STRAIGHT GIRL with a GIRL CRUSH? // What to do?

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  • Опубліковано 22 кві 2024
  • 📏 Are you a straight girl but have a crush on another girl? Or in general, straight with a crush on someone of the same sex? What does it mean, and how should you react?
    Here we talk about if a crush means that you are in fact, not so straight, or if it's just something that happens - can you still be straight?
    It can be confusing, but we try to break it down into something less confusing.
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    Hope this helped!
    Love,
    A + L 💖
    / one99four
    / lilianbrilliant_
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  • @ArtichokeHunter
    @ArtichokeHunter 2 місяці тому +14

    so glad you're bringing in the split attraction model. i think a lot of crushes that confuse people may just be aesthetic attraction, and then you don't actually want to do anything about it

  • @andrewbest6929
    @andrewbest6929 2 місяці тому +5

    Life gets complicated and confusing most of the time. There is joy and freedom when you can freely express the love you have for someone else. To have a love and partnership that both of you share is amazing. I appreciate both of you very much💙💙💯

  • @trulyfetv
    @trulyfetv 2 місяці тому +17

    Alexis and Lilian are my Queerspiration! They’ve inspired my coming out journey and now I’m living a more free life as a queer woman with my partner! Thank you both for your videos! You both are thee absolute best!
    Much love From NY!

    • @AlexisLilian
      @AlexisLilian  2 місяці тому +2

      Wow this means so much to us! You deserve to live YOUR life authentically. 🌈

    • @andrewbest6929
      @andrewbest6929 2 місяці тому +1

      ❤❤

  • @coravelasquez
    @coravelasquez 2 місяці тому +8

    In reality this is a wide open topic. I have several straight friends that are at different places on the scale. One is comfortable simply watching, but I can tell she thinks about going further. Another is willing to touch and kiss. Two have actually allowed themselves to explore, and I was chosen to be their test subject. Secrecy is key in those situations. I love your willingness to explore these topics. It's time to subscribe! 😊

  • @HermelJaworski
    @HermelJaworski 2 місяці тому +20

    deep down, almost everybody is bi ! Sexual orientation is a spectrum, very few people are 100% straight

    • @AlexisLilian
      @AlexisLilian  2 місяці тому +7

      Very true! We totally agree! 😁

  • @JaneChristensen.
    @JaneChristensen. 2 місяці тому +5

    I had been in a marriage to someone I was very much in love with for 30 years. I am trans gender and I didn't transition until about five years ago. My wife knew I was trans prior to our marriage, and was supportive of my decision to transition when it became possible to do so. Neither of us new what would happen post transition. Neither of would have said we were at the binary bookends as far as sexuality goes.
    Despite all of our years together, the reality of seeing me as woman has meant my wife is no longer attracted to me sexually, and further to that has said that she does not wish to be viewed socially as lesbian or bi, which means we no longer display affection publicly.
    Today we are friends and support each other that way, but the magic that made us so close and things so perfect in the past is gone.

  • @scubagoldfish45
    @scubagoldfish45 2 місяці тому +2

    There's lots of different types of attraction, it can be tricky to navigate!

  • @lil_weasel219
    @lil_weasel219 2 місяці тому +1

    i like the idea of there being a culturaland affective dimension to the label. Like there being "culturally straight" and then "affectively straight" (straight feelings wise) dimensions. In the past a lot of bi people, while affectively bi lived a culturally straight lifestyle, and it's changing increasingly, though many remain in this situation regardless

  • @itshallpass
    @itshallpass 2 місяці тому +4

    I love these two 🤗✨

  • @LaMatadora
    @LaMatadora 2 місяці тому +6

    Love it! Howdy from Texas 🤠

  • @kimmyyberryy
    @kimmyyberryy Місяць тому +1

    Alexis can you please so a minimalist make up tutorial or fun video for us! Or even skincare. Your face is gorgeous and I wanna know that minimal makeup set up ❤

  • @Kedait
    @Kedait 2 місяці тому

    Thank you both for your inspiring, very helpful and fun videos, this has helped me a lot on my coming out journey! Groetjes uit Amsterdam!!

  • @bempomaa489
    @bempomaa489 Місяць тому +1

    Howdy 👋🏽,
    As a Christian (25) who has always identified as straight, I'm feeling confused and scared because I've developed a crush on a lesbian woman, and I don't understand why this is happening. 😢

  • @stephcooper5998
    @stephcooper5998 2 місяці тому +3

    Having a friend who is a girl or a "gurl" friend.
    Which one are you looking for?

    • @AlexisLilian
      @AlexisLilian  2 місяці тому

      Thats the REAL question haha 😉

  • @EricB256
    @EricB256 2 місяці тому +1

    I have crushes on people's minds sometimes. Intellectual crushes. Can you even call that a "crush" when you want to exchange more thoughts with that person because you find their way of thinking to be inspiring, refreshing and maybe comforting, too?

    • @lesbethtacioni1733
      @lesbethtacioni1733 2 місяці тому +2

      I tend to have reverence towards those with great perspective. It's the yearning for more input for me

  • @bachemankesache3404
    @bachemankesache3404 2 місяці тому

    Great msg from beautiful couple

  • @Haidi533
    @Haidi533 2 місяці тому

    Not a trend, because feel more comfortable around women, that's why I think

  • @leahstumm9662
    @leahstumm9662 2 місяці тому

    💜

  • @virgilmcclendon5072
    @virgilmcclendon5072 2 місяці тому

    😎😃😊😜😍😘💖🌹

  • @gillianslattery1765
    @gillianslattery1765 2 місяці тому

    Im ancient and still confused. 🙃

  • @dawnreneegmail
    @dawnreneegmail 2 місяці тому

    Good to see y'all, hope the family project is coming along💁🏼‍♀️.
    Just had a Persian buffet served to me by a Persian queen who is the most beautiful woman I've come across is a long time. We've both been in het marriages and we both are wide open to new things... stay tuned and YES gender is dead last on my list of qualifications 😎