What a sterling conversation….! I would give anything to share with a beloved person but because of the diagnostic term, I cannot make it available to them. I am just so glad others will hear you both and broaden their minds and actions to improve mutual respect around neurodivergence.
Biting my tongue on your behalf. And yes, fawning is painful. And then there we go neurological drives intensity of trauma reflexes. The coping/cower/covering appeasing, is tenuous. Responsibility to fix things I break, to keep track going forward as best one can, and where does the reciprocity underlying social rhythm land? I love what plan A and plan B can offer, Patti. I like that “no more name calling” as in yes, no character assassination. Aggressiveness was unwarranted. Where there is education there is the opportunity for change!!! What a GREAT conversation between two wonderful minds/hearts. Can’t wait to learn more about persistent demand avoidance. That is REAL. But this is everything: it is not personal. The $10,000 incentive is the novelty button that kicks the chain of dopamine into action. It is about the amount of the brain which gets recruited thus causes the fatigue crash after the task!
What a sterling conversation….! I would give anything to share with a beloved person but because of the diagnostic term, I cannot make it available to them. I am just so glad others will hear you both and broaden their minds and actions to improve mutual respect around neurodivergence.
Biting my tongue on your behalf. And yes, fawning is painful. And then there we go neurological drives intensity of trauma reflexes. The coping/cower/covering appeasing, is tenuous. Responsibility to fix things I break, to keep track going forward as best one can, and where does the reciprocity underlying social rhythm land? I love what plan A and plan B can offer, Patti. I like that “no more name calling” as in yes, no character assassination. Aggressiveness was unwarranted. Where there is education there is the opportunity for change!!! What a GREAT conversation between two wonderful minds/hearts. Can’t wait to learn more about persistent demand avoidance. That is REAL. But this is everything: it is not personal. The $10,000 incentive is the novelty button that kicks the chain of dopamine into action. It is about the amount of the brain which gets recruited thus causes the fatigue crash after the task!