How To Recover After Begging For Your Ex Back?
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- Опубліковано 20 жов 2024
- Need to learn how to reverse the damage after you’ve begged your ex for a second chance? This is the video for you... I'll explain why you STILL HAVE HOPE!
...and I'll share what begging does to your ex, how to reverse the damage you've done, and what to do next to get your ex to come back to you. If you've done any kind of pleading or begging with your ex since the breakup, and you still want them back... watch to the end. And please subscribe. :-)
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As always you give the best advice when needed the most. Thank you Brad for the great work you are doing ❤
You're welcome, Alina! Glad you found it helpful! Thanks for the support… please like and subscribe if you haven’t already: ua-cam.com/users/bradbrowning”
Am going through this right now.i begged him the past 2days only for him to reject me and blue ticking me.
I really needed to hear this
I broke the no contact rule and reached out countless times and he showed no interest. But now I want to go on no contact without expecting anything in return. We’ve got this ladies ❤
It's never a good idea to break the "no contact" rule. It's really tough but yes, do your best to work on yourself. Just take note of the mistake most people make here so you won't be making them: ua-cam.com/video/1cBpNrDDHnw/v-deo.html Also don’t wait for this person to have an epiphany. If you want your ex back, then keep track of what you've been doing to see if it's productive or not. Here's a quick overview to hopefully help you out: ua-cam.com/video/xgR03RcU8mw/v-deo.html it's best to go by the golden rules here: ua-cam.com/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/v-deo.html Have you checked out my guide yet? It may be time to revamp your techniques. Before anything else though, take the free quiz on my website to gauge your chances of getting your ex back. Good luck!
We got this lady ❤
Let me guess… he never came back
@@IvanaGirl😂😂
Did you get him back?
Take back your power! I made the same mistake. I left him alone; also blocked him. We divorced ten years ago. Now were engaged.
That's true! Thanks for sharing your story.
How did you take back the power?
Dumb
@@robturner7024😂😂😂
I did all these begs and pleads in my break up from 5 years ago. I just broke up with my 4 years GF and even if I feel terrible and I want her back, nowadays is a HUGE NO on me repeating the mistakes from the past. Time will tell... Good luck to all of you guys, I hope all of us find that true love that will stay forever
True. Never beg. It's never attractive. The moment someone disrespects or treats you unfairly, learn to walk away. In your case, respect yourself since you've been broken up with.
did u two get back together?
hey man I am going through the same stuff, just wondering how did it go?
I’ve tried every good advice that exists. And yes: the first time of going no contact worked. She even controlled my steps, being afraid (for no reason) I might be seeing another woman, making me feel guilty at the moments I wasn’t able to pick up the phone immediately (and as a result me trying to call her back asap to take away her worries).
I showed my understanding because I know she is having trust issues.
Now I wish my ex would beg me to come back after again 3 months of suddenly ghosting me. (We didn’t even have a fight; even better: we had plans to go on holiday together).
Then I would have the chance to say to her: “bad luck woman, you’ve had your chances but ruined them. Now live with it”.
I’m done with being fooled around. Been way too patient with her (and maybe made it too comfortable for her that way).
Nice video, I'm still struggling with the end of my 7-year relationship. My significant other, who I considered to be the love of my life, left me a month ago, and I can't seem to shake the constant thoughts of her. Despite my efforts to bring her back into my life, nothing has worked, and I feel frustrated and hopeless. I've tried to move on, but my heart still longs for her, and I don't see myself with anyone else. I apologize for sharing this here, but I just can't seem to stop missing her.
Sorry to hear that. This may help you process or deal with the breakup accordingly: ua-cam.com/video/7zp7SFbeCRU/v-deo.html but if you find you need more guidance on how to lead a more fruitful life, get my Beat the Breakup Guide at www.beatmybreakup.com
You’re not alone buddy… 11 years gone.
Brad my 9 month girl just dumped me I'm miserable..I begged can I still get her back? Please help me
How you doing buddy, I’m going through the same thing, we going to make it
I know the feeling . My girlfriend of 6 years just called things off with me. It felt very sudden but in the end I just try to see my part in it and learn acceptance. All things that seem perfect sometimes aren’t meant to be
This video is great, i just realized i made so many mistakes during the breakup. I have learn now
Thanks! Don't be so hard on yourself though. Chalk it up to experience and be sure to take these lessons learned and use the pain to become a better person because of it. Take care!
Sadly I will admit I wasn’t the best version of myself when me and my ex were together, I said mean things, made her feel used, etc. i never saw how it truly affected her until it was to late my jokes and comments I thought were funny werent. I now realize everything I did and hope and wish her well for the future. I know my chances are cut slim to none but she didn’t deserve me at that time I was immature and couldn’t understand.
Best of luck to you. I know it’ll be hard but remember to keep living life. Love you bro
This is why it's important to take time to work on yourself and not force things. This is the best time to work on your own issues and try not to get anyone involved. Being comfortable in your own company is never a bad habit to do, so start doing it, yeah? Good luck!
I was the same way I said awful things never realize how much it hurt😢
@@matthewmcgee265same case on me my brother 😢, but now I know where my areas of improvement are.
If she hates herself for being in a relationship with you. she want give a second chance a minutes worth of thought..if she is keeping in touch and wants to remain friends, you may still have a chance..
I truly thank all the breakup coaches. Mostly brad 🖤
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I remember I was the dumper, regretted my decision she got into a rebound relationship and I begged. I had the game won but lost by begging. Do NOT beg.
That's right. Thanks for sharing your story, man.
I have had plenty of chances from my wife of 11 years. Together 15. She’s finally had enough. Now I’m devastated. No one to blame but myself. This sucks!
How was it your fault? Try to see what your chances are for saving your marriage, at www.marriageguy.com/quiz but if you need my personal opinion on this, I need to more about the situation, so consider hiring me as your coach, at www.marriageguy.com/coaching
I begged and pleaded while he was shutting me down again and and again is the only regret i have. I found these videos late.
Redo the "no contact" rule and make sure you stick to it this time. But watch this first to help manage your expectations: ua-cam.com/video/OzVymYnQFTk/v-deo.html Here's how you can tell you're doing the "no contact" rule properly: ua-cam.com/video/f7zuXk-sVsI/v-deo.html It may help to make use of the clean slate template, which is a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. Watch this: ua-cam.com/video/6K3xufEwEFg/v-deo.html The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule -- let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com
@@BradBrowning Thanks Brad !
@@2.22am did he ever come back?
If she calls it quits.. give it her ten times fold and watch how that is powerful!
Yes.
How?
Me and my gf argued 5 days ago and broke up. We love eachother and we say it almost everyday. I wasn’t putting enough effort for us and it backfired, cuz i settled and tought we’re going to be together forever, so i made that mistake. But she also said that she needs time X amount of time and when i can proof myself and pick myself up, i make myself her home again, but not now. We spent this weekend together 3 days after breakup, just to clear things and reminissing things we did and how much we love eachother and tomorrow i get back to my own place and start to elevate and level up. I’ll update everything here. I pray for myself and i pray for yall! Stay strong❤
It takes two people to put in effort so try to see if she's putting in the work as well. Otherwise resentment will only tend to build over time. But yes, give it time. You both have to process the breakup first and go through all that pain and slowly let go of the bad memories...It is a process, but this is what the "no contact" rule is for, to help both of you move forward from that pain. A reconciliation with an ex means there will be a new (thus the old relationship be considered as over) relationship between you two where the lessons of the past are taken into consideration in order to resolve it to create a better relationship in the future. Does that make sense? Give your ex time to let go of the bad memories, however, this won't happen overnight and for sure takes time, so don't rush. Follow the tips on my other vids, especially this one: ua-cam.com/video/FLeP1eRCkCk/v-deo.html Good luck!
Update
@@HueyMullen haven’t seen her since. Now i’m better and happy aswell. Damn me 5 months ago, deep times.
Update? @@LavBenehh
Same here
This was actually really cool, informative, and even inspiring.
Thank you for your kind words and support. I appreciate you!
This video is just what I needed , thanks brad❤
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Dont beg ive made this mistake twice. If you beg you need to stop.
Yes, like right away. For those who already did, I suggest you redo the "no contact" rule and make sure you stick to it this time. But watch this first to help manage your expectations: ua-cam.com/video/OzVymYnQFTk/v-deo.html Here's how you can tell you're doing the "no contact" rule properly: ua-cam.com/video/f7zuXk-sVsI/v-deo.html It may help to make use of the clean slate template, which is a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. Watch this: ua-cam.com/video/6K3xufEwEFg/v-deo.html The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule - let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com
I did alot of begging and she blocked me everywhere and almost disappeared from the face of the earth. However, 9 months later she returned but I had taken on a rebound. She has recently suggested going out for dinner when I am ready 😅😅
This means you really need to stop all contact for at least 30 days and not push it. Being needy or too forceful for your ex to talk to you will only alienate them further. Here's what may going through your ex's mind and they seem they want nothing to do with you: ua-cam.com/video/sd2Lx8uEni8/v-deo.html
9 months later? That's crazy..
My situation is complicated as her and i have an amazing son together, im a super caring and emotional person so breaking up is hard for me and yes i begged countless times for her back and shes certain its finished i hope santa can make my wishes come true this christmas :(
It's an uphill battle for sure with kid/s involved and/or usually other responsibilities still tied to your ex, but it's best you do limited contact or what I call the dynamic "no contact" rule. Prepare for things to be tough but if you play your cards right and depending on the extent of damage done, it can actually still be salvaged. Try to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be by applying the tips here as much as possible: ua-cam.com/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/dDZrnNh8LOg/v-deo.html
4.5 years later and I still miss her. Have been with plenty of other women but no one will ever fill her void. All the walls are up and blocked everywhere. The only way I could contact her would be to drive over to her house and see if she wants to talk.
Don't do that though. If she wants to open communication between you two, trust me, she will. In this case, it's really time to process the breakup and accept it's over. But no worries, I understand what you're going through. You know moving on is a tricky process and the emotions come in waves. This video is for you: ua-cam.com/video/01wvLSaS9_I/v-deo.html And if you're still having a hard time, this should help you understand why in order to understand what you're going through: ua-cam.com/video/2CakOOSwIiY/v-deo.html or get my latest e-book Beat the Breakup guide as that will help you and your mindset to evolve from the breakup and therefore become the best version of yourself. Check it out at www.beatmybreakup.com
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Bookmarking this, thanks.
This is the best video I have seen for the dumper. ❤Thank you
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my ex said that she is firm with her decision and that she doesn't give second chance. plus even if she did she said that she wouldn't feel the same. we broke up couple days ago. so give me the best advice so I could win her back. Thank you
Do damage control and don't make things worse than it already is. The only surefire way to do that is to cut off contact for at least 30 days because it really looks like she needs it. This video is for you: ua-cam.com/video/TlHkG2m5MdU/v-deo.html
This goes for both men and women.
A time apart, a breakup, recognizing the need to end a toxic or bad relationship ... it can be crucial if the love is real, and it can make the second relationship bullet-proof.
But ... and this is a game changer:
If the person who did or caused the breakup, engages in sexual intercourse with another person, there is no turning back.
Sexual intercourse is not only the most vulnerable moment between two adults but is also the strongest emotional connection.
If the person that wanted to leave, gives herself/himself to another, there is no way back.
It will never, never be forgotten or erased. And it will deteriorate any relationship.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
I don’t think this it true every one has sex, it all depends on how you made them feel sex can just be mutual
4month after break up and 3months of no contact. I’m fine but i miss her so much.
Assuming you've done the first phase properly, which is the 30-day "no contact" rule, then you should be in a position to be ready to test the waters with your ex. Here's how you can tell you're doing it correctly: y2u.be/f7zuXk-sVsI You may want to tick off the checklist here as well: y2u.be/BAhMrmw3Sms Now once you're positive you've done all that's mentioned, you can proceed to contact your ex. Start with the tips here: ua-cam.com/video/KMMv9ljdrkk/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/uN_XAgHjaFM/v-deo.html but make sure to check out my other vids for more texting tips you can send your ex or get my guide for the complete step-by-step details on how to go about it. Best of luck!
My ex came back after ghosting me for 3 months, asked me to marry her in May and in June got a job that offered a apt. and she left me haven't seen her in a month.
Sounds terrible, I'm sorry to hear that. I hope you focus on yourself and see she doesn't worth you! You worth much more than this crap❤
That's weird. Anyway an ex being flaky is obviously a sign of her losing interest but going through extremes is something else. Sorry, this is a bit too complex for me to properly respond here… please consider signing up for coaching if you want to talk at length about your situation: www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
We broke up then decided we both wanted to make it work and things were going great and then 3 days later im blocked on everything 😐...hes begged me for me before but the one time i do it he acts cold and wants nothing to do with me...
Was it his initiative to want to make it work or were you trying to convince him? That kind of behaviour coming from your ex is somewhat expected after a fresh/recent breakup. That's why you ought to give it enough time where there's totally no contact between you and your ex for at least 30 days. A wide array of different emotions coming from an ex is somewhat expected when a breakup is still fresh and this includes the likelihood of your ex giving you mixed or weird signals. Watch this: y2u.be/siApAVtx8zE This is why I tell people to cut off contact for at least a month first and NOT deal with this ex. You both need to clear your minds first, all right? A breakup hurts both people in it regardless of who has done the breaking up. This is something I've discussed here, so watch it to learn a few tips to help you on how to go about it: ua-cam.com/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/v-deo.html
your videos are so awesome too watch and too learn from!!
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After our breakup I didn't contact her for 4 months. Then I contacted but she blocked me. This was when I started begging. Still she blocked me from everywhere. I stopped contacting again. 2 months later tried again, she ignored me totally. The same thing happened few more times. It's been a complete year now, I've been giving her breaks but everytime I return she is the same. She just completely ignores my messages and when I try to call she blocks me. I don't want to beg but this desperation automatically leads to something similar to begging. I don't know what to do now, I'm in a deranged mental state and I have no one to talk to. I just want her back
Hey man... really sorry, but your window of opportunity has already passed. Discussed that here: ua-cam.com/video/e3l5KWEpIpw/v-deo.html and especially if you see the signs here: y2u.be/k1myDIp0gSc but if you're having a hard time moving on from this, check out my Beat the Breakup Guide at www.beatmybreakup.com
What if she has unfollowed me on all socials and potentially blocked my number?
Try not to take it personally because that's your ex's means of coping from the breakup. Here are the most common reasons for being blocked (on social media or phone number) and my thoughts about it, including what to do: y2u.be/s52sRweJlm8 and don't forget to take the quiz if you still have questions on what to do after, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz
it hurts losing my self respect and begging someone like this. I feel like I have done everything to make him see the good in me. But he just is indifferent. He doesn't show any remorse and would not care if I am never ever contact him in life. I cry everyday thinking of him but I don't know why this person is this way towards me.
How long has it been since the breakup? It's possible it's too soon and you're forcing to be in his life when he's simply not ready to deal with you, so stop forcing things. Try to have self discipline and remember, love should never be forced. Otherwise it becomes an obsession, so be very careful of going that route. If your ex dumped you and showed you he/she doesn't want to be in your life at the moment, you ought to respect that, okay? For most dumpees that is the case. It doesn't mean that will be the case forever but at the moment, it surely is, so respect your ex's need for space and have some self discipline. Focus on yourself instead. Okay? This vid is for you: ua-cam.com/video/WVB0_l60SpM/v-deo.html
dec 2nd. I went back to my hometown. he is still staying in the school area but doesn't make attempt to call me and talk to me. He likes my stories in instagram and asks random stuff abt school once in a few days. im worried if we could be together when I go back to school on the jan 8. I have no chance of meeting him till then. @@BradBrowning
I've been in 3 weeks of no contact, I was the one that broke up with her because she started pulling back. She popped up at my house without letting me know she was stopping by to drop off my keys. Since the breakup, i found out she's back with her ex. I've been in the gym relentlessly 💪🏾I'm feeling good and looking good 4:21
Glad to hear you're putting yourself first, man. That's absolutely the best thing you can do right now, so thanks for sharing. As to getting her back though, looking at the situation, sorry, but there's not much you can do at this point, especially if your relationship only lasted a short while and more so if she's seemingly (subconsciously or not) used you as a rebound, for your ex to jump back too quickly with him. Good luck and I hope you find the right woman for you soon!
I’ve acted insecure and kept fighting with my ex. She said she’s done and that ship has sailed
The breakup itself was already dramatic enough, so adding more drama won't really help, man. Watch this first and my other vids to help guide you: ua-cam.com/video/MroLZ7XK9gY/v-deo.html
Oh she fucking remembers. She always remembers. It’s us guys who don’t remember shit. That’s half the problem.
...ive been dumped by my girlfriend of over 11 years - i gave her everything, was everything to her...we had a beautiful life, living in a beautiful mountain home that my Father and I built together...sure, we were a little codependent, but it was great...
our home was destroyed by a mudslide a year ago...we lived in hotels and finally in her mother's house...her mother hates me, and was abusive to my girlfriend when she was a child...she encouraged her daughter to dump me, and she has...she even has a new guy, and it kills me...i need her back, ive invested my whole life into a future with her...i love her
Hi there! Why does her mother hate you? Although I'd like to offer a tip or two, there's simply too many elements to your situation that makes this too complex for me to properly respond here… please consider signing up for coaching if you want to talk at length about your situation: www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
How to do no contact with my ex-wife, if a have a daughter with her, and have to occasionally see her or talk to her?? Always watch these videos, they are amazing, comforting and helpful, keep up the good work, thank you,
If you're hellbent on trying to work things out, let me just set expectations that it's a tough battle for sure with kid/s involved and/or usually other responsibilities still tied to your ex, but it's best you do limited contact or what I call the dynamic "no contact" rule. Prepare for things to be tough but if you play your cards right and depending on the extent of damage done, it can actually still be salvaged. Try to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be by applying the tips here as much as possible, in addition to my newer vids I've posted: ua-cam.com/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/dDZrnNh8LOg/v-deo.html
Me and my ex broke up 2 days ago i begged and pleaded him but he said he can’t forget what i did to him but we can be friends, talk whole day and he will call everyday , i feel like ending my life now 💔
What did you do to him? Being friends isn't exactly a good idea. Listen to what I've discussed here first: ua-cam.com/video/pv_cjzhVKAY/v-deo.html
The mistake I made was to send her a farewell letter. Since then I broke the contacts and never heard from her back.
Nothing too drastic or dramatic moves any more please.
We lived together for 4 months after the breakup, so i did a lot to get her back. But we went into no contact for 8 long ass months. She reached out recently, kinda put me back into a crazy mental state. It was kinda bitter sweet to hear her voice. I loved hearing it but hearing it bc I can't hear it like i use to
Tried "a lot" including begging? Because that would absolutely dwindle your chances. Anyway getting an ex back is a gradual process, so there's no one-action solution for this. Okay? The "no contact" phase is a good start, so do that first if you haven’t yet, for 30 days. If you have, then I'm glad you've completed it. There are two more phases to go with a few other steps in between (in the right order). What I'm trying to say here is it's a 3-phase process, and it's a bit complicated to explain it all on here, but I made an overview in the hopes of making people understand, so watch it here: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html or read my guide for the entire process. Good luck!
fuck I did all this shit, it's still fairly fresh, a month into the break up but I'm worried that I already fucked it up
Just do damage control at the moment and try not to make the situation worse than it already is. Send the clean slate text as mentioned and try to be patient.
What if, when she brought things up, your emotions shut down a bit and was a little cold in the situation and both of us saying "theres nothing we can do, if this is it, then this is it." And a few days have gone by and you ask her to talk about what had happened, and she never replied
The thing is, nobody but both of you can figure out what it is you're truly feeling. The same goes for your ex, too. If you ain't feeling it anymore or if the relationship has ran its course, then it's best to give each other space and clear your head first because you're obviously both torn about how to proceed somehow? This may help: ua-cam.com/video/QPJprJuf-iU/v-deo.html
Thank you for your video. It really helped me connect to reality and the real situation I am in, instead of being in denial of my boyfriend’s break up with me. Will these methods work even if he broke up with me saying he still loves me as much, but doesn’t see a future, and needs time to himself?
You're welcome! Following the tips will be your best shot at turning things around with your ex. It largely depends on the situation, however, on why your ex thinks there's no future with you so try to see the role you played on why your relationship took a nosedive as well. Whatever the case is, be sure to give each other time and space to think clearly. All right? Since your situation may be unique, I think you can benefit by working with me one-on-one so I get to learn more about the situation and therefore be more equipped to help you out, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
Any updates? Does he still feel the same?
This situation i have is kinda hard... She is pulling away, we arent even boyfriend and girlfriend, but we did have some exclusivities, but it came to a point i gave too much power. The bad part is we are at a cram school, and i think one of us might get on a college somewhere this year. The exams will come at the end of the year, so i dont think i have too much time for this process. With this said, i dont have much time to "live life" as i need to study all time, with the few breaks that were used with her on the times she came back. Perhaps my way to show "i am improving" is Just going to the gym more frequently, getting the best haircut and showing on the simulated exams that i am focused on my Carrier, which i actually should be doing right now instead of getting her. I already am kinda ahead than most of the colleagues, so by getting at least top 5 on every test might show her i am still standing, i am not affected.
Looking at your situation, it doesn't look like a relationship should take priority in your life right now. You're busy, and rightfully so...and so is your ex. Work on your own lives first and the rest will likely fall into place once you get that part sorted.
So if you've begged and pleaded and attempted suicide in front of them during the breakup theres pretty much no chance in getting them back?
For most people, that would be the straw the breaks the camel's back while others have more tolerance, especially if they know you. If you're asking about your chances, I really wish I could give you a direct yes or no. However, as it is, each situation is unique and things aren't often black and white, I suggest you take the free quiz as it hits on the critical elements that will determine your chances depending on your answers. In other words, my quiz can give you a more accurate answer than I can since as you may have noticed, there are various factors at play here which needs to be looked at as well as your own actions after the breakup. Here's the link: www.breakupbrad.com/quiz or sign up for my coaching program so I could take a closer look at what your situation and guide you accordingly at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Best of luck!
I had a real good friend of mine how to relationship with his girlfriend for 3 years. She all
suddenly stop talking to him. She said she needed her space he took it really hard. So hard that he went into his parents garage and put an end to his life. With a gun.. now everybody hates her for not communicating and talking it out with him. She's been threatened to the point, where she needs counseling. She basically caused a person that she supposedly loved. To kill himself with a gun. The moral of the story of this is. Some people should watch other people's feelings and what they do because they never know what the consequence is going to be. Now she has to live with the rest of her life that she caused a person to commit suicide
Such a tragic story. Sorry to hear that. Most breakups do end abruptly and often with one person ghosting the other. That's just the reality of life. I think some other factor played into this though; mental illness shouldn't be downplayed. Was your friend showing signs of depression? He would've been all right if he got the help he needed during the time because believe it or not, breakups happen all the time, man! I should know because I've been a relationship coach for the past decade.
I did the exact opposite. Everytime he reached out to me, I responded with anger. Don't know if that can be fixed. He's now blocked me and won't speak at all.
This isn't really a concerning issue, at least initially, unless you've done something really epic to mess things up or really hurt your ex, there's no reason to worry as much, really, because it could be due to the reasons I've stated on this vid: y2u.be/s52sRweJlm8 So give it time. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication or have no mutual friends. More about that on here: ua-cam.com/video/5UT92IB5ugs/v-deo.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : ua-cam.com/video/D1GpR5MApQk/v-deo.html Good luck!
I begged him so much to i disrespected myself so much. I have to respect myself now
That's right!
We broke up 2days back and the reason was that, I still had a lot of female interactions inspite of being in a relationship. Should I talk to her once more face to face or should I keep no contact? I really love her so much
Did you get a chance to explain what these women are to you? Try that first but don't push it if she's closed off. Also what's the nature of your conversation with these women? Sorry, this is a bit too complex for me to properly respond here… please consider signing up for coaching if you want to talk at length about your situation: www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
My situation is this, my ex broke up with me, i tried so hard to beg her and make things work but she didn’t give me a chance. The weird thing about this is that she still loves me and still wants to talk to me. She texts and calls me literally everyday but she’s doesn’t want us to get back together
Redo the "no contact" rule and make sure you stick to it this time. But watch this first to help manage your expectations: ua-cam.com/video/OzVymYnQFTk/v-deo.html Here's how you can tell you're doing the "no contact" rule properly: ua-cam.com/video/f7zuXk-sVsI/v-deo.html It may help to make use of the clean slate template, which is a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. Watch this: ua-cam.com/video/6K3xufEwEFg/v-deo.html The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule -- let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com
My ex said we were trying too hard for this and that loving me wasn’t enough anymore. I begged and offered a compromise that I come live with her for the week and now I’m not sure what to do to win her back. We’re long distance btw.
Is she open to the idea? If she isn't, then chances are she's losing interest... especially if there hasn't been an established long term plan to bridge the physical gap for good.
Hi and I hope this reaches out to you; my situation is a bit unique but I’m sure others were in my shoes. I was in a 5-6 relationship with my ex who also is the mother of my child who I love oh so much… but I also have some regrets and wish to work things out with my ex. Any advice or videos you can recommend?
Here's a quick overview on the stages and what needs to happen first: ua-cam.com/video/7JtmVbDkblw/v-deo.html but if you have a unique situation, consider hiring me as your coach where we can discuss your relationship problems in-depth, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
We broke up 3 months ago, it wasn't a clear break at first but I spammed her with my thoughts about fixing the situation, we both made the situation worse.
Eventually she went no contact and ghosted me for 2 weeks then messaged again but it was rude and turned into an argument.
I went no contact for 2 weeks but the situation has had a bad effect snd i tried hanging myself, we spoke well for a week or so but she just tells me that we're over and can be friends and she prefers being alone, which sent me into an awful display of crying and asking what if i work on myself.
We were together 2 years but the fact i have bipolar made me appear unstable, ive told her she chose to leave me so we can't speak anymore and im going to work on my mental health and that if she has a change of heart in future to contact me.
I've got an appointment about medication tomorrow and therapy starts on the 29th.
She still loves me and has made it clear
Focus and work on yourself the moment you get dumped. As a relationship coach of 15 years, I can guarantee you: negotiating a breakup is something that will get you nowhere with your ex really fast, so really, your most viable option would be to give her AT LEAST 4-6 weeks of total silence. I know how painful a breakup can be, I've witnessed it both in the past and in my own clients, but the best way to get your ex back is to take care of yourself first and get your emotional and mental health back into full gear. Awareness is key, so at least you're halfway there! :-) These changes take time to work though, so put your relationship in the back burner first just so you can really take time to really tend to your own issues first with the help of the professionals you're already talking to, okay? If you need someone to talk to, you can also hire me as your coach and let's see what your next best move is, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Take care!
Hello coach brad , I accidentally broke no contact with my ex after 6 months and I believe i may have shown little excitement when i heard her voice , do you have video of what should i do now ? , I don’t want to waste all the work because of a mistake
You're not breaking the no contact rule if it's already been 6 months from the breakup because the no contact rule is only supposed to last for 30 days straight. After that, you're supposed to reach out and test the waters...instead of waiting for months on end. Anyways since it's been many months since the breakup, it's best to consider the facts I've mentioned here first as this lets you determine whether there's still a real shot or not: ua-cam.com/video/YVViZmY2x0I/v-deo.html and/or take the free quiz at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
@@BradBrowning thank you so much for replying coach brad , i will watch those videos and think about the next move
Never begged her at all, just texted her "Hey, how's goin?" After 4 days of no contact, just to be ghosted and ignored, fun
The no contact is supposed to last 30 days and not 4 days. In other words, you're not supposed to be reaching out yet because yes, you're likely to be ignored. Watch this to help understand what your ex goes through during the breakup process: ua-cam.com/video/dqnqGWOk9NA/v-deo.html
Tnak u brad ,still expecting more breakup 😢 videos from u ,to get ex back
Stay tuned as I post regularly. Please hit the bell notification icon to make sure you get notified everytime a new video pops up. Good luck!
Definitely brad ,i watch all ur videos regularly,and I gets a big hope ....
Your videos are helpful, but I am having a hard time finding advice on what to do if I am forced to continue to live with my ex? I am still very much in love after about a month, and want to repair the relationship! If anyone has advice or resources please help, and no moving out is not an option unfortunately.
It's a different set of rules if you live together. Do limited contact with your ex where you only discuss the essentials. Apply the tips here, too to help you out further: y2u.be/thVReUI9Vzs AND y2u.be/STL7ru4uSQk I know it's hard, but lots of folks have managed to follow the tips and succeeded. So if they can do it, then so can you! Good luck and be strong!
Our relationship was amazing until she got sick the year I was going to propose.
17 months we was in limbo. I showed up as her man and she kept pushing me away. It started to affect me.
Then the arguments got bad. I ended up going homeless. Then it hit the fan. I was full out going off. Messed up the relationship with her family and stormed out.
I did apologize to the family and her. Everyone accepts it but we still aren’t together. I asked, begged her to work this out, and typically offered better treatment but principalities were crossed. - this went on for a month.
I finally just gave her space. Man she disrespected me in all kinds of ways. Manhood and value hits.
Conclusion:
I know she’ll be in my DMs and texts and as much as i love her, that disrespect she gave during my homelessness and during my phase of trying to fix our ish will keep me away from her.
Hey man, sorry to hear that. How sick did she get and how has it affected the relationship? More importantly, is she recovering now? Although I'd like to offer a tip or two, there's simply too many elements to your situation that makes this too complex for me to properly respond here… please consider signing up for coaching if you want to talk at length about your situation: www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
@@BradBrowning honestly. She’s good.
And I’m ok with walking away to become a better man.
Though I will keep your offer in mind. Right now I’m happy with knowing I have the capacity to love -> based on the Bible and love -> like a man.
I wish you explain more instead of just saying types of begging. I just stay silent now.
If you explain with more details what we should do more then it means that you really help us
I did. The advice on what the next steps are are all laid out towards the latter part of the video where I gave at least 5 tips. Please watch in full so you won't miss out on any tips!
Brad you are a great guy
Thank you for your kind words!
I did the same 😢 I asked for another chance but he is too cold now that he doesn't react anymore! No response! Its so painful and I don't want to do it anymore, I'm done!
I am experiencing the same thing, I pretty much tried everything under the sun and all of the begging things I probably shouldnt have done but did anyways. Ice cold is the term forsure. So painful every waking moment. I am right there with you.
It's important not to do that any more than you already have. By begging, it shows how you're not respecting your ex's need for space and time at the moment. Can't you see? In other words, you're making it hard for your ex to be attracted to you again. Your best bet is still to cut off contact completely for around a month or even more in order to clear your heads. You'd increase your chances of getting your ex back if you've got your sh*t together than if you were doing the opposite of the no contact rule which is begging/pleading or negotiating/trying to woo your ex again. Well, there are a few rare who take their exes back if you beg/plead but it hardly ever lasts since these people are taking their exes back out of pity. So my point is, don't let your ex take you back out of pity, all right? Here are 5 keys you need to remember when it comes to this: ua-cam.com/video/eZ6niCLUU6E/v-deo.html The best way to avoid that is to work on yourself and get your life together by having fun, hobbies, etc. and to stop chasing your ex. I've made numerous videos about the "no contact" rule and why it's important. Check those out. Also watch the stories here and try not to be a statistic: ua-cam.com/video/1U_IOm8ofFo/v-deo.html
@@carlya4848 Hey, I hope you are feeling well again, please stay strong, it's been two days that I'm feeling better again. Some nights, I see him in my dream and wake up and cannot sleep but yesterday, I tried to do sports and it really made me feel better. My suggestion is try to move on without any expectations and live your life fully! We will never be in this age anymore 🧡
@@BradBrowning thank you Brad for your reply, I have not contacted him anymore and I'm regaining my self respect again 😊
@dejavous_diaries did he contact?
I don’t need anyone back, all I need is to feel good about myself which I am not after begging and folding my hand in front of him to not leave because we had a 7 years of relationships. Now I don’t need my ex back, I want to feel good about myself but that last day still haunts me all the time and I am unable to accept how much I have been disrespected, abused and why did I adjust. How can I heal from that trauma mentally because I have lost my self respect even in front of myself only
Sorry to hear that. If it's any consolation, what you've done was actually a normal reaction and most people have done it. This is why majority of my videos on the channel mentions the importance of the 30-day "no contact" rule. I think you ought to process what happened and learn from it so you can start to heal from it and do better next time. Learn to forgive yourself as well for not having known better, yeah? 7 years is also a while to be spending with someone. I suggest you get my Beat the Breakup e-book. I made sure it takes a wholesome approach so everyone can relate to it (including spirituality) and I spent a lot of time writing this and have given it careful thought, so I guarantee you'll find something useful in it to help you out. Check it out at www.beatmybreakup.com Take care!
@@BradBrowning thanks brad, right now I am just thinking how much I have changed and sacrificed myself to be with him, no doubt he also did the same but in process of fixing our relationship, it affected his business, his terms with his family, his physical and mental health, I believe their is a lot of resentment inside us for each other individually but I don’t doubt that he doesn’t love me. He loved me the most but I believe due to everything got jeopardised due to fixing this relationship, he started pointing fingers at me, he had a very stable business but now he is in debt because he said he couldn’t concentrate on other things because he was keeping every single thing aside to fix things between us, now he said in the last conversation “within 6 months I ll fix everything i messed up” but in the process he abused me a lot, even looking to his condition, his father also got affected and started psychiatrist counselling and he use to blame me for that too. He just lost all hope in the end and said I give up
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I begged my girlfriend for 4 years and thats what kept us together. She took me back everytime. What did end up happening is she got all the power and began seeing me as a second class citizen to her. Now im under a no contact order from the police so cant communicate anymore. Begging works but it is a ticking time bomb.
Begging rarely works, if at all. By begging, it shows how you're not respecting your ex's need for space and time at the moment. Can't you see? In other words, you're making it hard for your ex to be attracted to you again. Your best bet is still to cut off contact completely for around a month or even more in order to clear your heads. You'd increase your chances of getting your ex back if you've got your sh*t together than if you were doing the opposite of the no contact rule which is begging/pleading or negotiating/trying to woo your ex again. Well, there are a few rare who take their exes back if you beg/plead but it hardly ever lasts since these people are taking their exes back out of pity. So my point is, don't let your ex take you back out of pity, all right? Here are 5 keys you need to remember when it comes to this: ua-cam.com/video/eZ6niCLUU6E/v-deo.html The best way to avoid that is to work on yourself and get your life together by having fun, hobbies, etc. and to stop chasing your ex. I've made numerous videos about the "no contact" rule and why it's important. Check those out. Also watch the stories here and try not to be a statistic: ua-cam.com/video/1U_IOm8ofFo/v-deo.html
This video helped me especially the comments. I have hurted my partner a couple times and he forgive me. We got okay in 2 weeks, but after that I did something that hurt him again and made him to finally leave me. I have been crying everyday hoping we will still be okay, but because he said we'd be okay if we finally part ways. I agree but I only want time and space for the both of us, so that I can't do such hurtful things anymore. I agree that it's for the both of us but I still want him back:(
I cannot even explain why I did horrible things many times to him, I wasn't the best version of myself. I do not understand myself, that's why I agreed that we won't be talking to each other anymore. But I don't want to forget him like what he wants. I just need time and space, I still want him back when the time is right. I do not want to look selfish. I regret everything of what I did. What should I do to be sure that we'll be okay like we used to?:(
Use this time and space apart to figure yourself out first. But if you're willing to change, then it can be done with a little patience and practice but a ton of discipline on your end, depending on what your issue is. Anyway since your situation may be unique, I think you can benefit by working with me one-on-one so I get to learn more about the situation and therefore be more equipped to help you out, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
Any update??
My ex is searching me again after his other relationship didn't work.He try to contact my friends and family members for returning.I leaved him for a valid reason.I feel bored about because it is like he want to block my future.He know many people who He can ask about me.I changed even where I lived because of this.
It was that bad, huh? Well, as I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you. You know your situation and your ex best. Sometimes a relationship can be salvaged and worth the save but sometimes it isn't, especially if there's cheating or some other type of abuse involved. It's your life and it's your decision.
I am starting my no contact from today 05/20/2023 let’s see after 30 days cause she already started dating a guy right after the breakup it the same guy she started hanging out with after work from my workplace but can’t hate her cause i promise her i will love you forever.. hope she will be back !!soon
Never wait around for anyone though. Watch this: ua-cam.com/video/7AgSyWZfWV4/v-deo.html Give each other space, yes, but put some boundaries up especially as to when and how long you'd try but also don't rush it. It's complicated to explain it all in one go but my updated 2.0 version Ex Factor Guide should give you a step-by-step process on how to go about it. In the meantime, here's a quick overview: ua-cam.com/video/7JtmVbDkblw/v-deo.html
How’s it going buddy..??
Any update??
The ways we humiliate ourselfs in 🤣 if i had a penny for every time...
I know what you mean. The world will not know poverty if that's the case and tons of people will be millionaires already! :-)
Hi Brad would you have any advice on how to get back with a girl after knowing them for two months? We got on really well and laughed about pretty much everything but she said a couple of things threw her off?
Depending on what really cut the relationship short, it may be time to consider moving on from this. But don't rush. Always take the time to give each other space first, all right? Do a minimum of 3 weeks of "no contact" and see if you still want your ex and if your ex is receptive to contact AFTER that period. Watch this: ua-cam.com/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/v-deo.html
I bagged him again after 1month 8 days of breakup, how I regain my selfrespect even he said he has lost his feelings for me..
Never ever resort to begging. It's important not to do that any more than you already have and what's clearly not working out for you. By begging, it shows how you're not respecting your ex's need for space and time at the moment. Can't you see? In other words, you're making it hard for your ex to be attracted to you again. Your best bet is still to cut off contact completely for around a month or even more in order to clear your heads. You'd increase your chances of getting your ex back if you've got your sh*t together than if you were doing the opposite of the no contact rule which is begging/pleading or negotiating/trying to woo your ex again. Well, there are a few rare who take their exes back if you beg/plead but it hardly ever lasts since these people are taking their exes back out of pity. So my point is, don't let your ex take you back out of pity, all right? Here are 5 keys you need to remember when it comes to this: ua-cam.com/video/eZ6niCLUU6E/v-deo.html The best way to avoid that is to work on yourself and get your life together by having fun, hobbies, etc. and to stop chasing your ex. I've made numerous videos about the "no contact" rule and why it's important. Check those out. Also watch the stories here and try not to be a statistic: ua-cam.com/video/1U_IOm8ofFo/v-deo.html
Great work, very on point.
Thanks for your support! :-)
='( I hate that I had to beg. He broke up with me last week of July. The fact that I wasnt even doing him wrong tho.
Begging will never work. If anything, it only pushes your ex further away.
For months my ex and I dated and for nearly a year, she couldn't tell me if she wanted to even really be together. Recently, she told me that she wanted to see me but didn't want us to talk about being together. That conversation caused me to pack her things that she left behind in my home and I dropped them off to her apartment and left them there. I also returned her key and didn't go into her apartment.
After that, she didn't talk to me for 4 days. I reached out to her to ask what was going on with her and why she never reached out and she told me that there was no reason too and that we were done because I brought her things back. Even after telling me there was no need to talk about our relationship.
I'm lost. I gave her a ring, flowers weekly, dates weekly...all the things and we did everything together and then boom...nothing. I'm broken and don't know what to do. I love her and miss her but now I don't tell her these things if by chance we talk. I just let it go.
Seems like you've done everything to show your affection. What did she do in return, though? If she couldn't really commit to you, forcing her won't do you good. You should keep your distance and respect her decision instead of trying to mould the situation into what you need it to be. Doing the opposite of what I suggested will only lessen your value in her eyes and will not do any good as far as attracting her is concerned. Worst case scenario you'll land a secure spot in the dreaded friendzone. Anyway here are some tips to remember if you're trying to win an ex back and how important Fear of Missing Out (FOMO) is: ua-cam.com/video/STLjybyiaBQ/v-deo.html
My begging was was... not limited! 3 weeks into the breakup ive had many mamy meltdowns, many apologies and lots of emotion. Frankly, i cant even blame her for leaving. I was NOT expecting her to leave. I was LEGIT bragging to a coworker about how i had found my forever person. So thats the context behind begging i think. The breakup hit me like a goddamned cold bucket of water. Now shes entertaining another ex and its fucking breaking me to a million pieces.
Anyways... theres likely 0 chance of getting her back huh? At most, a 1% i feel. It was a 5 year long relationship, 2 year friendship ANNNND we got 2 kids. So... yeah. A tough time. And i shot my own self in the foot based on this video.
Hey man, thanks for sharing your story but I'm sorry to hear you're going through this. How long were you two together? I understand how devastating it can be when your mind has already been set she's the one. How long were you two together? I really hate to burst your bubble here but let her finish whatever unfinished business she has with this ex. Sorry, but there's not much you can do at this point, especially if your relationship only lasted a short while and more so if she's seemingly (subconsciously or not) used you as a rebound, for your ex to jump back too quickly with him. So overall, the breakup looks like a blessing in disguise and this may help you process or deal with the breakup accordingly: ua-cam.com/video/7zp7SFbeCRU/v-deo.html but if you find you need more guidance on how to lead a more fruitful life without your ex, get my Beat the Breakup Guide at www.beatmybreakup.com Good luck and I hope you find the right woman for you soon!
If she calls you a loser, loser her
Good point. Disrespect is something you shouldn't tolerate.
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Is 2 months of begging too much already? It wasn’t every day it was more like every 2 weeks in those 2 months
Anything more than a month is too much already. Redo the "no contact" rule and make sure you stick to it this time. But watch this first to help manage your expectations: ua-cam.com/video/OzVymYnQFTk/v-deo.html Here's how you can tell you're doing the "no contact" rule properly: ua-cam.com/video/f7zuXk-sVsI/v-deo.html It may help to make use of the clean slate template, which is a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. Watch this: ua-cam.com/video/6K3xufEwEFg/v-deo.html The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule -- let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com
My girlfriend of almost 3 years told me she is no longer in love with me and is in love with someone else. We still live together and have a baby together I don't think the no contact strat will work in this situation or anything in the matter
Sorry, man, but chances are your girl has been at least emotionally cheating on you. Discussed that in depth here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA There's no easy way to say this but the answer is is to move on, especially if your ex doesn't seem to be regretting their actions and asking to get back together. Most of the time, a lot of people would move on, but a few would still fight for the relationship, so this all depends which side you're on and what your views are. But take into consideration about what I’ve mentioned here, too: ua-cam.com/video/m27TLeyUmwg/v-deo.html There is no right or wrong answer here because it is your relationship and it's personal to you. Make sense? Anyway men and women cheat for different reasons, but if you think your ex is worth it and if there's been a genuine connection between you two before the cheating happened, then try to see the roles that you BOTH played that led to all this mess and see once and for all if it can be resolved or not, okay? Whatever the case, it's important you forgive yourself because no one's perfect, and forgive your ex too. Really take your time before deciding though and be sure not to make any hasty decisions from an emotional place but never force things with her if you can see she no longer wants to try. Get my Beat the Breakup guide if you're having a really tough time moving on from this, at www.beatmybreakup.com Take care!
if i'm in no contact and she writes me what do i do? do i ignore her? then i have her friendship in some games, she simply sees me online or offline but we don't play together, should i remove the friendship?
Unless your situation falls under one or more of the scenarios here: ua-cam.com/video/ek_4wpkV66c/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/W7iC-gHmZ2A/v-deo.html it's best you ignore contact from your ex. If your ex continues to reach out to you during the no contact stage, however, then this really depends on the frequency and nature of the contact from your ex and whether or not you've reached the phase where you're supposed to be talking again. The only exception is if your ex asks for you back and is sincere about it. If your ex continually messages you, then it’s important to put your ex’s messages into context, more so if this happened during the “no contact” phase. Is your ex trying to contact you about something really important, like an emergency, unpaid bills, or something equally urgent? These are reasons to respond, including messages where they get angry due to your lack of response. Discussed that in full detail here: ua-cam.com/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/v-deo.html So if your ex is really just texting some useless random stuff and/or asses their power over you, then you can just ignore and continue on with the 30-day "no contact" rule. Use your discretion. Watch and follow the tips here: ua-cam.com/video/bgOG9s1fac8/v-deo.html
As a woman, does the no contact rule work on a man who i was only dating for 2 months when he suddenly said hes not ready for a relationship but wants to be "friends".
It does, but bepending on what really cut the relationship short, it may be time to consider moving on from this. But don't rush. Always take the time to give each other space first, all right? Do a minimum of 3 weeks of "no contact" and see if you still want your ex and if your ex is receptive to contact AFTER that period. Watch this: ua-cam.com/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/v-deo.html Take care!
I did the basic NC of 23 days. He wasn't happy when I reached out. I made a mistake of going to his place when he didn't respond to my message for half a day. Then I reached out again after 5 days. I needed the closure. I was humiliated. I'm try my best to move on. Sometimes I come to watch these videos when it gets tough. It feels good. My goal is to be able to move on and be able to say no even if he comes back.
Closures are overrated. I understand how you feel and it's gut wrenching when you're trying to ask your ex for a really good explanation, but resist that! If you ask me, really, closures are overrated. If your ex broke things off with you and acts like it, trust me, you'd really want to give each other space as soon as possible. However, these may help offer a different perspective on things, as to what really happened in your relationship: ua-cam.com/video/t6IX-pUnGZQ/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/VQjVlDWxJ2o/v-deo.html
FWIW I really appreciate your comment here and your honesty and vulnerability… I’m trying really hard to not break no contact and it’s been about 22 days for me and seeing your comment about how you broke and see after 23 days made me realize that I will likely get the same result if I go back to my ex and plead to get him back… I just remember how cold and angry he was when he broke up with me and I don’t want to face that again… You’re right in that it was so humiliating and reading your comment did make me remember thatso I just wanted to thank you for being so honest because it helped me reflect and gave me a little bit more courage to keep going so I don’t go through that because I’m sure I will get the same result as you.
I'm lost, i still love my ex, and i want her back, but I'm trapped. I can't do the no contact method cause she only gave me two options, either we stay as friends and talk as usual or she'll never talk to me ever again. And i know she's serious when she said that. I'm scared that if i stopped talking to her, then I'll never have another chance on her again. Idk what i should do
Don't fall into that trap because that's the worst ever. Apply the tips here: ua-cam.com/video/SWERv_y3c5w/v-deo.html
Jesus. I have used every form of begging at the end of this video. Unintentionally. I went back on the kill myself statement almost immediately and said I was talking dumb, but its not like it wasnt said. Im saying that decribed me, yikes. Its been 2 months. I have finally decided to leave her be...today. i just hope its not too late. The other dynamic is she took my 7 year old, I still see her...its kind of hard to no contact when she works nights. She moved out a half a block away. I told her today, I would give her the time to heal herself if she found someone to watch our daughter because its tough to do no contact when we have to see each other so often. -lost
The other deal is she says we are still together and just needs time...idfk lol
..but she moved out 2 months ago while I was at work... you think your relationship is in the gutter .. 😂
My thought is...shes still arguing..so she still cares...but probably not the right thinking lol
A kid is a shared responsibility and you don't necessarily have to stop being a father just because you two broke up. You can work on co-parenting with your ex. However, if you're hellbent on trying to work things out, let me just set expectations that it's a tough battle for sure with kid/s involved and/or usually other responsibilities still tied to your ex, but it's best you do limited contact or what I call the dynamic "no contact" rule. Prepare for things to be tough but if you play your cards right and depending on the extent of damage done, it can actually still be salvaged. Try to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be by applying the tips here as much as possible, in addition to my newer vids I've posted: ua-cam.com/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/dDZrnNh8LOg/v-deo.html
I just had to recognize that if I tried to win her back it would have just proven to her that I hadn't learned anything as to why she left. Time went on and I recognized that if things had worked out and we stayed together. I would have just been miserable.
Bottom line, this is a journey that we both have to take alone. I've got no say.
Yes. Like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you since you know your relationship and your ex better than anyone else on here. And alas, not every ex is worth all the trouble. It's up to you to decide who is worth fighting for at one of the toughest of battles you face in your relationship. Best of luck!
No contact rule works just make sure to not initiate conversation once she does start contacting you because it will still come back to look like your desperate for her attention the goal is to make it seem like you don’t care anymore and you very well will have to put your self in that mentality when y’all do have contact when she opens up about how she feels that’s is the only time you can tell her how you feel and when she says she wants to get back together don’t jump into things right away because regardless of how you feel y’all still have stuff to work on and work though hold her accountable for what she did and understand that when 2 people truly want to make things work they don’t fold and break up they fix things if she’s not ready to accept that then she’s not ready and you will be stuck getting broken up with once things get hard again because it always gets hard
Good points. Thanks for dropping by!
I actually don’t think you should not answer back ..I think it’s what you answer back with that is crucial. I told her in my last email ..it would be better with you but good without you. Showing her I’m good either way. Then i allowed for a way back. I told her in my last sentence “ ..but I don’t want to talk about any of this anymore It will be the last time you hear from me unless you show me a pic of Henry 🤪😅”
This shows her I can move on and not ever talk to her again. So now if she sends a pic of her dog Henry ..it’s an easy way to give her an opportunity to see if communicating with me again is the best option. So ..if she does send a pic of Henry (I’ve only been broken up for 3 weeks) I will respond with “that’s one handsome dog” THEN ..I will say something like “but that collar ..that collar needs to say I ain’t got no balls but I got a big heart” ..so this makes it exclusively about the dog ..funny ..caring ..and a way for to expand on the dog if she decides to respond more.
We were together for 1 year with our ups and downs, we broke up but over the years he still reached out to me and after 4 years that i had seen him i reached out and i told him that I haven't get over him completely but he told me there is no chance for us to get back together. I'm really sad...
Exposing your feelings was a bad move and I never recommend doing that. You still hung up on him doesn't mean he's the same way with you, sadly. Hence, it's important to rebuild attraction first which is what I teach in my Ex Factor Guide. Anyway as it is, I suggest to move on from this, yeah?
@@BradBrowning Is there any chance for us to get back together in the future after my bad move to expose my feelings? Should i go no contact? Will he ever reach out to me?
Because of other problems that i had in my life, i became emotional dependent on her (we were in the middle of a process to get back togeter) and now i pushed her away. She says that she loves me, but needs some space and doesn't want to be with me at the moment. Do you think that is still hope for me?
This vid is for you: ua-cam.com/video/DD22EJVvLwY/v-deo.html But as to your chances, I really wish I could give you a direct yes or no. However, as it is, each situation is unique, so I suggest you take the free quiz as it hits on the critical elements that will determine your chances depending on your answers. In other words, my quiz can give you a more accurate answer than I can since as you may have noticed, there are various factors at play here which needs to be looked at as well as your own actions after the breakup. Here's the link: www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Best of luck!
@@BradBrowning thank you!!
such an awesome and mature content. Thanks Brad
You're welcome! Thanks for your support. Please like and subscribe to my channel. :-)
Hey brad, does the no contact work even after i begged for morethan a week. But then on our last call i told him i am not going to chase him anymore. And i am letting him go cuz i deserve love and i told him he doesn't know how to love? Do i still have a hope
The key is to avoid drama at all costs. Redo the "no contact" rule and make sure you stick to it this time. But watch this first to help manage your expectations: ua-cam.com/video/OzVymYnQFTk/v-deo.html Here's how you can tell you're doing the "no contact" rule properly: ua-cam.com/video/f7zuXk-sVsI/v-deo.html It may help to make use of the clean slate template, which is a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. Watch this: ua-cam.com/video/6K3xufEwEFg/v-deo.html The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule -- let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com
If we didnt talk for about days, does it wont affect the relationship?
If you're still in a relationship, you two ought to be talking, yes... unless you meant he is already an ex?
Me and my ex were together for 20 yrs and he tells me that he'd been cheating and ultimatly chose the other woman, i found out on FB that she's 15 yrs younger than him and he married her and she was pregnant, we had only been separated for 9 months at that point and yes i did everything wrong at first but looking back i'm glad we didn't get back together, its just hard when you lose yourself and become fincially dependent on that person and have to start over from scratch but im doing it
Sorry to hear you went though that. But you're right. The breakup looks like a blessing in disguise and this may help you process or deal with the breakup accordingly: ua-cam.com/video/7zp7SFbeCRU/v-deo.html but if you find you need more guidance on how to lead a more fruitful life without your ex, get my Beat the Breakup Guide at www.beatmybreakup.com Take care!
So, blocking them on social media Is a mistake? I had to do It, because i was checking her every 5 minutes, i couldn't take It anymore
If you're like most people, then yes, it is a mistake. I just noticed a bunch of people having some problems reaching out later on because they've either deleted their ex, blocked (especially everywhere) or unfriended them, which creates an unnecessary dilemma really, if you ask me. The only reason why I suggest NOT to unfollow/block or delete an ex (that you want to get back with) is because you can, in fact, leverage social media to your advantage but this requires self-control. Here's how: ua-cam.com/video/D1GpR5MApQk/v-deo.html
What happens to the no contact rule if I go 30 days without texting my ex and they haven’t come back to me? I keep thinking one day she’ll text me but in reality she could be talking to other guys by now
The no contact rule is supposed to last for only 30 days straight. So when reaching out to an ex after the 30-day "no contact" rule, it's best to treat the situation with fresh eyes, so it's crucial to keep things fun and light and gently coax your ex into responding the same way. Here are the basics on what to do when it comes down to it. I also suggest you watch from start to the end and NOT skip any parts so you can maximize these tips: ua-cam.com/video/7PcfGeJqUYo/v-deo.html including asking yourself these very important questions to ask yourself before starting the process: ua-cam.com/video/t6I5k55pnCE/v-deo.html but if you need the step-by-step process on what to do, including what to text or say during the process, either hire me as your coach, refer to my other vids or get the 2.0 version of my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com
I broke up with her. She stayed in contact with me. She got a rebound and cheated on her rebound with me. I didn't know about him. She left me this time said she was confused and went back to her rebound. She blocked me and deleted all our photos off social media. I am three weeks into no contact. Healing my broken heart and working out. I am learning more about my attachments and wounds. I will be a better man in the long run.
It happens. As long as you take the lessons learned with you along your journey and really become a better version of yourself, then it won't all be futile.
Hi @BradBrowning I my ex broke up with me nearly a year ago. Originally she said it was nothing I'd done just that she was struggling to be in a relationship and didn't want to be in one. She said she confused love with strongly like. I didn't really believe or understand that and begged her to come back or convince her over the next 2 months to no avail . She even said I was trying to manipulate emotionally blackmail her back into a relationship. We then had a period of 6 months of no contact where I wanted to reach out but was too scared too. Finally she reached out to over the Xmas New year saying it was a year since we met and she couldn't help reminiscing. I was over the moon but after that she went cold again and when I pushed her for what she wanted and why we broke up she said because I gave her the ick . She asked me to respond but I was so hurt it took me a few weeks. Few weeks later she posts on Facebook she was in a new relationship . I completely lost it and took a letter to her house which I gave to her mum. It was very over the top say she was the 1 I'd have married her, and if it wasn't for my son, I'd have jumped off a bridge. Few days later she blocked me.
Can you help me ? I can't get over her.
Hi guys I guess I just really need help understanding things
My ex of 3 years broke up with me
Because she couldn't give me time?
Or what I wanted I feel like those are just excuses especially since after 3 weeks she's now on tinder? (I was told by a friend and saw her on there) not sure if I want to even move on...
So If she couldn't give me the time why can she now give it to someone else?
She didn't answer any of my questions she basically just said we're over and blocked me on everything but I feel like I need closure I hate not knowing what and why?
I feel like a relationship needs communication... and I was always the one communicating I'm so lost I'm so hurt all I want to do is reach out all I want is to know why?
3 years to be over and looking for someone new in 3 weeks :( heart breaking
I just don't know what to do...
Sorry, but your ex is most likely lying about the reason of the breakup so try not to fall for that. Discussed that here: ua-cam.com/video/ZuHWCWeG1xs/v-deo.html However, the bottom line is your ex has significantly lost attraction. Watch what I’ve explained here and watch the entire length of the video to gain full understanding, as well as know what to do: y2u.be/E9wG_ErBQoI It’s important to rebuil d the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my new version of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html and the golden rules here: ua-cam.com/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/v-deo.html
What should i do if i already told her that I won't be contacting her anymore?
Don't contact her anymore for at least 30 days straight. But you can reach out to your ex after the 30 days straight of "no contact" period is over. In doing so, it's best to treat the situation with fresh eyes, so it's crucial to keep things fun and light and gently coax your ex into responding the same way. Here are the basics on what to do when it comes down to it. I also suggest you watch from start to the end and NOT skip any parts so you can maximize these tips: ua-cam.com/video/7PcfGeJqUYo/v-deo.html including asking yourself these very important questions to ask yourself before starting the process: ua-cam.com/video/t6I5k55pnCE/v-deo.html but if you need the step-by-step process on what to do, including what to text or say during the process, either hire me as your coach, refer to my other vids or get the 2.0 version of my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com
5weeks no contact from her and she’s moved on. 3weeks after we broke up… can’t see this working for me. Can it?
I say generally it's still fair game unless you see most if not all the signs that your ex is over you. Here's the vid: ua-cam.com/video/ZyJRphwDca4/v-deo.html and especially if those signs prevail over a prolonged period of time. If you're asking about your chances, I really wish I could give you a direct yes or no. However, as it is, each situation is unique, so I suggest you take the free quiz as it hits on the critical elements that will determine your chances depending on your answers. In other words, my quiz can give you a more accurate answer than I can since as you may have noticed, there are various factors at play here which needs to be looked at as well as your own actions after the breakup. Here's the link: www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Best of luck!
What to do when she starts pulling away silently without any closure?
There's not much to do yet at this time other than to respect their need for space. I understand how you feel and it's gut wrenching when you're trying to ask your ex for a really good explanation, but resist that! If you ask me, really, closures are overrated. If your ex broke things off with you and acts like it, trust me, you'd really want to give each other space as soon as possible. However, these may help offer a different perspective on things, as to what really happened in your relationship: ua-cam.com/video/t6IX-pUnGZQ/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/VQjVlDWxJ2o/v-deo.html
Why cant i move forward from someone who completely used me for 4 years and i got left? I know its over it just destroys me.
Sorry to hear that. I know the pain is almost unbearable at times but take it from me, it will only destroy you if you let it. So don't let it! This may help you process or deal with the breakup accordingly: ua-cam.com/video/7zp7SFbeCRU/v-deo.html but if you find you need more guidance on how to lead a more fruitful life without your ex, get my Beat the Breakup Guide at www.beatmybreakup.com
@@BradBrowning thank you when I thought nobody was listening thank you
If the no contact rule is not completed but he texts me whether i have to respond or leave his messages as seen?
Unless your situation falls under one or more of the scenarios here: ua-cam.com/video/ek_4wpkV66c/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/W7iC-gHmZ2A/v-deo.html it's best you ignore contact from your ex. If your ex continues to reach out to you during the no contact stage, however, then this really depends on the frequency and nature of the contact from your ex and whether or not you've reached the phase where you're supposed to be talking again. The only exception is if your ex asks for you back and is sincere about it. If your ex continually messages you, then it’s important to put your ex’s messages into context, more so if this happened during the “no contact” phase. Is your ex trying to contact you about something really important, like an emergency, unpaid bills, or something equally urgent? These are reasons to respond, including messages where they get angry due to your lack of response. Discussed that in full detail here: ua-cam.com/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/v-deo.html So if your ex is really just texting some useless random stuff and/or asses their power over you, then you can just ignore and continue on with the 30-day "no contact" rule. Use your discretion. Watch and follow the tips here: ua-cam.com/video/bgOG9s1fac8/v-deo.html
My ex broke up with me but keeps telling me he loves me. I asked was your feelings real for me..he says yes. He said he misses me. We are almost 50. I feel he’s slipping into a depression.
I suggest you stay gone and let him miss you more. Go out and live your own life.
I tried to get my ex back a year later and basically found out from her that she is really happy and in a steady relationship with a new guy. I feel so jealous. Is probably best to cut my losses and let her be. No chance of ever getting her back now would you say?
That's right. The odds are stacked against you, so I suggest you use this time to heal and prioritize yourself. I recommend these videos to watch: ua-cam.com/video/01wvLSaS9_I/v-deo.html and/or get my Beat the Breakup Guide at www.beatmybreakup.com
Only reason I begged for her was because we have 3 kids together. It has been a month since I have stayed with them and she just keeps giving me the hot and cold treatment. One day she will tell me I am her soulmate and we just have to work on becoming friends again and then no text for 12+ hours. I will never ask for anyone to stay ever. Also, she won’t let me spend time with my kids unless she is there? It’s so confusing and I’ve had enough. I’m just going to stop interacting with her, but how can I when I have 3 kids?
It's an uphill battle for sure with kid/s involved and/or usually other responsibilities still tied to your ex, but it's best you do limited contact or what I call the dynamic "no contact" rule. Prepare for things to be tough but if you play your cards right and depending on the extent of damage done, it can actually still be salvaged. Try to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be by applying the tips here as much as possible: ua-cam.com/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/dDZrnNh8LOg/v-deo.html
@@BradBrowning thank you so much coach! We all appreciate you!