21 MIND GAMES CHEATERS & MONKEY BRANCHERS PLAY! 🚩Don’t Get Fooled After the Breakup!

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  • @Champman543
    @Champman543 4 місяці тому +37

    Well, after watching this, I’m more convinced than ever that she cheated, honestly. I’ll never have 100% confirmation, but the signs are all there. I never believed her story about meeting him two weeks after the breakup, or that she’s only just getting to know him. But the audacity to gaslight, manipulate, and disrespect me like this is unbelievable.

    • @worldrecordmethod7119
      @worldrecordmethod7119 4 місяці тому +4

      Classic, if she’s dating someone 2 weeks later sorry to say she was with him for at least a month. At least

    • @CeceliaMorgan
      @CeceliaMorgan 4 місяці тому +1

      Try finding out he's good enough at manipulation that he was with her over 2 yrs before me finding out.

    • @Champman543
      @Champman543 4 місяці тому

      @CeceliaMorgan uff, that's tough. Honestly, I've had a few breakups in my life, but my last one was very traumatic-I've never felt anything like it. Something was different. I can't imagine the amount of pain you're probably going through right now. Is it still fresh? I could understand if you never trust again-that's exactly how I would feel.

    • @alvaroramos9391
      @alvaroramos9391 2 місяці тому

      Hey Bro, sorry to hear this but you are probably right. She cheated on you. Same happened to me. She had lined up a replacement months ahead of dumping me. In her case she was the active pursuer and just wanted extra sex, the beta male "candidate" however wanted a relationship so groomed her over 3 months and she pulled the switch first of the year. She immediately went on vacation with this POS right after the breakup then showed up at my apartment right after! Your gut will never lie. She cheated. I knew this in my heart and confronted her and she lied to my face repeatedly but the truth always comes out. Stay strong, you will get through this.

    • @Phil-j7t
      @Phil-j7t 2 місяці тому

      Going through this rn. Everything seemed normal but all the signs were there and I caught her and I got her to admit it. Too bad I broke up with her and gaslight tf outta her. One week later I’m already over her.

  • @jonjoshua5624
    @jonjoshua5624 4 місяці тому +22

    Every single one of them. The worst being Blame Shifting and Gaslighting. And this coming from the mother of my children. This kept me stuck in a state of cognitive dissonance for years as I thought everything was my fault. I took all the blame for her cheated and monkey branching to that person. And I still kept wanting her back because I lacked any self respect or self worth. Now I’m doing the work and she could kick rocks.

    • @PazGoldmanOfficial
      @PazGoldmanOfficial  3 місяці тому +2

      @@jonjoshua5624 👊🏽👊🏽👊🏽👊🏽👊🏽

    • @tootalawahentertainment6771
      @tootalawahentertainment6771 3 місяці тому

      We in the same boat my guy. The messed up part I’m still married to her.

    • @IngridLennon-np4ds
      @IngridLennon-np4ds 2 місяці тому

      This happened to me, the blame was shifted when I found out he monkey branched when it was blamed as lack of communication, when he was the one who was stonewalling and ignoring anything I wanted to communicate. Yet the moment I was over constantly being unheard and gave him the same energy, that was the only thing he noticed. It’s fucked up this whole time months after we seperated that he still wanted to make it work, until the moment I found out about her, he was upset about ME being upset. The manipulation is unreal and I hate that I catch myself apologizing for him being upset for the disrespect he caused like all of the emotional neglect was valid and my blame.

    • @joshuamac6302
      @joshuamac6302 Місяць тому

      Your names Josh? You're definitely too sexy for her!!! 😅

  • @MaxiLim
    @MaxiLim 4 місяці тому +15

    Blame shifting and total no accountability! U opened my eyes haha

  • @silkiar6297
    @silkiar6297 4 місяці тому +13

    Paz your videos and program has helped me so much. Makes me open up my eyes more about NOT taking an EX back. My healing journey hasn’t been easy but having guidance definitely helps.

    • @PazGoldmanOfficial
      @PazGoldmanOfficial  4 місяці тому +2

      @@silkiar6297 Thank you my dear friend! I’m glad to hear it has been helpful, cuz the healing journey is NEVER easy, but it can be very PRODUCTIVE.
      The pain is inevitable, but the suffering is optional, my aim is to help you not suffer and become the best version of yourself during that process, sending love and healing 🙏🏽🤍

    • @mudgejohnson
      @mudgejohnson 2 місяці тому +1

      Your videos are spot on, brother
      Very helpful , truthful,
      Thank you for putting in the effort to Help your brothers

  • @JuanPardo-bw7xw
    @JuanPardo-bw7xw 4 місяці тому +13

    She fit 18/21….She’s a serial cheater and she monkey branched/cheated for the last time in October of 2023. She left me and destroyed our marriage of 25 years!! I was so blinded by my love for her and the preservation of my family that I played the fool many times. I believed her feeble apologies and hoped she would change. It’s a feeling I wouldn’t wish on my worst enemy! Terrible,hurtful and agonizing!

    • @mrnice7570
      @mrnice7570 3 місяці тому +1

      @@JuanPardo-bw7xw not alone bro

  • @nao3439
    @nao3439 9 днів тому +1

    The man I was seeing did most of these. Left me in a situationship and breadcrumbed me for months while building a life with an other woman behind my back. You know… the woman I wasn’t supposed to worry about as « it wasn’t a competition ». Then he acted like « we were only friends » so he didn’t lie to me as he very well knew I wanted a relationship with him. He wrote back to me to twist the narrative about his lack of transparency, saying I was the crazy one he didn’t feel safe to open up to…and that he now has the life he always dreamed of. In less than 8 months, they now own a house and are expecting a baby. The funny thing is she was aware of my existence (I don’t know what he told her about me…) but I didn’t know he was dating her.

  • @CPBRENNAN23
    @CPBRENNAN23 4 місяці тому +6

    Coach Paz spitting FACTS! 💯 Thanks for putting this out there to help all of us in the same boat coach. Appreciate you!

    • @PazGoldmanOfficial
      @PazGoldmanOfficial  3 місяці тому +1

      @@CPBRENNAN23 Much love my brother! 👊🏽 thank you so much for your acknowledgment. Appreciate you.!

    • @CPBRENNAN23
      @CPBRENNAN23 3 місяці тому +1

      @@PazGoldmanOfficial 😎 ✊ 🫡

  • @ericdedionisio8236
    @ericdedionisio8236 2 місяці тому +2

    So i just got blindsided again for about the 7th or 8th time in 3 years. Every time is the same, always monkey branching, and eventually comes back. The patterns and cycles are EXACTLY the same EVERY time. We had a one year anniversary last week, and that year was the first time she actually decided to ask me to be her official boyfriend and be in a committed relationship. She could never label the relationship all the times before. Anyhow, almost all of these have happened to me over these different times, but #17 just blew my mind since this just happened a few days ago. This is the text i got the day after she dropped the bomb and told me we were done: "Last thing I want is for us to have any animosity towards each other. I respect you a lot and hope we can keep things civil between us. You know I'm a private person.. I'd like to keep the intimate parts of our relationship private & between us. I really don't want all of (my town) and (her town) to know details of our relationship and why we decided to end it. I hope we can stay respectful to each other"

  • @wacubby
    @wacubby 4 місяці тому +4

    Thanks a million for this particular video! But I must say - all of yours are tremendously helpful and I find myself nodding constantly - yes yes yes!! 😀

    • @PazGoldmanOfficial
      @PazGoldmanOfficial  3 місяці тому

      @@wacubby I’m glad the truth resonate with you, my dear friend! That means that you are aligned and on the right track!
      if you feel that you need some extra help feel free to check out my Online Healing Coaching Program ➡️ pazgoldman.com/theriseofthephoenix
      Use the coupon code HEAL to get 50% OFF! (48 hours time-limit)

  • @Lkay4867
    @Lkay4867 4 місяці тому +4

    Thank you Paz! This has given me true closer and peace ❤🙏🏼

  • @mariefricchione437
    @mariefricchione437 12 днів тому +1

    Once is more than enough to not take them back. No matter how you found out. Do not believe one word after they betrayed you. Even if they swear on a Bible. THEY ARE LYING!!!! Never take them back!

  • @toostrong2209
    @toostrong2209 4 місяці тому +12

    Gaslighting...thats what they do.

  • @brucesienko7428
    @brucesienko7428 4 місяці тому +2

    Thank You for your wisdom. It has helped me a lot.

    • @PazGoldmanOfficial
      @PazGoldmanOfficial  3 місяці тому

      @@brucesienko7428 I’m so glad to hear that!!! 🙏🏽🤍much love!

  • @LornaRendon-ib4xm
    @LornaRendon-ib4xm Місяць тому

    Thank you for making this vidoe it save my life, because i felt so devastated 💔 😢 ☹️ 😭, that I felt im on the edge holding a little rope that almost falling i thought of dark things, after listening to you it lighten the heaviness inside of me. This video will save alot of poeple like me going through the same situation of evil poeple with no soul hurting us ..

  • @Phil-j7t
    @Phil-j7t 2 місяці тому +2

    Watch her phone patterns.Woman move in silence but they all slip up. If your gut is telling you something isn’t right it probably isn’t. Break up with her quick and do not give an explanation. It’s hard to do and everyones situation is different but you’ll come out on top. Remember “Women Move In Silence”

  • @fx4147
    @fx4147 Місяць тому +1

    She did all of them 🙈 I was too naive to realise and didnt listen to my gut when after the first date she said she "loves me"

  • @MirroReflections6678
    @MirroReflections6678 3 дні тому

    He did 19 out of 20 to me! I was completely destroyed for almost 3 months. He made me feel low self-worth; self balme, guilt, and self-doubt!! I feel totally lost!!!!!!

  • @comfortzone5618
    @comfortzone5618 4 місяці тому +7

    They are truly f**ked up isn’t it

    • @PazGoldmanOfficial
      @PazGoldmanOfficial  4 місяці тому

      @@comfortzone5618 Yup… this is common amongst them all!

  • @noemialvarado8448
    @noemialvarado8448 3 місяці тому

    Everything you said was accurate in my situation 😢

  • @jimscott-w1v
    @jimscott-w1v Місяць тому

    you talk so much of the truth of what I’ve been going through you would not believe nine year relationship 3 1/2 year-old boy and she was looking for a way out and found out after two weeks after a fight and getting me arrested. She had other guys living in my house, and then moved out my house into the new guys place with my kid

  • @alpdarici6825
    @alpdarici6825 4 місяці тому +1

    all the items you listed came true Paz! i kissed her a few times while i was with the man she was with and she kept telling me "your kiss is still magic"! until i found out that she was sleeping with the man she was with now while we were together! i went to her house in that anger and almost killed her! but i couldn't! we cut all ties after that! now she lives in that groom's house with that man!

  • @balkee42
    @balkee42 Місяць тому +2

    My ex did this to me. All of em. Now she wants back together after a year of fucking some other guy. Fuck that shit.

  • @MG-gq2rs
    @MG-gq2rs 29 днів тому

    He used all of them!! 😭😭

  • @Ahicksaf
    @Ahicksaf Місяць тому

    Minimizing her actions indirectly by making jokes, fake apologies and breadcrumbing ( and not admitting its breadcrumbing so gaslighting too. and the last keeping me on the hook while she's with someone else. She thinks She can do better. I will stop honestly time to stop giving this person better than what they deserve. I will shut down on her completely

  • @quinntrejo1068
    @quinntrejo1068 Місяць тому

    I left my ex several times she always begged me to come back this time around I left Ana she was ok with it I knew something was not right found out she had already been talking to someone else and monkey branches once I found that out it shook me I’m still going through it 5 weeks later damn I hope it gets easier

  • @butteryfly1234
    @butteryfly1234 6 днів тому

    He made me feel so i unimportant n unvalued in the relationship. I tried to communicate but nothing changed. One day after a normal fight (for no strong reason) he Stopped talking. I didn't chase or talk too. After almost 7 months he engaged someone else.
    Did he monkey branch, found a rebound or was cheating???? Am i dumper here?!! Too many questions. Please help😭

  • @FairuzSaleh
    @FairuzSaleh 4 місяці тому +1

    How can i call you coach, i just wanted to told my story with my exes 😭

  • @IvanSladoja-tj5cx
    @IvanSladoja-tj5cx 3 місяці тому +3

    Hi Paz, l wish you would stop saying how you were able to move on and heal and that anyone that follows your advise or program can do it as well. Let me tell you that you only had to get over a girlfriend that cheated on you. I have to get over my wife cheating and now that she is gone, l have my son to look at every day, who constantly reminds me of her. Try and heal from that.

    • @joshuamac6302
      @joshuamac6302 Місяць тому

      I understand your current place and situation. I have 3 children with my ex. I married the woman that I lost my virginity to and wanted her to not only be my first but also, my last. I know that it hurts and your resentment and bitterness has grown. Dont allow this to keep you down and dont allow this to force you to become callous. You deserve to be loved and you can and will be but you play a major role in that life. Be safe and take care of yourself ❤

  • @user-es6px6rd9d
    @user-es6px6rd9d Місяць тому +1

    Kinda lost count but I think it was 10? Hope he doesn’t reflect on what I said and doesn’t change with the new guy so his new fling fails and the new guy ends up miserable he deserves worse than cheaters that absolute garbage human being

  • @kvakmencinamon8378
    @kvakmencinamon8378 3 місяці тому

    80% of that 😂 even if I'm suffering so much now I feel sorry for her

  • @BasedLeifEriksson
    @BasedLeifEriksson 4 місяці тому +5

    My ex did EVERY SINGLE ONE of these things. Even after I had proof.

    • @PazGoldmanOfficial
      @PazGoldmanOfficial  3 місяці тому +1

      @@BasedLeifEriksson That’s 💩

    • @BasedLeifEriksson
      @BasedLeifEriksson 3 місяці тому +2

      @@PazGoldmanOfficial even when I confronted her, she still denied everything. I tried to work it out and she still tried to gaslight me. So glad she’s out of my life now

  • @tammyhenderson1592
    @tammyhenderson1592 3 місяці тому

    He is with new supply and DMd me on 25th. I ignored him. Day before yesterday he blocked me then he and his new supply posted a picture of them together as the their profile pics and were throwing love bombs at each other. They were putting on a show. I either dented his ego or they planned it. They are by the way, both Narcs. I know he will reach out again, so I blocked him. I told him when he contacted last time that he found the one, leave me alone. He said the one right now. Meanwhile, I see him liking and hitting up other women. But you can’t tell the new supply because they will think you want them. Meanwhile, she looks like a clown participating in his profile picture games. Karma!!

  • @GuidedByAngels
    @GuidedByAngels 4 місяці тому +1

    🙌

    • @PazGoldmanOfficial
      @PazGoldmanOfficial  4 місяці тому +1

      @@GuidedByAngels 🙏🏽🤍😇

    • @GuidedByAngels
      @GuidedByAngels 4 місяці тому +1

      @@PazGoldmanOfficial binge watching your videos tonight 😆

    • @PazGoldmanOfficial
      @PazGoldmanOfficial  4 місяці тому +1

      @@GuidedByAngels Do you have popcorn 🍿? 😂

    • @PazGoldmanOfficial
      @PazGoldmanOfficial  4 місяці тому +1

      @@GuidedByAngels if you have any specific question, please let me know 🙏🏽

    • @GuidedByAngels
      @GuidedByAngels 4 місяці тому

      @@PazGoldmanOfficial 😆

  • @CeceliaMorgan
    @CeceliaMorgan 4 місяці тому +3

    I hope you asked forgiveness from Jesus as he doesnt cause hurtful things to happen. Satan does.

  • @TonyTruthRx
    @TonyTruthRx 4 місяці тому +2

    Do you think they are actively doing these things in a conscious way or it is just their default setting and these tactics are natural for them?

    • @PazGoldmanOfficial
      @PazGoldmanOfficial  4 місяці тому

      @@TonyTruthRx unfortunately it’s not a one size fits all… it depends on the individual… I need to know your partner personal background to tell you the root cause of her behavior after a proper character analysis.

  • @sajjadali4764
    @sajjadali4764 2 місяці тому

    Omg its like same my ex done to me

  • @Beautymattersa
    @Beautymattersa 4 місяці тому +2

    Hi
    I neee one help

    • @PazGoldmanOfficial
      @PazGoldmanOfficial  3 місяці тому

      @@Beautymattersa how can I help you my dear?

    • @Beautymattersa
      @Beautymattersa 3 місяці тому

      @@PazGoldmanOfficial
      I want to get him back
      U told in video
      Not to run behind him
      He is not for me
      Bec he told he do not want me
      And not accepting any women he is having
      But I know he is talking to one women day and night very close
      I was asking from one month
      He told no women
      For ur torture
      I am accepting i have
      Leave me
      Move. Like this he is speaking

    • @PazGoldmanOfficial
      @PazGoldmanOfficial  3 місяці тому

      @Beautymattersa don’t take him back or you will regret that… this is my opinion

  • @AmandaRoseGotsch
    @AmandaRoseGotsch 4 місяці тому +2

    Paz you have honesty given me the best knowledge and tools to use to educate not just myself but others wow you are the wow factor you say it exactly how it is no bull s#it you have saved me honest to God X Thank you ❤

    • @PazGoldmanOfficial
      @PazGoldmanOfficial  3 місяці тому

      @@AmandaRoseGotsch thank you so much for letting me know that!
      You saved yourself by doing the work. I just guided you to the right place. !
      Sending you huge hug 🤍🤍

  • @dmarieleonard
    @dmarieleonard Місяць тому

    100%

  • @rosetramirez66
    @rosetramirez66 3 місяці тому +2

    I wanted to add a comment my ex was breadcrumbing me giving me hope that we were going to get back together and he already had a girlfriend that he was introduced to while I was with him but anyways of course he cheated on her with me because I wanted to get back together with him he kept telling me that he wanted me back but he couldn't get back with me because he got into some shit with her and no she's not pregnant but I asked him what kind of situation he never wanted to talk about it he would get mad and he would say I don't want to tell you my business with my girlfriend all I can tell you it's getting old and if you just be patient we will have a a chance but one day I walked in on him while he was talking to her on the phone and I said babe twice and he got very upset she heard me and she was calling and calling while we were arguing and he got upset and he never wants to see me again.

  • @firsttbone
    @firsttbone 3 місяці тому +1

    Went through every single one of these with my ex after i found out she was a cheating POS!! If i can give you all 1 piece of advice, LEAVE!!! If you find out they're cheating on you, leave don't give him any chance to talk to you and reel you back in. Pack your shit and bounce!!

  • @tootalawahentertainment6771
    @tootalawahentertainment6771 3 місяці тому +2

    My ex told me that it’s must be sign cause Jesus sent her the rebound lol 😂😂😂

  • @jackiep5009
    @jackiep5009 3 місяці тому +2

    Jesus does not work like that.

  • @Beautymattersa
    @Beautymattersa 4 місяці тому +1

    Can u answer my query plz
    We were in relationship from 3years it was very serious
    But last 6 months it wasbt good
    We stopped talking
    But two months back he meet me
    He was happy
    Its been three months
    He is very close
    With one of his old contact
    Spending more time
    He told he dnt want me
    Thousand times i asked
    About his relationship with another women
    He is telling no women
    I dnt want u he told
    Again ge texting me when and then
    Like how are u
    M not getting whats thw reality

    • @Beautymattersa
      @Beautymattersa 4 місяці тому

      Paz plz do reply me
      M in need of ur help 😢

    • @a.d.b535
      @a.d.b535 4 місяці тому +2

      They won't confess they are more interested in someone else, but happily keep you as a back up to fill in when needed. But they don't want you for the long haul and may one day just dump you when they find the one.

    • @Champman543
      @Champman543 4 місяці тому +2

      @Beautymattersa I am sorry to tell you, but I think your ex has a high infectious disease called "the grass is greener syndrome." He is probably bread crumbing you, so you stay as a backup and at the same time looking elsewhere for other women, or he even has somebody else already.
      Your only choice is now no contact. Save your dignity, girl.
      Stay strong 💪

    • @Beautymattersa
      @Beautymattersa 4 місяці тому

      @@Champman543
      Thank you so much for your reply
      He is talking to one girl
      Day and night
      But not accepting
      Taking god promises
      He is not like that
      M overthinking
      But he dbt want me
      He told he wants to marry me from
      3 years now
      After a gap a asked for marriage
      He is telling I cant marry u
      My mom said know to u
      After 3years he is telling this
      He blocked he is telling
      M torturing him
      By asking about girl
      He is going with hell torture bec of my questions about his new relationship
      So he blocked
      Again unblocked
      And telling not to torture be Normal
      M not getting 😢😢😢😢

    • @PazGoldmanOfficial
      @PazGoldmanOfficial  3 місяці тому +1

      @@Beautymattersa I answered your question here :
      ua-cam.com/users/livekpQ_Kg-Ywf8?feature=share

  • @LornaRendon-ib4xm
    @LornaRendon-ib4xm Місяць тому

    Sir ,everything you said it 1000 accurately correct, i regret why i didn't leave rigt away ,i wastes so much time, the reason was i wanted a family , we have 2 girls i wanted for them to have a father, happy family, i love him so much that i forgive him and stayed but i always pray and God was the one who make it happen that my x husband file a divorce against me...i don't blame anyone for stsying long because who in the eart doesnt want to have a happy family. But staying makes them do it over and over again