@@WilDBilL.69 only in this day and age, could someone be randomly cruel, using only two letters. Theres a healthier form of trolling. Where you find a willing combatant. Cmon mate..
@@WilDBilL.69 is being cruel/arguing online, your only social outlet.? perhaps some mates are what you need .dont worry I'm not offering. Hope you find happiness though. ❤️ ps beans on toast is mint. Shh 😂
I’m so sorry that this happened. It’s so hard when you extend yourself outward and it’s just not reciprocated back, even by those who you thought loved and understood you. I hope your heart heals quickly.
It's hard seeing your circle of friends shrink when you start having a family. But true friends will still be your friends even if you haven't seen them for 20 or 30 years. Hang in there Lex.
You're partially right. I've "lost" friends because they got married and started families. We may not have talked in 10 years or more, but if they call I'll pick up and we'll still be friends. I understand. I'm glad to hear from them! But they also have to understand that they were the ones who got too busy to maintain their friendships for 10+ years. Things wont ever be the same again. A lot of time has gone by and we've both grown in separate directions with no input from each other. We're still on friendly terms, but I don't know you any more and you don't know me. You chose to abandon your friends and do family things instead. There's nothing wrong with that per se and I'm sure all your old friends are very happy to see you thriving in that role, but that's why the friendships aren't the same any more.
Yeah man, I left my home country 12 years ago and abruptly cut off all contact with everyone from there (some mental health issues etc). 12 years later a mate tracked my number down and called. I was nervous, but we talked like it was yesterday. It's a beautiful thing
As a lonely single father just know I watch your reaction videos pretty much everyday. They help keep my thoughts off of things like that. So thank you. You two are awesome
at least you have each other. i was a carer for my disabled mother for 15yrs and had no friends at all as couldnt ever leave the house for over an hour, she died last year and now i have all the free time but nobody to spend it with.
That's heartbreaking Lex. There are many on this platform that love you!❤ Know that! You are a beautiful person with a beautiful soul. Keep being who you are and let no one take your joy. Take care!
Hey I know the feeling, going through the same myself. I'll be your friend even though we don't talk. Just know that I understand am here for you anytime 🙂❤️💯
I completely know how your feeling. Im in the same boat. Its weird when you come to that realization from an event like a wedding. Im a loner anyways so i usually dont care but some days it can really bother you
Hi Brad and Lex. I think we all, or most of us, get to this stage in our life. You guys must know every one of us who watch you would be so glad to be your friend. You two are awesome. Æx 🙏
I’m pretty new to your forum; Brad and Lex, reviewing different genres of music. One of the things I’ve loved most about it: Lex, you are always smiling, enjoying the songs with such openness, and truly positive vibes! Brad, you read every word of the songs, both of you while taking in their meaning objectively. I’ve looked forward to it since I first came upon it and I wish you more than luck. We and I love you! May God bless you. Don’t go anywhere! 💖🙏🏼
It happens, believe me. I have all new friends since i moved years ago. Sorry, but they seem immature & jealous! You are still so young & so much ahead of you. You are married & have a beautiful son & made such a beautiful family. You are an amazing person & your journey in life has just started. You have outgrown these people, so be excited to start a new chapter w people that are more aligned w your values and people of character!! So much love sent your way! 💜❤️💜❤️💜❤️
I can relate. In my thirties and no proper friends. When i quit alcohol, cannabis and late night partying a few years ago, all of my friends disappeared gradually, subtly, but rather quickly. Its hard at this age to make friends who like outdoorsy stuff and deep conversations on your wavelength etc, especially when you work 60 to 70 lhrs a week and have no personal social media accounts...ah the good old days where you just walk up to another kid or group and ask can we be friends, or just joining in their game and thats it haha. Im still happy, motivated and content though, thats what truly matters, the rest may fall into place later, rant over, peace
Girl I feel this in my soul. I’d most definitely love being your friend. I wish we lived closer. lol! I have one friend that I can depend on, and that’s it. Not much family either. It’s a very lonely and isolating feeling. 💔
Wow, you are two awesome people. I can't imagine you not having friends. You actually do have many online that you aren't aware of. you are friends with many lonely people that are also good people. its a fast passed life, good friends can be so hard to find.
If you two are ever in southeastern ky. Let me know I want to buy you two dinner , thanking you for the hours of entertainment you have given me. I wish you two and that beautiful baby boy many blessings.
It really sucks. In times of need, you really find out who your real friends are. Some years ago, I had several major surgeries and after was in a rehab to get better. Had "friends" who lived within an hour or less and not one came to visit. As others have said, you'll find you have more acquaintances than friends. But hey...you have all of us here!! Chin up lady! You and Brad are beautiful souls.
Don’t be embarrassed. Be glad that you found out these were not true girlfriends. I always say the sooner you find out what side they stand on the better. Being a new mom, especially with your first baby, can feel isolating at times. Now would be a good time to maybe join a Mommy & Me group or you could try and organize a mother’s support group. You’d have the opportunity to meet women that you know you at least have one thing in common with and I feel sure that you’d be able to bond with at least one of them. True ride-or-die friends are hard to come by these days but I bet there’s someone out there who feels just like you do.
Alex, I am 54 and I realised long ago that some friends are there as long as it benefits them. It sucks that your so-called friends didn't come to your wedding but on the bright side you are now a much wiser lady.
I will be your friend Lexie girl! Not being dirty minded or anything....but I think you are the cutest thing! Your personality? Everyone is missing out! I'm an old white guy...and we couldn't be more different,and I think you are absolutely adorable! Brad is lucky to have you. He knows it. He's wise beyond his years 😊
Good friends are a small group sometimes only 1, the others will hit ya up when times are good or when they need something but don’t dare inconvenience them. You two have a family now and that’s what really matters.
When you meet a true friend and I mean, a true friend, You will be bound together for all of eternity. And you know it When times get tough they are there. You're so call Friends are there when they need you put or not around when you need them. Please stay strong. You have a wonderful and amazing Ora About you. peace and love
My daughter recently left her place of employment for the last 7 years having found a new job, she was always a very conscientious employee and contributed whenever someone had birthday or baby, she went to pick up things at the office and the only they thing handed her was box of her belongs, with no thanks we are sorry you are leaving, nothing. She was very hurt. I told her i am sorry but let that be lesson to you. It is always just a job and people you work with acquittances, not friends. You are there to do a job not to make friends. I learned that lesson from years in manufacturing.
When I was married I didn’t have any friends either. My maid of honor was my aunt, my sister and her friends were my brides maids and my uncle was my husband’s best man. My husband didn’t even have family there. I didn’t even think of it as a bad thing. We were both veterans and all of our friends were veterans and couldn’t be there. We were stationed in Germany and came back to the states (for 30 days) to be married then go back to Germany. We spent our honeymoon with his family. I don’t have many friends now, I’m older now and it’s harder to make friends outside of your immediate family.
I would have said I love you so much. Circumstances exist that you won't relate too till you're in their shoes. There has to be more to this story than "I CANT MAKE IT".
No friends is still much better than having friends only in name…especially toxic friends. That’s the worst kind. Trust me. Sorry you had to go through that. But hey big up…you have us here, if that’s any consolation ✌🏻
After my thirties, I've had to lower my expectations of other people's ability/desire to form friendships, sadly. Hopefully that will change since I recently joined a bunch of social groups on Meetup.
Lex, I literally think we’d be besties. Seriously the first music reaction video I watched of yours had me thinking “I want to be her friend.” Girls like us don’t have a lot of friends because we don’t play into games and operate like or care about the dumb stuff other women care so much about. If you’re ever in eastern NC hit me up ❤❤❤
I know exactly what your feeling. The good thing is if someone doesn't want to be your friend then it very much is there loss. You don't need a friend that is going be fake so it's your gain...🙂
Yep, the friends just steadily fade away. I found out who my real friends were when I stopped spending all of my spare time helping my "friends" do their projects. I realized that nobody was helping me when I needed to work on something of mine. My real friends don't ask me for stuff all the time, and we share interests
I know that hurt you but it’s better to know the truth than to go on believing a lie. I can’t say I know you well, but from what I see on your channel you seem like a wonderful person. Full of life and joy. Always happy and positive. You need to find a hobby or activity that allows you to hang out with a group of people of similar interests. I know you probably don’t have a lot of free time. But you have to be around people to get to know people.
Oh, darling, we've all, at one time or another faced a similar reconining when we realize someone meant more to us than we did to them. Painful, but perfect opportunity to understand yourself better and to get in tune w/ your specific vibration, and use your vibe to find your tribe. In early awakening stages, we become aware, and shed everything that is not a vibrational match. It's a tough, but extremely rewarding path. Namaste
It does SEEM sad… my wife doesn’t have close girl friends either… her bridesmaids were all my sisters… but she’s MY best friend, and I only have like 3 or 4 friends myself other than her… but we’re both happy! You two really seem like really nice people who are probably introverted like us, and aren’t very proactive about getting to know new people.
So sad, you seem so sweet. One of my favourite reaction people, have watched hundreds of your reaction videos mostly because of Lex but Brad grows on you after a while.
I really does hurt to find out who is or if you have friends at all... Because for years when you were to believe you have friends and at the end is you really find out the whole time you don't..... .... I been there not a good feeling at all....
I wish I lived closer to you guys because I would be a close friend to you and visit you all the time. In fact, I'd probably spend holidays with you guys because you guys are the most awesome people truly you are.
Right there with you Lex. I asked my best friend to be my best man, and he not only said no, he didn't even come to the wedding. He and I still talk, but I know who my REAL friends are.
I had 2 friends that didn't come to my wedding and the one friend of mine only came because I paid for her plane ticket and then she ended up not talking to me about a year later. I know how that feels. People suck! But you've got your best friend right there by your side and that's all that matters. Its better to have those type of people out of your life.
When you are a TRUE individual, close friends come hard. So the ones you have you try and keep, but sometimes they don’t want to keep you. That’s life, and it gets harder as you grow older but don’t let that define you, you just need to get out your comfort zone and not be afraid to meet new people.
I have to disagree, some so-called friends do that. Real friends just call each other up to see what is going on asking for nothing. I have friends that if I called them now they would be like you don't use Facebook anymore update your shit.
I just love the both of you. I want you even bands that I can't stand I will watch the video just to hear you guys talk about it. So girl I would fly in from Detroit Michigan to be a bridesmaid for your wedding. Love you both❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊
You have thousands of people who have nothing but love for both of you. ❤
Tf ?
@@WilDBilL.69 only in this day and age, could someone be randomly cruel, using only two letters. Theres a healthier form of trolling. Where you find a willing combatant. Cmon mate..
@@WilDBilL.69 is being cruel/arguing online, your only social outlet.? perhaps some mates are what you need .dont worry I'm not offering. Hope you find happiness though. ❤️ ps beans on toast is mint. Shh 😂
We all love you both
They're jealous
The internet isn’t real. That mentality is part of the problem
It's not embarrassing. It's relatable.
As a 60 year old man, I can say for sure that friends will come and go. Focus on family. The rest is a bonus if it happens
Yup
Y’all are what this country needs more of. Loving willing parents. ❤️
I’m so sorry that this happened. It’s so hard when you extend yourself outward and it’s just not reciprocated back, even by those who you thought loved and understood you. I hope your heart heals quickly.
You're better off without those kinds of friends. God bless!
My thought, precisely.
Friends are very hard to come by acquaintances are a dime a dozen
Don't be embarrassed!!!! Brad, and Jack, have SO MUCH LOVE, for you❤!!😊
Lex, I would have been at your wedding in a heartbeat. Your a beautiful soul🥰
Beautiful couple ... real man and a real women. Love your reaction stuff. 😊 good luck
Keep posting. You have a lot of people pulling for you🇨🇦🇨🇦
Awe. Bummer. You’re so sweet too.
You're not alone to feel that ♥️
It's hard seeing your circle of friends shrink when you start having a family. But true friends will still be your friends even if you haven't seen them for 20 or 30 years. Hang in there Lex.
You're partially right. I've "lost" friends because they got married and started families. We may not have talked in 10 years or more, but if they call I'll pick up and we'll still be friends. I understand. I'm glad to hear from them!
But they also have to understand that they were the ones who got too busy to maintain their friendships for 10+ years. Things wont ever be the same again.
A lot of time has gone by and we've both grown in separate directions with no input from each other.
We're still on friendly terms, but I don't know you any more and you don't know me.
You chose to abandon your friends and do family things instead. There's nothing wrong with that per se and I'm sure all your old friends are very happy to see you thriving in that role, but that's why the friendships aren't the same any more.
Yeah man, I left my home country 12 years ago and abruptly cut off all contact with everyone from there (some mental health issues etc). 12 years later a mate tracked my number down and called. I was nervous, but we talked like it was yesterday. It's a beautiful thing
Nah, you’re better off without someone like that. They don’t deserve you as a friend.
As a lonely single father just know I watch your reaction videos pretty much everyday. They help keep my thoughts off of things like that. So thank you. You two are awesome
We love you guys. Good luck in your normal lives.
at least you have each other. i was a carer for my disabled mother for 15yrs and had no friends at all as couldnt ever leave the house for over an hour, she died last year and now i have all the free time but nobody to spend it with.
Now you have all the time you want to make friends it's not hard to make friends it's hard to make the right friends.
That's heartbreaking Lex. There are many on this platform that love you!❤ Know that! You are a beautiful person with a beautiful soul. Keep being who you are and let no one take your joy. Take care!
Hey I know the feeling, going through the same myself. I'll be your friend even though we don't talk. Just know that I understand am here for you anytime 🙂❤️💯
We love you Lex.
I completely know how your feeling. Im in the same boat. Its weird when you come to that realization from an event like a wedding. Im a loner anyways so i usually dont care but some days it can really bother you
Thank God you have a good man!!!
Don't despair Lex. Friendships are overrated. at times with friends come enemies, friendships these days are very superficial.
Hi Brad and Lex. I think we all, or most of us, get to this stage in our life. You guys must know every one of us who watch you would be so glad to be your friend. You two are awesome. Æx 🙏
I’m pretty new to your forum; Brad and Lex, reviewing different genres of music. One of the things I’ve loved most about it: Lex, you are always smiling, enjoying the songs with such openness, and truly positive vibes! Brad, you read every word of the songs, both of you while taking in their meaning objectively. I’ve looked forward to it since I first came upon it and I wish you more than luck. We and I love you! May God bless you. Don’t go anywhere! 💖🙏🏼
I enjoy watching your reaction videos. I will be friends with both of you. Thank you for all the videos 👍👍👍
I miss you guys!😢 Keep the faith!
It happens, believe me. I have all new friends since i moved years ago. Sorry, but they seem immature & jealous! You are still so young & so much ahead of you. You are married & have a beautiful son & made such a beautiful family. You are an amazing person & your journey in life has just started. You have outgrown these people, so be excited to start a new chapter w people that are more aligned w your values and people of character!! So much love sent your way! 💜❤️💜❤️💜❤️
That's was a blessing, keep your circle small & you'll have the best life ✝️❤️❤️❤️🙏
I can relate. In my thirties and no proper friends. When i quit alcohol, cannabis and late night partying a few years ago, all of my friends disappeared gradually, subtly, but rather quickly. Its hard at this age to make friends who like outdoorsy stuff and deep conversations on your wavelength etc, especially when you work 60 to 70 lhrs a week and have no personal social media accounts...ah the good old days where you just walk up to another kid or group and ask can we be friends, or just joining in their game and thats it haha. Im still happy, motivated and content though, thats what truly matters, the rest may fall into place later, rant over, peace
Girl I feel this in my soul. I’d most definitely love being your friend. I wish we lived closer. lol! I have one friend that I can depend on, and that’s it. Not much family either. It’s a very lonely and isolating feeling. 💔
Life can be very lonely! But it cant rain all the time. And youve got plenty of time to meet plenty of real ones. Chin up mate ❤️
Wow, you are two awesome people. I can't imagine you not having friends. You actually do have many online that you aren't aware of. you are friends with many lonely people that are also good people. its a fast passed life, good friends can be so hard to find.
If you two are ever in southeastern ky. Let me know I want to buy you two dinner , thanking you for the hours of entertainment you have given me. I wish you two and that beautiful baby boy many blessings.
Love to watch you guys reactions and that baby is gorgeous!❤
Thank you🙏🏽
We love you. We're you friends ❤😂🇨🇦
It really sucks. In times of need, you really find out who your real friends are. Some years ago, I had several major surgeries and after was in a rehab to get better. Had "friends" who lived within an hour or less and not one came to visit. As others have said, you'll find you have more acquaintances than friends. But hey...you have all of us here!! Chin up lady! You and Brad are beautiful souls.
Taking care of my demented mother has made me feel the same way. I have VERY FEW friends. And even fewer good friends! I know exactly how you feel!
That sucks just remember if they ask you for something . It's not embarrassing it's totally relatable
I'm in my mid-70s. I only have one friend, we've been friends since middle school. Others have come and gone over the years. I consider myself lucky.
True friends are extremely rare.
Don’t be embarrassed. Be glad that you found out these were not true girlfriends. I always say the sooner you find out what side they stand on the better.
Being a new mom, especially with your first baby, can feel isolating at times.
Now would be a good time to maybe join a Mommy & Me group or you could try and organize a mother’s support group. You’d have the opportunity to meet women that you know you at least have one thing in common with and I feel sure that you’d be able to bond with at least one of them. True ride-or-die friends are hard to come by these days but I bet there’s someone out there who feels just like you do.
Alex, I am 54 and I realised long ago that some friends are there as long as it benefits them. It sucks that your so-called friends didn't come to your wedding but on the bright side you are now a much wiser lady.
Shocking 😢 but not unexpected so much love on your channel ❤
Same. Happens to lots of us as we get older.
You got a friend here on Tuscaloosa Alabama.... God bless you and your family
We love you!! I woulda been your maid of honor lol
I will be your friend Lexie girl! Not being dirty minded or anything....but I think you are the cutest thing! Your personality? Everyone is missing out! I'm an old white guy...and we couldn't be more different,and I think you are absolutely adorable! Brad is lucky to have you. He knows it. He's wise beyond his years 😊
Good friends are a small group sometimes only 1, the others will hit ya up when times are good or when they need something but don’t dare inconvenience them. You two have a family now and that’s what really matters.
They don't deserve ya. Friends are overrated. You 2 are so cute
Super surprising lex is so likeable!
I am your friend and I love you guys. And whatever people say, shrug it off. There's stupid haters in this world.
When you meet a true friend and I mean, a true friend, You will be bound together for all of eternity. And you know it When times get tough they are there. You're so call Friends are there when they need you put or not around when you need them.
Please stay strong. You have a wonderful and amazing Ora About you. peace and love
My daughter recently left her place of employment for the last 7 years having found a new job, she was always a very conscientious employee and contributed whenever someone had birthday or baby, she went to pick up things at the office and the only they thing handed her was box of her belongs, with no thanks we are sorry you are leaving, nothing. She was very hurt.
I told her i am sorry but let that be lesson to you.
It is always just a job and people you work with acquittances, not friends. You are there to do a job not to make friends.
I learned that lesson from years in manufacturing.
My father told me if in your whole life if you have one TRUE friend you are lucky and it’s so true
When I was married I didn’t have any friends either. My maid of honor was my aunt, my sister and her friends were my brides maids and my uncle was my husband’s best man. My husband didn’t even have family there. I didn’t even think of it as a bad thing. We were both veterans and all of our friends were veterans and couldn’t be there. We were stationed in Germany and came back to the states (for 30 days) to be married then go back to Germany. We spent our honeymoon with his family. I don’t have many friends now, I’m older now and it’s harder to make friends outside of your immediate family.
This couple is great, don't get in between.
Agreed, I haven't seen any of my last friends in at least 3 years.
That's so sad. If you don't have anyone, I would be your matron of honor.
I don’t have friends either. I stopped working and I guess that’s where u make friends.
I love these beautiful folks! Miss the music videos so much. I hope all is well for you guys and ur beautiful baby!
I would have said I love you so much.
Circumstances exist that you won't relate too till you're in their shoes.
There has to be more to this story than "I CANT MAKE IT".
No friends is still much better than having friends only in name…especially toxic friends. That’s the worst kind. Trust me. Sorry you had to go through that. But hey big up…you have us here, if that’s any consolation ✌🏻
It is NOT embarrassing, it’s a tough awakening, an eye opener….adulting will bring you real friends
Love you both!
After my thirties, I've had to lower my expectations of other people's ability/desire to form friendships, sadly. Hopefully that will change since I recently joined a bunch of social groups on Meetup.
Lex is so beautiful ❤
Girl… I have 5 good close friends. After having my first child, my social life disappeared.
Lex, I literally think we’d be besties. Seriously the first music reaction video I watched of yours had me thinking “I want to be her friend.” Girls like us don’t have a lot of friends because we don’t play into games and operate like or care about the dumb stuff other women care so much about. If you’re ever in eastern NC hit me up ❤❤❤
Well there is a lot of people that love you all! ❤ I’m sorry this happened to you.
That sucks people are all about themselves!!! 😡😡😡😡 you deserve better, their loss!!!
I know exactly what your feeling. The good thing is if someone doesn't want to be your friend then it very much is there loss. You don't need a friend that is going be fake so it's your gain...🙂
They feel closer to other people, nothing against to you.... That's life :)
Yep, the friends just steadily fade away. I found out who my real friends were when I stopped spending all of my spare time helping my "friends" do their projects. I realized that nobody was helping me when I needed to work on something of mine. My real friends don't ask me for stuff all the time, and we share interests
I know that hurt you but it’s better to know the truth than to go on believing a lie. I can’t say I know you well, but from what I see on your channel you seem like a wonderful person. Full of life and joy. Always happy and positive. You need to find a hobby or activity that allows you to hang out with a group of people of similar interests. I know you probably don’t have a lot of free time. But you have to be around people to get to know people.
thats life, life gets in the way sometimes
Oh, darling, we've all, at one time or another faced a similar reconining when we realize someone meant more to us than we did to them. Painful, but perfect opportunity to understand yourself better and to get in tune w/ your specific vibration, and use your vibe to find your tribe. In early awakening stages, we become aware, and shed everything that is not a vibrational match. It's a tough, but extremely rewarding path. Namaste
It does SEEM sad… my wife doesn’t have close girl friends either… her bridesmaids were all my sisters… but she’s MY best friend, and I only have like 3 or 4 friends myself other than her… but we’re both happy!
You two really seem like really nice people who are probably introverted like us, and aren’t very proactive about getting to know new people.
So sad, you seem so sweet. One of my favourite reaction people, have watched hundreds of your reaction videos mostly because of Lex but Brad grows on you after a while.
I really does hurt to find out who is or if you have friends at all... Because for years when you were to believe you have friends and at the end is you really find out the whole time you don't..... .... I been there not a good feeling at all....
Adulthood has a way of robbing your time. It’s all good, Get you some new friends - lots of good people like you out there. 😊😊
I wish I lived closer to you guys because I would be a close friend to you and visit you all the time. In fact, I'd probably spend holidays with you guys because you guys are the most awesome people truly you are.
Right there with you Lex. I asked my best friend to be my best man, and he not only said no, he didn't even come to the wedding. He and I still talk, but I know who my REAL friends are.
If we lived close, we would be friends.
I had 2 friends that didn't come to my wedding and the one friend of mine only came because I paid for her plane ticket and then she ended up not talking to me about a year later. I know how that feels. People suck! But you've got your best friend right there by your side and that's all that matters. Its better to have those type of people out of your life.
She's really pretty.
Adulting as a woman can be so lonely, I feel her 1000%
Oh you are above that...I know how you feel...except mine was funerals,I was there for this person's 6 funerals. Please don't think your friendless!
Life is not about being liked it's about being productive.
invite me to your wedding, ill bring my guitar!
When you are a TRUE individual, close friends come hard. So the ones you have you try and keep, but sometimes they don’t want to keep you. That’s life, and it gets harder as you grow older but don’t let that define you, you just need to get out your comfort zone and not be afraid to meet new people.
Get a fleamarket booth and resell stuff. You can fine stuff in dumpsters on big trash day , Garage and estate sales, you will make friends there
Friends are just people who can ask you to do things or give them something anytime they want. I don't have, need or want friends
I have to disagree, some so-called friends do that. Real friends just call each other up to see what is going on asking for nothing. I have friends that if I called them now they would be like you don't use Facebook anymore update your shit.
We have your backs guys. So sorry anyone could treat you like that ❤
I just love the both of you. I want you even bands that I can't stand I will watch the video just to hear you guys talk about it. So girl I would fly in from Detroit Michigan to be a bridesmaid for your wedding. Love you both❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊
Ill be in yall wedding! Lets fkin goooo!! WOOOOP WOOOP! 😂🎉🎉
I moved to get married, 8 years later I have no friends except the only one that matters. Do I miss friendships? Sure; but not that much.
A woman with no friends? Your husband may very well be the luckiest man alive.
I love both your video reviews so you have a friend in me