam.com/video/BAhMrmw3Sms/v-deo.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html Good luck!
no contact means no CONTACT..NO ROAM for reminder texts its hardline to the front.
Yes, it means radio silence in any way, shape and form.
Hey Brad, I've been watching a lot of your videos recently and they're really amazing. I broke up with my gf today and I'm left feeling like I want her back. She's told me she still loves me but that the relationship I have with her is not something she wants right now. I was too clingy and dependent on her before, but now that I've changed it's too late to get her back. It's her first relationship and my third, and we were both very passionate with each other. She's said she doesn't want me to disappear and I said I'll leave WhatsApp untouched, but will unfollow her on other social media platforms. I've met all her family, and all her childhood friends. I don't want to lose her, and I'm scared that I will, and that I came off too strong saying we should just break up (but I felt like she was going to say it anyway so I thought I would say we can mutually agree to break up, and she nodded very sadly). She cried but I tried to show her my fun and playful side every now and then to show that I'm different to how she thought I was before. I did make her laugh quite a lot, and I know she doesn't want to let go of me. She's told me she still loves me and I know I still love her. We broke up because of poor communication and I want to get back with her. Should I really be not talking to her for 30 days, when she's going to be busy with friends, studies, and everything else?
(And if she messages me a normal message asking how I'm doing, should I even read the message, or just leave it on unread?)
(Really love the videos. Keep them coming!)
Sorry to hear that. Being too dependent can eventually take its toll in the relationship indeed. Right now, though, she needs space from you so you ought to respect that. I suggest you employ the FULL 30-day "no contact" rule and be mindful of the tips in the following videos to help you out: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM AND make sure you don't make the number one mistake here: y2u.be/1cBpNrDDHnw
So once you've completed the no contact phase, watch my texting tips on how to re-establish contact with your ex. This is only one among the many texting tips posted across my channel. Start with these: ua-cam.com/video/XonMtLFo000/v-deo.html AND y2u.be/RggluigF74E but if you're still lost about what to do despite the tips sprawled on my channel, then you may want to sign up for my one-on-one email coaching at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Best of luck!
@Scott any updates mate?
Move on.
After no contact she want to be with me as a friend but i say I don't have friend felling for u
I did write or wrong
Good call! She's lost attraction for you and it's a terrible idea to be friends with her. You need to cut off contact for at least 30 days first. Silence is key and here's why: ua-cam.com/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/v-deo.html If you continue being friends right away, the boundaries won't be clear and you're technically both free to date other people. Wouldn't it be pure torture if your ex dates a rebound in front of you because you're only "friends" now, don't you think? So it’s not a good idea, especially if you want this ex back. Watch these two videos so you’ll know why being friends won’t lead you anywhere you wanna be with your ex and how to get out of this trap, respectively at ua-cam.com/video/pv_cjzhVKAY/v-deo.html and ua-cam.com/video/sS4V4IOcOgs/v-deo.html but read my Ex Factor Guide since that’s much more detailed and so you'll know how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total), including what to say, do or not do, along with bonus materials for texting. Good luck!
It's been a year and 3months now and he's still angry with me. I did no contact for about 6 months and he never reached out! He sometimes ask about me from our friends but will not contact me personally. I feel like I've lost him forever 😢
Angry about what though? This may help explain things especially if you haven't cut off contact and had stayed around for a few months after she dumped you: ua-cam.com/video/PN-07kAtIjw/v-deo.html Watch this first to help set your expectations: ua-cam.com/video/82uUJ7kPXhE/v-deo.html and look out for the signs that your ex has moved on: ua-cam.com/video/TnZzeEIPEik/v-deo.html If you see only one or zero signs, then this vid is for you: ua-cam.com/video/9LC1ewgBkIQ/v-deo.html If the conditions are right, then make sure you tick off the checklist here as well: y2u.be/BAhMrmw3Sms It's important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html and the golden rules here: ua-cam.com/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/v-deo.html
Depending on how you handle things, you may have to wait longer, which I’ve discussed here: ua-cam.com/video/OzVymYnQFTk/v-deo.html
Not always.
Hi Brad my ex n I broke up about 3 weeks ago and hes not showing any signs that he misses me at all....how will I know of he miss me !?😔
Work on yourself and make some improvements anyway. If your relationship was significant, then chances are your ex misses you if you stay out of touch, regardless of whether or not it shows outwardly.
Brad what is there is a third person in the relationship ?
And she is attracted to him.
We broke up, I am being for the 6th time now.
We do share a huge age gap but I found out that it's with me she found her real peace yet I am just an option at the end of the day.
What shall I do ? 5 weeks of no contact.
My impression is I want to delete her from the face of my life forever. I can't handle the pain more.
Is this girl your girlfriend or just someone you're starting to get to know/date? If it's the latter, then I say to become her best option and to always play it cool. If this is an ex though, I suggest to remove yourself from that situation. Don't be the backup plan because the new toy is always going to be shiny. Best of luck!
We have been broken up for almost 2 months he broke up with me . Initially, I screwed up in every way possible begging, threatening one day I would want him back in the next day I would say I hated him . We spent some time together, but my emotions have been all over the place. Is it too late to start no contact now?
Cutting off contact is still your best bet, so redo the "no contact" rule and make sure you stick to it this time. But watch this first to help manage your expectations: ua-cam.com/video/OzVymYnQFTk/v-deo.html Here's how you can tell you're doing the "no contact" rule properly: ua-cam.com/video/f7zuXk-sVsI/v-deo.html It may help to make use of the clean slate template, which is a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. Watch this: ua-cam.com/video/6K3xufEwEFg/v-deo.html The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule - let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com
Thank You very much Sir
My ex left me after almost 20 years for someone else, so i doubt he is even thinking about me, never mind missing me.
Sorry to hear that. Consider moving on from this. It can be really tough but you can read my Beat the Breakup guide if you need help, at www.beatmybreakup.com On the flipside, however, 20 years is really something. I'm sure your ex thinks of you still unless your relationship was that toxic. Here are some tips to remember if you're trying to win an ex back and how important Fear of Missing Out (FOMO) is: ua-cam.com/video/STLjybyiaBQ/v-deo.html Take care!
@BradBrowning Thanks Brad, i don't believe our relationship was toxic, he just fell for a woman he works with who manipulates every man around her. She's still spending time with her ex partner who she cheated on with a young lad at work while giving my partner all the gory details. She also pretended to be my friend advising me what actions to take to get my partner back while she was with him 💔💔💔
I did everything wrong! Just didnt want him to think i didnt care and gave up. I contacted his friends, his mom, I've sent every desperate msgs begging and apologized many times. He's basically ghosted me... the only msgs I got back was him losing his crap on me for telling one of his buddies that I was going on a date but it didn't work out. He was upset I contacted his friend and seemed very jealous that I was already planning on going on dates.. Even though he hasn't talked to me in 2 weeks. I send him msgs every day and get nothing back so I will try NC now.. There's really nothing more I can do or say anyways. It's probably too late after all the damage I've done at this point 😭
Play your cards right and notice the world of difference that this can make. Stick to the "no contact" rule this time for at least 30 days. Here's how you can tell it's starting to work: ua-cam.com/video/T4Sz6DiWRsQ/v-deo.html AND the importance of silence after the breakup here: y2u.be/zw0ChuXCEmw and in the meantime, this is the principle you ought to follow: ua-cam.com/video/EfbgU7v0Ny4/v-deo.html A situation with an ex is often fragile, so you'd really want to omit, if not minimize these mistakes. Start with the 30-day straight "no contact rule. It’s one step forward, two steps backward with an ex & there are no unlimited chances with them, so if you can do it right moving forward, then do so. Check out my guide so you won't end up making the same mistakes. Good luck!
Hey Brad How are you?? Thanks for the help
Good, thanks for asking. You're welcome!
What if he left me because he doesn't feel good enough? Would he regret it if he's insecure and thinks this is better for me?
Unless you've said or done things to make him feel not good enough, his insecurity should be none of your problem and unfortunately this is something he has to resolve on his own. Whether he does or doesn't is completely up to him but the best you can do is give him space.
Hey brad, great video !
what do you suggest if after one month of no contact, my ex says he misses me a little but he wants space? I initiated the conversation
This is something I've discussed here: ua-cam.com/video/RSKJi8VK2g8/v-deo.html
What if she’s doing the no contact to me and wants me to reach out to her ? What if she wants to see me work hence why she’s not speaking to me?
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Hey brad, I broke up with my own ex recently, however it was only for one reason - that we couldnt really see each other often physically because she was restrcted from going outside too often, we only saw each other a maximum of 15 times in 8 months.I might have messed up by asking her obsessively about if this or that wouldve worked out but at one point asked her if things would have worked out if i moved to her school to see her more often and she said it could have in the past. and to add to that in in the final breakup message she said that "maybe in the future but not right now". She has been really nice because she is a good person in the heart. She said she wouldve cried if she told me in person. Please tell me your opinions on this, is there a chance well get back together?, Should i start doing the no contact rule straight away?
She's right. No need to make such drastic moves right there. Life is or will be taking you in two different directions at this stage. Watch this, too: ua-cam.com/video/2CakOOSwIiY/v-deo.html&lc=Ugw4Ce3x9APUrYfz29N4AaABAg So whatever the case may be, act responsibly yet try not to take things too seriously for now since you two are in a period of growth and lots of changes, including preferences in attitude, personality, etc. Focus on your studies instead, all right? Take care!
@@BradBrowning thank you Brad the video helped immensely
It's 8years of love relationship...my ex moved on soo easily with a reasn of having negitive impression on me..he said he can't be with me anymore and very comfortable now...he is very happy now and he treats and behaves like he never knows me... I am desperating badly... It's been 3 weeks of NC... He blocked me in social media and on phone too... Not a single positive signs of missing and getting back...
Unless you've done something really epic to mess things up or really hurt your ex, there's no reason to worry as much, really, because it could be due to the top 3 reasons I've stated on this vid: y2u.be/fjtv90o9bkI Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication or have no mutual friends. More about that on here: ua-cam.com/video/5UT92IB5ugs/v-deo.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : ua-cam.com/video/D1GpR5MApQk/v-deo.html Good luck!
I guess every situation is unique. NC rule isn’t applicable to all especially when not feeling your presence is the reason why they ended the relationship in the first place.
In every rule, there is an exception indeed and this is one of the scenarios you've described. Try to do the opposite of the "no contact" rule and see if your ex is receptive to contact at this point. If your ex isn't, then it's very important to give it time to let whatever anger there is between you two, especially from your ex's side, subside. Sometimes it takes a month but oftentimes it takes longer or shorter depending on the situation. You simply cannot rush this. An apology is in order, too. These may help: ua-cam.com/video/qnE192fUKxI/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/f0F8q2IIgtE/v-deo.html
My ex ended things randomly at the beginning of September. There was nothing that made me think our relationship was on the verge of a split. But he got upset at me over something so small then disappeared. Of course the first two or three days I had no clue what was happening as he didn't explain anything so I kept reaching out. Then I stopped. And some days went past when I got week and messaged him. He did reply in a positive manner. Then he disappeared again. And I no longer messaged him. After about a week. He reached out to me with the hi how are you. We did that chit chat for a few days. But now yesterday I decided not to reply him because it's just hard for me.
What step should I take now? If he replies what should I do?
How long have you been in a relationship with him and is he always this erratic? Lots of factors could be affecting his behavior ranging from personal issues/family problems down to him keeping a secret from you. Without knowing anything more about the situation, it's hard to pinpoint, just back off completely and let him come to you, especially if this was a short-term relationship.
@@BradBrowning and thank you for your reply!
I've actually done lots of processing and thinking. And I don't even know if I want him to come back. I did nothing to deserve this treatment.
And I have not replied anything to him since his last message last week. And deleted his number from my contacts.
We working together hard to ignoring each other. Really hard when you have strong feelings and you need pretending...Oh you nothing for me.. its a most harder thing. Pretending something when you would like to do it opposite 🤣😅🤔
It's tough but not impossible. :-) Do limited contact instead and keep any limited conversation you have strictly work-related. You've got a long way to go but for starters, you can follow the tips here to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be: ua-cam.com/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/dDZrnNh8LOg/v-deo.html
But...what if you were together 6 years, 4 living together, and he breaks up? Thats my situation. Weve been done for over a month. Ive found a home, but waiting to close....so were living together...???
Sorry to hear you're going through this. It's a different set of rules if you live together. Do limited contact with your ex where you only discuss the essentials. Apply the tips here, too to help you out further: y2u.be/thVReUI9Vzs AND y2u.be/STL7ru4uSQk I know it's hard, but lots of folks have managed to follow the tips and succeeded. So if they can do it, then so can you! Good luck and be strong!
My ex is living in the same accommodation with me but in a different room, we have like a share kitchen so we basically face each other everyday. How do I complete the non-contact period to get her back. She literally sees me everyday however I didn’t talk much with her and we blocked each other in social media and WhatsApp. Do I still have a chance to get her back? She’s special in my life
I am in the same situation too brand give out the and please
The tips here should be useful: ua-cam.com/video/dDZrnNh8LOg/v-deo.html
7 years together 61m she 50 menopausal. Sudden misunderstanding she freaked out no communication for . 48 hours later she broke up
Give her some space to come around. It could just be due to her menopause which may have contributed to mood swings.
hey brad, I’m not technically broken up, but we’re on a break and seeing where it goes and if he regains his feelings. How far should I treat it like a breakup and are a lot of the rules the same? Do I take practice in the 30 day no contact still?
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@@BradBrowning he ended it :( so now I’m doing no contact all the way and only speaking of being spoken to about work things.
@@kiaracharles28 any updates? i’m going through the same thing
bradd braddddf i am so done with my life honestly its been 3 months we were fighting for 2months straight i tried convincing her i tried everything we argued and etc but then i saw ur vids i used no contact for 22 days and it didnt work ig it didnt go as planned i need your help yesterday i sent her a letter again and she was like sorry no ive been overthinking about u but same decision i dont wanna get back and i said aight im never coming back i tried everything 🙂🙂 idk what to do? should i go no contact again or what
Arguments and fights, they take two to tango. Depending on the role you played in it, you really have to chill out and work on yourself first. Panicking won't help because rushing or forcing things will never work to your favour and any drama or argument will only make things worse. Cut off contact again and this time, really work on yourself because it doesn't seem like you're doing it right if you can easily spark an argument with your ex. Watch this: ua-cam.com/video/f7zuXk-sVsI/v-deo.html I'm sorry, I could be way off... but there’s lots of missing pieces here for me to deduct anything, so consider signing up for my coaching program instead so I can look into your situation more clearly and figure out what's going on, then guide you on a regular basis at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
My ex send me email saying he is getting engaged it’s hurting me so bad
Indeed. I can only imagine the pain you feel right now. I know I can't say anything right now to make you feel better. Healing is a process and everybody has their own journey. Just do your best to heal first, all right? Take care!
My girlfriend left me almost two months ago. Well, I was feeling like I wasn't happy with her in the relationship, I was also thinking about to breakup. She has a bipolar disorder, so she's a difficult person and I was tired of her negativity. We were in the relationship for 4 years. And after breakup my feelings came back, and we were still meeting, we had sex once, she said that she misses me JUST a little, she still has some feelings left for me but she's afraid that everything will come back to old days ,so she's not sure about getting back, I feel like a dog for her, like we are playing childish games, because she's meeting other guys and also me. She said "I want to see you how you will change after 6 months". And everytime I chat with her or meet her, I feel bad because I miss her, so I've blocked her everywhere and decided to have no contact and go on my own and work hard. Should I try to forget that person for a better life? Because It's looks like she never wants to understand me.
Sorry to hear that. Yes, it can be totally draining. If your ex has a mental disorder like depression, bipolar disorder, IED, NPD, or the like, the most loving thing you can do is to give each other space while she gets help. Encourage your ex to seek treatment because this is something only a therapist specializing on this can handle, even this is outside of my scope. But I can help you how to handle things on YOUR end as you go through this difficult ordeal. I know it can be incredibly tough knowing you’ve given it your best shot, yet your partner still fails to appreciate it or is breaking up despite it being a good relationship. Anyway it's a bad idea to be friends with an ex especially knowing they have a mental health condition. In the end, they will drain you and leave you with lots of scars that would take years of therapy. Consider signing up for my coaching program so I can help assess your situation clearly, look at all the other factors at play and see things you might have missed, then guide you accordingly on a regular, ongoing basis at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
We just ended the lease together 😔 was sad we cried last night but no negative post on social media time to grind and focus I told her I love her and I will give her space don’t hesitate to call me if need me we have a 2 year old so I have to speak that way but I don’t plan on contacting her since she wanted the break up it’s emotional but I have to deal with it and focus on my career
She will definitely come back we don’t have any physical abuse and I never raise my voice and very great financially I just lacked time love attention and I made a cheating mistake but I admitted to my wrongs and proved it which is always tough but once your honest over it you’ll also feel better and so will she if I lied with her having evidence it would’ve been nothing to come back from we can still laugh and joke but I choose not too I don’t want her as a friend and she knows it 💙
Sorry to hear that. It's going to be tougher than usual with kid/s involved and/or usually other responsibilities still tied to your ex, but it's best you do limited contact or what I call the dynamic "no contact" rule. Prepare for an uphill battle but if you play your cards right and depending on the extent of damage done, it can actually still be salvaged. Try to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be by applying the tips here as much as possible: ua-cam.com/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/dDZrnNh8LOg/v-deo.html
@@BradBrowning correct
I’m on day 2 of no contact and we don’t see each other I visit our child through her grandmother while she’s at work & I still buy my child things and took her to park
I think my no contact happened gradually and we had it on and off, only had 2
Weeks of it now we’re friends I’m her confident she adjusted and she moved on with new partner she has adapted and doesn’t miss me as much, she doesn’t want to get back with me at all.
Wait for a better time before interacting with your ex, however, don't wait around doing nothing. Take a leap of faith on a new path as well because you never know where life can take you, which may be better without your ex. Use this time to heal and prioritize yourself. But if it's been more than a year or so, make sure to check the signs if your ex has moved on, here: ua-cam.com/video/ZyJRphwDca4/v-deo.html This should help guide you on what to do for the time being: ua-cam.com/video/hlikXIfMYN8/v-deo.html However, make it a point to be really productive with your time being apart. Follow the tips here to help guide you further: ua-cam.com/video/gUBNd6pDINM/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/WVFZVqFDFV4/v-deo.html&ab_channel=BradBrowning now when the time comes where your ex is free or is constantly contacting you, check out my other videos here in UA-cam to help you with a lot of texting tips as well as when to give up trying. Good luck!
Hii Brad.. your videos are very helpful for my relationship especially no contact rule. Yesterday me and my husband brokeup with each other because of discussed about our past relationships in the fight. Initially we both shared about our pasts now it became big problem for our relationship. I can't getting how to stop digging the past. He truly loves and i do love him more but every time we got any fight, he brings the past into it. I love him a lot and want him back. He blocked me in everything after the fight 😭 and saying his ex is better than me. How can i handle this situation
Sorry to hear that. Apply the tips here: ua-cam.com/video/U9oTGnDRms4/v-deo.html but for more marriage-saving tips,check out this new channel I've dedicated solely for this purpose. Here's the link: ua-cam.com/video/dr2JTi_bCRU/v-deo.html
@@BradBrowning thank you so much Brad.. my husband contacted me after employing no contact and we are happy again
He's stuck. I will pray for you two.
Hii brad i am from south India, my Love told me breakup, she told no feeling and I a need freedom like that she told, somanany Times I begged and plead, I asked I realise my mistake please give me one chance, but she scold me, and blocked me and I speak with her friends and I asked help but she angry with me... She blocked me... Brad I loved her madly pls help I need one more chance....
You really need to stop all contact for at least 30 days and not push it. Being needy or too forceful for your ex to talk to you will only alienate them further. Here's what may going through your ex's mind and why they seem they want nothing to do with you: ua-cam.com/video/sd2Lx8uEni8/v-deo.html
Goodday Coach Brad I'm from Philippines. I have a question is there any hope of second chance even from a toxic relationship.
If it's a toxic relationship, why would you want to save it in the first place? Take time to see how you contributed to the toxicity and what changes you ought to make on your end if you want a second go at your relationship. If your ex is the one who's mostly toxic though, the change has to come from her. You can't force her to change.
No one EVER comes back. ever. no matter what. life isn’t a movie.
there’s endless videos instructing people who are just short of suicidal to put all your effort into going no content and focus on living your “best” life. if it was that effortless we’d be so happy doing it we wouldn’t have been in a relationship to begin with. im sure im the oldest person in these comments and not to be a wet blanket but i feel bad for anyone who truly believes in love , long term relationships, soulmates etc it’s 100% nonsense like jack and the beanstalk. never ever lets feelings come into the equation. that’s the second the fun is over and the hurt and pain keeps couples in a hamster wheel of resentment until it burns out and exhausts even the strongest couples
I get your point since there is such a thing as toxic positivity, which is why it's really crucial to cut off contact and give yourself that space to gain the much needed clarity to see if the relationship is worth fighting for and if there's a real chance at saving it. However, the tips on how to do it to get the maximum chance of it happening and turning into your favour is what my channel is about. It's never about leading down a path where there's no real future. And it all starts with you, with the clarity you receive during no contact and with time to re-evaluate your relationship. Best of luck!
Hi Brad, what would you recommend I say if she asks if I’m saying these things /doing these tactics in order to win her back?
Just shrug it off. What's important is how you play your cards right. Don't get into another useless argument with her about it. Drama is the last thing you need right now.
I was distant was not emotionally(6 months) available to her for my personal reasons:)
She made a new bf trash talking about me jus remember bad times picking up so much old topics and even blocked cuz of her new bf I dint beg jus said god bless you our last conversation was fun I joked about my situation in the end she said his new bf is saying to block me . it's been 3 weeks idk applying no contact but I have no hope of getting her back 🙂 I am not sure I want her back of not jus explain her my personal reasons I know it won't change her decision idk what to do🙂 express/play mind games idk 😭
Have faith bro❤️
Six months is a long time to be away though. Wait for a better time before interacting with your ex, however, don't wait around doing nothing. Take a leap of faith on a new path as well because you never know where life can take you, which may be better without your ex. Use this time to heal and prioritize yourself. But if it's been more than a year or so, make sure to check the signs if your ex has moved on, here: ua-cam.com/video/ZyJRphwDca4/v-deo.html This should help guide you on what to do for the time being: ua-cam.com/video/hlikXIfMYN8/v-deo.html However, make it a point to be really productive with your time being apart. Follow the tips here to help guide you further: ua-cam.com/video/gUBNd6pDINM/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/WVFZVqFDFV4/v-deo.html&ab_channel=BradBrowning now when the time comes where your ex is free or is constantly contacting you, check out my other videos here in UA-cam to help you with a lot of texting tips as well as when to give up trying. Good luck!
@@BradBrowning sir please tell if I go to her place to meet her?she thinks I am unemotional should I show her emotions? please tell
My ex left without telling me the reason but I still love her what to do to bring her back it's been 2 months she left me i want her back so what to do
Once you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule and assuming you did it correctly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: ua-cam.com/video/XonMtLFo000/v-deo.html but make sure you tick off the checklist here first: ua-cam.com/video/BAhMrmw3Sms/v-deo.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html Good luck!
Hey Brad, I’m currently in a break up right now and trust me it hurts so much, My ex and I dated for one year and recently we were celebrating our one year anniversary and 3days later we broke up. She said that she couldn’t deal with me anymore and that I was too much for her, so she decided to end things with me. I just couldn’t imagine that what I had with her would end, it never came in my mind really , since I really thought we were truly meant for each other. And we really believed we were meant for each other she even got a tattoo of my name on her left arm. I really loved her so much, I tried to get back with her but she said no. I begged her for four straight days that I will change and I was so willing to do whatever she wants, but she said no. She even blocked me on social media and also calls and texts. It really hurts me a lot. I don’t want to loose her I want to make things right, but she blocked me every where. I still believe that one day we’ll get back together
Is it possible? And what do I do?
PLEASE HELP ME 😩
I’m in a break up week 3? I think and dude..give her space let her miss you..that’s what im doing but we live together..
Give it time and don't make the mistakes people make to sabotage stuff. I say generally it's still fair game unless you see most if not all the signs that your ex is over you. Here's the vid: ua-cam.com/video/ZyJRphwDca4/v-deo.html and especially if those signs prevail over a prolonged period of time. If you're asking about your chances, I really wish I could give you a direct yes or no. However, as it is, each situation is unique, so I suggest you take the free quiz as it hits on the critical elements that will determine your chances depending on your answers. In other words, my quiz can give you a more accurate answer than I can since as you may have noticed, there are various factors at play here which needs to be looked at as well as your own actions after the breakup. Here's the link: www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Best of luck!
My situation is a little weird. My boyfriend and I patched up after 2 months. But however he wasn't talking properly. He kept saying he that he was busy and had a lot going on. I got pissed off because this went for over a month. I was the one who always called. He says he will call but never. Whenever I confronted him he says he wants to be left alone, that I'm rude and not understanding. He also said he doesn't want to talk to me. I lashed out at him and started no contact. He didn't respond to my lashing out also. I sent an apology mail realizing my mistakes coz I feel like I was not understanding and little rude with him coz he wasn't talking properly. I don't know if we are broken up or not. Coz he never said anything clearly. His responses were always ambiguous- leave me alone, I love u too but I'm busy, y are u talking to me like this, I don't want to talk to u etc. pls tell me if we are broken up or not? Coz this situation is really confusing.
Let him know how his behaviour is affecting you and the relationship but also keep in mind that you're basically starting from scratch with hopefully the two of you being the better version of yourselves, so don't expect for things to get back to normal right away. There's bound to be an adjustment period so try to chill, okay? Sorry but I would need more info to help you deduct what's happening. You can work with me one-on-one so I get to learn more about the situation and therefore be more equipped to help you out, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
I've been in no contact for about 9 days now. And he has already messaged me but I didn't reply. Should I confront him (which I've done previously but didnt get the correct response) or continue with no contact and wait for him to clear his head?
I started the no content strategy she text me and I refused to reply her message for 2 days now and she blocked me I just hope am on the right side 😢😢
Unless your situation falls under one or more of the scenarios here: ua-cam.com/video/ek_4wpkV66c/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/W7iC-gHmZ2A/v-deo.html it's best you ignore contact from your ex. If your ex continues to reach out to you during the no contact stage, however, then this really depends on the frequency and nature of the contact from your ex and whether or not you've reached the phase where you're supposed to be talking again. The only exception is if your ex asks for you back and is sincere about it. If your ex continually messages you, then it’s important to put your ex’s messages into context, more so if this happened during the “no contact” phase. Is your ex trying to contact you about something really important, like an emergency, unpaid bills, or something equally urgent? These are reasons to respond, including messages where they get angry due to your lack of response. Discussed that in full detail here: ua-cam.com/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/v-deo.html So if your ex is really just texting some useless random stuff and/or asses their power over you, then you can just ignore and continue on with the 30-day "no contact" rule. Use your discretion. Watch and follow the tips here: ua-cam.com/video/bgOG9s1fac8/v-deo.html
Hi Bard. She contacted me after no contact, for the first 2 weeks she's acting distant and kinda mixed messages. But start from this week she instantly becomes so positive to me, like all of sudden she talks to me like we did before, jokes around, and even sends me 50s of the voice message about her life. I can see her tone and emotion is so uplifting now that gives me a sense of unreal and worry. What sign can this be, like 5 days ago she nearly respond to my message and was very cold. And I feel it's still hard to have a breakthrough at the moment because I don't know when it's a good time to suggest back together. Thank you
And these 4 days she reached out to me every day. I didn't say hello but she usually texts me first at night
That kind of behaviour coming from your ex is somewhat expected after a breakup. That's why you ought to give it enough time where there's totally no contact between you and your ex for at least 30 days. A wide array of different emotions coming from an ex is somewhat expected when a breakup is still fresh and this includes the likelihood of your ex giving you mixed or weird signals. Watch this: y2u.be/siApAVtx8zE This is why I tell people to cut off contact for at least a month first and NOT deal with this ex. You both need to clear your minds first, all right? A breakup hurts both people in it regardless of who has done the breaking up. This is something I've discussed here, so watch it to learn a few tips to help you on how to go about it: ua-cam.com/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/v-deo.html
How can you apply no contact rule when the one you’re dating is back with his ex?
I really hate to burst your bubble here but let him finish whatever unfinished business he has with this ex. Sorry, but there's not much you can do at this point, especially if your relationship only lasted a short while and more so if he’s seemingly (subconsciously or not) used you as a rebound, for your ex to jump back too quickly with her. Good luck and I hope you find the right guy for you soon!
@@BradBrowning thanks Brad!
I broke up with him no contact since March 2,2022 and reached out tonight told him I was just checking on him he told me I'm fine I wouldn't shed a tear if you died tomorrow 😢 💔 😔 now I'm at a lost he did text me March 30 and I never responded..dropped all his stuff off on April 4th realize our issues maybe can be fixed he hasn't blocked me on social media and is accusing me off being with others..told.me not to bother him and said I woke him up he's angry unlike him
Is there anything in particular that he should be angry about though? Like, have you cheated or anything? This vid may be for you: ua-cam.com/video/PN-07kAtIjw/v-deo.html
Would sending happy memory photos be a good or bad idea? Thanks
Wait until you're in good rapport with your ex after doing the "no contact" rule.
Hey Brad, I’m in a bad situation, my girlfriend broke up with me 3 weeks ago, im trying to use no contact, but today i saw an Instagram story of her with another guy. “The guy she told me not to worry about”, I dont know if i shoukd continue no contact or if i should break it. Looking forward to your advice.
Continue the "no contact" rule indeed. Apply the tips here: ua-cam.com/video/4Qe-4A-CpVY/v-deo.html
I failed no contact when wee first split because she wouldn't actually tell me that she didn't want to be with me. It also didn't help that she has a friend that is hell bent on making my ex actually hate me and to isolate her social life. I have told her before that her friends were toxic and are only around when our relationship was in a rut, and I feel as though that her friend manipulated her into planning our breakup. I came to that conclusion because both times that we have split up she was behind her smiling at me while my heart was being broken and my Ex cannot see that she isn't a good person at heart, and that she is only around to make me seem like a terrible person. Is there any way to help her realize that and she was the reason we broke up?
Give it time. You can't force it, though. Watch this: ua-cam.com/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/v-deo.html Anyway that kind of behaviour coming from your ex is somewhat expected after a breakup. That's why you ought to give it enough time where there's totally no contact between you and your ex for at least 30 days. A wide array of different emotions coming from an ex is somewhat expected when a breakup is still fresh and this includes the likelihood of your ex giving you mixed or weird signals. Watch this: y2u.be/siApAVtx8zE This is why I tell people to cut off contact for at least a month first and NOT deal with this ex. You both need to clear your minds first, all right? A breakup hurts both people in it regardless of who has done the breaking up. This is something I've discussed here, so watch it to learn a few tips to help you on how to go about it: ua-cam.com/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/v-deo.html
What about if he has a female friend/roommate who does all the things I did? Example camping hiking travel but nothing sexual or physical touch
Try to put your focus elsewhere (best to put focus back to yourself) because your ex is likely rebounding and you're only wasting precious minutes of your life worrying about something that's out of your control. If anything, your ex is suffering, too, even though it may not seem like it. Discussed that here: ua-cam.com/video/7KE6nb4-ndA/v-deo.html Watch this, too: ua-cam.com/video/TBtb34gy6zw/v-deo.html This should hopefully get you back on track with what you ought to be doing during this time: ua-cam.com/video/obBIttQSak4/v-deo.html
@@kevinbrown3619 I'm interested in what you have to say.
Surely if I send him the good reminder message eg the example you mentioned he'd think that I still want to be with him and I'm not over him...wouldn't that be something not to do? Shouldn't the goal be to seem like you're not focused on getting them back, so reminiscing on romantic memories would give him the wrong signal
The purpose is to rebuild attraction. Obviously this isn't something you'd sporadically say when you're only trying to break the ice with your ex. Rather the good reminder message is something to be inserted when you've already established good rapport with your ex. If you're only trying to reach out, apply the tips here instead: ua-cam.com/video/jka4S6syZPs/v-deo.html
Hi Brad I've been with my girlfriend for 6 months I'm 15 years old she also goes to my school and she recently broke up with me and I'm not really to sure what to do. if you could help me towards this that would be awesome :)
Check out my other vids but as a reminder, try not to take things too seriously at this time. Focus on your studies, buddies and video games and stuff as you (and your ex) still have a lot to learn when it comes to love. Trust me, you'll thank me later! :-)
My girlfriend broke up with me and she's already dating someone else will these tricks work?!:((
? What about if my ex started dating someone else n I give him no contact what is going to happen do i still have the chance to get him back me
Hi Brad, me and my ex have been messing around since 6 or 7 year's but we been staying together for 3 and I'm the one that brought him and his mom back together with each other and also 3 of his kids also back into his life because the baby ma before will not let them come over and I think all I did and more for him to do me the way he do soon I told him to get his stuff and leave cause of a bad argument he went to this girl who is younger than him I believe him and her has this plan and he had been talking to her for it to be this easy for him to move with her. So what do I need to do
As a relationship coach, I'd like to be as objective and unbiased as possible but you're right. If he move in almost immediately after the breakup, chances are they're already talking behind your back. I'm sorry. I know this isn't easy to hear but if you need my help in getting through this and how to best deal with it, I need to know more information. So I recommend you sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Take care!
Me and my ex broke up a little over 3 months ago and since then we had tried being friends and while trying to be friends she tells me to leave then other times says she still wants me in her life. What should I do?
Don't do it, man. She's lost attraction for you and it's a terrible idea to be friends with her. You need to cut off contact for at least 30 days first. It looks like you haven't done that yet? Silence is key and here's why: ua-cam.com/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/v-deo.html If you continue being friends right away, the boundaries won't be clear and you're technically both free to date other people. Wouldn't it be pure torture if your ex dates a rebound in front of you because you're only "friends" now, don't you think? So it’s not a good idea, especially if you want this ex back. Watch these two videos so you’ll know why being friends won’t lead you anywhere you wanna be with your ex and how to get out of this trap, respectively at ua-cam.com/video/pv_cjzhVKAY/v-deo.html and ua-cam.com/video/sS4V4IOcOgs/v-deo.html but read my Ex Factor Guide since that’s much more detailed and so you'll know how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total), including what to say, do or not do, along with bonus materials for texting. Good luck!
Thanks Brad, I have been watching all your videos. I separated from my ex about a month ago and I miss him more than anything in the world. My ex said that he needed space to get ever me because it was too painful so I k now he misses me, however he said he didn't want to see me for 6 to 12 months and he's blocked me on messenger and texts so how do I contact him? I will follow the rule for no contact for next 30 days. I am worried he won't want me back as he had jealousy issues and told me not to contact him and he hasn't contacted me at all. No one was unfaithful and we were together about 4 yrs I am devastated.
Unless you've done something really epic to mess things up or really hurt your ex, there's no reason to worry as much, really, because it could be due to the top 3 reasons I've stated on this vid: y2u.be/fjtv90o9bkI Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication or have no mutual friends. More about that on here: ua-cam.com/video/5UT92IB5ugs/v-deo.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : ua-cam.com/video/D1GpR5MApQk/v-deo.html Good luck!
Hello Brad
Love the videos! Top man!
Quick question:
I broke up with gf 2 & half months ago for slapping me in my face then I came back to try talk things through and 2 months ago whilst at my ex girlfriends, my ex girlfriend called the cops on me whilst I gained access in her house and she had me done for harassment and burglary, when the cops come I said to my ex girlfriend 'THIS IS GOODBYE NOW THEN" and the charges were dropped by the police due to insufficient evidence...
I have not heard or seen anything of ex girlfriend for 2 months now mate
Brad is this relationship completely officially over now mate?
Thank you
This sounds like a very abusive relationship, man. Are you sure this is something you wanted to pursue? What did you do to cause her to slap you? Gaining access to her house also seems vague. Did you just drop by and let yourself in when no one's home? I'm sorry, I could be way off... but there’s lots of missing pieces here for me to deduct anything, so consider signing up for my coaching program instead so I can look into your situation more clearly and figure out what's going on, then guide you on a regular basis at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
I thought there's no contact? Why message your ex then? It's contradicting Brad
No it's not. The no contact rule is supposed to last for only 30 days. Obviously the message comes AFTER that phase. I have numerous videos explaining this and here's one: y2u.be/7JtmVbDkblw
He not coming back to me he moved in with his rebound and messing with more ppl
At least that provides the clarity for you. The path's clear for you to move on. Take all your time to heal from this. Take care!
What if your ex contacts you through the no contact period but is still very angry and is sending angry messages. What does this mean?
It means your ex could be testing you. This vid is for you: y2u.be/Pm_10BKVsfA
my ex broke up with me for a overseas military man that she wants to marry... we spent several months after the break up as friends with bennefits.. sex with me while thinking of her military man.. she re-broke up with me last month.. and these days has another friends with bennefits... while still getting gift cards for her military man.. so I highly doubt I would ever get her back.. sometimes not sure if I want that used area.. back
Definitely think things over first. But if it reached that point where it took a serious turn with that new person, it's usually best to let go and move on. Anything past 6 months should be your clue to move on from this and give yourself the chance to receive and give that love to someone better, someone who deserves it.
Who else is really nervous for when the 30 day no contact is over ? I hope I give the perfect message.
Try not to overthink stuff. Best of luck!
I rang my ex’s friend (who I used to be friends with also before the breakup) to get someone’s number. My ex happened to be with this friend ( I had no idea of this) and he picked up the call because his friend was driving...why didn’t he just ignore the call and let it ring out? Did he want to hear my voice or am I overthinking 😩
You're overthinking...which is never a good thing if you're the one being dumped. Doing so is like choosing to go down that rabbit hole. Watch this as well as the tips I've given on what to do here: ua-cam.com/video/sJg4udwCS90/v-deo.html
my relationship is long distance how am I supposed to do the reattraction?
Sorry to hear that. The distance will always be a major culprit. Is this long distance scenario temporary? Because if it isn't, then may be as good as over. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: ua-cam.com/video/GQY4N04uvtA/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/5nfWRJRrnAs/v-deo.html However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let's take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
@@BradBrowning it's temporary she'll be here in June for 3 months