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I broke it. We started off great, hanged out a few times. Then they ended up ghosting me after a few weeks

She divorced me last week and my Birthday is this Wednesday, not sure how I feel about it her Birthday was in April and I took her to a really nice Italian restaurant which was her favorite, she cried and said it was amazing, little did I know she was only crying because she was planning on ditching me.

i had this recently - i didn't wish her happy birthday on her birthday but now mine is coming up in the next few weeks. I don't expect a message as i didn't wish her happy birthday like you said but in some sense I also do expect it. Is it different if theirs is before yours and you didn't wish them?

I love how transparent this man is. Most won’t say how hurt they were behind the camera or when the person is alone. 👍

Wisdom - thanks Paz peace and love❤

Next Sundqy is my birthday 16th of June! and i am sure she will not send me any message! and 18th of June her birthday! and i am not sending any message! we brooke up 6 Months ago we fight i chase shes in the rebaund relationship now ! znd 46 day ago i was almost kill her with my bare hands! that was my biggest and last explosion in my life! after that day i cut all contact! i am 55 years old she was love of my life and i still feel terribly pain

You right mine was 6 months no sexual connection and he ghosted me and left me hanging 3 weeks ago. You was to nice to you ex’s I’m 54 never has happened before to me this is why it knocked me for 6.

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I always see my ex and she always tries to say hello to me. I just ignore her!

Happy Birthday coach! mine is coming up this Thursday and I'm anxious about it all haha

why be kind to someone who was publicly monkey branching and asked money on the way out, despite owing money and getting spoiled for a year? radio silence is easy.

For example, I don't say 'birthday', but when did she say that? Why don't you send me a birthday?

I sent my ex a birthday card. He is the one that broke up with me. He had reached out on a few occasions, and I politely texted back. He received the card and texted to thank me and asked that we get together for dinner to talk.

my birthday is on Thursday this week. good timing, coach 😂

@pazgoldman I hope you had a good birthday celebration. When it's their birthday and you still follow eachother on socials. (wich you don't recommend) but some people still do, is it then still recommended to not send anything? I don't even know why I'm wondering about this since i blocked her. But i was thinking if exes still follow eachother wouldn't it be more cordial to just leave a small birthday message? Especially when it's been a few weeks. It could send a message of warmth when they don't know if that warmth is still there. At the same time not sending anything while following eachother might come across childish or something.

I'm in NC right now I miss her but she is lost. She got flowers which were pre ordered sadly. but she gave me after 3 days answer for flowers. I gived her seen day after but there is no answer from me. I know she is seeing someone from work but deep in my soul i know she is missing me. Why? Because her message for flowers were so pre calculated. Should i still keep NC?

Great advice. It’s a lot harder to give up a drug cold turkey, and by going radio silence you are forcing them to give up YOU cold turkey. The drug is YOU. If you keep playing social media games with them, then you are just giving them little “hits” of YOU, which makes it easier in the long run for them to get over you because they can slowly ease off then dopamine drug YOU provide instead of losing it all at once. So don’t make it easier on them by continuing to provide them with little hits of dopamine. Make them live with their choice and see if they can quit you cold turkey or not. If they can, then it was never meant to be in the first place.

Thank you so much for sharring ❤

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my ex was very toxic/controlling/manipulative/cheater. I did all these things but don’t want them back. They never begged me back because I didn’t chase and that’s what they wanted because there too messed up in the head and don’t like rejection. Don’t ever try to get a toxic ex back. the games they play will always be better than yours. they already seeing someone else when they leave

Fellas radio silence is the best i used this before to my ex note we never meet in person but after 2months he reach out to me tru email,that was last year he begged and cried but never come back to him😂😂 Now..i have new relationship but broke up with me last Friday bec of misunderstanding,then i used this now bec i want him back 😭 i didn't cheat,im loyal faithful women but im trting myself to moveon on if he come back thank you if not thank you again bec i know my value and i didn't hurt anyone..god bless y'all

Casual ex gave me the silent treatment, stonewalled, sent tons of mixed signals, refused to meet up. I went no contact. They reached after 22 days, I never responded because they threw their new relationship in my face again, reached out after 27 days...total crickets...3 weeks later they went radio silent...best decision ever was to stay away. I was discarded, it was their conscious choice to ghost. Breaking no contact made me learn to not break it again and completely work on myself.

Great video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

Does this mean I need to delete his family from my Instagram? It’s been a few months of no contact but I still have his family on my Instagram

Thank you for this...i inspired for your advice. Im in no contact for 9days to my ex. We are for almost 5 yrs in a relationship he told me he dont have plan for me and he said he didnt love me like before. When i got home that day after we talked i blocked him all in all social media. GOD IS GOOD.. I believe that the Lord will heal my broken heart..In Jesus Name Amen..Godbless you..more videos pls for healing

Never made that mistake and never will.... they're ex's for a reason.

All dumpers will soon meet her/his KARMA! good luck!

I got dumped a month ago, I took it in good stride and resumed living my normal life. I didn’t block her on Instagram because I want her to see my confidence and that my life is good with or without her. On her WhatsApp profile, she uploaded a message which read: ‘praying for the woman I will be in 2024. A woman who is on her purpose and will be loved’. Next upload read: ‘humble enough to know I can be replaced, but confident enough to know there is non like me’. 🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭

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Thumbs up 👍 your information is good and your heart is in the right place. I’ve been monkey branched 3 times. I think this is just the default way women break up. They constantly have men around they are talking to but the moment you’re no longer her best perceived option becomes the moment she starts swinging

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What if she has Borderline Personality Disorder? Thinks she is unworthy of my love . She ghosted after 8 years . Poof gone. I’ve been in NC for 7 months. I’m dying on the inside . I’m broken

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You appear clingy when you try and maintain the relationship Manly is not giving af and being able to walk in a split second The void is sexy

We have a son together, it’s pretty impossible for me to disappear. 😞

Surprised at how few subscribers this channel has. Great down to earth content, thanks and keep them coming, it’s really helpful

They will reach out eventually, its important to be prepared and know terms of reconciliation but also act like that day may never come. She needs to apologize and show 100% of effort for me to even consider anything. Don’t cut corners, don’t disrespect yourself.

When I broke up with my ex, he blocked me and I didn’t give a shit then. It’s been over 6 months and still don’t give a shit now. These “relationship coaches” make it seem like the person who dumps someone is a villain and the dumpee is some type of victim. People breakup with people for VALID reasons. MOVE ON…. (My ex was emotionally abusive)

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It’s so hard damn hard bro, genuinely cared about her that much was good for a few years started to go down hill for a bit then she just went mia and didn’t talk or see me for a month, not a word then I find out through facebook she was engaged to her “friend” never felt more pain than that ever before in my life. It happened years ago and I’ve just never been able to pick myself back up, not one to make excuses but it genuinely broke my soul. I went radio silence maybe a month after it happened and I still am radio silence as I type this I just withdrew from life completely, she messaged me on snap a few months ago aswell but I haven’t opened it because I know I’m still a broken soul and it’ll only make it worse pretending like there’s a chance still after all this time.

I’ve gone radio silent 2 months so far. But I’m convinced she ain’t coming back I’m blocked on everything and she has a new guy she’s with seems happy with him. She met him thru me so I know she doesn’t respect me, I don’t think I want her back but it does drive me crazy that a year and half of being together she doesn’t care one bit about how she has made me feel.

I almost forgot that i had an ex-girlfriend 😂

What if you work together? We don’t work in the same department, but we see each other maybe once or twice a week because of our work. Also, he is avoiding me (ironically!)

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Thank you coach, actually broke up with a guy recently & I immediately gave him the break up, 6wks later, he came begging but I didn’t want him back, was actually surprised at myself cos I really wanted to be with him but couldn’t anymore.