Imagine studying this book in high school instead of some next novel that isn't relevant in a teenager's development. 🤯 Cheers for putting the books lessons in your format man.💙
@@syxnio2147 thats great mate, I started watching hamza during 7th grade and he has definitely improved my life, especially my masculine birthright (currently in 9th and dont plan on stopping my progress)
After i lost my prior job 4 months ago I started to seal a pact with myself to never let myself down, Physically and mentally. Yesterday I was applying to a new Job which actually is too good to be true and after I had a 90 min Interview with 2 Managers of this Business, I enchanted them so badly with the way I talked about my ambitions, principles and my worldviews that both of them became so inviting and wanted me for this job without hessitation and even wanted to support my efforts to reach my own goals. I can't believe how much I changed over the last few months... "If you change others, you change nothing. If you change yourself, you change the world."
Thank you guys i really felt like it was a place i belonged to. The entire team matched my vibe and the field offers great opportunities to become a freenlancer in the future.
10:32 I started smiling to myself when I was slightly not in the mood to speak with friends or family if they call my phone. It instantly increases my mood and allows me to treat them like they deserve, as a priority in my life
1:35 CHAPTER 1 : Fundamental Techniques in Handling People 2:48 First Principle 4:13 Second Principle 5:55 Third Principle 7:59 CHAPTER 2 : Six Ways To Make People Like You 7:59 First Principle 9:20 Second Principle 11:12 Third Principle 13:02 Fourth Principle 15:23 Fifth Principle 17:20 Sixth Principle 18:33 CHAPTER 3 : How To Win People To Your Way Of Thinking 18:33 First Principle 20:29 Second Principle 22:14 Third Principle 23:55 Fourth Principle 25:42 Fifth Principle 27:36 Sixth Principle 29:29 Seventh Principle 30:44 Eighth Principle 32:00 Ninth Principle 34:02 Tenth Principle 35:32 Eleventh Principle 37:18 Twelfth Principle 40:16 CHAPTER 4 : Be A Leader 40:16 First Principle
I) 1. Any fool can criticize, condemn or complain, but it takes character and self control to be understanding and forgiving. 2. Give honest and sincere appreciation. Positive reinforcement. 3. Arouse in the other person an eager want. Before you speak: How can I make this person want to do it? Get the other person's point of view. Appel to people's self-interest, never to their mercy or gratitude. What they will get out of it? II) 4. Become genuinely interested in other people. Everyone has a mistake that I can learn from, they have succes I may be able to replicate. We are interested in others when they are interested in us. Ask more questions 5. Smile. Happiness ≠ outward conditions, Happiness = inner conditions. Fake it till you make it. 6. Remember their name. 7. Be a good listener and encourage others to talk about themself. We love talking about ourself. 8. Talk in terms of their interests. People briefly mention something that they are interested in in the middle of the conversation (ask a question about that). 9. Make them feel important. Do unto others as you would have others do unto you. III) Win people to your way of thinking 10. The only way to avoid an argument is to avoid it completely. Don't make others feel inferior. Keep your mouth shut. When you argue with someone and they argue their point in retaliation they're just further solidifying their current belief. An argument ends with each of the contestants more firmly convinced than ever that he is absolutely right. 11. Show respect for other's opinions, never say "You're wrong". You cannot teach a man anything, you can only help find it within himself. "I thought otherwise, but I may be wrong, I frequently am and if I'm wrong I want to be put right". 12. Admit your wrongdoings quickly. Say about yourself all of the things you know the other person is thinking/wants to say/intens to say and say them before that person has a chance to say them = a generous forgiving attitude will be taken and your mistakes will be minimized. (They will minimize your wrongdoings if you admit them first) 13. Begin in a friendly way. (Apartament rent too expensive example). Start with a compliment. You are teammated trying to solve the problem rather than putting the other person on the offensive and making it a you vs them situation. 14. Get them to say Yes. 15. Let them do a great deal of the talking. Always say less than necessary. Powerful people impress and intimidate by saying less. Don't interrupt. 16. Let them feel that the idea is theirs, to change someone way of thinking you have to do it subtly, without making it obvious what your intentions are. They can only believe this way of thinking if they reach that point themselves 17. See things from their POV. 18. Be sympathetic to other's ideas and desires. 3/4 of people are hungering and thirsting for sympathy. "I don't blame you one iota for feeling as you do. If I were you I would undoubtedly feel just as you do". 19. Appeal to their nobler motives 20. Dramatise your ideas 21. Throw down a challenge 22. Begin with praise, once whe realised I had confidence in her. 23. Call attention to their mistakes indirectly 24. Talk about your own mistakes first. 25. Ask questions instead of giving direct orders 26. Let them save face 27. Praise every improvement 28. Give them a fine reputation to live up to 29. Use encouragement 30. Make them happy to do what you ask
One of the best self improvement books on the market - I got the audiobook thanks to your recommendation Hamza. My biggest takeaway was to start focusing on what other people want instead of self-centeredly focusing only on what you yourself want to get on track towards huge wealth
Its kinda suprising seeing Hamza look this Happy. His other videos where more serious which I was used to so it was just suprising but I am not complaining.
Don’t talk to much, be positive, learn how to talk to someone, smile when talking, it’s great that you seen this so if you have more keywords that can help everyone then fill in💪
I'm a dental student and i work at my university's medical clinic,i've been using these tactics with patients, especially little kids who are usually very scared to go to the dentist, and it just totally changes their behaviour with me, they are calmer than usual and sometimes even are excited to come, and if it works with kids with scares, it can work with adults too and more than anyone thinks. Thank you hamza, for changing my life to the better.
@@Mqn1_Sh honestly i'd say go for it. Its such a good job and i rate it as maybe the 2nd best medical specialty. Just keep in mind that you'll have to study really, but like really hard to be a good dentist ( but if you have work ethic you wouldn't feel the hard work tbh ) and that its more application than theory, and keep stretching so that your back doesnt hurt you after working all day lol. Good luck to you bro.
honestly all i’m really hearing from in this video is just to be a nice person. Not in a way that comes off as fake just being an actual nice and genuine person
And all these ppl who say he is a evil, misogynist, toxic masculine man have no idea wut they are taking abt. He is a great role model who has inspired many ppl to improve their lives
The good message: You are growing, yet it is uncomfortable. The bad message: You may be uncomfortable, but you are GROWING uncomfortably. Pain is temporary, the feeling of greatness creates memories that are forever. Do the hard work, especially if you don't feel like it. Thank you Hamza for sharing this skillshare class for free and guys it is all about the consistency. Stay strong brothers and sisters. :)
I used to be a really shy kid when I read this book over 15 years ago. The first self-help book I read and changed my life completely! A timeless treasure!
Watched this video yesterday. Have to say that I really had the determination and really wanted to improve my social skills. My friend group was great at the start of my skl year but things slowly started getting a little boring, repetitive and maybe toxic. I noticed how I would have to chase after them at lunch/break. I was the one initiating I felt worthless in their eyes and started communicating less. They seemed to just ignore me. But today I saw them feeling awkward asked if I could sit with them. Sat down and just was being myself. I was able to bring up our previous/relevant funny discussion topics. By asking questions I found out about their interest. I was able to get them to speak about them. I was able to also share my own interest 2. Convo started and it maybe wasn't the best Convo or where I would like it to be but I felt better making the friendship better than it was going before
That's great. I've been feeling the same lately. I've been in this friend group for a while and i've noticed that their humor and actions are just not what I want to do with my life. So I started going out of my comfort zone and initiated contact with people I want to be better friends with. No joke, it worked so well the first day. I immediately made independent choices, and some people even followed me in them. Such a great feeling
What i also noticed is that when trying to include someone into a group conversation it can help explaining what you were discussing or the context to an inside joke. It makes the person slowly feel like they belong because they’re “in on the joke” and will be much more receptive to opening up about themselves. This applies to a group as small as you and someone else, letting someone in on what you were discussing can make them feel welcome! Very nice summary of the book and principles and I really like how you added examples from your own life :)
One thing i learned from this book is how self absorbed people are. Showing interest in other people and talking with them about themselves just makes them like you much more.
No one else would simply give away Skillshare classes like this for free if their account was banned. Shows that Hamza just wants to help as many men as he can.
Best 59 minutes I spent on self improvement this masterclass was wonderful I have been using some of the principles and my social skills with people both platonic and romantic relationships improved, can't wait to implement more of this
Dude, I litteraly just watched this video today, take notes, and use it to convince my friend to go to the gy. who I've been struggling to convince to go to the gym for a while now. We just made a deal for him to stay consistent for 3 month and we'll see where it takes him, but i just wanna say damn, this is some real powerfull stuff.
Bro I need a friend like you tbh. My dedication to the gym rn is terrible. I’m 18 and I’ve rarely worked out besides laborious jobs. Stg I feel like a stick sometimes.
@@ForxgedI'm 16, but started working out at 14. It's just a small, good habit in the big scope of things. However, small as it may seem to me, it is what started everything for me and for many other men. Once you start working out, it will take about 2-3 months to get "addicted to it". Once you start liking going to the gym, you just won't have to worry about it anymore. Other than working out, you should probably read good books (good books make you feel accomplished after reading them), stop eating processed sugar and junk food, stop watching inappropriate pixels and start meditating. Once all of these are taken care of, you will attain heaven on earth. You will also become a little bit arrogant and have trouble finding women and friends that suit you. Time is running dry, you need start taking care of yourself. If you can't take care of yourself, how can others trust you to take care of them or some important business? Good luck, Lynx. I hope you make it into the top 10%. Take care, bro.
@@kaideos7558 I appreciate the insight homie. Thank you 💯 I’ve been reading more as of lately and I’m finding that it’s easier to figure things out. Definitely improving my mental fortitude.
You're phenomenal, bro. You influence me, and I influence others. We're influencing everyone brothers. The world will be a better place the more people go on (true) self improvement. I love you. I love you all❤️
Out of all the books I've ever read, I think this one has genuinely been the most important for me. More important than The Way of The Superior Man, more important than Meditations. Everything that I know, feel, and have learned links back to the principles in this book.
I've read this book. The best principles by far (imo) are #4, #5 and #27. They are easy to apply in real life and work wonders. I also recommend reading the book instead of watching the video
Same 4,5 and 27 are great. Why do you think reading the book after watching this will help even more? I think I understand the principles prettig good already
@@danielbarendregt9847 The book gives you alot of examples on how to apply the principles. And reading really engraves the principles in your brain. And reading requires you to stay present. You can also mark important sentences. And you can always open the book and scan through the sentences you've marked. Writing/journaling about how you've applied the principles (or want to apply them) also helps alot.
I am writing all these in my personal diary and will go through every day till I have imprinted all these points in my mind and actions 👍🏻 thanks man for helping out in every way Your community is proud of your work Keep doing what you are doing :)
This is the most helpful with making good friends and not talked about yourself make them feel important while listening to them. I would have thank you your hard working putting off helping others inspire to change themselves.
Improve yourself alone without thinking of others and you will improve better than everyone. People are hiding their problems so you don't know about them.
Hamza, I’m a 27 year old autistic man. I was teetering on the edge of falling down the black pill rabbit hole. I’ve never even been particularly unlucky with the ladies - my body count is in the double digits and I’ve had 9 gf’s that lasted at least a year. But since leaving college and starting a business in the trades and wanting to improve myself, I lost all my friends and my social circle. I started thinking I’d never get them back. “I’m autistic, my friends and drugs made my friends and gf’s for me, I’m doomed.” You’ve at least given me the courage to stand on my own two feet and realize through your own story that no matter who you are we all go through a growth phase of shedding our old toxic social circles. Thank you Hamza. I hope I can make some positive new friends soon ❤
You will. When the old self dies so does everything that was living with it. Once you actually transform and start a new level you meet people naturally at that level too.
I have always been a good listener, even with girls, people always say "ask her if she wants you to listen or to give her advice" and I always thought that was common sense but the more I find out about girls the more I see the lines separate between men and women. Women are WAY more in touch with their feelings than men are and therefore they love it when they are listened to instead of mindlessly having advice thrown at them so asking if they want you to listen or give advice has never let me down.
I'm not sure why but when I specifically watched this video. It genuinely made me happy since I never really see Hamza be so happy and at peace while having minimal editing. This video really helped me tremendously after many Hamza videos. Thank You Hamza for posting this Skillshare video for free in UA-cam
Dude before hamza I didn’t know that books were even worth reading. High school gave such shit books it wasn’t even worth learning to read fast. Thanks hamza I’m currently 1.7 books deep into self improvement
This reminds me of a boss I had who used many of these principles to keep me loyal. However, I later got diagnosed with a condition that requires regular treatment. Through no fault of their own, their complete lack of knowledge on this condition and how it affected my life meant that they could not relate to me, and I eventually quit 2 months later. I am only learning these principles now, but it's amazing to think that if they made a bit of extra effort to understand what I was going through at the time, I would have still stayed loyal and never left.
I vow to not let so much of hamza's efforts and hard work to improve young men and their life go to waste Thank you so much Hamza You changed my life from a Video games addict to Getting As in all my test going to gym consistently and meditating every morning reading books and gratitude journaling these habits made me the Rank 1 student in class Yes I scored the best grades in all of my classes everyone respects me and Life is Awesome Now Bcz of you I cannot thank you enough! "Do the Hardwork Especially when you dont feel like it"
@@74G_ introverted doesnt mean someone with social anxiety i basically means someone who loses energy when talking to people or someone who likes being by himself.
I'm only halfway through and I just realised that I have seen many of these principles being used before in a book i've been reading, the republic, or the politea, by the ancient greek philosopher Plato. In summary, the book is written as a play, where the main character, Socrates, Plato's mentor, talks with the other characters and convinces them of the political and philosophical viewpoints plato holds. Principle 15 of getting them to say yes-yes can be found on every page and socrates makes the other feel like the conclusion reached is their own for example.
I have been watching a lot of self improvement UA-camrs recently, but no one could change my life like Hamza did. After watching Hamza I started working out, meditating and working harder for my dream. You're a great man Hamza thank you very much.
I have trouble making friends and I cannot say how delightful I am to have found such an amazing video. Thank you for making it and posting it on UA-cam. I shared it with my friends and I will rewatch it till I have every word drilled into my brain. Thanks again.
This was one of the first books that i bought, using this principles helped me get back in touch with mine friends. Mine relationship with them has grown even stronger thanks to this principles and im greatful to have such great friends. I truly feel blessed and this book helped me a lot.
Yea the first time I thanked her for the food I was 16 and she just looked at me confused for a second before giving me the sweetest smile I have ever seen.❤
The thing is I was like that. I have been a nice, kind, always smiley person and have always been a great listener to my peers since the day I remember. But now, at the age of 23, I eventually got tired. Because I realised people would take advantage of me. And that most of my so called friends didn't genuinely like me for me. They just liked how I treated them. So eventually, anger and frustration built inside of me and very recently I stopped being like that. I don't smile to people who don't smile at me. I don't give my kindness away like a piece of bread. I am not generous with everyone, only the one who I can count on for being there for me. Mind you, I don't mind giving more than I receive. But I do mind people being fake with me just so I can make them feel good. Abused kindness can eventually turned into resentment and that's what happened to me. And if there is something that I learned, better have one or two friends who have your best interest at heart than a bunch of friends who view you like a tissue they can wipe their tears with.
I’m using this video to influence people in my high school NJROTC class and it’s working! I will watch this video multiple times to master the art of influencing people around me and hope one day to be put in a position of authority and to be well liked.
This book's lessons provide life lessons on human relations, which is one of the most important thing that we as humans want to be good at. Courage on everyone listening to this lesson and I hope you read the book, it will even be more valuable!
I'm reading this book at the moment and its really fun to read. And its good because Dale Carnegie is not promoting disingenuous manipulation, he emphasizes that everything must he done "sincerely"
Very infuelcial Hamza I appreciate the hard work you put into this video, and I have something to say about principle 21. Challanges are great against yourself but never really have this burning desire to win. It is only when you compare to others who are more successful than you or catching on to you fast that you start getting momentum. The chalk expiriment worked because they saw that "oh are they doing a 6 on productivity? we can do better than that yeah", then it happend again with the other team then again then again. it is only when you see that you worked hard, won, and now that they are winning that you get another boost into more work and winning. Honestly, I tell me close friends not to "compete against themselfs" and compete with me and other people in our close friend group because it just feels so much better and natural. Bro imagine a tribe and you got your first kill, you'd probobly be so proud of yourself "yay food" whatever. But the real alphas are packing hords of animals to feed their tribe, their women who are pregnant who need food most, not just themselfs. If you don't compare yourself to them you might be an outstanding success right now and feel like you don't need to work anymore (EGO), comparing in a good way to your tribe drives you mad not being a success it makes you obssessed with hunting and until you catch 5 animals you're not returning, day in day out without quitting. When you succeed, you show it to the tribe, they are happy, you are stoic, you went there and didn't come back until you cought those animals. You are strong and a step closer to being an alpha. This is my honest review of the principle, because it is correct and I agree but to my knowlege you shouldn't just compete against yourself (and let's be real Hamza Ahmed. You're not competing only against yourself your competing against Iman Gadzhi but in a manly and respectful way) P.S. It does give a huge boost though seeing how successful you are right now compered to your past, I do not neglect that in any way but I don't think that should be your main focus, set it as a role model, imagine yourself 10 years from now and let that be your guide, and when you look back 10 years in the future oh man it'll probobly be unbelievable (I'm only a few years into improving yourself and only recently went in hardcore)
@@Caleb-fv5fp i am not a woman, i am a sixteen year old boy who found the fact that the opening line was an introduction to a skillshare class amusing. i apologise for any inconvenience
@@pranava3175 Yh, bro is so robotic and trying to sound professional like he’s on a pitch call, i like how real he is now, authenticity and being a trustworthy personality is the best way to sell.
Good points hamza. But one of the restraining force of this book is that it teaches you on listening more than talking. Remember NOT to listen a lot. If you listen to a significant extent, then your kind will be filled with negative energy from different people you talked to. You will also not be able to express yourself to people as you will have the concept of being just a listener to the people you talk to. You need an output to remove this negative energy, thus talk in a great extent, but listen more.
I once stayed with my human knowledge school teacher which was a therapist and i remember i was aking about his job because i know many students just talk and talk about themselves with him and he seem very consumed,so i flipped the coin and listened,now im more than a student to him but still very hard to hold my whole life story with such listener
This comment is not important, it is just a big thank you to Hamza and everyone here who really helped me grow as a person and get my life to another level , i am going through the best period of my life due to the work i put in the last 2 years and i am sure this would not have been possible without you all
I appreciate your work and I thank you for getting me to that book. I downloaded it as a Audiobook and instead of listening to music, I like to listen to it to get in to a positive mindset.
Hamza dropping off free skillshare classes for everyone that cant afford them, thank you Hamza, we appreciate all that you've done for us
He was banned on Skillshare
Why?
@@cheekylemon9441 why not he was controversial
@@cheekylemon9441 because he is challenging the matrix
I thank this so much, as because of where I live, I have to pay like double the price just because of taxes
Imagine studying this book in high school instead of some next novel that isn't relevant in a teenager's development. 🤯 Cheers for putting the books lessons in your format man.💙
im in middleschool:)
@@syxnio2147 You're starting self improvement at this young age? Great for u man, Hope everything goes well
@@syxnio2147 thats great mate, I started watching hamza during 7th grade and he has definitely improved my life, especially my masculine birthright (currently in 9th and dont plan on stopping my progress)
Thx guys:)
@@syxnio2147 How's your self improvement journey going so far? 😊
After i lost my prior job 4 months ago I started to seal a pact with myself to never let myself down, Physically and mentally. Yesterday I was applying to a new Job which actually is too good to be true and after I had a 90 min Interview with 2 Managers of this Business, I enchanted them so badly with the way I talked about my ambitions, principles and my worldviews that both of them became so inviting and wanted me for this job without hessitation and even wanted to support my efforts to reach my own goals. I can't believe how much I changed over the last few months...
"If you change others, you change nothing. If you change yourself, you change the world."
congrats man
shout out you man gg
Congrats on getting the new job man!
Thank you guys i really felt like it was a place i belonged to. The entire team matched my vibe and the field offers great opportunities to become a freenlancer in the future.
Congrats bro that’s bad ass
10:32 I started smiling to myself when I was slightly not in the mood to speak with friends or family if they call my phone. It instantly increases my mood and allows me to treat them like they deserve, as a priority in my life
1:35 CHAPTER 1 : Fundamental Techniques in Handling People
2:48 First Principle
4:13 Second Principle
5:55 Third Principle
7:59 CHAPTER 2 : Six Ways To Make People Like You
7:59 First Principle
9:20 Second Principle
11:12 Third Principle
13:02 Fourth Principle
15:23 Fifth Principle
17:20 Sixth Principle
18:33 CHAPTER 3 : How To Win People To Your Way Of Thinking
18:33 First Principle
20:29 Second Principle
22:14 Third Principle
23:55 Fourth Principle
25:42 Fifth Principle
27:36 Sixth Principle
29:29 Seventh Principle
30:44 Eighth Principle
32:00 Ninth Principle
34:02 Tenth Principle
35:32 Eleventh Principle
37:18 Twelfth Principle
40:16 CHAPTER 4 : Be A Leader
40:16 First Principle
Thank you
I)
1. Any fool can criticize, condemn or complain, but it takes character and self control to be understanding and forgiving.
2. Give honest and sincere appreciation. Positive reinforcement.
3. Arouse in the other person an eager want. Before you speak: How can I make this person want to do it? Get the other person's point of view. Appel to people's self-interest, never to their mercy or gratitude. What they will get out of it?
II)
4. Become genuinely interested in other people. Everyone has a mistake that I can learn from, they have succes I may be able to replicate. We are interested in others when they are interested in us. Ask more questions
5. Smile. Happiness ≠ outward conditions, Happiness = inner conditions. Fake it till you make it.
6. Remember their name.
7. Be a good listener and encourage others to talk about themself. We love talking about ourself.
8. Talk in terms of their interests. People briefly mention something that they are interested in in the middle of the conversation (ask a question about that).
9. Make them feel important. Do unto others as you would have others do unto you.
III) Win people to your way of thinking
10. The only way to avoid an argument is to avoid it completely. Don't make others feel inferior. Keep your mouth shut. When you argue with someone and they argue their point in retaliation they're just further solidifying their current belief. An argument ends with each of the contestants more firmly convinced than ever that he is absolutely right.
11. Show respect for other's opinions, never say "You're wrong". You cannot teach a man anything, you can only help find it within himself. "I thought otherwise, but I may be wrong, I frequently am and if I'm wrong I want to be put right".
12. Admit your wrongdoings quickly. Say about yourself all of the things you know the other person is thinking/wants to say/intens to say and say them before that person has a chance to say them = a generous forgiving attitude will be taken and your mistakes will be minimized. (They will minimize your wrongdoings if you admit them first)
13. Begin in a friendly way. (Apartament rent too expensive example). Start with a compliment. You are teammated trying to solve the problem rather than putting the other person on the offensive and making it a you vs them situation.
14. Get them to say Yes.
15. Let them do a great deal of the talking. Always say less than necessary. Powerful people impress and intimidate by saying less. Don't interrupt.
16. Let them feel that the idea is theirs, to change someone way of thinking you have to do it subtly, without making it obvious what your intentions are. They can only believe this way of thinking if they reach that point themselves
17. See things from their POV.
18. Be sympathetic to other's ideas and desires. 3/4 of people are hungering and thirsting for sympathy. "I don't blame you one iota for feeling as you do. If I were you I would undoubtedly feel just as you do".
19. Appeal to their nobler motives
20. Dramatise your ideas
21. Throw down a challenge
22. Begin with praise, once whe realised I had confidence in her.
23. Call attention to their mistakes indirectly
24. Talk about your own mistakes first.
25. Ask questions instead of giving direct orders
26. Let them save face
27. Praise every improvement
28. Give them a fine reputation to live up to
29. Use encouragement
30. Make them happy to do what you ask
Thank you for this!
nice, thank you
❤
thanks bruh...for making it easier for us
Thank you so much ☺️
You helped alot of young men in a very short timespan. For that I can only respect you.
Agree
Hamza only does it for the money bruh hes indian
@@alananoor1247 he does smell like an indian but he did help me alot
@@doopiepoopi8360 stop playing lol
YOOOOO
My dad gave me this book earlier this year when I turned 14, this book is one of the best I've ever read
Good Father
W dad. Wish my dad let me buy books at all
@@oceanicmage has he let you buy books now
One of the best self improvement books on the market - I got the audiobook thanks to your recommendation Hamza. My biggest takeaway was to start focusing on what other people want instead of self-centeredly focusing only on what you yourself want to get on track towards huge wealth
your second subscriber here btw
@@MoAliRiyaz Thank you for joining brother I've got more vids coming out soon, hope you stick around for when we hit 1,000,000!
@@ethanoptimized Cant wait for that bro and you better not forget me!
@@ethanoptimized I subscribed too, I'm about to post my first video soon!
@@matthewphilipp6115 looking forward to it brother don’t worry about making it perfect I’m 15 vids in and still have so much to learn
I have read this book like 6 times back when i was 14 and this book totally changed my life.Highly recommend .
Its kinda suprising seeing Hamza look this Happy. His other videos where more serious which I was used to so it was just suprising but I am not complaining.
Don’t talk to much, be positive, learn how to talk to someone, smile when talking, it’s great that you seen this so if you have more keywords that can help everyone then fill in💪
I'm a dental student and i work at my university's medical clinic,i've been using these tactics with patients, especially little kids who are usually very scared to go to the dentist, and it just totally changes their behaviour with me, they are calmer than usual and sometimes even are excited to come, and if it works with kids with scares, it can work with adults too and more than anyone thinks.
Thank you hamza, for changing my life to the better.
yoo!! My mom's a dentist too and I'm planning on being one aswell, any suggestions bro
@@Mqn1_Sh honestly i'd say go for it. Its such a good job and i rate it as maybe the 2nd best medical specialty. Just keep in mind that you'll have to study really, but like really hard to be a good dentist ( but if you have work ethic you wouldn't feel the hard work tbh ) and that its more application than theory, and keep stretching so that your back doesnt hurt you after working all day lol.
Good luck to you bro.
@@Aymenzegguir Thanks man, same to u
honestly all i’m really hearing from in this video is just to be a nice person. Not in a way that comes off as fake just being an actual nice and genuine person
And all these ppl who say he is a evil, misogynist, toxic masculine man have no idea wut they are taking abt. He is a great role model who has inspired many ppl to improve their lives
The good message: You are growing, yet it is uncomfortable. The bad message: You may be uncomfortable, but you are GROWING uncomfortably. Pain is temporary, the feeling of greatness creates memories that are forever. Do the hard work, especially if you don't feel like it. Thank you Hamza for sharing this skillshare class for free and guys it is all about the consistency. Stay strong brothers and sisters. :)
I used to be a really shy kid when I read this book over 15 years ago. The first self-help book I read and changed my life completely! A timeless treasure!
Watched this video yesterday. Have to say that I really had the determination and really wanted to improve my social skills. My friend group was great at the start of my skl year but things slowly started getting a little boring, repetitive and maybe toxic. I noticed how I would have to chase after them at lunch/break. I was the one initiating I felt worthless in their eyes and started communicating less. They seemed to just ignore me. But today I saw them feeling awkward asked if I could sit with them. Sat down and just was being myself. I was able to bring up our previous/relevant funny discussion topics. By asking questions I found out about their interest. I was able to get them to speak about them. I was able to also share my own interest 2. Convo started and it maybe wasn't the best Convo or where I would like it to be but I felt better making the friendship better than it was going before
That's great. I've been feeling the same lately. I've been in this friend group for a while and i've noticed that their humor and actions are just not what I want to do with my life. So I started going out of my comfort zone and initiated contact with people I want to be better friends with. No joke, it worked so well the first day. I immediately made independent choices, and some people even followed me in them. Such a great feeling
That’s great I had a similar experience and it’s nice to hear that it worked out for you as well
nice bro, i feel as if I’m in a similar situation to you tbh
Thank you for sharing the insight you have come to find
What i also noticed is that when trying to include someone into a group conversation it can help explaining what you were discussing or the context to an inside joke. It makes the person slowly feel like they belong because they’re “in on the joke” and will be much more receptive to opening up about themselves.
This applies to a group as small as you and someone else, letting someone in on what you were discussing can make them feel welcome!
Very nice summary of the book and principles and I really like how you added examples from your own life :)
One thing i learned from this book is how self absorbed people are. Showing interest in other people and talking with them about themselves just makes them like you much more.
No one else would simply give away Skillshare classes like this for free if their account was banned. Shows that Hamza just wants to help as many men as he can.
Started reading this book in 8th grade.. made many great friends since
Best 59 minutes I spent on self improvement this masterclass was wonderful I have been using some of the principles and my social skills with people both platonic and romantic relationships improved, can't wait to implement more of this
Dude, I litteraly just watched this video today, take notes, and use it to convince my friend to go to the gy. who I've been struggling to convince to go to the gym for a while now. We just made a deal for him to stay consistent for 3 month and we'll see where it takes him, but i just wanna say damn, this is some real powerfull stuff.
Bro I need a friend like you tbh. My dedication to the gym rn is terrible. I’m 18 and I’ve rarely worked out besides laborious jobs. Stg I feel like a stick sometimes.
@@ForxgedI'm 16, but started working out at 14. It's just a small, good habit in the big scope of things. However, small as it may seem to me, it is what started everything for me and for many other men. Once you start working out, it will take about 2-3 months to get "addicted to it". Once you start liking going to the gym, you just won't have to worry about it anymore. Other than working out, you should probably read good books (good books make you feel accomplished after reading them), stop eating processed sugar and junk food, stop watching inappropriate pixels and start meditating. Once all of these are taken care of, you will attain heaven on earth. You will also become a little bit arrogant and have trouble finding women and friends that suit you. Time is running dry, you need start taking care of yourself. If you can't take care of yourself, how can others trust you to take care of them or some important business? Good luck, Lynx. I hope you make it into the top 10%. Take care, bro.
@@kaideos7558 I appreciate the insight homie. Thank you 💯 I’ve been reading more as of lately and I’m finding that it’s easier to figure things out. Definitely improving my mental fortitude.
How has this been going my friend ?😊
Great 👍
hamza, this summary changed my life, in one day I've gained so much confidence and I'm finally genuinely happy,may Allah bless you
I am truly grateful for hamza giving free skillshare classes.
You're phenomenal, bro. You influence me, and I influence others. We're influencing everyone brothers. The world will be a better place the more people go on (true) self improvement. I love you. I love you all❤️
Out of all the books I've ever read, I think this one has genuinely been the most important for me. More important than The Way of The Superior Man, more important than Meditations. Everything that I know, feel, and have learned links back to the principles in this book.
I've read this book. The best principles by far (imo) are
#4, #5 and #27. They are easy to apply in real life and work wonders. I also recommend reading the book instead of watching the video
Same 4,5 and 27 are great. Why do you think reading the book after watching this will help even more? I think I understand the principles prettig good already
@@danielbarendregt9847 The book gives you alot of examples on how to apply the principles. And reading really engraves the principles in your brain. And reading requires you to stay present.
You can also mark important sentences. And you can always open the book and scan through the sentences you've marked.
Writing/journaling about how you've applied the principles (or want to apply them) also helps alot.
@@quack51 good explanation, thanks
hamza is a gift from god you cannot change my mind.
from all the youtubers (andrew tate, iman gadzhi, sneako etc.) ur still the number 1 brother. i love you from all my heart
I am writing all these in my personal diary and will go through every day till I have imprinted all these points in my mind and actions 👍🏻 thanks man for helping out in every way
Your community is proud of your work
Keep doing what you are doing :)
It's works
This is the most helpful with making good friends and not talked about yourself make them feel important while listening to them. I would have thank you your hard working putting off helping others inspire to change themselves.
Improve yourself alone without thinking of others and you will improve better than everyone. People are hiding their problems so you don't know about them.
Hamza, I’m a 27 year old autistic man. I was teetering on the edge of falling down the black pill rabbit hole. I’ve never even been particularly unlucky with the ladies - my body count is in the double digits and I’ve had 9 gf’s that lasted at least a year. But since leaving college and starting a business in the trades and wanting to improve myself, I lost all my friends and my social circle. I started thinking I’d never get them back. “I’m autistic, my friends and drugs made my friends and gf’s for me, I’m doomed.”
You’ve at least given me the courage to stand on my own two feet and realize through your own story that no matter who you are we all go through a growth phase of shedding our old toxic social circles. Thank you Hamza. I hope I can make some positive new friends soon ❤
Good luck with life man
You will. When the old self dies so does everything that was living with it. Once you actually transform and start a new level you meet people naturally at that level too.
good luck with life.
I have always been a good listener, even with girls, people always say "ask her if she wants you to listen or to give her advice" and I always thought that was common sense but the more I find out about girls the more I see the lines separate between men and women. Women are WAY more in touch with their feelings than men are and therefore they love it when they are listened to instead of mindlessly having advice thrown at them so asking if they want you to listen or give advice has never let me down.
I have been very frustrated today to my lack of social skills and how I feel I'm not getting anywhere with my relationships. This is a big help.
I'm not sure why but when I specifically watched this video. It genuinely made me happy since I never really see Hamza be so happy and at peace while having minimal editing. This video really helped me tremendously after many Hamza videos. Thank You Hamza for posting this Skillshare video for free in UA-cam
Dude before hamza I didn’t know that books were even worth reading. High school gave such shit books it wasn’t even worth learning to read fast. Thanks hamza I’m currently 1.7 books deep into self improvement
This reminds me of a boss I had who used many of these principles to keep me loyal. However, I later got diagnosed with a condition that requires regular treatment. Through no fault of their own, their complete lack of knowledge on this condition and how it affected my life meant that they could not relate to me, and I eventually quit 2 months later.
I am only learning these principles now, but it's amazing to think that if they made a bit of extra effort to understand what I was going through at the time, I would have still stayed loyal and never left.
I vow to not let so much of hamza's efforts and hard work to improve young men and their life go to waste Thank you so much Hamza You changed my life from a Video games addict to Getting As in all my test going to gym consistently and meditating every morning reading books and gratitude journaling these habits made me the Rank 1 student in class Yes I scored the best grades in all of my classes everyone respects me and Life is Awesome Now Bcz of you I cannot thank you enough! "Do the Hardwork Especially when you dont feel like it"
It’s great to see how hamzas videos is are improving people’s lives
The clip has 58min but it took me 1h and a half because i been writing everything i understand from it and what i need to improve. Thanks Hamza
Bro by just hearing the intro of this video you can hear and see he is good at this shit just the confidence this man has is insane
Hamza the fun part is that i have read the book. But forgot some of the things and thanks to your explanation I understood it better. Thanks !
Just bought this book 2 days ago and here's hamza's video about it. Gonna get the best of both worlds.
Read this book half a year ago, good to listen to the principles again.
this is my favorite book, and i’ve read it since i was 12. very useful for introverts like me.
I'm confused, but how are you still an introvert after reading this book multiple times?
@@74G_ introverted doesnt mean someone with social anxiety
i basically means someone who loses energy when talking to people or someone who likes being by himself.
@@ramos2689 Oh that makes much more sense now, thank you
I'm only halfway through and I just realised that I have seen many of these principles being used before in a book i've been reading, the republic, or the politea, by the ancient greek philosopher Plato. In summary, the book is written as a play, where the main character, Socrates, Plato's mentor, talks with the other characters and convinces them of the political and philosophical viewpoints plato holds. Principle 15 of getting them to say yes-yes can be found on every page and socrates makes the other feel like the conclusion reached is their own for example.
This book is really good. Read the whole thing in 2019
You are the best Hamza I am 12 , I changed my whole life, you are killing the shit out of my life , thank you so so much
I looked at UA-cam again after a while and it's literally the same stuff happening, that's hilarious. I really appreciate what you do.
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I have been watching a lot of self improvement UA-camrs recently, but no one could change my life like Hamza did. After watching Hamza I started working out, meditating and working harder for my dream. You're a great man Hamza thank you very much.
I find it best to balance positivity between teaching someone by criticizing them and being forgiving
I have trouble making friends and I cannot say how delightful I am to have found such an amazing video. Thank you for making it and posting it on UA-cam. I shared it with my friends and I will rewatch it till I have every word drilled into my brain. Thanks again.
I’m pretty young teen so I decided to start watching hamzas vids and by far he has helped me alot
it is so unusal that hamza smiles at me with a happy voice. It is like he would teach a little kid something. But great job Hamza
Thank you Hamza to humbled myself again, you are a true warrior of our generation 🙂
This was one of the first books that i bought, using this principles helped me get back in touch with mine friends.
Mine relationship with them has grown even stronger thanks to this principles and im greatful to have such great friends.
I truly feel blessed and this book helped me a lot.
Moppppooiioo
This is most likely the best summary of this book I've seen on UA-cam. It's definitely more detailed. Thanks.
3:12
Judge not and ye be not judged is a quote from Jesus Christ in the bible
Eventhough I have once read this book I couldn't make out everything. Your description made it crystal clear. ..love you HAMZA
Thank you Hamza for helping so many young men on their mental health journey!
Yea the first time I thanked her for the food I was 16 and she just looked at me confused for a second before giving me the sweetest smile I have ever seen.❤
Old hamza >, I still loves man’s you changed my life
Bro honestly you deserve more. This is exactly what society needs
Man, I love old hamza.
Lets appreciate hamza!
He shares all skill share classes for free!
Keep it up bro.
Lots of love
Hamza literally posting a video about every book i just finished reading ahah GOAT
The thing is I was like that. I have been a nice, kind, always smiley person and have always been a great listener to my peers since the day I remember.
But now, at the age of 23, I eventually got tired. Because I realised people would take advantage of me. And that most of my so called friends didn't genuinely like me for me. They just liked how I treated them.
So eventually, anger and frustration built inside of me and very recently I stopped being like that. I don't smile to people who don't smile at me. I don't give my kindness away like a piece of bread. I am not generous with everyone, only the one who I can count on for being there for me.
Mind you, I don't mind giving more than I receive. But I do mind people being fake with me just so I can make them feel good.
Abused kindness can eventually turned into resentment and that's what happened to me.
And if there is something that I learned, better have one or two friends who have your best interest at heart than a bunch of friends who view you like a tissue they can wipe their tears with.
I’m using this video to influence people in my high school NJROTC class and it’s working! I will watch this video multiple times to master the art of influencing people around me and hope one day to be put in a position of authority and to be well liked.
This is so convenient, I just bought this book two days ago
same bro wow
This Video is Golden. Far better than the book as every point is covered and its faster than reading the book.
This book's lessons provide life lessons on human relations, which is one of the most important thing that we as humans want to be good at. Courage on everyone listening to this lesson and I hope you read the book, it will even be more valuable!
Is reading the book more beneficial than this vid
@@saud3776 Reading the book is highly recommended. But the video is the greatest detailed summary
This era of hamza was the best hamza
I'm reading this book at the moment and its really fun to read. And its good because Dale Carnegie is not promoting disingenuous manipulation, he emphasizes that everything must he done "sincerely"
Hamza dropping the early gems 💎
i want new hamza to do a new version of these full guides and not the old skillshare version. Hamza now knows so much more than he did 2-3 years ago.
Hamza is a god sent angel.His videos are priceless🎉🎉
I swear I was planing to get this book and read it myself and then hamza drops this video. What a coincedence 🤷💯
I listened to these videos during my boxing training it’s the best part of my day
Very infuelcial Hamza I appreciate the hard work you put into this video, and I have something to say about principle 21. Challanges are great against yourself but never really have this burning desire to win. It is only when you compare to others who are more successful than you or catching on to you fast that you start getting momentum. The chalk expiriment worked because they saw that "oh are they doing a 6 on productivity? we can do better than that yeah", then it happend again with the other team then again then again. it is only when you see that you worked hard, won, and now that they are winning that you get another boost into more work and winning. Honestly, I tell me close friends not to "compete against themselfs" and compete with me and other people in our close friend group because it just feels so much better and natural. Bro imagine a tribe and you got your first kill, you'd probobly be so proud of yourself "yay food" whatever. But the real alphas are packing hords of animals to feed their tribe, their women who are pregnant who need food most, not just themselfs. If you don't compare yourself to them you might be an outstanding success right now and feel like you don't need to work anymore (EGO), comparing in a good way to your tribe drives you mad not being a success it makes you obssessed with hunting and until you catch 5 animals you're not returning, day in day out without quitting. When you succeed, you show it to the tribe, they are happy, you are stoic, you went there and didn't come back until you cought those animals. You are strong and a step closer to being an alpha.
This is my honest review of the principle, because it is correct and I agree but to my knowlege you shouldn't just compete against yourself (and let's be real Hamza Ahmed. You're not competing only against yourself your competing against Iman Gadzhi but in a manly and respectful way)
P.S. It does give a huge boost though seeing how successful you are right now compered to your past, I do not neglect that in any way but I don't think that should be your main focus, set it as a role model, imagine yourself 10 years from now and let that be your guide, and when you look back 10 years in the future oh man it'll probobly be unbelievable (I'm only a few years into improving yourself and only recently went in hardcore)
in this skillshare class we will be looking at the book "how to win friends and influence people" by dale carnagie
Women ☕️
@@Caleb-fv5fp i am not a woman, i am a sixteen year old boy who found the fact that the opening line was an introduction to a skillshare class amusing. i apologise for any inconvenience
@@pranava3175 Yh, bro is so robotic and trying to sound professional like he’s on a pitch call, i like how real he is now, authenticity and being a trustworthy personality is the best way to sell.
@@randompotato7932what are you sweating about
DALE!!!!!
Hamza, this is one of the most powerful videos on UA-cam. Thank you
I just cant tell how much u have helped me dude ......i rarely watch ur vids these days but bro......hope we meet soon :)
Good points hamza. But one of the restraining force of this book is that it teaches you on listening more than talking. Remember NOT to listen a lot. If you listen to a significant extent, then your kind will be filled with negative energy from different people you talked to. You will also not be able to express yourself to people as you will have the concept of being just a listener to the people you talk to. You need an output to remove this negative energy, thus talk in a great extent, but listen more.
This book changes lives
I once stayed with my human knowledge school teacher which was a therapist and i remember i was aking about his job because i know many students just talk and talk about themselves with him and he seem very consumed,so i flipped the coin and listened,now im more than a student to him but still very hard to hold my whole life story with such listener
Can't believe this shit is free someone give this man a medal
This comment is not important,
it is just a big thank you to Hamza and everyone here who really helped me grow as a person and get my life to another level , i am going through the best period of my life due to the work i put in the last 2 years and i am sure this would not have been possible without you all
This video is perfect yesterday i searched this exact title up and found no good results
did you notice that hamza smiles every time he speak
I was just reading this book. Wow these video posts are always relevant to what I’m doing
I appreciate your work and I thank you for getting me to that book. I downloaded it as a Audiobook and instead of listening to music, I like to listen to it to get in to a positive mindset.
So much of this comes directly from the bible! I love it!
Hamza coming in clutch with these skillshare classes even though his skillshare account got banned which is really sad tbh
Why are they banned on skillshare bro?
2nd Point, in Germany its actually pretty normal and expected to show appreciation to staff members restaurant workers and stuff
Literally started reading this yesterday
found your videos a month ago im 14 and they help so much
I hope to help people like you to be better like Hamza. I wish you the best, brother!
I read this book a year ago and it changed my entire life!!
This book changed my life. Once you apply the principles properly you’ll see results.
Man’s reaching 1.000.000 subs let’s gooooooooooo