Oh there gunna move on alright.. And sleep with other people.. Believe that.. But the key is what ur tryna achieve and that's making them think about u..
The short answer is here: ua-cam.com/video/T_W_ilf9x6w/v-deo.html The first phase where you employ the 30-day "no contact" rule is the recovery phase, the next two phases are geared towards re-attracting and rekindling that lost attraction with your ex. This is known as my 3R system found in the guide. So to answer your question, yes, your ex can become really distant emotionally, mentally, and physically but this is why you have the two other phases to get an ex back. Here's an overview to help you understand: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html Good luck!
Kit Kat Yes, currently me and her are back together we’re dating and actually we got back a Week ago on the 7th of September. It was hard because even tho she came back it seemed rough for the first few days because we weren’t as stable but now we’re doing much better we stopped with the arguing and now we’re happy again. In conclusion the No contact rule worked but it was really hard for me Bc we panic that she might move on.
Just be the best version of your self, and you'll attract the right people. Stay light and happy. After watching this, I don't care about attracting my ex anymore. Lol. No contact rule for life.
As what I always say, the decision to get an ex back is totally up to you. You know your ex's worth to you as well as your relationship. So only you can decide whether this is someone you want to go back to or not. All the best!
How to make it thru No Contact phase: every time you get the urge to contact them, watch these videos!! It will help your confidence, keep you busy and motivated. Don't cave...it's so important.
Only if it actually works. There's few things worse than sticking to NC day after day, week after week, hoping it'll work, but it never does. Then you see videos like this and read comment after comment where going NC worked wonders for other people, but not you.
I am so heartbroken. But the more I think about it. I dont want him back. He was awful. And so was his family. It just hurts mostly because he let me go so easily.
Well, he did you a favour by breaking up. It's a chance to escape from a toxic relationship, yeah? :-) You can now start over anew with someone better!
I've been watching these videos lately since I've been feeling hopeless about get back with my ex but I have to say, even watching these videos makes you so hopeful and makes you feel good about yourself. It's all a mental game and the cards are in you favor, you just have to know how to play them.
Dude I completely understand my ex's actions now and what they mean. Not only that, but the things I've done that have driven her right to me. You're the gd man
THANK YOU SO MUCH. After doing all these I’ve realised that I ... don’t even want my ex back anymore lol. Great if he actually wants to come back but if not I’m so happy living my life the way it is now :)
Like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you since you know your relationship and your ex better than anyone else on here. And alas, not every ex is worth all the trouble. It's up to you to decide who is. Best of luck!
Brad, you have helped out a good friend of mine recently. She was dating a man for nine months, then there was a breakup for 2 months and in that 2 month period, she watched your videos and really worked on herself a lot and now they are back together. Thank you.
@@BradBrowning coming up on 1 month of no contact. Dam it's been hard as hell! Been trying to move on, been dating, and doing me.. yet she's still on the back of my mind.
hi how are ya? How did it not work? No contact is always a win win situation. Either you get your ex back like you wanted , or you realize it wasn’t all that you thought it was and you’ve made yourself a better person during the no contact period.
Great! Now once you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule and assuming you did it correctly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: ua-cam.com/video/uN_XAgHjaFM/v-deo.html but make sure you tick off the checklist here first: ua-cam.com/video/BAhMrmw3Sms/v-deo.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html Good luck!
This channel is a blessing for heartbroken people...... you are a legend......and I think u should work for your posture.... your left shoulder is higher than your right shoulder
Pause at 5:15 the messages behind him are funny af 😂 Thank you for a great video Brad, my 7 year long gf just broke up with me a week ago, been constantly trying to reach out to her but to no avail before I saw your videos, I'm gonna do everything you are teaching us and hopefully win her back, thanks again and keep up the good content.
My question is I have seen your video and it's helpful my ex left me after 6 months it was not a caustic relationship she just want to be friends but before that
Had made plans for marriage met her family her previous relationship with a very abusive and marriage I've tried your no contact it's been 2 weeks I've done all and she posts she's called me twice around midnight she text me saying that she was going to her sisters I called once breaking no contact rule she didn't answer she left me a text saying she was busy a few days later for the weekend being only two weeks into the no contact should I text her back or should I still stay silent and just post things that I'm doing active on social
@@joyceannmilante6696 it seriously worked for me when I stopped texting him. I really felt bad when I stopped texting him but few days later he texted me saying that he was missing me😄
I never had many relationships as a young man, so as a 40 year old losing a wife of 9 years was absolutely gut wrenching. I lost the step kids and her family. This whole thing has been gut wrenching on every level. These videos are VERY insightful. Thank you.
I understand how you feel. It's excruciating when you thought your life partner turns out to be a dud. Just stay strong and apply the tips on my channel if you're not getting my Ex Factor Guide. Always take time out for yourself first, yeah? Best of luck!
I brokeup with my ex three days after the breakup immediate i apply 30 days no contact and it worked for me. Now im back with my ex 😍😍😍 we taking things slow Thank you Brad im so Grateful
You're welcome! Hey, you never know who else can benefit, so if it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t already, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it! 🙂
chonchon keishing the one that hurt the other needs to reach out. If you are the one that got hurt don't reach out, even if he's not reaching out either. Just move on and leave them with the lasting memory of your strength.
Well, if your ex is watching videos on how to get an ex back, that's a very good sign for you, isn't it? But without knowing more, it's hard for me to give real advice. My first suggestion is probably not to change anything and to continue employing my techniques anyway. For specific advice that’s tailored to your situation, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Talk soon!
I thought we are a strong couple coz we've been in relationship for 7yrs. We broke up because so so tired in my attitude. But for me if u love the person, u wont give up that easily right.. For the past 7yrs i was too confident that he will always find a solution when we had conflict,he always making effort, he always say sorry even if its my fault. But now he is totally different. He said he wants space,that he is tired, so that ipromise to him that i will change the bad part of me . I ask him for one more chance ,just one chance to improve my self .. But he insist that he is already giving me the chance for the past 7yrs.. Chance for the 7yrs???? But on that year he is not complaining, he manage the problem by his own.. How do i know if he is not complaining about my attitude before .where is tha chance there?? But still i want him back . Now im on my 11th days of NC . I really miss him . . He was'nt block me on his fb. He still seen my messege from him on messenger .sometimes he still reply. Before i went on NC i ask him if he still love me .his answer "very very thin" .woah i think im crazy now..wat should i do now.? Please response
What is so valuable about your ex that it’s so important to get back with them or earn their approval? Especially if they broke up with you. They likely broke up with you (also) because you didn’t present yourself as a valuable commodity that others want. You probably want your ex back because you don’t have other OPTIONS. The best way to get someone’s attention is to remove yours and move on. Even if they want you back, you lose value (with them) by going back or making them feel like they can have you back. They’ll just toy with you again until the next time they’re bored or find other appealing options. They either left you because of what you stopped doing or started doing. It originally ended for a reason and it won’t get better if you didn’t change the things that caused them to lose interest the first time. Learn from your mistakes, work on yourself, move on to bigger and better things. The minute you create value for yourself, you’ll have other OPTIONS and you won’t be so quick to go back to your ex. Let the ex stew in their own SH*T for missing out on your greatness. Don’t go backwards.
I don't know whether it will works or not but your videos make me think positive and give me a positive energy to believe on myself.Your words motivate me very deeply. Everytime when I lose hope I see your video and that works as an anesthesia to my uncontroled mind. Thank you very much..
It's best you go by the golden rules here as much as possible: ua-cam.com/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/v-deo.html Now I can't assess the damage per se, and it may or may not be too late, but it’s definitely time to move forward from whatever mistakes you've made and not repeat those! Don’t be so hard on yourself, though, since this is a fairly common issue and most people are guilty of this at some point. If you'd really want to gauge your chances of getting back together (it may not be all doom and gloom after all) I suggest you take the free quiz on my website and answer as honestly as possible, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
Good to know! :-) I appreciate the support. If it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t done so yet, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it, too!
Open your mind. My ex and I met when our worlds were so stressful and hectic, after the most amazing relationship she ended it with me and honestly, all my own fault. She stuck in there for me but I missed the signs she needed a lot more support. I went NC for 30+ days, we connected, my text first, very casual one, a few weeks later she texts me, wanted to meet up for a coffee and dog walk. After a slow reintroduction to each other, we were both fixed and this time ready for the love we still carried inside. 5 years on we have a beautiful daughter, our love and relationship is stronger than ever and next year we are getting married. STAY opened minded to the timing of your life.
Since you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule and assuming you did it correctly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: ua-cam.com/video/uN_XAgHjaFM/v-deo.html but make sure you tick off the checklist here first: ua-cam.com/video/BAhMrmw3Sms/v-deo.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html Good luck!
hi brad I love your program because it's 3 days and she already says she needs me.She has call me 3 times but I'm going to be strong and keep ignoring them. thank you, you really are the best
I want him back !!it’s been 3 months since we broke up !! I love him to much but he choose to leave me !! I don’t know what to do ! But I was hoping he will back in the future
Here are the basics to getting an ex boyfriend back: y2u.be/aeGNPBdpnsI I also suggest that you read my Ex Factor Guide since that’s much more detailed and so you'll know how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total and the "no contact" rule is only the first), including what to say, do or not do, along with bonus materials for texting, and the psychology of how a man thinks and understanding men in general. Good timing is essential! Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com/fbuy
Man i love your advices..me and my ex haven't talked to each other for 3 days..first day was hard spent it on cryin but later im fine thank uu ❤️ tryin to get him back if it works its good if not at least im healing goood
I recently broke up with my ex.He was cheating on me with several girls.When I found about it and asked him if he even felt bad about his doing.We had huge argument where he used abusive words and physically abuse me.I did everything and this was all I got.I just want him to realize he is not right hurting someone's feeling.
I asked him to choose me or other other one but he needed up just walking away.Leaving all the stuffs I bought for him.I blocked him on all social media.What I feel very bad is after all what I did for him I ended up getting verbal abuse and beaten up.
My girlfriend left me for someone else. It's been a long time since then. I keep blaming myself for not being good enough but the truth is I just don't want her to be the problem I have to leave. This video helps me a lot. I tried communicate so many times. He didn't do anything for her and despite my efforts into our relationship, she choose him and didn't try her best for me. So I had to leave. It hurts. And I need time.
Moon81 no no no! Now that starts the whole process over! Stay strong and set this time! Look past him and focus on yourself and that’s when he’ll notice
That means he never loved you I went through the same thing be the girl he can never get make him regret it that’s what I’m doing to my ex I’m ignoring her cause she left me . Now make him regret it and watch he will chase you for the rest of his life lol 😆
Daniel Hajj 😂 LoL but he left me since September I cut contact with him since he ignored me since last year untill this day there is no sign of him so I doubt it he’ll chase me 😔
My husband left me, he's been ignoring my calls on his mom's phone, he's changed his number on me and blocked me on FB, now he wants a divorce. He says that it's because he went to jail and is afraid of going back but I was told last night by a friend that he has been cheating on me when I asked him just 2 hrs before that if he has and he said no, he's been telling everyone that he hasn't but it evidently was on FB that he cheated on me but that he couldn't explain why because he is still married and then he posted something else that says naughty secrets. I was raped when he was in jail and evidently it's all my fault to everyone. I have bad complex PTSD, anxiety disorder, stress disorder, bpd, chronic depression, I've lost a lot of kids which him and 1 of which I was 3 months along and just lost him or her a couple nights ago. I also have attachment disorders from everything I have been through. What do I do??
Make sure you prioritize yourself and get the help you need as a result of what you've been through, okay? Maintaining a struggling marriage while also struggling with depression, among other things, at the same time can be too much for most people. A relationship needs two healthy people in it in order for it to thrive. Get the help you need first and the rest will fall into place.Do not downplay depression or any other type of mental illness because that's a tricky one! Right now, stuff can just be way too draining for you both, so focus on you first. Okay? Take care!
First, thank you for teaching me. Now, this is my situation. A few weeks back my ex dumped me. That evening we spent time together. Prior to me leaving him I asked him if I could announce our union on Facebook. I said to him me, you, Facebook, yes?. He nodded his head up and down in order to indicate a yes answer. I believe he did not understand me because his English is limited. He is Venezuelan and speaks fluent Spanish. I am Black American and I speak English. Most of our communication was through an online translator. Yet, he would always tell me that he loved me very much. So, in order to clear this situation I sent him a letter with a card apologizing for the miscommunication. The letter was translated by a dear friend of mine who is bilingual in both Spanish and English. Do you think he would try to come back to me? I have moved on with doing daily exercises and other social interactions.
Okay,so what actually happened? It may be time to put things into perspective because in 14 years spent as a relationship coach, I find that a breakup is often NOT just one person's fault, so look at the roles that you've BOTH played that led to the breakup and if the issues have a chance to get resolved, and how to go about it. In most cases, the problems that led to the breakup can be resolved, but in some cases, it can't. So take time to evaluate, okay? However, I have to warn you not to ask the reasons from your ex. This is what I've discussed here along with other stuff that might help you, so this is a must-watch: ua-cam.com/video/zqAEi9PbEAA/v-deo.html Good luck!
Hi brad. The things that my x n i have no no social media connections. So the social media advice how can i replace it. The only connection we have now is just during shift change at work. Idk how to act
What progress have you made in your own life? Make sure you work on those for your ex to actually miss something about you! Watch this, too: ua-cam.com/video/gUBNd6pDINM/v-deo.html
Good! Don't forget to check out my other videos if you're not getting my guide so you'll know what to do next after the 30-day "no contact" period, to contacting your ex down to re-attracting, and what to do in between those phases and how to transition to actually getting your ex back. Here's a quick overview: ua-cam.com/video/7JtmVbDkblw/v-deo.html Best of luck!
I don’t know what to do. Partner of 6 years, we were both so happy, all of a sudden wants to be alone. Not sure what to do. Both of us were loyal .. idk how to deal with this. I subscribed
It may be time to put things into perspective because in 14 years spent as a relationship coach, I find that a breakup is often NOT just one person's fault, so look at the roles that you've BOTH played that led to the breakup and if the issues have a chance to get resolved, and how to go about it. In most cases, the problems that led to the breakup can be resolved, but in some cases, it can't. So take time to evaluate, okay? However, I have to warn you not to ask the reasons from your ex. This is what I've discussed here along with other stuff that might help you, so this is a must-watch: ua-cam.com/video/zqAEi9PbEAA/v-deo.html Good luck!
My ex broke up with me for numerous reasons. I would get mad at him a lot because he was disloyal sometimes (nothing major but he’d sometimes lie about snap chatting or driving a girl home), I’m going away to college in the fall and we both don’t know how that’s going to work with our relationship (he said he can’t deal with a time limit on us), and he also said he has depression and needs to focus on himself because all of his happiness comes from me and he knows it’s not healthy. I don’t know what to believe. His reasons do make sense and he did go through a lot of trauma, but i don’t get why that would make our relationship end. He still texts me sometimes and tells me he misses me?? But he doesn’t want to get back together. He said he would consider getting back together in a few months when he betters himself, but he also told me not to get my hopes up. Idk, he’s all over the place and i’m not sure how to continue right now. We’ve been broken up for a month.
If your ex has a mental disorder like depression, bipolar disorder, IED, NPD, or the like, the most loving thing you can do is to give each other space while he gets help. Encourage your ex to seek treatment because this is something only a therapist specializing on this can handle, even this is outside of my scope. But I can help you how to handle things on YOUR end as you go through this difficult ordeal. I know it can be incredibly tough knowing you’ve given it your best shot, yet your partner still fails to appreciate it or is breaking up despite it being a good relationship. Anyway it's a bad idea to be friends with an ex especially knowing they have a mental health condition. In the end, they will drain you and leave you with lots of scars that would take years of therapy. Consider signing up for my coaching program so I can help assess your situation clearly, look at all the other factors at play and see things you might have missed, then guide you accordingly on a regular, ongoing basis at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
That's because you aren't doing anything to appease to her at an emotional level. In other words, you aren't doing anything to make her feel something for you naturally on an emotional level, which is why she's sticking to her logical level. This vid is for you: ua-cam.com/video/PBotQygy7os/v-deo.html
I am 5 days into no contact and i am so happy after 2 failed attempts of no contact. it feels different this time because i am emotionally detached, have clarity seeing him for the low quality man he is and not interested in him anymore. i dont want a man who doesnt pursue, prioritize, love, or value me.
Good. Not all relationships can be salvaged or even meant to be salvaged. Like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you. You know your situation and your ex best. Sometimes a relationship can be salvaged and worth the save but sometimes it isn't, especially if there's cheating or some other type of abuse involved. It's your life and it's your decision.
@BradBrowning no contact is great. the failed no contact attempts were my fault because I was not mentally ready to let go. I ended up unblocking and reaching out too soon. They would be happy to hear from me, but then i would be clingy, scared to set standards and chase him all over again. 7 days no contact now! I am detached so it's much easier this time. I think he will be concerned about the energy shift and know for sure he has lost me when I make it to 2 weeks no contact.
One thing that most people don't realize is that they hold the key. Have you been actively trying to get your ex back? Don’t wait for this person to have an epiphany. If you want your ex back, then keep track of what you've been doing to see if it's productive or not. Here's a quick overview: ua-cam.com/video/xgR03RcU8mw/v-deo.html and it's best to go by the golden rules here: ua-cam.com/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/v-deo.html Have you checked out my guide yet? It may be time to revamp your techniques. Before anything else though, take the free quiz on my website to gauge your chances of getting your ex back.
First of all, I would like to thank you so much for your help. Now, I am back with my so called ex. And that's just because of you, your vedios and articles. But now i am facing to another problem. My closest friends and my mum are against it. They say that he's going to leave me again, that iam stupid for dating him and that he hurt me once, so that means that he's going to hurt me again.. What am I supposed to do? How can I make them like him again? He never did anything wrong or bad beside braking up with me..
Just don't wear your heart out on your sleeves. They will like him as time progresses and he won't mess up. Don't fret. Also don't get too high expectations, especially if he or you or both of you are still young. Just chill and enjoy life, all right? :-) Best of luck!
My ex broke up with me via short cold text message didn’t fully understand that method but didn’t urge the breakup cause you can’t argue with that I’ve seen many of your videos and I realized that after a couple of months of absolutely no contact or social media i don’t want her back but would really appreciate some clarification but whatever I only wish her and myself the best
How would I make him feel this way when he broke up with me because he loves someone else in just a span of two weeks after our almost 3 years relationship?
Your ex is diverting his attention to someone else, which is the easiest thing to do and is really just his way of coping. If anything, your ex is suffering, too, even though it may not seem like it. Discussed that here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA So that's what you ought to be doing too. Here, watch this: ua-cam.com/video/gUBNd6pDINM/v-deo.html so try to put your focus elsewhere because your ex is likely rebounding and you're only wasting precious minutes of your life worrying about something that's out of your control. Watch this: ua-cam.com/video/TBtb34gy6zw/v-deo.html Now lastly, keep in mind that your ex is suffering too, even though they try to cover it up. Discussed that here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA
22years of our relationship and he says he did not love me, does not love me because he is obsessed with a younger girl who does not give a shit about him, but still he is manifesting to make the girl love him I am so broken, I don't knw wat to do
Sorry, but chances are your beau has been at least emotionally cheating on you. Discussed that in depth here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA There's no easy way to say this but the answer is is to move on, especially if your ex doesn't seem to be regretting their actions and asking to get back together. Most of the time, a lot of people would move on, but a few would still fight for the relationship, so this all depends which side you're on and what your views are. But take into consideration about what I’ve mentioned here, too: ua-cam.com/video/m27TLeyUmwg/v-deo.html There is no right or wrong answer here because it is your relationship and it's personal to you. Make sense? Anyway men and women cheat for different reasons, but if you think your ex is worth it and if there's been a genuine connection between you two before the cheating happened, then try to see the roles that you BOTH played that led to all this mess and see once and for all if it can be resolved or not, okay? Whatever the case, it's important you forgive yourself because no one's perfect, and forgive your ex too. Really take your time before deciding though and be sure not to make any hasty decisions from an emotional place but never force things with him if you can see he no longer wants to try. Take care!
Thank you for the powerful powerful words I went threw a hard break up losing my fiancé back around February this year it really hurt me but I have I don’t text her not even on social media even though I really really miss her and I want her back but I’m gonna follow this and I hope that we can we start over because I love but I also have to grow as well I’m gonna keep listening to your videos because they have powerful messages behind him and thank you again
You're welcome! Hey, you never know who else can benefit, so if it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t already, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it!
Brad.. my ex was like I’m feeling stresss than happiness.. but I always wanted her to make happy and I still want to.. I never want to live without her. Now we both are on a break. I hope these tips will work out really well! If it does I’ll be very happy and I’ll be so thankful to you. If it doesn’t then... idk.
How are you stressing her out? I assume you're part of this "stressful feeling" your ex describes, otherwise she wouldn't have ended things. Watch/review the tips here too: ua-cam.com/video/8T1wX8D48Qg/v-deo.html
I am in long distance relationship. He stopped calling me a month ago, I called, left messages but didn't get any response. It hurts so much I don't even know what happened, what i did to make him leave me like this. It's like I don't exist for him.
Sorry to hear that. The distance will always be a major culprit. Is this long distance scenario temporary? Because if it isn't, then may be as good as over. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: ua-cam.com/video/GQY4N04uvtA/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/5nfWRJRrnAs/v-deo.html However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let's take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
Please answer; Me and my ex broke up a week ago after 1 and a half year, and we both bought Christmas presents to each other. Me and her mom had a really strong relationship and I thought of giving the presents I bought to her through her mom, so I can avoid making any contact as I’m still in the no contact period
How if he said stop texting me and look forward for yourself because we are not fitting together 😭😭😭😭 then he blocked me in messages and call 😭😭😭 now almost 2 weeks and I'm so suffering
This is a very common issue which many people face, so I suggest you watch this vid coz I covered that here: ua-cam.com/video/UspIarCWk5M/v-deo.html Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication. More about that on here: ua-cam.com/video/5UT92IB5ugs/v-deo.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : ua-cam.com/video/D1GpR5MApQk/v-deo.html Good luck!
Bread my ex after 12 years suddenly told me that he had met another woman and that he wasn't calling anymore. He lives in another city but we have had an intense relationship. We lived together for 6 years. Now,this woman who is still married is living at his house. I am heartbroken. I contacted you almost 4 years to the date because he did the same thing except that the other woman was not living with him. So after using your program then, he came back to me after almost 6 months this was in 2016. Of course the pandemic has not helped because we couldn't see each other and he would call me that he hated to be alone. Suddenly, he texted me that he met her and that he was not going to call me anymore. I was shocked to the bone this was happening again. I do not know what to expect. He practically ignores me and although I tried talking to him by message he has responded and said that I am very special in his heart. What kind of bullshit is this??, I dont understand?? How could he do this to me again???. I did your course then, but I have no access now. I want to get him back for good and now she is living with him. HE didnt sound very happy.... why does he ignore me... I hear that she checks his phone !!@ please any reply would be appreciated Brad. I have spoken to you before. Thnx
Sorry to hear that. The distance will always be a major culprit. Is this long distance scenario temporary? Because if it isn't, then may be as good as over. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: ua-cam.com/video/GQY4N04uvtA/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/5nfWRJRrnAs/v-deo.html However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let's take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
1. 30 day NC rule 2. Limit communication to text messages or social media 3. Stop and think carefully before sending a message and keep it short and no rushing things. Best sending a funny message after NC 4. Post pictures that create FOMO 5. We are attracted to people that equal or surpass our status: be the best possible version of yourself. 6. Avoid overly emotional messages or emotional posts on social media
Glad to hear! Hey, you never know who else can benefit, so if it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t already, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it! 🙂
You're welcome! Hey, you never know who else can benefit, so if it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t already, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it! 🙂
That's no news. The "no contact" rule usually comes naturally to the dumpers. Learn the 3 basic phases I teach in my Ex Factor Guide. It helps to learn the basics of my 3R system here first, so you'll have an idea on how to go about it on your end: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html
I'm soo heartbreaking,I want him come back,my breakup yesterday only...I can't live without him....I want him, I want life with him..my families are one of the problem for my breakup.... please help me....I want to live with him ,his is my everything..... please please anybody help me
I recommend you to employ the FULL 30-day "no contact" rule and be mindful of the tips in the following videos to help you out: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM AND make sure you don't make the number one mistake here: y2u.be/1cBpNrDDHnw So once you've completed the no contact phase, watch my texting tips on how to re-establish contact with your ex. This is only one among the many texting tips posted across my channel. Start with these: ua-cam.com/video/XonMtLFo000/v-deo.html AND y2u.be/RggluigF74E but if you're still lost about what to do despite the tips sprawled on my channel, then you may want to sign up for my one-on-one email coaching at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Best of luck!
Hi mr Brad !! I love all your videos it gives me too much courage and confidence I need an advice from you - my bf broke up with me because of lack of understanding and according to him it's not the correct time for us so said he still want to be in touch and be friends and get to know me better and then may be he can think of giving it a chance again after years What should I do to get him back do this process will help to me get him back if it's because lack of understanding plz advice me
When a breakup happens, most of the time this means he has lost attraction for you, hence, it's a bad move to be friends with him. You need to cut off contact for at least 30 days first. Silence is key and here's why: ua-cam.com/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/v-deo.html If you continue being friends right away, the boundaries won't be clear and you're technically both free to date other people. Wouldn't it be pure torture if your ex dates someone else in front of you because you're only "friends" now, don't you think? So it’s not a good idea, especially if you want this ex back. Watch this video so you’ll know why being friends won’t lead you anywhere you wanna be with your ex and how to get out of this trap, at ua-cam.com/video/pv_cjzhVKAY/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/yd6pvNVeHjI/v-deo.html but read my Ex Factor Guide since that’s much more detailed and so you'll know how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total), including what to say, do or not do, along with free bonus materials for texting. Good luck!
I am a fan of yours i like watching your videos. Though i already feel my ex-fiancè isn't coming back. I took also your quiz and i have to agree with the result that i got, with his treatment nowadays, he already made up his mind and has moved on. But i still watch your videos. Learning a lot and recognizing my mistakes. More power!
I blocked him from everywhere he was totally changed before we had break up his behavior was like as he don't care about me anymore I want him back in my life but seems like he is not interested at all 😭
Sorry to hear that. I recommend you to employ the FULL 30-day "no contact" rule and be mindful of the tips in the following videos to help you out: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM AND make sure you don't make the number one mistake here: y2u.be/1cBpNrDDHnw So once you've completed the no contact phase, watch my texting tips on how to re-establish contact with your ex. This is only one among the many texting tips posted across my channel. Start with these: ua-cam.com/video/XonMtLFo000/v-deo.html AND y2u.be/RggluigF74E but if you're still lost about what to do despite the tips sprawled on my channel, then you may want to sign up for my one-on-one email coaching at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Best of luck!
Hi, I have long distance relationship, we both never met. We both love each other, now her parents are going to do her engagement to other guy, she talked about me at her home but they denied. So now she is going to marry according to his father's choice. She said that his father has heart problem so she don't want anything coz of her, so now she is ready to marry other guy, whom she never even met before. Now she is saying to me that please be strong and move on I'm ur life, I can't talk to u anymore, what should I do?.. I really love her
Sorry to hear that. Not to state the obvious, but the distance is often the main culprit. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: ua-cam.com/video/GQY4N04uvtA/v-deo.html and/or ua-cam.com/video/5nfWRJRrnAs/v-deo.html However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let's take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
this is a sad channel to follow. but it's warm too. thank you for sharing your wisdom, Brad. I wish i can go back to 3 days ago, so i won't make that stupid decision and break up with her.
*quick question brad* My ex suggested not talking for a month for both of us to heal and then stay in contact and be friends Will the no contact rule still work in this case..?
No it will not because the point of no contact is to heal but also to let your EX fear the losing you, being curious. If they know you want them back they will only see you as waiting for them, and if they are friendzoning you, they will most likely not see you as a romantic partner and you will have to watch them go out with other people as a friend.
If you give yourselves some space, yes, it's a step towards progress. So I'd still suggest to give the "no contact" rule a shot because that's still really your best bet and yes, it will work in a sense where you BOTH will get to clear your mind to be in a better position to deal with each other when the time comes - instead of letting emotions overrule everything, risking things to get blown out of proportion even further. Makes sense? But will no contact ALONE work to get your ex back? Sometimes it does, but other times (especially if your situation is unique) it won't, because the no contact phase is only part one of the three-step process I teach in my Ex Factor Guide. Learn the basics here: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html I also made a quick vid to those who are seemingly lost and could use a reminder on what to do: ua-cam.com/video/obBIttQSak4/v-deo.html
I appreciate the support. If it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t done so yet, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it, too! :-)
Nope. Well, if your ex is watching videos on how to get an ex back, that's a very good sign for you, isn't it? But without knowing more, it's hard for me to give real advice. My first suggestion is probably not to change anything and to continue employing my techniques anyway. For specific advice that’s tailored to your situation, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Talk soon!
Hey Brad my gf some times quarells wid me some times she is so much emotional attached with me. Some times I think she is ignoring me what to do now. Plz give me permanent solution
You've got to realize that this is all up to you both, man. What were you two fighting about? It's best to give it time because all this arguing had taken a toll in your relationship. Perhaps you've both argued more than you had a good time with each other? If the negatives outweigh the positives in the relationship, that's when an imbalance happens and the relationship will keel over wherein one or both people will likely abandon ship,as the case with your ex. It's time to reset things. Start with the 30-day "no contact" rule to get your ex into a psychological neutral.
Brad Browning I need your help. I broke up with my boyfriend because he is being so ignorant about our relationship and care less. When I broke up with him for him being careless he replied it is what it is and accepted to break up. So I am now in no contact rule. Can I get him back?
hai Brad , i just broke up with my gf a couple month ago around 15sept i guess , is it any chance that i can get back to my ex bcos i've been breaking the rules before i watch your video like i send her a lot of text , post our picture on social media and etc until this tuesday i stop texting her bcos of your tips of "no contact" . so is it any chance that i can get back to my ex again after that ? i've been following your tips 3 days already haha
I have been struggling to stop contacting my ex, but in speaking to her friends and brother they gave me some hope and they said to give her the space she asked for at this point, I text her one last time telling her to give me another opportunity to show her things can be different and she didn’t say no she just said right now she isn’t at that point where she can let me show her so I guess 30 days starts now!
If you do have to make some changes, then do it for yourself and never for anyone else, okay? See, making changes for the sake of someone is considered seeking validation, and that's an unattractive trait in and of itself… so it naturally won't do anything to rebuild the attraction necessary to get your ex back. On the other hand, if these are changes that you know within yourself that you need to make, then it's important to take time so be sure you aren’t rushing it because permanent, lasting changes don't happen overnight and your ex can actually see through it. Does that make sense? With that in mind, watch this vid to subtly show these changes to your ex: ua-cam.com/video/bZ1KetALZrc/v-deo.html
last year, I was in this situation and my husband left me and two kids for 6 months, I tried all of things and we are living happily together now :) i feel very sad and worried sometimes when I am thinking about the past, but my theory is; in the most relationship one person should scarify more than the other because of the kids or love, this person in most of the cases are women sadly. But, that's what it is, otherwise we will see more and more single mothers in the future which is not good for the kids and family, I think. women! you can NOT find a perfect man, they are not exist , so live with whoever you have chosen. Also you must know that you need to be softer and more humble if your man is a difficult man like mine!!!
Eventually im want my bf back. But after i read all these comment i realise im desperate in proving to my bf i love him. And i blame myself for giving him the way. I cry in my mama legs at the age of 31. Omg. Thanks everyone, i realise nothing more powerful that listening to people story. I feel like i deserve better.
True. Like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you since you know your relationship and your ex better than anyone else on here. And alas, not every ex is worth all the trouble. It's up to you to decide who is. Best of luck!
This was the message my ex gf sent me and I just don’t know how I am going to get her back at all …… I don’t have the money to take on here …. So this was the message right here …. …………………………………………………………………………. Over the course of the time away I've changed alot too and I've been self loving more and realizing I don't need to put up with shit im getting too old for that drama now that I see where I went wrong im growing and learning.... respect is gone you didn't have that much to begin with or this would have never happened
This is a very common issue which many people face, so I suggest you watch this vid coz I covered that here: ua-cam.com/video/UspIarCWk5M/v-deo.html Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication. More about that on here: ua-cam.com/video/5UT92IB5ugs/v-deo.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : ua-cam.com/video/D1GpR5MApQk/v-deo.html Good luck!
The No contact rule is brutal. We get scared they’ll move on instead of wanting to chase us during the no contact. It’s the hardest thing ever
Oh there gunna move on alright.. And sleep with other people.. Believe that.. But the key is what ur tryna achieve and that's making them think about u..
The short answer is here: ua-cam.com/video/T_W_ilf9x6w/v-deo.html The first phase where you employ the 30-day "no contact" rule is the recovery phase, the next two phases are geared towards re-attracting and rekindling that lost attraction with your ex. This is known as my 3R system found in the guide. So to answer your question, yes, your ex can become really distant emotionally, mentally, and physically but this is why you have the two other phases to get an ex back. Here's an overview to help you understand: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html Good luck!
Mine moved on. Actually started talking to a guy whilst I was with her apparently. Don't bother mate it'll just end up hurting more lmao
It's been 3 weeks since you posted .. Did it work?
Kit Kat Yes, currently me and her are back together we’re dating and actually we got back a Week ago on the 7th of September. It was hard because even tho she came back it seemed rough for the first few days because we weren’t as stable but now we’re doing much better we stopped with the arguing and now we’re happy again. In conclusion the No contact rule worked but it was really hard for me Bc we panic that she might move on.
Just be the best version of your self, and you'll attract the right people. Stay light and happy. After watching this, I don't care about attracting my ex anymore. Lol. No contact rule for life.
As what I always say, the decision to get an ex back is totally up to you. You know your ex's worth to you as well as your relationship. So only you can decide whether this is someone you want to go back to or not. All the best!
Awesome comment
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Exactly!
Exactly!
How to make it thru No Contact phase: every time you get the urge to contact them, watch these videos!! It will help your confidence, keep you busy and motivated. Don't cave...it's so important.
Way to go! This may help too, this vid is specifically for this purpose: ua-cam.com/video/5G1IRS-lCvc/v-deo.html
thank you maris
Only if it actually works. There's few things worse than sticking to NC day after day, week after week, hoping it'll work, but it never does. Then you see videos like this and read comment after comment where going NC worked wonders for other people, but not you.
I am so heartbroken. But the more I think about it. I dont want him back. He was awful. And so was his family. It just hurts mostly because he let me go so easily.
Andrea Phillips i understand. Mine didn’t care about me either
Well, he did you a favour by breaking up. It's a chance to escape from a toxic relationship, yeah? :-) You can now start over anew with someone better!
I fucking know, same thing here girl
I'm in the same boat 😔
Do you even listen to your words?
I've been watching these videos lately since I've been feeling hopeless about get back with my ex but I have to say, even watching these videos makes you so hopeful and makes you feel good about yourself. It's all a mental game and the cards are in you favor, you just have to know how to play them.
Well said. Thanks for dropping by! :-)
Dude I completely understand my ex's actions now and what they mean. Not only that, but the things I've done that have driven her right to me. You're the gd man
Good good! Make sure you take those lessons with you so history won't repeat itself, all right? Best of luck!
me too, ive now understood everything what she really wants from me, im too selfish. its been 33 days since we broke up
THANK YOU SO MUCH. After doing all these I’ve realised that I ... don’t even want my ex back anymore lol. Great if he actually wants to come back but if not I’m so happy living my life the way it is now :)
Like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you since you know your relationship and your ex better than anyone else on here. And alas, not every ex is worth all the trouble. It's up to you to decide who is. Best of luck!
Good for you. Be good to yourself. Be strong and move on to better life.
if someone ditches your ex, only then your ex realises how loving and caring you were to him.
That oftentimes happen!
Its best ....... I want it too ...... I just want him to feel how much pain he give me in a sudden break up 💔
Brad, you have helped out a good friend of mine recently. She was dating a man for nine months, then there was a breakup for 2 months and in that 2 month period, she watched your videos and really worked on herself a lot and now they are back together. Thank you.
How did they get back together? Details.....
Awesome story! Thanks for sharing.
@@BradBrowning coming up on 1 month of no contact. Dam it's been hard as hell! Been trying to move on, been dating, and doing me.. yet she's still on the back of my mind.
It went super well!! I have him chasing me and initiating after three years of gradual, increased communication and bettering my life.
I love u all. I hope our ex back . Love yourself 1st before u love others. God bless u
Almost on week three on no contact !! Still going strong 💪🏻
hi how are ya? How did it not work? No contact is always a win win situation. Either you get your ex back like you wanted , or you realize it wasn’t all that you thought it was and you’ve made yourself a better person during the no contact period.
Great! Now once you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule and assuming you did it correctly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: ua-cam.com/video/uN_XAgHjaFM/v-deo.html but make sure you tick off the checklist here first: ua-cam.com/video/BAhMrmw3Sms/v-deo.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html Good luck!
This channel is a blessing for heartbroken people...... you are a legend......and I think u should work for your posture.... your left shoulder is higher than your right shoulder
Thanks, for both your support and concern. Weirdly enough, I recently got this checked and the doctor found nothing wrong with it. :/
Pause at 5:15 the messages behind him are funny af 😂
Thank you for a great video Brad, my 7 year long gf just broke up with me a week ago, been constantly trying to reach out to her but to no avail before I saw your videos, I'm gonna do everything you are teaching us and hopefully win her back, thanks again and keep up the good content.
U got back together??
Brad my ex sister just wants to be friends but she loves me still no matter what she says I deserve
I have seen your video and is very helpful I've been dating my X4
My question is I have seen your video and it's helpful my ex left me after 6 months it was not a caustic relationship she just want to be friends but before that
Had made plans for marriage met her family her previous relationship with a very abusive and marriage I've tried your no contact it's been 2 weeks I've done all and she posts she's called me twice around midnight she text me saying that she was going to her sisters I called once breaking no contact rule she didn't answer she left me a text saying she was busy a few days later for the weekend being only two weeks into the no contact should I text her back or should I still stay silent and just post things that I'm doing active on social
Me: decided not to text him😤.
My stupid mind: go check his last seen. Text him fast!!
Ms. Anxiety 😔🙌🏻 always
@@joyceannmilante6696 ☹️
I an always checking last seen which makes me decide to text, but always on the last i will decide not to.
@@joyceannmilante6696 it seriously worked for me when I stopped texting him. I really felt bad when I stopped texting him but few days later he texted me saying that he was missing me😄
Ms. Anxiety that’s great to hear! Hope you are doing well. Sending love💜
I never had many relationships as a young man, so as a 40 year old losing a wife of 9 years was absolutely gut wrenching. I lost the step kids and her family. This whole thing has been gut wrenching on every level. These videos are VERY insightful. Thank you.
I understand how you feel. It's excruciating when you thought your life partner turns out to be a dud. Just stay strong and apply the tips on my channel if you're not getting my Ex Factor Guide. Always take time out for yourself first, yeah? Best of luck!
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Your voice is so satisfying it makes me fall asleep
Haha. Thanks for watching! Happy to even be the background noise if it helps....
I brokeup with my ex three days after the breakup immediate i apply 30 days no contact and it worked for me. Now im back with my ex 😍😍😍 we taking things slow Thank you Brad im so Grateful
Good for you! You're welcome ;)
Your tips are so helpful and so accurate. Thank you!
You're welcome! Hey, you never know who else can benefit, so if it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t already, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it! 🙂
What if both of us watching this video 😂?
chonchon keishing the one that hurt the other needs to reach out. If you are the one that got hurt don't reach out, even if he's not reaching out either. Just move on and leave them with the lasting memory of your strength.
Well, if your ex is watching videos on how to get an ex back, that's a very good sign for you, isn't it? But without knowing more, it's hard for me to give real advice. My first suggestion is probably not to change anything and to continue employing my techniques anyway. For specific advice that’s tailored to your situation, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Talk soon!
Laughing to death
Lmao 😂😆😁
A black hole forms
After watching ur videos it makes me feel more relax and makes me fall asleep, love u brad 😊
I thought we are a strong couple coz we've been in relationship for 7yrs. We broke up because so so tired in my attitude. But for me if u love the person, u wont give up that easily right.. For the past 7yrs i was too confident that he will always find a solution when we had conflict,he always making effort, he always say sorry even if its my fault. But now he is totally different. He said he wants space,that he is tired, so that ipromise to him that i will change the bad part of me . I ask him for one more chance ,just one chance to improve my self .. But he insist that he is already giving me the chance for the past 7yrs.. Chance for the 7yrs???? But on that year he is not complaining, he manage the problem by his own.. How do i know if he is not complaining about my attitude before .where is tha chance there?? But still i want him back . Now im on my 11th days of NC . I really miss him . . He was'nt block me on his fb. He still seen my messege from him on messenger .sometimes he still reply. Before i went on NC i ask him if he still love me .his answer "very very thin" .woah i think im crazy now..wat should i do now.? Please response
Hopefully you still got the message before you fell asleep? :-) Seriously, thanks, Rhoela!
What is so valuable about your ex that it’s so important to get back with them or earn their approval? Especially if they broke up with you. They likely broke up with you (also) because you didn’t present yourself as a valuable commodity that others want. You probably want your ex back because you don’t have other OPTIONS. The best way to get someone’s attention is to remove yours and move on. Even if they want you back, you lose value (with them) by going back or making them feel like they can have you back. They’ll just toy with you again until the next time they’re bored or find other appealing options. They either left you because of what you stopped doing or started doing. It originally ended for a reason and it won’t get better if you didn’t change the things that caused them to lose interest the first time. Learn from your mistakes, work on yourself, move on to bigger and better things. The minute you create value for yourself, you’ll have other OPTIONS and you won’t be so quick to go back to your ex. Let the ex stew in their own SH*T for missing out on your greatness. Don’t go backwards.
I loved this Comment. Thankyou!
The point here is act like you move on already even if you're not
that might push them away
I think I was someone's rebound
Lucas Tom Brady Fan 6 damn that sucks I’m sorry
I do too 😭😭😭😭😭😭 and he's the one who chose to leave me
Me too😢😢
Ah geez I'm so sorry, that's one of the worst feelings. I feel for you :( ♡
I don't know whether it will works or not but your videos make me think positive and give me a positive energy to believe on myself.Your words motivate me very deeply. Everytime when I lose hope I see your video and that works as an anesthesia to my uncontroled mind. Thank you very much..
Stay strong!
Any advice for someone who broke all the rules before finding your channel? 😂😂😐😐😭😭
Hahaha same 😂😂😂😂
I broked one rule,i said i miss you and your cute
It's best you go by the golden rules here as much as possible: ua-cam.com/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/v-deo.html Now I can't assess the damage per se, and it may or may not be too late, but it’s definitely time to move forward from whatever mistakes you've made and not repeat those! Don’t be so hard on yourself, though, since this is a fairly common issue and most people are guilty of this at some point. If you'd really want to gauge your chances of getting back together (it may not be all doom and gloom after all) I suggest you take the free quiz on my website and answer as honestly as possible, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
Michael Riddick like I contact but its been like days without talking like i think he likes another girl now
Lols so needed that advice...
I wonder so many people break up. I thought it's just me. Kudos to all!!
You're definitely not alone.
@@BradBrowning hi Brad kindly share your email address my issue is too complicated can't even type it here😭🥺
Lol brad your videos make me feel better even if I don’t get back with my ex that’s why I like your stuff man keep it up
Good to know! :-) I appreciate the support. If it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t done so yet, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it, too!
Idc if I'm missing out, I just wanna sleep. ;w;
Yeah. Sleep, cry, process the breakup, but make sure you don't isolate yourself too much. Go out with friends every once in a while, okay? Take care!
me either. i just wanna make money lol
Right!!! I just wanna move on already
Open your mind. My ex and I met when our worlds were so stressful and hectic, after the most amazing relationship she ended it with me and honestly, all my own fault. She stuck in there for me but I missed the signs she needed a lot more support. I went NC for 30+ days, we connected, my text first, very casual one, a few weeks later she texts me, wanted to meet up for a coffee and dog walk. After a slow reintroduction to each other, we were both fixed and this time ready for the love we still carried inside. 5 years on we have a beautiful daughter, our love and relationship is stronger than ever and next year we are getting married. STAY opened minded to the timing of your life.
Thanks for sharing your success story. I'm happy for you! :-)
Just be yourself... If he wants to stay... He'll stay... If not let him leave..
I’m on 31 days no contact..he blocked me on Facebook..really no contact at all..☺️
Since 21 june
62 days now
Since you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule and assuming you did it correctly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: ua-cam.com/video/uN_XAgHjaFM/v-deo.html but make sure you tick off the checklist here first: ua-cam.com/video/BAhMrmw3Sms/v-deo.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html Good luck!
Why would he block someone so special, you won’t have trouble finding Mr.Right
He unfollowed me on Instagram and kept on Facebook ☹️
exactly 31 days no contact he just vanished..poof!
praying man this works i miss her so much
Good luck! Remember to watch this, too: ua-cam.com/video/gUBNd6pDINM/v-deo.html
hi brad I love your program because it's 3 days and she already says she needs me.She has call me 3 times but I'm going to be strong and keep ignoring them. thank you, you really are the best
You say do no contact then say send sone messages. Send no messages ever let them reach out no more desperation
I want him back !!it’s been 3 months since we broke up !! I love him to much but he choose to leave me !! I don’t know what to do ! But I was hoping he will back in the future
Here are the basics to getting an ex boyfriend back: y2u.be/aeGNPBdpnsI I also suggest that you read my Ex Factor Guide since that’s much more detailed and so you'll know how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total and the "no contact" rule is only the first), including what to say, do or not do, along with bonus materials for texting, and the psychology of how a man thinks and understanding men in general. Good timing is essential! Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com/fbuy
Hope u are ok now
Man i love your advices..me and my ex haven't talked to each other for 3 days..first day was hard spent it on cryin but later im fine thank uu ❤️ tryin to get him back if it works its good if not at least im healing goood
Thanks, man! Stay strong and keep safe!
I recently broke up with my ex.He was cheating on me with several girls.When I found about it and asked him if he even felt bad about his doing.We had huge argument where he used abusive words and physically abuse me.I did everything and this was all I got.I just want him to realize he is not right hurting someone's feeling.
I asked him to choose me or other other one but he needed up just walking away.Leaving all the stuffs I bought for him.I blocked him on all social media.What I feel very bad is after all what I did for him I ended up getting verbal abuse and beaten up.
Sorry, but it's time to move on. Watch this: ua-cam.com/video/FP8YmErEOW8/v-deo.html
If I have to do stuff to get you back I don't want you no more
My girlfriend left me for someone else. It's been a long time since then. I keep blaming myself for not being good enough but the truth is I just don't want her to be the problem I have to leave. This video helps me a lot. I tried communicate so many times. He didn't do anything for her and despite my efforts into our relationship, she choose him and didn't try her best for me. So I had to leave. It hurts. And I need time.
Time indeed. Take time to heal as being cheated on really hurts. Take care!
I texted him after 2 months of separation of no contact “ hi I hope all is going well with u,thinking of you.” He ignored me 😭
Moon81 no no no! Now that starts the whole process over! Stay strong and set this time! Look past him and focus on yourself and that’s when he’ll notice
Did you break up with him or he broke up with you ??
Daniel Hajj he did💔
That means he never loved you I went through the same thing be the girl he can never get make him regret it that’s what I’m doing to my ex I’m ignoring her cause she left me . Now make him regret it and watch he will chase you for the rest of his life lol 😆
Daniel Hajj 😂 LoL but he left me since September I cut contact with him since he ignored me since last year untill this day there is no sign of him so I doubt it he’ll chase me 😔
Your videos are really effective ....I had a reply on insta from you and I am happy for this sir....you are legend ....hats off sir ..
Good! Just remember to continue to play your cards right. Watch my other vids for guidance. Good luck!
If you were discarded and in no contact-- due to the discard-- and your ex is not on social media, then how can this possibly work?
Skip the social media part. That's only a small part and not everything. It helps to learn the basics here: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html
My husband left me, he's been ignoring my calls on his mom's phone, he's changed his number on me and blocked me on FB, now he wants a divorce. He says that it's because he went to jail and is afraid of going back but I was told last night by a friend that he has been cheating on me when I asked him just 2 hrs before that if he has and he said no, he's been telling everyone that he hasn't but it evidently was on FB that he cheated on me but that he couldn't explain why because he is still married and then he posted something else that says naughty secrets. I was raped when he was in jail and evidently it's all my fault to everyone. I have bad complex PTSD, anxiety disorder, stress disorder, bpd, chronic depression, I've lost a lot of kids which him and 1 of which I was 3 months along and just lost him or her a couple nights ago. I also have attachment disorders from everything I have been through. What do I do??
Make sure you prioritize yourself and get the help you need as a result of what you've been through, okay? Maintaining a struggling marriage while also struggling with depression, among other things, at the same time can be too much for most people. A relationship needs two healthy people in it in order for it to thrive. Get the help you need first and the rest will fall into place.Do not downplay depression or any other type of mental illness because that's a tricky one! Right now, stuff can just be way too draining for you both, so focus on you first. Okay? Take care!
Thank you!
First, thank you for teaching me. Now, this is my situation. A few weeks back my ex dumped me. That evening we spent time together. Prior to me leaving him I asked him if I could announce our union on Facebook. I said to him me, you, Facebook, yes?. He nodded his head up and down in order to indicate a yes answer. I believe he did not understand me because his English is limited. He is Venezuelan and speaks fluent Spanish. I am Black American and I speak English. Most of our communication was through an online translator. Yet, he would always tell me that he loved me very much. So, in order to clear this situation I sent him a letter with a card apologizing for the miscommunication. The letter was translated by a dear friend of mine who is bilingual in both Spanish and English. Do you think he would try to come back to me? I have moved on with doing daily exercises and other social interactions.
Okay,so what actually happened? It may be time to put things into perspective because in 14 years spent as a relationship coach, I find that a breakup is often NOT just one person's fault, so look at the roles that you've BOTH played that led to the breakup and if the issues have a chance to get resolved, and how to go about it. In most cases, the problems that led to the breakup can be resolved, but in some cases, it can't. So take time to evaluate, okay? However, I have to warn you not to ask the reasons from your ex. This is what I've discussed here along with other stuff that might help you, so this is a must-watch: ua-cam.com/video/zqAEi9PbEAA/v-deo.html Good luck!
Hi brad. The things that my x n i have no no social media connections. So the social media advice how can i replace it. The only connection we have now is just during shift change at work. Idk how to act
I have completed 30 day no contact , but it seemed that she is still not missing me
What progress have you made in your own life? Make sure you work on those for your ex to actually miss something about you! Watch this, too: ua-cam.com/video/gUBNd6pDINM/v-deo.html
This is the hardest part, everything is grounded after I feel she is the one, she wants break from me, nothing is left for me. I want more advice
Very very helpful brad ,also my ex has started to look at me now!
Good! Don't forget to check out my other videos if you're not getting my guide so you'll know what to do next after the 30-day "no contact" period, to contacting your ex down to re-attracting, and what to do in between those phases and how to transition to actually getting your ex back. Here's a quick overview: ua-cam.com/video/7JtmVbDkblw/v-deo.html Best of luck!
I don’t know what to do. Partner of 6 years, we were both so happy, all of a sudden wants to be alone. Not sure what to do. Both of us were loyal .. idk how to deal with this. I subscribed
It may be time to put things into perspective because in 14 years spent as a relationship coach, I find that a breakup is often NOT just one person's fault, so look at the roles that you've BOTH played that led to the breakup and if the issues have a chance to get resolved, and how to go about it. In most cases, the problems that led to the breakup can be resolved, but in some cases, it can't. So take time to evaluate, okay? However, I have to warn you not to ask the reasons from your ex. This is what I've discussed here along with other stuff that might help you, so this is a must-watch: ua-cam.com/video/zqAEi9PbEAA/v-deo.html Good luck!
I would love to use some of these but we are in the middle of a pandemic so where can I go to do this
Yup
Same
Yes
Lockdown break up is really hard
The pandemic has affected people worldwide. Nothing left to do but to use your time productively. Here's my stance on the matter: bit.ly/3bn8bPN
My ex broke up with me for numerous reasons. I would get mad at him a lot because he was disloyal sometimes (nothing major but he’d sometimes lie about snap chatting or driving a girl home), I’m going away to college in the fall and we both don’t know how that’s going to work with our relationship (he said he can’t deal with a time limit on us), and he also said he has depression and needs to focus on himself because all of his happiness comes from me and he knows it’s not healthy. I don’t know what to believe. His reasons do make sense and he did go through a lot of trauma, but i don’t get why that would make our relationship end. He still texts me sometimes and tells me he misses me?? But he doesn’t want to get back together. He said he would consider getting back together in a few months when he betters himself, but he also told me not to get my hopes up. Idk, he’s all over the place and i’m not sure how to continue right now. We’ve been broken up for a month.
If your ex has a mental disorder like depression, bipolar disorder, IED, NPD, or the like, the most loving thing you can do is to give each other space while he gets help. Encourage your ex to seek treatment because this is something only a therapist specializing on this can handle, even this is outside of my scope. But I can help you how to handle things on YOUR end as you go through this difficult ordeal. I know it can be incredibly tough knowing you’ve given it your best shot, yet your partner still fails to appreciate it or is breaking up despite it being a good relationship. Anyway it's a bad idea to be friends with an ex especially knowing they have a mental health condition. In the end, they will drain you and leave you with lots of scars that would take years of therapy. Consider signing up for my coaching program so I can help assess your situation clearly, look at all the other factors at play and see things you might have missed, then guide you accordingly on a regular, ongoing basis at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
She as feelings for me but her self respect is not letting her come back...... Need an answer
Vishlesh Vishu its called ego...don't let her ego killed your rltion..
That's because you aren't doing anything to appease to her at an emotional level. In other words, you aren't doing anything to make her feel something for you naturally on an emotional level, which is why she's sticking to her logical level. This vid is for you: ua-cam.com/video/PBotQygy7os/v-deo.html
I am 5 days into no contact and i am so happy after 2 failed attempts of no contact. it feels different this time because i am emotionally detached, have clarity seeing him for the low quality man he is and not interested in him anymore. i dont want a man who doesnt pursue, prioritize, love, or value me.
Good. Not all relationships can be salvaged or even meant to be salvaged. Like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you. You know your situation and your ex best. Sometimes a relationship can be salvaged and worth the save but sometimes it isn't, especially if there's cheating or some other type of abuse involved. It's your life and it's your decision.
@BradBrowning no contact is great. the failed no contact attempts were my fault because I was not mentally ready to let go. I ended up unblocking and reaching out too soon. They would be happy to hear from me, but then i would be clingy, scared to set standards and chase him all over again. 7 days no contact now! I am detached so it's much easier this time. I think he will be concerned about the energy shift and know for sure he has lost me when I make it to 2 weeks no contact.
hey guys
i broke up with my ex 4 months ago, she moved on, she loves a new guy rn and idk what to do, we are still talking, idk what to do
One thing that most people don't realize is that they hold the key. Have you been actively trying to get your ex back? Don’t wait for this person to have an epiphany. If you want your ex back, then keep track of what you've been doing to see if it's productive or not. Here's a quick overview: ua-cam.com/video/xgR03RcU8mw/v-deo.html and it's best to go by the golden rules here: ua-cam.com/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/v-deo.html Have you checked out my guide yet? It may be time to revamp your techniques. Before anything else though, take the free quiz on my website to gauge your chances of getting your ex back.
Thank you , just has a break up and this sheds light and is very helpful. Makes sense. Makes me feel much better.
First of all, I would like to thank you so much for your help. Now, I am back with my so called ex.
And that's just because of you, your vedios and articles.
But now i am facing to another problem. My closest friends and my mum are against it. They say that he's going to leave me again, that iam stupid for dating him and that he hurt me once, so that means that he's going to hurt me again..
What am I supposed to do? How can I make them like him again? He never did anything wrong or bad beside braking up with me..
Just don't wear your heart out on your sleeves. They will like him as time progresses and he won't mess up. Don't fret. Also don't get too high expectations, especially if he or you or both of you are still young. Just chill and enjoy life, all right? :-) Best of luck!
My ex broke up with me via short cold text message didn’t fully understand that method but didn’t urge the breakup cause you can’t argue with that I’ve seen many of your videos and I realized that after a couple of months of absolutely no contact or social media i don’t want her back but would really appreciate some clarification but whatever I only wish her and myself the best
Sorry to hear that. That was disrespectful indeed but trust me when I say you're not alone in this.
How would I make him feel this way when he broke up with me because he loves someone else in just a span of two weeks after our almost 3 years relationship?
Your ex is diverting his attention to someone else, which is the easiest thing to do and is really just his way of coping. If anything, your ex is suffering, too, even though it may not seem like it. Discussed that here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA So that's what you ought to be doing too. Here, watch this: ua-cam.com/video/gUBNd6pDINM/v-deo.html so try to put your focus elsewhere because your ex is likely rebounding and you're only wasting precious minutes of your life worrying about something that's out of your control. Watch this: ua-cam.com/video/TBtb34gy6zw/v-deo.html Now lastly, keep in mind that your ex is suffering too, even though they try to cover it up. Discussed that here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA
22years of our relationship and he says he did not love me, does not love me because he is obsessed with a younger girl who does not give a shit about him, but still he is manifesting to make the girl love him I am so broken, I don't knw wat to do
Sorry, but chances are your beau has been at least emotionally cheating on you. Discussed that in depth here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA There's no easy way to say this but the answer is is to move on, especially if your ex doesn't seem to be regretting their actions and asking to get back together. Most of the time, a lot of people would move on, but a few would still fight for the relationship, so this all depends which side you're on and what your views are. But take into consideration about what I’ve mentioned here, too: ua-cam.com/video/m27TLeyUmwg/v-deo.html There is no right or wrong answer here because it is your relationship and it's personal to you. Make sense? Anyway men and women cheat for different reasons, but if you think your ex is worth it and if there's been a genuine connection between you two before the cheating happened, then try to see the roles that you BOTH played that led to all this mess and see once and for all if it can be resolved or not, okay? Whatever the case, it's important you forgive yourself because no one's perfect, and forgive your ex too. Really take your time before deciding though and be sure not to make any hasty decisions from an emotional place but never force things with him if you can see he no longer wants to try. Take care!
sounds like he likes a challenge and what he cant have. if you want him to love you, stop loving him. let him be the man and court you.
Thank you for the powerful powerful words I went threw a hard break up losing my fiancé back around February this year it really hurt me but I have I don’t text her not even on social media even though I really really miss her and I want her back but I’m gonna follow this and I hope that we can we start over because I love but I also have to grow as well
I’m gonna keep listening to your videos because they have powerful messages behind him and thank you again
You're welcome! Hey, you never know who else can benefit, so if it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t already, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it!
She left me on oct 9 , i pleaded with her till yesterday. She blocked me now, what can i do sir.
How bad are Instagram stories during the no contact period? Should I hide my story from him or is it good to show him I have fun?
Follow the guidelines here: ua-cam.com/video/D1GpR5MApQk/v-deo.html
Brad.. my ex was like I’m feeling stresss than happiness.. but I always wanted her to make happy and I still want to.. I never want to live without her. Now we both are on a break. I hope these tips will work out really well! If it does I’ll be very happy and I’ll be so thankful to you. If it doesn’t then... idk.
How are you stressing her out? I assume you're part of this "stressful feeling" your ex describes, otherwise she wouldn't have ended things. Watch/review the tips here too: ua-cam.com/video/8T1wX8D48Qg/v-deo.html
“I’m pretty and rich”
That's great!
hi maybe
hi dearie :)
Can we friend together?
I am in long distance relationship. He stopped calling me a month ago, I called, left messages but didn't get any response. It hurts so much I don't even know what happened, what i did to make him leave me like this. It's like I don't exist for him.
Oh same😃😃
Sorry to hear that. The distance will always be a major culprit. Is this long distance scenario temporary? Because if it isn't, then may be as good as over. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: ua-cam.com/video/GQY4N04uvtA/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/5nfWRJRrnAs/v-deo.html However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let's take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
I don't know if it'll work.
But you're a very good man bruh.
More power for u 🥂
Hey, thanks!
My ex got mad at me for asking “do I know where that taco truck we went too is , I’m trying to take a friend”
What if we can't get a make over with covid-19 going around?💔
This is my exact thought 😢😢
Same 😭my eyebrows look terrible lol
Problem is worldwide, it seems. Use your time productively. Here's my stance on the matter: bit.ly/3bn8bPN
Please answer; Me and my ex broke up a week ago after 1 and a half year, and we both bought Christmas presents to each other. Me and her mom had a really strong relationship and I thought of giving the presents I bought to her through her mom, so I can avoid making any contact as I’m still in the no contact period
Yeah, why not!
How if he said stop texting me and look forward for yourself because we are not fitting together 😭😭😭😭 then he blocked me in messages and call 😭😭😭 now almost 2 weeks and I'm so suffering
Going through the same..
I am same situation..31 days no contact..
Hi Amy can we talk
This is a very common issue which many people face, so I suggest you watch this vid coz I covered that here: ua-cam.com/video/UspIarCWk5M/v-deo.html Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication. More about that on here: ua-cam.com/video/5UT92IB5ugs/v-deo.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : ua-cam.com/video/D1GpR5MApQk/v-deo.html Good luck!
Bread my ex after 12 years suddenly told me that he had met another woman and that he wasn't calling anymore. He lives in another city but we have had an intense relationship. We lived together for 6 years. Now,this woman who is still married is living at his house. I am heartbroken. I contacted you almost 4 years to the date because he did the same thing except that the other woman was not living with him. So after using your program then, he came back to me after almost 6 months this was in 2016. Of course the pandemic has not helped because we couldn't see each other and he would call me that he hated to be alone. Suddenly, he texted me that he met her and that he was not going to call me anymore. I was shocked to the bone this was happening again. I do not know what to expect. He practically ignores me and although I tried talking to him by message he has responded and said that I am very special in his heart. What kind of bullshit is this??, I dont understand?? How could he do this to me again???. I did your course then, but I have no access now. I want to get him back for good and now she is living with him. HE didnt sound very happy.... why does he ignore me... I hear that she checks his phone !!@ please any reply would be appreciated Brad. I have spoken to you before. Thnx
Sorry to hear that. The distance will always be a major culprit. Is this long distance scenario temporary? Because if it isn't, then may be as good as over. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: ua-cam.com/video/GQY4N04uvtA/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/5nfWRJRrnAs/v-deo.html However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let's take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
Then what if he still follow every account i have but he don’t check my story everyday just sometimes
1. 30 day NC rule
2. Limit communication to text messages or social media
3. Stop and think carefully before sending a message and keep it short and no rushing things. Best sending a funny message after NC
4. Post pictures that create FOMO
5. We are attracted to people that equal or surpass our status: be the best possible version of yourself.
6. Avoid overly emotional messages or emotional posts on social media
Watching your videos are always helpful x
Glad to hear! Hey, you never know who else can benefit, so if it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t already, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it! 🙂
Sometimes i want him back and other times i don't want him anymore.
Its been 11day of being doing the no contact rule.
Definitely make up your mind first so there won't be any wasted effort on your end.
mr brad i just wanna say thank you so much bc your videos help me so much
You're welcome! Hey, you never know who else can benefit, so if it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t already, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it! 🙂
Sadly when I committed in his post. He deleted it. It wasn’t even something bad. I only agreed to his post. And say “you are right my friend”.
I think it's a bit late for the "no contact" and I think he used that on me 😭 Brad!
That's no news. The "no contact" rule usually comes naturally to the dumpers. Learn the 3 basic phases I teach in my Ex Factor Guide. It helps to learn the basics of my 3R system here first, so you'll have an idea on how to go about it on your end: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html
I'm soo heartbreaking,I want him come back,my breakup yesterday only...I can't live without him....I want him, I want life with him..my families are one of the problem for my breakup.... please help me....I want to live with him ,his is my everything..... please please anybody help me
I recommend you to employ the FULL 30-day "no contact" rule and be mindful of the tips in the following videos to help you out: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM AND make sure you don't make the number one mistake here: y2u.be/1cBpNrDDHnw
So once you've completed the no contact phase, watch my texting tips on how to re-establish contact with your ex. This is only one among the many texting tips posted across my channel. Start with these: ua-cam.com/video/XonMtLFo000/v-deo.html AND y2u.be/RggluigF74E but if you're still lost about what to do despite the tips sprawled on my channel, then you may want to sign up for my one-on-one email coaching at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Best of luck!
Hi mr Brad !! I love all your videos it gives me too much courage and confidence
I need an advice from you - my bf broke up with me because of lack of understanding and according to him it's not the correct time for us so said he still want to be in touch and be friends and get to know me better and then may be he can think of giving it a chance again after years
What should I do to get him back do this process will help to me get him back if it's because lack of understanding plz advice me
When a breakup happens, most of the time this means he has lost attraction for you, hence, it's a bad move to be friends with him. You need to cut off contact for at least 30 days first. Silence is key and here's why: ua-cam.com/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/v-deo.html If you continue being friends right away, the boundaries won't be clear and you're technically both free to date other people. Wouldn't it be pure torture if your ex dates someone else in front of you because you're only "friends" now, don't you think? So it’s not a good idea, especially if you want this ex back. Watch this video so you’ll know why being friends won’t lead you anywhere you wanna be with your ex and how to get out of this trap, at ua-cam.com/video/pv_cjzhVKAY/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/yd6pvNVeHjI/v-deo.html but read my Ex Factor Guide since that’s much more detailed and so you'll know how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total), including what to say, do or not do, along with free bonus materials for texting. Good luck!
I am a fan of yours i like watching your videos. Though i already feel my ex-fiancè isn't coming back. I took also your quiz and i have to agree with the result that i got, with his treatment nowadays, he already made up his mind and has moved on. But i still watch your videos. Learning a lot and recognizing my mistakes. More power!
Happy to hear my videos have helped you. Stay strong!
I blocked him from everywhere he was totally changed before we had break up his behavior was like as he don't care about me anymore I want him back in my life but seems like he is not interested at all 😭
Don't spend your energy deleting people. Shows your weakness
Sorry to hear that. I recommend you to employ the FULL 30-day "no contact" rule and be mindful of the tips in the following videos to help you out: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM AND make sure you don't make the number one mistake here: y2u.be/1cBpNrDDHnw
So once you've completed the no contact phase, watch my texting tips on how to re-establish contact with your ex. This is only one among the many texting tips posted across my channel. Start with these: ua-cam.com/video/XonMtLFo000/v-deo.html AND y2u.be/RggluigF74E but if you're still lost about what to do despite the tips sprawled on my channel, then you may want to sign up for my one-on-one email coaching at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Best of luck!
Did you dumped him or he dumped you?
Hi, I have long distance relationship, we both never met. We both love each other, now her parents are going to do her engagement to other guy, she talked about me at her home but they denied. So now she is going to marry according to his father's choice. She said that his father has heart problem so she don't want anything coz of her, so now she is ready to marry other guy, whom she never even met before. Now she is saying to me that please be strong and move on I'm ur life, I can't talk to u anymore, what should I do?.. I really love her
Sorry to hear that. Not to state the obvious, but the distance is often the main culprit. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: ua-cam.com/video/GQY4N04uvtA/v-deo.html and/or ua-cam.com/video/5nfWRJRrnAs/v-deo.html However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let's take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
hey guys my ex just texted me & she said thank u for everything. All i did is reply 'lol okay' . So did i broke the no contact???
Yes, you did
Yep.
Yes
this is a sad channel to follow. but it's warm too. thank you for sharing your wisdom, Brad. I wish i can go back to 3 days ago, so i won't make that stupid decision and break up with her.
It happens. Hopefully you get to watch this, too: ua-cam.com/video/IhGnPtpJTbM/v-deo.html
*quick question brad*
My ex suggested not talking for a month for both of us to heal and then stay in contact and be friends
Will the no contact rule still work in this case..?
No it will not because the point of no contact is to heal but also to let your EX fear the losing you, being curious.
If they know you want them back they will only see you as waiting for them, and if they are friendzoning you, they will most likely not see you as a romantic partner and you will have to watch them go out with other people as a friend.
If you give yourselves some space, yes, it's a step towards progress. So I'd still suggest to give the "no contact" rule a shot because that's still really your best bet and yes, it will work in a sense where you BOTH will get to clear your mind to be in a better position to deal with each other when the time comes - instead of letting emotions overrule everything, risking things to get blown out of proportion even further. Makes sense? But will no contact ALONE work to get your ex back? Sometimes it does, but other times (especially if your situation is unique) it won't, because the no contact phase is only part one of the three-step process I teach in my Ex Factor Guide. Learn the basics here: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html I also made a quick vid to those who are seemingly lost and could use a reminder on what to do: ua-cam.com/video/obBIttQSak4/v-deo.html
He contact me 3 days after break. Found perfect bike for me?!?! I told him I don’t have money now
Brad you're my favourite relationship expert.
I appreciate the support. If it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t done so yet, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it, too! :-)
@@BradBrowning I've liked shared and subscribed to your channel years ago. Visiting Canada in 2021. Hope to see you!
Anyone ever think that our ex might know about this Chanel and watch these videos. Which means they might be steps ahead of us
Nope. Well, if your ex is watching videos on how to get an ex back, that's a very good sign for you, isn't it? But without knowing more, it's hard for me to give real advice. My first suggestion is probably not to change anything and to continue employing my techniques anyway. For specific advice that’s tailored to your situation, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Talk soon!
Hey Brad my gf some times quarells wid me some times she is so much emotional attached with me. Some times I think she is ignoring me what to do now. Plz give me permanent solution
You've got to realize that this is all up to you both, man. What were you two fighting about? It's best to give it time because all this arguing had taken a toll in your relationship. Perhaps you've both argued more than you had a good time with each other? If the negatives outweigh the positives in the relationship, that's when an imbalance happens and the relationship will keel over wherein one or both people will likely abandon ship,as the case with your ex. It's time to reset things. Start with the 30-day "no contact" rule to get your ex into a psychological neutral.
Brad Browning I need your help. I broke up with my boyfriend because he is being so ignorant about our relationship and care less. When I broke up with him for him being careless he replied it is what it is and accepted to break up. So I am now in no contact rule. Can I get him back?
hai Brad , i just broke up with my gf a couple month ago around 15sept i guess , is it any chance that i can get back to my ex bcos i've been breaking the rules before i watch your video like i send her a lot of text , post our picture on social media and etc until this tuesday i stop texting her bcos of your tips of "no contact" . so is it any chance that i can get back to my ex again after that ? i've been following your tips 3 days already haha
Its hard to do no contact when we have school, and have every class together.
Can relate
I can relate to this same situation
Same :(
shift your energy into indifference. they can feel the change in energy and body language.
I have been struggling to stop contacting my ex, but in speaking to her friends and brother they gave me some hope and they said to give her the space she asked for at this point, I text her one last time telling her to give me another opportunity to show her things can be different and she didn’t say no she just said right now she isn’t at that point where she can let me show her so I guess 30 days starts now!
I’m in the same boat brotha, we can do this!
If you do have to make some changes, then do it for yourself and never for anyone else, okay? See, making changes for the sake of someone is considered seeking validation, and that's an unattractive trait in and of itself… so it naturally won't do anything to rebuild the attraction necessary to get your ex back. On the other hand, if these are changes that you know within yourself that you need to make, then it's important to take time so be sure you aren’t rushing it because permanent, lasting changes don't happen overnight and your ex can actually see through it. Does that make sense? With that in mind, watch this vid to subtly show these changes to your ex: ua-cam.com/video/bZ1KetALZrc/v-deo.html
last year, I was in this situation and my husband left me and two kids for 6 months, I tried all of things and we are living happily together now :) i feel very sad and worried sometimes when I am thinking about the past, but my theory is; in the most relationship one person should scarify more than the other because of the kids or love, this person in most of the cases are women sadly. But, that's what it is, otherwise we will see more and more single mothers in the future which is not good for the kids and family, I think. women! you can NOT find a perfect man, they are not exist , so live with whoever you have chosen. Also you must know that you need to be softer and more humble if your man is a difficult man like mine!!!
Eventually im want my bf back. But after i read all these comment i realise im desperate in proving to my bf i love him. And i blame myself for giving him the way. I cry in my mama legs at the age of 31. Omg. Thanks everyone, i realise nothing more powerful that listening to people story. I feel like i deserve better.
True. Like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you since you know your relationship and your ex better than anyone else on here. And alas, not every ex is worth all the trouble. It's up to you to decide who is. Best of luck!
How to make my ex think about me if he is in a (rebound?) relationship? We don't keep in touch now.
Talked about that here: ua-cam.com/video/TSAGOs-VYlk/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/bJu_uqr70SM/v-deo.html
This was the message my ex gf sent me and I just don’t know how I am going to get her back at all …… I don’t have the money to take on here …. So this was the message right here ….
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Over the course of the time away I've changed alot too and I've been self loving more and realizing I don't need to put up with shit im getting too old for that drama now that I see where I went wrong im growing and learning.... respect is gone you didn't have that much to begin with or this would have never happened
He blocked me all the way even in social media what should I do further
He is already with another girl
This is a very common issue which many people face, so I suggest you watch this vid coz I covered that here: ua-cam.com/video/UspIarCWk5M/v-deo.html Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication. More about that on here: ua-cam.com/video/5UT92IB5ugs/v-deo.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : ua-cam.com/video/D1GpR5MApQk/v-deo.html Good luck!