My Natural Hair Journey To Tail-Bone Length
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- Опубліковано 25 лип 2024
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Hi Mira!
Thank-you for your support! Has your hair butter reached you yet? x
My hair is almost to my knees and I'm all black. My mom never had long hair. My mom's hair is thick and My sister has thick hair but My hair is thin. Any black woman can grow long hair. You need to have a hair routine and moisturize and deep condition!
Thank you for saying this, this is the same thing I tell all women of African descent. You can if you reduce manipulation, stop TENSION HAIRSTYLES, Simple haircare routine.
That’s beautiful
How did u guys managed,coz I'm super duper tired already 😭
I have fine hair too, the longest I've gotten was mid back😩 I'm trying to reach tailbone length. Idk what to do at this point. I try to moisturize my hair and ends as much as possible, but I'm busy and my hair breaks easily.
@@TheLightShines Put your hair in protective styles.
I notice many Nigerian and Ghanaian women have not only long hair but high density hair as well
Hi Love
I always hear that my hair is very high density, but it's only grown to medium length (arm pit) until breakage and I have to big chop. According to 23 and me, I have West African heritage
You have good eyes
@M that's is due to EuroStyles and New Age Image.
As a Nigerian with fine strands, i wish 😭😭 but it is medium to high density so it looks thick
The problem with Black women is that we just don’t know how to look after our own hair. It takes a routine, consistency and patience! Simple as that. Once I realised my hair loves moisture three times weekly, shea butter and to be left alone, well my hair was off and growing.
Hi Miranda
Thanks for your comment!
I agree, simplicity is key
It used to be our very culture to take care of it in many types of braids. That’s still the case in east Africa.
You and your hair are absolutely beautiful.
Hi Curls n Cupcakes!
This is such a lovely comment, thank-you!
Beautiful hair. I love seeing young ladies embracing their natural hair and letting it flourish. As we get older hair grows slower and just... differently. I wish I embraced my hair more when I was younger to really experience its potential.
Thank-you for your lovely comment!
@@ifshesopleases is okik
I’m on the journey to tail bone length as well thank you for the inspiration
Hi Eva
Thanks for your comment!
You've got this!
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Although I understand your hair has been through a lot, you have always had really good healthy hair. Even when it was damaged I could see the volume and potential! Beautiful
Thanks for your comment!
If you're looking for Thigh/Knee Length hair inspiration have a look at Indigenous Strands.
Hi Sharin
Thanks for the recommendation!
Yes, I have seen her channel very lately! Her hair is beautiful!
It's krazy I couldn't manage my 4c hair that length. She's Such an inspiration
@@kylieking8163 how would you know if you haven't tried 🤔
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I was briefly part of the tailbone length. Then it was cut off without my permission 😤. It took me 7 years from a pixie cut. My hair went from lower back to shoulder. I didn't even realize that the trim had turned into a full big chop. I thought it was just shrinkage. It wasn't until I got home and was braiding my hair for the night, she cut off over 12 inches.
Savage. I lived a similar situation in a salon.
I'm so sorry that happened. It's fine when you decide you want to cut it for a change, but when someone else just cuts your hair without permission that's absolutely spiteful! Hopefully, you never let that person touch your hair again.
Would have went savage on her.
People with 4b/4c hair need to adress the toxic relationship that they have with their hairstylist(s). Not only will they yank our edges off in one appointment, but they will also chemically treat (esp. relax) our natural hair without our consent. They will charge us extra for having natural hair, verbally harrass us for accepting our hair as it is, refuse to style it unless we fry it, violently and abusively comb it, etc. I believe that having natural hair salons owned and ran by natural hair experts with natural hair themselves, who have overcome their inferiority complexes and learned to genuinely love their hair, is the first solution. The moment I went natural, I told myself to never let anyone with an inferiority complex lay hands on my head. Such people will damage hair, whether consciously or subconsciously.
@Peggy Gilespie High key it's why I only go to a hair dresser with nice hair. It feels so damn petty, but I have never gotten better trims than I have from my current hair dresser who usually has some of the nicest most lush hair at any given time in the salon. I used to have to fight people to stop trying to chop me every time, it was insanity.
I think we all desire long hair .. and i get this! Thanks for sharing your journey
And i think braids pull on our hair more
Hi Shannel
Thank-you for your lovely comment
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@@MsNel1031 box braids grow my hair a ton
Moving on to thigh length is a big decision. Best of luck in reaching that goal. You can do it!💜 💜 Indigenous Strandz and 22nd Century Natural Worman here on YT have thigh-length hair if you need a bit of inspiration for your thigh-length journey. I'm sitting at hip length trying to decide when I want to move on to tailbone. Right now I cut it when it gets a couple of inches past hip length. I guess I'm just not ready yet. IDK why but it just seems like a much larger step. LoL
Thank-you so much for your comment!
Yes, I have recently checked out Indigenous Strandz and have been a fan of 22nd Century Natural Woman for a while as well :)
Lol, keep us updated on whether you decide to take the leap to tailbone
Beautiful inspiration....4 years in and I am at BSL . I came close to relaxing my hair this summer...happy I resisted. I think my goal is anywhere between MBL and Waist length.
@@francenegayle3866 You can make it! It really is just as easy as having a simple and consistent routine.
Thank you for making time to educate us on hair. I appreciate it!
Thank-you for your comment, Marichen
This was a beautiful story and looking at the pictures your hair came a long way and I'm so sorry what happened to you at the salon when you got your relaxer..
Some people just don't care and they don't have your best interest in heart our daughter relaxes my hair every 26 weeks..
I have gained some length as well it comes past my bra strapped in the back and I'm very proud of myself because I too had suffered from unhealthy hai'm unhealthy here. Thank you ever kindly God-bless you🙏🏽🌺💓
Hi Sapphire
Thanks so much for your kind comment!
I am so glad to hear that you have healthy relaxed hair. I often feel that if I had had a different first experience, I would have been relaxed until this day. It's funny how things work out
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Your parents are a gorgeous couple, and you were adorable! 😍
Aww thank-you so much!
I love your hair! I can't wait to get my hair to that length. Thank you for sharing!
Hi Grace!
Thank-you for your lovely comment
@@ifshesopleases You're welcome.
Beautiful storytelling! Thank you for sharing! Gorgeous hair!
Hi Bree'ana
Thank-you for your lovely comment!
You are stunning, your hair is stunning. I love long hair too Unfortunately 5 months back I had an incident at a salon , that saw me lose 11 inches😭😭😭. My hair was mid back length and after it was now this irregular ear length cut. Its better now it's now shoulder length, I am starting to feel more and more confident. I cant wait for it to be long again
Wow. That is so awful. Sorry to hear some evil women cut off so much of your hair without your permission. I've had similar incidents when going to hair salons which is why I decided to take care of my own hair.
Thank-you for your comment!
This is one of the best hair vids I ever saw. Excellent content.
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Aww thank-you!
Great video! My hair has NEVER been that thick. What a blessing!
Thank-you so much
Showing us some of your hairstyles can be a start, cos I really love them
Hi Love
I love your voice, love love your hair. And the Shea butter is a doer!!! Love you girl ..
Thank-you for your lovely comment, Omolade!
Yes, shea butter definitely is the one for me!
Thank you SO much for sharing this video and for taking us on this journey with you! I will be purchasing some of your product as SOON as I get my next pay check. Sending my love from the USA. 😘
Aww thank-you so much!
Your hair is beautiful! We may have different hair types, but I can relate to the struggle of not knowing how to look after your hair, or even unconscious neglect. I've come to love protective styles, they keep my hair safe, secure and out of the way, whilst looking pretty and ultimately, serving a function - they've become part of my routine and hair goals. I currently have thin waist length hair, which I'm growing out partially because there is a particular style i wanna try with it.
Thanks for your comment!
So happy that you could relate! Wishing you the best in your journey
Thank you for the journey!! Very inspiring! You are gorgeous my sister!
Thank-you so much for your lovely comment
Thank you SO much for making the point about veganism thinning hair. I found out the hard way earlier this year. You and your hair are beautiful 🥰✨
Hi Tamara
Thanks for your comment! You're welcome! I know that it's controversial, but I thought it was worth including as it was my experience
Our hair journeys are almost identical. Beautiful!
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Ooo hair journey twins! Thank-you for your comment!
You are so adorable 🥰. Thanks for the super detailed hair journey!
Thank-you
You’re gorgeous and so is your hair! 😍😍😍 I think tailbone length is next for me!
Aw thank-you for this lovely comment!
Your hair is absolutely gorgeous. I saw some pics on Pinterest of your hair that someone had pinned and wished that I could find the girl in them. I’m soooo glad UA-cam recommended this video. I’ll be buying some of your butters for sure!
Hi SJ
Thanks for your comment!
Oh yay! Glad to hear that you found me on Pinterest :)
Thank-you for your support!
Your hair is beautiful! A crown of glory indeed ❤️
Thank-you so much!
I make my own growth oils and still would love to try your butters! Will be ordering soon. Subscribed and love your hair journey. Thank you!
Hi Diana
Aww thank-you so much!
Out of curiosity, what do you include in your growth oils?
Thanks!
Omg! This gave me so much life!!! I have a similar hair story, as my hair was about waist length, then went to a salon and got it butchered. It hasn't quite been the same since, but now I'm starting to seed what's the best option for me to grow it to tailbone! Congrats on your product and your beautiful hair 🥰😘❤️🙏🏽
Thank-you!
You wearing the dress and the cute bow ARE EVERYTHING. I'm so inspired to make myself a big crazy bow and wear it. Fortunately my hair is also quite long now! Congrats to you
Thank-you so much, Rose-Angelie!
Thanks for sharing. Your hair is lovely 😍.
We had to cut our hair in school which is such a shame. I wish we were taught to love and appreciate our hair as young kids. I also just shared my hair journey.
Hi Mannick
Thank-you for your comment!
Oh wow, my mum actually experienced the same thing going to school in Nigeria
Your from the UK yaay I like to hear UA-camrs from the UK 😊 you've done well with your hair journey.
Aww thank-you Cassidie
Instantly subscribed because you are a fellow brit and NIGERIAN! Yesoooooo!
Haha Thanks Rae! Welcome!
Thanks for sharing your journey! You are beautiful and your hair is amazing. Nice texture and the styles you choose look great. I notice that you do have strong and healthy hair strands even when your hair was much shorter.
Hi Selina
Thank-you for your lovely comment!
your hair is literally so amazing
Thank-you Julia!
Nicely done. Keep your peace& continue your journey
Hi Love :)
Thanks for your lovely comment!
You’re gorgeous! Love the hair 🤩.
Thank-you so much!
Love this simple video!! Thank you for this!!
Thank-you!
Love this! Thank you for the inspiration and motivation. Do you have a video on the products you use? If not can you please pretty please make one?😊😀
Hi Ari
Thank-you for your comment! I just uploaded a video in which I explain the comments that I used throughout my hair journey! Please check it out if you think it may help
Loved this! It was very inspiring ❤️❤️
Thank-you!
This aligns with my current hair journey. I’ve started locs for the purpose of growing my hair but I’m also careful with my hair care
Thanks for your comment! Oh wow, can't believe our journeys are so similar
Your hair is gorgeous and alluring and I find that natural textured “sculpted” hair works for my soft dramatic style
Glad I found you. So beautiful. Keep posting content.
Thank-you so much for this lovely comment :)
If you have any specific content you would like to see, please let me know
Thank you so much for sharing your journey. It's absolutely incredible and very inspiring too!!! 💛
P.S. Your butters look so nice too!
Thank-you so much for your lovely comment!
This was such a beautiful story
Aww thank-you so much!
Hair goals💗
Yasss girl, Beautiful crown 👑 you have. My best friend is Nigerian she also has beautiful hair.
Aww thank-you so much!
YOU and your hair are lovely! You are hair is awesome!! You dress very beautiful and elegantly as well!
Thank-you so much!
beautiful hair. being able to maintain thickness is definitely key
Thank-you! :)
the style with the bow was so cute omg and I love your accent
Thank-you so much for your lovely comment!
You are so beautiful and I love your journey💕
Hi love :)
Thank-you so much for your lovely comment!
You are just so elegant and sweet 😊. Love the vid, definitely subscribing for more 💙
Aww thank-you so much for your lovely comment, and for subscribing
This was an amazing video and I also want to say you are so gorgeous!!! All your pictures are so cute!
Thank-you so much
Your hair is gorgeous!!!
Thank-you!
Girl your hair is goals
Aww thank-you
BEAUTIFUL hair sis!!! Yeasssssss!!!! 😍
Thank-you so much!
I loved you in the yellow dress with the ribbon 😍 You look like a Disney Princess
Aww thank-you so much
@@ifshesopleases 💖 You are very welcome! (I got the notification from your response so late 🤦🏽♀️)
I had relaxer in for about 6 years and I finally chopped it all off once I started noticing my balding temples. I too still struggle with trying to get the hair to grow back there but it was a bit comforting to know that I'm not alone
Hi!
Thank-you for sharing!
You are definitely not alone!
(As long as you’re not allergic) try eating fruits and veggies from every vitamin group, or make smoothies out of them combined. That really helped me
Try using peppermint oil mixed with olive oil.
You’re Nigerian!! Im so happy and I wouldn’t have even guessed that and I’m Nigerian too sis🥰
I luvvvvvvvvvvvv the pic of ur parents!!!🤗🤗🤗Ur moms smile is too cute and ur Dad is so into y'all, I 🥰🥰🥰Black Love!!!
Thank-you for your lovely comment! This is so sweet, I'll tell them
Your hair is so long and beautiful. Get it! It looks so nice.
Thank-you so much
Beautiful ......... I told my husband that my aim for my hair length is midi length... So I happy to hear you say thigh length.... I am soon shoulder length.... Thanks for the inspiration..... Blessed love ✨✨
Hi Meserete (Beautiful name! What does it mean?
@@ifshesopleases hi Queen Goddess, thanks for your reply and the encouraging words 😊😊 ... The meaning of my name Meserete along with my second name is 'Born of Christ"..... Uzondu means "The way of Life"
i don't know why but to be honest to me u are the best💖💘 youtuber teaching us and talking to us how you grew your hair n ur struggles. Like girl you sincere haven't seen 🙅or watched a UA-camR SOO TRUE. 😍😘
Aww thank-you Maggi
This is such a lovely comment
Welcome!
@@ifshesopleases You welcome darling.
Amazing Video and Amazing results 🙏🏾🌹 … thanks for Sharing
Thank-you
this is my first time on your channel. you seem sweet and knowledgeable. I will definitely be purchasing one or more of your butters when I have the opportunity to, i’ll be subscribing as well!!
Thank-you so much!
I love this!
Uauuuu! You look stunning! Love your hair!
Aww thank-you so much!
I know this is a video about hair, but you are SO beautiful!
Aww thank-you so much!
Wow! Beautiful! Goals 🌿
Thank-you for your lovely comment!
Ahh. I remember trying to do my own hair in middle school 🤣 I guess you could say my first accidental big chop 😝 congrats on your journey ! Keep it healthy!
lmaoo 😭 The worst part is that we were really trying our best at the time 😭❤️
Beautiful hair sis keep it going
Thank-you Mary!
You’re a doll!!!! New subbie! ❤️
Hi Heleyna
Thank-you for your lovely comment
Wonderful video. Thank you for sharing your experience. If I might make a suggestion: consider getting in touch with a Nigerian beauty products chain called Perfect Trust and see whether they'll stock your products (so that we can buy them here in Nigeria!). They have just about everything else and I would love to get my hands on your butters. Think about expanding your buyer base! 👏🏾👍🏿
What a beautiful journey.
Thank-you so much for your comment
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You have fabulous hair. 😍
Thank-you Ally!
Thank you so much for sharing! Amazing journey! what really caught my attention was you moving to Japan! I have studied Japanese in the past and been to Japan as a foreign exchange student so I have huge affinity for Japanese culture. Are you still there now?
Hi Chimere!
Thanks for your comment!
Oh, that's nice to hear that we have that in common!
I am now home in the UK :)
You hair looks amazing
Thank-you so much for your lovely comment!
Your hair is gorgeous 😍 before I even clicked for the hair I was astounded by your beauty! Sis where have you been? Subscribing now💕
Aww thank-you so much for this comment! Welcome!
Beautiful hair! You are very pretty! ❤️🙂
Thank-you!
Lovely lady, hair and everything!!🤎👠🌹
Aww thank-you so much!
@@ifshesopleases Very welcome!!
Thank you for sharing! Interesting, no one in my family has hair similar to thickness and length to my hair. I think your hair looks similar to my hair.
Hi Gwendolyn
Thanks for commenting! Lovely to hear that we are hair twins!
Both you and your mom are beautiful
Aww Thank-you so much!
Woahhhhh
You're so inspiring 😭😭🙏🏾
Thank you for sharing this journey with us❤️
Your hair is so beautiful jeeeeez😭
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Aww thank-you!
so cool! thanks for sharing x
You are so welcome!
Love your hair 😍 so beautiful
Thank you!!
Brown woman magic!! Love it sis
Thank-you!
Sooo naturally gorgeous
Aww thank-you so much
You are BEAUTIFUL!!!!!!
Aww thank-you so much!
My absolute dream hair!
Aww thank-you!
Hi dear ! Your hair are so gorgeous. When gonna you release the full set - Length Retention Hair Butters (Coconut, Strawberry, Vanilla and Mango) again please? Thank you from Belgium.
Hi Djana,
Thanks for your lovely comment! They are actually available now! I just noticed that the quantities were not updated. Feel free to grab them now as there are only a couple of sets left 😍 Thank you so much for your support!
Im positive my follicles are damaged from relaxers ever since I was 3-4 😭 my pattern is amazing, 4c but my hair is so fine , I’m trying to find ways to thicken my follicles so that my strands can be less fine and fragile
If that's the case you just need to cut the damaged ends. There's no way to restore split/damaged ends. Better cut it now so you can grow your hair more easily. And do a trim every 4-6 months
Could also be genetic. If not, try sulphur
@@dlilwon yes i know I do have finer hair naturally but since I was relaxed from so young and my mom didn’t know better than to overprocess my hair and douse my scalp in the relaxer, I feel like my follicles never got the chance to be in their full potential anyway , ya get me? I have sulfur 8, I haven’t used that in a while but I’m trying onion juice soon
Hi Vasty,
Thanks so much for sharing! Sorry to hear that you think your follicles may be damaged 😖
I used to take Biotin back in the day and I think it may have helped me with thickness. This may be something that may work for you x
@Trinity M you're right, I know what follicles are idk why I started talking about ends. But generally speaking I think if your hair is naturally fine and thin you cant really change that. You can thicken your hair a bit but it's not gonna like change the density of your hair drastically. I could be wrong tho
I am a new subscriber, your hair is beautiful, you are beautiful.
Hi Love
You are so pretty!
Aww thank-you Maya!
My hair was midback lenght now am at the same lenght of yours i think its past tailbone lenght touching my butt..am aiming to the classic lenght.. cuze am planning to wear it curly most of the time.. so i hope it will beat waist lenght when it's curly.. good luck in growing your hair ❤️💜
Hi Kady
Wow, your hair sounds beautiful!
Thanks for your lovely comment!
I started on KISS with my natural hair care journey!!! 🤗🤗
Oh wow, small world!
Beautiful hair 😍. I am growing out my hair with heat and was contemplating on what length to keep it at when it grows out and thought that waist length would be where I would stop but then through watching your video it dawned on me that I could let it grow as long as it wants because in its natural state it would always be shorter and I could then wear natural styles that had length. I love when videos give me epiphanies. Thanks!
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Aww thank-you so much for your comment! Glad that the video helped
What does it mean to grow with heat?
Hear is bad for hair growth . It literally breaks off your hair if done too much . Please be careful but it’s your hair at the end of the day. Good luck