10 Life Lessons I Learned The HARD Way!
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- Опубліковано 24 лип 2024
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Varun Mayya, a computer grad from Manipal Institute of Technology, was an early beginner in the startup ecosystem, having founded his first venture, Jobspire at the age of 19. The popular Indian recruitment platform which saw nearly 190,000 applicants sign up and over 1,500 companies. Jobspire not only became one of the youngest teams to raise VC money but also saw an exit for an undisclosed sum in early 2017. Later he began digital freelancing for clients in the United States.
Varun has also co-authored the book, Pyjama Profit along with Abhinav Chhikara. It is an ultimate guide to millennials for a sustainable freelance career.
Varun recently received Best Education Influencer Award by Entrepreneur India at the Influencer Summit & Awards 2021.
Varun Mayya is the Founder CEO of buildonscenes.com. The company has recently developed an application called 'Scenes by Avalon', full community management suite for influencers and creators. It is a platform which allows forum, chat and live audio-based discussions with their audiences.
Lo behold!
0:35 Brush your teeth 2x a day
2:12 Don't hold on to your opinions too early
3:19 Understand the underlying currents
4:26 People are a product of circumstance
5:32 Choose your life partner wisely
6:11 Nobody's truly there for you
6:45 If they don't bear the brunt of that advice, don't listen
8:44 Make friends with yourself
10:13 Learn to code
12:18 Build a network and keep it warm
Thank you so much!
Thank you for summary to screenshot.
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Thank you ❤
thanks
Point No7 👍 . Even Krishna in Bhagwat Geeta last chapter says to Arjuna that "Even though I have said whatever I wanted to say but it should be your decision to fight the war as the consequences are also yours" .
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Jai Sree Krishna 🚩☺️
@@ajith.giove069 "everywhere" ? Lol. When did I post about Geeta anywhere ?
If you are seeing Geeta everywhere then it's problem of your algorithm or may be you are spending too much time on UA-cam. I never see Bhagwat Geeta anywhere...lol..
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Also, stop giving unsolicited advices. It just shows lack of civility. (Did I just do it...ohh the irony....lol...but you need it) . Take care. Bye.
@@ajith.giove069 lol. You should point out if I made any factual inaccuracies..
I am not trying to connect anything.. It's there written what I have said..
I hope you develop a bit of analysis and comprehension skills before arriving at a conclusion
@@jitinsharma8902 well said! It is written and ur conclusion is right
Man...you're the wise elder brother that literally everyone needs.
3:18 pls make a dedicated video on particular topic, What was your experience? How Varun is so empathetic now vs then? Journey, Lessons
I’ve recently come across this channel and its the best thing happened to me ♥️♥️♥️ Thanku Varun ✨ you’re a saviour 🙌🏻
Hey Varun! Your content is great and you're too. I've a request that please share your whole life journey in a short video, that from where you started, what all things you accomplished in that journey and your final result till now. ❤️
Really good!!! Thanks so much for sharing your insights 🙏
Man you are so underrated. You share valuable details about stuffs Which you have done in real life and have experience of. And there are those who give out suggestions and never did that thing in there real life. Hats off to you.
That was awesome..
Varun Sir.
Most of the things you told about, were probably matching with me also
You are, definitely, wise beyond your age! I will rate this as one of your best videos, and it do come across with certain humility. Keep it up and keep going. All the Best!
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How old are varun??
Thank you for sharing , very useful !
Great Advice bro!!!
These 3 , I relate to most...
Pt 3(understanding the underlying meaning.
Pt 8(Make a rapport with yourself)
Pt 10( networking)
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Really thanks for these kind of videos man.
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Bahot kaam ki baaten, really very very helpful❤️
Want to know more about talking to another self. Pls make a video if possible
Every point mentioned here is worth applying man. Thank you
A very knowledgeable vedio, thanks a lot for sharing ❤
Dude !
Best Motivational And Informative Video Ever! Thank you
wow This was a amzaing video i realy liked all the thing you said since it is small things that we ignore but have great impact
Thank you so much for such a nice video 🙂
wow, loving this channel.
I love how practical you are
Just downloaded scenes Android app , loving the experience
Love you brother❤! I can feel better just listening to you!
I am glad, I found you. YYou are a young guy with a lot of wisdom
On topic of brushing the teeth I can suggest one thing which is 'oil pulling'. Its a oral care method which one can add in daily routine. Please look it up there is a bunch of study have been done on this thing and personally I have recently started it feels good not a problem yet.
On point man 🎉🎉🎉
Ist time i subsribed a channel right away. Great job
Yes sir! I too have the same rapio with my inner self as you and I to talk myself as a crazy person among all, that feels sometimes wired for myself.
You are always awesome
21 skills to learn 21days..man bcoz of that video i am making money otherwise i would have been a waste thing
Thank you for everything
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- brush your teeth twice a day and flossing is nice too. (me who now has a skincare routine too)
- don't hold on to your opinions too dearly. sometimes our opinions end up being wrong. be easy going.
- understand the currents of other people's emotion. what a person says and what they're really meaning can be different, even at work. the actual substance and the underlying emotional current.
- people are a product of their circumstances. past behaviour is the best predictor of one's future times, unless they have crazy awareness. the way we behave, integrity, work ethic, or basically anything, the personality doesn't change much. the optimist is always gon be an optimist.
- life gets easier with a great partner. it takes a lot of effort to surround yourself with good people. (me who doesn't really crave a single partner but a really strong knit community of friends)
- gyan choxna ain't rly nice unless the one who's advising holds a responsibility too. theyr're not gonna bear responsibility for what happens. its ideal of somebody who can share the responsibility with you. "maybe use me as a factor in your decision but don't let me make the decisions for you at the end of the day".
- make friends with yourself. f. lol. my self talk. i do it with myself i share a really wholesome with the me inside me and there's trust. just that it looks like naman, at least these days.
- learn to code :') unless you're selling a house. and anyway pitchy loves communicating and it is nice to communicate with everyone and everything, which for some reason includes machines too :'
- build a network and keep it warm. (what you know - young) vs (who you know - old) matters, people who you can call not everyone is gonna return your call or help you in a crisis, but maybe one of them will, it doesn't hurt to build a network. solo yolo will be caught like a sitting duck he said that i didn't really get but otay.
so the ankita girl that i am, is a very people's person, i don't really have any significant skill but i do have many many many people that i could turn to, everytime i need something done. not just for myself, i connect many people, an hour ago knk called me and asked if i knew anyone who could help her brother solve their dbms k question paper. this is just one random academic thing that happened today. but ive had multiple such experiences. ehh anyway. how do i make this comment private now.
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thanks varun bhaiya for your amazing advices.
You're awesome bro! Thank for these advices.
Varun is honestly a life saver. My man doesn't know how he's been a medium of real life change for me. Kudos to you brother!
bhaiya, video on what should we chase in life? what's our purpose? where we humans are going?
Some of these tips are really valuable 👍
man please make a vid or any type of content related to how to gain leverage in AR/VR
This man dropping gems in every video 🔥
What you described is parts work , there can be as low as 2 and as many as hundreds of parts within us
Be always unbiased about your and your family members health
Hey Varun, Pls make a video on how you take care of your health and supplements you take
That point talking with yourself. I do it all the time bro. Like even if it’s a small test I say myself you can do this buddy all izz well. It’s not a magic word but it’s like a self-pep-talk
I am glad that it was not a "Click-bait". top 5 point were totally align with my way of thinking.
Nice bro thanks ❤ love from my side
Really helpful !!
Paused the video, went to brush, resumed. I’m gonna make this a habit. Cheers buddy, great points!!
I am 50 (well right now 2 pegs down). What i learned in my 50's you are Expressing all that in your 20's or 30's. I SUGGEST EVERYONE TO FOLLOW THE ADVICE , ELSE YOU END UP JUST PUTTING UP COMMENT AFTER 2 PEGS DOWN.
but ... do share...how maturity comes, i still feel very immature .
This video help me a lot
9:30
Yeah I knew I had another person in me.
He said so many times abt a decision I was not able tomake that decision it was way too hard.
But once I listened to it ,
Maan truly, atleast I safed me frm doin junk.
thank you varun
interesting mindset !!
I found Your content...is must watch for newcommers
@varun mayya please make video on how to form a habit
Hey Varun, just want to say thankyou for sharing your experiences :)
I'm also a introvert but I can't maintain that relationships I want you to advice me
True about teeth brushing and flossing , saves teeth for decades! Things change over time so yes opinions would be outdated possibly.
You said "i could speak kannada" thats amazing 😊
12:24 ' when you are old is about who you know'. Shouldn't it be other way around? I know so many people, but they don't know me😥
I was very good at coding and i almost knew everything back in 10th standard and 12 th standard.
My school had a BLUE java curriculum and in the college i could nail C language easily with my base in blue J.
I completed my engineering from mechanical branch because my parents forced me to do so! Can i still accomplish something in coding if i know the basics of C and blue J.
please help me currently i am banker in a government bank but i don't like it at all!
PLEASE HELP!
Yes bro I can feel you... May be you can try coding to get remote works or freelancing may be it will take time but you can try for one year sincerely along with your job then decide whether it is making you happy and getting paid or it is not getting connect to you..
So watch codedamn youtube channel he had website and course where you can learn and get remote work based on the assignments you do thier and also watch
Kunal kushwaha youtube channel he also suggests everyone to try for remote jobs
Last one 🙌🏻🙌🏻
Thank you
Very helpful lessons
Varun=Big Brother💙
Amazing Man!!
Wonderful ❤
There is a low but constant high frequency sound in the video. Around 16000Hz-17000Hz.
You might have missed it because of the decreased hearing spectrum in adults.
Remember it for future.
Nice video nonetheless.
You have mentioned person doesn't change much. But if person is constantly doing some things to change. won't that change person. In attitude or in other ways?
Hi broo
I don't have any knowledge in coding but I am very much interested.I think you are the right person to guide me for my start. Can u plz help me How to & Where to start
Now this is GOLD
dude, wish I could work with you to learn more.
Adhbutavagide. Nimma salahegalanna khanditavagi use maadtini. Let me see the change
For anyone who is completely new to coding, can you suggest some of the ways to start it off ?
I have a video on exactly that, feel free to check it out
great stuff
Varun sir could please make a video on ur experience of coding.. how you started.. what are the languages that a beginner should start with... And how many languages should be enough for one.. please could you make a video on this🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
Feel free to check my videos incase you want to hear from a working professional
By the way, V, loved the video. Keep creating such genuine and authentic contents.
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If you could please make a roadmap I mean I am from commerce background I dont have any roadmap like what to do after one thing so a small advice kind of roadmap would be helpful
Never expected varun mayya saying the first point as brush your teeth twice a day.
Valued by seeing your videos.
Good content!
How to Cade without computer
where to learn coding from RESOURCES of course i don't trust all resources
You are my Guru 🙏🏻
It's way better to follow a creator followed by few lakhs than millions..
Man , This was Powerful.
i just wanna say this - Don't follow the lesson 9 blindly, it's like what he said in lesson 7 don't bear the brunt of the advice, V's right, but it's still ur future not his so take his advice but make ur own decision. its still about what u love to do not what makes u earn more buck, but if it that u love then sure take that advice. nd don't even take this just listen nd make ur own.
'' Don't be a solo person who don't built a network and who does not ask help ''
but why added windows wallpaper
i know the first lesson without watching , - 'learn to code'
its f*cking hard , trying since 1 year . not able to do it
@@roshanbadaya2462 it takes time buddy. I've been through it. An engineer myself . Started from a tier3 college, worked hard and working for the likes of microsoft and paypal, purely based on my skills
Bhai coding me bilkul maza nhi aata.
@@aestheticaryan763 usi baat ke th paise milte hau., sbko maza nai ata isiliye
@@shubhamsonal5871 Aur yeh banda sabko coding seekhne ke liye bol rha hai. Bhai jab koi jiske liye bana hi nhi hai woh kaise thrive karega us cheez mai.
What happens if you eliminate the other person inside your head? Like has anyone experimented with this.
Ya I did. Because I'm in a foreign country and there aren't many indians here.. So I was sticking to even the toxic ones.. Turns out its not worth it.. So I learnt to eliminate their existence in my mind.. That needs Meditation and subconscious mind reprogramming. I watched Sadguru and Dare.to.do.motivation channels in those days. It helped.
Last advice need to learn everybody
Thanks
Get well soon 🙂
The relationship I have with my other self is toxic he is trying to bring me down always
windows XP wallpaper in thumbnail deserves some attention
When are you doing colab with Warikoo?
Be a student of the world 💯
Varun put that toy on your left, in such a way that it is holding the mic stick. Just put behind the stick
1. Brush your teeth twice a day
2. Don't hold in to opinions too dearly
3. Find out the underlying emotional current
4. Choose your life partner wisely .
5. Nobody's truly there for you .
6. If they don't bear the brunt of my advice, don't listen .
7. Building a strong and warm network
8.
Gold Value content.
you r looking good man
Where were you 3 yrs back? its so difficult to start now.. i m 25
Only 25 bro, even if you start today, you will make it where you want to go. Stop thinking about your age, do what you want to do.
@@bhavikjain6017 it's easy to say this
I'm 18 😄
I guess a 30 year old feel the same .
Bro he isn't your personal mentor that he would give you advice when you want 🙄
He wouldn't have even uploaded this video if he didn't want to.
I'm 17 and cavities had started to apperar☹️