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Julien - your release technique is really the bomb. Really youre the best at it. But i can see from this that your disbelief in the metaphysical and mystic is a bit limiting. This world is 100% metaphysical.
Interesting point with the thought experiment about a world where people strive to be sad. Who here has ever wished they could just have a good cry and let it all out but couldn't?
i've realized spirituality is almost surface level and went down a rabbit hole of "why" "when" and other things this is when i discovered shadow work, started to learn from bob proctor started to understand paradigms and core beliefs and my journey has led me towards you and its almost been like the final piece of the puzzle. i understand everything ya mean
Letting go method, is exactly the same as ending panic attacks method. It's the only way to end any level of anxiety. Non resistance, let it come up, and let go.🎉
I bow to no man, but with this video, this is 100% one of the best videos that ever came from RSD ever since I followed it 8 years ago, it was so eye opening to hear about how humans relate emotions to bad or good therefore creating this sorta paradox... absolutely amazing. I don't even know where Julien gets this info...
What you speak is the core truth. We let go of our reservoir by doing absolutely nothing. I used to think letting go or surrender was an action, and now I realize it's the opposite, the complete dropping of personal will. There is both a dark and light nature to reality and by ignoring the dark and clinging to the light we create an imbalance within us. Only by accepting all sides of reality including our painful emotions can we come to balance/enlightenment which isn't what people traditionally think it is. It's more just living ur true expression and coming to peace with the way things are rather then "transcending emotions" or reaching "bliss". Good work, keep it up, I've come to these exact same realizations and truth, and this is where all true enlightened beings will guide you.
The best and only way to deal with emotions is to accept them as they are. Once you accept, you can look back, reflect, and then move on. Turn your negatives and turn them into your positives. Sure you can look back at them, but acknowledge your past and who you are, because you can't find what you love if you don't believe in you. Daily reminder that we all got this 💪💪
Absolutely the truth, it's amazing how one core factor is the point that holds all of the rest of your fear/feelings/issues together. Here with the example of fearing being alone being tied to all of those other fears that lead all the way up to public speaking. A lot of these things would easily go away if we recognize where they really come from. I say "easily" because some of these issues we have were made and embedded in our subconscious and core-operating system when we were young and didn't know what the fuck we were talking about/experiencing. A school or classmate trauma, for example, is no longer valid to us, but we have been with it for so long, we think it is. The fears we used to have are no longer useful to us. Of course there are issues for certain people that would not "easily" go away depending on what they stem from, but there are still quite a lot that can be taken care of right now. I heal by walking/doing cardio at home and/or cleaning around the house and just straight-up talking to myself.
I was at this seminar & after this releasing session, I went out to 6th street in Austin & pulled the 3rd girl I talked to lolol It works, it got me out of my way
Been watching this stuff. Last night I laid down and set my timer for 10 mins to just allow myself to feel. Most of it I just felt pretty easy then almost at the 10 min mark I started to feel this discomfort like I don’t want to do this anymore so I thought maybe I should feel more into this then all the sudden I felt this extreme heaviness sit on me and my face just starting tightening up and I started crying and I was like ok I gotta do this for 10 more mins. The emotions got so intense I went from sadness to anger to sadness and then even moments of this euphoric relief and I just felt so alive the pain of sadness and anger still came and was there and then I started getting flashes of images almost from the past or maybe just my imagination. Really intense. Then eventually the whole 20 mins was up. Afterwards I just felt like I’ve never felt, like I could just feel as opposed to never feeling anything. And the feeling was just consistent it wasn’t anything crazy at that moment but for the rest of the night I had it. Felt amazing, and I could still feel now writing this. I can tell I got a whole lot left to unfold there. I’m not sure this is exactly what you’re preaching but I feel like it’s in the right direction, and even that was honestly life changing
And honestly at this point in my life I’d rather feel the heaviness of sadness and anything else then just the dullness that I’ve felt for most of my life. I’d state pump and do some Tony Robbins get myself going stuff but there’s nothing like really feeling what I’m feeling, how you say if someone were to feel what you’re feeling right now what would they feel. I prefer the real feeling how I actually feel than anything else.
Its funny reading comments like this. To see how utterly lost people are. This is essentially a perfect video with amazing, instantly applicable knowledge for anyone. And this clown comments "thank you, you gave me more conviction not to ever get vaccinated!" Jesus, man. The vaccine is fine man, seriously just get it and watch some more julien videos so you might learn something
JulienHimself your content is what I've been looking for for a while - I realised the toxic bullshit of self help, but still realised the power of developing some aspects of yourself. Great stuff, really enjoying your talk.
The book high performance habits states that having role models is a common thing that high performance people have. In the book the shrimad bhagavad gita, they call krisna the supreme PERSONALITY of godhead. The spiritual figures are meant to guide you to the way. The problem is that people are gullible and short sighted. But having a role model is better than none. In zen, they say that once you are able to sit in the lotus position you are in zen. The point is that high energy activities lead to higher energy thinking and mindsets. Great video
In Theravada Buddhism, the Buddha is not worshipped as a god, but rather revered as a teacher who attained enlightenment and showed the path to liberation from suffering. The offerings are like a way for people that are not monks to get good Karma.
You're so genuine Julian. In other videos I hear you talking about scandals in the past but I only see you now and you are genuine. Who doesn't have scandals?! The difference is we don't have cameras or an audience on us. You're good peeps Julian and this is the Juluan I know and that has helped me tremendously the last Month that I have found You.. keep rocking man
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full watch! I loved this video. personally, I can say that since letting go, my joy in life has increased exponentially. I didn't realise it was be possible to feel so satisfied with life. when you surrender and stop all resistance, something beautiful happens. I love Mario tomics videos too. thanks for this wonderful video julien 💫
Hey Julien, you taught pick up and social skills for many years. Have you considered teaching relationship skills now? Such as, how to choose a steady girlfriend, who can make a good wife, how to do your best so that your wife is happy with you and doesn’t cheat etc. please consider it. Much love and respect ✊
Thank you Julien for this whole new perspective on self development by just embracing yourself and your emotions fully. Im curious how you got that insights by yourself or if you had a mentor for this? Anyways thank you and I'll hope more people will find your channel, because its a complete new perspective in selfdevelopment which Ive seen in no other person
Glad this was so insightful! These perspectives come from over 16 years of working on myself and over 12 years of coaching people all around the world... 🙏
Much like Julien I figured this out by myself as well by piecing together stuff I picked up at a lot of various places and my own experiences. I'm watching this video already fully understanding every step of the process, because I started doing this 11 years ago. Back then I spent 2 years working on myself every single day, every waking moment I spent with the aim of understanding this and in the end I did. It was a very hard journey though, just doing the process in itself is very hard, figuring out the process on top of that is a lot harder. I don't think his perspective is new, there is no other way to do this and I believe many people have reached this point within themselves through the same process. However, I can not remember seeing anyone distill down this knowledge quite as well as Julien does. I knew the process internally, but I wouldn't know where to begin trying to explain it with words so others can understand, this is the part Julien does very well. I wish I had this video 11 years ago so I could have just done the process instead of having all the additional pain of figuring out the process by myself.
I think a better treatment of this idea of our relationship to good and bad emotions is this. Rather than saying something like "if we were conditioned to think bad was the 'proper' emotion, we'd feel excited about it." I think thats incorrect. Because absolutes do exist. But I do agree with treating our relationship to each emotion in a more accepting way. We should accept where we're at, and accept the emotion we're feeling currently, but be striving for joy and contentment. The ultimate joy and contentment is knowing you're whole and accepted and loved, and giving love in return(giving, action, etc.). Love IS action. Love isn't just something one says to another. It's action. My pastor describes God as such: Holy is the essence of Love. Love is the function of Holy. Extrapolating further, holy is the being, love is the doing. But if we go even further God is BOTH. Meaning the two ideas are not separate. God is both holy and love. So the WHOLE complete being is one who has combined the paradigms of being, doing and having. Being isn't the highest paradigm. It's when you unite all three paradigms. God is holy, His function is love, and He has ALL things/endless energy/eternal. He is the picture of all THREE paradigms combined.
Going further. Living in ultimate joy for eternity is the final frontier. To know God and be in His presence for eternity is the goal. What did God do in His infinite power and eternal presence, when no creatures or creation existed? He OFFERED VALUE. He created new beings so they could experience His goodness/glory for eternity. That's how much He loves. The final Word on this was Jesus. His Word says if we confess with our mouth Jesus Christ is Lord we shall be saved. For there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved. He is truly the only way to everlasting contentment and joy. 🤘
Amazing content thanks a lot Julien! I definitely gotta be more strong-willed. Remind myself who I am and realize that while growth is uncomfortable, not growing is WAYYYYYYYY more uncomfortable.
@@JulienHimself Finished it today, biggest takeaway would definitely be, instead of trying to move upwards, dive inwards into yourself accepting along the way, even though I've heard it time and again by you and other guys, I still keep forgetting it and try to move upwards, will try to absorb it. Thanks for the vid!
JM books are a trip and can trigger nihilism in a reader , if misunderstood and many have gotten stuck in that void but if you keep pushing ' further ' it can be a springboard ,to accepting the responsibility ,that comes with being free from a self imposed mental prison. As always Julian, your content and it's delivery is first class, all the best on your journey 🙏💚
Julian, I have an unusual question. I noticed that nothing feels appealing to go towards. I spent years meditating marathon style to the point of having a lot of awakenings, major perceptual shifts, and observing all my habits and just how my mind works. The shifts from that were dramatic and radical. My life and the ways people treat me are a universe apart from how things were previously. Then I left that behind after about a decade of experiencing these extreme shifts. Then I spent about a decade focused solely on practicality, systems, and being pragmatic overall. Learning and applying everything I could find. I found myself playing the why game to dig deeper into why I want anything and I find myself repeatedly going in circles. I sit in silence trying to find the appeal in going towards anything and nothing seems to be appealing enough to work towards. There are plenty of things I want but the wanting of any of them seems to be so mild it doesn't justify the work or change needed to acquire any of them. Is there a trick or process to finding what's appealing to go for? I feel like the only motivation I have is to escape things that are undesired. But even that doesn't insight any lasting motivation.
I feel motivation comes from having clear set goals. Getting the goals comes from realy finding out what you want. Finding out what you really want comes from getting to know yourself really well and defining your values and ofcourse identifying self limiting beliefs, anxieties and fears and dealing with them.
Thank you. I love the responses and believe they are great steps for most people. I figured it out after a couple days after I wrote the question. I spent almost 3 decades fantasizing about an ideal reality that isn't possible and wanted it so badly I was willing to do anything for it to be real including marathon rounds of meditation and any action step I could think of and I ran those to exhaustion... but that reality isn't possible as it's nothing like actual reality. ie... it wasn't wealth, girls, or muscles or anything like that. It went way past anything I've ever known anyone to want or have, including all celebrities, monks, billionaires, athletes... etc So right now it's just knowing that's been running in the background since then and causing me to compare anything in reality to that fantasy and nothing I see in reality comparing. I have to let it go but I know that's easier said than done after having that run me for almost 3 decades.
Letting Go/Transformation Mastery changed my life. I foolishly let it slip but recently got back into the practice. The strange thing is that when you let go things that bother you drift out of your conscious awareness, so it can be used to keep a track of your progress. It's subtle at first but it works.
Similar experience to the point where things that use to trigger me no longer do, clearing the space for action and making it more from a space of inspiration vs desperation. Cheers
@@martinvee91111 yeah I remember being so triggered by some things and then realising that they no longer trigger me anymore. Infact I actually begin to like it more
Amazing the kind of material you guys put out now since the early RSD days. That stuff was great, it was useful, and it still is when I think back on it. But this is a whole other level. Major thanks.
I was wondering if you ever heard of "Paradoxical Intention" by Viktor Frankl? In one of his books he talks about psychological technique for letting go of anxiety and fear.
Hey Julien, massive big up for such quantity but quality stuff. I’m sure your insights will go down in the annals of history. And why did you stop making music? I’d love to listen to your tunes as a DJ, hehe. Cheers and much love from Ukraine.
That release tho. It's awesome! I never knew I'd feel like drying if I'd embrace my younger self. I am still not emotionally aware enough to shed tears, but I felt it.
Love the Guru warning Julien, so easy to fall into the charismatic self help spiritual coach trap and pay them tons of $$$ when they promise God Mode techniques. And hollowness of achieving God Mode, not that it's even possible. Thanks brother.
My ex was a ‘MEDICINE MAN’ - everything was perfect! He wasn’t the body or the mind.. we were all one! The world was one big illusion - in the end I was like REALLY? FFS! - this enlightened one now hates me but rang me to say all is good because he now forgives me (obvs! Of course he does 😳🤭) for ending the relationship! Anyway! Sound advice this Julian and you made me laugh lots!!!! 😂🙏, thank you
If we take fitness example. I am fat and I don’t like myself as a fat person. Can you get rid of self-hate by becoming fit? Or by loving yourself as you are? I know that best method is to do both . But hitting gym can be escapism from self-hate and if you become fit there is no self-hate of being fat and there is no need to let go. So what is correct lane ?
By identifying the hidden payoff of NOT getting fit... Once you let go of that, you'll naturally be inspired to work out. Lemme know if you want help with this: www.julienhimself.com/mentoring-application
Thanks alot for this real pure content, man. I'm feeling really good these days following your content! ❤️❤️✌️ Noticed you know Osho as well, he's fucking my favorite ever and I agree: he is so crazy. 😅❤️❤️❤️
I was for a while off the letting go, but in the first 10mins of this video I've gotten a huge urge to let go, so I immediately listened to your guided release . Thanks Julien, back on the road thanks to you!
Wonderful ❤ but just one thing..oldage spiritual guru just doesnt give talks they give some practices which have helped millions to come out of addictions. Its jot just the talks that people look upto to them. Listening to them is temporary. It will go after the talk. But the practices are what help.
My cheating wife said, " All I want is to be happy. " and then left me. We both have our vices and faults. You can not be happy unless you love yourself. I'm finding out that neither one of us loved ourselves. Thank you for this amazing talk!
Hey Julez, thanks for the upload, hugely beneficial clearing things out. Quick Q regarding the letting go, been doing shadow work and inner child healing, been having grief come up for almost 2 days straight, this may be normal for some? Since stuff has been repressed/supressed since early childhood. Cheers & thank you.
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Julien - your release technique is really the bomb. Really youre the best at it. But i can see from this that your disbelief in the metaphysical and mystic is a bit limiting. This world is 100% metaphysical.
Interesting point with the thought experiment about a world where people strive to be sad. Who here has ever wished they could just have a good cry and let it all out but couldn't?
i've realized spirituality is almost surface level and went down a rabbit hole of "why" "when" and other things this is when i discovered shadow work, started to learn from bob proctor started to understand paradigms and core beliefs and my journey has led me towards you and its almost been like the final piece of the puzzle. i understand everything ya mean
I actually can't believe this is free... so much value from one video it's unreal. Thank you.
You're very welcome! What part of this video resonated with you the most?
O Father O Satan O Sun is my go to song when it comes to moments like this.
AMAZING!!!! So happy to see this released here! -Owen
Thanks, man! 🙏
@@JulienHimself get a room you two 😉
This Owen guy is such a troll! You should be more like Julien Owen! Great video guys keep up the good work!
I saw the first version. This one is good too. Cheers me up when my depression kicks on
Hey Owen! Used to watch your videos a lot and saw you re-appear on one of Julien's videos. I was like "oh, hey it's that guy".
Letting go method, is exactly the same as ending panic attacks method. It's the only way to end any level of anxiety. Non resistance, let it come up, and let go.🎉
I bow to no man, but with this video, this is 100% one of the best videos that ever came from RSD ever since I followed it 8 years ago, it was so eye opening to hear about how humans relate emotions to bad or good therefore creating this sorta paradox... absolutely amazing. I don't even know where Julien gets this info...
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What you speak is the core truth. We let go of our reservoir by doing absolutely nothing. I used to think letting go or surrender was an action, and now I realize it's the opposite, the complete dropping of personal will. There is both a dark and light nature to reality and by ignoring the dark and clinging to the light we create an imbalance within us. Only by accepting all sides of reality including our painful emotions can we come to balance/enlightenment which isn't what people traditionally think it is. It's more just living ur true expression and coming to peace with the way things are rather then "transcending emotions" or reaching "bliss". Good work, keep it up, I've come to these exact same realizations and truth, and this is where all true enlightened beings will guide you.
The best and only way to deal with emotions is to accept them as they are. Once you accept, you can look back, reflect, and then move on. Turn your negatives and turn them into your positives. Sure you can look back at them, but acknowledge your past and who you are, because you can't find what you love if you don't believe in you. Daily reminder that we all got this 💪💪
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Absolutely the truth, it's amazing how one core factor is the point that holds all of the rest of your fear/feelings/issues together. Here with the example of fearing being alone being tied to all of those other fears that lead all the way up to public speaking. A lot of these things would easily go away if we recognize where they really come from. I say "easily" because some of these issues we have were made and embedded in our subconscious and core-operating system when we were young and didn't know what the fuck we were talking about/experiencing. A school or classmate trauma, for example, is no longer valid to us, but we have been with it for so long, we think it is. The fears we used to have are no longer useful to us. Of course there are issues for certain people that would not "easily" go away depending on what they stem from, but there are still quite a lot that can be taken care of right now. I heal by walking/doing cardio at home and/or cleaning around the house and just straight-up talking to myself.
This is one of THE BEST things I've EVER heard!!! Thank you Julien for putting this content here, it's changing my life and I'm sure a lot of others.
JULIEN is a Man of GOD..
This takes levels of thought ground breaking
dude ya the best person in this world
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poopoobird is the way! 👐
Life has been feeling like less and less work. Even work feels less like work.
See, the end part used to make me cry. Now I smile and laugh
I was at this seminar & after this releasing session, I went out to 6th street in Austin & pulled the 3rd girl I talked to lolol
It works, it got me out of my way
true i saw you swag it out with that BD energy
Been watching this stuff. Last night I laid down and set my timer for 10 mins to just allow myself to feel. Most of it I just felt pretty easy then almost at the 10 min mark I started to feel this discomfort like I don’t want to do this anymore so I thought maybe I should feel more into this then all the sudden I felt this extreme heaviness sit on me and my face just starting tightening up and I started crying and I was like ok I gotta do this for 10 more mins. The emotions got so intense I went from sadness to anger to sadness and then even moments of this euphoric relief and I just felt so alive the pain of sadness and anger still came and was there and then I started getting flashes of images almost from the past or maybe just my imagination. Really intense. Then eventually the whole 20 mins was up. Afterwards I just felt like I’ve never felt, like I could just feel as opposed to never feeling anything. And the feeling was just consistent it wasn’t anything crazy at that moment but for the rest of the night I had it. Felt amazing, and I could still feel now writing this. I can tell I got a whole lot left to unfold there. I’m not sure this is exactly what you’re preaching but I feel like it’s in the right direction, and even that was honestly life changing
And honestly at this point in my life I’d rather feel the heaviness of sadness and anything else then just the dullness that I’ve felt for most of my life. I’d state pump and do some Tony Robbins get myself going stuff but there’s nothing like really feeling what I’m feeling, how you say if someone were to feel what you’re feeling right now what would they feel. I prefer the real feeling how I actually feel than anything else.
52 mins in and this is hitting me. My best friend has stopped talking to me because I haven't got vaccinated. This is helping a lot. Thank you.
He'll be on his way to the next life faster than you.
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Its funny reading comments like this. To see how utterly lost people are. This is essentially a perfect video with amazing, instantly applicable knowledge for anyone. And this clown comments "thank you, you gave me more conviction not to ever get vaccinated!" Jesus, man. The vaccine is fine man, seriously just get it and watch some more julien videos so you might learn something
If he stopped being your friend because of that. He was never really your friend to began with. Fuck him.
@@DesertVox 🤡
JulienHimself your content is what I've been looking for for a while - I realised the toxic bullshit of self help, but still realised the power of developing some aspects of yourself. Great stuff, really enjoying your talk.
Glad this resonates with you! 🙏
At the end where there was meditation i cried and tears ran down my face.
감사합니다.
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The book high performance habits states that having role models is a common thing that high performance people have. In the book the shrimad bhagavad gita, they call krisna the supreme PERSONALITY of godhead. The spiritual figures are meant to guide you to the way. The problem is that people are gullible and short sighted. But having a role model is better than none. In zen, they say that once you are able to sit in the lotus position you are in zen. The point is that high energy activities lead to higher energy thinking and mindsets. Great video
In Theravada Buddhism, the Buddha is not worshipped as a god, but rather revered as a teacher who attained enlightenment and showed the path to liberation from suffering. The offerings are like a way for people that are not monks to get good Karma.
You're so genuine Julian. In other videos I hear you talking about scandals in the past but I only see you now and you are genuine. Who doesn't have scandals?! The difference is we don't have cameras or an audience on us. You're good peeps Julian and this is the Juluan I know and that has helped me tremendously the last Month that I have found You.. keep rocking man
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full watch! I loved this video. personally, I can say that since letting go, my joy in life has increased exponentially. I didn't realise it was be possible to feel so satisfied with life. when you surrender and stop all resistance, something beautiful happens. I love Mario tomics videos too. thanks for this wonderful video julien 💫
Amazing to hear! And thx for watching the full video! 🙏
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Gold gold gold!!! Ty brother
I love how you pieced everything that I've learned and still learning💙💎
Glad this resonates with you!
Wow, i cried whatching the End, on my Phone in the train, lol nr1 Feeling was gratitude, didnt expect that to bei it
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Hey Julien, you taught pick up and social skills for many years. Have you considered teaching relationship skills now? Such as, how to choose a steady girlfriend, who can make a good wife, how to do your best so that your wife is happy with you and doesn’t cheat etc. please consider it. Much love and respect ✊
Thank you Julien for this whole new perspective on self development by just embracing yourself and your emotions fully. Im curious how you got that insights by yourself or if you had a mentor for this?
Anyways thank you and I'll hope more people will find your channel, because its a complete new perspective in selfdevelopment which Ive seen in no other person
Glad this was so insightful! These perspectives come from over 16 years of working on myself and over 12 years of coaching people all around the world... 🙏
Much like Julien I figured this out by myself as well by piecing together stuff I picked up at a lot of various places and my own experiences. I'm watching this video already fully understanding every step of the process, because I started doing this 11 years ago. Back then I spent 2 years working on myself every single day, every waking moment I spent with the aim of understanding this and in the end I did. It was a very hard journey though, just doing the process in itself is very hard, figuring out the process on top of that is a lot harder.
I don't think his perspective is new, there is no other way to do this and I believe many people have reached this point within themselves through the same process. However, I can not remember seeing anyone distill down this knowledge quite as well as Julien does. I knew the process internally, but I wouldn't know where to begin trying to explain it with words so others can understand, this is the part Julien does very well.
I wish I had this video 11 years ago so I could have just done the process instead of having all the additional pain of figuring out the process by myself.
I think a better treatment of this idea of our relationship to good and bad emotions is this. Rather than saying something like "if we were conditioned to think bad was the 'proper' emotion, we'd feel excited about it." I think thats incorrect. Because absolutes do exist. But I do agree with treating our relationship to each emotion in a more accepting way. We should accept where we're at, and accept the emotion we're feeling currently, but be striving for joy and contentment. The ultimate joy and contentment is knowing you're whole and accepted and loved, and giving love in return(giving, action, etc.). Love IS action. Love isn't just something one says to another. It's action. My pastor describes God as such: Holy is the essence of Love. Love is the function of Holy. Extrapolating further, holy is the being, love is the doing. But if we go even further God is BOTH. Meaning the two ideas are not separate. God is both holy and love. So the WHOLE complete being is one who has combined the paradigms of being, doing and having. Being isn't the highest paradigm. It's when you unite all three paradigms. God is holy, His function is love, and He has ALL things/endless energy/eternal. He is the picture of all THREE paradigms combined.
Going further. Living in ultimate joy for eternity is the final frontier. To know God and be in His presence for eternity is the goal. What did God do in His infinite power and eternal presence, when no creatures or creation existed? He OFFERED VALUE. He created new beings so they could experience His goodness/glory for eternity. That's how much He loves. The final Word on this was Jesus. His Word says if we confess with our mouth Jesus Christ is Lord we shall be saved. For there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved. He is truly the only way to everlasting contentment and joy. 🤘
As much as I miss the RSD pick up days and the Dating content but this is amazing! Full of Value!
Glad this resonates! 🔥👊
Amazing content thanks a lot Julien! I definitely gotta be more strong-willed. Remind myself who I am and realize that while growth is uncomfortable, not growing is WAYYYYYYYY more uncomfortable.
I love the contradiction between your Doom t shirt and the fancy flowery happy jacket you put right over it.
This guy's speaking some sense... And he's got hardcore drip!
The great sequel we’ve all been waiting for
Booyah!! 🙏
dude been waiting for this since u mentioned it in the last live, psyched!!
Awesome! Well, enjoy and definitely let me know your biggest takeaway from it!! 🙏
@@JulienHimself Finished it today, biggest takeaway would definitely be, instead of trying to move upwards, dive inwards into yourself accepting along the way, even though I've heard it time and again by you and other guys, I still keep forgetting it and try to move upwards, will try to absorb it. Thanks for the vid!
Julien, i love your outfit!!❣️❣️
Thank you! This is life changing!
That floral robe looks like came from someone's grandma's closet 😄. Love it as well as the teaching ❤️.
Awesome video the part that clicks differs as time passes!!
One is not somewhere on the scale. One is the scale itself.
JM books are a trip and can trigger nihilism in a reader , if misunderstood and many have gotten stuck in that void but if you keep pushing ' further ' it can be a springboard ,to accepting the responsibility ,that comes with being free from a self imposed mental prison.
As always Julian, your content and it's delivery is first class, all the best on your journey 🙏💚
Agreed!! Thank you! 🙏
@@JulienHimself Thank you🙏
Who is JM?
@@theGuilherme36 jed mckenna.
@@injoyinmyself2018 Thanks!
I this is the most important video I’ve seen in my life…
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Julian FFS! Cackling 😂 you’re so funny with your on point-ness 😂😂😂 maybe I want to also be here for the giggles 🤭 xx
Beautiful thank you brother!
You’re very welcome! 🙏
Julian, I have an unusual question. I noticed that nothing feels appealing to go towards. I spent years meditating marathon style to the point of having a lot of awakenings, major perceptual shifts, and observing all my habits and just how my mind works. The shifts from that were dramatic and radical. My life and the ways people treat me are a universe apart from how things were previously. Then I left that behind after about a decade of experiencing these extreme shifts.
Then I spent about a decade focused solely on practicality, systems, and being pragmatic overall. Learning and applying everything I could find.
I found myself playing the why game to dig deeper into why I want anything and I find myself repeatedly going in circles.
I sit in silence trying to find the appeal in going towards anything and nothing seems to be appealing enough to work towards.
There are plenty of things I want but the wanting of any of them seems to be so mild it doesn't justify the work or change needed to acquire any of them.
Is there a trick or process to finding what's appealing to go for?
I feel like the only motivation I have is to escape things that are undesired. But even that doesn't insight any lasting motivation.
estoy en el mismo camino..... siento que nada me llena... ni el sexo, ni la comida, soy bueno en todo... y malo en nada
I feel motivation comes from having clear set goals. Getting the goals comes from realy finding out what you want. Finding out what you really want comes from getting to know yourself really well and defining your values and ofcourse identifying self limiting beliefs, anxieties and fears and dealing with them.
Read some books on reigniting your sense of purpose… read “The happiness of pursuit” by Chris guillbeau… chase excitement, not happiness
Thank you. I love the responses and believe they are great steps for most people.
I figured it out after a couple days after I wrote the question. I spent almost 3 decades fantasizing about an ideal reality that isn't possible and wanted it so badly I was willing to do anything for it to be real including marathon rounds of meditation and any action step I could think of and I ran those to exhaustion... but that reality isn't possible as it's nothing like actual reality. ie... it wasn't wealth, girls, or muscles or anything like that. It went way past anything I've ever known anyone to want or have, including all celebrities, monks, billionaires, athletes... etc
So right now it's just knowing that's been running in the background since then and causing me to compare anything in reality to that fantasy and nothing I see in reality comparing.
I have to let it go but I know that's easier said than done after having that run me for almost 3 decades.
@@markintrospect4508 try to get in touch with nature mark
Letting Go/Transformation Mastery changed my life. I foolishly let it slip but recently got back into the practice. The strange thing is that when you let go things that bother you drift out of your conscious awareness, so it can be used to keep a track of your progress. It's subtle at first but it works.
Similar experience to the point where things that use to trigger me no longer do, clearing the space for action and making it more from a space of inspiration vs desperation. Cheers
@@martinvee91111 yeah I remember being so triggered by some things and then realising that they no longer trigger me anymore. Infact I actually begin to like it more
Amazing the kind of material you guys put out now since the early RSD days. That stuff was great, it was useful, and it still is when I think back on it. But this is a whole other level. Major thanks.
Thanks! Glad you got so much value from it!! 🙏
It would be awesome to see you Julian in conversation with Sadh guru.
# 39:29 life as a video game, can't stay idle. can't do anything but can't not do anything. needing nothing but doing everything needed
Your and owen’s videos make are getting really better and better . They make so much sense they are hot🔥
Glad they resonate! 🙏
I've been binging your content the past two weeks and taking notes. This is great stuff
I was wondering if you ever heard of "Paradoxical Intention" by Viktor Frankl? In one of his books he talks about psychological technique for letting go of anxiety and fear.
This! Was actually thinking of commenting about exactly this on this channel yesterday.
Julien in his prime ✌️
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I think u can see it in the eyes ,if someone is ^enlightened^or not, look into oshos eyes ,in his videos, then u know, what i mean😃
Hey Julien, massive big up for such quantity but quality stuff. I’m sure your insights will go down in the annals of history. And why did you stop making music? I’d love to listen to your tunes as a DJ, hehe.
Cheers and much love from Ukraine.
Thanks!
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This is Gold!!!!!!!
imma act like im playing sims with myself now
Julien's charisma is like if Jack Sparrow had a son with Tyler Durden, so entertaining to admire
Lets go!
Enjoy! 🔥🔥🔥 (Comment your biggest takeaway!)
Can't wait to watch this 👑🔥
A lot of work has been put into this... Enjoy!!! 🙏
lol been rewatching this vid for 2 years
Amazing speech! 1:19:00 guided release
Thanks! 🙏
That release tho. It's awesome! I never knew I'd feel like drying if I'd embrace my younger self. I am still not emotionally aware enough to shed tears, but I felt it.
I love this new content even more ,omg ! ❤❤
every video I watch of yours just keeps getting better and better
Glad you’re getting so much value from them! 🙏
Thanks Julien, on point ✌️
You're welcome! What was your favorite part?
@@JulienHimself immerse to your own character of the game
Love the Guru warning Julien, so easy to fall into the charismatic self help spiritual coach trap and pay them tons of $$$ when they promise God Mode techniques. And hollowness of achieving God Mode, not that it's even possible. Thanks brother.
My ex was a ‘MEDICINE MAN’ - everything was perfect! He wasn’t the body or the mind.. we were all one! The world was one big illusion - in the end I was like REALLY? FFS! - this enlightened one now hates me but rang me to say all is good because he now forgives me (obvs! Of course he does 😳🤭) for ending the relationship! Anyway! Sound advice this Julian and you made me laugh lots!!!! 😂🙏, thank you
If we take fitness example. I am fat and I don’t like myself as a fat person. Can you get rid of self-hate by becoming fit? Or by loving yourself as you are? I know that best method is to do both . But hitting gym can be escapism from self-hate and if you become fit there is no self-hate of being fat and there is no need to let go. So what is correct lane ?
By identifying the hidden payoff of NOT getting fit... Once you let go of that, you'll naturally be inspired to work out. Lemme know if you want help with this: www.julienhimself.com/mentoring-application
@@JulienHimself thx for help
Thank you , I appreciate the way you have delivered this information…easy to digest! Thank you for doing what you do!
Gold video brother! I needed this
Glad it was helpful!
amazing!
Thanks!
@julienhimself when will you be in Massachusetts?
God bless u Julien
I'm still at the stage where breathing in is better than doing more unhealthy things to escape
Thanks alot for this real pure content, man. I'm feeling really good these days following your content! ❤️❤️✌️
Noticed you know Osho as well, he's fucking my favorite ever and I agree: he is so crazy. 😅❤️❤️❤️
Julien, thank you.
You’re welcome!!
The difference between this and pimp is night and day. Talking your vibe, not the subject ofcourse! Great !
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And so many guys there 👏👏....you are a true life changing discovery 🙏💎
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I was for a while off the letting go, but in the first 10mins of this video I've gotten a huge urge to let go, so I immediately listened to your guided release . Thanks Julien, back on the road thanks to you!
Amazing to hear!! Glad this resonated with you!
I've reached poo poo bird everyone, bow down mortals!!
All jokes aside, this video is truly amazing, thank you.
so what's up with the hypnosis at the end?
Poo Poo Bird 🐦 is The Highest Level Of Consciousness & Enlightenment Julian 😉
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Awesome stuff Julien, thanks!
You're very welcome! What was your biggest takeaway btw?
Some nietszche in here. Good stuff.
Wonderful ❤ but just one thing..oldage spiritual guru just doesnt give talks they give some practices which have helped millions to come out of addictions. Its jot just the talks that people look upto to them. Listening to them is temporary. It will go after the talk. But the practices are what help.
My cheating wife said, " All I want is to be happy. " and then left me. We both have our vices and faults. You can not be happy unless you love yourself. I'm finding out that neither one of us loved ourselves.
Thank you for this amazing talk!
I think this jeans is his favourite one 😀.... 👍
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Hey Julez, thanks for the upload, hugely beneficial clearing things out. Quick Q regarding the letting go, been doing shadow work and inner child healing, been having grief come up for almost 2 days straight, this may be normal for some? Since stuff has been repressed/supressed since early childhood. Cheers & thank you.
It’s normal, don’t medicate! it will arrest the trauma release process
How's it going?
Julien I love you man ❤️
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2.0 Update! Nice!
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Thank you!!!
You're welcome! Lemme know your biggest takeaway!