7 Signs Your Ex Is Falling In Love With You
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- Опубліковано 17 сер 2021
- If you're back in contact with your ex and things seem to be going well, how do you know if they are developing romantic feelings for you again? In this video we discuss signs that point to your ex falling in love with you again.
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It’s important to remember that this info would be helpful when you and your exes are communicating and trying to repair things!
Can you make a Video when you had with your ex an long distance relationship? I mean when they break up they know how it is without you. Maybe its diffrent to the traditional near relationship?
Where can I buy your book?
I live in Germany 😅
If they come back like nothing happened, they’re a sociopath
nope, just immature... still a good reason not to talk to them
Coach Victoria is a fast learner. Also a great video as always. 🍻
Wonderful 👏🏻 we are stronger than ever. I've never seen him look at me the way he does now🥰 he stares in my soul for hrs. Its amazing🙏🏻. 2 1/2 yrs and cant wait for more. Great content
Good to know and I’ll definitely watch this video again and take notes.
I absolutely love listening to you guys no matter what i am doing. And your humor lights up my soul.
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🙏🙏🙏🙏Thankful for their insightful knowledge. Will be getting the work books once I pay off some of my bills.
Craig.. all my respect for you.
Thank you much.
My Ex reached out and wished me a happy birthday after 8 months.
You're so lucky... I can only wish mine will
Yeah she does but I realized she is not seperated from her mom and because of that I dont wont to be in a relationship with her.
@@KAHHHH8548 I feel you!
@@TomTom-zf2fh it feels so bad... Just depressed all day every day, constantly ruminating
Cool! My ex girlfriend reached out to wish me happy birthday as well, back in September and we had just broken up not even two months have gone by. Now it’s been almost 5 months since the breakup.
I broke no contact Monday after six weeks. I causally reached and she casually declined. I sent her a “so you’re telling me there’s a chance meme” and moved on. It’s funny! Dumb and dumber all? In no contact; I had so much regret and way too much hope. I know now where I stand, I handled rejection correctly. So while I broke no contact and it doesn’t look great, no contact helped me heal to the point of feeling rejected again by the girl I love and smiling off fearless. ❤️ good luck all.
I love it that you Craig are sharing these cute things about your kids😍 also great video as usual guys😎
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Hi Craig! Just wondering if Margaret and yourself can do a video listing/recommending/reviewing some attachment behaviour books you two share from your videos?
Thank you!!I know its not going to happen now, but good to know as I am busy with re-attraction aka NC for the 2nd time.....working really hard and focussing on myself ....
Also check out the LOA and manifesting my girl is calms she’s with someone and it honestly didn’t faze me because I know we are currently finding each other so all this other person is doing is pushing her closer to me
My ex displayed a lot of interest and we held hands and kissed. They then brought up the past and I didn't dive into it. They then wanted to just be friends and I had to say no 💔
I was in a Long Distance Relationship. Almost 7 weeks since pur breakup and NC since that last Goodbye.
I noticed when i posted stories my ex would look at a few. Its hard to apply any of these strategies or how to see things differently because he is 7 hrs away. So its not like I would bump into him.
Hello craig, been watching your videos since my gf broke up with my towards the end of last month. she last said she hopes this break up motivates me cause she wants to be with someone motivated and who has a plan and is always reaching for goals. we started dating 2019. and 2020 really messed us up cause we were living together in a different city away from family and friends. i was and still am working and going to college and i would do the majority of cleaning and cooking, so im not sure what she means by she hopes this breakup motivates me. but i would like to book a coaching skype session. but i feel 1 hour is just not enough time. is it $500 for 1 hour and thats it? what if i have more to explain and say or more questions? thank you! much love ! ❤️ ❤️
Hard to fall back in love When you never were in the first place
I don’t think it’s always healthy to get back with an ex though wouldn’t you just be setting yourself back up for failure if it was more of a toxic relationship? Just a thought. Could be taken advantage of big time
forget my ex. coach victoria is out here looking right 😍
@Mara lmao he’s just saying what we’re thinking
If your ex wishes you a happy birthday or happy whatever holiday is it more often an indirect direct approach or them simply just saying that?
I don’t think my ex is ever coming back and I go from feeling good to feeling awful 😞
same boat! Sucks so bad!
Could you actually get your ex to fall in love with you again? I’m not sure if that will happen in my case because he moved away to another state, but he’s coming to visit his parents in December but I dunno if I even actually want to see him again!
Would the avoidant ex bring up the past?
My ex broke up with me 4 weeks ago and I’m limbo at the moment. I don’t know where I stand with her or in her life. Wether she is just being friendly to keep the peace and to soften the blow of the break up and moving on or if she is genuinely just trying to build a connection with us again. I know she cares as we both expressed that to each other before. I told her during the day of the break up I can’t turn my feelings of and I want to work on the relationship and try to work on the problem even if it’s hard. She expressed the only thing she can offer is friendship as she is to hurt and some comfort and security lessened and left. How she just didn’t know to feel towards me because she was very hurt by what I had said to her on text (I didn’t not swear or shout but simply trying to explain my anxiety to her so she would understand why I do things and my perspective but unfortunately she didn’t take it how I intended it to come across). She then broke up with me (this was all over text) saying she couldn’t be with someone who thinks it is okay to say the things I said even if my anxiety gets the better of my sometimes and if the cycle were to continue (anticipating getting hurt because of my anxiety ) that it wouldn’t be healthy. I apologised for hurting her and owned my mistake and said how inconsiderate, thoughtless and wrong it was of me to have said what I said. That I was agreeing with her and that I want to do better and will do better since that was not me at my best. But she still wanted to break up because she was just deeply hurt so I said I respect that is what she wants and she said we would still talk and she wasn’t going to disappear. I even made her laugh with a joke before we ended the call and said I’m glad I could still make her laugh.
After the break up , 2 days went by and she sent a message saying good luck at work since she knew my work schedule. Ever since then We still talk, casually (it was really basic after the first week of the break up and then she slowly started sending pictures of what she bought and sent a song she was Listining to during the second week after the break up but then it changed after something happened to her as she got kicked out of her house). she says take care at work sometimes. I wait for her to initiate and reach out to me then reply . She asks how I’m doing/checks in on me and sometimes asks how my appointments are going with the therapy and counciling as I’m trying to get for my anxiety . I’m trying to work on myself and reflected on why it ended and one of the problems from the relationship was my mental health that she was concerned and wanted me to get help for. She even at one point offered to put money towards paying for private counciling if I need the help. Which confused me. Another thing that confused me was when, during the 2nd week of the break up she got kicked out of her house . I told her I cared about her and would support her if she need any help . She mentioned that me being there was enough and said thank you and appreciated my kind words and offer.
At one point she expressed that she was depressed because she was kicked out and I asked her if she needed some space but said she wouldn’t want that because it would create a void and that wasn’t something she wanted. I don’t understand what she is doing and it’s hurting me/confusing me because I can’t comfort her the way I usually do when we were in a relationship. I then at one point wanted to distance myself since I was hurting from how I wanted more from the convo and she sent a message that “hope I was okay and everything works out”. I didn’t reply and got a message the next day from her saying she was a little worried and wanted me to know that she was there/here if I need . I replied later that night and said thank you and appreciated what she said and the offer and I was doing the best I can.
Right now, I still wait for her to reach out and reply to me . I take my time to reply and trying to create some distance as I don’t know if she is just doing this because she cares as a friend or if it’s her trying to just keep the connection and to soothe her anxiety/get some comfort and reassurance from me because I’m still there for her. I don’t know if I have done no contact right ? Because it wasn’t much time that has passed after she broke up with me and sent a message saying “hope work goes well”.
Please help !!!
Do I need to give it more time and create some more distance and then ask her wether we are chatting as friends or what ? So I can then go into no contact and re-establish that I don’t want to be just friends ? I’m a bit lost would appreciate some feedback/advice
Yes, give it more time and don’t reach out to her. Sounds like she may just be bread-crumbing you. Doesn’t sound like what you did actually warrants breaking up with you. Don’t be so hard on yourself, maybe you’ll find someone better who can understand you better too.
@@paulasmith3577 thank you, for the reply ! I wait till she messages/reaches out first and then I make a reply . How do I deal or go about handling bread crumbing messages as they are confusing and it’s hard to know how to reply to them ? I don’t want to be rude and ignore her messages . I was thinking is it worth just mentioning when she reaches out that, I don’t want to be just friends ?
Yeah, even if I think that and have the same opinion as you about how my mistakes shouldn’t lead to a break up , I can’t convince her otherwise as she thought and decided the break up was needed if she was overwhelmed by me and thought I couldn’t change my ways/anxiety habits. That it’s is something she wanted especially if she was saying she was deeply hurt. Which is valid as people are allowed to leave for whatever reason they think and I know I have to accept it as it is. But maybe one day I will find someone who understands me more as you said.
I just want to be able to work on the problem as it would be a shame if that’s how it ended due to something that could easily be worked on with communication . I’ll try not to be hard on myself but thank you for the insight , I appreciate it !!
@@crunchaxis if she reaches out to you, reply back, but keep it short and sweet! It seems like she already knows you want to be more than friends and she knows that you are hurting too. You apologized and are working on yourself and if she really loves you she will see that and will not continue to prolong your agony. In her defense, it’s hard to date someone with mental issues, it’s a road some people don’t want to go on and it takes a certain kind of person to be able to deal with it. She has reached out, so she obviously still cares for you and has feelings for you. It seems like you’ve been doing everything right so far and hopefully she can see that and will understand you better. It sounds like it’s not completely over yet.
@@paulasmith3577 yeah. As an update, I actually got a message from her yesterday. it was her saying how she has been noticing how my messaging /replying is vague and impersonal, delayed and there was a couple days where I didn’t say anything and she was getting worried that something happened to me. She said she was not use to that but she understands that she is learning to accept it and that I may not be comfortable to be open at the moment with things going on in my life. She said when I didn’t reply for 2 days she withdrew as a defence mechanism and caught her off guard and is something she needs to learn since she recognises the change in relationship.
From this I think it’s more clear that she is aware I may say more but she might not see it that way. Yeah she cares and we both care but I think I need to reset and make it clear and have a conversational re-establish that I don’t want to be friends and we need to give each other space if we aren’t on the same page. I agree, if she loves me she will see it but I don’t think she understands that I’m distancing because of her so I need to make it clear to her . Yes, I do understand it is hard to date someone with mental health issues as she has her own mental health issues and agree that some ppl like me can handle and deal with it and some can’t and she just probably couldn’t and needed the break .
I feel like there is still something there and unfinished business in a way. I hope that me being there is not helping her get over me and be comfortable talking to me as just a friend. Like she still gets some validation and security I’m still there in a way.
I hope she does understand me better and if not then I’ll have to move forward . Fingers crossed something can come from it and it’s not completely over.
Avoidants seem to be kind of reserved when it comes to hugging, touching, sometimes even kissing…Any comments, guys?
I have the problem of talking to much when my ex reaches out. It’s so weird. I understand the excitement but I’m trying to talk less when I see her. I think I need some tape. I just want to listen and reply.
I had an interesting situation a week ago. I saw my ex in public a little over a month after a breakup and I saw her and said hey but then what perplexed me is she then ask right away how I was doing and I said good and then she made a joke about my pocket being out and I saw her smile and almost laugh then I asked her how she was doing she only said she was doing okay and I asked why is that and she said that because she is going to college and then I said yes I understand that and that I also am going to college now after that I ended it and said I have to go. Did I ruin my no contact or am I good? She also has watched my stories all the time but she just dropped my stuff off at my door without even telling me. I am just really confused at this point.
I think you did excellent . The fact that she’s watching your stories says so. She wants u to chase her 😒 don’t do it.
I think you have a great attitude. First because you didn’t reached out, it was casual and secondly because you acted cool and relax, showing her that you are fine with the break out and your are doing well.
We broke up 2 months ago, after 3 weeks she came back for sex , she then told me there's no hope for us and that she had a breakdown over me and cried hysterically, and we need to go no contact. She suddenly poppped up the other day and called me to say " Just checking in ", what gives?
it's works I can't believe i am with my lover back after many years of break-up
Been in NC for 11 months. He still hasn’t reach out I probably should just give up now 😔
Yes, definitely. It's time to get back into dating again. Just accept that your time with your ex is a part of your life and is in the past. Best of luck to find someone new! 🙂
Despite what a lot of these channels will have you believe, most exes don't come back. Google the study they did on this will showed only 27% did.
@@NZYoungTurk Well, I did my own study with my friends. A huge majority of their exes reached out to them sooner or later. Most of them rejected their exes though and the ones who didn't, broke up with them after a few months anyways.
So yeah, they come back, but it's not worth the trouble taking them back.
Update?
I got a question for men here: if my ex doesn't check out my stories that means that he doesn't care at all? 😓 In 2 years he didn't check out anything from me (don't laugh about me, please)
Im sorry to say this, but two years is a long time. It's really time for you to move on. your life doesnt depend on whether he will be back or not. You got this!!
Yeah, if he doesn't even look in your direction, he doesn't care. That's quite clear. :(
Is checking your stories when you have unfollowed each other, a good sign? My ex told me he misses me and still likes me but isn't interested at trying at the relationship
In my experience this is a good sign. My ex did the same thing, and she cyber stalked my stories everyday for 8 months while she was dating the new guy.
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@@playalot86 it's works I can't believe i am with my lover back after many years of break-up
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Looks like the coaches are falling in love..
Did no contact work after 9 months
He helped me a few days ago he does a perfect work, I'm assuring you, you gonna testify..
I know of a man | who can bring back your ex within 2days without delay..
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Ex has reached out with comments that I cannot write.(sexual in nature) Also we are not in the same state, yet he texts for silly reasons. Do I respond or ignore?
Ignore him please, he wants to know if he could be friends with benefits with you because you both know each other and maybe there is some attraction, my broken heart is advising you 😭 trust me!
@@sallyelizabeth5215 get a LIFE!
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