I Cant Stop Thinking About My Ex (What Should I Do?)

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  • Опубліковано 15 бер 2018
  • Often times after a breakup we just can't stop thinking about our ex. They weigh heavy on our mind and often to the point where we can't think of anything else. So, how can you stop thinking about them? Coach Craig and Margaret talk about why and what to do!
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  • @CoachCraigKenneth
    @CoachCraigKenneth  6 років тому +115

    What did you guys think of this video? Was it helpful?

    • @ruthgonzalez3767
      @ruthgonzalez3767 6 років тому +2

      Coach Craig Kenneth YES! It's very helpful, Thank you! I will love myself more..pressing forward.... I do believe that time will heal.... and I wish him well.

    • @ruthgonzalez3767
      @ruthgonzalez3767 6 років тому +6

      Both of you are a Great Team

    • @Lunamoth227
      @Lunamoth227 6 років тому

      Coach Craig Kenneth my ex texted me yesterday after no contact for three weeks. Um I’m dying for our session Thursday

    • @smallfish5193
      @smallfish5193 6 років тому +8

      I have a very bad depression and anxiety. Sometimes I feel like I can't feel happy without him anymore. I don't feel like to do anything and live sometimes

    • @kirkv2262
      @kirkv2262 6 років тому +2

      Very helpful. Now that I’ve had a couple weeks since my break up I realize what a nut case and immature Selfish, self centered person my ex-girlfriend was. Your videos really lean perspective insights.Keep up the good work both of you!

  • @mementomori8791
    @mementomori8791 5 років тому +196

    If I understand it correctly, the framework for the obsession to stop is this: make your brain realize that a reunion with your ex is definitely possible and nothing is wrong. What you must do now is live your life as if that didn’t matter. It’s a win-win situation: if your ex comes back around, it’s bliss or it’s useless, since you might have realized by now you’re better off without them. If the ex never shows up, you’re already living another life anyway and it doesn’t matter.

    • @godcomplex8251
      @godcomplex8251 Рік тому +6

      Thank you for this I needed this. I’m not waiting for her to come back but it is comforting to feel that there is a chance that at some point I can see her again, even as a friend, and catch up on all the years we spent apart from each other.

    • @sparks6477
      @sparks6477 9 місяців тому

      @@godcomplex8251 any updates

  • @josephstorm6093
    @josephstorm6093 Рік тому +3

    I miss Margaret, she reminded me of the teachers & neighbors I had growing up. Such a good lady to talk to.

  • @crimsoncray2591
    @crimsoncray2591 6 років тому +77

    Every time i am about to give up,you guys give me energy boost and remind me not to give up on myself. Thank you to two amazing persons 😘

  • @mrzahkriisos2457
    @mrzahkriisos2457 5 років тому +66

    I dont want to let go of the thoughts because i dont want to let my ex go but it's really effecting my life, i dream of them and i see their name every where i go 😣

    • @mamunurrashid5652
      @mamunurrashid5652 4 роки тому +3

      That happens,but as time passes by,things will get easier and you will slowly start to forget her!!

    • @zepherreload
      @zepherreload 11 днів тому

      I know exactly what you mean, it's really hard

  • @pauljennings7668
    @pauljennings7668 4 роки тому +23

    I put your videos on to calm and soothe myself - especially at night. Sometimes you are the only people who give me hope that I'm not going completely mad. Thank you both for all you do.

  • @bugs62
    @bugs62 4 роки тому +15

    Im crying while listening to your advices, this anxiety is killing me.

  • @ellenbartlett7933
    @ellenbartlett7933 5 років тому +47

    I'm in this boat too. I miss him so much, its been nearly 5 weeks and it still really really hurts. Everything I do, I have throwbacks of him and wonder what he's thinking and what he's up to all the time. When people say "It'll get easier, you'll get over him"... but I'm currently in that state where I dont want to get over him/leave him behind cos I still want him back... and he was my best friend.
    it makes it really hard when I'm sat at my laptop trying to do my uni work.

    • @Marky-dt9xk
      @Marky-dt9xk 4 роки тому +4

      I am in the exact same boat Ellen. I know it's horrible feeling like this.. all my friends say the same thing ' yeah you will get over them' its just not like that when your soo passionate about someone and you are your best of friends:-( I feel for ya. Hope it all works out.

    • @themadmattster9647
      @themadmattster9647 4 роки тому +1

      yeah it's awful. Been since January 26th but I'm thinking of her so much

    • @harmanjotkaur3451
      @harmanjotkaur3451 3 роки тому

      How do you feel now Ellen? any updates?

    • @JihadBunnydick
      @JihadBunnydick 2 роки тому

      @@harmanjotkaur3451 She's dead

    • @nontobekobiyela2548
      @nontobekobiyela2548 2 місяці тому

      You need to realise that YOU were his best friend or at least tried to be...he was not. Hence he betrayed you. I'm sorry I'm also in the same boat

  • @meenalaregina7770
    @meenalaregina7770 5 років тому +30

    Your clinical approach takes the air out of anxiety balloons. Thank you!

  • @frankovera7553
    @frankovera7553 4 роки тому +5

    It's so sad when love is only one way, the one left doesn't love you and don't care.

  • @bluedemon218
    @bluedemon218 6 років тому +18

    Time is the only friend I have that will get her out of my head. The only things that get her out of my head is when I watch both movies & tv shows I like, as well as when I'm working. But when I'm not doing one of those 3 things she just keeps finding a way into my head. Not only that I keep wanting to get back with her yet at the same time something in the back of my head is telling me I'm better off w/out her.

  • @n26c88
    @n26c88 2 роки тому +4

    You two are keeping me sane - I'm at the exact stage you describe scared of letting go of those memories, will indulge those memories and live the sadness

  • @robertjelinski5113
    @robertjelinski5113 6 років тому +2

    Thank you Coach Margaret and Craig. You both are AMAZING! This video is a must watch more than a few times. Love you, Cheers, Rob

  • @ruthgonzalez3767
    @ruthgonzalez3767 6 років тому +44

    I'm in that boat.... It's been 2 months no contact, he tried to contact me indirectly at first 30 days..and I ignored it. He knows what I want, and I won't settle. I'm working on myself and great things are coming my way.... but I still miss him so much...it hurtssssss...

    • @qwertyyxoxo
      @qwertyyxoxo 6 років тому +9

      I'm in the same boat, stay strong sister !

    • @emmabellaqueen
      @emmabellaqueen 4 роки тому +1

      Any updates?

    • @Wifeyytalks
      @Wifeyytalks 3 роки тому

      @Mansureh Shahraki ex came back??

    • @lizxu322
      @lizxu322 3 роки тому

      Well done, just focus on yourself, never stoop, love ur high energy!!

    • @dwightschrute8141
      @dwightschrute8141 2 роки тому

      Update??

  • @onewiththeuniverseonesourc6380
    @onewiththeuniverseonesourc6380 5 років тому +19

    but its feels like ur dying if ur in that process.. it hurts so much

  • @chefsepi372
    @chefsepi372 8 місяців тому +2

    This was a great episode sending all my love to Margaret in heaven!

  • @LonelyRider87
    @LonelyRider87 Рік тому +1

    It's like scheduling "worry time" (I have GAD) but for a person vs worries. Clever. We miss you Coach Margaret 🌷

  • @judith3608
    @judith3608 2 роки тому +1

    You guys are great❣️. Had me smiling before it ended. I love how Margaret described the my conversations with my brain 😁. I love how you both cut me slack and tell me not to beat myself up. Thank you both 🙏 so much for your compassion & generous hearts. This was the BEST relief to end self flagellation❣️

  • @tr9809
    @tr9809 4 роки тому +6

    It's been six months since my gf left me for another man totally out of the blue, and I see her walking around the university all the time. She even says hello. But I still find myself crying. I want to feel better and I feel that I want her back.

  • @Sarai0901
    @Sarai0901 4 роки тому +7

    Wow, every time i lose hope you just lift me right up, thank you!

  • @matheus6894
    @matheus6894 4 роки тому +1

    man... you guys maked me understand in a new way that is possible to get over it! I'm grateful. Greetings from Brazil!

  • @bch5758
    @bch5758 2 роки тому +4

    I can’t cope with this easy come / easy go thinking some have about modern relationships .. I’m loyal and want to work things out with a partner - but mine didn’t .. I’m broken and don’t know if I can trust again

  • @purplenightmare29
    @purplenightmare29 3 роки тому +4

    Why am I the 1% whose ex got married 2 months later. Its been 8 months and it still consumes my day. I had a parent pass in december and it has just amplified the grief.💔

  • @VermontV8
    @VermontV8 4 роки тому +1

    You guys are two great specialists and thank you very much for your helpful videos

  • @TinaWiegman
    @TinaWiegman 4 роки тому +1

    One of the most helpful videos I've come across. Thank you so much.

  • @katiebennett650
    @katiebennett650 3 роки тому

    Yall two brighten my day💛💛💛

  • @sjoerdlangen2052
    @sjoerdlangen2052 Рік тому

    I really love this video, it helped me a lot! And really love your chemistry together haha. Thanks guys!

  • @amythomas7460
    @amythomas7460 2 роки тому +2

    😳 wow amazing video! im going to try this! for obsessive thoughts i thought i was literally going crazy! 😭 thank you guys!

  • @Marky-dt9xk
    @Marky-dt9xk 4 роки тому +1

    Top work guys👍 love ya both, emotionally and spritually💜

  • @sherifatiyumba9386
    @sherifatiyumba9386 4 роки тому

    Thanks a lot, Magaret and Craig. You 2 have really helped me

  • @SpbElena
    @SpbElena 6 років тому +33

    After hearing about your grand gesture I regretted not having dated you!

  • @juliefrecker3811
    @juliefrecker3811 4 роки тому +1

    I've learned a lot from these videos. I will take the advice and not blame myself for break up.

  • @millievanillie1352
    @millievanillie1352 5 років тому

    Wonderful advice that I needed to hear! Thank you! The only thing that irks me is when people mix up the words "unconscious" and "subconscious".

  • @philtacbobo9241
    @philtacbobo9241 3 роки тому +9

    COACH CAN YOU MAKE A VID EXPLANATION OF "IF MY EX COMES BACK EVEN THOUGH I WANT TO WORK IT OUT BUT I DONT TRUST HER/HIM ANYMORE BECAUSE SHE/HE LEFT ME" PLSSS COACH FOR INSIGHTS GOD BLESS AND THANK YOU

  • @thtboirich_
    @thtboirich_ 6 років тому

    This is why I can't stop thinking about this video is because its so fantastic

  • @marykenney3318
    @marykenney3318 4 роки тому

    You guys are SO amazing!! You clarified my boyfriend's insane behavior in 2009!! He dumped me hard in 2012. THIS video explained it ALL!! Love you so much!! 🥰

  • @aselalovesjoy7368
    @aselalovesjoy7368 3 роки тому

    Thankyou. It's a relief. I didnt know what I've been experiencing for 3yrs now is an obsessive thoughts. ❤

  • @antoinetterocco3701
    @antoinetterocco3701 2 роки тому +2

    It’s almost three years abs it still hurts

  • @lanieamit5314
    @lanieamit5314 4 роки тому +5

    yeah so difficult . i wanna hit my head on the wall just to atleast forget him stop thinking of him even just an hour . no matter how tired i am still cant sleep and when i can sleep it is just for few mins and there it goes . tears fell down again just wake up at mid night to cry missing him so much . and it hurts me more knowing i am just the only one that is hurting

  • @mamunurrashid5652
    @mamunurrashid5652 4 роки тому

    Great advice. This works!!

  • @Al-Ammar
    @Al-Ammar 5 років тому +1

    Thank you 🦋 this was so helpful!😘

  • @DanielleFerreira-kt7ix
    @DanielleFerreira-kt7ix 6 років тому +16

    My ex married the next person... 6 months after he ended our relationship of 5 years... he was a bit too fast, wasn't he?? Deep inside I think this marriage can never work...

    • @2K9PATSY
      @2K9PATSY 6 років тому +10

      D D Way to rushed doesn’t even know the person lol

    • @shiningdiva_2
      @shiningdiva_2 6 років тому +7

      D D Sorry to hear that. I think he just wanted hurting you.

    • @sonudadyalia6053
      @sonudadyalia6053 4 роки тому +1

      I understand your pain i am suffering from same as well my ex married someone else after 3 year relation its so hard to take

  • @coopdonovan2997
    @coopdonovan2997 5 років тому +2

    Thank you Craig and Margaret. You're doing god's work.

  • @zabikthawng
    @zabikthawng 4 роки тому

    This video is amazing!

  • @cindyfrancessalcedo1306
    @cindyfrancessalcedo1306 5 років тому +2

    you're vlog is so educational,im learning a lot from your advices,i no longer care if he's coming back or not,i learned to love myself even more.....at the end of the day,i should keep going😇🤗😍he'll always be special for me even if were not meant to be.....🤗

  • @mini_frank
    @mini_frank 5 років тому +7

    day 7, I tried to make grand gesture every single day, she called cops and was collecting evidence that I am approaching her, I still love her, but I am accepting that she thinks I am a threat and we probably will never see each other, she told me we are getting married 10 days ago, I am a mess, I am helpless, I still don't believe someone that loved me can erase me out of their life so easy, but she's not her and I am not me anymore.

    • @SecretSickle89
      @SecretSickle89 4 роки тому +4

      Frank Liu exactly the same thing is happening to me. She hasn’t called the cops and I haven’t made any grand gestures, but she has amputated me like a tumour. That’s the hardest part - how she can go from cuddling in bed one day, to having no love for you the next. It’s cold, it’s harsh and it’s brutal. But it’s life.

  • @suewhyte2081
    @suewhyte2081 3 роки тому +6

    I listen to you two every night. It’s so good for me.

    • @whiteroseguidance157
      @whiteroseguidance157 3 роки тому

      I Know Of a Great Relationship Restorer Who Can Bring Back Your Ex Within 2days Without No Daley 💝

    • @whiteroseguidance157
      @whiteroseguidance157 3 роки тому

      He was the one who helped me restored back my broken relationship of three years without stress nor delay 🥰

  • @flightramirez
    @flightramirez Рік тому +1

    It's been almost a year and here and there I'll have relapses where I'll start to think about them but keep pushing through the storm

  • @jazk3992
    @jazk3992 5 років тому

    Love the video. Great advice👍👍

  • @lawschoolpro
    @lawschoolpro 6 років тому

    Happy belated st patricks coach craig and margaret.

  • @hollydrucker9929
    @hollydrucker9929 5 років тому +1

    Very helpful... working on myself has been very helpful. And coming to this video made me realize why i am thinking what I am thinking. A understanding like this [triggers] can be mind blowing. Thank you again Margaret and Craig you two are the best of the best. Hang in there folks.

  • @mercedeslivingston8503
    @mercedeslivingston8503 4 роки тому

    This was soooo helpful thank you!

  • @stuartkeenan2319
    @stuartkeenan2319 6 років тому +4

    Hey coach your videos are great and give me some real comfort when I watch as I'm going through the toughest stage of my life ever, I was happily in love with my gf and have a baby on the way when suddenly she ended it for no reason and after some digging I found out her ex is now living with her and it's ripped me apart, I'm struggling to just get through one day but your video give me some good insight how to get through this

    • @jameswb8873
      @jameswb8873 3 роки тому +1

      How's this now for you? Hope you made it to a better place and new relationship

    • @rustyrivers7118
      @rustyrivers7118 Рік тому +1

      how are things man?

  • @TheClimateChannel
    @TheClimateChannel 5 років тому +4

    We are okay!

  • @PianoMan4Life1982
    @PianoMan4Life1982 5 років тому +13

    Thanks for your help. I had a dream that I saw her and I felt terrible. She left me for someone else and I feel awful every day. Today is day 9 of no contact and it is so tough.

    • @kewthi
      @kewthi 5 років тому +1

      PianoMan4Life1982 day 9 of no contact for me too. About 2.5 weeks breakup. Fresh. These videos are helping.

    • @ArjanTV
      @ArjanTV 5 років тому +8

      Bro she don't deserve you if you contact her ur a dick! You lost a girl wich dumped you for another guy and she lost a guy wich loved her! So st the end of the day she lost not you. You will meet a girl who will love you and won't dumb you for none in the world. The reason im watching this video today is because o was thinking about my ex aswell today and the reason was she texted me after 3 years o.O telling me how stupid she was for braking up etc hahaha she finally realized but its late now. So my advice is don't waste time with her anymore. You will suffer for few months or even years(if you wont find another love) its something normal. Be strong brother

    • @zabikthawng
      @zabikthawng 4 роки тому

      I am in no contact for 1 day and I feel like I am going to die. What should do?

    • @PieterFret
      @PieterFret 3 роки тому

      Oh, the dreams... With my previous ex, I dreamed every night that she was cheating on me, or I ran into her with a new guy, stuff like that... I'd wake up all upset and anxious. Then with my latest ex (broke up with me 2 weeks ago), I dreamed last night that she came to me, wanted to make things right and start a relationship again. We hugged and kissed. It felt so real, I was so happy... Then I woke up, realized it was a dream and felt depressed as ****.

  • @suzannem8265
    @suzannem8265 6 років тому +2

    Wow I could’ve saved myself a lot of obsession! Now I understand why I spin those reunion fantasies. Do I stop them the same way?
    I think I have to rewatch the video a few more times. Very insightful!

    • @DL-rl9bd
      @DL-rl9bd 6 років тому +2

      Suzanne M Ugh, I hate those reunion fantasies. They have music and everything. We had a kid together, and he’s always playing, happily, in the background :(

  • @Troy12-fitnessmodel
    @Troy12-fitnessmodel 5 місяців тому

    Day 61 NC and over Christmas has been truly painful. 8 years together, engaged and got a 2 year old little girl. I'm trying to trust the process but its so hard.
    Thankfully family facilitate contact with my daughter

  • @ranarene5965
    @ranarene5965 5 років тому

    Thank you guys.

  • @whitesands7900
    @whitesands7900 3 роки тому

    Awesome. Great advice delivered with love. Thankyou. Xxx

    • @whiteroseguidance157
      @whiteroseguidance157 3 роки тому

      I Know Of a Great Relationship Restorer Who Can Bring Back Your Ex Within 2days Without No Daley

    • @whiteroseguidance157
      @whiteroseguidance157 3 роки тому

      He was the one who helped me restored back my broken relationship of three years without stress nor delay

  • @little_miss_muffet
    @little_miss_muffet Рік тому

    13 weeks today since he broke up with me; and 16 weeks since we last saw each other. I thought I was doing well - I’ve been spending time with friends and family, busying myself with work, getting back into hobbies, eating well, I’ve lost 33 lbs. This week I’m struggling a bit more for some reason. I still miss him every day 😔

  • @paulstanley88
    @paulstanley88 3 роки тому +7

    Thanks for this video. It's been almost 4 weeks since it ended with what I thought was the woman I would be with forever. Still crying from time to time but not everyday as the first 2 weeks, but tbh I miss her so much it's unbearable some days.

    • @paulstanley88
      @paulstanley88 3 роки тому

      Jimbo Lowe Thank you

    • @paulstanley88
      @paulstanley88 3 роки тому

      Jimbo Lowe None whatsoever

    • @paulstanley88
      @paulstanley88 3 роки тому

      Jimbo Lowe Oh I’m sorry to hear that bro! How long has it been since it ended?
      I really feel for you. 5 years is a long time, but I sense that you’re dealing with this quite good and being strong about this.

    • @paulstanley88
      @paulstanley88 3 роки тому

      Jimbo Lowe That’s rough man. Let her be and cool off for the time being. Eventually she’ll start to wonder about if her decision was really the right one. You got lots of history together so I think your chances are big. My ex has reached out twice now, but it’s too soon and she won’t let me move on. The latest reachout was some weeks ago, she mailed me she needed my help (but nothing else in the mail) and tried to call me. She forgot she broke up with me and that I don’t want to be just friends. Felt alot like breadcrumbing or as she wanted to make sure I was still her doormat. Anyways, stay in no contact. I know the urge of reaching out first will be overwhelming, but try to do something else when that happens.

    • @paulstanley88
      @paulstanley88 3 роки тому +1

      Jimbo Lowe Okay, just don’t lose yourself in this process. She needs to feel the loss and sit with her decision. Remember that. Put yourself first now. I really wish you best of luck!

  • @kaitlynlevine7158
    @kaitlynlevine7158 6 років тому +2

    Thank you for this video. It helps to know I am not alone. I'm going through a breakup with a coworker. He seems to be doing well. When I started sensing that a breakup was coming, that's when the obsessive thoughts started. I'm trying to do everything but it's unrelenting as I have to see him everyday. It's like I get to experience the breakup everyday.

  • @lesleysole6427
    @lesleysole6427 2 роки тому

    Instead to your videos morning when I'm home and always at night ..
    When I first going through my brewj up n on bas days I will listen through out the day too ..
    I put you on my pillow n listen to uou all night as ymfrom say 1 these calm me from my anxiety, also learning . Thinking yes thats what I think or something...
    Im nearly finished my first knowledge book ..
    So excited for the second....

    • @lesleysole6427
      @lesleysole6427 2 роки тому

      I meant first line , I listen to your videos etc

  • @sepehr_moghani
    @sepehr_moghani 4 роки тому +14

    It’s been over 4 months since she broke up. I went to no contact almost immediately but I still haven’t heard a word from her and I’m very confused.
    This is a girl who would call me in the morning if I didn’t text her good morning or get upset if I didn’t go to her place to see her everyday. We had communication problems which caused the break up but I don’t understand how she could just disappear like this.

    • @m.a6899
      @m.a6899 4 роки тому +4

      Same here man. This girl was head over heals for me. Everyone saw it and knew it. I took her for granted a little bit and had issues with my personal life in the background and she just left. almost 2 months and a half and no word from her. I feel like Im dying. How could she just leave like that?

    • @seeflow
      @seeflow 4 роки тому +5

      Add me to list of those whose loved ones disappeared in an instant. In my case, she monkey branched me. Ouch! It’s crazy how the night before it was “I love you”, etc. Little did I know I’d read a life changing text the next morning, just days before Valentines Day. I guess she had plans with the new boo. I never saw the cold hearted bitch DNA during the previous four years. I suspect women who walk away do so because their next lover is waiting. I don’t think women, in general, leave to be alone or to work on themselves.

    • @Spiderclawz
      @Spiderclawz 3 роки тому +5

      seeflow if they don’t work on themselves then they won’t have healthy relationships and you’re better off finding someone else

    • @seeflow
      @seeflow 3 роки тому +1

      Definitely agree, Spiderclawz.

    • @kewl800i
      @kewl800i 3 роки тому

      How are you now bro? Maybe you have an avoidant attachment style?

  • @Rjnsg77
    @Rjnsg77 4 місяці тому

    Time doesn't help guys!! I'm obsessed with my ex for a year now

  • @rawrjessirawr1991
    @rawrjessirawr1991 6 років тому +4

    Day 3 for me and it's so hard, I want to just love myself but can't stop thinking what I need to work on so this never happens next time so keep thinking what did I do wrong. .

  • @craigmerrila7767
    @craigmerrila7767 3 роки тому +6

    2 years later, I still think of her every day.
    But yesterday was a step back.
    A Facebook memory of her came up that I had forgotten, and I clicked on It, which l ed me to see her fb for the FIRST time in 2 years. And her profile pic is her and her partner she met straight after me.
    I felt so sad, the feeling of being replaced. It's been awful.
    It must be serious if she has made a profile pic with her boyfriend.
    She didn't do that with me in 16 months of dating!
    So I have some more work to do. I will seek a therapist.
    Being this reactive 2 years later is not healthy.

    • @maybugz
      @maybugz 3 роки тому +2

      Shit man I feel for you. A pic of my ex and her rebound showed up 6 weeks after we split. That has been on my mind for 8 months now. Sent me into a depression. I hope you're feeling better now.

  • @jamesleegalarpe6169
    @jamesleegalarpe6169 5 років тому

    Nice video ever tnx coach 😉😉😉😉😉

  • @nicholascarpenter389
    @nicholascarpenter389 4 роки тому +2

    Ive been married for 3 yrs in my 4th and best marriage my wife has bi polar 1&2 .We have been thru alot in the 5 yrs we have been together i havent heard from her in 3 wks im scared lonely and distraught ive tried everything i can think of. I dont want my marriage to end she wanted counsling but unfortunately due to my child support obligations we are unable to afford it please help me win the love of my life back. I think about her everyday coincidence time of our anniversary birthdays ect ect. Im so lost everything we have sacrificed for stood for anxiously waited for is at our fingure tips and i feel like i never existed to her

  • @sk3586
    @sk3586 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you. I am thinking that my ex is with someone else. I just realized I am not a prophet. Thank you.

  • @jfr43
    @jfr43 2 роки тому

    4 years later I’m watching this videos and realizing a lot stuff. In less than 3 weeks I lost my grandmother, my work cut my hours and my girlfriend left me with my unborn child. I want her back but what else can happen to me🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️🤷🏽‍♂️

  • @lesleysole6427
    @lesleysole6427 2 роки тому +1

    It hurts to much to keep thinking ..I just staying in bed ...not going to work ..

  • @LiLgPnoy15
    @LiLgPnoy15 4 роки тому +4

    I never thought of talking to my own brain. I might try that.

  • @angelwarda
    @angelwarda 5 років тому +1

    i love you guys so much....

  • @melanieflynn1832
    @melanieflynn1832 3 роки тому

    lol.. love the story about your grand gesture of the yard.. I heard it before just made me laugh and smile again. I love you two lol

    • @whiteroseguidance157
      @whiteroseguidance157 3 роки тому

      I Know Of a Great Relationship Restorer Who Can Bring Back Your Ex Within 2days Without No Daley

    • @whiteroseguidance157
      @whiteroseguidance157 3 роки тому

      He was the one who helped me restored back my broken relationship of three years without stress nor delay

  • @LiLgPnoy15
    @LiLgPnoy15 4 роки тому +2

    This is exactly what I am going through.

  • @MikeJackson690
    @MikeJackson690 4 роки тому +9

    I JUST WANT TO SPEAK TO YOU, ARGH!! This has been a traumatic split for me. I miss her so so much and am so regretful. I can't move on 😔

    • @dominictheace8235
      @dominictheace8235 4 роки тому +2

      I feel the exact same way

    • @MikeJackson690
      @MikeJackson690 3 роки тому +1

      @@girijathesaviour9290 She's now sleeping with someone I once considered a 'best friend' and I'm single AF. Hoping next year is kinder. Thank you for asking 🙂

    • @MikeJackson690
      @MikeJackson690 3 роки тому +1

      @@girijathesaviour9290 Not really as I had to deal with the friendship betrayal as well as the breakup. It's been awful. You don't want that, believe me.

    • @MikeJackson690
      @MikeJackson690 3 роки тому

      @@girijathesaviour9290 Really sorry to hear that, too. It takes AGES to recover. I'm still not right 1.5ish years later. I hope we both fare better in the long run. Drop me a message here any time you want to talk. Notifs are on 🙂

    • @MikeJackson690
      @MikeJackson690 3 роки тому

      @@girijathesaviour9290 You seem set on 'revenge' but whatever that entails isn't worth the emotional stress or the effort, for your sake. It's not up to you to try to control her now. In fact, the only person you can ever have full control over is yourself. Her actions from now are her responsibility. I don't know what she did to you but it's important for you that you go and live your life now, for you. If you take action you may feel guilt and you'll only serve to sabotage yourself. I really hope you put the energy into making your life better, rather than her life worse.

  • @baishalinandan8070
    @baishalinandan8070 4 роки тому

    Hi, I am from India and was same sax relationship,my ex left me 3 months ago and I am in a NC and I got to know she’s talking to someone during the quarantine lockdown,this girl is from our office and had a crush on my ex , I am scared and what should I do ? Please help

  • @lourdesbeltran4899
    @lourdesbeltran4899 5 років тому

    I think of my ex alot why I try to block him and then I turn the radio station and the song o here make me cry don't know of he live in the town were we lived he told me that he going to lever out town did he

  • @sandyhowell3256
    @sandyhowell3256 5 років тому +2

    I would love to talk but cant aford

  • @mbs3659
    @mbs3659 5 років тому +6

    I am even more scare now, i have broken up with Jorge and his daughter is Jorghina...

  • @Eddieg56
    @Eddieg56 6 років тому

    This is soooo true ..I have it ptsd

  • @iconicsavage2327
    @iconicsavage2327 3 роки тому +2

    “Her broom works just fine ! “ LMAO =) I love these two!!

  • @christianquintana254
    @christianquintana254 6 років тому +13

    It's been 6 months since me and my ex broke up we just graduated high school back in May I know it was just a high school relationship but we were together for 2 1/2 years. It still bugs me that I'm still hung up about it. She started dating another guy not even a week later. It's even worse because I know that I am doing so much better without her I lost a lot of weight and even bought a new Jeep. It still just sucks I can't forget about her or move on. I don't know what to do anymore I'm on the verge of breaking down.

    • @global2765
      @global2765 6 років тому +4

      Christian Quintana give it time, the fact you are progressing means it's positive... just give it time.

    • @SuperSilverJay
      @SuperSilverJay 6 років тому +3

      That’s totally normal. I have a friend who was with someone for a year. It’s been 6 months and she’s not over it. You’re going to be okay. Hang in there.

    • @joshuarghhh
      @joshuarghhh 5 років тому

      Yeah would love to know Christian, how are you now mate?

    • @ArjanTV
      @ArjanTV 5 років тому

      @@joshuarghhh nah bro he going to love and think about her another 3/4 years! unless he he have found a girl wich will fall in love more.

  • @1willywonker
    @1willywonker 4 роки тому +1

    i guess its best to move on if you can

  • @teresakline144
    @teresakline144 4 роки тому +4

    I’m convinced my ex is moving on, 35 days and still no contact, I’m dying 😞😫

    • @teresakline144
      @teresakline144 4 роки тому

      @@SNiiFiinPAiiNT nope still nothing, I give up 😆, lol I’m moving on! How about you?

    • @teresakline144
      @teresakline144 4 роки тому

      @@fredoliver69 haha nope I’m done, I don’t want him anymore 😆😆

    • @RenskeLogie
      @RenskeLogie 3 роки тому

      did he contact you?

    • @teresakline144
      @teresakline144 3 роки тому

      @@RenskeLogie Hey no.. still no contact 🤨🤷🏽‍♀️😆 next ... lol kidding gotta laugh!

  • @theviking6593
    @theviking6593 Рік тому

    Looks like i can not control it! I can't forget her , she left me for someone else

  • @Elvira_Berzina
    @Elvira_Berzina 4 роки тому +1

    It’s now been a lil over 3 months and it’s hurting more and more i have arranged to meet with someone else but all I can think about is my ex my anxiety is going through the roof and I don’t know what to do at this stage it’s really getting to me

    • @SpaceCadet4Jesus
      @SpaceCadet4Jesus 3 роки тому

      My unsolicited advice: Buy the workbooks from Coach Craig and learn. As you go through the workbook, watch as your anxiety dissolves and you realize you don't need "someone" in order to be yourself. Learning, as we did in school, removes the fear because we now understand the subject and have the needed tools to work with. Knowledge is power, Applied knowledge is even better.

  • @Finally4Christ
    @Finally4Christ 6 років тому +2

    I randomly called him this morning after 10 days of no contact. He didn't answer the first time and I didn't leave a message. I hung up and wrote up what I wanted to say in a message and called back about 30 min later and he answered. I used what I wrote to start the conversation and we talk for 3.5 hours. I don't know for sure, but we might try to get together on the 31st. We will see.

    • @kaiisuu
      @kaiisuu 6 років тому +1

      Angela Barber I hope it worked. Wish you the best

    • @joshuarghhh
      @joshuarghhh 5 років тому +4

      What happened with you and you're ex? How are you now?

    • @bilwmedia
      @bilwmedia 4 роки тому +1

      joshuarghhh update

  • @faezahjumahat4196
    @faezahjumahat4196 3 роки тому

    Hi Coach Craig & Coach Magaret Good Morning From Singapore! What Would One Do If A Person's Feels Neglected Or IGnores By Their Ex & A Woman's Intend To End The Relationship If A Guy's Or A Man's Not Taking Actions With Their Emotions? Will A Guy's Truly Be Dedicated Or Responssible If A Woman Did Not Want AnyThing With A Man's Who Is Not Trying To Do What Is Right For Them? Than A Woman Has Her Own Family's To Leans On & Heals All Logical Thinking And Never Wants To Returns To That Bad Relationship & The Obsessive Thoughts Or A Woman's Has Done All The Necessary But The Universe Wants To Teach SomeThing's Else? Can Time Apart Will Awakend A Wounded-Soul & When A Guy's Or A Man's Get Blown Away By The Beauty Of A Natural Woman? Is It Easy For A Guy's Or A Man's To Returns To His Ultimate PartNer & Be His One & Only Soul-Tie/Twin-Flame/ Soul-Mate Connection & Reached Out Again After SomeBody's Been Telling The Guy That The One Who He Get Married Did SomeThing's To His 'Secret Rendevous' & He Wants To Ended That Nerve-Wrecking Frustrated Relationship He Choosed To Ended Immediately? What Will A Woman's Get From All The Drama Or Avoid Attachments to The Events That Occurs & Be Heal From All Negativity?

    • @whiteroseguidance157
      @whiteroseguidance157 3 роки тому

      I Know Of a Great Relationship Restorer Who Can Bring Back Your Ex Within 2days Without No Daley 💝

    • @whiteroseguidance157
      @whiteroseguidance157 3 роки тому

      He was the one who helped me restored back my broken relationship of three years without stress nor delay 🥰

  • @glenndiddy
    @glenndiddy 4 роки тому +1

    Okay, so I have a slightly different problem. I have had Heart and Soul in my head for the last 6 hours. I'm trying my hardest to think of my ex, but all I can hear in my brain is that fucking song. I can't get rid of it. I've been humming it for half the day. HELP, SEND HELP, give me my obsessive ex thoughts back

  • @rebekahtinker1749
    @rebekahtinker1749 4 роки тому +2

    I am trying....2 months on still obsessing on my ex...the good memories. Despite the fact he has only contacted me over the last 2 months to tell me how terrible I was. I feel truly unlikable and unlovable now.

  • @1willywonker
    @1willywonker 4 роки тому

    whats wrong with going back to your ex

  • @ellenbartlett7933
    @ellenbartlett7933 5 років тому +4

    Also I cant afford to reach out to you, thats why I can't do your coaching, I'm a student and I'm soo poor

    • @lizxu322
      @lizxu322 3 роки тому +1

      If u follow no contact to a tee, watch his other videos and use common sense you should be successful regardless

  • @27emailsicantsend
    @27emailsicantsend 4 роки тому

    I would reach out if I could but I don’t have the money :(

  • @jcn716
    @jcn716 Рік тому

    Please, Im trying to stop thinking about my ex and keeping myself distracted. And sure for a day I may be successful, but then he pops up in my dreams. In the span of a month, Ive had more dreams abt him compared to the dreams Ive had of my prev 2 loves before him combined 😭

  • @bob-a-louannamaria7960
    @bob-a-louannamaria7960 4 роки тому +13

    As i sit here listening I visualize my ex in bed with someone new... UGH

    • @dominictheace8235
      @dominictheace8235 4 роки тому +3

      Same that’s the worst

    • @staciehampton7048
      @staciehampton7048 4 роки тому +1

      freaking sameee :(

    • @mjay417
      @mjay417 4 роки тому +1

      Yep

    • @themadmattster9647
      @themadmattster9647 4 роки тому +8

      don't do it. Think of them with someone worse than you and wanting you back :)

    • @terrihamet5617
      @terrihamet5617 2 роки тому +1

      The man I love DID have sex with someone else. This was 6 months ago and I haven't seen him since. It still hurts badly when I think about it and I still can't stop obsessing over him😰

  • @carterwatson1949
    @carterwatson1949 3 роки тому

    I’m thinking about my ex still from when I was 16 right now all I wanna do is just check in make sure she’s okay & happy. I haven’t spoken to her in maybe a year

    • @alexjack8222
      @alexjack8222 3 роки тому

      I know someone who can help you get your ex back

    • @whiteroseguidance157
      @whiteroseguidance157 3 роки тому

      I Know Of a Great Relationship Restorer Who Can Bring Back Your Ex Within 2days Without No Daley 💝

    • @whiteroseguidance157
      @whiteroseguidance157 3 роки тому

      He was the one who helped me restored back my broken relationship of three years without stress nor delay 🥰

  • @PESFIFA95
    @PESFIFA95 6 років тому +5

    Please help! My ex just reached out after 3 weeks, and said she hoped I was ok and if I could send her some money that i owe her. Do you think she just want her money or did she reach out cause she misses me too? Should I ask to meet?

    • @numbre1uno
      @numbre1uno 6 років тому +5

      NO! She just wants MONEY. Trust me

    • @LaoSoftware
      @LaoSoftware 6 років тому +7

      Give her the money. You owe her. And NO, she doesn't miss you. She just want her money back.

    • @joshuarghhh
      @joshuarghhh 5 років тому +1

      How are things with your ex now? Did you ask to meet? That would have been the wrong move. Always pretend that you're over them. It makes them second guess themselves.

    • @schabbing1
      @schabbing1 5 років тому +5

      Bro if you owe her money pay her back jeez . Don't be that guy

  • @shirleytorres339
    @shirleytorres339 3 роки тому +1

    I broke up with my ex 3 months I was fine at first then he kept looking for me so we’ve been going back and forth ever since . It’s been a week now that he choose to break up and I’m devastated can’t sleep can’t eat just can’t stop thinking about him 😩

    • @whiteroseguidance157
      @whiteroseguidance157 3 роки тому

      I Know Of a Great Relationship Restorer Who Can Bring Back Your Ex Within 2days Without No Daley 💝

    • @whiteroseguidance157
      @whiteroseguidance157 3 роки тому

      He was the one who helped me restored back my broken relationship of three years without stress nor delay 🥰