Yeah I always was wondering why my hips did that.. mine isn’t that extreme but I’ve gotten stuck on swings because I have VERY VERY VERY wide hips.. I basically bully myself I don’t get bullied for it but it’s just me.
A Greek statue of Aphrodite in a museum I visited once had hip dips and a stomach pooch and chub in her thighs. And damn, if the literal embodiment of female beauty and attraction is portrayed with them, then we are all goddesses who have those dips too.
@@maggie9175 I hope it was a cry of goodness and acceptance in your heart that you are truly beautiful. Even if I'm just a random stranger in the UA-cam comments, I believe you are beautiful and I do my best to believe I am beautiful too even when it's hard ( =
I remember this guy from art class saying that drawing women with hip dips was wrong because it was anatomically innacurate honestly he wasnt a clow he was the entire circus
@nice try167 but at least it would be a man talking about his own anatomy it would make sense, anyways hip dips are quite common and it shouldn't be treated as something innacurate or something that doesnt exist
@nice try167 why are you so pressed about my comment? honestly it seems that the offended one is you, i just said something that happened at school i didnt expect it to get any attention
I clicked this because I didnt realise it was about body dysmorphia and thought it was about artistic stylisation, but I'll let you know artists see it on EVERYONE. Almost everyone has them and it's usually exaggerated, not downplayed, on "sexy" characters.
My wife has hip dips, honestly one of my favorite features on her. Didn't realize people had issues with them. Sorry to anyone who had to deal with anxiety or teasing about them.
I'm an a straight guy nearly in his 50s, and I've never in my life heard of or worried about such a thing... it's like an imaginary internet "problem" in a world where women are competing against DeviantArt furry anime tentacle porn, and men are competing against "Fifty Shades of Grey"/"Twilight" cross-over slash fanfiction, for the attention of ludicrously narrow and unrepresentative focus groups that barely exist in the real world. Stop the madness! Or not. I'm guessing that the sort of women who worry about this sort of thing probably aren't going to be my type anyway - guys find self-confidence attractive, too, and aren't really as fixated on visuals alone as the stereotypes suggest, and it's not very attractive when perfectly normal, healthy women cripple themselves with insecurity about the way they look because a few magazine photographers, angry internet incels, and whatever have found some little thing about women to complain about. There's nothing wrong with most women that just being themselves and being confident and smiling won't do wonders for. But whatever: "hip dips" are part of a pretty wide spectrum of body types that the same guy either won't notice or won't mind, or might even find attractive (there's a wide range of fetishes out there, and "it takes all sorts to make the world go 'round" and all that....) It's really nothing to feel insecure or worried about. I've never worried about it, and I've never heard any other guy complain about it, and after decades of being on the internet, I kind of think even most of the internet loudmouths don't worry about it... the only people who worry about it are the people who airbrush magazine/catalogue models for a living, and women who discover it through some internet grapevine and conclude that's a "thing" for all men....
I put hip dips in the same category as the thigh gap. It's an issue someone came up with for the sole purpose of creating insecurities. Literally no one cares.
Reading that I can’t tell if people want thigh gaps or not, I just know it’s more convenient to not have a thigh gap bc then I can catch my phone in between my legs if I drop it while sitting and stuff
What I noticed is that when you have a thigh gap you probably will have hip dips. Wide hips, I mean wide hip bones, are the condition for having your thighs not rub against each other, but also for hip dips. Sorry English is not my first language.
@@dominator8245 not true. Those things arent related. Hip dips can apper both with wide and narrow hips. Thigh gap is a thing of wide hips and thin legs.
hilarious to call it the "violin deformity" considering how the violin's shape has been known throughout literal centuries as sensuous and beautiful. like, people have considered it the most visually beautiful instrument in great part because of that exact shape. Just... complete contradiction to relate it to 'deformity'...
I’m an art student. Having attended nude figure drawing classes for years, it blows my mind that this is something people are freaked out about? Bumps like these (we call them “bony landmarks”) are a tool we use to define form and those are some key ones that I learned about my freshman year. They’re super helpful to make your drawings of the figure look more real and alive when drawn accurately. Even when those bony bumps are covered in fat or muscle they still affect how that fat/muscle builds and rests on the figure. “Hip dips” are only a Thing if you make them one. I’m happy to just call it “evidence of having a skeleton”.
@@sheempiemc2792 ugh ok. speakin as a trans person, "um excuse me im offended i identify as _____" jokes are tired & overdone, and they aren't really all that hilarious to me because they just make it harder for me to correct people IRL when they call me the wrong thing. i'd rather not get replies with this particular joke. thanks
seriously even if it is was a fat thing you shouldn't be worrying about it where i am from chubby girls are embraced and adored over others and one i see some people complaining about being little bit over weight i cringe in my country people don't fat shame others actually they don't even know how to shame some one for being over weihjt lol
Same! I never really noticed them until recently and I kinda just thought, why am I shaped like that? I’m sure tons of other people are too but it seems weird and I’ve never seen anyone mention it literally once in my entire life and I’m going to be 30 this year. I was just like hmm, must just be super skinny but I already knew that lol and I literally never even googled it or anything so it’s weird how this video was even recommended to me. It’s like the internet knows or something 👀😂
I'm a guy with hip dips, thick thighs and stretch marks. This video and comment section made me love my body a little bit more. *Yeets solidarity and body positivity right back*
Dude bodies are scary and weird and we all want what our biology doesn't want for us but its all in your head no one cares and as soon as we realize that we're happier and more confident
Emilie Salazar same! It’s bc we just feel good in that. And I love my hip dips either way. But you have to wear jeans that fit you. And the muffin top is actually not real bc that’s just wearing the type of jeans that don’t fit you!
Emilie Salazar I wear them because I have hip dips, a small booty, but my stomach is a bit pudgy. I feel like I can hide a good amount of my insecurities with those jeans, not sure why cause when I look in the mirror I see it fails but when I avoid them I feel confedent.
this video made me cry cause i remember watching it when i was 12 (im 15 now) and feeling so empowered, thank you for making an insecure 12 year old girl feel pretty back then
Walk through an art museum. It's so mind-blowing to see the past images of beauty.... If you find any original knights in shining armor, it's also amusing how small and delicate those knights were. They ate less meat I guess.
last sport lesson, a classmate body-shamed another for her hip dips and showed her exercises she should do. I was like "Why? " and I still think is awful to make others feel bad about their body.
Yes. What Green Gazelle said. Be a better person than me, and don't leap immediately to showing people some neat exercises for keeping their jaw shut :[]
I would have stood up for her right then and there like why should she exercise to get rid of herself this is her this is her body and it's perfect the way it is stop. 🛑
I'm aiming for body neutrality. After so long hating my body love or positivity is such a huge leap so I'm doing little steps. Thanks for bringing this up and getting this convo going! Vintage style is definately a great way to start seeing yourself in a positive way to make a step toward self love
I started seeing myself in a more positive light by looking at my body and what it does with amazement and wonder. like: "wow, my legs allow me to walk and run and dance and hike, and that's super cool," or "my taste buds allow me to enjoy this yummy mac and cheese, and that's awesome."
I’m so angry about hip dips being an insecurity all the sudden. As an artist, hip dips are such a cool segmented part of the body to draw. It’s like my favorite part and seen as so beautiful in old art .
I've been criticized my whole life for having big hips like this. Idiots see me and think "belly fat." Others tell me I don't know how to pick the right size clothes because they don't look "right" on me. Confused guys who are turned off because they only ever see super straight or tiny hips in the media. With respect, it only seems "all of a sudden" to you because its been given a catchy name.
Hip dips are sexy AF. Alphonse Mucha knew it, and he celebrated it in paintings like these: A Standing Female Nude (Study for Petronius and Eunice) "Iris" "Rose", and "Lily" (from his 1898 flower series) "Morning Star" from The Moon and the Stars Series, 1902 "Spring" 1896 "Spring" 1900 "France Embraces Bohemia" 1918 "The Trappistine"
HOLY CRAP!! I'm 32 years old and just assumed my hip dips (which is a term I had never heard of) were from me wearing my jeans or underwear too low and caused a permanent dent?? 😂 Honestly I had no other explanation for myself but now I do! Thank you!! ^0^ I always felt like I looked weird in leggings and high waisted items as well when they are tight and outline my hip dips. I have never noticed them on anyone else so seeing them on you makes me feel so normal! SOLIDARITY SISTAAAAAHS! ✊🤟❤️
I was 13 when some one pointed out my hip dips and said only fat people have them it shattered my self confidence and sent me on a really dangerous path to lose waight was almost hospitalised as I stopped eating since they didn't go away really wished some one had made a video about them years ago might have saved me and my family a lot of stress and heartache, because no matter how long its been I'm still fighting everyday to not fall back into being obsessed with loosing weight and evyone still looks at me like I'm about to start starving myself
Actually, I have always had a hip dip and I have spent my life being chronically underweight. I only got to a normal weight a few years ago, and my hip dip is a little worse because I now have hip fat, which I didn't have before. And before anyone freaks out over hip fat, know that we are all supposed to have a bit of that. Not having any means you are underweight, and possibly not healthy.
Be Kind 🌸🖤 I'm also finally at heathly weight, when I was under I also was damaging my hair daily I thought that if I didn't have straight hair I'd be to different I'm in early to mid 20's right now and I was disrespected by negibor all because of my appearance and how I get to work* ? mfo spoke to me how some people speak to children... I work with 3 to 5 y/o's daily I wanted to punch right in the face and tell him off but didn't.. My ceo worker that knew about this was out a few months with heath problems this mfo put his child's life in danger when he almost hit the bus I work on! I honestly have small hope he'll apologize or try this again so he can learn a court room just who the f*reak* I am. yet- some days I just laugh about how rude and small minded he is... to believe I'm mostly a 8y/o 😅🤣 I hope to God everyday I end up with a guy also laughs with me about how freaked up this is! 🤣 and let's me sit on his car with him I've been about this rude negibor finding out the hard way and in complete silence that he disrespected a grown lady 💯 also love to a get message that he spoken to to my bf someday about it believing some other bs believes like his my father or brother or something 🤣😅🤣 lol hands down will call my bf a frame of dad tho I'm that type of lady! 🤣🤣🤣 hope he comes back with what honey 🤣🤣🤣 Typing the end of this made me feel better about this again I hope keep this postive mindset for a longtime!! Also my baby face* I guess I have or just overall look of a child comes from birth I was born early 🙃 😅 so I guess I look younger when my twin brother and I where 2 we where size of 5 months olds for example. When we where 4 y/o's we where finally the size 2 y/o's. Hands down I'm hyped for the future 🙌
Whuuuut if anything surely fat people have them *less*, cause the layer of fat sort of evens out your shape? Although I've had them throughout 4 different dress sizes so 🤷♀️
@@28stabwounds92 Honestly I'm tired of hearing people complain that they're afflicted with these awful deformities when they're like... 5, 10, 15, 20 lbs "overweight" or "underweight"? You look amazing! Take the compliment! :P
I remember when I lost 35lbs and was looking so great! I tried on a body hugging dress and my cousin said that I needed to loose weight because of my hip dips! I told her that if I could be skin and bones and would still have them! Hurt me so much..
Plastic surgeons calling it the “ violin deformity” is actually pretty funny. It’s one of the highest and smallest stringed instruments. The curves or “hip dips” only enhance the sound they make.m My ex had hip dips and I used to cal them my love handles. Made it much easier to cuddle and snuggle ^^. That and I’m extremely offended as a violinist. Have you seen these gorgeous wooden creations? Even I look like a cello and sound like a viola, that doesn’t mean having hip dips is weird or wrong or unattractive. Embrace ya curves girl.
I was really insecure about my "hip dips". Then I lost them! How? I was in a massive accident, broke both femurs, my wrist and my neck. I was bedridden for 2 months and lost all of the muscle in my legs. One day, clutching my walking frame, I looked in the hospital bathroom mirror. My hip dips were gone! I won't pretend I wasn't pleased. But as I recovered and began to walk again, my hip dips gradually returned. I realised I was almost wishing away my able body for some arbitrary standard of beaty. Now I've grown to love them.
The number of people that didn't know that hip dips are literally just how hips are is extremely worrying. I've always known just because I could feel them, but really understood them because of the anatomy studies I did for art. Makes me wish anatomy and life drawing sessions should be mandatory in high school.
Mandatory drawing would probably just give me something else to be insecure about, tbh. Still, it would be really nice if we had a healthier way of learning what "normal" really is.
@@eyesofthecervino3366 Mandatory drawing really helps though. Unlike some maths things that you need to have a certain mindset for, anything art related only improves with practice. During the first wave I bought a watercolour set and let myself screw up as many times as possible. And now, after a year, I make customized birthday cards for my friends and even a big painting that is now hanging on my wall. I would have loved to learn anatomy, s it would've saved me from a ton of body issues.
Qwerty Bastard, I think that Onassis meant healthier because women were not completely focused on losing weight, and getting plastic surgery, but rather on feeling good and healthy
@Qwerty Bastard hey quick question how do small breasts play _any_ role whatsoever in overall health? Also, don't know if you noticed, but the Greek population is still doing pretty good. Not an endangered species, so, evidently; they weren't as gay as they could've been.
I thought I had hip dips cause of my underwear being too tight or something, like how the area with hip dips is outlined by the underwear. It's confusing sorry. Also I think my hip dips make me attractive.
I honestly think it's impossible to not have tummy rolls. I've got a fast metabolism, and I weight around 100 pounds. And guess what? When I sit or bend forward, I get tummy rolls. So if you feel insecure about it, stop - everyone has them.
Imo rolls when sitting down are actually a sign that you're skinny, the chubbier/fatter people I know (me included) just have their stomach sit as a big blob without rolling at all
Yes this is me! I’m only 14 and like 85lbs but I sometimes have a double chin, along with a not totally flat stomach. It’s probably caused by my eating habits tho as I’m not a super healthy person but yeah most people dont have a perfect body!
My family makes fun of my tummy because its so flat naturally, that when I bend over it's still flat. So... I just hide it under my clothes. I didn't know people cared to be honest.
I often think the same thing with different words: "In the end, we all are skeletons inside." :) It goes with insecurities and excepting everybody (including myself). ^_^
My mom thought that about stretch marks and I wasn't allowed to wear skinny jeans/shorts anymore until she took me to a doctor and she said that that was normal.
Bro i notice this too. It's like many of us literally hate ourselves but never talk about it and i actually notice this behaviour in myself. I have the fear of not being "masculine enough" which is honestly a bit stupid but It goes so far i don't even dress or act how i want, i'm always holding back and it damn sucks.
both mine and my boyfriend's weight has been fluctuating drastically while growing up due to different health problems and struggles, as a girl i notice my insecurities quite too often but as our relationship got more mature he opened up about his insecurities as well and we can talk about it rationally and truly, both women AND men need much more selflove and acceptance in their lives. it's not weird to tell him. guys, if a girl truly loves you she loves you just the way you are and guys deserve to be validaded and accepted too and the ideal of a six pack and square boobs on guys is almost as unrealistic as a photoshopped swimsuit magazine model to women. also being under 6ft does not make you less of a man, i know a lot of short guys who are happily married and successful 💜💙💜💙💜💙💜
Body positivity is for everyone, regardless of gender or age or sexuality or religion or ethnicity, or any other possible group of people you can think of. Everyone deserves to feel comfortable in their own meat suits.
You’re beautiful. I’m ancient (!) - when I was growing up in the 70’s, a small bum was the goal - and now the goal has changed 🤨 🙄 , and ‘the perfect body’ will be different again in another 20 years - so it’s all just contrived nonsense! Wonderful video - thank goodness for all our different bodies. All shapes and ages. All beautiful- without exception. (And your hair is glorious!)
I didn't even know what they were until I saw a (different) body positivity video about hip dips. And then I was like oh yeah, I've got those. Luckily I had no idea it was something people felt shame over and I'm not about to start now!
Watching this for the first time, 2 years after you made it. It’s still so relevant. I’ve been self conscious about my big butt and hip dips since I was a pre-teen. I’m 57 now. I look back at the pics of my youth and ask myself: “Why were you, are you, obsessed about those?” I’ve spent time and money trying to get rid of, or reduce them. Only to find out they really don’t matter. Such a sad way to have spent so many minutes, hours, days of my life. This year, I will wear what I want. I won’t obsess about by butt, hip dips, or anything else about my body. I will only hope my whole body makes it another year, so I can have one year of my life when I didn’t almost hate it. Maybe I’ll get blessed with even more after that. Thank you for doing this and making yourself so vulnerable in order to help others. 🙏🏼💕
My partner went blind at 28. He regained a small bit of sight through surgery but it changed his life for ever in so many ways and he would have done anything to be able to see well. He had beautiful brown eyes that just didn’t work well. He died last year of a heart attack related to all his health problems with diabetes (type 1) Believe me, health is best thing.
That sounds really difficult, but so strong of you to share and extract something bright and positive from this experience. I'm so sorry and sure you miss him.
Okay. I have 20/20 vision and I want glasses but I don’t want to get fake glasses, so it’s kinda sad for me. Edit: I apologize to anyone who thought I was being disrespectful. I really am. I don’t really think about the responsibility’s and the cons of having glasses. I really am sorry. No need to reply to me telling me that I’m being dumb. I already noticed that, so might as well own it?
@@thisismyname5317 you don’t it feels like your eyes get worse and worse with each yeah and need a new pair of glasses 😭 at least for me. Plus it’s annoying when wanting to wear makeup or wanting to simply lay down on my side to watch tv but gotta bend my head a certain way so I don’t break my glasses 💀
@@thisismyname5317 are you serious right now? So you rather have a bad vision to wear glasses? You could buy a pair without needing bad vision. That's just disrespectful to everyone who wishes they had your vision. Hope someone knocks some sense into you.
I used to draw all my characters with hip dips cause I thought it was normal and I was totally thrown off when someone would say my drawings were in accurate. This video is beautiful
Late to this vid, but for me as a dude, my thing is my rounded shoulders. It’s possible that weight lifting could square them up, but my dad worked out plenty and had the same shoulders. I have found some styles make me feel better in the mirror, such as epaulettes or whatever those shoulder caps are called the the ST:TNG uniforms have, I don’t see anything wrong with that. But it’s definitely a thing when you have a dark moment from something you can’t control. That said, to me the most important thing no matter your shape is how you care for you body. Do you wash well and regularly? Brush and cut your hair? Wear clothes that fit properly? These are things we can control, and in my view are worth paying attention to.
I hate how when you search hip dips/double chin/etc the first thousands of searches will tell you how to get rid of them. Not that it's just a part of you that exists and that not everyone is the same. It's so tiring.
@@thisismyname5317 It's not that 'a lot of people do'. Is that everyone does have a hip dip. Go see a skeleton. Any. It will have hip dips EVERY single one. Because the 'rounded' hips are an illusion. You round your hips with enough muscle and fat tissue on top. Or by using padding. Or if you inject some hyaluronic acid there.
@@psychadelicpotato8580 bruh im slim but i have a double chin as well its on my mothers genes its because our jaw from our skull is very small it needs operation or dental care including our neck size its very small
I've never heard anyone talk about this before. When I was a kid I convinced myself I had these because my underwear were too small and I was damaged forever
Same. Honestly. I remember talking about it in high school with the girls in the locker room about how much I hated it and the other girls (who really were kind and supportive people I was lucky to have around me lol) were like??? You look fine?? You look like a normal girl??
all eyes are beautiful I prefer grey, green, black, amber and hazel myself but that doesn't mean I don't like any other eye colours, it's hard to choose favourites. Eyes stay beautiful no matter what colour they are
The grass is always greener on the other side. I'm tall and relatively skinny, I had the perfect figure during the 2010's skinny athletic look, but then I wanted to be shorter. Now that the hourglass shape is "the ideal", I had a little bit of a struggle with my stick-figure. And now I try not to care anymore and just wear clothes that make me feel good, such as semi-loose pants and cute dresses/skirts :)
Bonus fact: Back dimples, the two little indents above each bum cheek, those are due to how your muscle attaches, having them or not is genetically determined, they appear on people of all sizes, and will remain whether you gain or lose weight.
@@faye7199 "Sacral dimples" as I have just read, are "Just above, and to either side of the crease between the buttocks". (I had to google in order to figure out a polite way of describing it). So, No.. not really where the kidneys are. However, many lay people believe the kidneys are just above the natural waist, rather than being entirely protected by the rib cage, so, if you, like many people, had been led astray in knowing where exactly your internal organs lie... yeah, that's a reasonable descriptor of the location. ...Were the circumstances different, I would have thought you were trolling me, as I used to spend an inordinate amount of time, and words explaining the actual location of one's kidneys to people - and the unlikeliness of accidentally damaging them through blunt force trauma; particularly when compared damage or loss of function through aging, lifestyle choices, or other untreated medical issues - to the point where friends and I would make jokes about "imaginary kidneys". And that concludes my Ted Talk, which absolutely no one asked for. :)
@@kiralynx i wish i had that positivity! my mom pointed them out when i was 10, and her being not from America made it sound like it was a bad thing and it stuck with me
i had always called these 'violin hips' which i always thought was a cute name (edit: just saw the note about plastic surgeons calling them a 'violin deformity' which is notably less cute 🤢)
I’ve always had people say they like my dimples and I liked them too but it put a real damper on it when someone told me that I apparently have a “deformed skull”. Uhh thanks?
Omg my aunt and my mother were saying that you would get hip dips from the elastic in your underwear and we should be careful, or we would also get them. After I got them during puberty I got insecure and a bit sad about them, my mom was even giving me an " I told you so"-speech, and now I'm finding out it's LITERALLY HOW I WAS FUCKING BUILT. WHAT THE HELL?!?!
Sometimes parents aren’t always right. I mean...they lie about popular holiday figures right? Santa was really my dad eating all the snickerdoodle cookies.
My mom constantly would blame my bottoms and tell me that they were wrongly sized, assuming that when I took my pants off at night my hips just plumped right back up to normal. She chastized me for buying the wrong size. In our mothers' collective defense, information was less accessible to them growing up, and if they didn't have hip dips themselves all they could do was draw conclusions from what they know.
That's what they told me too when I was young! Since then I wore everything high waisted and still have hip dips. I remember when I was younger thinking "what did I do wrong".
I used to genuinely think my hip dips was attractive, like when I just went through puberty and my body started getting it shape I noticed my hip dips, and was like dang girl nice. But then the internet told me it was ugly, I didn't internalize that immediately but you know eventfully what can a very receptive 14 year old girl do against that. So right now I can accept my hip dips, but I know deep down I will always feel insecure about it. And I can't really help that you know, so I wish I still had that innocence and never found out about this nonsense
In my country it’s seen as a huge flaw as it is litterally called « horse’s pants », I have always been so insecure about that but I love the name it was given in english, « violin hips » makes it sound elegant haha
timmy 001 I’m from France! And I am pretty curvy so my hip dips are even more emphasized! I still have to be more confident about my violin hips but I’m heading the right way haha!
I literally remember panicking, frantically googling "why do my hips have dents" over and over as a 15 year old, thinking that there was something deeply wrong with my body and looking for ways to fix it
I had always thought that hip dips were really pretty or cool and when I saw that I had my own I was really excited..I've only recently learned that people didn't like theirs..
So four years later, your video is still making a difference! Thank you for being vulnerable w/ us bc I don't think anyone completely loves absolutely everything about their bodies. Also, everything you mentioned that bothers you about your body, I honestly never noticed. In fact, I still don't see it. You're beautiful! 💚
It’s a month later ikk but don’t you dare listen to her, you are a beautiful, magical, amazing person! There’s only ever going to be one of you and there’s nothing gross about you! You are seen you are valid and you are beautiful （╹◡╹）♡
I'm a man that had similar insecurities. I always wanted to be thin and fit to go into police and to be attractive. In the end I was not allowed to join, because of my eyes. Something I had absolute no control over. Now I focus on being healthy. It is easier than being hot
This is body positivity. She's saying that everyone should love their selves and not hating on a certain group of people. I don't have hip dips but I praise her for talking about it and being like "hey, we all are different. Be kind to yourself". Everyone is beautiful and "love your meat vessel"
I thought my hip dips were just blobs of fat on my upper hip. I never bothered to actually touch it until learning that it was my bone structure. This was such a reassuring video, it actually made me cry. Edit: I just fixed a spelling error
I am nearing 60, and throughout my life I've always been petite, but not particularly pretty. I am 5ft2in and around 7st6lb, and apart from being heaviest when I had my 7 pregnancies, I've pretty much stayed within half a stone of said weight. I never had teenage spots and never got stretch marks from my pregnancies, not even when I had a 9lb son.Yes, my skin was gorgeous, but because I felt I wasn't 'up to the beauty standards I thought was expected', I didn't consider my skin as a positive, just focused on what was negative in my eyes. So come the menopause, my body just upped and decided to puddle into a lumpy mess..my skin has absolutely no correlation to what on the inside, my boobs have minds of their own and have quietly been introducing themselves to my belly button, and the cellulite is just having a hayday! What I'm actually trying to say is don't focus on the negatives when you have positives! LOL! It's disgustingly unfortunate that social media, etc, makes women feel like their worth is in their looks, because we all know that most certainly isn't true.
I genuinely never felt self-conscious about my "hip-dips" until everyone on the internet was talking about how to get rid of them. But, the stronger my thighs get, the bigger they are and the more pronounced the dip becomes and I'll never be upset about being stronger. Also, Chun Li has hip dips and I love her so that probably also has something to do with how I feel about them.
@@maryduke1018 Same! I thought it meant I had a lot of muscle. xD Most female body builders seem to have them so I was just over here patting myself on the back lmao.
Hi Rachel, I would just like to say: THANK YOU, so much!! I have literally NEVER commented on a youtube video in my life, but you inspired me so much, that I had to tell you this. I have spent all of my adult life (and some years before), feeling insecure about my body (my 'tummy rolls', 'huge thighs/hips', imagined flaws, chubby cheeks, double/triple chins (depending on the angle/photo).... but now, after becoming a left leg amputee 4 years ago - I've ironically learned to love myself more than I ever have! I'm still a long way from total self acceptance, and wonder if I'll ever actually get there - but I want to say: seeing you show and talk about your body insecurities in such a real, honest and relatable way gave me life. I have now been inspired to finally post a video for other amputee women like myself, as well as curvy women of all walks of life... so once again: Thank you, thank you, thank you! X
I've always HATED my hip dips and wanted to have that perfect hourglass figure. Thank you for making me feel less alone. I haven't met many people that have them and it's always made me feel weird, I thought I was just fat around one section of my hips. I feel better about them now!
This helps me so much, I always hated my body and couldn’t understand why I had hips like that and never felt “feminine “ so relieved and can’t believe how diluted our societies ideal image of the female anatomy is..thank you lovely ❤️
Stay strong sisters! Some people think it's attractive to have "hip dips" anyway. If you look at beauty standards through time you'll land perfectly in one era. It's all silly.
too many young girls wearing hip hugger jeans for too long gave MANY female bodies muffin tops. And having _hip dips_ built in only shows it off more.... I grew up in the high waist jeans era that seemed to almost tuck under your boobs. While not the best fashion trend, it kept my hip dip body shape hourglass. The waistband didn't cut into my hip bones, it was all smooshed into my jeans....never needing a _spank_ to smooth my shape It's like fashion brought about the anti-girdle body shape
i was wondering what would happen if i looked up hip dips and went to images,all it was was "how to get rid of hip dips" and "cost of surgery for hip dips" its really sad
youtube recommendations are getting too smart. how do they know this applies to me.
samantha marie lmao i luv finnie as well
samantha marie I LOVE YOUR PROFILE
I just googled it and it was in my recommendation 😅
Your profile pic 🤩
Same!!! I have this. So creepy lol
Imagine being body shamed over your literal bone structure wtf is wrong with people
fuck like I can’t change my genetic makeup 🥺🤣
Wow its full of armys here😂💜
Yeah I always was wondering why my hips did that.. mine isn’t that extreme but I’ve gotten stuck on swings because I have VERY VERY VERY wide hips.. I basically bully myself I don’t get bullied for it but it’s just me.
We shame people's nose, brow bones, and praise jawlines for years...It's really no different. It's been done ALL THE TIME 😞
It happens, I feel like my ribs are too wide
" I really wanna wear that skirt but..my damn femurs." LMFAOOO
damn, my skeleton is back at it again.
This killed me😂😂
Same name
@Sophia Tapanes " I really wanna wear that skirt but..my damn FERRETS"
mood.
A Greek statue of Aphrodite in a museum I visited once had hip dips and a stomach pooch and chub in her thighs. And damn, if the literal embodiment of female beauty and attraction is portrayed with them, then we are all goddesses who have those dips too.
I probably should not be crying over this comment but here I am, crying
@@maggie9175 I hope it was a cry of goodness and acceptance in your heart that you are truly beautiful. Even if I'm just a random stranger in the UA-cam comments, I believe you are beautiful and I do my best to believe I am beautiful too even when it's hard ( =
@@katsuyafeather1309 yeah it was thank you so much
@@maggie9175 you are welcome ^_ ^
Hello stranger, I like your pfp (also I just like your comment overall as well, that’s so cool)
I literally thought my hip dips were just my thighs being fatter than my hips but noooo my hips are just higher than snoopdog
Emily Fischer yooooo sameee
Same 😔
I would like this comment but it’s at 69
Lol *SAME*
I thought the same thing!!
I remember this guy from art class saying that drawing women with hip dips was wrong because it was anatomically innacurate honestly he wasnt a clow he was the entire circus
@nice try167 but at least it would be a man talking about his own anatomy it would make sense, anyways hip dips are quite common and it shouldn't be treated as something innacurate or something that doesnt exist
@nice try167 why are you so pressed about my comment? honestly it seems that the offended one is you, i just said something that happened at school i didnt expect it to get any attention
Imagine doing so much mental gymnastics to conclude bones are not ment for women. What an idiot.
@@hollyneedham4243 hehe i spotted that too
silly clow
Notice how everyone is saying they didn’t know other people had hip dips. Guess what? That means nobody notices it on you either
Aw this made me feel so much better about my hip dips!!
Or people see them, think it's normal & no big deal. =) Hear me, sisters, and believe...no big deal.
I clicked this because I didnt realise it was about body dysmorphia and thought it was about artistic stylisation, but I'll let you know artists see it on EVERYONE. Almost everyone has them and it's usually exaggerated, not downplayed, on "sexy" characters.
@@vitriolicAmaranth Heeeey, we are the sexy characters. Yay. :]
Bruh that’s a good one-
My wife has hip dips, honestly one of my favorite features on her. Didn't realize people had issues with them. Sorry to anyone who had to deal with anxiety or teasing about them.
I didn't even know my dip hips were supposed to be a reason for insecurity until the internet told me i should be worrying about it.
Nah, I've always hated it. Then I found that I'm not the only one.
SAME! I got ads on how to get rid of them and I was like ‘uhh, what? Is this a bad thing too now?’
I'm an a straight guy nearly in his 50s, and I've never in my life heard of or worried about such a thing... it's like an imaginary internet "problem" in a world where women are competing against DeviantArt furry anime tentacle porn, and men are competing against "Fifty Shades of Grey"/"Twilight" cross-over slash fanfiction, for the attention of ludicrously narrow and unrepresentative focus groups that barely exist in the real world.
Stop the madness!
Or not. I'm guessing that the sort of women who worry about this sort of thing probably aren't going to be my type anyway - guys find self-confidence attractive, too, and aren't really as fixated on visuals alone as the stereotypes suggest, and it's not very attractive when perfectly normal, healthy women cripple themselves with insecurity about the way they look because a few magazine photographers, angry internet incels, and whatever have found some little thing about women to complain about. There's nothing wrong with most women that just being themselves and being confident and smiling won't do wonders for.
But whatever: "hip dips" are part of a pretty wide spectrum of body types that the same guy either won't notice or won't mind, or might even find attractive (there's a wide range of fetishes out there, and "it takes all sorts to make the world go 'round" and all that....) It's really nothing to feel insecure or worried about.
I've never worried about it, and I've never heard any other guy complain about it, and after decades of being on the internet, I kind of think even most of the internet loudmouths don't worry about it... the only people who worry about it are the people who airbrush magazine/catalogue models for a living, and women who discover it through some internet grapevine and conclude that's a "thing" for all men....
Xd SAME
I actually like them...
I was complaining about my hip dip just today..I like my fbi guy, he gets me.
Lmmaaaoooo
i-
😂
hahah sameee
1000th like!!
I put hip dips in the same category as the thigh gap. It's an issue someone came up with for the sole purpose of creating insecurities. Literally no one cares.
Reading that I can’t tell if people want thigh gaps or not, I just know it’s more convenient to not have a thigh gap bc then I can catch my phone in between my legs if I drop it while sitting and stuff
@@enolp now I know what thigh gaps are, and I can tell you that not having a thigh gap has saved my phone from falling at least once.
What I noticed is that when you have a thigh gap you probably will have hip dips. Wide hips, I mean wide hip bones, are the condition for having your thighs not rub against each other, but also for hip dips. Sorry English is not my first language.
@@dominator8245 that's pretty cool!
@@dominator8245 not true. Those things arent related. Hip dips can apper both with wide and narrow hips. Thigh gap is a thing of wide hips and thin legs.
hilarious to call it the "violin deformity" considering how the violin's shape has been known throughout literal centuries as sensuous and beautiful. like, people have considered it the most visually beautiful instrument in great part because of that exact shape. Just... complete contradiction to relate it to 'deformity'...
I’m an art student. Having attended nude figure drawing classes for years, it blows my mind that this is something people are freaked out about? Bumps like these (we call them “bony landmarks”) are a tool we use to define form and those are some key ones that I learned about my freshman year. They’re super helpful to make your drawings of the figure look more real and alive when drawn accurately. Even when those bony bumps are covered in fat or muscle they still affect how that fat/muscle builds and rests on the figure.
“Hip dips” are only a Thing if you make them one. I’m happy to just call it “evidence of having a skeleton”.
this offends me, i identify as a noodle
@@sheempiemc2792 indeed, agreed my fellow noodle i will not let our kind be treated this way
@@sheempiemc2792 ugh ok. speakin as a trans person, "um excuse me im offended i identify as _____" jokes are tired & overdone, and they aren't really all that hilarious to me because they just make it harder for me to correct people IRL when they call me the wrong thing. i'd rather not get replies with this particular joke. thanks
@@dcdrafts i get it, im nonbinary, just dont be too salty
a little late, but this comment helped so much.
ARE YOU SERIOUS?! It’s my freaking bones?! My whole life I thought it was a fat thing. Oh my god. That makes me feel so much better 😅
seriously even if it is was a fat thing you shouldn't be worrying about it where i am from chubby girls are embraced and adored over others and one i see some people complaining about being little bit over weight i cringe in my country people don't fat shame others actually they don't even know how to shame some one for being over weihjt lol
Same!!!
me too, omg
I thought I had them because I was too skinny- like they were hollow parts in my hips or something.
Same! I never really noticed them until recently and I kinda just thought, why am I shaped like that? I’m sure tons of other people are too but it seems weird and I’ve never seen anyone mention it literally once in my entire life and I’m going to be 30 this year. I was just like hmm, must just be super skinny but I already knew that lol and I literally never even googled it or anything so it’s weird how this video was even recommended to me. It’s like the internet knows or something 👀😂
I'm an artist. I've been trying to draw hip dips, they're cute. Girls with hip dips are cute.
This just made me happy 🥺✨💫💖🌟💖🌟⚡️💫💖💖✨✨⭐️⭐️✨
I have this and you saying that legit made me happy (And since I'm emotional af I legit cried)
All girls are cute and i wanna draw them all
Boys with hip dips are cute.
Thanks!
“I AM A COMPLEX AND AMAZING MIX OF MEAT AND ELECTRICITY” quotable quote
I totally quoted this 💚
I'm a guy with hip dips, thick thighs and stretch marks. This video and comment section made me love my body a little bit more.
*Yeets solidarity and body positivity right back*
Dude bodies are scary and weird and we all want what our biology doesn't want for us but its all in your head no one cares and as soon as we realize that we're happier and more confident
My boyfriend is like you and I think he's sexy as duck!
Love yourself friend :)
"We stan"
YO. Your body is an amazing thing that works hard to keep you going everday, and I appreciate that, and all its marks.
Sir, you work those hip-dips
I have hip dips and I will NEVER stop wearing high waisted pants idc
Emilie Salazar same! It’s bc we just feel good in that. And I love my hip dips either way. But you have to wear jeans that fit you. And the muffin top is actually not real bc that’s just wearing the type of jeans that don’t fit you!
@@selinkeles facts only 😌
Emilie Salazar I wear them because I have hip dips, a small booty, but my stomach is a bit pudgy. I feel like I can hide a good amount of my insecurities with those jeans, not sure why cause when I look in the mirror I see it fails but when I avoid them I feel confedent.
@@glitterlover3244 wear 👏🏼 what 👏🏼 you 👏🏼 want
@@glitterlover3244 we love confidence
ugh flat ass hip dip club how you doin????? im good thanks
😤💞right here sis
why do I have to have big titties and thicc thighs but a hip dip and a flat ass 😭
Sis😢😂
@@shadybeashooketh1911 my chest area is big but my thighs and legs are just like nah, we'll go the other way💔
@@shadybeashooketh1911 yasss! I feel you!
this video made me cry cause i remember watching it when i was 12 (im 15 now) and feeling so empowered, thank you for making an insecure 12 year old girl feel pretty back then
Me too! It’s how I found her channel
Walk through an art museum. It's so mind-blowing to see the past images of beauty.... If you find any original knights in shining armor, it's also amusing how small and delicate those knights were. They ate less meat I guess.
@@laneyhesse8102 me too! I was fourteen and now I'm one month away from turning 18. :) time flies
@@lindsayd7225 🥺❤️ feel that
Omg me too :))) 16 rn
this video has big older sister energy and im here for it
I'm an older sister and watching this video I immediately thought "oh I'm going to send this to my little sister" jsjsjsjsj
@@michelag5817 pure !!!!
seriously. so good.
@@michelag5817 me too!! XD
I have an older sister but I have no idea what you mean by that
"You know, I really wanna wear that skirt but... *my damn femurs*
best line ever
Me: *wears it anyway* Can't stop me. I wear what I want. My hips dip and don't lie.
Wait... how did UA-cam know I have Hip Dips!??
haha same :) this video was recommended to me somehow
yooo frrrrr
KpopƸ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄ƷStan2017 FACT! 😄
girllll me tooo wtffff
Krystal in the profile stunning :3
last sport lesson, a classmate body-shamed another for her hip dips and showed her exercises she should do. I was like "Why? " and I still think is awful to make others feel bad about their body.
Please go tell the both people hip dips are just bone structure. Help them both be better.
Yes. What Green Gazelle said. Be a better person than me, and don't leap immediately to showing people some neat exercises for keeping their jaw shut :[]
I would have stood up for her right then and there like why should she exercise to get rid of herself this is her this is her body and it's perfect the way it is stop. 🛑
"I love myself. Even though I look like a burnt chicken nugget, I still love myself."
Amen🙏🏻
YES
the referenceeee
Iconic vine
Yes.
"the violin deformity"
me, a violinist: *hell yeah*
Not trying to objectify anyone, but I actually find hip dips attractive, so...
I find 1% lowfat milk and m&ms attractive
Side note: objectifying someone and being attracted to their features are not the same thing.
You're not objectifying anyone, you're making dozens of people feel good about themselves.
Thank you
Thank you. I didn’t know I needed to hear that
I'm aiming for body neutrality. After so long hating my body love or positivity is such a huge leap so I'm doing little steps. Thanks for bringing this up and getting this convo going! Vintage style is definately a great way to start seeing yourself in a positive way to make a step toward self love
I started seeing myself in a more positive light by looking at my body and what it does with amazement and wonder. like: "wow, my legs allow me to walk and run and dance and hike, and that's super cool," or "my taste buds allow me to enjoy this yummy mac and cheese, and that's awesome."
I swear to god UA-cam is watching me while I'm naked or something.
Marvel- Sherlock This comment made me laugh so hard for some reason😂😂
Marvel- Sherlock sameee. I fr feel you on that!😂
god UA-cam is your pervy uncle
same!!!!!!!!
Eeew Weird XD
I’m so angry about hip dips being an insecurity all the sudden. As an artist, hip dips are such a cool segmented part of the body to draw. It’s like my favorite part and seen as so beautiful in old art .
I've been criticized my whole life for having big hips like this. Idiots see me and think "belly fat." Others tell me I don't know how to pick the right size clothes because they don't look "right" on me. Confused guys who are turned off because they only ever see super straight or tiny hips in the media. With respect, it only seems "all of a sudden" to you because its been given a catchy name.
I love drawing self portraits with me and my hippy dippies
I didn’t even know that hip dips were an undesirable thing.
All of a sudden? I was self conscious about mine in the late 90s. As an adult I'm fine with them.
Hip dips are sexy AF. Alphonse Mucha knew it, and he celebrated it in paintings like these:
A Standing Female Nude (Study for Petronius and Eunice)
"Iris" "Rose", and "Lily" (from his 1898 flower series)
"Morning Star" from The Moon and the Stars Series, 1902
"Spring" 1896
"Spring" 1900
"France Embraces Bohemia" 1918
"The Trappistine"
So it's not the FAT 😱😱😨 I'm 16 and I always Thought that fats are the reason
It's Barri oof same
I thought the opposite! I thoughts its because I am too thin :D
@@sarahjudith8433 same!
Omg same!!
So did I! Very relieved to found out it's normal!
HOLY CRAP!! I'm 32 years old and just assumed my hip dips (which is a term I had never heard of) were from me wearing my jeans or underwear too low and caused a permanent dent?? 😂 Honestly I had no other explanation for myself but now I do! Thank you!! ^0^ I always felt like I looked weird in leggings and high waisted items as well when they are tight and outline my hip dips. I have never noticed them on anyone else so seeing them on you makes me feel so normal! SOLIDARITY SISTAAAAAHS! ✊🤟❤️
Every single person in this world probably has tummy rolls when they sit. I'm skinny and I have them. I've never met anyone who haven't.
I’m underweight and I have rolls still when I sit
My sister doesn’t have..
but like when you're fat it looks bad
@Kayleigh Reimert exactly. that's just how skin is (most of the time)
we call it "six pack" thank you.
"So what is your body type?"
*VIOLIN*
Omg yes
Long neck sexy body
Wingedwolf I really don’t know why I’m built like a violin. Like my neck be so damn long 😭
Heathy.
I'm going to start saying this 😂🔥
"If you look at greek goddesses you bet your bottom they have tummy rolls!"
Me: I have the body of a goddess :0
I LOVE THIS COMMENT SO MUCH
Also, fat babies
heck yeah you do, you funky little deity!!
I actually am greek and most are known to be short and larger so, im starting to love that part of me
I AM FEKIN GODDESS
I was 13 when some one pointed out my hip dips and said only fat people have them it shattered my self confidence and sent me on a really dangerous path to lose waight was almost hospitalised as I stopped eating since they didn't go away really wished some one had made a video about them years ago might have saved me and my family a lot of stress and heartache, because no matter how long its been I'm still fighting everyday to not fall back into being obsessed with loosing weight and evyone still looks at me like I'm about to start starving myself
Actually, I have always had a hip dip and I have spent my life being chronically underweight. I only got to a normal weight a few years ago, and my hip dip is a little worse because I now have hip fat, which I didn't have before. And before anyone freaks out over hip fat, know that we are all supposed to have a bit of that. Not having any means you are underweight, and possibly not healthy.
Be Kind 🌸🖤 I'm also finally at heathly weight, when I was under I also was damaging my hair daily I thought that if I didn't have straight hair I'd be to different
I'm in early to mid 20's right now and I was disrespected by negibor all because of my appearance and how I get to work* ?
mfo spoke to me how some people speak to children...
I work with 3 to 5 y/o's daily I wanted to punch right in the face and tell him off but didn't..
My ceo worker that knew about this was out a few months with heath problems
this mfo put his child's life in danger when he almost hit the bus I work on!
I honestly have small hope he'll apologize or try this again so he can learn a court room just who the f*reak* I am.
yet- some days I just laugh about how rude and small minded he is...
to believe I'm mostly a 8y/o 😅🤣
I hope to God everyday I end up with a guy also laughs with me about how freaked up this is! 🤣
and let's me sit on his car with him
I've been about this rude negibor finding out the hard way and in complete silence that he disrespected a grown lady 💯
also love to a get message that he spoken to to my bf someday about it believing some other bs believes like his my father or brother or something 🤣😅🤣
lol hands down will call my bf a frame of dad tho I'm that type of lady!
🤣🤣🤣 hope he comes back with what honey 🤣🤣🤣
Typing the end of this made me feel better about this again
I hope keep this postive mindset for a longtime!!
Also my baby face* I guess I have or just overall look of a child comes from birth I was born early 🙃 😅 so I guess I look younger
when my twin brother and I where 2 we where size of 5 months olds for example.
When we where 4 y/o's we where finally the size 2 y/o's.
Hands down I'm hyped for the future 🙌
Whuuuut if anything surely fat people have them *less*, cause the layer of fat sort of evens out your shape?
Although I've had them throughout 4 different dress sizes so 🤷♀️
i never knew that hip dips were a thing i just a thought i had a strange body 🤯
same
I did too honestly :O
I thought i was just fat lol
olivia hi i thought that as well!!!
Gemma White yes that and low rise jeans haha
People seriously out here acting like hip dips aren't sexy?
James Marino thankyou for making me feel better about my hip dips :) also being a bisexual woman, they are sexy as fuck.
Pretty lil thigh handles😍😍😍
@@sammarshall4741 Exactly!
@@28stabwounds92 Honestly I'm tired of hearing people complain that they're afflicted with these awful deformities when they're like... 5, 10, 15, 20 lbs "overweight" or "underweight"? You look amazing! Take the compliment! :P
@@pragmat1k Totally! Also that's really nice of you, you seem like a genuinely nice dude so that's great!
I didn't even know that other people had this . I thought It was because my underwear was too tight for a hot minute. I'm a bafoon
I thought the same thing 2 days ago! I thought I needed to wear different undies.
Me too...
I thought it was cause i always wear a belt 😂
crazycookie124
Same .
Just my whole life I thought it ....
Not a big deal at all
That's what I got told, I was told to wear different underwear to reshape the 'fat' on my hips
I remember when I lost 35lbs and was looking so great! I tried on a body hugging dress and my cousin said that I needed to loose weight because of my hip dips! I told her that if I could be skin and bones and would still have them! Hurt me so much..
Wear that tight dress, girl! You're gonna rock it
Plastic surgeons calling it the “ violin deformity” is actually pretty funny. It’s one of the highest and smallest stringed instruments. The curves or “hip dips” only enhance the sound they make.m
My ex had hip dips and I used to cal them my love handles. Made it much easier to cuddle and snuggle ^^.
That and I’m extremely offended as a violinist. Have you seen these gorgeous wooden creations? Even I look like a cello and sound like a viola, that doesn’t mean having hip dips is weird or wrong or unattractive.
Embrace ya curves girl.
Love the wordssss. . . Violin, cello and viola references
Do you know how much rent is for the inside of a violin?
"I look like a cello and sound like a viola" DUDE SAME! EXCEPT I LOOK MORE LIKE A DOUBLE BASS THAN A CELLO 😂
"love handles" that's so sweet
heyy violas sound great and cellos are pretty ,,,, but maybe i'm biased as a past violist
I was really insecure about my "hip dips". Then I lost them! How? I was in a massive accident, broke both femurs, my wrist and my neck. I was bedridden for 2 months and lost all of the muscle in my legs. One day, clutching my walking frame, I looked in the hospital bathroom mirror. My hip dips were gone! I won't pretend I wasn't pleased. But as I recovered and began to walk again, my hip dips gradually returned. I realised I was almost wishing away my able body for some arbitrary standard of beaty. Now I've grown to love them.
I’m glad you recovered! Wishing you the best ❤️
.....Time to almost die-
Wishing away my ABLE BODY FOR SOME ARBITRARY STANDARD OF BEAUTY. wow.
@@chyld7710 😭😂
Those damn femurs amirite
"I wanna wear that tight skirt but *damn, my femurs.. am I right?"*
Lmfaooo
Im the 1k like
Srsly
The number of people that didn't know that hip dips are literally just how hips are is extremely worrying. I've always known just because I could feel them, but really understood them because of the anatomy studies I did for art. Makes me wish anatomy and life drawing sessions should be mandatory in high school.
Mandatory drawing would probably just give me something else to be insecure about, tbh. Still, it would be really nice if we had a healthier way of learning what "normal" really is.
@@eyesofthecervino3366 Mandatory drawing really helps though. Unlike some maths things that you need to have a certain mindset for, anything art related only improves with practice. During the first wave I bought a watercolour set and let myself screw up as many times as possible. And now, after a year, I make customized birthday cards for my friends and even a big painting that is now hanging on my wall. I would have loved to learn anatomy, s it would've saved me from a ton of body issues.
Mandatory drawing would have fucked me so hard
The People: tummy rolls are unattractive
Aphrodite: wait
lmao the ancient Greeks knew whats up.
beauty is for the w e a k
Qwerty Bastard almost like beauty standards were more realistic back then,paying better attention to healthy bodies and ya know not having photoshop
Qwerty Bastard, I think that Onassis meant healthier because women were not completely focused on losing weight, and getting plastic surgery, but rather on feeling good and healthy
@Qwerty Bastard hey quick question how do small breasts play _any_ role whatsoever in overall health?
Also, don't know if you noticed, but the Greek population is still doing pretty good. Not an endangered species, so, evidently; they weren't as gay as they could've been.
I thought I had hip dips cause of my underwear being too tight or something, like how the area with hip dips is outlined by the underwear. It's confusing sorry. Also I think my hip dips make me attractive.
Oh same! I always thought it was just my body conforming to the clothes I wear lol nice to know I’m not the only one who was confused
Same!
Sameeeeeeee
@@nerdybird1102 Actually my mom made me believe that. She likes to bodyshame me for having those, it's horrible
lmAo me too
I honestly think it's impossible to not have tummy rolls. I've got a fast metabolism, and I weight around 100 pounds. And guess what? When I sit or bend forward, I get tummy rolls. So if you feel insecure about it, stop - everyone has them.
It's normal when you sit down, it doesn't matter if you're the fitter person in the world, your skin folds when you contract it tummy rolls are normal
exactly, its just skin :)
Imo rolls when sitting down are actually a sign that you're skinny, the chubbier/fatter people I know (me included) just have their stomach sit as a big blob without rolling at all
Yes this is me! I’m only 14 and like 85lbs but I sometimes have a double chin, along with a not totally flat stomach. It’s probably caused by my eating habits tho as I’m not a super healthy person but yeah most people dont have a perfect body!
My family makes fun of my tummy because its so flat naturally, that when I bend over it's still flat. So... I just hide it under my clothes. I didn't know people cared to be honest.
This girl is such a beautiful, confident and kind person. I'd love to hangout with someone like that.
When she said “I virtually have no booty. It is a back that turns in legs” I really felt that hahaha
sameeee
OMG!! SAME
I was there before I started going to the gym, highly recommend!
Reminded me of "legs go all the way up Griffin"
I don’t have hip dips but I am flat as a board 😂😂😂😂
“We’re all just meatbags”- Rachel Maksy, 2019
-colorized...actually, I think Rachel would prefer sepia-toned (or black&white) ;)
I often think the same thing with different words: "In the end, we all are skeletons inside." :) It goes with insecurities and excepting everybody (including myself). ^_^
Yeah, you got it.
Literally what I always say
"Be kind to your meat bag." 👍
"I AM A COMPLEX AND AMAZING MIX OF MEAT AND ELECTRICITY!" 🤣👌
I KNEW MY HIPS WERE HIGHER THAN OTHERS people literally would be like "no thats your waist" and i was like ??? waist bones???
This comment is fabulous 😂
"??? Waist bones???" got me
😂This deserves a pin
SAME. I have tall hips and a short waist
same!!!
i always thought my hip dip was caused by wearing jeans that were too tight
Me too!
My mom thought that about stretch marks and I wasn't allowed to wear skinny jeans/shorts anymore until she took me to a doctor and she said that that was normal.
YES! Or shorts/underwear/bathing suit bottoms etc
Lol me too
Bro me too!!
respect the dip, karen
This is comedy gold
PERIODT
yeah karen
PERIOD
Lololl
Who needs a flat stomach whenever you can have all 7 meters of intestine working
Splosion7 lmao this needs more likes
Yeah, I have a stomach that practically ripples when you poke it.... It’s my fault.....
I’m kind of offended but I understand
My stomach makes me look like I'm pregnant .-.
@@frhongaaa8733 your intestines are thriving
As a guy, we never talk about how insecure we are, which is a lot. This empowered me so much.
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
You can always start doing so with your best friend. Girls fought to have stuff we have today, who says you cannot
Bro i notice this too. It's like many of us literally hate ourselves but never talk about it and i actually notice this behaviour in myself. I have the fear of not being "masculine enough" which is honestly a bit stupid but It goes so far i don't even dress or act how i want, i'm always holding back and it damn sucks.
both mine and my boyfriend's weight has been fluctuating drastically while growing up due to different health problems and struggles, as a girl i notice my insecurities quite too often but as our relationship got more mature he opened up about his insecurities as well and we can talk about it rationally and truly, both women AND men need much more selflove and acceptance in their lives. it's not weird to tell him. guys, if a girl truly loves you she loves you just the way you are and guys deserve to be validaded and accepted too and the ideal of a six pack and square boobs on guys is almost as unrealistic as a photoshopped swimsuit magazine model to women. also being under 6ft does not make you less of a man, i know a lot of short guys who are happily married and successful 💜💙💜💙💜💙💜
Body positivity is for everyone, regardless of gender or age or sexuality or religion or ethnicity, or any other possible group of people you can think of. Everyone deserves to feel comfortable in their own meat suits.
You’re beautiful. I’m ancient (!) - when I was growing up in the 70’s, a small bum was the goal - and now the goal has changed 🤨 🙄 , and ‘the perfect body’ will be different again in another 20 years - so it’s all just contrived nonsense! Wonderful video - thank goodness for all our different bodies. All shapes and ages. All beautiful- without exception. (And your hair is glorious!)
Omfg when I first heard about “hip dips” being a “bad thing” I was SPEECHLESS LIKE MAN IM SORRY MY LIGAMENTS ATTACH TO MY HIPS A CERTAIN WAY?????
i think they're fricking gorgeous, as someone that doesnt have them.
I didn't even know what they were until I saw a (different) body positivity video about hip dips. And then I was like oh yeah, I've got those. Luckily I had no idea it was something people felt shame over and I'm not about to start now!
Living for this comment
@@Speakeeezzy same.
@@Speakeeezzy Same here. Did not even know that hip dips was a thing.
I have hip dips. I never knew it was something to be ”insecure” about. I’ve never had a problem rocking it
I’m pretty sure i have em but i’ve never even noticed them to the point where i’m not even 100% sure that i have em
I always feel insecure about mine. I wear clothes that hide em most of the time 😅
Yeah, me too. But after seeing this video, I'm thinking if I should.
I slightly have them but I have to rub my hand down my hip and thigh to feel them lmao
i have them and people at my school call me ugly for it :,)
Im not like the other girls, my hip bone is higher than theirs
Built different 💪
inlog
Having high hipbone makes me feel more masculine :)
Same here
RachieMouse BRIHVHGCGCHG VHCY
Watching this for the first time, 2 years after you made it. It’s still so relevant. I’ve been self conscious about my big butt and hip dips since I was a pre-teen. I’m 57 now. I look back at the pics of my youth and ask myself: “Why were you, are you, obsessed about those?” I’ve spent time and money trying to get rid of, or reduce them. Only to find out they really don’t matter. Such a sad way to have spent so many minutes, hours, days of my life. This year, I will wear what I want. I won’t obsess about by butt, hip dips, or anything else about my body. I will only hope my whole body makes it another year, so I can have one year of my life when I didn’t almost hate it. Maybe I’ll get blessed with even more after that. Thank you for doing this and making yourself so vulnerable in order to help others. 🙏🏼💕
5:51 “I really wanna wear that tight skirt but, my damn femurs” I literally died😂😂
lmao same here
I read that as "my damn lemurs" 😂
I read this comment at the exact time she said it
Many want light eyes. All I wanted are eyes that could see 20/20.
My partner went blind at 28. He regained a small bit of sight through surgery but it changed his life for ever in so many ways and he would have done anything to be able to see well. He had beautiful brown eyes that just didn’t work well. He died last year of a heart attack related to all his health problems with diabetes (type 1) Believe me, health is best thing.
That sounds really difficult, but so strong of you to share and extract something bright and positive from this experience. I'm so sorry and sure you miss him.
Okay. I have 20/20 vision and I want glasses but I don’t want to get fake glasses, so it’s kinda sad for me.
Edit: I apologize to anyone who thought I was being disrespectful. I really am. I don’t really think about the responsibility’s and the cons of having glasses. I really am sorry. No need to reply to me telling me that I’m being dumb. I already noticed that, so might as well own it?
@@thisismyname5317 you don’t it feels like your eyes get worse and worse with each yeah and need a new pair of glasses 😭 at least for me. Plus it’s annoying when wanting to wear makeup or wanting to simply lay down on my side to watch tv but gotta bend my head a certain way so I don’t break my glasses 💀
@@thisismyname5317 are you serious right now? So you rather have a bad vision to wear glasses? You could buy a pair without needing bad vision. That's just disrespectful to everyone who wishes they had your vision. Hope someone knocks some sense into you.
I used to draw all my characters with hip dips cause I thought it was normal and I was totally thrown off when someone would say my drawings were in accurate. This video is beautiful
DinoDerp i need to learn how to draw those
it IS normal. don't worry.
No, that person is inaccurate, not your drawings!💜
I did the same thing! I thought it was normal.
I draw hip dips on people too. It makes it look more realistic.
Late to this vid, but for me as a dude, my thing is my rounded shoulders. It’s possible that weight lifting could square them up, but my dad worked out plenty and had the same shoulders. I have found some styles make me feel better in the mirror, such as epaulettes or whatever those shoulder caps are called the the ST:TNG uniforms have, I don’t see anything wrong with that. But it’s definitely a thing when you have a dark moment from something you can’t control.
That said, to me the most important thing no matter your shape is how you care for you body. Do you wash well and regularly? Brush and cut your hair? Wear clothes that fit properly? These are things we can control, and in my view are worth paying attention to.
i’ve always found confidence from old roman or greek statues. my body looks more like the bodies they adored vs the modern “perfect” bodies.
Yeah. So true, I've always noticed that.
Roman statues were really different from Greek ones tho. If you're looking for more realistic ones, I'd suggest Roman ones.
Lmao what if you don't fit the Greek standards or the modern standards?
@@midnightrally357 greek was a really high standard to meet, so I dont think you should be worrying about that
@@midnightrally357 You don't have to meet any standards to be beautiful
I hate how when you search hip dips/double chin/etc the first thousands of searches will tell you how to get rid of them.
Not that it's just a part of you that exists and that not everyone is the same. It's so tiring.
I thought double chin was part of an inactive neck muscle area or a sign of extra fats.
@@psychadelicpotato8580 it is!
@@thisismyname5317 It's not that 'a lot of people do'. Is that everyone does have a hip dip. Go see a skeleton. Any. It will have hip dips EVERY single one. Because the 'rounded' hips are an illusion. You round your hips with enough muscle and fat tissue on top. Or by using padding. Or if you inject some hyaluronic acid there.
@@psychadelicpotato8580 bruh im slim but i have a double chin as well its on my mothers genes its because our jaw from our skull is very small it needs operation or dental care including our neck size its very small
@@alpha_jasperflair1097 wow younjust described my physique
I've never heard anyone talk about this before. When I was a kid I convinced myself I had these because my underwear were too small and I was damaged forever
Same, like a month ago I came to the same conclusion
Same too
Same but with jeans because their tighter.
Same. Honestly. I remember talking about it in high school with the girls in the locker room about how much I hated it and the other girls (who really were kind and supportive people I was lucky to have around me lol) were like??? You look fine?? You look like a normal girl??
For me it was was mid 2000's low waist jeans that I thought deformed me 🙄😂
I have light eyes and always wanted dark brown. Seems like a lot of ppl want what they don’t have.
Dark eyes are gorgeous. I have relatively light eyes, and I think they're pretty, too, but dark eyes are so soulful. You just melt and drown in them.
all eyes are beautiful
I prefer grey, green, black, amber and hazel myself but that doesn't mean I don't like any other eye colours, it's hard to choose favourites. Eyes stay beautiful no matter what colour they are
The grass is always greener on the other side. I'm tall and relatively skinny, I had the perfect figure during the 2010's skinny athletic look, but then I wanted to be shorter. Now that the hourglass shape is "the ideal", I had a little bit of a struggle with my stick-figure. And now I try not to care anymore and just wear clothes that make me feel good, such as semi-loose pants and cute dresses/skirts :)
I have straight blonde hair and always wanted wavy red hair. A lot of people I know with wavy hair want straight hair.
Bonus fact: Back dimples, the two little indents above each bum cheek, those are due to how your muscle attaches, having them or not is genetically determined, they appear on people of all sizes, and will remain whether you gain or lose weight.
Kind of where the kidneys are?
@@faye7199 "Sacral dimples" as I have just read, are "Just above, and to either side of the crease between the buttocks". (I had to google in order to figure out a polite way of describing it). So, No.. not really where the kidneys are. However, many lay people believe the kidneys are just above the natural waist, rather than being entirely protected by the rib cage, so, if you, like many people, had been led astray in knowing where exactly your internal organs lie... yeah, that's a reasonable descriptor of the location.
...Were the circumstances different, I would have thought you were trolling me, as I used to spend an inordinate amount of time, and words explaining the actual location of one's kidneys to people - and the unlikeliness of accidentally damaging them through blunt force trauma; particularly when compared damage or loss of function through aging, lifestyle choices, or other untreated medical issues - to the point where friends and I would make jokes about "imaginary kidneys".
And that concludes my Ted Talk, which absolutely no one asked for. :)
I have those and I actually really like them? I think they're cute.
@@kiralynx I also have them and I think they're really cute!
@@kiralynx i wish i had that positivity! my mom pointed them out when i was 10, and her being not from America made it sound like it was a bad thing and it stuck with me
Life's too short for beauty standards that suck.
The main concern should be health anyway.
Cano Vea slay kween🐸🐸🐸
Tbh what if hip dips become a stupid trend like thigh gaps
Omg fr. That shit was annoying and made a lot people insecure
Actually there was a time when hip dips became a trend, so it already happened
@@redactedanomaly can we exchange
LET’S YEET THIS MEAT really? I’ve been wanting a thigh gal tho
Hi namjesus
Wait do some people consider hip dips "bad"? As an artist, it's one of the most satisfying things to draw about a human body
They are SO beautiful
i had always called these 'violin hips' which i always thought was a cute name
(edit: just saw the note about plastic surgeons calling them a 'violin deformity' which is notably less cute 🤢)
Deformity? That definitely doesn't sound nice
Its not really a "deformity" if your born with it, a deformity to me is when you get it over time, not born with it in this case.
I also saw the name violin hips in a positive light and liked it. But the plastic surgeons can f*ck off.
Violin hips sounds kinda cute to me. The surgeons can dutifully f*ck off though.
I’ve always had people say they like my dimples and I liked them too but it put a real damper on it when someone told me that I apparently have a “deformed skull”. Uhh thanks?
My hip dips ruin my outfits:( makes me look like I have love handles that aren't even there
Allison Williams same :/ I only wear leggings and baggy t shirts now
I feel the same way....
@@keelinharper6649 me too i wish i could wear tighter shorter shirts but the hip dipssssssss
i feel this
Hey Allison, I’m sure there are many things that I would think are absolutely beautiful about you :)
Omg my aunt and my mother were saying that you would get hip dips from the elastic in your underwear and we should be careful, or we would also get them. After I got them during puberty I got insecure and a bit sad about them, my mom was even giving me an " I told you so"-speech, and now I'm finding out it's LITERALLY HOW I WAS FUCKING BUILT. WHAT THE HELL?!?!
You gonna tell her?
Sometimes parents aren’t always right. I mean...they lie about popular holiday figures right? Santa was really my dad eating all the snickerdoodle cookies.
My mom constantly would blame my bottoms and tell me that they were wrongly sized, assuming that when I took my pants off at night my hips just plumped right back up to normal. She chastized me for buying the wrong size.
In our mothers' collective defense, information was less accessible to them growing up, and if they didn't have hip dips themselves all they could do was draw conclusions from what they know.
Unless your elastic was made of titanium strangling your hips yes, indeed.
That's what they told me too when I was young! Since then I wore everything high waisted and still have hip dips. I remember when I was younger thinking "what did I do wrong".
I used to genuinely think my hip dips was attractive, like when I just went through puberty and my body started getting it shape I noticed my hip dips, and was like dang girl nice.
But then the internet told me it was ugly, I didn't internalize that immediately but you know eventfully what can a very receptive 14 year old girl do against that.
So right now I can accept my hip dips, but I know deep down I will always feel insecure about it.
And I can't really help that you know, so I wish I still had that innocence and never found out about this nonsense
How am i supposed to feel insecure about hip dips when theyre also called "violin hips"????
by ff i needed to read that
As a violinist with "hip dips," I fully approve this message!
In my country it’s seen as a huge flaw as it is litterally called « horse’s pants », I have always been so insecure about that but I love the name it was given in english, « violin hips » makes it sound elegant haha
@@laullw6002 where r you from..? :/ anyways hope you can be a PROUD member of our violin hips club;)
timmy 001 I’m from France! And I am pretty curvy so my hip dips are even more emphasized! I still have to be more confident about my violin hips but I’m heading the right way haha!
I literally remember panicking, frantically googling "why do my hips have dents" over and over as a 15 year old, thinking that there was something deeply wrong with my body and looking for ways to fix it
Brie Nelson I literally googled the same thing. Verbatim. Lmao 😅
I used to think it was because my underwear was too tight 😅
@@angeappreciation same 😂😂😂
I had always thought that hip dips were really pretty or cool and when I saw that I had my own I was really excited..I've only recently learned that people didn't like theirs..
I did that with my elbows, I have a “double” elbow cause of how the bones work and I thought there was something wrong with me
When I start feeling sad about my hip dips....
I remind myself that if I lay sideways, I can use my hip dips to put my guacamole in.
jadacrawl this comment is blessed
underrated
this instantly put a big smile on my face
This comment made me laugh so much😂 I love it
jadacrawl this is so wholesome and i love your hip dips
So four years later, your video is still making a difference! Thank you for being vulnerable w/ us bc I don't think anyone completely loves absolutely everything about their bodies. Also, everything you mentioned that bothers you about your body, I honestly never noticed. In fact, I still don't see it. You're beautiful! 💚
i was just starting to get paranoid over the weird shape of my hips then youtube just-- i swear i think youtube's watching me
why is this me
Yaaass
peachymoonss omg SAME
It took youtube a year
I was just wondering this and literally looking in the mirror like wtf.. Thanks UA-cam 😂
my mom was just telling me about how unattractive and gross i am and i cant believe i found this. cue my sobbing. thank you for making thhis
Don't believe a word of what your mom was just telling you! God made you just the way He wanted you and he loves you!
Don't worry your not the only one, people like that only have children because of a one night stand
whaaat
that sucks
don't listen to her, you're absolutely beautiful.
It’s a month later ikk but don’t you dare listen to her, you are a beautiful, magical, amazing person! There’s only ever going to be one of you and there’s nothing gross about you! You are seen you are valid and you are beautiful （╹◡╹）♡
Hey, I'm your mom now.
"Be kind to your meatbag," is my new favourite quote
Yessss😂
I haven't finished the video, so I'm going to take this out of context and guess that I shouldn't spank my monkey so often.
I'm a man that had similar insecurities. I always wanted to be thin and fit to go into police and to be attractive. In the end I was not allowed to join, because of my eyes. Something I had absolute no control over. Now I focus on being healthy. It is easier than being hot
Yes...I understand
This is body positivity. She's saying that everyone should love their selves and not hating on a certain group of people. I don't have hip dips but I praise her for talking about it and being like "hey, we all are different. Be kind to yourself". Everyone is beautiful and "love your meat vessel"
Thecnically if we all build lots off legg muscle we would all eventually gett hip dips. Some people just get them easyer.
Yeah that's for people, who make up problems. But there is people, who have genuine problems with their bodies. I'm thinking of men.
I thought my hip dips were just blobs of fat on my upper hip. I never bothered to actually touch it until learning that it was my bone structure. This was such a reassuring video, it actually made me cry.
Edit: I just fixed a spelling error
What was the error
Y does everyone have hip dips I dont
Tufflove 0201
You didn’t watch the video and it shows.
Agreed here. I always thought it was fat
im smart too me to.
Okay but can we just talk about that gorgeous hair it's so pretty
And yet in 2019 people are calling people with red hair ranga (aka orangutan) 🐵🦊
@@imwatchingu4893 I've never heard that. You must travel in some pretty toxic circles.
Ikr
LightlySaltedNuts I live in Australia 🇦🇺 that’s probably why 😂
I am nearing 60, and throughout my life I've always been petite, but not particularly pretty. I am 5ft2in and around 7st6lb, and apart from being heaviest when I had my 7 pregnancies, I've pretty much stayed within half a stone of said weight. I never had teenage spots and never got stretch marks from my pregnancies, not even when I had a 9lb son.Yes, my skin was gorgeous, but because I felt I wasn't 'up to the beauty standards I thought was expected', I didn't consider my skin as a positive, just focused on what was negative in my eyes. So come the menopause, my body just upped and decided to puddle into a lumpy mess..my skin has absolutely no correlation to what on the inside, my boobs have minds of their own and have quietly been introducing themselves to my belly button, and the cellulite is just having a hayday! What I'm actually trying to say is don't focus on the negatives when you have positives! LOL! It's disgustingly unfortunate that social media, etc, makes women feel like their worth is in their looks, because we all know that most certainly isn't true.
" You know i really wanna wear that tight skirt but.........*my damn femurs*!"
I genuinely never felt self-conscious about my "hip-dips" until everyone on the internet was talking about how to get rid of them. But, the stronger my thighs get, the bigger they are and the more pronounced the dip becomes and I'll never be upset about being stronger. Also, Chun Li has hip dips and I love her so that probably also has something to do with how I feel about them.
THIS THOUGH. I had no fucking idea I had hip dips until I saw it on the internet either. People make us concious about some shitty stuff.
ME TOO
I always thought that hip dips made me look more athletic
@@maryduke1018 Same! I thought it meant I had a lot of muscle. xD Most female body builders seem to have them so I was just over here patting myself on the back lmao.
That Chun Li quantifier is everything.
Her voice and everything about her
She’s beautiful, so gorgeous
literally shes such a fucking queen
Ya she’s seriously causing me to have a lesbian aneurysm 😂
RIGHT! She oozes class
3 more likes 2 666 lets gooooo
I'm so gay for her.
Hi Rachel, I would just like to say: THANK YOU, so much!! I have literally NEVER commented on a youtube video in my life, but you inspired me so much, that I had to tell you this. I have spent all of my adult life (and some years before), feeling insecure about my body (my 'tummy rolls', 'huge thighs/hips', imagined flaws, chubby cheeks, double/triple chins (depending on the angle/photo).... but now, after becoming a left leg amputee 4 years ago - I've ironically learned to love myself more than I ever have! I'm still a long way from total self acceptance, and wonder if I'll ever actually get there - but I want to say: seeing you show and talk about your body insecurities in such a real, honest and relatable way gave me life. I have now been inspired to finally post a video for other amputee women like myself, as well as curvy women of all walks of life... so once again: Thank you, thank you, thank you! X
I've always HATED my hip dips and wanted to have that perfect hourglass figure. Thank you for making me feel less alone. I haven't met many people that have them and it's always made me feel weird, I thought I was just fat around one section of my hips. I feel better about them now!
Samantha McGraw i always thought that they were really pretty and also wanted them
@@X96o99 wait really? That's surprising to me! Thank you!!
Samantha McGraw I thought that too!!
Samantha McGraw girl I felt the same way too!
same, after this video i realised that i have them, AND i don't give a fuck because . BODY POSITIVITY.
Whenever I wear a skirt or high waisted pants: I look like a box
Garbage Boy Stink Man SAME
Felt that :/
High waisted flowy skirts are our friends
Garbage Boy Stink Man sameee
Same
“I want to wear that pencil skirt, but my damn femurs! Am I right!?” Literally laughed out loud! 😂
This helps me so much, I always hated my body and couldn’t understand why I had hips like that and never felt “feminine “ so relieved and can’t believe how diluted our societies ideal image of the female anatomy is..thank you lovely ❤️
THANK YOU! I'm 14 years old and you can't imagine how much I needed this.
Hello my age and insecurity twin.
Stay strong sisters! Some people think it's attractive to have "hip dips" anyway. If you look at beauty standards through time you'll land perfectly in one era. It's all silly.
Same
Same😭
Hello! I wish I had seen this 21 years ago when I was 14.
OH MY GOD MY WHOLE LIFE I THOUGHT I JUST HAD WEIRD FAT DISTRIBUTION!!!
Same homie
Lmaoooo I thought the kind of underwear I was wearing was forcing the fat up there and I'd try to massage it down again
@@preciousoh705 i would try to wear my pants belt line up higher to squish the fat back down lmao
too many young girls wearing hip hugger jeans for too long gave MANY female bodies muffin tops. And having _hip dips_ built in only shows it off more....
I grew up in the high waist jeans era that seemed to almost tuck under your boobs.
While not the best fashion trend, it kept my hip dip body shape hourglass. The waistband didn't cut into my hip bones, it was all smooshed into my jeans....never needing a _spank_ to smooth my shape
It's like fashion brought about the anti-girdle body shape
Same here
i was wondering what would happen if i looked up hip dips and went to images,all it was was "how to get rid of hip dips" and "cost of surgery for hip dips" its really sad
Wait, what? There is surgery for it?
@@solesuna yes im sure there is some kind of implant that can give you a more rounded hip instead of the dip
Holy shit! I'm not a critic of plastic surgery, but that sounds like a painful waste of money.
@@emilyreynolds4185 i agree!
The same happened to me! I was expecting to see uplifting pics of people being happy in them :((
I have a friend who calls hers "violin hips", you'd think that would be a way of feeling more positive about it, but she's got the same issue