I have this personal problem of getting highly obsessed with certain people. I'll keep on daydreaming about them all the time and it feels more than real. It feels like I'll meet them one day and they'll be glad to meet me too . If they have a breakdown, I feel the affects of their breakdown in my life. This is how strong the obsession has went for me. Sometimes it feels impossible to stop the way I feel.
That is relatable to me. I had to ask this question: Are you fixated on a certain person or group of people all the time, or do you get bored and move on to someone else to obsess over after a period of time?
@@jellyj1696 I have a certain period for obsessing over different people. My obsession spiral varies for different personalities. It feels out of control to stop obsessing, but sometimes I move out of the spiral unknowingly and then I begin obsessing over someone else again. For me the cycle of obsession begins from Infatuation, Crush, and the end game is Obsession, which ends depending on the consistency of my indulgence into that person, even in my daydreams.
It's happening right now .. I have a crush on someone because it feels like we have so much in common.. this person doesn't know me, they could already have a relationship.. it sucks and I want this bubble to burst because I even day dream about meeting them since I know they're in a state not too far from mine. I don't normally feel like this so I'm a bit freaked out.
@@coffeehousephilosopher7936 Burst that bubble asap cause if you don't, you'll be filled with regrets later on. Recovery is a long process, I wish you don't go through that.
I’m obsessed with a celebrity, but I don’t think he’s my friend. I know he’s a celebrity and he doesn’t know I exist… I don’t get how people believe they’re actually friends with a celebrity they’ve never met. I think my love for him is based on escapism. He’s a comfort to me because I can escape my own reality and focus on his movies etc.
Kinda feel sorry for the people obsessing over fake online personas people put on social media, ie. streamers, youtubers etc. Especially to the point they donate money to them on daily basis for validation, hard to believe they don't see they're being used as suckers.
I agree with you but it’s clear a lot of people are lacking in self worth. Growing up with social media during childhood years is toxic as it distracts from an individual learning about themselves and their capabilities to learning about fake people on social media and wanting to be them or have what they have which 99.9% of the time is fake. Influencers don’t even have whatever they’re selling, but they’re the new age con artists.
0:54 😳😅😅. My goodness. I didn’t realise the many types of mental health issues I need to protect my son from. I find it shocking that SO many people today LACK self love, self appreciation, self respect, self esteem, self worth, self confidence, self acceptance… Humans need to clearly limit their exposure of social media and ACTUALLY live in real life and have real life friends and acquaintances. I’m convinced half of these mental heath issues will diminish and more good will be seen in this world if social media was not the most important part in people’s lives. Anyways, it’s good to know these issues exist out in the world and I hope those that suffer from it will find healing and peace to live a joyful life. 💟☮️🕉️
Some ppl definitely get wayyy too invested with celebrities and influencers but I think part of the problem is there’s nothing in place to let ppl know they are about to cross the line or taking things too far
people judgement will ruin the life. simple answer move on.. or keep move silence. Or another way keep judging.. even my friends and relatives thinking that way but I always remain silent not giving any reply to anyone. Or another way to live alone in life.
This is a idiotic argument because billions of people for thousands of years have claimed to have a personal relationship with Lord Jesus even though they never met him face-to-face. Even though he has not been in the flesh for thousands of years.
@@Qodovah Really helpful simpleton your comments reflect the way you are living your life personally which I can conclude is overfed undernourished self neglecting your own physical freedom from the inside out your entire life. So you don't feel alone that is the same common basic average normal low ranking civilian stupidity that has been whimpering across the landscapes practically since the dawn of creation into what we have today a diminished quality of life primarily due to global pollution only getting worse with each and every breath laugh smile giggle right into denial that you.
@@dopaminey9946 I said what I said as a response to somebody Suggested I could not understand (Victoria Lee) the way I mentioned because I had never met her in the physical okay? now if we're going to talk about people being their best the most highly evolved aspects of martial arts clearly demonstrate how one may become physically fit mentally sound spiritually balanced being able to express physical freedom which is key in a person being able to constantly consistently live up to the pleasure potential responsibility of femininity and masculinity. for Were all not created equal nonetheless the common denominator within between us all and those polar opposite extreme points of gender and lifestyles Bloodlines religion social classification so forth and so on. is having a equal obligation and responsibility in living in a manner that suggests confirms validating one as being true towards love honor and the creation of life. for anything less is Feeble-minded physically inadequate submissive subservient which may be genetically inherited or a simple generic, synthetic, desperate learned by example Behavior nowadays a possible side effect of global pollution maybe a combination of all combined into one. either way the truth is what sets one's fee for all eternity not a theatrical falsified sense of care concern for oneself and others.
@@dopaminey9946 Being better does not mean you are conducting your life in the most efficient way that it's humanly possible. it just means you're one step above the common basic average normal overfed undernourished soft lazy self neglecting physical freedom Mass majority.
K-pop stans, I’m sorry but almost every one of them is struggling with escapism
I have this personal problem of getting highly obsessed with certain people. I'll keep on daydreaming about them all the time and it feels more than real. It feels like I'll meet them one day and they'll be glad to meet me too . If they have a breakdown, I feel the affects of their breakdown in my life. This is how strong the obsession has went for me. Sometimes it feels impossible to stop the way I feel.
That is relatable to me. I had to ask this question: Are you fixated on a certain person or group of people all the time, or do you get bored and move on to someone else to obsess over after a period of time?
@@jellyj1696 I have a certain period for obsessing over different people. My obsession spiral varies for different personalities. It feels out of control to stop obsessing, but sometimes I move out of the spiral unknowingly and then I begin obsessing over someone else again. For me the cycle of obsession begins from Infatuation, Crush, and the end game is Obsession, which ends depending on the consistency of my indulgence into that person, even in my daydreams.
Same
It's happening right now .. I have a crush on someone because it feels like we have so much in common.. this person doesn't know me, they could already have a relationship.. it sucks and I want this bubble to burst because I even day dream about meeting them since I know they're in a state not too far from mine. I don't normally feel like this so I'm a bit freaked out.
@@coffeehousephilosopher7936 Burst that bubble asap cause if you don't, you'll be filled with regrets later on. Recovery is a long process, I wish you don't go through that.
I’m obsessed with a celebrity, but I don’t think he’s my friend. I know he’s a celebrity and he doesn’t know I exist… I don’t get how people believe they’re actually friends with a celebrity they’ve never met. I think my love for him is based on escapism. He’s a comfort to me because I can escape my own reality and focus on his movies etc.
Thank you! this was informative and terrifying.
Kinda feel sorry for the people obsessing over fake online personas people put on social media, ie. streamers, youtubers etc.
Especially to the point they donate money to them on daily basis for validation, hard to believe they don't see they're being used as suckers.
I agree with you but it’s clear a lot of people are lacking in self worth. Growing up with social media during childhood years is toxic as it distracts from an individual learning about themselves and their capabilities to learning about fake people on social media and wanting to be them or have what they have which 99.9% of the time is fake. Influencers don’t even have whatever they’re selling, but they’re the new age con artists.
Having huge crush on someone is a prime example of this phenomenon
0:54 😳😅😅. My goodness. I didn’t realise the many types of mental health issues I need to protect my son from. I find it shocking that SO many people today LACK self love, self appreciation, self respect, self esteem, self worth, self confidence, self acceptance…
Humans need to clearly limit their exposure of social media and ACTUALLY live in real life and have real life friends and acquaintances. I’m convinced half of these mental heath issues will diminish and more good will be seen in this world if social media was not the most important part in people’s lives.
Anyways, it’s good to know these issues exist out in the world and I hope those that suffer from it will find healing and peace to live a joyful life. 💟☮️🕉️
Some ppl definitely get wayyy too invested with celebrities and influencers but I think part of the problem is there’s nothing in place to let ppl know they are about to cross the line or taking things too far
Oli london and jimin
lmfao
My god I want to be in a parasocial relationship with Kermit the frog
Aristotle is my buddy.
people judgement will ruin the life. simple answer move on.. or keep move silence. Or another way keep judging.. even my friends and relatives thinking that way but I always remain silent not giving any reply to anyone. Or another way to live alone in life.
Okay.
This is a idiotic argument because billions of people for thousands of years have claimed to have a personal relationship with Lord Jesus even though they never met him face-to-face. Even though he has not been in the flesh for thousands of years.
haha i came to comment just this. We´ve been doing parasocial dynamics with gods since always.
@@Qodovah Really helpful simpleton your comments reflect the way you are living your life personally which I can conclude is overfed undernourished self neglecting your own physical freedom from the inside out your entire life. So you don't feel alone that is the same common basic average normal low ranking civilian stupidity that has been whimpering across the landscapes practically since the dawn of creation into what we have today a diminished quality of life primarily due to global pollution only getting worse with each and every breath laugh smile giggle right into denial that you.
Jesus/God does say we will be better people if we follow him and his beliefs...sort of the same, I suppose.
@@dopaminey9946 I said what I said as a response to somebody Suggested I could not understand (Victoria Lee) the way I mentioned because I had never met her in the physical okay? now if we're going to talk about people being their best the most highly evolved aspects of martial arts clearly demonstrate how one may become physically fit mentally sound spiritually balanced being able to express physical freedom which is key in a person being able to constantly consistently live up to the pleasure potential responsibility of femininity and masculinity. for Were all not created equal nonetheless the common denominator within between us all and those polar opposite extreme points of gender and lifestyles Bloodlines religion social classification so forth and so on. is having a equal obligation and responsibility in living in a manner that suggests confirms validating one as being true towards love honor and the creation of life. for anything less is Feeble-minded physically inadequate submissive subservient which may be genetically inherited or a simple generic, synthetic, desperate learned by example Behavior nowadays a possible side effect of global pollution maybe a combination of all combined into one. either way the truth is what sets one's fee for all eternity not a theatrical falsified sense of care concern for oneself and others.
@@dopaminey9946 Being better does not mean you are conducting your life in the most efficient way that it's humanly possible. it just means you're one step above the common basic average normal overfed undernourished soft lazy self neglecting physical freedom Mass majority.
Everyone can invest more time in at least one area in their life✌️
damm, thats kinda sad
people who do this are cringe
true true
Interesting to have "followers". How about UA-camrs saying "love you all.." etc. grifty grift 😅