why you have 0 Friends and Don’t Fit in

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  • @SPIRITUALSo
    @SPIRITUALSo  5 років тому +15395

    Gazer So in the Building

    • @Shamonsnipes
      @Shamonsnipes 5 років тому +359

      I appreciate this video bro, I've dealt with social anxiety and awkwardness since middle school and still trying to get better. I appreciate it

    • @hurdlegod4933
      @hurdlegod4933 5 років тому +34

      First

    • @ssniperwolfxx9168
      @ssniperwolfxx9168 5 років тому +24

      Haha 🤣

    • @ssniperwolfxx9168
      @ssniperwolfxx9168 5 років тому +40

      Love u man

    • @drivermodkg
      @drivermodkg 5 років тому +16

      Fasho

  • @floop2935
    @floop2935 4 роки тому +4818

    This felt like a facetime call

    • @tamarawashington3786
      @tamarawashington3786 4 роки тому +7

      Ye

    • @ihatelucky
      @ihatelucky 4 роки тому +81

      I feel like im in a face time call everytime i watch this channels videos

    • @haroldbean433
      @haroldbean433 4 роки тому +49

      I felt like he was talking directly to me man it felt crazy but gave me hope fr

    • @mb1ka_
      @mb1ka_ 4 роки тому +15

      If u realize it, he walking in circles

    • @ellielopez1615
      @ellielopez1615 4 роки тому +4

      I need facetime calls like this.

  • @wholelottapain8130
    @wholelottapain8130 5 років тому +61460

    “Being alone for a while is dangerous. It’s addicting. Once you see how peaceful it is, you don’t want to deal with people anymore.” - Tom hardy

    • @GRNhpglobal
      @GRNhpglobal 5 років тому +1245

      Sheesh 👌

    • @senior7407
      @senior7407 5 років тому +3460

      I used to love being alone now i get depressed on random shit everyday if i'm alone too much

    • @julirai679
      @julirai679 5 років тому +959

      I saw this quote and clicked off the video case closed lmao

    • @alexiz_89cancer27
      @alexiz_89cancer27 5 років тому +1398

      So true. I got tired of being by myself and not being around anyone and that was what I wanted and I wanted to go out but then wants I had people over my house, I realized I rather be by myself because I got used to my privacy. I got used to being alone. And I am now ok with that.

    • @jayvsjr5584
      @jayvsjr5584 5 років тому +160

      Facts! Scary facts

  • @jackrains6014
    @jackrains6014 4 роки тому +5734

    Came here expecting to be roasted, but left with a new sense of hope.

    • @tino4880
      @tino4880 4 роки тому +135

      i thought the same 💀

    • @RadioactiveRahSNG
      @RadioactiveRahSNG 4 роки тому +43

      Tino change your icon nigga 😂

    • @Cj-hj6rm
      @Cj-hj6rm 4 роки тому +72

      💀 still tho
      fuck fake friends

    • @TheDrinkOffical
      @TheDrinkOffical 4 роки тому +7

      Ikr

    • @xzexid
      @xzexid 4 роки тому +91

      I try to act cool at school but when I was in second grade I always got bullied and couldn't fit I'm 12 going to 6th grade I feel like I truly could love myself i love to play basketball I love outside and sports i love playing basketball the only 2 people that love me is jesus and god I love being myself and not being like this bad people I think everytime my heart beats I think I just need to love myself god bless to anyone reading this 🙏🙌👑

  • @t5.0ny
    @t5.0ny Рік тому +213

    6 year’s strong. 0 friends , Home , Work , Gym , & The Word Of God.
    ESOTERIC 🧠 👈🏾

    • @hp2546
      @hp2546 Рік тому +14

      Things you name is truly someone who can have a happy solitude life. For example, home is where you do any activities alone because it is your time to take care of nobody else but yourself especially if you live by yourself. Work is where you don't even need partners all the time. You might even have jobs where you work alone. Gym is where you go at your own time with no partners. Word of God could be more like anyone can go to church alone and not make friends. 6 years of your life is where you found solitude life useful. Once you see how peaceful solitude life is, you are used to it to a point where you are happy in solitude life. Once you are used to solitude life, you see value in solitude life.

    • @t5.0ny
      @t5.0ny Рік тому +3

      @@hp2546 Wow I thankyou brother for your kind words of wisdom 🤝

    • @Thundering-xt2hy
      @Thundering-xt2hy 7 місяців тому +1

      As a follower of Christ myself I would say make some Christian friends.
      Matthew 18:20 says “ For where two or three gather together as my followers, I am there among them."
      Fellowship with other is important as when we gather together the Holy Spirit is there

    • @Layla-hg4ux
      @Layla-hg4ux 4 місяці тому +1

      How about when you are in need of help?

  • @imcosama
    @imcosama 3 роки тому +5295

    The worst thing is not being alone, It's being surrounded by people who make you feel alone.

    • @_Yombo
      @_Yombo 3 роки тому +46

      Weebs 🤓

    • @ulysses988
      @ulysses988 3 роки тому +56

      probably because ur a weeb

    • @chrisrey0018
      @chrisrey0018 3 роки тому +69

      these normies in the chat wtf

    • @imcosama
      @imcosama 3 роки тому +59

      @Ink Cup much love to you g , being a Weeb really ain’t as bad as people exaggerate it

    • @lilwack7192
      @lilwack7192 3 роки тому +7

      ayyyyyy co sama I listen to your music , didn’t expect to see you here 😭 ai ore! Fire as fuck

  • @QueenQueenly
    @QueenQueenly 5 років тому +18840

    Better to be alone than to be stuck with fake friends

    • @meelo4597
      @meelo4597 5 років тому +179

      Queenly Queenly Big facts

    • @ky11622
      @ky11622 5 років тому +81

      Amen girl! 🙏

    • @Julie_jul
      @Julie_jul 5 років тому +54

      Got that right sis

    • @SONJASAVEDBYGRACE
      @SONJASAVEDBYGRACE 5 років тому +25

      Queenly Queenly yep

    • @TrVlogs82
      @TrVlogs82 5 років тому +25

      Hella facts man.

  • @lupeortiz9497
    @lupeortiz9497 5 років тому +1566

    Being alone is either "freedom" or "loneliness" it's all about perspective

    • @jameswilson7472
      @jameswilson7472 5 років тому +12

      You know how far too go it's about staying away from certain people deal with alot of people that's the meaning

    • @Jjooopp109
      @Jjooopp109 5 років тому +2

      James it’s both for me 😭😭

    • @Xantxna
      @Xantxna 5 років тому

      Lupe Ortiz it’s both

    • @gangstaboss7976
      @gangstaboss7976 5 років тому +16

      Don’t give a damn about people who don’t like.u

    • @kheii3503
      @kheii3503 5 років тому +19

      I sometimes feel just so lonely and it's horrible but whenever I have a alone time I'll actually enjoy myself but my mind just likes to think about other people's life and just think about me as lame...

  • @RiriLove88
    @RiriLove88 Рік тому +181

    I watched this years ago when it was posted but here I am watching it again and I needed to hear it now more than ever. I went from having so many friends to none at all. I was starting to feel alone and really missed having friends but this was a reminder that I’m on the right path. Thank you for this message. Glory to God.

  • @victhxr560
    @victhxr560 5 років тому +5195

    I don’t have friends I just know ppl if that makes sense

    • @uthchh5441
      @uthchh5441 5 років тому +559

      makes sense. U have aquantances

    • @marijablecic2978
      @marijablecic2978 5 років тому +87

      Victxr same tbh

    • @Darkdevil1584
      @Darkdevil1584 5 років тому +73

      to someone like me it makes no sense almost, it seems someone always wants my time and wants to be my friend. Its exhausting and people will message me expressing how they wish people always wanted to be around them but im sitting here just waiting for a moment to breath alone.

    • @Kyle_00
      @Kyle_00 5 років тому +53

      never have i related more to a comment. i hear u man. loud an clear here.

    • @aidanrobinson6013
      @aidanrobinson6013 5 років тому +3

      Victxr loser

  • @TheSakxFifthGod
    @TheSakxFifthGod 5 років тому +3475

    How many people were alone when they watched this video 🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @yazdil1594
      @yazdil1594 5 років тому +5

      Me

    • @indiangamerz3788
      @indiangamerz3788 5 років тому +3

      me

    • @arielshurtz9556
      @arielshurtz9556 5 років тому +32

      me I was alone when I watched this video by myself im good though a lot of the times I like being alone having that peace of mind too my self amen I love peace, amen, amen, amen,

    • @rolyxjk9353
      @rolyxjk9353 5 років тому +1

      Me

    • @badbih1509
      @badbih1509 5 років тому +1

      Campaign World100 boy i been alone damn long enough 🤦🏻‍♀️ not just cuz i’m “alone” 1 inna while.🥱👋🏼

  • @JayLuisLive
    @JayLuisLive 5 років тому +2249

    “Your higher self don’t want you hangin’ with these people”
    I felt this.

    • @liquid_ark1381
      @liquid_ark1381 5 років тому +23

      I really wish I had at least one friend

    • @liquid_ark1381
      @liquid_ark1381 5 років тому +4

      It makes me so sad

    • @John-mv1sp
      @John-mv1sp 5 років тому +50

      @@liquid_ark1381 Focus on yourself bro, evolve.

    • @ms.camillewarrenempress31
      @ms.camillewarrenempress31 5 років тому +1

      This is so mean..

    • @walkingnarrow8574
      @walkingnarrow8574 5 років тому +1

      @@liquid_ark1381 - Why do you think this is, MrFox? (This isn't coming from a place of meanness or sarcasm... I genuinely want to know...) I've never fit in, either...especially with my family. I do have a few close friends and a whole host of acquaintances, but sometimes I wonder *why* I feel socially awkward - even with those friends who are close to me and have been for several decades.... Strange.

  • @bossladyk3087
    @bossladyk3087 2 роки тому +322

    I feel so alone sometimes. I feel like I don't fit in nowhere in this world. This new social media world is all about being fake. Fake hair, nails, eyes, wigs, make up.. everybody just want to shake their butts.. it's just tiring. We are overloaded with it constantly. I have no friends and no one to talk to. The person I loved stole my energy n back to treating me like shit. I'm just really hurting right now.

    • @justinpruitt2737
      @justinpruitt2737 2 роки тому +2

      ❤️❤️

    • @FromtheeyesofShaun
      @FromtheeyesofShaun 2 роки тому +27

      I feel like this too,. 32 now n I thought after the 90s 2000s I had a chance but this New world is even worst.... I feel like I was born at the wrong time

    • @yesyoucan7877
      @yesyoucan7877 2 роки тому +18

      You do realize that not everyone uses social media right? In fact MOST people that have REAL lives do not give two craps about it and those are the people you want to surround yourself with. You sound like the type of person to stay in the house all day and watch other people… no wonder you feel alone. Get out the house and just live life and the opportunity to make friends will reveal itself. Besides you don’t need friends anyway, especially if you have goals.

    • @andregiante3940
      @andregiante3940 2 роки тому +7

      Checking in, hope you're feeling better.

    • @itsmaryaam
      @itsmaryaam Рік тому +1

      I feel the same. Sending you love ❤️

  • @momu7430
    @momu7430 5 років тому +3260

    This guys is probably going to be a great uncle

    • @RemielFarai
      @RemielFarai 5 років тому +33

      on god😂

    • @tamzz6691
      @tamzz6691 5 років тому +120

      or even dad i can imagine telling his children everything he’s saying in the video

    • @Crystal-nx9bf
      @Crystal-nx9bf 5 років тому +1

      Wtf

    • @JP-sh9gi
      @JP-sh9gi 5 років тому +22

      Kids won’t listen tho that’s how it be

    • @angelstarfire
      @angelstarfire 5 років тому +8

      @@JP-sh9gi then they come back to complain

  • @cappuccinosnephew1382
    @cappuccinosnephew1382 5 років тому +1419

    "A friend that betrays you hated since day one"-Tupac

  • @eugenethedream9154
    @eugenethedream9154 5 років тому +1609

    "If you love yourself just know you'll never be alone" - Big Sean

    • @yb73041
      @yb73041 5 років тому +1

      What song lmao

    • @trollidk4059
      @trollidk4059 5 років тому +6

      Yacoob Ahmed one man can change the world

    • @yb73041
      @yb73041 5 років тому +1

      @@trollidk4059 thank you G

    • @arif4tube
      @arif4tube 5 років тому +1

      yes

    • @OmakYaHabibi
      @OmakYaHabibi 5 років тому +2

      But he also made a song about how he doesn’t fuck with his ex so idk anymore

  • @debrafrei4717
    @debrafrei4717 Рік тому +41

    I have never fit in and was always different. I was always smart, had common sense, very perceptive. Why IN THE HELL did it take me so long to see that as a gift?
    You are wise beyond your years....keep spreading the word. ❤️

  • @glennshort8490
    @glennshort8490 5 років тому +1665

    “Once you learn how to have fun by yourself. How to love yourself. The dependency on other people will naturally go away.” Man that’s some beautiful shit right there.

    • @JesusFlores-sy1dj
      @JesusFlores-sy1dj 5 років тому +5

      4 realz bro, truth 👍

    • @johnellizz
      @johnellizz 5 років тому +1

      bruh I depend on my brother, bruh. But I know he a NPC. He ain't real, bruh. But I still live in his house 'cause I got to.

    • @aesthetics_G
      @aesthetics_G 5 років тому

      PROVEN FACT VIDEOS npc nigga lol

    • @sethwatson6569
      @sethwatson6569 5 років тому +1

      What's npc..

    • @johnellizz
      @johnellizz 5 років тому +10

      @@sethwatson6569 A Non-Player Character, bruh. Like when you play GTA V all those people walking down the street. They NPCs.

  • @glsbandsup9426
    @glsbandsup9426 5 років тому +751

    “I wish I can hit the reset button on people who came into my life and stoled my energy

  • @summersphinx6198
    @summersphinx6198 5 років тому +13607

    “Why you have 0 friends and don’t fit in”
    *Recommended for you*

    • @Issaga100
      @Issaga100 5 років тому +186

      Sphinx Gaming that’s tuff

    • @danielfulga3517
      @danielfulga3517 5 років тому +393

      I got no friends,i get bullied
      i came to a new school,no one wants me to be friends with them
      so my best friend is my minecraft dog

    • @bethharmon9795
      @bethharmon9795 5 років тому +61

      Daniel Fulga I can be your friend :))

    • @LOWWEfr
      @LOWWEfr 5 років тому +7

      Omg🤣

    • @lelevontin1814
      @lelevontin1814 5 років тому

      Sphinx Gaming for me for sure.

  • @mrbass093
    @mrbass093 Рік тому +256

    My Opinion : When you’re alone, you really see the fakeness from a mile away.

  • @osahayden
    @osahayden 4 роки тому +2925

    I don't have friends, I just know many people.

  • @hermitvii5757
    @hermitvii5757 5 років тому +2443

    When someone calls out your whole life in one minute

  • @Rikelmyyyy
    @Rikelmyyyy 4 роки тому +1706

    “you’re higher self doesn’t want you hanging with these people” i felt that!

    • @christiangil9118
      @christiangil9118 4 роки тому +9

      You know of the longest part of my life I wondered to myself how true that statement is versus moments where you actually have to improve yourself as a person like how people say that one must always improve oneself

    • @pseudonymphmusic7721
      @pseudonymphmusic7721 4 роки тому +2

      Right?

    • @Rikelmyyyy
      @Rikelmyyyy 4 роки тому +9

      Christian Gil I agree with you 100 percent one should always be working on ourself at all times because you want to be your best self, but there are many people that come into your life to bring you down and slow down your progress. It’s your job to see who isn’t helping you or in other words slowing you down.

    • @christiangil9118
      @christiangil9118 4 роки тому +1

      @@Rikelmyyyy 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

    • @christiangil9118
      @christiangil9118 4 роки тому +1

      @@Rikelmyyyy you real for that one I do photography work you can follow me on my Instagram page and let me know if you like my photos
      Greos_Photography

  • @Amburito1
    @Amburito1 2 роки тому +141

    I kept getting left on seen, no one reaching out, not invited, and getting ignored. I really felt down about it but your video helped me see this is a GIFT! Thank you so much!!

    • @fortencuales
      @fortencuales Рік тому +8

      Screw them peeps live in your joy and embrace your gifts

    • @ashnicole9354
      @ashnicole9354 Рік тому +1

      This is me G

    • @Ryan_D207
      @Ryan_D207 8 місяців тому +1

      I feel you bro

    • @UBallingPhenomenal
      @UBallingPhenomenal Місяць тому +1

      You should know that these people aren't for you. Find somebody else like you that you can relate to. But you will find your soulmate 😌

  • @r-nine632
    @r-nine632 5 років тому +2045

    This isn't motivation, this is knowledge.

    • @worteldrie4980
      @worteldrie4980 5 років тому +24

      FACTS

    • @gamingclips2-q6z
      @gamingclips2-q6z 5 років тому +6

      @Normani is better than Camila true

    • @leavemealone7108
      @leavemealone7108 2 роки тому +2

      Fr

    • @Red-mx9tx
      @Red-mx9tx 2 роки тому +3

      Motivational Knowledge

    • @HarmzConscious
      @HarmzConscious 2 роки тому +1

      Those fake friends are hating on you in plain sight I promise, they gonna be nice to your face but have hidden intentions it’s like they got demons inside them and those people from your past will hate you and talk bad because they see you’re doing fine without them. You can’t even flex on your haters because that evil eye shit is real man anyway I just made a vid going deep on all this stay blessed 🙏❤

  • @melanieblackwell1901
    @melanieblackwell1901 5 років тому +1579

    I literally DO NOT HAVE FRIENDS. 😑 the friends I DID have drained my energy

    • @UniqueSol504
      @UniqueSol504 5 років тому +47

      @Melanie Blanks
      It's fine..we can start a friendship. I don't have any real people in my life to consider a friend neither. Let me know if you want to talk sometimes??

    • @shawnafuego26
      @shawnafuego26 5 років тому +80

      Yes i had to cut those friends off like i had to for my sanity.I got hit by a car an saw who my real friends are. It was me myself an I.

    • @carolwama979
      @carolwama979 5 років тому +57

      narcissist will just drain u...God will send u real friends

    • @jonahpharoah
      @jonahpharoah 5 років тому +28

      drained the damn life outta me, all for nothing, don't even speak to the clown no more WHILE I'm giving out marriage advice and draining myself with these different people

    • @tfias6626
      @tfias6626 5 років тому +71

      Same with me. When i try and have friends, it dosent work..i feel so weird and out of place because i literally cannot connect to anyone lol

  • @ThatFooJoe209
    @ThatFooJoe209 5 років тому +15459

    Some of the realist people don’t have friends- Tupac

    • @Penelope416
      @Penelope416 5 років тому +938

      The realest people don't have a lot of friends*

    • @YO10_19
      @YO10_19 5 років тому +123

      When did Pac say that?

    • @DeathRowMakaveli
      @DeathRowMakaveli 5 років тому +830

      I told them long ago

    • @UKCHEEZ
      @UKCHEEZ 5 років тому +15

      @@AGTLDN his murderers friend

    • @Stanna44
      @Stanna44 5 років тому +30

      Andrew Tshiala That was the dumbest comment I’ve seen in a while.

  • @psyxsees1
    @psyxsees1 7 місяців тому +28

    Watched this first day of high school, now I’m watching this day before graduation. Now watching this again it makes me realize how much influence this video had on my time at high school. Thanks for giving me a positive mindset during high school.

  • @mazen-98a
    @mazen-98a 5 років тому +2916

    They laugh at you because you’re different you laugh at them because they’re all the same

  • @shamailyoutube8642
    @shamailyoutube8642 5 років тому +1555

    Until you’re comfortable with being alone you won’t know wether you’re choosing people out of Love or Loneliness

    • @s.i2898
      @s.i2898 5 років тому +8

      z Shamail thats so true man . Rip to xxx

    • @edwardmartinez4806
      @edwardmartinez4806 5 років тому +5

      Absolutley the truth!

    • @utprez
      @utprez 5 років тому +2

      damn! truth...

    • @ToReal4real
      @ToReal4real 5 років тому +6

      That hit hard then a bitch

    • @eworhymes
      @eworhymes 4 роки тому +4

      Daamn thank u..!! Fr , I will think bout this man💎

  • @diegovillegas236
    @diegovillegas236 5 років тому +552

    this dude made my self esteem go from 0-100

    • @ultimatefirecracker1486
      @ultimatefirecracker1486 5 років тому +4

      Diego Villegas same

    • @akayshaoliver5952
      @akayshaoliver5952 5 років тому

      Diego Villegas he does do that & another channel that helps and teaches me a lot is Money Motivated Starz. He taught me how to mediate correctly and everything. His link is below too if you wanna check him out.
      ua-cam.com/channels/HmLtrD4T1qoxkkGxXRIZ4w.html

    • @leonessbutterfly8813
      @leonessbutterfly8813 5 років тому

      Real quick

    • @mr.nolife7820
      @mr.nolife7820 5 років тому

      Seriously tho

    • @LeSunshineee
      @LeSunshineee Рік тому

      Same

  • @NiaLacole2797
    @NiaLacole2797 2 роки тому +183

    I left social media (except UA-cam) about 4 months ago & it’s been the BEST experience ever. I feel so much more at peace mentally. And I too only have ONE friend, for 15 years! ❤

    • @jboystar302
      @jboystar302 Рік тому +4

      I am really happy for you,I am planning to quite social media too because see all my friends having fun really get me depressed all the time,I feel like I am left behind,Whenever I am happy over something they always find a way to make me depressed,I pray god give me the power to over come this🙏

    • @lecp3248
      @lecp3248 Рік тому +1

      i wanna do the same bro

    • @issavibez394
      @issavibez394 Рік тому +1

      I left Facebook

    • @J.C.3423
      @J.C.3423 Рік тому

      Did the same 7 years ago!!!

    • @losh_mi87
      @losh_mi87 Рік тому +1

      I did the same but now i spend too much time on you tube😂

  • @Riri21135
    @Riri21135 5 років тому +2288

    The fact that this was on my recommendation is deep 😳

    • @beverlypimentel3839
      @beverlypimentel3839 5 років тому +4

      true

    • @reenoj5045
      @reenoj5045 5 років тому +6

      Ye same bruh wtf

    • @thatsEforEveryone
      @thatsEforEveryone 5 років тому +17

      It was random, yet it wasn't random 🧐

    • @babybarbie9542
      @babybarbie9542 5 років тому +4

      RIGHT.

    • @jlivb
      @jlivb 5 років тому +3

      i searched why its hard to make friends in my 20s, or why women can't make friends. now its in my recommendations.

  • @quirkysoul7702
    @quirkysoul7702 5 років тому +820

    I love being alone. Even being around family drains my energy sometimes, I thought I was weird but maybe not.

    • @candid0111
      @candid0111 5 років тому +51

      My family make me feel lame because i have no friends. I don't even like to be around them anymore. I feel bad about that though. they make me feel like something is wrong with me.

    • @domination6585
      @domination6585 5 років тому +53

      My family brings out the worst in me sometimes

    • @DanielLopez-xs3gl
      @DanielLopez-xs3gl 5 років тому +64

      I feel the same, my family takes away my peace, they always talk bad about people, always screaming complaining, being rude, have no manners, i am soft spoken and dont like to raise my voice just to be heard so i just stick by myself and develop myself in a positive way, negative energy gives off frequencies that can affect you mentaly physicaly and spiritually. Love to all and forgive all.

    • @fullchicken4492
      @fullchicken4492 5 років тому

      candid0111 Cause there is... Go play some sports and get a life

    • @vandarrylhampton3779
      @vandarrylhampton3779 5 років тому

      candid0111 same

  • @nobodycallsmeyellow5189
    @nobodycallsmeyellow5189 5 років тому +532

    People think they have a lot of friends but they have a lot of acquaintances. It’s lonely at the top and extra crowded at the bottom. “Friends” will get you nowhere

  • @bambijones
    @bambijones Рік тому +10

    I have no friends anymore, I’ve out grew everyone! And people always left me out, sadly. I have found my peace and I’m happy here ❤❤

  • @bigbillmusic
    @bigbillmusic 5 років тому +321

    Not having friends and getting cut off was the best thing that happened to me. Focusing on myself

    • @Leeezy23
      @Leeezy23 5 років тому +5

      BIG BILL facts

    • @fartun7815
      @fartun7815 5 років тому +29

      BIG BILL same:) let’s get this money and change our lives

    • @NikoBellic555
      @NikoBellic555 5 років тому +3

      Big fax

    • @sjsiemka
      @sjsiemka 5 років тому

      Relating 100%

    • @kayfuego5598
      @kayfuego5598 5 років тому +5

      & this what they dont understand, when you cut off that energy, they feel weak. If you see they feel sick to the stomach when they come back around, clearly their energy vampires

  • @genesisorozco2872
    @genesisorozco2872 5 років тому +517

    "I wish I could hit the reset button on some of them people who came into my life and stole my energy" I felt that.

    • @trueanimeforyou
      @trueanimeforyou 5 років тому +2

      Same

    • @johnellizz
      @johnellizz 5 років тому +6

      Yeh they be stealing energy from source players, bruh. NPCs are fake people that steal the energy of the real. 99% of people are fake as shit.

    • @emeraldleongila9819
      @emeraldleongila9819 5 років тому

      🤔

    • @TheOriginalSerpent77
      @TheOriginalSerpent77 5 років тому +2

      Their are psychic vampires everywhere...they drain our energy and their negativity also drains us and they feed off of us...

    • @rogernewday123
      @rogernewday123 5 років тому

      @@TheOriginalSerpent77 Well Said !!! 💯% TRUTH !!!

  • @leekslounge
    @leekslounge 5 років тому +943

    No friends = no disappointment, treachery, and evil.

    • @straightwhitemale6609
      @straightwhitemale6609 5 років тому +10

      Not true, something traumatic could happen to you or your family

    • @leekslounge
      @leekslounge 5 років тому +10

      @@straightwhitemale6609 That's why you have family. "Friend" is a subjective term.

    • @jasonmyers3791
      @jasonmyers3791 5 років тому

      Yup

    • @jeffreyrodriguez1913
      @jeffreyrodriguez1913 5 років тому +7

      But no friends leads to poor social skills like me😞

    • @jasonmyers3791
      @jasonmyers3791 5 років тому +13

      @@jeffreyrodriguez1913 you dont need friends you need aquintances there's a difference, with aquintances they dont need to know nothing about your life you guys can talk and have a few drinks once in a blue moon but thats it you keep them close incase you need help trying to file your taxes or where a specific place is located(restuarant etc) Thats it!!

  • @Bmwann
    @Bmwann 7 місяців тому +80

    I have ZERO real friends. I’m used to it at this point, it is what it is

    • @מריובלוטלי
      @מריובלוטלי 7 місяців тому

      Real

    • @D-Will2k
      @D-Will2k 7 місяців тому

      👏

    • @dray7276
      @dray7276 5 місяців тому +6

      Who cares? Do you see animals running around looking for friends? "Friends" are a man-made concept. Yes some animals have communities, but they need that to survive. We live in a time that civilization has allowed us to not worry about predators attacking us at every minute of the day. We don't need to be around folks all day to validate us. Most people are stuck in that school era of being popular translates to having friends. Life is too short to be worrying about who likes you and if you get accepted by your so-called peers. Remember, only the weak need people to validate because they don't have a connection with self to know that life is about experiences. Save up, work on yourself and travel the world so you gain enough knowledge and experience that people will naturally gravitate to you. Learn to play the piano or guitar. Learn to meditate.

    • @klampers
      @klampers 5 місяців тому

      Do you want friends? Or you don’t?

    • @supremepox2038
      @supremepox2038 4 місяці тому +1

      Yeah I don't really stress that or a girl no more I pursue but don't chase

  • @bradmarchand8646
    @bradmarchand8646 3 роки тому +3323

    "Trust gets you killed, love gets you hurt, and being real gets you hated."

  • @apollo268
    @apollo268 5 років тому +2293

    Love him or hate him he is spitting straight facts.

    • @dereka8041
      @dereka8041 5 років тому +3

      Yep!

    • @ark_9JZX
      @ark_9JZX 5 років тому +24

      All memes aside hes actually telling truth

    • @bigmarv5656
      @bigmarv5656 5 років тому +8

      I disagree. Having friends shouldnt stop you from doing what you want to do. If it does then YOU’RE the problem

    • @jacobcarrico1999
      @jacobcarrico1999 5 років тому +38

      Big Marv I disagree with that but it’s perception. That’s if you WANT to have friends. Once you understand your purpose you don’t need to surround yourself with them. You don’t need them you can strive without them. Some of us aren’t blessed enough with great friendships. I can speak for myself and I know that I’m not the problem. I see through the fakes and there’s few who are real, at least in my world.

    • @jacobcarrico1999
      @jacobcarrico1999 5 років тому +7

      Big Marv On that note, I give my best effort to appreciate life everyday and find joy in the world around me. I also try to spread optimism and positivity as much as I can. Changing the world around you. When judgement day comes, the majority who are lost in this matrix won’t have a chance.

  • @mochakhalessi1973
    @mochakhalessi1973 5 років тому +856

    I swear i was just scrolling and clicked on this video and bro i swear this was a message i needed to hear i felt like he was talking to me

  • @caseym2888
    @caseym2888 2 роки тому +44

    This guy seems like an awesome person to have around I'd appreciate that presence.

  • @theonetrueking3612
    @theonetrueking3612 5 років тому +579

    the loneliness you get from people is way worse than the one you get from being alone

    • @fxybrwnquese
      @fxybrwnquese 5 років тому +10

      Yesss I feel this✨

    • @BritBrat444
      @BritBrat444 5 років тому +37

      OMG. The loneliness you feel around others is sickening. That motivated me to spend more time with myself. I use friends now for entertainment purposes only. The most deep relationship I have is the one with myself. And when I do hang with other people it feels so good. Because I learning to love myself. I'm not trying to feel a void by hanging with them.

    • @esclove3707
      @esclove3707 5 років тому +9

      So true. The loneliness you feel when with other people is something else. It's really draining. Can't explain that feeling, but I hate it. I won't ever want to have to experience it again. Some people are so damn toxic they become friends with you just so they can use you to feel better about themselves. Just so they can control you and distract you from achieving, growing and loving yourself.

    • @quintonkirk285
      @quintonkirk285 5 років тому +1

      Deep

    • @sonalii5527
      @sonalii5527 5 років тому +1

      Trueeeee

  • @rachellewalters8111
    @rachellewalters8111 5 років тому +622

    When you get screwed over by people continously, it's really hard to trust people anymore!

    • @fromthedivine
      @fromthedivine 5 років тому

      Yes

    • @freespeech9686
      @freespeech9686 5 років тому +6

      Rachelle Walters Prov.3 Verses 5 to 6
      [5] Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. [6] In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.🌸
      God bless

    • @michaeljohn6693
      @michaeljohn6693 5 років тому +3

      Rachelle Walters: You have to start asking yourself why are you attracting those situations in your life! Have you ever heard about the 7 essene mirrors. It’s very powerful. Definitely breakthrough material. It shows us how our life is a mirror of our inner being. Greg Braden explains it extremely well. The fact of the matter is if you constantly experience these negative experiences it’s bc you’re either that in which you experience or that in which you judge in the moment. This is coming from a non judgmental point of view. I hope this helps you close that door. Love and light to you and everyone in this universe.🙏🏻💚🌎💫☝🏼😇🌈⭐️💯

    • @vitocorleone1462
      @vitocorleone1462 5 років тому

      Rachelle Walters What did your friend(s) do?

    • @dougsolo3086
      @dougsolo3086 5 років тому +1

      I was about to say this. The trust is gone..... Shannon

  • @sorkaii
    @sorkaii 5 років тому +2559

    I just wanna know why UA-cam recommended me this and KNEW I needed to hear it.

    • @a.valenz6ix2wo3hree
      @a.valenz6ix2wo3hree 5 років тому +17

      Facts

    • @77cu14
      @77cu14 5 років тому +83

      God is the answer

    • @frankjaeger1711
      @frankjaeger1711 5 років тому +29

      God owns youtube

    • @yassingurhan6204
      @yassingurhan6204 5 років тому +40

      Humble 9300 it’s because we’re being watched at all times. When downloading apps usually people skip through the agreements such as gaining access to microphones photo galleries and phone call app etc

    • @Ghostturtel
      @Ghostturtel 5 років тому +10

      Omg this is crazy, I am a loner.

  • @airgunacademy6764
    @airgunacademy6764 Рік тому +7

    as you get older, people come and go.... but if you know someone before, it means you have a friend. some people gets really insecure because their friend (you) is getting better while they are stuck. dont waste time on these losers. true friend will always be there during bad time and good time. remember that....

  • @Xianne027
    @Xianne027 5 років тому +308

    "Your higher self don't want you hanging with these people."
    Good point. Thanks for the insight. 👍

  • @mrzed2349
    @mrzed2349 5 років тому +744

    Better to be alone than have fake people around you syphoning my energy . You make good points my brother

  • @anabelleswrld
    @anabelleswrld 5 років тому +2432

    I felt this and I'm sure all the introverts out there can relate to this 😔

    • @ggmail7209
      @ggmail7209 5 років тому +11

      Yes Maam

    • @AfG_313
      @AfG_313 5 років тому +6

      Chea

    • @gujuriddler9513
      @gujuriddler9513 5 років тому +29

      Why that emoji? He just told you all benefits of being alone. I‘m also an introvert and I can totally relate to So

    • @Brandon-ji7nv
      @Brandon-ji7nv 5 років тому +3

      jacobthesatanist you’re a broke freak

    • @prophetoffire6976
      @prophetoffire6976 5 років тому +1

      You're gorgeous if that's u on ur profile pic

  • @marley606
    @marley606 2 роки тому +46

    I am 15 years old and have Autism, ADHD and Dyspraxia. All my life I have stood out like a sore thumb and it was like I finally knew what was wrong with me when I was 8 and got diagnosed with all 3. I've always been bullied and have been a loner and haven't had friends. I would get home from school and just play on my ipad. I am doing online school as High School really would not have been good for me and my mom and I both knew that. I just spend my days online, scrolling tiktok, watching videos, listening to music or watching tv/movies. The only person who is really my friend is my mom and i'm an only child and she's a single mom so it's tough for her and I feel bad. I don't do well in school and I usually need her to help me with my work. It's just so sad I even envy my mom as she was very popular when she was in high school and very beautiful and went to parties all the time and got very good grades.
    I especially feel intimidated by people my age, i'm very socially awkward and people pick up on that right away and bully me it sucks even when I talk to people online it still feels like they're judging me. It's gotten worse as i've gotten older as I stand out from people my age more now than I did when I was young.
    I've just realized that we truly do live in an awful world and a lot of people just really aren't that nice. I'd say the key is to just find something that keeps you going. Something I do is I sometimes make really dark and inappropriate jokes to cope. Something that keeps me going is my mom and I travel quite often. I love traveling and seeing different parts of the world. I don't really know what else to say it's that we kind of just learn to live with whatever. I myself have stopped caring what others think and I feel better

    • @abcjelly
      @abcjelly 2 роки тому +2

      @Marley Collins
      I agree☑️ w/ you & i've been in the same shoes as you *sometimes* (in the past)
      But now in college what is you said is almost relatable

    • @Brainrot811
      @Brainrot811 2 роки тому +2

      I am 15 too and that one weird kid in class so i can understand you,I just wish that i could meet people similar to me one day..

    • @marley606
      @marley606 2 роки тому

      @@Brainrot811 I have seen your other comments on here. I have a feeling that you likely have Autism. Especially since you said you can't be around large groups of people (which I relate to as someone with Autism) I would maybe recommend seeing professional to see if maybe you do have Autism, just to figure out what is wrong with you. But I understand too. I was always the weird and awkward kid that everyone kinda forgets about

    • @josheves9022
      @josheves9022 7 місяців тому +1

      Join ultimate man project bro
      Learn social dynamics
      Study books on how to learn and how the brain works
      This is what I did I’m 24 and I learnt this at a later age but I refuse to be a loser and I completely changed myself and people treat me with respect look into this stuff
      My learning style is Repitition
      Do something 5 times and apply it 5 and you will, get ahead of smarter people.

    • @Andy-bl8gg
      @Andy-bl8gg 5 місяців тому

      I'm an aspie too among other things. Then again I stopped going to shrinks because they all say something different. But I'm on the spectrum. But so what. Turn off the tv, put down the cellphone and get off the internet. That's revelation that came to me. Get in a loving real church, not church people or religious people but real people. One of my pastors said when you say "why don't they like me, why are they so mean, why don't they like me", remember...if they didn't like Jesus Christ, what makes you think they're gonna like you. That was deep. One of the brothers said look at what you do have, not what you don't. Also don't overthink it. But if you think about it, there is a lot of good. You gotta pray, trust God, seek God, be baptized in the name of Jesus Christ and filled with the Holy Ghost. I'm an aspie. We overthink. We think others have it together but that we don't. You'd be surprised how many have it worse. Plus times we are in. A fallen world. Read the Bible, get away from social media. My other pastor said we're all a hot mess. I'm 56. Decent people will pray for you. Please God, not man. Enjoy little things. It's just the way we think, highly intelligent, overthinking, feel different. It's just most people don't have self- awareness. Some of us do. Most just react. Love God, love each other. Listen to the birds chirping. Practice mindfulness. Look at God's creation. If you have the right intent and you're sincere, God will reveal Himself to you. My Pastor says people these days are selfish and self absorbed. Thank God when you feel good, when you feel bad, even for your pain. They always tell us, anytime you wake up this side of the ground, you can handle anything else.

  • @headdressesluxuryhairwigs8158
    @headdressesluxuryhairwigs8158 5 років тому +224

    This was a WHOLE WORD! My grandma always told me, “ He who travels alone travels fastest”

    • @tamikaw1878
      @tamikaw1878 5 років тому +7

      Now that's a word ...I like that

    • @alexander10122
      @alexander10122 5 років тому

      Yes..... travels but where to......

    • @efficientsexy
      @efficientsexy 5 років тому

      Perspectives... If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together.

    • @whoKnew1621
      @whoKnew1621 4 роки тому

      Words from a wise woman

  • @myfragilelilac
    @myfragilelilac 5 років тому +746

    I dont care about popularity. But definitely feel like an outsider. This world is strange.

    • @sarcastic_redbeard6263
      @sarcastic_redbeard6263 5 років тому +7

      Same here

    • @chrisnenshati7400
      @chrisnenshati7400 5 років тому +1

      Hi

    • @stephenxadonai
      @stephenxadonai 5 років тому +31

      Jesus said we are not from this world-the devils dominion, we are of Jesus’ eternal kingdom. Repent for He is soon to return!

    • @badwolf8455
      @badwolf8455 5 років тому +13

      This “dunya” is not your home heaven is your home come to almighty allah before it’s to late you are his creation. So is everything else.

    • @blackjackygirl
      @blackjackygirl 5 років тому +5

      Bad Wolf Ameen

  • @babyboyk
    @babyboyk 5 років тому +382

    If you only got a few friends and don't really fit in all it means is that you was born to LEAD. Be a leader and ppl gon have to accommodate to yo terms and settings.

    • @ATX-js1to
      @ATX-js1to 5 років тому +15

      100% true lol don’t try to change yourself just so you can fit in with other people lol if you don’t fw most people then that’s cool

    • @K_D_A
      @K_D_A 5 років тому +1

      EIGHTYONESHOTS facts

    • @beevegan6889
      @beevegan6889 5 років тому +7

      EIGHTYONESHOTS Right and this is why I’m self employed.Im too much of a non conformist.

    • @KJ-vs2sw
      @KJ-vs2sw 5 років тому +1

      True! We are not sheep that let others boss us around! You have to separate yourself from the sheep and find those who are strong minded like yourself.

  • @Phoenix2025personified
    @Phoenix2025personified Рік тому +8

    Being a part of a group is being lost in the matrix - that is spot on! I hope a lot of people hear this message. Don’t let other people drowned out your higher voice’s messages.

  • @montychristo3745
    @montychristo3745 5 років тому +4435

    "Why you have 0 friends and Don't fit in"
    UA-cam... how did you know???😂😂🤣

    • @AwpWilliams
      @AwpWilliams 5 років тому +22

      Did you recently talk about it online with somebody?

    • @ArkabrataDattaRoyChowdhury11
      @ArkabrataDattaRoyChowdhury11 5 років тому +9

      Hey chill. We're here

    • @tracydee1857
      @tracydee1857 5 років тому +25

      IKR I didn't seek this video, it just appeared ..... *smiles contently*

    • @NORA-rv8ip
      @NORA-rv8ip 5 років тому +2

      Fax

    • @justinbelling9321
      @justinbelling9321 5 років тому +27

      Bruhh, I was legit thinking this fucking site spying on me lowkey :')

  • @margierichardson1822
    @margierichardson1822 5 років тому +376

    I used to wonder what was wrong with me and now I know that God was protecting me. Thank you!

  • @jaycub6130
    @jaycub6130 4 роки тому +1236

    I needed this so bad... I've been miserable, depressed, pissed for so long..

    • @von-rg9pw
      @von-rg9pw 4 роки тому +80

      It’s ok bruh , just do what makes you happy without anybody’s consent .

    • @sinab8414
      @sinab8414 4 роки тому +5

      Same💯.

    • @Jv-kq2qj
      @Jv-kq2qj 4 роки тому +11

      Kuba same I moved into a new school last year and ever since I just been feeling lonely as shit with no one to talk to and it suck even more that I have social anxiety and don’t even know how to start or continue a fkn convo 😥

    • @jaycub6130
      @jaycub6130 4 роки тому +7

      for me I was getting over a breakup with a toxic person that turned out was a hoe and I dropped EVERYONE for her, she meant a lot to me, so I used to have no friends after the relationship n on top of that i lost my bestfriend too. But I got out of that cycle of being so miserable, def worth it.

    • @Jv-kq2qj
      @Jv-kq2qj 4 роки тому +2

      acu.na_03 glad you got over it bud 😸

  • @michaeljoos9753
    @michaeljoos9753 Рік тому +6

    58 years old and needed to hear this. Left the “group” in my 30s, got tired of drinking and other unhealthy activities. Thank you, sir.

  • @Americanspy-hn2kw
    @Americanspy-hn2kw 5 років тому +1437

    The only thing that sucks about having no friends is lunch and group projects

    • @Subatomicgirl
      @Subatomicgirl 5 років тому +100

      No U FACTS that’s the problem for me

    • @ts8205
      @ts8205 5 років тому +247

      Eating alone at lunch is ok bro, eat and use that time to reflect on important things in your life. Use that time to better yourself. Your never alone. School is only a short period in one's life anyway. Take care stay ☝

    • @taybae8620
      @taybae8620 5 років тому +50

      I know what that’s like but I graduated this year and now I don’t have to worry about it. That will be you before you know it. Just try to make the best of the time you spend with yourself, because no ones ever gonna have your back the way you do.

    • @ReverZexR
      @ReverZexR 5 років тому +26

      Watch vids and eat lol

    • @Aouf1
      @Aouf1 5 років тому +2

      True

  • @p.s.grewal4764
    @p.s.grewal4764 5 років тому +480

    Being a "lone wolf" doesn't seem like a bad thing these days.

    • @SONJASAVEDBYGRACE
      @SONJASAVEDBYGRACE 5 років тому +7

      P.S. Grewal it sure doesn’t

    • @thebeluvdtrex
      @thebeluvdtrex 5 років тому +40

      Been doing it for years now and I recently was able to get my family out the hood. I'm going to continue on with my plans and hopefully go even farther.

    • @ladylovelace501
      @ladylovelace501 5 років тому +12

      Always been a loner

    • @mytvshowsmytvshows9436
      @mytvshowsmytvshows9436 5 років тому +3

      @@givegodthanks I'm the same way

    • @notjordy8652
      @notjordy8652 5 років тому +2

      I’ve been like that ever since 2016

  • @moussadoghli4870
    @moussadoghli4870 5 років тому +227

    "Friends are a distraction from you loving yourself"
    I had to pause the video and think about that for a few minutes.

    • @bebelusica
      @bebelusica 5 років тому +3

      Same I paused at that moment too it really made me realize some things

    • @taytayshaniqua.8686
      @taytayshaniqua.8686 5 років тому +2

      Very true after I gave it a thought myself

    • @C0wboyzfan4life
      @C0wboyzfan4life 5 років тому

      Yes

    • @NeneBoo589
      @NeneBoo589 5 років тому

      If you really think about it, when your with your friends, groups, whatever, your constantly comparing yourself to one another, everybody doing the same thing. Your not cool if your not following such and such.. Makes sense.. This why people find it hard to love themselves or can't figure themselves out because of there friends. What ever there friends are doing there following and doing the same shit. 💯💯

    • @darkfutureleft596
      @darkfutureleft596 5 років тому

      Lol okk

  • @787abdeezy
    @787abdeezy Рік тому +14

    y’all missing the fact that the Bible talks about all of this stuff plus more that explains the reasons behind your situations like this. APTTMH 🤝🏼❤️‍🔥 stay blessed

  • @luru1989
    @luru1989 5 років тому +1263

    Me: Being sad & depressed trying to unsuccessfully reconnect with old friends
    My FBI agent: Here you go fam

    • @ayaymultifandom4313
      @ayaymultifandom4313 5 років тому +26

      Yo I was just feeling bad about All the childhood friends that we just disconnected with each other, like damn

    • @luru1989
      @luru1989 5 років тому +4

      Ayay multifandom yup same here. I understand that everyone is doing there own thing, but like trying to make time for each other is impossible & it’s almost like being strangers now with them

    • @CzarrIV
      @CzarrIV 5 років тому +15

      All my childhood friends got a picture painted of me in their minds. When I was putting a fake face on to fit in, everything was fine and I was popular. Now that I’m grown and I’ve crawling, struggling in the mud. And now they all think I’m being lame and boring. When in reality I’m lost and scared. So fuck all of them. I’m better off on my own.

    • @azentic
      @azentic 5 років тому +3

      Czarr IV me too!

    • @gerloke914
      @gerloke914 5 років тому +1

      Mine was CIA. Took out my future and say just suicide.

  • @Jay-zc7iq
    @Jay-zc7iq 5 років тому +432

    From a man with two kids single and very alone felt like dying this video lifted me so much , I owe u

    • @juniorcruz469
      @juniorcruz469 5 років тому +16

      Same homie...Remember kids do as they see not as they are told. Set the example on change you want too see. Idk if you believe in God but that spirit got you!

    • @billyjack4131
      @billyjack4131 5 років тому +19

      Single father of two as well... going on 11 years. Saw how fast my "friends" disappeared when I chose to take care of my little ones. Best choice i have ever made

    • @josephbennett3442
      @josephbennett3442 5 років тому +5

      Jay you have 2 so just love them and love yourself! I am totally alone and don’t socialize much but I manage to survive this thing called life. I already did the depression thing after 9/11/2001. Everything been a little better since then.

    • @naturalqueen1530
      @naturalqueen1530 5 років тому +1

      Be Blessed ♥️

    • @KeepitMovingTV1211
      @KeepitMovingTV1211 5 років тому +1

      U on the Right Track Brother.

  • @littlebragg9543
    @littlebragg9543 4 роки тому +1429

    When I hit high school my life drastically changed I went from having lots of friends to a loner

    • @stevenlee578
      @stevenlee578 4 роки тому +86

      same bro

    • @hsanc72598
      @hsanc72598 4 роки тому +82

      Dude same wtf I was popular then nah ;/

    • @peeps8394
      @peeps8394 4 роки тому +139

      there ain't no comment i relate to more than this shit bro before high school felt like everyone fw'd me and the world was in my hands but nowadays just cuz of this rona shit and even way before that i just felt off n antisocial as shit n lonely as hell just smokin and shit to keep myself company

    • @littlebragg9543
      @littlebragg9543 4 роки тому +16

      peeps I can relate like hell

    • @jypappi7484
      @jypappi7484 4 роки тому +3

      Same :)

  • @katec9893
    @katec9893 Рік тому +20

    I first found this video years ago, it's just been recommended again. The last few years have really proved this video to be true, it resonates now more than ever. I felt restricted around my old friends who tended to be quite snobby, judgemental and disdainful of a lot of people. It made it harder to be myself. I tried out new groups and met quite a few more toxic people and observed drama. I'm back to being alone a lot of the time and it's definitely more peaceful. And it really does give you the space to reflect on how you want your life to be, and the time to take action to redirect and change your life. I don't want to be alone forever but I'm much more discerning about who I would like to be in my life now.

  • @whojmo
    @whojmo 3 роки тому +905

    My so called “friends” been talking shit behind my back and even to my face for no reason. I recently cut them off and now I’m on my grind. I hope now I can finally accomplish something in this life

    • @staymortified
      @staymortified 3 роки тому +47

      wowwwww people so fucked up for real you better off alone fr

    • @whojmo
      @whojmo 3 роки тому +27

      @@staymortified yep blocked them all and now im focused on youtube

    • @Tristyn7295
      @Tristyn7295 3 роки тому +12

      Dealing with the same shit. Idk you but I'm proud. I'm focusing on my craft and life as well. Keep pushing and enjoy the journey my guy.

    • @timbodnar6711
      @timbodnar6711 3 роки тому +28

      When "friends" talk about you. It's because you are moving faster and higher. Than they could possibly imagine. They stay where they're at. While you soar to the stratosphere. They hate themselves and their decisions, not you.

    • @turbodan78
      @turbodan78 3 роки тому +6

      Sometimes you need to think about what they say....... we can be blind to our weaknesses but don't put up with pure simple bullshit

  • @astronot4955
    @astronot4955 5 років тому +309

    These youtube recommendations know me spiritually now

  • @SlowbutPerfect
    @SlowbutPerfect 5 років тому +734

    People ask why I have so little friends. I say “Quality over quantity.”

    • @jeremy9951
      @jeremy9951 5 років тому +7

      That's so true

    • @chicagogalaxy670
      @chicagogalaxy670 5 років тому +4

      Deep

    • @jcast1749
      @jcast1749 5 років тому +12

      @@chicagogalaxy670 that was about as deep as my anal cavity.

    • @rodyrod74
      @rodyrod74 5 років тому +18

      @@jcast1749 that's pretty fucking deep

    • @luminouskiwi1104
      @luminouskiwi1104 5 років тому +4

      Facts tho. Stronger relationships better than tons of people you can’t trust.

  • @hey-zel
    @hey-zel Рік тому +8

    I come back to this video anytime I start feeling lonely. The way this opened my eyes a few years ago

    • @cg.paiva1
      @cg.paiva1 Рік тому +1

      Faxx but the loneliness hurts knowing you dont even have 1 person that gaf about u

    • @hey-zel
      @hey-zel Рік тому

      @@cg.paiva1 that’s true. I don’t know if that will be temporary or not but I’d rather just get used to the idea that I’ll be on my own. It helps me focus more on my goals

    • @cg.paiva1
      @cg.paiva1 Рік тому

      @@hey-zel what are you focusing on i need some inspo if you dm

  • @alfredschnozzenstein1657
    @alfredschnozzenstein1657 3 роки тому +1016

    I don't know about anyone else, but me not having any friends, I can't stress this enough... once you get past the loneliness, you have NO IDEA how peaceful and amazing life is. You're in control.

    • @JuhlTheArtisticGod
      @JuhlTheArtisticGod 3 роки тому +6

      AMEN!!!

    • @JaJaJeCr
      @JaJaJeCr 3 роки тому +43

      i understand what you just said but its easier to say that you dont need friends if you have friends. im 42, never had a friend my whole life. have always been isolated even with my own family. i dont even have spalding to talk to. Even now no one will ever see this post or respond or care. im tired of this life.

    • @alfredschnozzenstein1657
      @alfredschnozzenstein1657 3 роки тому +24

      @@JaJaJeCr Crystal, that is not true. Listen, I’m about to turn 30, and I LITERALLY have no friends, just a few acquaintances. If anything matters, I responded, not to just respond, because I want to make sure that you know to not give up. If you don’t mind me asking, do you just work, and do you have any hobbies? What do you normally do on your free time? I understand what you mean though. If you have no one to talk to, TALK TO ME! 😊

    • @adriancampos384
      @adriancampos384 3 роки тому +17

      @@JaJaJeCr you seem interesting, I feel like people who’ve experienced hardships in life and stick out from typical groups are the best quality friends. What are your interests?

    • @coffintears5821
      @coffintears5821 3 роки тому +16

      At this point i dont give a fuck if i end up alone anymore people are always fake and never true to themselves so you never know who can trust. You think someone has your back but theyre actually out to exploit you. The only reason why people are even nice to me is because theyre pretending. They dont give two shits about me or what i have to offer

  • @trollextrize6380
    @trollextrize6380 5 років тому +366

    *”You’re the only person who will truly be in your life forever, so take care of yourself”*

    • @dayibdjk1378
      @dayibdjk1378 5 років тому +3

      You forgot to say in the end "Simple"

    • @samknight5553
      @samknight5553 5 років тому

      💯💯💯💯💯💯

  • @brownie1280
    @brownie1280 4 роки тому +688

    I stopped caring when I realized that most of these kids have no personality and are faking everything to fit in. I would rather be myself then be friends with people I can't do that around.

    • @ibeatyourmeat1440
      @ibeatyourmeat1440 4 роки тому +13

      same here, when i was 12 i was just following the popular kids around and try to fit in, and it wasn't that great. next year i realised being myself and not caring about other ppl is way better, i got true friends and it was cool

    • @MC333
      @MC333 4 роки тому +1

      Fax fam

    • @connorlee1406
      @connorlee1406 4 роки тому +2

      Just gotta find the right people you comfortable with

    • @thewhizkid3937
      @thewhizkid3937 4 роки тому +2

      @@ibeatyourmeat1440 back in high school, I thought the smart and nerdy kids were the cool ones.

    • @jadeisla5421
      @jadeisla5421 4 роки тому +1

      Yea, i feel the same way, I have "friends" bit they're all mean, fake, and Im really shy, soo it's hard to make friends that I can relate with

  • @davidmedina8528
    @davidmedina8528 2 роки тому +37

    It’s crazy how relatable this is time to time I know a lot of people watching this think about “how far is to far” when it comes to personal development, being afraid of not even fitting in anymore, then to see videos like this and be reminded that’s it’s okay have this godlike energy that feels so empowering to walk this earth with a mission.

  • @viktoria1880
    @viktoria1880 5 років тому +729

    UA-cam suggestions attacking me personally this time damn...

    • @patiencen1280
      @patiencen1280 5 років тому +1

      Viktoria Grande same sis👀

    • @mikeville1700
      @mikeville1700 5 років тому +1

      Viktoria Grande ;(💀😂

    • @spongebobby7675
      @spongebobby7675 5 років тому +3

      Because your phone listens to you.

    • @Ash99Ob
      @Ash99Ob 5 років тому

      Same here

    • @allahwakbar379
      @allahwakbar379 5 років тому

      More like they’re trying to help you it helped me i started making lots of money from what he told me. I don’t ever encourage any UA-camrs ever but you should really listen to him.

  • @nataliaalmousawi9622
    @nataliaalmousawi9622 4 роки тому +648

    This man is so real, he spoke directly to my soul.

    • @brvndxnl
      @brvndxnl 4 роки тому +1

      Hence the name Spiritual So

    • @jittgohard3605
      @jittgohard3605 4 роки тому +2

      Yo I deadass connected to my higher self watching this video

    • @Perplexed_12
      @Perplexed_12 4 роки тому

      So is a false prophet

  • @Sashique86
    @Sashique86 5 років тому +382

    "I wish I could hit the reset button on some of the people that came into my life and stole my energy"
    Damn... Blew my mind. So true your words. Thank you.

  • @CreepyDemonFace
    @CreepyDemonFace Рік тому +20

    God take people out of our life for a reason, he knows that some of them will ruin us he knows what is best for us. And this wonderful man made my day. You dont need friends that backstab you, friends are for fun, trustful REAL best friends are rare and its almost never there.

  • @seastorm9548
    @seastorm9548 4 роки тому +593

    I feel that I'm better off alone, I don't want to deal with fake people. The only person you can really count on is yourself

    • @roxannecoleman382
      @roxannecoleman382 4 роки тому +34

      True fact that's what I learned stay to my self and mind my business stay away from toxic so called friends and certain family members

    • @jaywatkins2299
      @jaywatkins2299 3 роки тому +2

      1000

    • @ripno2672
      @ripno2672 3 роки тому +7

      Some of the most rewarding experiences in life are going out into the world, and learning from others. Even person I find and talk to know we'll probably never meet again, we still talk and have a good time. Being alone is ok, but talking to other people really brings some other things to life.

    • @andreabeach1246
      @andreabeach1246 3 роки тому +2

      Word Up ..Now that's a dumbs up Right there a High Five and a Touch!!. Thanks, I So needed to hear this... REAL TALK Brother 💯
      👍✋👊

    • @derek_3054
      @derek_3054 3 роки тому +2

      I’m having such a difficult time with this right now. I wasted years with bullshit I have better friends now but I’m super cold towards people for the most part

  • @casiegraham4402
    @casiegraham4402 5 років тому +378

    You ever heard of the saying "we hear things when we are meant to" this is definitely one of those moments

    • @MsSPLIFFETTE
      @MsSPLIFFETTE 5 років тому +6

      exactly...

    • @sweeetzz
      @sweeetzz 5 років тому +1

      Lapiz uni and that’s that on that

    • @uniqsolsession
      @uniqsolsession 5 років тому +1

      It truly is!

    • @TheGoldenAdonis
      @TheGoldenAdonis 5 років тому +7

      I literally have been getting invited out since Friday and just want to be alone. I went on IG and saw everyone having a good time etc. deleted the app then came on UA-cam and this popped up. It’s exactlt what I needed

    • @0xTISA
      @0xTISA 5 років тому +2

      Insanely crazy how true this is

  • @addrenalin3698
    @addrenalin3698 5 років тому +1882

    Nipsey Hussle: If you have a circle of friends that's does not inspire you then it's a cage. Rest in peace 🙏🏼

    • @franciscoreyes7370
      @franciscoreyes7370 5 років тому +3

      Success is 1% inspiration and 99% perspiration.

    • @JayJules12992
      @JayJules12992 5 років тому

      🔥🔥🔥

    • @N.D.G-e5d
      @N.D.G-e5d 5 років тому

      @Mariana Ferreira lol I thought this is a joke, I have friends.

    • @blankmanj5760
      @blankmanj5760 5 років тому

      @Mariana Ferreira Yup because i dont fit in with nobody and that make me feel like im not good at anything and that bring me down

    • @johncohen4025
      @johncohen4025 5 років тому +1

      All Nipsey was, was a thug, a crip. That's it. Not something to aspire to be like. Opened up a pop up shop and now he's a savior figure like give me fuckin break. Gang culture is one of the main conundrums.

  • @whitewolf9547
    @whitewolf9547 Рік тому +18

    Hey man. I needed this. I just went through a divorce at 36 and I have been lonely since. I understand what you are saying because intuitively I have been thinking that. I haven’t had a cheat meal in months. I haven’t drank alcohol in months. It’s time to build the best possible mind, body, and soul. Much love my brotha from anotha

  • @Bammah_
    @Bammah_ 4 роки тому +2033

    “Why you have 0 friends and don’t fit in”
    2.2 Million people: it all makes sense now...

    • @Gountherss
      @Gountherss 4 роки тому +27

      2.3 Millon people to be exact.

    • @glolikejaaay
      @glolikejaaay 4 роки тому +23

      holding back tears? nah i ain’t

    • @OldestBillionaire
      @OldestBillionaire 4 роки тому

      『Almighty B33』 and ?

    • @bryceCondones
      @bryceCondones 4 роки тому +6

      Im only here cus this vid a meme tbh

    • @sotic2511
      @sotic2511 4 роки тому +3

      not me tbh im just built different tbh

  • @soibeem
    @soibeem 3 роки тому +2125

    when the teacher says:
    get into pairs everyone
    I'm the only one who wants the teacher to pick the
    Partners

    • @user-kp8yj3fe1q
      @user-kp8yj3fe1q 3 роки тому +258

      bro same. i get so nervous when the teacher says "ok class now pick ur groups" like no u pick pls😁

    • @jackiethompson4112
      @jackiethompson4112 3 роки тому +60

      @@user-kp8yj3fe1q it really don't matter who picks rather be you or the teacher. If the person that is picked to be paired with you rather be somewhere else that's what it is. The best way to handle it is to tell who you were paired with; it's not that damn serious. Let's just do the assignment and you can take your behind back to your original seat when this is over.
      Rejection is your protection because if you open up to these people all they do is take your information and and spread it to they're Buddies

    • @sithlordalex
      @sithlordalex 3 роки тому +23

      damn it’s true that it hurts

    • @deniz6734
      @deniz6734 3 роки тому +54

      I had to deal with this all throughout high school and it sucked. If I knew we would have to do pair work the day before I just wouldn’t go in 😂

    • @mark6350
      @mark6350 3 роки тому

      why?

  • @muhammadmomin1882
    @muhammadmomin1882 4 роки тому +1576

    Imagine juat walking in the park, and seeing a a guy wit a durag preaching

    • @clingwrap9695
      @clingwrap9695 4 роки тому +8

      solluminati

    • @redwhites3651
      @redwhites3651 4 роки тому +21

      I would 8:2 see that 😉😉

    • @muhammadmomin1882
      @muhammadmomin1882 4 роки тому +2

      atletico Madrid never gives up in the Ucl, I would 8 2 be Barca

    • @Marvin-cm9zb
      @Marvin-cm9zb 4 роки тому +26

      Rather listen to a guy in a Durag preach then a guy in a fancy suit.

    • @yeehaw289
      @yeehaw289 4 роки тому +9

      That’s not an unusual thing lmao

  • @tinyfacemcgee9211
    @tinyfacemcgee9211 2 роки тому +35

    This was a very profound video. And very helpful. I feel like I don’t want friends but at the same time I feel like there is something wrong with me because I don’t have friends. After watching this I’ve decided to accept the freedom and luxury and total peace of being friendless; it truly is a beautiful serene state.

  • @evermore._
    @evermore._ 5 років тому +1311

    It’s scary how this guy just freaking described my life
    edit: lol thx for likes but if you’re saying that I need to like change and stuff, I do have friends just not very many and I’m perfectly happy, and not having friends is okay, like you can still be successful in life without people who can potentially really hurt you

  • @darkjester2713
    @darkjester2713 5 років тому +159

    Escaping a toxic circle is priceless.. no drama is a beautiful way to live.. isolation is a gift ..

    • @Benzyl_Penoxide
      @Benzyl_Penoxide 5 років тому +2

      Neon Blackstorm facts

    • @ThisIsNotADramaChannelFR
      @ThisIsNotADramaChannelFR 5 років тому +6

      it's hard at first but eventually you feel better.

    • @rainbowmoonreadings4541
      @rainbowmoonreadings4541 5 років тому +1

      Neon Blackstorm yessss!!!

    • @Avendale
      @Avendale 5 років тому

      @@ThisIsNotADramaChannelFR - absolutely 100% agree with you

    • @rochellemiller3911
      @rochellemiller3911 5 років тому +1

      That right amen and I'm so glad I was raised that way and I continue to be that way it really pissed me off it's what my sons got into the street not too bad but just enough to have me concern but I pray for the most of their time here on Earth he kept them are you still keeping them I pray for guidance from our Lord our God our savior I'm such a in-house person I feel so complete I am a Pisces I am a lady back kind of girl Crayola Wisteria lot find out so much and pray for so much wisdom and knowledge that God has given me and I pray that you all do the same the girl that's got it even worse since I was a young woman I will just say let God lead and guide you all of us Amen 🙏🙏🙏😘

  • @Rileyxs0
    @Rileyxs0 5 років тому +440

    I really don’t feel good/comfortable around any of my “friends”, I have tried but I’m so happy with my own company.

    • @fxybrwnquese
      @fxybrwnquese 5 років тому +1

      Same here!

    • @SuperiorRobyn
      @SuperiorRobyn 5 років тому

      Wish I was happy in my own company.

    • @renga19
      @renga19 5 років тому

      Robyn it comes with age

  • @kathyhunter-
    @kathyhunter- Рік тому +4

    Absolutely! They’re miserably bc they not in alignment with their truth self and do not know who they are living in this construct matrix that was designed for us! Know thyself miserly love company Thank you 🙏🏿

  • @EvilAngelXV
    @EvilAngelXV 4 роки тому +1423

    "Everybody isn't your friend. Just because they hang around you and laugh with you doesn't mean they are your friend. People pretend well. At the end of the day, real situations expose fake people, so pay attention."
    - Trent Shelton

    • @nicholemcgautha3820
      @nicholemcgautha3820 4 роки тому +7

      AngelDarkness I agree

    • @FitnessGirlFun
      @FitnessGirlFun 3 роки тому +5

      Come through with that TRUE gospel.

    • @valentino-yv4vw
      @valentino-yv4vw 3 роки тому +1

      Lol fuck you

    • @mahangaberryman6763
      @mahangaberryman6763 3 роки тому +5

      Agreed bro, I got used by my "Friend" so he can see his girlfriend. :/ So yeah life is good.

    • @klounpound6945
      @klounpound6945 3 роки тому +8

      @@mahangaberryman6763 I feel you fam. I ended up supporting my old "friend" of 10 years with a home, food, transportation, and weed. I lost more than I gained from that friendship.

  • @_jean7316
    @_jean7316 3 роки тому +1868

    most of my "friends" dont talk to me outside of hanging out on a random day I feel like I dont relate to any of them in any type of way and dont fit in ,thx I got more motivation to work on myself

    • @YearOfTheCoconut_
      @YearOfTheCoconut_ 3 роки тому +26

      same bruh, gl

    • @jaredthompson553
      @jaredthompson553 3 роки тому +36

      Got to find your soul family.

    • @pkingisfunz
      @pkingisfunz 3 роки тому +33

      Bro i’m Bipolar type 2 and I feel like it’s impossible for people to actually want to hang out with me LOL even my own girlfriend. I probably don’t have too long left so it’s ok

    • @boobies8658
      @boobies8658 3 роки тому +9

      @@pkingisfunz I'm sorry

    • @liset5107
      @liset5107 3 роки тому +13

      @@pkingisfunz don’t ever think you have too long. I feel the same way. Hey at least you have a girlfriend!

  • @northernninety7
    @northernninety7 5 років тому +258

    I'm an introvert. I don't care about what I'm missing. The only thing you're missing with those things is you.

  • @KP43-08
    @KP43-08 Рік тому +8

    Probably his best spiritual video💯he saved life’s with this!

  • @Charliedethklok7
    @Charliedethklok7 4 роки тому +417

    I didn’t understand this until I left school and started doing things worth my time. Any teenagers seeing this, trust what this man says.

  • @chrisfillman6335
    @chrisfillman6335 5 років тому +471

    People laugh at me because I'm differint,i laugh at them because thier all the same- KURT COBAIN

  • @noahbell7297
    @noahbell7297 4 роки тому +864

    I like this dude, he’s real, he doesn’t have an agenda he’s just being honest and speaking facts. This is the type of people to keep around you, real people you can talk to and not “friends” who only do what’s cool or “in”

    • @SethTraplifeGLO999
      @SethTraplifeGLO999 4 роки тому +1

      @Pedofile why did you pick that name

    • @unknownbear9811
      @unknownbear9811 4 роки тому +1

      He does have an agenda he says that the earth is flat.

    • @hulkcrusher69
      @hulkcrusher69 4 роки тому +1

      @@unknownbear9811 Yeah but if that were to be true, in this whole video he isn't pushing that agenda on me. So I can respect that.

    • @unknownbear9811
      @unknownbear9811 4 роки тому

      @ but the flat earth theory has already been debunked. Yes i do believe that the earth is a globe but i dont go and start telling people. Anyways ull probs start calling me a bot so im out