8 months in, still finding myself crying like a little girl😂 it’s mostly bc the crazy adventure of a life I lived with her and how it’s literally impossible to live that way anymore. It’s much harder to get over it when you know life will never feel like that again
@ lmk when you find an answer bro😂 currently my solution is to do some hardcore mental gymnastics for long enough for me to actually believe it. Hasn’t worked yet but Ill give it another year
The ex has told me a few times now that she doesn't want anything more to do with me, and in her words will never see me again... this is because I fought back from her toxic traits. I feel sorry for my children
Pain is growth. Embrace it and pray about it! 🙏🏼 🙏🏼🙏🏼 I'm 4 months in after her monkey branching. My heart aches at least a few times a day. She is missed terribly but I can not get back together with her after the way she departed. She threw us away and left swinging. The heart, take care of your hearts! ❤️
I scored 6, 8 months out. She moved in with her monkeybranch, the last nail in the coffin for me - The fantasy of getting back together is over, another step to healing.. Stay 💪🏼
I'm not 40 and she left me in July after 3 half years and started talking/dating someone pretty quickly (she is 31) 5 months in and I'm still having a very hard time with this. Ive never taken this long to get over someone and I think it has to do a lot with my age and where i wanted to be. I wanted to propose to her next year and start having a family. Starting over terrifies me and i don't think i will be able to move on for a very long time. Worst part is I know it was my fault why she decided to leave and the guilt is killing me inside
Why are you guilty? I felt it was my fault because I couldn't arrange a meeting once... but if he wanted to be with me, he would. He would have understood.
10/12... hmm almost a year, I feel like I've already moved on, I no longer have immense pain, I don't stalk every hour, I'm not depressed in my bed thinking about him. But the numbers tell a different story!
What you wish some bad for someone..you wish it for yourself. Then if i always wished Good for them.. why so much of pain n cheating n hurt in my part?
Okay, I have 4 of these checklist items… and it sucks. I’m not sure how to completely cut ties bc we have a baby.. ( what kinda man leaves a baby- disgusting) anyway… I try to have the bare minimum contact via FaceTime, which I stay off camera and focus on baby only. But I hate seeing his face and hearing his ringtone everyday on my phone!!!
11:22 thats me lately. But it's less and less each day. Trust the process people, when You stay in radio silence You start seeing him for who they are. Just be patient but don't date other people because it Will just backfire the processs❤️🩹
8 months in, still finding myself crying like a little girl😂 it’s mostly bc the crazy adventure of a life I lived with her and how it’s literally impossible to live that way anymore. It’s much harder to get over it when you know life will never feel like that again
Yes it feels like that! I'm 37 and I've never experienced a person like that, so it feels like what if I never will again?
@ lmk when you find an answer bro😂 currently my solution is to do some hardcore mental gymnastics for long enough for me to actually believe it. Hasn’t worked yet but Ill give it another year
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The ex has told me a few times now that she doesn't want anything more to do with me, and in her words will never see me again... this is because I fought back from her toxic traits. I feel sorry for my children
Pain is growth. Embrace it and pray about it! 🙏🏼 🙏🏼🙏🏼
I'm 4 months in after her monkey branching. My heart aches at least a few times a day. She is missed terribly but I can not get back together with her after the way she departed. She threw us away and left swinging. The heart, take care of your hearts! ❤️
I scored 6, 8 months out. She moved in with her monkeybranch, the last nail in the coffin for me - The fantasy of getting back together is over, another step to healing.. Stay 💪🏼
1. Still hoping for reconciliation, nothing else
4 year's that my breakup occured, and I have still a lot signs that you listed 😢
I really appreciate your style! “We’re all fucked here” 😂 Exactly!
I'm not 40 and she left me in July after 3 half years and started talking/dating someone pretty quickly (she is 31) 5 months in and I'm still having a very hard time with this. Ive never taken this long to get over someone and I think it has to do a lot with my age and where i wanted to be. I wanted to propose to her next year and start having a family. Starting over terrifies me and i don't think i will be able to move on for a very long time. Worst part is I know it was my fault why she decided to leave and the guilt is killing me inside
Why are you guilty?
I felt it was my fault because I couldn't arrange a meeting once... but if he wanted to be with me, he would. He would have understood.
10/12... hmm almost a year, I feel like I've already moved on, I no longer have immense pain, I don't stalk every hour, I'm not depressed in my bed thinking about him.
But the numbers tell a different story!
What you wish some bad for someone..you wish it for yourself. Then if i always wished Good for them.. why so much of pain n cheating n hurt in my part?
Okay, I have 4 of these checklist items… and it sucks. I’m not sure how to completely cut ties bc we have a baby.. ( what kinda man leaves a baby- disgusting) anyway… I try to have the bare minimum contact via FaceTime, which I stay off camera and focus on baby only. But I hate seeing his face and hearing his ringtone everyday on my phone!!!
Ask your friend to do the calling. Really, it's impossible to go forward if you meet every day
11:22 thats me lately. But it's less and less each day. Trust the process people, when You stay in radio silence You start seeing him for who they are. Just be patient but don't date other people because it Will just backfire the processs❤️🩹