Your Ex NEVER Stops Thinking About You

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  • Опубліковано 17 лют 2018
  • Your ex never stops thinking about you. How do you know if someone is thinking about you? Craig is often asked is my Ex thinking about me? How do I know if they are thinking about me? What are the signs that someone is thinking about me? Coach Craig and Margaret (both psychotherapists and relationship coaches explain)
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  • @CoachCraigKenneth
    @CoachCraigKenneth  6 років тому +302

    If you like this video please take a moment to give it a thumbs up to support Margaret and I :)

    • @iuliasima3599
      @iuliasima3599 6 років тому +8

      Coach Craig Kenneth, I don't even have words about how much I appreciate you and Margarete. I learned sooo much! I am ok now, but still watching your videos and I am recomanding to all my friends. One of them became very involved in the work with herself watching you every day and I am so happy that she is doing that. Thank you, thank you! You are both great humans. ❤

    • @caboose2163
      @caboose2163 6 років тому +4

      15:00 I can attest to her story because it's mine. I was placed in a home for children who had medical needs after birth, (my birth parents had been arrested prior to this point.) Mine was in regards to my ears which required me to having tubes placed in my ears to aid with my hearing, which luckily was minor and resolved, though because I was a lesser severe case I was left alone in the crib quite often. This led to me performing a rocking motion of my own to substitute being cradled or held in a mother's arms.
      Even after I was adopted at age of two, I had grown so accustomed to the self-rocking method that being held felt weird and strange, especially by strangers whom even at a young age I knew were not my parents.
      So when it came to the relationship stage I was already inwardly suffering from an inner traumatic experience from my youth that I was overly enthused into wanting to be accepted. After a minor set back in a really special connection I made with someone. This channel and others have been helping me to cope and to re-align and re-apply things in my life.
      Thank you so much for your channel's content.

    • @barbarabuenger378
      @barbarabuenger378 6 років тому

      Coach Craig Kenneth i

    • @terrellreed974
      @terrellreed974 6 років тому

      Hello i need help

    • @muhammadtahir4968
      @muhammadtahir4968 6 років тому

      sir plzzz help me i will till all situations

  • @nicholasanley7871
    @nicholasanley7871 5 років тому +522

    Listening to these vids helps makes me feel I’m not alone dealing with my breakup

    • @thefnaffan2
      @thefnaffan2 4 роки тому +11

      Because you're not my friend .. Been dealing with this for 2 months now.

    • @l.k.1111
      @l.k.1111 4 роки тому +2

      Riight, this too...🙌😇🙌

    • @ouattaradouyeribessaleli3037
      @ouattaradouyeribessaleli3037 3 роки тому +5

      Yeah bro, you are not alone... keep it up
      We will be fine

    • @ernestochaparro8751
      @ernestochaparro8751 3 роки тому +6

      Hope you feel a lot better now . You are special and your peace is a priority my friend . Salute from Puerto Rico .

    • @farahshine9563
      @farahshine9563 3 роки тому +4

      I listen to Craig every day. Thank you for making the video. I’m glad I’m not alone.

  • @maritzaablanedo7393
    @maritzaablanedo7393 Рік тому +59

    Margaret’s face with “women are like the clouds in the sky” is priceless! She was a tough lady and gentle at the same time! She was hilarious too!!!RIP Margaret, we miss you so much

    • @thisiskindacrap13
      @thisiskindacrap13 7 місяців тому +3

      No way.. did she pass? :/

    • @basicinfo2022
      @basicinfo2022 4 місяці тому +1

      I didn't know that. Coach Odus also passed away from another no contact channel. RIP.

    • @Dreadlock420
      @Dreadlock420 4 місяці тому +1

      No she didn’t she’s in new video don’t listen to this guy he’s being silly

  • @greensupermanflying
    @greensupermanflying 3 роки тому +164

    My ex is back after 9 months. He said there wasn’t a day when he wouldn’t think about me

    • @ShannonThor.
      @ShannonThor. 3 роки тому +22

      Amazing. My ex quit talking to me last Jan. 11 months and he crosses my mind everyday. I miss him and pray for him

    • @ShannonThor.
      @ShannonThor. 3 роки тому +4

      @Bk Asmr im so sorry. Praying for you

    • @ajanine1181
      @ajanine1181 3 роки тому +3

      @Bk Asmr girl it won't last...trust me it won't. He's messy.

    • @ajanine1181
      @ajanine1181 3 роки тому +4

      @Bk Asmr Karma is "some" dumpee's and "some" dumper's favorite auntie who comes for a visit. I have heard from every ex and I naturally just go into no reach out or no contact. I just heard from an ex today from a breakup that happened 3 weeks ago. Although it wasn't a bad breakup it still hurt and I was the dumpee. Yep, karma will visit although he was, is, and has always been kind to me. Timing and personal issues of his is to blame. I just told him I supported his decision even though I didn't agree and that I was hurt and disappointed. We hugged and of course I'm NOT his friend and told him I wanted more. So we'll see but, I'm not waiting. I'm too fine to stay contained. LOL

    • @jajahMantes
      @jajahMantes 2 роки тому

      @khalitovaluidmila I love this

  • @CanadianAndre
    @CanadianAndre 6 років тому +464

    My five-year Fearful-Avoidant Ex contacted me after I did a year of strict no contact after she ended the relationship suddenly on Christmas Eve 2016. There must’ve been a disturbance in the Force.🧐
    We’ve been together two months now. She said she thought of me every day and wondered why I didn’t contact her. She said she dreamt about me many times too.
    It’s going well. She did a bunch of inner work during the entire year. That surprised me.

    • @CoachCraigKenneth
      @CoachCraigKenneth  6 років тому +99

      Awesome! See that guys, she thought of him EVERY DAY.

    • @markhillyard4276
      @markhillyard4276 6 років тому +12

      Can't tell you how happy I am for you Andre.
      I'm just starting on the painful journey. Mary left on Feb 1, 2018. I gave her some money that morning for the hair shop, she never came back home. Now she lives in the SF Bay Area with her son and family and has other plans, divorce papers were delivered by the sheriff the other day...5 years ago? who knows, she already took her maiden name back, literally went unconscious twice waking up in the hospital two weeks apart, always thought I was strong, go figger.
      I'll say it again and bless your wife. I'm very happy for you and I love a happy ending. Love her gently like a butterfly so you don't mess her wings. I say that because my wife told me I was keeping her prisoner. I didn't know that because I always tried to make sure she had some money in her purse and a full tank in her car with tire pressure checked, and oil and lube, with the car in good running condition. I can work on my 1990 Jeep but not on these modern cars.
      Never felt such a thing as this even with my first wife back in 1985, but she was pretty darn mean. This may sound like bull to you but my first wife got remarried to a cop here in CA. She shot him dead last year or two ago in their bedroom. Never got the full story because my son called me crying that his mother was in jail, didn't want to press him for details. Turns out that she was defending herself as there was another pistol on the floor. The DA determined that Paula was defending herself and did not file charges. Saw her once after that but didn't bring it up. I really feel bad for her because she has to carry that for the rest of her life. I used to hire the guy to do roofs for my contracting business. Lots of cops and firemen work like that. What's with all the tragedy? Mary's son died in suicide just six months before I found her lost in the Stanislaus Mountains as I was gathering firewood for my mountain cabin. She sure cried a lot over the following 22 years, and every Valentine's day, his birthday, she would cry, and then on Easter Sunday is when he hung himself in a cemetery in Oakland, CA. He was an artist and he performed the deed as an artist would and I talked to the investigating detectives who groaned when I introduced myself to them.
      I think I sound like a liar now after writing all this down. Never did that before. Hope I'm not bumming you and yours out.
      Can't say it enough! I am very happy for you and your wife, long life and peace in Christ I pray for you two.

    • @ModernWanderer
      @ModernWanderer 6 років тому +3

      What is the point of your ex thinking about you if they are in love with someone else, they are happy, they dumped you and blocked you everywhere and even told you that you should move on (no contact since January)? Its utterly useless...there is no hope for me and the worst thing is that I didn't do anything wrong really...I was inexperienced and she lost trust, she lost respect for me, she hates me and my very existence and ignores me in school...no forgiveness, no nothing on her part...I was dumped in October (almost a year long relationship, lived together and were constantly together for 8 months)...it is over ladies and gentlemen...i am glad for you andre...wish you guys all the best...

    • @TomHutchcraft
      @TomHutchcraft 5 років тому +3

      Wow, very interesting, and provides some hope!! 😂 who broke up with who?

    • @kimwhite4105
      @kimwhite4105 5 років тому +6

      Well you are an exception to the truth

  • @MikeJackson690
    @MikeJackson690 4 роки тому +189

    I usually have your videos playing while I drift off to sleep. It's comforting and blocks out my thoughts. Thank you for all the work you both do.

    • @Yarnover_PullThrough
      @Yarnover_PullThrough Рік тому +4

      I do the same. Good to know I'm not alone.

    • @jianruima9059
      @jianruima9059 Рік тому +4

      @@Yarnover_PullThroughme too 😭I even put it back on when I wake up to go to the toilet in the middle of the night

    • @Yarnover_PullThrough
      @Yarnover_PullThrough Рік тому +3

      @@jianruima9059 same lol. You're not alone. Stay strong 💗💪

    • @JackMT86
      @JackMT86 Рік тому +2

      Same

    • @penniroyal4398
      @penniroyal4398 10 місяців тому +1

      So do I. It gives me comfert knowing that I am not alone in the journey of missing a person that was such an important part of my life😢

  • @chanthana7694
    @chanthana7694 5 років тому +192

    Don't go to your best friends or relatives. I know they means well, but there's too much bias.

    • @cindyg3396
      @cindyg3396 4 роки тому +5

      Amen!

    • @aarvisingh6019
      @aarvisingh6019 4 роки тому +3

      Yes absolutely 😂

    • @AlexFarleyMusic
      @AlexFarleyMusic 4 роки тому +3

      So true.

    • @stonergee420
      @stonergee420 3 роки тому +1

      Ah too late for me I already did & they gmfu for the night woke up with one of my close friends home girls, I couldn’t even remember shit💯😫

  • @SteveJohnson-tw9ol
    @SteveJohnson-tw9ol Рік тому +29

    I miss you Margaret. Rest In Peace. I have watched this video soooo many times to me
    through some tough times.

  • @_tvbeauty
    @_tvbeauty 3 роки тому +94

    I have to admit, I watch your videos to keep me from reaching out to my ex lol, but the videos also teach me so much about working on myself and how to healthily detach myself from my ex. I love you guys so much and I wish I knew you both in person❤️

    • @chlochlo8207
      @chlochlo8207 Рік тому

      Yayyy!!! Proud of you for not doing so if you experience disturbance in the force like he said you can reach out to me how I’ve dealt w/ it if you’re having trouble!! Keep up the good work!😊❤

  • @tomKATT92
    @tomKATT92 4 роки тому +129

    I can honestly say I cried while watching this, it's videos like this (and a lot of the comments) that make me feel so optimistic in the darkest of times.

  • @cindyg3396
    @cindyg3396 4 роки тому +69

    Margaret reminds me of my Mother that I lost back in 2001. Craig reminds me of my brother. Listening to you two calms my anxiety. I love you guys so much!❤❤

  • @lawschoolpro
    @lawschoolpro 6 років тому +81

    So true. I sleep to these videos. Then wait for a new 1 in the morning.

  • @onewiththeuniverseonesourc6380
    @onewiththeuniverseonesourc6380 5 років тому +97

    i was able to sleep for 30 mins watching ur video.. hopefully it could be longer sooner than i expected..its just hard to sleep when it feels like u have a big pile of stone in your chest..

  • @TH-ij2ri
    @TH-ij2ri 3 роки тому +11

    My ex came back after 2 years. I never saw that coming. I wasn’t interested at first but he has been working on himself so I really admire that intentional effort to own his issues.

  • @sarahstinson6072
    @sarahstinson6072 6 років тому +161

    Yeah i go to sleep listening to your videos too!

  • @swizlysummer8479
    @swizlysummer8479 5 років тому +171

    At the end of the day, we got to move on and try to make our ex just a “memory” to remember but not someone to go back to. Remember why it ended. Let go and move on.

    • @2Tall_Powerlifting
      @2Tall_Powerlifting 4 роки тому +51

      Not a response to all situations.

    • @allanjay2540
      @allanjay2540 4 роки тому +21

      You are soo fucking negative

    • @hennylo68
      @hennylo68 3 роки тому +26

      Easier said than fucking done.

    • @radinebyrd8767
      @radinebyrd8767 3 роки тому +3

      I like your comment. You made a good point. Its so true about letting go and never forget what to remember why it ended. Especially if they was verbally and mentally to you. Thank you for your comment. It really helped me.

    • @Amctothemoon
      @Amctothemoon 3 роки тому +2

      @@allanjay2540 Why is he , that’s what you should do
      You can’t keep thinking about some one and holding on to something that isn’t there
      That’s how you get hurt

  • @Christine_G129
    @Christine_G129 Рік тому +18

    I was so taken off guard and so hurt from my break up. I found you guys and I did listen to you all the time even when I tried to sleep. It was the only way I could calm myself. You guys are such a great help for all of us ❤️

  • @bibsann861
    @bibsann861 4 роки тому +22

    I love listening to you two. I am a 73 widow but still enjoy your helping others.

  • @phi-net2437
    @phi-net2437 10 місяців тому +6

    I love seeing coach Margaret, she holds the conversation at ground level any time emotions start flying.

  • @chadsarmiento5122
    @chadsarmiento5122 3 роки тому +26

    Whenever i feel anxious about my situation right now, i just simply click any video of coach craig and it helps. Survived another day of suffering in no contact. Thanks for this video.

    • @ycilmartha8456
      @ycilmartha8456 3 роки тому

      I know of a man who can help you manifest what you want within 24hrs in

    • @ycilmartha8456
      @ycilmartha8456 3 роки тому

      *Mes*sa*ge hi*m on Wh*at*sA*pp...

    • @ycilmartha8456
      @ycilmartha8456 3 роки тому

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  • @gabrielaraimondo2430
    @gabrielaraimondo2430 5 років тому +37

    My 1st boyfriend came back after 7 years... we had a 2nd opportunity and then I ended the relationship... he hadn't changed... 9 years later he was poking me on facebook... hahaha forget it... I can give 2 chances never 3 sorry... I didn't love him anymore... Yes they never forget us! I believe that!

  • @robj2333
    @robj2333 5 років тому +35

    These videos have kept me alive... wish there was a more affordable way to speak with you...

  • @BlackRidgeOutDoors
    @BlackRidgeOutDoors 5 років тому +31

    Just got my heart broken, listen to your videos when I fall asleep really helps

    • @theboss1790
      @theboss1790 5 років тому

      Mine was on Easter last Sunday.... Have you started the no contact rule

    • @keithleveille3550
      @keithleveille3550 5 років тому

      Wow mine was the day before Easter, I’m not alone!

    • @KAHHHH8548
      @KAHHHH8548 3 роки тому

      You're not alone

  • @carriegood5155
    @carriegood5155 5 років тому +14

    My father died of a broken heart. Thank god for your work. I do believe your saving lives.

  • @loriwhitbord9860
    @loriwhitbord9860 6 років тому +51

    During anxiety we wear our true friends out. The advent of your video wisdom always ready, can save friendships and keep one on the better path.

    • @barbarariley3488
      @barbarariley3488 5 років тому +4

      I talk to no one about my ex. I write in my.journal to relieve my mind.

    • @adynathaly3145
      @adynathaly3145 Рік тому

      Hey what if my ex has my name tatted all over her body

  • @mura0
    @mura0 5 років тому +108

    So you are all saying that my Ex was all along thinking about her EX while she was with me all those 3 years?

    • @eccogenesis7198
      @eccogenesis7198 3 роки тому +7

      They aren't saying they think constantly about them more like she obviously remembers her ex and I'm sure there are things that remind her of him and what not

    • @dwightschrute8141
      @dwightschrute8141 3 роки тому +5

      You sound insecure

    • @basicinfo2022
      @basicinfo2022 4 місяці тому

      No if the attraction and interest level is low or nothing.

  • @alnthevalley1
    @alnthevalley1 6 років тому +14

    Every time I want to revert back to old behavior, I would listen to your show- and it wipes out any desire to go back to quick fillers

  • @jimbobc1572
    @jimbobc1572 6 років тому +32

    This really helped me right now. I was getting weak. I just wrote and recorded a song for my ex and was going to send it to her. Thanks coach. Perfect timing!

  • @Rat454
    @Rat454 6 років тому +22

    Craig and Margaret, thank you so much for all you do, you truly help me through each day!

  • @adelaideo7417
    @adelaideo7417 3 роки тому +4

    Thank you, this just.. helped relax me. Sometimes you feel like you’re alone with thoughts of your ex and that they don’t think of you, and to know that they do, just makes me think I’m not.. losing it.

  • @purplishgems
    @purplishgems 3 роки тому +21

    You'll remember anything or anyone that has had an emotional impact on you. It's the emotion linked to the person or incident that becomes a deeply embedded memory in our psyche...

  • @TomHutchcraft
    @TomHutchcraft 5 років тому +9

    Even though I'm struggling a lot right now, and I can't afford any sessions, this has to be one of my favourite videos I've ever watched on youtube. Ever. Out of all the things I've showed an interest in, and all the channels out there specifically catered for entertainment; this channel and this video stick out above all the rest!
    Thank you, and I hope that even if I can't get back with my ex, I turn myself into a success story anyway...

  • @ronniereed8153
    @ronniereed8153 Рік тому +5

    I'm going through a very rough break up myself right now with my ex girlfriend..I've not reached out but it's harder some days then others,we where together 15 months,and I wondered if she had forgotten me .good to see this video at the right time 😎

  • @redhed090277
    @redhed090277 5 років тому +39

    Wait-what about if your ex is emotionally unavailable? Are they capable of feelings for you after the breakup? This guy seems fine! Life keeps going for him as usual

    • @ameerahrashada4515
      @ameerahrashada4515 5 років тому +13

      Mary Elizabeth Currie I would like to know the answer to this ? also because i my ex hss the same problem

  • @robertjelinski5113
    @robertjelinski5113 6 років тому +11

    Thank you for this video..it was exactly what I needed to hear. Was feeling very low and hoping to hear something from you that would lift my spirits. I am working on my self every day and hoping my ex will re-consider. Even if not, I will still come out of this a new/much improved man...(even at 61 years old) thanks to you both! Cheers, Rob

  • @pgg3684
    @pgg3684 6 років тому +4

    You both are terrific! I enjoy listening to you two and have learned a lot about myself and things I need to work on every time I watch a new video. I didn't realize how soothing your videos actually were until you mentioned how others felt soothed by them. I do notice I feel calmer and more balanced after listening to you two. Thanks for caring enough to put up videos to educate others about what issues they may have developed from childhood and how it affects them in adulthood. You cover so many different topics that it can benefit a wide audience of people watching and doesn't just stop at relationship/dating advice. I appreciate your work and enjoy your sense of humor.

  • @Milliardo5
    @Milliardo5 6 років тому +35

    Well, here's my experience about it: I courted a girl back in college, and that was way back 24 years ago. Nothing came of that really, as she never answered me. Now, 24 years later, she contacted me and we've met a few times. So if someone really matters to you, he or she will think of you at some point in time and will reach out to you again. I just hope that if ever something like that ever comes up, it won't take as long for her to reach out...

  • @KAHHHH8548
    @KAHHHH8548 3 роки тому +3

    I really like this video. Thank you for saying that exes never not think about you. It made me feel a whole lot better.

  • @ThisIsCarine
    @ThisIsCarine 2 роки тому +4

    I have never had a grandma I can call object to. Margaret is that for me. Good work. Love you guys.

  • @DC-wp6oj
    @DC-wp6oj 5 років тому +100

    8 weeks post-dumping by an ex of 5yrs. From totally crushed, losing weight, unable to sleep, constantly overthinking to now only occasionally thinking about her. I thought my life was over. No contact was hard at the start but happy for it to stay that way.....forever. Discovering who i was and who i am all over again. And it feels good. People. Pls have hope, if your going through the emotions and are rock bottom, you are not looking out for the person that matters. And that is YOU. Learn to live again, unless this person contacts you (and you should be hoping they never do - not waiting by the phone wishing your life away) then they have NO VALUE to your life. Your pet lizard/hamster/cat/shit on the end of your boots should have more value than this person. Please let this important point resonate inside of your body mind and soul. Then you will begin to heal. Anything else just prolongs the pain and delays your recovery.

  • @joepedroza4707
    @joepedroza4707 4 роки тому +19

    Your words are comforting. U give guys a least some hope. I really wondered if my ex even thought about me anymore. Break ups are devastating. It can really bring you to your knees with tears. People need folks like you to keep us positive and to at least not to give up so soon. Thank you both. I can feel you both really care and i sense it in your videos. God Bless u both. .

  • @OneGirlRecipes
    @OneGirlRecipes 3 роки тому +4

    I'm so glad I came across this video and he said he was also in a long distance relationship. I have been on the channel for about 3 weeks now and yes the videos keep me going. I can't afford to get the coaching right now but when I do, I will definitely reach out to you guys. The videos are a blessing and I am so grateful for your knowledge and I have already learned so much in these 3 weeks and trying to make improvements in myself. ❤ Thank you so much.

  • @alicerosa6766
    @alicerosa6766 3 роки тому +3

    That's true, I have never go to bed alone...I have to watch your videos to feel better. Thank you both for being my company and my tear cloth at night🙏🙏🙏.

  • @Coccolinodc
    @Coccolinodc 4 роки тому +2

    Hi from London Coaches Craig and Margaret, left a message on another video of yours in August when I was extremely distressed due to my breakup being very recent at the time, but now it’s almost the end of the year and I am doing a lot better. Have watched your videos very often and have gained a lot of useful advice and insight from them, now whether she comes back to me or not I am happy with myself and have rebuilt my self confidence. I too belong to the listen to your videos as you fall asleep club!

  • @juliefrecker3811
    @juliefrecker3811 4 роки тому +2

    THANK YOU! That was good advice about taking advice from friends. Don't like to hear them say you have to move on time to get past this.

  • @MeisinBate
    @MeisinBate 6 років тому +9

    OMG you guys are right i went to sleep every nite with your videos on ,, and watched it again in the mornin when i woke up.. Its really help me and makes me strong

  • @Walteramirez
    @Walteramirez 6 років тому +63

    I can't wait to get that indirect direct text from my ex. This no contact thing is sooooo hard, it will be all worth it when he reaches out, it's not if, but when!

    • @YoungBossEric7
      @YoungBossEric7 6 років тому +21

      Wall-E I went no NC and in 4 weeks my ex texted me with a simple hey, very indirect text. Didnt text back. If she wants me back she should try harder.

    • @LordTails66
      @LordTails66 6 років тому +32

      I mean, if I were you I would have at least responded back with hi. Because ignoring them won't bring them back.

    • @yozefl434
      @yozefl434 6 років тому +4

      Eric Zavala I agree they should try harder but I had to say hi back and talk for a few texts. I want them to try harder but at the same time I feel like I should have said more because they were reaching out regardless of just saying hi

    • @sula1529
      @sula1529 5 років тому +2

      did your ex reach out?

    • @bilwmedia
      @bilwmedia 5 років тому

      Lisa bb if they text you, say” hi, it’s great to hear from you, I’d love to see you, when are you free?”
      If they don’t make a date with you then say okay why don’t we do it when we’re both free and available? Or tell them to let you know if they change their mind. You don’t need to text somebody who you’ve had long term history with, they know you they can easily make a date with you.

  • @spirituallife5188
    @spirituallife5188 2 роки тому +2

    He didn't cheat but work out himself after 8 month his ex reach out of him. Wow amazing story, the best way ourselves to attract someone self love. Accomplished your goal. Thanks a lot this channel make me hope.

  • @joyfulbombdrop
    @joyfulbombdrop 3 роки тому +1

    This email gave me goosebumps!! Well done, Brian!!

  • @JazzaLv99
    @JazzaLv99 5 років тому +17

    I went on one date with this guy and I left the country
    One year after he contacted me saying that he misses me and that he might be in love with me
    We went out on one date only!!!
    I know it may not make sense to some of you but the point is. It doesn’t matter how long you’ve been together. What matter is their interest level
    If they were genuinely interested in you (which is the case for most of you) then they won’t forget you

    • @nursenica1632
      @nursenica1632 3 роки тому

      same thing happened to me. went on a date just one time and we lost connections . now he’s back and telling me how he loves me and wanna have a kid and start a family .

  • @nathanbooth5344
    @nathanbooth5344 3 роки тому +2

    Missing my ex and her two sons every day...been 3 months since break up.Thank you for my email coaching.I hope she will reconsider and start again.I have nothing without her.Just want my family life back :(

  • @FotoKoffe
    @FotoKoffe 5 років тому +4

    Im listning on this at the first day at the gym. My gf wanted space yesterday.
    And when she reach out yo me.. I’ll be ready! Thank you!!

  • @Transfurgroomers1
    @Transfurgroomers1 5 років тому +4

    Both of your capabilities to love us, heals us!! ❤❤ Thanks you guys!!

  • @miguelamezcua6494
    @miguelamezcua6494 5 років тому +13

    I would like Winnie The Pooh. Margaret's voice is soothing. You can tell her kind heart from simply her voice.

  • @jrc5049
    @jrc5049 6 років тому +18

    I needed this tonight! Thank you Craig

  • @miss_walderdbeere
    @miss_walderdbeere 2 роки тому +2

    Wow i am also not able to imagine faces and voices!Two days ago i listened to your advice and got a picture of my ex out of my closet. It helped me tremendously! Before i thought i need to put everything away. Now i am so much better ❤

  • @yvonnedesch2644
    @yvonnedesch2644 6 років тому +54

    If this is true , then it means that your partner will always remember their previous partners too.

    • @lalisasmr
      @lalisasmr 5 років тому +11

      Naturally, but that doesn't mean it's in a romantic way.

    • @robdcollector2808
      @robdcollector2808 5 років тому +2

      Yvonne Desch ...shut up

    • @barbarariley3488
      @barbarariley3488 5 років тому +15

      Yes it does. I am 71.and I remember all of the men I loved.

    • @justinstevenson9680
      @justinstevenson9680 5 років тому +7

      Only meaningful ones.

    • @CorporateQueen
      @CorporateQueen 5 років тому +2

      That's true. I think about my ex husband a lot. I think about my recent ex all the time. I adored him. But some love you just have to do from afar.

  • @passionatebraziliangirl.4801
    @passionatebraziliangirl.4801 6 років тому

    That is true this chanel it is the most informative because Craig and Margaret goes deep into the psycho-biology aspects of dating which in turn makes me take a hard look at myself instead of blindly making the same mistake repeatedly. I love when you have Margaret over. Thank you.

  • @Yarnover_PullThrough
    @Yarnover_PullThrough Рік тому +4

    I did what you guys suggest and he came back but I stopped working on myself and my anxious attachment style. Well, needless to say, it caused problems and we're no longer talking... again. This time, I plan to continue to work on myself whether he, or anyone else comes into my life. Thanks for your videos.

  • @taffy1234ful
    @taffy1234ful 5 років тому +2

    I do listen to your videos all day every day to make me feel better. I am currently suffering from a long distance break up and I'm afraid that he may just move on. So I am working on myself and I am comforted in the fact that he may think of me sometime. 😊I cannot afford the coaching at this time.

  • @jayl1712
    @jayl1712 2 місяці тому

    Yes Craig you and Margaret are very soothing.. I listen to you Day & Night! I need to hear your voices to calm my anxiety on the most triggering days of No Contact.

  • @vasilikichaintini722
    @vasilikichaintini722 6 років тому +2

    A big hug to you both! You are amazing and I am so happy that I have found you. Even if I cannot yet pay for the coaching..

  • @wickylopez8867
    @wickylopez8867 2 роки тому

    I thought I was the only one that I fall asleep to their videos... I feel so lost and they sooth my anxiety... the comfort I get from no one..

  • @robertjamesgallardo
    @robertjamesgallardo 6 років тому +52

    "I would sleep with your videos playing." Correct!!!!

  • @AaronMetallion
    @AaronMetallion 3 роки тому +4

    The two of you dug me out of a pit after a really painful breakup with an avoidant (before I knew what it was). I've been single, and I'm doing great. I've built a cozy home within me, and no matter who comes and goes, there's richness of hobbies & skills with me that make me value the solitude, and make me more valuable to the people that come into my life. Though I'm fine, I miss you guys and your voices form time to time and come back to listen and just check up on y'all. I leave your videos running when I work / do art (especially with Mozilla Firefox's pop-out video feature). I love the two of you, thank you for your work and for giving me resilience in the face of dispair. 💜

    • @ycilmartha8456
      @ycilmartha8456 3 роки тому

      I know of a man who can help you manifest what you want within 24hrs in

    • @ycilmartha8456
      @ycilmartha8456 3 роки тому

      *Mes*sa*ge hi*m on Wh*at*sA*pp..

    • @ycilmartha8456
      @ycilmartha8456 3 роки тому

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  • @blakeallsup648
    @blakeallsup648 6 років тому +16

    I come to you as so many others have, with a thankful heart. We know about the dark days and the despondency and despair of a breakup. Your videos have help me hold on and I will be contributing to the cause very soon. You and Margaret are like yin and yang her perspective builds into your perspective and it makes a complete reliable source of information or so many hurting people. I very seldom leave a comment on UA-cam I hope you will answer me back because if you do I will feel as I have achieved a great success success. Thank you sincerely from myself and so many other hundreds of people that have found solace and comfort in your messages. Sincerely Blake in Tennessee

  • @MMm-le7jj
    @MMm-le7jj 5 років тому +4

    Thankyou
    All your videos help getting thru .
    Margaret is great ! Great to have female on the channel
    Dynamic duo !

  • @frankdavf4599
    @frankdavf4599 2 роки тому

    I sleep hearing your videos information. Then when i wake up i watch them again. Thanks for sharing your knowledge wth the planet.

  • @lmfisher650
    @lmfisher650 6 місяців тому

    For the last few months after my separation, i have been watching all your videos day and night and it not only educates me but soothes me. I'm still hopeful my husband comes back to me.

  • @agapevillanueva320
    @agapevillanueva320 4 роки тому +1

    Watching your videos really comforts me. Helps me sleep normally too. I've learned a lot on personal growth and how to handle with no contact with my ex. It is a medicine to my broken heart i should say 😊. I am grateful to have watched your channel and love watching it. It is so much appreciated.😍❤

  • @kewl800i
    @kewl800i 3 роки тому

    MY GOD, this is literally me -made all the mistakes in the book, LDR, and just emailed my ex I am moving on. Thank you for this video Craig!

  • @StarReact001
    @StarReact001 7 місяців тому

    whenever i wakes up suddenly in the nights or cannot sleep in the night , I watch your videos guys! Videos are comforting and giving us hope and give me smile.

  • @h.r.puffnstuff8705
    @h.r.puffnstuff8705 3 роки тому +5

    Almost got married to a woman I dated for 5 years during HS/college years. 35 years latter she reached out to me. I had fully moved on but she never had.
    I was about 8 months post a very painful divorce. X from 35 years ago reached out then a week latter my most recent X reached out. Both had the same thing to say."I made a terrible mistake"

    • @rwentfordable
      @rwentfordable Рік тому

      Wow, thanks for letting us know, what a waste to not say anything to you all those years. Not the first time I've heard this

  • @andu2274
    @andu2274 4 роки тому +1

    The only way i can sleep is by listening to your videos .. it's been 10 days.
    Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

  • @theresemeggitt8455
    @theresemeggitt8455 6 років тому +24

    I had an Ex ask to get back together after 1 year! Yep- he did & no I didn’t go back I had met my fiancé and remembered how bad I was treated in the end by him my Ex -so no I wasn’t going back. : ).

    • @auroraseason9899
      @auroraseason9899 5 років тому

      Do you mind to share the reason he broke u up? How long were you together?

    • @astralsalixxo6320
      @astralsalixxo6320 5 років тому

      Therese Meggitt happy for you ❤️

  • @alnthevalley1
    @alnthevalley1 6 років тому +7

    You both are so valuable,
    Love you both! I’ve learned so much.

  • @gaylekemper3616
    @gaylekemper3616 4 роки тому

    Yes it helps when I’m worried about my relationship to listen to your videos. Thank you

  • @MonicaD444
    @MonicaD444 4 роки тому +14

    You're so right, Coach Craig! I watch these videos to soothe me and I sleep with them as well:)
    Thank you so much for all of this!

  • @jeansenior5242
    @jeansenior5242 4 роки тому +7

    I'm one of those people that "listens while I sleep"... thank you for all these videos... after 5 years and him just up and leaving because he isnt sure if he still wants me since he met someone knew... my emotions are everywhere and I still struggle to sleep. I get so angry on occasion and immediately break down and cry. It's not me. This relationship has hurt me so much more than any other relationship ending. It's so hard. I'm doing the workbooks, journaling, working out, and talking to a local therapist... quarantine isnt helping much. I just hope I can get myself in to a better place before he comes back around... its only been 2.5 months but it feels like a life time has gone by. I'm struggling everyday.

    • @loverays3023
      @loverays3023 3 роки тому +4

      I am so sorry and I understand fully

    • @jeansenior5242
      @jeansenior5242 2 роки тому +2

      Almost 2 years later and i dont even want this guy back... thank you @Craig Kenneth for you, Margaret, Victoria and the workbooks. Your videos "are a light in dark places".

  • @charlesthompson3937
    @charlesthompson3937 6 років тому +7

    I still live with my ex. And I wish to god I could get her out of my mind forever. She moved me across the damn country to break up with me without a try. I want to move on now. It's just extremely difficult because you are right we do not forget.

  • @Coccolinodc
    @Coccolinodc 4 роки тому +2

    I have been vacationing in Greece and southern Italy, but feeling grief over the loss of my woman in July, trying to take in the beauty of these islands and Med Sea but the anxiety and sleepless nights have overshadowed this time away from work. Your videos are genuine and heartfelt (unlike those of many marketing salespersons in this field who treat it only as a business) and have given me comfort and hope, especially at night. Thank you

    • @rwentfordable
      @rwentfordable Рік тому

      Did she reach out?

    • @Coccolinodc
      @Coccolinodc Рік тому

      @@rwentfordable yes months later, we are now friends, but after her I got together with a Greek woman for 2 years and that ended in a breakup as well which went far worse. This later one destroyed me psychologically bc I was going to marry her before she broke it off. The ex from 2019 actually provided friendly support in this case. Anyways I know that I am part of the problem

  • @lacieb716
    @lacieb716 5 років тому +17

    I had one come back two years after leaving. I didn’t want him back and we never got back together, but I wasn’t expecting it at all.

    • @auroraseason9899
      @auroraseason9899 5 років тому

      How long were you guys together?

    • @lacieb716
      @lacieb716 5 років тому +6

      Aurora Season not very long. I would say we casually dated for about two months.

    • @auroraseason9899
      @auroraseason9899 5 років тому +3

      @@lacieb716 thank you for your reply, i had an ex came back after 1year, but we were together only three months

    • @lacieb716
      @lacieb716 5 років тому +1

      Aurora Season I’m trying to win back my most recent ex.... we only dated for six weeks, and I feel like I was definitely a rebound to make one of his exes jealous.... I’m in NC but going back and forth with the idea of reaching out even though Craig does not recommend this. I know most people recommend indefinite NC where you don’t reach out unless they do. In my experience, my ex before this one (not the one I just mentioned) came back just when I started to heal from him, so who knows. Anything is possible and feelings can change like Craig talks about in his videos.

  • @kita0918
    @kita0918 2 роки тому +4

    2021 and we’re still falling asleep to your videos to soothe us❤️❤️❤️

  • @quanaramirasherman
    @quanaramirasherman 6 років тому +6

    What a great success story!

  • @lyndapeoples8127
    @lyndapeoples8127 4 роки тому +9

    Sometimes I also listen to your videos while I sleep. Even if I wake up through the night, I'll find that it has soothed me some and put me in in a much better frame of mind.
    I'm ashamed to say this but there is another relationship coach on UA-cam who highly and I mean highly recommended the viewers to listen to Coach Kenneth. Prior to that, I had never heard of you. Smiles 😃
    I'm almost embarrassed to tell you that I have forgotten that coach's name. There are a couple of them that come to mind who may have recommended you but I've been listening to you and not him since then.

  • @106FMCatt
    @106FMCatt 6 років тому +41

    You have become my Lullaby at night and my motivation in the morning.😘 50 First Dates...one of my fav Drew Barrymore and Adam Sandler movies😍 Coach Craig MVP!🤸🏽‍♂️🎉🤸🏽‍♂️

    • @1990lathan
      @1990lathan 6 років тому

      Same here! Listening to Craig and Margaret first thing in the morning and before going to bed is like a pep talk. It keeps me grounded.

  • @joshavandervelden4764
    @joshavandervelden4764 3 роки тому +1

    I love the vibe these two people have.

  • @Benny.13
    @Benny.13 3 роки тому +4

    Relationships are a power struggle . Someone always loves the other person more then the other down the road . Beginning feelings are often equal and so intrigued with excitement and mystery.but as one in ravels his or her true self many traits are often dampening .Why they never work ,people are never satisfied with what they have and always want better wether it’s a car a house ,furniture, a boat ,and yes people!

  • @scaredycat1499
    @scaredycat1499 6 років тому +3

    Hey coach Craig & Coach Margaret, this is in reference to the things you said about the childhood attatchments and who u call when you have issues or need soothing, and igrew up with an emotionally cold father and a narrsassistic mother who to this day have never even told me they loved me (ever, seriously) or that theyre proud of me I don't even have pictures of me with them, cause their aren't any :( I feel like I was setup to fail as an adult in relationships due to my upbringing, cause I gave the hardest time attaching and then de-tatching. But your videos are actually somethimg I watch during tough times to help me and I'm trying to fix myself with the advice you give in them cause i can't afford the sessions right now unfortunately. I have 2 kids with handicaps who need me to be the best i can be so I'm trying to do that for them. Everything I do is for then cause I want them to be happy and have the live I didn't. So thank you guys, for everything. And I'm gonna keep watching and growing while you make more videos😊🙏💕

  • @thtboirich_
    @thtboirich_ 6 років тому +2

    Nice job coach Craig and coach Margaret

  • @jennifererby7266
    @jennifererby7266 6 років тому +8

    Thanks coach Craig you helped me to smile again thank you so much

  • @randysimmons1260
    @randysimmons1260 6 років тому +6

    Thank you Craig Kenneth for your wisdom an clinical skills..

  • @becsterino
    @becsterino 6 років тому +2

    Aside from the very positive advice, I also enjoy the Star Wars references, on May the 4th. This is surely work of the force

  • @missteresamaclean83
    @missteresamaclean83 4 роки тому +1

    You two are so sweet to watch. I love you two together ❤️. Margaret you are such a lovely woman! God bless.

  • @alnthevalley1
    @alnthevalley1 6 років тому +3

    One hour for each month!!! That’s awesome!

  • @lke4907
    @lke4907 6 років тому +24

    Awe love coach Margaret! Xoxo

  • @FreeTBT1
    @FreeTBT1 5 років тому

    Very true Craig. I do sleep listening all such videos like yours. It really help me out. Thanks to you all

  • @elijahtucker3937
    @elijahtucker3937 Місяць тому

    i was referred to you , you are the best i agree with the people
    more people need to know about you

  • @anothertechies8146
    @anothertechies8146 Рік тому +1

    I always listen to your videos to calm my head before sleeping ❤️ thank you both of you and for this channel

  • @chadbeason1322
    @chadbeason1322 5 років тому +15

    It’s funny, because I go to sleep watching your videos as well. Lol It’s soothing to know, that this is normal.