HOW TO START: turning goals into habits, finding motivation & achieving goals in 2023

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  • Опубліковано 2 гру 2024

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  • @ashmscotty
    @ashmscotty Рік тому +5

    i love your realistic approach with setting + working towards goals. slow and steady definitely wins the race and helps you create a better lifestyle! also side note, in one of your videos you mentioned that when you have work tasks that will only take you a few minutes to do, you do it right then instead of adding to your to do list. that has been the biggest game changer for me as a work from home girly who always has a million tasks to do!!!

  • @mollymayb_
    @mollymayb_ Рік тому +2

    Everyone is different. I’m always overwhelming myself with tasks and habits, the less habits you have the easier and longer you will stick to them (that’s what I have noticed) but everyone is different❤You have done amazing, a great start to 2023! You have motivated me to keep going as difficult as it is😁

  • @hannahhaederle-collier2334
    @hannahhaederle-collier2334 Рік тому +1

    Your honest content has inspired me to create a realistic routine and habits that I'm doing really well at keeping consistent so far. I also highly recommend doing your own nails, I love it! Its very creative and relaxing, plus it saves me some money! I love trying new techniques each time. I still support my local salon and get my nails done there 2-3 times a year for special occasions and it feels like a real treat that I appreciate even more!

  • @oliviaherzog6755
    @oliviaherzog6755 Рік тому +5

    Resonated with everything you said! Also I definitely agree with sustainable goals. Building new goals and habits is a marathon, not a sprint. Thanks for the reminder Carter!

  • @theamoremovement8773
    @theamoremovement8773 Рік тому

    Wow the kitchen looks FABULOUS!!

  • @hsoderberg6505
    @hsoderberg6505 Рік тому +2

    Connect with nature could be a goal & a walk in the forest one of the ways. There are lots of studies that show that show improvements in well-being by getting outdoors.

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  Рік тому

      A great point! I already spend tons of time outside so I don't feel like I need to set that as a goal but that could be a great idea for others!!

  • @brooklynjess
    @brooklynjess Рік тому +20

    These are great reminders about the all or nothing mindset! I was sick for the first week of the new year and it was so disappointing because I couldn't do my morning routine at all but I just reminded myself that it didn't matter, I could just pick it back up in the second week of January instead! It was more important to rest and get better than to push myself to do more than I could. 💖

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  Рік тому +2

      Yes yes yes!! You can start fresh any day♥️

    • @mansoor3159
      @mansoor3159 Рік тому

      @@CarterSullivan please reply my comment 😭😭

  • @Linda.Rose2014
    @Linda.Rose2014 Рік тому +4

    You speak a mile a minute and to be honest… I love it! Lol. I thought it was just me 😂. No idea how I found your channel but it was perfect timing for the new year and your already holding me accountable!

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  Рік тому +3

      Its me hi I do talk a mile a minute hahaha I've always been a fast talker😂

    • @Linda.Rose2014
      @Linda.Rose2014 Рік тому +2

      @@CarterSullivan me too!

  • @randitocherox
    @randitocherox Рік тому

    love hearing your goals for this new year carter

  • @TheVanillebluete
    @TheVanillebluete Рік тому

    With goals I always think half of it goes into having systems in place that make them achievable ...life is chaotic so the focus will be lost..even health is typically put on the backburner but if the system assures it you have an easier time hitting them .. like for instance the walkability of a city having a generally good effect on the health of the city .. now downsize this to your own surrounding

  • @amyworley6221
    @amyworley6221 Рік тому

    loving these 2023 videos!!!❤

  • @mariadimas
    @mariadimas Рік тому

    I really love your view on goals and how to go through them, it feels like a much lighter and doable approach without being overwhelming. So thank you for sharing! 🥰
    Also want to know, where your notebook/to-do where you've written the 'get it done in january' is from? Thank you 😊

  • @emmyjulianne6850
    @emmyjulianne6850 Рік тому +2

    20:40 this hit hard. I took a whole week off work to declutter my apartment and I was beating myself up this morning (I go back to work tomorrow) for not doing enough. Even though my initial goal was to get ONE specific room in order. Most people have a catch-all drawer…we created a catch-all ROOM. our spare room was so filled to the brim with absolute GARBAGE!!! I cleaned it out, plus our kitchen cabinets, plus our counters, plus got rid of half my clothes that I don’t wear or don’t fit, and a plethora of other things. And I STILL was telling myself I didn’t do enough!! Rome was not built in a day, OR a week. It takes time. Thank you!

  • @LamiaElhoni
    @LamiaElhoni 3 місяці тому

    I came from the future darling you have changed tremendously amazingly into a better carter🎉

  • @helenvanzetten
    @helenvanzetten Рік тому

    What is that board game with the letters and buzzer thing? Looks fun!

  • @SashSays
    @SashSays Рік тому

    Loved this video Carter!! ❤️❤️ one of your best!! 🎉 your editing and your habits were top notch xoxo love stella and matt content always toooo

  • @karinafarrell6035
    @karinafarrell6035 Рік тому

    Love your goal organization in Notion, maybe I missed it but did you share the template with us? If not, any interest sharing with your adoring followers?? ☺️

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  Рік тому

      I'm sharing it in today's video!! It's not my template, I purchased it however🥰

    • @karinafarrell6035
      @karinafarrell6035 Рік тому

      @@CarterSullivan ah wonderful thank you!!

  • @lilianabean5549
    @lilianabean5549 Рік тому +1

    Great video Carter! You’re so right, a lot of UA-camrs get caught up in the routines and not the day to day minutiae! What games were you and Matt playing in the evening? That’s such a good idea instead of watching TV or scrolling together 🤦‍♀️

  • @Sabrina-jf6nk
    @Sabrina-jf6nk Рік тому

    Hey :) Loved your Video, exactly what I needed to get started, is there any way to get this Goals 2023 as a Template for Notion ? ☺️ Lots of love ❤️

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  Рік тому

      As I mentioned I'll have a full Notion tour & will link the template I bought in tomorrow's video! Stay tuned♥️

  • @knvivas
    @knvivas Рік тому

    Resonate so much with 3-4 habits being sustainable for me although I wish I could keep up with more! Thank you for that POV and for being so relatable! Also please share where your rings are from towards the end of the video 🤩

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  Рік тому

      Mickey ring is a Disney parks exclusive from Pandora & the gold one is Ana Luisa!

  • @katiekaboom7747
    @katiekaboom7747 Рік тому

    I like your DNF goal for reading. I used to make myself finish a book no matter what, and then I realized that is such a waste of my time!

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  Рік тому

      YUP SAME! And it always results in me ending up in a reading slump so my goal for this year is to finish LESS books. If I don't it, it's OK to not finish it!

  • @jeannelle_
    @jeannelle_ Рік тому +1

    I really love how you set up your goals!

  • @Haley34684
    @Haley34684 Рік тому

    I love your videos so much!

  • @rachelxelainexo
    @rachelxelainexo Рік тому

    omg EXCITED for this one

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  Рік тому +1

      Honestly same! I had so much fun filming it 🥰

  • @MariJadeWrites
    @MariJadeWrites Рік тому +1

    I needed this video :D I did start on some things, but other things still need work/starting and this is very helpful! :) Thanks!

  • @yingminlim2534
    @yingminlim2534 Рік тому

    You are so organised ❤

  • @MollyWobblesXOX
    @MollyWobblesXOX Рік тому

    Yes, slow and steady for new goals/intentions. 🥰 I also have a list on my Notion of things I want to get done around my apartment. It makes me feel even more organized going into 2023 and I can’t wait to get started on it. I already did one or two quick things and it feels great. 😁

  • @edwardleecaliforniausa
    @edwardleecaliforniausa Рік тому +1

    Hi Carter happy Sunday afternoon and I hope you having amazing day today and I loved your vlogs and happy new year to you and your loved ones and I hope that 2023 brings you a lot of love and happiness

  • @jennbuggie03
    @jennbuggie03 Рік тому

    Love this video! It’s different and still so productive. Thanks for sharing!

  • @ruebennomura9143
    @ruebennomura9143 Рік тому

    Like this video and tip and goal too

  • @kendralala580
    @kendralala580 Рік тому

    Love this! I’ve been doing my nails for a long time and it is my self care. I take my time and watch a movie while I do it and everything! I love listening to your body and respecting what you’re feeling. ❤

  • @filippersson5256
    @filippersson5256 Рік тому

    It would be fun to be involved more in your actual work but guess such is classified. How you deal with collegues maybe? I understand filing is important and all. Maybe those systems are supereffective??

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  Рік тому

      I don't really vlog much of my corporate 9-5 job as I really enjoy having a separate thing from social media! But I can talk more about my own business like this video! I was doing filing for my own business not my corporate job!

    • @filippersson5256
      @filippersson5256 Рік тому

      @@CarterSullivan ok, wow!

  • @AmaniHanna
    @AmaniHanna Рік тому +1

    You have been crushing it with these videos, Carter! You’re relatable, reasonable, and just so enjoyable to watch. Thank you for these - I always look forward to them 🤍

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  Рік тому +1

      This made my day!! Thank you for supporting and watching♥️

  • @-AtomsPhere-
    @-AtomsPhere- Рік тому +1

    I had a very great first week of the year! I enjoy this community, y’all inspire me.

  • @jasmincordelia5477
    @jasmincordelia5477 Рік тому

    Yup..week 1 and honestly feeling a little lost already..so need to step back n refresh my mind for week 2:)

  • @rubyvictoria4747
    @rubyvictoria4747 Рік тому

    Great video Carter! I too like to get the one and done goals out of the way to stay motivated. Thank you for reminding us that it’s ok to add/remove goals along the way. I tend to see it as a failure and/or think I can’t stick to my goals but in reality Life changes and so do our goals. It’s ok as long as we keep going ❤

  • @emmyjulianne6850
    @emmyjulianne6850 Рік тому

    I also want to tackle the gym right away. I stopped going to Pilates in early September because I accidentally saved the worst classes for my last semester of college… it totally effed me up. I had NO time for absolutely anything other than tidying and classes. 2022 was the first year I was consistent in the gym, even tho I’ve been saying I would be since I was 15. That WILL BE the first habit I tackle. Went back to Pilates for the first time last weekend! Missed this week bc I was decluttering but gosh I feel the difference. I feel so much better being consistent

  • @candybabexo31
    @candybabexo31 Рік тому

    Carter, love all your videos but especially this one! It was so motivating and inspiring. You’re right, it’s unlike any other videos we’ve seen when it comes to goal setting. Thank you! 🤍

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  Рік тому

      Yay this makes me so happy! This was my goal, to make it a realistic goal video unlike the others 🥹♥️

  • @kristinawilliams7841
    @kristinawilliams7841 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for the video! I always tend to compare myself with others and feel like a failure when I'm not doing more. I have to stop continuously and tell myself worry about you not others. It's hard but I can only try lol. Have a great week! 💛

  • @crawfordjennifer2015
    @crawfordjennifer2015 Рік тому

    Carter you have done it again with another great video! I definitely relate to this so much! I’m happy that I found someone that enjoys doing things at a slowed pace and chills on the weekends! The last 2 years have been very busy. My boyfriend was diagnosed with a brain tumor. However, things are getting better and this year I would love for a slower paced life and a HEALTHY 2023 ! Thank you 😊 💗

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  Рік тому +1

      AH this means so much thank you! Sending you and your boyfriend hugs and support! I hope he is doing well🥹♥️

    • @crawfordjennifer2015
      @crawfordjennifer2015 Рік тому

      @@CarterSullivan Thank you 😊
      Have a blessed day!

  • @mansoor3159
    @mansoor3159 Рік тому

    Hey! Carter I was eagerly eagerly waiting for this vlog and I love your vlogs so so much you are my inspiration and I wish you reach 90K Subscribers very very soon!💕✨☺️

  • @greenelbrown
    @greenelbrown Рік тому +1

    What a helpful and realistic video!!! Definitely if you want to film another one like this where you're just working on your goals/regular life, would for sure watch it! Thanks so much for making these videos to help motivate us but also "spend time" with you like a friend 💜😊

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  Рік тому +1

      Maybe I'll film a part 2 to this!! So glad you enjoyed it 🥰

  • @Stubby1031
    @Stubby1031 Рік тому

    Another resolution to add to your list: show us more Stella content 😁😁😁🤣🤣 such a cutie pie!! 🥹😭❤️❤️

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  Рік тому +1

      Honestly the girl sleeps all day long but I will try😂

  • @ci3litooo
    @ci3litooo Рік тому

    carters vids = yummy

  • @-AtomsPhere-
    @-AtomsPhere- Рік тому

    Jealous of your headphones!!

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  Рік тому

      One of the best investments I made (for the business technically)!

  • @caitlinthomson7939
    @caitlinthomson7939 Рік тому

    LOVED this vid. watched it 3 times whilst i was doing my own chores etc and it helped so much, it almost felt like I had you irl giving me the inspo to keep going. ly🫶

  • @peachy__pg
    @peachy__pg Рік тому

    thanks for this video, carter. 🫶🏽 i appreciate you