How to Get to Bra-strap Length; Surpass Your Growth Plateau 4C Hair

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  • @olyviajazzmyne7633
    @olyviajazzmyne7633 3 роки тому +66

    I never thought 7day moisture was possible until i ditched cantu and started using TGIN daily moisturizer! I was SHOOK! I use to roll my eyes at UA-camrs who would say its possible 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 now look at me eating my words

    • @cocoainkyoto
      @cocoainkyoto  3 роки тому +8

      You are a whole new person sis 🤣🤣🙌🏾

    • @shondajohnson-ford838
      @shondajohnson-ford838 3 роки тому +2

      🙌🏽

    • @jujum.2000
      @jujum.2000 2 роки тому +1

      Same!!! I didn't think it was real or possible lol but now I'm proof that it's possible!

    • @somebodycomelistentothispo7217
      @somebodycomelistentothispo7217 2 роки тому +2

      Yep. I use leave in and grease after washing and mine is good for a week.

    • @somebodycomelistentothispo7217
      @somebodycomelistentothispo7217 2 роки тому +4

      Back when my hair was damaged and high porosity, It wouldn’t stay moisturized for even a day 😫. Also when Everyone was on the coconut oil train my hair hated it and would dry out. My hair also gets dry with aloe Vera and too much glycerine or protein conditioners

  • @actuallyjuliee
    @actuallyjuliee 3 роки тому +22

    You are a breath of fresh air on UA-cam

    • @cocoainkyoto
      @cocoainkyoto  3 роки тому +5

      Thank you so much for this 💖 Hearing something like this refuels my inspiration ♥️

    • @actuallyjuliee
      @actuallyjuliee 3 роки тому +2

      @@cocoainkyoto You're welcome. Looking forward to more of your content

  • @PackofDiscos
    @PackofDiscos 2 роки тому +23

    Revisiting this video because I forgot everything and fell back into bad habits. Gems throughout! Thanks again!

    • @cocoainkyoto
      @cocoainkyoto  Рік тому +2

      You're so welcome. I hope it's going better the second time 🥺♥

  • @FineNaturalHairROCKS
    @FineNaturalHairROCKS 3 роки тому +10

    LOL @ your Starpuppy reference!! I love to see it! 😍

  • @amiamii423
    @amiamii423 3 роки тому +22

    i've never related to a natural hair youtuber this much, you are a life saver!!

    • @cocoainkyoto
      @cocoainkyoto  3 роки тому +3

      Such high praise 😩 Thank you 🥺💕

    • @amiamii423
      @amiamii423 3 роки тому +2

      @@cocoainkyoto You’re welcome! you’ve made me realize that being natural isn’t as complicated most of these other natural hair gurus make it. Please keep up the content, you make My natural hair journey so much easier!

  • @j2d532
    @j2d532 2 роки тому +10

    You bring the meat and potatoes. This gurl ain’t playing. Keeping it real👏 thank you Sis!

  • @ClaimedQT
    @ClaimedQT 2 роки тому +10

    You’re so entertaining and informative! You’re the trifecta funny, intelligent, gorgeous!

    • @cocoainkyoto
      @cocoainkyoto  Рік тому +2

      🥺🥺🥺 this is one of the nicest comments I’ve ever received. Thank you so much, beautiful soul 😭♥️♥️♥️

    • @ClaimedQT
      @ClaimedQT Рік тому

      @@cocoainkyoto You're welcome!!

  • @nethaniapierre8149
    @nethaniapierre8149 3 роки тому +14

    This is why I can't retain length with wash and goes or twist outs. My hair is either in mini twists or in cornrows.

    • @cocoainkyoto
      @cocoainkyoto  3 роки тому +8

      With that statement, you are already more enlightened than the majority 🙌🏾

    • @nethaniapierre8149
      @nethaniapierre8149 3 роки тому +11

      @@cocoainkyoto Thank you, I just think that you're not protecting the oldest parts of your hair when you do wash n goes and twist outs. I think it's good for a special occasion, but on the daily?? Hell no, at least for me. Low manipulation style? Yes. Protective style? No. That's how I see it.

  • @shullamiteakua
    @shullamiteakua 5 місяців тому +1

    My good sis you are sooooo hilarious😂😂 Star Puppy’s meme had me rolling and the video kept getting better 😂. Your humor is a bonus because you drop AMAZING gems! Been bingingggg your videos and soaking up all the knowledge to assist me on my length journey. God bless you sis. I pray you’re doing well in Japan and passing your exams. You got this!!!💖💐

  • @lilcookie1572
    @lilcookie1572 2 роки тому +6

    You're absolutely gorgeous and your personality pops😩😩😫😫😻😻😻😻💥💥💞💞💞

    • @cocoainkyoto
      @cocoainkyoto  2 роки тому

      Awww thank you so much 💖💖💖

  • @cheryltownsend3465
    @cheryltownsend3465 3 роки тому +17

    I ❤️❤️❤️ you're content and you are basically right I'm 54 the basics is old school routine that's what my mom did to our hair there was no such thing as having protein in hair if you moisturize it properly it will grow & maintain length and protective style with your own hair 👍👍👍🙏God Bless you on your channel

    • @cocoainkyoto
      @cocoainkyoto  3 роки тому +3

      YES 🙌🏾 Thank you so much! ♥️

  • @ebonywatson9939
    @ebonywatson9939 Рік тому +3

    Besides your information your humor made me a subbie. You are so funny and ty for the information 😂😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @cocoainkyoto
      @cocoainkyoto  Рік тому

      Thank you so much! And I’m so glad you think so 🥹 If you like my sense of humor then we’re officially friends 🫶🏾🥰

  • @SH-vj2ce
    @SH-vj2ce 11 місяців тому +1

    I LOVE that I found you. Your personality is everything! Thanks Sis ❤

    • @cocoainkyoto
      @cocoainkyoto  11 місяців тому +1

      Omg thank you so much 🥺 I love that you found me too. Your support means the world to me ♥️ thanks for taking the time to leave a comment; I’m smiling from ear to ear 🥹💕

  • @1GoldenBreeze
    @1GoldenBreeze 3 роки тому +10

    I enjoyed this video, and it was nice seeing some of the differences and similarities in care between 4C, and how I care for my 4A hair. It's certain that moisture is key for all of us coily and curly-haired ladies. Anyone with 4C to 3C needs to be very aware of moisture. I think one main difference is where growth plateaus happen with the different textures. I struggled a bit getting past bra strap, but it was still a moisture retention issue.

    • @cocoainkyoto
      @cocoainkyoto  3 роки тому +3

      This makes a lot of sense! In addition to the likelihood of plateauing depending on hair type, I also have been thinking it likely changes due to body shape as well? Like people with longer/shorter torsos/neck/etc may experience them differently?

    • @1GoldenBreeze
      @1GoldenBreeze 2 роки тому +1

      @@cocoainkyoto I think the difference with body length/shape is more related to how long it takes to reach a certain spot on the body than to an actual plateau. It's going to take someone who's 5'10 longer to get to waist length than it will someone who is 5'5 because of height AND they may also experience a growth plateau along the way.

  • @JD-kq1he
    @JD-kq1he 3 роки тому +5

    Thank you for the video! Refreshing from all the other hair gurus

    • @kittiesinthecity9333
      @kittiesinthecity9333 3 роки тому +2

      Agreed, very refreshing! Unique and simple tips stated in a creatively fun style 😄

    • @cocoainkyoto
      @cocoainkyoto  3 роки тому +2

      Aw thank you 🥺♥️

    • @cocoainkyoto
      @cocoainkyoto  3 роки тому +2

      Wow these are probably my favorite comments. It’s so reassuring to know that the ideas in my head are actually translating well to video💖💖💖

  • @shannonarmstrong6364
    @shannonarmstrong6364 3 роки тому +1

    😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣😂😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭🤣😂🤣😭 when you hit that high note

    • @cocoainkyoto
      @cocoainkyoto  3 роки тому +2

      Lolll I WISH. Unfortunately I cannot sing to save my life, so that clip was of another UA-camr, Star Puppy 😆

  • @jasminejazziej8787
    @jasminejazziej8787 3 роки тому +4

    Loving your videos and can tell me the lip stick you have on it's gorgeous and your hair is beautiful. And how did I know that you watch Star Puppy because you remind me of her so much LOL

    • @cocoainkyoto
      @cocoainkyoto  3 роки тому +4

      Thank you so much ♥️ it’s the color Griselda from Fenty Beauty!
      LOL yes I remember being so excited when I found Star Puppy because I thought we shared a lot of similarities as well 🤣

  • @Sunshine_Hime
    @Sunshine_Hime 3 роки тому +15

    This tips are very useful. I love Star Puppy too😊. Did you find those hair products in Japan or did you bring them from your country?

    • @cocoainkyoto
      @cocoainkyoto  3 роки тому +8

      I’m so glad because a part of me was worried whether my subscribers would understand the reference 😭
      I get them all from the states! So I usually stock up when I visit home, but I usually end up having to place an international order for them about once a year.

  • @my-yoshi2460
    @my-yoshi2460 3 роки тому +3

    Yep! I had to let go of that iver detangling mess. It was my biggest issue and was causing a lot of unnecessary damage to my daughters and my hair.

    • @cocoainkyoto
      @cocoainkyoto  3 роки тому +1

      So glad you were able to figure it out! 🙌🏾 a lot of people are still stuck unfortunately 🤕

  • @oyekanmieniolanaheemat3063
    @oyekanmieniolanaheemat3063 Рік тому

    Yes, I need a better styling method, these single strand nots are everywhere. Thank you very much.

  • @shondajohnson-ford838
    @shondajohnson-ford838 3 роки тому +3

    Thanks
    This is a great video 🦋
    Blessings

    • @cocoainkyoto
      @cocoainkyoto  3 роки тому

      Thank you! So glad you enjoyed it 💖

  • @sheallwhimsical3738
    @sheallwhimsical3738 3 роки тому +3

    Hello! Thanks for your content.

    • @cocoainkyoto
      @cocoainkyoto  3 роки тому

      Thanks so much for this comment. I’m so happy you enjoy it ♥️

  • @meeikothompson
    @meeikothompson 3 роки тому +4

    Amazon has 3packs of the same castor for $20. Just ordered mine today! 16oz

    • @cocoainkyoto
      @cocoainkyoto  3 роки тому +3

      Oooh maybe I should buy that one next time so I don’t run out before I can make it back to the states 😆

  • @ChocolateMelanin
    @ChocolateMelanin Рік тому +1

    Watching this video in x1.5 speed is funny 😂😂😂 great information ❤

    • @cocoainkyoto
      @cocoainkyoto  Рік тому +1

      I’m gonna go back and give it a try to see what you experienced 🤣 but I’m glad you enjoyed it ♥️

  • @FineNaturalHairROCKS
    @FineNaturalHairROCKS 3 роки тому +6

    Your hair looks absolutely stunning by the way!!!! And I also really love Oyin Handmade products - they're sooo good!

    • @cocoainkyoto
      @cocoainkyoto  3 роки тому +2

      Oh yeah I watched your first video which was on an oyin product! It was really helpful cuz I never got around to trying that one 💕

    • @FineNaturalHairROCKS
      @FineNaturalHairROCKS 3 роки тому +1

      @@cocoainkyoto Awww, thank you so much for watching! I still love that Oyin product to this very day! ...lol! Now I want to grab some more for my stash! 😆

  • @Benezia
    @Benezia 3 роки тому +2

    Your hair is beautiful love the whole look

  • @HeleneGLmarie
    @HeleneGLmarie 3 роки тому +7

    Thanks for the tips. I love your make up. Your eyes naturally looks Asian.

    • @cocoainkyoto
      @cocoainkyoto  3 роки тому +3

      Thank you 💕 I would say it’s the winged-liner, but this is actually the second time I’ve been told this, so I guess there must be some truth to it 😳

  • @kittiesinthecity9333
    @kittiesinthecity9333 3 роки тому +2

    Great Video!!! Thank you for these amazing tips. Like #119👍🏽! A video about Kyoto (a day in the life or trip to some point of interest) would be nice. Your Japanese in the tea video sounds perfect

    • @cocoainkyoto
      @cocoainkyoto  3 роки тому +1

      Like #119 🤣 Thanks girl 💖
      The ideas for Japanese videos have been noted! 📝 thank you 💕
      Oh goodness no; my Japanese is so far from perfect, but I do try 😩

    • @kittiesinthecity9333
      @kittiesinthecity9333 2 роки тому

      @@cocoainkyoto 💖

  • @shannonarmstrong6364
    @shannonarmstrong6364 3 роки тому +1

    Absolutely AMAZING truthful boffo love it

  • @Skyblue1477
    @Skyblue1477 2 роки тому +2

    My 4c hair is so dry I have to re-moisturize it everyday. No matter what butter oil or grease I used to seal it’s always dry parched and chapped by the end of the day.

    • @cocoainkyoto
      @cocoainkyoto  2 роки тому +4

      How are you remoisturizing? Do you use leave-in conditioner? There is definitely a way to keep your 4c hair moisturized for a week. Your style choice is also important as I mentioned.

    • @islandpersuasion4690
      @islandpersuasion4690 Рік тому +1

      Moisture is water you need to wet your hair then grease it.

  • @trinicurlz6677
    @trinicurlz6677 Рік тому

    Great job 👍🏼

    • @cocoainkyoto
      @cocoainkyoto  Рік тому

      Thank you so much! ♥️🫶🏾♥️

  • @Bekemer
    @Bekemer 2 роки тому +4

    What does moisturised hair feel like

    • @cocoainkyoto
      @cocoainkyoto  2 роки тому +6

      Hm, unfortunately that question doesn’t have a simple answer 😥 I wish I could tell you, but I found that it seems to be something each person has to figure out on their own… Perhaps I’ll try to make a video on it in the future with some helpful ideas to get you there tho.

  • @indigo57
    @indigo57 3 роки тому +2

    Great tips! When was the last time you did a protein treatment?

    • @cocoainkyoto
      @cocoainkyoto  3 роки тому +4

      Wow, I can’t even remember it’s been so long 😅 I’d say at least 5 years ago? Maybe around the middle of my plateau period. But possibly even 6 years ago?? I used the apogee back then and I only bought the full treatment once, so I think I’d only ever done it 2 or 3 times in total as well.

  • @victoriasvibesss
    @victoriasvibesss 3 роки тому +2

    Love these tips!

  • @Benezia
    @Benezia 3 роки тому

    Thanks for the info

  • @Lovesromantic22
    @Lovesromantic22 10 місяців тому

    I have a question about hydrating shsmpoos do they change your texture?

  • @melissareed3101
    @melissareed3101 Рік тому +1

    Voice is giving me slight Eartha Kitt vibes 😍

    • @cocoainkyoto
      @cocoainkyoto  Рік тому +1

      Thank you for the sweet comment 🥰♥️🌸♥️🌸

  • @katkatungu8813
    @katkatungu8813 3 роки тому +8

    Moisture for 7 days gurl that had me shook😩

    • @kittiesinthecity9333
      @kittiesinthecity9333 3 роки тому +4

      INR!? Cocoa's right the style matters, if you have any part of your hair loose the moisture will quickly evaporate. With a good protective style all things are possible

    • @katkatungu8813
      @katkatungu8813 3 роки тому

      @@kittiesinthecity9333 what counts as a good protective style ?

    • @kittiesinthecity9333
      @kittiesinthecity9333 3 роки тому +4

      @@katkatungu8813 I have 4b high porosity hair. I start with medium size braids or twists (about 20-40). Then keep them up in a bun with the ends tucked or two flat twist down side of my head and tuck in the ends. I like this because I don't have to take down the twists to remoisturize weekly. I will take them down (detangle and redo) every two weeks for wash day. Depending on your hair type and porosity, a bun can or two side braids may work. My hair will mat, dry out and tangle if I only pull loose strands into a bun, so the medium braids/twists are best for me- I hope this helps :-)

    • @katkatungu8813
      @katkatungu8813 3 роки тому +3

      @@kittiesinthecity9333 thanks that has helped me understand. It's cold rn in my country . I had box braids in January but bc my hair didnt feel moisturized I undid them . So now I do cornrows then I wear wigs. I dont know if that counts as s good protective style?

    • @NinthJewel
      @NinthJewel 3 роки тому +4

      Mini twists or medium sized twists with your own hair is good . If you get box braids keep them a maximum time of 7 weeks . I spay rose water on my scalp and hair

  • @estheromoyele3321
    @estheromoyele3321 2 роки тому +1

    12:47 OML I *GASPED* 💀💀 THAT SMALL LINE MADE ME RETHINK ALLL MY LIFE CHOICES- 👁👁frantically searching about what my porosity is in the early morning-

    • @cocoainkyoto
      @cocoainkyoto  Рік тому

      🤣 I hope you’ve been able to rest peacefully since then by dropping the early morning Internet scavenging 🥹🫶🏾

  • @ndidiamakaduru998
    @ndidiamakaduru998 10 місяців тому

    How did you do this style you have

    • @cocoainkyoto
      @cocoainkyoto  10 місяців тому +1

      This is just a normal twist out on my hair! ☺️

    • @ndidiamakaduru998
      @ndidiamakaduru998 10 місяців тому

      @@cocoainkyoto how many twist all together?

    • @cocoainkyoto
      @cocoainkyoto  10 місяців тому

      @@ndidiamakaduru998 I don’t remember this set specifically, but I usually do 8 or 16 twists. This one looks like it may have been 16 :)

  • @obsidian3510
    @obsidian3510 3 роки тому +1

    Hope this message finds you well. Would you be able to describe or show pics of what your breakage looks like. I have too many in my opinion longer and shorter pieces. My hair isn't growing as fast as it used to. I'm moisturizing once a week, F.D and trying to be very careful. I also wear my hair in twists most of the time. Protein treatments aren't doing anything. I've been using a sulfate shampoo on my scalp only and a conditioner to wash. Or just doing an acv rinse. I've been using a homemade leAve in or just using water and a Shea butter mix. I've been praying about it and doing everything right. I'm seeing slips and try to cut them out. For the one's I don't see. My hair is breaking there. Plus I have 4b and 4c strands through out my hair. I want to reach my goal. Please help.

    • @cocoainkyoto
      @cocoainkyoto  3 роки тому +4

      Hm, I’m not sure I’ll be able to figure out exactly where the issue lies from just this information, but the things that I thought after reading about your regimen are:
      1.) I’d stop protein treatments altogether. In my experience they’re more likely to do more harm than good if you don’t need it, and if you said it’s not helping then that means you don’t need it, so just let them all the way go.
      2. I think it’s possible your hair might be breaking from buildup because you seal with a butter but only wash with conditioner. I’d recommend giving your hair a thorough shampoo with your sulfate shampoo (if it’s silicone free) and then stop using the shea butter and switch to sealing with castor oil. It seals as well as a butter but is removed from the hair a lot easier.
      3. After you get all the shea butter out of your hair, switch to using a sulfate free shampoo on your hair and scalp regularly for ease. No need to wash your hair and scalp with different products.
      4. Idk what’s in your leave in conditioner, but I’d suggest just getting a silicone free store bought one because it will be good enough to give you the moisture you need without any guesswork.
      5. During your recovery period moisturize more frequently if you’d like to the same way I explained in this video.
      Hopefully this helps.

    • @obsidian3510
      @obsidian3510 3 роки тому

      @@cocoainkyoto I used to shampoo my hair entirely with the shampoo but stopped as I was trying to retain as much moisture as possible. Using shampoo on my scalp and co-washing and more recently acv rinse are what I've started recently to try and retain moisture I'm on a really tight budget plus I live in the Bahamas and can't find any sulfate free shampoo. Don't know what's going on. I only touch my hair once a week.. I workout and sweat so weakly wash is a must. Nevertheless I will take your advice to heart. I appreciate you taking the time out

    • @pragooutube
      @pragooutube Рік тому

      How do you do your acv rinse? What's the mix ratio, and so you rinse it out with plain water after? Too acid a mix of acv will eat out your hair, you need to mix at a safe ratio.

    • @obsidian3510
      @obsidian3510 Рік тому

      @@pragooutube I do. Half and half

    • @pragooutube
      @pragooutube Рік тому

      @@obsidian3510 1:1 ratio is WAY too acidic!!! That may be your problem! For a rinse, 1:5 ratio, 1 part acv to 5 parts water, to be very safe.

  • @Aniexo_
    @Aniexo_ 2 роки тому +4

    When did you reach waist length after implementing the changes?

    • @cocoainkyoto
      @cocoainkyoto  2 роки тому +12

      Less than a year! I started my minitwist protective style in March 2020 for 6 months, and then reached waist length that December!

  • @FineNaturalHairROCKS
    @FineNaturalHairROCKS 3 роки тому +1

    How long do you keep your protective styles with your own hair for? This video was amaaaazing btw!!!

    • @cocoainkyoto
      @cocoainkyoto  3 роки тому +4

      Thanks so much girl 💖 I keep them in for 4 weeks usually, sometimes 5 weeks if the timing doesn’t align well on the designated weekend.
      But sometimes something will come up in the middle of the month where I want to wear a twist out, so then I’ll just take down the protective style for the day and put it back in the twists within the next week. I’ve been able to become more lenient with it now that my hair is longer :)

  • @KgosigadiNkosi
    @KgosigadiNkosi 3 роки тому +1

    ❤️

  • @stephaniepink9060
    @stephaniepink9060 Рік тому

    The natural hair community says No Oils, No Butters!!! What are you using now??

    • @cocoainkyoto
      @cocoainkyoto  Рік тому +3

      Still going strong with my oils and butters, sis 🤣 The day I let go of castor oil will be the day I have no hair left lol

  • @savvymaryjane
    @savvymaryjane 9 місяців тому +2

    I was the 800 like 😊❤

    • @cocoainkyoto
      @cocoainkyoto  9 місяців тому +1

      Omg thank you so much 🥹🥹💖💖💖

  • @adelclyne8482
    @adelclyne8482 2 роки тому

    She said "euro-centric"! Picking up that dime