I Have No Friends, I Feel Lonely and I Never Had A Girlfriend

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  • Опубліковано 20 лип 2020
  • Lets talk about having no friends and feeling like you are alone. I want all y'all to know u have a friend in me and we all are homies.
    I know some ppl feel lonely while they are going through their spiritual growth, but you need time alone in order to grow...
    It'll all be fine bro and sis
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  • @ayamastar
    @ayamastar 3 роки тому +895

    for anyone who feels alone, all of my best friends i made in college live in diff states now and i’ve never had a bf. I tried hanging out with people in my area and i felt like i couldn’t be myself and I felt like they were sucking away all of my energy. I’ve never had friendships that have felt like this bc i chose to be alone my entire life until i went to college. With the friends i tried making here, we had a lot of different interests and I felt like we were forcing it. I eventually let them go after true colors were shown and I finally feel free. I am so grateful that I was able to let those people go because i’m able to work on myself, boss up, and get my money right. It’s so much better to be an outcast and a “prude” with no friends to party with 24/7 than to be stuck in toxic friendships and relationships. I feel so much further ahead. Use your time alone to really level up your mindset and lifestyle. I’ve had so many years to do this and I wish this was my mindset all along. I’ve been meditating, visualizing, reading, investing, and putting action into my dreams and couldn’t be happier.

  • @Gunngirl
    @Gunngirl 3 роки тому +1776

    Over the years I’ve realized I only had acquaintances not real friends.

    • @one_up907
      @one_up907 3 роки тому +39

      For real when i was...well rich i had friends and when i wasnt only 1 person stuck by me its funny when you realise who your true friends are. Helped out people and in my time of need just 1 person helped im greatful and keep my circle small now.

    • @denkikaminari4826
      @denkikaminari4826 3 роки тому +2

      facts

    • @denkikaminari4826
      @denkikaminari4826 3 роки тому

      @Ceptom facts

    • @denkikaminari4826
      @denkikaminari4826 3 роки тому +2

      @@one_up907 ikr

    • @D0OMGUY
      @D0OMGUY 3 роки тому +14

      In my experience, there ain't such thing as a real one. They're only temporary sadly.

  • @yuesazm2375
    @yuesazm2375 4 роки тому +3882

    the worst is when you have friends but still feel lonely....
    Edit : I'm sad that so many people can relate

    • @8jaytee
      @8jaytee 4 роки тому +271

      thats me. i got tons of friends that i can hang out with but when it comes to real problems i feel like i cant go to any of them.

    • @ycntwon420
      @ycntwon420 4 роки тому +25

      @@8jaytee same here.

    • @denkikaminari4826
      @denkikaminari4826 4 роки тому +29

      @@8jaytee Can relate. I'd usually go to my family members, pretty much

    • @denkikaminari4826
      @denkikaminari4826 4 роки тому +4

      @Taelin Cusic Same with me, kinda

    • @denkikaminari4826
      @denkikaminari4826 4 роки тому +3

      @The Darkest Knight true-

  • @buttercup5920
    @buttercup5920 3 роки тому +707

    "THE REALEST PPL DONT HAVE ALOT FRIENDS"
    -TUPAC 🤞🏾

    • @pendejo312
      @pendejo312 3 роки тому +21

      Bro Tupac is the worst thing to ever happen to black people he promoted being a thug how it’s “cool” and and you’ll get all the money all the bitches and promoted killing their own race 2pac=2 program and control

    • @trxll_ted753
      @trxll_ted753 3 роки тому +4

      I slightly agree with your point, everything except he was the worst thing. He gave a lot of hope to the black men and women and showed that someone from a similar situation can escape. See Tupac as the sacrifice.

    • @pendejo312
      @pendejo312 3 роки тому +3

      Trxll_Ted yea for sure he was definitely controlled it’s sad to most of these rappers become puppets and sell they soul smh 🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @denkikaminari4826
      @denkikaminari4826 3 роки тому

      @kertio fan oh :(

    • @buttercup5920
      @buttercup5920 3 роки тому +1

      @kertio fan 🔥🔥✊🏾

  • @xNEPTUNE
    @xNEPTUNE  4 роки тому +815

    Maybe I should change the title... I don’t want y’all to think I’m saying that lol
    This is for the ppl that feel like they have no friends and they are lonely.
    I mean, I don’t have many friends either. I have like 3, but I made this video to give y’all advice

  • @JamesReviews
    @JamesReviews 3 роки тому +858

    People like me who can be alone and love being alone don't realise how lucky we are 💯

    • @NoName-zi9st
      @NoName-zi9st 3 роки тому +52

      Same. I don't really understand it. Air sign, I am content and happy alone.

    • @rose-xf3rz
      @rose-xf3rz 3 роки тому +14

      facts bro fr fr

    • @sdhester76
      @sdhester76 3 роки тому +37

      Same. As an ambivert/introvert, I am living my best life.

    • @JamesReviews
      @JamesReviews 3 роки тому +7

      @Shadria Namuga facts

    • @adam_explosion
      @adam_explosion 3 роки тому +5

      Factss

  • @noahmeijers2769
    @noahmeijers2769 4 роки тому +1325

    I have no friends, i don't feel lonely and i never had a girlfriend. Life is good rn. Currently searching for a way to make money online and turning that into a real job. You dont need friends. Only one good friend is enough!

  • @princetherealest1
    @princetherealest1 4 роки тому +313

    That title : My Life !!!!

  • @joymae
    @joymae 3 роки тому +227

    I got tired of hanging out with energy vampire friends and toxic people so I choose to have not so many friends

    • @pendejo312
      @pendejo312 3 роки тому +2

      Are you an empath?

    • @denkikaminari4826
      @denkikaminari4826 3 роки тому

      @@pendejo312 maybe

    • @galapoeh1817
      @galapoeh1817 3 роки тому

      mood

    • @soniclevels1514
      @soniclevels1514 3 роки тому

      Be careful going down the path of solitude... eventually it will catch up to you.

    • @koolvibez6259
      @koolvibez6259 2 роки тому

      same here I ditched all my toxic friends now life is better without them

  • @derrisleemusic1998
    @derrisleemusic1998 3 роки тому +558

    There’s no problem with being a virgin either. Doesn’t take away from who you are.

    • @denkikaminari4826
      @denkikaminari4826 3 роки тому +14

      facts

    • @marksdevil6716
      @marksdevil6716 3 роки тому +61

      I'm turning 24, still a virgin, never had a gf neither. And when i tell people this, they be really surprised and it piss me off. So i try to avoid them types of conversations.

    • @chiiix33
      @chiiix33 3 роки тому +35

      @@marksdevil6716 Don't be pissed off. Anyone who thinks being a "virgin" is "lame" is a loser themselves. And most of them are projecting either their insecurities or jealousy (due to failed sexual experiences). A lot of people don't see any worth in themselves beyond their sexual value and prowess... because, well; some people are truly just unimpressive. And there's no such thing as being a "virgin". You just haven't had sex yet... and that's literally that. Who cares? I'm not "waiting for the right one" blah blah; but sex is really intimate and special to me. And I'll be waiting til I can do it with someone who really excites me. You should do the same!

    • @Alyzah
      @Alyzah 3 роки тому +15

      Sex is overrated, whatever else releases your endorphins, most likely feels better than sex.
      I don't expect any virgin to understand this until it happens, but just know that :)

    • @H.K.5
      @H.K.5 3 роки тому +12

      Exactly. Being a virgin doesn't make you an inferior person and whoever thinks that needs their heads sorting.

  • @owenyoung9645
    @owenyoung9645 4 роки тому +587

    People don’t believe me when I say I’ve never had sex, never had a girlfriend, no kissing I’ve literally done nothing. I’m 21 pic right here for my profile is old from when I was 16. Idk just none of that interest me and it’s too much hassle. The potential arguments attitude and constantly reassuring some person I’m with? It’s much too peaceful alone to do all that IMO

    • @owenyoung9645
      @owenyoung9645 4 роки тому +101

      Ok so I know I’m not alone then. Also people begging on social media all the time for a GF/BF is just so odd to me. People really can’t handle being alone it seems. I haven’t seen not one person on Facebook or Instagram feel the same way as me about stuff like this.

    • @funnydude_5649
      @funnydude_5649 4 роки тому +16

      I can relate to bro.

    • @sourcesymbiosismetamorphis2228
      @sourcesymbiosismetamorphis2228 4 роки тому +63

      Bro I just turned 25 today and I have never had sex either no kissing no girlfriend hahaha. Ever since I hit the gym 2 years ago and changed my style I have had 4 offers from women this last year but turned em all down. Of course I am sexually attracted to women but I just do not care enough to actually pursue or look. I am okay being alone right now but yeah it is what it is bro. I will never settle for just anything in life.

    • @owenyoung9645
      @owenyoung9645 4 роки тому +32

      Bruh you sound just like me😭 I started working out about 2 years ago as well and when I got my first job all the women were looking at me. I wasn’t used to being even looked because nobody ever gave me any attention (not that I pursued it myself) in school at all so it just really threw me off. It’s just good to know that’s there’s other people out there that don’t see anything wrong with just being by yourself for a while.

    • @sourcesymbiosismetamorphis2228
      @sourcesymbiosismetamorphis2228 4 роки тому +12

      @@owenyoung9645 haha yeah we do got the same story. Yeah I was very different in highschool very fat I def did change myself physically and spiritually. At my jobs same shit as you. I wasn't used to being looked at either haha. Yeah this is not a coincidence man I can tell you're in tune as well. Are you also going through some sort of spiritual awakening stuff like seeing number patterns or certain imagery of stuff like that?

  • @Moesie
    @Moesie 3 роки тому +1015

    Having a girlfriend doesn't make you any better, it's not a golden ticket to heaven

    • @trublacking8572
      @trublacking8572 3 роки тому +31

      Yeah that is very true cuz you don't know the type of woman to use and that's the tricky part about being in relationships or dating in general is you have to find the perfect girl or the right girl I mean

    • @Raybeari
      @Raybeari 3 роки тому +62

      People wants sex Instead of getting each other

    • @dbtv4691
      @dbtv4691 3 роки тому +25

      Reshaundra Dixon that’s the generation today.

    • @Moesie
      @Moesie 3 роки тому +15

      @@dbtv4691 porn is 30% of internet global... thats why

    • @mandown5599
      @mandown5599 3 роки тому +16

      Depends how she is personally or how she treat you it’s always a really good feeling if someone love you
      so to have a girlfriend / boyfriend (who is relay good looking in your eyes and has a perfect personally) is a golden ticket 🎫

  • @xNEPTUNE
    @xNEPTUNE  4 роки тому +663

    Reactions coming... I'm editing them right now

    • @Thetruth.345
      @Thetruth.345 4 роки тому +8

      Brandon Rashad you can make a discord so homie don’t feel left out

    • @mortyakajohnny470
      @mortyakajohnny470 4 роки тому +2

      Nice Video Bro Everything your saying I respect that Bro I love you Cousin I lost my Cousin I thought he was going to love me for Me and Having a GF but he says I choose a ho before family he block me and He don't like me no more I wish I had another friend to be like my Cousin Im 15 years old and My name is Johnny

    • @unsanegames4773
      @unsanegames4773 4 роки тому +2

      Thx bro you a real one for sure 🙏🏽💯

    • @mortyakajohnny470
      @mortyakajohnny470 4 роки тому +3

      I still fuck with you Brandon Rashad I look at you as Family

    • @denkikaminari4826
      @denkikaminari4826 4 роки тому +2

      Aight Brandon. Can't wait until they come out✊✊✊

  • @leohuertas1916
    @leohuertas1916 4 роки тому +361

    Omg ever since my mother had passed I’ve been depressed. And been hurting and I feel alone and seeing pictures and certain songs remind me of her and it breaks my heart. I’m a different person but I’m weird but that’s my personality around certain people I mess with.

    • @denkikaminari4826
      @denkikaminari4826 4 роки тому +19

      Oh :( I feel sorry for your loss
      Edit: if it's appropriate, how did she die?
      edit 2: Also wanted to mention that you don't have to answer the question :)
      edit 3: Misspelled "also"

    • @zurielmildren654
      @zurielmildren654 4 роки тому +15

      Rip your mother and you not alone. You got Brandon and everyone else that is subbed to him

    • @leohuertas1916
      @leohuertas1916 4 роки тому +5

      HiSuper Bob thank you man. Thank you

    • @zurielmildren654
      @zurielmildren654 4 роки тому +6

      @@leohuertas1916 ye bro I gotchu

    • @user-kl6lo7hx4w
      @user-kl6lo7hx4w 4 роки тому +2

      @@denkikaminari4826 yo can I say I fuck w your energy in these comments

  • @am2382
    @am2382 4 роки тому +256

    Having that mindset builds the foundations of depression.

    • @zacksal2269
      @zacksal2269 4 роки тому +44

      If youre* homeless, buy a house

    • @zacksal2269
      @zacksal2269 4 роки тому +21

      @The Darkest Knight *exhale*

    • @Omar-ly8me
      @Omar-ly8me 3 роки тому +1

      @@zacksal2269 .

    • @Mike.325
      @Mike.325 3 роки тому +1

      Two Pears 💯

    • @borazga
      @borazga 3 роки тому +4

      Two Pears true just buy a house 👍🏼

  • @fred3oh3
    @fred3oh3 4 роки тому +281

    Trust me being alone is a blessing...you connect with your higher self...

  • @zozan9476
    @zozan9476 3 роки тому +177

    I am 24 years old and a woman. I'm still a virgin. I haven't had a real boyfriend, either. I guess it's not the right time yet. Maybe I'm not the most attractive one and of course I want someone by my side who loves me unconditionally.

    • @MzEccentricAlien
      @MzEccentricAlien 3 роки тому +15

      Z 😌you will just please take your time

    • @harambey
      @harambey 3 роки тому +5

      Grass is always greener

    • @trublacking8572
      @trublacking8572 3 роки тому +13

      To be honest with you it hard as a woman of any complexion race or whatever cuz I feel like women are always sought after you know for something at some point in their life women have always been the ones who have been approached where is a man is like yeah he can be lonely it's a bit more easier for a dude to be lonely what it sounds like you had people that you were interested in but you never had a boyfriend and being a virgin for a girl I like what comes to women being that way it's never an issue is always an issue for men to be that way like you being a virgin at 24 no one cares as far as Society goes but form and it's like it's a lot of pressure on him not doing certain things by a certain age

    • @dipmeingloss
      @dipmeingloss 3 роки тому +17

      I'm still a virgin too @ 24 it's nothing wrong with being a virgin, you can't trust everyone with your most beautiful possession, the right one will come along.💗I'm comfortable with waiting...

    • @MadFatPanda
      @MadFatPanda 3 роки тому +4

      @@dipmeingloss don't worry y'all will find the one someday, never give up on yourselves 💁🏾‍♂️

  • @user-xr5iq9xh7i
    @user-xr5iq9xh7i 4 роки тому +51

    We don’t need anyone we need ourselves. This matrix is falling and the demons are mad. 💯

  • @reggie1847
    @reggie1847 4 роки тому +793

    That title is me and only cause I'm antisocial, it's gucci though cause I really find enjoyment by myself
    Edit- Damn my reply section lit af, lit with kindness of course

    • @denkikaminari4826
      @denkikaminari4826 4 роки тому +85

      For me, it's because of the fact that I was born with autism

    • @charlieyadig1781
      @charlieyadig1781 4 роки тому +93

      @@denkikaminari4826 I'm sorry u was born like that bro keep yo head up ✊🏼

    • @denkikaminari4826
      @denkikaminari4826 4 роки тому +58

      @@charlieyadig1781 thanks man :) same goes out to you 👍👌✊✊✊

    • @moisthorny
      @moisthorny 4 роки тому +20

      Same here except for the friend part

    • @moisthorny
      @moisthorny 4 роки тому +12

      @@denkikaminari4826 same😳

  • @markstriker925
    @markstriker925 4 роки тому +199

    Note not all loners are shy people who think people don't like them so they don't talk to others.Some people actually like to be alone. So someone who wants friends is not a loner. This guy is probably a shy person.
    Shy
    And
    Loner
    Is
    Two
    Different
    Things

  • @itslit2431
    @itslit2431 3 роки тому +94

    I only have a few friends but they not real and they don’t feel like friends tbh... I always have to contact them and sometimes they “can’t” hangout and then later I see them with other people. It’s just like I’m always the funny guy and shit but not the real real bro.

  • @alldayeveryday20able
    @alldayeveryday20able 3 роки тому +39

    I have no friends and never had a bf, but I love being alone with my dog.

    • @alexslieker9744
      @alexslieker9744 3 роки тому +1

      You never had a boyfriend? You are joking.

    • @denkikaminari4826
      @denkikaminari4826 3 роки тому

      @Lone Wolf same

    • @denkikaminari4826
      @denkikaminari4826 3 роки тому

      @Euan Jackson I actually like it, ngl

    • @j.e.wafc.8844
      @j.e.wafc.8844 3 роки тому +2

      I hate to be creepy but you are so beautiful from ur picture I can’t believe u haven’t had a bf. I would give everything to have someone like u

    • @denkikaminari4826
      @denkikaminari4826 3 роки тому +1

      @@j.e.wafc.8844 true, they do look nice ngl :D

  • @loneyokai
    @loneyokai 4 роки тому +140

    For me, I had put on a “good boy” persona to survive from narcissistic parents, putting everyone else’s emotions ahead of mine, and grew up around fake people, so I just cut everyone off, and never really got the chance to figure out who I was. Lonely for as long as I could remember. Became very depressed and suicidal and now I can’t feel any emotion. I’m numb to everything (anhedonia). I finally moved and had a chance to meet new people, but my fake personality became subconscious, causing me to not be as authentic, and I was in too deep with my depression. I didn’t know how to make friends and was insecure and self conscious. I Feel like I fucked up. But you live and you learn ig.

    • @loneyokai
      @loneyokai 3 роки тому +1

      Michelle M idk tbh. I’m trying to change but I feel like I’m stuck

    • @Walk.wayjoy
      @Walk.wayjoy 3 роки тому +1

      @@loneyokai try do some fun things outside my g , dont stay In too much, meditate a 💯

    • @loneyokai
      @loneyokai 3 роки тому +2

      Bob Saget yeah I’m almost at a week

    • @kefiki2049
      @kefiki2049 3 роки тому +1

      Everything happens for a reason even the choices you made or make. Everything will come down like a puzzles and you will live that bigger and better day and thank everything and everyone. Stay positive love

    • @elevenpoisons2484
      @elevenpoisons2484 3 роки тому +9

      some people just shouldn't be parents, ay. im sorry to hear shit was rough

  • @Wllperuofficial
    @Wllperuofficial 3 роки тому +53

    Sometimes we don’t know ourselves well. I knew am an indoor person untill corona came and I had to work from home and I live alone. The anxiety and the depression I went through made me realize am not introvert and I need people around. We need each other

    • @psmith3821
      @psmith3821 3 роки тому +2

      Yesss this the one

    • @luckyduckydaisyflower2344
      @luckyduckydaisyflower2344 3 роки тому

      I realized I needed less people. I do hair. Im too introverted for this! Pays the best for me so im stuck.

    • @IamINERT
      @IamINERT Рік тому +2

      Even introverts need some level of socializing
      Not just because you crave socializing means your not an introvert, we all human and we all get lonely sometimes.

  • @_tuling
    @_tuling 4 роки тому +34

    All of us here have at least one friend, Brandon

  • @leonabanks5591
    @leonabanks5591 3 роки тому +15

    These days if you have BOUNDARIES, STANDARDS and a HEALTHY SELF-ESTEEM, you are going to find yourself having to FLY SOLO. That's just the way it is this day and age. People are looking for PUSH OVERS and FLOOR MATS.

  • @LadyAbsolution
    @LadyAbsolution 4 роки тому +164

    This video is me except I never had a boyfriend
    Edit: I needed to hear this tough love. I’ve been told I look unapproachable even though I don’t mean to look angry at the time. I have wondered what is wrong with me so many times and next month I’ll be speaking to a therapist and hopefully it will lead me to the right direction and help me mentally. Thank you for this video, man. 🙏

    • @denkikaminari4826
      @denkikaminari4826 4 роки тому +3

      ✊✊✊👍👍👍

    • @denkikaminari4826
      @denkikaminari4826 4 роки тому +5

      I hope that things get better for you (^_^)

    • @LadyAbsolution
      @LadyAbsolution 4 роки тому +2

      Denki Kaminari thank you, same to you 👍

    • @denkikaminari4826
      @denkikaminari4826 4 роки тому +1

      @@LadyAbsolution

    • @ARTchivedStudiosMedia
      @ARTchivedStudiosMedia 4 роки тому +9

      LadyAbsolution also you have to not let what anybody says change how you feel about yourself. If you love the way that you look then keep doing you and if they don’t like it then so be it, you weren’t meant for them, you can’t please everyone. You’re damned if you do and you’re damned if you don’t do even if they say you look “unapproachable” it doesn’t matter as long as you love yourself. The more you love yourself, the more you attract people that are like minded. That goes for anything (spiritual journey, twin flame journey, building hopes and dreams, etc.) it all starts with self love. Don’t be arrogant with it but realize that who you are and what you create or express about yourself reflects you so if you love what you express about yourself, nothing anybody else says matters because they can’t see your visions. That’s just my putting my two cents in, much love ❤️❤️.

  • @yteuropehdgaming9633
    @yteuropehdgaming9633 4 роки тому +182

    I really don't like how the word ''friends'' is being thrown around way too much... When someone says: ''I have a lot of friends that I go out with'', or ''I have a lot of friends in school that I hang out with'', that pisses me off because friends are the people closest to you, that know you really well, that are there for you when times are tough... People that you go out to party with, or the people that you go to school with, they are not your ''friends''. Those are just people that you see maybe once a week when you go out with them. Those people are not real friends.

    • @xo_breeee
      @xo_breeee 3 роки тому

      Darnel Leopold can’t have “loads” of “friends”

    • @yteuropehdgaming9633
      @yteuropehdgaming9633 3 роки тому +3

      ​@@Firefox9511 The person you don't know well or you call and hang out with is called an acquaintance. An acquaintance is a person who you know slightly but isn't a close friend.

    • @sthp9214
      @sthp9214 3 роки тому +7

      Actually there are different levels of friendship.....when ppl say 'friends' nowadays they usually mean 'casual friends' . These kind of friends are exactly that. Casual. Your relationship is not deep enough to encompass the things yall expect . Most likely cause there is only a certain depth to how much you get along with these people and cause these friends are conditional( ie school, work, or some specific cause). You cant force depth in these relationships.However there are good/close friends, which describes the things people expect from a casual friend but actually are found in these types. These friends are more the ones to help you feel less lonely and you could most likely tell them more about your inner problems....so it's really just that people dont know how to properly categorize the relationships in their lives nor understand what each level entails.

    • @sthp9214
      @sthp9214 3 роки тому +1

      @@Firefox9511 no...its possible....all these people could be casual friends which doesnt have a limit. But unless you have all the time and energy in the world. It's impossible to have 20 good/close friends...best amount youd have is like 5

    • @sthp9214
      @sthp9214 3 роки тому

      @@Firefox9511 well right, hence the 'casual' in casual friends

  • @BFields
    @BFields 4 роки тому +19

    Liking/loving yourself attracts genuine friends and or connections..

  • @AuthetnicEpicBoom
    @AuthetnicEpicBoom 4 роки тому +22

    Love you too! God bless you! Prayers going up! Blessing, love and protection over your life!

  • @galinaioffe2250
    @galinaioffe2250 3 роки тому +33

    Loneliness is just being unwilling and/or unable to accept solitude, and it took me some time to get a grip on the fact that not everyone will love, like or accept you but its all about respect. Respect the fact dat not everybody loves, likes and accepts you and love like and accept yourself and people will eventually gravitate to you once they see you.

    • @michellement2158
      @michellement2158 3 роки тому +1

      love this advice. thank you

    • @asmrfoodieuk7965
      @asmrfoodieuk7965 2 роки тому +1

      Why should humans accept being alone? We social creatures for starters!

  • @hannahthornbrugh5023
    @hannahthornbrugh5023 4 роки тому +4

    Man the love is neutral the appreciation level is higher than u can imagine u are here for us so we’re here for u

  • @ajaneeason9373
    @ajaneeason9373 4 роки тому +16

    I love you too bro 🥺🥺❤️ I needed to hear that I’m going thru a lot of the things you talk about and I’m just getting money and working out so I can get out of this depressed body. Thanks man

  • @conforzo
    @conforzo 3 роки тому +28

    22 right now. During high school I had some surface level friends. I can talk to people but have always avoided it. I lived in this fantasy where I thought I didn't need friends and would become successful by not even trying. Im at a point now where I've had a one week long existensial crisis, I am so tired of not having friends but have no idea how to get into a social context. And many people my age already have their best friend and girlfriends, I just feel so left behind without a purpose

    • @mizzphitzbeta
      @mizzphitzbeta 3 роки тому +4

      So am I. I hate it so much. I just sit at home and do nothing.

    • @tlacayelice6156
      @tlacayelice6156 Рік тому +1

      I hope you're doing better man, remember its never too late to change and you are loved

    • @josheves9022
      @josheves9022 Рік тому

      Corey Wayne
      Ultimate man project
      Then stack money

  • @Johnsechuan
    @Johnsechuan 4 роки тому +25

    Bruh you only need like 3 to 4 Friends. If you have 3 to 4 Friends that stayed with you through the years, then you will know that they are the real one's.

    • @josephpalacio2343
      @josephpalacio2343 3 роки тому

      Yeah but once they get married you'll see they don't want to hang out anymore. It's always texting or calls. They also have kids or move away. When they're single it's all
      Good but once they get married good luck

    • @Johnsechuan
      @Johnsechuan 3 роки тому +4

      @@josephpalacio2343 thats life. If you have a family of your own you are way to busy as well. But you still have the memories. If you get married than you can also hang out with family in law

    • @cccbeats_
      @cccbeats_ 2 роки тому +1

      You only really need 1 true friend. 3-4 friends would be good, but in reality, most people don't have 3-4 ride or die friends.

    • @iiCounted-op5jx
      @iiCounted-op5jx Рік тому

      @@josephpalacio2343 bro are u dumb? texting or calls still counts, if u wanna have fun just go out and get other temporary friends to hangout with now that you know you already have real ones who will remember u for a lifetime

  • @davonwaite604
    @davonwaite604 4 роки тому +12

    Just keep your head up homie keep doing what you doing, you making a lot of people happy fam ✊🏾🙏🏾

  • @jerrellsimmons144k6
    @jerrellsimmons144k6 4 роки тому +74

    The title of this video describes me in a nutshell but most of the time I enjoy being alone. And I'm 28 years old and it was my choice to be a so called outcast I'm not really that interested in being around many people but I will say its not normal behavior but it is what it is I choose to carry myself this way.

    • @denkikaminari4826
      @denkikaminari4826 4 роки тому +7

      Same with me 👌👌👌

    • @Thetruth.345
      @Thetruth.345 4 роки тому +7

      👏🏾👏🏾

    • @generalk9947
      @generalk9947 4 роки тому +19

      The thing is it’s actually kind of normal especially the way society is in this day and age ppl are fucked up bro so more and more ppl are starting to realise this and now small circles are being formed. Of course I would say that having absolutely no one is kind of crazy in my opinion at least having 1 real friend is better than 15 fake ones

    • @denkikaminari4826
      @denkikaminari4826 4 роки тому +5

      @@generalk9947 facts, my guy

    • @daisyflower1545
      @daisyflower1545 3 роки тому +3

      Who is to say what's normal and what's not. As long as you're happy and healthy keep doing you

  • @kingdynamo4519
    @kingdynamo4519 4 роки тому +14

    Yo on a real though, for the homie that feels like the world basically turned it's back on em, I jus wanna say my prayers n good vibes are extended to u bro, i knw u can find love n acceptance my guy, this is my hope for u. Live ur very best life n dont give up homie. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @jacobhill762
    @jacobhill762 4 роки тому +1

    You're one of the realest UA-camrs on the whole platform. Love and support bro

  • @ARTchivedStudiosMedia
    @ARTchivedStudiosMedia 4 роки тому +4

    I haven’t even watched a second of the vid yet but I can tell he’s Finna speak fax. Just realize that you don’t need anyone. All you ever needed was yourself. If you aren’t a part of the norm, then you are here to create your own wave. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @wrightterence680
    @wrightterence680 4 роки тому +54

    Always have confidence in yourself
    Always have a positive mindset
    Always have good people around you

  • @hisarahhere9664
    @hisarahhere9664 4 роки тому +70

    Finally, a guy with a bunch of tattoos that's actually inspiring 🤣🤣

    • @cccbeats_
      @cccbeats_ 2 роки тому

      Actually, I think a lot of people with tattoos are inspiring. What's more inspiring than literally expressing artwork on your body? Everyone has tattoos for a reason.

    • @RP944
      @RP944 2 роки тому

      @@cccbeats_ I actually think it's the opposite. What's more inspiring than tattoos? Having a personality.
      People couldn't care less about some ink in your skin. And most people don't have stories, they just want symbols and figures that think they look "cool". I once asked a guy why he had something in Japanese when he couldn't speak Japanese. They could have gone for any other language but he went with that just because for the looks. Lame.

    • @cccbeats_
      @cccbeats_ 2 роки тому

      @@RP944 Right yeah, I should've said when people have tattoos for a reason. I've seen some pointless and hideous tattoos, but I've also seen many that are amazing and meaningful. Also, for the most part, I agree with what you said about people not really caring about other people's tattoos, but I was replying to this guy because he clearly seems to care based on his comment.

    • @RP944
      @RP944 2 роки тому +1

      @@cccbeats_ the only tattoo that really matters is the belly button that connects us to our mothers.

    • @RP944
      @RP944 2 роки тому +1

      @@cccbeats_ hmm are you a producer? Your lofi is fresh and cozy.

  • @ImmaOlerum
    @ImmaOlerum 3 роки тому

    You're not alone we here with you bro!

  • @flyingsoul7147
    @flyingsoul7147 3 роки тому

    Damn this was straight facts. You got to look past yourself loathing. Look at what you can get rather than what you want to avoid.

  • @blakbeauti4275
    @blakbeauti4275 3 роки тому +19

    I just feel really weird when I try to talk to new people cause I think I’m boring them, but I know once people get to know the real goofy side of me, they like me and think I’m funny. It’s just hard sometimes to not want to care what ppl think about you

    • @danieltongaww
      @danieltongaww 3 роки тому +3

      Yessssss! Or i feel as if there judging me for the way I talk or I’m always like what do I say next or shit like when guys talk about sports ect and I do t know anything about it !!! But like you said once people know me they love me and say I’m a real good guy ! Summer walker has helped me I’m tase my akward was

    • @blakbeauti4275
      @blakbeauti4275 3 роки тому

      Daniel T same I love summer lol relatable

    • @Mani-jo5lq
      @Mani-jo5lq 3 роки тому +2

      Facts girl! I'm the same way. It's like my personality comes out around people I'm comfortable around, but if the vibe is off then I go back in my shell. Also, when I meet people, I care too much what they'll think of me. I'm just very shy and introverted so at times it's hard for me to make friends.

    • @blakbeauti4275
      @blakbeauti4275 3 роки тому

      Mani Reed same. Especially since quarantine. And I don’t want to meet anyone online rn .. and I want to be more social but then we’re not supposed to be so it’s esp hard now..

    • @Mani-jo5lq
      @Mani-jo5lq 3 роки тому

      @@blakbeauti4275 Exactly, I made a vow to be more social and get out my shell this year, and I can't even do that because of the pandemic. Plus, a lot of people already have established friend groups so it's difficult to make new ones

  • @yametameDaddy
    @yametameDaddy 4 роки тому +12

    I DONT CARE BOUT CHILLING WITH MT FRIENDS CUZ I GOT FAMILY THATS IMPORTANT

  • @nick.mattke8924
    @nick.mattke8924 3 роки тому +1

    I respect this bro every once in a while someone needs to hear these types of things to keep themselves motivated. Well said.

  • @yazminfair6660
    @yazminfair6660 3 роки тому

    Thanks for being brave enough to speak out !!! You’re worth it anybody would be lucky to have u🙏🏼

  • @oizchino6132
    @oizchino6132 4 роки тому +5

    Outro music was actually 🔥

  • @gabrielochoa1529
    @gabrielochoa1529 3 роки тому +8

    I don’t talk to my old friends because they don’t have goals in life and they take away energy from me. I sometimes like to be alone to focus on my goals, but it gets really tough when you feel lonely and you realize nobody besides your family actually cares about you.

  • @nolangoldenberg8843
    @nolangoldenberg8843 3 роки тому

    Super uplifting and inspiring. From a 20 year old guy who has experienced these feelings many times and still seldom do, thank you. You’re awesome man! Much appreciated 🙏

  • @jessspirittarot
    @jessspirittarot 4 роки тому

    He telling that truth right there. Good thoughts, good words, good deeds ❤

  • @husky4481
    @husky4481 4 роки тому +6

    I needed this... Today I woke up saying I wish I was dead and I would never get a girlfriend, thank you so much bro 🙏🏻✊🏻

    • @marla8693
      @marla8693 3 роки тому +4

      Stay strong 💜

  • @marshallhaynes5796
    @marshallhaynes5796 4 роки тому +91

    I did had friends.
    Had them since Elementary school, Middle school and High school.
    Childhood really helped my life.
    Still have a celebrity crush.
    Name is Bianca Lawson.

  • @andreww5775
    @andreww5775 4 роки тому +1

    Felt so down before seeing this. Keep making others days better.

  • @bal9944
    @bal9944 3 роки тому +2

    I feel so good with myself being alone the entire time, and this thing scares me, but at the same time it's beautiful.

  • @melvinstevens3237
    @melvinstevens3237 3 роки тому +18

    i have a lot of fake friends tho
    thats worst that stay lonely
    believe it

    • @onlinefool9931
      @onlinefool9931 3 роки тому +1

      I have only 1 real friend since I was 4 I'm still friends with him at 19

  • @sammieeblack7161
    @sammieeblack7161 3 роки тому +62

    Same As Well . Never had friends,Bf And Life Is Good
    Antisocial for life ✨👏🏽 #realones

    • @BriaBarrows
      @BriaBarrows 3 роки тому +1

      You have time for relationships and friends. You are young. Taking the time to know yourself is important. Especially in your twenties.

    • @ultimatedumbass4640
      @ultimatedumbass4640 3 роки тому +1

      @@BriaBarrows Not everyone in their twenties wants that though. They want to live their own way without sexual partners or relationships.

    • @shannepatrickhodgsoncuthbe9322
      @shannepatrickhodgsoncuthbe9322 3 роки тому +5

      I rather be alone than in bad company

    • @channelfive7883
      @channelfive7883 3 роки тому

      Girrl you hot

    • @sammieeblack7161
      @sammieeblack7161 3 роки тому

      Just speaking facts , sorry you live in the matrix 😏

  • @SpiralSword40
    @SpiralSword40 4 роки тому

    Bruh, you're an amazing human. We don't have enough people like you in the world we live in. Thanks for always providing value.

  • @FINEDIAMOND
    @FINEDIAMOND 3 роки тому

    Thank you so much Brandon for helping those of us who struggle relating to others. I'm 30 and never had many male friends. You are beautiful inside and out.

  • @certifiedlover2748
    @certifiedlover2748 4 роки тому +33

    I’m 16 and I feel the same, everyone around me has big groups of friends and is dating🥺

  • @halofan117halofan6
    @halofan117halofan6 4 роки тому +12

    When I saw the title I thought Brandon was saying he had no friends and I was just really confused

  • @marlongrabandt2377
    @marlongrabandt2377 3 роки тому +1

    you spoke facts but it’s way harder than just “changing your mindset” once you’re really deep inside this shit

  • @fireflamegamer8321
    @fireflamegamer8321 4 роки тому

    This is why I'm subscribed this man is real🔥

  • @boostedboosted3088
    @boostedboosted3088 3 роки тому +8

    As a asocial person having friends is not necessary. It all depends on if I want to make them and 90% of time it’s a no

  • @KelleyBroussardMackaig
    @KelleyBroussardMackaig 3 роки тому +6

    I only got to 31 seconds in before I immediately pushed that subscribe button. Brandon Rashad, I don't know who you are (yet) but I just want to say that it is this exact type of energy, influence and open minded tolerance that is so desperately need right now. We are in some deeply unsound and perilous times, and it's folks like you, Brandon who influence so much desperately needed positivity into this world. From the bottom of my heart, I thank you and am extremely appreciative to you for that. I look forward to checking out your channel, and learning more about you. I have no doubt that you are making a powerful impact that is helping to make this world a better place, for us all. #OneLove

  • @noahcopeland8509
    @noahcopeland8509 2 роки тому

    Thank u bro it’s getting better my social skills are expanding

  • @derrisleemusic1998
    @derrisleemusic1998 3 роки тому +1

    I feel you bro...loneliness don’t play but God loves you if you turn to him. Trust me I know.

  • @denkikaminari4826
    @denkikaminari4826 4 роки тому +86

    I can relate :(
    Edit: Specifically, with not having a significant other. When it comes to having no friends, I do have some, although it's hard for me to make them myself due to my autism. As for being lonely, I got my family with me, so it's good to know that I won't have to worry about that

    • @LadyAbsolution
      @LadyAbsolution 4 роки тому +6

      Denki Kaminari keep your head up 💪🙏

    • @denkikaminari4826
      @denkikaminari4826 4 роки тому +4

      @@LadyAbsolution thanks for saying that :) I appreciate it. Oh yeah, and the same goes for you too (^_^)

    • @rae7864
      @rae7864 4 роки тому +6

      Sending my love to you 😊💕 you have a friend in me if you want!!!

    • @denkikaminari4826
      @denkikaminari4826 4 роки тому +6

      @@rae7864 Awwwwww :) I would love to be your friend (^_^)
      edit: also, thank you :D

    • @mrlonely5324
      @mrlonely5324 4 роки тому +5

      I don’t have many fiends either.I haven’t talk to any of them in months.Keep your head up king👑

  • @eu1ze
    @eu1ze 3 роки тому +4

    they made a meme outta this

  • @Cierra_yo
    @Cierra_yo 3 роки тому

    Thank you soo much!!!! Every since I went to a new school I barley have no friends and lately I feel extra lonely during this quarantine but this video really helped a lot 🥺❤️

  • @AnnieMaeEdwards
    @AnnieMaeEdwards 3 роки тому

    Motivational, relatable, with a dose of tough love. Love it; best approach to get the point across ❤️❤️❤️

  • @lordbizcuits
    @lordbizcuits 4 роки тому +2

    Appreciate it bro I needed to hear this 💯 % 💕

  • @ArthurShelby-PB
    @ArthurShelby-PB 4 роки тому +5

    Damn this title hits hard everything is relatable, I’m only 20 but feel like I’ll never feel love

  • @ZeekStreet
    @ZeekStreet 3 роки тому

    Rarely look at tattoos but bro, the art. I can't stop looking

  • @fatimaullah3658
    @fatimaullah3658 3 роки тому

    Bloke you said straight from thy heart. Lad I’m Scottish and Irish I’ve been alone,but you made realize to focus on me self, my fighting career, and school.

  • @dystanysam9896
    @dystanysam9896 3 роки тому +19

    When I was younger I never had any friends closed friends , always looking for someone to hangout desperate plus I was an outcast most of the times . When I started my Christian walks & going to church & , attention my bible study group changing myself & have a whole different mind set now.., Now I have friends who’s I called as my family . I’m 28 never have a “ boyfriend “.

    • @jebotekarotte6307
      @jebotekarotte6307 3 роки тому +1

      But i dont belive that there's anything. Neither God, Satan, Angels....theres just nothig but darkness in the afterlife.

  • @mariou3656
    @mariou3656 3 роки тому +8

    bro i have 23 years old, i like girls, but ive never had a girlfriend too and never kiss a girl,
    i have a few friends and i feel lonely, like you my friend, thanks for the video.

  • @avrygiddings955
    @avrygiddings955 4 роки тому +2

    That song high 2 FIREEE 🔥🔥

  • @roronoa270
    @roronoa270 4 роки тому

    I definitely will start meditating bro. I genuinely believe that watching your videos changed my mentality. I am truly more positive and less doubtful then I was last year. As always ... thanks Brandon 🤟

  • @ST-hc3tq
    @ST-hc3tq 4 роки тому +31

    Boy am I glad that school gave me the option to do online school cuz my anti social ah 😂😂😂 and I barley know anyone at my school

    • @sosa7254
      @sosa7254 3 роки тому +3

      Man you have a funny ass name bro and your comment is also beneficial for people who have no friends COVID doing well shutting schools down for kids with no friends and who have anxiety and depression.

    • @samb2814
      @samb2814 3 роки тому

      @@sosa7254 yess

    • @pendejo312
      @pendejo312 3 роки тому

      Славић снага that part 🤐

    • @channelfive7883
      @channelfive7883 3 роки тому

      @@sosa7254
      Do y'all have snap

  • @boogiestar372
    @boogiestar372 3 роки тому +6

    The title is the story of my life •

  • @goatedpluggg3668
    @goatedpluggg3668 3 роки тому

    Stay safe bro👑

  • @donnelly5757
    @donnelly5757 3 роки тому +1

    Not to sound generic, but you got my like within the first 10 seconds! Despite being my age and odds, I refuse to give up! Thanks for sharing your struggles. Stay strong!

  • @Animated_wonder
    @Animated_wonder 3 роки тому +7

    I like anime and I have posters and figures in my room, I’m soon to be 22 and my friends find it different but they’re so cool about it. Sometimes you have to change the people around you and realize there are people who will mess with you no matter what you like and find passionate for.

  • @Toineuchiha
    @Toineuchiha 4 роки тому +4

    I see what you mean, basically ask yourself why you're in the situation that you're in right now and recognize these mistakes, but my problem is I know exactly what my problems are, I just don't know how to attain that mindset to fix them..

  • @christineunique3460
    @christineunique3460 4 роки тому +1

    We appreciate you.❤️

  • @jordanelliott9712
    @jordanelliott9712 3 роки тому

    True inspiration. We love you. Thank you for everything.

  • @dark_nightwing_xl2797
    @dark_nightwing_xl2797 4 роки тому +12

    I Love this channel and i'm lonely and never had a girlfriend i feel blessed.

  • @courtttgraham
    @courtttgraham 3 роки тому +10

    I have been struggling with feeling lonely lately, my bday was in June and for some reason I lost all of my friends shortly after that. On top of that I had just been dating people who choose to deal with me when it was convenient for them. At first I was having a hard time accepting that I may be better off alone but each day it makes more sense why I should be, at least for a while so I can work on myself 💕💓💕 luckily I have a close family but to those feeling the same way we’ll get through this 🙏🏽💖

    • @bbvagameing4841
      @bbvagameing4841 2 роки тому

      Im. Not close to my family or friends ir sucks but your right

  • @djuchiha
    @djuchiha 4 роки тому

    This is exactly why I’m subbed cuz you are the ideal leader who can assist with uplifting his subscribers. That’s what I also look for youtubers who actually can relate with their subscribers on a personal level and turn around and feel like they helped positively impacted that person’s life even if they going through tough times 💯💯

  • @elizamonay6178
    @elizamonay6178 3 роки тому

    I went to a small kick back and talked to everyone there. I felt gross after like everybody was spiritually suppressed. Most ppl don’t deserve to share your energy. This year I’ve had so many revelations during this time and I feel so light and closer to myself and god. Energy speaks for itself.

  • @seantheman1886
    @seantheman1886 4 роки тому +5

    People say they can’t find love, maybe u ain’t searching in the right place.

    • @sheenestevez1770
      @sheenestevez1770 3 роки тому +2

      How u expect someone to love u when u don't love yourself

  • @ricoo_rose
    @ricoo_rose 3 роки тому +4

    ❤️ Sending Love To Whoever Reads This

  • @casual_dropoutyt2912
    @casual_dropoutyt2912 4 роки тому +1

    Thanks for the comfort Brandon

  • @tigergoesrawrr2519
    @tigergoesrawrr2519 3 роки тому

    We need more people like you in this world, ive been trying to spread some positivity but often get shut down . I’m not sure what your beliefs are but bless you man being the light for people in the darkness is a beautiful thing .

  • @heyvern
    @heyvern 3 роки тому +7

    Or, what ppl are NOT doing. Often times, others are MISSING OUT on us because were not brave enough to open up. Maybe were too shy, maybe we stay in a bubble and are not out going. I'm guilty of this myself. I have no problem at making new friends but Im guilty of staying to myself a lot. It's easy to get caught up in the day to day life. Find an organization or a club to be apart of. Start at what you enjoy doing and seek other like minded people who enjoy doing the same. A great way to meet your future partner is to find them doing the same passion you love. Immediately, you have that in common.

  • @deinbusfahrer
    @deinbusfahrer 3 роки тому +3

    I dont have a lack of friends and I'm really lucky for having them over 10 years. In spite of them I was sometimes jealous and sad when I saw them hanging up with their girls and heard them talking about their first sexual experiences and because of them I was always asking myself why I didn't have a girlfriend although I attempted to get someone. I hated myself after I had tried to get a girlfriend and getting pushed away every time. I really felt lonely and ugly and I thought nobody could understand my inner pain of failure and despair and I didn't know someone whom I could tell it and knows my problem.
    Its sometimes nice to see someone who went also through this and can give some good advices to someone who is still going through this and for me is it like a refreshing and brings me down to earth to see this video and it gives me a feeling for not being alone with it.

  • @firasharb1454
    @firasharb1454 4 роки тому

    Brandon you are my hero . EVERYTHING that you explained I have been suffering with ALL my life and I can relate to in every detail . I appreciate you and this video 🙏🏽

  • @simonvance8054
    @simonvance8054 3 роки тому

    Thanks brother...you’re a good person for making this.. have a great day..