5 Best Things I did in my 20s!

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  • Опубліковано 25 лип 2024
  • Teenage is an age of vulnerabilities, but here are the 5 things I did in my 20s that proved to be the best for me!
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 191

  • @puneetmiddha2217
    @puneetmiddha2217 2 роки тому +421

    1. Going to hostel (Overcoming insecurities)
    2. Starting Sizer(freelance)
    3. Going to the gym (Confidence building)
    4. Getting married (Companionship)
    5. Learning how to code.(learning a skill)

    • @rohit.reflects
      @rohit.reflects 2 роки тому +8

      The 5th one is a skill.

    • @insanegaming9121
      @insanegaming9121 2 роки тому

      @@rohit.reflectslol right

    • @snehkhatri5089
      @snehkhatri5089 2 роки тому +6

      Good that you do these bro….i use to do this summaries alot, but now people won’t like to watch video

    • @puneetmiddha2217
      @puneetmiddha2217 2 роки тому +6

      @@snehkhatri5089 maybe because, every other UA-camr these days make such type of videos with similar content. Isn't it?

    • @snehkhatri5089
      @snehkhatri5089 2 роки тому

      @@puneetmiddha2217 agree

  • @rahulkaushik4194
    @rahulkaushik4194 2 роки тому +53

    Listen up men,
    1) Build a Routine
    2) Pump Iron
    3) Start a Side Hustle
    4) Learn Investing
    5) Improve your Communication
    6) Read
    Do this for 6 months and you'll be unstoppable.

  • @soham7969
    @soham7969 2 роки тому +407

    Me 19, me click instantly

  • @lav5688
    @lav5688 2 роки тому +15

    6:10 -Varun - your are missing out on so much, and its not what you are thinking your are missing out on 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @umangsevlani
    @umangsevlani 2 роки тому +24

    the way he started blushing with the "getting married" point.. i think its cute and its giving a valid justification why he put this point in 5 best things he did

  • @step7286
    @step7286 2 роки тому +25

    When varun said " i forgave my parents", that's the moment i understood he is a sigma.

  • @Vedant-M
    @Vedant-M 2 роки тому +31

    The amount of clarification you give after making every single point shows how much you were belted for your previous videos 🙂🙂

  • @rohit.reflects
    @rohit.reflects 2 роки тому +48

    Thank you, Varun for sharing learnings from your own life experiences.
    Getting married is an unexpected point 😅
    But, I do agree with you 🙌

  • @yasharora9974
    @yasharora9974 2 роки тому +20

    bro really relate with you on the self confidence and body image issues thing, i too am very skinny and very underconfident sometimes, it really takes a toll on you sometimes

    • @takshrajsinghrathore8705
      @takshrajsinghrathore8705 2 роки тому

      I was just like you about 2 month's ago then I started exercising and it has been great for my self confidence. defenitely worth it.

  • @conversationcorner1837
    @conversationcorner1837 2 роки тому +8

    I like the way you added the disclaimer in the beginning. Everyone who has some accomplishment under their belt, speak like they know all the secrets to the universe !

  • @RanveerAllhabadia
    @RanveerAllhabadia 2 роки тому +6

    You are the most authentic content creator out there! Love ur content 🤞

  • @_just_for_fun_4472
    @_just_for_fun_4472 2 роки тому +8

    Seriously this video gives me a bro to bro kind of vibe.... loved it...

  • @akashs772
    @akashs772 2 роки тому +2

    Wow man! Thanks for sharing

  • @jatinsaini7790
    @jatinsaini7790 2 роки тому

    You are a great speaker man! Just discovered your channel. Loving it!

  • @chrollolucilfer1790
    @chrollolucilfer1790 2 роки тому +3

    Much appreciated video.

  • @SukritiGrover
    @SukritiGrover 2 роки тому +30

    Just a second, you're not in your 20s? 👀

  • @nikitajain2274
    @nikitajain2274 2 роки тому

    iron analogy was superb!

  • @gaurishirodkar4696
    @gaurishirodkar4696 2 роки тому

    Great work love your videos

  • @ajaykumar-xy6pw
    @ajaykumar-xy6pw 2 роки тому +2

    thanks for the info

  • @aakashkumar3314
    @aakashkumar3314 2 роки тому +2

    Love your work ♥️

  • @VeerDaVlog
    @VeerDaVlog 2 роки тому +2

    I like the way you said Bye!!

  • @kusumsharma2255
    @kusumsharma2255 2 роки тому +2

    I am 18 now and thanks for this video😍

  • @technotech5395
    @technotech5395 2 роки тому

    Such a great video

  • @yashikasharma2123
    @yashikasharma2123 2 роки тому +1

    Beautiful video 💯💯

  • @PrinceKumar-hh6yn
    @PrinceKumar-hh6yn Рік тому +1

    Exactly. That's how social media should work

  • @avilieseyie7068
    @avilieseyie7068 2 роки тому +2

    Varun bhaiya, could you please elaborate some more on what type of freelancing you do on your freelance career

  • @defenceguru5165
    @defenceguru5165 2 роки тому

    I am totally agree 😊

  • @rashitasindwani8339
    @rashitasindwani8339 2 роки тому

    Amazing content👍👍👍

  • @bigunhettiarachchi853
    @bigunhettiarachchi853 2 роки тому

    It opened my eyes

  • @heroismist
    @heroismist 2 роки тому

    Writing done right 🔥

  • @shivanitawade6955
    @shivanitawade6955 Рік тому

    Most authentic content creator ✨

  • @homeboy1733
    @homeboy1733 2 роки тому +28

    Varun, I broke up with my Girlfriend and she was my only best friend in the world. I thought I'll Marry her but she had other plans. Now I have lost my girlfriend and my best friend both. This feeling is so hollow and makes me question whether I will ever be able to find someone as good as her. And this thought is killing my productivity. Makes me feel like a loss from which I will never Recover. I am 21 and I knew her since we were 17. I know this is the wrong place to ask all this but how should I recover from this. Thank You.

    • @YasheshTrivedi
      @YasheshTrivedi 2 роки тому +13

      Hey bro, I understand what you're going through internally. Eventually you will get out of this state, sooner or later. I know right now it's harder for you to believe. Time heals everything. If she was really special then max it will take 1 year. After that you will not even think about her. I have experienced this personally.
      It's like a storm in ocean. when you break up, it's deadly out there to survive. Keeping patience within, slowly that storm settles down. Time comes when the ocean settles down and water becomes still. Then it's Bright sunny day. And we are peaceful again.

    • @rakshitbhatt2586
      @rakshitbhatt2586 2 роки тому +1

      What were her Plans

    • @homeboy1733
      @homeboy1733 2 роки тому +3

      @@rakshitbhatt2586 She started liking someone else.

    • @homeboy1733
      @homeboy1733 2 роки тому +4

      @@YasheshTrivedi Thank you so much Brother.

    • @yashgandhi2429
      @yashgandhi2429 2 роки тому +1

      Fikr mt kro bhai sb thik ho jayega

  • @skyledprod
    @skyledprod 2 роки тому +3

    5:42
    Not a good advice
    It will be good if you figure out who you are first then plan afterwards to be with another person if you do it early you are really going to pick up a unnecessary responsibility

  • @ashutoshanand9903
    @ashutoshanand9903 2 роки тому +1

    Good one

  • @rahulisgreat4911
    @rahulisgreat4911 11 місяців тому

    Thank you so much

  • @shreyashrestha186
    @shreyashrestha186 2 роки тому

    Make a video on how you built self confidence

  • @shauryabhansali3731
    @shauryabhansali3731 2 роки тому +30

    Learning to code is now a basic thing which is like maths.
    Everyone must know some maths.
    Like maths, everyone must know some sort of coding.
    Don't make it a career. People fool you on this that Coding is career and you get into a fascinated world by seeing various people cracking competitions, interviews. Coding is a skill everyone must know, but your career and passion can be anything else.

    • @ad8331
      @ad8331 2 роки тому

      @@shrishri8898 Go outside then.

    • @ad8331
      @ad8331 2 роки тому

      @@shrishri8898
      Great Man. I'm also planning to.

  • @alongtheuniverse8725
    @alongtheuniverse8725 2 роки тому

    I like your ideas

  • @amithm3
    @amithm3 2 роки тому

    when you started freelancing what was your skill set?, even i want to start, but idk if my skills are good enough to start

  • @animeshmahato
    @animeshmahato 2 роки тому +1

    Hey, what are those ties doing there? Are they random or intentional?

  • @gunitkaur5754
    @gunitkaur5754 2 роки тому +2

    I also read your book pyjama profit can you please make video on earning money related video for students

  • @_just_for_fun_4472
    @_just_for_fun_4472 2 роки тому +2

    Sooooooooooooooo...... relatable

  • @-isotope_k
    @-isotope_k Рік тому

    5:43 most underrated thing

  • @Amit-ti2nf
    @Amit-ti2nf 2 роки тому

    Which computer language we should learn?

  • @bhavyavohra6054
    @bhavyavohra6054 2 роки тому +1

    will learning to code help to get a good job even if I am not from a circuital/cs/it branch ?

    • @hareeshchitla6362
      @hareeshchitla6362 2 роки тому +1

      Branch doesn't matter. If you are good at coding, people will hire you no matter what.

  • @nakshgoyal6589
    @nakshgoyal6589 Рік тому

    How much time would it take for a newbie to learn code by self learning

  • @SHAMSfacts
    @SHAMSfacts Рік тому

    I am 20, and am extremely anxious. Yes I am from india 3 .
    But this video was helpful 👍

  • @adityaaman2267
    @adityaaman2267 2 роки тому

    Which language should I learn

  • @FIROJKHAN-xx1sk
    @FIROJKHAN-xx1sk Рік тому

    Being 21, Gottaa try out alll.

  • @t.g.439
    @t.g.439 2 роки тому

    Which music is it at the end?

  • @gunitkaur5754
    @gunitkaur5754 2 роки тому +2

    Varun it's awesome video can you please guide me on freelancing please make a detail video on freelancing

  • @bhuppidhamii
    @bhuppidhamii 2 роки тому +1

    Done

  • @ashika4855
    @ashika4855 2 роки тому +4

    Sir,could please elaborate about coding for beginners how they should start..like u told about the basics ..what are the basics of coding which can provide stronge base for coding career and which language should be learnt first?
    Hare Krishna 🙏

  • @nilaypatel413
    @nilaypatel413 2 роки тому +2

    Get married to your best friend. this is best line

  • @ashmitkumarsingh
    @ashmitkumarsingh 5 місяців тому +1

    "i do the same things plus some more"

  • @chrisebisonabraham4681
    @chrisebisonabraham4681 2 роки тому

    Sir, What was your branch?

  • @kishalayray7570
    @kishalayray7570 2 роки тому +1

    I hate hostel because I went to hostel in my 13s😓😓

  • @chan90s
    @chan90s 2 роки тому +3

    Lol..Never propose your best friend 😂 unless you're okay to lose that friend forever

  • @unnikrishnanjayan3855
    @unnikrishnanjayan3855 2 роки тому

    but how do i convince parents to go to hostel tho??

  • @LETSLIVEFULL
    @LETSLIVEFULL 2 роки тому

    Ok

  • @nikitadoshi5645
    @nikitadoshi5645 2 роки тому

    Pyjama profit marathi book kab ayega?????

  • @candykookie7477
    @candykookie7477 2 роки тому +2

    I'll turn 20 in few months so I'm here lol😅😂😁

  • @Abhisheksharma-rf3qh
    @Abhisheksharma-rf3qh 2 роки тому

    Grt

  • @mohanchetry7
    @mohanchetry7 2 роки тому

    Not all hostel are same. Some creates good memories but with fucked up edu career.

  • @kanseh4819
    @kanseh4819 2 роки тому +2

    Would you make a video on hardworking nature

  • @soham7969
    @soham7969 2 роки тому +1

    Bro am saving money , I can't make a dmat account for now , so should i put all my savings in Bitcoin in 2022 , amount is kind of 500 per month

    • @adityabhaskara581
      @adityabhaskara581 2 роки тому

      Please don't invest blindly based on what someone thinks, if u can't decide it's a no... and why can't you make a DMAT account?

    • @soham7969
      @soham7969 2 роки тому

      @@adityabhaskara581 my documents ar at home and am at hostel

    • @bhandarivicky93
      @bhandarivicky93 2 роки тому +1

      @@soham7969 Wait till you get your documents.. If you want to invest in crypto then invest with little money with some research.. Hope you got your answer..

    • @soham7969
      @soham7969 2 роки тому +1

      @@bhandarivicky93 thx man , am currently investigating in crypto ,eth and btc only around 1k total , its working good by far , got like 30 rs in 3 days

    • @bhandarivicky93
      @bhandarivicky93 2 роки тому +1

      @@soham7969great bro..

  • @Khanavana-y1m
    @Khanavana-y1m 2 роки тому

    M already 22

  • @rajm8132
    @rajm8132 10 місяців тому

    i have moved to P.G 2 months back . I get to know how to manage money , I am now used to get an fixed sum of money at my home i was having technically unlimited money but now i don't you have to spend it very wisely .🤣

  • @vikkydhdhdjdj
    @vikkydhdhdjdj Рік тому

    22

  • @Shubham-rh5jh
    @Shubham-rh5jh 2 роки тому

    Entering 18n in few months

  • @sandeshtiwari7027
    @sandeshtiwari7027 2 роки тому

    Learning a language is hard can anyone suggest a simple coding language 👀

  • @thefunnyyouths5877
    @thefunnyyouths5877 2 роки тому

    Your Age?

  • @HarshaVardhan-xx6ii
    @HarshaVardhan-xx6ii 6 місяців тому

    Achina would choose better stock videos

  • @shubhayanchakraborty5525
    @shubhayanchakraborty5525 Рік тому

    Plus, some more.. 🤫

  • @VenkatGudavalli
    @VenkatGudavalli 2 роки тому +2

    Whats Coder Coder doing in your video🤣

  • @kamranansari4641
    @kamranansari4641 Рік тому +1

    I'm in hostel from class 6 🤪

  • @Vedant-M
    @Vedant-M 2 роки тому +2

    Coder coder was your friend??

    • @YasheshTrivedi
      @YasheshTrivedi 2 роки тому +1

      I have the same question 🤣

    • @YasheshTrivedi
      @YasheshTrivedi 2 роки тому +1

      I think it was just for reference. I learned something from this. Never use the clip of someone who is popular, it distracts audience. I was kinda distracted & confused as I saw coder coder.

  • @amithkamath3291
    @amithkamath3291 2 роки тому

    Me turning 20 tmrw clicking instantly

  • @kaizoku_edit
    @kaizoku_edit 2 роки тому

    I am 21 now and I am nothing

  • @tamilnetworks780
    @tamilnetworks780 2 роки тому +15

    Things to do in 20s ( According to my opinion ) :
    1. Change the attitude and looks
    2. Be Aggressive
    3. Be Masculine Chad
    4. Build a good crew of friends
    That's enough for my life ! ..

  • @manangarg1
    @manangarg1 Рік тому +1

    At what age you got married?

  • @geetanshusaraswati6405
    @geetanshusaraswati6405 2 роки тому

    Obviously marriage is fucking very important for society to function in right order. But bro, crazy advice. 😂

  • @ThunderField
    @ThunderField Рік тому

    7:30 you're lucky to marry best friend

  • @pepethefrog0075
    @pepethefrog0075 Рік тому

    7:05 Only for professionals!!! Don't try this on your bsf lol 💀👍

  • @overhaul976
    @overhaul976 Рік тому

    "marry your best friend"?? ayooo 😳😳

  • @bibekkhuntia9806
    @bibekkhuntia9806 2 роки тому +1

    Iam in 20 s... Like this.. Who in this age😍

  • @nirajsheladiya8246
    @nirajsheladiya8246 2 роки тому +2

    Me click 19.9 click

  • @samadtan2134
    @samadtan2134 2 роки тому

    Anyone who can spend time with me

  • @mohitsain0706
    @mohitsain0706 2 роки тому

    In front of 1000 people ...he is in every school of district

  • @mohitsain0706
    @mohitsain0706 2 роки тому

    Others have 100 pimples the other .... do not have face

  • @User-of-internet
    @User-of-internet 2 роки тому +1

    Every 16 IQ points a woman goes up from 100, she’s 40% less likely to get married.
    Every 16 IQ points a man goes up from 100, he’s 35% more likely to get married.

    • @bigboyy6789
      @bigboyy6789 2 роки тому +2

      This advice is utterly bullcrap. Don't let Jordan/Mikhiala Peterson fool you into getting married early.
      Work on your skills and career/business. It's only after certain time period that you should eventually decide to get married.

  • @chaosplay2955
    @chaosplay2955 2 роки тому

    if u get 3 divoree, he will change.

  • @geetanshusaraswati6405
    @geetanshusaraswati6405 2 роки тому

    Getting married, fuck man. 😂

  • @SunilSharma-mb2kf
    @SunilSharma-mb2kf 2 роки тому +1

    I respect you opinion but getting married in 20's mostly a mistake. It should be in mid 30's.

  • @kishanpatel3354
    @kishanpatel3354 2 роки тому

    Some more 😉

  • @premium5022
    @premium5022 2 роки тому

    your goku distracts me a lot

  • @onkar7034
    @onkar7034 2 роки тому +1

    Why can't you make money without coding? , there are other ways too

  • @sohailsj8944
    @sohailsj8944 Рік тому

    1:50 coder coder cameo

  • @MisguidingWish
    @MisguidingWish 2 роки тому

    I rather like to be dead than get married, it's the most hated thing for me in my life that i can never love.
    For me only friends that are precious companions who really understand you nothing else.
    I believe in love in emotions not romantic love. Love for family, parents and friends is true love, love for an unknown girl is just lust.

    • @shaxter
      @shaxter 2 роки тому

      I used to think the same way. He just said font a female best friend. Not unknown girl. Take your time. Problem is in India people marry too fast and not to their best friend

    • @MisguidingWish
      @MisguidingWish 2 роки тому

      @@shaxter i don't think i can make a friend out if a female, coz my habits are too introverted but at the same time emotionally unavailable most of the time.

  • @arjavjain25
    @arjavjain25 2 роки тому +2

    Pseudo depression 😂😂