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I’ve been dating this girl for 3 years she cut me off blocked me after 3 weeks was already with a another guy

his new supply looked at me with a smile while i was crying and said BYE! we were separated by a sliding glass door...he kicked me and begged me not to put him in jail and cuz of his daughter i didnt but then he tried to take text messages and get a TRO on me and it ruined my life....where is his karma

I agree with your perspective for the most part, but I don’t think rebound relationships are always a bad idea. My experience might offer some nuance to the conversation. Four months ago, I went through an awful breakup that left me shattered. I took about a month to process it, though I didn’t feel fully healed. I decided to dip my toes back into dating, not with the goal of rushing into another relationship, but just to rebuild some confidence and remind myself that life moves forward. What started as a casual coffee date turned into a 3-month relationship. Were there challenges? Absolutely. Past issues crept in, and I saw myself reacting to some old wounds. But here’s the key: this time, I had more insight and awareness. When my boundaries were crossed in the new relationship, I was able to recognize it, stand up for myself, and ultimately end things in a way that aligned with my values. For me, this rebound relationship wasn’t about filling a void - it was about growth. It allowed me to test what I’d learned about myself, practice healthy boundaries, and leave with both fond memories and valuable lessons. Not every rebound will lead to something meaningful, but with the right intentions, they can provide clarity and an opportunity to heal in new ways.

If your ex is a narcissist and you want to remind yourself that good women still exist.. go on a few dates

I agree, but it's not always the case. My ex left for genuine reasons, rebounded, and when I pointed out her unhealthy behavior, she completely agreed, she needed time to heal. We still have a bond, and would of taken her back, we are both human and we understand the dynamics between men and woman. It's not always a bad idea. Men will bang a woman between relationships but it normally means nothing. Take time to to heal. It's takes love and the willingness to nurture a long lasting relationship.

Coach, I understand where you’re coming from. I know you are trying to protect peoples’ mental health and giving people a clean slate. BUT, I have to disagree. The past matters for women. It’s the only track record we, as men, have of a woman’s decision making. I had a 15 year friendship, 10 year romantic relationship, and two year marriage end because I didn’t know her past. I never went through her phone until I found out she was cheating. I firmly believe that your sins will find you out, and the only way to openly and honestly deal with past mistakes is to lay them out on the table and expose them to sunlight. IF I ever seriously date again, then it is a MUST that we go through each others’ phones. Not to be controlling, but to confront issues head on.

I'm taking as long as it takes I don't care what people think anymore

Paz you talk about this stuff like a champ and your right this isn't my 1st rodeo I died when I was 19 and was reborn to be money branched and cheated on these women are mental

Strange. My ex never contacted me, but he contacted my family and friends. He went out of his way to drive to my local bar (30 minutes from his house) for a beer, rumor is he got engaged to someone 8 months after our 2 year relationship ended, he didnt return my things nor ask for his. He never set clear boundaries, talked avout getting a dog together 2 weeks before our breakup, when we did see each other post breakup (at the gym i introduced him to) he went out of his way to talk to me with a smile, absolutely no closure or final talk, he blocked and unblocked me he next day on social media, spoke to mutual friends but never about me. From my experience and what I've gathered from this video, my ex had his chance and when he comes back, that chance will have blown with the wind up into the atmosphere out of sight.

Do people in their 40's have to deal with all this bs? Or should all this drama remain in the 20-30 something age bracket? Its insane how much true love has disappeared or isn't a factor between two people that want it. All these games nowadays,🙄

"Enough of this S#*t!" ❤

VERY CUTE FRENCH BULLDOG 😍😍😍😍

My ex girlfriend monkey branched me on the day of our 3 year. I acted in desperation because it traumatized me. Happened so suddenly out of no where. I did everything in my power to get her back, and i did, but she was different. I can only compare her to someone who was human trafficked and then they come back and they are just an empty shell. It took 2 years to make things back to normal. Then we had a baby, here i thought i did the impossible, but shortly after baby was born, she started acting annoyed, angry, violent. It all came back. N she Left again for a second guy. I couldn't believe it. I was a sucker

What about monkey branching and ending up with their ex from 2+ years ago?

Can you pls make a video on how to deal with thoughts of your ex spending time with the rebound/ getting intimate with the rebound/ talking to the rebound /being romantic with the rebound? How do we cope with these constant thoughts, the jealousy and the pain?

What if the rebound is an ex?

In Christianity we too grief for a year, depends how close the died person was close to you. But, I would like to say that I thank ma ex for her behavior (cheating, betrayal…) becouse I learned a lot. I learn for the first to look up to myself… see who she really is, and how low she is but I peadastal her for a not particular reason. I was too much in love in her, but no worries, I'll get stronger and healthier, she, she can have all happened, but like Paz says, her rebound will be in time, bad for her… Thx coach Paz! P. S. My deepest sorry for loosing your mother!

Be careful. Don’t count on your ex’s rebound failing because sometimes the rebound does work and they sail off into the sunset and live happily ever after. If you are counting on it failing you might be setting yourself up for another major disappointment. Any video that guarantees that the rebound will 100% fail, they are giving false hope. Yes, statistically, most rebounds fail. But most is not all.

Hell yeah fuck em

Let them have all the Toxicity and keep having Restful Sleep, don't Rethink over it.

I'm sorry for your loss!

In Hinduism there is a concept of law of karma.. lord Krishna says that every action creates a ripple in the universe, which inevitably returns to the individual, shaping their destiny..

@coachpazgoldman please make a video about how dumper feels when they get pregnant in monkey branching and/or rebound relationship.

It’s been 9 months of separation from my husband,after the breakup he was with other females and now in a relationship recently with someone saying I love yous to each other,in going in a month and a half and it still breaks me because I was very hurt by our separation and he’s now in this relationship. I could never imagine being with someone intimate this fast or even saying those words as fast as they did to each other. I’m still healing and not ready at all to be with anyone . It’s just crazy to me how my soon to be ex is doing that..

God Bless your mother's soul .

God send me my ex , to rise me up , and get back on my feet after 3 years of constant drama from a group of people that I could not escape from... He was a blessing and I have nothing but Love and Gratitude for him❤(that is an honest truth by the way)

Maaaaaaaaaan, I looooovvvvvvvve your level of awearnes ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

I’m way too shocked to explain how right you are about my ex. I never had the courage to leave her although I definitely wanted coz her lack of stability while she was the one breaking up with me numerous times. Yea , I was monkey branched by my ex after living together 3 years until she met her new branch in school. Today I’m back in therapy. I have no doubt that understanding what happened to me watching your videos helps me getting over and im sure I will thanks to you.

How to save that person . I care for her

Paz Goldman. Better than me.

Good job Doctor Goldman!!! Keep up the good work 😇

4 months later I can say that the grass in fact is not greener over there. He ended up having a mental breakdown over the branch refusing to respect his trans identity. Just learned today he is absolutely miserable and desperately coping at the moment. It’s either he cuts the transphobe off or stay in that toxic unhealthy relationship with a total jackass who makes him cry and made him lose his friends. I’m guessing he’s only holding on because he’s afraid to be alone despite the psychological abuse. As you said coach short term gain long term pain. I do feel bad for him though I tried to tell him to at least stay single after discarding me but he refused to listen and now he’s doing horrible.

What should I do while he is rebounding with her ?

my ex of 3 half years has been with her rebound for 5 months. she is already house shopping with him. he is 44 and she is 31 he clearly is ready to remarry so this will most likely he end game.. i gave so much in the relationship and I'm 40 so starting over at my age hurts and feels like an impossible thing to do

🤯 ..familar hell, rather than the unfamiliar heaven.. the cave you fear to enter, holds the treasure you seek

I prayed for her. I told God “please take care of her.” He gave me signs he was there. I felt his presence. I immediately felt this weight of my shoulders. I love God so much. He saved me. It hurt when she did it but after that… I was able to let her go. Yes the memories and stuff still hit but I’m healing. God wants me to suffer still I know he wants me to build character.

Definitely 💯 real facts here. It’s true when you said society say to just to look for someone else. Nope I’m not gna be looking just because he’s with someone. I’m gna take my time heal and find peace within myself.💯❤️. Thanks Paz

Thanks alot

Thank you Coach Paz.. i am learning so much from you

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Absolutely not a good idea to text exes.

If we're rekindling our relationship and out of nowhere she says she started liking someone else is that monkey branching too?

Thanks for the good message and to your dog for showing how to rest peacefully during this time😂

I’m really happy I’m engaged to my new partner I’ve moved on from my ex after 8 partners I cut contact from him because during our relationship he kept talking to other people when I talk about he would remove me and add me again with my new partner it’s easy simple we spend so much time together I couldn’t be more happier I feel secure with him ❤

תודה רבה מעומק הלב על ההקראה הנעימה. ספר חשוב כל כך 🙏

Great Big No..