LGBTQ+ Dating Q&A | Dating in the Closet, Femme Flirting and more!
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- Опубліковано 8 кві 2023
- New LGBTQ+ Dating series starting! Post your questions in the comments and we will answer your questions next :)
In this video we answer questions around queer dating: coming out, how to make it clear you're flirting as a femme, dating while in the closet, bisexual dating disclosure etc.
Let us know your questions and feel free to add your own advice :)
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Just want to add something for that last question- If you are living with family, and you're trying to date before coming out, please consider your situation. If you believe that your family could react very badly or even harm you or put your home in jeopardy if they found out, please do not date until you are out on your own. You don't have to come out to date, but you do have to consider whether or not people finding out would put you in danger. Always put your safety first.
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I'm the worst at reading signals. Any tips on that? Like how do you know if she's just being nice or if she's actually into you?
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Great advice!
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I wanna ask a question about how to set the boundaries on a person who you like (but she’s not into you, still friends)
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Identify the problematic behaviour she can have towards you and tell her you don’t want her to have this kind of behaviour with you.
If not possible or she doesn’t want to, take some distance with her. See her less.
People can only take the space that you give them. It’s completely up to you.
However, if you’re in love with this girl, before taking distance, consider telling her that you like her more than a friend. It would be a pity to not know what she really thinks of you.
Another question: How can you make it obvious to someone that you're into them? As in, I think often times I come across too nice & friendly making it seem like I just want to be friends. I'm playing it cool and chill, when I actually instead want to be more flirty. How do I activate my flirt modus?
Always wise and experienced advice from your posts 😘
So far I identify as bicurious while being in a open relationship with a man. I am really keen to explore this side of my sexuality, but Im worried that I could get rejected by queer people for not yet knowing where I fall on the spectrum. What are your thoughts on this? Great video! Really looking forward to the next one
Make it clear from the beginning. I'm ok with people exploring their sexualities because it is an spectrum. But I would be offended if you didn't told me that you are just exploring with me.
5:20 I wish I had heard that piece of advice four years ago when I came out to my parents and regretted it afterwards.
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I know confidence is important and I come off as more confident using body language rather than spoken words around women. I have had a lot of success with those women I've made laugh. I'm hoping to find out if either of you have any suggestions so I don't accidentally come off as creepy.
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Physical tocuh is one of my love languages but I hardly ever touch people, not even friends. I used to ask permission before hugging. Is this weird?
How would you start physical contact (for example a hug or holding hands) with someone?
Hiiiii i missed you guys!!!! im looking forward to new blogs! also i wanted to suggest why don’t you start posting on tiktok
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Thank you! And haha let’s say we have some …history with TikTok from before it got super popular and we aren’t fans, so likely not going to happen 😕
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hey! i have a question. how i can tell that girl who has never been with other girls is queer not just bi-curious?
i know that Alexis hasn’t been with girls before dating Lilian, but how recognise this kind of people tho? thanks for the answer! xoxo
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What's you take on age-gap relationships?
Another (hopefully quick question): do you every call each other partners or do you prefer wife or girlfriend instead? For instance in certain circumstances i prefer to call my girlfriend my partner instead as i think i offer her more respect and also i made it clear that she is the one that i want to be with. Any thoughts about it? Thank you so much!
I have a question about how much you should reveal when you first get to know a girl?
My first instincts are always to tell her everything but I fear that it may come off as more platonic.
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How do u flirt with someone in a non-dating context/setting (like meeting someone on hinge) without creeping someone out😂
Does a woman have to be a lesbian to enjoy a lesbian relationship?
I have never been in one, but I have known so many women who I have through about being with.
Intelligent, articulate, funny and hard-working women. So much more interesting and worthwhile.
I think there is a phobia expressed by some women of being lesbian, not that there is anything wrong with it.
One can admire a person without get into "flirting"
Servus! I’m a femme, trans woman attracted to femme cis lesbians. Is my pre-op status going to be a major barrier to finding dates / a partner? I’ve found a great group of LGBTQ women friends, but nothing romantic since transitioning a few years ago. Am I just doomed? Danke! Pfiat-eich!
I've been out of the closet for 15 years. I've known my ex bf/gf for 15 years. She's never coming out of the closet. I thought I was in the closet with her
Question: How to meet queer woman when you don't like dating apps. And. queer events, sure, but how do you find those? (I suck at the internet like a grandma) Love your videosss🌿🌈🌱🍄
Oh and, without social media since I don't use that. Very curious how you would solve this puzzle❤🌞
hmmm honestly same! I recently have decided to limit my social media use.
@@Anitafilmsvideos Yessss good choice!!! But honestly, life without social media is more real and meaningful imo, and at least you have something to talk about when you see your friends again cz you haven’t been updated by the world wide web day and night about their every move
@@faleravanbalen8175 exactly. And social media usually sucks all my time out of the day. I've realised, enough is enough. It's better without it cause you understand who the real ones are. I'd like to spend more time living my life.
@@Anitafilmsvideos Yessss exactly!!! Happy to hear you’ve come to this realization, I think your eyes will be surprised at all the good things that still come your way through physical interaction!!🌿🌱 But just out of curiosity, how do you find dates than? Cz that’s something that I find hards still, the world is marvelous offline, but finding other queer woman is kind of hard in the heteronormative world. Just curious how you go about it🌈🌸
Any advice for the Indian queer?😂
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I have never been with a woman .but I have been attracted to a woman I have known for years. But her profession prohibits us from having a relationship I tried to tell her it's against Protocol What should I do
Her professional job is her life.
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i never understood the coming out... i never ever came out to anyone... I just talk about my partner when the conversation comes to the subject of partners or kids. I am not going to ever make a big deal out of it. I don't consider it "coming out" because that would mean that I am hiding something in the first place which I am not. many people do not share any details about their partner or even the fact that they have a partner until they know you well so I don't see it as any different. So in my mind I never came out, never will come out. I don't even agree with the term. That's my take on the subject of coming out.
Trans, femme, lesbian makes me the smallest social group possible.
Relationships?
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