You will LOSE FRIENDS.. As You GROW OLD and Succeed!
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- Опубліковано 2 чер 2022
- Yes, It is true that you will lose a lot of friends as you grow and old succeed!
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Varun Mayya, a computer grad from Manipal Institute of Technology, was an early beginner in the startup ecosystem, having founded his first venture, Jobspire at the age of 19. The popular Indian recruitment platform which saw nearly 190,000 applicants sign up and over 1,500 companies. Jobspire not only became one of the youngest teams to raise VC money but also saw an exit for an undisclosed sum in early 2017. Later he began digital freelancing for clients in the United States.
Varun has also co-authored the book, Pyjama Profit along with Abhinav Chhikara. It is an ultimate guide to millennials for a sustainable freelance career.
Varun recently received Best Education Influencer Award by Entrepreneur India at the Influencer Summit & Awards 2021.
Varun Mayya is the Founder CEO of buildonscenes.com. The company has recently developed an application called 'Scenes by Avalon', full community management suite for influencers and creators. It is a platform which allows forum, chat and live audio-based discussions with their audiences.
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I am 27 now and the biggest lesson that I have learnt is that there is a BIG difference between a friend and an acquaintance.
Can you differentiate the two?
I'm 28 I agree with you
I’m 100 steps ahead: just never had friends to begin with
U need hugs ?
@@srijan0303 i need 😭
@@cosMYs891 lemme give you a hug (no hetero😳🌈)
Ikr look at these idiots with friends
*cant be me*
same here i also not made friend in college and i am learning blockchain ,reading books , exercise daily now because i have my own time
Love it I am 18 and I have taken a gap year. My clg stars this fall and i can actually relate to most of the things that you said
Well in my case my energy spiked when I grew older, by the time I reached 29. I used to have associates but not real friends. But suddenly at age 29 i had the urge to socialize and form a great circle. But by this time most people I knew suddenly lost energy and interest in any fun stuff which they used to do earlier. I used to have more family contacts when younger but now i am trying to reduce family contacts and increase friend contacts. I have this urge to go party with some like minded people in Goa which i never had before
That is when a hobby comes to ur rescue, if u have at least one hobby which u enjoy and pursue passionately, u can connect with people of same interest, same energy and obviously be friends 😊
Varun you literally have a sharp sense of understanding situations,moments & human emotions and articulating it in your videos finesse!! Can't agree more!! Awesome stuff!!🙌👌
Ya he is genius
As we grow older and succeed we lost all our contacts with friends 💯.....just like a rocket....as it goes upwards its parts get detach and at the last only the main part lands💯
Agreed to all the points mentioned.
I too was discussing the same thing one day with my friend like why most of our friends are not together anymore and why there is loneliness in our lives.
This is the reason why I was little concerned about moving to New City for my job location because now I don't have any need to make new friends like we used to have in school and college but the thing is that life without friends in a new City can be quite boring and troublesome at times.
You are not going to mars......Though if you move to city you can find like minded people in collegues or roommates.....
@@sudhakar3991 thanks Sherlock
Absolutely, toxic people drain the Life out of you, Let alone when u have to see them everyday.
Hey Varun, super relatable video there. But I think we can stay 'friends' with school/college buddies. Yeah planning meet-ups and stuff, no-one's gonna do that but maybe a pact could work. A pact to go on a short trip during holidays or even some weekend just for 3-4 days. This reduces the effort to once a year, which I think is pretty do-able life-long.
I realised quite recently just a few days back before this video, and this video literally summarized it. I have quite come to a conclusion that 'beautiful relations dissapear in the midst of ambitions'!
Wow. This video is like perfectly sequenced my thoughts on friendships.
Well that "bye"at the end was awkward lol, but damn, you spill some crazy truths. Also, your videos are Podcast friendly, I'm gonna start listening to it while workout - Not too fast or slow, just complete value :)
There's been nothing so relatable to me as this video was ❣️🥺 , i never ever actually comment but this made me, you are one of my idols, inspirations and role models, I wish you good luck for "Avalon"
Why some friends betray, and some don't? What is the science behind friendship? How to identify those who don't betray? Is there any reason why they don't betray? Could you please make a video about it, or answer my question
Me tooo want to knew it bro such as you
I think it's human nature to be selfish and we all had time where we also betrayed somebody.
I Don't think so one can identify instantly but yeah subtle signs as their friends and their little habits like flaking at last moment or trying to get you humiliated/or trying to dominate you and a lot of other things,
"How they treat people who are less powerful/less in status than them"is my way to Know.
No there isn't a specific general reason for anyone to betray and not betray somebody it's about their character and what their core is made up of.
The people who keep in touch leaving behind everything(selfish, hatred , jealousy, competitiveness..) in life are only friends. And if you want a friend try reaching out to them..
But hangout with them and then don't think of only gaining from them...just be there and talk about stuffs..
You see people who are super busy in life like Varun will suggest that always be around them with whom you can become the best version of yourself..
And that's not exactly bad either, it's practical approach, and it should make you better person, but those productive person around you are also selfish trying to achieve their goals, and that's not friendship...
Friendship requires sacrifices..can you waste time for your friend to spend time with them? when there's whole lot of work to do, handle business? Can you make time for a friend?
If yes then you'll get true friends in life who will value you and will know that this guy values " relationships" and don't think everyone as products or target them as an target to achieve...
People when become rich they become lonely and they start spending money to have bunch of people around them ( fake friends) to make them feel good about life and their success was worth it..
See I might be wrong completely bcuz in this selfish world , you can't really trust anyone..but it's upto you if you want to keep trying or not.. Be genuine and you'll get genuine people around you..who will stay ..
Friendship is a give and take. Give and take can be some agenda, contacts or even love and support. No one’s gonna stay with you if you do not offer them ‘something’. So, I feel people tend to betray when they feel that they have nothing else to get from you and some friends stay with you because they do get something out of that friendship, guidance, love, support etc.
And literally there’s no way to identify if someone’s gonna betray you or not, human beings are just selfish. If their best interests align with staying with you, they will never betray otherwise you never know.
I changed my friends circle 4 times in last 2 month of college , every time I leave them i thought i will be lonely but instead i find better and like minded people.
Thanks Varun , You stopped me making friends with benchmate and motivated me to grow socially and explore people .
took a drop year for jee and going through everything he said .. now i do have a lil bit hint about the future .
This content is gold standard ❤️
Thanks for the insights Varun
In school i felt lonely ,i felt no one wants to talk to me
Later in life i got youtube
Here everyone wants to talk me and got them to be listened wanted to tell their stoies via podcast vlogs much more
Its awesome
Much needed video, Thanks Varun.
This was unique and less discussed topic.. We need more videos like this Varun.. 💕
This
channel is sooooo underrated
This video was much needed. Thank you!
Hey congratulations for your 100k in advance
I would love to see u talking in Kannada 😍 how many agree leave a like and Varun will
If yes please replay with a big "YES"
YES
Thats avery unique perspective, thanks for sharing Varun !
This video is epic !!
I only have 2-3 close friends, I wanna make more !!
Please make more such videos !
Hi Varun, this is very relatable for me. I had a circle of friends for whom I was a convenience or the person they can reach out whenever they want to share something, and I was somehow happy with it because I got attention for a small span of time. I also relate and agree with your suggestion of marrying a best friend. I have a best friend (it started as convenience friendship for both of us) and now we are together for more than 13 years. We struggle to kind of understand each other grassroot problems or convince each other (may be our friendship was based on convenience at first place). This makes me question if I should really my best friend (who may be a good listener at the moment of sharing but we are not helpful with each other emotional problems). Would ove your suggestions on this.
So getting friend zoned is a sign of future marriage 😏😏
Great positive message right there
Watched first video of this channel and it is soo apt!!
This is exactly what I really need.
It's also due to Dunbar's Number. As per Dunbar's theory at any given moment we are connected in a network of 150 people at Max. But the close one's ideally are 5-6.
Absolute truth!
I was thinking about this past days.
Now, a video comes out confirms my concern.
Best video so far 🎉 I am glad I watched it at right time
Keep up the good work Varun 😎
I got a clarity in between colleagues and friends ❤
i have not made friend in college and i am learning blockchain ,reading books , exercise daily now because i have my own time
Bold of you to assume i had friends to begin with.
Yeah that is happening with me right now
First of all coke don't make you look cool or this is not a good thing to promote . Second thing that this is a really good video because it is relatable ❤️
Whatever he said is absolutely correct
I'm 17 but I don't have friends. When I borred I watch some financial content.
Harsh reality.
Thanos would have said - "this is inevitable"
Love your content 😘😘
Facts mate
Fact after college we start less communicating
Man you're the elder brother i never had. And unfortunately I'm the elder sibling so nobody pays much attention to me😐. Thanks for making these videos
Awesome 👌
Watching these videos make me realise how good my childhood was 😭
Thank you
This video is🤯🤯🤯🤯 . What is 'The Secret' of @Varun Mayya 's intel?
Why you are so amazing to listen to?😢😢😢😢
Man u have great realization
Be friend who you are married. Have optimistic friend and neglect pessimistic & toxic friends which drain out energy.Remimber what you do today is impact decade.
Path of success is loneniless.
The differences between allies, friends and brothers is best understood the sooner it is coz I sometimes regret having given so many chances to so many fuck all people. (Brothers might be an overstatement due to my age, media consumption and practical experiences).
Pls make a video how can someone struggle to live with toxic parrent
Thats why i don t make friends because in the End we Know all will be seperates
No need to overthink and complicate things. Don't try to make friends, actual friendships are made without you knowing it.
Giving me Kunal Shah vibes with regards to your understanding the human psyche 🙋🏼♂️
major problem: I do not have female friends. Seems like the concept of marriage might be an issue huh? 🤦🏼♂️
Then wedding is not meant for me... 😳🔥🤝
This hit me real hard
Bitter truth 😢
Make friendship with them who don't drain your battery....
Hey man I am curious to know exactly what your startup does (Avalon) is there any material I can read or watch to understand the basics of your business .
Good thumbnail nice concept
So can we say for you to be successful losing friends happen organically because difference in future goals and objectives to achieve in life .
Also the common interests/work becomes different, so eventually there is very less talking points.
Eg- You love cricket but your friend doesn't.
Nice
What is reason/secret/cause behind your smartness/knowledge? I get naval's vibe from you .
Bro please tell me how u changed the expression of friends actors from happy to sad 🙏🙏🙏
It's lonely at the top explained in 7 mins
Woah
I don't have any friends at 16
And here me at 17 who has just 1 friend
👍👍👍
I have no friends since past year...
XD super
Deja vu lol
Yelling out the truth :)
Hi varun how old are you , as you have done a lot and influenced society very positively
29 - 30
And this dude looks like a vampire
bro only 16 k views in your channel recently ? maybe you should make video on a controversy ?
Drinking Unites people , this friendship last forever , 😬🎉
5:48-👀👀
What if you got no friends, I'm 19 and dont have any
Don't worry right people comes with time
Wow....that was .....sad
I am 19
Now i understand why marriage is needed.
Lost 3 closest friend
Hey Varun, how to make friends online?
Down to my last 2 (:
Don't know but it feels like - "Deja Vu, I've seen this video before"
Same
1.Friends gradually disappear.
2.Almost all videos talk of hostel, college, friends-same thoughts in different expressions.
Writer's block.
"Stop creating content" is the best idea.
and i am losing at teen....
Le me:- I'm growing old
I'm lost friends (almost everyone)
...but wait I'm not seeing any signs of success.
on death bed.....Realise I'm screwed
I literally have 0 friends
😀😀 My friend's are top valuable authors and youtube creator
I literally have 0 friends , is it bad? I mean is it gonna affect my future or something?
No it’s not! As long as you are doing well in school (if you are in HS), working on improving and developing yourself ( communication skills, soft and hard skills) etc… you will be fine and who knows you might meet ppl you genuinely connect with! Also, remember most ppl are “friends” with others out of comfort or to stop from being lonely. Plenty of ppl I know have friends yet they feel lonely. Loneliness is a state of mind and should enjoying spending time with yourself. If you want friends go join clubs, volunteering, get into a hobby etc
Elevation needs separation.
I am losing my friends now ,my age is 20🙂
the top is lonely.
~some cool bald guy from greece
Then I don't want yo go to the TOP
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@@nonexistentialcrisis7933 cool name
@@oldgangster4119 XXD
I lost 90% of my friends in my gap year:)
College?
@@cas3885 BITS Pilani
@@theworkingman2467 so you dropped after 12th for bits?
@@cas3885 yes and bits is not that easy to get into
@@theworkingman2467 bruh I'm in 12th and I'm also aiming bits. Ik it ain't ez😔
Already have 0😎
Dekh bhai, jo acha lagta hai usko friend banna, nahi jamta toh maat banaa 😅
I wonder who your friends are?