Løner Wølf Jaz I do it too but I don't get her she has been single so far no experience in relationship not homophobic (I just wanted to make sure if I had a chance) I wanna be with her, someone help me plzzzz
gosh ! it doesn't always work ! 😫😫poeple are blinded and sometimes they don't want to get out of their closet ! there is girls that sent me this kind of messages but i wasn't so sure to make the first move, girls who made the first move and i freaked out (don't know why ! guess i was stupid back then lol). And my gaydar is really working well, but the problem is, even if a person is attracted to you, she is not always willing to be with you :'( life is complicated and girls are more complicated then men
I guess I'm stuck with men then ! (I'm pansexual so it wouldn't be dramatic i guess) ! but I really want to have a girl in my life, not a man ! like i said, life is complicated! i wanna live with a girl, maybe have an adventure or a short relation with a guy, or sexual relationships; but i don't wanna have to live with a man
I’ve done this before when I was afraid and in the closet some people really deny those feelings and force themselves to be with a guy for the fear of their families finding out or whatever the case may be. Some people are at different levels and some times people are just really loving and touchy that could have been a part of her personality
@@chaoxchaox6257 you can find someone u like and who likes you back but that person can be in the closet, and denial will make her fly away. This person can be bisexual too, and prefer to live a "normal" life or a normative life and forget about this feeling. You can even stay friends. Happened to me so much times ! sigh sigh sigh
I watched this a couple months ago when I was crushing bad on a girl and I COULD NOT figure her out. I was back and forth constantly trying to determine whether or not she liked me. Turns out, she watched this exact video around the same time, trying to figure out if I like her! Now we are dating :) This video helped! Took us over 5 months to figure it out lmao
Oh my god. I dated this girl about 2 years ago. It was great. But, she broke up with me. Sadly, after that, we lost all contact. We started hanging out again maybe, 3 months ago. And, my god, she’s beautiful. She’s the funniest person, we can relate, and we just get along so well. We’re constantly told we’d make a cute couple (again lol). I always have to blush and look away with a swift no. After watching this, I do all these things to her. And, I think she does some to me. If she isn’t into me, that’s fine. But, it be great if she was, because I’m in love with her. Edit 11/7: Well, folks. I told her one week ago. We’ve been dating for one week. It’s even better than before. I hope we last longer than last time (we were together for 7 months before). I know it’s too early to say this, but, I think I love her. Edit 1/20- It’s still going good, almost 3 months!! Edit 4/4- still going good :)
Megan Willis, aw, thanks. About me looking away with a swift no, i was still thinking I didn’t have a chance with her. I was scared if she knew, she’d break off our friendship. Thank you again though, we’re both so happy. ❤️♥️❤️♥️
Fun Fact: When standing in a group talking, people’s feet point towards the person they are closer to: eg. A mother towards her child, a sister towards a brother. This is extremely useful for finding crushes, best friends, affairs and favourite kids. Be warned, though. You won’t always want the answer....
Cute and reaching 40,000. I am 72 and when I met my partner 42 years ago and she was straight I did not recognize the cues...just kept wanting to see her and things evolved.
Barbara Morton-Winters that’s so sweet. So basically you did what your heart told you to do?? What were the things you did to keep seeing your partner and evolve??
Well what you're describing here is exactly what's happening between me and this girl. I work with her and the first 2,5 years I ignored her cause I liked her (: makes sense right. I couldn't even speak in her presence. Always admired her from a far. For some reason we got in touch 4 months ago, and we talk every day .. At work we spend every second we can with each other. We have met outside work twice and yeah. She has a boyfriend. The end? 😭🤣 I dont know.. I respect her relationship so I wont be taking any steps but it's kinda clear we definitely like each other in a way. I don't know what my point of this comment is, I just had to get it off my chest I guess. Thanks for reading 🤣
what if you’re not that close to each other and so you won’t really have physical contact that often? Its mostly just catching glances from both sides and hanging out..
What happens when you catch each other stealing a look? The way she reacts could determine if she likes you, and how you look at her could send her different signals whether she should pursue you.
I’m not sure dude cause like one day she’s all in and then the next day she doesn’t say anything to me. She mostly talks with me when we’re alone though like wtf
that happened to me. I think that girl is just afraid or confused but mostly afraid bc she thinks everyone will realize and they also kinda deny their feelings so they don't really know how to act
@@marielflores2711 happened to me. we went to all the bases and said how much we loved each there, saw each other every day...I asked her out she said no, then got with her ex boyfriend (who she originally dumped for me) 2 weeks later.
@@ISTHIStheKRUSTYKRABx SOOO FRUSTRATING! I know. Well, I tried to talk to her about it and even asked her why she was avoiding me, but all i got was negatives and a "I'm not stable at all" and when I told her she was hurting me she said "I always end up doing the opposite of what i really mean". We graduated from high school a month ago and haven't heard from her since then. I even told her that when she's ready she can talk to me. But Idk, i even think she has dated someone else. So I accepted that there's nothing left to do... I mean, looking back I honestly wish I've done more and definitely wish it wouldn't end like that, but I can't change what happen and I do miss her but she made a decision and I know that she has a lot to work on herself yet to be able to accept herself as she is and her true feelings. Soooo I already told you my long story lol but what I would do in your situation (now that I got this experience lol) is go straight to her and ask her what's going on, because if you never really talk about your feelings and what you both want you'll be in a never-ending cycle and will end up hurt or disappointed, and of course, go slowly but those "I want u one day and the next idk" are not cool for you
@@Chlolivi Yep, not sure but probably the girl I was seeing also got a boyfriend or a guy to date. And she was like a lot into me even before I knew it. Hurts a little but hey, the gotta live their process
I loveeeee eye contact like me and my crush look each other deep in the eyes while in a conversation and it’s honestly so genuine and calming but I don’t know if she’s gay!!! :/
@@ArcticFalcon AAAAAAAA she's like that to. But I'm avoiding her, I always caught her looking at me. And she's the one who approaches me first the fact that I'm avoiding her yet she's teasing me, winks at me AaaaaAaa
So I thought I was straight my whole life, never questioned it for 20 years until I met this one girl at school (she’s openly lesbian.) I started feeling all of these overwhelming feelings about her out of nowhere, and I would freeze in fear every time she would be near me. I ended up friending her on IG and liked a bunch of her pictures to get her attention, then she messages me and I freaked out and blew her off. So she probably really can’t tell that I have a huge crush on her and she probably hates me and thinks I’m a weirdo 😒
KM539 Soooo I actually reached out to her again, we hung out on Monday and ended up hooking up. I definitely wouldn’t consider myself straight anymore after our hookup & I learned what Comphet (compulsory heterosexuality) is. If I were you I would definitely look up the Comphet doc, I’ll try to link it for you if I can but that could be step 1 in your journey before jumping the gun. I would also watch lesbian romance movies & see if you feel anything exciting when watching them. Once you’ve done some soul searching and you are to make the decision that you’re not straight, then I would definitely talk to your friend about your feelings. If she has that much interest in you, then if you admit your feelings then I’m sure she will be flattered. She probably hasn’t made any advancements toward you because unfortunately lesbians don’t want to creep out their straight friends so they go to extra lengths to make their straight friends feel safe, & if they have a crush they probably wouldn’t tell their straight friends so it wouldn’t make it awkward between them. But if you confess first then I could see it definitely going further!!!
I understand! I just recently realized Im bi and I'm 23 years old. Lol. Haven't even dated a girl yet and I freeze up every time I even think about hitting on another woman. Lol.
לפני 5 חודשים When a girl asks for a girlʼs number: “Yeah, sure, of course!” When a guy asks for a girlʼs number: “Oh, sorry! I have a boyfriend…” girls can pick up more straight girls than a straight guy Women are much cooler about this than men are
I'm black and I blush. Just not super red, more like it gets a bit darker and hot in my cheeks. But I guess it depends how rich your skin tone is and how transparent your skin is (my veins are easy to see but I'm not pale at all, if that makes sense)
Found your channel recently since I’ve outed myself as bisexual to my closest family members and best friends. Especially already being deaf, pure inclusivity is extremely difficult to find sometimes. Thank you so much for acknowledging us all. I’m so excited to learn more about this community, the history, and how to get more involved.
I came cause it looked interesting, I left feeling called out. (In a funny way) lol I checked off as doing every single one of these things this past month omg.
girls can pick up more straight girls than a straight guy All girls are potentially bisexual or lesbian, anyway it’s because girls trust girls way more then men.
This is a breath of fresh air and has lightened me up today, such a great post! I feel like I havent interacted with other queer, lgbt peeps in so long where I live in hawaii, and as a single mom sometimes feel alone out here in hawaii, just to watch this I remember theres brilliant people out there to interact with and get over my shyness, mahalo!
It's so nice to listen to people who compeltely gets you and your experience 😂 ❤ I can't tell the difference between flirting and being friendly as a queer. honestly I couldn't get better advice other than you guys. This is my favorite couple on UA-cam now❤
Cute video! I think the next question should be - as a lesbian or bi person, how do you tell another girl that's showing interest in you, that you aren't into her? Just bc you're attracted to girls doesn't mean you like every one of them obv, so how do you do it without making them feel bad?
Love you two so much! I usually don’t like this kind of videos but this one i loove and it actually helped me figure out how to SHOW a girl that I like her haha
there's this girl that i really like, but i feel like i don't have a chance with her as she's very popular in school and many girls have crushes on her (i go to a girls' school). i had already confessed to her, but she said she was questioning her sexuality and told me simply that if she were to be a boy she'd accept me. but she's always touchy with everyone, smiles with everyone and people have different theories on who she may like. recently, i heard she said she was straight and i was ready to give up on my crush on her. she'd wrap her arms around my shoulder before and caressed my face but that just makes me even more confused. we aren't in the same class, but she'd told me before that she liked a girl. i don't know what to do with her. should i give up? or keep trying? also, we're leaving the school soon to separate into other different schools as this is the year i'm graduating. please help T^T i'm dominant but i really wish to make the first move and show how much i really like her. but i'm afraid rumours might get spread around my school... i've cried over this girl, smiled with her, hated her because she makes me so confused. and i've only just met her this year, i don't know why i've never noticed her. even my very close friend told me that she kinda likes her, even though she knows i like her. the situation seems really toxic and i try not to think about it, but i like her so much, i keep thinking about her. even if she asks if i'd like to hang out with her, i'd like plainly say "no". i don't know what's wrong with me. and this is the first time i've ever liked a girl. in fact, i had always distanced myself from the girls that i *think* might like me, because i was afraid to reject them. sorry for a longass comment. i feel like i can't really express my thought in real life with friends that know about me liking her. thanks to whoever takes the time to read this! :")
oh my god you all are so nice to have replied to my comment :-) ive gotten over my crush on her but i can definitely say i identify as straight i still support the lgbtq+ community as ive met some amazing people from there. im now a fat simp for dream/george/sapnap/etc. on youtube B) i hope you all are doing great as well ❤
5 months ago I was in denial. 4 or 3 months later I finally accepted that im bisexual (only my 2 best friends and my crush know about my sexuality). I even have a huge crush on a girl and I recently found out she is bisexual too!!
today we bumped into eachother ( in PE, she's 15 im 14) and she like touched my stomach accidently, but then, like 30 minutes later she accidently walked into me from behind and grabbed the side of my waist/ hips and she stares at me all the time ahhhhhhhhh kill me
Edited to update: These signs confuse me because the girl i like is one of my best friends. She knows and she told me she doesn’t like me like how i like her, but still the signs. Arg. Haha. She stands as a straight girl with bf. (So I thought she was my friend. Lol. The reason she’s doing those “signs” is because she doesn’t really care. She doesn’t care with my feelings because she is not what I thought she was, a friend. I wasn’t getting positive responses but just neutral responses from a person who’s not caring about the person she’s talking to. So, I’m not wasting my time with that. Moving on. Haha!)
We're in that weird stage where she comes over and you two sit on your couch watching Netflix trying to not touch or talk about anything sexual or romantic. Update: she threatened me so I guess the vibe was off. Oh well
This is very helpful. First timer chasing someone and keen to learn all the tips and tricks. I think she likes me based on what you’ve said but we have a professional relationship which makes it hard to read too. Waiting for that to end before I ask her out. Thank you 🙏
I am a ball of nerves who stumbles over her words or just doesn’t speak, a hopeless case of the smiles too. I want to lean in and touch her, hold her but fear is holding me back. I can’t stop staring at her when she walks ahead of me or when she’s getting all happy about the things she loves. And all these emotions overwhelm me.
There is this girl in my class. A few weeks ago I found out she is a lesbian. We were talking a lot about lgbtq+ since then and became friends. We have really much in common and like the same things. We both are catpeople. I wanted to ask her but then the schools were closed and we only chat a few times a week. And it is me who texts first all the time. But she smiles and laughs all the time when we see. I really want to ask her out but if she says no cause she doesn't like me... Sorry. I'm from Germany. My english isn't that good))
I did all of these things and I am amazed at how specific it is - how I added her on social media, how I stay close to her when she talks to me, how I shared a photo of us and other friends on my Facebook wall and I hoped she would like it, I hoped she would see my cute selfie stories (which she never did tho). How I want to watch the tv series she recommended to me, how I like to ask her a lot of questions to uncover her goals in life, etc., how I trust her completely and I would share a lot about me with her, how I struggle to not smile at work when I am around her... This is my first girl crush and I am confused.😂
My very close friend recently told me she's bisexual. Yesterday something got into my eye and started tearing up(this is important to the story). She said that ik crying because of her beauty, I said ''I can't even see your beauty''. She then proceds to send me a boomerang of her. Then she said said: "Now do you my beauty". And I said "Yes, that's what I call beauty".
I'm so into this girl, we're close friends, we talk a lot, for her i'm her bestfriend, she's teasing me alot and so am i. She told me that she's bi and she has a boyfriend, i know how much she loves him. I respect it so much until one day she told me that she has a crush on this girl she met. they've talked for so long time, she even told me how much that girl means to her. BAM! I never knew friendzone can be this hard :)
I’m bi and a ‘straight’ colleague would always wink at me at work. She would always compliment my hair, I’d look up and catch her looking at me but she’d look away. I’m always crap at knowing if someone likes me or not 😂
Hello sexy. So are you shy that much that you can't do anything to tease her. Would you like some advice and ideas on how to tease her when you catch her looking at you.👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👅👅👅👅👅👅👅👅👅👆👆👆👆👆👆👆👆👆
ah yay its been a while, thank you for the video! I found myself laughing because i do lots of them right now and realised maybe i dial hold it back a bit because i don't want them to find out. Can't wait for a video on flirting ;)
I met this girl through social media, we did the right stuff (liking each other pics, dm and then talking through whatts up) We had one coffee datee and then we saw each other again. This 2nd time all was great, we laughed at our jokes, we talked a lot, I certainly enjoyed it. One thing led through another and we slept together. And since then she just disappeared... she kinda deleted he IG... but I have her on whatts up and she just replies a few sentences... stopped trying after the 2nd attempt. 😭 She did the right stuff I know she ‘was into me’ .... (she has again her IG uploaded) not sure what happened though. This is the perfect space for the quote ‘she ‘s just not that into you..’
OMG, really? I was in the same situation, absolutely! Well, her IG is still on tho. We both thought it was an one night, tho both wanna see each other again. So unluckily, we discovered that too late T_T
Whenever I’m around my crush I never say anything but I smile in their direction like once and them pretend to do something else.....I’m so awkward it’s embarrassing
Alexis your most beautiful feature is your genuine laughter. Lillian your most beautiful feature is your your body language, it's so transparent. Loving your vids 👍
@Megan Willis Same like this girl was as my friends says "quite obvious that she liked me" but I could not tell I always have to actually straight up ask them lol
My friend (bi) who I (bi) have a crush on nearly got into an argument with a man who pushed me out the way when I was messing around with one of those funhouse mirrors. She also calls me cute/adorable/pretty a lot and did my makeup for a costume once and complimented me on sitting still?? Does she like me?? I am confused, send help??
To me it sounds like she does if she compliments you a lot / is defensive of you but then again she could be a good friend / try testing the waters a little bit by saying a funny joke and then see how she responds I hope I helped you a little bit
From my experience when a female likes you she immediately tries to break the touch barrier. If she is bold she hugs you and is always touching you. She is always around you and if you aren't around she will look for you. She tries to get your contact information immediately. I think with a person that is shy that has a crush on you is more comfortable because an aggressive crush forces you to confront her on her actions and if it's a coworker it can become sexual harrassment.
I’m so confused my crush is straight I think but I don’t do those things because I never get the chance to talk to her and all my crushes are awkward.IM SO CONFUSED 🤷♀️
I have been best friends with this one girl for YEARS and I think I really like her we are past the touching barrier and all the other steps and clues and stuff. We have actually kissed on lips when we were in like kindergarten but it wasnt romantically obviously. (we didn't know what lesbian was duh we were like six lol) We have been through so much together and she has always been there for me no matter what. She is so important to me and so understanding. Im just afraid to mess it all up if she doesn't feel the same!😖😭😞😣
I realized I do all of these things, my crush does a few of those when we're together and now I'm just hoping she gets it... But yeah, I think she might like me as well
there was this moment when my crush, out of the blue, turned to me then said "i'm gay", i replied "you serious?"(definitely not a good response but i was experiencing gay panic so forgive me) She was clearly kidding but oh well, she's dating a guy currently so-
@Megan Willis probably, who knows. And besides, she's dating someone now. Her happiness is what's important. Someday, I'm gonna confess my feelings for her
What this is telling me is that I'm really into my crush because I do all of those when I'm with her 😂
literally same.
Same😂
Same here xD
Hahahha.
Same 😂 I think
I'm bisexual and I literally do this to my crush so I think its obvious that I like her
Løner Wølf Jaz I do it too but I don't get her she has been single so far no experience in relationship not homophobic (I just wanted to make sure if I had a chance) I wanna be with her, someone help me plzzzz
Løner Wølf Jaz me tooo
gosh ! it doesn't always work ! 😫😫poeple are blinded and sometimes they don't want to get out of their closet ! there is girls that sent me this kind of messages but i wasn't so sure to make the first move, girls who made the first move and i freaked out (don't know why ! guess i was stupid back then lol). And my gaydar is really working well, but the problem is, even if a person is attracted to you, she is not always willing to be with you :'( life is complicated and girls are more complicated then men
I guess I'm stuck with men then ! (I'm pansexual so it wouldn't be dramatic i guess) ! but I really want to have a girl in my life, not a man ! like i said, life is complicated! i wanna live with a girl, maybe have an adventure or a short relation with a guy, or sexual relationships; but i don't wanna have to live with a man
Løner Wølf Jaz lol same 😂
I thought she was into me, because most of the things on this list were happening, but then, she got a boyfriend and I was like "WTF"
She could be bi
I’ve done this before when I was afraid and in the closet some people really deny those feelings and force themselves to be with a guy for the fear of their families finding out or whatever the case may be. Some people are at different levels and some times people are just really loving and touchy that could have been a part of her personality
It's difficult to really find someone u like and likes u back. *sigh* and same thing happened to me.. *sigh*
😭😭😭
@@chaoxchaox6257 you can find someone u like and who likes you back but that person can be in the closet, and denial will make her fly away. This person can be bisexual too, and prefer to live a "normal" life or a normative life and forget about this feeling. You can even stay friends. Happened to me so much times ! sigh sigh sigh
The fact my crush isn't bi or les
I still think she likes me.
Other people: Then she doesn't-
Me: *I CAN DREAM OK!*
Lmao a true
The biggest illusion of the world she likes me no matter what😂🤣
Could be curious
😄
Likee she keeps hugging me and hitting me like she likes me 😭
I have a bad tendency of completely cutting myself off from people that I have a crush on 😭 I dunno what it is but yea
Not everybody are same there are good and bad..so chose the good one
Wow I thought I ghost typed your comment because same
@@mang9614 wy!?? What is in ur mind ...the world still hve goid peple like u may be!!!
Same here too
I was literally told by the person I used to have a crush on that she did this!!! I wanted her to like me but at the same time I didn’t!! 😂😂
I watched this a couple months ago when I was crushing bad on a girl and I COULD NOT figure her out. I was back and forth constantly trying to determine whether or not she liked me. Turns out, she watched this exact video around the same time, trying to figure out if I like her! Now we are dating :) This video helped! Took us over 5 months to figure it out lmao
5 months, that’s really encouraging!!! There is no time limit on the honest intention of building something with someone. 💛🏳️🌈
That's romanticcc I love itt
i want this omfg😭
Omg mine is over 1yr crush 😢
My crush: DOES ALL OF THIS
Me: tells how I feel about her
Her: ShOcKeD
😂😂😂😂😂
literally when i came out to my crush-
ikkkr
Did she feel.same
Same
This is the sign that no one is into me hahaha
Same girl... Same..
All these girls commenting how single they are and they and I am still single.
Same and blinkkkkk👏
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Lol 😂 🤣 Sorry couldn't help!
I want someone that looks at me like Alexis looks at Lilian 🥺
Oh my god. I dated this girl about 2 years ago. It was great. But, she broke up with me. Sadly, after that, we lost all contact. We started hanging out again maybe, 3 months ago. And, my god, she’s beautiful. She’s the funniest person, we can relate, and we just get along so well. We’re constantly told we’d make a cute couple (again lol). I always have to blush and look away with a swift no. After watching this, I do all these things to her. And, I think she does some to me. If she isn’t into me, that’s fine. But, it be great if she was, because I’m in love with her.
Edit 11/7: Well, folks. I told her one week ago. We’ve been dating for one week. It’s even better than before. I hope we last longer than last time (we were together for 7 months before). I know it’s too early to say this, but, I think I love her.
Edit 1/20- It’s still going good, almost 3 months!!
Edit 4/4- still going good :)
OMG! I'm wishing you the best! I hope things work out for the two of you 💜✨
TheArtsyHollow, Aww, thanks. We’ve been together for almost 4 weeks now & things are going great! I hope the best for you as well 💛
Megan Willis, aw, thanks. About me looking away with a swift no, i was still thinking I didn’t have a chance with her. I was scared if she knew, she’d break off our friendship. Thank you again though, we’re both so happy. ❤️♥️❤️♥️
Megan Willis, Awww, I’m sorry. I’m positive you’ll meet someone who loves you. Thank you for understating, and, thank you for your kind words. 💜
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️👏👏👏👏
Fun Fact: When standing in a group talking, people’s feet point towards the person they are closer to: eg. A mother towards her child, a sister towards a brother.
This is extremely useful for finding crushes, best friends, affairs and favourite kids. Be warned, though. You won’t always want the answer....
Also, in case you get your hopes up when it comes to crushes, context is the most important thing when looking at body language
I have a turnout- which means my feet turn out naturally
Cute and reaching 40,000. I am 72 and when I met my partner 42 years ago and she was straight I did not recognize the cues...just kept wanting to see her and things evolved.
Barbara Morton-Winters that’s so sweet. So basically you did what your heart told you to do?? What were the things you did to keep seeing your partner and evolve??
Liliyan you're great character
Barbara Morton-Winters wow 💘🌈
@Megan Willis that's sad :( still, it should be your choice. At least that's what I think. Hope you can be out and proud soon!
My crush doesn't do this things on me...
But we ended up together😁
I wanna be you
Giv ur tips right now omgg
@@chloedumas8158 yes i wanna know too 😭
“ I think she likes me” took me out everytime it was said . 😂😂😂 Love it , great video, & perfect timing 💪🏽
Well what you're describing here is exactly what's happening between me and this girl. I work with her and the first 2,5 years I ignored her cause I liked her (: makes sense right. I couldn't even speak in her presence. Always admired her from a far. For some reason we got in touch 4 months ago, and we talk every day .. At work we spend every second we can with each other. We have met outside work twice and yeah. She has a boyfriend. The end? 😭🤣 I dont know.. I respect her relationship so I wont be taking any steps but it's kinda clear we definitely like each other in a way.
I don't know what my point of this comment is, I just had to get it off my chest I guess.
Thanks for reading 🤣
good luck
Maybe she want to be friend with you... or like you as a friend
@@isyourdady7549 could be very much true indeed.
Oh she likes you. Trust me, also dont go there until she is single
hugs😘
Just found out my crush do all of these with my other friend, lol
lol
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Afther watching the video: "I think no one likes me. "
Aw I’m sure that’s not true! ♥️ L
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Galaxy Moon same... I just don't know
The nervous/awkward one is definitely me. 😭😂😭😭
what if you’re not that close to each other and so you won’t really have physical contact that often? Its mostly just catching glances from both sides and hanging out..
Relaaateeeeee❤
What happens when you catch each other stealing a look? The way she reacts could determine if she likes you, and how you look at her could send her different signals whether she should pursue you.
Rena Kf same
the initial physical contact is an ice breaker of sorts. It's either you wait (forever) or you do it yourself
The way they look at each other 🤤❤️
I’m not sure dude cause like one day she’s all in and then the next day she doesn’t say anything to me. She mostly talks with me when we’re alone though like wtf
that happened to me. I think that girl is just afraid or confused but mostly afraid bc she thinks everyone will realize and they also kinda deny their feelings so they don't really know how to act
Mariel Flores it’s so frustrating lmao how did you deal with it or confront the situation?
@@marielflores2711 happened to me. we went to all the bases and said how much we loved each there, saw each other every day...I asked her out she said no, then got with her ex boyfriend (who she originally dumped for me) 2 weeks later.
@@ISTHIStheKRUSTYKRABx SOOO FRUSTRATING! I know. Well, I tried to talk to her about it and even asked her why she was avoiding me, but all i got was negatives and a "I'm not stable at all" and when I told her she was hurting me she said "I always end up doing the opposite of what i really mean". We graduated from high school a month ago and haven't heard from her since then. I even told her that when she's ready she can talk to me. But Idk, i even think she has dated someone else. So I accepted that there's nothing left to do... I mean, looking back I honestly wish I've done more and definitely wish it wouldn't end like that, but I can't change what happen and I do miss her but she made a decision and I know that she has a lot to work on herself yet to be able to accept herself as she is and her true feelings.
Soooo I already told you my long story lol but what I would do in your situation (now that I got this experience lol) is go straight to her and ask her what's going on, because if you never really talk about your feelings and what you both want you'll be in a never-ending cycle and will end up hurt or disappointed, and of course, go slowly but those "I want u one day and the next idk" are not cool for you
@@Chlolivi Yep, not sure but probably the girl I was seeing also got a boyfriend or a guy to date. And she was like a lot into me even before I knew it. Hurts a little but hey, the gotta live their process
yall i think she likes me-
gracefulturnip HAHAH
same here
wow my parents r glowing ✨
Hi
You are so funny and helpful! Helped me grow from a baby bi-curious to a baby 100% les lol
Megan Willis
Full time lesbian😂
Blue Sol a job you don’t and can’t retire from or quit.
I loveeeee eye contact like me and my crush look each other deep in the eyes while in a conversation and it’s honestly so genuine and calming but I don’t know if she’s gay!!! :/
Same
Every time I make eye contact with my crush she instantly look away. 😫 what am I to you huh 😩😩
It could be that she's just shy or she's also into you that she can't look you in the eyes
@@ArcticFalcon AAAAAAAA she's like that to. But I'm avoiding her, I always caught her looking at me. And she's the one who approaches me first the fact that I'm avoiding her yet she's teasing me, winks at me AaaaaAaa
if she looks away immediately she definitely likes you in some way
Pixiee Chan u might be her crush ya never know unless you try
So I thought I was straight my whole life, never questioned it for 20 years until I met this one girl at school (she’s openly lesbian.) I started feeling all of these overwhelming feelings about her out of nowhere, and I would freeze in fear every time she would be near me. I ended up friending her on IG and liked a bunch of her pictures to get her attention, then she messages me and I freaked out and blew her off. So she probably really can’t tell that I have a huge crush on her and she probably hates me and thinks I’m a weirdo 😒
KM539 Soooo I actually reached out to her again, we hung out on Monday and ended up hooking up. I definitely wouldn’t consider myself straight anymore after our hookup & I learned what Comphet (compulsory heterosexuality) is. If I were you I would definitely look up the Comphet doc, I’ll try to link it for you if I can but that could be step 1 in your journey before jumping the gun. I would also watch lesbian romance movies & see if you feel anything exciting when watching them. Once you’ve done some soul searching and you are to make the decision that you’re not straight, then I would definitely talk to your friend about your feelings. If she has that much interest in you, then if you admit your feelings then I’m sure she will be flattered. She probably hasn’t made any advancements toward you because unfortunately lesbians don’t want to creep out their straight friends so they go to extra lengths to make their straight friends feel safe, & if they have a crush they probably wouldn’t tell their straight friends so it wouldn’t make it awkward between them. But if you confess first then I could see it definitely going further!!!
@@laurenhills239 Thank you! I appreciate the advice, and I'll definitely check out the link. Congrats on your situation. I'm glad it worked out!
I understand! I just recently realized Im bi and I'm 23 years old. Lol. Haven't even dated a girl yet and I freeze up every time I even think about hitting on another woman. Lol.
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When a girl asks for a girlʼs number: “Yeah, sure, of course!”
When a guy asks for a girlʼs number: “Oh, sorry! I have a boyfriend…”
girls can pick up more straight girls than a straight guy
Women are much cooler about this than men are
Haha 😂 Jaja and hehe
great idea to use that crush cam ;-)
Them: blushing
Me: I’m black lmao she black too
I'm black and I blush. Just not super red, more like it gets a bit darker and hot in my cheeks. But I guess it depends how rich your skin tone is and how transparent your skin is (my veins are easy to see but I'm not pale at all, if that makes sense)
Lmaoo
I'm only half black, alas my skin is only a little darker and my blush is incredibly obvious 😔😔 But I always have a natural blush so it's okay
Just look at their cheeks not necessarily the color change.
Hhahahaahaa
Okayyy.. Who's watching to avoid this things/actions so no one can notice (not even her) that you actually like her. Definitely ME.
Alona Mae Dela Torre ME TOO
Found your channel recently since I’ve outed myself as bisexual to my closest family members and best friends. Especially already being deaf, pure inclusivity is extremely difficult to find sometimes. Thank you so much for acknowledging us all. I’m so excited to learn more about this community, the history, and how to get more involved.
I absolutely love the way Lillian looks at Alexis very attentively and intentional when she listens to her speak😍
I came cause it looked interesting, I left feeling called out. (In a funny way) lol I checked off as doing every single one of these things this past month omg.
Lol same
that moment when you do most of these and wanna confess to crush but she's straight probably :(
All of my crushes have their boyfriends 🥺
Pay attention to the girls trying to be your friend!
girls can pick up more straight girls than a straight guy
All girls are potentially bisexual or lesbian, anyway
it’s because girls trust girls way more then men.
This is a breath of fresh air and has lightened me up today, such a great post! I feel like I havent interacted with other queer, lgbt peeps in so long where I live in hawaii, and as a single mom sometimes feel alone out here in hawaii, just to watch this I remember theres brilliant people out there to interact with and get over my shyness, mahalo!
Aw so happy to hear that! You’re definitely not alone ♥️ And yes you can do it!
It's so nice to listen to people who compeltely gets you and your experience 😂 ❤ I can't tell the difference between flirting and being friendly as a queer. honestly I couldn't get better advice other than you guys. This is my favorite couple on UA-cam now❤
Yall are the funniest! Such a good video! Love the Re-enactments
What you two have are goals for me to have . Sometimes it is hard to tell if someone likes you online but in real life all good tips.
Cute video!
I think the next question should be - as a lesbian or bi person, how do you tell another girl that's showing interest in you, that you aren't into her? Just bc you're attracted to girls doesn't mean you like every one of them obv, so how do you do it without making them feel bad?
Love you two so much! I usually don’t like this kind of videos but this one i loove and it actually helped me figure out how to SHOW a girl that I like her haha
My crush liked me back and we’re together now!!! 🥰🥰🥰 Thank you for helping me see the signs! 🙌🏻
This is SOOOOO accurate! I check all these signs to my crush lmao
there's this girl that i really like, but i feel like i don't have a chance with her as she's very popular in school and many girls have crushes on her (i go to a girls' school). i had already confessed to her, but she said she was questioning her sexuality and told me simply that if she were to be a boy she'd accept me. but she's always touchy with everyone, smiles with everyone and people have different theories on who she may like. recently, i heard she said she was straight and i was ready to give up on my crush on her. she'd wrap her arms around my shoulder before and caressed my face but that just makes me even more confused. we aren't in the same class, but she'd told me before that she liked a girl. i don't know what to do with her. should i give up? or keep trying? also, we're leaving the school soon to separate into other different schools as this is the year i'm graduating. please help T^T i'm dominant but i really wish to make the first move and show how much i really like her. but i'm afraid rumours might get spread around my school... i've cried over this girl, smiled with her, hated her because she makes me so confused. and i've only just met her this year, i don't know why i've never noticed her. even my very close friend told me that she kinda likes her, even though she knows i like her.
the situation seems really toxic and i try not to think about it, but i like her so much, i keep thinking about her. even if she asks if i'd like to hang out with her, i'd like plainly say "no". i don't know what's wrong with me. and this is the first time i've ever liked a girl. in fact, i had always distanced myself from the girls that i *think* might like me, because i was afraid to reject them.
sorry for a longass comment. i feel like i can't really express my thought in real life with friends that know about me liking her. thanks to whoever takes the time to read this! :")
Any updates? 🙂
I read it hope everything works out❤️
oh my god you all are so nice to have replied to my comment :-) ive gotten over my crush on her but i can definitely say i identify as straight i still support the lgbtq+ community as ive met some amazing people from there. im now a fat simp for dream/george/sapnap/etc. on youtube B) i hope you all are doing great as well ❤
5 months ago I was in denial. 4 or 3 months later I finally accepted that im bisexual (only my 2 best friends and my crush know about my sexuality). I even have a huge crush on a girl and I recently found out she is bisexual too!!
Remembering things is a huge one for any orientation! 😍
And teasing 😘
today we bumped into eachother ( in PE, she's 15 im 14) and she like touched my stomach accidently, but then, like 30 minutes later she accidently walked into me from behind and grabbed the side of my waist/ hips and she stares at me all the time ahhhhhhhhh kill me
Edited to update: These signs confuse me because the girl i like is one of my best friends. She knows and she told me she doesn’t like me like how i like her, but still the signs. Arg. Haha. She stands as a straight girl with bf.
(So I thought she was my friend. Lol. The reason she’s doing those “signs” is because she doesn’t really care. She doesn’t care with my feelings because she is not what I thought she was, a friend. I wasn’t getting positive responses but just neutral responses from a person who’s not caring about the person she’s talking to. So, I’m not wasting my time with that. Moving on. Haha!)
Omg you guys are the most made for each other couple i have ever seen😍
7:47 literally every confo we have goes like this. Except for the ice cream part lol😂.
I'm told I flirt like a fountain when I'm around someone I like. Not that I noticed or realise I am at the time.
Super helpful thanks. What if you’re not that into social media?
We're in that weird stage where she comes over and you two sit on your couch watching Netflix trying to not touch or talk about anything sexual or romantic.
Update: she threatened me so I guess the vibe was off. Oh well
This is very helpful. First timer chasing someone and keen to learn all the tips and tricks. I think she likes me based on what you’ve said but we have a professional relationship which makes it hard to read too. Waiting for that to end before I ask her out. Thank you 🙏
I am a ball of nerves who stumbles over her words or just doesn’t speak, a hopeless case of the smiles too. I want to lean in and touch her, hold her but fear is holding me back. I can’t stop staring at her when she walks ahead of me or when she’s getting all happy about the things she loves. And all these emotions overwhelm me.
You two are adorable. I hope to be in a relationship with a connection like yours one day.
There is this girl in my class. A few weeks ago I found out she is a lesbian. We were talking a lot about lgbtq+ since then and became friends. We have really much in common and like the same things. We both are catpeople. I wanted to ask her but then the schools were closed and we only chat a few times a week. And it is me who texts first all the time. But she smiles and laughs all the time when we see. I really want to ask her out but if she says no cause she doesn't like me...
Sorry. I'm from Germany. My english isn't that good))
Hi Lilian, so good to see you. I am glad you are doing well. Enjoyed the video. Take care.
Ohhh you’re earlier!! Love it!!!!!!Miss you and love you guys!!
I did all of these things and I am amazed at how specific it is - how I added her on social media, how I stay close to her when she talks to me, how I shared a photo of us and other friends on my Facebook wall and I hoped she would like it, I hoped she would see my cute selfie stories (which she never did tho). How I want to watch the tv series she recommended to me, how I like to ask her a lot of questions to uncover her goals in life, etc., how I trust her completely and I would share a lot about me with her, how I struggle to not smile at work when I am around her...
This is my first girl crush and I am confused.😂
My very close friend recently told me she's bisexual. Yesterday something got into my eye and started tearing up(this is important to the story). She said that ik crying because of her beauty, I said ''I can't even see your beauty''. She then proceds to send me a boomerang of her. Then she said said: "Now do you my beauty". And I said "Yes, that's what I call beauty".
Thanks for the tips! Now the trick is for me to actually remember to not forget them IRL. 😂
I'm so into this girl, we're close friends, we talk a lot, for her i'm her bestfriend, she's teasing me alot and so am i. She told me that she's bi and she has a boyfriend, i know how much she loves him. I respect it so much until one day she told me that she has a crush on this girl she met. they've talked for so long time, she even told me how much that girl means to her. BAM! I never knew friendzone can be this hard :)
I have never been this so early I missed you guys so much...love you big from Africa
Hi.. From Africa too
I’m bi and a ‘straight’ colleague would always wink at me at work. She would always compliment my hair, I’d look up and catch her looking at me but she’d look away. I’m always crap at knowing if someone likes me or not 😂
Hello sexy. So are you shy that much that you can't do anything to tease her. Would you like some advice and ideas on how to tease her when you catch her looking at you.👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👅👅👅👅👅👅👅👅👅👆👆👆👆👆👆👆👆👆
David keller nope because I don’t work with her anymore, still friends though.
ah yay its been a while, thank you for the video! I found myself laughing because i do lots of them right now and realised maybe i dial hold it back a bit because i don't want them to find out. Can't wait for a video on flirting ;)
lol the way you were using the singing bowl 😂😂😂 i dont know if it was on purpose or not but I cracked up, because its wrong hahaha
Haha yes it was on purpose ;)
Wait why am I watching this-
I have a girlfriend-
To know if your girlfriend is really into you
@@heh8916 There it is-
Zoe Isamess double checking
this is the cutest!! i need to know how to flirt !!
Such useful information. It can be so hard to tell if someone likes you.
This is sooo accurate! Also you guys are so funny lol
I always wait for you guys to post a new video
You guys are So inspiring and loving
God bless you both
Love from India 😘😘😘😘😘
Hi...where are you from?..I am from West Bengal
I met this girl through social media, we did the right stuff (liking each other pics, dm and then talking through whatts up) We had one coffee datee and then we saw each other again. This 2nd time all was great, we laughed at our jokes, we talked a lot, I certainly enjoyed it. One thing led through another and we slept together. And since then she just disappeared... she kinda deleted he IG... but I have her on whatts up and she just replies a few sentences... stopped trying after the 2nd attempt. 😭 She did the right stuff I know she ‘was into me’ .... (she has again her IG uploaded) not sure what happened though. This is the perfect space for the quote ‘she ‘s just not that into you..’
Mc MV that must be disappointing and confusing! : /
OMG, really? I was in the same situation, absolutely! Well, her IG is still on tho. We both thought it was an one night, tho both wanna see each other again. So unluckily, we discovered that too late T_T
Whenever I’m around my crush I never say anything but I smile in their direction like once and them pretend to do something else.....I’m so awkward it’s embarrassing
it’s so hard to do this during Covid times! at least with the touching and stuff. this video is helpful though!!
Alexis your most beautiful feature is your genuine laughter.
Lillian your most beautiful feature is your your body language, it's so transparent.
Loving your vids 👍
Haha guys you're hilarious! Love from Montreal.
I know I ain't straight but I am horrible at looking at the signs
@Megan Willis Same like this girl was as my friends says "quite obvious that she liked me" but I could not tell I always have to actually straight up ask them lol
@Megan Willis that's a.. complicated situation
I find your video really helpful, entertaining and nice
great Video❤ please make one about flirting 😊
ooh yeah can't wait for how to flirt :) nice video still waiting for some one XD XD
Amazing video, my crush & i share all of them!!!😂💕💕💕
Your interaction in the video was so interesting👏👏🍭🍭
Exactly me and this girl...I asked her out and she said she wasn't into me...but she did practically all of these signs. rip me.
Awwww she's horrible girl you deserve better
What a lovely, beautiful couple you are 😊! Be happy always. Blessing from Taiwan
You guys have good vibes! I’m subscribing now.
My friend (bi) who I (bi) have a crush on nearly got into an argument with a man who pushed me out the way when I was messing around with one of those funhouse mirrors. She also calls me cute/adorable/pretty a lot and did my makeup for a costume once and complimented me on sitting still??
Does she like me?? I am confused, send help??
To me it sounds like she does
if she compliments you a lot / is defensive of you
but then again she could be a good friend / try testing the waters a little bit by saying a funny joke and then see how she responds
I hope I helped you a little bit
@@GeneseeBarron thanks for the advice, I really care about her and don't want to ruin our friendship, y'know?
@@bugbear2357 Your welcome / I understand not wanting to ruin your friendship
I wish you the best of luck
DreamerYt update???
Idk but women complimented each other sounds like a normal thing
sHiT oH sHiT tHiS vIdEo Is ThE oNe To CoNvInCe Me My CrUsH lIkEs Me!
Me watching this "Am I that obvious "😂
Hello, are these tips also for older people that are curious about this topic that are not sure how to come out?
You both are a beautiful couple ❤
You guys are super cute and I can relate to this video.
Just subscribed to your channel.
7:48 Oh my God it’s like the perfect footage
Someone subscribing to my interests just to generate a common ground actually is a big pet peeve of mine. 😳
You are the best wlw youtuber I have ever seen in the world!!! You say it very clear, it's pleasant to hear it😘😘🏳️🌈
From my experience when a female likes you she immediately tries to break the touch barrier. If she is bold she hugs you and is always touching you. She is always around you and if you aren't around she will look for you. She tries to get your contact information immediately. I think with a person that is shy that has a crush on you is more comfortable because an aggressive crush forces you to confront her on her actions and if it's a coworker it can become sexual harrassment.
This is such a good video! Thank you!!! This is so helpful...
aw thank you, glad you’re finding it helpful 😊
I’m so confused my crush is straight I think but I don’t do those things because I never get the chance to talk to her and all my crushes are awkward.IM SO CONFUSED 🤷♀️
I have been best friends with this one girl for YEARS and I think I really like her we are past the touching barrier and all the other steps and clues and stuff. We have actually kissed on lips when we were in like kindergarten but it wasnt romantically obviously. (we didn't know what lesbian was duh we were like six lol)
We have been through so much together and she has always been there for me no matter what. She is so important to me and so understanding. Im just afraid to mess it all up if she doesn't feel the same!😖😭😞😣
I realized I do all of these things, my crush does a few of those when we're together and now I'm just hoping she gets it... But yeah, I think she might like me as well
there was this moment when my crush, out of the blue, turned to me then said "i'm gay", i replied "you serious?"(definitely not a good response but i was experiencing gay panic so forgive me)
She was clearly kidding but oh well, she's dating a guy currently so-
She's bi
@CATHY B I would never do that,I prefer women. I feel for you if you where led on. 🦄🦄
@Megan Willis probably, who knows. And besides, she's dating someone now. Her happiness is what's important. Someday, I'm gonna confess my feelings for her
@CATHY B made me extremely (soaking) wet